SPEAK ON IT with calls - What Ruined Your Friendship?

SPEAK ON IT with calls - What Ruined Your Friendship?

Episode Transcript

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Welcome to another episode of the BigBoy Speak podcast. Big Boy's Neighborhood Annie
is up in here an what yougot Big? I read this thread on
and read it, and I thoughtsome of the answers were really juicy,
but I could also relate to someSomebody asked people who fell out with their
best friend or their close friend,what killed your friendship Big? One of

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the comments I read, I waslike, all right, this is kind
of petty, but it's also sad. Somebody said, I stopped texting my
friend to see how long it wouldtake her to reach out. I was
always the one that would text first. It's been four years that they haven't
talked. Big. Somebody else wenton to say, you know, of
course you have like the things whereit's like, oh she stold my boyfriend,
or like they ended up dating.I feel like I saw that a
lot, right, But then Isaw somebody else that just said we had

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one argument. Then he busted outa list of everything that bothered him about
me. Oh he can't, andhe just she said that was it.
Kind of I didn't know that ourfriendship was that bad, but then I
thought about it. I'm like,I'm sure everyone in the neighborhood also has
a friend that they stopped talking to. I know, I do have a
friend that I saw talking to.I had people that I stopped talking to.
Then you have something that's just likeback burner, you know what I'm
saying. But but I'm just ina place man, where if you don't

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add anything to me and I don'tadd anything to you, then I don't.
We don't need to exist, youknow what I'm saying, Like,
I don't need to waste time.I don't need to run after you for
friendship. Like I'm cool. Butdo you ever like maybe regret losing your
friend or wish that you had thatfriend back if you did stop talking.
No, because if the person isgone, you know, they're gone.

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Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And I think, and this is
good, just be me, youknow, thinking the highly of myself.
But any relationships that I don't haveanymore, it's usually on the other person,
you know, it's usually on theother person. When I say usually,
I say about one hundred percent.Yeah that's right. But think like

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these friendships when you do break upwith people or friends, right, I
feel like sometimes it's worse than abreakup. It really hurts because you keep
going back to a friend, probablyfriendship more than a relationship. Yeah,
and you'll give them probably more passes, so on and so forth. So
we want to get into it aswell. What ruined your friendship? What
ruined your friendship? Louis, pleaseshare a piece of a call to you.

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Oh, I just got a callfrom a guy named Stubb, and
he said he had a twenty fiveyear relationship with the friend man and it
got ruined by the wife's cousin,right, And I asked him how did
it happen? And he said,man, I don't even I don't really
know, all right, So callus up if you know, because the
question is what ruined your friendship?Alrighty? We don't want to tell you
what ruined your friendship? Like yougive us a story and then we said,

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well maybe it was this, Sowhat ruined your friendship? Alrighty?
So know what ruined it? Allright? Let's let's bring be in and
what's his name? Stuff? Soif you're listening, please listen to what
B is about to say, andthen you can follow these guidelines right here,
B Hello, Hello, Hello there, b B. What ruined your

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friendship. Oh, So I hada friend that we were friends for like
fifteen years, and I had noidea. I guess she was like harboring
all this resentment for my relationship,so I have her to do a favor
and do a photo shoot for someoneelse for a pregnancy photo shoot. She
kind of ghosted me for four monthsand I had no idea what was going

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on. When she finally responded tomy text message, she was like,
well, why don't you worry aboutyour own relationship and your guy sleeping around
with all these other girls before botheringme in my life? And I was
like, where did that even comefrom? Like, I've spoken to you
in like five months and this isjust what she hit me with. I
was like, Okay, don't beyour friend anymore. Right, So was

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your guy sleeping around? Did sheknow something that you didn't know? No?
At the time, my day daddyand I had actually separated because I
had found out he had slept withsomebody, so we weren't living together.
We weren't together at the time,but he's the father of both my kids,
so we did, you know,keep talking, right? We eventually
moved back in. So when shesaid that we were already living together and

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everything was already fine. So Iwas like, why are you so mad?
Damn? I heard that, andso so the way that you know,
you look at a text message,so it went like, hey,
they want you to do a photoshoot. Then the next text was like
why don't you work? And fourmonths later and I was trying to get
the pictures back, but she justwent ghosts on me when I was trying

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to actually get the pictures, andthat message that I got was like I
lost the memory card. Enjoy yourlife, worry about your dude and his
problem? Damn I heard that.Why was she upset about your dude?
Alrighty, hey, but she didn'tsleep? What you're dude? Right?
That's okay? All right? Areyou Are you still what you're doing?
She's his side? Are you stillwhat? You're great? Now? We

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actually were asking when you ask himwhen you get home if you ever slept
with her? But don't tell him. I said, all right, we're
gonna bring Lexi into the neighborhoods.He was going down with Lexi sexy Lexie.
Hello, Hello, hello there,Lexie? What ruined your relationship?
Well, your friendship? My lesbiancousin. All right, now, what

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did your lesbian cousin do to ruinyour friendship? Well, basically she turned
my best friend out. Yeah yeah, So essentially we were best friends for
thirteen years. And there's a littlebackstory my cousin. I used to live
in San Francisco and my cousin hada longtime best friend who ended up being

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her girlfriend. And what happened wasis that the girlfriend when I lived up
there, I only lived up therefor about a year, but she wrote
a little like letter, like alittle letter to me telling me how much
she liked me while she was withmy cousin, And so I showed showed
the letter to my other cousins,and you know, obviously we went back

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to my cousin and gave it toher. So years her, she meets
my best friend. I took herto San Francisco with me, and the
next thing you know, they arelovers and my best friend doesn't want to
speak to me anymore. It's like, I don't even really know exactly what.
All I know is is like daybecame lovers because my best friend was

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living in Las Vegas at the time, so they would visit each other and
I just called my cousin one dayand I just told her. I was
like, you know, you goto Vegas to visit my friend, but
you never like visit me here inLA. And I'm like, I don't
even understand that. That hurt myfeelings. And she went out to Vegas
and visited my cousin and just like, I mean, my best friend,

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and just like through it all ofmy face, through it all on social
media and everything. And I calledher and I told her and I was
just like, that's what I'm talkingabout right there. And the next thing,
you know, my cousin, mybest friend called me and left the
message telling me, I mean shewas just cousin and saying that I was
jealous of their relationship. And I'mstraight and I was with my man at
the time and now we're married sixteenyears next week. Ohead Now, congratulations,

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jail, Yeah, what the hellis your cousin doing? Though?
What do you mean? What happened? What the mom do? What do
you mean what happened? Do youmean what happened? Man? Should make
you stop a friendship? Good lordhave mercy? Man? Wow? Alrighty,
what ruined your friendship? It's nota competition. We just want to
hear yours as well. We're gonnabring Mercedes into the neighborhoods. He was

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going down with Mercedes up in here. Mercedes, Hello, Mercedes, what
ruined your friendship? So my friendshipwas ruined over a parking spot? Big
damn damn. Okay, man,I'm trying to in my head, I'm
trying to think. Okay, whyyou know what I'm saying, Like I'm
thinking even crazy stuff like, man, this is why it ended. It

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started with a parking spot. ButMercedes, explain how your friendship was ruined
by a parking spot. Okay.So me and really good friends for like
six years, I think we livebeing a duplex, so we shared like
a driveway, and then we hadtwo parking spots in the back, and
she just kept like having her car, having her guy's car, having her

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grandma's car, like everybody was alwaysparked in the in the driveway, so
I couldn't get in. And soone night, like I got really pissed
off, and when I came,her baby daddy's car was in there,
so I just pulled behind him andblocked him in. And when upstairs and
went to bed, so when shegot home, she was like, I
need to get out, and Iwas like, yeah, okay, whatever.
So I waited half an hour untilI went down there. And then

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when I went down there, thebaby daddy is like, oh, I'm
sorry, you know I didn't know. And I was like, you didn't
know what You know that I livehere and you know I can't get into
my spot. And I was like, it's not just you. I've told
her not to have her other manover here, not to have her grandparents,
Like I put her all on blast. So then she started getting mad.
She was in her car and shestarted screaming at me, and I
was like, nobody was talking toyou. You didn't listen to me when

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I told you not to block thisdriveway, and it escalated. The neighbor
across the street called the police becauseshe was like trying to coup up my
stairs and fight me. It wasIt was ridiculous. And we haven't spoken
since then, literally, And thatwas like eight years ago. Man,
Do y'all still live in the SaintIt was a duplex, You say,
yes, are y'all still neighbors?Not anymore? Okay? I lived there

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for like another probably two years beforeI moved. I heard yeah, Dan,
and you said her up? Youtold you, you told her her
man her other man. Park's theretoo. Oh. I love Mercedes.
I love the pettiness. It's someMercedes. You couldn't pull your car in
the driveway. Can I ask youwhat kind of car was Mercedes? What
kind of car was it? Allright? I'm just wondering because your name

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is Mercedes, Like, dude,did you like man? I gotta get
a Mercedes? You know what I'msaying. Alrighty, so thanks so much?
All right, I understood, understood. We were just asking what ruined
your friendship? And it was parking. But when you hear the backstory,
you understand, believe it, andI love the pettiness. Once again,
the Mercedes, y'all continue to hangout. What is want to hear from
you as well? What ruined yourrelationship? What ruined your friendship? Big

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