December 17, 2025 • 41 mins
On today’s show: Rubi and her husband buy a projector for their bedroom, a caller shares her dilemma about her partner’s ex using his Netflix account, and Sisanie gives advice on the best dating apps to use. Listen NOW on the free iHeartRadio app!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air On Air with a Ryan Seacrest, one.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Of two point seven Kiss FM. All right, Systney, TikTok
wants you to meditate. Now, this is something a lot
of people are hearing about.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Yeah, they're introducing this new feature called meditation and Sleep
hours aim to help teens manage their screen time and
get better sleep.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
So, if you're under the age.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Of eighteen and using TikTok after ten pm, the Apple
automatically pause your scrolling.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
And there's not going to help people just figure outw
to bypass.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
The well they want you.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
They're going to want to lead you through a guided
meditation to help you wind down. If you keep on
scrolling after the meditation, it'll give you another gentle nudge
to take a break.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
I mean, I guess that's probably the extent of it.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I still bypass right.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yes, you can buypass it whatever, but at least maybe
like it does, like it jolts their system. They're scrolling, scrolling,
throwing ten pm hits and it's like, all right, time
to meditate, and.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Maybe they do it, maybe they don't.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
But saying that this will hopefully help with teens' mental
health and all this, this.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Is, this is the impetus to this is all of
the I'm guessing are all the mental health issues kids
are having everything they're being sued too by.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yes, in our state, TikTok is facing serious legal challenges.
A bunch of states, including California, are suing TikTok, saying
the app's been messing with kids' mental health and collecting
their info.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Also without asking.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Even the Justice Department and the FTC are jumping in
claiming TikTok's been breaking privacy rules and making the app
just way too addictive to teens specifically.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Well, they're addicted to all of us, but it's troubling
for early you know, when you're starting off in life exactly.
But didn't we watch the news or a documentary where
I'm not saying TikTok specifically, but like the early creators
of all of this stuff knew how addictive it was
that they didn't let their own kids.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Use the yapsure right, Yes, they were all interviewed and
it's like would you got your kids on it?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And the line no, no, it's bad for them. But
they created the app on the social dilemma. That was
the social that was the doc we watch. It's kiss
FM about to do a Ryan's Roses. Also, there's something
that's dividing people on the internet this morning. It's the
ex husband's ring. So tell me where you stand on this,
Sysney and Tanya. There's a thirty year old groom. Okay,
(02:20):
groom is thirty years old. He posted this on Ready.
He says he's got an issue with his fiance over
one detail of her wedding day outfit. She wants to
wear her deceased husband's wedding ring on a chain around
her neck and he doesn't love that anymok, what do
(02:40):
you think any more? Context? Yes, all right. So the
bride's name is Emily and she married this guy very
young and of courtuate. He died in a tragic accident.
Years later, she met her now fiance who's helped her
through her grief and get through anniversaries and things like that.
And Emily says she wouldn't be where she is now
now having gone through that loss, So carrying the ring
(03:03):
is part of who she is. But the fiance they
helped to get through all of that, doesn't love it.
Like where do you stand on him?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
I think he's wrong.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
If he's already been there helping her throughout the grief
and all that.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
What is it to him if he wants she wants
to celebrate.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I feel bad on both sides of this because I
feel bad. I'd always feel bad.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
But maybe she can remember him in some other way,
because I just feel like a ring on a wedding
day should be your husband, the ring that you get
from your husband, not like.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Rings of But she didn't divorce this guy, I know,
but like he died, and if he wouldn't have died,
she wouldn't be marrying this new guy.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I think this is a very touchy one.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
But why.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
The ring?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
What would let a candle or something?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Like maybe?
Speaker 5 (03:48):
Or are you gonna have a chair set up like
I've seen people do, like people who have been so.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Like you put a chair in the memory of the city.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
That's good for like grandma and grandpa or whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
You don't put a chair of your axe there.
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Whatever, it's better than a ring on your wedding dage.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
No, a chair stranger for me? If I almost looking
at the chair, yes, never what if somebody comes over
and they sit on your chair.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
I think the ring is just it's more hidden, Like
some guests might not even know that she's.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Wearing round your wedding on your wedding dress. It's going
to be tucked into her dress. Who knows.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I don't think I can take a stand on this one,
because either way, I feel bad. Sometimes there is no
end to a story because FM okay, Ruby, So tell
us what's the drama at home?
Speaker 7 (04:29):
So you know, me and David just recently moved in together,
well actually I guess it's been over a year now,
but we got our own place together. And so before that,
I never had a TV in my bedroom. I just
I don't know why. I just never wanted one. I
never cared for one. And then when we moved in together,
we initially didn't have a TV or any kind of
(04:51):
like projector. And then we just decided maybe we should
get a projector so we can still have like our walls.
You know, you could still put art up, you could
still have like blank walls, but you don't have you know,
you still have entertainment.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
But you put an image up there when there's nothing there, right.
Speaker 7 (05:09):
Yes, And so we decided to get a projector.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
But now I feel like it just kind of not
kills the vibe.
Speaker 7 (05:17):
But when you go to sleep, it's the first thing
you uh talk about, right, You're like, what should we watch?
Versus actually like just talking to each other And I
don't need anversation.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
I should do that, I do.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I don't ever talk in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Does this does the projector make a fan sound?
Speaker 8 (05:44):
Like?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Is there a sound to the projector? Also, no, it's not.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
It's not that loud. It's not loud, but I've heard
loud ones that sound very annoying.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Yeah, that bothers me. I can't get past it.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
It's like a projector from like when we were in school's.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
Come a long way.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Really, So you're saying that because you have the projector,
it's all the anticipation about the priority of watching something.
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Yes, versus like, oh, let's just talk about our day.
And again I don't need I don't need like an
hour chat. But I feel like before we would lay
in bed and you just kind of sit there and
you talk a little bit more, and now the focus
is on what should we watch versus that.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Will you'll think that'll burn off, like that'll go way
after the projector has been there for a while.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
No, it never did before.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
Don't you do that?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Okay, so if you didn't have the projector I'm a TV,
wouldn't you do this in the living room in front
of the TV and then you go to bed when
you go to bed?
Speaker 9 (06:38):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I don't think so, I just se does he want
to talk? I feel like he's probably thrilled with this
projector I know.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I think he doesn't think of it in the same
way that I do.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm just started to think about this whole concept. Like
when you do lay down to go to sleep, to
go to bed, I find that the time not to
bring stuff up, because then you can't fall asleep. I like,
if you know, if I'm in a relationship, I like
for us to lay there and look up at the
ceiling and do some breathing. We breathe, breathe, breathe. It's
like decompressed to sort of turn your brain off and
(07:12):
then to fall asleep. Yeah, I have to announce, Okay,
I'm flipping, and then I'm going. Then I'm not out.
I have flounce.
Speaker 7 (07:21):
I read an article too that said that that is
like a relationship killer, is being on your phones or
watching TV.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
Before that's all we do.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Oh I did see that as well. They actually say
the most annoying thing partners do right before bed that's
ruining relationships is using your phone. I read that book. Yeah, bedtime, So.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I think that's why I'm in my head now because
I'm like, oh my god, we do this.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Oh my gosh, you just got married a day ago.
You're gonna get through it.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
We watch TV.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Sysney, She's worked through everything. Yeah, I'm the expert on
a two point seven kiss FM. All every trying to
save money to the grocery store. So experts say, if
you bring this, you'll spend less. And that is not
a water bottle, ased, Tanya, guess it is a sweater.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Sweater?
Speaker 10 (08:02):
Oh yes, smart supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold
choppers choose products emotionally to cope with the cold, and
they spend more.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
So I thought it was for the food.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
It has to be for the food.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to
keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I always thought they keep you cold so that you
want to get out of there faster, so you're like
moving quicker.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
But they don't want you to get out of there faster.
They want you to stay in linguage, just like bye
bye bye bye bye.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
Go go go go.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Emotionally, that's what the research says. So pack a sweater
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cannot see the truth in a state of anger when
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Kiss FM, LA's number one hit music station. Let me
grab Evan on the line. Evan, good morning, how are you?
Speaker 11 (09:34):
Good morning?
Speaker 12 (09:35):
I'm well, how are you.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
I'm great, So you don't want your sister's fiance to
be a groomsman? Tell me about that.
Speaker 12 (09:43):
It's not me, it's so my fiance and we're getting
married next year and we're currently planning the wedding, which
is fun.
Speaker 8 (09:52):
But she told me that she doesn't want me to
ask my sister's fiance to be my group mean, and
that kind of puts me in a weird position.
Speaker 12 (10:05):
And the backstories. My sister had already told me that
her fiance will be asking me to be a groomsman
in their wedding, and my sister will be a bridesmaid
in my wedding, So I feel like it's like rude
not to, you know, include him, so kind of trying
to figure out what other people think.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Well, I know, I so you don't want to include
her fiance the guy in your groomsman party? Is that right?
Speaker 11 (10:40):
My fiance told me she, uh, she doesn't want me
to ask my sister's fiance to be my groomsmen.
Speaker 8 (10:47):
Because basically she think it's because.
Speaker 12 (10:50):
We're not that close with my sister's fiance, which is
kind of true. I don't hang out with him, but
my sister.
Speaker 8 (10:58):
I'm fine with it.
Speaker 11 (10:59):
I'm cool.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I don't want what's the problem, what's about you? If
you don't care? She doesn't want it, don't ask him.
Speaker 11 (11:04):
It's my fiance, she's saying, don't ask him, because.
Speaker 6 (11:08):
Does she don't want your sister to be her bridesmaid.
Speaker 12 (11:13):
She's She's basically saying, it's like they're not married yet
and they'll be in all the photos. It's kind of like,
really petty if you.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Ask me, like she doesn't think they're going to go
to the distance.
Speaker 11 (11:23):
It' it's it's my fiance. She's like, she doesn't want
me to ask him to be the groomsman.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
But if it's your fiance, then listen to your fiance.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
Don't ask But it's his groomsmen, but he doesn't really care.
Speaker 12 (11:39):
Sounds like yeah, but they're asking they're asking me to
be the I'm going to be the groomsmen.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
At their wedding. Q.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
That is going to cause a big stir. I think
you need to convince your fiance that this is the
right thing to do and just make him a groomsman
and move on.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
But why, guys, do you can ask for for your
wedding that you don't necessarily really want, like, do what
you want to do.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
I agree, Well, he wants to do it, but it's
FIANCEA doesn't want to do it.
Speaker 6 (12:06):
So he wants to do it because he's going to
ask him to be a groomsman. But that doesn't matter.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
It does to Evan.
Speaker 11 (12:13):
And my sister.
Speaker 12 (12:15):
My sister is going to be a bride's maid in
my wedding, so it'd be kind of weird not to
include him, right.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
I think it would be personally just include him?
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Did you guys, do you ten years out of my lane?
I don't like it weddings get conscious, like they're two complicated.
I don't like it when it gets to be I'm
doing something because of someone else. It should be the
celebration of the people who are getting married, without overthinking
and without I'm trying to please everybody else. That's why
(12:45):
I know it's not possible in most situations not but
then you got to figure something else out, because if
you're having a wedding to please other people for certain
reasons and quit pro quoting, we lose the spirit of
the web.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
It's not that give a deal to have him as
a groomsman. Who cares? I care why because he.
Speaker 6 (13:06):
Should do what he wants to do.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
He wants to have him as the groomsman.
Speaker 13 (13:09):
I don't think.
Speaker 11 (13:11):
I don't think you do.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Deep down, I would listen to fiance. Let's not create
problems in the ocean.
Speaker 4 (13:16):
Beance is creating the problems.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
His fiance is going to create the problem if he
does not have him as a groomsman.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
That's going to cause a whole bixter. Maybe it's because
I've only been to one wedding. I don't understand any
of this.
Speaker 9 (13:32):
I mean, uh, yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Any any guidance here? Do they give you any guidance?
Speaker 11 (13:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (13:40):
I mean I should try to talk her into I
think I need.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
To be more.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yeah, I cook her like a nice dinner and like
whine and dine her.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
And then just tell her what's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
All right, Well, good luck with this, Thank you. Why
do I not understand what's happening?
Speaker 4 (13:55):
You did not understand what's happening, So it was coated.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Between there's a fiance, a sister in two weddings happening.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
You have to do it in terms where like it's us.
So like if Tanya and Tubs are.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Getting married, I can't do that anymore.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
And I'm Tub's sister, but Mark is my fiance.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
I can't play this game.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Tanya doesn't want Mark to be in the wedding because
she doesn't think deep down that me and Mark are
going to actually get married or we're pregnant to divorce
one day or who knows.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
So she's telling Tubbs.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
So she's telling Tubbs, don't put Mark as one of
your groomsmen, because I don't even want him in all
the pictures. So the fiance is the one that's causing
all the problems already.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Maybe he needs to break up.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
It's fine, no, but like, honestly, it's like she's not
wrong because an ex boyfriend of mine was in all
my sister's wedding photos and I'm so pissed about it.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Your your ex is it groomsman?
Speaker 5 (14:51):
No?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
How is he all the picture?
Speaker 5 (14:53):
Because there's in all the family photos we took, like
family photos.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Yeah, yeah, well I was in a picture of your
wedding crying next to your groom Yeah. Made People magazine
and now people asking me about why it was so
emotional on your.
Speaker 6 (15:06):
Wedding on your own I.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Did, yeah, you did? You lies? Kiss Let me get Jessica,
and this is interesting Jessica and Woodland Hills. So the question, Jessica,
as I understand it, is, is it a problem that
your boyfriend's ex girlfriend still has connection or access to
(15:30):
his Netflix?
Speaker 11 (15:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (15:33):
Yeah, that's the question. Like, you know, we've been dating
for a year, and like a year that little yeah, you're.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Still a bubble, a little circle with her name.
Speaker 9 (15:43):
Yeah, like with her name and like the little picture
and it's not just Netflix, is also his HBO maximum.
Speaker 8 (15:48):
No.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
I thought she just had access to the past where
she's account and you have to see her icon and
her character in the name.
Speaker 13 (15:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (15:59):
And if I wanted to like see what she's watching,
I can do that too, you know.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Okay, that is not do you ever do that?
Speaker 3 (16:08):
I like sabotaged like a bunch of baby Shark videos,
so I would.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Yeah, I think having the bubbles too much. I mean,
look the access with the password. I still think people
I know use mine because I'm like I didn't want's that. Uh,
but the password thing is a little more complicated. I
guess you gotta change it, which is it's not.
Speaker 6 (16:26):
That complicated all the passwords, just change it.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
It's been a year year, I don't like the bubble.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
I don't like the bubble. I think it's a problem.
What does your boyfriend say about it?
Speaker 9 (16:38):
Like he says it's fine. You know, she can't afford it.
He doesn't mind sharing it, and like, you know, to me,
it's like a sign he can't let her go. Yeah, okay, cool.
So I'm like not overreacting, but like if I'm.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Not, I don't like it. Get into the air of
the bubble. You just kick the bubble out yourself. Do
you have a bubble?
Speaker 14 (16:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (16:57):
I do. So it's weird. So it's like his ount
her account because it's older than my account. You know,
I'm third on the tear.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
Oh no, this has gotta stop.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Yeah, you need delete the bubble. He needs to understanding.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Give me the password. I'll do it for you.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
See you very upset about it, all right, thank you, Jess. No,
no bubble.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Yeah, I'd be pissed too.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Hey, I have just show you, guys, show me how
to get rid of the close captioning. I can never
figure that out.
Speaker 4 (17:24):
You want to get rid of it? Why?
Speaker 5 (17:25):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I don't need it on all the shows cause I
found myself reading the bottom of the screen.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Oh I love caption.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
Sometimes it comes up before what they say, and I
was like, I already know what they're gonna say.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
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Speaker 15 (18:21):
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Your age.
Speaker 15 (18:36):
I have twenty seven.
Speaker 6 (18:38):
Oh she's twenty seven, Okay, uh.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
And and is it because you want kids of your
own and not with someone else.
Speaker 15 (18:47):
Well, honestly, it's because he has spoken about his baby
mama before. I've heard she's a little bit crazy. I
don't love to use that word, but I just am
a little bit worried about getting too involved in their situation.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
If you're already having those feelings and you can't look
past them, then I think that's your sign.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
All right, you are living a version of this, and
potentially it wasn't twenty seven.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
That's a big difference.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Yeah, you look twenty seven to me. Go ahead, thank you.
You've inherited kids in a way.
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Yeah, of course, I have step kids. I think that
it's a personal choice for me.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
I oh.
Speaker 5 (19:27):
When I was dating, it was never it was never
a question like, I oh, if you were single and
didn't have kids, it was fine. If you were single
with kids, it was also fine. It was all fine
for me. So I never had that going into it.
But I think some people know themselves really well and
just know that that's not for them, And I think
that's perfectly fine to know that.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
So you should end it if you feel that way,
Because I think at one point thought I'm not so
sure I would want that. I'd like to start, you know, new,
fresh with everything, and then time goes by and I
don't like kids don't have kids?
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Yeah, it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Of your friends, an Tanya has kids and she's great.
You know, she has a lot of them, Tony, A
lot of my friends have a lot of kids.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Which friends are you telling me?
Speaker 1 (20:12):
One of the single ones? Way A while back, I
was like, that is fine. I think I don't so
to me. But I'm not twenty seven, and so there
are a lot of things that I don't I don't
care about or matter to me anyway.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
If I was twenty seven, I would think that's way
too much drama to Genesis. So I'm with you, right,
And if you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
Yeah, it's it's yours. It's how you feel. Thank you
for that.
Speaker 15 (20:36):
There's no way I could have thank you?
Speaker 1 (20:39):
Okay, are you gonna end it?
Speaker 15 (20:41):
I mean, I there is more to this story.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Well, what do we need to know, Jenesis? What's the
genesis of this story?
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Grab the popcorn?
Speaker 15 (20:50):
Nice? I told him this, and then out of nowhere,
a couple of days ago, I got a DM from
his best friend trying to convince me to stay with
him and to keep seeing him. And now I just
don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
Why his best friend Pradon likes you guys together and
thinks he's happy it's trying to be a good friend.
Speaker 15 (21:10):
Well should I should I give him another chance?
Speaker 1 (21:14):
I can't tell you, like, I don't have a problem
with somebody having kids if I meet them, but you did, same?
Speaker 15 (21:20):
Yeah, Okay, good point.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
I think if we're here, you should end it, because
this is a you don't You don't take it to
the radio unless you have a strong feeling. So I
think you're probably better off for you ending it and
you'll find your right person. Thank you for thank you
for trusting us with the conversation, Genesis. I appreciate listening.
Speaker 15 (21:40):
Okay, thank you, Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
Bye bye. Yeah. I think also as time goes by,
you start realizing I'm finding a lot of things. At
the beginning, you're like, I need all these things right
at the beginning one stage in your life, you're like, yes,
who cares, I got a boyfriend on this side? Fine,
(22:03):
matter so much?
Speaker 6 (22:04):
Oh my gosh, No, you just.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Need you seed a one box or two check not seven.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
That's what I'm saying. In your twenties, the checklist for
the perfect perfect it was, Oh my gosh, it was endless.
But as you get older, you're just not that you compromise,
but you just like you. You accept things better because
you're wider.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
You get to my chapter, you're like, totally fine, all
of it.
Speaker 6 (22:27):
You like you like me, not a boyfriend on the side.
You deserve better than mine.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
What about grandkids? Is that a deal breaker?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
I've never asked that, but the team thinks that's hysterical.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
I literally choking on my water.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Well so is somebody else back there? You're saying if
I met someone had grandkids, well.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
Yeah, like there they've had kids.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
I don't think I'm old enough for someone happening.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
That's not truth.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Look at we were just talking about Manny on the streets.
He said grandpa now and you look at him and
you're like, that's guy's like my you're a little bit older.
But he had kids super young.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
In our in our defense, like to answer question, I
don't find many my type, So no, it would not
work for me. There with Ryan Seacrest, one of two
point seven Kiss FM. All right, so sisnanty, you're saying
that if you're not meeting your soulmate, not you, it's
the dating app you might be using. Break it down,
(23:30):
it could.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
Okay, So I read this roundup of the best dating
apps Unmashable and it breaks down which app is best
for you, uh, for the person that you're looking for.
And I was actually very surprised that e Harmony came
out on top as one of the best apps if
you're serious about finding the one. I always knew it
was a serious back back in the day a website,
and so now an app. I know somebody one our boss, Biotto,
(23:54):
found her husband on e harmony and it's a very
more like detailed compatibility quick is that you put on
there and it really matches you with the right person.
And I truly feel like she did find the right
person through e Harmony. And then there's Hinge, and well,
as we know, is a big advocate for Hinge.
Speaker 4 (24:16):
They say the.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
Whole vibe is designed to be deleted, which means love
that it's great if you actually want the relationship. Plus
the prompts make it easier to kind of spark real conversations. Okay,
Tinder is on the list as well, which I was like,
I didn't I didn't know if you were still doing
the Tinder.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
But Tinder is for casual dating.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
That's kind of just like, that's the stigma that it's received,
and it's if you want to.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
For a while.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
It's if you want to meet a lot of people fast, right, Tubbs.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
That's what I'm told you when we were hold on.
You did it when we were in brill in Brazil,
in Brazil broadcasters. Yeah, I understand that, but hold on,
but hold on. We went to Rio to broadcast this
show for the Olympics for two weeks, and that's when
you decided to tinder tindering in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
Not here, but there I met.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
One of his tender days there go on e harmony
to meet the love of his life. And I don't.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Remember any of this. I'm just saying he took the
two weeks in Brazil to start.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
It was four weeks.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
Yeah, and it was also Tubbs's birthday during that vacation.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Slash work. Yes, so okay, don't ask how, I don't
ask how many matches he made something else.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Okay, Bumble is on the list. Ideal if you're making
the first move. You don't want to be flooded with
messages women message here first, So that is still a
fan favorite. Coffee meets Bagel is on there, Okay, so
they're saying that Coffee meets Bagel is good for if
your over decision fatigue, and it sends you curated matches daily,
(25:52):
so it's more intentional. And then, okay, Cupid is great
for deep thinkers. The profile is more detailed and questions
to help you match up with people who actually share
your values and interest And this one was actually kind
of funny to me, but I'm like, maybe it makes sense.
The app's called Thursday, and this one only works one
day of the week yep, Thursdays, and it creates this
sense of urgency and keeps you from getting burnt out
(26:15):
on the dating apps. So you kind of just commit
your Thursday to swipe look see if you match, and
then you don't think about it until the next week.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
I'm overwhelmed with the streamers, the number of streamers there are,
the number of dating apps there are just overwhelmed with apps.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
But think about it.
Speaker 5 (26:30):
You could just go to any bar anywhere in any
city and meet someone, so it's like.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I don't I don't go to a bar to meet someone.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
Well maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Oh well, maybe it is the problem.
Speaker 3 (26:40):
Could you imagine Ryan just walking into a bar by myself,
sitting under the cow by himself.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Hey, how are you doing?
Speaker 4 (26:49):
I mean, I do it.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
If I'm on vacation by myself or like a work
trip or something, I'll go down to the hotel bar,
venture out into the city.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
Oh maybe that's your problem.
Speaker 4 (27:00):
That's aggressive. Maybe he doesn't have a problem.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Yeah, maybe I just choose to moan about it to
you guys, but truly, deep down, Yeah, please call us
with any relationship drama. I'm in the mood today. Think
we're we're ready for it today, We're in the mood.
So Victoria is on the phone with a little bit
of this. Victoria, very interesting and I appreciate you wanting
(27:33):
to share this with us right now this morning. Tell
us why you are second guessing your significant other's attraction
to you.
Speaker 14 (27:45):
Yeah. So I'm dating someone new and he is divorced,
which is totally fine. He's been very upfront about that
since the beginning. That's not an issue. And we've been
together for like two months now. But the other day
I was at his place and I was looking through
some of his pictures and I saw a picture of
his ex wife and we are like completely identical. We
(28:09):
look exactly the same. And I made a joke about
it in the moment, like Wow, you must really have
a type, and he acted like he maybe hadn't noticed
that we.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Look I don't know, And what are the features that
are so similar?
Speaker 14 (28:25):
Like we both just have like the exact same dark hair.
We have, like it's like the same exact nose and mouth.
We even have like the same green eyes. It just
is like a pretty specific combination that is like would
be crazy not to notice.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
You don't sound upset about it, So are you playfully
giving a hard time? Are you actually thinking that you
are filling the place of her?
Speaker 14 (28:50):
Well, that's what I couldn't I think I was playfully wondering.
And then when he was like, oh, I have no idea,
Like when he was like, I've never noticed that before,
I was like, is this a big red flag? And
you're just like trying to slot me into the place
that your ex wife has? Like, is am I even
you know a factor here? Or you maybe it's.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
Not an issue like, that's just he hands a type.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
But do people have types?
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Certain people do? I think so?
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Really?
Speaker 5 (29:18):
Yeah, you know, look at an interesting question that Ryan provokes,
because we all say we have a type, right, we
all think we have a type, and then do you
end up with said type?
Speaker 3 (29:32):
You did the man who always described Tanya looked exactly
like Robbie.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
You think so, yeah, for sure, because you told us,
But not.
Speaker 6 (29:39):
Really because not really, not really.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Nobody can see your yeah, and you cannot really because
not really you got it, not really, because I.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Think certain people have types, you know t tark El
Musa from Flip or Flop and his ex wife and
his new wife Heather from Selling Sunset Like they actually
made a joke video the other day and put it
on social about how much they look alive.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Exactly, Victoria. Do you watch those shows? Do you have
any idea what they're saying?
Speaker 15 (30:06):
I haven't seen any of those shows.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
But is he showing I mean, does he show you that,
like everything is everything else good in the relationship, he
shows you the kind of respect that you want to
That's a good question.
Speaker 14 (30:18):
Yeah, I like I thought it was going super well.
It just kind of weirds me out, like how people
get the same dog and give it the same name
even after the first dog died.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
I did not sorry, different show. I I mean, I
think if you think it's a type, but if it's
not bothering the relationship, then I guess he's sort of like.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
Yeah, is he a good man? He treats you right,
that's all that matters.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
Yeah, all right, Well, good luck, Victoria. A type? I mean,
Michael Calvin Harris spitting images practically twins.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
You see what I mean?
Speaker 1 (30:53):
You don't have a type.
Speaker 4 (30:54):
I don't have a type. All my ex boyfriends look
completely different.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Rub you have a type.
Speaker 4 (31:00):
By the way, Calvin your next boyfriend, because.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
The magazines are going to set the record straight. I did.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
I used to have a type, but now I mean,
my type is David. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Good answer, Kayla, you're single type?
Speaker 13 (31:21):
I thought I did, but I don't know if I
do anymore.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
Well know, the type you had shouldn't be because it
never works out, So get a new type. No, what
is your type?
Speaker 7 (31:33):
I mean the looks wise, I feel like they're just
a little bit more like rocker like tattoos.
Speaker 13 (31:39):
But I never actually end up with.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
A guy like that, So change your type, type shift, but.
Speaker 13 (31:47):
I still like that type and that it doesn't come
to me.
Speaker 3 (31:50):
Don't don't give up on that type doesn't worked out
in the past.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
Nobody has a type.
Speaker 3 (31:55):
I think people have a type. I think you see
you think whatever your type is, that's your type at
the moment. But then all of a sudden you meet
somebody else and they may look completely different from that person,
but there's some common denominator that still connects them all
together because it's the type.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
Honey, you told us every guy that you've ever dated
embodies Robbie's characteristics.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
No, no, no, not every guy.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
I know. I just made that, you know, I just
made really.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
The actor that he was like, thought was so hot and.
Speaker 6 (32:31):
Then the mixed between dev Patel and Zachary.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
That's what I meant.
Speaker 6 (32:37):
And then we meet Robbie.
Speaker 4 (32:38):
I was like, literally could.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Be his cousin.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
I will stand, I will die on this hill. That
nobody has a type. Everybody says they.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Have a type.
Speaker 6 (32:49):
But you really don't.
Speaker 4 (32:51):
Stop with the air quotes.
Speaker 10 (32:52):
No one person who does that in your life because
you used to not air quote.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Now all you do is.
Speaker 6 (32:58):
Airport done it for the last thirty seconds because you've.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
Got the last twenty minutes rights one O two point
seven kiss FM. Hey Nathan Wiskvina, how are you bro
how good? How are you solid? Thanks for asking? So
you say your girlfriend broke her arm? What's the question?
Speaker 16 (33:17):
Yeah, So, first of all, thank you for taking my call.
I was just wondering if I coul get a group opinion, OK,
because all the west friends are all over the place
with their opinion. Anyways, next next week with my governor
and I are going up to Big Bear, just have
I can ask a low weekend with each other. And
initially I was planning on to propose to her, but
(33:38):
she unfortunately broke her arm and it's her left arm.
So I'm just wondering, like, should I still propose because
like you know, obviously left arm's you know, the ring arm,
the ring hand and all the photos that are going
to be taking. I just I don't think that she's
gonna love having that one time I do this have
the photos with the cast on.
Speaker 15 (33:58):
So I don't know.
Speaker 16 (34:00):
I just wonder what you guys think.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
No, she's just gonna be so happy that you proposed.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
I don't think so you should.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
What are you gonna wait another six months.
Speaker 5 (34:12):
Yeah, what's six months when you have rested her life lifetime?
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Nobody ever looks at these pictures ever.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
Again, you do know you will not time out in
your best shape and form when this happens.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
It doesn't matter. She's gonna be so happy she doesn't
ring on her finger. It doesn't matter if her whole
arms are broken.
Speaker 1 (34:30):
Do it? I say, wait, this is so hard. Let's
get a backroom opinion on this, because sometimes we are
not good.
Speaker 7 (34:45):
I feel like, if she's been waiting for a while
and you are already like in the headspace that you
want to do it, go for it. She's gonna be
happy regardless. She's not gonna care about the cash. She's
gonna be happy.
Speaker 2 (34:55):
She got the ring.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Now, Nathan ask Rupy how long she waited?
Speaker 2 (35:00):
Did you wait a lifetime?
Speaker 1 (35:04):
Years?
Speaker 8 (35:05):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (35:06):
Years? Contracts for Newton contract renews? Oh man, you got
your manicure fresh for a Yeah, it's coming gone.
Speaker 16 (35:21):
That's you guys. You guys are leaning I should still
do it.
Speaker 4 (35:25):
I am leaning.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
You're split.
Speaker 6 (35:27):
Actually, I say no.
Speaker 13 (35:28):
I say, wait, oh, so we have is it two?
Speaker 16 (35:31):
No's one? Yes, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
I think it's going to be such a it's gonna
make such a great story.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
Yes, yeah, let me take it from me, Yeah, the expert.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
Then I would go with those who know what they're
talking about here when it comes engagements, good luck, brother,
and congratulations, good news in your life. This is kiss
f M l ast one a two point seven kiss FM. Uh.
So let's get into this in a relationship. It is important,
and we advocate that you take time to just be.
(36:07):
Don't even make a plan, just literally, I don't know
if you can. Maybe you do have to make a plan,
but just be, like put your phone down, put any
device that chirps away and down and like talk, yes,
ask questions, laugh, And people are doing this on something
(36:31):
called the bottle Night. Now.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Yeah, so this couple went viral because they posted what
they do and they kind of they call it bottle night.
And I'm sure every couple has polished off a bottle
of wine or two in their day and sitting there
and talking and stuff like that. But I guarantee you
that you did not lock your phone away or didn't
have the TV on in the background or your Apple Watch.
Speaker 4 (36:52):
Even so, this is.
Speaker 3 (36:53):
Completely going off the grid, and it's almost like you're camping.
I don't know if you guys have ever been camping
where you don't have Wi Fi and you just don't
have any sort of question in camping.
Speaker 6 (37:02):
Well, I'm saying like recently, never been camping.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Because I just did it like two years ago and
it was such a trip because we were kind of
like on two different campsites and I didn't have Michael
and I was like, oh, I'll just text it. My
brother looks at me, He's like, you can't text him,
and I was like, oh my gosh, it's such a
weird adjustment. So, yes, going off the grid completely for
bottle night means that the two of you lock your
phones away, the TV is off, and each of you
(37:26):
grab a bottle of your favorite wine. So you polish
off two bottles by sitting there and just talking and
spending the taf You have your.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Own bottle back and forth like a couple. I guess
you can do whatever you want. You take a sip
by take a sip. You take it, and you're supposed
to drink it without a glass right out of Yes, yes,
that's the catch.
Speaker 4 (37:47):
I think the bigger takeaway is that the devices are.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Out of the I'm not shocked you say that not
the people will do that. I often will put my
device in a drawer just to put it out of
the way.
Speaker 6 (38:00):
You're out of the yeah, out of the norm.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
I put it in a drawer, And sometimes I forget
which draw I put it in, because you know, you
just sort of say I'm putting it somewhere. Then you
put it away, and then you're like, what I put?
Where did I go? But I love to put my
device away. Okay, So if we were to do bottle
night and put our phones away, what would you choose
to drink? Siciny?
Speaker 3 (38:21):
I would definitely do a red maybe a Bordeaux.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Oh my gosh, he beats out in no time. That's
got a high percentage of alcohol. Well that's what I
would want if that would put me to sleep so fast. Okay,
what would you pick? Tanya?
Speaker 6 (38:38):
Probably an orange natural wine.
Speaker 1 (38:43):
Do you like them? The color of them freaks me out?
Speaker 6 (38:45):
Yeah, same, we do like them.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Obs. What would you pick? I like a Sando VICI
like a Barolo or that's what I was gonna choose,
a Sendovas. Yeah, that's good stuff, that's the and I
was gonna choose like an Italian wine for me, a Kianti.
I love I love a Kianti, So I would you
we could have bottle night, bro, I'm down right. When
(39:09):
is the guy coming in from West Virginia? Though I
don't want to. I don't want to have a conflict
in your social schedule. Uh yeah, I like I like
to send you the grape as well. Let's make it
box night, everybody, come on, let's have some fun. Ruby.
What would your what would your bottle be?
Speaker 2 (39:25):
I'd probably do like is it game or gamey.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Heard of it?
Speaker 7 (39:29):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (39:30):
It's really good. It's a red or a pino?
Speaker 1 (39:34):
Right? All right? Well thanks, No one's doing with Rose
michaela who you have?
Speaker 4 (39:43):
That's like day drinking.
Speaker 13 (39:43):
I probably have a pino as well.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
Yeah, oh, very very good. Answers were so sophisticated wine
drinkers around here. Different guy. All right, let's come back
Bottle night here at two point seven kiuse all right,
every trying to save money to the grocery store. So
experts say, if you bring this, you'll spend less. And
that is not a water bottle, as Tanya guess it
(40:07):
is a sweater.
Speaker 4 (40:09):
Sweater?
Speaker 10 (40:10):
Oh yes, smart supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold
choppers choose products emotionally to cope with the cold, and
they spend more.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
So I thought it was for the food.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
It has to be for the food.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to
keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.
Speaker 5 (40:30):
I always thought they keep you cold so that you
want to get out of there faster, so you're like
moving quicker.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
But they don't want you to get out of there faster.
They want you to stay in language just like bye
bye bye bye bye, go go go go emotionally. That's
what the research says, So pack a sweater to the store.
Today's quote. We do these every morning. You cannot see
your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you cannot see the
truth in a state of anger when the water's calm
clarity comes. Just way to beat, Take a breath, don't reacts.
(41:00):
It's good, that's true. You're on kiss all right, kiss
a fat guys, Thank you so much, Thank you, This
is me Tanya, back room, great show, Thank you for
being here. Twas fun, twas all right? What's next? You
want to do a meeting? Sure? I said that, Like Georgia,
do you want to treat you want to do a meeting,
I have a good one. Guys. Tomorrow we're back with
(41:20):
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From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air On Air with a Ryan Seacrest, one.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Of two point seven Kiss FM. All right, Systney, TikTok
wants you to meditate. Now, this is something a lot
of people are hearing about.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Yeah, they're introducing this new feature called meditation and Sleep
hours aim to help teens manage their screen time and
get better sleep.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
So, if you're under the age.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Of eighteen and using TikTok after ten pm, the Apple
automatically pause your scrolling.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
And there's not going to help people just figure outw
to bypass.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
The well they want you.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
They're going to want to lead you through a guided
meditation to help you wind down. If you keep on
scrolling after the meditation, it'll give you another gentle nudge
to take a break.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
I mean, I guess that's probably the extent of it.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I still bypass right.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yes, you can buypass it whatever, but at least maybe
like it does, like it jolts their system. They're scrolling, scrolling,
throwing ten pm hits and it's like, all right, time
to meditate, and.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Maybe they do it, maybe they don't.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
But saying that this will hopefully help with teens' mental
health and all this, this.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Is, this is the impetus to this is all of
the I'm guessing are all the mental health issues kids
are having everything they're being sued too by.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yes, in our state, TikTok is facing serious legal challenges.
A bunch of states, including California, are suing TikTok, saying
the app's been messing with kids' mental health and collecting
their info.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Also without asking.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Even the Justice Department and the FTC are jumping in
claiming TikTok's been breaking privacy rules and making the app
just way too addictive to teens specifically.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Well, they're addicted to all of us, but it's troubling
for early you know, when you're starting off in life exactly.
But didn't we watch the news or a documentary where
I'm not saying TikTok specifically, but like the early creators
of all of this stuff knew how addictive it was
that they didn't let their own kids.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Use the yapsure right, Yes, they were all interviewed and
it's like would you got your kids on it?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And the line no, no, it's bad for them. But
they created the app on the social dilemma. That was
the social that was the doc we watch. It's kiss
FM about to do a Ryan's Roses. Also, there's something
that's dividing people on the internet this morning. It's the
ex husband's ring. So tell me where you stand on this,
Sysney and Tanya. There's a thirty year old groom. Okay,
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groom is thirty years old. He posted this on Ready.
He says he's got an issue with his fiance over
one detail of her wedding day outfit. She wants to
wear her deceased husband's wedding ring on a chain around
her neck and he doesn't love that anymok, what do
(02:40):
you think any more? Context? Yes, all right. So the
bride's name is Emily and she married this guy very
young and of courtuate. He died in a tragic accident.
Years later, she met her now fiance who's helped her
through her grief and get through anniversaries and things like that.
And Emily says she wouldn't be where she is now
now having gone through that loss, So carrying the ring
(03:03):
is part of who she is. But the fiance they
helped to get through all of that, doesn't love it.
Like where do you stand on him?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
I think he's wrong.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
If he's already been there helping her throughout the grief
and all that.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
What is it to him if he wants she wants
to celebrate.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
I feel bad on both sides of this because I
feel bad. I'd always feel bad.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
But maybe she can remember him in some other way,
because I just feel like a ring on a wedding
day should be your husband, the ring that you get
from your husband, not like.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Rings of But she didn't divorce this guy, I know,
but like he died, and if he wouldn't have died,
she wouldn't be marrying this new guy.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I think this is a very touchy one.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
But why.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
The ring?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
What would let a candle or something?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:47):
Like maybe?
Speaker 5 (03:48):
Or are you gonna have a chair set up like
I've seen people do, like people who have been so.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
Like you put a chair in the memory of the city.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
That's good for like grandma and grandpa or whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
You don't put a chair of your axe there.
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Whatever, it's better than a ring on your wedding dage.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
No, a chair stranger for me? If I almost looking
at the chair, yes, never what if somebody comes over
and they sit on your chair.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
I think the ring is just it's more hidden, Like
some guests might not even know that she's.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Wearing round your wedding on your wedding dress. It's going
to be tucked into her dress. Who knows.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I don't think I can take a stand on this one,
because either way, I feel bad. Sometimes there is no
end to a story because FM okay, Ruby, So tell
us what's the drama at home?
Speaker 7 (04:29):
So you know, me and David just recently moved in together,
well actually I guess it's been over a year now,
but we got our own place together. And so before that,
I never had a TV in my bedroom. I just
I don't know why. I just never wanted one. I
never cared for one. And then when we moved in together,
we initially didn't have a TV or any kind of
(04:51):
like projector. And then we just decided maybe we should
get a projector so we can still have like our walls.
You know, you could still put art up, you could
still have like blank walls, but you don't have you know,
you still have entertainment.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
But you put an image up there when there's nothing there, right.
Speaker 7 (05:09):
Yes, And so we decided to get a projector.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
But now I feel like it just kind of not
kills the vibe.
Speaker 7 (05:17):
But when you go to sleep, it's the first thing
you uh talk about, right, You're like, what should we watch?
Versus actually like just talking to each other And I
don't need anversation.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
I should do that, I do.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I don't ever talk in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Does this does the projector make a fan sound?
Speaker 8 (05:44):
Like?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Is there a sound to the projector? Also, no, it's not.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
It's not that loud. It's not loud, but I've heard
loud ones that sound very annoying.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Yeah, that bothers me. I can't get past it.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
It's like a projector from like when we were in school's.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
Come a long way.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Really, So you're saying that because you have the projector,
it's all the anticipation about the priority of watching something.
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Yes, versus like, oh, let's just talk about our day.
And again I don't need I don't need like an
hour chat. But I feel like before we would lay
in bed and you just kind of sit there and
you talk a little bit more, and now the focus
is on what should we watch versus that.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Will you'll think that'll burn off, like that'll go way
after the projector has been there for a while.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
No, it never did before.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
Don't you do that?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Okay, so if you didn't have the projector I'm a TV,
wouldn't you do this in the living room in front
of the TV and then you go to bed when
you go to bed?
Speaker 9 (06:38):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
I don't think so, I just se does he want
to talk? I feel like he's probably thrilled with this
projector I know.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I think he doesn't think of it in the same
way that I do.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm just started to think about this whole concept. Like
when you do lay down to go to sleep, to
go to bed, I find that the time not to
bring stuff up, because then you can't fall asleep. I like,
if you know, if I'm in a relationship, I like
for us to lay there and look up at the
ceiling and do some breathing. We breathe, breathe, breathe. It's
like decompressed to sort of turn your brain off and
(07:12):
then to fall asleep. Yeah, I have to announce, Okay,
I'm flipping, and then I'm going. Then I'm not out.
I have flounce.
Speaker 7 (07:21):
I read an article too that said that that is
like a relationship killer, is being on your phones or
watching TV.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
Before that's all we do.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Oh I did see that as well. They actually say
the most annoying thing partners do right before bed that's
ruining relationships is using your phone. I read that book. Yeah, bedtime, So.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I think that's why I'm in my head now because
I'm like, oh my god, we do this.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Oh my gosh, you just got married a day ago.
You're gonna get through it.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
We watch TV.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Sysney, She's worked through everything. Yeah, I'm the expert on
a two point seven kiss FM. All every trying to
save money to the grocery store. So experts say, if
you bring this, you'll spend less. And that is not
a water bottle, ased, Tanya, guess it is a sweater.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Sweater?
Speaker 10 (08:02):
Oh yes, smart supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold
choppers choose products emotionally to cope with the cold, and
they spend more.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
So I thought it was for the food.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
It has to be for the food.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to
keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I always thought they keep you cold so that you
want to get out of there faster, so you're like
moving quicker.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
But they don't want you to get out of there faster.
They want you to stay in linguage, just like bye
bye bye bye bye.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
Go go go go.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Emotionally, that's what the research says. So pack a sweater
to the store. Today's quote. We do these every morning.
You cannot see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you
cannot see the truth in a state of anger when
the water's calm clarity comes. Just way to beat. Take
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Speaker 5 (08:57):
Nick rein Or, the son of director Rob and his
wife Michelle Singer. Reiner, has been charged with two counts
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and Amazon driver was caught on camera stealing a family's
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Speaker 1 (09:24):
Kiss FM, LA's number one hit music station. Let me
grab Evan on the line. Evan, good morning, how are you?
Speaker 11 (09:34):
Good morning?
Speaker 12 (09:35):
I'm well, how are you.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
I'm great, So you don't want your sister's fiance to
be a groomsman? Tell me about that.
Speaker 12 (09:43):
It's not me, it's so my fiance and we're getting
married next year and we're currently planning the wedding, which
is fun.
Speaker 8 (09:52):
But she told me that she doesn't want me to
ask my sister's fiance to be my group mean, and
that kind of puts me in a weird position.
Speaker 12 (10:05):
And the backstories. My sister had already told me that
her fiance will be asking me to be a groomsman
in their wedding, and my sister will be a bridesmaid
in my wedding, So I feel like it's like rude
not to, you know, include him, so kind of trying
to figure out what other people think.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Well, I know, I so you don't want to include
her fiance the guy in your groomsman party? Is that right?
Speaker 11 (10:40):
My fiance told me she, uh, she doesn't want me
to ask my sister's fiance to be my groomsmen.
Speaker 8 (10:47):
Because basically she think it's because.
Speaker 12 (10:50):
We're not that close with my sister's fiance, which is
kind of true. I don't hang out with him, but
my sister.
Speaker 8 (10:58):
I'm fine with it.
Speaker 11 (10:59):
I'm cool.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I don't want what's the problem, what's about you? If
you don't care? She doesn't want it, don't ask him.
Speaker 11 (11:04):
It's my fiance, she's saying, don't ask him, because.
Speaker 6 (11:08):
Does she don't want your sister to be her bridesmaid.
Speaker 12 (11:13):
She's She's basically saying, it's like they're not married yet
and they'll be in all the photos. It's kind of like,
really petty if you.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Ask me, like she doesn't think they're going to go
to the distance.
Speaker 11 (11:23):
It' it's it's my fiance. She's like, she doesn't want
me to ask him to be the groomsman.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
But if it's your fiance, then listen to your fiance.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
Don't ask But it's his groomsmen, but he doesn't really care.
Speaker 12 (11:39):
Sounds like yeah, but they're asking they're asking me to
be the I'm going to be the groomsmen.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
At their wedding. Q.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
That is going to cause a big stir. I think
you need to convince your fiance that this is the
right thing to do and just make him a groomsman
and move on.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
But why, guys, do you can ask for for your
wedding that you don't necessarily really want, like, do what
you want to do.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
I agree, Well, he wants to do it, but it's
FIANCEA doesn't want to do it.
Speaker 6 (12:06):
So he wants to do it because he's going to
ask him to be a groomsman. But that doesn't matter.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
It does to Evan.
Speaker 11 (12:13):
And my sister.
Speaker 12 (12:15):
My sister is going to be a bride's maid in
my wedding, so it'd be kind of weird not to
include him, right.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
I think it would be personally just include him?
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Did you guys, do you ten years out of my lane?
I don't like it weddings get conscious, like they're two complicated.
I don't like it when it gets to be I'm
doing something because of someone else. It should be the
celebration of the people who are getting married, without overthinking
and without I'm trying to please everybody else. That's why
(12:45):
I know it's not possible in most situations not but
then you got to figure something else out, because if
you're having a wedding to please other people for certain
reasons and quit pro quoting, we lose the spirit of
the web.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
It's not that give a deal to have him as
a groomsman. Who cares? I care why because he.
Speaker 6 (13:06):
Should do what he wants to do.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
He wants to have him as the groomsman.
Speaker 13 (13:09):
I don't think.
Speaker 11 (13:11):
I don't think you do.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Deep down, I would listen to fiance. Let's not create
problems in the ocean.
Speaker 4 (13:16):
Beance is creating the problems.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
His fiance is going to create the problem if he
does not have him as a groomsman.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
That's going to cause a whole bixter. Maybe it's because
I've only been to one wedding. I don't understand any
of this.
Speaker 9 (13:32):
I mean, uh, yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Any any guidance here? Do they give you any guidance?
Speaker 11 (13:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (13:40):
I mean I should try to talk her into I
think I need.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
To be more.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yeah, I cook her like a nice dinner and like
whine and dine her.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
And then just tell her what's going to happen.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
All right, Well, good luck with this, Thank you. Why
do I not understand what's happening?
Speaker 4 (13:55):
You did not understand what's happening, So it was coated.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
Between there's a fiance, a sister in two weddings happening.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
You have to do it in terms where like it's us.
So like if Tanya and Tubs are.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Getting married, I can't do that anymore.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
And I'm Tub's sister, but Mark is my fiance.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
I can't play this game.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Tanya doesn't want Mark to be in the wedding because
she doesn't think deep down that me and Mark are
going to actually get married or we're pregnant to divorce
one day or who knows.
Speaker 4 (14:21):
So she's telling Tubbs.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
So she's telling Tubbs, don't put Mark as one of
your groomsmen, because I don't even want him in all
the pictures. So the fiance is the one that's causing
all the problems already.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
Maybe he needs to break up.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
It's fine, no, but like, honestly, it's like she's not
wrong because an ex boyfriend of mine was in all
my sister's wedding photos and I'm so pissed about it.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
Your your ex is it groomsman?
Speaker 5 (14:51):
No?
Speaker 4 (14:52):
How is he all the picture?
Speaker 5 (14:53):
Because there's in all the family photos we took, like
family photos.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Yeah, yeah, well I was in a picture of your
wedding crying next to your groom Yeah. Made People magazine
and now people asking me about why it was so
emotional on your.
Speaker 6 (15:06):
Wedding on your own I.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Did, yeah, you did? You lies? Kiss Let me get Jessica,
and this is interesting Jessica and Woodland Hills. So the question, Jessica,
as I understand it, is, is it a problem that
your boyfriend's ex girlfriend still has connection or access to
(15:30):
his Netflix?
Speaker 11 (15:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (15:33):
Yeah, that's the question. Like, you know, we've been dating
for a year, and like a year that little yeah, you're.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Still a bubble, a little circle with her name.
Speaker 9 (15:43):
Yeah, like with her name and like the little picture
and it's not just Netflix, is also his HBO maximum.
Speaker 8 (15:48):
No.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
I thought she just had access to the past where
she's account and you have to see her icon and
her character in the name.
Speaker 13 (15:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (15:59):
And if I wanted to like see what she's watching,
I can do that too, you know.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Okay, that is not do you ever do that?
Speaker 3 (16:08):
I like sabotaged like a bunch of baby Shark videos,
so I would.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Yeah, I think having the bubbles too much. I mean,
look the access with the password. I still think people
I know use mine because I'm like I didn't want's that. Uh,
but the password thing is a little more complicated. I
guess you gotta change it, which is it's not.
Speaker 6 (16:26):
That complicated all the passwords, just change it.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
It's been a year year, I don't like the bubble.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
I don't like the bubble. I think it's a problem.
What does your boyfriend say about it?
Speaker 9 (16:38):
Like he says it's fine. You know, she can't afford it.
He doesn't mind sharing it, and like, you know, to me,
it's like a sign he can't let her go. Yeah, okay, cool.
So I'm like not overreacting, but like if I'm.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Not, I don't like it. Get into the air of
the bubble. You just kick the bubble out yourself. Do
you have a bubble?
Speaker 14 (16:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (16:57):
I do. So it's weird. So it's like his ount
her account because it's older than my account. You know,
I'm third on the tear.
Speaker 4 (17:04):
Oh no, this has gotta stop.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Yeah, you need delete the bubble. He needs to understanding.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Give me the password. I'll do it for you.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
See you very upset about it, all right, thank you, Jess. No,
no bubble.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Yeah, I'd be pissed too.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Hey, I have just show you, guys, show me how
to get rid of the close captioning. I can never
figure that out.
Speaker 4 (17:24):
You want to get rid of it? Why?
Speaker 5 (17:25):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:25):
I don't need it on all the shows cause I
found myself reading the bottom of the screen.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Oh I love caption.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
Sometimes it comes up before what they say, and I
was like, I already know what they're gonna say.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Oh my gosh, I'm exciting. It's because Genesis Genesis in Hawthorne.
Good morning, Good morning? Hi, how are you in Hawthorne?
Speaker 15 (17:47):
I'm good. How are you?
Speaker 1 (17:48):
I'm great? Thank you? So how can we help you?
You're not sure if you should end things with a
guy you've been dating. This is our specialty. Welcome to
our wheelhouse. What's up? What's the story?
Speaker 15 (17:58):
Okay? Basically is that I've been casually dating this guy
for a few weeks.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
But when you're seeing other guys at the same time,
I want to know what's that? What that means means
to me?
Speaker 15 (18:10):
It means that we're not like calling each other boyfriend
and girlfriend, but we're I'm not going out with anyone
else and I don't think he is either.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Okay, fine, what's the issue?
Speaker 15 (18:21):
The issue is that he has kids, and I've always
kind of been on the fence about this, and I
just realized, I'm I'm too young for baby mama drama
in my life. I don't really.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Your age.
Speaker 15 (18:36):
I have twenty seven.
Speaker 6 (18:38):
Oh she's twenty seven, Okay, uh.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
And and is it because you want kids of your
own and not with someone else.
Speaker 15 (18:47):
Well, honestly, it's because he has spoken about his baby
mama before. I've heard she's a little bit crazy. I
don't love to use that word, but I just am
a little bit worried about getting too involved in their situation.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
If you're already having those feelings and you can't look
past them, then I think that's your sign.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
All right, you are living a version of this, and
potentially it wasn't twenty seven.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
That's a big difference.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Yeah, you look twenty seven to me. Go ahead, thank you.
You've inherited kids in a way.
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Yeah, of course, I have step kids. I think that
it's a personal choice for me.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
I oh.
Speaker 5 (19:27):
When I was dating, it was never it was never
a question like, I oh, if you were single and
didn't have kids, it was fine. If you were single
with kids, it was also fine. It was all fine
for me. So I never had that going into it.
But I think some people know themselves really well and
just know that that's not for them, And I think
that's perfectly fine to know that.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
So you should end it if you feel that way,
Because I think at one point thought I'm not so
sure I would want that. I'd like to start, you know, new,
fresh with everything, and then time goes by and I
don't like kids don't have kids?
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Yeah, it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Of your friends, an Tanya has kids and she's great.
You know, she has a lot of them, Tony, A
lot of my friends have a lot of kids.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Which friends are you telling me?
Speaker 1 (20:12):
One of the single ones? Way A while back, I
was like, that is fine. I think I don't so
to me. But I'm not twenty seven, and so there
are a lot of things that I don't I don't
care about or matter to me anyway.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
If I was twenty seven, I would think that's way
too much drama to Genesis. So I'm with you, right,
And if you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
Yeah, it's it's yours. It's how you feel. Thank you
for that.
Speaker 15 (20:36):
There's no way I could have thank you?
Speaker 1 (20:39):
Okay, are you gonna end it?
Speaker 15 (20:41):
I mean, I there is more to this story.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Well, what do we need to know, Jenesis? What's the
genesis of this story?
Speaker 4 (20:49):
Grab the popcorn?
Speaker 15 (20:50):
Nice? I told him this, and then out of nowhere,
a couple of days ago, I got a DM from
his best friend trying to convince me to stay with
him and to keep seeing him. And now I just
don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
Why his best friend Pradon likes you guys together and
thinks he's happy it's trying to be a good friend.
Speaker 15 (21:10):
Well should I should I give him another chance?
Speaker 1 (21:14):
I can't tell you, like, I don't have a problem
with somebody having kids if I meet them, but you did, same?
Speaker 15 (21:20):
Yeah, Okay, good point.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
I think if we're here, you should end it, because
this is a you don't You don't take it to
the radio unless you have a strong feeling. So I
think you're probably better off for you ending it and
you'll find your right person. Thank you for thank you
for trusting us with the conversation, Genesis. I appreciate listening.
Speaker 15 (21:40):
Okay, thank you, Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
Bye bye. Yeah. I think also as time goes by,
you start realizing I'm finding a lot of things. At
the beginning, you're like, I need all these things right
at the beginning one stage in your life, you're like, yes,
who cares, I got a boyfriend on this side? Fine,
(22:03):
matter so much?
Speaker 6 (22:04):
Oh my gosh, No, you just.
Speaker 1 (22:06):
Need you seed a one box or two check not seven.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
That's what I'm saying. In your twenties, the checklist for
the perfect perfect it was, Oh my gosh, it was endless.
But as you get older, you're just not that you compromise,
but you just like you. You accept things better because
you're wider.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
You get to my chapter, you're like, totally fine, all
of it.
Speaker 6 (22:27):
You like you like me, not a boyfriend on the side.
You deserve better than mine.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
What about grandkids? Is that a deal breaker?
Speaker 1 (22:34):
I've never asked that, but the team thinks that's hysterical.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
I literally choking on my water.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
Well so is somebody else back there? You're saying if
I met someone had grandkids, well.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
Yeah, like there they've had kids.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
I don't think I'm old enough for someone happening.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
That's not truth.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Look at we were just talking about Manny on the streets.
He said grandpa now and you look at him and
you're like, that's guy's like my you're a little bit older.
But he had kids super young.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
In our in our defense, like to answer question, I
don't find many my type, So no, it would not
work for me. There with Ryan Seacrest, one of two
point seven Kiss FM. All right, so sisnanty, you're saying
that if you're not meeting your soulmate, not you, it's
the dating app you might be using. Break it down,
(23:30):
it could.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
Okay, So I read this roundup of the best dating
apps Unmashable and it breaks down which app is best
for you, uh, for the person that you're looking for.
And I was actually very surprised that e Harmony came
out on top as one of the best apps if
you're serious about finding the one. I always knew it
was a serious back back in the day a website,
and so now an app. I know somebody one our boss, Biotto,
(23:54):
found her husband on e harmony and it's a very
more like detailed compatibility quick is that you put on
there and it really matches you with the right person.
And I truly feel like she did find the right
person through e Harmony. And then there's Hinge, and well,
as we know, is a big advocate for Hinge.
Speaker 4 (24:16):
They say the.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
Whole vibe is designed to be deleted, which means love
that it's great if you actually want the relationship. Plus
the prompts make it easier to kind of spark real conversations. Okay,
Tinder is on the list as well, which I was like,
I didn't I didn't know if you were still doing
the Tinder.
Speaker 4 (24:33):
But Tinder is for casual dating.
Speaker 3 (24:36):
That's kind of just like, that's the stigma that it's received,
and it's if you want to.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
For a while.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
It's if you want to meet a lot of people fast, right, Tubbs.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
That's what I'm told you when we were hold on.
You did it when we were in brill in Brazil,
in Brazil broadcasters. Yeah, I understand that, but hold on,
but hold on. We went to Rio to broadcast this
show for the Olympics for two weeks, and that's when
you decided to tinder tindering in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
Not here, but there I met.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
One of his tender days there go on e harmony
to meet the love of his life. And I don't.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Remember any of this. I'm just saying he took the
two weeks in Brazil to start.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
It was four weeks.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
Yeah, and it was also Tubbs's birthday during that vacation.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Slash work. Yes, so okay, don't ask how, I don't
ask how many matches he made something else.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
Okay, Bumble is on the list. Ideal if you're making
the first move. You don't want to be flooded with
messages women message here first, So that is still a
fan favorite. Coffee meets Bagel is on there, Okay, so
they're saying that Coffee meets Bagel is good for if
your over decision fatigue, and it sends you curated matches daily,
(25:52):
so it's more intentional. And then, okay, Cupid is great
for deep thinkers. The profile is more detailed and questions
to help you match up with people who actually share
your values and interest And this one was actually kind
of funny to me, but I'm like, maybe it makes sense.
The app's called Thursday, and this one only works one
day of the week yep, Thursdays, and it creates this
sense of urgency and keeps you from getting burnt out
(26:15):
on the dating apps. So you kind of just commit
your Thursday to swipe look see if you match, and
then you don't think about it until the next week.
Speaker 1 (26:22):
I'm overwhelmed with the streamers, the number of streamers there are,
the number of dating apps there are just overwhelmed with apps.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
But think about it.
Speaker 5 (26:30):
You could just go to any bar anywhere in any
city and meet someone, so it's like.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I don't I don't go to a bar to meet someone.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
Well maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Oh well, maybe it is the problem.
Speaker 3 (26:40):
Could you imagine Ryan just walking into a bar by myself,
sitting under the cow by himself.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Hey, how are you doing?
Speaker 4 (26:49):
I mean, I do it.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
If I'm on vacation by myself or like a work
trip or something, I'll go down to the hotel bar,
venture out into the city.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
Oh maybe that's your problem.
Speaker 4 (27:00):
That's aggressive. Maybe he doesn't have a problem.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Yeah, maybe I just choose to moan about it to
you guys, but truly, deep down, Yeah, please call us
with any relationship drama. I'm in the mood today. Think
we're we're ready for it today, We're in the mood.
So Victoria is on the phone with a little bit
of this. Victoria, very interesting and I appreciate you wanting
(27:33):
to share this with us right now this morning. Tell
us why you are second guessing your significant other's attraction
to you.
Speaker 14 (27:45):
Yeah. So I'm dating someone new and he is divorced,
which is totally fine. He's been very upfront about that
since the beginning. That's not an issue. And we've been
together for like two months now. But the other day
I was at his place and I was looking through
some of his pictures and I saw a picture of
his ex wife and we are like completely identical. We
(28:09):
look exactly the same. And I made a joke about
it in the moment, like Wow, you must really have
a type, and he acted like he maybe hadn't noticed
that we.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Look I don't know, And what are the features that
are so similar?
Speaker 14 (28:25):
Like we both just have like the exact same dark hair.
We have, like it's like the same exact nose and mouth.
We even have like the same green eyes. It just
is like a pretty specific combination that is like would
be crazy not to notice.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
You don't sound upset about it, So are you playfully
giving a hard time? Are you actually thinking that you
are filling the place of her?
Speaker 14 (28:50):
Well, that's what I couldn't I think I was playfully wondering.
And then when he was like, oh, I have no idea,
Like when he was like, I've never noticed that before,
I was like, is this a big red flag? And
you're just like trying to slot me into the place
that your ex wife has? Like, is am I even
you know a factor here? Or you maybe it's.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
Not an issue like, that's just he hands a type.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
But do people have types?
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Certain people do? I think so?
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Really?
Speaker 5 (29:18):
Yeah, you know, look at an interesting question that Ryan provokes,
because we all say we have a type, right, we
all think we have a type, and then do you
end up with said type?
Speaker 3 (29:32):
You did the man who always described Tanya looked exactly
like Robbie.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
You think so, yeah, for sure, because you told us,
But not.
Speaker 6 (29:39):
Really because not really, not really.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Nobody can see your yeah, and you cannot really because
not really you got it, not really, because I.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Think certain people have types, you know t tark El
Musa from Flip or Flop and his ex wife and
his new wife Heather from Selling Sunset Like they actually
made a joke video the other day and put it
on social about how much they look alive.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
Exactly, Victoria. Do you watch those shows? Do you have
any idea what they're saying?
Speaker 15 (30:06):
I haven't seen any of those shows.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
But is he showing I mean, does he show you that,
like everything is everything else good in the relationship, he
shows you the kind of respect that you want to
That's a good question.
Speaker 14 (30:18):
Yeah, I like I thought it was going super well.
It just kind of weirds me out, like how people
get the same dog and give it the same name
even after the first dog died.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
I did not sorry, different show. I I mean, I
think if you think it's a type, but if it's
not bothering the relationship, then I guess he's sort of like.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
Yeah, is he a good man? He treats you right,
that's all that matters.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
Yeah, all right, Well, good luck, Victoria. A type? I mean,
Michael Calvin Harris spitting images practically twins.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
You see what I mean?
Speaker 1 (30:53):
You don't have a type.
Speaker 4 (30:54):
I don't have a type. All my ex boyfriends look
completely different.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Rub you have a type.
Speaker 4 (31:00):
By the way, Calvin your next boyfriend, because.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
The magazines are going to set the record straight. I did.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
I used to have a type, but now I mean,
my type is David. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Good answer, Kayla, you're single type?
Speaker 13 (31:21):
I thought I did, but I don't know if I
do anymore.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
Well know, the type you had shouldn't be because it
never works out, So get a new type. No, what
is your type?
Speaker 7 (31:33):
I mean the looks wise, I feel like they're just
a little bit more like rocker like tattoos.
Speaker 13 (31:39):
But I never actually end up with.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
A guy like that, So change your type, type shift, but.
Speaker 13 (31:47):
I still like that type and that it doesn't come
to me.
Speaker 3 (31:50):
Don't don't give up on that type doesn't worked out
in the past.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
Nobody has a type.
Speaker 3 (31:55):
I think people have a type. I think you see
you think whatever your type is, that's your type at
the moment. But then all of a sudden you meet
somebody else and they may look completely different from that person,
but there's some common denominator that still connects them all
together because it's the type.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
Honey, you told us every guy that you've ever dated
embodies Robbie's characteristics.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
No, no, no, not every guy.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
I know. I just made that, you know, I just
made really.
Speaker 4 (32:29):
The actor that he was like, thought was so hot and.
Speaker 6 (32:31):
Then the mixed between dev Patel and Zachary.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
That's what I meant.
Speaker 6 (32:37):
And then we meet Robbie.
Speaker 4 (32:38):
I was like, literally could.
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Be his cousin.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
I will stand, I will die on this hill. That
nobody has a type. Everybody says they.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Have a type.
Speaker 6 (32:49):
But you really don't.
Speaker 4 (32:51):
Stop with the air quotes.
Speaker 10 (32:52):
No one person who does that in your life because
you used to not air quote.
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Now all you do is.
Speaker 6 (32:58):
Airport done it for the last thirty seconds because you've.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
Got the last twenty minutes rights one O two point
seven kiss FM. Hey Nathan Wiskvina, how are you bro
how good? How are you solid? Thanks for asking? So
you say your girlfriend broke her arm? What's the question?
Speaker 16 (33:17):
Yeah, So, first of all, thank you for taking my call.
I was just wondering if I coul get a group opinion, OK,
because all the west friends are all over the place
with their opinion. Anyways, next next week with my governor
and I are going up to Big Bear, just have
I can ask a low weekend with each other. And
initially I was planning on to propose to her, but
(33:38):
she unfortunately broke her arm and it's her left arm.
So I'm just wondering, like, should I still propose because
like you know, obviously left arm's you know, the ring arm,
the ring hand and all the photos that are going
to be taking. I just I don't think that she's
gonna love having that one time I do this have
the photos with the cast on.
Speaker 15 (33:58):
So I don't know.
Speaker 16 (34:00):
I just wonder what you guys think.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
No, she's just gonna be so happy that you proposed.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
I don't think so you should.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
What are you gonna wait another six months.
Speaker 5 (34:12):
Yeah, what's six months when you have rested her life lifetime?
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Nobody ever looks at these pictures ever.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
Again, you do know you will not time out in
your best shape and form when this happens.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
It doesn't matter. She's gonna be so happy she doesn't
ring on her finger. It doesn't matter if her whole
arms are broken.
Speaker 1 (34:30):
Do it? I say, wait, this is so hard. Let's
get a backroom opinion on this, because sometimes we are
not good.
Speaker 7 (34:45):
I feel like, if she's been waiting for a while
and you are already like in the headspace that you
want to do it, go for it. She's gonna be
happy regardless. She's not gonna care about the cash. She's
gonna be happy.
Speaker 2 (34:55):
She got the ring.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Now, Nathan ask Rupy how long she waited?
Speaker 2 (35:00):
Did you wait a lifetime?
Speaker 1 (35:04):
Years?
Speaker 8 (35:05):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (35:06):
Years? Contracts for Newton contract renews? Oh man, you got
your manicure fresh for a Yeah, it's coming gone.
Speaker 16 (35:21):
That's you guys. You guys are leaning I should still
do it.
Speaker 4 (35:25):
I am leaning.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
You're split.
Speaker 6 (35:27):
Actually, I say no.
Speaker 13 (35:28):
I say, wait, oh, so we have is it two?
Speaker 16 (35:31):
No's one? Yes, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
I think it's going to be such a it's gonna
make such a great story.
Speaker 2 (35:36):
Yes, yeah, let me take it from me, Yeah, the expert.
Speaker 1 (35:45):
Then I would go with those who know what they're
talking about here when it comes engagements, good luck, brother,
and congratulations, good news in your life. This is kiss
f M l ast one a two point seven kiss FM. Uh.
So let's get into this in a relationship. It is important,
and we advocate that you take time to just be.
(36:07):
Don't even make a plan, just literally, I don't know
if you can. Maybe you do have to make a plan,
but just be, like put your phone down, put any
device that chirps away and down and like talk, yes,
ask questions, laugh, And people are doing this on something
(36:31):
called the bottle Night. Now.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Yeah, so this couple went viral because they posted what
they do and they kind of they call it bottle night.
And I'm sure every couple has polished off a bottle
of wine or two in their day and sitting there
and talking and stuff like that. But I guarantee you
that you did not lock your phone away or didn't
have the TV on in the background or your Apple Watch.
Speaker 4 (36:52):
Even so, this is.
Speaker 3 (36:53):
Completely going off the grid, and it's almost like you're camping.
I don't know if you guys have ever been camping
where you don't have Wi Fi and you just don't
have any sort of question in camping.
Speaker 6 (37:02):
Well, I'm saying like recently, never been camping.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Because I just did it like two years ago and
it was such a trip because we were kind of
like on two different campsites and I didn't have Michael
and I was like, oh, I'll just text it. My
brother looks at me, He's like, you can't text him,
and I was like, oh my gosh, it's such a
weird adjustment. So, yes, going off the grid completely for
bottle night means that the two of you lock your
phones away, the TV is off, and each of you
(37:26):
grab a bottle of your favorite wine. So you polish
off two bottles by sitting there and just talking and
spending the taf You have your.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Own bottle back and forth like a couple. I guess
you can do whatever you want. You take a sip
by take a sip. You take it, and you're supposed
to drink it without a glass right out of Yes, yes,
that's the catch.
Speaker 4 (37:47):
I think the bigger takeaway is that the devices are.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Out of the I'm not shocked you say that not
the people will do that. I often will put my
device in a drawer just to put it out of
the way.
Speaker 6 (38:00):
You're out of the yeah, out of the norm.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
I put it in a drawer, And sometimes I forget
which draw I put it in, because you know, you
just sort of say I'm putting it somewhere. Then you
put it away, and then you're like, what I put?
Where did I go? But I love to put my
device away. Okay, So if we were to do bottle
night and put our phones away, what would you choose
to drink? Siciny?
Speaker 3 (38:21):
I would definitely do a red maybe a Bordeaux.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Oh my gosh, he beats out in no time. That's
got a high percentage of alcohol. Well that's what I
would want if that would put me to sleep so fast. Okay,
what would you pick? Tanya?
Speaker 6 (38:38):
Probably an orange natural wine.
Speaker 1 (38:43):
Do you like them? The color of them freaks me out?
Speaker 6 (38:45):
Yeah, same, we do like them.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Obs. What would you pick? I like a Sando VICI
like a Barolo or that's what I was gonna choose,
a Sendovas. Yeah, that's good stuff, that's the and I
was gonna choose like an Italian wine for me, a Kianti.
I love I love a Kianti, So I would you
we could have bottle night, bro, I'm down right. When
(39:09):
is the guy coming in from West Virginia? Though I
don't want to. I don't want to have a conflict
in your social schedule. Uh yeah, I like I like
to send you the grape as well. Let's make it
box night, everybody, come on, let's have some fun. Ruby.
What would your what would your bottle be?
Speaker 2 (39:25):
I'd probably do like is it game or gamey.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Heard of it?
Speaker 7 (39:29):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (39:30):
It's really good. It's a red or a pino?
Speaker 1 (39:34):
Right? All right? Well thanks, No one's doing with Rose
michaela who you have?
Speaker 4 (39:43):
That's like day drinking.
Speaker 13 (39:43):
I probably have a pino as well.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
Yeah, oh, very very good. Answers were so sophisticated wine
drinkers around here. Different guy. All right, let's come back
Bottle night here at two point seven kiuse all right,
every trying to save money to the grocery store. So
experts say, if you bring this, you'll spend less. And
that is not a water bottle, as Tanya guess it
(40:07):
is a sweater.
Speaker 4 (40:09):
Sweater?
Speaker 10 (40:10):
Oh yes, smart supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold
choppers choose products emotionally to cope with the cold, and
they spend more.
Speaker 1 (40:20):
So I thought it was for the food.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
It has to be for the food.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to
keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.
Speaker 5 (40:30):
I always thought they keep you cold so that you
want to get out of there faster, so you're like
moving quicker.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
But they don't want you to get out of there faster.
They want you to stay in language just like bye
bye bye bye bye, go go go go emotionally. That's
what the research says, So pack a sweater to the store.
Today's quote. We do these every morning. You cannot see
your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you cannot see the
truth in a state of anger when the water's calm
clarity comes. Just way to beat, Take a breath, don't reacts.
(41:00):
It's good, that's true. You're on kiss all right, kiss
a fat guys, Thank you so much, Thank you, This
is me Tanya, back room, great show, Thank you for
being here. Twas fun, twas all right? What's next? You
want to do a meeting? Sure? I said that, Like Georgia,
do you want to treat you want to do a meeting,
I have a good one. Guys. Tomorrow we're back with
(41:20):
a Ryan Droses here one two point seven Kiss FM, Mizon. Bye,
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