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February 18, 2025 • 12 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it's Tuesday. That means second date update. Sinjin
is on the line, Sinjon, tell us what's going on.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
I went on a date and it was like a
wrong com So why does she ghosting me?

Speaker 3 (00:12):
Basically?

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Okay, well, we're gonna hear your story and then we're
gonna call her find ot why she's ghosted you. It
was supposed to be the start of a beautiful relationship,
but somebody screwed it all up.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
Second Date Update right now with Jean Jay and Rich John.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Jay and Rich, we're getting ready to do second update, Sinjin,
Good morning.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Good morning.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
What's your situation here? Sinjohn? Welcome.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Oh well I went out on a date and do
you want to hear about the date?

Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, might as well. I mean it's second ate update.

Speaker 4 (00:50):
Okay, great.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
So we went to this little cafe and it had
like a really laid back vibe and but it was
like really still classy enough to make you feel kind
of special, if you know what I mean. And and
when we met there, I just I right away it
was like blown away, how how gorgeous she looked and

(01:12):
the like effortless style about her and she didn't try
too hard, but you know, it was still perfect, and
we had it like, we grabbed the table outside. The
weather was like really perfect, and we started talking and honestly,
the whole conversation we just like kind of clicked right
from the start and we were like laughing about random things,
sharing stories from childhood, you know. So basically, time like

(01:34):
really flew by fast and we didn't even check our phones,
no distractions.

Speaker 5 (01:38):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
The best part was that I like, she was really
easy to talk to and she made me feel comfortable,
and by the by the end of the night, I
basically just was really I didn't I was reluctant to
say goodbye, you know what I mean. I was just
nervous about what to do next. So I don't know,
she like she just kissed me on the cheek before
heading off, and and I swear it was like it
was like a scene from the movie.

Speaker 4 (01:59):
So, you know, the whole date kind of felt like.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
A rom com and in the best way. So I
just I really can't stop thinking about it. And I'm
seriously just hoping she felt the same way.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
So, but is she ignoring you or something that's that's
why you're here?

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah? Sorry, Yeah, I'm just yeah, she's not messaging me back. Basically,
I've kind of been a little ghosted, so I'm just
trying to figure out if she feels the same way
as me.

Speaker 4 (02:27):
The kiss on the cheek.

Speaker 5 (02:28):
And she moved in to kiss you on the cheek, yeah,
like I kind of didn't.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
I didn't know what to do. But she I was
like kind of inching toward, like kind of like a movie,
and she just I just turned my head a little
bit and she just pecked me on the cheek.

Speaker 5 (02:43):
Will you turned your head to go into the kiss
or turns your head to go, chick.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Go into the kiss? But then I just didn't.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
That was the take care see you later. I was like,
oh no, we're not going lips buddy, sin John.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
What's her name?

Speaker 4 (02:59):
Daniel?

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Okay, how'd you meet her?

Speaker 2 (03:00):
I met her online and one of the apps I
won't say.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
This, Okay, Okay. So I'm filling in for Peyton Pays
on vacation right now and Jenna is feeling it and
you're doing a great job so far too.

Speaker 4 (03:11):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Do you have an opinion on this? What do you
think about this?

Speaker 3 (03:16):
I think that as a female who's been in that
situation before, you know, like you said, she was just
trying to maybe protect herself in a respectful way.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
You've been in the situation where you thought that the
guy wanted more.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yeah, okay, and so you know you just got it
in that moment at quick. So maybe that's that was
her kind of.

Speaker 4 (03:32):
You would ghost because he maybe got the ck or.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
What I would unfortunately probably goes. I'm hoping that that's
not the situation here.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
But okay, but why the peck on the cheek?

Speaker 5 (03:40):
Why just like a sudden why not like like take
care bye bye hand like fist pump?

Speaker 4 (03:45):
Why you even gave the kiss on the cheek?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
I feel like in that moment when it just happens,
you just it's so quick and you don't know what
to do.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
So the context trying very polite also and not make
it as awkward as it probably already is.

Speaker 3 (03:57):
A fi bump will be crazy, Yeah, that would be like.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Well, that would do it, all right, Sinjon, We'll call
her and find out. Okay, we're gonna find out why
she's blowing you off or if she got the ick,
which means if she has a serious ibye, you gotta
be cool, like you're gonna just listen quietly and then
you can jump in at the right time. Okay, all
right again, Jenna, just a great job this morning. It's
just great all right. Second date update continues next John

(04:26):
Jane Rich. In the middle of second up, you got
Sinjon who went on a date with Danielle. They met online.
Day was going great, right, he was saying all kinds
of great things, but at the end, kissing the cheek.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
I mean he called it a rum com like dah
in the best way.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Uh huh. All right, So Sinjohn, we're gonna call her.
You stay quiet, We're gonna find out how long ago
was this date by the way, about a week and
a half. Okay. Jenna's in here filling in for Peyton.
She's on vacation in Europe right now. So Jenna, just
fabulous job. Okay. So you do this. You know what
to do. You're gonna handle it. You transferred them there,
You do your thing. Whatever the word is, you lob

(05:02):
it up.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
Answer the phone. That's another one. Get them on their
connecting flight.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
That's such a laymanterns.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
Hello, Hi, Danielle, this is Jenna from John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Can we put you on air for a second? Oh Hi, sure, Hi,
thanks for saying. Yeah. So we got a call from
a guy and he told us about this great date
and the way you explained the date was is like
a rom com movie. He said, it was fantastic. You
were the person he went on a date with. Now
he says, you're blowing them off, which is fine, But
we went around the room, the four of us, trying

(05:37):
to figure out why you blew him off, and if
everything he says on the date is true, it doesn't
make sense. So I feel like he's leaving something out. So, Danielle,
we thought we'd call you and you give us your perspective.
You probably have a different one.

Speaker 4 (05:50):
We're talking about singin yeah, oh yeah.

Speaker 6 (05:54):
Honestly, I had so much fun Sinjohn's so sweet. It
was the best dates I've had in a really long time. Yeah,
he's He's so funny and he's charming. We were laughing
this whole time. We went to a coffee shop, and
I mean the conversation was just really easy, so like

(06:17):
conversation is not usually this easy. He's hilarious, He's so
I don't know, he's just hilarious. I feel like there
wasn't a single moment where we didn't know what to
talk about. But I got this feeling that he's he's
just not into me, like into me, into me. It

(06:38):
was something about the way he carried himself and the
way he was talking was like, and I don't want
to assume, but he was giving giving a little bit
of like queen energy.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
Oh okay, yeah.

Speaker 6 (06:53):
He was his compliments, like he complimented me so so often,
but he was so detailed. He's like, oh, my god,
your outfit is so well put together, the color palette
and your hair is stunning, which you know, I love
hearing that. It's that's great with me, But I feel
like most men that I go out with don't. Like

(07:15):
street men don't usually notice color palette.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
Right, Maybe his professor or something.

Speaker 3 (07:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (07:23):
Maybe yeah, yeah, maybe, I don't know. But oh when
the waiter brought out drinks he had like he gasped.
He's like, oh, presentation, and that's the one that really
set me over. I was just kind of sitting there.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Like, hmm, maybe the restaurant business. I say that my
dad learned that. From my dad. He was always a
look at his presentation, What a beautiful presentation. I've said
that before. My dad.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
No, I know, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
I mean, was his shirt tightened a knot in the front?

Speaker 6 (08:01):
No, but he did look great. Okay, he definitely has
his own subsectyle.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
Well, now that we told you that he called us
to tell you that he really liked you and he
didn't know where things go wrong, does that change anything
in your perspective?

Speaker 6 (08:14):
I mean, it's nice to know that he is interested
in me.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (08:19):
I the date was so easy and we had such
good chemistry, but I couldn't tell if it was like
actual chemistry or gotcha wanted to be like my bestie,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
You guys can go dancing, and then if he went
dancing off by himself, he'd be like you and the
friend of ne. Yeah. Well, Danielle StJohn is on the line.
He was listening Hi syn in your thoughts.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
Yeah, Hi, oh wow Danielle. Hi oh, So I'm having
to overhear your little like clean energy theory. And I
gotta say, like impressive detail sective work, because you weren't
really wrong exactly coolly.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, I mean, wow, I think you need to elaborate
Sigon a little bit more when you say she's not wrong.
What do you mean?

Speaker 2 (09:16):
I mean, well, yeah, I mean it's kind of awkward,
you know, but honestly it's kind of hilarious. I am
bisexual and I've always been, you know, super open about
my sexuality. I just I just you know, I didn't
think the first date, you know, small talk was the
right time to drop that fun fact like spaghetti's great.

(09:39):
But by the way, look I also like men and women.
So you see the problem I had.

Speaker 6 (09:46):
Yeah, Oh, I'm so sorry. I don't even know what
to say. I feel like I feel like such.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
An idiot for no, no, no, you're not an idiot.
I like you picked up on something and you wondered,
you know, no harm, no foul.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
So so where does that leave us?

Speaker 3 (10:08):
I think?

Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yeah, I just don't know. I just you know, I
I you're definitely like spiraling, aren't you.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
You know, Danielle does that bother you? Do you have
a problem dating a bisexual man?

Speaker 6 (10:22):
No? I mean, maybe let me get he's like kind of.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
Can I can I say? Like you're thinking, wow, Synson
is great, but I I can I handle dating someone
who's both into men and women? What if I'm not enough?
What if I have to compete with like twice, the
amount of people.

Speaker 5 (10:44):
I like the way you put in the front Wow,
Synjohn's great, you put that at the very film.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Those are good points.

Speaker 6 (10:51):
Yeah, No, I mean, and he's right, Sinjon is great.
But I definitely, Yeah, I struggle with feeling like insecure
in my relationships, and I guess I would. I would
probably be worrying not only about like other women, but
guys too.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
So be weird when you're like wondering if Sinjon is
in gym.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
No, I hear you.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
I hear you, And honestly, I like respect that you're
being honest about it. But Danielle, like, liking more than
one gender doesn't mean I want more than one person.
It's not like I wake up every morning and I,
you know, ask which team I'm playing for today, like
you know, I did who I like and right now
I like you?

Speaker 4 (11:37):
Yeah, respect Sinjinn. Would you be interested in the second date?

Speaker 6 (11:42):
I that's that's so nice to here. I really did
enjoy being around you, so yeah, I would. I definitely
have a second date.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
All right, what a happy second d up day are you? Guys?
So thanks for jumping on the air with us, both
of you. Thank you that's second d update with John
Jane je vun Berken
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