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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Gibile Show on demand. It's time War of the
Roses only on The Gibil Show.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lisa is on the phone today for War of the
Roses to catch a cheater, and she thinks that her
boyfriend named Tom, they've been together for five years, might
be messing around. Lisa, thank you for thank you for
your email. Thank you for coming on the show. It's
always hard to do this segment, but obviously we're trying
to help you out. And I'm sure you're kind of
at the end of your rope. That's why you emailed us.
Tell us what's going on.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I really appreciate you guys giving me the opportunity.
So what's been going on is, like you said, my
partner and I have been together for five years, and
to me, I feel like he's just becoming a lot
more distant than yoursual And whenever he receives calls, he's
always super harsh when he receives them.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
So like, describe what happens? What do you mean by that?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
So whenever he picks up calls, he always says it's work,
but he always has to go into the next room
or he like noticeably lowers his voice when he has.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Is it okay, so he's hiding his conversations from you?
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah, it was never really like that before.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Could it be like a work thing?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
He always says his work.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
And you're sure that he's like hiding the conversation.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
It really does feel that way because he has changed
his voice so much to answer these particular work calls.
I swear he never used to do that before.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Have you asked him about it?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Or is there anything else that's happening that makes you
feel like, aside from those phone calls that he could
be cheating.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
On you, just as distant behavior that I had previously mentioned.
And yes, I have definitely brought it to his attention
and he tells me that I'm overreacting.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Okay, that's not a good sign when people say you're overreacting,
And usually like a good sign in that situation is
if they hear you out and then respond to reassure
you that nothing's going on right. Hey, it's a bad
sign if they say you're being dramatic, you're overreacting, and
then or if they have like a reaction that is
(02:00):
angry or something to get you to kind of like
shut up, you know, like usually that's a sign of
somebody doing something.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, thankfully he hasn't gone angry at anything. But he's like, Oh,
I think you're just making the loop too much into.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
It again Devil's Advocate.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Maybe he's just got something else going on that's not
cheating that he is hiding from you. It sounds like
something is being hidden, but it might not be another person,
So that would be the hope, right, they will be
the hope.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Like, how have things been when your relationship or things
different than they've been normally. You guys have been together
for five years, so that's a long time. I mean,
you obviously know each other very well.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
I definitely believe I know him very well.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
It's just this recent behavior has any kinds of you know,
because it's been extremely recent, like only a couple of
months now, and he was never like that before.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
So not to get too much into your business, but
are you guys intimate?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I were still intimate. That has not changed at all.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
We still go.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Out regular together, we still see friends, we have mutual friends,
things of that nature.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
So when he when you're out with friends, does he
get these phone calls that he needs to hide from you?
Or is it only when you guys are at home
or during certain hours, those calls.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Have also happened. We were out with friends too.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
This is a new thing.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
It's literally been match three months.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Okay, yeah, I mean that is kind of suspected.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
But like what other call would you always have to answer,
like if the phone rings and you need to excuse yourself, Like,
I mean, you didn't say anything about this, but if
he was like a sponsor to somebody, I could see
not missing a call, you know, to be there for somebody.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Eve had answering his own parents or other relatives, like
they all know me already.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
So I was not going to hide, right, So, but
it definitely seems like he's hiding something.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Mm hm, I feel like to me.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Okay, all right, well we'll see if we can figure it out.
Then you already told us what a grocery store he's
a rewards card member at. So we'll do the usual
and call from there and say that every single month,
which was one rewards card member at random who gets
free flowers delivered from our brand new floral department. We'll
see he sends them to you or somebody else. Okay, okay,
thank you, all right, we'll play a song Come Back
and Get Your War The Roses to Catch You Acheater. Next,
(04:07):
right in the middle of war the Roses to Catch
a Cheater, and Lisa is on the phone. She thinks
that her boyfriend of five years named Tom might be
cheating on her, So we're about to call him and
see if he is, if we can catch him. And
before we make the phone call, Leasea, why don't you
just remind everybody why you think Tom might be cheating?
Speaker 3 (04:24):
So I've become suspicious on my boyfriend's behavior because he's
been answering the phone and being very hush when he
picks up the phone. Sometimes he leaves the room, so
he's just been generally distant, and he.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Was never like that before.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
All Right, So we're about to call him, and we're
gonna pretend to be from the grocery store that he
shops at and say that every single month, we choose
one Roards card member at random, we gets free flowers
delivered from our beautiful, brand new thoral department, and we're
doing delivery now. So we'll tell him that and see
if he buys that load of crap, And if he does,
then we'll see who he sends the flowers to either
you or someone else. All right, Lisa, A you for
us to call him?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I am all right?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Here we go.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Is this Tom?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah, this is Tom Tom. How are you? This is
Jorbin from I was calling to let you know that.
Congratulations you're this month's winner.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Hey, hey what what?
Speaker 7 (05:25):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
What did I win?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
The flowers? Of course? Aren't you excited?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
Flower like like Marijuan?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Uhm, No, we don't give that away. I wish we could, though,
What what is it? What is this conversation? I'm calling
from the grocery store where you're Awards card member.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Okay, we're doing a thing.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I don't know if you saw. Every single month we
choose one Awards Card member at random to say thank
you very much for shopping with us and being a
loyal customer. You just want thirty six long stem red roses,
a box of chocolates and hard to be delivered anywhere
in the United States for free. It's actually a three
hundred and eighty dollar value.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Okay, okay, okay, okay. Relatically, I'm gonna give you an
address and you send it to it.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I will absolutely do that. Are these going to you?
I just need to put a name on it as all.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I want them to go to Rosemary. Okay, Rosemary, Rosemary.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
She lives in Florida.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
I can I'll call you guys back to get the
address for it.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
But it's Rosemary.
Speaker 6 (06:31):
That's my grandmother.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Oh okay, that's her grandma.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
I think she'll enjoy a little more than any woman
I can meet in the world.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Okay, and it is there any love interest? You might
want to send some flowers to two. We can maybe
hook you up on that with an extra bouquet.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Oh you will give me a double up?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I mean, why not? Sure? You know your shop here
all the time? Yeah? Sure, Well, I.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Mean it's a girl. I kind of like her, but
she's kind of ugly a little bit.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Oh okay, Tom, are you drinking again?
Speaker 4 (07:06):
You sound like you've been hanging off the night train.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
This is actually the Jubil Show. This is Jubil.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Hi, Hi, Nina, I'm here too, Victoria.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
I love y'all, man, y'all.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
You too.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I don't know what's going on though, I.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Can't understand your grandmother.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
But who is the girl that's a little bit ugly?
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I want to know that too. It's just it's just
it's just.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
Something to like a little bit ugly. She like real ugly.
She's just a little bit like Lisa.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
I'm so sorry because I don't think right now we're
gonna get what we need out of time.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Yeah, we're all right. Whoa, whoa.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
No, I'm just trying to make you stupid. I just
wanted to make you stupid. It's good when it's stupid,
you know, you.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Want to know.
Speaker 6 (08:09):
No, hammered, No, I'm not drinking at all. I mean,
I'm just like, I'm just trying to make you stupid.
You feel me to make you cool.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You're drunk.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
So are you out with your buddy night train? Lisa
says that you go drinking with.
Speaker 6 (08:27):
Yeah, we're together right now.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Okay, so Lisa, there's your answer. I don't know what's
going on.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
I don't either, at least I finally, i'd be pretty mad,
but right now this was an entertaining conversation.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
Yeah, I am an idea. He is like this when
he's drunk.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
At least at least he's a I don't.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
I don't, I'm not. I'm not trying to bother anybody.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Well, no, we bothered you, we called you. You're in
the middle of enjoying your afternoon with night train, you
know what I mean? So, Tom, are you cheating on
your girlfriend? I just have to ask you. I'm just asking.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Yeah, yeah, we go, we go.
Speaker 4 (09:02):
That's a body. Yeah, yeah we are?
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Are you for real? Come on? You ever wants to know?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Man?
Speaker 6 (09:08):
Oh No, I'm not really chean. I'm just having sake
sometimes other.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I'm I'm laughing.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
I don't know what to do.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I don't think he is. I mean I think he's now,
he's just messing with us.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
No, I'm not feeling like it's not all the time.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
It's just like part time at Lisa.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
I don't feel good about this.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Yeah, I don't know because I don't know if you're
joking or not. I really don't.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You know.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I'm serious, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I'm just part time cheating.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
That means it's like sometimes I have sexual another woman,
and then sometimes I won't. I'm just trying to make
you funny, that's all.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Like.
Speaker 6 (09:54):
I'm a comedy.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I'm a comedy That's.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
What I do for a living. I'm a comedian.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
So like I'm he's trying to per Okay, so are
you cheating on your girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Damn, I mean what are you wanting me?
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yes, I know. We'll let you get back to hanging
out with Night Train and then Lisa wants to talk
to you later. Lisa, I just don't know about him
because I don't know if we're going to get anywhere
with that.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Yeah, me neither.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
I think he's really been founding the Butterweiss a little
too much. Well, you know what, at least I actually
am pretty sold on the fact he is not cheating
on me. But I think he's associating with someone I'm
just not fond of.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
And that's why now he's been so secretive.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
That's what you got out of that.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Yes, that explains why he's been hiding to who he's
talking to on the phone.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Night Train got to be in town.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
They love to go out to drink together, and I
hate that, damnit night Train.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
At least you know he's not cheating. He's just hanging
out with Night Training again right now?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Yeah? Is that what you said?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Once you find out, once you have a once he
solver's up and you have a conversation with him, let
us know for sure. If you guys get to, you know,
the bottom of it, good luck.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
I will definitely never let you know.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
All right, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
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