Urgent vs. Important with ADHD: Why Distractions Feel Impossible to Resist
Have you ever sat down to do one simple thing — like send an email — and forty minutes later you’ve chased a dozen distractions, fixed something that wasn’t urgent, and now you feel scattered and frustrated?
That’s the ADHD distraction cycle. In this episode, I’m unpacking why ADHD brains treat everything like it’s urgent, how dopamine and working memory drive us toward rabbit holes, and the emotional side of people-pleasing and perfectionism that make it worse.
You’ll learn simple, ADHD-friendly ways to capture distractions, regulate your nervous system, and bring yourself back to what matters — without shame.
—CHAPTERS—
00:00 Introduction: The ADHD Distraction Cycle
00:44 Welcome to the Podcast
02:03 Jen's Personal Story of Distraction
03:17 Understanding the Urgency of Distractions
04:24 Brain Wiring and Distraction
06:50 Strategies to Combat Distractions
10:37 Self-Compassion and Final Thoughts
13:16 Conclusion and Call to Action
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