The Possibility of Rejection
'ask dorothy'
The WISDOM podcast Season 5 Episode 98
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My client described how being rejected by the person he was causally dating triggered him. Her rejection triggered feelings of anxiety, insecurity and distress at the thought of being alone ~ not having 'someone' to look to for love ~ and a sense of being needed and wanted and valuable.
Many of us experience this dance of polarity. It is driven by our worse fears and the belief that we will not find someone to love us, and to provide a quick 'fix' for feeling unloved and undesired ~ even though this is furthest from the truth.
The possibility of rejection is in what you make of what happens next. Of how you stand your ground in the moments of what this means and for looking distinctly at the circumstances before you with the question: How is this 'rejection' ~ going to help me?
Ultimately what helped my client and what will help you ~ is to recognize when you feel triggered. To use self-regulation and cognitive re-framing - that is to tell yourself what is true rather than the old narratives that keep you hostage to that push-pull relationship, to being weak because you are relying on something external to yourself for how you want to feel - and for investing positive energy into yourself for this is how you feel remarkable.
If you would like my help as you navigate rejection and your sensitivity to it, please reach out to me. Let me help.
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