June 26, 2024 • 48 mins
MORNING HACK- Married couples! There are two periods in a marriage when divorces spike! We'll tell the years to watch out for!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'll given to this now because it's kiss and you
may be brushing your teeth or about to do so.
And there were some things that I was reading that
you know, you're get into a hole, you get into
a rabbit hole of something. I was reading about this stuff.
I didn't actually understand this. I overbrush my teeth. I
think I'm afraid of bad breath. And I carry a
little travel tooth paste and toothbrush in my glove compartment
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in case of anything, so I've always got it with me.
And I also brushed them here after work. I brush
them after launch. I brush them a lot. And I
didn't until later in life understand the brushing of your tongue,
which gets rid of the bad breath.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yeah, it's all about the tongue.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
But in like elementary school, I didn't know about the tongue.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
But also you can overbrush your teeth like you shouldn't
brush them so much because of your gums.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
And too hard. I still use the old automatic, not
automatic manual. I still use toothbrush.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I go back and forth. I have both and I
go back and forth because I can't commit to one.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I just like, in a way.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Oral hygiene.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
The electric one is like sometimes it's too buzzy for me,
and I'm just like, I can't deal with the buzz.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I feel like, And my Dennis tells me differently, but
I feel like, because it's so light and vibrating, it's
not getting a job done. And I want to go
in there with my toothbrush.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, I mean, I like the manual too.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
It's no different than me wanting to turn the page
of a newspaper on the toilet on a Sunday morning.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Crow, you have to be on the toilet, like on
your porch.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
At the kitchen table.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Mark, you know what I'm talking about. I mean, I do,
because that's what our parents used to do. My dad
used to take the newspaper on a Sunday morning into
the toilet.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
The neighbor next door to Dennis the mena is like,
that's what I'm picturing right now.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So here, listen. These are some common mistakes about brushing teeth.
I didn't know too aggressive. Yes, you could hurt your gums. Right,
you're right, Tanya, Now did you know that it's a mistake?
To rinse with water immediately after brushing your teeth. I
do that all the time.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
And I also heard that you didn't even need to
use water when you brush your teeth.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
What I do is I floss, then I like gargle,
rinse and get a little little pieces out and I
brush my teeth. But I also used quite a bit
of water, so I didn't know that. Don't use mouthwash
immediately after brushing your teeth. No way, Wait a few minutes,
so brush your teeth, wait ten minutes, then do the
mouth ten minutes. I know it's you got to back
(02:37):
back up your whole process here and then, Tanya, we're
violating this. What brushing your teeth immediately after eating certain
foods and drinks. Don't do it after sugar or acidic
foods and drinks, including coffee. Wait a half hour. I
brush after coffee, like as soon as we finished coffee
and the show like, I brush my teeth immediately. I
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wasn't paying that much attention. And I read this and
it struck me. If I didn't share with you, I
feel like not a good person. These are great, tis
good tips right, especially for this time of morning. Thomas,
let me grab you this morning, bright and early. How
are you, buddy good?
Speaker 6 (03:13):
How about you, Ryn?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
I'm doing well. Thanks. So are you calling for relationship advice?
Speaker 6 (03:19):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (03:20):
So I am like a chronically on time person my
entire life.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Like I thought, the rudest thing I subscribe.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
I'm with you, perfect, Let's be on time with stuff together.
My boyfriend, on the other hand, is perpetually late to
everything and like he knows how big of a deal
this is to me. But now we go to stuff together,
we'll relate to everything. And friend told me that she
literally gives a separate start time events and most of
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our friends, ye knows that.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Like, wait, Thomas, I'm losing you. I'm losing you for
a second, I'm losing your your ignore you there, I'm here,
I'm here, okay, so tell me you most of your
friends say what.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
They They send me a separate earlier start time, you know,
And I don't know how I got here, Like I
love being on time. I try to talk to my
BOYE doesn't seem to put in the effort and I
can't supervise them all.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So wait, why do they give you the false start
time if you're the one on time?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Because he's associated with his boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Now, yeah, because you're so, you're ready and you're a
way Okay, I understand all of it. Now here's the thing, guys,
I don't understand, and forgive me because I know a
lot of people function this way. I'm a clock. That
is what I am. That's my zodiac side a flock. Okay.
In fact, I want to be a clock for Halloween.
(04:45):
So Tomas, I there are some people that don't operate
on a time and I am not compatible with them.
But I know a lot of them, and I do
the same thing. I start like managing their the information
they get differently so that their clock is up to
the clock that is the right time. But can you,
(05:06):
I mean, can you on the inside work on your
boyfriend's clock to get your boyfriend to understand about the
respectfulness of people's time. I mean, time is like it's
important capitalist currency.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Does your boyfriend have a job, Like? Does he is
he long for work?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Like I can't tell him? Like I tell him to
go on time to work, but he's late, Like I
can't be his mom all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
How long you've been with him?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
A few months? Like half a year?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I don't know that this is going to work out.
I don't know that you people. I know, I was
just mad, I know two minutes ago. But I'm just
telling you that I don't know that. If you are
this intense about your clock and he doesn't have a clock,
and you're worried about the reputation, et cetera, I'm starting
to see flags.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Here is your boyfriend a scorpio by chance?
Speaker 7 (05:57):
Yes, now that you ask, Yeah, I just.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
I know quite a few scorpios and they are the
same way, like they just don't have that in their
Like there.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Who used to work here scorpio and my.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Best friend Becca is a scorpio and they just have clocks.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
No, no, Patty, Patty don't have a clock. Patty was
always like fifteen twenty and especially like a social study.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I'm going to get Patty more credit. She might have
scrambled in at the last second with a bunch of
bags and food and stuff.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Patty yourself admittedly that this she is like, I'm sitting
up for Patty.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
We love Patty. She would admit this.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
So hard listening text me some restaurant ideas.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
She would stand with us. She would you admit that.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I'm not so sure.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yes, she would, Well.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
We'll see when she texts me Thomas, Well, you've heard our.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
View, Thomas, you're so about this. Ryan might be right.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Move on. I'm just seeing a flag in the distance.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
Good luck, buddy, appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Give him an ultimatum, will do all right? Take care Thomas,
good luck on that one. Not give an ultimatum.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Well, yeah, start being on time or this is not
gonna work out.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
It's so rigid.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
It's not rigid.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
It's that's how you talk to Michael, and no.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I don't talk to Michael that way.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Well, then he can't talk to his boyfriend like that.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Well he can't if it's only like two months in
starts sitting the ground rules.
Speaker 5 (07:29):
Sometimes you just have to take people as they are.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I think there's a flag. Let's get to Katie on
the phone here, one eight hundred and five to one
oh two seven, Katie, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
I'm good?
Speaker 7 (07:41):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
We're doing all right? So you're calling about an issue
with the guy you're dating. Yeah, what's the issue.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
So we've been seeing each other for like about five
months now, and I think everything's going really well. Like
I've met his family, he's met mine, like we go
on dates like every week, like we see each other
all the time. But he and he told me he's
not seeing anyone else, but he doesn't want to put
a label in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Why does he not want to put it, Labe, We
need to find out why. So if he's not seen
anybody and he wants to see you, what's the reason
he doesn't want to label it?
Speaker 4 (08:20):
So he was married before we met, and they've just
been divorced like a little over a year now, and
he was with her for like years and years before that.
So I just think that that's the.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Reason why I scarred a little bit from whatever happened
in the past. Yeah, if you were to come over
to Tanya's house, I mean you would have been invited,
and she and Robbie were to host you and Katie
he were to come and introduce you. He would say, Hi, Robbie, Tanya,
this is Katie my What what would he say?
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I don't know. See, that's the thing is, like I
want to be able to say this is my boyfriend,
and I feel like I would be awkward, like a
what would he say? Like That's why I'm calling me because
I'm like.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I, I, well, maybe I learned this lesson very quickly
when I had a girlfriend, but I wasn't so trained
to introduce her as my girlfriend. And we were at
something and I was like, this is so and so
without saying this is my girlfriend so and so, and
I was corrected and understood. So I learned that lesson.
(09:30):
But there must be a reason why he doesn't want
the label. Maybe it is because he went through something
in the past and his fear of maybe going too
fast or his fear of your expectation is holding him back.
It may not be such a red flag. It may
be part of what he's is trauma.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Yeah, no, definitely, I was thinking that, like, maybe it's
just I have to give it a little bit more time.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
How long happened to me?
Speaker 6 (09:55):
We've been We.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Met like five months ago, so I mean it's still
pretty new. And yeah, we met for a friend, so
it's not like he was like on a dating app,
like looking for anything, you know, it was like a
casual I feel like.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Five months is an okay time to yeah and put
a label on it.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Though, Can you do something that I don't love to do,
which is say, hey, can we talk about why just
talk and about why he doesn't want the label, so
that you can understand from his point of view what's
going on there.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
That's an interesting way to get into the conversation.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
No, I definitely have to do that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
I don't like doing that myself, but I definitely advise
you do it. Okay, all right, well, good luck it out. Yeah.
I would give him a beat on this and benefit
of the doubt on it too, since he's been through
something it sounds like.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
All right, Katie, Yeah, definitely, thanks so much.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Thank you very much. I mean, I have been in
that moment where I was not ready for labels.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
At five months into a thing already.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't know the timing. I can't remember that the calendar,
but I have been in that point where, like I said,
I wasn't quite sure where I was yet with myself.
So it's like and coming off of something, not ready
to call it anything yet. Now I could evolve into
something yet, but I happened that place where I'm not
ready yet, Tanya.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
I have not been in that position in my life,
but I have been with somebody in that position. But
I think it's interesting because you know, they say love
is patient. That's the first thing that I love.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
They said, it's blind.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Yeah, love is patient.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
So if it's meant to be able to wait, yeah.
Speaker 5 (11:27):
But also I think there's a there's a balance, right,
you know, like sometimes you might not meet somebody that's
on the same page as you, Like when Robin and
I met, we were not on the same pace or
the same page, but we compromise and met in the
middle in ways that made us both feel comfortable. And
I think that's kind of what you have to do.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
And you guys took the treadmill down to one point
zero on a one point incliin I mean, you guys,
really you took the speed down on your relationship a
little bit.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
We did in the beginning, and then I got to
a point where I was like, I don't want to
do this any this one point one on a one
point six point five with incline exactly, and you know what,
he gave me the six point five on an incline.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
And then something I mean, and you guys, you guys
are really at an incline. I like it. You're going
right up that mountain right to the peak, right, guys.
This is fun. And anytime you have a relationship issue.
We'd love to hear it. I'm not quite sure how
our advice all shakes out, but we do try. I
mean we do. This has become a real moment in
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the show. We do it right here every single day.
So if you are married, here are the years you
have to watch out for. They say two periods turn
a marriage when divorces are most common years one to two.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
One to two. Shouldn't that be bliss?
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I don't. I guess you're just everything's changing, Yeah, all.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
The changes moving in all the coph My god, you need.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
To suck it up.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
How's that moving and going.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Bunch of babies?
Speaker 5 (12:53):
Stressful?
Speaker 2 (12:54):
What's stressful?
Speaker 5 (12:55):
The combining two humans things into one.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
You mean, like items?
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Yeah, space, throw away his stuff, keep yours the closet.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Did you guys share closet space?
Speaker 5 (13:07):
Yeah, that's the other thing. Like, there's just not there's
not that much. There's not enough space.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Yeah, well, welcome to the rest of your life. Yeah
all right, So years one and two most stressful, Okay,
the other in a marriage year seven to eight, Oh.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Well yeah, they call it the seven year itch.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Right, So did this happen again at like fourteen and
fifteen years in have you itched?
Speaker 3 (13:29):
I'm on year nine going on your ten baby, So you.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Had no seven eight issue. No, we passed it one
to two seven eight.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
The seven year we made Savellah. We were like, hey,
what's up. Yeah, Today's today's quote.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Accepting people leaving instead of trying to make them stay
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Speaker 2 (14:57):
Wendy's on the line right now at eight hundred and
five to one at two seven Wendy, good morning. How
are you doing this morning.
Speaker 6 (15:02):
Wendy, I'm great. How are you?
Speaker 2 (15:05):
We're good. So your sister in law says wants you
to host a party for her.
Speaker 8 (15:10):
Yeah, she's uh, she self make up with those multi
level marketing.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Things, okay MLM, Like, yeah, she.
Speaker 8 (15:18):
Keeps asking to have a party with friends and my coworkers.
I don't want to rule the epact kind of thing,
asking this us to buy stuff.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
So wait, your issues? What You don't want to invite
people over and then pressure them into purchasing something.
Speaker 8 (15:32):
Yeah, I mean it will be my friends and my coworkers,
So that's I don't think.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
So you don't feel comfortable with the sales pitch, is
that right?
Speaker 7 (15:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (15:42):
No, because you know how pushy they can be. I
feel like they're you know when you go to those things.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Really, but is there a benefit, like would some of
these people actually want to come for the value of
the product. Is there a benefit to them coming?
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Interesting?
Speaker 8 (15:59):
I mean maybe some of them. And you know when
you host the parties usually you get free things. They
buy the more free stuff you get. But I don't know.
I just don't feelun comfortable.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
So this is your husband's sister, correct, Yeah, why can't
she host it.
Speaker 8 (16:16):
Well? Because she needs more customers, She needs my friends,
my colleagues and everybody I know to sell. Thready played
out all friends and.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
So I don't know anything about in laws and marriages
stuff like that, but I will say this is one
I would let go. I think this is not worth
rocking anything. I was like, if you're transparent with the
people you're inviting, saying you're doing this as a favor
to your family, and here's what it is. This is
(16:47):
the deal. You're coming for this. It's going to be
good stuff, but the expectation is x Y. I think
it's okay. I don't think this is worth upsetting maybe
your husband or his sister over something like this that
you can just tell everybody what it is when they're invited. Sure,
I pick and choose my battles these days, guys, I'm
not picking this one.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Yeah wow, Yeah, but this can also be the beginning
of then what's going to be the next battle? And
then is she going to.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Why don't you make a boundary Wendy, I'll do this
for you, and I would love to do it this
one time and will and just make it a one off,
be clear with the people who are invited do it.
I think it's for me it's better to be a
little more transparent with the invite.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Why can't the sister in law already know the boundary now,
don't even ask to do stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
It's too late. She's already been asked. So now here
we are. So I think we follow through. We make
it a one off and you let people know.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Like my sister in law knows never to ask me
to do something like this.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Well that's fine, but you're in this is Wendy's situation
right now. Okay, don't brag.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
I just mean, like you need to almost nip it
in the bud before it's slippery slope.
Speaker 5 (17:55):
How when you do it, you know, I.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Go back to all my years of experience and screwing
things up, pick and choose your back.
Speaker 8 (18:02):
Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
I mean, my husband's no help, and this one's not
gonna it's really not going to bother you. It's really not.
It's gonna it's gonna pass fast.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Good luck, aren't those like those pyramid things like once
you don't know what it is like that's exactly, and
then they don't stop calling you when you like start
buying into that stuff.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
It's like you have to want to get into an
awkward moment with your husband and your husband's sister that
like every.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
Holiday, you nip it in the butt in the beginning,
you just be like, you know, I just don't this
is not my thing. I love you.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Sorry, she started kind of down the path.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
I'll host a birthday party for you, but I won't
do this.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
So very rarely does anyone come in here and say, hey,
my marriage has been saved.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Well that might be a little dramatic, but well, I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
That's the word, is that your marriage was saved by
air pods.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
I feel like this might be a PSA two married
couples or people in relationships that what happens are in
this situation, Michael and I go to bed at different times,
which is in our case reverse which you would think
that I would go to bed earlier because I do
a morning show, but he goes to bed earlier.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Hillary Burton and Jeffardine Morgan did the same thing. By
the way, I.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Don't know why it is. I just don't. I I
fight get more than six hours of sleep. I will
wake up like earl.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
That is kind of a blessing.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
It's weird. It's maybe it's a mom thing. So with
this new house, I'm getting used to. In the old house,
I would just watch TV in the living room and
then sometimes I would even fall asleep on the couch
and then I would wake up in the middle of
the night and go to bed, No big deal. But
in this new house, I'm like, I'm stupid to admit it,
but I'm scared to stay out in the living room
(19:40):
by myself when he goes to bed. And so I'm like,
can I just come upstairs and watch TV in the
bed with you? And He'm like, it's not pleasant because
he doesn't like the TV on. Plus it's not pleasant
for me because he starts snoring, and then I can't
even enjoy suits when I'm watching it, and so it's
just a lose lose. But I discovered that my TV
(20:01):
can hook up to my airpots, so you can hook
up your Bluetooth headphones to the TV.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Oh, so you can watch in bed without.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Him here exactly. And it has been a game changer.
So not only does it on mute Safe and Alive.
I'm safe and alive, and.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
You're making progress on your favorite series.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
I am, And I'm muting his snoring so I don't
hear the snoring, and he's not hearing the TV. He's sleeping.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I'm my images flashing like the colors don't have them awake?
Speaker 3 (20:28):
No, it doesn't. And then I actually end up watching
less TV because I get tired within the episode. And
then I turn it off and I go to bed.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
I mean, gosh, Merrit sounds so.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
On, y'all.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Oh, I just think it sounds fun.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
You guys have been thinking of them for fifteen years, Like,
these are the things that make me happy.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This is common early I can watch shows with my airpots.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
I would be sad going to sleep at different times, like,
I don't know I would.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
I don't understand a fairy tale. Yeah, he's got like
a full family one right.
Speaker 5 (21:01):
Yeah, we literally go to sleep at the exact same time.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
Okay, you turn off.
Speaker 9 (21:06):
I love you.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I love you too. Yeah, sweet dreams. And now let
me let me say some things grateful for today. Let
me here's I'm grateful for you Robbie for whatever your
whatever it is that you did today that I remember
and I wrote it down.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
Yes, literally, you would do.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Like you do a like a debrief before you go
to Did you let the dogs out?
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Did they know?
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Ours? Is like, wait, where's the pillow? I need the pillow.
That's not that's my pillow I need. I need the
low pillow one. Mine's the flat one. I need the
flat one. I don't have it. Yes, you do have it?
Do you know I can with my shoulder hurts?
Speaker 3 (21:46):
Let me check? Let me check.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Then you turn on the light. Who's gonna turn the
light on? Will you turn line? I don't want to
go turn the light. I'm gonna have to get up
and pee three times. You turn on the light, sleep
whole night, walk around.
Speaker 5 (21:57):
Do you guys go to sleep at the same time.
Speaker 2 (21:59):
I don't know you're talking to Ryan. Yes, generally we do.
And that's when all of this stuff occurs because I
have to have everything like right, if my pillows aren't right,
if my neck pillow's not there. Also there's a pillowcase
it's too big for the pillow that gets floppy, that
gets in my mouth when I sleep.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
I understand You've never.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Been so unrelaxed trying to go to sleep than when
you go to bed with me.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
Why don't they make those pillows standard for king sized beds?
That's really annoying.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I don't even know you mean my neck pillow.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Yes, like those pillows are small, and it's.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Maybe in the mini pillow case.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
No one makes make them the size of the king
size pillowcases, or make the make smaller pillow cases.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
I can't sleep. I'm going downstairs watch TV.
Speaker 9 (22:43):
On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Tony, why are the big grin on your face? Were
you feeling loved?
Speaker 5 (22:53):
I am feeling loved. Yes, thank you so much. I
appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
So you have brought this up a couple of times.
You're achings of joints and your need for a cold plunge. Now,
this is kind of a thing I've been reading about
that more and more people are resorting to cold showers
and cold plunging and getting into ice bats and things
like that. This has been around a long time for athletes.
Why is it now a trend?
Speaker 5 (23:17):
You know, I don't know why it's a trend, but
it's so trendy. Everybody's doing it and talking about it,
and people are swearing by it that these these cold
plunges are starting their days off right, making them more productive.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Terrifying to me. I don't like to start cold. I
love to lean against the wall in a warm shower.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Have you done it?
Speaker 9 (23:37):
So?
Speaker 5 (23:37):
I've done it before. I've done it like once or twice.
But you know, there was a period, you know I'm
always trying to change up my morning routine. There was
like a three month period. There was a three month
period where I was taking cold showers before I would
come to work. And I felt a difference.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Well, wait, could we mark those shows and see how
ye shows?
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Would we feel a different?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
We feel the difference? Do you remember?
Speaker 3 (24:00):
You don't know?
Speaker 5 (24:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Is there more or less of you? Then?
Speaker 5 (24:05):
I was way more awake, I was way.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
More can't we just splash cold water on your face?
Speaker 9 (24:10):
No?
Speaker 2 (24:10):
It's so different because is there is there an inexpensive
way to do this?
Speaker 6 (24:14):
Though?
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Like yes, you can get them on a plunge on Amazon.
So they have these like plunge tubs. There's different ones
that you can get. There's ones that are kind of
like a look like a bathtub a little bit and
then there's like ice tubs, rubber. Some of them are rubber.
Some of them are like kind of like the inflatables
that you have like in a pool. Okay, okay, yeah,
So they range from like fifty to one hundred bucks,
(24:35):
so they are definitely very affordable, and people are doing this,
and I'm we're really considering getting one, so you could.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
I'm looking at one that's like an inflatable. So it's
like a blow up mattress. Basically you slip inside of it.
And do you have to put your own ice? Where
do you get off this ice? My ice maker doesn't
make enough ice?
Speaker 5 (24:50):
Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Do you keep it ice and then you can cover
it and then it stays iced? No, it's gonna melt. Yeah,
it's not a freezer. Can't you play it? Why can't
you plug it in like a freezer.
Speaker 5 (25:01):
I'm sure there are different ones that you could get.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
That like keep yours, probably more elaborate ones. But here's
the thing. I have an ice shortage or my ice
maker freezes up, not enough ice anyway, so you gotta
go get bags of ice.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I noticed that about my ice too.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
My ice machine is a real problem.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
I was like, come, on what is this.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
So Tanya?
Speaker 5 (25:20):
Well, I don't know. You're gonna have to figure out
your own ice situation, but maybe you can get some
like you know those big arrowhead for the.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Love like I, Yeah, I can start doing this.
Speaker 5 (25:29):
Yeah, we really are thinking about it because Robbie wants
to do it in the mornings before he I don't
think I would do this.
Speaker 3 (25:34):
Before work before I.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Wouldn't to organize.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Yeah, talk to me in December when I'm just not freezing.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
I'm not a cold person.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
I think you could do it.
Speaker 5 (25:43):
You could get it ready at night like it. Well,
that depends three minutes you can last.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
I can't last night.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
I did they say three minutes? I didn't. I did
with the random person in the spa once. Yeah, we
actually motivate each other.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
You could yet team work it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
She was in there was like, come on, we can
do it twenty more seconds.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Maybe a kitty pool. You could just throw someboce in that.
These things look like a kid pool.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
But people are swearing by it, and I'm like, if
it's going to make you more productive and have more
energy throughout your day, what's the harm?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Why don't you do a home demo for the show. Yeah,
and let us know. We'll no tell us the days
you've done it, and then we'll see how you're feeling.
We'll ask you about that all right.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
On air on air with Ryan Seacres, Dylan.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
I think Dylan needs advice. Dylan, are you with us?
Good morning? How are you?
Speaker 6 (26:33):
I'm here, good morning? Thanks very great.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
So are you calling for advice about a job listing
or what's happening?
Speaker 6 (26:40):
So, yeah, I'm I'm I've been at the same company
for about four years. Thanks. By the way, my and
my team is expanding. They're added some new people, and
so I'm on my internal jobs board once in a while.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
You know.
Speaker 6 (26:51):
I like the company, need the benefits, the people are great.
But they posted a job and this is where I
needed some advice here that's eventually the same job as mine,
the same level, but the pay is about thirty thousand
dollars higher starting. So I'm not good at like corporate negotiations.
(27:12):
I don't like confrontation. So I'm like, what do I do?
Do I go to my manager ask for money? Do
I bring it up?
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Is the listening for the same job in another place?
Speaker 6 (27:24):
It's the same company, just under a different manager, but the.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Same job, same company, same role, same duties, same responsibilities,
same organizations.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
Stress correct for a different manager, but it's thirty k higher.
And if I ask, does that trigger like an awkward
conversation about my future of the company or I'm.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
No, I think that you. I mean, let's just be
let's just be real, bro right, you're doing your gig
at the same company. You see this posted you you'd
like for them to explain why this is thirty thousand
dollars more for the same thing. Could you explain it
to me? Let them explain it to you.
Speaker 5 (28:04):
Yeah, so there might be something that isn't listed that
you don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Yeah, I don't think you you go for an ask yet,
I think you need them to define the why, right,
Like what's the reason? Because to me, Dylan, you're you
talking on From my view, this looks like the same
thing for the same company, just under a different manager,
but a heck of a lot more salary, Like what's
the difference? How do you justify thirty k more for
(28:30):
the same thing here and have them explain it to you?
Speaker 6 (28:34):
Sure? If the two passive aggressives just apply for the job.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
M yes, why because then if he gets it, he's
got to leave the same role.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
Or what if he doesn't get it, and then.
Speaker 6 (28:47):
You may My reviews are good.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
I I'm thinking of the audio. My playbook would be
go to them, ask them, why have them explain it
to you? And then you have another move to make.
You've got another move on the board. The next move
could be you want to apply for it. The next
move could be, well, I would like to have that
for my job.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
That's a good move.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Yeah, you get two moves out of one.
Speaker 6 (29:11):
Okay, I think that's what I'll do. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
I appreciate that, brother, Thank you for even reaching out
to talk to us about it.
Speaker 3 (29:16):
It could be an oversight, you know, they haven't looked
at his position in years, and maybe they.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Maybe you get to raise, know they kick you up exactly.
Speaker 7 (29:26):
For that.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Did you like your job? Sounds like you like your job.
Speaker 6 (29:31):
I love that at the company's grave. My reviews are good.
My boss is great. I don't want to leave, you know,
I don't want to be taking advantage of professionally.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Yeah, I didn't think you can voice I say, I
want to stay with the same team. Essentially, have this.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Conversation immediately, either today or tomorrow.
Speaker 6 (29:46):
Okay, okay, take care of deal, good luck, Thank you.
Speaker 2 (29:50):
Mus I can't wait to hear why. I mean, not
that I'm gonna be there. I'm so curious to I'm
so curious to hear why. Maybe it was a mistake.
I don't know. So so let's get into this.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
What do you so if you have kids who are
obsessed with video games, maybe it's not so bad that
you let them play them because there was a study
done actually Georgia State University, Ryan Uh did a study
that found the frequent players of video games show superior
sensory motor decision making skills and in the University of
Georgia and dropped out. There's a different university. You gotta
(30:24):
got it. But to put it simply, gamers are good
at decision making. So just think about that for a second.
Because there's nothing more annoying than being with a man
or a woman.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
We talked about this. You can't make a choice, can
make decisions.
Speaker 3 (30:38):
Make a decision anything whizing if you can't have some
certainty and some clarity.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I was talking to a friend of mine and he
keeps telling me it's going out with this girl. Hey, bro,
I'm going out with this girl I met. Where'd you meet?
Like we met on the street, and like you met
on the street. I don't even know how that's possible.
Speaker 5 (30:53):
Wow, it's so easy.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
And then he says, oh, sorry, not for everybody, all
of us.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
I walked streets time and time again. It just walks
up and wants to go out. But for you, you
can barely go anywhere, can you?
Speaker 9 (31:09):
Baby?
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Put a little ball cap on and some glasses so
you don't get asked out every corner.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
Difficult to every single corner, and just you know what,
let's keep walking.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
I need to look down, so'sn ask me out again
everywhere I go. Oh, it's a walk side and think on.
Speaker 5 (31:28):
I'm just saying you just have to put out the
energy like I'm open and available.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Well, anyway, guy says to me, buddy mine, He's like, probably,
I'm I'm going to take her ound I'm just kind
of excited. So I said where are you going to
take her? He's like, well, a corner and said what
do you like? I'm like, no, don't say what do
you like?
Speaker 8 (31:46):
A plan?
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Make a decision, Han, I'm taking your hair.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Be ready, and I've got a great idea and just
go like, I know that you want to get direction,
but I don't know. I don't love saying what are
you into? What do you like? I think it kind
of I mean, maybe it's too risky, but I like
to make it just flows naturally.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Maybe but not. I think like for the first day,
it's so hot. If you planned the whole thing, if
you said, hey, be ready by seven, and you know,
dress whatever this way, so much to.
Speaker 5 (32:18):
Dressed this way, I'd be like, no, not dressed this way.
Speaker 3 (32:21):
But you know what I mean, Like I.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Tell you, I know what you I know you're saying
because when I've gone places in the past or we're
going to something, the question that's come up, well, what
are we supposed to wear? Like what's everyone else is
going to be wearing? So it is beneficial to say
it's casual or it's be cheap whatever, right, thank you? Yes,
So you saying like where this is.
Speaker 3 (32:39):
Where I were meet me in the bar.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Totally cash or you may say it's it's little dressed.
Speaker 6 (32:45):
Yeah, I know what that is.
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Summer.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
Someone else the other day told me dressed summer cheek
and I was like, okay, all right, what is that?
Speaker 6 (32:53):
I like it?
Speaker 2 (32:54):
And then you realize it's really anything. But so play
play plays that we're saying here.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
Oh, yes, I think it's beneficial to your kids playing
these video games. You can make them better people in life.
And then there was another interesting thing that I took
from this article. There was this one gamer who was
legally blind in one eye, and he played video games
so much, and he would cover his good eye and
force himself to play with his bad eye. And over time, Wow,
(33:20):
has bad eye got better in sight basically a capacity
for visual processing. His brain almost trained his eye to
then see again. It's just fascinating.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
So that's amazing. I have the itch to go to Disneyland.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
I love Disneyland.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
Earth together or should just go?
Speaker 3 (33:40):
Let's go together? Maybe we could could be fun. Yes,
maybe couples that could be really fun. Triple day, triple
day matching day or trappy triple day matchingeers.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Yes, what you said. Let's arrive separately, why party? We
can all have our own vehicles. I don't know what
time we're going to finish, that's true, So this is
it a formal invitation. We'll figure out the date.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
Guys, we have a company.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Oh yeah, I don't know what's happening here, lindsay, sorry
you heard all that.
Speaker 10 (34:19):
Yeah, I'm still here.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
The reason we're coming together for a six talk. You're going,
but you work with somebody it's going to Disneyland that
needs to be at work, and you're kind of outing
that person.
Speaker 10 (34:34):
Yeah. So my well, my manager is out and return
to leave, so he's out of office and not in
touch with our team very much understandably. So, so my
coworker is using that to her advantage and is taking
a vacation all up next week and not telling anyone,
and she's planning to go to Disneyland. And well, I
(34:56):
feel that's a bit unethical. I wouldn't feel a need
to tell anyone, But she's asking me to cover for
her and do her work. Oh yeah, I don't want
to tattle, but you.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
Know that this podcast where Disneyland is from going. Okay, okay,
well wow, I'm trying to put myself in your shoes.
So let's see.
Speaker 3 (35:24):
Hmmm, Like, if Tanya, you know, to lie for her
so she can go do something, you would do it
for me? Yeah, but I would want something in return, No,
you wouldn't. You would owe me if I have to
(35:45):
lie for you to the boss.
Speaker 5 (35:47):
You would do it.
Speaker 3 (35:48):
I would maybe do it, but I'd like you owe me,
like this is big. Now my job is on the line.
You owe me.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
No jobs on the line.
Speaker 3 (35:56):
Disneyland maybe want to be Disneyland. I'm just saying something else.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Well, she already did this. She wanted to knop a
valley retreat and told her she was sick, but she didn't.
Speaker 5 (36:05):
And I'll say that I was sick. I took vacation
days in work day for that.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Oh yeah, she took Tuesday and Wednesday last minute because
she went to Naa with the guy that she told
she never talked.
Speaker 5 (36:16):
I said, I was going to every tree weepy, weepy, weepy.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
But she disappeared. She suggest she told me she never talked.
Speaker 3 (36:26):
She had just broken up with him, and she was such.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
A bad stick in and we put her back together
with like uh.
Speaker 3 (36:31):
Huh uh huh. And then she was she was like,
I need to go find myself on this tree.
Speaker 5 (36:38):
Exaggerating in every shape, that's what it was.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
But she called a wellness retreat there.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
We understand it. We'd been down this path before.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
Oh my gosh, so exaggerated. Took off a Thursday and
a Friday.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
Was Tuesday and Wednesday.
Speaker 5 (36:52):
No Thursday and Friday. I never said I was never
going to speak to the guy again. If you shall remember,
I said, this doesn't make sense this break.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
I recall him so sorry. As I recall it was
a Sunday night and I was on the phone for.
Speaker 3 (37:03):
A long Yes, I never saw you.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Later you took a vacation when to my now.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
You made me unfollow him on Instagram and then when
I had to re follow him. It was super properte.
I love song.
Speaker 5 (37:18):
And it was a retreat. It was a couple's retreat
to see if we could do this again.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
I've seen couples retreat. It's a movie. This was not that.
Lindsay again, do you want to just out your coworker work? Yeah, okay,
is there a swap, like listen, now you're covering. Is
there something she can do for you to see you?
Speaker 10 (37:37):
That's true, that's true. I can give her. I can
give her something that she has to do for me.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
She owes you now, let's have to cover it and
then eye for an eye blind whatever, good luck, Thank
you very much. It was a long time ago, but
I remember like it was yesterday? Was it tuesday?
Speaker 5 (37:56):
You obviously don't remember it like it was yesterday because
your facts are a little bit fuzzy.
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Oh it's just I sounded pretty aligned.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
Yeah, I just can't remember what you called it. You
called it a.
Speaker 5 (38:07):
Well a retreat. I said, I'm going on a retreat.
Speaker 3 (38:10):
And we didn't even bat an eyelash because we were
so concerned for your health. A romantic weekend.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
It taste.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
Yeah, we literally were like, oh my gosh, Ryan, she
needs this, so let's give her whatever time she needs
because she needs it. Peace all. Yeah, And she comes
back and she was like, oh, I was frolicking through
this wine, the vineyards.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
Of Rosemary infused the hall of oil. They've caught it
up there, got it a bottle.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
I was just, you know, tasting. Oh, by the way,
robbing air back together.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
On our own backs here, because look at this, they're
about to be engaged thanks to us.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Clearly, he carried off the show.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
They made everything go away, and now they're practically married.
Speaker 9 (38:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
Really glad it worked out.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
But I never once said I'm never speaking to him again.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
If thou shalt.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Recall, I mean listening to those tears, tears so many Oh,
I can tell I'm doing good ABS because I was
laughing solid my abs. I did hanging abs last night
and I can feel it now. Sundry, Oh so hard
to get six hundred.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
I know we all do that. Ever, since you told
me six hundred a day, I'm like, oh, my gosh.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
Should we all do six hundred abs something's a day?
Speaker 3 (39:20):
I guess yeah.
Speaker 5 (39:21):
I think we should can text each other after we finish.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Okay subscribed Sam. Hello Sam, Hi, Yes, Sam, thanks for
holding on to a couple of those songs that appreciate
that this morning. So let's see if we can help
out and find out what's going on. Your manager blocked
everybody on your team from seeing your Instagram stories.
Speaker 11 (39:43):
No, so my manager blocked everyone from seeing their Instagram story,
so like we can't basically blocked everyone, so we can't
see their story at all, and we cannot see you
a manager story exactly. I can't see my manager's stories
at all. And what happened is my manager has been
so flaky lately, so calling out, sick, not showing up,
(40:07):
saying they'll be there and then never coming. So one
of the new members of our team wasn't block and
Instagram and we found out what's going on with our manager.
Our manager is vacationing, partying, staying, it's late, and those
happen to be the days she'll call out sick the
next day. So my team's like at a loss. We
don't know what to do because it's affecting all of
(40:28):
our work and now we know why, but we don't
know how to handle it.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Or well, why does the new hire have access to
your manager's stories?
Speaker 11 (40:37):
She must not have blocked them because they weren't on
our team when she went up through.
Speaker 2 (40:42):
That's how you know what's happening. Okay, now it's all
adding up. Well, who's the leader of the team.
Speaker 11 (40:51):
As far as I mean, like, the manager is the
main one in charge. We of course have a boss
over everyone, but the manager's in charge of.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Us, right, But there's got to be a leader of
the team that's underneath the manager. Because here's my thinking.
My thinking is, if it's affecting the team's work, and
ultimately that's what a team is on a team for
to be productive, it's going to affect the manager's productivity
and their reputation at work too. So I wouldn't address
what your manager is doing outside of work. I'd address
(41:20):
what your manager is not getting done with the team
inside of work, because it's holding everybody back. And that's
just a results oriented conversation. It's not personal, it's professional.
Speaker 11 (41:31):
Yeah, right, So you think we should go to the
manager directly and just talk work only, not for up.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
You just say, like the ball is being dropped. Here's
what we're missing. We're not getting answers, things aren't moving along.
This is a problem like just affecting all of us
as a team. We want to be results oriented, solutions oriented,
but we got to be productive and we've got to
get things done. And for some reason, it's not let
the manager you have a chance to apologize or or
you know, fess up to what's going on. But the
results at work are a product of whatever's happening. You
(42:01):
still need to talk about your manage. You're doing what
they're doing. It's like what they're not doing at work.
Do you see what I'm saying?
Speaker 11 (42:08):
Yeah, yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 9 (42:10):
I think?
Speaker 3 (42:10):
So true? I think you go to the professional round
because then it seems less gossipy and you're you know,
you're not getting involved in the personal life. You're just
going straight professional and the new hires watching it all.
Speaker 11 (42:22):
I kind of like that they've screen recorded it, so we've.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
All now it's getting messy, so dark.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
I think I would address the issues at work, which
is the product of what you've seen in the video.
Thanks Sam for calling.
Speaker 11 (42:41):
Thank you. Okay, Well, definitely sure, we will definitely go
about doing that way because you didn't really want to
go over anyone's head, you know, so we didn't know
how to handle it the team.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
I got it. Well. I appreciate you reaching out just
to chat with us about It's very nice. Thanks for listening.
And Menehanna from the back room. The back room consists
of regularly Mikayla, Collette and Ruby on the phones, you know,
lining things up, getting things done. What's the highlight of
your job in the back room.
Speaker 12 (43:06):
Ariehanna, Answering phones, you know, keeping the energy back there.
We're always in there, you know, talking to each other
and you know obviously answering the phone calls and stuff.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
So yeah, all right, so after she's done here, call
in and talk to her because she loves answering. It's
one eight and five to one to two seven. So
you meet this guy, Phoenix guy go. Now, how many
times have you all hung out?
Speaker 12 (43:26):
We've hung out several times. But this last trip we
did like a whole trip. You know, we went to
Arizona and you know, he rented ATVs for us. We
went on like restaurants, dates and bars and you.
Speaker 3 (43:39):
Know, it was fun.
Speaker 12 (43:40):
And now I don't know how you feel.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Is it romantic yet? No?
Speaker 3 (43:46):
Not yet?
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Okay, so you to you do? You had a great time.
It sounds amazing, like I'm taking notes about what to
do on a date. That sounds fun. So you had
a great time. He's dming you and now.
Speaker 12 (43:58):
What Well, now kind of like a little scared because
I feel like we get along so well and the
vibes are there, but also it's like, what if I
like him?
Speaker 2 (44:10):
Isn't that why you go out with him?
Speaker 5 (44:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (44:12):
This is good, but now it's real.
Speaker 12 (44:15):
Yeah, now it's like real real, So hold on, isn't
the point of going out with someone to like them?
Speaker 3 (44:22):
I mean, I'm with Ryan on this.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Are you worried that you found a guide that you're into? Yeah?
Speaker 12 (44:28):
Because I'm like, am I actually ready for a releasehip?
Speaker 3 (44:30):
Because well, that's a question you've got to answer for yourself, honey, if.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
You're worried about it going well and liking someone, then
maybe the door is not open for you. Wow, because
you've been in that seat telling us that you met
a guy who's like a you know, not great. We're like, okay,
well not the one for you. And now you meaning
this guy that you like, Like, I don't know if
I'm ready.
Speaker 5 (44:52):
It's scary.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
Oh just jump.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
But when you go to the when you go to Ralph's,
do you go in there and you look around? You go, hey,
what if I buy something I actually want to eat?
Do you do that? Or do you buy stuff you
want to eat? You go in there, you buy stuff
you want to eat? You're dating? You want to date
this guy you like. I don't know if that works
or not.
Speaker 6 (45:11):
But I.
Speaker 2 (45:16):
Just wonder, like, are you truly open to wanting to
be with somebody in a relationship or not, because that's
the question that would be asked if you're not.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 12 (45:28):
I feel like I don't know if I'm fully ready,
And also like what if he doesn't even want that?
Speaker 3 (45:33):
Like I think I'm also overthinking like.
Speaker 2 (45:36):
Are you flirting with him?
Speaker 5 (45:38):
We flirt here and there? Yeah, for sure, he wants it,
I mean not necessarily.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
I mean, what guy's putting in the DM time if
he doesn't want to date?
Speaker 2 (45:47):
Yeah, yeah, so you got. I mean you're you're in
the driver's seat on this. So what's the next step
we're not?
Speaker 12 (45:56):
I mean, I don't know if I should even either
tell him like, hey, I'm not ready for something?
Speaker 3 (46:00):
They know, why Why is she going to rock the
boat if it doesn't need to be rocked?
Speaker 2 (46:07):
What are you ready for? If you're not ready for something? Wow,
that's a good question.
Speaker 5 (46:14):
This is the gray area, which is bad for everybody involved.
Speaker 2 (46:19):
Okay, I'm going to tell you what struck me. He
rented ATVs. That's interest. Guys do not rent heavy machinery
to be friends. They're just just telling you, like, that
is a real investment here.
Speaker 3 (46:31):
They don't spend.
Speaker 2 (46:32):
Money on people waivers organizing it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 12 (46:38):
Yeah, because you organized the whole thing too.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
So yeah, that's thoughtfulness. That's putting in time.
Speaker 2 (46:44):
Can you just go and see what the natural flow
is without overthinking it? Can you do that?
Speaker 10 (46:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (46:51):
I think I'm going to go ahead and do that.
That's always better, just going with the flow.
Speaker 2 (46:55):
I will call in and talk to Marion in the
back room right now if you have other advice for her.
But the says she's finally met a great guy that
she thinks she likes. Now what uh?
Speaker 6 (47:03):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (47:04):
Stressful all I don't know what to do anymore.
Speaker 3 (47:09):
Which ways, this is exciting, scary right here on air
with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (47:22):
One more thing before we go, sisany what is your
biggest pet peeve that other drivers do on the road
or that Michael does when you drive.
Speaker 3 (47:29):
When they cut me off? If somebody cuts me off.
Speaker 2 (47:33):
Tanya, what's the biggest pet peeve you have with other
drivers or when Robbie drives.
Speaker 5 (47:38):
I really dislike when people put their feet outside the window.
Speaker 2 (47:43):
So I don't like it when someone says to me
every time, be careful.
Speaker 3 (47:46):
Oh I do that to Michael all the time.
Speaker 2 (47:50):
Do you think I am not being careful?
Speaker 9 (47:52):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (47:53):
Careful?
Speaker 5 (47:53):
How about we live and careful and then tell me otherwise?
Speaker 2 (47:56):
Be careful?
Speaker 6 (47:57):
Right?
Speaker 2 (47:57):
Be careful? Okay, Well I'm being careful, but now I'm
not careful because I'm looking over at you telling me
to be careful. So who's careful? Now?
Speaker 3 (48:07):
Did you let it all out?
Speaker 5 (48:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (48:09):
You get it.
Speaker 9 (48:10):
Let's thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I'll given to this now because it's kiss and you
may be brushing your teeth or about to do so.
And there were some things that I was reading that
you know, you're get into a hole, you get into
a rabbit hole of something. I was reading about this stuff.
I didn't actually understand this. I overbrush my teeth. I
think I'm afraid of bad breath. And I carry a
little travel tooth paste and toothbrush in my glove compartment
(00:33):
in case of anything, so I've always got it with me.
And I also brushed them here after work. I brush
them after launch. I brush them a lot. And I
didn't until later in life understand the brushing of your tongue,
which gets rid of the bad breath.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yeah, it's all about the tongue.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
But in like elementary school, I didn't know about the tongue.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
But also you can overbrush your teeth like you shouldn't
brush them so much because of your gums.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
And too hard. I still use the old automatic, not
automatic manual. I still use toothbrush.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I go back and forth. I have both and I
go back and forth because I can't commit to one.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I just like, in a way.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Oral hygiene.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
The electric one is like sometimes it's too buzzy for me,
and I'm just like, I can't deal with the buzz.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
I feel like, And my Dennis tells me differently, but
I feel like, because it's so light and vibrating, it's
not getting a job done. And I want to go
in there with my toothbrush.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Yeah, I mean, I like the manual too.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
It's no different than me wanting to turn the page
of a newspaper on the toilet on a Sunday morning.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Crow, you have to be on the toilet, like on
your porch.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
At the kitchen table.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Mark, you know what I'm talking about. I mean, I do,
because that's what our parents used to do. My dad
used to take the newspaper on a Sunday morning into
the toilet.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
The neighbor next door to Dennis the mena is like,
that's what I'm picturing right now.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So here, listen. These are some common mistakes about brushing teeth.
I didn't know too aggressive. Yes, you could hurt your gums. Right,
you're right, Tanya, Now did you know that it's a mistake?
To rinse with water immediately after brushing your teeth. I
do that all the time.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
And I also heard that you didn't even need to
use water when you brush your teeth.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
What I do is I floss, then I like gargle,
rinse and get a little little pieces out and I
brush my teeth. But I also used quite a bit
of water, so I didn't know that. Don't use mouthwash
immediately after brushing your teeth. No way, Wait a few minutes,
so brush your teeth, wait ten minutes, then do the
mouth ten minutes. I know it's you got to back
(02:37):
back up your whole process here and then, Tanya, we're
violating this. What brushing your teeth immediately after eating certain
foods and drinks. Don't do it after sugar or acidic
foods and drinks, including coffee. Wait a half hour. I
brush after coffee, like as soon as we finished coffee
and the show like, I brush my teeth immediately. I
(02:58):
wasn't paying that much attention. And I read this and
it struck me. If I didn't share with you, I
feel like not a good person. These are great, tis
good tips right, especially for this time of morning. Thomas,
let me grab you this morning, bright and early. How
are you, buddy good?
Speaker 6 (03:13):
How about you, Ryn?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
I'm doing well. Thanks. So are you calling for relationship advice?
Speaker 6 (03:19):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (03:20):
So I am like a chronically on time person my
entire life.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Like I thought, the rudest thing I subscribe.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
I'm with you, perfect, Let's be on time with stuff together.
My boyfriend, on the other hand, is perpetually late to
everything and like he knows how big of a deal
this is to me. But now we go to stuff together,
we'll relate to everything. And friend told me that she
literally gives a separate start time events and most of
(03:52):
our friends, ye knows that.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Like, wait, Thomas, I'm losing you. I'm losing you for
a second, I'm losing your your ignore you there, I'm here,
I'm here, okay, so tell me you most of your
friends say what.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
They They send me a separate earlier start time, you know,
And I don't know how I got here, Like I
love being on time. I try to talk to my
BOYE doesn't seem to put in the effort and I
can't supervise them all.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So wait, why do they give you the false start
time if you're the one on time?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Because he's associated with his boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Now, yeah, because you're so, you're ready and you're a
way Okay, I understand all of it. Now here's the thing, guys,
I don't understand, and forgive me because I know a
lot of people function this way. I'm a clock. That
is what I am. That's my zodiac side a flock. Okay.
In fact, I want to be a clock for Halloween.
(04:45):
So Tomas, I there are some people that don't operate
on a time and I am not compatible with them.
But I know a lot of them, and I do
the same thing. I start like managing their the information
they get differently so that their clock is up to
the clock that is the right time. But can you,
(05:06):
I mean, can you on the inside work on your
boyfriend's clock to get your boyfriend to understand about the
respectfulness of people's time. I mean, time is like it's
important capitalist currency.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Does your boyfriend have a job, Like? Does he is
he long for work?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Like I can't tell him? Like I tell him to
go on time to work, but he's late, Like I
can't be his mom all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
How long you've been with him?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
A few months? Like half a year?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I don't know that this is going to work out.
I don't know that you people. I know, I was
just mad, I know two minutes ago. But I'm just
telling you that I don't know that. If you are
this intense about your clock and he doesn't have a clock,
and you're worried about the reputation, et cetera, I'm starting
to see flags.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
Here is your boyfriend a scorpio by chance?
Speaker 7 (05:57):
Yes, now that you ask, Yeah, I just.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
I know quite a few scorpios and they are the
same way, like they just don't have that in their
Like there.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Who used to work here scorpio and my.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Best friend Becca is a scorpio and they just have clocks.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
No, no, Patty, Patty don't have a clock. Patty was
always like fifteen twenty and especially like a social study.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I'm going to get Patty more credit. She might have
scrambled in at the last second with a bunch of
bags and food and stuff.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Patty yourself admittedly that this she is like, I'm sitting
up for Patty.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
We love Patty. She would admit this.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
So hard listening text me some restaurant ideas.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
She would stand with us. She would you admit that.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I'm not so sure.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
Yes, she would, Well.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
We'll see when she texts me Thomas, Well, you've heard our.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
View, Thomas, you're so about this. Ryan might be right.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Move on. I'm just seeing a flag in the distance.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
Good luck, buddy, appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Give him an ultimatum, will do all right? Take care Thomas,
good luck on that one. Not give an ultimatum.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Well, yeah, start being on time or this is not
gonna work out.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
It's so rigid.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
It's not rigid.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
It's that's how you talk to Michael, and no.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I don't talk to Michael that way.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Well, then he can't talk to his boyfriend like that.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Well he can't if it's only like two months in
starts sitting the ground rules.
Speaker 5 (07:29):
Sometimes you just have to take people as they are.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I think there's a flag. Let's get to Katie on
the phone here, one eight hundred and five to one
oh two seven, Katie, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
I'm good?
Speaker 7 (07:41):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
We're doing all right? So you're calling about an issue
with the guy you're dating. Yeah, what's the issue.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
So we've been seeing each other for like about five
months now, and I think everything's going really well. Like
I've met his family, he's met mine, like we go
on dates like every week, like we see each other
all the time. But he and he told me he's
not seeing anyone else, but he doesn't want to put
a label in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Why does he not want to put it, Labe, We
need to find out why. So if he's not seen
anybody and he wants to see you, what's the reason
he doesn't want to label it?
Speaker 4 (08:20):
So he was married before we met, and they've just
been divorced like a little over a year now, and
he was with her for like years and years before that.
So I just think that that's the.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Reason why I scarred a little bit from whatever happened
in the past. Yeah, if you were to come over
to Tanya's house, I mean you would have been invited,
and she and Robbie were to host you and Katie
he were to come and introduce you. He would say, Hi, Robbie, Tanya,
this is Katie my What what would he say?
Speaker 4 (08:58):
I don't know. See, that's the thing is, like I
want to be able to say this is my boyfriend,
and I feel like I would be awkward, like a
what would he say? Like That's why I'm calling me because
I'm like.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
I, I, well, maybe I learned this lesson very quickly
when I had a girlfriend, but I wasn't so trained
to introduce her as my girlfriend. And we were at
something and I was like, this is so and so
without saying this is my girlfriend so and so, and
I was corrected and understood. So I learned that lesson.
(09:30):
But there must be a reason why he doesn't want
the label. Maybe it is because he went through something
in the past and his fear of maybe going too
fast or his fear of your expectation is holding him back.
It may not be such a red flag. It may
be part of what he's is trauma.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Yeah, no, definitely, I was thinking that, like, maybe it's
just I have to give it a little bit more time.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
How long happened to me?
Speaker 6 (09:55):
We've been We.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Met like five months ago, so I mean it's still
pretty new. And yeah, we met for a friend, so
it's not like he was like on a dating app,
like looking for anything, you know, it was like a
casual I feel like.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Five months is an okay time to yeah and put
a label on it.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Though, Can you do something that I don't love to do,
which is say, hey, can we talk about why just
talk and about why he doesn't want the label, so
that you can understand from his point of view what's
going on there.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
That's an interesting way to get into the conversation.
Speaker 6 (10:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
No, I definitely have to do that.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
I don't like doing that myself, but I definitely advise
you do it. Okay, all right, well, good luck it out. Yeah.
I would give him a beat on this and benefit
of the doubt on it too, since he's been through
something it sounds like.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
All right, Katie, Yeah, definitely, thanks so much.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Thank you very much. I mean, I have been in
that moment where I was not ready for labels.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
At five months into a thing already.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I don't know the timing. I can't remember that the calendar,
but I have been in that point where, like I said,
I wasn't quite sure where I was yet with myself.
So it's like and coming off of something, not ready
to call it anything yet. Now I could evolve into
something yet, but I happened that place where I'm not
ready yet, Tanya.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
I have not been in that position in my life,
but I have been with somebody in that position. But
I think it's interesting because you know, they say love
is patient. That's the first thing that I love.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
They said, it's blind.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Yeah, love is patient.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
So if it's meant to be able to wait, yeah.
Speaker 5 (11:27):
But also I think there's a there's a balance, right,
you know, like sometimes you might not meet somebody that's
on the same page as you, Like when Robin and
I met, we were not on the same pace or
the same page, but we compromise and met in the
middle in ways that made us both feel comfortable. And
I think that's kind of what you have to do.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
And you guys took the treadmill down to one point
zero on a one point incliin I mean, you guys,
really you took the speed down on your relationship a
little bit.
Speaker 5 (11:51):
We did in the beginning, and then I got to
a point where I was like, I don't want to
do this any this one point one on a one
point six point five with incline exactly, and you know what,
he gave me the six point five on an incline.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
And then something I mean, and you guys, you guys
are really at an incline. I like it. You're going
right up that mountain right to the peak, right, guys.
This is fun. And anytime you have a relationship issue.
We'd love to hear it. I'm not quite sure how
our advice all shakes out, but we do try. I
mean we do. This has become a real moment in
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the show. We do it right here every single day.
So if you are married, here are the years you
have to watch out for. They say two periods turn
a marriage when divorces are most common years one to two.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
One to two. Shouldn't that be bliss?
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I don't. I guess you're just everything's changing, Yeah, all.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
The changes moving in all the coph My god, you need.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
To suck it up.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
How's that moving and going.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Bunch of babies?
Speaker 5 (12:53):
Stressful?
Speaker 2 (12:54):
What's stressful?
Speaker 5 (12:55):
The combining two humans things into one.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
You mean, like items?
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Yeah, space, throw away his stuff, keep yours the closet.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Did you guys share closet space?
Speaker 5 (13:07):
Yeah, that's the other thing. Like, there's just not there's
not that much. There's not enough space.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Yeah, well, welcome to the rest of your life. Yeah
all right, So years one and two most stressful, Okay,
the other in a marriage year seven to eight, Oh.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Well yeah, they call it the seven year itch.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Right, So did this happen again at like fourteen and
fifteen years in have you itched?
Speaker 3 (13:29):
I'm on year nine going on your ten baby, So you.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Had no seven eight issue. No, we passed it one
to two seven eight.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
The seven year we made Savellah. We were like, hey,
what's up. Yeah, Today's today's quote.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
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Speaker 2 (14:57):
Wendy's on the line right now at eight hundred and
five to one at two seven Wendy, good morning. How
are you doing this morning.
Speaker 6 (15:02):
Wendy, I'm great. How are you?
Speaker 2 (15:05):
We're good. So your sister in law says wants you
to host a party for her.
Speaker 8 (15:10):
Yeah, she's uh, she self make up with those multi
level marketing.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Things, okay MLM, Like, yeah, she.
Speaker 8 (15:18):
Keeps asking to have a party with friends and my coworkers.
I don't want to rule the epact kind of thing,
asking this us to buy stuff.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
So wait, your issues? What You don't want to invite
people over and then pressure them into purchasing something.
Speaker 8 (15:32):
Yeah, I mean it will be my friends and my coworkers,
So that's I don't think.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
So you don't feel comfortable with the sales pitch, is
that right?
Speaker 7 (15:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (15:42):
No, because you know how pushy they can be. I
feel like they're you know when you go to those things.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Really, but is there a benefit, like would some of
these people actually want to come for the value of
the product. Is there a benefit to them coming?
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Interesting?
Speaker 8 (15:59):
I mean maybe some of them. And you know when
you host the parties usually you get free things. They
buy the more free stuff you get. But I don't know.
I just don't feelun comfortable.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
So this is your husband's sister, correct, Yeah, why can't
she host it.
Speaker 8 (16:16):
Well? Because she needs more customers, She needs my friends,
my colleagues and everybody I know to sell. Thready played
out all friends and.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
So I don't know anything about in laws and marriages
stuff like that, but I will say this is one
I would let go. I think this is not worth
rocking anything. I was like, if you're transparent with the
people you're inviting, saying you're doing this as a favor
to your family, and here's what it is. This is
(16:47):
the deal. You're coming for this. It's going to be
good stuff, but the expectation is x Y. I think
it's okay. I don't think this is worth upsetting maybe
your husband or his sister over something like this that
you can just tell everybody what it is when they're invited. Sure,
I pick and choose my battles these days, guys, I'm
not picking this one.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Yeah wow, Yeah, but this can also be the beginning
of then what's going to be the next battle? And
then is she going to.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Why don't you make a boundary Wendy, I'll do this
for you, and I would love to do it this
one time and will and just make it a one off,
be clear with the people who are invited do it.
I think it's for me it's better to be a
little more transparent with the invite.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
Why can't the sister in law already know the boundary now,
don't even ask to do stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
It's too late. She's already been asked. So now here
we are. So I think we follow through. We make
it a one off and you let people know.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Like my sister in law knows never to ask me
to do something like this.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Well that's fine, but you're in this is Wendy's situation
right now. Okay, don't brag.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
I just mean, like you need to almost nip it
in the bud before it's slippery slope.
Speaker 5 (17:55):
How when you do it, you know, I.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Go back to all my years of experience and screwing
things up, pick and choose your back.
Speaker 8 (18:02):
Okay, that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
I mean, my husband's no help, and this one's not
gonna it's really not going to bother you. It's really not.
It's gonna it's gonna pass fast.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Good luck, aren't those like those pyramid things like once
you don't know what it is like that's exactly, and
then they don't stop calling you when you like start
buying into that stuff.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
It's like you have to want to get into an
awkward moment with your husband and your husband's sister that
like every.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
Holiday, you nip it in the butt in the beginning,
you just be like, you know, I just don't this
is not my thing. I love you.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Sorry, she started kind of down the path.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
I'll host a birthday party for you, but I won't
do this.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
So very rarely does anyone come in here and say, hey,
my marriage has been saved.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
Well that might be a little dramatic, but well, I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
That's the word, is that your marriage was saved by
air pods.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
I feel like this might be a PSA two married
couples or people in relationships that what happens are in
this situation, Michael and I go to bed at different times,
which is in our case reverse which you would think
that I would go to bed earlier because I do
a morning show, but he goes to bed earlier.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Hillary Burton and Jeffardine Morgan did the same thing. By
the way, I.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Don't know why it is. I just don't. I I
fight get more than six hours of sleep. I will
wake up like earl.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
That is kind of a blessing.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
It's weird. It's maybe it's a mom thing. So with
this new house, I'm getting used to. In the old house,
I would just watch TV in the living room and
then sometimes I would even fall asleep on the couch
and then I would wake up in the middle of
the night and go to bed, No big deal. But
in this new house, I'm like, I'm stupid to admit it,
but I'm scared to stay out in the living room
(19:40):
by myself when he goes to bed. And so I'm like,
can I just come upstairs and watch TV in the
bed with you? And He'm like, it's not pleasant because
he doesn't like the TV on. Plus it's not pleasant
for me because he starts snoring, and then I can't
even enjoy suits when I'm watching it, and so it's
just a lose lose. But I discovered that my TV
(20:01):
can hook up to my airpots, so you can hook
up your Bluetooth headphones to the TV.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Oh, so you can watch in bed without.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Him here exactly. And it has been a game changer.
So not only does it on mute Safe and Alive.
I'm safe and alive, and.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
You're making progress on your favorite series.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
I am, And I'm muting his snoring so I don't
hear the snoring, and he's not hearing the TV. He's sleeping.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I'm my images flashing like the colors don't have them awake?
Speaker 3 (20:28):
No, it doesn't. And then I actually end up watching
less TV because I get tired within the episode. And
then I turn it off and I go to bed.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
I mean, gosh, Merrit sounds so.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
On, y'all.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Oh, I just think it sounds fun.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
You guys have been thinking of them for fifteen years, Like,
these are the things that make me happy.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This is common early I can watch shows with my airpots.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
I would be sad going to sleep at different times, like,
I don't know I would.
Speaker 2 (20:56):
I don't understand a fairy tale. Yeah, he's got like
a full family one right.
Speaker 5 (21:01):
Yeah, we literally go to sleep at the exact same time.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
Okay, you turn off.
Speaker 9 (21:06):
I love you.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I love you too. Yeah, sweet dreams. And now let
me let me say some things grateful for today. Let
me here's I'm grateful for you Robbie for whatever your
whatever it is that you did today that I remember
and I wrote it down.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
Yes, literally, you would do.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Like you do a like a debrief before you go
to Did you let the dogs out?
Speaker 3 (21:28):
Did they know?
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Ours? Is like, wait, where's the pillow? I need the pillow.
That's not that's my pillow I need. I need the
low pillow one. Mine's the flat one. I need the
flat one. I don't have it. Yes, you do have it?
Do you know I can with my shoulder hurts?
Speaker 3 (21:46):
Let me check? Let me check.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Then you turn on the light. Who's gonna turn the
light on? Will you turn line? I don't want to
go turn the light. I'm gonna have to get up
and pee three times. You turn on the light, sleep
whole night, walk around.
Speaker 5 (21:57):
Do you guys go to sleep at the same time.
Speaker 2 (21:59):
I don't know you're talking to Ryan. Yes, generally we do.
And that's when all of this stuff occurs because I
have to have everything like right, if my pillows aren't right,
if my neck pillow's not there. Also there's a pillowcase
it's too big for the pillow that gets floppy, that
gets in my mouth when I sleep.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
I understand You've never.
Speaker 2 (22:19):
Been so unrelaxed trying to go to sleep than when
you go to bed with me.
Speaker 3 (22:22):
Why don't they make those pillows standard for king sized beds?
That's really annoying.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I don't even know you mean my neck pillow.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Yes, like those pillows are small, and it's.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Maybe in the mini pillow case.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
No one makes make them the size of the king
size pillowcases, or make the make smaller pillow cases.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
I can't sleep. I'm going downstairs watch TV.
Speaker 9 (22:43):
On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Tony, why are the big grin on your face? Were
you feeling loved?
Speaker 5 (22:53):
I am feeling loved. Yes, thank you so much. I
appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
So you have brought this up a couple of times.
You're achings of joints and your need for a cold plunge. Now,
this is kind of a thing I've been reading about
that more and more people are resorting to cold showers
and cold plunging and getting into ice bats and things
like that. This has been around a long time for athletes.
Why is it now a trend?
Speaker 5 (23:17):
You know, I don't know why it's a trend, but
it's so trendy. Everybody's doing it and talking about it,
and people are swearing by it that these these cold
plunges are starting their days off right, making them more productive.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Terrifying to me. I don't like to start cold. I
love to lean against the wall in a warm shower.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Have you done it?
Speaker 9 (23:37):
So?
Speaker 5 (23:37):
I've done it before. I've done it like once or twice.
But you know, there was a period, you know I'm
always trying to change up my morning routine. There was
like a three month period. There was a three month
period where I was taking cold showers before I would
come to work. And I felt a difference.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Well, wait, could we mark those shows and see how
ye shows?
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Would we feel a different?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
We feel the difference? Do you remember?
Speaker 3 (24:00):
You don't know?
Speaker 5 (24:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Is there more or less of you? Then?
Speaker 5 (24:05):
I was way more awake, I was way.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
More can't we just splash cold water on your face?
Speaker 9 (24:10):
No?
Speaker 2 (24:10):
It's so different because is there is there an inexpensive
way to do this?
Speaker 6 (24:14):
Though?
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Like yes, you can get them on a plunge on Amazon.
So they have these like plunge tubs. There's different ones
that you can get. There's ones that are kind of
like a look like a bathtub a little bit and
then there's like ice tubs, rubber. Some of them are rubber.
Some of them are like kind of like the inflatables
that you have like in a pool. Okay, okay, yeah,
So they range from like fifty to one hundred bucks,
(24:35):
so they are definitely very affordable, and people are doing this,
and I'm we're really considering getting one, so you could.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
I'm looking at one that's like an inflatable. So it's
like a blow up mattress. Basically you slip inside of it.
And do you have to put your own ice? Where
do you get off this ice? My ice maker doesn't
make enough ice?
Speaker 5 (24:50):
Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Do you keep it ice and then you can cover
it and then it stays iced? No, it's gonna melt. Yeah,
it's not a freezer. Can't you play it? Why can't
you plug it in like a freezer.
Speaker 5 (25:01):
I'm sure there are different ones that you could get.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
That like keep yours, probably more elaborate ones. But here's
the thing. I have an ice shortage or my ice
maker freezes up, not enough ice anyway, so you gotta
go get bags of ice.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
I noticed that about my ice too.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
My ice machine is a real problem.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
I was like, come, on what is this.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
So Tanya?
Speaker 5 (25:20):
Well, I don't know. You're gonna have to figure out
your own ice situation, but maybe you can get some
like you know those big arrowhead for the.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Love like I, Yeah, I can start doing this.
Speaker 5 (25:29):
Yeah, we really are thinking about it because Robbie wants
to do it in the mornings before he I don't
think I would do this.
Speaker 3 (25:34):
Before work before I.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Wouldn't to organize.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Yeah, talk to me in December when I'm just not freezing.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
I'm not a cold person.
Speaker 3 (25:42):
I think you could do it.
Speaker 5 (25:43):
You could get it ready at night like it. Well,
that depends three minutes you can last.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
I can't last night.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
I did they say three minutes? I didn't. I did
with the random person in the spa once. Yeah, we
actually motivate each other.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
You could yet team work it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:00):
She was in there was like, come on, we can
do it twenty more seconds.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Maybe a kitty pool. You could just throw someboce in that.
These things look like a kid pool.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
But people are swearing by it, and I'm like, if
it's going to make you more productive and have more
energy throughout your day, what's the harm?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Why don't you do a home demo for the show. Yeah,
and let us know. We'll no tell us the days
you've done it, and then we'll see how you're feeling.
We'll ask you about that all right.
Speaker 3 (26:22):
On air on air with Ryan Seacres, Dylan.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
I think Dylan needs advice. Dylan, are you with us?
Good morning? How are you?
Speaker 6 (26:33):
I'm here, good morning? Thanks very great.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
So are you calling for advice about a job listing
or what's happening?
Speaker 6 (26:40):
So, yeah, I'm I'm I've been at the same company
for about four years. Thanks. By the way, my and
my team is expanding. They're added some new people, and
so I'm on my internal jobs board once in a while.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
You know.
Speaker 6 (26:51):
I like the company, need the benefits, the people are great.
But they posted a job and this is where I
needed some advice here that's eventually the same job as mine,
the same level, but the pay is about thirty thousand
dollars higher starting. So I'm not good at like corporate negotiations.
(27:12):
I don't like confrontation. So I'm like, what do I do?
Do I go to my manager ask for money? Do
I bring it up?
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Is the listening for the same job in another place?
Speaker 6 (27:24):
It's the same company, just under a different manager, but the.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Same job, same company, same role, same duties, same responsibilities,
same organizations.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
Stress correct for a different manager, but it's thirty k higher.
And if I ask, does that trigger like an awkward
conversation about my future of the company or I'm.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
No, I think that you. I mean, let's just be
let's just be real, bro right, you're doing your gig
at the same company. You see this posted you you'd
like for them to explain why this is thirty thousand
dollars more for the same thing. Could you explain it
to me? Let them explain it to you.
Speaker 5 (28:04):
Yeah, so there might be something that isn't listed that
you don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Yeah, I don't think you you go for an ask yet,
I think you need them to define the why, right,
Like what's the reason? Because to me, Dylan, you're you
talking on From my view, this looks like the same
thing for the same company, just under a different manager,
but a heck of a lot more salary, Like what's
the difference? How do you justify thirty k more for
(28:30):
the same thing here and have them explain it to you?
Speaker 6 (28:34):
Sure? If the two passive aggressives just apply for the job.
Speaker 2 (28:38):
M yes, why because then if he gets it, he's
got to leave the same role.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
Or what if he doesn't get it, and then.
Speaker 6 (28:47):
You may My reviews are good.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
I I'm thinking of the audio. My playbook would be
go to them, ask them, why have them explain it
to you? And then you have another move to make.
You've got another move on the board. The next move
could be you want to apply for it. The next
move could be, well, I would like to have that
for my job.
Speaker 3 (29:07):
That's a good move.
Speaker 2 (29:08):
Yeah, you get two moves out of one.
Speaker 6 (29:11):
Okay, I think that's what I'll do. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
I appreciate that, brother, Thank you for even reaching out
to talk to us about it.
Speaker 3 (29:16):
It could be an oversight, you know, they haven't looked
at his position in years, and maybe they.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Maybe you get to raise, know they kick you up exactly.
Speaker 7 (29:26):
For that.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Did you like your job? Sounds like you like your job.
Speaker 6 (29:31):
I love that at the company's grave. My reviews are good.
My boss is great. I don't want to leave, you know,
I don't want to be taking advantage of professionally.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Yeah, I didn't think you can voice I say, I
want to stay with the same team. Essentially, have this.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Conversation immediately, either today or tomorrow.
Speaker 6 (29:46):
Okay, okay, take care of deal, good luck, Thank you.
Speaker 2 (29:50):
Mus I can't wait to hear why. I mean, not
that I'm gonna be there. I'm so curious to I'm
so curious to hear why. Maybe it was a mistake.
I don't know. So so let's get into this.
Speaker 3 (30:01):
What do you so if you have kids who are
obsessed with video games, maybe it's not so bad that
you let them play them because there was a study
done actually Georgia State University, Ryan Uh did a study
that found the frequent players of video games show superior
sensory motor decision making skills and in the University of
Georgia and dropped out. There's a different university. You gotta
(30:24):
got it. But to put it simply, gamers are good
at decision making. So just think about that for a second.
Because there's nothing more annoying than being with a man
or a woman.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
We talked about this. You can't make a choice, can
make decisions.
Speaker 3 (30:38):
Make a decision anything whizing if you can't have some
certainty and some clarity.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I was talking to a friend of mine and he
keeps telling me it's going out with this girl. Hey, bro,
I'm going out with this girl I met. Where'd you meet?
Like we met on the street, and like you met
on the street. I don't even know how that's possible.
Speaker 5 (30:53):
Wow, it's so easy.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
And then he says, oh, sorry, not for everybody, all
of us.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
I walked streets time and time again. It just walks
up and wants to go out. But for you, you
can barely go anywhere, can you?
Speaker 9 (31:09):
Baby?
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Put a little ball cap on and some glasses so
you don't get asked out every corner.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
Difficult to every single corner, and just you know what,
let's keep walking.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
I need to look down, so'sn ask me out again
everywhere I go. Oh, it's a walk side and think on.
Speaker 5 (31:28):
I'm just saying you just have to put out the
energy like I'm open and available.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Well, anyway, guy says to me, buddy mine, He's like, probably,
I'm I'm going to take her ound I'm just kind
of excited. So I said where are you going to
take her? He's like, well, a corner and said what
do you like? I'm like, no, don't say what do
you like?
Speaker 8 (31:46):
A plan?
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Make a decision, Han, I'm taking your hair.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Be ready, and I've got a great idea and just
go like, I know that you want to get direction,
but I don't know. I don't love saying what are
you into? What do you like? I think it kind
of I mean, maybe it's too risky, but I like
to make it just flows naturally.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Maybe but not. I think like for the first day,
it's so hot. If you planned the whole thing, if
you said, hey, be ready by seven, and you know,
dress whatever this way, so much to.
Speaker 5 (32:18):
Dressed this way, I'd be like, no, not dressed this way.
Speaker 3 (32:21):
But you know what I mean, Like I.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Tell you, I know what you I know you're saying
because when I've gone places in the past or we're
going to something, the question that's come up, well, what
are we supposed to wear? Like what's everyone else is
going to be wearing? So it is beneficial to say
it's casual or it's be cheap whatever, right, thank you? Yes,
So you saying like where this is.
Speaker 3 (32:39):
Where I were meet me in the bar.
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Totally cash or you may say it's it's little dressed.
Speaker 6 (32:45):
Yeah, I know what that is.
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Summer.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
Someone else the other day told me dressed summer cheek
and I was like, okay, all right, what is that?
Speaker 6 (32:53):
I like it?
Speaker 2 (32:54):
And then you realize it's really anything. But so play
play plays that we're saying here.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
Oh, yes, I think it's beneficial to your kids playing
these video games. You can make them better people in life.
And then there was another interesting thing that I took
from this article. There was this one gamer who was
legally blind in one eye, and he played video games
so much, and he would cover his good eye and
force himself to play with his bad eye. And over time, Wow,
(33:20):
has bad eye got better in sight basically a capacity
for visual processing. His brain almost trained his eye to
then see again. It's just fascinating.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
So that's amazing. I have the itch to go to Disneyland.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
I love Disneyland.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
Earth together or should just go?
Speaker 3 (33:40):
Let's go together? Maybe we could could be fun. Yes,
maybe couples that could be really fun. Triple day, triple
day matching day or trappy triple day matchingeers.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Yes, what you said. Let's arrive separately, why party? We
can all have our own vehicles. I don't know what
time we're going to finish, that's true, So this is
it a formal invitation. We'll figure out the date.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
Guys, we have a company.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Oh yeah, I don't know what's happening here, lindsay, sorry
you heard all that.
Speaker 10 (34:19):
Yeah, I'm still here.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
The reason we're coming together for a six talk. You're going,
but you work with somebody it's going to Disneyland that
needs to be at work, and you're kind of outing
that person.
Speaker 10 (34:34):
Yeah. So my well, my manager is out and return
to leave, so he's out of office and not in
touch with our team very much understandably. So, so my
coworker is using that to her advantage and is taking
a vacation all up next week and not telling anyone,
and she's planning to go to Disneyland. And well, I
(34:56):
feel that's a bit unethical. I wouldn't feel a need
to tell anyone, But she's asking me to cover for
her and do her work. Oh yeah, I don't want
to tattle, but you.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
Know that this podcast where Disneyland is from going. Okay, okay,
well wow, I'm trying to put myself in your shoes.
So let's see.
Speaker 3 (35:24):
Hmmm, Like, if Tanya, you know, to lie for her
so she can go do something, you would do it
for me? Yeah, but I would want something in return, No,
you wouldn't. You would owe me if I have to
(35:45):
lie for you to the boss.
Speaker 5 (35:47):
You would do it.
Speaker 3 (35:48):
I would maybe do it, but I'd like you owe me,
like this is big. Now my job is on the line.
You owe me.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
No jobs on the line.
Speaker 3 (35:56):
Disneyland maybe want to be Disneyland. I'm just saying something else.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
Well, she already did this. She wanted to knop a
valley retreat and told her she was sick, but she didn't.
Speaker 5 (36:05):
And I'll say that I was sick. I took vacation
days in work day for that.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Oh yeah, she took Tuesday and Wednesday last minute because
she went to Naa with the guy that she told
she never talked.
Speaker 5 (36:16):
I said, I was going to every tree weepy, weepy, weepy.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
But she disappeared. She suggest she told me she never talked.
Speaker 3 (36:26):
She had just broken up with him, and she was such.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
A bad stick in and we put her back together
with like uh.
Speaker 3 (36:31):
Huh uh huh. And then she was she was like,
I need to go find myself on this tree.
Speaker 5 (36:38):
Exaggerating in every shape, that's what it was.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
But she called a wellness retreat there.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
We understand it. We'd been down this path before.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
Oh my gosh, so exaggerated. Took off a Thursday and
a Friday.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
Was Tuesday and Wednesday.
Speaker 5 (36:52):
No Thursday and Friday. I never said I was never
going to speak to the guy again. If you shall remember,
I said, this doesn't make sense this break.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
I recall him so sorry. As I recall it was
a Sunday night and I was on the phone for.
Speaker 3 (37:03):
A long Yes, I never saw you.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
Later you took a vacation when to my now.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
You made me unfollow him on Instagram and then when
I had to re follow him. It was super properte.
I love song.
Speaker 5 (37:18):
And it was a retreat. It was a couple's retreat
to see if we could do this again.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
I've seen couples retreat. It's a movie. This was not that.
Lindsay again, do you want to just out your coworker work? Yeah, okay,
is there a swap, like listen, now you're covering. Is
there something she can do for you to see you?
Speaker 10 (37:37):
That's true, that's true. I can give her. I can
give her something that she has to do for me.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
She owes you now, let's have to cover it and
then eye for an eye blind whatever, good luck, Thank
you very much. It was a long time ago, but
I remember like it was yesterday? Was it tuesday?
Speaker 5 (37:56):
You obviously don't remember it like it was yesterday because
your facts are a little bit fuzzy.
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Oh it's just I sounded pretty aligned.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
Yeah, I just can't remember what you called it. You
called it a.
Speaker 5 (38:07):
Well a retreat. I said, I'm going on a retreat.
Speaker 3 (38:10):
And we didn't even bat an eyelash because we were
so concerned for your health. A romantic weekend.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
It taste.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
Yeah, we literally were like, oh my gosh, Ryan, she
needs this, so let's give her whatever time she needs
because she needs it. Peace all. Yeah, And she comes
back and she was like, oh, I was frolicking through
this wine, the vineyards.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
Of Rosemary infused the hall of oil. They've caught it
up there, got it a bottle.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
I was just, you know, tasting. Oh, by the way,
robbing air back together.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
On our own backs here, because look at this, they're
about to be engaged thanks to us.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Clearly, he carried off the show.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
They made everything go away, and now they're practically married.
Speaker 9 (38:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
Really glad it worked out.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
But I never once said I'm never speaking to him again.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
If thou shalt.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Recall, I mean listening to those tears, tears so many Oh,
I can tell I'm doing good ABS because I was
laughing solid my abs. I did hanging abs last night
and I can feel it now. Sundry, Oh so hard
to get six hundred.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
I know we all do that. Ever, since you told
me six hundred a day, I'm like, oh, my gosh.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
Should we all do six hundred abs something's a day?
Speaker 3 (39:20):
I guess yeah.
Speaker 5 (39:21):
I think we should can text each other after we finish.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Okay subscribed Sam. Hello Sam, Hi, Yes, Sam, thanks for
holding on to a couple of those songs that appreciate
that this morning. So let's see if we can help
out and find out what's going on. Your manager blocked
everybody on your team from seeing your Instagram stories.
Speaker 11 (39:43):
No, so my manager blocked everyone from seeing their Instagram story,
so like we can't basically blocked everyone, so we can't
see their story at all, and we cannot see you
a manager story exactly. I can't see my manager's stories
at all. And what happened is my manager has been
so flaky lately, so calling out, sick, not showing up,
(40:07):
saying they'll be there and then never coming. So one
of the new members of our team wasn't block and
Instagram and we found out what's going on with our manager.
Our manager is vacationing, partying, staying, it's late, and those
happen to be the days she'll call out sick the
next day. So my team's like at a loss. We
don't know what to do because it's affecting all of
(40:28):
our work and now we know why, but we don't
know how to handle it.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Or well, why does the new hire have access to
your manager's stories?
Speaker 11 (40:37):
She must not have blocked them because they weren't on
our team when she went up through.
Speaker 2 (40:42):
That's how you know what's happening. Okay, now it's all
adding up. Well, who's the leader of the team.
Speaker 11 (40:51):
As far as I mean, like, the manager is the
main one in charge. We of course have a boss
over everyone, but the manager's in charge of.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Us, right, But there's got to be a leader of
the team that's underneath the manager. Because here's my thinking.
My thinking is, if it's affecting the team's work, and
ultimately that's what a team is on a team for
to be productive, it's going to affect the manager's productivity
and their reputation at work too. So I wouldn't address
what your manager is doing outside of work. I'd address
(41:20):
what your manager is not getting done with the team
inside of work, because it's holding everybody back. And that's
just a results oriented conversation. It's not personal, it's professional.
Speaker 11 (41:31):
Yeah, right, So you think we should go to the
manager directly and just talk work only, not for up.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
You just say, like the ball is being dropped. Here's
what we're missing. We're not getting answers, things aren't moving along.
This is a problem like just affecting all of us
as a team. We want to be results oriented, solutions oriented,
but we got to be productive and we've got to
get things done. And for some reason, it's not let
the manager you have a chance to apologize or or
you know, fess up to what's going on. But the
results at work are a product of whatever's happening. You
(42:01):
still need to talk about your manage. You're doing what
they're doing. It's like what they're not doing at work.
Do you see what I'm saying?
Speaker 11 (42:08):
Yeah, yeah, what do you think?
Speaker 9 (42:10):
I think?
Speaker 3 (42:10):
So true? I think you go to the professional round
because then it seems less gossipy and you're you know,
you're not getting involved in the personal life. You're just
going straight professional and the new hires watching it all.
Speaker 11 (42:22):
I kind of like that they've screen recorded it, so we've.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
All now it's getting messy, so dark.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
I think I would address the issues at work, which
is the product of what you've seen in the video.
Thanks Sam for calling.
Speaker 11 (42:41):
Thank you. Okay, Well, definitely sure, we will definitely go
about doing that way because you didn't really want to
go over anyone's head, you know, so we didn't know
how to handle it the team.
Speaker 2 (42:51):
I got it. Well. I appreciate you reaching out just
to chat with us about It's very nice. Thanks for listening.
And Menehanna from the back room. The back room consists
of regularly Mikayla, Collette and Ruby on the phones, you know,
lining things up, getting things done. What's the highlight of
your job in the back room.
Speaker 12 (43:06):
Ariehanna, Answering phones, you know, keeping the energy back there.
We're always in there, you know, talking to each other
and you know obviously answering the phone calls and stuff.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
So yeah, all right, so after she's done here, call
in and talk to her because she loves answering. It's
one eight and five to one to two seven. So
you meet this guy, Phoenix guy go. Now, how many
times have you all hung out?
Speaker 12 (43:26):
We've hung out several times. But this last trip we
did like a whole trip. You know, we went to
Arizona and you know, he rented ATVs for us. We
went on like restaurants, dates and bars and you.
Speaker 3 (43:39):
Know, it was fun.
Speaker 12 (43:40):
And now I don't know how you feel.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Is it romantic yet? No?
Speaker 3 (43:46):
Not yet?
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Okay, so you to you do? You had a great time.
It sounds amazing, like I'm taking notes about what to
do on a date. That sounds fun. So you had
a great time. He's dming you and now.
Speaker 12 (43:58):
What Well, now kind of like a little scared because
I feel like we get along so well and the
vibes are there, but also it's like, what if I
like him?
Speaker 2 (44:10):
Isn't that why you go out with him?
Speaker 5 (44:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (44:12):
This is good, but now it's real.
Speaker 12 (44:15):
Yeah, now it's like real real, So hold on, isn't
the point of going out with someone to like them?
Speaker 3 (44:22):
I mean, I'm with Ryan on this.
Speaker 2 (44:24):
Are you worried that you found a guide that you're into? Yeah?
Speaker 12 (44:28):
Because I'm like, am I actually ready for a releasehip?
Speaker 3 (44:30):
Because well, that's a question you've got to answer for yourself, honey, if.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
You're worried about it going well and liking someone, then
maybe the door is not open for you. Wow, because
you've been in that seat telling us that you met
a guy who's like a you know, not great. We're like, okay,
well not the one for you. And now you meaning
this guy that you like, Like, I don't know if
I'm ready.
Speaker 5 (44:52):
It's scary.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
Oh just jump.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
But when you go to the when you go to Ralph's,
do you go in there and you look around? You go, hey,
what if I buy something I actually want to eat?
Do you do that? Or do you buy stuff you
want to eat? You go in there, you buy stuff
you want to eat? You're dating? You want to date
this guy you like. I don't know if that works
or not.
Speaker 6 (45:11):
But I.
Speaker 2 (45:16):
Just wonder, like, are you truly open to wanting to
be with somebody in a relationship or not, because that's
the question that would be asked if you're not.
Speaker 3 (45:26):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 12 (45:28):
I feel like I don't know if I'm fully ready,
And also like what if he doesn't even want that?
Speaker 3 (45:33):
Like I think I'm also overthinking like.
Speaker 2 (45:36):
Are you flirting with him?
Speaker 5 (45:38):
We flirt here and there? Yeah, for sure, he wants it,
I mean not necessarily.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
I mean, what guy's putting in the DM time if
he doesn't want to date?
Speaker 2 (45:47):
Yeah, yeah, so you got. I mean you're you're in
the driver's seat on this. So what's the next step
we're not?
Speaker 12 (45:56):
I mean, I don't know if I should even either
tell him like, hey, I'm not ready for something?
Speaker 3 (46:00):
They know, why Why is she going to rock the
boat if it doesn't need to be rocked?
Speaker 2 (46:07):
What are you ready for? If you're not ready for something? Wow,
that's a good question.
Speaker 5 (46:14):
This is the gray area, which is bad for everybody involved.
Speaker 2 (46:19):
Okay, I'm going to tell you what struck me. He
rented ATVs. That's interest. Guys do not rent heavy machinery
to be friends. They're just just telling you, like, that
is a real investment here.
Speaker 3 (46:31):
They don't spend.
Speaker 2 (46:32):
Money on people waivers organizing it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 12 (46:38):
Yeah, because you organized the whole thing too.
Speaker 3 (46:39):
So yeah, that's thoughtfulness. That's putting in time.
Speaker 2 (46:44):
Can you just go and see what the natural flow
is without overthinking it? Can you do that?
Speaker 10 (46:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (46:51):
I think I'm going to go ahead and do that.
That's always better, just going with the flow.
Speaker 2 (46:55):
I will call in and talk to Marion in the
back room right now if you have other advice for her.
But the says she's finally met a great guy that
she thinks she likes. Now what uh?
Speaker 6 (47:03):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (47:04):
Stressful all I don't know what to do anymore.
Speaker 3 (47:09):
Which ways, this is exciting, scary right here on air
with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (47:22):
One more thing before we go, sisany what is your
biggest pet peeve that other drivers do on the road
or that Michael does when you drive.
Speaker 3 (47:29):
When they cut me off? If somebody cuts me off.
Speaker 2 (47:33):
Tanya, what's the biggest pet peeve you have with other
drivers or when Robbie drives.
Speaker 5 (47:38):
I really dislike when people put their feet outside the window.
Speaker 2 (47:43):
So I don't like it when someone says to me
every time, be careful.
Speaker 3 (47:46):
Oh I do that to Michael all the time.
Speaker 2 (47:50):
Do you think I am not being careful?
Speaker 9 (47:52):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (47:53):
Careful?
Speaker 5 (47:53):
How about we live and careful and then tell me otherwise?
Speaker 2 (47:56):
Be careful?
Speaker 6 (47:57):
Right?
Speaker 2 (47:57):
Be careful? Okay, Well I'm being careful, but now I'm
not careful because I'm looking over at you telling me
to be careful. So who's careful? Now?
Speaker 3 (48:07):
Did you let it all out?
Speaker 5 (48:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (48:09):
You get it.
Speaker 9 (48:10):
Let's thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
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