Full Show: Cincy is Blessed with Good Juju

Episode Transcript

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When you need to know she's gotyou. It's three things with tip on
well, good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning. Sleep

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has been optional for me, that'sfor sure. All right, let's start
off. It's the eighteenth of June. We're before seven o'clock here, and
huge news coming out the Bengals gatehere for t Higgins. They signed with
the franchise tag for twenty one milliondollars. Ooh. They placed that franchise

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tag on him in February. Hewas not present during Bengals voluntary offseason workouts
or during mandatory mini camp, whichjust wrapped up last Thursday. Higgins did
request a trade from since the earlierthis offseason as he was looking for that
long term contract. I don't quiteunderstand how football works when it comes to
contracts. But he'll be back forthe next season and we'll need him.

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He was signed by the Way withJoe Burrow in the second round of the
twenty twenty NFL Draft. He ranksin the twentieth in receiving yards since the
twenty twenty season and seventeenth in theNFL in touchdown receptions with twenty four and
man, I mean he's got he'sgot ice in his veins. So good

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news, good news, good news, gone that one second, and three
things you need to know this morning. Katie Perry is back and who it
is? Spicy? Let me playa little clip of a song that she
teased and then I'll talk the detailsfor you. Sixty confident, so integent,

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she is head sent, so soft, so strong. That is called
A Woman's Worlds coming out on Julyeleventh. The video the next day.
You can pre save in pre orderand it says get ready to pop off

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at Katyperry dot com and I willbe with you on this. She looks
unbelievable. You can tell that there'sa different air about her. Katy Perry
went through a big cringe phase aboutsix seven years ago. If you remember
that, she just wrapped up AmericanIdol, and I think we're getting Katy
Perry, like Katy Perry was killingit on Super Bowl Sunday back in like

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twenty fourteen or fifteen, took ahot detour towards cringe for a little while,
came back resurrected. So I'm lookingforward to whatever else comes out of
her, Hoping an album, atour in the whole nine yards all right.
Finally, in three things you needto know, I saved it for
last just in case you are nota b Boston Celtics fan. But if

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you've listened to my show before,I have asked you tirelessly for the last
couple of weeks to send your goodjuju to the Celtics. And it worked
because they defeated the Dallas Mavericks oneoh six to eighty eight in Game five.
A sacrifice handling the enormous weight ofmassive expectations ends tonight. Here Jep's

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Oliver. Time to save it again. Boston, anything's possible. Spanner number
eighteen has been secured. The Celticsare NBA champions. I could cry.
I could cry. I could cry. I could cry. You know,

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say what you will about Boston andits sports culture and history. It was
just cool to watch the TV guardenlast night. So for those that don't
know, it was six one sevenday, which is the Boston area code.
On June seventeenth, they won bannernumber eighteen Game five at home.
Couldn't have written it better myself.Honestly, I think the NBA is scripted.
That's how good it was written.And the Boston Celtics also won this

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title twenty years ago. Plus onthe same date in two thousand and eight,
Joe Missoula Head coached the youngest sinceBill Russell to take the w at
thirty five years old. I'll havemore later on the show, but I
wanted to leave you with that andactually just a big thank you because it
was I feel like our collective goodjuju that got the WM. All right,
that is three things you need toknow for the eighteenth of June coming

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up at our next hour. Ihave a feeling you already know where this
is going, but I need youropinion because we need a debrief. One
thousand, twenty seven dollars. Onetwenty seven dollars would you spend that on
this one two day adventure. We'lltalk about why at seven twenty. Best

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to keep listening to Tiff in theMorning is on that free iHeart radio app.
You're waking up with Fifth in themorning. Kiss my God, it

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feels good. It feels good thismorning. Sleep was optional for me last
night. And I have to startoff by saying thank you to all of
Cincinnati because I had asked for atleast a week, maybe even two weeks
in a row for your good juju, and I truly felt it because so
many people in my office came upto me on the streets, came up
to me over the weekend last CoupLayson and said, I saw your videos

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on Instagram, right, you know, I heard the show like you know,
I want the Celtics to win simplybecause you know we're rooting for you.
And we ended up taking the win Game five on six one seven
day at the TD Garden last night. And if you are not a fan,
I appreciate you just giving me anyof the jew the juju that you
had to spare. Appreciate you.So some of the videos are going just

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like insane. At least they're mostlikely not on your timeline, they're on
mine. I think people are stillpartying outside the TV Garden as we speak,
as we would if it was usthat had won a championship right our
Bengals time. It's common, it'scommon. I know it's common. We
just signed T Higgins again. Here'swhat I need from you. And I
think you already knew where this wasgoing. But I checked the flights and

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they are one thousand, twenty sevendollars one thousand, twenty seven dollars for
about a forty eight hour turnaround.Now I don't have the date of when
the championship parade would be. That'swhat I want to go back for,
but it just feels like something Idon't want to miss. But there's this
like little seed of doubt that's livinginside me right now as I grow into

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adulthood on things that I really needto spend that money on, like a
down payment on a home that I'vebeen searching for in Norwood, in Oakley,
in East Walnut Hills and Mount Adamsand all of that. That's that
I have to pay for my dad'slawyer fees, which are starting to stack
up as we estate plan for himtrips for this summer. I mean,

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who doesn't want to have a Europeansummer right in twenty twenty four. All
of these things are starting to stackup in my brain is why I shouldn't
do this, But there's just somethinginside of me that's like, I just
I can't miss it. I can'tmiss it. So if you can,
if you could take, let's takeif you need to, and maybe you're
the best person for this actually becauseyou're like, oh, I hate the

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Celtics. I would never go tothis right, But maybe you're the best
person for this then, because youhave a more clean, unbiased like you've
got a good head on your shoulderson whether or not I should spend the
money and go for it or not. Now here's some things though we don't
know when the day of the paradeis. I'm hearing it like that.
It might be Friday. If itwas Thursday, I could really pull this

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one off. But I would gowhatever the case may be, and the
afternoon, stay for a day andcome back the next day. Because we
have a lot of things to doin Cincinnati this weekend, including our own
pride parade and such. We haveour own parade here that I need to
be a part of. So whenit comes down to things that you love
that you really want to be apart of, what is the highest dollar

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amount that you are willing to spendand should I do it? Should I
spend one thousand dollars on forty eighthours? Who right now in their car
can do the math on how manydollars per minute? That is five pine,
three, seven, four nine,one oh seven one. Do not
leave me out on this island bymyself please friends with the monster, the

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sun of my bed, get onwith the vises, the sun mine.
You try and saydays the bone yourbreath because you're waking up with fifth in
the morning, hun kiss let usseven one, good morning, Good morning.
I'm looking for yes or no answerson whether or not I should spend

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one thousand dollars of my own moneyfor forty eight hours, and you might
be thinking, what on what why? Celtics won the NBA Championship last night.
Thank you for your good juju.And I believe the parade is going
to be on Friday, which wouldmean i'd leave tomorrow and I haven't booked
a ticket yet and it's one thousandbucks. So yes or nose from you?
Five went three, seven, fournine, one oh seven one.

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I'm also talking about buyer's remorse,something that you've purchased and you're like,
oh, this was a nightmare andI spent so much money on it,
or good stories where it really workedout. We'll start with you. You
went to the Derby a couple ofyears ago. Girl, I went to
the Kentucky Derby with all my girlfriendsfor a boutorette party. Okay, and
we paid eight hundred dollars for aDietel room. Then you pay for your

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Derby tickets, and then you payfor your hot and your dress, and
then it turned into the zombie apocalypseand rain the whole time. Oh my
god, you're right. I doremember watching the Derby on television and it
did downpour, it did. Itwas crazy, and then they shut a
tunnel down so you couldn't get outon one side. Nobody knew what to

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do. I ended up before beingback in my room before the Derby then
went off. Oh my god,so buyer's remorse, Yes or no?
I definitely would have not did theend filled again? The next time I
ever get to the Kentucky Derby,it's gonna be endclothes. Yeah, any

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wait, it's going to be whatso where they do it? In the
grands fans reyd got it, gotit, got it, deceiting, got
it, got it, got it, which leads to the next question though,
like, I mean, what's thewhat is the balance of wanting to
have fun, wanting to have experiencesand then these bachelorette parties becoming so much

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like you're automatically out a minimum ofseven to one thousand, No matter what
you do for a bachelorette party,if you go somewhere for it or in
this case, the party, forsure, no matter what I got,
some bounce is just you know,you only live one. You're not gonna
be able to take it with you. Yeah, yeah, why you're young?
All right? Good morning. Ithink it's a Tuesday. I know

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it's a Tuesday because Make a Dateor Break is coming up at eight twenty
ish. That's my guiding light fortoday because I got no sleep last night.
You're waking up with TIF in themorning on Kiss one oh seven one.
We're in the midst. Let meusher you into this conversation if you're
just walking into it of talking aboutbuyer's remorse and whether or not I'll have
it. If I spend one thousanddollars on a flight to Boston for the

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Celtics Championship parade for two days,should I do it? Yes? Or
no? You're on the air high. If it's something you're passionate about.
I think that there's no reason whyyou shouldn't have you spent that type of
money before on anything that you're like, oh man, I really shouldn't do
this, But here I am Ispent about fifteen to sixteen hundred dollars to

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see Pink for one night, soweird go for it, great American,
it was here. It was Yep, it was here in Cincinnati. I
got second road ticket due that wasworth it. Though. That show was
so good, best show that we'vehad here in a long time. Yes,
it was great. Well, remindme go for it all right,
Hey, we've got one go forit this morning. Remind me of your
name. What neighborhood you call mefrom, uh, Taylor, and I'm

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from Bill High. Thank you forthe call, Taylor. I appreciate you.
We're not far off from the threethings you need to know. Coming
up at seven fifty, if Ican have you, we can all take
a little fresh air breath this morning, even though it's a million degrees outside.
That t Higgins has signed, I'llhave that more. Like I said,
coming up at seven fifty, Goodmorning. You're waking up with Tim

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in the morning on kisan O sevenone. So far, I've gotten no
nos on whether or not I shouldbook this thousand dollars plane ticket for forty
eight hours to go back to Bostonfor the Celtics Championship. Parade. But
what about you. You're on theair good morning. I think you should
go ahead and book it, okayingairline p four hour period where you can
change your mind. No, iftomorrow you wake up and decide. You

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know what, I don't think thisis a good idea. It's too much
money. You can cancel it,damn. So if I book it now,
I've got until tomorrow morning show toconfirm whether or not I should actually
stay with the commitment. Yeah,you should go for it. You don't
think a thousand dollars is too much. I mean, it's a lot of

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money, but it's also an experience. You can't really put a price tag
on experience, That's what I'm saying. Meanwhile, there's a price sog and
a tag on everything else in mylife though, right, So go ahead
and slurt on this a little bit. Thank you. What's your name?
By the way, what neighborhood youcalling me from? I'm Tyler. I'm
an imploring thank you for listening toTiff in the morning. I appreciate you
girl. Of course, you guysare the best. I'll let you know

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if I go through with it,But I might put something up on Instagram
to get some more opinions coming up. After Espresso, Sabrina carp and her
spoke out about whether or not shegot Taylor Swift's blessing to be in the
latest Skims campaign that she was in. I'll have that in more than three
things next when you need to knowshe's got you, it's three things with

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tip on kiss when I was sevenone. All right, good morning,
we're just before eight o'clock. Areminder of eight thirty is your first chance
of the morning to win Dan andShaye tickets. So don't go far.
Let's start off with t Higgins.Woo. We signed him for one year,
twenty one million dollars Woo. TheBengals placed a franchise tag on him

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back in February, and he wasn'tat voluntary workouts or the minatory mini camp
which wrapped up last week. Hehad requested a trade earlier this offseason,
but as he was looking for thatlong term contract. But we've got him
for the year at twenty one million. I'm not really one hundred percent sure
on how NFL contracts work. AllI know is it he's coming back,

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baby, and that we got him. I mean, he's got ice in
his veins. So just in caseyou didn't know this, he was drafted
the same year as Broro. Intwenty twenty, he ranks twentieth in receiving
yards and seventeenth in NFL touchdown receptionswith twenty four second and three things you
need to know. Miss Sabrina Carpenter'schalking up the backlash that she faced for

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appearing in Kim Kardashian's SKIMS campaign asessentially nonsense. She made short to Luke
Taylor and I guess in an interviewthat she just did with Rolling Stone.
She essentially said, and I'm kindof paraphrasing it here because they don't have
it in front of me. Thatlisten. I had cleared this with Taylor

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ahead of time. So that's thestory on this is Sabrina opened for Taylor.
Taylor has bad blood with Kim Kardashian. We know that any time something
is popping off, you can prettymuch guarantee that Kim Kardashian will have them
on a SKIMS ad within a week. And that rat. That's like I've
been at the forefront of this foryears, saying the Swifties, we do

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not forgive, we do not forgetand then with that being said, the
latest person to join the skims campaignis Bridgerton's Nicola Coughlin. You'll know her
from this season. Everybody's wearing skims, all right. That is three things
you need to know for the eighteenthof June. Congrats to my Celtics coming
up at eight twenty. Make aDate or Break It's where relationships and therapy

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come together. We're going to startthis conversation on Instagram right now, but
if you have a question, you'remore than welcome to join us. Next,
it's time to make a date orbreak on Tip in the morning.
This is our normal Tuesday routine,but if it is new to you,
welcome to the party. Make aDate or Break is where relationships and therapy

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come together on my show. Andno question is too out of pocket for
Lori sharp Page. Who is ourlicense, Yes, our licensed clinical accounts.
You're more than welcome to hit usup on multiple platforms, whether that's
Instagram or phone calls, whatever thecase may be. You're stuck in traffic,
so you're going to do like aride or die session with us on
the phone this morning. Rider thattherapy absolutely, I think the most common

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question that I get when we startdoing this segment every single time is about
ghosting. And of course that's whywe do this is because that's what started
the segment, was the ghosting.Mm hmm, yeah, sure is.
It's such a It's something that happensso much, and it causes a lot,
a lot of feelings on all thesides. So Holly is a typical

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listener of the show, and shewas dming me and she said, Okay,
I've been ghosted three plus times andI'm over it. Most recently was
yesterday. Not sure what I'm doingwrong or how to find a non ghostly
dude. I just want to enjoytime with them, cook a steak up,
enjoy some snuggles. How hard isthat? It's impossible? Apparently?

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Oh that sounds so nice. I'msorry she's having such a hard time finding
that she deserves that. Who doesn'twant to do a steak in steak and
snuggles? So so nice? Sothoughts on this? So I think the
first thing is like try and Iknow it's hard not to, but try
not to make it about you.And what I'm saying about this is that

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somebody ghosting you is a poor behavior. That reflects on them, and we
take it personally. I certainly understandhaving been ghosted myself. It's not as
easy as just don't take it personally, but really try and remember that that
behavior reflects on them, it doesn'treflect on you. And as far as
how you find somebody who wants steaksand snuggles and honestly honest conversation, because

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often when people ghost, it's becausethey don't want to have the difficult conversation.
They don't want to explain what they'refeeling, or they don't feel like
they can, and so they justdon't do it, which hurts them at
her to you, and as we'vetalked about, it hurts the greater dating
scene, which is why we're doingthis. So I think what one thing
that you can do is always practicehaving those conversations, even the small,

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difficult conversations. I know this ishard when you're first getting together, but
the more you practice it, themore likely you're going to be able to
have those conversations in the future andthe less likely you are to get ghosted.
Now, you also need to knowwhen somebody can match that energy for
you, and if they can't matchthat energy, then there's a chance that
they may do this to you,and if you don't want them to do

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this to you, then it's probablytime for you to take it assertive move
first, My black and white brainis thinking like, oh, I want
like a black and white answer likethis to avoid ghosting. This is what
you do it. And you're sayingthere's no perfect science here, but I
need you to like give me somesort of perfect science. Well, I
totally understand. I mean, Ithink the perfect science is to probably lead

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with this from the get go issay that my expectation is that you won't
ghost me and that we we willhave conversations. But there is no perfect
way to prevent this. And oftentimesthe ones that really hurt the most are
the people that you never it neveroccurred to you that they would ghost,
and they just do. Dude,you set it best right there. All

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right, Well, I hope thathelps LORI or helps it. I hope
LORII helped Holly on that one,because I'm just I don't know. Yeah,
it's tough, but don't give up, Holly. You'll find that steak
and smuggle. I know you will, all right. LORI Sharpage is our
licensed clinical counselor with make a Dateor break coming up next. If you

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have a relationship and you want itto last, there are five big tips,
but there was one on that listthat I definitely picked up. Well,
we'll talk about that next. Havea question get up at Tis Potter
on Social Good Morning. You're wakingup with tip in the morning on Kiss
one oh seven one. If youforgot that it's Tuesday, well then let
me remind you. It's make aDate or break day where therapy relationships come

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together on my show and you decidewhether or not you're going to make your
next date or break it off,whether you're newly dating, married, maybe
live together for a while. LoriSharpage is our licensed clinical counselor and practicing
therapists. The top five ways,what was it like? Verbatim? If
you want okay, if you wantyour relationship to last, do these five

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things? Do these five things?I want you to pick your favorite,
because we're not going to have timeto get to them all. But I
want you to pick your favorite,and I'll pick mine absolutely. So my
favorite from the list is a simplething that I think we forget about a
lot, especially if we've been ina long term relationship, and that is
to have fun together. It can'tbe all seriousness, it can't be Particularly

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if your relationship's going through a roughpatch. You need to be able to
find spaces and time to let looseto have fun together. And the reason
for that is because when we havefun, we get all those feel good
you know, chemicals like dopamine andoxyto, and they help build the foundation
of relationship. And if we neglectto do that, we're neglecting basically our

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self care of our relationship. It'simportant to have fun with the people that
we love so we can build newmemories and resilience for dealing with the rough
patches. So let me just putthis example out there because I know that
this happens. Is what if you'rejust so angry or annoyed with your significant
other and it's just like constantly irritated, constantly annoyed with them, and like
you cannot put that aside to havefun, what do you do there?

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Well, if that's the situation,then I think then we have to get
real about is there anything that wouldhelp you take a little vacation from that
irritation, Because if not, thenyou can't force yourself to have fun.
So if you find yourself always irritableand unable to have fun in your relationship,
that's a sign of a bigger conversationand something larger that needs to be

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addressed. But if you can say, you know what, this is really
irritating me, it's really bothering me. This conversation is not done. But
I'm going to pack the away forthe day and go and have a fun
day and come back to it.That's the key, is coming back to
it. We don't want you tosweep it under the rug. That doesn't
work either. But being able tosay, you know what, I'm going
to take a little break from thisfeeling and go and focus on having some

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good time with my partner and comeback to it is an't okay strategy.
Vacation from irritation. Let's put thaton a T shirt. Yes, I'm
gonna pick my favorite. And bythe way, if you're just walking into
it, these are the five bestways to Why do I keep blanking on
this article title? I have noidea why it's the If you want your

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relationship to last, do these fivethings. The one that sticks out to
me is preserve positive illusions. Aboutyour partner. I'm gonna let you speak
on that one. Absolutely. Sowe do have to be mindful about how
we talk about our partner to ourselves, just like how we talk about our
own self. Talk, right,it has an influence. And if we're

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always telling ourselves that someone doesn't loveus, or they don't care, or
that they are a good person,whatever it may be, our brain starts
to believe that over time, youhave to be able to hold the fact
that this person is special and willcontinue to be special even when they are
irritating or not doing things exactly howyou want to. This is part of

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how you love them is by seeingthem as the full person and continuing to
build that sense of love within howyou talk about them to yourself and even
to others. M. I forgetwho the caller was that we had a
couple of weeks ago, but he'slike, I always feel like I'm just
disappointing my wife. Always remember that, Yeah, yeah, I do.
That sounds like a good example ofit. Yes, absolutely, And I

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think that you know, like toughfeelings do happen in a relationship. It's
about how much emphasis we put ourfocus on when we're thinking about it and
reflecting on it well. Laurie Sharpageis our licensed clinical counselor. She's in
this spot every single Tuesday on Tiffin the morning. Questions come up all
the time. Instead of burying them, you can either shoot me a DM

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reach out to her directly at theCoping Queen on Instagram. She's got a
book that I've read cover to coverand I love it. It's about conscious
coping and it helped me, especiallywhen I went through the split with the
finance guy a little while ago,and that is the reason why we started
this segment. Laurie, I appreciateyou as you know it. And today
we're gonna do Dan and Shay tickets. So what's our keyword, Lurie.
It's the same every time. It'smaking or break all right, Dan Shay

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tickets coming next, girl. Iappreciate you. Thank you. When you
need to know, She's got you. It's three things with tip on.
Alrighty, good morning. We're justbefore nine o'clock. A reminder that that
heat advisory or warning is in effectfor the next several days. It was

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hot yesterday, it's hot right nowand it will feel like that over the
next couple. It's going to indexto about one hundred as we progress through
the den. Let's start off withT Higgins. My brother even texted me
about this yesterday, that he hassigned the franchise tag for twenty one million
dollars in the year of twenty twentyfour. So I guess the Bengals put
the franchise tag on him in February. Since then, he was not president

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at the Bengals voluntary offseason workouts orduring the mandatory mini camp which just wrapped
last week. Higgins requested that tradeor from the Bengals earlier this offseason because
he's looking for the long term contract, but we signed him for the franchise
tag. I am saying words thatI don't necessarily understand what they mean.
I just know that T Higgins he'scoming back. I mean, he's got

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ice in his veins. Him andJoe Burrow both signed in twenty twenty.
I didn't know this either. Heranks twentieth in receiving yards and seventeenth in
the NFL touchdown receptions at twenty fourAll right, second in three things you
need to know. This morning,Ariana Grande released the music video for The

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Boy is mine and it's got PennBadgeley in it. You'll know him from
you, and she brought on Monicaand Brandy, who did the original song
of this, to be in themusic video. I'm sorry that it's such

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a good song, but fans arekind of spiraling on the internet, and
I really understand why because she didan interview with Penn Badge Lee on his
podcast and listen to her voice change. That's how I felt. I was
like, what has happened? That'sthe only thing I thought. That's how
I felt. I was like,what has happened? Yeah? I know,

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but yeah, I've been writing alot and maybe there's some more,
but I would like to do adeluxe at some point. Like listen to
how different that is. I'll playit for you one more time. That's
the only thing I thought. That'show I felt. I was like,
what has happened? Yeah? Idon't know, but yeah, I've been
writing a lot. Maybe there's somemore, but I would like to do

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a deluxe at some point. Wow, that was not ai, guys,
I witnessed that come out of hermouth. There it is all right.
Finally, three things you need toknow this morning post Malone. We've we've
lost him in the rap world.We've lost him in the pop world because
he is just fully sent on overto country. He's he teased the song
That's made for Dads and That's allI Have for you. He captured the

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video with Happy Father's Day. Whyfor the first dress it was a half
She's mine everything. We both loveher forever, find up to alone,
move won howgive her way? Buddy? I don't mean she's yours, So

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I guess the song is gonna betitled she Isn't Yours. But this is
how artists are talking about new musicnow. They just put up a tease
on Instagram. They say one lineand we have no details on when it's
coming. That is three things youneed to know for the eighteenth of June.
Coming up next Abbey from Everything,since he has the one big thing
happening in Cincy that you cannot missthis week, don't go far. Best

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way to keep listening is on thefree iHeart Radio app. I was like,
what has that happened? Yeah,yeah, I've been writing a lutton Maybe