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September 12, 2025 34 mins
On today's show: Ryan gives advice to a listener who has a friend with sneaky plans, Sisanie talks about "Quiet Dumping" and we have your Weekend Watchlist and the Weekend Preview. Catch up NOW on the On Air With Ryan Seacrest Podcast!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
That's not so much one of two point seven because
I f'm now Avertato and Timberland there, good morning, Seacrest
assistanty Tanya with you, just to tell you, I just
opened my laptop here and there's a foreign hair blonde.
I can't tell because up against the screen, was up
against the screen. It's not my hair. That's odd. It

(00:33):
was not sure, it's not it's my hair.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
It could also just been like where you were last time,
if you were in like a public spot with your laptop.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
But think about hair, Like hair's beautiful, Like, look at
your hair. You take time to do your hair. You
like your hair. Tanya's crimped her hair today, Yeah, it's crimped.
SSA straightened her hair today, straight hair. I put new
goop in my hair today.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
I love your hair today.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
Well, we take time for you hair.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
But why that one strand can be such a turn off?
But it's so beautiful altogether.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
Oh it like grossed you out? Yeah, Like you see
a little hair on anything, You're like, well, we see
on our head.

Speaker 4 (01:09):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Why is it such a pivot?

Speaker 1 (01:12):
I understand individually.

Speaker 5 (01:13):
I used to get so icked out by what is
it called, like the the shaving remnants, like when men shave,
and it's like in the same.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Whiskers whatever that is.

Speaker 6 (01:23):
It used to grow gross me out. It's just hair,
and now it doesn't.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
I know, it's just hair.

Speaker 6 (01:30):
No it doesn't. I think I just got used to it.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
But think of a fly. A fly in your food
is gross. But it's just a fly.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
Yeah, yeah, but it'll flies land on poop, I know.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
But now I found out they only lived twenty four hours,
and that's so sad.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Oh my god. You should foster them.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Yeah, why don't you have?

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Should leave your doors open and bring them in. Yeah,
give them all kinds of sweet treats and bring them
all in and celebrate them for their day.

Speaker 6 (01:53):
It made me sad.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
I feel like I discovered that on this show maybe
last week or the weekend.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
It was literally last week.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
Listen.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
If it's anything that you've learned, it's got to be here. Yeah,
all right, partly sunny this weekend, which is nice, not
as hot, gonna be good weekend in LA. We've got
your Dodger tickets coming up next to kiss good morning.
We're here for the long run. An adult fly lives
fifteen to thirty hours. I was just handed in a note.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
That's right, So sad, I don't know there's one in
my house for like two days. So that one really
got the most of life.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Well it's on the wellness longevity program.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Yeah, but you could tell, like the day too is
like slowing down.

Speaker 3 (02:26):
You're on kiss of course, Like that song is a
good song to wake up to. How do you adjust
your volume on your music when it comes on on
your phone?

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Can you? Cause mine is blaring?

Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yeah, whenever your volume is set when you go to bed,
like just in general, that's the volume that it's going
to be for your.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Alarm, Sonny to turn my volume down?

Speaker 3 (02:42):
Correct because my louis which is a soft song, it
goes on so loud.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Oh yeah, you just have to. You just have to
before you go to bed.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Check.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
We'll see where your volume's at and then adjust it
to whatever they want.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
So it's that easy?

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Is that easy?

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Well? Look at this. We got a football weekend. Today
is Friday. We got Friday Night Live. I run it down.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
One hundred and sixty one high school fooball game across
SOICW tonight. Wow, there're some of the big matchups, Tanya Ciny, Yes,
what do you know about the annual Kings of Cameron Showdown?

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Tonight?

Speaker 3 (03:14):
West Covina South Hills Huskies and the West Covina Bulldogs
sit on the opposite ends of Cameron Avenue, so the
Cameron Crown is the line.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
Tonight.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
South Hills won last year for the first time since
twenty nineteen. Sysney Tanya. In the backroom Pallas Verdes, the
Battle of the Beach coach Jeff Grady leads QB Sam
Thomas and the Edison Charges from Huntington Beach into Pallas
Verdi said, take on coach Guy Gardner, Wa, do you.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Know about about GG?

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Don't know GG?

Speaker 3 (03:43):
What about QB QB Ryan Rakowski? Both teams are two
and one going into this matchup, Sysanty Tania. Last year,
the number one ranked Modern Day Monarchs from Santa Anna
dominated the number six ranked Corona Centennial Huskies in the
semi finals. But Centennial coach Matt Logan, you hear about
him a lot, say they've closed the gap.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
It's payback time.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
Mark.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
We should to get some of these coaches, some of
these players on everyone's been into their head. Sure, exactly,
let's dig into that for Friday night lights, let's feature
some of these star players.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Actually, let's also feature.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
Some of the guys that don't get to play.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
That was me.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Let's give some Let's give some spotlight to the bench guys,
the benchwarmers.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Let's talk to some cheerleaders.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Ciciny, I would love to talk to cheerleaders. Let's have
him in the studio.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Whatever you want.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
Friday night lights, clear sky, seventy four degrees. Game time
tonight in Corona should be a beautiful sunset at seven
oh three. Go to the teams, the cheerleaders, student.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Athletes, right color guard. Congratulations, you made it to another
game weekend.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Kiss back in a second. Bring it on in this morning.
We are gonna have a little family meetings. So Ciny
was caught? Are you caught doing something? You should probably
include your spouse in.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Listen, we're all adults. Everyone's in charge of their own responsibilities.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
What point do you stop doing like these little tasks
as a couple, because odds are you're going to go
somewhere together. But you were caught getting tsa pre check
before you even told your husband about it.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
First of all, I haven't had it yet. I have
the appointment set, but he saw it in the our
shared calendar and he's like, wait a minute, why are
you going to get pre TSA checked without me? And
I was like, what do you mean without you? I
didn't think I had to make that appointment with you.
And he makes a point.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
But I'm with him on this.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, it crossed my mind for a second. But also
Michael lags to do things like this, like the only
reason that has a passport is because of me, Like
you know and so, but then you should.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
Definitely help him with his TSA precheckism never get to go.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
With it, but we will never find the time to
do it. And this was so convenient. I have clear
and Clear sent me a message that basically we can
get PRETSA if we go to a Staples. Like it's
so easy now, And to make the appointment was so easy.
I was like, oh, this was so easy. When he's ready,
he can just make his appointment, no big deal. I
have my real ID. He doesn't have a real ID.
Like all you need to have all these things in general,

(06:11):
and I don't need to like hold his hand for everything,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (06:15):
I mean, this is a slippery slope. Are you planning
an escape?

Speaker 1 (06:18):
That's what he said. He's like, what are you gonna
flee the country with the kids, And.

Speaker 3 (06:21):
I'm like, no, I mean first this, next you find
a gondola in Venice.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
Down there, I travel separately for work and things like that.
What if something comes up then I have to go
somewhere and then now I have it.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
I just think it's a very courteous thing. We must
not allow me to give some marriage to counseling here,
you please.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I find that those who have never been through things
like this are really good sometimes at advice.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
This isn't a thing.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
From your point of view. Yeah, there are two people
in this marriage. You can't just decide it's not a
thing when it actually is a thing.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
It's not a thing. He was like teasing and he's
over it and it was not real.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
Teasing is a massed way of telling the truth.

Speaker 6 (06:59):
Yes, facts.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
So I think you have.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
To be careful when you start losing these courtesy moments
as a couple. Like you said, he has a weakness,
He kicks things, he procrastinates. He didn't want to have
his passport without you. He's never going as whatever without you.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
He's not, but he can also still get it without me,
and it's easy to do.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
You know what the philosophers of ancient Greece used to say,
what many a truth is said in jest?

Speaker 1 (07:27):
I don't understand what that means.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
A lot of truth is said as.

Speaker 5 (07:30):
A joke, meaning like teasing means. It's like a it's
a truth and he's.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Does he masking it? I don't want to start anything.
But does he know you're going to the iHeartRadio Music
Festival in Vegas?

Speaker 1 (07:40):
Yeah? He does, and he's not coming because he has
to hold it down here and do all the things
with the kids.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
Tonya, this is going to be the tone soon, This
is going to be the tone.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
You have to pick and choose.

Speaker 5 (07:48):
No, but I understand, I understand. I would be upset
if Robbie went to get Presa whatever tsa pre check
without me.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
I was getting warm on marriage.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Now, this not a big deal. You guys, all.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
Right, we're coming back, and it's not a big deal
to uses, and you cannot decide for both.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
I'm a marriage couple counsel in this break right now, I.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
Can also make an appointment today to be with me.
It's not a big deal, but it was just more.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
I don't want to point out your defensiveness. I don't
want to point out defensiveness, but we must be truthful.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
You just got to live my life.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
Okay, it's a duo.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
We are, We dodo everything else.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
What's going to happen?

Speaker 6 (08:30):
I'm just telling you ours together.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
Just when I was considering you're married for four months.

Speaker 6 (08:35):
Five minutes, it's about to be six months exactly.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
Thank you for making making our appoint Adding this to
your food could help live longer. Hang on, let's get
into it. We got a quote the day here in
a second, but it's Friday. It does not forget it's Friday.
Wake up, the day is all day Friday. So adding
this to foods, they say, can really help you live
a little bit longer. And that is adding spice. They

(08:59):
said that people who eat spicy fumes almost daily have
fewer deaths from heart disease, cancer, and breathing issues in general.
So if you eat the spice on a regular Now,
spice doesn't I used to eat a lot of spice.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
It doesn't work for me. Now it bothers me.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
There's ginger kind of spice like ginger fine but other
spices like hot spices of and arrow's hurt.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
I think your taste beds are all out of whack.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Why do you think that?

Speaker 1 (09:23):
Because you change your diet up so much and you
go so extreme that like now you can't even have
like some tabasco on your.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
This is what my best friend just told me. Really, yeah,
because I used to love all those sauces. What's your
sauce called it?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
You guys alchie lead though.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
See I used to travel with sauces like that, those sauce.
You put them on eggs, you put them on potatoes,
put them on fries.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
Anyways, spice Today's quote on a Friday, The wrong people
always teach the right lessons.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
That is basically what I was trying to tell you.

Speaker 6 (09:50):
If you.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Teaching a good lesson kiss and Suabbrina. Let's roll into
it headlines and after Tanya's got three funny questions for us.
Why are they so funny?

Speaker 6 (10:04):
That's just what they are. It's like three fun questions.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
These are on Instagram.

Speaker 6 (10:08):
There's something I found them on Instagram.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
Hang on Sydney Headline FM headlines with Sissy Well.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
The suspected shooter of conservative activists. Charlie Kirk is in custody,
a twenty two year old from Utah who was apparently
turned in by his own family. Health officials say, if
you see a bat in Pasadena, leave it alone. One
just tests it positive for rabies. A federal judge just
put new limits on Homeland Security agents and the LAPD,

(10:36):
saying they can't use force against journalists. And Sean White
and Nita Dobrev are going their separate ways. The Champion
Snowboarder and the Vampire Diaries actress have ended their engagement
and broken up after five years together.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
It's one or two point seven because I FM A
Los Angeles Good morning. Okay, so Tanya, go ahead. This
is your three questions you found on Instagram.

Speaker 5 (10:58):
Yeah, okay, so it's supposed to be are supposed to
ask your significant other. And I saw this and I
haven't done it to Robbi yet. I thought, why not
bring it here and do it with you guys first. Okay, Okay,
so you guys can just answer. It could be about
any any one of us, right, if we had to
switch lives for twenty four hours, what would stress you
out the most?

Speaker 3 (11:20):
Being married to your husband's just generally Ryan's schedule.

Speaker 6 (11:27):
Yeah, truly stressful. Okay.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
If I left you, thank you for thinking about that.

Speaker 5 (11:34):
If I left you a voicemail that started with don't
be mad, what is the first thing you would assume
I did.

Speaker 6 (11:41):
I would assume that you guys hung out without me.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Wow, don't be mad. But I don't know. Actually I
don't know what you could do.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
I don't think you could do anything would make us mad.
And that's a rare quality.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Not mad like perturbed.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
I mean, you get a little defensive when I want
to share my ordained ship with officiating other people's.

Speaker 5 (12:05):
So you would say, like, don't get don't be mad,
officiate somebody else's wedding.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Well, no, it's more possession you.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
You have a little bit of a friendly possessiveness with
some things.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
He's very possessive thing that I think about it, Yes, in.

Speaker 2 (12:17):
General, like we can't go out without you, that's possessive.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
It is.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
I mean, I not being an officiated of people's wedding
after I went through that course, that's possessive.

Speaker 5 (12:25):
It's not possessive. Okay, was upset with your sister Courtney
for copying her wedding?

Speaker 2 (12:31):
It's called keeping Up with the Kardashians. They're supposed to be.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
The whole point of the show is to create exactly
and then make up.

Speaker 6 (12:39):
I'm just saying, I understand, all right, what's next?

Speaker 5 (12:43):
If you had to swap my laugh out with an
animal sound, what would you give me?

Speaker 2 (12:47):
Hyena? Like that? You had be fun, be quirky.

Speaker 1 (12:53):
Oh, we like trying to compare it like what we
think it sounds like, or what we would want to.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
No, no, if she would laugh like an animal that
you know.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
Yeah, animal, Okay, I don't know, like a monkey or something.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
It's we're on the same pip, there's rupie. There's a
real laugh.

Speaker 6 (13:08):
If your laugh sounded like horses trotting.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
But you thought about this stuff wrong.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
Yeah, there's no bad answers.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
I thought these were Why are these questions so about you?

Speaker 6 (13:20):
Well, it's supposed to be ask your significant other thing.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
And so you learn about the same about having some fun.

Speaker 3 (13:26):
Yeah, I think, just to give you an overview of
this segment, you are a little defensive with our answers,
which you shouldn't be because you asked us.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
So we didn't ask you to ask these questions. F Yi.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
I thought it was cute and let it out.

Speaker 2 (13:39):
I'm here to let it out. That's why i come
in to let it out. This FM. Here we are.

Speaker 3 (13:46):
So something that is coming up every once in a
while is this topic about how do you break up
with somebody? They're calling it a dumper? How do you
dump someone? How have you been dumped? What kind of
a dumper are you? And you suggested you can be direct,
or you can drag it out, or you can just
be sort of evasive about it.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Think I'm a direct I think I've always been a
direct to the point. Once I kind of felt like
it was over. It didn't last more than a week
or so, and then I was like, all right, this
is done.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
I think I'm a mutual dumper. Except but what does
that mean that?

Speaker 3 (14:15):
Usually we come to the same conclusion, even though it's
a hard conclusion to come to.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
Were you the one to bring it up?

Speaker 2 (14:19):
Though I do love bringing it up.

Speaker 1 (14:22):
I feel like you're the one that brought it up.

Speaker 6 (14:23):
Yeah, yeah, I'm always the dumpy.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
If you're the one that brought it up, that means
you're the dumper mutual.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Always bring it up. You didn't deny it, well, just
tell me what you learned.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
So there's this new version of dumping, and it's called
quiet dumping, kind of like ghosting, but a little bit sneakier.
So instead of just disappearing, the person slowly pulls back
and it's just less text messaging, less intimacy which is obvious,
a fewer real conversations, and.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
You can feel that pull.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
You feel that pool and if you've ever done that,
that's the name that you have. Now you're a quiet dumper.
But the twist is that they don't officially break up
with you. They're hoping that you notice all.

Speaker 2 (15:06):
This behavior and then you push it away.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
And then you end it, and it leaves the other
person very confused, second guessing themselves, stuck in this weird
limbo like what did I do wrong? And that's basically
very cruel and manipulative, just like you said, so, quiet dumping,
I don't think is the way to go.

Speaker 6 (15:25):
I've done this once.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
When did it work? Well?

Speaker 6 (15:29):
You know why, because I'm always the one dumped. I'm
the dumpy.

Speaker 5 (15:33):
And for the first time I knew I just didn't
want to date this guy, but I wanted to leave
the door. I didn't want to shut it completely because
I wasn't sure, and.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
What did you do to make him not so into you?

Speaker 6 (15:44):
Literally exactly what this said.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah, you stopped texting that much.

Speaker 5 (15:47):
I would space out my text messages. I would like
not respond for a couple of days. I would like
always be busy.

Speaker 1 (15:53):
This is kind of tied to quiet quitting. Remember you've
talked about quiet quitting when you show up to work
and you just do the bare minimum and you just
kind of wait to almost get fired. Yeah, it's kind
of like that, but just the dating version of it.

Speaker 3 (16:06):
Somebody's just the worst, and being dumped is also the
worst bad all right, thank you for that coming down
on I'm down on it.

Speaker 1 (16:14):
I mean I think it's less bad to be the.

Speaker 2 (16:17):
Dumper having been on both sides. Sure.

Speaker 3 (16:22):
Yeah, Yeah, we're playing a match game right now. It's
kind of fun, is listening on. We are going around
with the panel. It's that deal we're tubs. Is always
at the end with the big decision breakpoint. Jennifer contested
number one and Colton good.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Morning, good morning, and our Sally in Palmdo good morning.
You're contested number two. How are you hi?

Speaker 7 (16:42):
Good morning, Ryan, I'm doing great, Thank you great.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
So Jennifer and ARECELLI are playing contestant's one and two,
and it's called the match Games.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
Here's how it works, guys. We'll give you a phrase
of the blanket.

Speaker 3 (16:51):
Whoever gets the most matches with our panel gets the tickets.
All right, we'll start with you, Jennifer, contestant number one,
and yours is don't say it out loud, just think
about this. Yours is book blank, book blank, book blank.
Think about that. Okay, go ahead, what'd.

Speaker 2 (17:15):
You say, book shelf, book shelf? All right, Sisney book mark.
That's what I thought.

Speaker 1 (17:23):
For a match book report. All right, ruby, bookshelf, bookmark.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
That's me.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
But you said so hopefully, I thought, all right, and
comes down to topster engineer?

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Is it?

Speaker 2 (17:37):
Book shelf book club? Too much enthusiasm for the wrong answer.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Top Sorry, just eats Friday.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
All right, next our Sally, Here you go. Yours is
hair blank, hair blank.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
Okay, what'd you say, hair clip or hairs hair clip clip.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
We'll go with hair clip. Great. I was tating hair plugs,
hair clip, Sysney hair hair tie, hair Tanya hair clip.

Speaker 6 (18:08):
Hair length. I panicked, I stress, and I.

Speaker 2 (18:12):
Didn't be down on yourself. It's found about at all.

Speaker 8 (18:16):
Ruby, I said haircut.

Speaker 2 (18:19):
That's a good one. If Tubbs said hair clip, you're
the winner. Tubs hair clip. Wow, out the look the
crowd goes wild. Thank you. It was good until you gloated.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
Oh he's such a gloater.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
Congratulations, he's such a proud gloader are Sally?

Speaker 2 (18:41):
You have won the Halloween All Nights tickets. Jennifer, Thank
you for playing, Thank you for listening. Thank you, Love
you guys. Both have a great Friday and weekend.

Speaker 1 (18:51):
It is Kiss on Air with Ryan.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Secrets, Leon Thomas, Chris Brown, one of two point seven
Kiss FM. Let me grab this caller before your dodger
tickets for this hour. Kelly, good morning. How are you?

Speaker 2 (19:09):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (19:09):
Am good things?

Speaker 4 (19:10):
How are you? Guys?

Speaker 2 (19:11):
We are super good.

Speaker 3 (19:13):
So your friend is eloping because her fiance wants to,
but she doesn't.

Speaker 2 (19:19):
Is that right?

Speaker 4 (19:21):
Yeah, she sure is.

Speaker 3 (19:24):
Well, let's start with what you said to her as
a good friend. What'd you tell her?

Speaker 1 (19:29):
Well?

Speaker 4 (19:29):
I told her, I mean I've known this girl since
we've been best friends since we were kids, and she
would always be the one to play wedding and she
wanted this huge fairy tale wedding and all of a
sudden now she wants to Elope and I it's just
it's not her. I mean, she's made so many decisions
based on this guy. Like she's turned down incredible jobs

(19:52):
because of him. She's kind of stopped hanging out with us.
Everything is at his pace where he wants to move,
what he wants to do, and I just I don't
really know what to do. And I told her that,
and she got defensive. But I kind of just feel
like it's all him, So like I don't know how
much to step in or if I just stay out
of it.

Speaker 2 (20:12):
I don't. Yeah, I mean it's kind of a lose
lose when you get involved in something like this.

Speaker 9 (20:17):
I am not an opponent of eloping, so I might
be the wrong person to ask because I just I've
never done it, But I just have taken so many Now,
I've been to a wedding recently.

Speaker 3 (20:30):
Time's wedding I went to and that was a great experience.
But I also have talked to a lot of people
get so stressed out about the wedding that they lose
sight of the reason they're there, and so eloping seems
like an easy solution.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
Look, she could have changed her mind people change, and
she must love this guy a lot if she's like
changing so much in her life for him. But if
you don't like to see it, and you've already said
this stuff to her, you have two choices. You stay
and you support her, or you say, I can't watch
this and we can't be friends anymore.

Speaker 5 (21:03):
Okay, but this could also be like a fleeting thought.
I feel like if you at some point don't think
about eloping in your engagement, then, like I thought about
eloping at one point, my friend that just got married
thought about eloping at one point. I feel like maybe
she's at the point where she's so stressed out that
she's considering it. But like, I think all you can
do is just encourage her to do what she wants

(21:24):
to do in her heart. If it takes a little
bit longer to have the wedding that she wants, that's
fine too. I think you can just encourage her in
the direction that you think she wants to go down.

Speaker 4 (21:35):
Right, Yeah, that makes sense.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
I think when you get involved with a side, especially
the beginning of a marriage like this, and they're a
couple and they're your friend, you have to be careful
you're not going to win.

Speaker 4 (21:52):
Yeah, I don't want to lose her completely, you know.

Speaker 3 (21:54):
And then if she decides to go with your advice
and it's wrong, forget do you like the guy?

Speaker 1 (22:01):
I like him fine enough?

Speaker 2 (22:04):
Oh does she know that.

Speaker 10 (22:07):
I have?

Speaker 4 (22:08):
I've mentioned like little bits and pieces for sure, But
it's just kind of been the slow dissolving of like
the girl that I knew, and the ambition and all
of these things. I mean, she's just such a go getter.
And again, like she was the one that I've never
met anyone who wanted a wedding so bad. So like
when I see my friends start to disappear and try
to find herself her away, like, I don't know, it's tough.

Speaker 1 (22:32):
Yeah, you're salty about it.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
I get it, Kelly.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
Thank you for calling. There's a lot here that you
need to be careful with.

Speaker 4 (22:40):
I appreciate that. Thank you. Guys.

Speaker 3 (22:41):
You take your care of God bide. She does not
like him, that's all that's common. That's common. Your friends
don't like who came in and took you from them.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
It's not uns he took her from he took her
from herself.

Speaker 2 (22:53):
Like, it's just fine.

Speaker 3 (22:55):
That's a good way of saying it, but you don't
want to be the one giving the advice and it's
the wrong advice in that situation.

Speaker 1 (23:01):
Oh no, I have just bit my tongue and just
let them do what they want to do.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
I'm telling it with the Trending Report FIRS. Cuffing by
definition is what?

Speaker 6 (23:12):
That's a great question. I don't know the technical.

Speaker 5 (23:16):
Not the technical term, but basically, it's like when you like,
over summer, everybody wants to be single and they break up,
and then you want a cuff because you want to
be in a relationship for the holidays.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
I better get moving.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
It's like you're linked together with cuffs.

Speaker 2 (23:28):
Yeah all right, And so I was saying, is my
bromance cuffing? So I thought you.

Speaker 5 (23:32):
Meant Glenn Powell, But now I realize you mean Austin Butler.

Speaker 2 (23:35):
Austin Butler, I'm so sorry.

Speaker 1 (23:38):
Yeah, Austin, but you moved on from Glenn Powell.

Speaker 2 (23:40):
That's I have done that long time ago. That was
my last Darrol.

Speaker 1 (23:43):
Wow, you really are a monkey Brancher.

Speaker 6 (23:45):
Yeah, monkey Brancher.

Speaker 2 (23:47):
These guys come and go.

Speaker 3 (23:48):
Guys, these men come and go, you know, they come
on the show, they win our hearts and boom, they're
at that, they're on my fridge.

Speaker 5 (23:55):
Okay, we're gonna start out with Austin Butler because he
potentially could be cuffing with my Emily Rodakowski AKA and Rada.
They were spotted out to dinner together. At one point
he even put his arm around her. So for some reason,
I thought Austin Butler was much younger than em Rada.
But I did a little research and they're both thirty four.

(24:16):
So I'm loving this pair.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
I thought of Butler was not thirty anything.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, he was like twenty four.

Speaker 5 (24:22):
I know, I know. No, they're both thirty four. I
love the same age situation. So my next couple that
is cuffing Olivia Wilde and Ellie Golding's ex husband, Casper Jopplings.
So the two of them were spotted kissing. I don't
know how long this has been going on, but definitely
going to keep my eyes on those.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
Well, it was with Harry Styles back in the day, right.
I forgot about that too until you brought up her name.

Speaker 5 (24:48):
Yes, Olivia wild like some younger and then last, but
certainly certainly not least, Olivia Jade and Glenn Powell were
spotted on a date.

Speaker 6 (24:59):
But apparently this was all.

Speaker 5 (25:00):
Fake news because just the other night, Olivia Jade was
spotted at the Frankensiegn premiere to support Jacob Allerdy, who
she had split with a month prior. He was holding
her dress going up the stairs, So I feel like
they might be back on this.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
Whole coving concept is something to not not think about for.

Speaker 6 (25:20):
Sure, because you want to be with someone that's getting colder.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
You want someone to share your coat with, or snuggle with,
or like have a pumpkin spice latte with.

Speaker 2 (25:28):
It's the best season to have someone.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
On It is a little missiletoe.

Speaker 3 (25:35):
All right, thank you for the PSA. We're going into
our weekend watch list. You all ready for this. If
there's anything on your radar, share it. I mean I
totally find stuff to watch by people telling me they've
seen it and it's something they think I would like.
Sometimes the streamer tells me what they think I would like.
But my friends are pretty good at sharing things that
stand out.

Speaker 2 (25:55):
So Sysney, tell us what should we watch? We can
watch list for the weekend watch list.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
All right, So I stumbled upon this on Netflix. It's
called Love con Revenge. Remember the Tender swindler. So it's
kind of like that. It's victims of romance scams and
they try to just reclaim their lives with help of
a private investigator. So they hire these two girls are
private investigators, and they end up like catching these scammer

(26:22):
boyfriends that they had in their lives. There's six episodes
all streaming right now on Netflix.

Speaker 2 (26:27):
All right, Tanya, what's on your weekend? Watch this?

Speaker 5 (26:29):
So mine is only Murders in the Building is back
with season five on Hulu. So this time Charles, Oliver
and Mabel are investigating the death of their doorman of
their building. Three episodes are out now and then new
episodes come out on Tuesdays.

Speaker 8 (26:47):
Ruby, we can watch this Wednesday season two, Part two
on Netflix. So I love Jenna Ortega as Wednesday Adams.
She attempts to master her emerging psychic ability for a
killing spree and solve a twenty five year old mystery.
So the season's final four episodes just dropped. So that's
what I'll be binging this weekend.

Speaker 6 (27:06):
Do you know what I say on Instagram?

Speaker 5 (27:08):
What that for the first season of Wednesday she got paid,
Like I can't remember what the exact number was. It
was like either twenty thousand or some twenty thousand or
two hundred thousand, and first season.

Speaker 6 (27:18):
Two she got uh oh, shoot, I should really know
the number.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
I got a raise.

Speaker 5 (27:23):
Basically, she got a huge raise for season two. But
it just goes to show you sometimes you might not
get it might not be the biggest paycheck, but in
the long run, it's going to be a big win.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
Look at the big picture. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (27:34):
So on my weekend watches, I have two. I started Task.
Mark Ruffalo is in it. He's an FBI agent. It's
on Apple. I didn't get far into it, but I
love this guy. I have a anything Mark Ruffalo is
in I really like him.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
I don't I want to know him.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
I don't you know when you see somebody on TV
or a movie and you're like, I want to know them.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
Yeah, I want to know him.

Speaker 6 (27:54):
Think he's on the show.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
Yeah, but we don't really know.

Speaker 3 (27:58):
I just think he just calms me down, even though
it's kind of intense. So that's one. It's called Task,
all right. And then the other one is Chernobyl. Now
just a little bit out of the book.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
I want to see this one. Actually, it's so good.
What is on Apple. What is it on?

Speaker 9 (28:11):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (28:11):
It is on HBO Max.

Speaker 1 (28:13):
HBO Max.

Speaker 3 (28:14):
Yes, So back in nineteen eighty six, the city of
Chernobyl had this massive nuclear disaster and you've heard about
it probably as time goes on, but it really goes
back and rehashes it now. It's not unscripted, it's scripted.
But I haven't finished it. I've only gotten through one episode.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
Ruby. Did you get through it?

Speaker 4 (28:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (28:32):
I watched the entire thing.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
Does it get better than the pilot?

Speaker 8 (28:36):
It's really good. It's a little older, isn't it. This
is an older series. So I watched the entire thing.
It's really really good.

Speaker 2 (28:42):
I just think, Yeah, it populated on.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
My algorithm is blowing up.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
Have you seen Gossip Girl that just came out?

Speaker 10 (28:51):
Girls?

Speaker 2 (28:53):
Seventh Heaven just came up on mine.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
All right, but mine is giving me feeds like Gilmore Girls.
I was like, I don't it's a season.

Speaker 6 (28:58):
It's because it's the season.

Speaker 3 (29:00):
Speaking of Seventh Heaven, Jessica Biel is awesome and bad sister.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
Yes, that sister is.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
So you got to put that on your radar. That sister.
It's called The Better Sister. A different series, Irish show.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
It's very funny that one.

Speaker 7 (29:17):
I'm not seen better Sister. The Better Sister. I like
how we all win, Like yes, something about sister. And
I love her haircut, like I honestly want to.

Speaker 1 (29:31):
She has it in that show.

Speaker 2 (29:32):
She's awesome in it.

Speaker 3 (29:33):
Anyway, It's called the Better Sister and Bad Santa's the
one I might have been thinking.

Speaker 2 (29:36):
Of on air with Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
Man l A on a Friday with sunshine and not
so hot temperatures.

Speaker 1 (29:46):
Come on, come on, exactly, come.

Speaker 3 (29:50):
On, Southern California, what are you doing this weekend? Looking
at UCLA looking for their first win of this season?
Rose Bult tonight in New Mexico is the opponent. Usc
IS at Perdue. Tomorrow twelve thirty.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
Rams are in nash to play the Titans at ten
ten am.

Speaker 3 (30:08):
I love football early too, don't have to wait so
long for it. Chargers saysn't he don't pay.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
Until Monday night.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
That's right. They're gonna be in Vegas against the Raiders.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
Is NFL football on every night?

Speaker 1 (30:16):
Now?

Speaker 6 (30:17):
Literally? I feel like it.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
Is football football.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
It was just that weird Charger game on a Friday
from Brazil that threw you off.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
I don't know Lil Wayne.

Speaker 3 (30:27):
He's at Crypto dot com and Low Wayne's gonna be
at our I Already Music festival the next weekend.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (30:33):
Then we got Chris Brown at so FI tomorrow night.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
A lot of people are going too that this is
the man we turned down them.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
Yeah, I can't thank you. Good call.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
It was Ice screaming the Manhattan Beats Food and Wine Festival.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Come on, that sounds nice even if.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
You just think about going. It sounds fun right, anything
along the coast.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
The seventy ninth Annual East La Mexican Independence Celebration just
going down. Got the parade, the festival Sunday ten am.
And there's something we were all about. A lot memory
should go to the Emmys and work.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
I didn't even realize them as were this Sunday.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
I was kind of slow on that myself. This used
to be my life.

Speaker 3 (31:15):
I have to go out there on that red carpet
and memorize everybody who's coming and every.

Speaker 6 (31:17):
Show you crave me the same weekend as our festival.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
Now, I don't know when any of these are, but
the Emmys are Sunday. M hm dt LA. Now isn't
you're going line dancing tonight. I want to know more.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
No, I just backed out.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
Okay so much.

Speaker 1 (31:34):
I literally just texted my friends and I was like,
I can't do it, guys, We're I just I had
so something every night this week and I'm exhausted.

Speaker 3 (31:41):
Tony's celebrating her six month anniversary surprising Robbie.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
So you can't tell as much.

Speaker 5 (31:46):
Uh yeah, I actually I feel like he always says
he plans all of our date nights and stuff, so
I wanted to surprise him. But it is our six
month anniversary on Sundays, so I want to do something
to surprise him.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
And Ruby, what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (31:59):
Oh my god, I'm I'm so excited. We have a
pop up.

Speaker 8 (32:01):
So we partnered with some friends of ours at our
chef's at Scaffs on York in Highland Park.

Speaker 1 (32:07):
We're doing a pop up Sunday.

Speaker 8 (32:09):
They're gonna have tacos so fallaful tacos, beef shwarma tacos,
chicken shwarma tacos.

Speaker 1 (32:14):
With elchie Liito hot sauce.

Speaker 8 (32:16):
It's like a fusion of both Lebanese and Mexican cultures, so.

Speaker 3 (32:19):
That sounds amazing. Food is the way to my heart.
Alfonso you're going clamming.

Speaker 2 (32:24):
I'm going clamming. Where do you go clamming? Uh?

Speaker 10 (32:29):
So, I'm gonna visit my best friend and his wife
in San Luis, Obispoke. But we're gonna drive down a
Pismo beach and we're gonna go look for some Pismo clams.

Speaker 2 (32:38):
That sounds awesome. I'm so excited. We're gonna make like
a clam. Well that's huge, it's not that hard.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
The rubber overalls and well, no.

Speaker 10 (32:48):
I'm just gonna go in like some shorts, right, and
then I'm just gonna like they wash up on shore
from what I hear, and so you just pick them up.
They gotta be a certain size and all this stuff.
But we're gonna make them clams heat. A clam bake
is fun though.

Speaker 2 (33:02):
No, Well, we're planning on doing seafood linkinguini. So I
am hyped. Oh my little white wine sauce.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
I'm gonna get together my parents. I'm gonna go see
them kick them out in the beuch.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
Coming.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
It's Connie and Gary, the three of us. I'm coming
in hot for a trifecta.

Speaker 2 (33:18):
Yeah, the three amigos, the three as Yes, it's kiss FM.
Well it's Kiss and that's gonna wrap us up on
a Friday.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
Thank you for listening to us. Shall we look to Monday?
You want me to tell you, Yeah, it's Ryan's Roses Monday.
Ryan's rose is back.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
If you're trying to sell your house, paint the interior
walls this color.

Speaker 2 (33:41):
It's gonna help. I love that buyers will spend more.
I'll tell you about it.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
If you miss anything on the show today on the
Airthrine Secrets wherever you get your podcasts. Have a good
and save weekend, and we'll talk to your first thing
Monday together. I'm back with you tomorrow, eighteen forty Kiss FM.

Speaker 2 (33:59):
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