August 5, 2025 • 35 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us
on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
When I take an uber, I like to interview the driver.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
I like to ask the questions, ask them where they're from,
how long they've been doing it?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Like what?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I also like, I want to know what are the
busiest times and who are the most challenging types of
people that you drive? Like is it a couple? Is
somebody that they pick up the airport? Is it you know,
some from here or not here?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Like?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Are they tourists or not tourists that I think right?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Do they prefer a longer trips a shorter trip?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I usually get them to lose interest in my questions
about a quarterway through the conversation. Not the idea, but anyway,
I'm interested. I've also left things in my uber. The
most significant was a backpack full of I think books.
I don't books well books And I try, you ever,
try to get into the app to find lost.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I have lost. I've left my phone before and I
was able to get it back.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I could not get to any place where I could
get to anything to get me to get it back.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
No, it just was an endless rabbit hole of not
getting there.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
My favorite block.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
The reason the reason they put this list out is
to promote how easy it is to contact Uber to
get your loss out.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Because I've left stuff and it was just a backpack.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Now it tells me that was user error.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Okay, well you are not. I'm very hopeful.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
You're just not very techy. I'm being honest. I just
feel like it's very.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Other people with me trying to help me that are
very techy, very like tech on tech.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
You go into the menus and this and that help
it guides you. Anyways, all right, Well, they put out
a list of some lost and found items. These are
kind of ridiculous, aren't they. These are the most unique
lost in found. So this is not going to be
like your phone's, your wallet, your keys. This is going
to be random stuff. And the list was long. There's
like fifty items on this list. So here are the
most memorable ones. A mannequin head with human hair.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Why is that unique?
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Why is it so weird?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
That is very strange.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Well, sometimes you don't travel alone.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Okay, I about this one. Shrek ears weird. Somebody left
divorce papers behind. This one is a tragedy as a
mother breast milk because you work so hard to pump
that milk out. And if I would have left that
an uber, I would have been I would.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Have Do you think they got the rest? That seems
like selling The driver definitely want to get back.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I would hope so. But sometimes you don't realize it
because then they'll go pick up somebody else, and somebody
else and somebody else in there for a hour. Yeah,
who knows a live turtle, I'm not surprised. And how
about ten live lobsters.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
They're all very slow. How do you get at this?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I don't think they're all in there with their seatbelts on.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
A live turtle not moving fast.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Well, apparently a lot of food is left behind, and
I can see this. You're maybe you get picked up
from like a big party and they're like, hey, take
this tray of whatever, and you know, and then you
forget because you're drunk. One hundred and seventy five Hamburger
sliders were left behind ones in an uber bonus.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Would you eat them? They were untouched?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I mean maybe twenty four cans of corn random, a
five gallon bucket of beans, and a bucket of feta cheese,
all just lost, left behind, and then they listed the
ten most forgettable cities, and of course la is on
the list, but we weren't number one. New York actually
came in first, followed by Miami, Chicago, and then Los
(03:28):
Angeles and then Washington, DC.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
What if that New York? Because there are more other
more ubers there.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Maybe there's like more yeah, hustle and Bustle.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, well, we've all lost something left something. However, I
do consider to be one of the greatest inventions of
our time. Yeah, bring yeah, And do you know that
uber eats will bring you things from the store that
aren't eats.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yes, yes, I've thought eyelashes delivered to me.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I've never done that.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
But there is always a weeknd the head Seacrest and
we have Natalie.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
What's the lea? Now the good morning?
Speaker 6 (04:05):
How are you good?
Speaker 7 (04:07):
How are you? How's it gone?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's going all right? How can we help you?
Speaker 7 (04:11):
Okay? So I would love to run this by you.
My husband and I we're gonna have a baby this
summer and we're super excited about it and we're gonna
have a boy and we're working on names. Oh okay, yeah,
but it's not exactly what you think we've been talking
(04:33):
around named and my husband was the one that he
really likes. But it's the same name as an ex
boyfriend of mine I may dated years ago, right after college.
It's been so long, no feelings. I love the name too,
But my question is, do you think it's weird to like,
(04:53):
it's not after my ex but sort of naming our
baby after my ex, and like, do you think it's weird? Husband?
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Does your husband know? Oh, he doesn't know that his
suggestion is an X.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Why don't you tell him?
Speaker 8 (05:06):
You have to tell him that like didn't come up
because it's so long ago.
Speaker 7 (05:11):
It's just like it was something I vaguely was thinking about.
And then the more I thought about it, I was like,
every time we say the name, I think of I
think of the X. And you know, it wouldn't be
weird in the sense we don't talk, but if you
were ever to like see it, he'd be like, Oh,
that's kind of weird.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
If this is a hard no to not tell him, uh,
because you can change the name now, like you can't
change it later. What if it bothers you after the fact,
and all you're thinking about every time? Clearly it's on
your mind, you would think about in the back of
your mind, and I think that would make it's not
(05:50):
a good conversation Dad.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Later maybe no, I think like eventually the baby, you know,
they have their own personality, and that's your baby. Like,
you're not going to think of your ax his name.
Yes you are, I don't think so.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Would say she's thinking about it because.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
The baby's not here yet. But once that baby boy
is in this world, can we whatever you name him
is going to be his name. That's true.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I don't have a new association. I kept thinking maybe
like if time passed, just like over the last few days,
I kept thinking, maybe the thoughts of the ex would
go away.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But they have what we got to know the name.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Now, Oh Jason.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Jason, you can come up with another name. I love Jason.
You could be Come on, there's enough Jason's out there.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
Yeah, morning, we're looking for Jay names. It's hard to
come up with a J name that you don't know
someone who's had it. You know that you don't have
an association with it.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
What I shorten it to just Jay.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I can take a stab at it.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
JA.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
So many j's, so many j assume a new days
I've dated like five js.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I feel like we did a morning talk that the
name Jason is like, what was it?
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Something about cheating?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Well, look, here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
I think that you need to just get to move
on with the name. Tell them the story and you
can find it in the name. I think it's a
bad idea to do it later.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Why j.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
Why Jay? We wanted to use the first initial J
because we both have grandfathers with Jay. With names that
start with Jay.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Combine the grandfather's names together.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Sisney's going to go off on one.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
This is what she does for a side living hustle.
We can talk, we can talk off line, take take
the advice or not. But I think it was better
to say something now, good luck and keep us post listen.
Now goes good luck to have them Elsie.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
Good morning, good morning.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Thank you for calling. How can we help?
Speaker 9 (08:00):
Yeah, my brother and sister in law just recently had
a baby, which is awesome and we're, you know, all
excited about it. I totally get that they want to
be like you, extremely careful, protective right now, but I
just said out something that just doesn't sit well with
me at all, kind of weird. So my husband and
(08:21):
I work full time, and so our daughter she goes
with daycare, you know, a few times a week, and
all the days that she's not in daycare, my mom
and dad you know, watch her. And that's been a
huge health and everything. But recently our daughter had already
nose major, nothing major or anything, you know, usual daycare stuff.
(08:43):
You know, they come home with us, nanny knows, not
a big deal. So we decided to you know, add
a caution and respect you know, withhold friend you know,
visiting the new baby for a bit, because we don't
want to risk anything. You know, totally understand. I'm a mom,
but I thought, my mom that my brother told my
(09:03):
parents that they shouldn't be around my daughter because they
shouldn't be visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter,
and they wanted them to wait like a few days
after just as like a period because my daughter goes
to daycare like she's some kind of weird walking.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs.
That's where we are, right yeah.
Speaker 9 (09:34):
Like I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going to
have more cold than ready noses and everything. How old
is the baby, it's a newborn like like a month.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Well, let's flip the rolls.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
If you just had your daughter, would you feel the
same way about their kid?
Speaker 2 (09:51):
There was it daycare?
Speaker 9 (09:53):
I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are
trained to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to
because I understand, but your parents around your daughter?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Right, Oh so they don't even want your parents around.
It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because your.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Parents, your parents were around your daughter, right yes, yeah, yeah, okay,
so they're thinking like.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, if they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
Yeah, I don't think it's judgmental. They're trying to protect
their baby.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
That's their progative that I think I would take it
personally at all.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
A month is young, but if the baby's like six
months old at this point they're still kind of doing
this stuff, then that's just annoying.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
I think Sistney's got a good point. Let's see how
long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment
because they just have this new baby, and let them
be overprotective. But let's ride this out.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
Yeah, I think you respect it.
Speaker 9 (10:46):
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
By the third kid, they're not going to care because
I was the same way with the twins. I mean
I was like, hands in his eyes, wash your hands, broh,
do you put up rag over your shoulder? Don't let
it touch your actual clothes. And then by Sevilla was
just like, yeah, you want to hold her. So it's
just time, Elsie, good luck, thank you for calling.
Speaker 9 (11:06):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Don't let it under your skin. It's not worth letting
it be personal. No, I think they're just being overprotective.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Got it.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Quote for the day. Also, do you use chat GPT? Everybody?
Does you ever named it? Geo?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Yep, that's my chat chipt's name, all right.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
So there are some things you should never tell GEO.
One personally identifiable information, your full name, your data, birth,
your email address.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Wait, why tonya, Tanya?
Speaker 3 (11:31):
I can't even say it on the air. There may
be chat bots listening. Okay, buffer that out.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Number two.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Never say to chat GPT health information, including seeking health advice.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Oh I do that all the time, all your issues.
It's a problem.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Why is that a problem.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
It's a problem.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
It literally told me that I needed to take my
son to the emergency room.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
That's your son, not you.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Well, I was like putting all of his symptoms in there,
and then we went and we did. They said we
caught it just before it turned into pneumonia.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
That's well, pneumonia's a bad thing. We don't want that.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Then it worked out for you this time, but will
it every time next? Don't ever tell your chatchy pte
legal activity, even as a joke.
Speaker 5 (12:12):
Tanya, Well, I don't really do illegal activity.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Well you say, really really want to press but I'm like,
so today's quote, worry is like a rocking chair. Worry
is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do,
but it gets you no place.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Oh wow, that's a great quote.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
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Speaker 3 (13:20):
If you ever wonder what would be like to be
married to Tanya kiss have m this morning. Here's a
glimpse into what life would be like married to Tanya. Yeah,
and some might find this not as comfortable as others,
but we're what full month into the marriage?
Speaker 5 (13:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:38):
One month and you found someone on Instagram? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (13:42):
So basically I found this thing on Instagram that was like,
if you want to have a long, healthy marriage, these
are questions that you should ask your partner.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
So I sent them to him.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Do we have his answer? Some confused?
Speaker 7 (13:58):
No? No?
Speaker 3 (13:58):
No?
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (13:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
So these are the questions that they say, is it
easy or difficult to bring up your wants and needs
to me? If it's difficult, how do I contribute to.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
That as a question? Yes, so with a statement at first,
and then a question.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
No, is it easy or difficult to bring up your
wants and needs to be that's the question.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Okay, got it.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
The next question is do you feel like we've become
too routine? If so, what could help us bring more fun,
joy or lightness into.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
I don't recommend that a month in.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
Okay, now, I mean, okay, we've been one month married,
but we've been together for five and a half years.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
I think it's a great question, actually, because you're gonna
answer yes, and you're gonna break the routine, which is
going to add something better, exactly, a new layer.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I like it.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
Okay, do you feel like I take initiative to keep
our connection strong or does that mostly fall on you?
Speaker 2 (14:51):
I think it's too long of a question.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
These are so serious.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
And then are there small things I used to do
that made you feel loved and appreciated but I don't
really do anymore.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I actually I have to be honest.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
They're good. They're good. Thank you, they're good. Here's how
I would format this. I would not do it sit
down with all of these at once. I would suggest
once every.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Don't put him in a fish bowl.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
No once every six months, leave a card, one every
three months, every okay, every quarter, yeah, okay, leave a card.
I appreciate you, and I just want to ask one
of these questions and then wait for response, but one offs,
one at a time, four times a year.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
The answers to these questions naturally just happened and in
a happy marriage, though three times a year, you shouldn't
have to ask these questions. It just should. He should
be telling you his once without you having to ask
him about him telling you.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
I know.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
But sometimes you get so in your routine. Life happens
and like you just get kind of you just go
and then before you know it, three months goes by
and you haven't checked in, and.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
I six months.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Don't do it every every six months, you could leave
a note with one of these questions and get the answer.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
That's that I suggested.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
I was like, I think every couple of months we
should do this, like before bed, before.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Bed, No, never had a conversation before Oh my gosh,
don't you know?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
The number one rule is exactly what Sistney said.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
You no finance, no finances, or seriously talk.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Talk It's time for a second date. Update. This is kiss.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
Tany's got her lipstick on for this one. That's right,
did you put your lipstick on? There.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Yeah, it is preparing for this.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Just wanted to feel my best.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Yeah for a second date update. Well, here's the deal.
How do you feel about dating? When you were dating
or when you're dating now. Some people are really into it,
some people are really not into it. I don't love it.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
It was stressful for me.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I don't I don't know. I feel she could.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
I always say we should just get to date seven.
The comfort of date seven. I'm not having to go
through all this stuff. But this starts sweet? How is
it going to end?
Speaker 6 (16:57):
So?
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Jody is on the line in Montrose and she says
to us that her grandma sadly had a heart attack.
It was super minor, but she just felt tired and
thought she ate something weird. But her mom freaked out
and called an ambulance and sure enough, it was a
mild heart attack.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
She says.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
My grandma kept chatting the whole time on the way
to the hospital and ended up giving the paramedic.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Her phone number. Wow, don't you love that about her grandma?
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Yeah, maybe she's thinking I might go right now.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
So, but my nana would tell everybody she met that
she is the best grandson for their dom. Anyway, she
goes on and say, Jody says, I couldn't believe it.
He texted me to see how she was doing. We
got to talking and he asked me out. So they
go on this gorgeous Sunday afternoon date, and I guess
it didn't end well.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
So let's find out from Joey. Here.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Jody, we just got the background on this very sweet
connection that your grandma made with the paramedic. Tell us
about the Sunday dates you went out on with the
paramedic and what happened.
Speaker 10 (18:01):
Uh yeah, Okay, So basically, after my grandma like got
all that information and set it up, we went out
and spent like this gorgeous Sunday afternoon at Wiscondo Gardens
and then we walked over to the Paradise Cafe for
like some ice cream, and we had a really good
(18:21):
time together.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
But why are we here?
Speaker 10 (18:26):
Well, so that's the issue. Essentially, he planned the first date,
and so then I said that I would plan date
number two, and you guys, it was so fun, Like
I don't know what happened because we laughed so much
and then we kissed and I don't know what it
could have possibly gone wrong, but I waited for like
a week, and then I texted working on plans for
(18:48):
date number two, let me know when you're available, and
he said that sounds great. I will let you know.
Speaker 9 (18:56):
What.
Speaker 7 (18:57):
And that was like a week ago.
Speaker 10 (18:59):
So now I'm just in this weird holding pattern.
Speaker 9 (19:02):
I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
So my first thought is the guy saving lives. I mean,
he probably he's got he's got a real job. This
is a serious job, being a paramedic, so maybe he's
distracted by that.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
No, I'll let you know.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Well, yeah, maybe, like i'll let you know. I have
to see my schedule, but his schedule is constantly changing.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
But you don't wait a week to not get back
to her. I don't love that.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
I love the way they met so much that I'm
going to let this slide for a minute.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Okay, well, obviously we wanted to work, but I need
to know why he's so joey.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
You were into him, right, yeah?
Speaker 9 (19:39):
Extremely?
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Okay, what did he look like? I'm just curious now
I'm picturing the piin what he looked like? Ye tell
me in the pin.
Speaker 9 (19:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (19:53):
I guess a little more closer to my age. So
he's a little bit younger, but he but he is cute.
He's you know, like tall, he like muscular, not overly so, but.
Speaker 6 (20:09):
You know, like just the right amount yes, yes, yeah,
like and.
Speaker 10 (20:13):
He's able to obviously like you know, all the like
lift by yeah, the stuff that a paramedic needs to do.
His name is Marvin.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Oh, paramedic Marvin. Okay.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I was like, glad, you know, paramedic Marvin. Okay, we
are going to get him on the phone. I think
he's agreed to come on, let's find out. I think
he's just been busy. I feel like there's a really
you don't walk away from a Nana connection in an ambulance, like,
you know, like it didn't matter. He did reach out,
so yeah, exactly, he made the first move.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Kiss time for the second date update call? Can't we
just go with Marvin? Is he ready? Okay?
Speaker 3 (20:53):
You got to hear this. Jody reached out to us.
Her grandma was in an ambulance, thought she had a
heart attack. It wasn't not a heart atta. On the
way to the hospital, she's talking about her granddaughter, Jody,
and how much the paramedic would love her granddaughter and
her grandma. Nana gives the paramedic Jody's phone number. The
paramedic then reaches out to Jody, text Jody to find
(21:16):
out how Grandma's doing, and then ask Jody out.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
That's how they met.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Cute.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
So they go on this gorgeous Sunday afternoon date, which
frankly is a great time to go on a date.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
Not the pressure of the night.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
What needs to happen at the end of the night kissing,
not a kiss, just the evolution of an afternoon that
could turn into a sunset. I actually love it, but
it goes bad then you're like, I just want to
point out, Tanya, you've not been on a date in
how five, seven, eight, nine years?
Speaker 4 (21:45):
Yeah, but I can guarantee you the number of dates
that I went on when I was dating is tops yours.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
Top dad twice your age.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
No, you're not okay, Thanks for saying it, Jody.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
We've got him to come on the phone here and
go on the air, so let's find out. Be very quiet,
We're going to find out why Paramedic Marvin was, you know,
into it, taking you out and then kind of hasn't
gotten around to getting back to you for a second date.
I said, I'll let you know and then you ever
heard from him. I think he's just busy with a
serious job.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Guys know, when you're into it, you don't put things
on pause.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Hey, Marvin, thank you for coming on the air. It's
Ryan Seacrest. You're on KISSFM with us.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
How are you Marvin? Does he have a pulse? Somebody
call a metic? Oh there he is. Okay, Marvin, So
sorry about that.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
No problem. You're busy saving lives. We understand, appreciate your
time here. So we're calling you about a woman named Jody.
You were introduced her, I think by a patient.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I yeah, okay, yeah, she's great. Well she's doing fine.
But do you guys went out?
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Tell me about your exchange with Jody and the date
you went on.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
How that went?
Speaker 11 (23:05):
I mean, it was fun. It's kind of weird you
ask is Honestly, it was the first best first hit
I've ever had.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
I'm being honest. Why was it the best first date?
I'm interested?
Speaker 11 (23:19):
I mean, you know, I mean we just had a
great conversation, you know, really positive energy, great food and
drinks too.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
And how did you leave it with Jody?
Speaker 9 (23:34):
Well, it's not sure if it's going to work out.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Honestly, Well, do you mindtion?
Speaker 12 (23:40):
I know, we just there's a lot I need to
figure out, and so, yeah, you know, I just got
some some stuff I here to figure out right.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Now, all right, Well, I don't want to pry it you.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
The only thing is, and the reason we're here is
obviously we know a little bit about Jody in the
situation and the feeling that Jody has for you that
might be very very good and have some potential here
and you having that for her. So is the roadblock
such a challenge it can't be overcome?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Well, what is the roadblock?
Speaker 11 (24:25):
Well, I'm a paramedic and a few days after the date,
I got laid off, and so I'm trying to find
a new job. I've been looking everywhere, and I have
this cousin in Seattle who said they might know of something,
and you know, I was looking at the San Diego
Palm Springs everywhere. And I don't want to lead her
on if I'm going to be leaving town.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
You know, I think that's very noble. Actually, yeah, understandable.
But then again, why not just tell her that? Why
don't you see what happens?
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Like it?
Speaker 5 (24:57):
No, don't roll it. If you're going to go out
to leave town.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
But you don't know I did long disiness for two years.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Okay, Marvin, I'm going to tell you. Jody's listening to
all this right now. Jody, can I get your reaction
to what Marvin's telling us?
Speaker 10 (25:11):
Marvin, lead me on?
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Oh, she wants to be here.
Speaker 11 (25:15):
That's what I was afraid of.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
She's saying, lead me on. She's saying, let's go, let's
do it, let's go, let's see what happened.
Speaker 10 (25:23):
Yeah, like I'm saying, it's okay, lead me on.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
I don't care.
Speaker 10 (25:26):
I really yeah, I really want to again, and maybe
I can help you look powerful?
Speaker 8 (25:32):
What if I move to cl next week?
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Marvin stopped the what ifs? Lead her on? Know what ifs? No, hypothetically,
I don't want to lead her on. You have not
been on a date.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
It's over, Marvin. Would you ask her to have the question.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
Let's see I just go out again in person, have
this conversation, get us out of it.
Speaker 11 (25:55):
You know what, I would love to lead me on.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
I like that too.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I love that. Jody charge. So did you say yesterday
in here?
Speaker 1 (26:10):
I don't know who said yes.
Speaker 10 (26:12):
We're gonna Marvin said, yes, we're going to go on
another date.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Okay, you're gonna go and you said yes to great
second date. Update updated you guys, good luck success live
in the moment, Jody, thanks for reaching out.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
What's your grandma's name?
Speaker 9 (26:24):
Than you?
Speaker 10 (26:26):
Arlene?
Speaker 6 (26:27):
Arlene is cupid in my mind, Arlene, draw back your
bow and okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
I started to sing.
Speaker 5 (26:42):
Was cute?
Speaker 6 (26:43):
It is cute.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Okay, Jody and Marvin hold on one second. We love that.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
I was great. How about lead me on? That is powerful? Strong,
taking a statement?
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Good stuff?
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Arlene on air with Ryan Seacrest Kiss FM.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Where do you stand?
Speaker 3 (27:05):
It's divide the Internet's about a family vacation. So as
the woman that's looking for advice on this after her
husband booked a vacation for himself and their kids and
she's not going. He booked it without her, so she
posted on a mom's forum called Mom's Net that their family,
she her husband, and their teenage son and daughter. They
go on this family vacation every year every summer, but
(27:26):
this year they're doing a major home renovation, which they're
already thinking that they can't afford to do anyway, and
they're adding it to their mortgage, so she suggested a staycation.
Why at the extra expense of the normal vacation. The
husband said no, he wants to vacation anyway and wants
to go and wants to do it. The teenagers want
to go to and they decide to book the trip
and go without mom.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
Why can't mom come? Anyways? At this point, if you already.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Booked it, well, she's torn. She doesn't know they booked
it without her, but she's torn. Does she go or
not go? Yes, because she thinks it adds to the
debt if she goes. So she's holding herself back so
that they can go. I mean, look, they booked it
without her, and she's saying, oh, I think I don't
know what.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Do I stay back because it does is an extra expense?
Speaker 7 (28:11):
Right?
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Or is it rude that they booked all that they're
gonna go without me? I think it's so rude. Everyone
should stay cation.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
It is rude that he that he just kind of
booked it. But sometimes you just have to just make
some people.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Or say just take the vacation, just go life ashore.
Speaker 3 (28:24):
Others are saying stand your ground, and you know, if
you feel like it's too much of an expense, don't go.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
I don't know. I'm torn on this one too. I
feel like I do this sometimes naturally though, because like
Michael will be like, no, we can't go on that
vacation when you save money, And then I'm like, well,
I already booked it.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
I think, I think.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
But yeah, but I think she stands aground and they
need to adjust, they need to pivot.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
That's I think that's the best solution.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
You guys, it's weird.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
It's weird that she wouldn't go on the vacate.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Right that they would go. I don't think that will
happen now.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
I think they'll she'll e to just go and put
them on debt, or she'll get them to pivot. But
the booking was done just like you do all the time, apparently, yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Because you know what, in that relationship, there's always one
person that's always like we need to go do it,
or any other person's like we shouldn't and it just
needs to be done.
Speaker 6 (29:10):
You know.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
It's funny.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
People always say to me, it's a long life, and
then they'll say life is short.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Yeah, Like what would do so?
Speaker 3 (29:17):
I mean, look, there's been all this talk in the
news about what if we as a culture went to
a four day work week, would we be even more productive?
Speaker 2 (29:24):
I'm all for it, right, so fine, the four day
work week.
Speaker 3 (29:28):
Some companies are doing it, some California congress people have
proposed it. But the debate is what day would be
the best day off? Would it be the Friday before
the weekend, would it be the Monday after the Sunday,
or would it be midweek to break it up ciciny.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
The midweek one kind of throws me off. But actually
I just started Savellah on this preschool schedule, and I
think it's going to be really good for her. She's
doing Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays off, Thursday, Friday.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
The midweek for me just adds another Sunday. So I say,
no time.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Yeah, I'm not too s for the working world, So
let's it's Friday. It's Friday for me, all right.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
So it would be Friday, not Monday.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
But think about the relief in Sunday not being Sunday
and being a Monday off.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
I can't get whenever we have a Monday off, that
throws off my week because then I get back Tuesday
and I'm playing catch up from stuff that like I
should have done Monday and I don't like it, Gig,
because it gets me.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
You would get adjusted, I think you would.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
You would frontload and you, Tony, what would you do?
Speaker 4 (30:24):
I would like Monday because to me, Monday's like my
most where I'm like my let's go baby. So I
feel like I would be very I would get a
lot done on Monday, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Be productive because of the super productive.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (30:38):
I go back and forth on this because I like
the idea of Sunday never feeling like a Sunday because
Monday's off and Monday then begins feel like Sunday, but
Tuesday's already Wednesday.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Always going to have that feeling whether it's Sunday or Monday,
you're gonna have that scary feeling.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
Is the excitement that of having the Friday off because
it's all ahead of you more appealing because then on
Wednesday it's Thursday and Thursday it's Friday.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
I mean that to me in my head is the
way I think I would.
Speaker 3 (31:01):
So I would vote after going back and forth on this, No, Wednesdays,
maybe Mondays, but I think for me, Fridays Fridays for sure,
or what's your final Systey Fridays for sure?
Speaker 2 (31:11):
What's your Friday final?
Speaker 5 (31:12):
Monday?
Speaker 2 (31:12):
Okay, Well let's see what I heard decides?
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Well, they did, and they're not going to decide, but
they did a Reddit pull on this Friday. Did win
by forty seven percent.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
It's a mentality. It's a mentality one a two point
seven kiss FM.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
I want to go to Rebecca. I I feel something
with this. She is dating a guy who didn't tell
her he had been engaged previously. She's asking is that
a big red flag? And if so, what does she
do about it?
Speaker 1 (31:39):
I want to know how long they've been dating because
at what point did he finally tell her?
Speaker 2 (31:42):
Rebecca? Are you there?
Speaker 3 (31:44):
I am, Hi, Hi, thank you for bringing this issue up.
We want to stop everything and get into it with you.
How did you find doubt he was engaged before?
Speaker 8 (31:55):
So I was doing like my you know, Instagram stalking
and I went to like his photos and I saw
a picture that he was tagged in from his engagement party.
There was one photo.
Speaker 2 (32:08):
But and how long have you been dating him?
Speaker 8 (32:11):
We've gone on two dates and we're going on a
third this weekend.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
Oh, so do you think I'm just trying to play
this out. Do you think it would have been up
to him to say on dates one or two? Hey,
you know, just have you talked about your dating histories?
Speaker 6 (32:24):
Like?
Speaker 2 (32:24):
Has that gotten into a lengthy conversation with the two
of you?
Speaker 8 (32:28):
Not lengthy, and we talked about it a little bit.
But I feel like maybe that's something you bring up
early on.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
I mean, I don't disagree, I'm just wondering, how do
you how do you bring that up on the first
or second I.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Think this is early on.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Rebecca, you're saying that he has time to do it still,
and it's.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Like that she says that she found out on her own,
but that was her own doing. She went in there digging.
But I think you maybe you know who knows in
the third or fourth that he would have had the
chance to tell you, And it's probably not the his
first thing to start the first day.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
Look, I agree with listening.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
If you start dating someone and they haven't told you
about this, that might be concerning. But when you're trying
to make a good impression with somebody new and you
really want them to feel like the focus, I don't
think bringing it up in the first three dates is
the best idea, Tonny.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Yeah, I mean it is too early. I feel like
this is the stage where you're just getting to know
each other. So I feel like he maybe was planning
on telling you just here's.
Speaker 3 (33:30):
My advice, Rebecca, forget you know it, lay low, and
see if he brings it up at the right time.
Speaker 2 (33:39):
Because if you feel like.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
If you feel like it's gone on for a little
while where you're you guys have covered a little bit
of your history together when you've talked, and he doesn't
mention it, then I think there's more reason to be concerned.
Speaker 2 (33:53):
I would give it a little bit of breathing room
right now.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
No, you have to what are you gonna tell him?
I was snooping through your instagram.
Speaker 8 (34:00):
Exactly, Like I can't say that.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
Yeah, put away the dust brush, all your detective tools,
put those away for a second, enjoy the moments, let
this unfold that But this is going to be.
Speaker 4 (34:09):
On the top of her mind every minute that she
hit them, and she's going to be like trying to
like lead him to this answer, disciplined. Fin Just as
long as he gets there, like she you know what
you should ask him the first minute you sit down
is like, how serious have your last relationships been?
Speaker 2 (34:25):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
When we watch TV, we don't want spoilers, but when
we date people, we look for spoilers. True, let's not
search for spoilers here. Good luck, thanks for calling. Thanks,
Oh to give advice and not take it. It is
a difficult job. I'll let your point seven kiss a fab. Well,
I guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
You guys coming over tonight tonight now I have dinner plans.
Thank you so much for the invite.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
How about not the same day invite?
Speaker 5 (34:56):
Taco Tuesday?
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Broke kettle black?
Speaker 4 (34:59):
Yeah, we're texting us an hour before lunch.
Speaker 5 (35:02):
Hey, guys want to be that noon?
Speaker 2 (35:03):
And guilt trippy for not going. All right, we'll see
you tomorrow. Guys, have a good one. Thanks for listening
to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe
and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us
on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
When I take an uber, I like to interview the driver.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
I like to ask the questions, ask them where they're from,
how long they've been doing it?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Like what?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I also like, I want to know what are the
busiest times and who are the most challenging types of
people that you drive? Like is it a couple? Is
somebody that they pick up the airport? Is it you know,
some from here or not here?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Like?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Are they tourists or not tourists that I think right?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Do they prefer a longer trips a shorter trip?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I usually get them to lose interest in my questions
about a quarterway through the conversation. Not the idea, but anyway,
I'm interested. I've also left things in my uber. The
most significant was a backpack full of I think books.
I don't books well books And I try, you ever,
try to get into the app to find lost.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
I have lost. I've left my phone before and I
was able to get it back.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I could not get to any place where I could
get to anything to get me to get it back.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
No, it just was an endless rabbit hole of not
getting there.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
My favorite block.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
The reason the reason they put this list out is
to promote how easy it is to contact Uber to
get your loss out.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Because I've left stuff and it was just a backpack.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Now it tells me that was user error.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Okay, well you are not. I'm very hopeful.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
You're just not very techy. I'm being honest. I just
feel like it's very.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Other people with me trying to help me that are
very techy, very like tech on tech.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
You go into the menus and this and that help
it guides you. Anyways, all right, Well, they put out
a list of some lost and found items. These are
kind of ridiculous, aren't they. These are the most unique
lost in found. So this is not going to be
like your phone's, your wallet, your keys. This is going
to be random stuff. And the list was long. There's
like fifty items on this list. So here are the
most memorable ones. A mannequin head with human hair.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Why is that unique?
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Why is it so weird?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
That is very strange.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Well, sometimes you don't travel alone.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Okay, I about this one. Shrek ears weird. Somebody left
divorce papers behind. This one is a tragedy as a
mother breast milk because you work so hard to pump
that milk out. And if I would have left that
an uber, I would have been I would.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Have Do you think they got the rest? That seems
like selling The driver definitely want to get back.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I would hope so. But sometimes you don't realize it
because then they'll go pick up somebody else, and somebody
else and somebody else in there for a hour. Yeah,
who knows a live turtle, I'm not surprised. And how
about ten live lobsters.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
They're all very slow. How do you get at this?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I don't think they're all in there with their seatbelts on.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
A live turtle not moving fast.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Well, apparently a lot of food is left behind, and
I can see this. You're maybe you get picked up
from like a big party and they're like, hey, take
this tray of whatever, and you know, and then you
forget because you're drunk. One hundred and seventy five Hamburger
sliders were left behind ones in an uber bonus.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Would you eat them? They were untouched?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I mean maybe twenty four cans of corn random, a
five gallon bucket of beans, and a bucket of feta cheese,
all just lost, left behind, and then they listed the
ten most forgettable cities, and of course la is on
the list, but we weren't number one. New York actually
came in first, followed by Miami, Chicago, and then Los
(03:28):
Angeles and then Washington, DC.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
What if that New York? Because there are more other
more ubers there.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Maybe there's like more yeah, hustle and Bustle.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, well, we've all lost something left something. However, I
do consider to be one of the greatest inventions of
our time. Yeah, bring yeah, And do you know that
uber eats will bring you things from the store that
aren't eats.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yes, yes, I've thought eyelashes delivered to me.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I've never done that.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
But there is always a weeknd the head Seacrest and
we have Natalie.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
What's the lea? Now the good morning?
Speaker 6 (04:05):
How are you good?
Speaker 7 (04:07):
How are you? How's it gone?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
It's going all right? How can we help you?
Speaker 7 (04:11):
Okay? So I would love to run this by you.
My husband and I we're gonna have a baby this
summer and we're super excited about it and we're gonna
have a boy and we're working on names. Oh okay, yeah,
but it's not exactly what you think we've been talking
(04:33):
around named and my husband was the one that he
really likes. But it's the same name as an ex
boyfriend of mine I may dated years ago, right after college.
It's been so long, no feelings. I love the name too,
But my question is, do you think it's weird to like,
(04:53):
it's not after my ex but sort of naming our
baby after my ex, and like, do you think it's weird? Husband?
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Does your husband know? Oh, he doesn't know that his
suggestion is an X.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Why don't you tell him?
Speaker 8 (05:06):
You have to tell him that like didn't come up
because it's so long ago.
Speaker 7 (05:11):
It's just like it was something I vaguely was thinking about.
And then the more I thought about it, I was like,
every time we say the name, I think of I
think of the X. And you know, it wouldn't be
weird in the sense we don't talk, but if you
were ever to like see it, he'd be like, Oh,
that's kind of weird.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
If this is a hard no to not tell him, uh,
because you can change the name now, like you can't
change it later. What if it bothers you after the fact,
and all you're thinking about every time? Clearly it's on
your mind, you would think about in the back of
your mind, and I think that would make it's not
(05:50):
a good conversation Dad.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Later maybe no, I think like eventually the baby, you know,
they have their own personality, and that's your baby. Like,
you're not going to think of your ax his name.
Yes you are, I don't think so.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Would say she's thinking about it because.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
The baby's not here yet. But once that baby boy
is in this world, can we whatever you name him
is going to be his name. That's true.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I don't have a new association. I kept thinking maybe
like if time passed, just like over the last few days,
I kept thinking, maybe the thoughts of the ex would
go away.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But they have what we got to know the name.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Now, Oh Jason.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Jason, you can come up with another name. I love Jason.
You could be Come on, there's enough Jason's out there.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
Yeah, morning, we're looking for Jay names. It's hard to
come up with a J name that you don't know
someone who's had it. You know that you don't have
an association with it.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
What I shorten it to just Jay.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I can take a stab at it.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
JA.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
So many j's, so many j assume a new days
I've dated like five js.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I feel like we did a morning talk that the
name Jason is like, what was it?
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Something about cheating?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Well, look, here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
I think that you need to just get to move
on with the name. Tell them the story and you
can find it in the name. I think it's a
bad idea to do it later.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Why j.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
Why Jay? We wanted to use the first initial J
because we both have grandfathers with Jay. With names that
start with Jay.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Combine the grandfather's names together.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Sisney's going to go off on one.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
This is what she does for a side living hustle.
We can talk, we can talk off line, take take
the advice or not. But I think it was better
to say something now, good luck and keep us post listen.
Now goes good luck to have them Elsie.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
Good morning, good morning.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Thank you for calling. How can we help?
Speaker 9 (08:00):
Yeah, my brother and sister in law just recently had
a baby, which is awesome and we're, you know, all
excited about it. I totally get that they want to
be like you, extremely careful, protective right now, but I
just said out something that just doesn't sit well with
me at all, kind of weird. So my husband and
(08:21):
I work full time, and so our daughter she goes
with daycare, you know, a few times a week, and
all the days that she's not in daycare, my mom
and dad you know, watch her. And that's been a
huge health and everything. But recently our daughter had already
nose major, nothing major or anything, you know, usual daycare stuff.
(08:43):
You know, they come home with us, nanny knows, not
a big deal. So we decided to you know, add
a caution and respect you know, withhold friend you know,
visiting the new baby for a bit, because we don't
want to risk anything. You know, totally understand. I'm a mom,
but I thought, my mom that my brother told my
(09:03):
parents that they shouldn't be around my daughter because they
shouldn't be visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter,
and they wanted them to wait like a few days
after just as like a period because my daughter goes
to daycare like she's some kind of weird walking.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs.
That's where we are, right yeah.
Speaker 9 (09:34):
Like I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going to
have more cold than ready noses and everything. How old
is the baby, it's a newborn like like a month.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Well, let's flip the rolls.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
If you just had your daughter, would you feel the
same way about their kid?
Speaker 2 (09:51):
There was it daycare?
Speaker 9 (09:53):
I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are
trained to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to
because I understand, but your parents around your daughter?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Right, Oh so they don't even want your parents around.
It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because your.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Parents, your parents were around your daughter, right yes, yeah, yeah, okay,
so they're thinking like.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, if they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
Yeah, I don't think it's judgmental. They're trying to protect
their baby.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
That's their progative that I think I would take it
personally at all.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
A month is young, but if the baby's like six
months old at this point they're still kind of doing
this stuff, then that's just annoying.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
I think Sistney's got a good point. Let's see how
long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment
because they just have this new baby, and let them
be overprotective. But let's ride this out.
Speaker 5 (10:40):
Yeah, I think you respect it.
Speaker 9 (10:46):
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
By the third kid, they're not going to care because
I was the same way with the twins. I mean
I was like, hands in his eyes, wash your hands, broh,
do you put up rag over your shoulder? Don't let
it touch your actual clothes. And then by Sevilla was
just like, yeah, you want to hold her. So it's
just time, Elsie, good luck, thank you for calling.
Speaker 9 (11:06):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Don't let it under your skin. It's not worth letting
it be personal. No, I think they're just being overprotective.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Got it.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Quote for the day. Also, do you use chat GPT? Everybody?
Does you ever named it? Geo?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Yep, that's my chat chipt's name, all right.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
So there are some things you should never tell GEO.
One personally identifiable information, your full name, your data, birth,
your email address.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Wait, why tonya, Tanya?
Speaker 3 (11:31):
I can't even say it on the air. There may
be chat bots listening. Okay, buffer that out.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Number two.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Never say to chat GPT health information, including seeking health advice.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Oh I do that all the time, all your issues.
It's a problem.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Why is that a problem.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
It's a problem.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
It literally told me that I needed to take my
son to the emergency room.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
That's your son, not you.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Well, I was like putting all of his symptoms in there,
and then we went and we did. They said we
caught it just before it turned into pneumonia.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
That's well, pneumonia's a bad thing. We don't want that.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
Then it worked out for you this time, but will
it every time next? Don't ever tell your chatchy pte
legal activity, even as a joke.
Speaker 5 (12:12):
Tanya, Well, I don't really do illegal activity.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Well you say, really really want to press but I'm like,
so today's quote, worry is like a rocking chair. Worry
is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do,
but it gets you no place.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Oh wow, that's a great quote.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
We are going to get through it together at LA's
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Speaker 2 (12:37):
Gets FM Headlines with Tanya rad Carter.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
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to protect employees from toxic chemicals and trying to hide
the dangers from regulators. Immigration officers are no longer allowed
to identify themselves as local police or use deceptive tactics
during home arrests in SoCal following a settlement reach in
a class action lawsuit. A federal judge once again denied
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a motion to release Sean Diddy Combs, keeping him in
custody until his sentencing this fall, and Margot Robbie is
reportedly in negotiations to star in Tim Burton's remake of
the nineteen fifty eight science fiction classic Attack of the
Fifty Foot Woman.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
If you ever wonder what would be like to be
married to Tanya kiss have m this morning. Here's a
glimpse into what life would be like married to Tanya. Yeah,
and some might find this not as comfortable as others,
but we're what full month into the marriage?
Speaker 5 (13:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:38):
One month and you found someone on Instagram? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (13:42):
So basically I found this thing on Instagram that was like,
if you want to have a long, healthy marriage, these
are questions that you should ask your partner.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
So I sent them to him.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Do we have his answer? Some confused?
Speaker 7 (13:58):
No? No?
Speaker 3 (13:58):
No?
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (13:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
So these are the questions that they say, is it
easy or difficult to bring up your wants and needs
to me? If it's difficult, how do I contribute to.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
That as a question? Yes, so with a statement at first,
and then a question.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
No, is it easy or difficult to bring up your
wants and needs to be that's the question.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Okay, got it.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
The next question is do you feel like we've become
too routine? If so, what could help us bring more fun,
joy or lightness into.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
I don't recommend that a month in.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
Okay, now, I mean, okay, we've been one month married,
but we've been together for five and a half years.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
I think it's a great question, actually, because you're gonna
answer yes, and you're gonna break the routine, which is
going to add something better, exactly, a new layer.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
I like it.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
Okay, do you feel like I take initiative to keep
our connection strong or does that mostly fall on you?
Speaker 2 (14:51):
I think it's too long of a question.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
These are so serious.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
And then are there small things I used to do
that made you feel loved and appreciated but I don't
really do anymore.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I actually I have to be honest.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
They're good. They're good. Thank you, they're good. Here's how
I would format this. I would not do it sit
down with all of these at once. I would suggest
once every.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Don't put him in a fish bowl.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
No once every six months, leave a card, one every
three months, every okay, every quarter, yeah, okay, leave a card.
I appreciate you, and I just want to ask one
of these questions and then wait for response, but one offs,
one at a time, four times a year.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
The answers to these questions naturally just happened and in
a happy marriage, though three times a year, you shouldn't
have to ask these questions. It just should. He should
be telling you his once without you having to ask
him about him telling you.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
I know.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
But sometimes you get so in your routine. Life happens
and like you just get kind of you just go
and then before you know it, three months goes by
and you haven't checked in, and.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
I six months.
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Don't do it every every six months, you could leave
a note with one of these questions and get the answer.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
That's that I suggested.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
I was like, I think every couple of months we
should do this, like before bed, before.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Bed, No, never had a conversation before Oh my gosh,
don't you know?
Speaker 2 (16:17):
The number one rule is exactly what Sistney said.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
You no finance, no finances, or seriously talk.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
Talk It's time for a second date. Update. This is kiss.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
Tany's got her lipstick on for this one. That's right,
did you put your lipstick on? There.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Yeah, it is preparing for this.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Just wanted to feel my best.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Yeah for a second date update. Well, here's the deal.
How do you feel about dating? When you were dating
or when you're dating now. Some people are really into it,
some people are really not into it. I don't love it.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
It was stressful for me.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I don't I don't know. I feel she could.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
I always say we should just get to date seven.
The comfort of date seven. I'm not having to go
through all this stuff. But this starts sweet? How is
it going to end?
Speaker 6 (16:57):
So?
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Jody is on the line in Montrose and she says
to us that her grandma sadly had a heart attack.
It was super minor, but she just felt tired and
thought she ate something weird. But her mom freaked out
and called an ambulance and sure enough, it was a
mild heart attack.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
She says.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
My grandma kept chatting the whole time on the way
to the hospital and ended up giving the paramedic.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Her phone number. Wow, don't you love that about her grandma?
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Yeah, maybe she's thinking I might go right now.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
So, but my nana would tell everybody she met that
she is the best grandson for their dom. Anyway, she
goes on and say, Jody says, I couldn't believe it.
He texted me to see how she was doing. We
got to talking and he asked me out. So they
go on this gorgeous Sunday afternoon date, and I guess
it didn't end well.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
So let's find out from Joey. Here.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Jody, we just got the background on this very sweet
connection that your grandma made with the paramedic. Tell us
about the Sunday dates you went out on with the
paramedic and what happened.
Speaker 10 (18:01):
Uh yeah, Okay, So basically, after my grandma like got
all that information and set it up, we went out
and spent like this gorgeous Sunday afternoon at Wiscondo Gardens
and then we walked over to the Paradise Cafe for
like some ice cream, and we had a really good
(18:21):
time together.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
But why are we here?
Speaker 10 (18:26):
Well, so that's the issue. Essentially, he planned the first date,
and so then I said that I would plan date
number two, and you guys, it was so fun, Like
I don't know what happened because we laughed so much
and then we kissed and I don't know what it
could have possibly gone wrong, but I waited for like
a week, and then I texted working on plans for
(18:48):
date number two, let me know when you're available, and
he said that sounds great. I will let you know.
Speaker 9 (18:56):
What.
Speaker 7 (18:57):
And that was like a week ago.
Speaker 10 (18:59):
So now I'm just in this weird holding pattern.
Speaker 9 (19:02):
I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
So my first thought is the guy saving lives. I mean,
he probably he's got he's got a real job. This
is a serious job, being a paramedic, so maybe he's
distracted by that.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
No, I'll let you know.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Well, yeah, maybe, like i'll let you know. I have
to see my schedule, but his schedule is constantly changing.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
But you don't wait a week to not get back
to her. I don't love that.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
I love the way they met so much that I'm
going to let this slide for a minute.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Okay, well, obviously we wanted to work, but I need
to know why he's so joey.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
You were into him, right, yeah?
Speaker 9 (19:39):
Extremely?
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Okay, what did he look like? I'm just curious now
I'm picturing the piin what he looked like? Ye tell
me in the pin.
Speaker 9 (19:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (19:53):
I guess a little more closer to my age. So
he's a little bit younger, but he but he is cute.
He's you know, like tall, he like muscular, not overly so, but.
Speaker 6 (20:09):
You know, like just the right amount yes, yes, yeah,
like and.
Speaker 10 (20:13):
He's able to obviously like you know, all the like
lift by yeah, the stuff that a paramedic needs to do.
His name is Marvin.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Oh, paramedic Marvin. Okay.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I was like, glad, you know, paramedic Marvin. Okay, we
are going to get him on the phone. I think
he's agreed to come on, let's find out. I think
he's just been busy. I feel like there's a really
you don't walk away from a Nana connection in an ambulance, like,
you know, like it didn't matter. He did reach out,
so yeah, exactly, he made the first move.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Kiss time for the second date update call? Can't we
just go with Marvin? Is he ready? Okay?
Speaker 3 (20:53):
You got to hear this. Jody reached out to us.
Her grandma was in an ambulance, thought she had a
heart attack. It wasn't not a heart atta. On the
way to the hospital, she's talking about her granddaughter, Jody,
and how much the paramedic would love her granddaughter and
her grandma. Nana gives the paramedic Jody's phone number. The
paramedic then reaches out to Jody, text Jody to find
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out how Grandma's doing, and then ask Jody out.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
That's how they met.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Cute.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
So they go on this gorgeous Sunday afternoon date, which
frankly is a great time to go on a date.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
Not the pressure of the night.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
What needs to happen at the end of the night kissing,
not a kiss, just the evolution of an afternoon that
could turn into a sunset. I actually love it, but
it goes bad then you're like, I just want to
point out, Tanya, you've not been on a date in
how five, seven, eight, nine years?
Speaker 4 (21:45):
Yeah, but I can guarantee you the number of dates
that I went on when I was dating is tops yours.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
Top dad twice your age.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
No, you're not okay, Thanks for saying it, Jody.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
We've got him to come on the phone here and
go on the air, so let's find out. Be very quiet,
We're going to find out why Paramedic Marvin was, you know,
into it, taking you out and then kind of hasn't
gotten around to getting back to you for a second date.
I said, I'll let you know and then you ever
heard from him. I think he's just busy with a
serious job.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Guys know, when you're into it, you don't put things
on pause.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Hey, Marvin, thank you for coming on the air. It's
Ryan Seacrest. You're on KISSFM with us.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
How are you Marvin? Does he have a pulse? Somebody
call a metic? Oh there he is. Okay, Marvin, So
sorry about that.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
No problem. You're busy saving lives. We understand, appreciate your
time here. So we're calling you about a woman named Jody.
You were introduced her, I think by a patient.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I yeah, okay, yeah, she's great. Well she's doing fine.
But do you guys went out?
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Tell me about your exchange with Jody and the date
you went on.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
How that went?
Speaker 11 (23:05):
I mean, it was fun. It's kind of weird you
ask is Honestly, it was the first best first hit
I've ever had.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
I'm being honest. Why was it the best first date?
I'm interested?
Speaker 11 (23:19):
I mean, you know, I mean we just had a
great conversation, you know, really positive energy, great food and
drinks too.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
And how did you leave it with Jody?
Speaker 9 (23:34):
Well, it's not sure if it's going to work out.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Honestly, Well, do you mindtion?
Speaker 12 (23:40):
I know, we just there's a lot I need to
figure out, and so, yeah, you know, I just got
some some stuff I here to figure out right.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Now, all right, Well, I don't want to pry it you.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
The only thing is, and the reason we're here is
obviously we know a little bit about Jody in the
situation and the feeling that Jody has for you that
might be very very good and have some potential here
and you having that for her. So is the roadblock
such a challenge it can't be overcome?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Well, what is the roadblock?
Speaker 11 (24:25):
Well, I'm a paramedic and a few days after the date,
I got laid off, and so I'm trying to find
a new job. I've been looking everywhere, and I have
this cousin in Seattle who said they might know of something,
and you know, I was looking at the San Diego
Palm Springs everywhere. And I don't want to lead her
on if I'm going to be leaving town.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
You know, I think that's very noble. Actually, yeah, understandable.
But then again, why not just tell her that? Why
don't you see what happens?
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Like it?
Speaker 5 (24:57):
No, don't roll it. If you're going to go out
to leave town.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
But you don't know I did long disiness for two years.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Okay, Marvin, I'm going to tell you. Jody's listening to
all this right now. Jody, can I get your reaction
to what Marvin's telling us?
Speaker 10 (25:11):
Marvin, lead me on?
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Oh, she wants to be here.
Speaker 11 (25:15):
That's what I was afraid of.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
She's saying, lead me on. She's saying, let's go, let's
do it, let's go, let's see what happened.
Speaker 10 (25:23):
Yeah, like I'm saying, it's okay, lead me on.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
I don't care.
Speaker 10 (25:26):
I really yeah, I really want to again, and maybe
I can help you look powerful?
Speaker 8 (25:32):
What if I move to cl next week?
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Marvin stopped the what ifs? Lead her on? Know what ifs? No, hypothetically,
I don't want to lead her on. You have not
been on a date.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
It's over, Marvin. Would you ask her to have the question.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
Let's see I just go out again in person, have
this conversation, get us out of it.
Speaker 11 (25:55):
You know what, I would love to lead me on.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
I like that too.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I love that. Jody charge. So did you say yesterday
in here?
Speaker 1 (26:10):
I don't know who said yes.
Speaker 10 (26:12):
We're gonna Marvin said, yes, we're going to go on
another date.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Okay, you're gonna go and you said yes to great
second date. Update updated you guys, good luck success live
in the moment, Jody, thanks for reaching out.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
What's your grandma's name?
Speaker 9 (26:24):
Than you?
Speaker 10 (26:26):
Arlene?
Speaker 6 (26:27):
Arlene is cupid in my mind, Arlene, draw back your
bow and okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
I started to sing.
Speaker 5 (26:42):
Was cute?
Speaker 6 (26:43):
It is cute.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
Okay, Jody and Marvin hold on one second. We love that.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
I was great. How about lead me on? That is powerful? Strong,
taking a statement?
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Good stuff?
Speaker 3 (26:55):
Arlene on air with Ryan Seacrest Kiss FM.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Where do you stand?
Speaker 3 (27:05):
It's divide the Internet's about a family vacation. So as
the woman that's looking for advice on this after her
husband booked a vacation for himself and their kids and
she's not going. He booked it without her, so she
posted on a mom's forum called Mom's Net that their family,
she her husband, and their teenage son and daughter. They
go on this family vacation every year every summer, but
(27:26):
this year they're doing a major home renovation, which they're
already thinking that they can't afford to do anyway, and
they're adding it to their mortgage, so she suggested a staycation.
Why at the extra expense of the normal vacation. The
husband said no, he wants to vacation anyway and wants
to go and wants to do it. The teenagers want
to go to and they decide to book the trip
and go without mom.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
Why can't mom come? Anyways? At this point, if you already.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Booked it, well, she's torn. She doesn't know they booked
it without her, but she's torn. Does she go or
not go? Yes, because she thinks it adds to the
debt if she goes. So she's holding herself back so
that they can go. I mean, look, they booked it
without her, and she's saying, oh, I think I don't
know what.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Do I stay back because it does is an extra expense?
Speaker 7 (28:11):
Right?
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Or is it rude that they booked all that they're
gonna go without me? I think it's so rude. Everyone
should stay cation.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
It is rude that he that he just kind of
booked it. But sometimes you just have to just make
some people.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Or say just take the vacation, just go life ashore.
Speaker 3 (28:24):
Others are saying stand your ground, and you know, if
you feel like it's too much of an expense, don't go.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
I don't know. I'm torn on this one too. I
feel like I do this sometimes naturally though, because like
Michael will be like, no, we can't go on that
vacation when you save money, And then I'm like, well,
I already booked it.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
I think, I think.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
But yeah, but I think she stands aground and they
need to adjust, they need to pivot.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
That's I think that's the best solution.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
You guys, it's weird.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
It's weird that she wouldn't go on the vacate.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Right that they would go. I don't think that will
happen now.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
I think they'll she'll e to just go and put
them on debt, or she'll get them to pivot. But
the booking was done just like you do all the time, apparently, yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Because you know what, in that relationship, there's always one
person that's always like we need to go do it,
or any other person's like we shouldn't and it just
needs to be done.
Speaker 6 (29:10):
You know.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
It's funny.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
People always say to me, it's a long life, and
then they'll say life is short.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
Yeah, Like what would do so?
Speaker 3 (29:17):
I mean, look, there's been all this talk in the
news about what if we as a culture went to
a four day work week, would we be even more productive?
Speaker 2 (29:24):
I'm all for it, right, so fine, the four day
work week.
Speaker 3 (29:28):
Some companies are doing it, some California congress people have
proposed it. But the debate is what day would be
the best day off? Would it be the Friday before
the weekend, would it be the Monday after the Sunday,
or would it be midweek to break it up ciciny.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
The midweek one kind of throws me off. But actually
I just started Savellah on this preschool schedule, and I
think it's going to be really good for her. She's
doing Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays off, Thursday, Friday.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
The midweek for me just adds another Sunday. So I say,
no time.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Yeah, I'm not too s for the working world, So
let's it's Friday. It's Friday for me, all right.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
So it would be Friday, not Monday.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
But think about the relief in Sunday not being Sunday
and being a Monday off.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
I can't get whenever we have a Monday off, that
throws off my week because then I get back Tuesday
and I'm playing catch up from stuff that like I
should have done Monday and I don't like it, Gig,
because it gets me.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
You would get adjusted, I think you would.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
You would frontload and you, Tony, what would you do?
Speaker 4 (30:24):
I would like Monday because to me, Monday's like my
most where I'm like my let's go baby. So I
feel like I would be very I would get a
lot done on Monday, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Be productive because of the super productive.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (30:38):
I go back and forth on this because I like
the idea of Sunday never feeling like a Sunday because
Monday's off and Monday then begins feel like Sunday, but
Tuesday's already Wednesday.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Always going to have that feeling whether it's Sunday or Monday,
you're gonna have that scary feeling.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
Is the excitement that of having the Friday off because
it's all ahead of you more appealing because then on
Wednesday it's Thursday and Thursday it's Friday.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
I mean that to me in my head is the
way I think I would.
Speaker 3 (31:01):
So I would vote after going back and forth on this, No, Wednesdays,
maybe Mondays, but I think for me, Fridays Fridays for sure,
or what's your final Systey Fridays for sure?
Speaker 2 (31:11):
What's your Friday final?
Speaker 5 (31:12):
Monday?
Speaker 2 (31:12):
Okay, Well let's see what I heard decides?
Speaker 1 (31:15):
Well, they did, and they're not going to decide, but
they did a Reddit pull on this Friday. Did win
by forty seven percent.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
It's a mentality. It's a mentality one a two point
seven kiss FM.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
I want to go to Rebecca. I I feel something
with this. She is dating a guy who didn't tell
her he had been engaged previously. She's asking is that
a big red flag? And if so, what does she
do about it?
Speaker 1 (31:39):
I want to know how long they've been dating because
at what point did he finally tell her?
Speaker 2 (31:42):
Rebecca? Are you there?
Speaker 3 (31:44):
I am, Hi, Hi, thank you for bringing this issue up.
We want to stop everything and get into it with you.
How did you find doubt he was engaged before?
Speaker 8 (31:55):
So I was doing like my you know, Instagram stalking
and I went to like his photos and I saw
a picture that he was tagged in from his engagement party.
There was one photo.
Speaker 2 (32:08):
But and how long have you been dating him?
Speaker 8 (32:11):
We've gone on two dates and we're going on a
third this weekend.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
Oh, so do you think I'm just trying to play
this out. Do you think it would have been up
to him to say on dates one or two? Hey,
you know, just have you talked about your dating histories?
Speaker 6 (32:24):
Like?
Speaker 2 (32:24):
Has that gotten into a lengthy conversation with the two
of you?
Speaker 8 (32:28):
Not lengthy, and we talked about it a little bit.
But I feel like maybe that's something you bring up
early on.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
I mean, I don't disagree, I'm just wondering, how do
you how do you bring that up on the first
or second I.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Think this is early on.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Rebecca, you're saying that he has time to do it still,
and it's.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Like that she says that she found out on her own,
but that was her own doing. She went in there digging.
But I think you maybe you know who knows in
the third or fourth that he would have had the
chance to tell you, And it's probably not the his
first thing to start the first day.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
Look, I agree with listening.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
If you start dating someone and they haven't told you
about this, that might be concerning. But when you're trying
to make a good impression with somebody new and you
really want them to feel like the focus, I don't
think bringing it up in the first three dates is
the best idea, Tonny.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Yeah, I mean it is too early. I feel like
this is the stage where you're just getting to know
each other. So I feel like he maybe was planning
on telling you just here's.
Speaker 3 (33:30):
My advice, Rebecca, forget you know it, lay low, and
see if he brings it up at the right time.
Speaker 2 (33:39):
Because if you feel like.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
If you feel like it's gone on for a little
while where you're you guys have covered a little bit
of your history together when you've talked, and he doesn't
mention it, then I think there's more reason to be concerned.
Speaker 2 (33:53):
I would give it a little bit of breathing room
right now.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
No, you have to what are you gonna tell him?
I was snooping through your instagram.
Speaker 8 (34:00):
Exactly, Like I can't say that.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
Yeah, put away the dust brush, all your detective tools,
put those away for a second, enjoy the moments, let
this unfold that But this is going to be.
Speaker 4 (34:09):
On the top of her mind every minute that she
hit them, and she's going to be like trying to
like lead him to this answer, disciplined. Fin Just as
long as he gets there, like she you know what
you should ask him the first minute you sit down
is like, how serious have your last relationships been?
Speaker 2 (34:25):
But here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
When we watch TV, we don't want spoilers, but when
we date people, we look for spoilers. True, let's not
search for spoilers here. Good luck, thanks for calling. Thanks,
Oh to give advice and not take it. It is
a difficult job. I'll let your point seven kiss a fab. Well,
I guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
You guys coming over tonight tonight now I have dinner plans.
Thank you so much for the invite.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
How about not the same day invite?
Speaker 5 (34:56):
Taco Tuesday?
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Broke kettle black?
Speaker 4 (34:59):
Yeah, we're texting us an hour before lunch.
Speaker 5 (35:02):
Hey, guys want to be that noon?
Speaker 2 (35:03):
And guilt trippy for not going. All right, we'll see
you tomorrow. Guys, have a good one. Thanks for listening
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