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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Gwinn is on the phone today for to Catch a
Cheater and she's been married to her husband John for
two years, but now she thinks something might be going on,
so we'll see if we can help her out.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Gwinn, what's going on? Why do you think your husbands cheating?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Well, it's been you know, a good two years so far,
and I've got.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
A clothing business that's really just taken off, so I
can spend.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
A little bit of time at home.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
And my husband, John, he just started culinary school and
he's working his butt off and he's always had.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
A drive for it. He's totally excited about it, and
I want to be there to support him in any
way I can.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
And I'm also really glad that I can support him
while he finishes school.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
You know. So again, things have been pretty good.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's just that ever since he started these classes in school,
she hasn't been necessarily absent when it comes to us,
but like a little bit more standoffish, you know, like
he's super focused and wants a little bit more than
just finishing the school.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
He wants to just knock it out of.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
The park and he's just focused on everything other than us,
you know. And there's also this you know, other dynamic
where there's this girl in this class named April.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
She's cute, mousey and sort.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Of the arts, you know, and I know he likes her.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
She actually came over one night, you know, so they
could work on a project for school together, and they
made this amazing seared fish and you know.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
It was really good, so hard to be mad, but
you know.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
While they were cooking together, they seemed a little cozy,
you know, and.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
It just it's sort of sent off some alarms in
my head.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
Like I was like, that's a little bit too cozy
for my taste, you know, get your hands off, my mate.
So I let it go, you know, but just decided
it's a good idea to.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Maybe keep an eye on that.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
And then I started to notice that he was getting
these weird texts at like all hours, you know, sometimes
even late at night. And I don't want to be
the jealous type and like immediately jump to conclusion, but
in the back of my mind, I'm like, I know
it's that girl.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
I know it is.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Oh. So I asked him one night, like where are
these texts coming from? Who is this? You know? We
were watching a movie and I was like, I can't
take it anymore. I just need to know. And he
got really annoyed, like she you know.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
When I asked, he you know, and he's like, look,
it's this April. She's got some school stuff she sent
me and you know, it's nothing, no big deal. So
I was like, okay, you know again, I didn't want
to start a random fight. Didn't want to be like
the total jealous type, not just two years into the marriage.
But it bothers me so much. And I know him
and he loves me, and I don't feel like she
(02:55):
would cheat on me. But ever since he started these
classes and hanging out with her, it's like.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
He's turned into almost a different guy, you know.
Speaker 6 (03:04):
I just wonder if this is one of those situations
where it's like April's not clearly seeing what boundaries are
and is just kind of trying to make her way in,
and maybe she is actually flirting with your man, like
your read probably was right. I just I mean, what
are the chances you think that your man actually would
cross that line? And he probably feels good getting attention
from somebody I mean, jubil doesn't it always feel good
(03:24):
regardless if you're in a relationship. If somebody's crushing on you.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
I'm different with that. I don't like it. If they
know I'm in a relationship, I don't like it. That's true.
It's disrespectful. Okay. I could see that he.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Didn't bothered him very much, you know, I mean honestly,
like I was just like a wallpaper, I should say.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
I'm also very unaware if people are flirting with me too,
so I wouldn't even probably know.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
Do you think that your man would know if somebody
was flirting with him, Gwen, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Sometimes you don't know what I'm flirting with.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah, exactly. I'm the same way.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
So I've been in situations like that before, Like they're
flirting with I'm like, what just having a conversation out?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Taking my shirt off? What are you talking about?
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Right?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
The woman always know? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
All right, Well we'll see if we can figure it
out for you. You told us what grocery store you
guys are awards card members at, So we'll play a song,
come back and then call him and pretend to be
from the grocery store and say that every single month,
one random reward card winner gets the free flowers delivered
from our flooral department.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
We'll see if he sends us to you or to April, okay,
or to somebody else. Okay, play us.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Song, come back, get your to Catch a Cheater next.
Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if
you're just joining us, Gwinn is on the phone and
she thinks that her husband of two years named John
might be cheating. So in a second, we're going to
call him and pretend to be from the grocery store
(04:45):
that they are awards card members at and say that
he's this month's lucky winner of thirty six long stimber
red roses to be delivered to anybody that he wants.
Will see if he sends him to Gwin, his wife,
or to somebody else. But before we do that, Gwinn,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
So he started culinary school and he's really into it,
and you know, he's just sort of become a different person,
super focused on that, and you know, a little less
absence from me and the marriage, so to speak. And
there's always a third dynamic. You know, her name is
April and she's killed and our say she actually came
(05:21):
over one night and they were cooking together, and they
were super like communicative with each other, you know, almost physically,
to the point where I was like, this could be
a problem for me. And then all of a sudden,
he starts getting these texts at all hours of the night,
you know, NonStop.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
And when I asked him.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
About it, he got super defensive and like was like,
it's no big deal, It's just April blah blah blah.
And I just feel like he's a different guy and
it's sort of suspect.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Yeah, here we go.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Hi, this is Jorable calling from I was looking for
our Rewards card member name John.
Speaker 5 (06:06):
I guess this is Hee. What can I do for John?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm actually calling with some good news. Congratulations. Here this
month's big winner.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Okay, big winner of what?
Speaker 7 (06:18):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Every single month you might not know.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member at
random to say thank you very much for shopping with
us and thank you for being such a loyal customer
by gifting you thirty six long, slim red roses to
be delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the
fifty United States, and a card to be delivered to
anybody that you want.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
That's great, okay, So, like, do I have to come
in or like?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
That is one option. The other options are if you
know who you want to send them to. I can
also take the information over the phone.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
Oh no, I absolutely know who I'm going to send
them to.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Oh great, I've got my form pulled up here. First,
I would need the first and last name of the
person that you would like to send them to.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
It's going to be cool when.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And is there anything you would like to put on
a card? Would like to send a card with it?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Well, so it's going to my wife.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Oh and I.
Speaker 8 (07:10):
Often describe her to other people as the light of
my life for a reason. You know, like she is,
she's smart, she's beautiful, she's so supportive of me.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
You know what happened with me?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I was I started taking the culinary school, and then
I was this other girl in the class and her
and I started getting hot and heavy.
Speaker 8 (07:31):
Oh goody, I'm actually in culinary school right now.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
That's interesting.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Ope, her name's not Ah, that's John. This is actually
this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.
My name's Jubil. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Hi, I'm Nina.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Hi, I'm Victoria, and your wife Gwynn is actually on
the phone.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
We do a segment on the show called Got You Cheater?
Wherever you think your significant other might be sleeping around,
we can try to catch them.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
So that's what this is.
Speaker 8 (08:06):
What so you're calling me because do you think my
wife is shooting?
Speaker 5 (08:12):
No?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Actually, I was a little bit nervous because all of
a sudden, you have this friend April.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
She comes over to the house. You're cozy, cozy all
the time, and she sends.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
You these texts like at weird hours of the night,
and you get completely distracted and you're super focused on
finishing school.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
And I just was a little bit nervous, to be
quite honest. Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 8 (08:38):
I feel real bad that you. I wish you'd come
and talk to me about this before we got to it.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I mean, I've asked you about the text before, and
I felt like you just kind of were annoyed and
blew it off, you know, So, I mean I just
didn't know what to think honestly, because we just haven't
had much time for each other.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
And you're, like I said, super focused on school, which
is great, but I don't want you to be super
focused on April.
Speaker 8 (09:04):
I'm sorry if I came across as annoyed when you
were asking me about.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
The text messages.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
It's embarrassing to admit, but I didn't want you.
Speaker 8 (09:12):
To feel disappointed in me because I've been throwing behind
in class recently, and you know, like you've been so
supportive about me, you know, getting my assignments done and
doing this, and you know how much I love spend
time in the kitchen. I just really didn't want you
to feel disappointed. So I've been Yeah, I've been talking
(09:34):
to April, but you know, she's been kind of like
a big sister to me because she's been helping me
out with assignments and she's been sending me like recipes
and stuff like that, and you know, as much as
I'm getting done in the class on my own, you know,
she's been like a real lifeline.
Speaker 7 (09:51):
Right.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Well, I couldn't be disappointed in you. I mean, I
love you, But does April know that she's like a big.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
Sister I mean beautiful.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
I mean well, I mean they're gay, so well okay,
I mean like like not to put her business out there,
but like I'm pretty certain she has no interest in me.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Gwyn thought that she was kind of flirting when she
saw you guys hanging out.
Speaker 8 (10:18):
No, I mean like she you know, we've been we're close,
but like when you're in the kitchen, like you try
to have as much fun as you can, you know,
even though it's kind of like an intense environment, you know, so.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
Like you will get playful, but like we never at
least for me, there's never been anything there, is it?
Speaker 7 (10:37):
John?
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Your wife, he was really worried.
Speaker 8 (10:40):
Yeah, I'm like again, I feel bad though, because I
don't want her to worry about me or with any woman.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Oh good, well it sort of changes everything.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Knowing you know that apols preferences not men because you know,
they just say flirt, but it's not real flirting. So
that makes me feel so much better. You know, it's
it's or what's the what's the term I'm looking for.
It's just it's not dangerous party platonic. Yeah, I'm sorry,
I you know, just doubted you. But the text thing,
(11:12):
you know, to like late at night and whatever, and
you just get so distracted.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
It just bothered me.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
So no, like I.
Speaker 8 (11:19):
Said, I can, I'll be more than happy to show
you the text messages, but they're all just recipes.
Speaker 5 (11:26):
You know. She's really been to help me carry through.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Yeah that's wrong. Yeah goodness.
Speaker 4 (11:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:37):
I mean, if anyone's a danger in the house, it
would more likely be you than me.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Like she would be a danger because like the girl
would come under her and not him.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I thought he was saying she was more likely to cheat.
I was like, that's right, I get it now. It
sounds like you guys are going to be.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
Just fine, I hope.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
So yeah, I'm sorry, honey.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
I love you again me to be you know, I
didn't want to be that girl, but like I love
you and I'm jealous, So yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (12:09):
Love you too.
Speaker 8 (12:10):
You know, Like I was gonna when I thought this
was hard, Flowers, I was going to tell them to
write that you're the spice of my life, and I
mean that you know, everything about you makes me a
better person, make me cry, so you will show to
catch a cheater