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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.

Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
All right, let's get to it, Tony, mister Levi's just
speaking out about how many times you should.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Wash your jeans.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Yes, this came up the other day.

Speaker 4 (00:16):
And when it comes to denhim, I feel like there's
so many tips inside out by themselves, delicate, gentle cycle air,
dry them whatever it may be.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
That this one was kind of crazy. You never wash
them at all?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
Nor Okay, I can't do that because I have stained.

Speaker 4 (00:33):
I'm really excited about his cuffed jeans jeans. I can't
see him over the table. Yeah, let's see that stretch.
Wow at that ankle, your legs, you your ankle leg hair?

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Oh yeah, I just did a fresh.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
You do the whole body with the razor.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
I did the whole lego.

Speaker 1 (00:53):
How much time to spend this shower?

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Actually shoes?

Speaker 1 (00:57):
Let me see your shoes.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
It's not the shower, it's on a towel in the back.
I'm gonna have to close the blinds because it looks ridiculous.
In case anybody's watching.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
A towel in the bathroom. It's a whole yoga session
with the razor.

Speaker 2 (01:07):
Back to the stonewash jeans.

Speaker 4 (01:08):
Well, speaking of the bathroom, this is where this story
is headed. So the CEO of Levi Strauss, so Charles Berg,
is basically saying that you should. He wanted to clarify
so when he said never wash them at all, it's
not really what he meant.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
He meant spot clean.

Speaker 4 (01:23):
So if you were to spill a little curry or
something like that, just spot clean where you.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Maybe have a stake, or if they get super gross,
you shower with them on.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
Okay, yeah down for that? Are you down for them?

Speaker 1 (01:38):
Sounds worse to me because they get thick. Yeah, yeah,
Like how would you even peel them off afterwards?

Speaker 4 (01:44):
But he says that this makes it so that they
keep their shape and they won't shrink.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
And you go into the let's picture that for a second.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
That's the takeaway.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
The CEO of Levis says, shower with your jeans on
to clean them. And just so I'm clear, why don't
we wash them?

Speaker 5 (01:59):
I think I don't understand why why did they die?
Like I mind, I'm really stiff when I wash them.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
I kind of like it though, like they feel.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
Stiff when they are like cardboard waist.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
I can't what do you mean by stiff, like stiff.

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Like cardboard, like hard of detergent?

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Are you guys?

Speaker 2 (02:19):
No?

Speaker 3 (02:20):
No, but some denim is stiff actually, and it gets stiffer.
But when my belly sits around on top of stiff jeans,
I get in a sad state.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
And you don't want that.

Speaker 4 (02:28):
I just switched to that that detergent that's like really
good for the environment.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
That's a like a sheet. You guys tried that yet?

Speaker 2 (02:35):
We should?

Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah, really, I need to get the brand.

Speaker 4 (02:37):
I forget, but it's it comes and it's just like
a piece of paper. Yeah, it's like a piece of
paper and you throw it in there and now you
don't have to buy like the big bottles of plastic.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
And send the link to because then that's the step and.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
It's been a game changer, and it washes our clothes
so well, and it's we love.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
It all right. There you have it.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
That's your takeaway, showering your jeans. Let me grab Mike
on the phone. Now I'm not quite sure I understand this,
but Mike is on the line here and says that
his girlfriend agreed to not marry him, but be his
nephew's godmother.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Is that accurate? Is that right?

Speaker 6 (03:14):
That is right?

Speaker 3 (03:15):
But I'm trying to understand the what of the what here?
So you wanted to marry her?

Speaker 6 (03:20):
Yeah, we own our own house together. We live off
Melrose and we and we have a dog together. And
I just feel like being my nephew's godmother is a
lot more serious. It's like a life commitment too, And
you're ready to make that we own the house together,
we might as well just you know, be married.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay, So you're saying, Hey, if you're willing to be
my nephew's god mother, you should be willing to be
with me for life.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 6 (03:49):
We always talked about being together for a life. She's
a couple of years younger than me, and she's in
school and that's her excuse, is that she wants to
wait till she's done with school. And I know it's
probably only another year if everything goes to plan.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
Well why can't you wait?

Speaker 6 (04:07):
I love her so much, man. I don't know if
you've ever felt like that this is your person in
your life?

Speaker 7 (04:13):
Ryan, But.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Yeah, have you felt that?

Speaker 2 (04:17):
Ryan?

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Way to put it on me? Uh So, Mike, listen.
I'm not gonna take airtime of MIC's to talk about mine.

Speaker 8 (04:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
And you know, I say love is patient, right, love
is patients say it's blind, yeah, and they say love
is kind.

Speaker 9 (04:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
They say a lot of things about love. Come up
with that.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Get that whole full source, all right. So my view
on this, Mike, is good news. She wants to be
the godmother. That's a sign she's willing to commit into
your life and your circle and your family. That's for
a long time.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
So give her a beat.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
Like school is stressful and it's the beginning, give her
a beat to get through it. I could see myself
saying that back when I was in school.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Yeah, and I think she just wants to have the
timeline be right.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
So Mike, be patient, give her a beat. This is
a good that she wants to be the godmother.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
And good luck, Mike.

Speaker 6 (05:02):
I appreciate your advice. I listen to your show every day.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Thank you, Gay, Thanks brother.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
Yeah, don't you think it's a good signs like if
she don't want to be with him, she wouldn't accept
the offer exactly.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
I think it'd be worse if she was like, I
don't want to be the Godmother.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy or boast.
It is not arrogant or rude. Nope, it does not
insist on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful.
It does not rejoice it wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
You re recited these and at our It's the Bible.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah, Corinthians thirteen.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
Don't you find it interesting that the first thing it
says is love is patient.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
I find it interesting that somebody googled that and throw
it up on my screen so fast. Yeah, somebody walking
around with that. That's you're gonna have a great day.
Somebody's looking after you. You know, we're talking about taking
us with you wherever you go. You can also listen
on a smart speaker. I was reading it Dallas, Maverick's
owner Shark Tank billionaire Mark Cuban said one of the
best business ideas for young entrepreneurs is to become an

(06:03):
expert on Alexa WHOA, so you can charge people good
money to train them on how to best utilize the
voice assistant. So there you go. But you know, if
you're talking to Alexa, tell them to listen to one
or two points.

Speaker 5 (06:18):
Now, really good you could learn other things and teach
people those things.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
So you could go to school to learn all the
device translations and the advice handbook, Like.

Speaker 5 (06:30):
My parents are always asking me how to work Postmates
and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
You know, yeah, I do know, right, all right, you
just hire somebody.

Speaker 3 (06:39):
So you're saying, go to school to learn all of
the functions of apps and devices and installations and things
like that, right, yeah, Well that's what Mark Cuban just said.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
That was the whole story, right, But he's saying just
with Alexa, and I'm saying this could go much further.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
I could go much further. You're right.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
You could teach Tanya's parents to use Postmates and Insta cart.
It could be so fun. Ah here's Mel, Hey Mel
on line nine this morning. Mel, how are you doing.

Speaker 10 (07:08):
I'm good.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
So you say you matched with your guy friend on
bumble tell me.

Speaker 10 (07:15):
Yeah, So I saw my friend on Bumble and I
swipe right because I thought it was like funny and
we like match.

Speaker 9 (07:21):
So now like I saw him and there's kind of
like this weird.

Speaker 10 (07:24):
Tension between us because like I didn't know if he
matches a joke too or if he's actually into me.
I'm not really like sure how to go about this?

Speaker 2 (07:32):
No, what do you think, Tanya? She's clapping air clapping.

Speaker 5 (07:37):
Because I matched with tubs on dating apps of awkward?
Do you know that I saw you or I saw
you on there?

Speaker 1 (07:43):
And then what you do?

Speaker 3 (07:44):
Right?

Speaker 6 (07:44):
Right?

Speaker 2 (07:45):
Right?

Speaker 5 (07:45):
I swiped yes, because I feel like it's not nice
to swipe no on somebody that you know.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
It's like rude.

Speaker 4 (07:50):
Wait, wouldn't you want to swipe no one a coworker
if you didn't want to date them?

Speaker 6 (07:54):
No?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
I think it's funny, like I saw you on Why.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
Did you guys match? Let's find a microphone? What what
matched you?

Speaker 2 (08:00):
Guys? I don't remember if we match or not, but
I know I did.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
Think it's just like a bumble.

Speaker 9 (08:05):
I thought, yeah, oh yeah, it's on bumble, But like
I just matched him because I knew him and thought
it was funny.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
That's what I did.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
But are you saying that the bumble may be indicating
you should take him beyond the friend zone?

Speaker 2 (08:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (08:18):
I think that's what the whole point is.

Speaker 7 (08:19):
But I think when you see someone you know, you
kind of just.

Speaker 9 (08:22):
Like ha.

Speaker 10 (08:22):
But I'm not sure he's on like that phase with me.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Like you would be with him.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
I think that sends a mixed message.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
Well, I think you're both on bumble looking to bumble. Bumble.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
Bumble it up if you're gonna bumble it, But if
you're not wanting to bumble, then don't bumble.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
But she's on bumble and he's on bumble together bumbling,
so bumble yourselves out.

Speaker 10 (08:44):
I guess. I mean he's cute.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
So you're not understanding what she's asking.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
Okay, Tanya, I understand this much more than you do.

Speaker 5 (08:52):
She's saying she did it as like a ha ha
jokey joky, and she feels like the guy she works
with thinks.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
More exactly, So that why she just said she thinks
the guy's cute.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
So now there's mixed messages.

Speaker 10 (09:07):
No, I mean I didn't. I didn't see him in
that way, but now like I'm thinking about it.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
That's my point. This is a sign that you should
think about it. He's thinking about it and go out.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Well, yeah, don't you have to make the first move
on bumble?

Speaker 10 (09:22):
Yeah, the first move I think.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
Don't overthink this. You guys connected on bumble for a reason,
got some fun.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
Okay, all right, So I do understand it. Kanye.

Speaker 3 (09:35):
I want to go about you and Tobbs that Tobs,
what did you like about Tanya when you swiped.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
Nothing, he didn't swipe. I don't remember, or did you
screenshot it and then.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
I screenshot it in might have like Texas.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
This is before or after we were in Las Vegas
that time. Oh, yeah, you had to get the charger
from his room in the middle.

Speaker 11 (09:54):
Of the night.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
After after after after, Yeah, that in September.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
I don't want to say things that I'm thinking now.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
What nothing ever happened between them? There's many times.

Speaker 4 (10:07):
Oh I was thinking that because it was like that
time in New York and now there's Vegas and now
there's bumble.

Speaker 8 (10:12):
In New York.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
I'm feeling very uncomfortable.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
I'm not this is great. Give me some popcorn.

Speaker 5 (10:19):
But I think if you see a coworker on a
dating app, you have to swipe on them, because I
think it's rude to say, like.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
A no, I disagree with you.

Speaker 4 (10:28):
We were all single and I accidentally madged with Ryan
and I have no interest in dating with Ryan. I
would be like, I would be considerate, I would be
exactly like, this is not a match.

Speaker 5 (10:43):
Thoughtfulness, but No, Yeah, it's like rejection.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
It's so mean. I'm not about rejection. It's just not
a match on air with Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
Let's just right now, do.

Speaker 3 (10:57):
You have a first date this weekend? You're a three
quest I should the experts dating experts say you should
have in your head to get to know them better
and it doesn't scare them away. The three questions they
say are one, do you believe in soulmates? Do you
think that scares anybody away on a first date?

Speaker 2 (11:12):
Sysany?

Speaker 1 (11:13):
I don't think so, Tanya, definitely not.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
Yeah, let me just ask Sysany then for these nothing's
going to scare them away.

Speaker 2 (11:21):
In your mind?

Speaker 7 (11:21):
Right?

Speaker 1 (11:22):
True?

Speaker 3 (11:23):
What's the first thing you noticed about me? Do you
think that's a good question on a first day?

Speaker 1 (11:28):
I have a little too. It seems self absorbing, a
little too conceited.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
I think maybe you should tell them the first thing
you notice about them that's sweet, like maybe the flip
that around and make it more of a statement. So again,
that's tweakable. And this one I'm not into. They say
on a first date, a question you should ask them
is who's your celebrity crush?

Speaker 2 (11:48):
No, I don't love it.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
I don't love it either.

Speaker 2 (11:50):
This is my least favorite hack this week.

Speaker 3 (11:52):
But I saw it and thought, maybe if you are dating,
maybe you feel differently about it.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Tanya, you grimace, you asigh cause I.

Speaker 5 (11:58):
See where the celebrity crush could come into play beneficially,
because if let's say there's a celebrity crush, you know
it embodies you, then you're like, oh great.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
Yeah, But then what if you're they say something Now
you're like, oh, I'm trying to compare up to that person.
You're like, I'm never going to compare to Jennifer Lopez
or something like that.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
I mean, I'd rather talk about favorite foods and you know,
things like that where we grew up.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Do you like long walks on the beach?

Speaker 8 (12:23):
No?

Speaker 3 (12:23):
No, by way, I don't think anybody likes a long walk.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
I know, but like haves hurt.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
I always put that on my dating program.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
Have you're done a long walk on the beach? No,
you don't really do a long You do like one
hundred yards flipping around?

Speaker 2 (12:34):
Come back?

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (12:36):
Right?

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (12:37):
Today's quote doubting yourself is normal. Letting it stop you
is a choice. You got to break through the doubt.
That's basically what it's saying. So if you're doubting yourself
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Speaker 2 (12:51):
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Speaker 4 (12:56):
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Speaker 3 (13:39):
Do you know a Texter tuonist? I like the word
one or two point seven kiss FM. I this is
something that a lot of people bring it up lately. Yeah, dude,
he's such a.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
Textu tex textra tuning.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
I know people that are very lazy to text back,
but you're right when they need something from you, they're
like I asked you a question or question no, Then
they send a text out see something, and then you'll
get back to them, like they don't get back to
you because you've marked them in your head like, well,
I'm not going fast on that because they don't go
fast on me. And then they send the rudest next
text a question mark.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
Or does I do the eyeball?

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Sometimes I wouldn't know what it means.

Speaker 5 (14:17):
I just question mark the text I said, but I
don't hear back. I just questioned mark that.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
You said one question mark No, no, no.

Speaker 5 (14:22):
I question mark my text, like you know how you
can put like the heart or the exclamation or the hot.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Right, But that's that's the same thing.

Speaker 5 (14:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
I think it's like a textra tunist being a textra
tuonist back at you.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
Yeah, I haven't textra tunists been around for a long time,
I guess so.

Speaker 4 (14:37):
And I didn't really think about it so much until
I started reading this article and I was like, man,
am I a textra tunist?

Speaker 2 (14:42):
Yeah? No, I'm not what you be.

Speaker 4 (14:45):
Well, I don't think i'm so much in the sense
of like when I text back, it's because I want something.

Speaker 1 (14:50):
I think it's more I'm just slow.

Speaker 4 (14:52):
To text, so when I text you back, it's I'm
answering your question, but but it's no, but it's or
I'm just I I respond to your text, but it's
not me asking for another favor. A text for tunist
in this sense, it's literally, for example, let me give
you okay. So it'd be like me saying like, hey,
do you still want to get together Friday night? And

(15:13):
then three days later you finally respond with, oh, sorry,
I can't this weekend. But hey, what was that poos recipe?
Oh right, yes, you know I need something from you.
I need that recipe or I need something. So that's
a text for tunis. I have to be honest with you, guys.
I sent a text to y'all yesterday and I put Siciny, Tanya,

(15:36):
and Mark on the text because I wasn't sure who
was going to be the text for tunists on that text,
like I needed a quick response, but I wasn't sure
who's actually going to respond, so I put all of
y'all on it, assuming I play the odds and somebody
would respond. You don't responded Mark, Mark, Yeah, but I
thought you'd do that, So that just we're all on.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
The loop loop.

Speaker 3 (15:54):
Yeah, mom telling you no, I did it because I
figured if I text one person, odds are they may
not text back.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
So I put all of us on there to get
one person in.

Speaker 5 (16:02):
The returning very strongly that if you sent that text
only to Mark, he would respond in a timely manner.

Speaker 2 (16:07):
Well I didn't. That's why I send it to everybody. No.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
Oh, interesting, the truth comes out.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
It could have been driving it was it timely? Was
it a timely matter? That is a way of keeping
someone accountable. I'll see see people for that reason. Ye
see someone higher up?

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, okay, all right.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
When you see ce sistiney, I know you're onto its. Wow.
You know she's in management?

Speaker 1 (16:32):
Yes, I do know, Yesty.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
How the how the management meanings to on?

Speaker 1 (16:37):
You know they keep piling on. There's like one ex every.

Speaker 2 (16:40):
Week now, boy, can't wait for them?

Speaker 1 (16:42):
Keep getting more CC.

Speaker 2 (16:43):
Do you get to go to the manager's conference?

Speaker 1 (16:45):
I don't know. I'm so excited if I do.

Speaker 3 (16:50):
We're up to the portion of the show we call
a second date update. Do these every once in a
while if you're in the dating world, take a listen.
Maybe you'll figure learn something, figure something out here. If
you're not, you're probably glad you're not dating. But they
say hey. Pat says, hey guys, I'm kind of new
to dating apps. I didn't think they would work, but
I met a woman on bumble that completely changed my

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opinion of apps. She was gorgeous, she was funny, she
was incredible. I thought, Wow, these apps really were. Here's
the thing, and this makes me question whether or not
we should make this call at all. But now she
doesn't want a second date with me. She texted me saying, quote,
what is it what I'm waiting for?

Speaker 2 (17:32):
You staring at me?

Speaker 4 (17:33):
Well, you're stopping like you're about to give us the
results on American Idol, like you.

Speaker 2 (17:36):
Paul A commercial.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
I know we're not Quote. I'm sorry. I just don't
think we're a match. But I wish you all the best.
Signed her name. So Pat's like, I don't know what
I did wrong. He's in bail Heights. I'm like, that's
how you say, no.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
Yeah, but he wants to know what happened. I'm sorry,
I just I.

Speaker 3 (17:56):
Don't feel I think that's by the way, if you
want to know not go out with someone again, that's
exactly what you say.

Speaker 2 (18:02):
That's the perfect text.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
It's direct, it's kind, it's thoughtful, it's clear, it's simple,
it's short, it's brief.

Speaker 2 (18:10):
It's the right message. Don't you agree with me?

Speaker 1 (18:12):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (18:12):
And that's how I would turn a guy down. But
he wants to know what went wrong.

Speaker 3 (18:17):
Pat, I'm just not so sure. Hi, and welcome. Nice
to meet you, Pat. Thank you for writing into us.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
How are you?

Speaker 11 (18:23):
I'm good.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
I'm just not so sure. We should find out why.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
I mean, I feel like she really respectfully kindly said
I'm not into it, you know, like the words she
chose were the right words.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
Walk us through the date, well.

Speaker 11 (18:40):
I mean we we had some drinks, you know, and
we talked, We resonated with each other. We we got
along with each other, you know, everything, other sparks were flying. Yeah,
everything felt right in the date itself. So there was

(19:03):
never a moment where where it was awkward or where
there was a joke that didn't land. You know, we
just we did. We got along great and there was
chemistry and and everything. You know, I can't think of
it of a of a time where it wasn't working.

Speaker 2 (19:19):
But let me.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
Hone in on the detail of the end of the night.
Can you give me the last ten minutes in not
ten minutes, but like sum it up?

Speaker 11 (19:29):
Uh, I mean, yeah, like I had to uh you know,
I had to get up a little early, so you know,
we didn't go deep into the night or anything like that.
I let her know that that I was getting up,
you know, early, and she, uh, you know she was.
I mean, she probably was ready to hang out more.
It felt like, so you know, I'm the one who

(19:49):
kind of cut the date a little short.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
By the way, was that your stomach the crowd or
that was not my stomach? Oh okay, somebody's stomach crowd
and I heard it. I could have been mine. I
didn't feel it, but someone is mine speaks pat So
you think that maybe she got sort of disenchanted because

(20:11):
you needed to close up the night.

Speaker 2 (20:13):
Great to do so the next day.

Speaker 11 (20:15):
I mean, now that you're saying it, I guess I
never really considered that. I didn't that it wouldn't make
sense to me.

Speaker 3 (20:22):
But maybe nothing else that makes sense at all that
you can think of, Like nothing went. There's just no
no weirdness, nothing, nothing that you can think of.

Speaker 11 (20:31):
No, okay, no, it felt very romantic to me, you know,
i'd been in a long relationship. Uh you know, in
early twenty twenty two, I hadn't dated for a while,
so I was a little rusty. But you know, I
came out very I came out excited. She was receptive
to it. I wasn't over.

Speaker 3 (20:48):
She says to you, I'm sorry, I just don't think
we're a match. But I wish you all the best.
I love what she said, knowing she doesn't want to
go out again. So if you what her name is,
Chris Kristen, is that right?

Speaker 2 (20:58):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (20:59):
So if you hold on, we'll get Kristen to see
if we can talk to christ. I'm gonna tell her
she did the right thing if she didn't want to
go out with you.

Speaker 6 (21:07):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
I mean, I'm not saying that.

Speaker 11 (21:09):
I'm just saying I would love to know what went wrong.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Got it?

Speaker 3 (21:13):
I know that, But I'm just saying, like, if anybody
needs to know how to say, I'm not interested. I
feel like she said it right. Sure, Okay, Pat, just
hold on, take a deep breath. There, we'll come back.
Let's find out why. Fine, let's find out why.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
Maybe it was the way he said it.

Speaker 3 (21:29):
So I want to get right into talking to Kristen here,
she's agreed to come on the air. It's a second
date update. Pat went out with her, said everything was perfect.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
What was the word he used. He said that sparks
were flying, The sparks were flying, chemistry and all the
jokes landed.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
But he had to sort of rushed the end of
the day because he had something to do the next day.
And he thinks that maybe that made her not want
to go out again, or that.

Speaker 1 (21:55):
Changed made her disenchanted the energy.

Speaker 3 (21:59):
So let me get Pat on the phone. Pat, we've
got her to be very quiet. Let's see what we
can find out about why she sent you that text
saying I'm sorry, I just don't think we're a match,
but I wish you all the best. Hold on Pat Okay,
Thanks Kristin, thank you so much for holding on. Ryan Seacrest,
Disney Antania. You're on the air with us. Appreciate you staying.

Speaker 9 (22:22):
No worries.

Speaker 3 (22:23):
So we're calling about a guy named Pat that you
met on bumble and went out with.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
How that date go?

Speaker 11 (22:30):
It's so weird.

Speaker 9 (22:31):
So I was actually just thinking about him.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
What were you thinking?

Speaker 9 (22:38):
I don't know. I mean, it's a long story that
basically someone I work with brought in crumble cookies and
that made me think of him?

Speaker 1 (22:46):
Why?

Speaker 9 (22:49):
Sorry, why are you.

Speaker 8 (22:52):
So?

Speaker 3 (22:53):
The short story is we have been our services have
been engaged to find now how the date went?

Speaker 2 (23:02):
And what does the rumble cookie have to do with him?

Speaker 9 (23:08):
I guess it doesn't really. It just sort of made
me think of him because of my thought process when
we were on the date.

Speaker 2 (23:18):
How was the date? Did you have a good time
with that? Was he a good guy?

Speaker 7 (23:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (23:22):
It was? It was really good. I had a great time.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
And what was the highlight of the date in your mind?

Speaker 7 (23:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (23:32):
I think we just like we got along really well
and like I would have loved to, you know, have
a longer date than we had because we were just
like having easy conversation and yeah, and why did.

Speaker 2 (23:49):
It not go as long as you wanted to go?
What happened?

Speaker 9 (23:54):
So basically he had to go home and go to
bed because he gets up at like five to work out.
But it was a Friday night, so he and I
just have completely different lifestyles.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Got it?

Speaker 3 (24:07):
So everything went great? You liked the guy he was,
everything was fantastic on the day. You found him attractive?

Speaker 1 (24:14):
Yeah, how did. What were the words that he used
when he ended the date? Do you remember good night?

Speaker 8 (24:23):
No?

Speaker 1 (24:23):
I want to know how he ended it.

Speaker 9 (24:27):
I mean he just sort of was like, I've had
a really great time and I hate to cut it short,
but I have to get up really early tomorrow for
like my workout, like I'll you know, I'll text.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
You got it. And then your response to that was.

Speaker 9 (24:47):
I mean, I don't really feel like I had. I
didn't know what to say other than you know.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
Okay, it's very abrupt, have a good workout, Kristen.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
Would you want to go out with Pat again?

Speaker 9 (25:00):
Think so?

Speaker 2 (25:01):
Just because he had to go work out on a
Saturday morning.

Speaker 9 (25:05):
Like, our our lifestyles are so different. I just don't
think that we're a good match because of that.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
I guess what's the difference in your lifestyle?

Speaker 9 (25:19):
I mean, I don't wake up at five am on
a Saturday to go work out, and I think I
probably indulge a it more than he does.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
Like very direct, he's per disciplined.

Speaker 9 (25:31):
Yeah he yeah.

Speaker 4 (25:33):
Yeah, Like the fact that he couldn't even just like
break the one rule for the first day or at
least push his workout one time.

Speaker 9 (25:42):
Yeah, it just felt very rigid for me, and like
that's not how I live my life at all.

Speaker 3 (25:49):
All right, well, Kristen, I want to tell you that
Pat has asked us to find you today to talk
to you about this. Pat is the one that engaged
our services, and Pat is on the phone. Now, Pat,
do you understand now why she sent you the text?
I'm sorry, I don't think we're a match, but I
wish you all the best.

Speaker 11 (26:08):
Yeah, you know, I do. Actually, I do understand it,
and I can be a little bit call it over
disciplined when it comes to that.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
She called it rigid stuff. But rigid is what she said.
But Pat, why can't you if you're like vibing? Here's
the thing I don't understand, bro, If you're vibing with someone,
it's hard to meet somebody you're on the apps. You
were frustrated with the apps, you told me, and you
weren't even going to pursue the apps. Then you meet
like this perfect woman and now you've got to go
work out at five o'clock. At five o'clock on a Saturday,
it seems, Yeah, you don't interested.

Speaker 11 (26:41):
I understand how that how that must seem. So you know,
I mentioned that I that I got out of a
breakup in twenty two and it was a pretty long
relationship and it was a pretty significant heartbreak, And I
think what kind of kept me from becoming depressed, for
lack of a better word, was to have you have
a routine, you know what I mean, to have that

(27:02):
like you.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
So that's fair. But here's the thing that's fair. But
here's the thing.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
You may not be opening the door to meeting someone
to help heal your heart or get past what you're
going through if you don't break that routine every once
in a while with somebody that deserves your affection. And
that's what I feel like is happening here with Kristin.
I feel like she kind of you guys vibes. It's
tough to vibe, bro it is it is so Kristin,

(27:29):
you've been very quiet since we started talking to Pat.
Is there any chance after hearing Pat you think you
guys could just start over again and try this?

Speaker 1 (27:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (27:39):
I wish, but I just I don't think it'll work.
Like you know, it's because it's not even just like
the workout. It was like like I got a burger
and he got a keemoa salad and then I got
wine and he got water. Like I was ready to
go out that night.

Speaker 3 (27:55):
Okay, all right, look, I feel like we tried. We're
going in circles. Well, Pat, listen, bro respect on a
healing heart. No one has a weaker heart to me
going through a breakup. So I respect, I do respect
the discipline. Blow it off every once in a while
to give yourself a shot.

Speaker 6 (28:09):
You know what I mean, Pat, Yeah, I get it.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
Appreciate you.

Speaker 3 (28:13):
Yeah, fine, thank you, Kristin. Good luck to you too,
and thank you for coming on with us. We really
appreciate you chatting with it.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
Thank you.

Speaker 6 (28:20):
Okay, thanks, love it.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
Thanks.

Speaker 2 (28:23):
I don't know about you, but I felt like I
was struggling to help.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
No, I mean obviously, well we can't force it.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
No, that we were like I was, I was there,
I was like in the huddle, won't.

Speaker 4 (28:34):
Come when she was bringing up all the other stuff,
part of all the other parts of the day.

Speaker 2 (28:38):
I get that too.

Speaker 3 (28:39):
Yeah, then it got to be she she kind of
wasn't into him.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, that's not that's annoying.

Speaker 2 (28:45):
I do understand now.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
That is tough though to not I mean, break will
work out her on a Saturday morning five to give
yourself a chance.

Speaker 5 (28:51):
Exactly what I do understand if she's just like we
just have very different the way we live our lives.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
Like I think we've all been there totally fair.

Speaker 3 (28:57):
But me personally as a spectator, I wish they would
have given each other one more shot.

Speaker 2 (29:03):
So that'll be a void for me.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
Time for our hometown hustler Friday morning, see Christ with
you spotlighting somebody. This guy here, Rob Smith, I mean
he's in Long Beach. He was an aerospace recruiter in
El Segundo, so I don't know is he going out
the audition astronauts? And now he's got his own alley
Cat Deliveries company, And it's something you might want.

Speaker 2 (29:25):
To use, especially if you're in the LB. Hometown hustler,
let's go. I'm a hustle bad Yeah. People who hustle,
I celebrate them.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
I founders, entrepreneurs, hustlers. It's not startups. It's not easy
to do. And especially if you find something you love
to do and you can make it work for yourself,
you deserve to be on the air with us and
talk about it. That's what I can get. All the
free publicity you can get right here. Rob Smith, our
hometown hustler in Long Beach. Congratulations Bro, Thank you Ryan.

Speaker 7 (29:56):
Huge Fansi's ninety eight point seven star in the afternoon.

Speaker 3 (30:00):
No way, that's amazing with Foxy Lisa Fox and I
used to host the afternoon show there.

Speaker 7 (30:09):
Correct.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
She used to call me. The show was called I
think it's called Ryan for the ride home or something.
She used to call me for the ride, Yeah, exactly.
So when we'd be out when whatever, we hung out
a lot, and she'd be like, we'd be in a
while and she'd be like, for the ride. What are
you going to have for the ride? What time should
we go for the ride? Who's coming for the ride?

Speaker 2 (30:27):
Ever became my name?

Speaker 3 (30:29):
Makes me want to talk to her if you want
to track her down for for the ride in the
next few minutes, because while Rob's here, he used to listen.
All right, Rob, you're our hometown hustler brother. I love,
all right, this is what I love. So you are
an aerospace recruiter, elsiegun do what were you doing?

Speaker 2 (30:45):
What does that mean?

Speaker 7 (30:47):
So I would look for talent for like Boeing Northrop
and trying to place them. I would onboard them, help
them with their health insurance, and we had it and
just tried to find the connection to the to the puzzle.

Speaker 3 (31:01):
That seems like a hard job, it was pretty fun.

Speaker 6 (31:06):
You know.

Speaker 7 (31:06):
It was a challenge just trying to find the right
connection to the plug. And I kind of use.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
That on what I do now, all right, and that's
what I want to talk about.

Speaker 3 (31:15):
So after you moved to Long Beach, you went through
a breakup, a separation and a divorce, and you didn't
have your apartment after that, and so I think you
were really trying to make ends meet, right.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
That's how you came up with this company. Tell us
about that.

Speaker 7 (31:27):
Yeah, So how it happened was I was on my bike,
you know, a small little BMX bike, doing food deliveries
for a big competition delivery app, and I said, why
don't I do this for myself? And I built it
in twenty nineteen. Then we had the pandemic. I was
able to buy a car, and then I said, why

(31:50):
don't we do groceries And there was such a huge
need for that, elderly people that didn't want to go allow,
people that were compromised, and we just built you know,
we do everything we do airports, shuttles. We do groceries
Amazon returns. I always say the answer is no unless
you ask. But the difference between us is we don't
take anything from the business or mark up your item.

(32:11):
We just charge a flat feed. But we donate twenty
percent of our sales to feed clothing house or I
have people saying, hey, Love, can you help me out
with rent? Hey Love, we don't have groceries. I fund
that out of my sales and pocket and through donations,
and we do a lot of community outreach and give that.

Speaker 3 (32:28):
You have a real, beautiful heart and the fact that
you were struggling you start your own business. You're working hard.
I mean you're on your feet. This is like real work,
and you're meeting new people, doing different things, taking on
real tasks, and then donating twenty percent of your weekly
sales going into the community for good.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Great.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
I love that, bro, I love it. This is the
editgy we need, you know, this is spirit we need,
and it.

Speaker 7 (32:51):
Goes and it goes further than I'm a Commissioner for
Economic Development with the City of Long Beach. I'm on
the board for the DLBA Downtown Long Beach Alliance for Safety.
I'm really about community, and that's what I love about.

Speaker 8 (33:03):
You know.

Speaker 7 (33:03):
I get crazy requests, you know, but I feel if
I'm the right connection to the plug where I have
a resource for it, I'm able to fill it and
bless those people so they don't struggle like I did
when I was starting out.

Speaker 2 (33:16):
Awesome.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
So if you want, if you're in the Long Beach
area or even not, and you want to check out
his companies called Ali Cat Deliveries.

Speaker 2 (33:24):
Okay, it's in Long Beach and he will come.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
His company will move furniture, ride share, pick up pets,
for appointments, everything, just he says, just got to ask.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
We'll say, yes, that's sure. Well, thank you, Bri.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
I also really appreciate you listening for so many years.
I feel like we've never met, but we probably know
each other quite a bit now right.

Speaker 7 (33:45):
I feel like I know you forever.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
Uh Marcus, at least a fox is online nine. We're
trying to get her on nine. Yes you're not answering.

Speaker 3 (33:52):
Oh well, Rob, you can't say we didn't try. Maybe
should call back. We have your number. If she calls back,
we'll get you to say.

Speaker 7 (34:00):
I appreciate you so much and keep up the good
work yourself.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
Thanks brother Rob Smith, our wholetown hustling love me. If
you want to nominate somebody that's doing it hustling out
here in La, nominate them at KISSFM dot com slash
Hustler can't wait to get them on the air next Friday.

Speaker 2 (34:16):
Leanne, how are you doing?

Speaker 10 (34:18):
I'm good?

Speaker 3 (34:19):
How are you I'm doing great? Thank you so much
for asking. So I started these new like segments twice
a morning where it's about like it's just a wellness
tidbit that I suspect things that I read or see
or try and subscribe to, and I think they're helpful
for everybody.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
So earlier today it was this way you should do.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
There's eight words you should try and achieve every day, sleep, eat, listen, forgive, chat,
except relax and exercise and those letters spell self care.
It's one of those an acronym, So just eight words
every day. Try all right, now, how can I help you?

Speaker 11 (35:04):
Well?

Speaker 10 (35:05):
No offense, Ryan, That's very brilliant, But I think this
one is more of a question for Sythany. My five
year old is in a group of about eight or
nine kids from school and they always play together, and
so of course we have playdates with the other groups,
and you know the moms, and everyone's invited to birthday
parties and the only issue is that one of the

(35:25):
moms is just the worst.

Speaker 11 (35:28):
I mean, she is absolutely awful.

Speaker 10 (35:30):
She she's loud, she bosses the kids around, she bosses
us around. She bought me around my own house, and
you know, she gets really personal, she asks personal questions
really loud, she puts people on the spot, and like
she's just trying to start arguments all the time, and
none of none of us can stand her.

Speaker 11 (35:50):
She's just a lot.

Speaker 10 (35:51):
And so one of us brought up the idea of
not inviting her anymore. Then we're all like, but the
kid is the one who's really punished, And I know
that's not fair. But for a while now we've just
been dealing with it, and it's it's getting worse, and I.

Speaker 6 (36:06):
Don't what are we supposed to do.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
I suggest if somebody gets with the kid and says,
run away from your parents and move in with you,
you can't do that.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
I just quit.

Speaker 1 (36:14):
I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this.

Speaker 4 (36:17):
Look, I have not had to experience something like this yet,
and I hope I don't.

Speaker 2 (36:24):
But so.

Speaker 4 (36:26):
The kids are friends and they're going to stay friends.
Is looking that way, right, Like their their buddies and
that's not so.

Speaker 10 (36:34):
But I mean part of the reason their friends is
because they get to do these things together. I not
don't want to exclude anybody.

Speaker 4 (36:41):
I think it's a matter of having a conversation with
the mom, maybe just one on one. One of you,
all moms has to volunteer to have that conversation with her.
I don't think you ambush her because then she'll feel attacked.
But I think it's I think it's a conversation that
you just need to have that you're feeling away from her,
and it could be very civil, but you don't want

(37:03):
to get You don't want to have to get to
a point to where she's not invited or she's not included,
and we want to be able to all hang out
and do all this. But you know, the way she
speaks to the kids sometimes is offensive, or the way
she treats us as offensive.

Speaker 3 (37:15):
And it is it more the way she treats the
kids or is you guys find her annoying as an adult.

Speaker 10 (37:22):
I mean it's both, But like I'm always more kids
than I am for myself.

Speaker 1 (37:27):
And sometimes the annoying stuff you just have to deal with.

Speaker 2 (37:30):
I think as an adult, not your problem, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 3 (37:33):
It's like just deal like you can deal with her
annoying right habits to you. It's with the treatment of
the kids you should sort of.

Speaker 4 (37:40):
And I think at that point you have a you
have a right to say something. So she shouldn't be
speaking to your to your children a way that you
don't find respectful, so that, in my opinion, deserves a conversation.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
You're right exactly, like like, throw her a plum and
she'll throw back a peach.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (38:02):
I don't really understand what Ryan means by that, but yeah,
it's like say, like, do it in a nice way,
and she'll throw you back.

Speaker 1 (38:08):
I think he means sendrand you mean that.

Speaker 3 (38:12):
I mean give her a plumb and she'll give you
a peach. I don't mean extending all the branch. It's
not what I mean when offered. When offered a plumb,
I return with the peach again.

Speaker 1 (38:25):
Can you repeat it over and over again? It doesn't
make it.

Speaker 3 (38:28):
I'm saying, it's all in the delivery of sweetness, and
then she will sweetly respond to you by offering you
a white peak.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
That makes a little bit more sense. But I mean, please,
oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
If I have to explain it, it's not worth I
hope we helped you a little bit.

Speaker 10 (38:46):
Is that part of the self care thing? I really
like offer.

Speaker 3 (38:48):
And she'll return with a peach. Okay, good luck, thanks
so much. I think as an adult you kind of
just got like here, life's too short to let parents
annoy me. I just they can annoy you. But who
don't sleep over that? No, but the child treat me.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
That's another thing.

Speaker 4 (39:09):
Exactly if you step in and start saying things to
my kid, uh uh.

Speaker 2 (39:14):
When one throws to me a peach, I returned to
him a plump.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
Oh, you said it wrong, saying.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
Okay, it's the same thing. It's it's a fruit for fruit.

Speaker 3 (39:23):
But you understand it's all about sweet, sweet sweet, and
if you deliver it the right way, you will get
the right response.

Speaker 1 (39:31):
Like sewing your oats.

Speaker 3 (39:33):
Not sewing my oats, none of that. Not crying over
spilt milk, none of that. It's what I said. When
one throws me a peach, I return them a plum.
I just write it down.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Try it.

Speaker 5 (39:48):
I'm going to try that later, and I'm going to
see if it confuses other people.

Speaker 2 (39:52):
Okay, well, okay, great, I hope it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (39:55):
Is a plumber prune? Yes it's not.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
Prune is dried?

Speaker 3 (40:01):
Well.

Speaker 4 (40:01):
I bought plums at Costco the other day and then
on the other side it was in Spanish and said, prune.

Speaker 2 (40:06):
Dry prune. I think it's a dried big fat raisin.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
Prune is a dried plum.

Speaker 3 (40:11):
See, very confusing, but that's not We don't give someone
a dried plum, giving the fresh, plump plum.

Speaker 1 (40:16):
That's what I bop. Then I said, prune on the back.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
You're buying prunes, boy, what You're at that stage already?

Speaker 4 (40:22):
I was buying plums on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 2 (40:29):
What is everybody talking about.

Speaker 4 (40:31):
It's the hottest workout trend right now on TikTok and
it's called the cozy cardio. All right, So think of
not necessarily those really intense classes that you might take,
but more of a leisurely pedal on a stationary bike
rather than the intense peloton classes that are offered, or

(40:51):
like strolling on the treadmill instead of sprinting. But you
can do all of this in your robe, even your slippers.

Speaker 2 (40:58):
That's the part of it.

Speaker 4 (40:58):
You don't actually have to put on the workout clothes
if you're just gonna hop on your Nordic track and
just walk for five miles.

Speaker 3 (41:06):
But I thought this was like something where you wear
your slippers and you have those little pedal boxes and
you sit there on your chair.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
You can do that as well.

Speaker 4 (41:14):
You can do that as well where they have the
little the pedals under your desk. I want to get
one of those, by the way.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
No, no, you like this idea cozy pedaling cozy.

Speaker 4 (41:21):
I like the idea of if you're gonna be a
little lazy and maybe want to watch some TV, or
scroll on your phone or do whatever, why not try
to at least get a workout in.

Speaker 3 (41:31):
But not take the place of the workout, which is
what these people are saying.

Speaker 5 (41:34):
No, No, I think that this is like a bridge
to get people back into their workout routine. Like I
think it's it's for people that aren't necessarily on their
workout routine. They want to, but they're too intimidated and
they just it's too much to do.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
It not take the place of the workout.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
I think it does take the place.

Speaker 4 (41:52):
The girl who started this trend sort of speak on TikTok,
was really feeling a lot of anxiety when she would
work out, or she would feel like she would hit
a plateau and like not really get any further. And
she wanted to take away that toxic pressure of being
in a crowded gym or you don't mean like you
have to look a certain way to get your workouts

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in and et cetera. So she has this little treadmill
in her living room and she'll just watch The Bachelor
or you know, Love Island for her.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
If that works for her, it works for you, that's great.

Speaker 10 (42:25):
Not for me.

Speaker 3 (42:26):
No, I need the toxic stress. I need the endorphin rush.
I want to go in there and I want to
self torture. I need all of that to come out
feeling the way I do. I go in loathing myself,
I come out loving myself. I need that back and forth.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
That's for me.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
This this soft, pedaling, cozy cardio, it would not get
me where I needed to get me, and I'd be
more depressed.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
I don't like the gym and so and it's like,
look no, but it's it's it's like if you're two.

Speaker 5 (42:53):
If you don't want to go to the gym, you
don't want to go to these classes, it's better than
just doing nothing.

Speaker 3 (42:59):
But I'm saying I need the toxic torture so that
I can come out on the other side feeling better
about myself.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
Do you remember when I went bringing up Remember when
I brought up the soft girl life a few weeks ago.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
I do remember that week.

Speaker 4 (43:13):
So it kind of falls into that same category of
just really not wanting to give one hundred percent but
still being.

Speaker 1 (43:20):
Able to get by.

Speaker 3 (43:21):
But I think that for me it wouldn't work because
I need to again you heard it, like, I need
to get into that headspace of I hate I almost
hate this, so I love this.

Speaker 4 (43:30):
For me, it would because I get so sad sometimes
when I see that I was watching TV for three
hours and I was like, man, I really should have
done something else.

Speaker 2 (43:40):
So exactly, So, go to one of those camps.

Speaker 3 (43:46):
You go to the boot camps yourself, You go for
those torture classes.

Speaker 1 (43:50):
Yeah, I go to those all the time. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (43:52):
All right, Well, everybody, look, whatever your think is for
you great real quick.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
So you know, TikTok has all these trends blah, blah
blah blah blah, And a question is are they good
for you or not? Some seam totally unsafe and obvious,
but some seam okay, I'm gonna run through some A
dimple maker? Have you seen this trend? The dimple maker?
Apparently this is some device you can get that gives
you dimples. It leaves impressions on the muscles and fat

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pads in your cheek.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
But is it safe?

Speaker 1 (44:23):
I am in shock.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
What do y'all think? Think that dingle maker is safe?
Back room?

Speaker 5 (44:28):
No?

Speaker 8 (44:28):
I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (44:31):
It's not safe. It's no, it's not safe, definitely not safe.
The indentation does not last long, and overuse could cause
nerve damage and lip paralysis.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
Don't do ito.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
These are TikTok trends safe for unsafe. Banana botox Supposedly
you rub the inside of an old banana peel on
your face. You leave it for twenty minutes yourns. They
say it's going to tighten your pores and reduce inflammation
like botox.

Speaker 2 (44:59):
Wow, is it safe? Back room?

Speaker 1 (45:03):
Well, it doesn't seem like it'll hurt like botox.

Speaker 11 (45:05):
Does.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
It is safe, but it doesn't do bupkus It doesn't
do anything for your face.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
You're just rubbing old banana peel.

Speaker 3 (45:14):
I can waste twenty minutes, all right. Next one TikTok
trend safe for unsafe castor oil in your belly button.
TikTokers are putting drops of castor oil and their belly button,
claiming it dissolves cysts, cures digestive issues, and clears your
colon up all just.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
By doing that. It can't It can't work.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
First of all, is it safe? It is safe, but
it doesn't work. Okay, so it's a waste again.

Speaker 7 (45:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (45:45):
I used to put castor oil on my eyelashes to
make them longer and thicker, and it did not work.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
I used to wear some Oregon oil for my hair.
You thought about that?

Speaker 1 (45:54):
Yeah, I used to use that.

Speaker 3 (45:56):
Yes, why do you stop? I like tasting it too.
It taste but like a nutty ew. I like nuts
and I like nutty oil. Why is that so that
for your for your hair?

Speaker 1 (46:10):
Not gross?

Speaker 2 (46:11):
I don't like it at all? Okay?

Speaker 8 (46:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (46:12):
Who likes black liquorice?

Speaker 4 (46:14):
I don't like black.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
I don't like I can stand it.

Speaker 1 (46:22):
Gift basket of black. No, I don't like black liquorice,
big basket of black liquor.

Speaker 3 (46:29):
Finally, TikToker trends safer and safe coffee Enema, No believe
the brewing coffee and putting it down there is a
deep detox and will help with weight loss.

Speaker 1 (46:41):
Please just get on the treadmill.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
Would you do it? If it did?

Speaker 1 (46:45):
No, I would rather take a laxative than do anything
like this.

Speaker 3 (46:50):
I'm gonna tell you it's not safe. And three people
have died doing let's skip that.

Speaker 2 (46:56):
Oh, most these trends are just not real. So there
you have it.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Yeah, a lot of.

Speaker 3 (47:04):
People are talking about this and it is these well,
the list, the growing list of unexpected service charges.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
Right when it comes to especially restaurants, Sistey, what do
you have.

Speaker 4 (47:16):
It's like the undisclosed gratuities, the convenience fees that they
they call them health insurance fees. They've slowly kind of
been making their way onto our bills when you go
to restaurants. I don't know if you've noticed them. When
you go to pay the bill, and most of the time.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
Fishing to gratuities, right, they're saying health insurance charge.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
And it's not much.

Speaker 4 (47:37):
Sometimes it'll just be like two dollars here, three dollars there,
and so of course we just, you know, we pay it,
because what are you gonna do.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
Right, You can sit there and argue it at.

Speaker 4 (47:45):
The end of your meal, but it all starts adding
up if you go out to restaurants a lot or whatever,
and so customers are now starting to fight back and
many of us are just kind.

Speaker 1 (47:55):
Of want explanations.

Speaker 4 (47:57):
So there is a Google spreadsheet that any one this
is awesome can access, and it's a Reddit group that
has taken it upon themselves to create the spreadsheet, and
they update it regularly and they basically tell you they
track which restaurants are charging the additional fees that it's
supposedly for, and whether or not tipping is also still

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expected at that restaurant, et cetera. And we don't need
to sit here and call anybody out. But there are
more than one hundred restaurants currently on this Google spreadsheet,
and it's growing like it continues to be updated daily,
and it's everywhere all over southern California, from downtown LA
to the west side the Valley.

Speaker 1 (48:40):
I mean, it's got so many restaurants on their houseating.

Speaker 3 (48:43):
So there's one that says uh Health and Happiness surcharge
to cover employees' health insurance, and then employee comment on
the spreadsheet says, we didn't get health insurance exactly.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
So yeah, I mean, I.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
Guess like if you've seen those charges, you could just
ask right like, yeah, can you tell me exactly? Or
us the server like is this really? Is this what
you're getting? Or you know what happens here, and you
get the real story.

Speaker 4 (49:07):
Exactly, because a lot of these restaurants could be sneaky
about it and they're not actually getting their employees that
they're not.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
Going to take it off. Like let's say you question them,
They're not going to say, okay, well we'll just take
that off. Might you think?

Speaker 3 (49:19):
Well to keep you that, I'd probably still like to
know if it says health insurance that that employees getting
the health insurance, you'd like to know that, right, Yeah,
if you're paying it?

Speaker 2 (49:27):
Oh right? T one or two point seven kiss FM.
I was gonna do it for us.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
That was fine, man, Yay.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
I think a Mexican night is in order. I'm craving
some soft tacos and tortillas.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
Oh nice?

Speaker 2 (49:38):
Have you ever told I've ever.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
Told you that I have been the recipient of fresh
homemade tortillas that I help make. I can't take full
credit for making the moment I do help make them.
It's the best way to put I'm having the craving.
I'm having the craving.

Speaker 2 (49:53):
Have a great weekend.

Speaker 3 (49:54):
Before we go back room, What did we miss this
morning while we were busy over here?

Speaker 8 (49:58):
Well, I've been complaining about my contact, So I'm so
excited I get to take it out now and fix
it because there's something in.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
My line, oh so annoying.

Speaker 3 (50:05):
You know, I work contact. You probably realize its Makaida
for twelve thirteen years. There's nothing in my mind. I'm
not a doctor or an ophthalmologist, but there's nothing in
my mind that seems safe about putting our finger into
our eyes twice a day.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
But I hate wearing glasses, so I am dealing with it.

Speaker 2 (50:23):
Really, we'll take a look.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
Can you wear glasses next week? I want to see
you in glasses?

Speaker 8 (50:28):
Okay, my eyes are so bad that when I wear glasses,
my eye looks so small.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
What are you minus? Minus? What?

Speaker 1 (50:34):
Negative seven?

Speaker 2 (50:36):
I was negative six five nine five. Joey's a competition
with me.

Speaker 3 (50:42):
I don't have heights, so I want to go with
eye strength or worse.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
You're fighting over the worst eyesight.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
Literally, I don't have the worst, but I have pretty close,
pretty close.

Speaker 4 (50:54):
I get it.

Speaker 2 (50:55):
My gosh, I need a weekend. Good Bye, everybody. Thanks
for listening on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to
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