December 30, 2024 • 40 mins
Having a bad day? Not feeling happy? Scientists say mindful photography can help. Ryan breaks down how to do that. Ryans Roses -Out of Westwood -Tyler’s husband has been spending a lot of time with his ex wife. Including spending time together without his kids around. Now Tyler is worried…
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
This is a story that speaks to me. I don't
have kids, but maybe I'll reconsider after this story.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Well, you don't have to have them to eat at
this time?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
How well this is actually related to kids a little bit.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, with all due respect, Tanya, let's just need to
tell the story and then we can judge. Okay, So
you're saying that more and more families, more families with
kids with kids, are having dinner really early, and it's
a good thing.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It is a really good thing, because the struggle as
a parent when you sit down for dinner is having
them finish their dinner, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
And by the way, I spent summer with my niece
the summer, Yeah, the things I had to I had
to dress up as a magician to get her to
sit and eat a bowl of posta.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
And there's a lot of compromise, you know, it's like
two more bites and you can have a little bit
of a cookie after. Everything is like a compromise with them.
But they were figuring out that it's maybe because they
weren't actually truly that hungry.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
By the time you sat down for dinner.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Let's say, like I considered us early five thirty six
o'clock dinner. I thought that was on the early side.
But now with this new trend, it's not the case.
Parents are trying to ring that dinner bell way earlier,
and it's basically right when they get home from school.
So the kids get home from school and they're starving.
My kids as soon as they walk in the door,
they always want a snack. They always want something. I'm
always like, okay, well, and if it's too close, if
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we're past four pm, then I'm like, now you can't
have a big snack. Wait, you gotta wait. And it's
just like a battle every single day. So instead of
doing that snack, parents are saying, do dinner at three
forty five, do dinner at four pm, four thirty. Have
that be the big, healthy, nutritious meal when you're giving
them vegetables and things like that, and then afterwards, if
they're kind of still hungry around six six thirty, you
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can they can have a snack.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Then. I love it. It is true because I remember
I came, as I've told you before, I would come
home from school absolutely famished, like starving. Yeah, I would
take the Coca Cola three Leader bottle. Oh my gosh,
remember the big one, the three Leader bottle, drink it
out of the bottle.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Oh, how do you even care?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Yeah, that's big. I was a strong wreck. Then then
I would make that cookie sheet of nachos to watch Oprah.
But that like Coca Cola and nachos to watch Oprah,
which was on at three, three thirty four whatever. Then
I would have dinner, which was why I think I
was husky when I was growing.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Because we didn't in the eighties and nineties.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
But I was so hungry.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
I was a child, and I'm famished at three PM,
Like that's when my alarm goes off. I'm trying to
eat my big meal around five. If I could rode
up to four, I would.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
You know.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I I advocate the early meal. And you know I
always invite friends to have dinner and they don't come.
But and I stand outside of restaurants and wait for
Remember the Pacha Pi dress that standing outside the restaurant.
I was waiting. The valet was there, but I was waiting.
No one would let me in till five. If I
had a three forty five, I think it would be
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too early for me as a as an active adult,
I would have to eat again again. So if I
can make it till five, which I try to do
when I can, that works and I like that. And
you have such so you have so much more of
an evening with your kids.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
That's true because as soon as we do dinnertime and
it's you know, six o'clock, let's say six thirty, then it's.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Like you take the bath, Yeah, read the book.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
It's oh, it's bedtime right after after we eat, and
they're like, what, there's no, we can't watch anything on
TV now.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
No, But it's kind of tough if you're trying to
do this at four pm, three three forty five, because
if you have a spouse that's working, if you have
a job, Michael Wild be so sad like to miss
dinner every single night with his family.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah, you know, so it's kind of like it's an
interesting thing to keep them from snacking. Ryan Seacrest with you,
Lances on the line. Let me grab Lance real fast
here into the studio. You call any time that we're on. Hi,
uh Lance, good morning, how you doing?
Speaker 7 (03:55):
Good morning? I'm doing very well.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Are you it's good to hear. I'm doing great. Thank you.
So you're calling about your wife wanted to quit her job.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
Uh, yeah, that's right. My my wife has been talking
about quitting her job to pursue this MLM, you know,
opportunity full time. It's like a multi level marketing job.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
So she started working with.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
This company last year as just as a side gig
to make some extra money. But now she I feel
is taking it too far. Like well, I want to
I want to be supportive, you know, I want to
support her in following her passions, but I honestly just
concerned about the risks.
Speaker 8 (04:34):
Involved, like this company. This company just seems shady.
Speaker 7 (04:39):
I don't know if there's any stability there, you know,
for her, if if this wound up working out. I'm
just not sure how to approach the conversation with her.
I want to be supportive yet honest about you know
where I'm coming from. I don't I don't want to
discourage her, but I also want to make sure that
we're making a well and decision together. I don't know,
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just I'm just wondering, what do you think is the
best way to go about this?
Speaker 8 (05:08):
Just having this conversation.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Well, I mean, Lance, you have to do this with
a lot of finesse and care uh and thoughtfulness, because
this is something that she obviously wants to do, and
so it is a it's a dialogue. It's not a pushback, right.
I mean, I think it's totally fair to have a
dialogue and a conversation about, you know, what's interesting about
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it or what's not interesting about it, or what the pros,
what the cons are. But you gotta remember this is
something like in her mind, this is something she wants
to do, and if you start pushing back immediately won't
be received at all.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Right, She'll start you You just you can't do that.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
This is one of those things where you got almost
like take a deep breath, take your time. Maybe not
say everything you're thinking, but at least maybe in the
first conversation, do a lot of listening and maybe even
another conversation you can do some follow up, but at
least do the listening, right hear her?
Speaker 8 (06:00):
Her plan is that's gonna be so tough.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
Just because I've looked into this company, I can't find
that they even sell a product. It seems like the
goal is just to get other people to sign up.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
And she is so excited about it.
Speaker 7 (06:15):
When she talks about it, she lights up, So of
course I don't want to take that from her, but
I'm so concerned that this is just a scam.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Are you describing like a pyramid scheme?
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Yeah, well that's what it sounds like, but it's not.
That's not how it's coming across.
Speaker 8 (06:30):
So I'm just confused.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Wow. I think it's a very logical conversation to say, hey,
you know, let's really make sure we look into this
company and make sure that they're doing everything that they
say they're doing without it creating an opportunity for her
to be defensive about her choice, because I could see
how that could go too. So just it's want of
was handled with.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Cares, especially she's already drinking the kool aid.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, so good luck on that. You know, anytime you
have something you want to go do, you bring it
to your partner and if they, like I want, I
say poo poo it. But if they poo it, then
you begin to get defensive.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Yeah, especially if they quickly and they don't even like.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Hear you out. It's a totally non productive what happened?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I want to get a new dining table and Michael's like,
we don't need a new dining table.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
This one's fine. I was like, well, you don't even
listen to it.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Like what.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
I'm like, we can do this, and we can do
like a payment planner.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
And he's like, no, it's a waste of money. And
I was like, wow, that was our conversation.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
So it ended with you barking.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
Basically, it ended me being like, I'll get that dining table.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
We'll have to figure out another way.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
So basically you argue and then just go around him.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
No, I'm not going to go around him. I have
to convince him.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
And Michael's a convincerr like I have to like show
him the reasons.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Why advertize the table, like have a leg fall the
screws underneath their like we need.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
A bigger table. The table that we have is too
small and it's time to move on.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Anyway, you guys have created a big family.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Yeah, I know you need to have everybody sit at
the table. I know, well you know the person they
should be most frustrated and short tempered this morning is
Sysney works you up all night?
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Oh my gosh, I have been up since three and
that is like the worst time to wake up when
you usually don't wake up at like we wake up
like at you know, five is like my go to
like four forty five, five I'm out of bed. So
three is like one of those times where I'm not
going back to bed.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
So this is like ruined my night. No, yes, and
it happened.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
So we're I'm laying there and my my little Diego. Why,
I just like, can you know when you're in between dreams?
So I didn't know if it was reality or dream
or whatever. But it was a dog that was barking
and wouldn't stop barking, and it was distant so that
dog I could hear. And then all of a sudden,
I hear my Diego, who was like almost full grown Dalmatian,
start to bark as well. And so now I'm up,
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and then so we're trying to figure out what's going on.
Michael's already up and he was investigating the situation. It
was a dog that was either across the street or
down the street, but like sometimes you can't tell with
like the way the echoes are, like, it felt like
this dog was across the street, but who knows, it
could have been down the street.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
So he goes outside, and he gets up at three
in the morning, goes outside.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
He goes outside like he's gonna hop a fence and
try to say to this dog, this is Mike the
dog a treat. I argue with Michael, but the stuff
all the time, like don't involve yourself, stay in the
bag in the house. And sure enough, he goes outside.
He sees three coyotes and so.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Then he comes it's dangerous for the dogs, so yes, and.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
So he comes back inside. But I'm like, well, is
this dog indoors? But it sounded like that dog was
outside barking like bop and it was just consistent. And
this went on for twenty minutes, and all of a
sudden there was no more bark. I thought it was
my neighbor's dog. But then I saw Angela's dog this morning,
and I know that dog's fine.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I'm on coyote patrol all the time. It's dark with
Georgia because I have a friend. I want to say,
who who lost her dogs to coyotes? Yeah, you know
who it is.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
It's a very common thing here in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Lost two dogs to coyotes. Was she was traveling and
someone was watching over her dog. It's just a horrible,
horrible I'm still not healed. No, I remember when happened
to her.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
I remember too. I didn't realize she was out of town.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Yeah, she wasn't a way someone's watching her dogs.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, And it was.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
One of those things where and I don't really remember
this story, but like I think the person that was
watching just like you let the dog out all the time,
like it's no big deal, Like go in the backyard they.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Do, it's dark. I do not. When it gets dark.
You got to be with your dog and make sure
you're watching this so they can be dangerous.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
And they don't care about humans, Like they just looked
at Michael and were not scared by him at all.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
First of all, Michael, I'm never getting up and going
outside at three in the morning to deal with anything.
I agree with you, you know, raccoons, coyotes.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
And this man is like barefoot, goes out there with
no weapon.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Nothing, nothing, no bats, nothing, just walks out there like Michael,
and to aim ever is going to be with me. Sorry, Sorry,
I'm not going out to battle anything at three in
the morning. Sorry. We're gonna lock the doors and We're
gonna deal with it inside.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
But I'm also concerned that nobody else in our neighborhood
heard this dog.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Yapping, so nobody else wanted to go outside during in
the morning and handle it. That's what it is. Michael
on a mission out there.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
So the whisking is like, we get back inside and
it's three six and we can. He's like, you want
a coffee, and I'm like, yep, might as well, and so.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
We probum with that is you have your coffee so early,
then you're done with it by five. You have to
have so many coffee.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
I'm definitely feeling away today, but I'm getting through it.
And on a Monday, I know, and actually we drink
a lot yesterday.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
The charger games like it's not feeling great.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
She bounce back fast.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
You got a high tolerant, you know, not these days
so much.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Really it catches up.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
It catches up to you.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
So your quoted the day in just a second. But
this is interesting. If you're not having a great day
and you just feel like you may not get through
it already, scientists say you should do this instantly. It
will improve your mood. And that is take a photo
of ordinary moments like making your coffee or feeding your pet. Oh,
it's to say. It's called mindful photography. It helps you
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appreciate the moment that we are in, leading to improve health, happiness,
and clarity. So I guess it's the simple things in
life that bring you pleasure. You need to be reminded
of those with imagery to give you that feeling. Again,
I will tell you it works. It works. Remember the
steak I had Thursday night last week? Yeah, I looked
at that photo all weekend. I did. I looked at
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all week It actually made me feel better.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
I know what you mean.
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Though.
Speaker 4 (12:33):
Sometimes I take pictures of ASA's hair like and I
do like a new hairstyle on her, and then when
I go back to look at it, it makes me happy.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
Here's today's quote. Even if you don't have all the
things you want, be grateful for the things you don't have.
On air with Ryan se do you pick your nose? Yes?
I know everyone does, and we all do. Where do
you put it?
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Out of the counter.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
You, Oh, Brian.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
John, I'm not saying we, I'm saying under the counter.
A lot of people do.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Now, I know what you do. I don't want to
go over in your area over there.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Once I put on your passenger seat when you took
me to launch.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Now that one is actually more believable.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Transparency, Tanya, please, it is so. Now this is serious.
Picking your nose can lead to something really bad, Sisney,
what do we know?
Speaker 4 (13:26):
Yes, and they're saying that picking your nose may increase
your chances of getting Alzheimer's. Now, they've been trying to
figure out Alzheimer's for years, right, and they think that
there is a protein called beta amyloid and it's the.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Key cause of the disease.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
So this new report says that beta amyloid may be
produced by the brain as a like a defense against
pathogens introduced into the nose like a dirty finger, And
so it's all being traveled through your nasal canal whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
And they're saying it's linked all the time.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Whatever's on your finger has this goog kun it and
the whatever you call it is bad, bad, bad over time,
and it could lead or increase your chances of getting Alzheimer's.
That is what worth shattering to think about. I mean,
I already I've trained myself not to put my fingers
in my eyes, like I've really gotten good that not
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touch my face. I've gotten better at that, but I
do roll up in there sometimes to check it out.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
Yeah, and especially if it's more so. Sometimes you have
like an itch and you just go digging for gold.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
You gotta get it out.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Yeah, So get your kids to start not doing it early.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
I mean when we have the nose freeda when they
were like babies because they couldn't figure out how to
blow their noses or whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Now they just yeah, I don't know what they do.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
But when I was a kid, I used to go
in there hard.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Or you don't now is in a is an engage?
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Honest?
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Not really. I don't pick my nose all that often.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Or you're gonna live longer. Yeah, I mean, your odds
are in your favor. So it's something to think about though.
So Sydney, you saw a couple on a tandem bike.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
I saw a couple and they're probably like in their
mid fifties, and they just seemed so happy on their
tandem bike.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Everybody looks happy on a tandem bike.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
What is it about a tandem bike?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
It is the cutest, coolest thing. So it was so
just to be clear at Tanna bike two seats, two peddlers, yes, two.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Handle bars, eat two wheels, two wheels, is it?
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Four handlebars?
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Two handlebars, two sets of handlebars two sets, yeah, and
then two wheels.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I saw seats someone on one of those not too
long ago too, and I couldn't help but smile.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That's exactly what happened to me.
Speaker 4 (15:48):
And I like had this whole flash forward of like, Michael,
I actually get a tandem bike one day, and like
when we're retired, we'll wake up every morning at five
am and do our little.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Bike around the neighborhood. So it be on the way
into work this morning, and I was.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Like that they look so happy and so cute. It's
like this is like definitely their routine. They were like
in bike gear, Like.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
The whole thing that is cute.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
I mean it's a version of pedal assist because you've
got a helper. I know, but I think that is
so cute and so cool, and I don't see enough
of that. I mean, even a sidecar on a vestment
was cool, you know exactly, But I did. I did
see this and I thought I want to be those
people on the tandem bike.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
I know, I definitely did so to the couple that
was on the tandem bike right off of the what.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Is the Bob Hope Exit?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Yeah, I saw you this morning and you inspired me
to get a tandom bike, not now, but soon.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
How much do those go for a tandem bike? He'd
be that expensive. It's like a two for one, right,
I don't know. I've never looked up tandem bikes.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Neither have I.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
So you saw them biking at five thirty this morning?
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Yeah, real early. I'm telling you these guys were serious.
But you can tell like this was like their morning routine,
like they were just like they were like in sync.
And you, friend, you were from three to eight hundred bucks.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
I'm getting the prices four hundred.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
To nine hundred bucks Amazon Wayfair Coles.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
What's a good looking one to shwin?
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Is the swin a good one?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Oh damn, there's a Pacific cycler. I'm into that.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
H All right, Well, listen, a tandem biking couple stays together,
I mean, that's for sure, and the smiles of container
I think so one On two point seven Kiss FM,
it's time for Ryan's Roses. Here we go, everybody in
Dear Sysney, Ryan, Tanya, my husband has been spending a
lot of time with his ex wife, and it's starting
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to make me nervous. He was over there last Saturday
night and I just found out their kids were at
the sleepover. This is from Tyler in Westwood, So let's
get some detail here. Tyler, thank you for reaching out.
We just want to find out a little bit more
about what's happening. So your husband's been spending time with
his ex wife and you're nervous. What are you nervous about? Tyler?
Speaker 8 (17:58):
Oh gosh, I mean I knew that there was baggage
when I got into this relationship. You know, he's divorced
from a woman, so they have two kids together, and
he didn't leave He didn't leave her for me. They
were already divorced three years when we met and we
fell in love. And he's always been there for the kids,
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like every soccer game, performance, birthdays and all that kind
of stuff. And you know, his ex wife remarried and
everything's been great. But lately I've just been feeling, I
don't know, like my spidy sense has been kind of
tingling because they've been spending a lot more time together
over at her house. And I didn't really think too
much of it, but I definitely started noticing as time's
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been going on that it's been more and more and more.
And he was over there for dinner last Saturday and
he got home really late, and that bothered me. The
kids are getting older, so they're staying up lates like
I've been, like, you know, in my head, I've been
going back fourth like am I overreacting and I just paranoid.
But then I picked up the youngest from school on
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Monday and I asked how the weekend was, and he
said that he and his brother slept at their cousin's
house on Saturday night, so they weren't even.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
There, so they were home alone.
Speaker 8 (19:16):
Yeah, they were there together, all right.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
So do you think he's then gone back romantically with
his ex wife? Is that your concern? I don't know,
I really now we've been married to him.
Speaker 8 (19:30):
We've been married two years, but we've been together for
four years.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Okay, So here's that you are in your mind. You're
worried that maybe he's gone back to his ex wife
and lied about the fact that the kids were there.
They weren't there, and there might be romance again. That's
what you're thinking.
Speaker 8 (19:51):
I mean it just feels weird to me, like, why
is he spending so much time over there? Why are
they spending so much time together alone?
Speaker 6 (19:57):
Like and why?
Speaker 8 (19:59):
Yeah, he's not being completely honest about it, so it's
just freaking me out.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
And a dozen seem to be about the kids.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Tyler, we're gonna call him right now. I need you
to say, Ryan, you my permission to call and his name?
Speaker 8 (20:10):
Go ahead, Yeah, I'm giving you permission to call.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
What's his name? Oh? His name is Okay, we're gonna
do that right now. Be very quiet. Let's see we
can find out. Good luck, Tyler.
Speaker 8 (20:23):
Thank you?
Speaker 9 (20:36):
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Speaker 1 (20:36):
Can I speak to Gus please?
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Yes?
Speaker 8 (20:38):
Who is this?
Speaker 10 (20:39):
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Speaker 1 (20:39):
My name is Noreen. I'm calling from Westwood Blooms. How
are you doing this morning?
Speaker 2 (20:44):
I'm fine you, I'm great.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Thank you for asking.
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Speaker 4 (20:52):
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like that from you. We're just trying to promote our
business we deliver locally and throughout parts of LA.
Speaker 8 (20:59):
Is that for me?
Speaker 1 (21:01):
Are you gush?
Speaker 6 (21:06):
You hear off some tree roses you can send wherever?
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
We just need the name of the person you want
to send them to in a note.
Speaker 6 (21:13):
And I pay you nothing?
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Nothing?
Speaker 6 (21:18):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Uh?
Speaker 8 (21:20):
Can you?
Speaker 6 (21:21):
Can you send them to Tara?
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Yes? And what would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 8 (21:26):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (21:26):
I'm mine?
Speaker 6 (21:28):
What is on the radio? H excuse me?
Speaker 8 (21:34):
This this?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
What's that minute?
Speaker 6 (21:36):
This woman at Starbucks is saying that I'm on the
radio right now. What's going on?
Speaker 1 (21:41):
What would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 6 (21:43):
Wait? No? Wait, wait, hold on, hold on? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (21:46):
Why?
Speaker 6 (21:46):
Why is everyone here? My voice is coming from What
is happening?
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Gus? Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. The
woman from Starbucks is correct. We have your husband, Tyler
on the line. He's asked to give you a call.
You are being broadcast?
Speaker 8 (22:02):
Yes, why are you sending roses to your ex wife?
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (22:08):
My god? What are you doing?
Speaker 8 (22:11):
What are you? The kids or the kids there on
Saturday night or not?
Speaker 6 (22:14):
What are you talking about? What are you?
Speaker 8 (22:16):
Oh my god, Saturday night you were at your ex
wife's house. Were the kids there?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
No?
Speaker 6 (22:22):
They were not. Can we talk about this?
Speaker 8 (22:24):
Was her husband there?
Speaker 2 (22:26):
No? So, gus are you are are Tyler's trying to
find out what's going on with you and your ex wife.
That's why we're here.
Speaker 6 (22:33):
Okay, Tar and I we've been we've been reconnecting, we've
been talking.
Speaker 8 (22:43):
What does that mean.
Speaker 6 (22:44):
I just I don't.
Speaker 7 (22:45):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (22:45):
I don't know what it means. I just know if
we had so we had so many fights over the years,
and I just it's nice to talk to her without fighting.
Speaker 8 (22:56):
That's that's it. Okay, Well, what about her husband? He's
not there anymore.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (23:08):
I'm very confused. I don't I need to just figure
everything out. But can we can we not do this
like this?
Speaker 8 (23:15):
What do you confuse? You know, take all the time
you need to become not confused, because I'm not going
to be there.
Speaker 6 (23:20):
So hey, hey, wait wait wait, you are overreacting. This
is not a big deal. We have just been talking.
Speaker 7 (23:25):
That's it.
Speaker 6 (23:26):
You sleeping with your ex wife is a very very
big I never said. I never said I was sleeping
with my ex wife. First of all, are you are you?
Speaker 8 (23:33):
Are you sleeping with her?
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Listen?
Speaker 6 (23:35):
Can we can we do this off of the radio?
Can we please with her? And I'm not doing this.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Well, you can't answer it. Hello, he hung up.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Gus hung up, Tyler. Do you think he's sleeping with
his ex wife?
Speaker 6 (23:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (23:55):
I do.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
He didn't, he didn't deny it. I did hear that.
So yeah, he said he's reconnecting. I'm not quite sure
what that means.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Myself, and her husband's not around.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Her right, so he's lying. All right, Tyler, we're gonna
let you go so you can track Gus down and
get into it with him. Good luck with everything. We
got this email from Tyler. Tyler's in Westwood. Tyler's married
to Gus two years, been together four. So he reaches
out and he says, I've been feeling a little nervous
about my husband. He's been spending time with his ex wife.
(24:32):
And he found out that because he and his ex wife,
his husband and his ex wife have kids, and if
he's hanging out, the kids generally would be there so
they can spend time with the kids. But he found
out that he lied about the kids being there on
a Saturday night and it was just Gus and his
(24:53):
ex wife. So Tyler's concerned. I don't like it doesn't
feel right. Well, it got worse. It got worse. We
got him on the phone and Gus said, I've been
reconnecting with my ex wife. The kids were not there,
and then Tyler said, are you sleeping? Remember he's married
to Gus. Tyler married to Gus, Gus married to Tyler.
(25:15):
Tyler says, are you sleeping with your ex wife? Sisney.
He didn't deny it.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
He did not, and he was like, let's not do this,
not on the air yet, Let's not do this here.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Let's not do this here.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
What the fact that he called it a this? It
means that there's a thing.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
There's things.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Someone says someone's married and they say, I'm reconnecting with
my ex games. What else do you need to hear? Daggers,
I'm reconnecting, but I'm not sleeping. Well, it doesn't matter.
You reconnect, you trying to reconnect, reconnect my energy behind
my back and you're laying about it. Alyssa and sant Gabral,
good morning. You heard Ryan's roses? What's your view?
Speaker 9 (25:53):
Uh So, first of all, I love that the people
at Starbucks. I heard the roses was going on and yeah,
they totally gave that away. And that's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
I mean, great, if we got the note though, you know.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yeah, but I keep listening.
Speaker 9 (26:16):
Yeah, I mean I think overall, like there's definitely a
huge problem there. Like it sounds like this guy guys
wants his family back and like that's always like he's
always gonna want that back, like and have he's always
gonna have that connection with his family and.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Like to me, like he was working on reconnecting or
getting that back before he went to his husband to say,
I need to be with somebody else over for us
flowers to her too.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Oh yeah, it's all bad. It's like bad, worse, worse.
Speaker 7 (26:47):
What was her name?
Speaker 2 (26:48):
It's I thought, he said, he said to Tyler at first,
but Tara very confusing to me, Tyler Tara because I
wasn't sure at first, I thought, he said, Tyler Tyler, Tara,
Tara got Tyler singing water. Yeah, Tara his ex and
Tyler the husband. I know, Alyssa Ryan's roses every Monday,
(27:08):
every Thursday. Thank you for Colin, Thank you for listening
to us. If you want to get to the bottom
of something, peace of mind in your own relationship, Ryan
at KISSFM dot com, send us the email like Tyler
did in Good Luck to Tyler Appreciate you, buddy, for
listening to us, Appreciate you for reaching out, Appreciate you
for going on, and I hope you find happiness and
get to the bottom of it. Jessica, good morning. How
(27:29):
you doing good?
Speaker 10 (27:31):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (27:32):
Guys?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
We are here and we are in it. So what's
going on with your sister?
Speaker 10 (27:38):
Yeah, So, my sister got married a couple weeks ago.
The wedding was great. She actually had a surprise during
the reception for my mom, so she ended up getting
my mom's wedding dress altered into a new outfit that
she wore during the reception. My mom didn't know she
was doing this. It was a really great surprise. Everyone
(28:02):
loved it. She looked gorgeous, and on the day of
the wedding, my mom was super happy, excited. She loved it.
But in the weeks since the wedding, turns out that
my mom actually hated that she did that. But I'm
the only one that knows that. My mom has been
NonStop complaining to me about how upset she is, how
(28:25):
disappointed she is, But to my sister, she's been just
saying how it was so great, she loved it. My
sister has no idea that my mom is so upset,
and I'm kind of in the middle, and I'm kind
of at like a breaking point. I can't take listening
to my mom being so upset but pretending she's so
happy to my sister and my sister not knowing. So
(28:46):
I'm like at the point where I don't know what
I should do. Do I tell my sister that Mom
actually hated it? Do I tell my mom she has
to have this discussion with my sister the dream It
is a very dramatic and if it's tough.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Situation, wedding's always wrong, not.
Speaker 5 (29:03):
Always no, get hypnotized to forget all the information, you know.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
I mean, that's not a bad idea.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
Actually, I don't hate it.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
There's just gonna be this bitterness that's gonna linger. So
a conversation needs to be had.
Speaker 10 (29:23):
Yeah, that's the training is. I don't know if like
I'm the one that's supposed to start off the conversation
with my sister or if I have to connect.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
I mean, you know, I I I'm on the fence
because part of me thinks, all right, let's just get
this settled, right, Let's just instigate a conversation and get
it settled. Then the other part is that kind of
not your thing, you know, like you didn't do it.
Time will go by, people will forgive, things will fade.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Yeah, might cool down a little bit, just so close
to the wedding, snow it's still fresh.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
But yeah, your Rhine's right, So just got to do nothing.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
The best advice given Tanya rad hypnotized, Wow, so may
be what I would do, Jessica, good luck, Thank you.
And also if her mom is telling her Jessica that
she's not down with what her sister did, isn't that
doesn't her mom know that she's going to tell her,
(30:23):
you know, like maybe say that knowing the word is
going to get to her sister in a softer ways.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yes, and no, you know mom's confining you and you
keep that secret, are you just it's a different conversation
that you had with them.
Speaker 7 (30:35):
You know.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
It's interesting about relationships so many things. And I was
talking to a friend about how relationships when you're in one,
I think part I mean, you guys can tell me
part of the deal is it's that C word, right,
I Mean, one of the big things you got to
do is not only compromise, like in a discussion or
an argument to settle it. But compromise and do things
(30:58):
that you would never do, Like do you think I
would have ever jumped out of a plane when I did.
I jumped out of a plane years ago, shot a date, shook,
shocking because I'm scared of I'm scared of things. You're scared.
But she was a professional skydiver. Wow, I of course said,
I'll step up now. They strapped me to a man,
(31:20):
of course, jumped out by herself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's how you do it.
Speaker 4 (31:24):
Have you never done it? I've done a forward somersault
out of it. When I did it, what without no?
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was danhem? Yeah yeah, yeah I had I had
a guide with me.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
Yeah, you gotta have somebody that that strapped you. But
that's like one thing that I would never do on
my own out in the wild. Tanya is well, she's
in this new relationship, and I think one of the
things you're trying to do is over compensate, compromise in
certain situations. So you did you did something right that
(31:55):
you normally wouldn't do.
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (31:57):
I feel like he does so much much for me
that he wouldn't necessarily do on his own, but he
does for example, for example, go to a show, go
to a concert, go to a Taylor Swift show, you know,
come to Friday night right right, Like there's certain things
that like not necessarily he doesn't like, but he wouldn't
necessarily just do them on his own. And so he's
(32:21):
been really wanting to go off roading in his car
for years.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
He does it like screams to do that.
Speaker 5 (32:30):
Yeah, it's built for it, and so he's been wanting
to do it for years. And one of our friends
that was over over the weekend he goes often, and
was like, do you guys want to come over the
Labor Day weekend? So we went and it was just
I feel like I've saw something in him, just like.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
Unlocked, Like he was a little boy, a little.
Speaker 5 (32:52):
Boy in a candy store, Like he was having the
best time ever.
Speaker 3 (32:56):
Like it was so cute to I.
Speaker 5 (32:59):
Was miser bowl, but he because it's just so Yeah,
it was like kind of like being on Indiana Jones.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
Where did you find off road in the densely populated
Los Angeles.
Speaker 5 (33:09):
So there's like a it's like made for it. It's
kind of like a park. It's up Passana Clarita really yeah, yeah, yeah,
it's it's drivable and uh, it's like made for this
type of stuff. Like a lot of people had those,
like ATVs and stuff, and they have all these little
trails that you can do and and different mountains you
can go up and it's like a whole park.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
No nothing, you're in your own car.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
It's in his car, but you're.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
Actively it's like you.
Speaker 5 (33:38):
Know, yeah, and he like kept pulling things like you'd
be like wow, you put it in like Baja mode
where you can see like the front, and he.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Was just so cool. I mean, the Ford Bronco is
it is. It's made to go through like at least
the commercial through creeks in the mountains. The question, though,
is after you compromise like that, Like I know, Robbie
has done things for you, like takes his mouth shut
at night because you wanted to right right right, I
mean he would never journal watch Love is Blind or
(34:04):
blind his love or whatever it is. Yeah, a lot of.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
Things watch yeah, yeah, yeah, he does a lot of that.
Speaker 2 (34:09):
But after you did that, did he do something for you?
Because I feel like there's also a trade when it
comes to a compromise like that.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
Well, the day before.
Speaker 5 (34:16):
It was like everything that we had like a double
date with my friends and we kind of did like
my whole thing the day before, but it was just
it made me want to do more stuff that he
enjoys because seeing how how happy he is.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
Yeah, it was just like so cute.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Like I really have a question. I have a question
about marriage speaking of this, because if I ever do,
do do compromises like that dissipate as the years go by,
or do you still do think I need commise but
things like that.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, I mean going off roading sounds really fun, but
like I couldn't imagine doing that now with three kids
in our schedule.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
And so you wouldn't. You don't have to do that.
Speaker 4 (34:54):
No, but I mean you you compromise in other ways,
Like right now, Michael's passion is this band and like
really kind of focusing all his energy in that, and
he has supported me like my entire career and not
saying he's gonna make a whole career out of it,
but like he really really enjoys it. So we compromise
on days when like he wants to record with the
guys or play and jam out or do whatever, and
(35:15):
I'll have the kids all day that Saturday or that Sunday.
So you're kind of compromise in that sense because it does.
It makes him so happy.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
It is a very easy secret to success in a relationship.
So we have sound of you off roading. Okay, this
is uh, I guess it's Tany and Robbie. What are
you listening to?
Speaker 3 (35:38):
I don't know. We had it all there. Nothing really worked.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Yeah, this feels like it hurts.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
Could you explain that whoa whoa?
Speaker 3 (35:56):
Because you're going you're like bump. You're on these bumpy
broud so it's like.
Speaker 5 (36:01):
Like holding onto all of the different bars they have,
like a top bar and like a bottom bar.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
Oh, you're a local California four dealer if you want
to whoa whoa woa like that in your block car.
I've got one, Robbie Scott one and they're ready for you.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
You should come with.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
I should come out and we should have tandem.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
I know it's you can put the car into this
gear where you can flip it around like in circles.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Okay, I didn't. I don't Robbie's to show me that.
So yeah, once, once I have a situation i'm in
that I can compromise with, I'll definitely go with you.
All right, we need to have a little family meeting
gather in here, Tanya. I think Sysney needs us to
weigh in on an issue at home for her, and
we're always here for you. I mean, that's what we do.
So what's the issue at home now?
Speaker 4 (36:45):
So I am, you know, a working mom, and I
juggle a lot from here to the the kids school
and stuff like that. I'm used to a lot of
emails coming from the school, but now I'm on a
group chat or like a group text like how we
are for the show, but for all the moms in
Ason Maxim's class, so they're in the same class.
Speaker 1 (37:06):
It's first great, is.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
That's something it's set up at the school or just
the moment, just the.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Moms, like the room mom decided to do it on
her own, which is great for information, a lot of it.
But it is like a Twitter like or nets if.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
You want to look at it this way.
Speaker 4 (37:17):
It's going off at all times, and some of the
stuff is your very useful information. But for the most part,
it's like someone puts a picture and then all thirty
two moms like it. It's just you know, a little
bit of that, a little bit of this, and then
the info that I am taking in. I then have
to relate to Michael. So I'm like now the messenger
for him, like I'm his assistant to tell him, like
(37:39):
all the kids need this because that's what's being said
in the mom group chat. So I'm like, why aren't
the dads in this chat?
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Like why is it just.
Speaker 5 (37:45):
The here for itssney, Because I'm so tired of this
old school like the moms do everything, you know, like
moms and dads now are doing it.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Like maybe it's I'll regret it by saying add all
the dads in and then you have sixty people on
the chat. But I kind of lost it when I
then got added to a text chain the other day
and I said, Hi, preschool moms, and I was like,
oh no, now I have Saveya's preschool.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
Moms, and oh my gosh, it's a lot. Well, so
these are the things you don't think about when you
have three kids. Things you don't calculate just what it's
like a parent opt in. So if it's mom, if
it's dad, she should just be called parent.
Speaker 3 (38:19):
The parents say it louder, Ryan, I'm.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
Not going to say it louder. I'm just going to
say it like I said.
Speaker 4 (38:25):
I like that though it's parent and we we do
all the parents are on an email like we all
get the email blast and all that.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
But I think this is just a little bit more specific, you.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
Know, like little things like hey, does anybody know where
we can get the right socks?
Speaker 1 (38:38):
Like it's just those types of things.
Speaker 4 (38:40):
And I'm telling you a lot of the information is useful,
but I was talking to whatever.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
There's a lot there's a lot of community. There's not
a busy, busy chat too.
Speaker 10 (38:46):
Right know.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
One of the moms that back to school night the
other night, she was just like, oh, I mute it.
She's like, I just I go back there and I
check it when I need to check it.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
And I was like, oh, okay, it's it's the parent
opt in text, right Because it's like when we were
going to school and you the teacher was going to
meet with the parents, it would be the parent teacher conference.
It wasn't the mom teacher conference. Is the parent teacher.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Conference and my parents were not involved like this at all.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
I mean, granted, there was no cell phones back when
I was in elementary school, and so it's just like
this is a new era that we live in and
we have so much more communication, which is great, but
also we all got by with less communication back in
the day.
Speaker 3 (39:19):
But I also think you can get Michael and not
say anything.
Speaker 4 (39:23):
Why do you have to get a prove he's the
one guy in the.
Speaker 3 (39:26):
Whole No, stay silent.
Speaker 5 (39:27):
He doesn't have to chime in. He's just there to
read all the.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
Information, so you don't have to convey it yourself and
be the messenger. I think that solves the problem.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
I think that does solve the problem.
Speaker 2 (39:34):
By the way, if there's other there's other parents on
there that I'm sure that they both the mom and
the dad see the message. I don't think like there's
there's some sort of rule on it. Uh, but uh yeah,
just just call them.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
Maybe you guys, just so you guys can see how
much there's no need for us to know anything about
the socks.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
I don't need that, we don't need it. That's your responsibility,
your job. And uh, but I love that you're on
that because I do think it's important to have communication
with your you know, fellow parenting.
Speaker 4 (40:02):
Oh yeah, I mean it's an amazing community. Yeah, it's
an amazing community. But yeah, I'm like I need to now,
I'm just relaying all these messages to Michael.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Yeah, that is going to do it for us today.
Coming up tomorrow, we've got a second date up date.
Have a great Monday, guys, take good care. Thanks for
listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe,
and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
This is a story that speaks to me. I don't
have kids, but maybe I'll reconsider after this story.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
Well, you don't have to have them to eat at
this time?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
How well this is actually related to kids a little bit.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, with all due respect, Tanya, let's just need to
tell the story and then we can judge. Okay, So
you're saying that more and more families, more families with
kids with kids, are having dinner really early, and it's
a good thing.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It is a really good thing, because the struggle as
a parent when you sit down for dinner is having
them finish their dinner, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
And by the way, I spent summer with my niece
the summer, Yeah, the things I had to I had
to dress up as a magician to get her to
sit and eat a bowl of posta.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
And there's a lot of compromise, you know, it's like
two more bites and you can have a little bit
of a cookie after. Everything is like a compromise with them.
But they were figuring out that it's maybe because they
weren't actually truly that hungry.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
By the time you sat down for dinner.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Let's say, like I considered us early five thirty six
o'clock dinner. I thought that was on the early side.
But now with this new trend, it's not the case.
Parents are trying to ring that dinner bell way earlier,
and it's basically right when they get home from school.
So the kids get home from school and they're starving.
My kids as soon as they walk in the door,
they always want a snack. They always want something. I'm
always like, okay, well, and if it's too close, if
(01:26):
we're past four pm, then I'm like, now you can't
have a big snack. Wait, you gotta wait. And it's
just like a battle every single day. So instead of
doing that snack, parents are saying, do dinner at three
forty five, do dinner at four pm, four thirty. Have
that be the big, healthy, nutritious meal when you're giving
them vegetables and things like that, and then afterwards, if
they're kind of still hungry around six six thirty, you
(01:47):
can they can have a snack.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Then. I love it. It is true because I remember
I came, as I've told you before, I would come
home from school absolutely famished, like starving. Yeah, I would
take the Coca Cola three Leader bottle. Oh my gosh,
remember the big one, the three Leader bottle, drink it
out of the bottle.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Oh, how do you even care?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Yeah, that's big. I was a strong wreck. Then then
I would make that cookie sheet of nachos to watch Oprah.
But that like Coca Cola and nachos to watch Oprah,
which was on at three, three thirty four whatever. Then
I would have dinner, which was why I think I
was husky when I was growing.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Because we didn't in the eighties and nineties.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
But I was so hungry.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
I was a child, and I'm famished at three PM,
Like that's when my alarm goes off. I'm trying to
eat my big meal around five. If I could rode
up to four, I would.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
You know.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I I advocate the early meal. And you know I
always invite friends to have dinner and they don't come.
But and I stand outside of restaurants and wait for
Remember the Pacha Pi dress that standing outside the restaurant.
I was waiting. The valet was there, but I was waiting.
No one would let me in till five. If I
had a three forty five, I think it would be
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too early for me as a as an active adult,
I would have to eat again again. So if I
can make it till five, which I try to do
when I can, that works and I like that. And
you have such so you have so much more of
an evening with your kids.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
That's true because as soon as we do dinnertime and
it's you know, six o'clock, let's say six thirty, then it's.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Like you take the bath, Yeah, read the book.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
It's oh, it's bedtime right after after we eat, and
they're like, what, there's no, we can't watch anything on
TV now.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
No, But it's kind of tough if you're trying to
do this at four pm, three three forty five, because
if you have a spouse that's working, if you have
a job, Michael Wild be so sad like to miss
dinner every single night with his family.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah, you know, so it's kind of like it's an
interesting thing to keep them from snacking. Ryan Seacrest with you,
Lances on the line. Let me grab Lance real fast
here into the studio. You call any time that we're on. Hi,
uh Lance, good morning, how you doing?
Speaker 7 (03:55):
Good morning? I'm doing very well.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Are you it's good to hear. I'm doing great. Thank you.
So you're calling about your wife wanted to quit her job.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
Uh, yeah, that's right. My my wife has been talking
about quitting her job to pursue this MLM, you know,
opportunity full time. It's like a multi level marketing job.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
So she started working with.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
This company last year as just as a side gig
to make some extra money. But now she I feel
is taking it too far. Like well, I want to
I want to be supportive, you know, I want to
support her in following her passions, but I honestly just
concerned about the risks.
Speaker 8 (04:34):
Involved, like this company. This company just seems shady.
Speaker 7 (04:39):
I don't know if there's any stability there, you know,
for her, if if this wound up working out. I'm
just not sure how to approach the conversation with her.
I want to be supportive yet honest about you know
where I'm coming from. I don't I don't want to
discourage her, but I also want to make sure that
we're making a well and decision together. I don't know,
(05:03):
just I'm just wondering, what do you think is the
best way to go about this?
Speaker 8 (05:08):
Just having this conversation.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Well, I mean, Lance, you have to do this with
a lot of finesse and care uh and thoughtfulness, because
this is something that she obviously wants to do, and
so it is a it's a dialogue. It's not a pushback, right.
I mean, I think it's totally fair to have a
dialogue and a conversation about, you know, what's interesting about
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it or what's not interesting about it, or what the pros,
what the cons are. But you gotta remember this is
something like in her mind, this is something she wants
to do, and if you start pushing back immediately won't
be received at all.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Right, She'll start you You just you can't do that.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
This is one of those things where you got almost
like take a deep breath, take your time. Maybe not
say everything you're thinking, but at least maybe in the
first conversation, do a lot of listening and maybe even
another conversation you can do some follow up, but at
least do the listening, right hear her?
Speaker 8 (06:00):
Her plan is that's gonna be so tough.
Speaker 7 (06:03):
Just because I've looked into this company, I can't find
that they even sell a product. It seems like the
goal is just to get other people to sign up.
Speaker 8 (06:13):
And she is so excited about it.
Speaker 7 (06:15):
When she talks about it, she lights up, So of
course I don't want to take that from her, but
I'm so concerned that this is just a scam.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Are you describing like a pyramid scheme?
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Yeah, well that's what it sounds like, but it's not.
That's not how it's coming across.
Speaker 8 (06:30):
So I'm just confused.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Wow. I think it's a very logical conversation to say, hey,
you know, let's really make sure we look into this
company and make sure that they're doing everything that they
say they're doing without it creating an opportunity for her
to be defensive about her choice, because I could see
how that could go too. So just it's want of
was handled with.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Cares, especially she's already drinking the kool aid.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, so good luck on that. You know, anytime you
have something you want to go do, you bring it
to your partner and if they, like I want, I
say poo poo it. But if they poo it, then
you begin to get defensive.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Yeah, especially if they quickly and they don't even like.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Hear you out. It's a totally non productive what happened?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I want to get a new dining table and Michael's like,
we don't need a new dining table.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
This one's fine. I was like, well, you don't even
listen to it.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Like what.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
I'm like, we can do this, and we can do
like a payment planner.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
And he's like, no, it's a waste of money. And
I was like, wow, that was our conversation.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
So it ended with you barking.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
Basically, it ended me being like, I'll get that dining table.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
We'll have to figure out another way.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
So basically you argue and then just go around him.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
No, I'm not going to go around him. I have
to convince him.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
And Michael's a convincerr like I have to like show
him the reasons.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Why advertize the table, like have a leg fall the
screws underneath their like we need.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
A bigger table. The table that we have is too
small and it's time to move on.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Anyway, you guys have created a big family.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Yeah, I know you need to have everybody sit at
the table. I know, well you know the person they
should be most frustrated and short tempered this morning is
Sysney works you up all night?
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Oh my gosh, I have been up since three and
that is like the worst time to wake up when
you usually don't wake up at like we wake up
like at you know, five is like my go to
like four forty five, five I'm out of bed. So
three is like one of those times where I'm not
going back to bed.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
So this is like ruined my night. No, yes, and
it happened.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
So we're I'm laying there and my my little Diego. Why,
I just like, can you know when you're in between dreams?
So I didn't know if it was reality or dream
or whatever. But it was a dog that was barking
and wouldn't stop barking, and it was distant so that
dog I could hear. And then all of a sudden,
I hear my Diego, who was like almost full grown Dalmatian,
start to bark as well. And so now I'm up,
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and then so we're trying to figure out what's going on.
Michael's already up and he was investigating the situation. It
was a dog that was either across the street or
down the street, but like sometimes you can't tell with
like the way the echoes are, like, it felt like
this dog was across the street, but who knows, it
could have been down the street.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
So he goes outside, and he gets up at three
in the morning, goes outside.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
He goes outside like he's gonna hop a fence and
try to say to this dog, this is Mike the
dog a treat. I argue with Michael, but the stuff
all the time, like don't involve yourself, stay in the
bag in the house. And sure enough, he goes outside.
He sees three coyotes and so.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
Then he comes it's dangerous for the dogs, so yes, and.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
So he comes back inside. But I'm like, well, is
this dog indoors? But it sounded like that dog was
outside barking like bop and it was just consistent. And
this went on for twenty minutes, and all of a
sudden there was no more bark. I thought it was
my neighbor's dog. But then I saw Angela's dog this morning,
and I know that dog's fine.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I'm on coyote patrol all the time. It's dark with
Georgia because I have a friend. I want to say,
who who lost her dogs to coyotes? Yeah, you know
who it is.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
It's a very common thing here in Los Angeles.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Lost two dogs to coyotes. Was she was traveling and
someone was watching over her dog. It's just a horrible,
horrible I'm still not healed. No, I remember when happened
to her.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
I remember too. I didn't realize she was out of town.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Yeah, she wasn't a way someone's watching her dogs.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah, And it was.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
One of those things where and I don't really remember
this story, but like I think the person that was
watching just like you let the dog out all the time,
like it's no big deal, Like go in the backyard they.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Do, it's dark. I do not. When it gets dark.
You got to be with your dog and make sure
you're watching this so they can be dangerous.
Speaker 4 (10:29):
And they don't care about humans, Like they just looked
at Michael and were not scared by him at all.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
First of all, Michael, I'm never getting up and going
outside at three in the morning to deal with anything.
I agree with you, you know, raccoons, coyotes.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
And this man is like barefoot, goes out there with
no weapon.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Nothing, nothing, no bats, nothing, just walks out there like Michael,
and to aim ever is going to be with me. Sorry, Sorry,
I'm not going out to battle anything at three in
the morning. Sorry. We're gonna lock the doors and We're
gonna deal with it inside.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
But I'm also concerned that nobody else in our neighborhood
heard this dog.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Yapping, so nobody else wanted to go outside during in
the morning and handle it. That's what it is. Michael
on a mission out there.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
So the whisking is like, we get back inside and
it's three six and we can. He's like, you want
a coffee, and I'm like, yep, might as well, and so.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
We probum with that is you have your coffee so early,
then you're done with it by five. You have to
have so many coffee.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
I'm definitely feeling away today, but I'm getting through it.
And on a Monday, I know, and actually we drink
a lot yesterday.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
The charger games like it's not feeling great.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
She bounce back fast.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
You got a high tolerant, you know, not these days
so much.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Really it catches up.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
It catches up to you.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
So your quoted the day in just a second. But
this is interesting. If you're not having a great day
and you just feel like you may not get through
it already, scientists say you should do this instantly. It
will improve your mood. And that is take a photo
of ordinary moments like making your coffee or feeding your pet. Oh,
it's to say. It's called mindful photography. It helps you
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appreciate the moment that we are in, leading to improve health, happiness,
and clarity. So I guess it's the simple things in
life that bring you pleasure. You need to be reminded
of those with imagery to give you that feeling. Again,
I will tell you it works. It works. Remember the
steak I had Thursday night last week? Yeah, I looked
at that photo all weekend. I did. I looked at
(12:31):
all week It actually made me feel better.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
I know what you mean.
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Though.
Speaker 4 (12:33):
Sometimes I take pictures of ASA's hair like and I
do like a new hairstyle on her, and then when
I go back to look at it, it makes me happy.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
Here's today's quote. Even if you don't have all the
things you want, be grateful for the things you don't have.
On air with Ryan se do you pick your nose? Yes?
I know everyone does, and we all do. Where do
you put it?
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Out of the counter.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
You, Oh, Brian.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
John, I'm not saying we, I'm saying under the counter.
A lot of people do.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Now, I know what you do. I don't want to
go over in your area over there.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Once I put on your passenger seat when you took
me to launch.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Now that one is actually more believable.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Transparency, Tanya, please, it is so. Now this is serious.
Picking your nose can lead to something really bad, Sisney,
what do we know?
Speaker 4 (13:26):
Yes, and they're saying that picking your nose may increase
your chances of getting Alzheimer's. Now, they've been trying to
figure out Alzheimer's for years, right, and they think that
there is a protein called beta amyloid and it's the.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Key cause of the disease.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
So this new report says that beta amyloid may be
produced by the brain as a like a defense against
pathogens introduced into the nose like a dirty finger, And
so it's all being traveled through your nasal canal whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
And they're saying it's linked all the time.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Whatever's on your finger has this goog kun it and
the whatever you call it is bad, bad, bad over time,
and it could lead or increase your chances of getting Alzheimer's.
That is what worth shattering to think about. I mean,
I already I've trained myself not to put my fingers
in my eyes, like I've really gotten good that not
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touch my face. I've gotten better at that, but I
do roll up in there sometimes to check it out.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
Yeah, and especially if it's more so. Sometimes you have
like an itch and you just go digging for gold.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
You gotta get it out.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Yeah, So get your kids to start not doing it early.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
I mean when we have the nose freeda when they
were like babies because they couldn't figure out how to
blow their noses or whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Now they just yeah, I don't know what they do.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
But when I was a kid, I used to go
in there hard.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Or you don't now is in a is an engage?
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Honest?
Speaker 3 (15:01):
Not really. I don't pick my nose all that often.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
Or you're gonna live longer. Yeah, I mean, your odds
are in your favor. So it's something to think about though.
So Sydney, you saw a couple on a tandem bike.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
I saw a couple and they're probably like in their
mid fifties, and they just seemed so happy on their
tandem bike.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Everybody looks happy on a tandem bike.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
What is it about a tandem bike?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
It is the cutest, coolest thing. So it was so
just to be clear at Tanna bike two seats, two peddlers, yes, two.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Handle bars, eat two wheels, two wheels, is it?
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Four handlebars?
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Two handlebars, two sets of handlebars two sets, yeah, and
then two wheels.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I saw seats someone on one of those not too
long ago too, and I couldn't help but smile.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That's exactly what happened to me.
Speaker 4 (15:48):
And I like had this whole flash forward of like, Michael,
I actually get a tandem bike one day, and like
when we're retired, we'll wake up every morning at five
am and do our little.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Bike around the neighborhood. So it be on the way
into work this morning, and I was.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Like that they look so happy and so cute. It's
like this is like definitely their routine. They were like
in bike gear, Like.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
The whole thing that is cute.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
I mean it's a version of pedal assist because you've
got a helper. I know, but I think that is
so cute and so cool, and I don't see enough
of that. I mean, even a sidecar on a vestment
was cool, you know exactly, But I did. I did
see this and I thought I want to be those
people on the tandem bike.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
I know, I definitely did so to the couple that
was on the tandem bike right off of the what.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Is the Bob Hope Exit?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Yeah, I saw you this morning and you inspired me
to get a tandom bike, not now, but soon.
Speaker 2 (16:38):
How much do those go for a tandem bike? He'd
be that expensive. It's like a two for one, right,
I don't know. I've never looked up tandem bikes.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Neither have I.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
So you saw them biking at five thirty this morning?
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Yeah, real early. I'm telling you these guys were serious.
But you can tell like this was like their morning routine,
like they were just like they were like in sync.
And you, friend, you were from three to eight hundred bucks.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
I'm getting the prices four hundred.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
To nine hundred bucks Amazon Wayfair Coles.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
What's a good looking one to shwin?
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Is the swin a good one?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Oh damn, there's a Pacific cycler. I'm into that.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
H All right, Well, listen, a tandem biking couple stays together,
I mean, that's for sure, and the smiles of container
I think so one On two point seven Kiss FM,
it's time for Ryan's Roses. Here we go, everybody in
Dear Sysney, Ryan, Tanya, my husband has been spending a
lot of time with his ex wife, and it's starting
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to make me nervous. He was over there last Saturday
night and I just found out their kids were at
the sleepover. This is from Tyler in Westwood, So let's
get some detail here. Tyler, thank you for reaching out.
We just want to find out a little bit more
about what's happening. So your husband's been spending time with
his ex wife and you're nervous. What are you nervous about? Tyler?
Speaker 8 (17:58):
Oh gosh, I mean I knew that there was baggage
when I got into this relationship. You know, he's divorced
from a woman, so they have two kids together, and
he didn't leave He didn't leave her for me. They
were already divorced three years when we met and we
fell in love. And he's always been there for the kids,
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like every soccer game, performance, birthdays and all that kind
of stuff. And you know, his ex wife remarried and
everything's been great. But lately I've just been feeling, I
don't know, like my spidy sense has been kind of
tingling because they've been spending a lot more time together
over at her house. And I didn't really think too
much of it, but I definitely started noticing as time's
(18:43):
been going on that it's been more and more and more.
And he was over there for dinner last Saturday and
he got home really late, and that bothered me. The
kids are getting older, so they're staying up lates like
I've been, like, you know, in my head, I've been
going back fourth like am I overreacting and I just paranoid.
But then I picked up the youngest from school on
(19:05):
Monday and I asked how the weekend was, and he
said that he and his brother slept at their cousin's
house on Saturday night, so they weren't even.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
There, so they were home alone.
Speaker 8 (19:16):
Yeah, they were there together, all right.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
So do you think he's then gone back romantically with
his ex wife? Is that your concern? I don't know,
I really now we've been married to him.
Speaker 8 (19:30):
We've been married two years, but we've been together for
four years.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Okay, So here's that you are in your mind. You're
worried that maybe he's gone back to his ex wife
and lied about the fact that the kids were there.
They weren't there, and there might be romance again. That's
what you're thinking.
Speaker 8 (19:51):
I mean it just feels weird to me, like, why
is he spending so much time over there? Why are
they spending so much time together alone?
Speaker 6 (19:57):
Like and why?
Speaker 8 (19:59):
Yeah, he's not being completely honest about it, so it's
just freaking me out.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
And a dozen seem to be about the kids.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Tyler, we're gonna call him right now. I need you
to say, Ryan, you my permission to call and his name?
Speaker 8 (20:10):
Go ahead, Yeah, I'm giving you permission to call.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
What's his name? Oh? His name is Okay, we're gonna
do that right now. Be very quiet. Let's see we
can find out. Good luck, Tyler.
Speaker 8 (20:23):
Thank you?
Speaker 9 (20:36):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (20:36):
Can I speak to Gus please?
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Yes?
Speaker 8 (20:38):
Who is this?
Speaker 10 (20:39):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (20:39):
My name is Noreen. I'm calling from Westwood Blooms. How
are you doing this morning?
Speaker 2 (20:44):
I'm fine you, I'm great.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Thank you for asking.
Speaker 4 (20:46):
We're offering a promotion right now for local residents and
it's a free dozen red roses that you can send
to anybody that you'd like.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
They are free.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
I don't need cash or credit card info or anything
like that from you. We're just trying to promote our
business we deliver locally and throughout parts of LA.
Speaker 8 (20:59):
Is that for me?
Speaker 1 (21:01):
Are you gush?
Speaker 6 (21:06):
You hear off some tree roses you can send wherever?
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
We just need the name of the person you want
to send them to in a note.
Speaker 6 (21:13):
And I pay you nothing?
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Nothing?
Speaker 6 (21:18):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Uh?
Speaker 8 (21:20):
Can you?
Speaker 6 (21:21):
Can you send them to Tara?
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Yes? And what would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 8 (21:26):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (21:26):
I'm mine?
Speaker 6 (21:28):
What is on the radio? H excuse me?
Speaker 8 (21:34):
This this?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
What's that minute?
Speaker 6 (21:36):
This woman at Starbucks is saying that I'm on the
radio right now. What's going on?
Speaker 1 (21:41):
What would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 6 (21:43):
Wait? No? Wait, wait, hold on, hold on? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (21:46):
Why?
Speaker 6 (21:46):
Why is everyone here? My voice is coming from What
is happening?
Speaker 2 (21:51):
Gus? Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. The
woman from Starbucks is correct. We have your husband, Tyler
on the line. He's asked to give you a call.
You are being broadcast?
Speaker 8 (22:02):
Yes, why are you sending roses to your ex wife?
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (22:08):
My god? What are you doing?
Speaker 8 (22:11):
What are you? The kids or the kids there on
Saturday night or not?
Speaker 6 (22:14):
What are you talking about? What are you?
Speaker 8 (22:16):
Oh my god, Saturday night you were at your ex
wife's house. Were the kids there?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
No?
Speaker 6 (22:22):
They were not. Can we talk about this?
Speaker 8 (22:24):
Was her husband there?
Speaker 2 (22:26):
No? So, gus are you are are Tyler's trying to
find out what's going on with you and your ex wife.
That's why we're here.
Speaker 6 (22:33):
Okay, Tar and I we've been we've been reconnecting, we've
been talking.
Speaker 8 (22:43):
What does that mean.
Speaker 6 (22:44):
I just I don't.
Speaker 7 (22:45):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (22:45):
I don't know what it means. I just know if
we had so we had so many fights over the years,
and I just it's nice to talk to her without fighting.
Speaker 8 (22:56):
That's that's it. Okay, Well, what about her husband? He's
not there anymore.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (23:08):
I'm very confused. I don't I need to just figure
everything out. But can we can we not do this
like this?
Speaker 8 (23:15):
What do you confuse? You know, take all the time
you need to become not confused, because I'm not going
to be there.
Speaker 6 (23:20):
So hey, hey, wait wait wait, you are overreacting. This
is not a big deal. We have just been talking.
Speaker 7 (23:25):
That's it.
Speaker 6 (23:26):
You sleeping with your ex wife is a very very
big I never said. I never said I was sleeping
with my ex wife. First of all, are you are you?
Speaker 8 (23:33):
Are you sleeping with her?
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Listen?
Speaker 6 (23:35):
Can we can we do this off of the radio?
Can we please with her? And I'm not doing this.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Well, you can't answer it. Hello, he hung up.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Gus hung up, Tyler. Do you think he's sleeping with
his ex wife?
Speaker 6 (23:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (23:55):
I do.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
He didn't, he didn't deny it. I did hear that.
So yeah, he said he's reconnecting. I'm not quite sure
what that means.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Myself, and her husband's not around.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Her right, so he's lying. All right, Tyler, we're gonna
let you go so you can track Gus down and
get into it with him. Good luck with everything. We
got this email from Tyler. Tyler's in Westwood. Tyler's married
to Gus two years, been together four. So he reaches
out and he says, I've been feeling a little nervous
about my husband. He's been spending time with his ex wife.
(24:32):
And he found out that because he and his ex wife,
his husband and his ex wife have kids, and if
he's hanging out, the kids generally would be there so
they can spend time with the kids. But he found
out that he lied about the kids being there on
a Saturday night and it was just Gus and his
(24:53):
ex wife. So Tyler's concerned. I don't like it doesn't
feel right. Well, it got worse. It got worse. We
got him on the phone and Gus said, I've been
reconnecting with my ex wife. The kids were not there,
and then Tyler said, are you sleeping? Remember he's married
to Gus. Tyler married to Gus, Gus married to Tyler.
(25:15):
Tyler says, are you sleeping with your ex wife? Sisney.
He didn't deny it.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
He did not, and he was like, let's not do this,
not on the air yet, Let's not do this here.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Let's not do this here.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
What the fact that he called it a this? It
means that there's a thing.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
There's things.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Someone says someone's married and they say, I'm reconnecting with
my ex games. What else do you need to hear? Daggers,
I'm reconnecting, but I'm not sleeping. Well, it doesn't matter.
You reconnect, you trying to reconnect, reconnect my energy behind
my back and you're laying about it. Alyssa and sant Gabral,
good morning. You heard Ryan's roses? What's your view?
Speaker 9 (25:53):
Uh So, first of all, I love that the people
at Starbucks. I heard the roses was going on and yeah,
they totally gave that away. And that's hilarious.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
I mean, great, if we got the note though, you know.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yeah, but I keep listening.
Speaker 9 (26:16):
Yeah, I mean I think overall, like there's definitely a
huge problem there. Like it sounds like this guy guys
wants his family back and like that's always like he's
always gonna want that back, like and have he's always
gonna have that connection with his family and.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Like to me, like he was working on reconnecting or
getting that back before he went to his husband to say,
I need to be with somebody else over for us
flowers to her too.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Oh yeah, it's all bad. It's like bad, worse, worse.
Speaker 7 (26:47):
What was her name?
Speaker 2 (26:48):
It's I thought, he said, he said to Tyler at first,
but Tara very confusing to me, Tyler Tara because I
wasn't sure at first, I thought, he said, Tyler Tyler, Tara,
Tara got Tyler singing water. Yeah, Tara his ex and
Tyler the husband. I know, Alyssa Ryan's roses every Monday,
(27:08):
every Thursday. Thank you for Colin, Thank you for listening
to us. If you want to get to the bottom
of something, peace of mind in your own relationship, Ryan
at KISSFM dot com, send us the email like Tyler
did in Good Luck to Tyler Appreciate you, buddy, for
listening to us, Appreciate you for reaching out, Appreciate you
for going on, and I hope you find happiness and
get to the bottom of it. Jessica, good morning. How
(27:29):
you doing good?
Speaker 10 (27:31):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (27:32):
Guys?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
We are here and we are in it. So what's
going on with your sister?
Speaker 10 (27:38):
Yeah, So, my sister got married a couple weeks ago.
The wedding was great. She actually had a surprise during
the reception for my mom, so she ended up getting
my mom's wedding dress altered into a new outfit that
she wore during the reception. My mom didn't know she
was doing this. It was a really great surprise. Everyone
(28:02):
loved it. She looked gorgeous, and on the day of
the wedding, my mom was super happy, excited. She loved it.
But in the weeks since the wedding, turns out that
my mom actually hated that she did that. But I'm
the only one that knows that. My mom has been
NonStop complaining to me about how upset she is, how
(28:25):
disappointed she is, But to my sister, she's been just
saying how it was so great, she loved it. My
sister has no idea that my mom is so upset,
and I'm kind of in the middle, and I'm kind
of at like a breaking point. I can't take listening
to my mom being so upset but pretending she's so
happy to my sister and my sister not knowing. So
(28:46):
I'm like at the point where I don't know what
I should do. Do I tell my sister that Mom
actually hated it? Do I tell my mom she has
to have this discussion with my sister the dream It
is a very dramatic and if it's tough.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Situation, wedding's always wrong, not.
Speaker 5 (29:03):
Always no, get hypnotized to forget all the information, you know.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
I mean, that's not a bad idea.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
Actually, I don't hate it.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
There's just gonna be this bitterness that's gonna linger. So
a conversation needs to be had.
Speaker 10 (29:23):
Yeah, that's the training is. I don't know if like
I'm the one that's supposed to start off the conversation
with my sister or if I have to connect.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
I mean, you know, I I I'm on the fence
because part of me thinks, all right, let's just get
this settled, right, Let's just instigate a conversation and get
it settled. Then the other part is that kind of
not your thing, you know, like you didn't do it.
Time will go by, people will forgive, things will fade.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Yeah, might cool down a little bit, just so close
to the wedding, snow it's still fresh.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
But yeah, your Rhine's right, So just got to do nothing.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
The best advice given Tanya rad hypnotized, Wow, so may
be what I would do, Jessica, good luck, Thank you.
And also if her mom is telling her Jessica that
she's not down with what her sister did, isn't that
doesn't her mom know that she's going to tell her,
(30:23):
you know, like maybe say that knowing the word is
going to get to her sister in a softer ways.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yes, and no, you know mom's confining you and you
keep that secret, are you just it's a different conversation
that you had with them.
Speaker 7 (30:35):
You know.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
It's interesting about relationships so many things. And I was
talking to a friend about how relationships when you're in one,
I think part I mean, you guys can tell me
part of the deal is it's that C word, right,
I Mean, one of the big things you got to
do is not only compromise, like in a discussion or
an argument to settle it. But compromise and do things
(30:58):
that you would never do, Like do you think I
would have ever jumped out of a plane when I did.
I jumped out of a plane years ago, shot a date, shook,
shocking because I'm scared of I'm scared of things. You're scared.
But she was a professional skydiver. Wow, I of course said,
I'll step up now. They strapped me to a man,
(31:20):
of course, jumped out by herself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's how you do it.
Speaker 4 (31:24):
Have you never done it? I've done a forward somersault
out of it. When I did it, what without no?
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was danhem? Yeah yeah, yeah I had I had
a guide with me.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
Yeah, you gotta have somebody that that strapped you. But
that's like one thing that I would never do on
my own out in the wild. Tanya is well, she's
in this new relationship, and I think one of the
things you're trying to do is over compensate, compromise in
certain situations. So you did you did something right that
(31:55):
you normally wouldn't do.
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (31:57):
I feel like he does so much much for me
that he wouldn't necessarily do on his own, but he
does for example, for example, go to a show, go
to a concert, go to a Taylor Swift show, you know,
come to Friday night right right, Like there's certain things
that like not necessarily he doesn't like, but he wouldn't
necessarily just do them on his own. And so he's
(32:21):
been really wanting to go off roading in his car
for years.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
He does it like screams to do that.
Speaker 5 (32:30):
Yeah, it's built for it, and so he's been wanting
to do it for years. And one of our friends
that was over over the weekend he goes often, and
was like, do you guys want to come over the
Labor Day weekend? So we went and it was just
I feel like I've saw something in him, just like.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
Unlocked, Like he was a little boy, a little.
Speaker 5 (32:52):
Boy in a candy store, Like he was having the
best time ever.
Speaker 3 (32:56):
Like it was so cute to I.
Speaker 5 (32:59):
Was miser bowl, but he because it's just so Yeah,
it was like kind of like being on Indiana Jones.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
Where did you find off road in the densely populated
Los Angeles.
Speaker 5 (33:09):
So there's like a it's like made for it. It's
kind of like a park. It's up Passana Clarita really yeah, yeah, yeah,
it's it's drivable and uh, it's like made for this
type of stuff. Like a lot of people had those,
like ATVs and stuff, and they have all these little
trails that you can do and and different mountains you
can go up and it's like a whole park.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
No nothing, you're in your own car.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
It's in his car, but you're.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
Actively it's like you.
Speaker 5 (33:38):
Know, yeah, and he like kept pulling things like you'd
be like wow, you put it in like Baja mode
where you can see like the front, and he.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Was just so cool. I mean, the Ford Bronco is
it is. It's made to go through like at least
the commercial through creeks in the mountains. The question, though,
is after you compromise like that, Like I know, Robbie
has done things for you, like takes his mouth shut
at night because you wanted to right right right, I
mean he would never journal watch Love is Blind or
(34:04):
blind his love or whatever it is. Yeah, a lot of.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
Things watch yeah, yeah, yeah, he does a lot of that.
Speaker 2 (34:09):
But after you did that, did he do something for you?
Because I feel like there's also a trade when it
comes to a compromise like that.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
Well, the day before.
Speaker 5 (34:16):
It was like everything that we had like a double
date with my friends and we kind of did like
my whole thing the day before, but it was just
it made me want to do more stuff that he
enjoys because seeing how how happy he is.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
Yeah, it was just like so cute.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Like I really have a question. I have a question
about marriage speaking of this, because if I ever do,
do do compromises like that dissipate as the years go by,
or do you still do think I need commise but
things like that.
Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, I mean going off roading sounds really fun, but
like I couldn't imagine doing that now with three kids
in our schedule.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
And so you wouldn't. You don't have to do that.
Speaker 4 (34:54):
No, but I mean you you compromise in other ways,
Like right now, Michael's passion is this band and like
really kind of focusing all his energy in that, and
he has supported me like my entire career and not
saying he's gonna make a whole career out of it,
but like he really really enjoys it. So we compromise
on days when like he wants to record with the
guys or play and jam out or do whatever, and
(35:15):
I'll have the kids all day that Saturday or that Sunday.
So you're kind of compromise in that sense because it does.
It makes him so happy.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
It is a very easy secret to success in a relationship.
So we have sound of you off roading. Okay, this
is uh, I guess it's Tany and Robbie. What are
you listening to?
Speaker 3 (35:38):
I don't know. We had it all there. Nothing really worked.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Yeah, this feels like it hurts.
Speaker 2 (35:54):
Could you explain that whoa whoa?
Speaker 3 (35:56):
Because you're going you're like bump. You're on these bumpy
broud so it's like.
Speaker 5 (36:01):
Like holding onto all of the different bars they have,
like a top bar and like a bottom bar.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
Oh, you're a local California four dealer if you want
to whoa whoa woa like that in your block car.
I've got one, Robbie Scott one and they're ready for you.
Speaker 1 (36:16):
You should come with.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
I should come out and we should have tandem.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
I know it's you can put the car into this
gear where you can flip it around like in circles.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
Okay, I didn't. I don't Robbie's to show me that.
So yeah, once, once I have a situation i'm in
that I can compromise with, I'll definitely go with you.
All right, we need to have a little family meeting
gather in here, Tanya. I think Sysney needs us to
weigh in on an issue at home for her, and
we're always here for you. I mean, that's what we do.
So what's the issue at home now?
Speaker 4 (36:45):
So I am, you know, a working mom, and I
juggle a lot from here to the the kids school
and stuff like that. I'm used to a lot of
emails coming from the school, but now I'm on a
group chat or like a group text like how we
are for the show, but for all the moms in
Ason Maxim's class, so they're in the same class.
Speaker 1 (37:06):
It's first great, is.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
That's something it's set up at the school or just
the moment, just the.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
Moms, like the room mom decided to do it on
her own, which is great for information, a lot of it.
But it is like a Twitter like or nets if.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
You want to look at it this way.
Speaker 4 (37:17):
It's going off at all times, and some of the
stuff is your very useful information. But for the most part,
it's like someone puts a picture and then all thirty
two moms like it. It's just you know, a little
bit of that, a little bit of this, and then
the info that I am taking in. I then have
to relate to Michael. So I'm like now the messenger
for him, like I'm his assistant to tell him, like
(37:39):
all the kids need this because that's what's being said
in the mom group chat. So I'm like, why aren't
the dads in this chat?
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Like why is it just.
Speaker 5 (37:45):
The here for itssney, Because I'm so tired of this
old school like the moms do everything, you know, like
moms and dads now are doing it.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Like maybe it's I'll regret it by saying add all
the dads in and then you have sixty people on
the chat. But I kind of lost it when I
then got added to a text chain the other day
and I said, Hi, preschool moms, and I was like,
oh no, now I have Saveya's preschool.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
Moms, and oh my gosh, it's a lot. Well, so
these are the things you don't think about when you
have three kids. Things you don't calculate just what it's
like a parent opt in. So if it's mom, if
it's dad, she should just be called parent.
Speaker 3 (38:19):
The parents say it louder, Ryan, I'm.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
Not going to say it louder. I'm just going to
say it like I said.
Speaker 4 (38:25):
I like that though it's parent and we we do
all the parents are on an email like we all
get the email blast and all that.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
But I think this is just a little bit more specific, you.
Speaker 4 (38:35):
Know, like little things like hey, does anybody know where
we can get the right socks?
Speaker 1 (38:38):
Like it's just those types of things.
Speaker 4 (38:40):
And I'm telling you a lot of the information is useful,
but I was talking to whatever.
Speaker 2 (38:43):
There's a lot there's a lot of community. There's not
a busy, busy chat too.
Speaker 10 (38:46):
Right know.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
One of the moms that back to school night the
other night, she was just like, oh, I mute it.
She's like, I just I go back there and I
check it when I need to check it.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
And I was like, oh, okay, it's it's the parent
opt in text, right Because it's like when we were
going to school and you the teacher was going to
meet with the parents, it would be the parent teacher conference.
It wasn't the mom teacher conference. Is the parent teacher.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Conference and my parents were not involved like this at all.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
I mean, granted, there was no cell phones back when
I was in elementary school, and so it's just like
this is a new era that we live in and
we have so much more communication, which is great, but
also we all got by with less communication back in
the day.
Speaker 3 (39:19):
But I also think you can get Michael and not
say anything.
Speaker 4 (39:23):
Why do you have to get a prove he's the
one guy in the.
Speaker 3 (39:26):
Whole No, stay silent.
Speaker 5 (39:27):
He doesn't have to chime in. He's just there to
read all the.
Speaker 2 (39:29):
Information, so you don't have to convey it yourself and
be the messenger. I think that solves the problem.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
I think that does solve the problem.
Speaker 2 (39:34):
By the way, if there's other there's other parents on
there that I'm sure that they both the mom and
the dad see the message. I don't think like there's
there's some sort of rule on it. Uh, but uh yeah,
just just call them.
Speaker 4 (39:45):
Maybe you guys, just so you guys can see how
much there's no need for us to know anything about
the socks.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
I don't need that, we don't need it. That's your responsibility,
your job. And uh, but I love that you're on
that because I do think it's important to have communication
with your you know, fellow parenting.
Speaker 4 (40:02):
Oh yeah, I mean it's an amazing community. Yeah, it's
an amazing community. But yeah, I'm like I need to now,
I'm just relaying all these messages to Michael.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Yeah, that is going to do it for us today.
Coming up tomorrow, we've got a second date up date.
Have a great Monday, guys, take good care. Thanks for
listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe,
and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
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