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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Here's a text.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
On Wednesday show, Peyton said, this is what it sounds like,
and Rich softly sang in reply when Dud's cry and
I felt so seen.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
You can't let those go.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Thanks Rich, is what she said.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
We all speak in song lyrics on the show. It happens.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
So what was your date?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Oh? So, mostly once a week, Stacy, my wife, and
I feel like it's really important to not have phones,
to not have stuff going on. We just get together
and we go out to eat. Normally that's on a
Friday night, but our schedule this week did not allow
for it because John Gy and I are out at
Barr Jackson tonight.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Right, Sammy Haig are dog.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
That's right, we're bringing up we're bringing out the Haig.
We're doing a.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Favor for somebody. I mean I shouldn't. I mean it's
rich fun. Yeah, you like sent me here.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah. Anyway, So our date window was yesterday from three
thirty to five thirty because Stacey had some call for
Miss America that she's involved with that she had to
get on. So I'm okay with a three thirty date
because we get up so early. I would prefer to
go out to dinner early maybe not that early, but
we were so early to the restaurant that they were
not really done with their lunch and totally not ready
(01:06):
for dinner. So when we're we're asking for like a
dinnery things, They're like, I guess we can throw that together.
Hold on, wait twenty minutes, still server starts showing up.
I mean, we were that early. We showed up at
three thirty, So my laws call that dinner. It was,
but I mean, in principle, it worked good. But we
finally got our date night in. I was just surprised
that we were heading home before it was even dark.
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We're still it's the sun's still way up high in
the sky when we were heading home from our date,
our Thursday night date. But at least we got one
in and got to discuss life.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
You know, I feel that I like to eat earlier
because I've read all this stuff that helps you sleep better.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
You know, I've been working trying to get on my sleep.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
So I try this guy that the guy that's on
Don't Die, the Brian Johnson guy who's spending two million
dollars a year to live as long as you can,
to live, like one hundred lives.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I am.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
He says something like, just try to eat dinner two
hours before you go to sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And then try to go longer and longer.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
He goes, I eat my last meal is seven hours
before he goes to sleep.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Is what he said.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Right, So that being really difficult for you because you
still do the fasting thing.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Yeah, So yesterday, so I've been this week, been eating
pretty like five thirty six o'clock, you know, right around then.
And my son, Jake, this is this is so interesting.
I mean, he he was here because we had Christmas
break and then he went back to school on Wednesday,
so he was back at u A for a class
on Thursday. He finished his class and he came back
home yesterday, like he drove all the way down there,
(02:28):
went to one class because now he doesn't have school on.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Fridays because he's a senior, so he sets it up
or you.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Know, and then we got Monday off for Martin Luther
King Day, right, So he's like he literally drove down
one class. So he comes back and he's like, Hey,
I'm gonna go work out, Let's go get dinner, and
I'm like, I want to spend time with my son,
but I also want to eat before right, right, So
he we my god, he wants to go get sushi
show the sushi restaurant we always go to, he says.
He gets in the car. He's in the back seat,
(02:54):
my wife ton front seat. We're meeting my son Dutch
at the restaurant. And he gets on the phone and
he calls his friend Cole. Right, so you guys heard
that calls did your best friends? There were little kids?
So I hear, we go, hikel what's going on? Oh,
your parents went to dinner without you? Yeah, you can
meet us, meet us for dinner. Okay, Yeah, we're going here,
all right, I'll see you in five minutes.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Hangs up. Hey, can Cole come to dinner with us? Yeah? Man,
of course you can.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
But like usud ask us first all the calls like
are my own my son? Yeah, But it's like his
whole way of thinking.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
I absolutely appreciate that it's not just my kid. Because
something happened yesterday. Addie has a book report that's gonna
it's gonna be due next month, and I'm like, you
need to start thinking about what book you're doing. And
she's like, oh, Emma and I are doing the same
book together. I told her we would get her the book.
She's like why and then and then she like, actually,
I felt really bad. It was like one of those
parenting moments that I wish I could just like take
(03:46):
back my reaction.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
But I was so like, I was so like, why'd
you do? Like why did you do that? She's like
I just told her I would get it. Is that wrong?
And I'm like, no, you were doing something nice. It's
not wrong at all, but why would you do that?
Speaker 6 (03:56):
That's so relatable though, because I do that to my
parents all the time still too. I'll be like, hey,
I'll talk to Kelsey. I'll be like, do you want
to hang out? You want to come to dinner? Come
to my game? Sure, you can say. With my parents,
I'll be like, hey, by the way, keep an eye
out for her because she's got.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
It's like, hey, no, that's okay. I never want to
make you feel bad for doing something nice. That's a
really good thing. The book is cheap will get answered, ever,
but just next time they just run it by me.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
First, we don't buy books for people, we don't promote
reading and reacted what was it that you and your
husband did see?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
ID?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
I on you guys, this is turning into a whole thing.
Is this is unresolved as of this morning, husband and
wife unresolved issue. And I'm gonna call it an issue
because it wasn't really a fight.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
It was more of like jabs.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
So Addie and Easton both started up flag football, so
this week both of them had practices. It is so
hard to get the kids home from school, let them
have a little bit of downtime, finish their homework, and
make them eat dinner before we get back.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Out the door to go to practice. And so that's
my life.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
When I get home, he's still working, shows up and wonders,
why are we not ready on time?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Why are we getting out of here late?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
So the last two practices that we went to, we
left the house five minutes later than we probably should have,
which means we showed up about five minutes late to practice.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
To me, I'm like, this is not like a serious
This is not a serious thing. So if it like,
that's just what happened, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
It's not like we're going to an interview or a
doctor's appointment or something serious. So for me, it's like
it's okay that We're out the door five minutes late
to go to this practice that honestly doesn't really matter.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
He's like, we need to be teaching the kids. They
need to be on time to things. He's like, we
need to leave earlier. And I was like, let's make
a big deal about it, shall we.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
That's my jet back right, And he's like, yeah, we
should make a big deal about it.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
It's important. It's like courteous to.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Be on time.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
I'm like, I know. He's like, well, what have you
been doing? I'm like, oh my god. And this is
like while we're driving, and I'm like, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Just picking the kids of school, bringing the home, trying
to get their homework done, try to get a food
in the body, trying to make them get downtime so
they're not like rushing everywhere. Oh, and then getting them
dressed for practice, and then trying to.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Get out the door. What were you doing? Just working,
making a living so we could live our life And.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Every couple has had that.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Are still going this morning. This morning like.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Literally we just got to practice and never tugged to
start it again.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
Oh my gosh, Because like the coach and me is
like screaming. I'm like, you better be at practice on time.
But also it's like she's in the fourth grade and
it's flag football.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
It's not that serious, and it's like a league that's
two months, Like it's a two month long season. Like
if she she was never late to dance when she
was in competitive dance.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
It's not like this is like an on good thing.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You're not late for stuff anyway. I tend to.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
Not be late to things. But there are.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Times like today, I'm not really sure what we're gonna
do because there are games at four ten and we
usually don't get home from school until four.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
You got to check her out early tonight.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Friday continued on that one.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Yeah, I don't know we're gonna I'm like, you just
you're taking this season a little too seriously. Okay, you
know what you want to stop work and go get
them ready.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
By all means, go for it.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
It's funny sometimes when you assume the other person's doing
something you know or whatever, Like for us, yeah, I
keep telling you I wanted to eat dinner early, so
we have this routine now. My wife and I were like,
I've told you guys about my routine in the afternoon.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Right now, I have the sauna. I sauna and I
hot tub and cold plunche.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Well she started doing that too, no offense to her,
but I don't want to sauna with her.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
I want to sign up.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
By myself because I watch TV and she wants to
sauna and listen to music and talk. I don't want to.
So now she songs either before after me. And the
other day we were getting ready to sauna, she was
a sauna before me. So what I do is I
feed the dogs while she's son. And then I thought
that while I was signing she would get dinner ready,
(08:03):
but she didn't. And then when I got out of
the sawn on the hot tub, I was like, I
wish I had a camera that could show you because
it was like I was pouting, like I went in.
I just grabbed the bowls soup and I poured the
soup and with met paul soup, and I put in
the microwave and I turn on and she's like, is
everything okay, Oh, it's fine. I'm like with a towler
on my waist and I closed the mi graave door
(08:25):
and I put it on for two minutes and I'm
waiting there and then and I take it out.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
She's like, what's going on? Are we not having dinner together? Oh?
I thought we were. And she's like, I'm in the sauna.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I feed the dogs. You're in the sauna. I feed
the dogs and go I'm in the sauna. I figured
you'd get dinner ready. I didn't know.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
And I'm like, we need to know, because you always
expect everyone to exactly what's going on in your head.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Everyone should think how.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
I figured then you know you're in trouble. You know
your dog. You did not figure that.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
But then I like, for a second, I was like, well,
I didn't say anything to her, but I just thought
it was like a given, Like how do you not know?
I want to eat early it's five o'clock because now
five point thirty and there's cold soup.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Nobody's ever cared about our schedule because we get up
early in the morning. Nobody ever will. They're not going
to get it. They don't understand.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
But it took me a long time to decompress, and
I get angry afterwards.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Even after I acknowledge delicious meatball, it was great.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
I even acknowledged that, Like I was like, okay, I
understand and communicate.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
But even after I said that.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
I was still like, eat, you're super angry.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I was, I just quite.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
You can hear the spoon hit the ball, and she
was sitting next to me. She was like, can you
wait for me to warm up my soup so we
can eat together?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
You know, the dogs didn't have to wait for me
to feed them when you were in Lssana.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I look back at that though, as a victim of
being tired. Of course, you know what I mean, because later,
when I am well rested, I look back now. I
look back at it, and I laughed. But how many
times by the time I was like, I'm getting the
car of.
Speaker 6 (10:01):
Leaving, Oh my goodness, and apologize for your attitude yesterday
or no, I.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Think you should.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
There's been so many times where I'm tired and I
will either snap at like the kids or Scott, and
I realize it's because I'm tired immediately afterwards, and I'm like, sorry,
Mommy is just really tired, and just.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
Get some sleep and we'll be all good.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Oh my god.
Speaker 6 (10:22):
Stress. I try to be good with it and like
be like I'm running on a few hours asleep, like sorry,
if I'm a brat today and then Coulding calls me
crazy because apparently on the Crazy people give you a
warning on.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
If you're going to be a Brady. I'd rather have
the warning, honestly,