ZM's Bree & Clint Podcast - 18th July 2024

• Did couples therapy work?
• Clint's new era
• What did your partner spend your savings on??
• The MOST silly reason to break up

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
The ZiT M Podcast Network. KFC's Hodding Spicy is back
here for a good time, not a long time.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's a reading versus lady thanks to the tulshit he
we owned.

Speaker 3 (00:13):
Trusted by Trading two, the Trades and the Ladies. We've
been keeping school and the score is fifty four to
the Trades. The ladies on sixty.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Two staging a comeback our trades. We're playing for a
water blasted from the toolshit in fifty bucks cash. Our
lady is calling from far. She's twenty nine years old
and one foot is one whole shoe size bigger than
the other.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
Welcome to the show.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
Jess, Hi, Jess HILLI same as me, but in bra
it makes it incredibly difficult to buy brash, doesn't that?

Speaker 4 (00:47):
That's probably irrelevant?

Speaker 1 (00:49):
Yeah, I feel like it's relatable.

Speaker 5 (00:50):
Jests.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
Stitch them together one if there's a correlation. Let's talk
about trading from christ Church. They are thirty seven and
they've got three dogs. Welcome our lady Trading Courtney.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Hi, Courtney, what happened to the seven other dogs? Got
the dogs out? Oh you're talking about the actual dog?

Speaker 5 (01:13):
What? Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Guys, I was trying to make a gen z joke.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (01:17):
What's the joke?

Speaker 3 (01:18):
The joke is when jen Z say they call their
toes of.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
The dogs, Oh okay.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
And she said she's got three dogs, and I said,
what happened to the other seven?

Speaker 1 (01:29):
Oh okay? Yeah, yeah right, it's.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Just not funny, fully explained.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
I wanted to get it. That's the thing I wanted
to get it.

Speaker 5 (01:36):
It was.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
It was crap, but none of us tell me tell
me off. I thought you were making a Crouella de
Ville joke.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Oh yeah, I mean into it.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Anyway, Courtney, that was such a disappointed anyway. Anyway, Sorry, sorry, Courtney.
Let's go with names for clarity today.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
Courtney is your buzzer, Jess as your buzzer, and the
first of three correct dancers gets the prize from the
dull good luck.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Good luck guys.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Question number one, what is the main ingredient in a
classic Bischamel sauce?

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Courtney? Cream? Would you accept cream?

Speaker 3 (02:15):
No?

Speaker 5 (02:16):
No?

Speaker 1 (02:16):
Cream, Jess, tomato? No, No, it's a white sauce, and it's.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
Milk not cream. Yeah, you mix milking, Okay, you mix milking.
Question number two, The All Blacks are playing an exhibition
match in San Diago. This Saturday against which Pacific Island
Nation is Jess, well done, didn't even need the multi choice.
You're on the board one to the ladies. Question number

(02:43):
three buzzing when you can tell me who sings this song? Jiss,
it is of course Abba two on the board for
the ladies. You need this one, Courtney to say in
at question number four, what is another word for a
full stop?

Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yes, Jess, Harriet, She's got it.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
There's a ripping answer to win on Well done, Jess, Courtney,
you got thrashed today. Unfortunately, Jess was just two. Good Jess.
We've got that water blaster and fifty bucks cash coming
your way thanks to the tool Sheds.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
Courtney Cox friends star Monica.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
She has went on to Mini drivers podcast called Many Questions.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Everyone's got a podcast these days?

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Don't they drive.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
A mini?

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Hopefully?

Speaker 1 (03:41):
How you'd hope?

Speaker 2 (03:42):
So if many driver doesn't drive a miny, there's something
Many driver isn't a mini driver, then what is the
mini company doing?

Speaker 1 (03:51):
If she's not an ambassador for that company, then what
are you up to? And if Courtney Cox doesn't have
she's got her own line of something at Pages and Cranky.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
She has gone on that podcast, and she shared a
really honest and personal story about how her engagement broke up.
So she was engaged to this guy. I think they've
been dating for a number of years. They were engaged,
so they were fiances, and she talked about.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
How they broke up and how brutal it was. Take
a listen.

Speaker 6 (04:25):
Three years in we broke up and it was really intense.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
We broke up in therapy. I didn't know it.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Was coming, whether I should have or not.

Speaker 6 (04:33):
We went to the therapist to talk about our boundaries,
what we could and couldn't accept about each other, and
there's that acceptance uh huh. Instead he just broke up
within the first minute, and I was like, what we
were engaged and I was so shocked. I was in
so much pain.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
I also don't like surprises.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
That's such a deck move.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
What in the.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
World you agree to go to couple's therapy and then
you break up within a minute.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
You tell the person that you are willing to work
on the relationship and go to therapy.

Speaker 1 (05:03):
What a d bag?

Speaker 2 (05:04):
And the whole time you're just planning to break up
with them with a mediator there, Yeah, in front of someone,
do you think do they do they think that, like
it's the nice way to break up with them because
at least they have a therapist there to talk.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
I think that's a horrible decision. I don't want to
break up in front of my therapist.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
God.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Yeah, what a brutal way to do it. That's the
worst decision ever.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
That's like in the worst minute, in the first minute,
as first minute.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, that's worse than like a super public breakup, like
where there's heaps of people around.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
Do what normal people do and get the therapist to
tell you you need to break up.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah, pay them some extra side, I get the therapist's job. Yeah. Wow.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
I wonder how much that session costs if that happened
in the first minute, Like do you pay?

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Surely you have to pay for the whole hour? And
do you get out? Who? Like I'd be out of
that session? Who me?

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Like if that was me, if you were Courtney costs
or if you were the therapist, if.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
I was Courtney cos yeah, yeah, yeah, the therapist can't
go anywhere. Whink, you're all out of the session, the
therapist session. No, that's no job.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
That my job's done, And be like I can't save this. Yeah,
this is this is a this is a write off.
Why do you guys come here? A couple therapy I
find interesting? And you have to be I think you have.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
To be very open minded, I think, and wanting to
Both people really need to want to be there the relationship.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
For it to work. Yeah, I think you both have
to be It's never going to.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
Work if one person really wants to go and the
other person's getting dragged along.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
I'd love to know the success rate of couple's therapy,
because if you're going to couple's therapy, it suggests that
there is an issue, maybe not always, maybe not always.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
I think it's quite healthy, even if I wouldn't judge
people if they were, like I don't judge anybody.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
We've got a healthy relationship, but we find that couple's
therapy could help us, makes it better, yeah, or helps
us through some of the more difficult stuff.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
I guess I'm wondering of the couples that go there
as a last resort, what the success rate is. How
many couples end up turning it around via therapy and
how many just go, oh, at least we tried, we
gave it a well, we can tell the at least
we can tell the kids we gave.

Speaker 5 (07:16):
It a crack.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
Yeah, you know, I mean, and I feel like you'd
feel good if you were like, well, we did couples therapy.
I thought, let's put it out there. I wait, hundred
dials at them. It is a personal question, but have
you been to couple's therapy and.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
Did it work? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (07:31):
Did it work or did it not save your relationship?
Did it make your relationship heaps better? Did it make
you realize that you needed to break up with someone
that you didn't realize you actually should should be breaking
up with, not trying to make it work with.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Yeah, this person wants to be anonymous.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Hi anonymous, hig anonymous, Hello, you went to couples therapy?

Speaker 7 (07:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (07:50):
Sure did. My wife and I went. After the first lockdown,
we decided to move into separate houses.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
That makes sense. I feel like a lot of cup Anonymous.

Speaker 8 (08:01):
Yeah, and yeah, we were separated for about a year.
We went a couple's therapy once a week, and yeah,
managed to work it out and after a year moved
back in together and we've been happy families ever since.

Speaker 3 (08:15):
I've got goosies from that story. That's amazing.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Are you back on an even keel? Or would you
say it's better than ever?

Speaker 8 (08:23):
It's better than ever? We yeah, yeah, things are things
are really good. And I think the key was that
both of us wanted to get back together. We had
some things to figure out.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
Oh my god, so it was worth every penny. Then, Anonymous,
what does couple so from a success story? I'm curious
what does couple's therapy do for you?

Speaker 2 (08:41):
Does it help you understand what your partner needs more,
or does it help you understand what you need more
or is it a bit of everything?

Speaker 8 (08:50):
It's for us it was communication, you know, being able
to say the things you want to say in a
in a safe space.

Speaker 7 (09:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (09:02):
Yeah, being able to communicate the things that that are
good or not so good, or things.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
That I feel like I should teach them in school,
Like relationships as a whole would be better off if
you could build gebra.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
I don't need algebra. Hey, that's quite inspired.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
We appreciate honesty, No problem at all, Thanks Anonymous.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
I love this text.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
Someone said I can't call in, but I had. I
had a couple's therapy.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Session once and I had ended things with my ex
as she was cheating on me with.

Speaker 3 (09:31):
A girl for a few months. I've ended up marrying
my therapist. She's no longer a therapist anymore, couldn't.

Speaker 1 (09:39):
Be, and my ex is now married to a girl. Wow. God,
there's so many things going on in that story.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
I might have watched too many movies, but I feel
like you have to resign.

Speaker 1 (09:51):
That's what happens in step Brothers.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yeah, you have to a character if you want to
date one of your patients.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
I feel like that's a no note.

Speaker 3 (09:59):
Yeah, someone else said, my now ex husband chose this
text is so funny. My now ex husband chose the
therapist and it was an absolute balls up.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
She was religious and growled.

Speaker 3 (10:12):
At both of us for not loving each other in
the god fearing way. Safe to say, if I need
a couple's therapist again, I'll be choosing them myself.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
Your husband literally just googled couple's therapists and rang the
first one that old that'll do this text. We spent
thousands on couple's therapy with my now X. Obviously it
didn't work out. I was devastated, but I carried on
with individual therapy.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
It was the best thing that I ever did.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
The therapist told me that he could tell from the
very first session that my ex had checked out.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
Really, yeah, isn't that interesting?

Speaker 2 (10:48):
Because once they go, I guess your therapists can speak honestly,
they can be like they can be like babes.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
I never let that go.

Speaker 6 (10:54):
See.

Speaker 3 (10:54):
I love therapists that really just give it to you straight.
I hate the ones that dance around.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
You have to tell me what's wrong with me.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
Just tell me what to do, tell me, give me
some sort of guidance, Hi, Darren, after you mate?

Speaker 1 (11:13):
You mean the couple's therapy, Darren?

Speaker 4 (11:15):
Yes, yes, we have. About three years ago, we probably
did about eight weeks of counseling. Okay, how to go
hugely beneficial.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
Oh that's awesome.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
So what things were gone? A little bit rocky, but
but I would highly recommend it even if things are
going good, because okay, just learing a lot more about
each other.

Speaker 2 (11:37):
Whose idea was it, Darren and the relationship to god
down therapist?

Speaker 1 (11:40):
You or your partners?

Speaker 5 (11:41):
It was?

Speaker 4 (11:41):
It was probably both of ours really because we wanted
it to work. You know, we we just sort of
got a bit disorientated. I yes, you could say, and
just didn't know where to go. But we still love
We knew we loved each other so we just wanted
to do whatever we could to at least attempt to
try and make it work.

Speaker 3 (12:02):
What was the biggest thing you think you got out
of going to couple's therapy.

Speaker 4 (12:07):
I think it's like the guy said before, it is
communication is a huge one, yeah, I mean, And the
other one is another big thing is thoughts and beliefs
like your partner. For example, you might see a red
car and I might see it as red. She might
see it as slightly orange. But no, one's actually wrong,

(12:28):
if you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah, yeah, I like that.

Speaker 4 (12:32):
You see it how you see it, and you can't
criticize each other for seeing things differently.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
And you don't have to agree, right, No.

Speaker 4 (12:39):
No, they're sure.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
You know.

Speaker 4 (12:40):
You don't have to agree with each other. You just
respect their thoughts and what they believe as long as
it's not hurting anyone or damaging anyone.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Support each other, right, that's the main thing, right, Darren.

Speaker 2 (12:50):
If your therapist could hear you now, they would be
so would be so proud of you.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
Look at you espousing philosophy on the radio.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
Can I just say, Darren, like listening to a bloke
like yourself talk like you've spoke like, I'm inspired by
by that, Darren, So you should be really proud of yourself, mate.

Speaker 4 (13:10):
I think it's guys, you know, guys think they're Yeah.
I agree, they just need to lit the walls down
and actually get emotional rat emotional.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
Thanks Darren. We appreciate that. Have a good one on
your dad.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
Get this text. Therapy should be looked at as marriage maintenance.
We maintain houses, cars, jobs, why don't we maintain our relationship?
It's true that is such a good clean you know,
like you need to go to go home tonight and
tell my wife that we need therapy.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
She's going to go, what the hell are you talking about?
Like it'll be great. Good communication is key? Friend of
the show. Am I going to name them? No, it's
not name, let's just call them Schmeddy, sh McClean, okay, smooth.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
He pulled into the work car park because we work
in the same building now. He's on one of our
sister radio stations. And I saw him get out of
his car and he had ear pods and he was
driving with ear pods. And I've seen this anonymous celebrity
that I definitely haven't named. Sorry, I've seen.

Speaker 1 (14:15):
Him driving around with AirPods in too.

Speaker 2 (14:17):
Yeah, And I said what's the deal, and he goes, Oh,
my car's too old, I don't have bluetooth, so.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
If I need to make a phone call, yeah, all
that kind of thing.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
I imagine he was just listening to his Club seven,
but yeah, I guess he could say.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
I'd say, yeah, so, what's the deal. I've seen people
do it before.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
Legally, are you allowed to drive with EarPods and or
like beats by dre happhones on, I'd.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
Say, you're allowed to drive with aarpods in? Really? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (14:45):
It seems it seems kind of dangerous, but then there's
any more dangerous than what about a loud music in
your car?

Speaker 3 (14:53):
Yeah, driving around where it literally blows your ear drums out.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
It's so loud. So I've done some research.

Speaker 2 (14:59):
I've been reading this article published by driven dot Codo
in z They said, legally, you're not allowed to do
the following things with your phone in your hand while
you're driving. Make or receive phone calls. Yeah, send a
text message or an email.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
Yep, these are all pretty basic knowledge.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
Create or send a video message, Snapchat, Instagram story, but
people do, but it is illegal. So you know, of
course it is, or communicate in any similar manner with
your phone in your hand.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
Yeah, you just can't have your phone in your hand.
But that's not what a pods is it?

Speaker 3 (15:34):
No, if you do, if you just do that Heiri,
Hey Google, can you do this thing for me?

Speaker 1 (15:40):
And then they do it for you. Siri gets it done.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
According to driven dot Codo, Indeed, the law doesn't say
that you can't have headphones on. However, if a police
officer believes that you are driving carelessly as a result
of using headphones, you can be charged with careless driving.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yeah, we'll prove it.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
What was I doing it?

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Prove it, officer. Yeah, there's a weird one to have
to prove. It is a bit of a strange.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
But if you were.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
Driving like a dickhead and they see that you've got
enormous headphones.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
On, book me for that, Book me for reckless driving.

Speaker 2 (16:12):
Our producer Elie, when she used to work for us,
I know that she was running a Yui Boom in
the front seat of her car.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
She would clip it. You clip it on the head wrest,
wouldn't you. It was actually a JBL speaker.

Speaker 3 (16:22):
JBL Sorry JB to us I think, can I get one?

Speaker 1 (16:26):
Don't blame them.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
It turned into my car radio because I didn't have
a radio.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
Nana's old Corolla didn't. I just heard Nana's old Corolla.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
It was a Champagne nineteen ninety seven Corolla, Yes it was,
and she did me good.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
But yeah, I went in radio. Didn't have a radio,
so I have my JBL. Do you still run a
Bluetooth speaker in the car? No, I've upgraded. I've got
a bit older. She got a fancy car to have
a nice car. Now, it's not bad. It's not bad.
It doesn't have a whistles. Does it have a radio
and bluetooth? It does touch screen. I'm limit in the
future now, baby. You know you've made it when you've

(17:05):
got it.

Speaker 3 (17:07):
Do they call it car play?

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yes, car play.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
That's when you know you've made it.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
All reality though, How different is a phone that automatically
bluetooths to your car stereo to a phone that bluetooths
to a portable speaker in your card that's plugged into
the cicky ladder?

Speaker 3 (17:23):
Really?

Speaker 1 (17:23):
How different is it?

Speaker 2 (17:24):
So long as you secure the speaker and the cup holder,
or like Ellie did, clip it onto the head wrist.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Really was it any different?

Speaker 2 (17:29):
And then your phone's mounted on the dashboard and then
that's just like the touch screen that is your Apple
car play Yep, really any different?

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Imagine time travelers if they just tuned into this conversation. Well,
they've got one of those cassette tapes that you plug.

Speaker 2 (17:44):
Into your walkman, into your disc mound, and then you
put that into the tape player of your car.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
Remember that that piece of technology. I still don't understand
to this day how it worked, how the tape had
like the cord hanging off of it, and then you
plug that into the headphone jack of your disman.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
What about the one? What about the one the ee trap?
Will you plug it into your Cicky lighter?

Speaker 3 (18:07):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (18:07):
And then it comes up with a frequency that you
tune your radio into.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
Yes, and then your iPod.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
Connects to the eye trip and the ie trip broadcasts
your iPod over if in frequency to your radio.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
Yes. I had that before the JBL Yeah, crazy, crazy
pic wild we sunlight such old people.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Right now, bring back a dismand eh.

Speaker 3 (18:32):
And then you know where all the skips were on
the CDs because they got bumped.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
A record player on my car time five on times,
stop the clock, win the kids with sit.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
In five on time, give away this money.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
Jim is going to have our four o'clock guests.

Speaker 3 (18:51):
Jimmer, Hi, Jimmy, Hi, how are you.

Speaker 1 (18:53):
We're good.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
We're going to get straight into this with you because
we're doing as many guesses as we can. You've heard
it of your so you know the deal. Yep.

Speaker 3 (19:01):
I don't what to do.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
I think are you using a stop watch?

Speaker 4 (19:05):
No?

Speaker 1 (19:06):
You're okay, dog?

Speaker 3 (19:08):
And are you going to go early?

Speaker 5 (19:11):
No?

Speaker 3 (19:11):
I'm going to go on all.

Speaker 1 (19:14):
Right, Jemma, we're rooting for you. Three two one beat?

Speaker 2 (19:19):
Then you say time to get between beep and time
has what we measure. If it's five point zero zero,
you win.

Speaker 1 (19:25):
No, not yet.

Speaker 3 (19:27):
Oh wait, hold on a second, Hold on a second. Now, Jemmy,
you're going to hear a three two one and a beep,
and then it will start when you hear the beep. Okay,
you're just you're you weren't you weren't joking.

Speaker 1 (19:50):
There's a lot going on.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
To wait for the beat.

Speaker 1 (19:56):
I love you so much. I want you to win. Okay,
there was a joke. Okay, here we go. Please two one.

Speaker 3 (20:05):
Now, time okay, Yes, that's.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
Good, Jimmy. That's better room with the chance. If you win, Jimmy,
I'm going to lose it.

Speaker 3 (20:20):
Yeah, fame, fame.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
You're the hero we need right now. You are the
people's hero.

Speaker 2 (20:25):
Are you going to spend it on Jimmer? If you
win twenty five grand off us? Right now?

Speaker 9 (20:29):
Oh my god, my niece has just had a baby
in the UK where I'm from, and I'm going to
go see.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
Yeah. I really want to get you there. We've got
our numbers. We do ella hit us.

Speaker 3 (20:43):
Starts with come on, A five, A six, I'm sorry six?

Speaker 2 (20:50):
Do you want to know?

Speaker 5 (20:50):
Though?

Speaker 1 (20:51):
You're so flip and close to six.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
Point zero zero six point zero one.

Speaker 1 (20:56):
Oh, you should have called for six on time, Jimmer.

Speaker 3 (21:00):
I'm going to play that after five on time?

Speaker 1 (21:02):
Yeah, bugger, Jemmy.

Speaker 2 (21:04):
Play six on fire.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
We appreciate you calling through and playing.

Speaker 3 (21:09):
Thanks, that's lovely, Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
Good luck with those flights. I'm in love with her.
I want to go hang out with it right now.

Speaker 2 (21:19):
I want to know what her start point was for
that first.

Speaker 3 (21:21):
You said, so you go, it makes sense.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
Five on time, contestant. We measured her other guests.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
We did let's go to the official result.

Speaker 3 (21:34):
Five point nine.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
Oh close to six again?

Speaker 3 (21:39):
Yeah, I think she to chick it's five on time?

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Not hey, you don't you come to Gemma. I will
both laughing. You are alone.

Speaker 3 (21:50):
We love you, guys, think.

Speaker 1 (21:54):
Ivory Tower. You're producing Ivory. You don't have to do it. Yeah,
I'm going to turn them off, turn them off. No,
we stand with Gemma.

Speaker 2 (22:04):
Yeah, Jimmer, Yeah, we love you. I realized this week
that I'm entering a new era in my life this weekend.

Speaker 3 (22:14):
It's the era, your Taylor Swift era. Finally, we've been
telling you for how many years?

Speaker 2 (22:20):
I think I'm well and truly in my Taylor Swift era,
but not by choice, because.

Speaker 1 (22:24):
That's not doesn't mean you're in the era.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
Then, No, it's on my Taylor Swift era. This weekend,
I have my first fortieth birthday party from my friend group.

Speaker 1 (22:35):
Oh no, that's not true.

Speaker 3 (22:38):
Why you had a fortieth in your friend group like
a couple of years ago?

Speaker 2 (22:42):
Talking about Ross Boss? Yeah, yeah, but he's older than us,
so yes, I know.

Speaker 3 (22:47):
Are you talking about people that you actually like wouldn't expect?

Speaker 2 (22:51):
Well, you were at Ross Boss's forty forty, so it
means you're in that era as well. Yeah, no, no, no,
you know the difference. Yeah, Ross is one of my
old friends. You're lucky he's on holidays. This weekend will
be the first of our friend group of the same
age of people to turn towards out. And it's really

(23:13):
put things in like a sharp focus for me where
I'm like, oh, I'm onto that stage.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
Of life now. At least you're not in the funeral stage.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
That's an interesting points, an interesting point that you make.
It got me thinking about what the stages are. So
twenty first, Nah, you go back further than that. Your
first party stage that you're in is like the fifth
birthday stage, where you're going to all of your friend's
fifth birthday parties or your kindy friends.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
I can't remember when I was five, No you can't,
but you were there. Yeah, I would have been there.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
And there was a two like an eighteen month period
where every couple of weeks you had a fifth birthday
to go to. Yeah, and then you would have had
sixteenth birthday parties would be the next one.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
I never got a sixteenth didn't you? Was it boarding school? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (23:58):
Ah, they do do they do sixteenth birthdays now they.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
Lock you up and then they throw away the key
and they never come see you.

Speaker 2 (24:05):
To be honest, I didn't do a big sixteenth either.
I didn't have like a sweet sixteenth.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
I feel like an American American thing. Yeah, definitely more American,
But I feel like eighteenth is a more thing here.
I reckon twenty first as the next one.

Speaker 3 (24:18):
But eighteen is the big thing too, like bigger than
sixteen in my opinion.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Probably the eighteenth. You don't all turn eighteen at the
same time. Turn eighteen. You're like, let's go to the clubs,
and the three of you that are eighteen can go
to the clubs, and the rest of you have to
go home.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
I was the very first one eighteen. Yes, yeah, it's
not fun. My birthday is January third.

Speaker 2 (24:37):
You want to be in the middle, I reckon. You
don't want to be first, you don't want.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
To be last.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
Yeah, then after twenty first, do you reckon?

Speaker 3 (24:44):
It's weddings NA thirtieth, thirtieth and weddings thirtieth.

Speaker 1 (24:50):
And weddings all probably happens around that time.

Speaker 2 (24:53):
But you have like a ten year window in your
life where the weddings happen. You know where your friends
start getting married, and then you start looking around your
gol there's no more weddings in our friend group to happen,
And then you're onto fortieths, fortieths, fiftieth sixtieth slash retirement parties.
Yeah oh no, No, before that, I reckon after fortieths

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is divorce parties and second marriages.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
I can't wait till I get invited to a divorce
EA party. Yeah. Yeah, I feel like it'd be a
good time.

Speaker 3 (25:23):
Yeah, it'd definitely be magic mushrooms. There are the divorce
party yeah, you know, because they're just like I'm free,
I'm gonna yeah, yeah, yeah, just do whatever.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
Yeah yeah, true, what's new? Lease on life? Parties?

Speaker 2 (25:36):
Aren't they divorce parties? Because you've got to reinvent yourself
and magic mushrooms are good for that. Then, like you said,
fiftieth sixtieths retirements and then funerals.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
Oh I know.

Speaker 3 (25:49):
That's so depressing to think about. There's a time in
your life where it's like, this is the.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
Funeral I'm in my hashtag funeral era.

Speaker 1 (25:56):
I both go first, do you?

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (25:58):
Nah, I'd like to speak at it for.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
You, would you though?

Speaker 3 (26:02):
Yeah, that's the last place. I want to speak the
person that you're speaking about. I can't even hear it.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
I have friends who asked me to DJ there twenty first.
I have friends who asked me to DJ their weddings.
I will have friends that will ask me to DJ
their fortieths.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
So I would like to at least DJ one of
my friend's funerals. Oh can I request a song at
the funeral? Yeah? I'm out a her word A hell?
You imagine putting together the playoffs? You're like, okay, a
bit of that ACDC? What else we got? Bad out
of Hell?

Speaker 3 (26:37):
Bout out of Hell? I mean just all the all
the good ones? Yeah, you know, the all the classic
funeral songs.

Speaker 5 (26:44):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (26:45):
If you do a Yardie at your twenty first and
you cut the cake at your wedding, what is the
thing that happens at a fortieth? I wonder what that fortieth?
Oh no, I know what it is.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
Free chiropractor prostate tests.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
I'm the same sign.

Speaker 3 (27:01):
You just have that old tap. You're like, here's the
free cairopracture over here. After the speech, they checks over here.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
After the speeches, the doctor walks in with the glove
and everyone gets.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
To watch coffee enemas over here, he's healthy.

Speaker 9 (27:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
As one of those am I the A hole for
not switching plane seats stories?

Speaker 3 (27:21):
I always love weighing in when it has nothing to
do with me.

Speaker 2 (27:25):
I always find them quite clean cut, like they always blow. Really,
there's been very few ones which I've wanted to argue
the point on.

Speaker 3 (27:33):
It's rare.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
There's a lot of gray area.

Speaker 3 (27:35):
Yeah, like it's usually pretty clear who's the A hole.

Speaker 2 (27:38):
I feel like this is another one of those. But
it's more like, can you believe that a holes like
this exist? Okay, but let me tell you about it.
You might have a different opinion. There's an Aussie guy
who's asking, am I the A hole for not switching
seats on a plane so that a newly weird bride
could sit beside her husband on a long haul flight?

Speaker 3 (27:56):
Okay, I need the details. So the Aussie guy purchased
him himself. The single guy purchased himself.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
A single premium economy seat YEP for a fourteen hour
flight from Melbourne to Dubai. Great, great idea, if you
can do it. He sat down on the flight. The
man beside him in premium economy had just been upgraded
to premium economy. And he said, yeah, yeah, no I say,
and he said, I want to ask you a favor.

(28:23):
He said. He asked the man who had paid for
his own seat if he could switch seats, If the
guy who had paid for his seats could switch seats
with the guy who'd been upgraded's wife because they had
just got married and they were on a honeymoon, but
his wife was an economy.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
Don't care. Go tell someone else he got upgraded to
premium economy.

Speaker 2 (28:45):
He asked for The guy asked the guy who had
paid for his seat if he could give up his
seat for his new oneltly not because it was their honeymoon.
Don't care. Good for you, the guy, the Aussie guy said, congratulations,
but no way. The husband said, please please please, please,
please please please please.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
I would have said, who are you, Sabrina Carpenter.

Speaker 2 (29:09):
The guy who paid for his seat said, look, if
you really want this, you can pay me the difference
in seats. And you know what, I'm a nice person.
I will go and sit back in an economy. Your wife,
your new wife, can come and sit up here in
premium economy, but you need to pay me the difference
and the difference is about one thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (29:28):
That's really nice of that guy to even put that
on the table, because.

Speaker 2 (29:33):
Then they would have both got a premium economy.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
Upgrade for one thousand dollars, so they would have got
half price upgrades. Oh, I love this text that's just
come through. Yeah, is there more detail?

Speaker 2 (29:43):
The guy? That guy?

Speaker 1 (29:44):
The guy was asking first, Yeah, what did the husband do?

Speaker 5 (29:46):
Said?

Speaker 1 (29:46):
He take it?

Speaker 2 (29:47):
He said, no, we're on a budget. It's a honeymoon.
And he called him an a hole for not letting
his wife happen.

Speaker 3 (29:53):
Come off of it, mate, you know, and this is
exactly right. The person on the text machine said, the
a is the new husband for agreeing to be upgraded
without his wife in the first place.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
Correct, on their honeymoon.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
I'd be ropable.

Speaker 2 (30:08):
The ahole is the guy who didn't offer his new
wife the upgrade as a honeymoon present. He is the Hey, babe,
I've just been given this hate that guy. I want
to give it to you.

Speaker 3 (30:19):
Oh and then you have to sit next to this
dude the entire fourteen hours exactly, Oh the guy.

Speaker 2 (30:26):
Someone else in the comments of this said, if that
guy really wanted to sit next to his wife so
much because it was their honeymoon and he really wanted
to be with his new wife. There's an easy solution.
You go back to economy, find the person sitting next
to your wife and say, hey, we've got one premium
economy seat.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
But there's two of us, So you take the seat.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
In premium economy so that I can sit back and
hear in economy with my wife.

Speaker 3 (30:49):
If he really wanted to sit with his wife, he
wouldn't have taken the upgrade in the first place.

Speaker 1 (30:53):
Full stop.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
The nerve of.

Speaker 1 (30:57):
That guy to turn around and then go, you're the
ahole for not giving me your paid for seat. He
paid for it, He paid for it, paid for it.
How entitled do you think you are?

Speaker 2 (31:07):
This is the couple that's when they get onto their honeymoon,
are going to go and knock on people's doors who
have better hotel rooms than them, and go, hey, can
we switch rooms with you?

Speaker 1 (31:15):
Because it's honey man, I feel like you.

Speaker 2 (31:18):
Got a nicer room in us. Can we have your
room now?

Speaker 1 (31:20):
Honeyman? It's the exactly that's the exact same thing. You
know What's interesting?

Speaker 3 (31:25):
I feel like this is a blessing that in disguise
that he was not up in premium economy with his wife.
Why his new wife, because if she had been there
and heard this, she would have left him.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
Now, I reckon.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
They cut from the same close. You reck it.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
Yeah, that's why they're married. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
Yeah, And she would be like, you're going to get
me a seatbed?

Speaker 2 (31:44):
You go, babe, You could get me a seatbed.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
Now for free. We don't want to pay for anything.
It's our honeymoon. Remember, let's play what's the plot.

Speaker 5 (31:54):
Once upon a time there was a girl. She was smart, debatable, talented, eh,
athletic not really, but picking a movie title based on
just the plot line that she can do really and clinse,
what's the plot?

Speaker 2 (32:12):
One of our producers, ellis that that intro should be
redone because, in her words, bre you are athletic.

Speaker 3 (32:21):
I appreciate you saying that, Ella, but.

Speaker 1 (32:25):
I don't know where you got that from.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
Sorry, I can hear you. Now you are athletic and
you're beautiful, And I just feel like it insults. I mean,
maybe it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (32:33):
They had more compliments. Does it hurt you your feeling?

Speaker 3 (32:36):
No?

Speaker 1 (32:36):
I love it, Okay, I'm pretty sure I wrote it.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
Ignore me our movie guessing game is what's the plot where?
Today we're playing for one hundred and fifty dollars cash.
Sophie's got the chance to take it out curas So, Hi, sophe.

Speaker 3 (32:49):
Hey, how's the gallen good gank?

Speaker 5 (32:50):
You?

Speaker 1 (32:51):
Have you ever played along with this game in the
car before?

Speaker 9 (32:54):
I've played along a few times in the game in
the car before, but I've never managed to get through.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Okay, today's day, you hear, so, just so we're clear,
I will read out movie plotlines, famous movies, and if
you know what it is, you buzz in with Sophie
nice and quickly. If you can tell me the name
of the movie, you'll get a point. And if you
can do that twice before breed does, you will win
one hundred and fifty dollars cash today.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Please sound good, best of Luks.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
Our theme today in light of the assassination attempt on
former President Trump today, these are all movies with guns
in them. Oh that could be anything, could be anything.
Guns are a major feature in these films. Put it
that way, Okay, good.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
Luck everybody here comes.

Speaker 2 (33:41):
Movie plotline number one. A legendary assassin retires from his
violent career after marrying the love of his life, Sophie,
is it John Wack Poor?

Speaker 1 (33:57):
Very well done, Sophie, Very well done, Sophie. Have you
seen them?

Speaker 10 (34:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (34:03):
Absolutely love the John Webb movies.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
I've never seen one that's a sitter for you. Then
I haven't seen a single one.

Speaker 2 (34:09):
Keanu Reeves. Yeah yeah. Movie number two, one point to Sophie.
Captain John Miller takes his men behind enemy lions to
find a.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
Man who's saving Private Ryan.

Speaker 2 (34:23):
Give you the same reaction, poor? Game on, So let's
go World War two film. A lot of a lot
of guns in World War two.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
A lot of guns.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
Come on down, Give me your best, Sophie to this
down swinging movies with guns?

Speaker 1 (34:44):
Who's going to take it out?

Speaker 2 (34:46):
Plotline number three, John and Jane, a couple in a stagnating.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Marriage, live a deceptively Sophie. Oh it's your and missus smell.

Speaker 2 (34:59):
I thought there was a sitter for Bree, but she
didn't get it, Sophie, the champion.

Speaker 1 (35:03):
Well done, Sophie. To be honest, I wasn't content. I
needed I need to take my adhd.

Speaker 3 (35:13):
Man, Sophie. That was a well earned and deserved. When
one hundred and fifty dollars cash coming your way.

Speaker 9 (35:19):
Awesome, Thank you guys.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
One last thing playing is that is this your first
time calling the show?

Speaker 9 (35:27):
Yep, this is my first time calling the show.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
So you'd be a first time caller.

Speaker 9 (35:31):
I am a first time caller.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
Oh, well, we can't let you leave.

Speaker 3 (35:37):
I'm going to celebrate you a bit more, Sophie. Appreciate
you finally calling through and taking the money and.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
Underneath me.

Speaker 1 (35:47):
Cheer. So Brie, don't worry.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
We've got a fifty KFC chicken dollar consolation price can
always stoked with that. She's a lot of traffic in
car based chat at this time on this show. In
the last couple of days, I think we.

Speaker 3 (36:01):
Are now the leading show for traffic chat, which makes
sense how we secured our next guest.

Speaker 2 (36:07):
Please welcome to the show the Minister of Transport, the
honorable Simeon Brown Cura. Simeon Afternoon. You know you're the
most high ranking government official we've ever had on this
radio show.

Speaker 10 (36:20):
Oh, it's just a privilege and a pleasure to be
with you. I feel I feel a real honor, So
thank you. This is a humbling experience.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
The feeling is mutual.

Speaker 2 (36:28):
Before we state to you because we're looking for an
endorsement for our idea this afternoon.

Speaker 10 (36:34):
The Cabinet manual does have things about endorsements from Cabinet manuals,
but there, go on, go on.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
I guess we're looking for I guess we're looking for
a seal of approval or just like a wink and
a nudge also that would also do.

Speaker 10 (36:47):
I don't know if I can wink over the radio,
but we can, we can play.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
Is it true?

Speaker 2 (36:53):
Is it true that you are out there at the
moment rolling out signs that will tell people where speed
cameras before they get to the speed camera.

Speaker 8 (37:02):
Indeed it is.

Speaker 1 (37:03):
It is an excellent start for our proposal.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
It's a very good start because this is it bottom line.
I'm just going to give it to you straight. We
were wondering the idea that's popped into our heads for
our radio show is we would like to be a
show that gives people the information about where speed cameras
mobile speed cameras are and people call in tell us

(37:27):
the information, then we deliver the shara.

Speaker 1 (37:30):
Yeah, we share it with the listeners. And we were
just wondering if you would be on board.

Speaker 10 (37:35):
Or a nod for that one.

Speaker 1 (37:37):
Why why.

Speaker 10 (37:41):
We're rolling the signs out for the fixed cameras, And
the reason for it is the fixed cameras have been
they're in high risk locations, warning motorists before they reach
those locations, the daters to get them the slowest, speed
them down if they are speeding.

Speaker 1 (37:56):
That's our intention. That's our intention too.

Speaker 2 (37:58):
I want to help.

Speaker 10 (37:59):
That's however, However, the message also is that just because
we're doing this for fixed cameras doesn't give people an
excuse to just speed everywhere else. And so the point
of mobile cameras is that there could be a camera anywhere, anytime,
and we want people to keep to the speed limits.

Speaker 3 (38:18):
But we think we think that if we give out
the information for some of the mobile cameras, it's going
to automatically slow people down because they'll know they're there.

Speaker 1 (38:27):
Yeah, so people will.

Speaker 2 (38:28):
Slow down gipso facto same results of mean.

Speaker 3 (38:30):
Yeah, it's not one hundred percent guarantee that we're given
out all of the information.

Speaker 10 (38:35):
I can see exactly where you're coming from. And I
actually think the New South Wales government may have been
doing something around signage for mobile cameras, but we're taking
the approach to the stage. It's around fixed cameras saying, look,
if you if you're approaching these these cameras here, they
want to want you to rejust your speed if you

(38:55):
aren't going to past, these are high risk.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
Okay, so you can't endorse our idea. But but but
I mean.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
Is it illegal, legal or is it frown What kind
of great here are we play again?

Speaker 8 (39:10):
Frowned upon?

Speaker 10 (39:10):
Definitely frowned upon? Please don't please don't like that. I
wouldn't encourage it.

Speaker 2 (39:16):
No, he has to say that we're trying to save
some people some money.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
I think as well.

Speaker 3 (39:22):
Yeah, I mean's two birds one stone and looks mean
if we do go ahead, look under.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
Like without your endorsement, without without your endorsement, with.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
Not you endorsing it at all. But could we get
some sort of funding from the government?

Speaker 10 (39:36):
Oh no, no, no, okay, So we're in a very
tight financial situation at the moment as the government. We're
trying to get the government books back and back in order.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
That's a silly question, you guys, are you guys are
tighter than a cat's.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
At the moment, aren't you.

Speaker 10 (39:51):
Well, Look, I mean we want to we want to
get text relief to work in families in a couple
of days time.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
We want that to happen. We think it's great.

Speaker 3 (40:00):
Something that will put money back into tax paying families
pockets is less speeding kinds.

Speaker 10 (40:06):
We're rolling out these cameras for the cameras well.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
Ones the mobile ones without your endorsement, that is, the
Minister of Transport.

Speaker 3 (40:20):
What would you do if you found out your fiance
had blown the budget from the savings account on their
stag doo or HN's night.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
I'd be pretty upset. I'd want to hear details of
what the money went on. Yeah, where did you spend
all the money? Did you spend it? And I mean
it wasn't it? Was it worth? It depends how much?
Depends how much, like you know, a perc of the
total amount of money. Yeah, I get it.

Speaker 3 (40:47):
You would have a good time and if you went
a little bit overboard, you spend a little bit of
the savings. You know, I'm pretty understanding. I'm like, was
it was it fun?

Speaker 2 (40:55):
If it was, I feel like I would be a
bit like that. I I don't know how much because
because here's the thing. If your partner does do that
and you don't go overboard, you've got one up your sleeve.

Speaker 3 (41:07):
Exactly.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
You've got a major whoopsie for later in the relationship.
I could get out of jail free card.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Yeah, yeah, that's not the case for this woman. Listen
to this story.

Speaker 3 (41:18):
She says, we'd been saving for our wedding and honeymoon
for the past year and a half, putting aside a
significant portion of our income to make our special day
and honeymoon perfect. We had saved around twenty thousand dollars
in our savings account. The morning after his stag party,

(41:39):
she checked the savings account and he had spent the
entire lot, the whole thing on the bachelor party, the
whole thing. She confronted him, and he said that he
got carried away and didn't realize.

Speaker 1 (41:54):
How much he was spending.

Speaker 3 (41:56):
And he admitted that he was paying for his friend's
expense as well.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
I mean to pay for yours, thinking it would be.

Speaker 3 (42:03):
A great last hurrah before they tied the knot.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
That's shipmates. They should have taken your card off you.
They shouldn't have been letting you pay for anything on
your stag doo.

Speaker 3 (42:12):
She was quite understanding about it. She said, look, you
need to find a way to replace the money that
you've used. But it was then that he came back
and said that she now needs to cancel her hens
Night which is coming up in a few weeks, because.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
They don't have the money. No, that's so poorly thought out.
So she had she gave you it out. She gave
you an out.

Speaker 3 (42:41):
So she said she'd spent about fifteen hundred dollars of
her personal savings and not from the joint account on
her Hen's Night, which had already been paid off.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
And he's like, well, we can't do that now. We
can't do that. We can't be spending that money. Boy,
we can't do it.

Speaker 2 (42:55):
All he needed to do. How many guys do you reckon?
We're on a stagdoo tin That's about it, normal stag
do ring. Each of the guys say hey, how great
was my stag doo? They're like it was so good. Yeah,
I've had a blowout. I need each of you to
transfer me to grand.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
If you're a good friend. And you were there, yeah,
yeah you go.

Speaker 2 (43:14):
I'll put in some of my money, but I need
you to give me whatever you can.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
You drank it. You were there, like I spin it on.
You give me something. You watched it.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
Yeah, you were there, and you put it inside that
thing that she was wearing exactly twenty grand. You put
that up your I'm trying to think what would need
to happen here. I'm trying to think what would need
to happen for a twenty thousand dollars night to feel
worth it? Like, I feel like I need to start
partying in Auckland and wake up in Roam.

Speaker 1 (43:43):
If my partner treated me like that, I'll be honest,
if my partner treated me how this guy's treated her,
I'd call off the wedding. Yeah, that's not for me,
that's not I don't partner I want. I don't think
that's too dramatic.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
I think because the blowout is forgetable, but the aftermath
of it, it's how he's.

Speaker 3 (44:03):
Dealt with it afterwards is the thing that worries made.

Speaker 2 (44:05):
Everybody makes mistakes.

Speaker 1 (44:06):
Everyone makes mistakes in I mean, that's a pretty big mistake.
Twenty grand is ridiculous.

Speaker 3 (44:12):
If you spend two grand, I'd be like, okay, well
you know that's a good night. Twenty grand and you'd
spend a year and a half, so I'd be human.
I'd be like, that's not your money. It's not your money,
it's our money.

Speaker 2 (44:24):
He's done that thing that happens on stagdoos from time
to time where people forget that the stagd or his
do is the entree and the wedding is the main course,
and you start thinking that the main event is the stag.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
Doo goes to show where his priorities are. I'd dump
his ass.

Speaker 3 (44:40):
I would. That's inappropriate and not acceptable behavior, and I'd
expect someone to do the same if I behave like that.

Speaker 1 (44:50):
It seems though good enough.

Speaker 2 (44:52):
We should have two factors sign off on money that's
in the joint account, on a savings account you're saving for.
It feels like it just could be a good safety
in it for both of you to go, Hey, if
any money comes out of us, we both have to do.

Speaker 1 (45:04):
Can you can get that on your phone. You can
just get a little.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
Approach if you're watching it in real time. She's there
sitting at home, he's on his stag doo, and you're
just watching all of these transactions.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
Yeah, she could have went.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
In there and put a whole hold on it if
she knew.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
Yeah, if she had no she could have transferred all
the money out of the savings into a safe account
until after until he So we want to ask this
afternoon one hundred dollars at him, what did your.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
Partner spend the savings on? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (45:33):
What did they blow your joint money on without permission? Yeah,
without consultation, I guess, yeah, without talking to you about
it first, and you just well, they did talk to
you about it, and you said no, and then they
went and did it anyway. No boats, motorbikes, horses, houses,
clothing items, nights out, jet skis, jet skis.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
Yep, they have the jet skis for us. It's a
two seat. You could I can pig it like you
can sit on the back.

Speaker 2 (46:04):
Babe.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
You can't put a price on babe.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
Will buy, will buy a biscuit and I can toe
you on the jet ski.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
It'll be it'll be so good. But we've got your
jitski instead of an engagement ring.

Speaker 2 (46:15):
These stories are juicy and bad and naughty, and some
of them kind of funny.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
Should we kick it off with his text?

Speaker 3 (46:22):
Someone takes through fifty thousand dollars on his friend's business
opportunities when he was depressed. All his hard work and
property investment money from selling the houses and from his
divorce before he met me, went down the drain to
his friend.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
He was nothing but a leech.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
That's so sad, are you?

Speaker 1 (46:44):
Tally was taken advantage of this guy, lent his friend
fifty grand and then never got a back aragon.

Speaker 2 (46:50):
He didn't even lend it agon he brought into this business.
Oh yeah, Amy, hi Amy, hi Amy, hi bhye did
your partner spin some of your savings without telling you?

Speaker 3 (47:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (47:01):
So we had destroyed saving his account and he asked
we could spend some money out of it to get
a project car going for the wedding.

Speaker 1 (47:10):
Okay, okay, And I thought, yeah, cool.

Speaker 7 (47:14):
She spent fifteen hundred dollars. He didn't tell me how
much he was going to spend his fifteen hundred dollars.
This car going right, the car goes, but we are
still not married.

Speaker 1 (47:26):
I got a cargoing, but not the wedding.

Speaker 3 (47:28):
Oh no, why how come it's worked out that way?

Speaker 7 (47:32):
We run and run into a few issues with the
dress and the celebrants and stuff.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
Okay, it's not a priorities thing.

Speaker 2 (47:39):
It's not like he's prioritized the car over the wedding,
or is that kind of how you feel.

Speaker 7 (47:43):
That's kind of how I feel.

Speaker 1 (47:45):
I know that's the vibe.

Speaker 2 (47:48):
Okay, thanks Amy. Someone said my friend's fiance spent their
entire wedding and honeymoon savings about twenty grand on gambling
in adult lollies over a period of time. Adult lollies
is such a good word. They still got married, but
he ended up owing some money to some very bad
people for those adult lollies. Not a surprise that they

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are no longer together.

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Oo that sucks. Someone else said, my dad and mum
with sheep farmers and graysed dairy cows, my dad decided
he needed a motorbike. He used the dairy grazing money
to buy a Harley second hand. Mum was pissed that
he didn't wait a few months, but to be fair,
he just beat Stage four Hodgkins Lynphomer. He drove it

(48:34):
for a year and then it rusted in the garage
for fourteen years.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
He was doing it.

Speaker 2 (48:39):
Yeah, he deserved that motorbike. Yeah yeah, yeah, no, no, yeah,
yeah you can't. I mean, but you've got to be
to you.

Speaker 1 (48:45):
He should obviously talk to your partner first.

Speaker 2 (48:47):
But I mean, no one's no one's saying he didn't
deserve the motorbile.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
So that's what you were saying. I'm just kidding. I
know you weren't saying that high Anonymous.

Speaker 3 (48:54):
Hi, Anonymous, Hi, you sound like you're still pissed off
about this, Anonymous.

Speaker 1 (49:02):
What did your partner to spend the savings on?

Speaker 9 (49:06):
Well, he spent our savings on a new car, which
we talked about initially and I'd said, nah, that's worse.

Speaker 8 (49:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (49:15):
So that was about two years ago, and very recently
that car shot itself and it's now cost us an
additional eleven grand to fix, and now it's raw again.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
Oh god, have you Anonymous? Tell me? Have you used
the phrase I hate to say? I told you so?

Speaker 9 (49:38):
Yeah, on more than one occasion.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
You got to.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
This is the perfect situation to use it. What sort
of car is this?

Speaker 2 (49:43):
It sounds like one of those dumb car purchases.

Speaker 1 (49:45):
What type of car was it?

Speaker 9 (49:47):
It's a Volkswagon two rack. It's a really nice car,
but it's an old one thing.

Speaker 1 (49:54):
Yeah okay, but everything that goes wrong is like.

Speaker 3 (49:58):
You gotta be careful of those europe seeing cars, Anonymous.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
Everything costs an arm and a leg. Thanks Anonymous. I
didn't want to.

Speaker 3 (50:06):
Yeah, you cut her off, she was saying. That's why
she didn't want him to buy it. She knew.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
Someone teached me my partner has so little fiscal self
disciplined that after ten years together, there is not and
will never be a joint account. I love well Wood.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
Did you know my darling partner blew out?

Speaker 4 (50:25):
Say?

Speaker 1 (50:25):
Oh, that was the one we just talked to.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
Someone else said a few years ago, my dad went
to the motorbike shop to get a second hand farm bike.
He came home with two farm bikes and a brand
new Yamaha Dirt Rate dirt bike.

Speaker 1 (50:35):
Oh that's so expensive.

Speaker 2 (50:37):
Mum saw them on the trailer and she didn't speak
to him for a few days. Is that all just
a few days?

Speaker 3 (50:42):
I relate to that story because I feel like that's
what growing up with a farmer's luck. Dad would bring
something home and then my mom would always buy a
like she'd make a spiteful purchase.

Speaker 1 (50:53):
Oh yeah, like a return sir. She'd be like, all right,
you bought that, No, but I'm gonna go buy this.
And that's true, Love felt.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
We were talking just before about did you blow did
your partner blow their saving finish that sentence, did your
partner blow the savings on a purchase without your permission? Yeah,
and this text came in. My husband spent our savings
on thirty nine pregnant goats, which quickly became a tribe
of nearly one hundred goats. I'm still waiting for my

(51:24):
bathroom to be renovated country life. Hey, you can't put
a price on thirty nine pregnant.

Speaker 1 (51:31):
You can't. You just can't put a price on.

Speaker 2 (51:33):
Nine pregnant goats are the gift that keep on giving.
It is price, It is priceless.

Speaker 8 (51:39):
Birthday.

Speaker 3 (51:40):
Think of all the fetter off, think of it the goats.
Those goats will pay for themselves and not just be delish. Okay,
let's get into birthday Banger, the gift that also.

Speaker 1 (51:49):
Keeps on giving. Number one songs when you turn sixteen.
Rebecca's going first, Cuder, Rebecca.

Speaker 3 (51:54):
I beg hi, Hell are you good?

Speaker 1 (51:56):
Thank you? Mate?

Speaker 3 (51:57):
We're about to you calling from Oh how cold were
here at the moment?

Speaker 1 (52:03):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (52:03):
Pretty cold? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (52:05):
I can imagine there'd be snow on the mountains this time.

Speaker 5 (52:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
I've been watching that TV and Z show New Zealand's
Best Houses and basically every episode they have one that's
either in Queenstown or Wanica, and it just, my god,
it doesn't look real. Took a bit talking about a before.
The scenery in Queenstown is so beautiful. It looks AI generated.

Speaker 1 (52:24):
Yeah. Pretty lucky, Yeah, pretty lucky lucky thing. Beck. Okay, well,
let's do your birthday, Bager.

Speaker 3 (52:29):
What's your date of birth?

Speaker 7 (52:31):
The teenth of June ninety six?

Speaker 3 (52:33):
All right, that means you were sixteen in twenty twelve
and on your sixteenth birthday this was at the top.

Speaker 5 (52:41):
Were stupid? I'm going to show you.

Speaker 2 (52:46):
Speaking of blows, it's Whissel from flow Rider. What are
you rigging, Rebecca? Fun?

Speaker 1 (52:52):
It's fun? Yeah, I was a.

Speaker 3 (52:53):
Bot from Slow Riders.

Speaker 1 (52:57):
Here we go.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
Remember when he randomly followed our producer Claudiats on Instagram
at the end of last year because she.

Speaker 1 (53:05):
Tagged him at the Friday gyms with him creep. Dannielle
is going to go next, cuter, danniel.

Speaker 3 (53:10):
Danniel How are you going?

Speaker 5 (53:12):
Good?

Speaker 1 (53:13):
Thank you? Whereabouts in the country?

Speaker 4 (53:14):
You?

Speaker 1 (53:15):
Oh, the tron on what's the temperature like there at
the moment?

Speaker 7 (53:21):
A little bit called not terrible?

Speaker 1 (53:23):
Not terrible?

Speaker 3 (53:24):
It's good to hear, good to hear. Hey, danniel what
is your date of birth? The second of January nineteen
ninety three? All right, that means you were sixteen and
two thousand and nine, second of genh nine.

Speaker 1 (53:37):
This was at the top.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
Someone tossed the bouquet. That's the player weddings.

Speaker 1 (53:49):
But you'll say you like that song, Dannielle, not bad.

Speaker 3 (53:53):
I'll take that.

Speaker 1 (53:54):
You'll take that. Okay, very huge.

Speaker 2 (53:57):
Yeah, birthday banger for Alicia High Alisha, Hi, Alesha.

Speaker 7 (54:01):
Hey, guys, how are you good?

Speaker 1 (54:02):
Thanks?

Speaker 3 (54:02):
I'm going to guess where you are? Well again, I
want to say I.

Speaker 1 (54:08):
Know where she is. Christ Shirt Dung Alicia, where are you?

Speaker 3 (54:13):
No, I'm in Wellington, wiy Wellie mack bag in the
middle of our two guesses.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
It's a delight to have you on the show. What's
your birthday? Seven?

Speaker 6 (54:24):
Right?

Speaker 3 (54:25):
That means you were sixteen in two thousand and three.
We've done the calculations and this is your birthday.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Begger JT and Rock your Body.

Speaker 3 (54:39):
Pretty Reckoned, Lesha, Love JAT Love j Justin Timberlank.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
Good song. Okay, wait there, we're going to choose between JT,
flow Rider and Beyonce.

Speaker 1 (54:56):
Justin Timberlake. That's my vote.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
I have the naked butt end of this song. Don't
don't discriminate against him because he did drink driving.

Speaker 1 (55:07):
Yeah no, that's we shouldn't judge him for drink drive.
He couldn't help that and putting people's lives in.

Speaker 5 (55:14):
No.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
I was, I was, I was.

Speaker 3 (55:15):
I just always vote based on the feeling I get
from the song.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
You're going for flow writer, aren't you?

Speaker 5 (55:22):
No?

Speaker 1 (55:22):
I know you hate single Ladies. I do.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
No, I don't hate no, I hate the song single
Ladies by Beyonce. Can you please complete you hate the.

Speaker 3 (55:30):
Song Single Ladies by Beyonce? People knew what I meant.
I think I'm voting for it. I know it won't
get Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
Okay, ella, Wait, you're really good at hiding how you
feel about beaches.

Speaker 3 (55:46):
Okay, so what you voted for Single Ladies and rock
your body?

Speaker 1 (55:48):
But you have pickus worry. Don't worry what we voted for.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
But you'll give me the eyes if I get the
wrong one.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
It's up to you.

Speaker 3 (55:55):
Don't let him him giving you the eyes and.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
Make it snappy. Just give me one single lady. You
did bring that on yourself. Yay Danny L. We love
you and you one birthday being a congratulation.

Speaker 9 (56:13):
I'm sorry you got out voted.

Speaker 1 (56:16):
No you're not. We're not.

Speaker 3 (56:20):
Just stop father thing. You decided you've on the trip brother.

Speaker 1 (56:27):
See, I'm your.

Speaker 3 (56:32):
Many attention in the last thing I would want is
for someone to record me having a breakup.

Speaker 1 (56:40):
Oh yeah, like that's my worst nightmare. No one wants that.

Speaker 2 (56:44):
I don't even want to break up near a mirror. No,
you know, I don't want to see that ship either.

Speaker 3 (56:49):
I don't want any part in that, no part in
that whatsoever. But I came across this this video, and
I believe. Look, I feel like you don't hear them
technically break up in the video, but I feel like,
because the woman has posted the video, it's a good
sign that they broke.

Speaker 1 (57:08):
Up because of this.

Speaker 2 (57:09):
Okay, Okay, if they were still in a healthy relationship,
she wouldn't have released this footage.

Speaker 3 (57:14):
No, okay, because I feel like then they would break
up because why would you do that to your partner?
So we I think what you need to know for
the audio is I believe that the couple have been
together for a long time, like maybe five years, like
a significant amount of time, and I believe this video

(57:35):
is taken where they've gone away for a week holiday.

Speaker 1 (57:38):
I think they've gone away for a week.

Speaker 3 (57:40):
Sure, and let's pick up the chat when something she
has done has really annoyed her partner.

Speaker 5 (57:50):
I have to leave the room.

Speaker 3 (57:52):
Because I farted in front.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
Of yousolutely because there's only any good time bathing, but
saying like bloom popping flow in front of it. Okay,
this is this is honestly, please stop, seriously, we have
the room for a whole week, Jason.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
Stop.

Speaker 3 (58:14):
The rental car is in my name?

Speaker 5 (58:16):
Were the air for.

Speaker 1 (58:19):
I'm sorry, Jesus, Okay, this is ridiculous.

Speaker 2 (58:26):
He's going to the airport. He's leaving, He's leaving their holidays.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
He's leaving. He's out over a fart.

Speaker 3 (58:34):
So I think, and what I've kind because I've done
my research and the background info is I believe they've
been together for a significant amount of time, and I
think she has held them in and they that's not
really something that they've done in their relationships.

Speaker 1 (58:50):
She's decided to debut it on holiday or.

Speaker 3 (58:52):
I don't know if it was an accident or she's
just decided no, enough's enough.

Speaker 1 (58:57):
This is this is me now and he's just lost it.

Speaker 2 (59:00):
As someone who lives in a fart free relationship, you
do bring this on yourself a little bit when you
when you go so long without doing it, you know,
like it becomes a whole thing, It becomes way big,
it could becomes totally And I'm not saying that the
way I live my life is right. I'm not saying
the way that you live your life is wrong. I'm
just saying if you have later found a fart free

(59:21):
foundation in your relationship, to then rattle that relationship to
it's core with an unannounced fart, there's going to be
excuse the pun blowback.

Speaker 1 (59:32):
If your wife you get you get home tonight, your
wife drops the guts.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
Would divorcing that and taking taking your kids and getting
them out of that house?

Speaker 2 (59:46):
Absolutely not, In no way whatsoever. Will I be blindsided?
Absolutely will I I'd love Do I know how I
would react and the same the same like if I
walked in and I just cocked a leg and and.

Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
Don't you just want to do it just to see
what happens. I don't know how she would react either.
I don't know how do you want to just to
do it?

Speaker 3 (01:00:06):
Like just as a power will move, just to see
what happens, Like no explanation, no build up, just one
night you get home.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
And you're like, no part of me whatsoever? I know,
just like a power move. Maybe I mate.

Speaker 2 (01:00:23):
Someone takes it and said, in my relationship we fart
and sync. That sounds more like my relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:00:28):
Yeah, just just living free.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
We're going to get out of here. I've got to
go to a pretend ski party. Pretend ski party.

Speaker 2 (01:00:39):
Up pray, ski, Paddy.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
What are you saying? Are you saying to pray? Pray?
What's up prey?

Speaker 3 (01:00:45):
It's a French word pray, Yeah, like apprais all ap
r e s a pr e s pray up pray
What does that even mean?

Speaker 1 (01:00:57):
It means I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
Do you know, let's have a look.

Speaker 2 (01:01:01):
But it's a it's a it's a it's a theme
and it's a style and it's like.

Speaker 3 (01:01:05):
Coming after in time, specifying a period following an activity.

Speaker 2 (01:01:11):
Okay, so uprayed skiers after skiing. So it's like at
the lodge after you've been out skiing for the day.

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
That is the most fancy, fancy way I've heard someone
say at the lodge, Like after.

Speaker 1 (01:01:23):
Ski Yeah yeah, yeah, skiing is fancy.

Speaker 2 (01:01:25):
So the style is like tootlenecks and big fluffy boots.

Speaker 1 (01:01:31):
Yeah yeah, that's do you have you? Are you wearing
young boots?

Speaker 2 (01:01:34):
No, they would have been a good idea. I've only
got grossy old ug slippers for all the sheepskins got
holes with a toes.

Speaker 1 (01:01:42):
Go what is your ski? Do you have a cool
ski kit? Like when you do go skin, I don't
have a ski kit. I don't go skiing. You're missing out.

Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
I just I just if I'm going to go, I'll
hire some stuff, but I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:53):
I don't go. So there's nothing cooler than buying cool
ski gears. I feel like I'm quite a good skier too, So.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
All right mate, I feel like I've got like a
natural aptitude for it.

Speaker 3 (01:02:04):
Do you how many times have you been?

Speaker 1 (01:02:07):
Two or three?

Speaker 4 (01:02:08):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:02:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:02:08):
You are the Black Runs? Yeah I did? Yeah yeah yeah,
just like screw it, I'm a good scale. Let's just
do it byes. I did. I don't believe I did.
I did the Black Diamond.

Speaker 3 (01:02:16):
I don't believe you for one second. If you've been
skiing three times, you would have killed yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:02:23):
I definitely did it? You know what? I okay, let's
go to Kadrona was much younger than.

Speaker 5 (01:02:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
I don't want you to die. I want you here anyway.
That's me Ski Pardy the Black Diamond, Yeah, the Diamond Black.
Don't just read out something you read on the internet.
I think I didn't do it. You did, mate, I
think I did it. I doubt it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:50):
Bricklin ketch you to morrow and

Speaker 1 (01:02:56):
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