September 1, 2025 • 38 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to You.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Uh So, stress, anxiety, fear, Yeah, it's all in there.
It's all part of the cortisol level. Yes. So on TikTok,
there's a trend. It's called cozy maxing, and it's what
people are finding a lot of success with when they
do it to get through this stuff.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
So what is it that's exactly that when life feels
like a locked try cozy maxing. And it's maxing out
the coziness. So if you just want to like chill
on the couch and watch TV, do it.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Don't just do it like that.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Put on the softest PJS, light your favorite candle, dim
the lights to the perfect you know, it's almost like
the esthetically setting the mood just for yourself though, and
you know you're going to do a bath. Do it
up with the bubbles, with the sense, with the everything,
with the lights and the candles and all that, and
it's supposed to really work, and it's going all over
TikTok right now and really kind of just bring you
(01:01):
into that like cozy sweatpants.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Feeling of life that we all need.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
Ye time, I want to take a nap, I'll like
take a nap on the couch with all the lights
on in my clothes from the day, Like it's kind
of a waste.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
This is more like playing with that chill music, really
setting the mood for yourself.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I think it's a sensory thing, isn't it Like I
need to smell a certain erama, I need the lighting
to be a certain way, and maybe the right music.
It does take you away. So I'm I'm an advocate,
but it's people are saying on TikTok that really works.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
It really does work. We all one need this in
our lives at least once a week, so considerate.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Here I found a picture of.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
It was like beije on white on beige, sandy vibes.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Sorry, I know what the scars. There's another shot.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Oh, like a cowboy hat?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Are you going next stage? Shorts? White shorts with.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
A white thinking about doing a hat as well.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
No, but I'm not talking about you for one second.
I want feedback.
Speaker 5 (01:58):
I'm just thinking it's interesting that.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
We want to do that showing the forearm. That's a
deep V. I'm definitely gonna we're gonna pull that v off.
I would like to okay, I've been chesting.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
You need the right necklaces.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I do need that's the problem. I need the right accessories. Yeah.
So those are my pictures. Are you down? What about
this one?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I like that's going to take you a minute to
grow that man bun?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, I don't know if I could could Can you
get a man bun kit?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
No?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
But take me back to the second photo, the second
and spot is it like?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I think this is the one. I like it.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
By the way I write that one, that one really captivated.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I can't show you these photos right now, but they're
they're very how would you just go on their earthy tone?
They're like tans, and they're definitely not what you think
I'd wear.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Never expect you in any of those.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Honestly, I think it's great. The first one's not that
to you. I just don't like that white scarf. You
don't know what that is? Is it like it looks
like a scarf? It looks like a blanket.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Well, this is what I mean. That's just so basic.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
That seems like you're gonna go take a meeting. That
feels like Ryan me, I want you more beach viby. Yes,
I like that one that one's my favorite dark hat,
and then all beige.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
But it's like snake skin print, who cares? And these hats?
Should I go with one of these?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
And these hats it's like a cowboy meets top hat.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Yes, it is a top cowboy hat. I don't know, guys,
I'm trying to break the fourth wall.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Yeah, be a little different.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
I mean your vibe at Tanya's wedding was very beachy, cool, yeah, trendy.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
The first night.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
It was black tie.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
The second night, ye uniform. Piper is on the line. Hi, Piper,
good morning. It's Ryan and Sisney and Tanya.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Hi, guys.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
How are you? Oh?
Speaker 7 (03:43):
I'm doing okay. How are you okay?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Thanks? It sounds like you're not doing as well as
you want to be doing. So what's happening? Says your
sister is trying to one up your wedding.
Speaker 8 (03:54):
Yeah, like I think so.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
So.
Speaker 8 (03:57):
Like basically, I got engaged in like November, like six
fish months ago, and I've been deep in the wedding
planning thing and then, you know, very exciting because like
my sister also got engaged recently. But the issue is
that she set her wedding date a week before mine
and I've had mindset for like a minute.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
So okay, then why there's clearly a reason why she
did that. You don't do that coincidentally, what's the issue?
Speaker 8 (04:23):
Yeah, I know she really she's like always wanted to
get married in Italy, like fancy on the water and
all that, and she says it's going to be a
small wedding and it really shouldn't be a big deal.
She was looking at a venue that she liked in
Italy and they randomly had like an opening a week
before my date, so she booked it.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I would like to officiate. I like the food, I
like olive oil. I can make time for it.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
You can't just start afficiating every single wedding.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Why would you on the water? You just her sister.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
It's just yeah, it's not the point, you know, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Know, Sisney. We'll come back to Piper. I'm sorry about
this for this little dispute, but I did not know
when I spent all of my time studying to be
ordained that it was going to be exclusive, Like there
was no buy out here, exclusivity clause in the deal
that I recall.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
No clause in you It's very possessive all.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Right, pining that piper back to you, why did why
would your sister? Are you? Have you always been competitive?
Speaker 9 (05:29):
Mike?
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Kind of?
Speaker 8 (05:31):
We're pretty close in age, so you know, it just
like is what it is. I think she's always tried
to one up me like that. But now I just
can't stop thinking, like what if we get sick, like
in travel, Like what if our parents get sick, like
they will have gone to hers and not mine.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
You know, you can't do it.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
You can't do the what ifs because what if you
get sick? Even if nobody there, this wasn't the issue,
how do.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
You deal with it? Because it's she's done it. There's
a reason she's done it, and now what's the reaction
and that you have. You can't both do this, So
either got to talk to her and she's got to
move it, or you got to postpone. You can't just
you can't just have your weddings back to back like
that and you kind of deposits been paid.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
They have been paid.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
That's the thing. Like the money is a huge factor.
So for both of you, I feel, yeah, yeah, well.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Then it's then it is a marathon party wedding double
weekend like keep the party going.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
No, that's so cham.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It's the hands she's been dealt and ain't gonna find
out what the issue was with your sister.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Can you check with your venue?
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Can you check with your venue to see if there's
anything before hers?
Speaker 8 (06:42):
The thing is like, I love my venue and she
knows that. So again feels kind of malicious on her part.
But yeah, I think it might just be one of
those things where we're like, we see who's loyal to
who and the family.
Speaker 10 (06:53):
Unfortunately, we're gonna play it out.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
We're gonna have to play it out. It's not the
hand we want. We're gonna have to play it out.
All right, Well, Piper congratulates on the most important thing.
You found the love of your life and you're going
to spend the rest of your life getting old together
with them.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
So you didn't like the getting old together.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I don't know why I said. It was in my
head because you kept saying it.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I'm not saying it.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Somebody said it to me.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
You're the one that brought it up. Yeah, I think I.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Sharon says it in one of his songs. That's fine,
Well that's why I.
Speaker 9 (07:18):
Brought it up.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
Well, that's not new piper.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
How do we deal with each other on a regular basis.
I have no idea what we're going to. Let you
go and good luck to you.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Good luck, thank you, trying to be positive.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
No, he talks about you know, it's a great song
from way back when he talks about getting old together.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Perfect.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Yeah, but you just told us last week that you
don't like that.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
No, I don't because I think it's a state of mind.
I want to be young for a long.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Time together, exactly.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
I want to be energetic for a long time together.
I want to be flexible and mobile for a long
time together.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
And with who.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
We don't know if it's who's.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
The I don't have one in mind. I just think
in general, that's a great match for you.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
And you just had this epiphany just this morning. Yes, wow,
all right, So it's us one eight hundred and five
to a one oh two seven. Want to grab Rachel here,
who's been on hold for a second. Here's a Rachel.
Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Thanks?
Speaker 10 (08:09):
How are you great?
Speaker 3 (08:11):
So you're calling about a friend of yours who got
cheated on? Yes, what happened? And how can we help you?
Speaker 10 (08:19):
So?
Speaker 11 (08:20):
My friend recently proposed to his boyfriend, But my friends
and I are having a hard time feeling excited or
happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on him
and it was devastating from my friend because they've been
dating for years and years, and after he found out
about the cheating, he was heartbroken. My friend ended up
mending things with his boyfriend and they've been together ever since.
Speaker 7 (08:41):
And now my friend.
Speaker 11 (08:42):
Proposed, So it was kind of shocking, and he didn't
tell anyone he was going to do it, and he
only sent us pictures after the proposal in our group chat.
They're just trying to get us to celebrate, and we
want to support our friend and be happy for him.
But now that we know that fiance cheated, be happy or.
Speaker 9 (09:01):
Support Well wait, so.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Does he yeah, exactly, he knows that he was cheated
on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,
so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through it.
He forgave his partner at the time, right, and they
moved on, and now he's proposed. I mean, look, you
can't really be in their shoes. And if everybody knows
(09:25):
about it and they made the choice to move past it,
then that's their prerogative, and it looks like they're trying
to move on and celebrate hopefully a new chapter.
Speaker 11 (09:37):
Yeah, it's hard of a friend to view your own
their relationships differently.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Be harder what happened.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,
but he didn't know and he proposed that would be
a real twist. This one is their choice. They're in it,
their relationship. They decided to move past it. What can
we do.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
I know a couple that went through this and then
ended up getting engaged and married and all that, and
they seem very happy. But like if I was sitting
in here dwelling on it, or that's going to take
years off your life, Rachel, and you.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Can't control it. They made a decision, so I think
it embraced their happiness. If they're happy now, I.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Agree, Okay, I guess that's there.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Yeah, thank you very much. I w'd be trickier we'd
had the calls like that where the partner didn't know
and there was a proposals call to say, hey, I
have some information, do I tell.
Speaker 9 (10:37):
Ye?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Horrible.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
You just never know what anybody's going through, and if
they decide that they can make it work and they
want to try again start over there. Yeah, that's their decision.
Ryan Seacrest with you. Thanks for listening to us, so
you know, inside our iheartradiot. We've got these talkbacks coming
at us at all the times, and they're super fun.
I'm going to roll through some now. It's that red microphone.
You can just tap it and we get a voice note.
(11:00):
So what a lovely message we got from Denise and
Passer Robbles.
Speaker 12 (11:03):
Good morning, Ryan, Sisney and Tanya. My name is Denise.
I'm live in Passer Roles. I am from the San
Fernando Valley and I just love you guys. I listen
to you every day and you guys make me laugh
and yeah, I just wanted to tell you that I
love you guys.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Thanks by, It's very sweet just to reach out for that.
We appreciate you listening there. And Tracy in Riverside says
Sisney is right about la boo boola boo.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Is I want one so bad?
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Remind me what is?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
They're like?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
These little stuffy animals that have like almost a monster
looking grim face about like the sharp teeth and big
eyeballs and everyone's clipping them to their purses.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Good morning, Ryan, Sisny Tanya the La Boo Boo craze.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
It's for real.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
I work out of elementary school and the kids are
now hanging them on a belt loop at school.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
They are the new garbage pale kid patch craze. Here's Matthew, Connecticut. Hi.
Speaker 13 (12:03):
My name is Matthew Ramponent. I'm on the autism spectrum.
I'm a huge fan of Ryan Seacrust. I was wondering
if he would happen to know if Rita Or will
be returning for New Year's Rock and Eve twenty twenty six.
I think they make a great duo. I also got
a photo with him on December thirtieth, twenty twenty three,
and he said he really enjoyed my microphone that looked
just like his. That would mean the world to me.
(12:25):
If they can get back, if he can get back
to me and let me know about rita Or for
this year, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Well, Matthew. First of all, thank you for remembering all
of that, and thank you for listening. I do recall
that microphone actually out there. Let's I don't know if
it's been announced or not, but let's just say I
don't think Red is going to be somewhere else on
New Year's Eve.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Yeah, okay like that team.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
As a matter of fact, she's going to be into
in concert here. When is that? Let's go see she
and Kylie Minogue together.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Let's do it? Wait?
Speaker 3 (12:52):
That is it?
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Then that just happened.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I missed it.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yeah, we all missed it. I was last week.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
That's a lot were there, Like a lot of my
friends were there.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
I'd love for you. This amazing.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
She missed it.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Thank you, Matthew. That's your news. Good things will happen.
I appreciate you reaching out. Thanks for listening. One eight
hundred and five to one to two seven, kiss of m.
Let's see Morgan. That is you? You dial that number?
How are you Morgan?
Speaker 11 (13:17):
Good?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
How are you guys?
Speaker 3 (13:18):
We're okay, Actually, all things consider, we're good. So you
say your friend moved in to your place and started sleeping,
oh with another person?
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Okay, yeah. So one of my really good friends broke
up with her boyfriend who she was living with albost
five years, and so while she's in between places, I
told her that she could come and live with me.
I have a roommate. It's a guy he's become one
of my really good friends. But my friend that is
(13:48):
staying with us just told me that they're now hooking up.
Speaker 7 (13:52):
I am a.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Little nervous about this. I'm afraid that it's going to
totally blow up my living situation and cause an issue
for me. I mean, also, she literally just got out
of a relationship, a very serious one of five years.
So I'm not sure if I should kind of voice
my worries or just see how it plays out.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
What are your worries? What are your real worries.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
I'm more that it's going to cause a rest between
my roommates and I.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Three of you are living together.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yeah for right now?
Speaker 6 (14:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (14:23):
Okay, and she's room.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
No, she's been staying on the couch. I mean maybe
she's staying in his room. Like they kept it a
secret from me for a bit until.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
She sure Okay, Well yeah, So.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Didn't you do this at some point in your life?
Speaker 3 (14:47):
I think I did. Yeah, And so your point.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
You can shed some advice, yes.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Let me shed some light on it. Has this happened
to me? I lived with a bunch of people actually
down in Santa Monica, Tiffany, Yes, yes, yes, and uh
we lived with one girl, and I did end up
that way and it ended up okay. Actually no one
really cared about it, so I don't know that's something
(15:15):
like we didn't stay together, but it was.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
I would just support it, Morgan, like go with the flow.
See what happens, because otherwise you're going to be this
like wet blanket that I don't want to be around.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
She's off the couch and in the room. Make her
go to the room, use that bathroom too, don't share
the bathroom right now.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I know it's true to start paying, that's true.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Well, we split the rent five ways when I was
living in Santa Monica on Ocean Park, and it was great.
Everything utilities five ways and everything ways. The parking was
issued because we had a divvy up, like withdrawal for parking.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
Probably tandem parking.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
It was tandem. He sure was tanam and Tanas was
always blocking my tanem yeah uh, or Louis blocked my
tannem sometimes. Anyway, she and I ended up being friends
afterwards for a long time.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
All right, that's good.
Speaker 5 (16:08):
Oh oh what does it mean?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
I'm sorry, it's starting to get under my skin there.
Oh yeah, what because it doesn't you just say it
for anything. It doesn't have any meaning anymore. Do you
hear it?
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I hear it all the time. It's her crutch.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
It's a crutch. Oh, I don't think you're knowing you are?
Do you know you're saying?
Speaker 7 (16:24):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (16:25):
I knew I was saying it, because what are you?
Speaker 6 (16:26):
Sorry?
Speaker 3 (16:26):
It's Morgan, good luck, thank you, It's gonna be okay,
keep okay, all right? What did it mean when you
don't say almost say what you're saying about it different?
Speaker 5 (16:37):
It's different in the in the context in which I owe,
which was what? And this context was was she maybe
the one that got away? O?
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Heay, No, that's not what you meant? And no she wasn't.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
Yes, it was what I meant.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
Well, didn't say that next time say that.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Don't go oh it's weird.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
It's not weird.
Speaker 5 (17:01):
Everybody raise your hand if you think it's weird.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
No one raised their hand. Everybody literally Mark dubs me
a Fonso.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
It's not creepy yet, but it's getting there. Okay, No, no,
and no, you need to admit this first before you
can handle.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
Don't get me started on your winking.
Speaker 5 (17:18):
No one likes my o's.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I'm sad about it. You don't even notice you're doing them.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
It's involuntary, like.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
And we have we have doctor Kellinger on the line
right now, Doctor Kellinger. Is this an involuntary response?
Speaker 4 (17:36):
They can do a remixed song with all your oh
oh oh.
Speaker 5 (17:41):
See the different inflections mean different things.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Mean nothing. But it's on the verge of really weird.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Fine, do it anymore perfect, that's impossible.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
It's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
You don't. It's not punishment for you not to do
it anymore. If you want to punish, that's that's not
the way we want you to not do it anymore.
Speaker 5 (18:05):
Oh, Michaela likes it.
Speaker 8 (18:09):
I do.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Why he is so sensitive about like unimportant things like
this is not.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I'm not sensitive about it.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
I'm talking to Tnia because my oh's are a part
of me.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
And if she's got like her hands crossed and a
sad face, and it's like she's.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
All closed off by the Because we have to go,
it's time for Ryan's roses. Here we go.
Speaker 9 (18:32):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
You may think I'm being paranoid, but my husband has
been spending way too much time with a woman that
he met at the gym I was already feeling weird
about it. Then I came home last week and found
her in our bedroom.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
No, oh, everything's there.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
This is Daniel. Daniel, good morning, thanks for coming on.
Speaker 10 (18:58):
Yeah, thanks for having me.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Can we just jump to the found her in the bedroom?
What was she doing in the bedroom?
Speaker 10 (19:07):
Well, he said she was changing clothes and that they
had just gotten back to the run. And I asked
him why she was upstairs in our bathroom, in our
bedroom when we have a bathroom downstairs, and he was like,
why are you so dramatic about everything?
Speaker 9 (19:24):
He immediately turned it around on me.
Speaker 10 (19:26):
And would you rather change in the bedroom or a bathroom?
And we had a huge fight, and she was super
awkward and disheveled when she came downstairs. And I'm just
I'm worried he's seeing her.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
Has he ever seen women before?
Speaker 10 (19:45):
I mean not since high school, like, but ever since
he's come out he hasn't.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Hmmm, it could It makes sense that she could have
been just using the space, right, I mean, why do
you think that he'd be cheating? Why do you take
it that far?
Speaker 10 (20:04):
Well, they're always going out and they never invite me,
and it's.
Speaker 7 (20:10):
A consistent thing.
Speaker 10 (20:11):
Like he's they're always getting together for drinks or there's
just spending a lot of time together and he doesn't
tell me about it, and he doesn't he doesn't invite me.
It's just really it's really secretive, and it just feels
like he's keeping all these secrets from me.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
All Right, So you think he's more than a best friend.
You think that maybe there's just something something's going on
and he's hiding it from you.
Speaker 4 (20:35):
It's rare that it's a new dynamic, like this is
a new friend, and so why aren't you being included?
I think this is an old friend from the past, like, oh,
you've been homies so forever, then you wouldn't be so
stressed out about it.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
What's her name right? Her name is Jada, Jada? Jada, Jada?
Got it? Okay, Hold on one second, we're going to
make the call so we can find out best friend
or not. Next for the middle of Ryan's Roses here
on Kiss fab So, Daniel is worried that his husband
has met a woman at the gym. They do hang
out like best friends a lot without him. He doesn't invited.
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They go out for drinks, hanging out together, and recently
she was in their bedroom, and he said she was
just using the space to change, which could be, but
he thinks that he's seeing her right that he's married
to him and seeing her. He said he hadn't been
with a woman since high school to his knowledge. Since
they've been together, he certainly hasn't. So what is going on?
(21:28):
Is it just a new best friend or is it more?
Daniel thinks it's more. He just thinks it's It's very
strange how they've been hanging out so much. Yeah, he
doesn't get asked, asked to come at all or invited. So, Daniel,
I need you say Ryan, you have my permission to call,
and then your husband's name.
Speaker 10 (21:44):
Go ahead, you have my permission to call. And my
husband's name is We're gonna.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Call him right now. And the woman, the new friend's
name is Jada. Let's see whose top of mind is
that you? Is it Jada? Is it somebody else? When
we're off from some roses? Okay, good lie, here we go,
be very quiet till we tell me he's on the air. Okay,
here we go.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Hello, Hi, can I speak to Justin please?
Speaker 9 (22:20):
This is he?
Speaker 12 (22:21):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
My name is Melinda. I'm calling from Lakewood Flowers, How
are you doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (22:25):
My god? What is every every call a telemarker didn't
even say spam?
Speaker 4 (22:33):
Rais, Well, we're we're a local business here in Lakewood
and offering a free promotion.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
It's a free dozen red roses.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
I don't need any cash from you, credit card info,
anything like that.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
They're absolutely free.
Speaker 9 (22:45):
Yeah. Yeah, And all I gotta do is what like
subscribe to your Flowers of the Months club?
Speaker 4 (22:51):
Like no, no, there's no there's no subscription whatsoever. Like
I said, I don't need any information from you at all.
We just need the name of the person you want
to send them to and they can have them by
lunchtime today.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
They are free. It's a beautiful arrangement. Does in red roses?
Speaker 9 (23:08):
Ah, And so they just get roses for free?
Speaker 2 (23:12):
That's correct.
Speaker 4 (23:13):
I mean, look, okay, if I'm being honest, if you
want the catch, it's that we hope that you like
the arrangements and then you come back as a customer
one day.
Speaker 6 (23:22):
Yeah, And what happens if they don't get flowers and
this is all just like scam.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
If they don't get flower, well, we can start with
the name of the person and then we can do
the note and then have the flowers sent up by
lunchtime today.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
I'll make sure that they are delivered.
Speaker 9 (23:38):
M fine, all right, send them to Jada.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
Okay, and what would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 9 (23:49):
But on the card you deserve better. That's like with
the period after each word.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Ohkay, got it?
Speaker 9 (23:56):
You period, deserve better period and then capitalize the hell
out of that.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
Okay, you got it?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
And do you want me to sign it?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
Love?
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Justin?
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Yeah, okay, justin. Your voice is being broadcast on the radio,
and we've got your husband, Daniel on the line. You
seem all bothered by this call, so I just want
to be quick here. Your husband thinks you're having an
affair with Jada and you just sent roses to Jada.
(24:29):
Can you categorize your relationship with this woman?
Speaker 9 (24:34):
Who the hell is this guy? Now? And I knew
I never should have answered this call.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
Daniel is on the line. That's your husband.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Do you know him?
Speaker 3 (24:44):
What's going on with you and Jada? Are you cheating
on Daniel with Jada?
Speaker 9 (24:48):
No? No, look I don't know who you are, dude,
but like gayman, don't send each other red roses? But no,
of course he thinks.
Speaker 6 (25:00):
I'm cheating because he thinks I'm cheating with every man
in town, and he might as well.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
Just and it sounds like you're you're very cynical about
things here. I mean, he's just trying to figure out
what's going on, Daniel. Would you like to ask justin
any questions that you're here?
Speaker 10 (25:14):
Yeah, what does you deserve?
Speaker 3 (25:17):
Better?
Speaker 1 (25:17):
Mean?
Speaker 9 (25:21):
Look, first of all, you are way too paranoid, and
she is going through some things I want me to
tell anyone, And I'm definitely not saying any of this
on the radio. There are not that many you know,
jadas in the world. Okay, So, but are you the
better she deserves? Are we really trying to do this
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right now?
Speaker 2 (25:46):
That's a valid question.
Speaker 6 (25:50):
Wait, like you mean like physically cheating? Seriously, like because
like I thought.
Speaker 9 (25:56):
You meant like emotionally cheating or so because like physically cheating,
Like no, that's disgusting and like I can't believe why
would you even think that? Are you emotionally cheating? Here
we go? So let me hold up, actually, like, let
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me talk to the other guy. What's your name? What's
your name? Ryan?
Speaker 10 (26:22):
All right?
Speaker 9 (26:23):
Yeah? Okay, So, like are you geyer straight?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
I'm straight.
Speaker 9 (26:29):
Okay, Well, Ryan, if you had a girlfriend or a wife, okay,
would it be possible for you to emotionally cheat with
a with a guy friend.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
No, I don't think it would be possible.
Speaker 9 (26:45):
That's a very no, and the question is ludicrous.
Speaker 6 (26:48):
And the so my husband is the most paranoid because
he's cheating, like he's been cheating on the fort And I.
Speaker 9 (26:54):
Get that, got it?
Speaker 3 (26:55):
But like, all right, so guys, here's the thing, Daniel,
Just so, Daniel, it sounds like you've had a passive cheating.
It sounds like Justin is very passionate with the fact
that he's not. But I think Justin sounds like Daniel
needs a little more security and comforting knowing that you know,
you're with him and nobody else. It sounds like he's
not feeling that.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
Why don't you include him more with these hangouts with Jada.
Speaker 9 (27:19):
Because and he knows this, I don't have time to
baby him. She wants to keep our conversations on the low,
and I'm respecting her wishes. But you know, we all
go bowling. We can all go bowland together. Maybe really cute, Mean.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Dan, do you believe Justin going on? Do you believe Justin.
Speaker 10 (27:40):
I mean, he's right. I have been paranoid, but like
all think, secrets are just he knows how. He knows
how I get when secrets are kept from me, Like
he would just tell me the truth when they're going
out and maybe invite me once in a while. I
don't need to be there every time, but I need
to be included in his life. I mean, he is
my husband. I feel like he's, you know, doing his
(28:02):
own thing now.
Speaker 9 (28:04):
Mm hmm, it's all right.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Okay, Well Justin and Daniel, I do believe that Justin's
tell you the truth. I do think that a little
more compassion might need to be included this equation. Justin
to Daniel, and I wish you guys the best of luck.
Thank you for your time. I believe him, I do
(28:30):
believe him.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
I believe him, but he's such a jerky.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Mean to his husband. On air with Ryan Seacrest, all right,
one to two pointy seven, because I've had let's go
back to Daniel and Justin. Daniel thought that his husband,
Justin was cheating on him with a woman that he met,
I think working out at the gym, and they were
hanging out as friends and Daniel wasn't invited. And then
(28:57):
we get Justin his husband on the line, and Justin said, look,
she was in the bedroom of our changing clothes, nothing
happening there, and we're hanging out because she's going through
some things. He did send the roses to the woman,
not his husband. He sent the roses to Jada. But
I did believe that Justin is not having an affair
with Jada. He's just mean to his husband. Yeah, like
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his husband's insecure about the relationship. His husband's paranoid, and
Justin's not making Daniel feel any more secure, and he's
not nice to him.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
It's Justin's world and Daniel's just living in.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Condescending to him. But I do believe him. I don't
believe he's cheating, Tommy.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
I don't think he's cheating, but I don't That's not
a marriage I would want to be in now.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
They don't talk to each other the way a couple
should speak to each other, and communicating in a way
where where one's hearing the other, like they're not. I
don't think they're hearing each other. Gloria, good morning in Inglewood.
What did you hear?
Speaker 14 (29:54):
I mean, I definitely have been in that type of
relationship where I've been the paranoid one, and having gone
through therapy, my therapist has always said that I tend
to be the type of person that attracts cheaters. And
even though it felt like I was being paranoid and
my ex accuse me as being paranoid, it turned out
(30:17):
to be true that he was cheating on me. So
I and through all my past relationships, I tended to
attract cheaters and that's what said my paranoia. And so
my therapist told me that I needed to date outside
my norm to break that cycle. And so I just
(30:39):
learned that you need to listen to your gut. And
I think even though Justin acted like that it was ridiculous,
I think Daniel needs to listen to his guts.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
I agree they need to listen to each other. They're
not and I think that's where we leave it to
see where it goes. Gai, thank you very much listening.
It's Ryan's roses. This is kiss Susette, isn't Monabella on
the punk? And why Susette? How are you hey?
Speaker 7 (31:06):
I'm doing all right?
Speaker 6 (31:07):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (31:08):
We're great? Congratulations I believe is due to you. You
got engaged.
Speaker 7 (31:13):
Oh gosh, okay, gott No, not yet.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Oh not yet. So it's coming.
Speaker 7 (31:22):
Maybe I don't know to come. I don't know. I yes,
not right now. I think I don't know.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Well, help us understand what's going on and why you're
here with us.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Yeah. So my boyfriend and I we've been together for
four years and we've just kind of been going through
it the last couple of months. He's really been struggling
with work. He's been bouncing from job to job.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
He's doing the.
Speaker 7 (31:53):
Door dash uber eats all of that, of course, to
make a little bit of money. But I've had to
spot him a rant since February. So he's struggling. And
recently he confided in my best friend and he told
her that he wants to propose at the end of
the month.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
It's crazy.
Speaker 7 (32:16):
Yeah, and I'm just like, oh my gosh, of all
the time, you know, I don't know if we're ready
to take this step right now because of our finances.
It's just a lot.
Speaker 3 (32:29):
You're told me exactly, are you not ready because of
his situation? Because you're not sure he's the right one? Like,
what's the what's the hesitation route?
Speaker 7 (32:40):
I do think he's the one I really do and
I want to be engaged. I just don't know if
this is the time, you know, because like I want
him to be in a good place financially and to
not have to streuss. I mean, if we had to
plan a wedding, could you imagine.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
What if you're engaged and you're not playing the wedding
right away?
Speaker 7 (33:03):
Well, we have been together four years, so I kind
of just want to get married. If we're going to
get engaged, let's just do it.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
Yeah, But the financial thing is not going to fix
itself overnight. So it's like, look, you're gonna be married,
You're gonna have finance problems for the rest of your life.
Like it's going to not problems, but like issues that
you have to work through and communicate on. You know.
It's not I don't think it's a deal breaker, especially
if you love him and you feel like this is
your dude.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Here's the other thing is that you've been with him
four years. Can't you just talk to him directly and
say no.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
You just figure out a plan.
Speaker 3 (33:32):
Yeah, let's figure out a plan, and we need to
have a plan when certain things are in place, and
then we can start thinking about steps forward until then,
let's just do what we're doing.
Speaker 7 (33:40):
Yeah, my friend told me to act surprised because he
trusted her with telling her. But I mean, I don't
want to ruin it for him, but I kind of.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
Maybe channel can your friend back channel that you are
in a place where you're thinking this, not knowing that
he's going to propose or or or.
Speaker 5 (34:02):
You can say that you would just talk to your
therapist and she said that you cannot make any serious
long term commitments in the next three months.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Not a fortune teller.
Speaker 5 (34:13):
No, you can just say that and then hopefully he'll
get the hint and be like, oh, she can't think
any commitments, not.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
A fortune cookie.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
I know that, Hannah Brown.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Which path do you think you should go? What do
you think?
Speaker 7 (34:27):
I don't know if the therapist fortune teller thing is
quite the way, but I kind of I think Ryan,
you're right that I just I didn't want to ruin it,
and that's why I didn't want to say anything. But
we've been together long enough and this is such a
serious thing that maybe I need to just talk to
him and say, I we just need a better plan.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
We think you should communicate that to him. That's the best,
most honest way to do it. I think he'll respect that.
Speaker 7 (34:57):
Yeah, and that's probably good for us communication wise and
stuff too. We'll probably do a conversation about this.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
Well. Good luck get into that conversation soon. And we
appreciate reaching out to talk about it with us. All right,
best of luck, Thank you for your help, of course. Bye.
Do love trying to figure out relationship issues here with you, guys.
I do love it, Yeah, I do. I don't know
if you notice certain mannerisms that your friends do, your
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coworkers do, maybe your family does. For example, my mother,
Sysiny does exactly what you pointed out to me that
Tanya does, and my mother has got me doing it
as well.
Speaker 2 (35:41):
It comes out on you every now and then, it does.
Speaker 3 (35:44):
It's like a silent sort of communicative action exactly.
Speaker 4 (35:50):
Nothing makes me feel more uncomfortable than when Tanya winks
at me.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
We're talking about winking. There are two types of people,
winkers and non winkers. It's something that you can coordinate
or not coordinate, like. You can make it look tough
if you're not a winker, but if you're a winker,
it's easy.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
She doesn't do it here, like she doesn't do it
on the show with me, But it's when we're having
our post or our pre show meetings and we're going
around the room with everyone like pitching different ideas and
talking and chatting. If she says something that I guess
she doesn't want us to know that it's the truth,
and who knows.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
She just looks at me and winks, well, not nobody else.
Speaker 3 (36:26):
What is that? So what what? Because I noticed during
this show you don't blink or wink. What is it
that you wink about? What is the message in your wik.
Speaker 5 (36:34):
Ninety nine percent of the time, I want to rattle
Mark's cage a little bit, or like ruffle his feathers
a little bit, and so I'll say something that I
know is going to ruffle him, and I want her
to join in on the fun with me.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
So we watch me manipulate and wind up. Our producers.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
Get in on the wind up.
Speaker 8 (36:56):
And it's.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
Because I have computer.
Speaker 3 (37:01):
So you need to hear her claim she is uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (37:03):
I can't wink. I can't see Mikayla. And if I
winked at Ruby, Mark would be able to see it
because it would be on my left side.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
And the thing is, I'm a winker, so I got it,
and I do it like like I got you, bro,
or we're on the same page, or you know what
I'm saying, like I do like that because my mom
does it like that.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Yeah, oh no, I can't.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
You don't wink and you don't blink. Have you ever
studied your being able to lubricate your eyes without blinking?
You don't.
Speaker 5 (37:28):
I lubricate them on a daily basis. I use like drops.
Speaker 3 (37:33):
Yeah, it's my favorite part of the show, Sysney when
we say something to Tanya and this is an audio show,
right righty Titania and or ask something and she just
opens her mouth and does it blink and doesn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Just maybe we'll get a nod, but he feel any better.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
I also do this at home and Robbie will literally
like turn my head and be like the TV's that way.
Speaker 3 (37:53):
Say something, say something. Uh, well, we are winkers, Tanya
and I and isn'tat we apologize at each other. Then
you make it look difficult to when you try on.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
That and then she smiles to that. It's like a
double whammy.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
I appreciate winkers. I like winkers. I'm a wink. That's
it for us today, Kiss FM. We're back tomorrow with
some more action, including a second date update. Thanks guys,
have a good one. It's Kiss FM. Thanks for listening
to on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe
it and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood to You.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Uh So, stress, anxiety, fear, Yeah, it's all in there.
It's all part of the cortisol level. Yes. So on TikTok,
there's a trend. It's called cozy maxing, and it's what
people are finding a lot of success with when they
do it to get through this stuff.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
So what is it that's exactly that when life feels
like a locked try cozy maxing. And it's maxing out
the coziness. So if you just want to like chill
on the couch and watch TV, do it.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Don't just do it like that.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Put on the softest PJS, light your favorite candle, dim
the lights to the perfect you know, it's almost like
the esthetically setting the mood just for yourself though, and
you know you're going to do a bath. Do it
up with the bubbles, with the sense, with the everything,
with the lights and the candles and all that, and
it's supposed to really work, and it's going all over
TikTok right now and really kind of just bring you
(01:01):
into that like cozy sweatpants.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Feeling of life that we all need.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
Ye time, I want to take a nap, I'll like
take a nap on the couch with all the lights
on in my clothes from the day, Like it's kind
of a waste.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
This is more like playing with that chill music, really
setting the mood for yourself.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I think it's a sensory thing, isn't it Like I
need to smell a certain erama, I need the lighting
to be a certain way, and maybe the right music.
It does take you away. So I'm I'm an advocate,
but it's people are saying on TikTok that really works.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
It really does work. We all one need this in
our lives at least once a week, so considerate.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Here I found a picture of.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
It was like beije on white on beige, sandy vibes.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Sorry, I know what the scars. There's another shot.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Oh, like a cowboy hat?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Are you going next stage? Shorts? White shorts with.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
A white thinking about doing a hat as well.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
No, but I'm not talking about you for one second.
I want feedback.
Speaker 5 (01:58):
I'm just thinking it's interesting that.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
We want to do that showing the forearm. That's a
deep V. I'm definitely gonna we're gonna pull that v off.
I would like to okay, I've been chesting.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
You need the right necklaces.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I do need that's the problem. I need the right accessories. Yeah.
So those are my pictures. Are you down? What about
this one?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I like that's going to take you a minute to
grow that man bun?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, I don't know if I could could Can you
get a man bun kit?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
No?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
But take me back to the second photo, the second
and spot is it like?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I think this is the one. I like it.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
By the way I write that one, that one really captivated.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I can't show you these photos right now, but they're
they're very how would you just go on their earthy tone?
They're like tans, and they're definitely not what you think
I'd wear.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Never expect you in any of those.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Honestly, I think it's great. The first one's not that
to you. I just don't like that white scarf. You
don't know what that is? Is it like it looks
like a scarf? It looks like a blanket.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Well, this is what I mean. That's just so basic.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
That seems like you're gonna go take a meeting. That
feels like Ryan me, I want you more beach viby. Yes,
I like that one that one's my favorite dark hat,
and then all beige.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
But it's like snake skin print, who cares? And these hats?
Should I go with one of these?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
And these hats it's like a cowboy meets top hat.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Yes, it is a top cowboy hat. I don't know, guys,
I'm trying to break the fourth wall.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Yeah, be a little different.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
I mean your vibe at Tanya's wedding was very beachy, cool, yeah, trendy.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
The first night.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
It was black tie.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
The second night, ye uniform. Piper is on the line. Hi, Piper,
good morning. It's Ryan and Sisney and Tanya.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Hi, guys.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
How are you? Oh?
Speaker 7 (03:43):
I'm doing okay. How are you okay?
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Thanks? It sounds like you're not doing as well as
you want to be doing. So what's happening? Says your
sister is trying to one up your wedding.
Speaker 8 (03:54):
Yeah, like I think so.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
So.
Speaker 8 (03:57):
Like basically, I got engaged in like November, like six
fish months ago, and I've been deep in the wedding
planning thing and then, you know, very exciting because like
my sister also got engaged recently. But the issue is
that she set her wedding date a week before mine
and I've had mindset for like a minute.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
So okay, then why there's clearly a reason why she
did that. You don't do that coincidentally, what's the issue?
Speaker 8 (04:23):
Yeah, I know she really she's like always wanted to
get married in Italy, like fancy on the water and
all that, and she says it's going to be a
small wedding and it really shouldn't be a big deal.
She was looking at a venue that she liked in
Italy and they randomly had like an opening a week
before my date, so she booked it.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I would like to officiate. I like the food, I
like olive oil. I can make time for it.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
You can't just start afficiating every single wedding.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Why would you on the water? You just her sister.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
It's just yeah, it's not the point, you know, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Know, Sisney. We'll come back to Piper. I'm sorry about
this for this little dispute, but I did not know
when I spent all of my time studying to be
ordained that it was going to be exclusive, Like there
was no buy out here, exclusivity clause in the deal
that I recall.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
No clause in you It's very possessive all.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Right, pining that piper back to you, why did why
would your sister? Are you? Have you always been competitive?
Speaker 9 (05:29):
Mike?
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Kind of?
Speaker 8 (05:31):
We're pretty close in age, so you know, it just
like is what it is. I think she's always tried
to one up me like that. But now I just
can't stop thinking, like what if we get sick, like
in travel, Like what if our parents get sick, like
they will have gone to hers and not mine.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
You know, you can't do it.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
You can't do the what ifs because what if you
get sick? Even if nobody there, this wasn't the issue,
how do.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
You deal with it? Because it's she's done it. There's
a reason she's done it, and now what's the reaction
and that you have. You can't both do this, So
either got to talk to her and she's got to
move it, or you got to postpone. You can't just
you can't just have your weddings back to back like
that and you kind of deposits been paid.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
They have been paid.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
That's the thing. Like the money is a huge factor.
So for both of you, I feel, yeah, yeah, well.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Then it's then it is a marathon party wedding double
weekend like keep the party going.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
No, that's so cham.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It's the hands she's been dealt and ain't gonna find
out what the issue was with your sister.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Can you check with your venue?
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Can you check with your venue to see if there's
anything before hers?
Speaker 8 (06:42):
The thing is like, I love my venue and she
knows that. So again feels kind of malicious on her part.
But yeah, I think it might just be one of
those things where we're like, we see who's loyal to
who and the family.
Speaker 10 (06:53):
Unfortunately, we're gonna play it out.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
We're gonna have to play it out. It's not the
hand we want. We're gonna have to play it out.
All right, Well, Piper congratulates on the most important thing.
You found the love of your life and you're going
to spend the rest of your life getting old together
with them.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
So you didn't like the getting old together.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I don't know why I said. It was in my
head because you kept saying it.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I'm not saying it.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Somebody said it to me.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
You're the one that brought it up. Yeah, I think I.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Sharon says it in one of his songs. That's fine,
Well that's why I.
Speaker 9 (07:18):
Brought it up.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
Well, that's not new piper.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
How do we deal with each other on a regular basis.
I have no idea what we're going to. Let you
go and good luck to you.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Good luck, thank you, trying to be positive.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
No, he talks about you know, it's a great song
from way back when he talks about getting old together.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Perfect.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Yeah, but you just told us last week that you
don't like that.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
No, I don't because I think it's a state of mind.
I want to be young for a long.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Time together, exactly.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
I want to be energetic for a long time together.
I want to be flexible and mobile for a long
time together.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
And with who.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
We don't know if it's who's.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
The I don't have one in mind. I just think
in general, that's a great match for you.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
And you just had this epiphany just this morning. Yes, wow,
all right, So it's us one eight hundred and five
to a one oh two seven. Want to grab Rachel here,
who's been on hold for a second. Here's a Rachel.
Good morning, Rachel. How are you doing.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Thanks?
Speaker 10 (08:09):
How are you great?
Speaker 3 (08:11):
So you're calling about a friend of yours who got
cheated on? Yes, what happened? And how can we help you?
Speaker 10 (08:19):
So?
Speaker 11 (08:20):
My friend recently proposed to his boyfriend, But my friends
and I are having a hard time feeling excited or
happy for him because last year's boyfriend teated on him
and it was devastating from my friend because they've been
dating for years and years, and after he found out
about the cheating, he was heartbroken. My friend ended up
mending things with his boyfriend and they've been together ever since.
Speaker 7 (08:41):
And now my friend.
Speaker 11 (08:42):
Proposed, So it was kind of shocking, and he didn't
tell anyone he was going to do it, and he
only sent us pictures after the proposal in our group chat.
They're just trying to get us to celebrate, and we
want to support our friend and be happy for him.
But now that we know that fiance cheated, be happy or.
Speaker 9 (09:01):
Support Well wait, so.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Does he yeah, exactly, he knows that he was cheated
on by the person he just proposed to. Yes, okay,
so your friend, friend, your your pal. He went through it.
He forgave his partner at the time, right, and they
moved on, and now he's proposed. I mean, look, you
can't really be in their shoes. And if everybody knows
(09:25):
about it and they made the choice to move past it,
then that's their prerogative, and it looks like they're trying
to move on and celebrate hopefully a new chapter.
Speaker 11 (09:37):
Yeah, it's hard of a friend to view your own
their relationships differently.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Be harder what happened.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
It'd be harder if you knew that his partner cheated,
but he didn't know and he proposed that would be
a real twist. This one is their choice. They're in it,
their relationship. They decided to move past it. What can
we do.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
I know a couple that went through this and then
ended up getting engaged and married and all that, and
they seem very happy. But like if I was sitting
in here dwelling on it, or that's going to take
years off your life, Rachel, and you.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Can't control it. They made a decision, so I think
it embraced their happiness. If they're happy now, I.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Agree, Okay, I guess that's there.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Yeah, thank you very much. I w'd be trickier we'd
had the calls like that where the partner didn't know
and there was a proposals call to say, hey, I
have some information, do I tell.
Speaker 9 (10:37):
Ye?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Horrible.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
You just never know what anybody's going through, and if
they decide that they can make it work and they
want to try again start over there. Yeah, that's their decision.
Ryan Seacrest with you. Thanks for listening to us, so
you know, inside our iheartradiot. We've got these talkbacks coming
at us at all the times, and they're super fun.
I'm going to roll through some now. It's that red microphone.
You can just tap it and we get a voice note.
(11:00):
So what a lovely message we got from Denise and
Passer Robbles.
Speaker 12 (11:03):
Good morning, Ryan, Sisney and Tanya. My name is Denise.
I'm live in Passer Roles. I am from the San
Fernando Valley and I just love you guys. I listen
to you every day and you guys make me laugh
and yeah, I just wanted to tell you that I
love you guys.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Thanks by, It's very sweet just to reach out for that.
We appreciate you listening there. And Tracy in Riverside says
Sisney is right about la boo boola boo.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Is I want one so bad?
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Remind me what is?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
They're like?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
These little stuffy animals that have like almost a monster
looking grim face about like the sharp teeth and big
eyeballs and everyone's clipping them to their purses.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Good morning, Ryan, Sisny Tanya the La Boo Boo craze.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
It's for real.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
I work out of elementary school and the kids are
now hanging them on a belt loop at school.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
They are the new garbage pale kid patch craze. Here's Matthew, Connecticut. Hi.
Speaker 13 (12:03):
My name is Matthew Ramponent. I'm on the autism spectrum.
I'm a huge fan of Ryan Seacrust. I was wondering
if he would happen to know if Rita Or will
be returning for New Year's Rock and Eve twenty twenty six.
I think they make a great duo. I also got
a photo with him on December thirtieth, twenty twenty three,
and he said he really enjoyed my microphone that looked
just like his. That would mean the world to me.
(12:25):
If they can get back, if he can get back
to me and let me know about rita Or for
this year, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Well, Matthew. First of all, thank you for remembering all
of that, and thank you for listening. I do recall
that microphone actually out there. Let's I don't know if
it's been announced or not, but let's just say I
don't think Red is going to be somewhere else on
New Year's Eve.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Yeah, okay like that team.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
As a matter of fact, she's going to be into
in concert here. When is that? Let's go see she
and Kylie Minogue together.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Let's do it? Wait?
Speaker 3 (12:52):
That is it?
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Then that just happened.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I missed it.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yeah, we all missed it. I was last week.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
That's a lot were there, Like a lot of my
friends were there.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
I'd love for you. This amazing.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
She missed it.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Thank you, Matthew. That's your news. Good things will happen.
I appreciate you reaching out. Thanks for listening. One eight
hundred and five to one to two seven, kiss of m.
Let's see Morgan. That is you? You dial that number?
How are you Morgan?
Speaker 11 (13:17):
Good?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
How are you guys?
Speaker 3 (13:18):
We're okay, Actually, all things consider, we're good. So you
say your friend moved in to your place and started sleeping,
oh with another person?
Speaker 1 (13:27):
Okay, yeah. So one of my really good friends broke
up with her boyfriend who she was living with albost
five years, and so while she's in between places, I
told her that she could come and live with me.
I have a roommate. It's a guy he's become one
of my really good friends. But my friend that is
(13:48):
staying with us just told me that they're now hooking up.
Speaker 7 (13:52):
I am a.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Little nervous about this. I'm afraid that it's going to
totally blow up my living situation and cause an issue
for me. I mean, also, she literally just got out
of a relationship, a very serious one of five years.
So I'm not sure if I should kind of voice
my worries or just see how it plays out.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
What are your worries? What are your real worries.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
I'm more that it's going to cause a rest between
my roommates and I.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Three of you are living together.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yeah for right now?
Speaker 6 (14:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (14:23):
Okay, and she's room.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
No, she's been staying on the couch. I mean maybe
she's staying in his room. Like they kept it a
secret from me for a bit until.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
She sure Okay, Well yeah, So.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Didn't you do this at some point in your life?
Speaker 3 (14:47):
I think I did. Yeah, And so your point.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
You can shed some advice, yes.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Let me shed some light on it. Has this happened
to me? I lived with a bunch of people actually
down in Santa Monica, Tiffany, Yes, yes, yes, and uh
we lived with one girl, and I did end up
that way and it ended up okay. Actually no one
really cared about it, so I don't know that's something
(15:15):
like we didn't stay together, but it was.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
I would just support it, Morgan, like go with the flow.
See what happens, because otherwise you're going to be this
like wet blanket that I don't want to be around.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
She's off the couch and in the room. Make her
go to the room, use that bathroom too, don't share
the bathroom right now.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
I know it's true to start paying, that's true.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Well, we split the rent five ways when I was
living in Santa Monica on Ocean Park, and it was great.
Everything utilities five ways and everything ways. The parking was
issued because we had a divvy up, like withdrawal for parking.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
Probably tandem parking.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
It was tandem. He sure was tanam and Tanas was
always blocking my tanem yeah uh, or Louis blocked my
tannem sometimes. Anyway, she and I ended up being friends
afterwards for a long time.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
All right, that's good.
Speaker 5 (16:08):
Oh oh what does it mean?
Speaker 3 (16:11):
I'm sorry, it's starting to get under my skin there.
Oh yeah, what because it doesn't you just say it
for anything. It doesn't have any meaning anymore. Do you
hear it?
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I hear it all the time. It's her crutch.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
It's a crutch. Oh, I don't think you're knowing you are?
Do you know you're saying?
Speaker 7 (16:24):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (16:25):
I knew I was saying it, because what are you?
Speaker 6 (16:26):
Sorry?
Speaker 3 (16:26):
It's Morgan, good luck, thank you, It's gonna be okay,
keep okay, all right? What did it mean when you
don't say almost say what you're saying about it different?
Speaker 5 (16:37):
It's different in the in the context in which I owe,
which was what? And this context was was she maybe
the one that got away? O?
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Heay, No, that's not what you meant? And no she wasn't.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
Yes, it was what I meant.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
Well, didn't say that next time say that.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Don't go oh it's weird.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
It's not weird.
Speaker 5 (17:01):
Everybody raise your hand if you think it's weird.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
No one raised their hand. Everybody literally Mark dubs me
a Fonso.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
It's not creepy yet, but it's getting there. Okay, No, no,
and no, you need to admit this first before you
can handle.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
Don't get me started on your winking.
Speaker 5 (17:18):
No one likes my o's.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I'm sad about it. You don't even notice you're doing them.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
It's involuntary, like.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
And we have we have doctor Kellinger on the line
right now, Doctor Kellinger. Is this an involuntary response?
Speaker 4 (17:36):
They can do a remixed song with all your oh
oh oh.
Speaker 5 (17:41):
See the different inflections mean different things.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Mean nothing. But it's on the verge of really weird.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Fine, do it anymore perfect, that's impossible.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
It's gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
You don't. It's not punishment for you not to do
it anymore. If you want to punish, that's that's not
the way we want you to not do it anymore.
Speaker 5 (18:05):
Oh, Michaela likes it.
Speaker 8 (18:09):
I do.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Why he is so sensitive about like unimportant things like
this is not.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I'm not sensitive about it.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
I'm talking to Tnia because my oh's are a part
of me.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
And if she's got like her hands crossed and a
sad face, and it's like she's.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
All closed off by the Because we have to go,
it's time for Ryan's roses. Here we go.
Speaker 9 (18:32):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
You may think I'm being paranoid, but my husband has
been spending way too much time with a woman that
he met at the gym I was already feeling weird
about it. Then I came home last week and found
her in our bedroom.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
No, oh, everything's there.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
This is Daniel. Daniel, good morning, thanks for coming on.
Speaker 10 (18:58):
Yeah, thanks for having me.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Can we just jump to the found her in the bedroom?
What was she doing in the bedroom?
Speaker 10 (19:07):
Well, he said she was changing clothes and that they
had just gotten back to the run. And I asked
him why she was upstairs in our bathroom, in our
bedroom when we have a bathroom downstairs, and he was like,
why are you so dramatic about everything?
Speaker 9 (19:24):
He immediately turned it around on me.
Speaker 10 (19:26):
And would you rather change in the bedroom or a bathroom?
And we had a huge fight, and she was super
awkward and disheveled when she came downstairs. And I'm just
I'm worried he's seeing her.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
Has he ever seen women before?
Speaker 10 (19:45):
I mean not since high school, like, but ever since
he's come out he hasn't.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Hmmm, it could It makes sense that she could have
been just using the space, right, I mean, why do
you think that he'd be cheating? Why do you take
it that far?
Speaker 10 (20:04):
Well, they're always going out and they never invite me,
and it's.
Speaker 7 (20:10):
A consistent thing.
Speaker 10 (20:11):
Like he's they're always getting together for drinks or there's
just spending a lot of time together and he doesn't
tell me about it, and he doesn't he doesn't invite me.
It's just really it's really secretive, and it just feels
like he's keeping all these secrets from me.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
All Right, So you think he's more than a best friend.
You think that maybe there's just something something's going on
and he's hiding it from you.
Speaker 4 (20:35):
It's rare that it's a new dynamic, like this is
a new friend, and so why aren't you being included?
I think this is an old friend from the past, like, oh,
you've been homies so forever, then you wouldn't be so
stressed out about it.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
What's her name right? Her name is Jada, Jada? Jada, Jada?
Got it? Okay, Hold on one second, we're going to
make the call so we can find out best friend
or not. Next for the middle of Ryan's Roses here
on Kiss fab So, Daniel is worried that his husband
has met a woman at the gym. They do hang
out like best friends a lot without him. He doesn't invited.
(21:07):
They go out for drinks, hanging out together, and recently
she was in their bedroom, and he said she was
just using the space to change, which could be, but
he thinks that he's seeing her right that he's married
to him and seeing her. He said he hadn't been
with a woman since high school to his knowledge. Since
they've been together, he certainly hasn't. So what is going on?
(21:28):
Is it just a new best friend or is it more?
Daniel thinks it's more. He just thinks it's It's very
strange how they've been hanging out so much. Yeah, he
doesn't get asked, asked to come at all or invited. So, Daniel,
I need you say Ryan, you have my permission to call,
and then your husband's name.
Speaker 10 (21:44):
Go ahead, you have my permission to call. And my
husband's name is We're gonna.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Call him right now. And the woman, the new friend's
name is Jada. Let's see whose top of mind is
that you? Is it Jada? Is it somebody else? When
we're off from some roses? Okay, good lie, here we go,
be very quiet till we tell me he's on the air. Okay,
here we go.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Hello, Hi, can I speak to Justin please?
Speaker 9 (22:20):
This is he?
Speaker 12 (22:21):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
My name is Melinda. I'm calling from Lakewood Flowers, How
are you doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (22:25):
My god? What is every every call a telemarker didn't
even say spam?
Speaker 4 (22:33):
Rais, Well, we're we're a local business here in Lakewood
and offering a free promotion.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
It's a free dozen red roses.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
I don't need any cash from you, credit card info,
anything like that.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
They're absolutely free.
Speaker 9 (22:45):
Yeah. Yeah, And all I gotta do is what like
subscribe to your Flowers of the Months club?
Speaker 4 (22:51):
Like no, no, there's no there's no subscription whatsoever. Like
I said, I don't need any information from you at all.
We just need the name of the person you want
to send them to and they can have them by
lunchtime today.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
They are free. It's a beautiful arrangement. Does in red roses?
Speaker 9 (23:08):
Ah, And so they just get roses for free?
Speaker 2 (23:12):
That's correct.
Speaker 4 (23:13):
I mean, look, okay, if I'm being honest, if you
want the catch, it's that we hope that you like
the arrangements and then you come back as a customer
one day.
Speaker 6 (23:22):
Yeah, And what happens if they don't get flowers and
this is all just like scam.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
If they don't get flower, well, we can start with
the name of the person and then we can do
the note and then have the flowers sent up by
lunchtime today.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
I'll make sure that they are delivered.
Speaker 9 (23:38):
M fine, all right, send them to Jada.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
Okay, and what would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 9 (23:49):
But on the card you deserve better. That's like with
the period after each word.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Ohkay, got it?
Speaker 9 (23:56):
You period, deserve better period and then capitalize the hell
out of that.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
Okay, you got it?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
And do you want me to sign it?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
Love?
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Justin?
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Yeah, okay, justin. Your voice is being broadcast on the radio,
and we've got your husband, Daniel on the line. You
seem all bothered by this call, so I just want
to be quick here. Your husband thinks you're having an
affair with Jada and you just sent roses to Jada.
(24:29):
Can you categorize your relationship with this woman?
Speaker 9 (24:34):
Who the hell is this guy? Now? And I knew
I never should have answered this call.
Speaker 3 (24:40):
Daniel is on the line. That's your husband.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Do you know him?
Speaker 3 (24:44):
What's going on with you and Jada? Are you cheating
on Daniel with Jada?
Speaker 9 (24:48):
No? No, look I don't know who you are, dude,
but like gayman, don't send each other red roses? But no,
of course he thinks.
Speaker 6 (25:00):
I'm cheating because he thinks I'm cheating with every man
in town, and he might as well.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
Just and it sounds like you're you're very cynical about
things here. I mean, he's just trying to figure out
what's going on, Daniel. Would you like to ask justin
any questions that you're here?
Speaker 10 (25:14):
Yeah, what does you deserve?
Speaker 3 (25:17):
Better?
Speaker 1 (25:17):
Mean?
Speaker 9 (25:21):
Look, first of all, you are way too paranoid, and
she is going through some things I want me to
tell anyone, And I'm definitely not saying any of this
on the radio. There are not that many you know,
jadas in the world. Okay, So, but are you the
better she deserves? Are we really trying to do this
(25:46):
right now?
Speaker 2 (25:46):
That's a valid question.
Speaker 6 (25:50):
Wait, like you mean like physically cheating? Seriously, like because
like I thought.
Speaker 9 (25:56):
You meant like emotionally cheating or so because like physically cheating,
Like no, that's disgusting and like I can't believe why
would you even think that? Are you emotionally cheating? Here
we go? So let me hold up, actually, like, let
(26:16):
me talk to the other guy. What's your name? What's
your name? Ryan?
Speaker 10 (26:22):
All right?
Speaker 9 (26:23):
Yeah? Okay, So, like are you geyer straight?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
I'm straight.
Speaker 9 (26:29):
Okay, Well, Ryan, if you had a girlfriend or a wife, okay,
would it be possible for you to emotionally cheat with
a with a guy friend.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
No, I don't think it would be possible.
Speaker 9 (26:45):
That's a very no, and the question is ludicrous.
Speaker 6 (26:48):
And the so my husband is the most paranoid because
he's cheating, like he's been cheating on the fort And I.
Speaker 9 (26:54):
Get that, got it?
Speaker 3 (26:55):
But like, all right, so guys, here's the thing, Daniel,
Just so, Daniel, it sounds like you've had a passive cheating.
It sounds like Justin is very passionate with the fact
that he's not. But I think Justin sounds like Daniel
needs a little more security and comforting knowing that you know,
you're with him and nobody else. It sounds like he's
not feeling that.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
Why don't you include him more with these hangouts with Jada.
Speaker 9 (27:19):
Because and he knows this, I don't have time to
baby him. She wants to keep our conversations on the low,
and I'm respecting her wishes. But you know, we all
go bowling. We can all go bowland together. Maybe really cute, Mean.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Dan, do you believe Justin going on? Do you believe Justin.
Speaker 10 (27:40):
I mean, he's right. I have been paranoid, but like
all think, secrets are just he knows how. He knows
how I get when secrets are kept from me, Like
he would just tell me the truth when they're going
out and maybe invite me once in a while. I
don't need to be there every time, but I need
to be included in his life. I mean, he is
my husband. I feel like he's, you know, doing his
(28:02):
own thing now.
Speaker 9 (28:04):
Mm hmm, it's all right.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Okay, Well Justin and Daniel, I do believe that Justin's
tell you the truth. I do think that a little
more compassion might need to be included this equation. Justin
to Daniel, and I wish you guys the best of luck.
Thank you for your time. I believe him, I do
(28:30):
believe him.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
I believe him, but he's such a jerky.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Mean to his husband. On air with Ryan Seacrest, all right,
one to two pointy seven, because I've had let's go
back to Daniel and Justin. Daniel thought that his husband,
Justin was cheating on him with a woman that he met,
I think working out at the gym, and they were
hanging out as friends and Daniel wasn't invited. And then
(28:57):
we get Justin his husband on the line, and Justin said, look,
she was in the bedroom of our changing clothes, nothing
happening there, and we're hanging out because she's going through
some things. He did send the roses to the woman,
not his husband. He sent the roses to Jada. But
I did believe that Justin is not having an affair
with Jada. He's just mean to his husband. Yeah, like
(29:18):
his husband's insecure about the relationship. His husband's paranoid, and
Justin's not making Daniel feel any more secure, and he's
not nice to him.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
It's Justin's world and Daniel's just living in.
Speaker 3 (29:30):
Condescending to him. But I do believe him. I don't
believe he's cheating, Tommy.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
I don't think he's cheating, but I don't That's not
a marriage I would want to be in now.
Speaker 3 (29:41):
They don't talk to each other the way a couple
should speak to each other, and communicating in a way
where where one's hearing the other, like they're not. I
don't think they're hearing each other. Gloria, good morning in Inglewood.
What did you hear?
Speaker 14 (29:54):
I mean, I definitely have been in that type of
relationship where I've been the paranoid one, and having gone
through therapy, my therapist has always said that I tend
to be the type of person that attracts cheaters. And
even though it felt like I was being paranoid and
my ex accuse me as being paranoid, it turned out
(30:17):
to be true that he was cheating on me. So
I and through all my past relationships, I tended to
attract cheaters and that's what said my paranoia. And so
my therapist told me that I needed to date outside
my norm to break that cycle. And so I just
(30:39):
learned that you need to listen to your gut. And
I think even though Justin acted like that it was ridiculous,
I think Daniel needs to listen to his guts.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
I agree they need to listen to each other. They're
not and I think that's where we leave it to
see where it goes. Gai, thank you very much listening.
It's Ryan's roses. This is kiss Susette, isn't Monabella on
the punk? And why Susette? How are you hey?
Speaker 7 (31:06):
I'm doing all right?
Speaker 6 (31:07):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (31:08):
We're great? Congratulations I believe is due to you. You
got engaged.
Speaker 7 (31:13):
Oh gosh, okay, gott No, not yet.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Oh not yet. So it's coming.
Speaker 7 (31:22):
Maybe I don't know to come. I don't know. I yes,
not right now. I think I don't know.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
Well, help us understand what's going on and why you're
here with us.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Yeah. So my boyfriend and I we've been together for
four years and we've just kind of been going through
it the last couple of months. He's really been struggling
with work. He's been bouncing from job to job.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
He's doing the.
Speaker 7 (31:53):
Door dash uber eats all of that, of course, to
make a little bit of money. But I've had to
spot him a rant since February. So he's struggling. And
recently he confided in my best friend and he told
her that he wants to propose at the end of
the month.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
It's crazy.
Speaker 7 (32:16):
Yeah, and I'm just like, oh my gosh, of all
the time, you know, I don't know if we're ready
to take this step right now because of our finances.
It's just a lot.
Speaker 3 (32:29):
You're told me exactly, are you not ready because of
his situation? Because you're not sure he's the right one? Like,
what's the what's the hesitation route?
Speaker 7 (32:40):
I do think he's the one I really do and
I want to be engaged. I just don't know if
this is the time, you know, because like I want
him to be in a good place financially and to
not have to streuss. I mean, if we had to
plan a wedding, could you imagine.
Speaker 4 (32:57):
What if you're engaged and you're not playing the wedding
right away?
Speaker 7 (33:03):
Well, we have been together four years, so I kind
of just want to get married. If we're going to
get engaged, let's just do it.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
Yeah, But the financial thing is not going to fix
itself overnight. So it's like, look, you're gonna be married,
You're gonna have finance problems for the rest of your life.
Like it's going to not problems, but like issues that
you have to work through and communicate on. You know.
It's not I don't think it's a deal breaker, especially
if you love him and you feel like this is
your dude.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Here's the other thing is that you've been with him
four years. Can't you just talk to him directly and
say no.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
You just figure out a plan.
Speaker 3 (33:32):
Yeah, let's figure out a plan, and we need to
have a plan when certain things are in place, and
then we can start thinking about steps forward until then,
let's just do what we're doing.
Speaker 7 (33:40):
Yeah, my friend told me to act surprised because he
trusted her with telling her. But I mean, I don't
want to ruin it for him, but I kind of.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
Maybe channel can your friend back channel that you are
in a place where you're thinking this, not knowing that
he's going to propose or or or.
Speaker 5 (34:02):
You can say that you would just talk to your
therapist and she said that you cannot make any serious
long term commitments in the next three months.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Not a fortune teller.
Speaker 5 (34:13):
No, you can just say that and then hopefully he'll
get the hint and be like, oh, she can't think
any commitments, not.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
A fortune cookie.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
I know that, Hannah Brown.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Which path do you think you should go? What do
you think?
Speaker 7 (34:27):
I don't know if the therapist fortune teller thing is
quite the way, but I kind of I think Ryan,
you're right that I just I didn't want to ruin it,
and that's why I didn't want to say anything. But
we've been together long enough and this is such a
serious thing that maybe I need to just talk to
him and say, I we just need a better plan.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
We think you should communicate that to him. That's the best,
most honest way to do it. I think he'll respect that.
Speaker 7 (34:57):
Yeah, and that's probably good for us communication wise and
stuff too. We'll probably do a conversation about this.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
Well. Good luck get into that conversation soon. And we
appreciate reaching out to talk about it with us. All right,
best of luck, Thank you for your help, of course. Bye.
Do love trying to figure out relationship issues here with you, guys.
I do love it, Yeah, I do. I don't know
if you notice certain mannerisms that your friends do, your
(35:29):
coworkers do, maybe your family does. For example, my mother,
Sysiny does exactly what you pointed out to me that
Tanya does, and my mother has got me doing it
as well.
Speaker 2 (35:41):
It comes out on you every now and then, it does.
Speaker 3 (35:44):
It's like a silent sort of communicative action exactly.
Speaker 4 (35:50):
Nothing makes me feel more uncomfortable than when Tanya winks
at me.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
We're talking about winking. There are two types of people,
winkers and non winkers. It's something that you can coordinate
or not coordinate, like. You can make it look tough
if you're not a winker, but if you're a winker,
it's easy.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
She doesn't do it here, like she doesn't do it
on the show with me, But it's when we're having
our post or our pre show meetings and we're going
around the room with everyone like pitching different ideas and
talking and chatting. If she says something that I guess
she doesn't want us to know that it's the truth,
and who knows.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
She just looks at me and winks, well, not nobody else.
Speaker 3 (36:26):
What is that? So what what? Because I noticed during
this show you don't blink or wink. What is it
that you wink about? What is the message in your wik.
Speaker 5 (36:34):
Ninety nine percent of the time, I want to rattle
Mark's cage a little bit, or like ruffle his feathers
a little bit, and so I'll say something that I
know is going to ruffle him, and I want her
to join in on the fun with me.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
So we watch me manipulate and wind up. Our producers.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
Get in on the wind up.
Speaker 8 (36:56):
And it's.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
Because I have computer.
Speaker 3 (37:01):
So you need to hear her claim she is uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (37:03):
I can't wink. I can't see Mikayla. And if I
winked at Ruby, Mark would be able to see it
because it would be on my left side.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
And the thing is, I'm a winker, so I got it,
and I do it like like I got you, bro,
or we're on the same page, or you know what
I'm saying, like I do like that because my mom
does it like that.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Yeah, oh no, I can't.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
You don't wink and you don't blink. Have you ever
studied your being able to lubricate your eyes without blinking?
You don't.
Speaker 5 (37:28):
I lubricate them on a daily basis. I use like drops.
Speaker 3 (37:33):
Yeah, it's my favorite part of the show, Sysney when
we say something to Tanya and this is an audio show,
right righty Titania and or ask something and she just
opens her mouth and does it blink and doesn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Just maybe we'll get a nod, but he feel any better.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
I also do this at home and Robbie will literally
like turn my head and be like the TV's that way.
Speaker 3 (37:53):
Say something, say something. Uh, well, we are winkers, Tanya
and I and isn'tat we apologize at each other. Then
you make it look difficult to when you try on.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
That and then she smiles to that. It's like a
double whammy.
Speaker 3 (38:12):
I appreciate winkers. I like winkers. I'm a wink. That's
it for us today, Kiss FM. We're back tomorrow with
some more action, including a second date update. Thanks guys,
have a good one. It's Kiss FM. Thanks for listening
to on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe
it and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
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