August 4, 2025 • 38 mins
On today's show: Tanya shares some flight drama, Producer Fonzie needs some help navigating a friendship and a listener needs help with an awkward situation with her co-worker's son. Listen NOW on the On Air With Ryan Seacrest Podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest's two.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Point seventy piss Them.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Do you follow at Secret dot Los Angeles on Instagram?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
You Instagram, so it's a good follow.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
A lot of local recommendations here, and there is something
cool about living in southern California where you know what
you're talking about. When you say, for example, I gotta
go over the hill, it doesn't mean you gotta get old. No, no, no,
right where I grub. If you're over the hill, you're
over forty That was the mile marker, not here.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
If you say over the hill, you're going to be
stuck on Coldwater Canyon or Laurel Canyon draffic.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Over the hill means which way from the valley to
the west side or the west side to the valley. Exactly,
I gotta get over the hill. Oh it's going to
take me an hour and a half.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Exactly. You don't have to go over the hill. I
gotta go over the hill.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Spend your whole day over the hill because you can't
get back and forth the hill.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Right right, you went over the hill today. I got
a pack a bag of going over the hill.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Not for going over the hill on the opposite of traffic.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Well, then you have to have the right schedule, right,
But how about when you are relieved that you want
your job is over the hill, and then you move
over the hill.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
You no longer have to go over the hill to
get it to work.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
So the other day they asked, what are some phrases
only people in LA would understand?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
And it's so true. It's so true. Like when it rains.
What did people say when it rains?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Oh, we need it, we need it, right, yeah, matter what,
we need it. Oh we need it, we need it.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Yeah it's raining again, Yeah, but we need it.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
We need it.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Do you are you checking?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
How do you know we need it? Like we've had
a lot lately, but we still need it.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Yeah, we need it.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Here's another one that's so good.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
That you're waiting for your friend to get to your
apartment and they're like here looking for parking.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Some people do it.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Like it's a short They just short it to l
LFP or something for parking. Oh so La, Oh, this
one's so good. We're coming at your house Sney at
three for a barbecue. And then you reply, bring a
jacket just in case it might get cold.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I honestly will probably get cold.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
If it's not, I need a blazer. Why are we
dressing up? No, it might get cold? Yes, did you
feel that?
Speaker 1 (02:16):
What is that? Laism?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Earthquake?
Speaker 3 (02:19):
There's no second guessing? Did you feel that? And all
we do is google for earthquake?
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I got an x May Gray or June Gloom this one.
I'm I'm burnt out on these two. Right, these are laisms,
so Myra said. She wrote to said, you know, Runyon,
that's a big laism right. Also, Jerry said to us
here listens geographically undesirable. That's something we use in something
California a lot because it's so spread out and laylah slash.
(02:48):
Ryan said she ate that outfit, ate it, which means
what it was great, crushed it crushed it look fantastic.
And you can tell someone one is from la when
they give you distance and minutes, as in how far
away do you live? Like thirty minutes but you would
(03:08):
just say like next door, but it's not it's thirty
minutes right, Or.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You can say I live I don't know, thirty minutes
without traffic, forty five minutes with traffic to.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
What without traffic. Yeah, a lais, I love them so much.
If you want to add to those, reach out to
us eight hundred and five to two one two seven.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
So this is a little bright lighted news.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I kind of started walking around with a pep and
my step about.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Excuse me.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
You're a better person if you have this in your life. Hmmm,
sisters make you a better person.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Ooh, I love that.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I believe everybody your Scott's sister, right, Yes, we do.
You're better people because of your sisters. I think it's
even more better if that's the way of saying anything.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah, I think it's even better for guys.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
I think so.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Still, you're a better man.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
In his set because he has two sisters. He's going
to be such a good gentleman already is parents already
tell me that that he's so sweet that. I mean,
it's yes, I can go on run.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
So they published this in the Journal of Family Psychology,
showing that sisters can actually make you a better person.
They say sisters boost your mental health and prove your
social skills and give you confidence to be more dependent.
They studied like foreignan families and sisters shielded teenagers from
feeling lonely, self conscious and fearful.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So if you're.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Thinking about having another one and you got a boy, oh.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Right, maybe you need to have a sister.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
I don't want to ask the question I'm thinking about
so sistant. You ask if someone here were to have
a family, how many would they want? Oh?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Yeah, I mean you ask how many kids do we
all want? I'm doing it like a broad question so
anybody can answer.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
I actually tell Robbie because he doesn't have sisters.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
He just has one brother. That came out great, great,
I know, And he's sisters.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
He came out great too.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Yeah, he has one sister and one brother.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
So I'm like, he needs a daughter?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Is that so? Just? Oh? Since Siny brought it up,
so what's happening?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Can I also bring something else up that I really
wanted to bring up last week, But I didn't want
to go that route either, because it's so like taboo
to ask these types of questions. Type of thing you
asked when Tanya was telling me that she was having
vivid dreams, I had very vivid dreams when I was pregnant.
I just want to put that out there.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah, I heard, I heard, I heard it. I remember
you telling me that. I didn't say anything either, but
I think we all thought it word bubble.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Ah.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Oh well we're not actually trying yet.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
You don't know that, Okay, I don't want to hear anything.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I don't know. Wait, so let's go back to this.
It's like the mental health boost of like the sisters
that like are great.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
For and I think sisters like they take care of
the family more. Yeah, you go back.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
You can like always rely on them and get advice.
I love it.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
So thank you, Meredith Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
And Jeanette, thank you, and Tina.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
There you go. You guys should all meet one day. Now.
What's the prom here system?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
That's not a problem. I just brought it to Tanya's attention.
I'm mortified and she's mortified now because I was like, dude,
what's up with you changing your contact info like every day?
And she's like what, I'm like, you've changed your picture
at least like four or five times. Your name went
from like Tanya rat I don't even know. She was like,
you see all those changes? And I was like, it
alerts my phone every single time we interact time.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Did you not know that.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
No, I had no idea, and I'm like, I changed
because I'm going through all of my like name changing
and so I wanted to update my contact whatever card
in my phone, and so I like changed the name
to like it was Tanya body, sobby beach, I changed
it to Tanya rad Yadagar. But then the wasn't showing upright,
(06:54):
so that I changed Tanya Yadagar. And then I changed
it to like a weird suggested photo that they gave
for me.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
I didn't like it, so then I changed it to
like another photo.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
She's gone there like six headshots, and then I felt
like a selfie on there, and probably was like, maybe
make it a little more professional.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
So I literally think I changed the name and the photo.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
So what did you settle with? Where are we?
Speaker 6 (07:14):
And now it's Tanya Yadagar And it's like an old
headshot that I took here at iHeart, like four years
ago or something. But I didn't know that it alerted
people every time I changed it, And I'm so embarrassed now.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
And how many contacts you have, like thousands.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's like when y'all send me a message and then
it says deleted message. I wonder what I missed? What
did you delete? Why'd you send and then take it away?
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:36):
There, this is a PSA. If you are changing.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Your should's being simulcast?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
Yes, oh I'm so embarrassed it happens.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Are you going to stick with the four year old headshot?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
No?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
I want to change it, but I look like a
four year old headshot.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
It looks very current.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Okay, thank you and needed that.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Well, then that's why we came in this morning. Let's
put it in front of you to make you feel
good about it.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm just like, what are we going to change today?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah? I can't wait to see later. All right.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
So I don't know if you guys are whoever's in relationships?
Everybody but me, MICHAELA. All right, listen up. So this
is something you should pay attention to. You say these
phrases to your significant other. One they say that if
you do, it's going to destroy your relationship. One is
stop being so sensitive.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Ooh, that's like calling somebody crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I don't think I've ever said that. Another is saying
you're fine when you're not really fine. I think we
all do that, innocent, and another one that I think
we probably all do is do whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I don't care.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I mean that.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
No, I say that a lot when I actually really
don't care. Like, what do you want for dinner?
Speaker 6 (08:48):
I actually whatever you want because I actually don't care.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Harsh.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, I don't know how to read you.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
I'm totally serious.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Yeah that scares me.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
It sounds harsh. Do what you want because I really
don't care. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Like saying I don't care is so no everyone to do.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I'm fine, It'll mean all right.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Today's quote don't cling Quote of the day. Don't cling
to a mistake. It's just because you spent a long
time making it. It's a kiss why at two point
seven Kiss FM? All right, Tanya, let's get to the headlines.
What's happening this morning? Kiss FM Headlines with Tanya rad Well.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
Demonstrators marched in downtown LA this weekend as part of
rage against the regime rallies held across the nation. Stateer Brothers,
workers and union leaders are calling for a boycott of
the supermarket Chains Pasadena store today after months of contract
negotiations have gone nowhere. Police have arrested the man suspected
of shooting the person who drove into a crowd outside
(09:50):
an East Hollywood nightclub earlier this month.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
And heads up.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
A heat wave is expected to start Wednesday and last
through Saturday.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
The peak is expected.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
On the let me grab Brie here about our coworker
may need to everybody to jump in for some advice.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Prey, good morning, How are you hey?
Speaker 7 (10:08):
I'm good, How are you great?
Speaker 3 (10:09):
We're doing well things. How can we help you this morning.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Brit.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Yeah, I'm kind of in an awkward situation. So my
coworker set me up with her son, and she's like
a friend. She's seen a lot of my sort of
dating ups and downs, and I think she like felt
like she was solving my singleness. But I we've gone
(10:36):
on two dates and I don't like her son at all.
And yeah, I just felt like the vibe wasn't there
at all. And I don't know what to do, because.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
How do you tell your coworker that you don't like
her kid?
Speaker 7 (10:53):
Yeah, I just don't want to make it weird with her.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Can you tell more about her son and what you
don't like?
Speaker 7 (11:03):
Yeah, there's nothing like he's he's nice and everything. I
just like don't feel the vibe there at all.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
And she thought you would feel a vibe. Why, like,
what was the reason that she thought, you guys would think.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
I don't. I mean, I consider her to be a friend,
but he's just he's like not my type and we
don't really have anything in common. And I'm also I'm
just not attracted he.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Is attracted to you, or he's giving you vibes that
like he's into you.
Speaker 7 (11:35):
Yeah, yeah, he's been like yeah, he keeps asking to
go out again. And like my coworker, his mom said
that he keeps telling her like that he's so happy
that she connected us. And I don't know what to do.
I got laugh or not.
Speaker 8 (11:55):
I don't know what.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
There's only one path and that's through here, and here's
the truth, and it's legit. Okay, love your son, love
working here, love our relationship. It just doesn't feel comfortable
for me to be thinking about dating your son while
(12:20):
we're working together. It just complicate potentially complicates things. I mean,
if things go well, if things don't go well, I
just don't think it's the right idea. I don't think
it's necessarily what I'm looking for, full stop, deal with
the response might be a little awkward, and move on.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
That's the only way to deal with it.
Speaker 4 (12:38):
I don't think that's gonna work.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
She starts off by saying, I love your son. That's
kind of misleading.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
I love the idea that you set me up with
your son. However, I just don't think this is the
right path while we work together.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Who knows what's going to happen. You're allowed to say
if it goes.
Speaker 6 (12:54):
I mean, this is very, very no, because then she's
gonna say, well, why didn't you do that before I
set you up with him?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Why did you send me down this the lies lie.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
You just need to come clean and be like, hey,
I just don't find the connection. But he seems like
a great guy.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
But you've got to have a pathway through and nip
it in the butt.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Otherwise you're gonna be doing something you don't want to do,
and it's gonna get really bad. If you kick the
can on this and have to get out of it
after she thinks you're into her son, that's going to
be really bad.
Speaker 7 (13:22):
I just don't I don't want to insult her by
saying I don't like your son, and.
Speaker 9 (13:26):
You saw that we're not a match.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
No, say the vibes line. Vibes don't Lie.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
I just think we're better off as friends. We're not
a match.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
But don't wait on this, don't sleep on it. All right, Bret,
thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Good luck? Yeah, thanks whatever, Just be direct.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
Setting up coworkers is very tricky.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
I don't think it's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Yeah, I feel like I've tried to do it a
couple of times.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
It could work, it could not work. My sister set
me up with Michael, but I guess it wasn't her coworker. Yeah,
then I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
And if it went bad like then it's a problem here.
Then you blame Tanya because she said you with Michael
anywhere at work every day.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
They didn't work out.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
Well, if you're mature adults, you're not going to bring
the grudge into work.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Have you met us.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Our middle name is grudge. No, it's not.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
Well, we're not mature, give us that. So you've got
the main room here, and then you get the back room.
The back room is the next gen. That's the next
generation of superstars here, all right. It's a hot bed
of talent back there.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Yeah, you never know where they go from here.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Oh, they're busy doing what we did for a long time,
answering the phones, getting the guests up in the elevator
on time, arguing with roommates, then moaning each other back
and forth.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
What's that new one, ze?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah, that's not new.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
It's kind of new newish.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
It's not newer than Venmo.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Yeah, I don't think I have Venmo. I don't have Zello.
I got people like you can just sell me bro.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Well, oh my gosh, wow.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Zelle started twenty sixteen. Guys, that was like.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yesterday, ten years rendered Venmo.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Start nineteen eighty four.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
No, they're really, they're pretty well.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Bring all this up?
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Is Fonzie Alfonso? Also remember the back room club, and
he needs advice and there's nothing better than us giving advice,
especially on topics that we don't know so much about,
or giving advice that we can't abide by. But Phonsie,
what is the problem.
Speaker 10 (15:42):
Yeah, so, I mean, okay, so look, long story short,
I have two friends, right they it's it in life.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Oh no, I have way more.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
You know.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Sometimes that sounds peaceful.
Speaker 10 (15:53):
Honestly, Yeah, I mean I am pretty I am larner
most of the time because it worked.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But anyways, joined the club on that unpack it unpack
it all right.
Speaker 10 (16:03):
Here, Oh my gosh. Okay, So then, okay, I have
two friends, a guy and a girl. They were they're
my friends from college. They dated for like six years, right,
they were a six year relationship. Uh, they broke it
off recently, and long story short, it was just tricky
for me because with both of the friends, like you know,
sometimes couples get like really codependent and they just isolate
(16:26):
a lot. But then post breakup, Like long story short,
what happened was they the girl like she was like,
we're really good friends now, like we get along pretty well,
and she was always a more outgoing one. But my friend,
the guy in the in the relationship, he was very introverted,
very kind of like almost very isolation.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Is so now he's like out of mind.
Speaker 10 (16:47):
Yeah, And so the I guess my question is should
I reach out because the thing is a post breakup,
Like I heard the news from the from my female friend,
but then like my homie like never reached out to me.
And and also I was just kind of reflecting on
it this weekend. I was like, man, he was not
a great friend in the sense that like I always
had to go out to meet up with him and
(17:09):
like always reach on his terms, and it was really
it was kind of frustrating. But then the only thing
that complicates this is just the fact that, like I
started hanging out with his ex recently and I started
catching feelings.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Oh well, you didn't tell me this is juicy now
all kinds.
Speaker 10 (17:26):
Of advice until I hear that, I know, So so
are you?
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Are you really?
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Is he really not a good friend or did you
create a little that narrative because you liked Look, he
seemed like a good guy until you start to like
his ass.
Speaker 10 (17:41):
No, no, no, no, look, okay, we were good friends
during college. But the thing is, though, like postgrad, like
it was just like, oh hey, cool, I'll see you
guys whenever we can hang out, right and then but
it was always like why do I have to be
the one to go hang out with you and then I'll.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Reach out to me?
Speaker 10 (17:57):
Yeah, And it was just always kind of like I
felt at times like I was like one sided. But
when we did hang out, we got along really well.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
So let me ask you, see, if you got if
you ended up dating this female friend his ex, would
you feel guilt or would you feel not guilt.
Speaker 10 (18:12):
In a sense Okay, So I would feel guilt that
I didn't. Really I feel guilty because like, first of all,
it's like, okay, cool, Like I haven't talked to him forever,
and now maybe the next life update you're gonna hear
is that I'm dating your ex.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
Yeah, this is a tricky one.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
I don't think it hurts to reach out to him
to say, bro, I'm just checking in, how you doing,
and then still let the natural evolution.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Of you and this other woman evolve.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
I mean, that might be the best way to do this,
because at least you get that off you're consciously reach
out to him to just check in.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I honest, what would you.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
It's tricky because what if he tells you, oh my gosh,
I'm so heartbroken and I wish I could get back
together with her and I still love her, and and
now're like, ooh, well I kind of like her now.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 10 (18:59):
And it's like, I know, if once I tell him, hey,
you know, this might be you know, yeah, you can't.
Speaker 4 (19:05):
You gotta you can't be friends with him anymore.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Yeah, I think you cut him out. He's already kind
of not in your life to cut you out.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I guess he kind of got you out by not
reaching out, So yeah, what are you supposed to do?
Speaker 9 (19:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (19:16):
Yeah, And so that's why I'm like, okay, you know what,
like I could reach out, but then also like, okay.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I'll just like that. I think I think she doesn't
tell you have the right idea here, Yeah, I mean,
I don't know. I just feel I feel.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Like, yeah, the first time experiences with the stress of life,
it may end up that she's the one for you.
And you guys have a great story actually, and you
know each other already as friends.
Speaker 6 (19:36):
And don't like bro's come and go uh yeah, Well
isn't it the other way around?
Speaker 3 (19:43):
Well, I think bros don't reach out and talk about
their feelings as much, that's for sure.
Speaker 10 (19:46):
Yeah, And that's definitely a struggle of his. I mean,
whenever his you know, he.
Speaker 3 (19:51):
Definitely got to be worse as this story went on,
as you liked her more. That is the takeaway, right,
it doesn't feel bad, don't reach out to him. Let's
see where it goes with her. And by the way,
you kept telling me, that's a long story short. That's
not a long story short. It's time for Ryan's roses
Carla cisanin Tanya in north Ridge.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
Check it out.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
So I found out in November that my husband has
been cheating on me for most of our marriage. We're separated.
He claims he has completely broken it off and is
trying to be a better man.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
I want to be a Ryan's.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Roses to get a status update. If he sends it
the roses, I will file for divorce. Well, this is
this is the moment then, Carla, thanks for coming on.
We already know what most people are trying to find out.
You're separated right now.
Speaker 11 (20:42):
Yeah, we're currently separated.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
And with plans to get back together.
Speaker 11 (20:48):
Well, I mean I feel like I feel like this
is kind of what I need. That's the closure on.
I mean, he tells me that they're not talking, it's
been broken off. Like, I have no reason not to
trust him. So I just if we have a child together,
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and I want I want my daughter to have a father.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
But I just say something, Carla. I don't mean to
cut you off here, but I just want to tell
you something. If you have no reason to not trust him,
this is a bad idea because if he finds out
you're testing him like this and it goes well, I
think he's going to be upset.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
Well, he can be upset, Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
And I didn't say Tanya, I said, Carlo.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
I'm just saying, and your daughter is always going to
have a father. Do you want him to be your husband?
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Yes, exactly.
Speaker 11 (21:41):
I I just don't I don't even. I just don't know.
I'm just I'm emotional. I'm beside myself.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Yeah, all right, Carla, I just want I wanted to
state what I think could go wrong, but we're going
to do it. So do you find out about this
affair he had at the beginning before your separation.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I'm curious to know.
Speaker 11 (22:05):
I went through his phone. He had a deleted things,
but they were still in his crash. So that's what
started everything. Yeah, it was huge blow up. But yeah,
he swears they're not together at all. And basically he
like blocked her and deleted everything when we had the
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blow up, and she actually quit her job, so I
know that she doesn't work with him anymore.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
So well, don't do anything. Just stay right there, just
don't don't move. Coming up next, we will call your husband.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
It's kiss.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
It's Ryan's Rose about to call Carla's husband in Northridge.
So here's the deal. He had an affair. She found
out they separated. She wants to work it out. She
wants to make sure he's broken that off before they
really try to get back together.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
They've got a daughter. I think by calling him and
testing him.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
This way, she says, she said the words to me,
I have no reason to doubt that he has not
to cut it off. So she believes he's cut it off,
but she really wants to make sure through Ryan's roses,
she already knew he cheated. She wants to make sure
it's over before they get back together with their daughter.
That's what this is about, Siny.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (23:19):
So, Carl, we're gonna call him right now. What is
the woman's name? The other woman he had the affair
with that you know about that? He says, he's cut off.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
What's her name, Renee?
Speaker 3 (23:30):
If you hear her name, you are getting a divorce.
If he's been lying, then you're done. This is it
lastra God? Okay, Carl, it be very quiet. We're gonna
offer him some roses. We want to find out who
he sends them to.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Is that you? Is it her?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Who's the top of mind? It's roses romantic like he
should be thinking of you.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
He doesn't. We have a problem. He does.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
We might have a problem. Still, let's see who can
find out. Be very quiet until we tell him he's
on the air. Okay, here we go, good luck.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
I think Hello?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Hi, can I see to Danny please?
Speaker 5 (24:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Hi, my name is Eli d I'm calling from Floral Vibes.
How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 5 (24:26):
Are good?
Speaker 1 (24:27):
Great?
Speaker 2 (24:27):
We're fairly new on Nord Off here in the Northridge area.
You know where that Vaughn's Shopping center.
Speaker 5 (24:33):
Is, Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
We have a little little tiny store there, and we're
offering a free promotion. It's a free dozen red roses
that you can send anybody that you'd like, since you're
a local resident. They're absolutely free. We're just trying to
promote our business. We ask if you're pleased with our arrangements.
You refer to your friend's family, leave a Yelp review,
things like that. Is that something you'd be interested in?
They are free?
Speaker 8 (24:58):
What I never heard of anything like those?
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Hey, it's a three dozen red roses. So it's very simple,
just a small, cute little arrangement. You can send them
to anybody that you'd like, we can start with the
name of the person and write a note and have
them out by lunchtime today.
Speaker 8 (25:14):
Wait, so I want a three dozen roses?
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Yes exactly.
Speaker 8 (25:20):
Is this some kind of scam or something? I mean,
just be straight. You trying to steal my identity?
Speaker 2 (25:26):
No, I definitely not. But we're just trying to promote
our business, like I said, and gain more customers. So
if you do like our arrangement, come back as a
customer one day, and then at that point we will
charge you. Really okay, Yeah, is there anybody you want
to send them to? We can start with the name.
Speaker 8 (25:44):
Now you just send them to me.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
Send them to you. Okay, Well, we can write the.
Speaker 8 (25:48):
Card, okay, yeah, just I guess you write Renee. It's Renee.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh it's for Renee. Okay, great? And then what would
you like to put on the card?
Speaker 8 (26:00):
I don't really need to note or anything. And I
can just give her the flowers at big.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Deal, gotcha?
Speaker 3 (26:07):
Okay, Dandie, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.
We have your wife, Carla, who you're separated from with
at the time, right now on the line. I'm going
to let her tell you what she's right now, correct, yeah.
Speaker 11 (26:23):
Yeah, thank you so much, Ryan, thank you so much.
You know what, it's funny, It is so funny. When
the phone was ringing, I was literally just like praying
that you would send these roses to that.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Wait. Wait, no, wait, what's going on? What's happening here?
Speaker 11 (26:41):
Honestly, I'm going to really enjoy telling her husband. I'm
going to ruin her marriage the same way that she's
the same way that she's not going to grow up
with father running around.
Speaker 5 (26:56):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, Okay, No, do not
tell her husband?
Speaker 11 (27:05):
Why?
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Why to you? Bro?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Yeah, you're lying to her. She's not gonna listen to
what you're you're gonna do.
Speaker 8 (27:12):
No, no, you don't understand.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Don't I do understand you?
Speaker 7 (27:16):
Kid?
Speaker 5 (27:17):
No, no, no, kid, you don't understand you have.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
A Kidnny, you don't have anything to say here.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
I mean you lied.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
You told your wife you were finished with this relationship,
to get back together with your kid and Carla, and
you were lying to her.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
She's done, bro, listen to you?
Speaker 11 (27:32):
Do you wait? Is this kid your kid?
Speaker 5 (27:37):
No? It's not mine.
Speaker 11 (27:40):
Oh you know what, I don't even believe anything you
say at this point.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
I don't believe it. Either all right. Look, look, Carla,
this is clean.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
I can't believe you guys did this.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Danny's oh come, oh you did this, Calma, this Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny. Boy, Carla,
you have exactly what you want. It's clean, it's clear
to cut. It's done, Danny. I don't need you to
say much. This is what she came and wanted to know.
She came and want to know if you were lying
(28:10):
to her. And she said, if you're lying, you're getting
a divorce.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
And you are. And that's what's happening.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
And Danny goodbye, bye bye, Carla.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
Carla, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 11 (28:24):
I'm not I'm like my heart is racing. But at
the same.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Time, I guess you're right because this guy was going
to play you and you were gonna get heart broken again.
Now there is a clean cut. There's a clean cut.
Good luck to you, Carla, and you and your daughter,
and thank you for reaching out to us. I know
it's gonna be difficult, but good luck.
Speaker 11 (28:48):
Thank you. Guys.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Well, I have questions about this scenario. We come back
on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
It's one of two point seven becaucept them. Let's go
back to Carlin, Danny and Ryan's roses. Does everybody have
a minute, I'm here. So he had an affair, she
knew about that. That's not why she got on Ryan's roses.
She got on to Ryan's roses because they're separated. And
he says he's done with that affair. He's becoming a
better man, and that's over. And that is a chapter
that it is a book that has closed, right, That's
(29:23):
what they always And she wanted to know for fact evidence.
She believed him, but she wanted to know for the
fact that it was over before they got back together
and try to make things work with their daughter, of
course also in the picture. And so we called him
and he was still he sent the roses to the
other woman. So he was lying saying I want to
get back with you, but he's still seeing the other woman.
My question is, so they're getting a divorced. My question
(29:45):
is that's what she said. My question is, could you
learn that your spouse had an affair, separate and ever
ever trust them again to come back and be with
you and give them a second chance. I'm just note, Tanya,
(30:08):
I think it depends.
Speaker 6 (30:10):
Wow, if I found out about the affair myself. No,
if my I guess it would be my husband if
he had the affair and came and told me himself.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
What do you mean? You don't know?
Speaker 3 (30:30):
This is like a get out of jail free card
you're giving your husband right now.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
You don't know. You shouldn't say it.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Married for two weeks?
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Yeah, I mean, what is going on with you over there?
Speaker 3 (30:38):
I just ordained myself to marry you, and now you're
all of a sudden get my hall time.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
First of all, I have.
Speaker 6 (30:45):
First of all, there's no part of me that ever
I married the most loyal man on the planet.
Speaker 4 (30:51):
Like I would.
Speaker 6 (30:52):
You're asking me a question and I'm giving you an answer,
and you don't like to hear it, then ask someone else.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
Yeah, I didn't want to hear that I ordained I
married you. Now I got to go through this process
in my head. Raselli, good morning in Harper City.
Speaker 12 (31:04):
How are you hey, I'm doing much better than some
other folks, I think.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
Well you can call us by name, so listen, Annascelli.
I think you have a good point here and from
what I read on the call screen, But go ahead
and make your point about Carla finding out about the
fact that her husband is still cheating on her.
Speaker 12 (31:24):
Listen, Carla, I just want to congratulate you. You won. You
finally you're free. Right, you will be lied to, and unfortunately,
I'm sorry it took this happening for you to reconfirm
what you thought was to be true. But listen, you're
better off now, you know, and I know you were
reluctant to, you know, split up the family, but you're
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better off. Do you know what I mean? Don't You
don't need a two parent home. You also don't need
someone who's going to continuously lie to you. So in
the grand scheme of things, you won.
Speaker 3 (31:55):
I agree, she'll she'll look at back at this and
there's no second guessing you have. I mean a lot
of times in life you say to yourself, I just
need clarity. I'm prepared or not prepared, but at least
with clarity, I know what I'm dealing with. I can't
handle what I don't understand, what I don't know. I
can try to handle what I have clarity with. And
that's where we are, and that's what happened, and that's
(32:16):
what right now.
Speaker 12 (32:17):
Yeah, you want a partner that you can like trust
and you know, have honest, crazy conversations about and it
shouldn't have to take this behind the scenes to get
to this point. You want someone that's and only that.
But let's just say like he you know, he apologizes
and he actually means it. Whatever, Like there's always going
to have there's always going to be some sort of
second doubt. So even if she were to go back, like,
(32:39):
you're not going to feel good.
Speaker 5 (32:40):
We both know that.
Speaker 12 (32:41):
So look, just call it what it is you want
and you're free now to just it's going to suck,
but you know, start the process of moving forward.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Licensed therapist are A Selly from Harbor City on the
line right now.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Thank you for calling.
Speaker 12 (32:56):
Thanks, yeah, just you know, given my two cents. But yeah,
I wish, I wish, I wish you the best for
sure and the baby.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Yeah, take good care and thanks for that. Clarity. You
can handle clarity, you can't handle ambiguity.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
M deep but two point seven kiss FM. Tanya had
a little drama on a flight recently.
Speaker 6 (33:16):
Okay, well, I'm interested on where you stand on this
because it wasn't It didn't happen to me, but it
happened to the the row in front of me on
this flight, So there's always somebody who's next to the window,
and then there's somebody who's in the middle, and then
there's somebody who's in the aisle.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Right, what do you request?
Speaker 4 (33:34):
I prefer the window because I, yeah.
Speaker 6 (33:37):
I lean up against I don't want people like rummaging
all over me if they have to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
I'd rather just like hold my pee and like.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
What, oh, yes that was you answered it? Go ahead, yeah.
Speaker 6 (33:47):
So but the woman in front of me, we were
taking off on like a very early flight, and it
was like kind of still dark out, and so they
asked everybody to like lower their shade so that if
people wanted to sleep or whatever, just keep it dark.
And the woman in the aisle wanted to sleep, and
so and the woman in the in the with the
window opened her window. And so the woman in the
(34:07):
aisle asked the guy if the flight attendant if he
could ask the woman to lower her shade, and she
like got into it with the flight attendant, saying like
I want to read and I'm on the window, and
she wouldn't shut down her window, and I was like
it to me, it felt so rude because I feel
like it has to be like a row consensus.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
It's not just your window, it's the whole Rose window.
Speaker 2 (34:30):
Why didn't she just ask the lady? Why did she
have to ask the flight attendant to ask the lady.
Speaker 6 (34:35):
I didn't hear, but I'm guessing she probably did and
she said no.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
But there are two types of people, right, Yeah, they're
the challengers and they're the acquiescers.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
I'm an acquiescer.
Speaker 4 (34:48):
I don't I don't know what that means.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
Please right, I'm going to do you have no problem
absolutely trying to Sorry, Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
I don't even think about that, like I'm not challenging it.
I'm like, I'm so sorry. I'm that person. I don't
want to get into that. I don't want the same
thing in a relationship. I don't want the confrontation. I
don't want to have the talk.
Speaker 6 (35:08):
I just want to say, are we good and we're
gonna learn your lesson?
Speaker 4 (35:14):
You just say it's all good, then like that's going
to come up again.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
We learned throughout I actually have learned in a relationship
to say, can we not be awkward after this conversation
and have the conversation. Can we not make this awkward
and then have the conversation. It kind of diffuses the
uncomfortableness afterwards because you usually get them to agree not
to be awkward.
Speaker 2 (35:34):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Are we good now?
Speaker 11 (35:36):
No?
Speaker 1 (35:36):
No, no, that's yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:37):
All we can we be good after this and here's this,
but after this, sister, just be good.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
Yeah, it kind of works.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
Jenna, how are you this morning?
Speaker 9 (35:46):
I'm good. How are you?
Speaker 1 (35:48):
Okay? Thanks? So you're calling about you're getting married?
Speaker 9 (35:52):
Well, not quite, but ever since I saw that you
officiated Tanya's wedding, I wanted to call and ask if
you at a officiate mine.
Speaker 3 (36:01):
Well, listen, first of all, this is a really new
business for me. It's kind of a startup operation officiating weddings.
I'm honored that you would even consider me to officiate
your wedding.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Jenna. What's your last name?
Speaker 9 (36:16):
Oh it's Smith.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Jenna Smith. Okay, Well, I was trying to get to
know you. I'm gonna officiate your wedding with Tany and Roberts.
Speaker 9 (36:26):
Well, I thought you could say your signature line at
the end of the ceremony. That's what really got me thinking.
I thought that would be great.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
Yes, seacrest out, So we worked backwards from you. Yeah, well, Jenna,
tell me about your fiance.
Speaker 9 (36:42):
Well that's the issue is I'm still single right now,
so I was just to lock.
Speaker 3 (36:47):
You in my officiating caounter is going to get booked
up after Toyn and Robbie.
Speaker 9 (36:52):
Exactly right.
Speaker 3 (36:55):
I think that's great, and you're on the same, basically
the same pace. I'm at here with this whole thing.
So well, I will remember you, Jenna Smith, and as
the months years go by, I will reserve a spot
for me to officiate wedding and by then I've probably
have done some more because it just has to be
a best man.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
My who wedding game's upped after Tanya and Robbie's.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
I think it's also up in your out to other
game too.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
I don't see that, but I appreciate the vote of confidence.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
Jenna. Good luck meeting.
Speaker 3 (37:24):
Your fiance and I look forward to the wedding one day.
Speaker 1 (37:28):
All right, plan, aren't you?
Speaker 6 (37:31):
It's always good to be prepared, manifesting at its finest.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Ye, all I have to do is seecrest out. It's
gonna be an easy gig for me by Jenna.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Perfect thing maybe that's the selling point. When she meets
a dude, she's like, hey, and by the way, I
already have the guy that couldn't do our wedding.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
You know that's not gonna lass if that's the selling anyway,
if you'd like to be officiate your wedding, please reach out.
It's one eight hundred and five to seven.
Speaker 6 (37:53):
You can just go officiating all these weddings now possessive, yes, possession.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
There's a lot of people that have this business out
of this and all they do is officiate wedding.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
And I had to put in time to get my
official license to marriage.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
Okay, it takes three minutes to get that.
Speaker 3 (38:10):
Take me excuse me, Tech savvy did not take me
three minutes. My batteries dead had charged my iPad, not the.
Speaker 1 (38:20):
Log in. Yeah, Tubbs had to get involved.
Speaker 3 (38:23):
It's not just a four minute process, you guys.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Oh my god. I'd like to really use what I've.
Speaker 6 (38:29):
Get some use out of it. Yeah, it lasts for
I think like a long time.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
It lasts definitely longer than a sunflower blooming. That's it
for us today, Kiss FM. We're back tomorrow with some
more action, including a second date update.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Thanks, guys, have a good one. Yes it's kiss. Thanks
for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure
to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
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Point seventy piss Them.
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You Instagram, so it's a good follow.
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you're talking about. When you say, for example, I gotta
go over the hill, it doesn't mean you gotta get old. No, no, no,
right where I grub. If you're over the hill, you're
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Speaker 2 (00:34):
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Speaker 3 (00:38):
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Right right, you went over the hill today. I got
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But how about when you are relieved that you want
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You no longer have to go over the hill to
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only people in LA would understand?
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What did people say when it rains?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
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we need it. Oh we need it, we need it.
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Uh.
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Speaker 3 (01:42):
That you're waiting for your friend to get to your
apartment and they're like here looking for parking.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Some people do it.
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There's no second guessing? Did you feel that? And all
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Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
I got an x May Gray or June Gloom this one.
I'm I'm burnt out on these two. Right, these are laisms,
so Myra said. She wrote to said, you know, Runyon,
that's a big laism right. Also, Jerry said to us
here listens geographically undesirable. That's something we use in something
California a lot because it's so spread out and laylah slash.
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Ryan said she ate that outfit, ate it, which means
what it was great, crushed it crushed it look fantastic.
And you can tell someone one is from la when
they give you distance and minutes, as in how far
away do you live? Like thirty minutes but you would
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just say like next door, but it's not it's thirty
minutes right, Or.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You can say I live I don't know, thirty minutes
without traffic, forty five minutes with traffic to.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
What without traffic. Yeah, a lais, I love them so much.
If you want to add to those, reach out to
us eight hundred and five to two one two seven.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
So this is a little bright lighted news.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I kind of started walking around with a pep and
my step about.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Excuse me.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
You're a better person if you have this in your life. Hmmm,
sisters make you a better person.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Ooh, I love that.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I believe everybody your Scott's sister, right, Yes, we do.
You're better people because of your sisters. I think it's
even more better if that's the way of saying anything.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Yeah, I think it's even better for guys.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
I think so.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Still, you're a better man.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
In his set because he has two sisters. He's going
to be such a good gentleman already is parents already
tell me that that he's so sweet that. I mean,
it's yes, I can go on run.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
So they published this in the Journal of Family Psychology,
showing that sisters can actually make you a better person.
They say sisters boost your mental health and prove your
social skills and give you confidence to be more dependent.
They studied like foreignan families and sisters shielded teenagers from
feeling lonely, self conscious and fearful.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So if you're.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Thinking about having another one and you got a boy, oh.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Right, maybe you need to have a sister.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
I don't want to ask the question I'm thinking about
so sistant. You ask if someone here were to have
a family, how many would they want? Oh?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Yeah, I mean you ask how many kids do we
all want? I'm doing it like a broad question so
anybody can answer.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
I actually tell Robbie because he doesn't have sisters.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
He just has one brother. That came out great, great,
I know, And he's sisters.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
He came out great too.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Yeah, he has one sister and one brother.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
So I'm like, he needs a daughter?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Is that so? Just? Oh? Since Siny brought it up,
so what's happening?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Can I also bring something else up that I really
wanted to bring up last week, But I didn't want
to go that route either, because it's so like taboo
to ask these types of questions. Type of thing you
asked when Tanya was telling me that she was having
vivid dreams, I had very vivid dreams when I was pregnant.
I just want to put that out there.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah, I heard, I heard, I heard it. I remember
you telling me that. I didn't say anything either, but
I think we all thought it word bubble.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Ah.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Oh well we're not actually trying yet.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
You don't know that, Okay, I don't want to hear anything.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I don't know. Wait, so let's go back to this.
It's like the mental health boost of like the sisters
that like are great.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
For and I think sisters like they take care of
the family more. Yeah, you go back.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
You can like always rely on them and get advice.
I love it.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
So thank you, Meredith Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
And Jeanette, thank you, and Tina.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
There you go. You guys should all meet one day. Now.
What's the prom here system?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
That's not a problem. I just brought it to Tanya's attention.
I'm mortified and she's mortified now because I was like, dude,
what's up with you changing your contact info like every day?
And she's like what, I'm like, you've changed your picture
at least like four or five times. Your name went
from like Tanya rat I don't even know. She was like,
you see all those changes? And I was like, it
alerts my phone every single time we interact time.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Did you not know that.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
No, I had no idea, and I'm like, I changed
because I'm going through all of my like name changing
and so I wanted to update my contact whatever card
in my phone, and so I like changed the name
to like it was Tanya body, sobby beach, I changed
it to Tanya rad Yadagar. But then the wasn't showing upright,
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so that I changed Tanya Yadagar. And then I changed
it to like a weird suggested photo that they gave
for me.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
I didn't like it, so then I changed it to
like another photo.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
She's gone there like six headshots, and then I felt
like a selfie on there, and probably was like, maybe
make it a little more professional.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
So I literally think I changed the name and the photo.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
So what did you settle with? Where are we?
Speaker 6 (07:14):
And now it's Tanya Yadagar And it's like an old
headshot that I took here at iHeart, like four years
ago or something. But I didn't know that it alerted
people every time I changed it, And I'm so embarrassed now.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
And how many contacts you have, like thousands.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's like when y'all send me a message and then
it says deleted message. I wonder what I missed? What
did you delete? Why'd you send and then take it away?
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:36):
There, this is a PSA. If you are changing.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Your should's being simulcast?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
Yes, oh I'm so embarrassed it happens.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Are you going to stick with the four year old headshot?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
No?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
I want to change it, but I look like a
four year old headshot.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
It looks very current.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Okay, thank you and needed that.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Well, then that's why we came in this morning. Let's
put it in front of you to make you feel
good about it.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm just like, what are we going to change today?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah? I can't wait to see later. All right.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
So I don't know if you guys are whoever's in relationships?
Everybody but me, MICHAELA. All right, listen up. So this
is something you should pay attention to. You say these
phrases to your significant other. One they say that if
you do, it's going to destroy your relationship. One is
stop being so sensitive.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Ooh, that's like calling somebody crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I don't think I've ever said that. Another is saying
you're fine when you're not really fine. I think we
all do that, innocent, and another one that I think
we probably all do is do whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I don't care.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I mean that.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
No, I say that a lot when I actually really
don't care. Like, what do you want for dinner?
Speaker 6 (08:48):
I actually whatever you want because I actually don't care.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Harsh.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Yeah, I don't know how to read you.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
I'm totally serious.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Yeah that scares me.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
It sounds harsh. Do what you want because I really
don't care. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Like saying I don't care is so no everyone to do.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I'm fine, It'll mean all right.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Today's quote don't cling Quote of the day. Don't cling
to a mistake. It's just because you spent a long
time making it. It's a kiss why at two point
seven Kiss FM? All right, Tanya, let's get to the headlines.
What's happening this morning? Kiss FM Headlines with Tanya rad Well.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
Demonstrators marched in downtown LA this weekend as part of
rage against the regime rallies held across the nation. Stateer Brothers,
workers and union leaders are calling for a boycott of
the supermarket Chains Pasadena store today after months of contract
negotiations have gone nowhere. Police have arrested the man suspected
of shooting the person who drove into a crowd outside
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an East Hollywood nightclub earlier this month.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
And heads up.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
A heat wave is expected to start Wednesday and last
through Saturday.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
The peak is expected.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
On the let me grab Brie here about our coworker
may need to everybody to jump in for some advice.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Prey, good morning, How are you hey?
Speaker 7 (10:08):
I'm good, How are you great?
Speaker 3 (10:09):
We're doing well things. How can we help you this morning.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Brit.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Yeah, I'm kind of in an awkward situation. So my
coworker set me up with her son, and she's like
a friend. She's seen a lot of my sort of
dating ups and downs, and I think she like felt
like she was solving my singleness. But I we've gone
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on two dates and I don't like her son at all.
And yeah, I just felt like the vibe wasn't there
at all. And I don't know what to do, because.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
How do you tell your coworker that you don't like
her kid?
Speaker 7 (10:53):
Yeah, I just don't want to make it weird with her.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Can you tell more about her son and what you
don't like?
Speaker 7 (11:03):
Yeah, there's nothing like he's he's nice and everything. I
just like don't feel the vibe there at all.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
And she thought you would feel a vibe. Why, like,
what was the reason that she thought, you guys would think.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
I don't. I mean, I consider her to be a friend,
but he's just he's like not my type and we
don't really have anything in common. And I'm also I'm
just not attracted he.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Is attracted to you, or he's giving you vibes that
like he's into you.
Speaker 7 (11:35):
Yeah, yeah, he's been like yeah, he keeps asking to
go out again. And like my coworker, his mom said
that he keeps telling her like that he's so happy
that she connected us. And I don't know what to do.
I got laugh or not.
Speaker 8 (11:55):
I don't know what.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
There's only one path and that's through here, and here's
the truth, and it's legit. Okay, love your son, love
working here, love our relationship. It just doesn't feel comfortable
for me to be thinking about dating your son while
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we're working together. It just complicate potentially complicates things. I mean,
if things go well, if things don't go well, I
just don't think it's the right idea. I don't think
it's necessarily what I'm looking for, full stop, deal with
the response might be a little awkward, and move on.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
That's the only way to deal with it.
Speaker 4 (12:38):
I don't think that's gonna work.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
She starts off by saying, I love your son. That's
kind of misleading.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
I love the idea that you set me up with
your son. However, I just don't think this is the
right path while we work together.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Who knows what's going to happen. You're allowed to say
if it goes.
Speaker 6 (12:54):
I mean, this is very, very no, because then she's
gonna say, well, why didn't you do that before I
set you up with him?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Why did you send me down this the lies lie.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
You just need to come clean and be like, hey,
I just don't find the connection. But he seems like
a great guy.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
But you've got to have a pathway through and nip
it in the butt.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Otherwise you're gonna be doing something you don't want to do,
and it's gonna get really bad. If you kick the
can on this and have to get out of it
after she thinks you're into her son, that's going to
be really bad.
Speaker 7 (13:22):
I just don't I don't want to insult her by
saying I don't like your son, and.
Speaker 9 (13:26):
You saw that we're not a match.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
No, say the vibes line. Vibes don't Lie.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
I just think we're better off as friends. We're not
a match.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
But don't wait on this, don't sleep on it. All right, Bret,
thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Good luck? Yeah, thanks whatever, Just be direct.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
Setting up coworkers is very tricky.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
I don't think it's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Yeah, I feel like I've tried to do it a
couple of times.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
It could work, it could not work. My sister set
me up with Michael, but I guess it wasn't her coworker. Yeah,
then I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
And if it went bad like then it's a problem here.
Then you blame Tanya because she said you with Michael
anywhere at work every day.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
They didn't work out.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
Well, if you're mature adults, you're not going to bring
the grudge into work.
Speaker 1 (14:18):
Have you met us.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
Our middle name is grudge. No, it's not.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
Well, we're not mature, give us that. So you've got
the main room here, and then you get the back room.
The back room is the next gen. That's the next
generation of superstars here, all right. It's a hot bed
of talent back there.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Yeah, you never know where they go from here.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Oh, they're busy doing what we did for a long time,
answering the phones, getting the guests up in the elevator
on time, arguing with roommates, then moaning each other back
and forth.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
What's that new one, ze?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah, that's not new.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
It's kind of new newish.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
It's not newer than Venmo.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Yeah, I don't think I have Venmo. I don't have Zello.
I got people like you can just sell me bro.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Well, oh my gosh, wow.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Zelle started twenty sixteen. Guys, that was like.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yesterday, ten years rendered Venmo.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Start nineteen eighty four.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
No, they're really, they're pretty well.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Bring all this up?
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Is Fonzie Alfonso? Also remember the back room club, and
he needs advice and there's nothing better than us giving advice,
especially on topics that we don't know so much about,
or giving advice that we can't abide by. But Phonsie,
what is the problem.
Speaker 10 (15:42):
Yeah, so, I mean, okay, so look, long story short,
I have two friends, right they it's it in life.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Oh no, I have way more.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
You know.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Sometimes that sounds peaceful.
Speaker 10 (15:53):
Honestly, Yeah, I mean I am pretty I am larner
most of the time because it worked.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But anyways, joined the club on that unpack it unpack
it all right.
Speaker 10 (16:03):
Here, Oh my gosh. Okay, So then, okay, I have
two friends, a guy and a girl. They were they're
my friends from college. They dated for like six years, right,
they were a six year relationship. Uh, they broke it
off recently, and long story short, it was just tricky
for me because with both of the friends, like you know,
sometimes couples get like really codependent and they just isolate
(16:26):
a lot. But then post breakup, Like long story short,
what happened was they the girl like she was like,
we're really good friends now, like we get along pretty well,
and she was always a more outgoing one. But my friend,
the guy in the in the relationship, he was very introverted,
very kind of like almost very isolation.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Is so now he's like out of mind.
Speaker 10 (16:47):
Yeah, And so the I guess my question is should
I reach out because the thing is a post breakup,
Like I heard the news from the from my female friend,
but then like my homie like never reached out to me.
And and also I was just kind of reflecting on
it this weekend. I was like, man, he was not
a great friend in the sense that like I always
had to go out to meet up with him and
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like always reach on his terms, and it was really
it was kind of frustrating. But then the only thing
that complicates this is just the fact that, like I
started hanging out with his ex recently and I started
catching feelings.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Oh well, you didn't tell me this is juicy now
all kinds.
Speaker 10 (17:26):
Of advice until I hear that, I know, So so
are you?
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Are you really?
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Is he really not a good friend or did you
create a little that narrative because you liked Look, he
seemed like a good guy until you start to like
his ass.
Speaker 10 (17:41):
No, no, no, no, look, okay, we were good friends
during college. But the thing is, though, like postgrad, like
it was just like, oh hey, cool, I'll see you
guys whenever we can hang out, right and then but
it was always like why do I have to be
the one to go hang out with you and then I'll.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Reach out to me?
Speaker 10 (17:57):
Yeah, And it was just always kind of like I
felt at times like I was like one sided. But
when we did hang out, we got along really well.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
So let me ask you, see, if you got if
you ended up dating this female friend his ex, would
you feel guilt or would you feel not guilt.
Speaker 10 (18:12):
In a sense Okay, So I would feel guilt that
I didn't. Really I feel guilty because like, first of all,
it's like, okay, cool, Like I haven't talked to him forever,
and now maybe the next life update you're gonna hear
is that I'm dating your ex.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
Yeah, this is a tricky one.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
I don't think it hurts to reach out to him
to say, bro, I'm just checking in, how you doing,
and then still let the natural evolution.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Of you and this other woman evolve.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
I mean, that might be the best way to do this,
because at least you get that off you're consciously reach
out to him to just check in.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
I honest, what would you.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
It's tricky because what if he tells you, oh my gosh,
I'm so heartbroken and I wish I could get back
together with her and I still love her, and and
now're like, ooh, well I kind of like her now.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 10 (18:59):
And it's like, I know, if once I tell him, hey,
you know, this might be you know, yeah, you can't.
Speaker 4 (19:05):
You gotta you can't be friends with him anymore.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Yeah, I think you cut him out. He's already kind
of not in your life to cut you out.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I guess he kind of got you out by not
reaching out, So yeah, what are you supposed to do?
Speaker 9 (19:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (19:16):
Yeah, And so that's why I'm like, okay, you know what,
like I could reach out, but then also like, okay.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I'll just like that. I think I think she doesn't
tell you have the right idea here, Yeah, I mean,
I don't know. I just feel I feel.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Like, yeah, the first time experiences with the stress of life,
it may end up that she's the one for you.
And you guys have a great story actually, and you
know each other already as friends.
Speaker 6 (19:36):
And don't like bro's come and go uh yeah, Well
isn't it the other way around?
Speaker 3 (19:43):
Well, I think bros don't reach out and talk about
their feelings as much, that's for sure.
Speaker 10 (19:46):
Yeah, And that's definitely a struggle of his. I mean,
whenever his you know, he.
Speaker 3 (19:51):
Definitely got to be worse as this story went on,
as you liked her more. That is the takeaway, right,
it doesn't feel bad, don't reach out to him. Let's
see where it goes with her. And by the way,
you kept telling me, that's a long story short. That's
not a long story short. It's time for Ryan's roses
Carla cisanin Tanya in north Ridge.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
Check it out.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
So I found out in November that my husband has
been cheating on me for most of our marriage. We're separated.
He claims he has completely broken it off and is
trying to be a better man.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
I want to be a Ryan's.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Roses to get a status update. If he sends it
the roses, I will file for divorce. Well, this is
this is the moment then, Carla, thanks for coming on.
We already know what most people are trying to find out.
You're separated right now.
Speaker 11 (20:42):
Yeah, we're currently separated.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
And with plans to get back together.
Speaker 11 (20:48):
Well, I mean I feel like I feel like this
is kind of what I need. That's the closure on.
I mean, he tells me that they're not talking, it's
been broken off. Like, I have no reason not to
trust him. So I just if we have a child together,
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and I want I want my daughter to have a father.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
But I just say something, Carla. I don't mean to
cut you off here, but I just want to tell
you something. If you have no reason to not trust him,
this is a bad idea because if he finds out
you're testing him like this and it goes well, I
think he's going to be upset.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
Well, he can be upset, Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
And I didn't say Tanya, I said, Carlo.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
I'm just saying, and your daughter is always going to
have a father. Do you want him to be your husband?
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Yes, exactly.
Speaker 11 (21:41):
I I just don't I don't even. I just don't know.
I'm just I'm emotional. I'm beside myself.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Yeah, all right, Carla, I just want I wanted to
state what I think could go wrong, but we're going
to do it. So do you find out about this
affair he had at the beginning before your separation.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I'm curious to know.
Speaker 11 (22:05):
I went through his phone. He had a deleted things,
but they were still in his crash. So that's what
started everything. Yeah, it was huge blow up. But yeah,
he swears they're not together at all. And basically he
like blocked her and deleted everything when we had the
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blow up, and she actually quit her job, so I
know that she doesn't work with him anymore.
Speaker 3 (22:34):
So well, don't do anything. Just stay right there, just
don't don't move. Coming up next, we will call your husband.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
It's kiss.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
It's Ryan's Rose about to call Carla's husband in Northridge.
So here's the deal. He had an affair. She found
out they separated. She wants to work it out. She
wants to make sure he's broken that off before they
really try to get back together.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
They've got a daughter. I think by calling him and
testing him.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
This way, she says, she said the words to me,
I have no reason to doubt that he has not
to cut it off. So she believes he's cut it off,
but she really wants to make sure through Ryan's roses,
she already knew he cheated. She wants to make sure
it's over before they get back together with their daughter.
That's what this is about, Siny.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
It's crazy.
Speaker 3 (23:19):
So, Carl, we're gonna call him right now. What is
the woman's name? The other woman he had the affair
with that you know about that? He says, he's cut off.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
What's her name, Renee?
Speaker 3 (23:30):
If you hear her name, you are getting a divorce.
If he's been lying, then you're done. This is it
lastra God? Okay, Carl, it be very quiet. We're gonna
offer him some roses. We want to find out who
he sends them to.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
Is that you? Is it her?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Who's the top of mind? It's roses romantic like he
should be thinking of you.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
He doesn't. We have a problem. He does.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
We might have a problem. Still, let's see who can
find out. Be very quiet until we tell him he's
on the air. Okay, here we go, good luck.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
I think Hello?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Hi, can I see to Danny please?
Speaker 5 (24:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Hi, my name is Eli d I'm calling from Floral Vibes.
How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 5 (24:26):
Are good?
Speaker 1 (24:27):
Great?
Speaker 2 (24:27):
We're fairly new on Nord Off here in the Northridge area.
You know where that Vaughn's Shopping center.
Speaker 5 (24:33):
Is, Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
We have a little little tiny store there, and we're
offering a free promotion. It's a free dozen red roses
that you can send anybody that you'd like, since you're
a local resident. They're absolutely free. We're just trying to
promote our business. We ask if you're pleased with our arrangements.
You refer to your friend's family, leave a Yelp review,
things like that. Is that something you'd be interested in?
They are free?
Speaker 8 (24:58):
What I never heard of anything like those?
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Hey, it's a three dozen red roses. So it's very simple,
just a small, cute little arrangement. You can send them
to anybody that you'd like, we can start with the
name of the person and write a note and have
them out by lunchtime today.
Speaker 8 (25:14):
Wait, so I want a three dozen roses?
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Yes exactly.
Speaker 8 (25:20):
Is this some kind of scam or something? I mean,
just be straight. You trying to steal my identity?
Speaker 2 (25:26):
No, I definitely not. But we're just trying to promote
our business, like I said, and gain more customers. So
if you do like our arrangement, come back as a
customer one day, and then at that point we will
charge you. Really okay, Yeah, is there anybody you want
to send them to? We can start with the name.
Speaker 8 (25:44):
Now you just send them to me.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
Send them to you. Okay, Well, we can write the.
Speaker 8 (25:48):
Card, okay, yeah, just I guess you write Renee. It's Renee.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh it's for Renee. Okay, great? And then what would
you like to put on the card?
Speaker 8 (26:00):
I don't really need to note or anything. And I
can just give her the flowers at big.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Deal, gotcha?
Speaker 3 (26:07):
Okay, Dandie, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.
We have your wife, Carla, who you're separated from with
at the time, right now on the line. I'm going
to let her tell you what she's right now, correct, yeah.
Speaker 11 (26:23):
Yeah, thank you so much, Ryan, thank you so much.
You know what, it's funny, It is so funny. When
the phone was ringing, I was literally just like praying
that you would send these roses to that.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Wait. Wait, no, wait, what's going on? What's happening here?
Speaker 11 (26:41):
Honestly, I'm going to really enjoy telling her husband. I'm
going to ruin her marriage the same way that she's
the same way that she's not going to grow up
with father running around.
Speaker 5 (26:56):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, Okay, No, do not
tell her husband?
Speaker 11 (27:05):
Why?
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Why to you? Bro?
Speaker 3 (27:08):
Yeah, you're lying to her. She's not gonna listen to
what you're you're gonna do.
Speaker 8 (27:12):
No, no, you don't understand.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Don't I do understand you?
Speaker 7 (27:16):
Kid?
Speaker 5 (27:17):
No, no, no, kid, you don't understand you have.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
A Kidnny, you don't have anything to say here.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
I mean you lied.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
You told your wife you were finished with this relationship,
to get back together with your kid and Carla, and
you were lying to her.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
She's done, bro, listen to you?
Speaker 11 (27:32):
Do you wait? Is this kid your kid?
Speaker 5 (27:37):
No? It's not mine.
Speaker 11 (27:40):
Oh you know what, I don't even believe anything you
say at this point.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
I don't believe it. Either all right. Look, look, Carla,
this is clean.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
I can't believe you guys did this.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Danny's oh come, oh you did this, Calma, this Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny. Boy, Carla,
you have exactly what you want. It's clean, it's clear
to cut. It's done, Danny. I don't need you to
say much. This is what she came and wanted to know.
She came and want to know if you were lying
(28:10):
to her. And she said, if you're lying, you're getting
a divorce.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
And you are. And that's what's happening.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
And Danny goodbye, bye bye, Carla.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
Carla, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 11 (28:24):
I'm not I'm like my heart is racing. But at
the same.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Time, I guess you're right because this guy was going
to play you and you were gonna get heart broken again.
Now there is a clean cut. There's a clean cut.
Good luck to you, Carla, and you and your daughter,
and thank you for reaching out to us. I know
it's gonna be difficult, but good luck.
Speaker 11 (28:48):
Thank you. Guys.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Well, I have questions about this scenario. We come back
on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
It's one of two point seven becaucept them. Let's go
back to Carlin, Danny and Ryan's roses. Does everybody have
a minute, I'm here. So he had an affair, she
knew about that. That's not why she got on Ryan's roses.
She got on to Ryan's roses because they're separated. And
he says he's done with that affair. He's becoming a
better man, and that's over. And that is a chapter
that it is a book that has closed, right, That's
(29:23):
what they always And she wanted to know for fact evidence.
She believed him, but she wanted to know for the
fact that it was over before they got back together
and try to make things work with their daughter, of
course also in the picture. And so we called him
and he was still he sent the roses to the
other woman. So he was lying saying I want to
get back with you, but he's still seeing the other woman.
My question is, so they're getting a divorced. My question
(29:45):
is that's what she said. My question is, could you
learn that your spouse had an affair, separate and ever
ever trust them again to come back and be with
you and give them a second chance. I'm just note, Tanya,
(30:08):
I think it depends.
Speaker 6 (30:10):
Wow, if I found out about the affair myself. No,
if my I guess it would be my husband if
he had the affair and came and told me himself.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
What do you mean? You don't know?
Speaker 3 (30:30):
This is like a get out of jail free card
you're giving your husband right now.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
You don't know. You shouldn't say it.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Married for two weeks?
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Yeah, I mean, what is going on with you over there?
Speaker 3 (30:38):
I just ordained myself to marry you, and now you're
all of a sudden get my hall time.
Speaker 4 (30:42):
First of all, I have.
Speaker 6 (30:45):
First of all, there's no part of me that ever
I married the most loyal man on the planet.
Speaker 4 (30:51):
Like I would.
Speaker 6 (30:52):
You're asking me a question and I'm giving you an answer,
and you don't like to hear it, then ask someone else.
Speaker 3 (30:57):
Yeah, I didn't want to hear that I ordained I
married you. Now I got to go through this process
in my head. Raselli, good morning in Harper City.
Speaker 12 (31:04):
How are you hey, I'm doing much better than some
other folks, I think.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
Well you can call us by name, so listen, Annascelli.
I think you have a good point here and from
what I read on the call screen, But go ahead
and make your point about Carla finding out about the
fact that her husband is still cheating on her.
Speaker 12 (31:24):
Listen, Carla, I just want to congratulate you. You won. You
finally you're free. Right, you will be lied to, and unfortunately,
I'm sorry it took this happening for you to reconfirm
what you thought was to be true. But listen, you're
better off now, you know, and I know you were
reluctant to, you know, split up the family, but you're
(31:45):
better off. Do you know what I mean? Don't You
don't need a two parent home. You also don't need
someone who's going to continuously lie to you. So in
the grand scheme of things, you won.
Speaker 3 (31:55):
I agree, she'll she'll look at back at this and
there's no second guessing you have. I mean a lot
of times in life you say to yourself, I just
need clarity. I'm prepared or not prepared, but at least
with clarity, I know what I'm dealing with. I can't
handle what I don't understand, what I don't know. I
can try to handle what I have clarity with. And
that's where we are, and that's what happened, and that's
(32:16):
what right now.
Speaker 12 (32:17):
Yeah, you want a partner that you can like trust
and you know, have honest, crazy conversations about and it
shouldn't have to take this behind the scenes to get
to this point. You want someone that's and only that.
But let's just say like he you know, he apologizes
and he actually means it. Whatever, Like there's always going
to have there's always going to be some sort of
second doubt. So even if she were to go back, like,
(32:39):
you're not going to feel good.
Speaker 5 (32:40):
We both know that.
Speaker 12 (32:41):
So look, just call it what it is you want
and you're free now to just it's going to suck,
but you know, start the process of moving forward.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Licensed therapist are A Selly from Harbor City on the
line right now.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Thank you for calling.
Speaker 12 (32:56):
Thanks, yeah, just you know, given my two cents. But yeah,
I wish, I wish, I wish you the best for
sure and the baby.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Yeah, take good care and thanks for that. Clarity. You
can handle clarity, you can't handle ambiguity.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
M deep but two point seven kiss FM. Tanya had
a little drama on a flight recently.
Speaker 6 (33:16):
Okay, well, I'm interested on where you stand on this
because it wasn't It didn't happen to me, but it
happened to the the row in front of me on
this flight, So there's always somebody who's next to the window,
and then there's somebody who's in the middle, and then
there's somebody who's in the aisle.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Right, what do you request?
Speaker 4 (33:34):
I prefer the window because I, yeah.
Speaker 6 (33:37):
I lean up against I don't want people like rummaging
all over me if they have to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4 (33:42):
I'd rather just like hold my pee and like.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
What, oh, yes that was you answered it? Go ahead, yeah.
Speaker 6 (33:47):
So but the woman in front of me, we were
taking off on like a very early flight, and it
was like kind of still dark out, and so they
asked everybody to like lower their shade so that if
people wanted to sleep or whatever, just keep it dark.
And the woman in the aisle wanted to sleep, and
so and the woman in the in the with the
window opened her window. And so the woman in the
(34:07):
aisle asked the guy if the flight attendant if he
could ask the woman to lower her shade, and she
like got into it with the flight attendant, saying like
I want to read and I'm on the window, and
she wouldn't shut down her window, and I was like
it to me, it felt so rude because I feel
like it has to be like a row consensus.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
It's not just your window, it's the whole Rose window.
Speaker 2 (34:30):
Why didn't she just ask the lady? Why did she
have to ask the flight attendant to ask the lady.
Speaker 6 (34:35):
I didn't hear, but I'm guessing she probably did and
she said no.
Speaker 3 (34:39):
But there are two types of people, right, Yeah, they're
the challengers and they're the acquiescers.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
I'm an acquiescer.
Speaker 4 (34:48):
I don't I don't know what that means.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
Please right, I'm going to do you have no problem
absolutely trying to Sorry, Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
I don't even think about that, like I'm not challenging it.
I'm like, I'm so sorry. I'm that person. I don't
want to get into that. I don't want the same
thing in a relationship. I don't want the confrontation. I
don't want to have the talk.
Speaker 6 (35:08):
I just want to say, are we good and we're
gonna learn your lesson?
Speaker 4 (35:14):
You just say it's all good, then like that's going
to come up again.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
We learned throughout I actually have learned in a relationship
to say, can we not be awkward after this conversation
and have the conversation. Can we not make this awkward
and then have the conversation. It kind of diffuses the
uncomfortableness afterwards because you usually get them to agree not
to be awkward.
Speaker 2 (35:34):
That's good.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Are we good now?
Speaker 11 (35:36):
No?
Speaker 1 (35:36):
No, no, that's yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:37):
All we can we be good after this and here's this,
but after this, sister, just be good.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
Yeah, it kind of works.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
Jenna, how are you this morning?
Speaker 9 (35:46):
I'm good. How are you?
Speaker 1 (35:48):
Okay? Thanks? So you're calling about you're getting married?
Speaker 9 (35:52):
Well, not quite, but ever since I saw that you
officiated Tanya's wedding, I wanted to call and ask if
you at a officiate mine.
Speaker 3 (36:01):
Well, listen, first of all, this is a really new
business for me. It's kind of a startup operation officiating weddings.
I'm honored that you would even consider me to officiate
your wedding.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Jenna. What's your last name?
Speaker 9 (36:16):
Oh it's Smith.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Jenna Smith. Okay, Well, I was trying to get to
know you. I'm gonna officiate your wedding with Tany and Roberts.
Speaker 9 (36:26):
Well, I thought you could say your signature line at
the end of the ceremony. That's what really got me thinking.
I thought that would be great.
Speaker 3 (36:33):
Yes, seacrest out, So we worked backwards from you. Yeah, well, Jenna,
tell me about your fiance.
Speaker 9 (36:42):
Well that's the issue is I'm still single right now,
so I was just to lock.
Speaker 3 (36:47):
You in my officiating caounter is going to get booked
up after Toyn and Robbie.
Speaker 9 (36:52):
Exactly right.
Speaker 3 (36:55):
I think that's great, and you're on the same, basically
the same pace. I'm at here with this whole thing.
So well, I will remember you, Jenna Smith, and as
the months years go by, I will reserve a spot
for me to officiate wedding and by then I've probably
have done some more because it just has to be
a best man.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
My who wedding game's upped after Tanya and Robbie's.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
I think it's also up in your out to other
game too.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
I don't see that, but I appreciate the vote of confidence.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
Jenna. Good luck meeting.
Speaker 3 (37:24):
Your fiance and I look forward to the wedding one day.
Speaker 1 (37:28):
All right, plan, aren't you?
Speaker 6 (37:31):
It's always good to be prepared, manifesting at its finest.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Ye, all I have to do is seecrest out. It's
gonna be an easy gig for me by Jenna.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Perfect thing maybe that's the selling point. When she meets
a dude, she's like, hey, and by the way, I
already have the guy that couldn't do our wedding.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
You know that's not gonna lass if that's the selling anyway,
if you'd like to be officiate your wedding, please reach out.
It's one eight hundred and five to seven.
Speaker 6 (37:53):
You can just go officiating all these weddings now possessive, yes, possession.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
There's a lot of people that have this business out
of this and all they do is officiate wedding.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
And I had to put in time to get my
official license to marriage.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
Okay, it takes three minutes to get that.
Speaker 3 (38:10):
Take me excuse me, Tech savvy did not take me
three minutes. My batteries dead had charged my iPad, not the.
Speaker 1 (38:20):
Log in. Yeah, Tubbs had to get involved.
Speaker 3 (38:23):
It's not just a four minute process, you guys.
Speaker 1 (38:25):
Oh my god. I'd like to really use what I've.
Speaker 6 (38:29):
Get some use out of it. Yeah, it lasts for
I think like a long time.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
It lasts definitely longer than a sunflower blooming. That's it
for us today, Kiss FM. We're back tomorrow with some
more action, including a second date update.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Thanks, guys, have a good one. Yes it's kiss. Thanks
for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure
to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
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