August 1, 2025 • 41 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to You.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. Let's see Cisini.
A lot of people are talking about I guess psychologists
say there's a scientific method if you're single that should
be applied to dating to stop you from repeating the
same disasters, mistakes, problems, whatever you've had in the past. Right.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yes, And it's the approach of almost acting like you're
a scientist when it comes to your dating life. So
the first step, just like you would in a science
lab or situation, is observation, which involves gathering data and
recognizing patterns.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
And once you've had is huge buzzwords.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Once you've made your observations, it's time to formulate a
hypothesis an educated guest based on the data that you
just realized. And then from there you reflect on your
past relationships and look at what went wrong. You decide
which might lead to better results. It's truly like you're
doing like a science problem in class. The experimentation phase
(01:07):
is where I think it gets a little bit more exciting,
Like you go out with somebody who piques your interest
but isn't traditionally your type, and so that's when you
break that pattern that you've been experiencing for so many years,
and the new relationship is then a chance to test
new hypothesis, ultimately helping you better understand what works for you.
(01:27):
And then finally, wait, wait, wait, I'm not done. Finally,
experts say that regularly analyzing your dating life like this,
whether over brunch with your girls, beers with your boys,
that is very helpful and it's almost like.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
You talk through it. You you rehashing it kind of
an all.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Yes, that is like a great approach for understanding the
perfect match for you because you're bouncing ideas off of
another person, and it gets even a little bit more crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
They say, keep a dating log to really kind of
keep track of your patterns. And then this is where
I tie you in.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Tanya rad because it goes back to your crazy book.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
You're calling in the one.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
You did all these things through my workbook and it
worked at wo RK.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
That in a weird.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Way, Tanya's weird book that we all give her you
know what about, is exactly this. It's the scientific method
you did to find Robbie.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
I did it, and in the one I called him.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
In, I don't like it. I don't like the process
of it. Maybe I'm being too romantic here that aren't
you just supposed to run. The universe puts you in
the same place. You end up having these amazing moments
and connections and beautiful things that continue to evolve, the curiosity,
the relationship that likes that, and all of a sudden
(02:52):
you realize that this is the person for you. Why
do we have to be so clinical and laboratory about it.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Would you tell somebody that was going after their dream
job to just let the universe help them get it? No,
you would tell them to make a plan, to have
a resume, to have all these things lined up. So
why is it any different if you're looking for the one.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Not to respond to you. I think there's something here.
There's something here with the whole breaking of your patterns.
I think that we get stuck in our ways, and
that's why we were like, Oh, I don't know why
it's working out. I don't know why I keep only
after the third day, I don't want to go out
with them anymore. Whatever it is, these are your patterns
that you're stuck in. And even like when I met Michael,
(03:39):
I never thought that I would be with someone younger
than me someone who is Latino because I just had
never dated a Latino man before, and that was me
breaking my pattern.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
And Injoil, I.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Just like to believe in the beauty of alignment universe,
you're going to run into that person, you're going.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
To be It still happened that way for me, though,
that still.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Happened, and line together to get on the plane. You
sit next to them on a flight. Like all that
stuff seems I mean, granted, yeah, but like all that
stuff seems to me better than this.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
But even when you get to that point, like you
can still do the scientific method in that situation, and
I'm like, okay, am I breaking a pattern? Am I
dating differently than I have in the past?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I don't know. There's something here.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Well, you guys are married, Like, okay, I get it.
This is of course there's something. You guys are so
very excited about it because you did it all.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I'll try it.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Try. Its the enthusiastic they are because they're all married
up for the rest of their lives. How great this is.
Isn't this a great way to do it? Yeah, let's
go follow the lab science here and do it because
it's going to work out. Well, No, we're still we
still have this romantic view of how it could happen.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I still am very much romantic, and I still think
that my love story is very romantic.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
It is. But the story that you just shared me
is so clinical.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It's just a method. Give it a try, don't knock
it to try. I'm not gonna tell you. Try it.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Looking here, looking here, one of two point seven, kisse seven.
We've covered a lot of ground this morning. But let
me grab this call here it kiss. This is from Brittany,
isn't he? Tanya pan on this uh Inpasadena says, my
brother wants to propose to his girlfriend, but they never
met in person? What Brittany?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Okay, brows are all raised over here.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Brittany, you your brother wants to propose to a woman
he's never met in person.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Yeah, and they've been dating less than a year.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Wait, how are they dating if they've never met in person?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
I don't really know, Like, I don't know how to
support this.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Sorry, he's dating some of us never met them?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Yeah, I mean I dat be a huge mistake.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
It's not dating.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
No, what are they doing? How many years have they been?
Not seeing each other?
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Less than a year?
Speaker 6 (05:58):
But I mean, I don't want to discourage my brother.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
He's not been in a lot of relationships and he's
also kind of an awkward guy.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
So I just I want to.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Ada, how did they meet in the first place?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Online?
Speaker 6 (06:16):
And she lives in Scotland or some somewhere.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Oh, come on, yeah, she's over these and I guess
like this Beyonce visa takes up to eight months, so
he has to start the process and he's like he
wants to start as soon as possible.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I think you need to stick to view here.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Wait a minute, now, she wants to be supportive because
she says he's been an introvert her his entire license something.
But she got to meet somebody's gonna FaceTime? Like can
you ask to meet at least over FaceTime?
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Right?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Like it's all bad, It's just what are you saying
that she needs to meet him? Or I think he
needs to meet her?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Well, I'm sure they FaceTime. They don't FaceTime. No, I'm
talking about Brittany, Like, Brittany hasn't even met her.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Her brother needs to meet the woman he's going to
propose to period.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Maybe maybe not.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
It's like maybe maybe you have is blind or are
these shows that we watch.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
On TV, shows on TV.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
No what they end up being together, like difference.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
COVID time, A lot of people dated via zoom date.
I'm not opposed to propose to her whatever.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
I think it's like doable, but I would love for
you to at least have a conversation with her.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Meet her. She needs to meet your parents like.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Virtually virtually or the brother does everything's virtual right now because.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
She's really I think you got to be encouraging, but
he needs to meet her. I don't know where else
you go on this one.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Yeah, I just feel like if I tell him don't
go through they he'll.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Shut me out completely.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah you don't want that.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Well, you're his sister, do you know him better than anyone?
Do your best in navigating this with the Neesse. But
please get them to meet in person before they get
engaged for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, they have to happen.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Good luck, good luck. I guess you could just break
off the engagement.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
That's true. No, that should not be the way you
think about And.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I'm trying to be supportive here. You can't roll your eyes.
It's radio.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Not the best advice to say.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
You can close captioning here. Kiss FM. Good morning. Who's
this Hi?
Speaker 8 (08:29):
It's Amanda.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Hi a man. That's Ryan Seacrest and Sysney and Tanya.
How you doing.
Speaker 8 (08:35):
I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2 (08:37):
We're doing all right? So your mom wants to give
your pregnant sister all of your dolls? Is that what
you're calling about?
Speaker 8 (08:44):
Yes, but specifically she wants to give my sister my
American girl dog.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Oh no, what's the problem with that American girl dog?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Like special that.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
You've grown up?
Speaker 8 (08:58):
American girl dolls are very special, especially I have two
of the originals, like Mollie and Samantha. Anyone who's the number?
I mean, there was really only five American girl dolls
back when they really first came out, so you had
to pick the one that looked like you the most.
Like we didn't have like go design your own.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Why do you need an American girl doll now as
an adult?
Speaker 8 (09:24):
Because, I mean, first of all, they're very special to me.
I mean I grew up playing with them, get you know,
dressing them them in different outfits. I have, like their
own little bedroom sets, and you know, I would love
to be able to give them, you know, if I
have a daughter of my own, like I may be
single right now, but I mean, those are my dolls.
Like I shouldn't feel obligated to have to give them
(09:45):
to someone. It should be my decision.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Your sister's daughter of the lead the.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Experienced doesn't even know about these dolls yet, but she will.
Speaker 8 (09:54):
This is not the crime.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
That's that's weird because your niece the America Girl dollster
and buy her own American Girl doll.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
I mean, it's not my fault. My sister just like
didn't really take care of her dolls growing up. She
had an American Girl doll herself. Like this really isn't
my fault. You know, my sister was one of those
girls with like cut the hair. She didn't care like
how expensive these dolls were, Like she cut the hair
of the doll, like you know, drew on them, like
she didn't care about this stuff. Like I really took
(10:24):
care of my American Girl dolls, and I shouldn't be
penalized or forced to do anything. I love my sister
and I'm so excited that she's having a child. But
like if I wanted to give her one of them
or both of them, that should be my decision, and
I shouldn't even feel pressured to do any of that sort.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Amanda, I don't know a girl here, but I think
there may be some deep rooted issue between you and your.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Sister that then definitely something happened.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I'm sure you love her, but there's a deep rooted
issue with your sister based on what I just heard.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
I mean, well I do. I mean, I'm the younger sister,
she is the oldest sister. If there's that dynamic, but
it all, I mean, I think it really just comes
down to the sun. So, like I mean, I love
my sister.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
But again, like.
Speaker 8 (11:11):
I would never expect somebody, I wouldn't expect her to
give anything to my children. But she didn't want to
get willingly.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Okay, well, why don't get these dolls back and then
let's see how time goes, and maybe you'll want to
do it yourself for your you know.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
And by the way, your sister's pregnant right now, like
she's your niece. Wouldn't even have these dolls until she's
at least five or six.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Do you want to keep one? It's like fifty to
fifty best of both.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Doesn't want to do any of this time screaming.
Speaker 8 (11:41):
And here's the thing, and here's the thing. And you know, again,
I'm so sorry to like interrupt, but if I have
two daughters myself, and then I don't have anything to
get I see.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
All right, well, then let's table this, let's get that,
let's table it, let's table it. And then also just
take a look at your relationship with your sister while
you're at it, and lock these dolls up and good luck, Amanda.
All right, core of the day coming up here in
a second. Right now, this is like real stuff. You're
going out tonight and you're single, and you want to
pick up line. They say these actually work, Well they're three.
(12:15):
First one, I couldn't help, but notice you have a
stunning smile, and I couldn't leave without coming over to
introduce myself. I think that's great. Yeah, so then what
do you do? Hopefully it works? Right?
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Is that how you would say it? Like with that tone?
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Can you please read it like as if you were
actually doing to do it?
Speaker 2 (12:33):
All right? Uh, I'm sorry to bother you, but I
I couldn't help, but notice you have a stunning, like
most beautiful smile, and I didn't want to leave without
coming over to say hi. And then you know that
I have more.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Okay, keep going a few more.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
The next one, you are way too cute to be
waiting alone. Can I buy your drink? I don't love
that one so much.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
That one's a little cheesy.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
It's cheesy a right. The final one, they say, dating experts,
dating coaches say, these work these days. You look so familiar.
Has anybody ever told you look like insert celebrity name here,
she's here or she's my celebrity crush? So I had
to come and.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Say hi, telling them that their celebrity crushes a little direct.
But I think it's I like the comparing them to
a celebrity.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, but then I mean, would you not be enamored
by that? I think I would be.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Do you know why I think these three are working
is because they're direct, and I feel like a lot
of people these days, with the way they flirt or
approach people is like, are they.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
From here? Right?
Speaker 9 (13:36):
Well?
Speaker 2 (13:36):
They do. They're on record to be working these days.
Today's quote the people you attract reflect the wounds you
need to heal.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Okay, judge a mental I mean she's very very touchy.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Today, Judge Judy over there, don't bring up the pit
Whight Sysney with the headlines this morning on this Friday,
La Kiss What do you have? Kiss FM headlines with
siciny Well.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
A mysterious illness linked to the Venice Canals has taken
the life of a seventh dog, now warning pet owners
to remain vigilant. Stingray injuries are spiking in Seal Beach,
reaching twelve to twenty reports daily. A magnitude four point
three earthquake in San Bernardino County shook parts of SoCal yesterday,
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and after wrapping a two year tour, justin Timberlake revealed
he's been diagnosed with lyme disease.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
Why at two point seven Kiss FM. A new poll
found these are some of the top simple joys in
life that people just absolutely love. One waking up after
good night's sleep, A cup of coffee, simple pleasures, simple pleasures,
catching up with an old friend or loved one, the
smell of coffee not even drinking it. Going to a
(14:54):
local farmer's market. And I bring this up because TONI,
you're having a intimidation with your farmers.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Yeah, you know, the beef beef with the farmers, not beef,
not beef.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
I think what I realized, so I used to be
a farmer's market girly like that was my Sunday routine.
I went every Sunday and that's where I did all
my grocery shopping.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Like I knew my local farmer's market. I knew it
in and out.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
And then this past weekend we went to a farmer
We never go to farmers markets anymore, haven't gone in
like years. So we went and we like fumbled our
way through. We didn't know where anything was. And we
spent an hour there and that came out with a
box of dates, a handful of flowers, and a box
of berries.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
What's the issue.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
I don't know how to like navigate, I don't know
how to like go in. I don't know how to
pick the best ones.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
I don't know. We've established you're rusty.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
What's the difference between organic and not certified organic?
Speaker 1 (15:51):
But not pesticides?
Speaker 2 (15:52):
And you're not you're in the weeds on all that.
Let me just tell you will not find nicer people
anywhere outside of the farmer's market, farmers market vendors, the farmers,
their families, their brothers, their sisters, their moms or dads,
their cousins, everybody behind the table in front of the banner,
(16:12):
the best people on earth. They're just the nicest people,
offering me samples right bagging my guava gama. That's the
very person to go to.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
That's what I'm saying. I start talking intimidating.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well, do I always do a lap? I do a
lap first, and I establish, yeah, I do a lap.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
They say to do that with buffets too, Well.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
I always do a buffet lap because I don't want
to prioritize. Yeah, let's take a lap and then we
come back and break it down exactly.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
You never start piling on your play right at the
beginning of a buffet.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
I think you got to do a lap now. I
also am well known for forgetting every single Farmer's market
bag I have when I get to the farmer's market
and having to like juggle all the stuff getting out
of there. But take a lap, take inventory, take your time.
Farmer's mark is not meant to be was meant to
be actually peaceful.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I know, I bet I felt.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
I left feeling like I still have to go to
the grocery store tomorrow, and do you know what I mean?
Like I wanted to get all my groceries and I
felt like I didn't have a plan, I didn't know
what I was doing.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
I felt very Is is this a bigger issue?
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Well, I don't want to put words in your mouth,
but Sistani might.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
What do you want me to say?
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Like you, how hard is it to just pick out
some food?
Speaker 9 (17:24):
No?
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Or is it like my routine? I'm too stuck in
my routine?
Speaker 6 (17:27):
No.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
I feel like there's just there's this anxiety exuding out
of you as of late.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Oh, like you can't make a decision.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Something in indecisiveness. Maybe that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Indecisiveness. Yes, okay, got it.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Dates for the wedding. We did get the dress check box.
But now the farmer's market, I mean indecisiveness. I think
is it? Maybe is mercury retrograding.
Speaker 10 (17:50):
Because it shouldn't be that hard to pick berries and no,
I wanted to do all my grocery shopping again, it
shouldn't be that hard, Like if you needed to do
all of it, then get your eggs, get your berries,
get you that feels this way?
Speaker 6 (18:05):
Can you can't?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
It can happen one of two point seven kiss at them.
It's a second date update and these can be a
disaster or they can work out. So I'm so anxious
to see which way this goes.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
You never know.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Sean reached out to us and he's on the phone here. Basically,
he met her in a spin class. The instructor took
a picture of the class one weekend and tagged them both.
So he messaged her and she responded right away. They
had a great first date, and then she sent him
a weird message. And now she's not responding. So let
(18:43):
me get Sean on the phone. Sean, what was this
weird message she sent you?
Speaker 7 (18:48):
So she she sent me, uh, you know, I asked
her out and she again and she was like, uh,
I don't think so, like keep looking I.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Don't think so keep looking at It's very rude to me.
Is she a nice person?
Speaker 8 (19:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (19:06):
We have like a really good time. It seemed like
so I don't know what changed.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Yeah, that sounds I mean to me, that sounds rigid.
It sounds not nice.
Speaker 6 (19:16):
I know, Like, what was what was.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
What was the message you sent her that she responded to.
Speaker 6 (19:23):
I just said, like, I really had a great time.
I'd love to take you out again, dude, nice?
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Yeah? Are you sure? Like do you want to go?
Out with this person. If someone set me those words,
I'd be like, it's okay, I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Yeah, totally him, I'm okay. And are you sure that
the date was that great in her eyes? Apparently not?
Speaker 6 (19:45):
I mean I think so. I mean everything was going fine,
like I mean maybe, like the only thing I could
think like that happened was like we finished dinner and
then like we were kind of like showing each other
photos like a recent trip that I took to like
Joshua Tree, and then like I don't know, maybe there
was a vibe sist or something, and then yeah, and
then like wait a then like night, I send her
the message and I got that back.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Well, let's find out she has agreed to the back
room to come on the air with us. Next. Her
name is Marabelle. Why is she so mean? What happened?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
We'll find out?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Next to Kiss FM, Nice Kiss FM, Los Angeles. Let's
get back to Sean. In a second date update, guy
goes out, meets the spin instructor, They go out, they
have a great date, and then he sends her text
saying yeah, I like to do it again, and she says, no, thanks,
you should keep looking and he can't figure it out,
like there was no sign anything going in the wrong direction.
(20:41):
And then he gets that text back. But Sean, if
I got that text, I wouldn't want to talk to
her again.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
You know, he wants to know what happened.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
I wouldn't want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
He does.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Well, that's why he's here and we're gonna do it.
And so Marabel's on our other line. Sean, don't say anything,
be very quiet. Let's see what we can find out. Okay, Hi, Marabell,
thank you so much for coming on with us. How
are you? It's kiss FM, Ryan Seacrest and Tany and
Sisiny here.
Speaker 9 (21:11):
Hey, yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
We are calling you to talk about a guy you
went out with Aankees in your spin class named Sean.
You went out on a date.
Speaker 9 (21:21):
Oh yeah, the cute boy from spin Crass, the.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Cute boy who spins so strong. Right. Is he a
good spinner?
Speaker 9 (21:31):
Yeah, yeah, he's good.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
And you think he fakes it when he when he
turns the I'm a great that's my best acting. When
I take the nod to the right.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
You know, it's just a little bit, not like a
full turn.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Yeah, And then then they'll come around and check me.
I get caught twisting my knob. Anyway, anyway, so Marabel,
tell me about this guy Sean and what you liked
about him and how the date went.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
Yeah, I mean the date went well, and he bought
me dinner, and I liked him really early on. We've
been going to class together for a while now, and
you know, just every time he would look at me
and I would look at him, it was just like butterflies.
So yeah, yeah, we went out.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
Do you teach the class or you go to the class?
Speaker 9 (22:21):
No, I don't teach. No, I just go.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I thought you were the instructor. So you guys are
in the same class. Well, yeah, how did the date end?
How was the end of it?
Speaker 9 (22:35):
I mean it was fine. I mean we, you know,
just said good night and we went our you know,
separate ways.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
And what's the plan now for the next date?
Speaker 9 (22:47):
I I don't think there is gonna be Did he
put you off to this because I told him that
I think he should keep looking?
Speaker 7 (22:55):
Well?
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Why why why did you say that?
Speaker 6 (22:58):
Right?
Speaker 9 (22:59):
I mean I said that because he should he should
keep looking because I'm clearly not up to his standards.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I mean I'm working on it.
Speaker 9 (23:09):
And when I get to where I want to be,
then I mean, well I will not be calling him.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Well, hold on, there's a lot here. What do you
mean you're not up to his standards? Okay?
Speaker 9 (23:23):
I mean do you really want to know?
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Yes, we do, and take a deep breath. You're fine.
Speaker 9 (23:30):
I was showing him pictures on my phone of my
family and my friends, and one of the pictures was
me with my sister and I'm in a bikini, and
he said, and I quote, I love your confidence.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
Yeah, okay, well that's nice.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
No, No, I think he's saying what I think you're saying.
He's saying what what? What is he saying that you
think he's saying.
Speaker 9 (24:04):
I mean, you don't say I love your confidence to
someone who looks great in a bikini.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Yeah, you say you look hot in a bikini, right,
or you look.
Speaker 9 (24:13):
Great exactly exactly. It's to wear a bikini when you
don't have the body for it. It's an insult.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
I understand what she's saying. That's like if you were
just like if I were to walk around with my
shirt off at the beach and you would say I
like your confidence, I feel like, well, that's an insult.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
I see you, So.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
That offended you, understood? He does he even know that
offended you?
Speaker 5 (24:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (24:40):
I mean maybe he didn't realize it, but it's like
that is kind of what that means. You know, even
if he doesn't realize it, that's that wasn't intentional.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
But if he apologized, would that make a difference?
Speaker 9 (24:54):
I do. I mean, it just seems like that's kind
of how he thinks.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
You know, Sean is on the phone. Sean, what did
you mean when you said that?
Speaker 6 (25:06):
That's not what I meant at all? Okay, Like I
thought you looked amazing. You look amazing. Okay, So I'm
sorry to bring up my ex, but like my last
girlfriend was was the type to like only wear a
one piece at the beach with a wrap. She was
super uncomfortable in her body. So I actually do mean
(25:27):
like I loved your confidence, Like that's something I'm not
used to. Like, I just think that's really cool.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
Yeah, I like I believe him.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
It didn't come out that way, Sean, but I know
where you're coming from.
Speaker 9 (25:43):
Okay, Well, I actually like I took it two ways
because I mean, yeah, I thought it was you know,
it takes confidence to wear a bikini with a body
like that. But I also thought it meant it takes
confidence to wear a bikini next to my sister who
is tunning.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
Oh my god, hear some of this.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Maybe some of this is just a little bit of
unneeded insecurity on your part.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Mirabel, And you're in your head a little bit too much.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
So I understand where everybody is on this. But Sean,
I think really liked you. I don't want to speak
for Sean, but really liked you and wanted to go
out again. And maybe now that he understands this miscommunication,
you guys can move on. What do you think, Mirabel?
Speaker 9 (26:28):
Now I've made it weird. I don't know what's weird.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
No, it's just part of it. You're just figuring each
other out.
Speaker 6 (26:36):
Yeah, it's not weird at all, Marabella, Like you look
so hot. I was also I was trying to I
was trying to be respectful, you know, if you were
in public, who was the first date. I didn't want
to come on too strong. I promise, I promise it
won't be weird again.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
So what's the decision here. We've actually are on the air,
as you know, so we've got to keep moving. But
what's the decision?
Speaker 9 (26:58):
He's sweet? You I fine, Like I guess I've got
nothing else to do.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah, okay, well let's make it a little enthusiastics. And
it did be like last resort here all right, Sean,
you're in. Don't screw it up.
Speaker 6 (27:14):
I got the ball to my cart.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Now, good luck you two.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
I do think it's good.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
That was a second date update on air on air
with a Ryan Seacrest. You're on kiss FP. So how
did everybody sleep last night? Except off and on? You
know that's I had some dreams. I can remember them
kind of, but it wasn't the greatest night of sleep,
(27:42):
but you know it was fine. How did you sleep, Tanya?
Speaker 4 (27:48):
So it's funny you ask. I got a ninety eight
percent sleep.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Score, and what was the difference in your night?
Speaker 4 (27:56):
So you're gonna think this is uh not normal. But
so on top of my mouth tape, I put these
like sleeping patches on my temples and like they have
some herbs on them in them, and I had I
got deep sleep. I've never hit in my rem I've
never had twenty six percent in rem.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Ever, first you think it was these herbals patches, I.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Think so and I had some dreams. Now, you put
patches and you tape.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Your mouth shut. You don't have to have a costume
following wrap your hair.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Too, So it's fine. We both look the same.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
She got a start a process at four point thirty
read by eight clearly, but.
Speaker 4 (28:34):
I'm telling you, ninety eight percent is wild.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
It's like she's in a tool shed with all this
stuff before she has to go to bed, all this she.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
Opens, Oh my gosh, I has to keep her patches refrigerated.
It's a process, totally a process. How say I will
actually woke up. I don't know my sleep was whatever.
But I've been doing this thing now where I don't
really watch TV at night, but I scroll Instagram or TikTok,
which I don't think is great for me either, but
(29:03):
I get down these rabbit holes of like crazy theories
or just and then it just kind of like takes
you into that algorithm of whatever it is that you're
starting to like.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Best part about social media.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
So I'm in it and it's yeah, it's soothing sort
of speak. But then I wait, So my phone was
dying and I was like at two percent, and that
should have been my sign to just go to bed,
but no, what do I do? I don't have a
cord charger next to my bed. I have to go
to those stands that you put the phone on. So
I set it up like this, and then I'm just
laying in bed and I'm like scrolling like this, just
(29:36):
like falling asleep, and apparently it landed on whatever video.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
And you know, if they just keep repeating, if you
don't switch it, it.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
Just repeats and reads your peak. I woke up to
Michael being like, are you awake? Like He's in front
of me, like on the side of the bed because
he hadn't gone to bed yet, and I was like,
I wake up, and he's like, why is your phone on?
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Like what are you doing? And I don't know. I
just fell asleep watching whatever video.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
They say not to be on your phone before you
go to sleep, and you know, but also I find
shocking you guys go to bed at different times.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Different times. Yeah, I go to bed earlier.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
I never have been in a relationship where we didn't
go to bed at the same time.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
Yeah, we used to go to bed at the same time.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
But Michael's been working like so crazy with this new
job that he got not so long ago, and so
he pulled in late nights downstairs in the office, so
I had to go to bed early.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
No, I get it, I just have never done it.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Same now, I've gotten up first all my life. I
got the first one to have to go. Yeah, and
then some people will wake up with you. Some people won't.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
I'd say, like it's fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3 (30:34):
I mean sometimes we go to bed together sometimes, you know,
like last you know, the other night, we did not
last night.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
I can safely say, after working the jobs and hours
that I've worked all my life, if you have to
get up before I have to get up, I'm not
getting up.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Like there'll be a world where I have dinner at
nine PM and I wait to get up at like
eleven some year, like.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Eleven in the morning or eleven pm.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
No, I want to eat dinner late and sleep in. Oh,
like maybe when I'm seventy.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
You can hear it.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
On the weekends, Yeah, do you wake up earlier on
the weekends.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
I tried not to throw my schedule off too much
on the weekend.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
Yeah, Eleven's there's no chance I could sleep into eleven.
That's what we're already doing lunch.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
So irreverent, isn't it.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
I mean, back in the day when I was in college,
I did. I made all my classes noon, I could
sleep in.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
That's that's a way to do it in college. Let
me get to Tiana here.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
I almost say Tanya, but it does kind of look
like Tanya, And it looks like Tanya to me.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Tiana in Wittier got an issue with her boyfriend's family.
So what's the problem?
Speaker 9 (31:44):
You can call me whatever you want girl.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
All right, well, your boyfriend's family may have a problem
with that. What's the issue with When.
Speaker 3 (31:53):
Has that ever stopped you before?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Just so oblivious going about your life.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I mean, I just I don't know. I didn't get it.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
Guys, Okay, anyway, thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Of course, what's the problem with your boyfriend's family?
Speaker 9 (32:18):
So we've been dating, like, you know, for a little while.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
He's great, he's very sweet. His family's very sweet.
Speaker 9 (32:26):
But recently we.
Speaker 8 (32:27):
Started doing like Sunday night dinners and after.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
The dinner we all play board games, and I'm like, okay.
Speaker 8 (32:37):
But yeah, it's cute.
Speaker 9 (32:38):
They got like a whole closet full of them, and
but it's like very serious for them. They're super competitive.
They start yelling, it gets ruthless, like to the point
where I don't really want to play anymore.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
What's fun about that?
Speaker 6 (32:53):
You know?
Speaker 1 (32:54):
So, I don't know, is this Do you guys think
this is a.
Speaker 6 (32:57):
Big red flag?
Speaker 8 (32:59):
You know?
Speaker 6 (33:00):
I don't know. I'm worried.
Speaker 9 (33:01):
Maybe there's no future with us if this is how
he and his family asked.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
You know, well, Tanya, I mean you've dealt with new
family most recently. What's your view on this?
Speaker 4 (33:12):
I don't think it's a red flag or a deal breaker.
I think sometimes people let let themselves get in the
heat of the moment in games like this, and I
think it's all I think.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Just laugh it off, take take people as they are.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
And some people are just too competitive, and that's just
the way it is.
Speaker 1 (33:28):
If you can't beat them, join them be just as competitive.
Well that feels why they can be competitive. Why can't Deanna.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
Just just she just has to sit there quietly?
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Well, let them have their thing.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
You know what games are you playing?
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Be part of the family. What are the games we play? Everything?
Code names, raditat cat, take It to Ride?
Speaker 3 (33:53):
You know of anything, Monopoly, Jenga, Jeopardy. It was a
Jeopardy board game.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
Yeah, very there is a real fortune board game. I
bought it for my costume.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Okay, because I don't know if you know, tiny stressing
up as the wheel.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
Yeah, correct, No.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
For you, sweetie, Yeah, your thing and you beat You
Take people for who they are.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Take people who they are. It's the best lesson of life.
It's the best lesson in life.
Speaker 8 (34:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Then your expectations just like take them as they are,
don't expect them to change.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
That's what you should be doing with your family.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Most people will disappoint you, just expect it.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
But no, that's not quite just like two extreme, but
that's true.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Yeah, I have never I have never disappointed you.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Yeah most people, I said, not everybody.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Okay, I'm just saying you don't have I have not
disappointed you. See.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
Okay, Well, this has really put me on the spot
because if I were to say the things that disappoint
me would be still not nice. But they're not. They
don't exist.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
They bring out the popcord.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Maybe happened at the first break of this show if
you remember back all right, Tiana, we love you. I
think let this go and good luck with the relationship.
Speaker 9 (35:31):
Okay, okay, appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
I think it's fun to be competitive when you're playing games.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
It's exciting.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
I think I accidentally get competitive me too. I don't
really care that much about the win, Oh I do. Yeah,
we know how competitive you are.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
You're going down.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
Yeah, right, it's one o two point seven kiss FM.
If you're already questioning your bond and your decision to
be with your life partner, maybe you don't want to
hear what's coming now.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
Maybe you do, though nobody's questioning it. Well, men are
questioning it.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Okay, hold on for a second before we generalize it's
only guys.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
That's what this very kind of What came down to.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
The point is some people I've heard say that they
fell out of love their partner. I know it's unromantic
and it's heartbreaking.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Right, you grow apart or you become like roommates. You
just don't like that spark sometimes is not there.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
And it can be part of life. I mean, maybe
you know, Sisanitanya, maybe there is a benefit to not
getting married yet says But that's what I'm trying to say. No,
I get it, because if you look at life span
an opportunity to fail. The deck is stacked. I know
(37:01):
later you can do it.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
But companionship is like what life is all about.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Yeah, I wouldn't change anything for the world office cute.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
I love you guys.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
I love you guys, but my love for you is
unmatched compared to the love for half of my children,
my husband.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
That's fine and fair. I get a lot of it out.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
I said, I get to go out.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
I was like, I go out.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
I know that that's really cute.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
I don't really get to go out.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
It really is a blessing that we love each other
so much. Like a lot of people go to work
every day and do not like the people they work.
Speaker 2 (37:36):
I get it out, and I also bring you guys
up in conversations with people and.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Like in general.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
When it comes to the whole Kiss staff, someone was saying, like,
you guys all like hang out with each other outside
of work because we like each other.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
That how come no one group replied to the EO
you were.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Going to be when one person does, and then it
just just how many people are on that email thirty
something exactly.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
It was like you and Paul, And then I was like,
that's great.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
We just need those two emails.
Speaker 8 (38:07):
No one.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
I did a reply all to a group email from
our boss time.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
I don't have time to reply alls. Did you appreciate
because I have three kids? No, no reply all.
Speaker 2 (38:19):
And by the way, it was a salute to the
team Kiss that I replied all too with a spirit sentence.
Speaker 1 (38:26):
It was really really cute, well written.
Speaker 3 (38:28):
Yeah team And also you you when you started it out,
you said something about Beata, so it's almost like you
sent it to Beiata.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Yeah, I complimented our boss.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
Yeah, so it was more like, okay, and.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
To work at Kiss, I just feel lucky to work
at Kiss. And that's kind of what I said. I
think we all do.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
No one replied times watching the Daughter game last night,
you have time time to reply all? I can't.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Great we're being sidetracked here anyway. The first love theory,
let's get into.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
It, okay.
Speaker 3 (38:59):
This specific theory is the notion that men men specifically,
never forget their first love. This video has been shared
over like a hundred million times on TikTok, and the
claim is that they will always remember her and want
to get back to her, or they will be always
looking for like a version of her interest in their
(39:19):
next partner. It's very scary.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Really, I always a strong word, but in cases, I
guess you could say.
Speaker 3 (39:26):
I think it's a nostalgia of that time in your life.
You know, first loves usually probably happened when we're teenagers
maybe or maybe early twenties, like, and life was simpler
back then, Like you didn't have as many responsibilities as
as you do now as an adult. So maybe it
goes back to that kind of stuck of being stuck
in that first love era. But I bring this question
(39:50):
up to you Ryan, being one of the only men
in this room. Man, since you're so friendly with all
your ex'es, what kind of feelings do you have towards
your first love?
Speaker 2 (40:00):
Well, who's my first love?
Speaker 1 (40:01):
Well, that's a question for you to answer.
Speaker 2 (40:03):
Getting into that first You don't know my first loved? Well,
I thought it was in high school twice, but then
I look back and think, no, I didn't know how
to love that.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Interesting as an adult, I remember the first girlfriend that
lived with me. That could be it, Yeah, that could
be probably it. And that one was like seven years yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
I remember her.
Speaker 2 (40:30):
Yeah, And but I think I don't know, I see,
do you believe you can fall in love. You can
fall in love different times.
Speaker 4 (40:38):
Yes, I justly I think that. Yeah, I have a
different theory on this. What if a man's first love
is his mother and was trying to find aspects of
his mother in his future.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
I think the psychology in that happens.
Speaker 3 (41:00):
And vice versa, I think with their dads totally.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
So you're saying Ryan his mom no, but.
Speaker 4 (41:10):
That your first love was your mom, don't be bringing
up his mama no, And that you're trying to seek
a partner that has qualities like your.
Speaker 2 (41:17):
Mom, which is great.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
Yeah, your mom the perfect human being on this planet.
I mean that is a tough role to fill. If
that's your goal.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
Well, look could be a great goal. All right, Well,
this is a lot to ponder. I've got to get
a break in. But thank you for this theory that's
going to rattle everybody to that kiss. Thank you guys
so much for that epic Friday morning. It's gonna be
such a great weekend in southern California. We'll talk to
you on Monday.
From Hollywood to You.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. Let's see Cisini.
A lot of people are talking about I guess psychologists
say there's a scientific method if you're single that should
be applied to dating to stop you from repeating the
same disasters, mistakes, problems, whatever you've had in the past. Right.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yes, And it's the approach of almost acting like you're
a scientist when it comes to your dating life. So
the first step, just like you would in a science
lab or situation, is observation, which involves gathering data and
recognizing patterns.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
And once you've had is huge buzzwords.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Once you've made your observations, it's time to formulate a
hypothesis an educated guest based on the data that you
just realized. And then from there you reflect on your
past relationships and look at what went wrong. You decide
which might lead to better results. It's truly like you're
doing like a science problem in class. The experimentation phase
(01:07):
is where I think it gets a little bit more exciting,
Like you go out with somebody who piques your interest
but isn't traditionally your type, and so that's when you
break that pattern that you've been experiencing for so many years,
and the new relationship is then a chance to test
new hypothesis, ultimately helping you better understand what works for you.
(01:27):
And then finally, wait, wait, wait, I'm not done. Finally,
experts say that regularly analyzing your dating life like this,
whether over brunch with your girls, beers with your boys,
that is very helpful and it's almost like.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
You talk through it. You you rehashing it kind of
an all.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Yes, that is like a great approach for understanding the
perfect match for you because you're bouncing ideas off of
another person, and it gets even a little bit more crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
They say, keep a dating log to really kind of
keep track of your patterns. And then this is where
I tie you in.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Tanya rad because it goes back to your crazy book.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
You're calling in the one.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
You did all these things through my workbook and it
worked at wo RK.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
That in a weird.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Way, Tanya's weird book that we all give her you
know what about, is exactly this. It's the scientific method
you did to find Robbie.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
I did it, and in the one I called him.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
In, I don't like it. I don't like the process
of it. Maybe I'm being too romantic here that aren't
you just supposed to run. The universe puts you in
the same place. You end up having these amazing moments
and connections and beautiful things that continue to evolve, the curiosity,
the relationship that likes that, and all of a sudden
(02:52):
you realize that this is the person for you. Why
do we have to be so clinical and laboratory about it.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Would you tell somebody that was going after their dream
job to just let the universe help them get it? No,
you would tell them to make a plan, to have
a resume, to have all these things lined up. So
why is it any different if you're looking for the one.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Not to respond to you. I think there's something here.
There's something here with the whole breaking of your patterns.
I think that we get stuck in our ways, and
that's why we were like, Oh, I don't know why
it's working out. I don't know why I keep only
after the third day, I don't want to go out
with them anymore. Whatever it is, these are your patterns
that you're stuck in. And even like when I met Michael,
(03:39):
I never thought that I would be with someone younger
than me someone who is Latino because I just had
never dated a Latino man before, and that was me
breaking my pattern.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
And Injoil, I.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Just like to believe in the beauty of alignment universe,
you're going to run into that person, you're going.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
To be It still happened that way for me, though,
that still.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Happened, and line together to get on the plane. You
sit next to them on a flight. Like all that
stuff seems I mean, granted, yeah, but like all that
stuff seems to me better than this.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
But even when you get to that point, like you
can still do the scientific method in that situation, and
I'm like, okay, am I breaking a pattern? Am I
dating differently than I have in the past?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I don't know. There's something here.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Well, you guys are married, Like, okay, I get it.
This is of course there's something. You guys are so
very excited about it because you did it all.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I'll try it.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Try. Its the enthusiastic they are because they're all married
up for the rest of their lives. How great this is.
Isn't this a great way to do it? Yeah, let's
go follow the lab science here and do it because
it's going to work out. Well, No, we're still we
still have this romantic view of how it could happen.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I still am very much romantic, and I still think
that my love story is very romantic.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
It is. But the story that you just shared me
is so clinical.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
It's just a method. Give it a try, don't knock
it to try. I'm not gonna tell you. Try it.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Looking here, looking here, one of two point seven, kisse seven.
We've covered a lot of ground this morning. But let
me grab this call here it kiss. This is from Brittany,
isn't he? Tanya pan on this uh Inpasadena says, my
brother wants to propose to his girlfriend, but they never
met in person? What Brittany?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Okay, brows are all raised over here.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Brittany, you your brother wants to propose to a woman
he's never met in person.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Yeah, and they've been dating less than a year.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Wait, how are they dating if they've never met in person?
Speaker 5 (05:36):
I don't really know, Like, I don't know how to
support this.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Sorry, he's dating some of us never met them?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Yeah, I mean I dat be a huge mistake.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
It's not dating.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
No, what are they doing? How many years have they been?
Not seeing each other?
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Less than a year?
Speaker 6 (05:58):
But I mean, I don't want to discourage my brother.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
He's not been in a lot of relationships and he's
also kind of an awkward guy.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
So I just I want to.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Ada, how did they meet in the first place?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Online?
Speaker 6 (06:16):
And she lives in Scotland or some somewhere.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Oh, come on, yeah, she's over these and I guess
like this Beyonce visa takes up to eight months, so
he has to start the process and he's like he
wants to start as soon as possible.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I think you need to stick to view here.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Wait a minute, now, she wants to be supportive because
she says he's been an introvert her his entire license something.
But she got to meet somebody's gonna FaceTime? Like can
you ask to meet at least over FaceTime?
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Right?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Like it's all bad, It's just what are you saying
that she needs to meet him? Or I think he
needs to meet her?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Well, I'm sure they FaceTime. They don't FaceTime. No, I'm
talking about Brittany, Like, Brittany hasn't even met her.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Her brother needs to meet the woman he's going to
propose to period.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Maybe maybe not.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
It's like maybe maybe you have is blind or are
these shows that we watch.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
On TV, shows on TV.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
No what they end up being together, like difference.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
COVID time, A lot of people dated via zoom date.
I'm not opposed to propose to her whatever.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
I think it's like doable, but I would love for
you to at least have a conversation with her.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Meet her. She needs to meet your parents like.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Virtually virtually or the brother does everything's virtual right now because.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
She's really I think you got to be encouraging, but
he needs to meet her. I don't know where else
you go on this one.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Yeah, I just feel like if I tell him don't
go through they he'll.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Shut me out completely.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah you don't want that.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Well, you're his sister, do you know him better than anyone?
Do your best in navigating this with the Neesse. But
please get them to meet in person before they get
engaged for sure.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, they have to happen.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Good luck, good luck. I guess you could just break
off the engagement.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
That's true. No, that should not be the way you
think about And.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I'm trying to be supportive here. You can't roll your eyes.
It's radio.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Not the best advice to say.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
You can close captioning here. Kiss FM. Good morning. Who's
this Hi?
Speaker 8 (08:29):
It's Amanda.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Hi a man. That's Ryan Seacrest and Sysney and Tanya.
How you doing.
Speaker 8 (08:35):
I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2 (08:37):
We're doing all right? So your mom wants to give
your pregnant sister all of your dolls? Is that what
you're calling about?
Speaker 8 (08:44):
Yes, but specifically she wants to give my sister my
American girl dog.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Oh no, what's the problem with that American girl dog?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Like special that.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
You've grown up?
Speaker 8 (08:58):
American girl dolls are very special, especially I have two
of the originals, like Mollie and Samantha. Anyone who's the number?
I mean, there was really only five American girl dolls
back when they really first came out, so you had
to pick the one that looked like you the most.
Like we didn't have like go design your own.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Why do you need an American girl doll now as
an adult?
Speaker 8 (09:24):
Because, I mean, first of all, they're very special to me.
I mean I grew up playing with them, get you know,
dressing them them in different outfits. I have, like their
own little bedroom sets, and you know, I would love
to be able to give them, you know, if I
have a daughter of my own, like I may be
single right now, but I mean, those are my dolls.
Like I shouldn't feel obligated to have to give them
(09:45):
to someone. It should be my decision.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Your sister's daughter of the lead the.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Experienced doesn't even know about these dolls yet, but she will.
Speaker 8 (09:54):
This is not the crime.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
That's that's weird because your niece the America Girl dollster
and buy her own American Girl doll.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
I mean, it's not my fault. My sister just like
didn't really take care of her dolls growing up. She
had an American Girl doll herself. Like this really isn't
my fault. You know, my sister was one of those
girls with like cut the hair. She didn't care like
how expensive these dolls were, Like she cut the hair
of the doll, like you know, drew on them, like
she didn't care about this stuff. Like I really took
(10:24):
care of my American Girl dolls, and I shouldn't be
penalized or forced to do anything. I love my sister
and I'm so excited that she's having a child. But
like if I wanted to give her one of them
or both of them, that should be my decision, and
I shouldn't even feel pressured to do any of that sort.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Amanda, I don't know a girl here, but I think
there may be some deep rooted issue between you and your.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Sister that then definitely something happened.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I'm sure you love her, but there's a deep rooted
issue with your sister based on what I just heard.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
I mean, well I do. I mean, I'm the younger sister,
she is the oldest sister. If there's that dynamic, but
it all, I mean, I think it really just comes
down to the sun. So, like I mean, I love
my sister.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
But again, like.
Speaker 8 (11:11):
I would never expect somebody, I wouldn't expect her to
give anything to my children. But she didn't want to
get willingly.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Okay, well, why don't get these dolls back and then
let's see how time goes, and maybe you'll want to
do it yourself for your you know.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
And by the way, your sister's pregnant right now, like
she's your niece. Wouldn't even have these dolls until she's
at least five or six.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Do you want to keep one? It's like fifty to
fifty best of both.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Doesn't want to do any of this time screaming.
Speaker 8 (11:41):
And here's the thing, and here's the thing. And you know, again,
I'm so sorry to like interrupt, but if I have
two daughters myself, and then I don't have anything to
get I see.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
All right, well, then let's table this, let's get that,
let's table it, let's table it. And then also just
take a look at your relationship with your sister while
you're at it, and lock these dolls up and good luck, Amanda.
All right, core of the day coming up here in
a second. Right now, this is like real stuff. You're
going out tonight and you're single, and you want to
pick up line. They say these actually work, Well they're three.
(12:15):
First one, I couldn't help, but notice you have a
stunning smile, and I couldn't leave without coming over to
introduce myself. I think that's great. Yeah, so then what
do you do? Hopefully it works? Right?
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Is that how you would say it? Like with that tone?
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Can you please read it like as if you were
actually doing to do it?
Speaker 2 (12:33):
All right? Uh, I'm sorry to bother you, but I
I couldn't help, but notice you have a stunning, like
most beautiful smile, and I didn't want to leave without
coming over to say hi. And then you know that
I have more.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Okay, keep going a few more.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
The next one, you are way too cute to be
waiting alone. Can I buy your drink? I don't love
that one so much.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
That one's a little cheesy.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
It's cheesy a right. The final one, they say, dating experts,
dating coaches say, these work these days. You look so familiar.
Has anybody ever told you look like insert celebrity name here,
she's here or she's my celebrity crush? So I had
to come and.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Say hi, telling them that their celebrity crushes a little direct.
But I think it's I like the comparing them to
a celebrity.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, but then I mean, would you not be enamored
by that? I think I would be.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Do you know why I think these three are working
is because they're direct, and I feel like a lot
of people these days, with the way they flirt or
approach people is like, are they.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
From here? Right?
Speaker 9 (13:36):
Well?
Speaker 2 (13:36):
They do. They're on record to be working these days.
Today's quote the people you attract reflect the wounds you
need to heal.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Okay, judge a mental I mean she's very very touchy.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Today, Judge Judy over there, don't bring up the pit
Whight Sysney with the headlines this morning on this Friday,
La Kiss What do you have? Kiss FM headlines with
siciny Well.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
A mysterious illness linked to the Venice Canals has taken
the life of a seventh dog, now warning pet owners
to remain vigilant. Stingray injuries are spiking in Seal Beach,
reaching twelve to twenty reports daily. A magnitude four point
three earthquake in San Bernardino County shook parts of SoCal yesterday,
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and after wrapping a two year tour, justin Timberlake revealed
he's been diagnosed with lyme disease.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
Why at two point seven Kiss FM. A new poll
found these are some of the top simple joys in
life that people just absolutely love. One waking up after
good night's sleep, A cup of coffee, simple pleasures, simple pleasures,
catching up with an old friend or loved one, the
smell of coffee not even drinking it. Going to a
(14:54):
local farmer's market. And I bring this up because TONI,
you're having a intimidation with your farmers.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Yeah, you know, the beef beef with the farmers, not beef,
not beef.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
I think what I realized, so I used to be
a farmer's market girly like that was my Sunday routine.
I went every Sunday and that's where I did all
my grocery shopping.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Like I knew my local farmer's market. I knew it
in and out.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
And then this past weekend we went to a farmer
We never go to farmers markets anymore, haven't gone in
like years. So we went and we like fumbled our
way through. We didn't know where anything was. And we
spent an hour there and that came out with a
box of dates, a handful of flowers, and a box
of berries.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
What's the issue.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
I don't know how to like navigate, I don't know
how to like go in. I don't know how to
pick the best ones.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
I don't know. We've established you're rusty.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
What's the difference between organic and not certified organic?
Speaker 1 (15:51):
But not pesticides?
Speaker 2 (15:52):
And you're not you're in the weeds on all that.
Let me just tell you will not find nicer people
anywhere outside of the farmer's market, farmers market vendors, the farmers,
their families, their brothers, their sisters, their moms or dads,
their cousins, everybody behind the table in front of the banner,
(16:12):
the best people on earth. They're just the nicest people,
offering me samples right bagging my guava gama. That's the
very person to go to.
Speaker 1 (16:25):
That's what I'm saying. I start talking intimidating.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well, do I always do a lap? I do a
lap first, and I establish, yeah, I do a lap.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
They say to do that with buffets too, Well.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
I always do a buffet lap because I don't want
to prioritize. Yeah, let's take a lap and then we
come back and break it down exactly.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
You never start piling on your play right at the
beginning of a buffet.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
I think you got to do a lap now. I
also am well known for forgetting every single Farmer's market
bag I have when I get to the farmer's market
and having to like juggle all the stuff getting out
of there. But take a lap, take inventory, take your time.
Farmer's mark is not meant to be was meant to
be actually peaceful.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I know, I bet I felt.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
I left feeling like I still have to go to
the grocery store tomorrow, and do you know what I mean?
Like I wanted to get all my groceries and I
felt like I didn't have a plan, I didn't know
what I was doing.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
I felt very Is is this a bigger issue?
Speaker 1 (17:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Well, I don't want to put words in your mouth,
but Sistani might.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
What do you want me to say?
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Like you, how hard is it to just pick out
some food?
Speaker 9 (17:24):
No?
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Or is it like my routine? I'm too stuck in
my routine?
Speaker 6 (17:27):
No.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
I feel like there's just there's this anxiety exuding out
of you as of late.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Oh, like you can't make a decision.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Something in indecisiveness. Maybe that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Indecisiveness. Yes, okay, got it.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Dates for the wedding. We did get the dress check box.
But now the farmer's market, I mean indecisiveness. I think
is it? Maybe is mercury retrograding.
Speaker 10 (17:50):
Because it shouldn't be that hard to pick berries and no,
I wanted to do all my grocery shopping again, it
shouldn't be that hard, Like if you needed to do
all of it, then get your eggs, get your berries,
get you that feels this way?
Speaker 6 (18:05):
Can you can't?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
It can happen one of two point seven kiss at them.
It's a second date update and these can be a
disaster or they can work out. So I'm so anxious
to see which way this goes.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
You never know.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Sean reached out to us and he's on the phone here. Basically,
he met her in a spin class. The instructor took
a picture of the class one weekend and tagged them both.
So he messaged her and she responded right away. They
had a great first date, and then she sent him
a weird message. And now she's not responding. So let
(18:43):
me get Sean on the phone. Sean, what was this
weird message she sent you?
Speaker 7 (18:48):
So she she sent me, uh, you know, I asked
her out and she again and she was like, uh,
I don't think so, like keep looking I.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
Don't think so keep looking at It's very rude to me.
Is she a nice person?
Speaker 8 (19:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (19:06):
We have like a really good time. It seemed like
so I don't know what changed.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Yeah, that sounds I mean to me, that sounds rigid.
It sounds not nice.
Speaker 6 (19:16):
I know, Like, what was what was.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
What was the message you sent her that she responded to.
Speaker 6 (19:23):
I just said, like, I really had a great time.
I'd love to take you out again, dude, nice?
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Yeah? Are you sure? Like do you want to go?
Out with this person. If someone set me those words,
I'd be like, it's okay, I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
Yeah, totally him, I'm okay. And are you sure that
the date was that great in her eyes? Apparently not?
Speaker 6 (19:45):
I mean I think so. I mean everything was going fine,
like I mean maybe, like the only thing I could
think like that happened was like we finished dinner and
then like we were kind of like showing each other
photos like a recent trip that I took to like
Joshua Tree, and then like I don't know, maybe there
was a vibe sist or something, and then yeah, and
then like wait a then like night, I send her
the message and I got that back.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Well, let's find out she has agreed to the back
room to come on the air with us. Next. Her
name is Marabelle. Why is she so mean? What happened?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
We'll find out?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Next to Kiss FM, Nice Kiss FM, Los Angeles. Let's
get back to Sean. In a second date update, guy
goes out, meets the spin instructor, They go out, they
have a great date, and then he sends her text
saying yeah, I like to do it again, and she says, no, thanks,
you should keep looking and he can't figure it out,
like there was no sign anything going in the wrong direction.
(20:41):
And then he gets that text back. But Sean, if
I got that text, I wouldn't want to talk to
her again.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
You know, he wants to know what happened.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
I wouldn't want to know what happened.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
He does.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
Well, that's why he's here and we're gonna do it.
And so Marabel's on our other line. Sean, don't say anything,
be very quiet. Let's see what we can find out. Okay, Hi, Marabell,
thank you so much for coming on with us. How
are you? It's kiss FM, Ryan Seacrest and Tany and
Sisiny here.
Speaker 9 (21:11):
Hey, yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
We are calling you to talk about a guy you
went out with Aankees in your spin class named Sean.
You went out on a date.
Speaker 9 (21:21):
Oh yeah, the cute boy from spin Crass, the.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Cute boy who spins so strong. Right. Is he a
good spinner?
Speaker 9 (21:31):
Yeah, yeah, he's good.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
And you think he fakes it when he when he
turns the I'm a great that's my best acting. When
I take the nod to the right.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
You know, it's just a little bit, not like a
full turn.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Yeah, And then then they'll come around and check me.
I get caught twisting my knob. Anyway, anyway, so Marabel,
tell me about this guy Sean and what you liked
about him and how the date went.
Speaker 9 (22:00):
Yeah, I mean the date went well, and he bought
me dinner, and I liked him really early on. We've
been going to class together for a while now, and
you know, just every time he would look at me
and I would look at him, it was just like butterflies.
So yeah, yeah, we went out.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
Do you teach the class or you go to the class?
Speaker 9 (22:21):
No, I don't teach. No, I just go.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I thought you were the instructor. So you guys are
in the same class. Well, yeah, how did the date end?
How was the end of it?
Speaker 9 (22:35):
I mean it was fine. I mean we, you know,
just said good night and we went our you know,
separate ways.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
And what's the plan now for the next date?
Speaker 9 (22:47):
I I don't think there is gonna be Did he
put you off to this because I told him that
I think he should keep looking?
Speaker 7 (22:55):
Well?
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Why why why did you say that?
Speaker 6 (22:58):
Right?
Speaker 9 (22:59):
I mean I said that because he should he should
keep looking because I'm clearly not up to his standards.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I mean I'm working on it.
Speaker 9 (23:09):
And when I get to where I want to be,
then I mean, well I will not be calling him.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Well, hold on, there's a lot here. What do you
mean you're not up to his standards? Okay?
Speaker 9 (23:23):
I mean do you really want to know?
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Yes, we do, and take a deep breath. You're fine.
Speaker 9 (23:30):
I was showing him pictures on my phone of my
family and my friends, and one of the pictures was
me with my sister and I'm in a bikini, and
he said, and I quote, I love your confidence.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
Yeah, okay, well that's nice.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
No, No, I think he's saying what I think you're saying.
He's saying what what? What is he saying that you
think he's saying.
Speaker 9 (24:04):
I mean, you don't say I love your confidence to
someone who looks great in a bikini.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Yeah, you say you look hot in a bikini, right,
or you look.
Speaker 9 (24:13):
Great exactly exactly. It's to wear a bikini when you
don't have the body for it. It's an insult.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
I understand what she's saying. That's like if you were
just like if I were to walk around with my
shirt off at the beach and you would say I
like your confidence, I feel like, well, that's an insult.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
I see you, So.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
That offended you, understood? He does he even know that
offended you?
Speaker 5 (24:39):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (24:40):
I mean maybe he didn't realize it, but it's like
that is kind of what that means. You know, even
if he doesn't realize it, that's that wasn't intentional.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
But if he apologized, would that make a difference?
Speaker 9 (24:54):
I do. I mean, it just seems like that's kind
of how he thinks.
Speaker 2 (24:59):
You know, Sean is on the phone. Sean, what did
you mean when you said that?
Speaker 6 (25:06):
That's not what I meant at all? Okay, Like I
thought you looked amazing. You look amazing. Okay, So I'm
sorry to bring up my ex, but like my last
girlfriend was was the type to like only wear a
one piece at the beach with a wrap. She was
super uncomfortable in her body. So I actually do mean
(25:27):
like I loved your confidence, Like that's something I'm not
used to. Like, I just think that's really cool.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
Yeah, I like I believe him.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
It didn't come out that way, Sean, but I know
where you're coming from.
Speaker 9 (25:43):
Okay, Well, I actually like I took it two ways
because I mean, yeah, I thought it was you know,
it takes confidence to wear a bikini with a body
like that. But I also thought it meant it takes
confidence to wear a bikini next to my sister who
is tunning.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
Oh my god, hear some of this.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Maybe some of this is just a little bit of
unneeded insecurity on your part.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Mirabel, And you're in your head a little bit too much.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
So I understand where everybody is on this. But Sean,
I think really liked you. I don't want to speak
for Sean, but really liked you and wanted to go
out again. And maybe now that he understands this miscommunication,
you guys can move on. What do you think, Mirabel?
Speaker 9 (26:28):
Now I've made it weird. I don't know what's weird.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
No, it's just part of it. You're just figuring each
other out.
Speaker 6 (26:36):
Yeah, it's not weird at all, Marabella, Like you look
so hot. I was also I was trying to I
was trying to be respectful, you know, if you were
in public, who was the first date. I didn't want
to come on too strong. I promise, I promise it
won't be weird again.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
So what's the decision here. We've actually are on the air,
as you know, so we've got to keep moving. But
what's the decision?
Speaker 9 (26:58):
He's sweet? You I fine, Like I guess I've got
nothing else to do.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Yeah, okay, well let's make it a little enthusiastics. And
it did be like last resort here all right, Sean,
you're in. Don't screw it up.
Speaker 6 (27:14):
I got the ball to my cart.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Now, good luck you two.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
I do think it's good.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
That was a second date update on air on air
with a Ryan Seacrest. You're on kiss FP. So how
did everybody sleep last night? Except off and on? You
know that's I had some dreams. I can remember them
kind of, but it wasn't the greatest night of sleep,
(27:42):
but you know it was fine. How did you sleep, Tanya?
Speaker 4 (27:48):
So it's funny you ask. I got a ninety eight
percent sleep.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Score, and what was the difference in your night?
Speaker 4 (27:56):
So you're gonna think this is uh not normal. But
so on top of my mouth tape, I put these
like sleeping patches on my temples and like they have
some herbs on them in them, and I had I
got deep sleep. I've never hit in my rem I've
never had twenty six percent in rem.
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Ever, first you think it was these herbals patches, I.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Think so and I had some dreams. Now, you put
patches and you tape.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Your mouth shut. You don't have to have a costume
following wrap your hair.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Too, So it's fine. We both look the same.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
She got a start a process at four point thirty
read by eight clearly, but.
Speaker 4 (28:34):
I'm telling you, ninety eight percent is wild.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
It's like she's in a tool shed with all this
stuff before she has to go to bed, all this she.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
Opens, Oh my gosh, I has to keep her patches refrigerated.
It's a process, totally a process. How say I will
actually woke up. I don't know my sleep was whatever.
But I've been doing this thing now where I don't
really watch TV at night, but I scroll Instagram or TikTok,
which I don't think is great for me either, but
(29:03):
I get down these rabbit holes of like crazy theories
or just and then it just kind of like takes
you into that algorithm of whatever it is that you're
starting to like.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Best part about social media.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
So I'm in it and it's yeah, it's soothing sort
of speak. But then I wait, So my phone was
dying and I was like at two percent, and that
should have been my sign to just go to bed,
but no, what do I do? I don't have a
cord charger next to my bed. I have to go
to those stands that you put the phone on. So
I set it up like this, and then I'm just
laying in bed and I'm like scrolling like this, just
(29:36):
like falling asleep, and apparently it landed on whatever video.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
And you know, if they just keep repeating, if you
don't switch it, it.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
Just repeats and reads your peak. I woke up to
Michael being like, are you awake? Like He's in front
of me, like on the side of the bed because
he hadn't gone to bed yet, and I was like,
I wake up, and he's like, why is your phone on?
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Like what are you doing? And I don't know. I
just fell asleep watching whatever video.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
They say not to be on your phone before you
go to sleep, and you know, but also I find
shocking you guys go to bed at different times.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Different times. Yeah, I go to bed earlier.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
I never have been in a relationship where we didn't
go to bed at the same time.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
Yeah, we used to go to bed at the same time.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
But Michael's been working like so crazy with this new
job that he got not so long ago, and so
he pulled in late nights downstairs in the office, so
I had to go to bed early.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
No, I get it, I just have never done it.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Same now, I've gotten up first all my life. I
got the first one to have to go. Yeah, and
then some people will wake up with you. Some people won't.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
I'd say, like it's fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3 (30:34):
I mean sometimes we go to bed together sometimes, you know,
like last you know, the other night, we did not
last night.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
I can safely say, after working the jobs and hours
that I've worked all my life, if you have to
get up before I have to get up, I'm not
getting up.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Like there'll be a world where I have dinner at
nine PM and I wait to get up at like
eleven some year, like.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Eleven in the morning or eleven pm.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
No, I want to eat dinner late and sleep in. Oh,
like maybe when I'm seventy.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
You can hear it.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
On the weekends, Yeah, do you wake up earlier on
the weekends.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
I tried not to throw my schedule off too much
on the weekend.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
Yeah, Eleven's there's no chance I could sleep into eleven.
That's what we're already doing lunch.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
So irreverent, isn't it.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
I mean, back in the day when I was in college,
I did. I made all my classes noon, I could
sleep in.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
That's that's a way to do it in college. Let
me get to Tiana here.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
I almost say Tanya, but it does kind of look
like Tanya, And it looks like Tanya to me.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Tiana in Wittier got an issue with her boyfriend's family.
So what's the problem?
Speaker 9 (31:44):
You can call me whatever you want girl.
Speaker 2 (31:48):
All right, well, your boyfriend's family may have a problem
with that. What's the issue with When.
Speaker 3 (31:53):
Has that ever stopped you before?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Just so oblivious going about your life.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I mean, I just I don't know. I didn't get it.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
Guys, Okay, anyway, thanks so much for having me.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Of course, what's the problem with your boyfriend's family?
Speaker 9 (32:18):
So we've been dating, like, you know, for a little while.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
He's great, he's very sweet. His family's very sweet.
Speaker 9 (32:26):
But recently we.
Speaker 8 (32:27):
Started doing like Sunday night dinners and after.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
The dinner we all play board games, and I'm like, okay.
Speaker 8 (32:37):
But yeah, it's cute.
Speaker 9 (32:38):
They got like a whole closet full of them, and
but it's like very serious for them. They're super competitive.
They start yelling, it gets ruthless, like to the point
where I don't really want to play anymore.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
What's fun about that?
Speaker 6 (32:53):
You know?
Speaker 1 (32:54):
So, I don't know, is this Do you guys think
this is a.
Speaker 6 (32:57):
Big red flag?
Speaker 8 (32:59):
You know?
Speaker 6 (33:00):
I don't know. I'm worried.
Speaker 9 (33:01):
Maybe there's no future with us if this is how
he and his family asked.
Speaker 2 (33:06):
You know, well, Tanya, I mean you've dealt with new
family most recently. What's your view on this?
Speaker 4 (33:12):
I don't think it's a red flag or a deal breaker.
I think sometimes people let let themselves get in the
heat of the moment in games like this, and I
think it's all I think.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
Just laugh it off, take take people as they are.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
And some people are just too competitive, and that's just
the way it is.
Speaker 1 (33:28):
If you can't beat them, join them be just as competitive.
Well that feels why they can be competitive. Why can't Deanna.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
Just just she just has to sit there quietly?
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Well, let them have their thing.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
You know what games are you playing?
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Be part of the family. What are the games we play? Everything?
Code names, raditat cat, take It to Ride?
Speaker 3 (33:53):
You know of anything, Monopoly, Jenga, Jeopardy. It was a
Jeopardy board game.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
Yeah, very there is a real fortune board game. I
bought it for my costume.
Speaker 2 (34:19):
Okay, because I don't know if you know, tiny stressing
up as the wheel.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
Yeah, correct, No.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
For you, sweetie, Yeah, your thing and you beat You
Take people for who they are.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Take people who they are. It's the best lesson of life.
It's the best lesson in life.
Speaker 8 (34:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Then your expectations just like take them as they are,
don't expect them to change.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
That's what you should be doing with your family.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Most people will disappoint you, just expect it.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
But no, that's not quite just like two extreme, but
that's true.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Yeah, I have never I have never disappointed you.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Yeah most people, I said, not everybody.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Okay, I'm just saying you don't have I have not
disappointed you. See.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
Okay, Well, this has really put me on the spot
because if I were to say the things that disappoint
me would be still not nice. But they're not. They
don't exist.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
They bring out the popcord.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Maybe happened at the first break of this show if
you remember back all right, Tiana, we love you. I
think let this go and good luck with the relationship.
Speaker 9 (35:31):
Okay, okay, appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
I think it's fun to be competitive when you're playing games.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
It's exciting.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
I think I accidentally get competitive me too. I don't
really care that much about the win, Oh I do. Yeah,
we know how competitive you are.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
You're going down.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
Yeah, right, it's one o two point seven kiss FM.
If you're already questioning your bond and your decision to
be with your life partner, maybe you don't want to
hear what's coming now.
Speaker 1 (36:08):
Maybe you do, though nobody's questioning it. Well, men are
questioning it.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Okay, hold on for a second before we generalize it's
only guys.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
That's what this very kind of What came down to.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
The point is some people I've heard say that they
fell out of love their partner. I know it's unromantic
and it's heartbreaking.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Right, you grow apart or you become like roommates. You
just don't like that spark sometimes is not there.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
And it can be part of life. I mean, maybe
you know, Sisanitanya, maybe there is a benefit to not
getting married yet says But that's what I'm trying to say. No,
I get it, because if you look at life span
an opportunity to fail. The deck is stacked. I know
(37:01):
later you can do it.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
But companionship is like what life is all about.
Speaker 3 (37:05):
Yeah, I wouldn't change anything for the world office cute.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
I love you guys.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
I love you guys, but my love for you is
unmatched compared to the love for half of my children,
my husband.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
That's fine and fair. I get a lot of it out.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
I said, I get to go out.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
I was like, I go out.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
I know that that's really cute.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
I don't really get to go out.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
It really is a blessing that we love each other
so much. Like a lot of people go to work
every day and do not like the people they work.
Speaker 2 (37:36):
I get it out, and I also bring you guys
up in conversations with people and.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Like in general.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
When it comes to the whole Kiss staff, someone was saying, like,
you guys all like hang out with each other outside
of work because we like each other.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
That how come no one group replied to the EO
you were.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Going to be when one person does, and then it
just just how many people are on that email thirty
something exactly.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
It was like you and Paul, And then I was like,
that's great.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
We just need those two emails.
Speaker 8 (38:07):
No one.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
I did a reply all to a group email from
our boss time.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
I don't have time to reply alls. Did you appreciate
because I have three kids? No, no reply all.
Speaker 2 (38:19):
And by the way, it was a salute to the
team Kiss that I replied all too with a spirit sentence.
Speaker 1 (38:26):
It was really really cute, well written.
Speaker 3 (38:28):
Yeah team And also you you when you started it out,
you said something about Beata, so it's almost like you
sent it to Beiata.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Yeah, I complimented our boss.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
Yeah, so it was more like, okay, and.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
To work at Kiss, I just feel lucky to work
at Kiss. And that's kind of what I said. I
think we all do.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
No one replied times watching the Daughter game last night,
you have time time to reply all? I can't.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Great we're being sidetracked here anyway. The first love theory,
let's get into.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
It, okay.
Speaker 3 (38:59):
This specific theory is the notion that men men specifically,
never forget their first love. This video has been shared
over like a hundred million times on TikTok, and the
claim is that they will always remember her and want
to get back to her, or they will be always
looking for like a version of her interest in their
(39:19):
next partner. It's very scary.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Really, I always a strong word, but in cases, I
guess you could say.
Speaker 3 (39:26):
I think it's a nostalgia of that time in your life.
You know, first loves usually probably happened when we're teenagers
maybe or maybe early twenties, like, and life was simpler
back then, Like you didn't have as many responsibilities as
as you do now as an adult. So maybe it
goes back to that kind of stuck of being stuck
in that first love era. But I bring this question
(39:50):
up to you Ryan, being one of the only men
in this room. Man, since you're so friendly with all
your ex'es, what kind of feelings do you have towards
your first love?
Speaker 2 (40:00):
Well, who's my first love?
Speaker 1 (40:01):
Well, that's a question for you to answer.
Speaker 2 (40:03):
Getting into that first You don't know my first loved? Well,
I thought it was in high school twice, but then
I look back and think, no, I didn't know how
to love that.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Interesting as an adult, I remember the first girlfriend that
lived with me. That could be it, Yeah, that could
be probably it. And that one was like seven years yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
I remember her.
Speaker 2 (40:30):
Yeah, And but I think I don't know, I see,
do you believe you can fall in love. You can
fall in love different times.
Speaker 4 (40:38):
Yes, I justly I think that. Yeah, I have a
different theory on this. What if a man's first love
is his mother and was trying to find aspects of
his mother in his future.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
I think the psychology in that happens.
Speaker 3 (41:00):
And vice versa, I think with their dads totally.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
So you're saying Ryan his mom no, but.
Speaker 4 (41:10):
That your first love was your mom, don't be bringing
up his mama no, And that you're trying to seek
a partner that has qualities like your.
Speaker 2 (41:17):
Mom, which is great.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
Yeah, your mom the perfect human being on this planet.
I mean that is a tough role to fill. If
that's your goal.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
Well, look could be a great goal. All right, Well,
this is a lot to ponder. I've got to get
a break in. But thank you for this theory that's
going to rattle everybody to that kiss. Thank you guys
so much for that epic Friday morning. It's gonna be
such a great weekend in southern California. We'll talk to
you on Monday.
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