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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, we're getting ready for second ate update. Cold,
good morning. What's going on in your dating world? How
can we help you?
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Oh? I had a really good time with this girl
on a date. You know, we went dinner, drinks, dancing,
We even got a hotel room after the date.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
It was so good.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And now I'm hearing nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You got a hotel room. You got a hotel room?
Is that you?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
There was nudity, There was nudity, and she won't call
you back.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
All right, we're gonna deeve deeve. We're gonna deep dive
into it. That's a deep dive, deep die. Second date
update starts next with John Jane Rich.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
What's up if.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
John Jane Rich? Time for second date Update. You meet
somebody you got on a date and you have a
great time. He thinks there's gonna be a second date,
but there isn't. So you come to us. We're gonna
troubleshoot your date, find out where things gone wrong.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Cold, good morning, Good morning guys.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
What's your story?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Cole? I've been spiraling ever since I had this amazing
date with this girl. Her name's Brie. And I'm not
even exaggering when I say the other date was unreal.
I mean, we were laughing all night, we bar hopped,
we were dancing, like everything just felt effortless, just easy
(01:19):
in a way that it normally doesn't for me. And
I usually am an overthinker. So when I know that
things are just kind of smooth, I know that things
are really kind of clicking. And so we ended up
getting a room and having a lovely time, and the
next morning was even better. We had like breakfast in bed,
(01:39):
we were cuddling, she'd still have my pancakes, which I
thought was adorable, and I just left thinking we were
absolutely going to see each other again. And it's been
a week and a half and I've heard radio silence,
So of course I'm like, we're playing everything I did.
Whether it's snoring, did I say something stupid? I just
(01:59):
I don't know. It was in my morning breath. I
have no idea what is going on, and it's driving
me crazy.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Man. That's a tough.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
One, I know, because especially you have like the whole
morning after and it was like a pleasant experience and
not a walk of shame.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Could she be a hooker?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Totally? No, I know.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
I'm like, you got a room, like suggestion like.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Sprew of the moment.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Let's get a hotel room now, Like, let's go back
to one of our houses.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yeah, well, we just were indulging a little on the
date and decided it would be a safer and a
romantic way to kind of not be driving.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Okay, so were you like joy?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Were you eating it like a restaurant that is attached
to a hotel, because that seems like a lot more involved,
Like we're going to do it. Then let's go back
to my place to hang out.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
No, let's say you're at this place right down here,
which has got great restaurants, great hotel, and you hit
it off and your passionate and things are gone.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Let's get a hotel right here right now. I have
a friend that does that.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Well, we ended up we ended up bar hopping, so well,
one of the bars ended up being in a hotel.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Okay, yeah, that masse, which is where.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
The idea kind of came and like, well we could
go pick this upstairs, and I like it kind of fun.
It was spontaneous. I've never done that before, but it
was actually kind of a clutch move. It was it
was great.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Well, could it be that you're no good at making
love and that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Why is that always your respond?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Did you always that they are.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
Bad at love?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
I hope not. But that's why I'm calling you to
find out what what happened?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Well, we'll call her, We'll find out for you. Man.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You know it's funny, is like I see like you're
all passionate. Let's just get to be making out the
bar or whatever. Let's get a room. Then you go
to the lobby like can we get a room for
the night? Police and they're like, do you have a reservation?
You're like, I don't, but I just like a room
for the night, okay? And then kind have a credit card?
Do you fill out everything? And then you're like do
you want.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
To leave some money for incidentals? And would you like it?
Would you like to be joining a membership? By that time,
like remember, it is all like, oh my god, I
forget it. It's gone in the car in the parking lot.
All right, Cole, we'll call brief for you. All right?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Second date update? Could you use next? With John, Jay
and Rich. We are in the middle of Second Date
Update Cole and Brie.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Fall brings new love the season blossom for Cole in
Brie is they laughed through dinner and then decided to
take it to a hotel room. But Cole claims he
had a magic night. Brie is ghosting him. Could he
be terrible at love making? I think he is and
that is why she's ghosting it. But we'll find out,
(04:36):
all right, col that's a little recap. That's pretty much it.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Step for it. Richie did leave out that she ate
half his pancakes.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Oh yes, maybe he made a cute little comment about
that and she's like, screw you man. All right, we're
gonna get pre on the phone and find out why
she's blowing you off.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Whoa are you ready?
Speaker 5 (04:50):
All right?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Hold on, here we go.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Hello, Hi, is breather there?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Uh yeah, this is her.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Hey Bree, my name is Peyton.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
I'm with John Jaye rich and we just wanted to
talk to you on the radio really quickly if you
got some time this morning. Uh sure.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So we're talking to this guy about a great date
that he went on.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
He was fantastic the date.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I mean, like the way he described the date and
the way the date ended seemed like a home run.
You were the date, by the way, and how he
told us about bar hopping, the great dinner, great conversation.
You guys got a hotel room, you spent the night,
you woke up and had breakfast, you cuddled, and he
says you're blowing him off, and we were like why.
So we don't understand why, because you ended up spend
the night with him at a hotel, so you must
(05:53):
have liked him. So we thought we would call you
and if you wouldn't mind telling us your thoughts, your
point of view on coal and why you are blowing
him off, or maybe you're not blowing him off, but
just we can give him some peace.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Oh uh okay, Yeah, Cole was great. I had a
lot of fun on the date. He's super easy to
talk to, and yeah, I had a lot of fun.
I don't know, we laughed a lot. The sex was great.
It was just one of those things that you know.
(06:26):
I got home and reality kicks in and I'm I
hope he doesn't like touch. I don't know, God, it
sounds like a caught feelings or something. I just I
don't know. I don't know. I can't really see myself
with him. I don't really see myself with anyone right now.
To be totally honest.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Wait wait, wait, hold on, what do you mean this
is like some sort of fantasy thing right now?
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Cole yello?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
What wait?
Speaker 5 (07:02):
What is this? Hold on? Sorry?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
What this is called? Second update?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Cole called us because you wanted to know why you're
blowing him off and we totally find out.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Oh and he's on the Okay. Uh, I'm sorry. I
didn't understand that. I am I okay, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Cool.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
I wasn't like trying to be mean or anything. I'm
just I don't I don't know if you heard anything
that I said, but like, I just don't. I don't
really know what I want right now. And it wasn't
anything personal. And I did have a really nice time
with you.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
But the whole day, in the morning, the breakfast, in bed,
the cuddling, it meant nothing like yourn into me at all.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
No, that's not true, and I was ay you that night.
It's just I thought sounds horrible. I'm I'm in a
I'm in a weird place, and I'm not ready to
date anyone seriously, which I told you that, and I
just I kind of just thought it was like a
one night thing. I didn't I didn't expect you to
(08:12):
you know, catch feelings.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
So I mean I didn't catch feelings. I just I
definitely had a connection like you made feel like we did, I.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Know, I know. Well, sorry, I mean I did say
that I didn't. You know, I'm sorry. I feel really bad.
I just you know, I'm not looking to date anyone.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
So it was just a fun day night.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
It was a rate you needed, like to be touched
and loved and have a little that that kind of
connection with the human being you had it. That's that's
enough to get you over till the next time, right, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Well everyone needs that, you know. I felt like I
was pretty upfront with where I was.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Well, he likes you.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I I guess I feel like a little confused because
I don't know. I mean, it feels like we were
on the same page the whole night, and I left
feeling my clad nine and.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Well, it sounds like she was in the moment what
you want. She just doesn't want anymore moments like that.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Yeah, no, you're great. It has nothing to do with you.
I just don't I'm not in a place where I
want to have a serious relationship. And I you know,
especially now talking to you, I feel like that's where
this where you want this to head. And that's just
that's just not I'm just not interested in that right now.
And I'm sorry. And I did have a great time with.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You, and.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Don't love that you put me on blasts on the radio,
to be honest.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
But how about this, What if what if he reaches
out to you a couple of weeks when you need
needs more attention?
Speaker 5 (09:52):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
I mean you said the sex was great, So I
would think every once in a.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
While, we need to when you need a little, when
you need some effecttion, you give him a call.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Not a bad idea if he's down, I don't know.
Maybe see keeping the door open. Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
So that's what I'm saying, all right, you guys, you
guys think all right? Well thank you both, going yes,
there you go, all right, thank you both. That's second
D update John Jay and Rich
All right, we're getting ready for second ate update. Cold,
good morning. What's going on in your dating world? How
can we help you?
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Oh? I had a really good time with this girl
on a date. You know, we went dinner, drinks, dancing,
We even got a hotel room after the date.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
It was so good.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And now I'm hearing nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
You got a hotel room. You got a hotel room?
Is that you?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
There was nudity, There was nudity, and she won't call
you back.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
All right, we're gonna deeve deeve. We're gonna deep dive
into it. That's a deep dive, deep die. Second date
update starts next with John Jane Rich.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
What's up if.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
John Jane Rich? Time for second date Update. You meet
somebody you got on a date and you have a
great time. He thinks there's gonna be a second date,
but there isn't. So you come to us. We're gonna
troubleshoot your date, find out where things gone wrong.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Cold, good morning, Good morning guys.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
What's your story?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Cole? I've been spiraling ever since I had this amazing
date with this girl. Her name's Brie. And I'm not
even exaggering when I say the other date was unreal.
I mean, we were laughing all night, we bar hopped,
we were dancing, like everything just felt effortless, just easy
(01:19):
in a way that it normally doesn't for me. And
I usually am an overthinker. So when I know that
things are just kind of smooth, I know that things
are really kind of clicking. And so we ended up
getting a room and having a lovely time, and the
next morning was even better. We had like breakfast in bed,
(01:39):
we were cuddling, she'd still have my pancakes, which I
thought was adorable, and I just left thinking we were
absolutely going to see each other again. And it's been
a week and a half and I've heard radio silence,
So of course I'm like, we're playing everything I did.
Whether it's snoring, did I say something stupid? I just
(01:59):
I don't know. It was in my morning breath. I
have no idea what is going on, and it's driving
me crazy.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Man. That's a tough.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
One, I know, because especially you have like the whole
morning after and it was like a pleasant experience and
not a walk of shame.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Could she be a hooker?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Totally? No, I know.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
I'm like, you got a room, like suggestion like.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Sprew of the moment.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
Let's get a hotel room now, Like, let's go back
to one of our houses.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yeah, well, we just were indulging a little on the
date and decided it would be a safer and a
romantic way to kind of not be driving.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Okay, so were you like joy?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Were you eating it like a restaurant that is attached
to a hotel, because that seems like a lot more involved,
Like we're going to do it. Then let's go back
to my place to hang out.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
No, let's say you're at this place right down here,
which has got great restaurants, great hotel, and you hit
it off and your passionate and things are gone.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Let's get a hotel right here right now. I have
a friend that does that.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Well, we ended up we ended up bar hopping, so well,
one of the bars ended up being in a hotel.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Okay, yeah, that masse, which is where.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
The idea kind of came and like, well we could
go pick this upstairs, and I like it kind of fun.
It was spontaneous. I've never done that before, but it
was actually kind of a clutch move. It was it
was great.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Well, could it be that you're no good at making
love and that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Why is that always your respond?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Did you always that they are.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
Bad at love?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
I hope not. But that's why I'm calling you to
find out what what happened?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Well, we'll call her, We'll find out for you. Man.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You know it's funny, is like I see like you're
all passionate. Let's just get to be making out the
bar or whatever. Let's get a room. Then you go
to the lobby like can we get a room for
the night? Police and they're like, do you have a reservation?
You're like, I don't, but I just like a room
for the night, okay? And then kind have a credit card?
Do you fill out everything? And then you're like do
you want.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
To leave some money for incidentals? And would you like it?
Would you like to be joining a membership? By that time,
like remember, it is all like, oh my god, I
forget it. It's gone in the car in the parking lot.
All right, Cole, we'll call brief for you. All right?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Second date update? Could you use next? With John, Jay
and Rich. We are in the middle of Second Date
Update Cole and Brie.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
Fall brings new love the season blossom for Cole in
Brie is they laughed through dinner and then decided to
take it to a hotel room. But Cole claims he
had a magic night. Brie is ghosting him. Could he
be terrible at love making? I think he is and
that is why she's ghosting it. But we'll find out,
(04:36):
all right, col that's a little recap. That's pretty much it.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Step for it. Richie did leave out that she ate
half his pancakes.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Oh yes, maybe he made a cute little comment about
that and she's like, screw you man. All right, we're
gonna get pre on the phone and find out why
she's blowing you off.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Whoa are you ready?
Speaker 5 (04:50):
All right?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Hold on, here we go.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Hello, Hi, is breather there?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Uh yeah, this is her.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Hey Bree, my name is Peyton.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
I'm with John Jaye rich and we just wanted to
talk to you on the radio really quickly if you
got some time this morning. Uh sure.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So we're talking to this guy about a great date
that he went on.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
He was fantastic the date.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I mean, like the way he described the date and
the way the date ended seemed like a home run.
You were the date, by the way, and how he
told us about bar hopping, the great dinner, great conversation.
You guys got a hotel room, you spent the night,
you woke up and had breakfast, you cuddled, and he
says you're blowing him off, and we were like why.
So we don't understand why, because you ended up spend
the night with him at a hotel, so you must
(05:53):
have liked him. So we thought we would call you
and if you wouldn't mind telling us your thoughts, your
point of view on coal and why you are blowing
him off, or maybe you're not blowing him off, but
just we can give him some peace.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Oh uh okay, Yeah, Cole was great. I had a
lot of fun on the date. He's super easy to
talk to, and yeah, I had a lot of fun.
I don't know, we laughed a lot. The sex was great.
It was just one of those things that you know.
(06:26):
I got home and reality kicks in and I'm I
hope he doesn't like touch. I don't know, God, it
sounds like a caught feelings or something. I just I
don't know. I don't know. I can't really see myself
with him. I don't really see myself with anyone right now.
To be totally honest.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Wait wait, wait, hold on, what do you mean this
is like some sort of fantasy thing right now?
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Cole yello?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
What wait?
Speaker 5 (07:02):
What is this? Hold on? Sorry?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
What this is called? Second update?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Cole called us because you wanted to know why you're
blowing him off and we totally find out.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Oh and he's on the Okay. Uh, I'm sorry. I
didn't understand that. I am I okay, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Cool.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
I wasn't like trying to be mean or anything. I'm
just I don't I don't know if you heard anything
that I said, but like, I just don't. I don't
really know what I want right now. And it wasn't
anything personal. And I did have a really nice time
with you.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
But the whole day, in the morning, the breakfast, in bed,
the cuddling, it meant nothing like yourn into me at all.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
No, that's not true, and I was ay you that night.
It's just I thought sounds horrible. I'm I'm in a
I'm in a weird place, and I'm not ready to
date anyone seriously, which I told you that, and I
just I kind of just thought it was like a
one night thing. I didn't I didn't expect you to
(08:12):
you know, catch feelings.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
So I mean I didn't catch feelings. I just I
definitely had a connection like you made feel like we did, I.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Know, I know. Well, sorry, I mean I did say
that I didn't. You know, I'm sorry. I feel really bad.
I just you know, I'm not looking to date anyone.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
So it was just a fun day night.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
It was a rate you needed, like to be touched
and loved and have a little that that kind of
connection with the human being you had it. That's that's
enough to get you over till the next time, right, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Well everyone needs that, you know. I felt like I
was pretty upfront with where I was.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Well, he likes you.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I I guess I feel like a little confused because
I don't know. I mean, it feels like we were
on the same page the whole night, and I left
feeling my clad nine and.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Well, it sounds like she was in the moment what
you want. She just doesn't want anymore moments like that.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Yeah, no, you're great. It has nothing to do with you.
I just don't I'm not in a place where I
want to have a serious relationship. And I you know,
especially now talking to you, I feel like that's where
this where you want this to head. And that's just
that's just not I'm just not interested in that right now.
And I'm sorry. And I did have a great time with.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You, and.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Don't love that you put me on blasts on the radio,
to be honest.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
But how about this, What if what if he reaches
out to you a couple of weeks when you need
needs more attention?
Speaker 5 (09:52):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
I mean you said the sex was great, So I
would think every once in a.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
While, we need to when you need a little, when
you need some effecttion, you give him a call.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Not a bad idea if he's down, I don't know.
Maybe see keeping the door open. Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
So that's what I'm saying, all right, you guys, you
guys think all right? Well thank you both, going yes,
there you go, all right, thank you both. That's second
D update John Jay and Rich
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