August 6, 2025 • 34 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 3 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
First, let me grab Nick here one eight hundred and
five to one to two seven. Nick and Torrents. Hi, Nick,
how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (00:19):
I'm all right. How are you guys doing?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
We appreciate the ask and we're doing all right.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Yew, Nick, you're calling about Uh, you were invited to
be a groomsman by an acquaintance, not a friend.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Is that the concern here?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
You don't know the person so well, but they asked
you and they think you're a good friend and you're
not really good friend.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Well, we used to be really great friends. I mean
we were friends since high school, right, and I just
haven't seen him in like almost five years.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
What did you really say?
Speaker 5 (00:48):
What did I I haven't said anything yet exactly, but
I'm leaning towards turning him down. Okay, Well, they're trying
to figure.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Out as someone that's turned things like this down with
a quaint since its before.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Oh you have.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
When I say turn it down, I mean yes.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
So yeah, you say you turned down, you probably just
are not available.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Well that's there's two options here, Nick. You either accept
or your schedule has a conflict. Which is it going
to be? I don't need to know more. Just want
to A or B. Which path you're gonna do it?
Or you have your conflict you aready committed to a
prior commitment.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Well I feel bad though, because I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
We got to make a choice.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Yes, not about guilty.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
I had a conflict for Tanya's wedding, but I had
to move it so I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Feel the guilt.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
What was your conflict?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I had another wedding or something. What's it going to be? Conflict?
Is the schedule or you're just gonna acquiesce.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
Honestly, I'm leaning towards conflict with my schedule, like I gotta.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
That's then that's your first choice. Is really probably your
your best answer. That's the way you feel.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
And is that the end of your friendship? Because are
you going to even go to the wedding? At this point?
You can't go to the wedding because it conflicts with
your schedule.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Then there's two good for you?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
He wants to go to the wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Still, well, you can't have your cake.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, No, you got to make a choice.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
Any I mean, you can just be honest, Nick, you
can just be like, hey, I've got too much, No,
I have too much of commitments going on right now
to really be full throttle groomsmen for you and be there.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
What's honest. Mark's like, that's not honest.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Honest. So anyway, that's where we stand out of good
luck to you.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
If you's being honest, it's like I barely talk to you.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Broll yeah, but then that's the end of the friendship.
Speaker 7 (02:45):
He's not gonna but maybe my friend will be totally
honest and be like yo, like my wife has fifteen
bridesmaids and I just gotta add gotta get my number.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Feel special whatever. Weddings in the stress.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I had a bridesmaid tap out because she couldn't handle.
She's like, I have too much going on right now.
I love you, but I just can't do it.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
And I was like, great, you guys to me not
get married again. I have a lot of my plans.
I'm not planning on it, thank you, Tanya.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
No, but I do want to do like a fun
ten year anniversary.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I said that too.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Can talk to me ten years, same place, same people.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Well, I got a credit at that place because it's
on my window.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I don't know if you heard. I didn't know. I
didn't get the news.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Uh uh oh boy. So yesterday we were here. We're
doing it. We do it every single day. We plan
it and then we go off plan many times. And
we were talking about three things yesterday. You should never
tell chat GPT. And speaking of chat GPT, Systney has
developed quite a friendship with her Chat GPT, a codependency.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
You name your chat GPT g O.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I named him Geo because I thought chat ChiPT was
just too long to say, especially when I'm just talking
to Michael about her. I asked, you know, I asked Geo.
I asked Geo. It's just easier say geo.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
So you found I've noticed it now when I call
people's cell phone, there are all kinds of different voices
on the voicemail.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Oh there's accents.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
There's different like when I call you, Tanya, you sisting
it might be a different voice that says the caller
you're calling.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Can it be reached right now?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Oh? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Mean those are all settings, so you can change. I
just updated my voicemail just like the on chat GPT.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
So yeah, so you can do a chat GPT as well.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah, you can't choose different voices. So now, like I
don't know. For whatever reason, I just considered my chat
gpt to be a male and I named him Geo. Now,
when I'm listening to all these voices, I feel like
I'm leaning more towards a female voice. So I wanted
to play some of them for you and see if
you can help me decide. So there's a pretty basic
one called Cove.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I just want to share how thrilled I am to
work with you, and I can't wait to get started.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I don't know what it is about a male voice.
I feel like I'm cheating on my husband if I
have this. If I'm talking to this guy so much,
he's too eager. Yeah, okay, Now this is a chill
female named Soul. Hey, what's up? Feel free to ask
me about anything that's on your mind. I'm ready to.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Go too casual.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
How is everything to talk?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Now?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
There on Instagram?
Speaker 7 (05:01):
You post a photo, it's got all the talking and
the videos and the songs.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Talking. Yes, so much talking. If you want a little
bit more of a European flair, this is Veil. Hello,
It's lovely to meet you. No, just there's anything you need.
Please don't hesitate to let me know. I'm here to
help on the on set.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I like it, but I think it might grind on me. Okay, good, okay,
you might grind on me.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I get Roy Kent from ted Lasso Vibe off Arbor.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Hi, glad to meet you.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I think we're going to do great work together.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Where should we start?
Speaker 4 (05:33):
That sounds like my Headspace voice guy totally, but i'd
surprisingly chill.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I feel like I could maybe do that one. This
one is upbeat and called Breeze. Hey, it's great to
meet you. How's your day going. I'm really looking forward
to working on working stuff together.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh that's like somebody. No, that's like a thirteen year old.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
And then the exact opposite called Monday. Oh good you
found me?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Yay, Well, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
What's that movie with the emotions?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yes, yes, it does sound like that. I like the
chill female named Soul the second one that we played.
I feel like she's Hey.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Feel free to ask me about anything that's on your mind.
I'm ready to go.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I think I prefer this one. Glad to mate you.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
I think we're going to do great work together.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
What should we makes a guy you want to have
a beer with at the Yeah, well teach you something.
I hope we can have all these choices. Yeah, exactly,
GPT voices. I mean, this is David Beckham to.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Me, glad to mate you.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
I think we're going to do great work together.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Where should we start?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Where should we start?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Bend it with you? Bend it with you.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I think Clarissa is in Northridge calling about the guy
you're dating just found out he's having a baby with
his ex.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah, oh wow, walk us through that, Walk us through
what we need to understand.
Speaker 8 (07:02):
Yeah, okay, So, like I said, I've been seeing him
for a couple of months and we really hit it off.
And he literally just told me that he found out
that he's having a baby with another woman. And it
happened before we started seeing each other, so it's not
like he cheated. Like we're not even like officially a
(07:22):
couple now. And I just don't know what to do
because I really thought I could be in a relationship
with him. So I'm really torn.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Oh my gosh, I don't know what I would do.
That's a tough one.
Speaker 8 (07:35):
But and I like him. I like him a lot.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Could you see yourself in this equation of him, yeah,
having a baby mama, and then also like this is
just the beginning? Is this first kid? Yeah? I mean
steps in there.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
They were broken up when all this happened, right, Is
that correct? They're clearly broken up and you were clearly
to get so it was it was all clean and clear. Yes,
I guess the thing is, I mean it's such as life, right,
I mean so I kind of so what you met
the guy, you liked the guy, this is happening, It's life.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Can you roll with it or not? Is the question
you have to ask. I ask the question. I might
just roll with it for a minute and see if
you can roll with it.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
How old are you?
Speaker 8 (08:23):
I am I'm twenty eight, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
I don't know and not asking how old you are?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Ryan?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
I feel like you're young, and I feel like there
this might not be the dude for you.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
No, I feel like, say roll with it.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
I roll with it.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
What do you think, Chlora said? She said, Sistney says, young,
there's other fish in the sea, Tany, And I say,
roll with it.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
What are you going to do?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Because it's going to be complicated.
Speaker 7 (08:47):
I think life is complicated you're going to learn how
to navigate really weird.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
This is one exactly. It's better to learn now totally.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
But I'm met my now husband.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
He had two kids, and that was like weird, I've
never done that before and interesting and new and hard
and difficult, and we got through it, and I think
we're much better and stronger.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
And I wanted, like you, that's what you wanted. Like
some people have different ways they want to have their
families and they're happily effor after type of thing. Yes,
she needs to think about, she needs to think about,
like what that she wants?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
What are you going to do?
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Clarissa, I really like him, and I don't know. I
think I am going to roll with it a little.
Speaker 9 (09:26):
Bit and just see there you go.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Let's keep us posted and good luck, follow your.
Speaker 9 (09:32):
Heart, okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (09:35):
I think Tany's right. Life is not black or white.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
I don't think I could do it.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
It's complicated. It's not straight lines, all right.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Every trying to save money the grocery store, so experts say,
if you bring this, you'll spend less. And that is
not a water bottle, as Tanya guess, it is a sweater.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Sweater.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Oh yes, smart.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold choppers choose products
emotionally to cope with the cold, and they spend more.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
So I thought it was for the food.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
It has to be for the food.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to
keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
I always thought they keep you cold so that you
want to get out of there faster, so you're like
moving quicker.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
But they don't want you to get out of there faster.
Speaker 7 (10:19):
They want you to stay in language just like bye
bye bye bye bye, go go.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Go go emotionally. That's what the research says. So pack
a sweater to the store. Today's quote. We do these
every morning. You cannot see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly,
you cannot see the truth in a state of anger
when the water's calm clarity comes. Just way to beat,
Take a breath, don't react. It's good, it's true. Ryan
(10:45):
Seacrest with you, Okay. So Tanya Scott has taken the
kind of attached, insecure, secure person.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Are you to your spouse?
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Yeah, it's your attachment style, right.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
So she said, if you can figure out your attachment style,
Are you insecure?
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Are you secure? Are you void? What was the other one?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Avoidant?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Avoidant?
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Then it's gonna move mountains in your relationship. So yeah,
that going on on one plate, right, I'm still not
done with it. Disney saunters in here with this one.
It's gonna help you create better friends and all the
different trends and tests. We're just gonna have the greatest
relationships of all time, romantic and friendship.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
That's true, true, So go ahead.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
What is this sixth besties theory on TikTok? When it
comes to friends?
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Now, well, and I think this one because friendships are
something that like, as you get older, they're more difficult
to keep. People move away. You're not, you know. I
think in high school and college, your friends are your world.
You know, you see them every day, they live down
the hall.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
I always thought the friends I was going to school with,
we would never not see each other every day exactly.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
We'd always live in the same place exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
And life happens, people move away, and you really have
to make an effort. So a lot of people think
and they expect so much out of a friendship, and
that might be your problem. You expect too much out
of a one person and they can't fulfill all of
these needs for you. So that's with this six bestie
theory on TikTok kind of went viral, and when you
break it down like this, I'm like, oh, this makes sense.
(12:12):
So what you're supposed to have is six different types
of besties. So these are the six that you should
have to really kind of like balance out your friendship.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Six best friends. Is that a problem.
Speaker 7 (12:25):
Because I think like some of your one of your
friends could could be two of these.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Maybe yeah, but having one person be all six is like,
there's that would be crazy. So one of the besties
that you should have is a dead body bestie. Okay,
so this person is a no judgment friend. You can
tell them anything. Any major screw up, you can go
to them and they will probably have one of those Yes, Okay,
(12:49):
here's the good time bestie, the perfect plus one who
is always down for a fun night and adventure. That's
like Nelson for me.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
But it's not a bestie like the best my best friend.
Oh well, sorry, you have a few best friends that
I've heard about over the last twenty year. But this
is the thing. So these are like I all have different.
You plug, you plug and play for fun for him.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Right. Then there's the work bestie, someone who already knows
all the work drama, and then you can discuss more
of it like off slack theory, similar ambitions bestie, so
the friend who is on a similar journey as you.
Sure this is Don Francisco for you. For me, you
have the og bestie, someone who knows your biography like
(13:35):
it's their own. They know you like the you know
the back of their hand, and you, guys are just
og bestI is that's like Tasa. For me, we go
back to like middle school. And then your north star bestie,
the ultimate bestie who fully sees you like almost like
your twin flame.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Okay, I need to take this down at three and
people need to double up because this is way too many.
Speaker 7 (13:55):
Best like the north start. My north Star bestie is
like my good time bestie. It's the same girl, but
they would she would be my good time bestie and
my north star.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
So let me take Kurt right, Let's see God Buddy Kurt,
So Kurt dead body, busty bestie. Sorry I'm reading your
thing here, doesn't okay? Yeah, he could be that good
time He's that work.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
No he's not that. No he's not that similar ambition. No, no,
you're different.
Speaker 9 (14:22):
O G.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Yeah he's that north star. Hey, I don't know if
he's a north star.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
So he does.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
So we covered a couple bases there. All right, Well,
who's our best friend here? Let's talk about our work
besties while we're on it. I don't want to play fingers.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Like Tubbs is yours.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You think Tubbs is mine? You don't think y'all's is mine.
Speaker 3 (14:41):
No, I think you and Tubbs have like this weird
like bond.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (14:46):
I think just because.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
You are listening smiling about it.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
I don't know. It's like the closeness that you two
share and like this Bronus.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Yeah, you guys have a bromance.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Well, we just don't have to speak so nice.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Well that's the thing. It's like he knows what you're
thinking without you even.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Nodding his head.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
Yes, you guys, I have to speak. I have to talk, yes, myself.
Speaker 5 (15:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
And there's a lot of emotions being besties with Tanya
and I.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Yeah. Oh, thank you for recognizing that.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
I mean, look, we're a lot thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
TuS is just chill waiting for this day. Elsie's come in.
Speaker 4 (15:20):
From the back room. Elsie's one of the newer members
to the back room with Ruby. Michaela back there, and
she's realized something significant about the boy that she's in
a relationship with.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Is this the first time you realize that he's a
deep snorer?
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I think it's getting worse recently.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
But does that mean he's sleeping Well, if he's snoring.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Worse, yeah, I don't care wake them up.
Speaker 6 (15:41):
I have been, unfortunately, and I feel rude, but it
gets so bad that I've been waking up before my
alarm clock.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Well do you I mean I've slept with snores next
to me before, and I kick the mattress. That, yeah,
jars them and it keeps them from that saying, now
you give.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Him some tape.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
I have talked about that. You were like, we got
to find a solution.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Does this him? You recorded him snoring?
Speaker 3 (16:10):
I did because I had to show him that it
was this bad. He didn't believe me. They don't believe you.
Michael doesn't think he's.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
They don't believe the reports.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Michael's snoring rattles the windows. It is so loud.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Let's use the worst snore of them all. This is
Elsie's boyfriend snoring. Oh my god, a big guy, a
large chest, like a big like a barrel chest.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
I don't know why it's getting so bad. Oh, that
gives me anxiety.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
He's sleeping brilliantly.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
He falls asleep in like five seconds. That's the thing.
It's always the ones that fall right asleep.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
Well, all right, here's now just to compare. Let's see
how bad it really is Elsie. For you, this is
Sisney's husband snoring.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
That's more digestible.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Now it builds, it builds, m.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
Like it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Wait for it, wait for it, wait for it. Here
we go. Oh that one hurt nails.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
Oh god, he's.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
About to wake up.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
I go.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Just to compare. All right, that's two men. Here's Patty,
remember Patty, Patty. Here's Patty snoring. Oh wait, that's Elsie's boyfriend. No,
that's Elsie's boyfriend. This is Patty. And this is Elsie's boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
Similar.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Similar, there's like a little growl.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
You need a large piece of mouth tape for him.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
For sure.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
This is Patty.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
Ah, I feel really uncomfortable list to.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
I feel right all right, So.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
How do you address it? Mouth tape sounds like a
practical way to deal with this.
Speaker 7 (18:12):
It's amazing, life changing, euphoric, it's amazing, amazing it it's amazing,
life changing and euphoric and chiseling.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
I will definitely look into it.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Thank you. Scared of us now?
Speaker 4 (18:35):
Uh, poor poor you and the guys get breaks, Steve stop,
I can't listen.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Do you know what you can get him too?
Speaker 7 (18:41):
You can get him those breathe right strips, so he
puts on his nose and it opens the nostrils so
the snoring isn't as loud with the mouth tape, and
it's like game changing those nose things.
Speaker 4 (18:49):
Other thing you could do is just be single. It's
a heck of a lot easier. I don't have any
of these issues in my house.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
He's at the fall asleep first, But then who do
you hold? I have the hardest.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
It's like six pillows.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
It's not your six pillows.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
Watch yeah, yeah, yeah, I have a lot of pillows.
I've accumulated them over the years.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Yes, I know you're attached to your your pillows. You
travel with them.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
So I travel with my coffee and my pillows. All right, listen,
thanks Elsie.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
It's one of two point seven kiss FM, Good morning
SA eight hundred and five. Who will want to two
seven and kiss me? Grub Alex, who's been holding on
the phone here for just a second. Alex, it's Ryan
Sisney Tony.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
How are you hi? Ryan?
Speaker 9 (19:30):
Hey, Alex, I'm a little confused.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Okay, this is an issue with the girl you're seeing.
Speaker 9 (19:37):
Well kind of seeing, but not really seeing. Seriously, I
just don't understand. I could use some help.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
You don't understand a girl you're kind of seeing? You
could use some help? How many times have I heard
that on this show? That is a common introduction to
an issue. So we're all going to lean in here
and try and help you out. There's a girl that
you know that just wants to be friends.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
But what.
Speaker 9 (20:02):
So I We met on Hinge and you know, things
are going well. We went out a few times, but
she made it clear like she just wanted to be friends,
and that's totally fine, that's okay. But we ended up
figuring out that we actually go to the same gym together,
so we ended up being gym buddies, so you know,
we see each other a little more often than we did,
(20:23):
and because of it, she started sending me, you know,
appropriate pictures, you know, her working out at the gym
and stuff like that. But you know it's not over
like snapchat where they just disappear. It's over a text,
so like she wants me, obviously just to keep looking
at them or something, right, And I don't know, I
just I'm not I'm not getting you know, clear vibes
(20:46):
from her. I just want to you.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Do you want to be friends with her? Do you
want to go out with her?
Speaker 9 (20:53):
You know, honestly, I think I want to go out
with her because she seems like a cool person. You know,
we like a lot of the same things. We go
to this same gym. You know, it would be cool
to have a nice workout.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Buddy. I'm gonna give.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
You my take, and then Tany and Systey can chime
in and tell me if I'm wrong. If she's sending
you pictures selfies of her working out, she's trapping. She's
flirting with you, She's flirting with you. That's my I'm
not sending. If I'm at the gym and I'm sending
a photo of me working out to a girl, right
and I'm single, I'm definitely sending the message that the
(21:29):
door is open. If I didn't want that door open,
I would not even attempt to send those kinds of traps.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
What are the pictures like?
Speaker 9 (21:37):
You know, they're her in her mirror, either at the
gym like you know, getting uh, you know, in the
bathroom like posing, or her place like you know, sending
me an out pick pick of her outfit.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
That's flirting.
Speaker 4 (21:50):
That is flirting, Okay, basically waiting for you to ask like, oh,
this is my form, like, give me advice on my form?
Speaker 2 (21:59):
Working out well?
Speaker 3 (22:01):
But you said at the very beginning, Alex, she made
it clear she wants to be friends. So that is
what I keep going back to. She made it clear
she wants to be friends. But I see where there's.
Speaker 4 (22:17):
Using the message though, if you really want to be friends,
then don't send pictures.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Of you in your mirror, right in your in your room.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
That is strange that she's sending you, like alpha.
Speaker 7 (22:27):
It is not she likes she wants the attention. She
wants the attention. She does not want to date you.
She wants your attention. She wants to flirt. Don't give
it to her.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
But why don't you flirt? A little back and see
if she's receptive.
Speaker 9 (22:38):
Oh I like that, you know what, maybe I will.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yeah, So let's craft a picture right now. Tell me
about your body. What are you going to? Which party?
What's a good feature? What are you going to take
a selfie of?
Speaker 9 (22:52):
You know, I've really been working out on my arms
and upper chest recently.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's great.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Oh, giving you your poses, Ryan, the ones you always do?
Are you like you like you're pretending like you're not flexing,
but you're really flexing.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yeah, so basically that what she just said. Can you
do that? Yeah? I could do that, you know, pick
up something heavy?
Speaker 5 (23:10):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Yeah? Uh? And do you have like a nice crease
in your chest? You have a nice line.
Speaker 9 (23:16):
I'm working on it. It's getting there.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
Your little necklace you can put on? Yeah?
Speaker 9 (23:21):
Oh yeah, I got a nice little Okay.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
See that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
Maybe throw throw something that's like in the same the
same sort of you know, temperature that she's throwing, and
see what her response is.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Fun?
Speaker 3 (23:33):
You know what, play the game at this point, she's
playing games. You play games? No two games, don't make up.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Don't parade. We're just making the procast.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
It's so fun. Over here.
Speaker 4 (23:43):
No, thank you and good luck. Let the guy he
wants to date or let him try Alex, thank you
very much for calling good.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
Luck Amusement Park.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
It's his heart cook, lay off the guy's work with
the girl? Did you? I mean, when did you get
so serious and heavy? She used to be?
Speaker 4 (24:01):
Yeah, Grandma over here, right, grandma, because I watch out.
That reindeer's coming. Careful, careful, don't get run over. I'm
protecting his heart.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
Even know him.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
He listens to our show.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
I like him, but he wants to flirt. He wants
to go out with her. I'm protecting his heart too.
Speaker 7 (24:25):
She said she just wants to be friends, but he's
gonna get hurt.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
She's clearly flirting.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
She's sending mixed signals and she knows she's doing it.
Let him flirt back. If it doesn't get any reception,
he moves on.
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Yeah, and then Elici has these cool pictures that he
can send to somebody else.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
I want to see what guy looks like. We're gonna
look for him. He's got a good chest. On air
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Sarah, Pasadena, Thank you for listening. Sarah, how are you Pasadena?
Speaker 7 (27:01):
Hi?
Speaker 10 (27:02):
Yeah? Great?
Speaker 7 (27:03):
Love it here.
Speaker 4 (27:04):
Your boyfriend's been acting weird ever since you caught the
bouquet at your friend's wedding.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Yeah, so I just want to be so when you
catch a bouquet.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
It still stands that they say you're the next in
line to get married. Yes, okay, so that's what he
was freaking out.
Speaker 5 (27:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (27:22):
Yeah, Uh, my boyfriend and I we went to a
wedding a few months ago, and yeah, I caught the bouquet.
But we've been we've been dating for like two years.
But ever since that night, he's been acting like a
little weird since I caught it. Like obviously that night,
everyone was joking with him. They were saying, like, you're next,
(27:44):
your next and all that, but it's it's been like
two months and it seems like he's like not into
it as it used to be.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Like, well, who's this friend that you just uh had
the wedding?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Good friend?
Speaker 10 (28:04):
Oh yeah, my friend Marian.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yeah you need to call Mariam. Call Marriaman.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
Thank Mariam for this because you just discovered that he's
not that into you.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Yeah, well no, I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 3 (28:17):
Well that's why how long have you guys been dating?
Two years?
Speaker 8 (28:20):
Two years?
Speaker 4 (28:21):
Yeah, but he's shying away now because of this concept
of getting married next. It kind of tells you everything
without waste any more time.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah, but it's also him being just so silly about it,
like this is not a real thing, Like, yeah, I
mean Tanya caught the book. She caught the book at
my wedding and she didn't get married until how many
years later? Eleven years later? Tell your boyfriend that. Tell
your boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
So tell your boyfriend that he'll be fine. It doesn't
really mean it. It doesn't really work.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
Actually, I don't know.
Speaker 10 (28:49):
It doesn't seem that serious. I tried to get him
to open up about it, but he's He says, everything's
like fine.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
But I'm scared of the concept.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
He's not scared. He's probably just annoy to the outside pressures.
Speaker 7 (29:02):
You have the benefit of the dow.
Speaker 1 (29:05):
Let him live.
Speaker 10 (29:07):
But I want to ask him about it because it's
important to me.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
Then ask about to say, are you actually freaking out
about catching the thing because of the symbolism and catching
the bouquet.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
Let me tell you a story.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Tanya rad from the Morning Afterry and Seacrest Morning Show
caught that thing and it was eleven years so she
got made so stop running.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Good luck.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
Yeah, maybe it meant that you're supposed to be like
my next serbian friend to get married, which checks out,
checks out, all does jumbo.
Speaker 7 (29:34):
Maybe it means it's like the goodness. It's like means
it's just like a good on on the.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Guy, Like what like I caught your bouquet. Doesn't mean
I'm the.
Speaker 7 (29:45):
Next to get married, but it means I'm gonna marry right,
I'm over.
Speaker 2 (29:51):
It, kiss FM all right?
Speaker 4 (29:55):
Uh? Is there something your partner does better than you
that makes you crazy, drives you nuts? Is there anything
that they're just so skilled at that you wish you
could do better? For example, people say patience is the
number one thing they wish that more of.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
I have.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Less than few.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yes, you are impatient.
Speaker 2 (30:17):
I went to Mocha the other day, and that relaxes you.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
The museum, yeah, no, the traffic was horrendous. It took
me an hour and fifteen minutes, but I remained absolutely fine.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
It was a crazy thing. I was calm, totally cool.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Unless if I'm late somewhere, the traffic doesn't bother me.
It almost soothed me in a way.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
No, it doesn't suit me, and I almost I got
there twenty five minutes before they close, so after all that,
they were about to close, but.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
I was okay with it. So I don't know. Maybe
I'm getting more patient.
Speaker 4 (30:45):
Maybe you guys are giving me patience?
Speaker 2 (30:50):
What a concept is anything be a good day for you?
What do you do?
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Do you do something that that Michael doesn't do well?
Or vice versass isn't he if we're how.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
In a stressful week already and I'm trying to get
information out him or whatever, and then he has zero
patients for me? Or if I'm saying, I'm like, did
you even listen to anything? I just said what that
drives me?
Speaker 2 (31:11):
But the fact that you say it like that is
frightens me.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
Frightened.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
What's he gonna say? Yes? What if he says yes,
did you hear a word I said?
Speaker 3 (31:22):
I doesn't say that snappy, but like that you do
sat well? I know he wasn't listening. It's annoying when
it happens over and over and over again.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
But that's just the point. If it's happening over and
over and over again, he's tuning you out, well.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
Then that's the thing. He's got too much on his plate,
and vice versa, and vice versa. I do the same
thing to him.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
That's what happens.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
It's what happened. I won't even life happens. We have
three kids, full time jobs scheduled all do you.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Hear anything I said? I said, this is what happens.
That's it.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
I heard you.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
But I know what you were going to say.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
You don't know anything about what I'm going to do.
Speaker 3 (32:01):
Yeah, I say, this is what happens when you get married.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
Oh my, oh gosh, I never see that guys after
I don't know why you think I'm so predictable and obvious.
But Tanya, is there anything that you don't do well
that Robbie does you wish you could or vice versa.
Speaker 7 (32:20):
He's really good at seeing everybody's perspective in different situations,
like he's actually one of them. He's very empathetic, like
he can put himself in somebody else's shoes and I
can't do that. I really like see things one sided,
and he really sees things from every side, which I've
always admired about.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
I think there's this is also what have we admired.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
But you speak with emotion like you react emotionally many times, yes,
versus what he does pragmatically. But that's because of his
training as a lawyer. He has to kind of do that,
you think, So, yes, my father is one.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
What about you? Do you react with emotion?
Speaker 5 (32:55):
Ever?
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I think I'm a mixed bag.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
I react with yeah, I get emotionally all wound up,
and other times I can just be a matter of fact.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
But sometimes a matter of fact gives off the feeling
that you don't care. Oh right.
Speaker 2 (33:12):
I don't think it's relationship therapist.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
I don't think it's like don't care.
Speaker 7 (33:15):
I feel like it's I don't know, it's something that
I think as if you don't give anything back, then
it's like it's not about get they don't give it back.
It's like he just they just are more practical about it,
which is annoying because I'm like, if you I want
you to be as like worked up as I am, but.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Like which gets under your skin, which maybe he does
intentionally sometimes just to play well.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
It works.
Speaker 7 (33:41):
Because I'm like, damn, like, okay, I'm gonna calm down,
I'm gonna get on your level.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
I'm gonna like really.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Upset, like I'm upset, Please be upset for a minute.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
Yeah, it never escalates.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
Well here's the escalation.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
Yeah, both escalating. That's too much.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
We wear hearts on our sleeves until we don't. Eli's
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From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 3 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (00:10):
First, let me grab Nick here one eight hundred and
five to one to two seven. Nick and Torrents. Hi, Nick,
how are you?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (00:19):
I'm all right. How are you guys doing?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
We appreciate the ask and we're doing all right.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Yew, Nick, you're calling about Uh, you were invited to
be a groomsman by an acquaintance, not a friend.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Is that the concern here?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
You don't know the person so well, but they asked
you and they think you're a good friend and you're
not really good friend.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Well, we used to be really great friends. I mean
we were friends since high school, right, and I just
haven't seen him in like almost five years.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
What did you really say?
Speaker 5 (00:48):
What did I I haven't said anything yet exactly, but
I'm leaning towards turning him down. Okay, Well, they're trying
to figure.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Out as someone that's turned things like this down with
a quaint since its before.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Oh you have.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
When I say turn it down, I mean yes.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
So yeah, you say you turned down, you probably just
are not available.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Well that's there's two options here, Nick. You either accept
or your schedule has a conflict. Which is it going
to be? I don't need to know more. Just want
to A or B. Which path you're gonna do it?
Or you have your conflict you aready committed to a
prior commitment.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Well I feel bad though, because I mean.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
We got to make a choice.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Yes, not about guilty.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
I had a conflict for Tanya's wedding, but I had
to move it so I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Feel the guilt.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
What was your conflict?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
I had another wedding or something. What's it going to be? Conflict?
Is the schedule or you're just gonna acquiesce.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
Honestly, I'm leaning towards conflict with my schedule, like I gotta.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
That's then that's your first choice. Is really probably your
your best answer. That's the way you feel.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
And is that the end of your friendship? Because are
you going to even go to the wedding? At this point?
You can't go to the wedding because it conflicts with
your schedule.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Then there's two good for you?
Speaker 3 (02:11):
He wants to go to the wedding.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Still, well, you can't have your cake.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, No, you got to make a choice.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
Any I mean, you can just be honest, Nick, you
can just be like, hey, I've got too much, No,
I have too much of commitments going on right now
to really be full throttle groomsmen for you and be there.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
What's honest. Mark's like, that's not honest.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Honest. So anyway, that's where we stand out of good
luck to you.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
If you's being honest, it's like I barely talk to you.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Broll yeah, but then that's the end of the friendship.
Speaker 7 (02:45):
He's not gonna but maybe my friend will be totally
honest and be like yo, like my wife has fifteen
bridesmaids and I just gotta add gotta get my number.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Feel special whatever. Weddings in the stress.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I had a bridesmaid tap out because she couldn't handle.
She's like, I have too much going on right now.
I love you, but I just can't do it.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
And I was like, great, you guys to me not
get married again. I have a lot of my plans.
I'm not planning on it, thank you, Tanya.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
No, but I do want to do like a fun
ten year anniversary.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I said that too.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Can talk to me ten years, same place, same people.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Well, I got a credit at that place because it's
on my window.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I don't know if you heard. I didn't know. I
didn't get the news.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Uh uh oh boy. So yesterday we were here. We're
doing it. We do it every single day. We plan
it and then we go off plan many times. And
we were talking about three things yesterday. You should never
tell chat GPT. And speaking of chat GPT, Systney has
developed quite a friendship with her Chat GPT, a codependency.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
You name your chat GPT g O.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I named him Geo because I thought chat ChiPT was
just too long to say, especially when I'm just talking
to Michael about her. I asked, you know, I asked Geo.
I asked Geo. It's just easier say geo.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
So you found I've noticed it now when I call
people's cell phone, there are all kinds of different voices
on the voicemail.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Oh there's accents.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
There's different like when I call you, Tanya, you sisting
it might be a different voice that says the caller
you're calling.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Can it be reached right now?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Oh? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Mean those are all settings, so you can change. I
just updated my voicemail just like the on chat GPT.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
So yeah, so you can do a chat GPT as well.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah, you can't choose different voices. So now, like I
don't know. For whatever reason, I just considered my chat
gpt to be a male and I named him Geo. Now,
when I'm listening to all these voices, I feel like
I'm leaning more towards a female voice. So I wanted
to play some of them for you and see if
you can help me decide. So there's a pretty basic
one called Cove.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I just want to share how thrilled I am to
work with you, and I can't wait to get started.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I don't know what it is about a male voice.
I feel like I'm cheating on my husband if I
have this. If I'm talking to this guy so much,
he's too eager. Yeah, okay, Now this is a chill
female named Soul. Hey, what's up? Feel free to ask
me about anything that's on your mind. I'm ready to.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Go too casual.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
How is everything to talk?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Now?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
There on Instagram?
Speaker 7 (05:01):
You post a photo, it's got all the talking and
the videos and the songs.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Talking. Yes, so much talking. If you want a little
bit more of a European flair, this is Veil. Hello,
It's lovely to meet you. No, just there's anything you need.
Please don't hesitate to let me know. I'm here to
help on the on set.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I like it, but I think it might grind on me. Okay, good, okay,
you might grind on me.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I get Roy Kent from ted Lasso Vibe off Arbor.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Hi, glad to meet you.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I think we're going to do great work together.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Where should we start?
Speaker 4 (05:33):
That sounds like my Headspace voice guy totally, but i'd
surprisingly chill.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
I feel like I could maybe do that one. This
one is upbeat and called Breeze. Hey, it's great to
meet you. How's your day going. I'm really looking forward
to working on working stuff together.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Oh that's like somebody. No, that's like a thirteen year old.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
And then the exact opposite called Monday. Oh good you
found me?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Yay, Well, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
What's that movie with the emotions?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yes, yes, it does sound like that. I like the
chill female named Soul the second one that we played.
I feel like she's Hey.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Feel free to ask me about anything that's on your mind.
I'm ready to go.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I think I prefer this one. Glad to mate you.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
I think we're going to do great work together.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
What should we makes a guy you want to have
a beer with at the Yeah, well teach you something.
I hope we can have all these choices. Yeah, exactly,
GPT voices. I mean, this is David Beckham to.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Me, glad to mate you.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
I think we're going to do great work together.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Where should we start?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Where should we start?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Bend it with you? Bend it with you.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I think Clarissa is in Northridge calling about the guy
you're dating just found out he's having a baby with
his ex.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah, oh wow, walk us through that, Walk us through
what we need to understand.
Speaker 8 (07:02):
Yeah, okay, So, like I said, I've been seeing him
for a couple of months and we really hit it off.
And he literally just told me that he found out
that he's having a baby with another woman. And it
happened before we started seeing each other, so it's not
like he cheated. Like we're not even like officially a
(07:22):
couple now. And I just don't know what to do
because I really thought I could be in a relationship
with him. So I'm really torn.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Oh my gosh, I don't know what I would do.
That's a tough one.
Speaker 8 (07:35):
But and I like him. I like him a lot.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Could you see yourself in this equation of him, yeah,
having a baby mama, and then also like this is
just the beginning? Is this first kid? Yeah? I mean
steps in there.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
They were broken up when all this happened, right, Is
that correct? They're clearly broken up and you were clearly
to get so it was it was all clean and clear. Yes,
I guess the thing is, I mean it's such as life, right,
I mean so I kind of so what you met
the guy, you liked the guy, this is happening, It's life.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Can you roll with it or not? Is the question
you have to ask. I ask the question. I might
just roll with it for a minute and see if
you can roll with it.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
How old are you?
Speaker 8 (08:23):
I am I'm twenty eight, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
I don't know and not asking how old you are?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Ryan?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
I feel like you're young, and I feel like there
this might not be the dude for you.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
No, I feel like, say roll with it.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
I roll with it.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
What do you think, Chlora said? She said, Sistney says, young,
there's other fish in the sea, Tany, And I say,
roll with it.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
What are you going to do?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Because it's going to be complicated.
Speaker 7 (08:47):
I think life is complicated you're going to learn how
to navigate really weird.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
This is one exactly. It's better to learn now totally.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
But I'm met my now husband.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
He had two kids, and that was like weird, I've
never done that before and interesting and new and hard
and difficult, and we got through it, and I think
we're much better and stronger.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
And I wanted, like you, that's what you wanted. Like
some people have different ways they want to have their
families and they're happily effor after type of thing. Yes,
she needs to think about, she needs to think about,
like what that she wants?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
What are you going to do?
Speaker 8 (09:19):
Clarissa, I really like him, and I don't know. I
think I am going to roll with it a little.
Speaker 9 (09:26):
Bit and just see there you go.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Let's keep us posted and good luck, follow your.
Speaker 9 (09:32):
Heart, okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (09:35):
I think Tany's right. Life is not black or white.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
I don't think I could do it.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
It's complicated. It's not straight lines, all right.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Every trying to save money the grocery store, so experts say,
if you bring this, you'll spend less. And that is
not a water bottle, as Tanya guess, it is a sweater.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
Sweater.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Oh yes, smart.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold choppers choose products
emotionally to cope with the cold, and they spend more.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
So I thought it was for the food.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
It has to be for the food.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to
keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
I always thought they keep you cold so that you
want to get out of there faster, so you're like
moving quicker.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
But they don't want you to get out of there faster.
Speaker 7 (10:19):
They want you to stay in language just like bye
bye bye bye bye, go go.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Go go emotionally. That's what the research says. So pack
a sweater to the store. Today's quote. We do these
every morning. You cannot see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly,
you cannot see the truth in a state of anger
when the water's calm clarity comes. Just way to beat,
Take a breath, don't react. It's good, it's true. Ryan
(10:45):
Seacrest with you, Okay. So Tanya Scott has taken the
kind of attached, insecure, secure person.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Are you to your spouse?
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Yeah, it's your attachment style, right.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
So she said, if you can figure out your attachment style,
Are you insecure?
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Are you secure? Are you void? What was the other one?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Avoidant?
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Avoidant?
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Then it's gonna move mountains in your relationship. So yeah,
that going on on one plate, right, I'm still not
done with it. Disney saunters in here with this one.
It's gonna help you create better friends and all the
different trends and tests. We're just gonna have the greatest
relationships of all time, romantic and friendship.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
That's true, true, So go ahead.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
What is this sixth besties theory on TikTok? When it
comes to friends?
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Now, well, and I think this one because friendships are
something that like, as you get older, they're more difficult
to keep. People move away. You're not, you know. I
think in high school and college, your friends are your world.
You know, you see them every day, they live down
the hall.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
I always thought the friends I was going to school with,
we would never not see each other every day exactly.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
We'd always live in the same place exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
And life happens, people move away, and you really have
to make an effort. So a lot of people think
and they expect so much out of a friendship, and
that might be your problem. You expect too much out
of a one person and they can't fulfill all of
these needs for you. So that's with this six bestie
theory on TikTok kind of went viral, and when you
break it down like this, I'm like, oh, this makes sense.
(12:12):
So what you're supposed to have is six different types
of besties. So these are the six that you should
have to really kind of like balance out your friendship.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Six best friends. Is that a problem.
Speaker 7 (12:25):
Because I think like some of your one of your
friends could could be two of these.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Maybe yeah, but having one person be all six is like,
there's that would be crazy. So one of the besties
that you should have is a dead body bestie. Okay,
so this person is a no judgment friend. You can
tell them anything. Any major screw up, you can go
to them and they will probably have one of those Yes, Okay,
(12:49):
here's the good time bestie, the perfect plus one who
is always down for a fun night and adventure. That's
like Nelson for me.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
But it's not a bestie like the best my best friend.
Oh well, sorry, you have a few best friends that
I've heard about over the last twenty year. But this
is the thing. So these are like I all have different.
You plug, you plug and play for fun for him.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Right. Then there's the work bestie, someone who already knows
all the work drama, and then you can discuss more
of it like off slack theory, similar ambitions bestie, so
the friend who is on a similar journey as you.
Sure this is Don Francisco for you. For me, you
have the og bestie, someone who knows your biography like
(13:35):
it's their own. They know you like the you know
the back of their hand, and you, guys are just
og bestI is that's like Tasa. For me, we go
back to like middle school. And then your north star bestie,
the ultimate bestie who fully sees you like almost like
your twin flame.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Okay, I need to take this down at three and
people need to double up because this is way too many.
Speaker 7 (13:55):
Best like the north start. My north Star bestie is
like my good time bestie. It's the same girl, but
they would she would be my good time bestie and
my north star.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
So let me take Kurt right, Let's see God Buddy Kurt,
So Kurt dead body, busty bestie. Sorry I'm reading your
thing here, doesn't okay? Yeah, he could be that good
time He's that work.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
No he's not that. No he's not that similar ambition. No, no,
you're different.
Speaker 9 (14:22):
O G.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
Yeah he's that north star. Hey, I don't know if
he's a north star.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
So he does.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
So we covered a couple bases there. All right, Well,
who's our best friend here? Let's talk about our work
besties while we're on it. I don't want to play fingers.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Like Tubbs is yours.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
You think Tubbs is mine? You don't think y'all's is mine.
Speaker 3 (14:41):
No, I think you and Tubbs have like this weird
like bond.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (14:46):
I think just because.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
You are listening smiling about it.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
I don't know. It's like the closeness that you two
share and like this Bronus.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Yeah, you guys have a bromance.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Well, we just don't have to speak so nice.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Well that's the thing. It's like he knows what you're
thinking without you even.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Nodding his head.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
Yes, you guys, I have to speak. I have to talk, yes, myself.
Speaker 5 (15:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
And there's a lot of emotions being besties with Tanya
and I.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Yeah. Oh, thank you for recognizing that.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
I mean, look, we're a lot thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
TuS is just chill waiting for this day. Elsie's come in.
Speaker 4 (15:20):
From the back room. Elsie's one of the newer members
to the back room with Ruby. Michaela back there, and
she's realized something significant about the boy that she's in
a relationship with.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Is this the first time you realize that he's a
deep snorer?
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I think it's getting worse recently.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
But does that mean he's sleeping Well, if he's snoring.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Worse, yeah, I don't care wake them up.
Speaker 6 (15:41):
I have been, unfortunately, and I feel rude, but it
gets so bad that I've been waking up before my
alarm clock.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Well do you I mean I've slept with snores next
to me before, and I kick the mattress. That, yeah,
jars them and it keeps them from that saying, now
you give.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Him some tape.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
I have talked about that. You were like, we got
to find a solution.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Does this him? You recorded him snoring?
Speaker 3 (16:10):
I did because I had to show him that it
was this bad. He didn't believe me. They don't believe you.
Michael doesn't think he's.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
They don't believe the reports.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Michael's snoring rattles the windows. It is so loud.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Let's use the worst snore of them all. This is
Elsie's boyfriend snoring. Oh my god, a big guy, a
large chest, like a big like a barrel chest.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
I don't know why it's getting so bad. Oh, that
gives me anxiety.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
He's sleeping brilliantly.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
He falls asleep in like five seconds. That's the thing.
It's always the ones that fall right asleep.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
Well, all right, here's now just to compare. Let's see
how bad it really is Elsie. For you, this is
Sisney's husband snoring.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
That's more digestible.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
Now it builds, it builds, m.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
Like it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Wait for it, wait for it, wait for it. Here
we go. Oh that one hurt nails.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
Oh god, he's.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
About to wake up.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
I go.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Just to compare. All right, that's two men. Here's Patty,
remember Patty, Patty. Here's Patty snoring. Oh wait, that's Elsie's boyfriend. No,
that's Elsie's boyfriend. This is Patty. And this is Elsie's boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
Similar.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Similar, there's like a little growl.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
You need a large piece of mouth tape for him.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
For sure.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
This is Patty.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
Ah, I feel really uncomfortable list to.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
I feel right all right, So.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
How do you address it? Mouth tape sounds like a
practical way to deal with this.
Speaker 7 (18:12):
It's amazing, life changing, euphoric, it's amazing, amazing it it's amazing,
life changing and euphoric and chiseling.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
I will definitely look into it.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Thank you. Scared of us now?
Speaker 4 (18:35):
Uh, poor poor you and the guys get breaks, Steve stop,
I can't listen.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Do you know what you can get him too?
Speaker 7 (18:41):
You can get him those breathe right strips, so he
puts on his nose and it opens the nostrils so
the snoring isn't as loud with the mouth tape, and
it's like game changing those nose things.
Speaker 4 (18:49):
Other thing you could do is just be single. It's
a heck of a lot easier. I don't have any
of these issues in my house.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
He's at the fall asleep first, But then who do
you hold? I have the hardest.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
It's like six pillows.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
It's not your six pillows.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
Watch yeah, yeah, yeah, I have a lot of pillows.
I've accumulated them over the years.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Yes, I know you're attached to your your pillows. You
travel with them.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
So I travel with my coffee and my pillows. All right, listen,
thanks Elsie.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
It's one of two point seven kiss FM, Good morning
SA eight hundred and five. Who will want to two
seven and kiss me? Grub Alex, who's been holding on
the phone here for just a second. Alex, it's Ryan
Sisney Tony.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
How are you hi? Ryan?
Speaker 9 (19:30):
Hey, Alex, I'm a little confused.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Okay, this is an issue with the girl you're seeing.
Speaker 9 (19:37):
Well kind of seeing, but not really seeing. Seriously, I
just don't understand. I could use some help.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
You don't understand a girl you're kind of seeing? You
could use some help? How many times have I heard
that on this show? That is a common introduction to
an issue. So we're all going to lean in here
and try and help you out. There's a girl that
you know that just wants to be friends.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
But what.
Speaker 9 (20:02):
So I We met on Hinge and you know, things
are going well. We went out a few times, but
she made it clear like she just wanted to be friends,
and that's totally fine, that's okay. But we ended up
figuring out that we actually go to the same gym together,
so we ended up being gym buddies, so you know,
we see each other a little more often than we did,
(20:23):
and because of it, she started sending me, you know,
appropriate pictures, you know, her working out at the gym
and stuff like that. But you know it's not over
like snapchat where they just disappear. It's over a text,
so like she wants me, obviously just to keep looking
at them or something, right, And I don't know, I
just I'm not I'm not getting you know, clear vibes
(20:46):
from her. I just want to you.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Do you want to be friends with her? Do you
want to go out with her?
Speaker 9 (20:53):
You know, honestly, I think I want to go out
with her because she seems like a cool person. You know,
we like a lot of the same things. We go
to this same gym. You know, it would be cool
to have a nice workout.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Buddy. I'm gonna give.
Speaker 4 (21:05):
You my take, and then Tany and Systey can chime
in and tell me if I'm wrong. If she's sending
you pictures selfies of her working out, she's trapping. She's
flirting with you, She's flirting with you. That's my I'm
not sending. If I'm at the gym and I'm sending
a photo of me working out to a girl, right
and I'm single, I'm definitely sending the message that the
(21:29):
door is open. If I didn't want that door open,
I would not even attempt to send those kinds of traps.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
What are the pictures like?
Speaker 9 (21:37):
You know, they're her in her mirror, either at the
gym like you know, getting uh, you know, in the
bathroom like posing, or her place like you know, sending
me an out pick pick of her outfit.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
That's flirting.
Speaker 4 (21:50):
That is flirting, Okay, basically waiting for you to ask like, oh,
this is my form, like, give me advice on my form?
Speaker 2 (21:59):
Working out well?
Speaker 3 (22:01):
But you said at the very beginning, Alex, she made
it clear she wants to be friends. So that is
what I keep going back to. She made it clear
she wants to be friends. But I see where there's.
Speaker 4 (22:17):
Using the message though, if you really want to be friends,
then don't send pictures.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Of you in your mirror, right in your in your room.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
That is strange that she's sending you, like alpha.
Speaker 7 (22:27):
It is not she likes she wants the attention. She
wants the attention. She does not want to date you.
She wants your attention. She wants to flirt. Don't give
it to her.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
But why don't you flirt? A little back and see
if she's receptive.
Speaker 9 (22:38):
Oh I like that, you know what, maybe I will.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yeah, So let's craft a picture right now. Tell me
about your body. What are you going to? Which party?
What's a good feature? What are you going to take
a selfie of?
Speaker 9 (22:52):
You know, I've really been working out on my arms
and upper chest recently.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's great.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Oh, giving you your poses, Ryan, the ones you always do?
Are you like you like you're pretending like you're not flexing,
but you're really flexing.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yeah, so basically that what she just said. Can you
do that? Yeah? I could do that, you know, pick
up something heavy?
Speaker 5 (23:10):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Yeah? Uh? And do you have like a nice crease
in your chest? You have a nice line.
Speaker 9 (23:16):
I'm working on it. It's getting there.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
Your little necklace you can put on? Yeah?
Speaker 9 (23:21):
Oh yeah, I got a nice little Okay.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
See that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
Maybe throw throw something that's like in the same the
same sort of you know, temperature that she's throwing, and
see what her response is.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Fun?
Speaker 3 (23:33):
You know what, play the game at this point, she's
playing games. You play games? No two games, don't make up.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Don't parade. We're just making the procast.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
It's so fun. Over here.
Speaker 4 (23:43):
No, thank you and good luck. Let the guy he
wants to date or let him try Alex, thank you
very much for calling good.
Speaker 3 (23:50):
Luck Amusement Park.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
It's his heart cook, lay off the guy's work with
the girl? Did you? I mean, when did you get
so serious and heavy? She used to be?
Speaker 4 (24:01):
Yeah, Grandma over here, right, grandma, because I watch out.
That reindeer's coming. Careful, careful, don't get run over. I'm
protecting his heart.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
Even know him.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
He listens to our show.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
I like him, but he wants to flirt. He wants
to go out with her. I'm protecting his heart too.
Speaker 7 (24:25):
She said she just wants to be friends, but he's
gonna get hurt.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
She's clearly flirting.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
She's sending mixed signals and she knows she's doing it.
Let him flirt back. If it doesn't get any reception,
he moves on.
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Yeah, and then Elici has these cool pictures that he
can send to somebody else.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
I want to see what guy looks like. We're gonna
look for him. He's got a good chest. On air
with Ryan Seacrest, this is kiss.
Speaker 4 (24:54):
Our Friends over it over heard. La posted this on Instagram.
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Speaker 2 (25:01):
Tell us your.
Speaker 4 (25:02):
Most life changing LA hacks, and some of these are
really good. So Jeff says, if you get a flat
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Ernie says, you can park in yellow loading zones after
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I didn't know that.
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Yellow and it throws me off. Yeah, it's like uh oh,
Lass Houston says. Downtown La in the Pinata district is
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then Cooper says, if your landlord tries to raise your rent,
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call city hall and ask what the max increase allowed
by laws for your address. He says he found a
history apartment was rent controlled and saved a fortune.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Amazing.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
If you have any other la isms like la hacks,
let you grabs.
Speaker 4 (26:57):
Sarah, Pasadena, Thank you for listening. Sarah, how are you Pasadena?
Speaker 7 (27:01):
Hi?
Speaker 10 (27:02):
Yeah? Great?
Speaker 7 (27:03):
Love it here.
Speaker 4 (27:04):
Your boyfriend's been acting weird ever since you caught the
bouquet at your friend's wedding.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Yeah, so I just want to be so when you
catch a bouquet.
Speaker 4 (27:14):
It still stands that they say you're the next in
line to get married. Yes, okay, so that's what he
was freaking out.
Speaker 5 (27:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (27:22):
Yeah, Uh, my boyfriend and I we went to a
wedding a few months ago, and yeah, I caught the bouquet.
But we've been we've been dating for like two years.
But ever since that night, he's been acting like a
little weird since I caught it. Like obviously that night,
everyone was joking with him. They were saying, like, you're next,
(27:44):
your next and all that, but it's it's been like
two months and it seems like he's like not into
it as it used to be.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Like, well, who's this friend that you just uh had
the wedding?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Good friend?
Speaker 10 (28:04):
Oh yeah, my friend Marian.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Yeah you need to call Mariam. Call Marriaman.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
Thank Mariam for this because you just discovered that he's
not that into you.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Yeah, well no, I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 3 (28:17):
Well that's why how long have you guys been dating?
Two years?
Speaker 8 (28:20):
Two years?
Speaker 4 (28:21):
Yeah, but he's shying away now because of this concept
of getting married next. It kind of tells you everything
without waste any more time.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah, but it's also him being just so silly about it,
like this is not a real thing, Like, yeah, I
mean Tanya caught the book. She caught the book at
my wedding and she didn't get married until how many
years later? Eleven years later? Tell your boyfriend that. Tell
your boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
So tell your boyfriend that he'll be fine. It doesn't
really mean it. It doesn't really work.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
Actually, I don't know.
Speaker 10 (28:49):
It doesn't seem that serious. I tried to get him
to open up about it, but he's He says, everything's
like fine.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
But I'm scared of the concept.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
He's not scared. He's probably just annoy to the outside pressures.
Speaker 7 (29:02):
You have the benefit of the dow.
Speaker 1 (29:05):
Let him live.
Speaker 10 (29:07):
But I want to ask him about it because it's
important to me.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
Then ask about to say, are you actually freaking out
about catching the thing because of the symbolism and catching
the bouquet.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
Let me tell you a story.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Tanya rad from the Morning Afterry and Seacrest Morning Show
caught that thing and it was eleven years so she
got made so stop running.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Good luck.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
Yeah, maybe it meant that you're supposed to be like
my next serbian friend to get married, which checks out,
checks out, all does jumbo.
Speaker 7 (29:34):
Maybe it means it's like the goodness. It's like means
it's just like a good on on the.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Guy, Like what like I caught your bouquet. Doesn't mean
I'm the.
Speaker 7 (29:45):
Next to get married, but it means I'm gonna marry right,
I'm over.
Speaker 2 (29:51):
It, kiss FM all right?
Speaker 4 (29:55):
Uh? Is there something your partner does better than you
that makes you crazy, drives you nuts? Is there anything
that they're just so skilled at that you wish you
could do better? For example, people say patience is the
number one thing they wish that more of.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
I have.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Less than few.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Yes, you are impatient.
Speaker 2 (30:17):
I went to Mocha the other day, and that relaxes you.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
The museum, yeah, no, the traffic was horrendous. It took
me an hour and fifteen minutes, but I remained absolutely fine.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
It was a crazy thing. I was calm, totally cool.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Unless if I'm late somewhere, the traffic doesn't bother me.
It almost soothed me in a way.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
No, it doesn't suit me, and I almost I got
there twenty five minutes before they close, so after all that,
they were about to close, but.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
I was okay with it. So I don't know. Maybe
I'm getting more patient.
Speaker 4 (30:45):
Maybe you guys are giving me patience?
Speaker 2 (30:50):
What a concept is anything be a good day for you?
What do you do?
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Do you do something that that Michael doesn't do well?
Or vice versass isn't he if we're how.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
In a stressful week already and I'm trying to get
information out him or whatever, and then he has zero
patients for me? Or if I'm saying, I'm like, did
you even listen to anything? I just said what that
drives me?
Speaker 2 (31:11):
But the fact that you say it like that is
frightens me.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
Frightened.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
What's he gonna say? Yes? What if he says yes,
did you hear a word I said?
Speaker 3 (31:22):
I doesn't say that snappy, but like that you do
sat well? I know he wasn't listening. It's annoying when
it happens over and over and over again.
Speaker 4 (31:33):
But that's just the point. If it's happening over and
over and over again, he's tuning you out, well.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
Then that's the thing. He's got too much on his plate,
and vice versa, and vice versa. I do the same
thing to him.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
That's what happens.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
It's what happened. I won't even life happens. We have
three kids, full time jobs scheduled all do you.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Hear anything I said? I said, this is what happens.
That's it.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
I heard you.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
But I know what you were going to say.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
You don't know anything about what I'm going to do.
Speaker 3 (32:01):
Yeah, I say, this is what happens when you get married.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
Oh my, oh gosh, I never see that guys after
I don't know why you think I'm so predictable and obvious.
But Tanya, is there anything that you don't do well
that Robbie does you wish you could or vice versa.
Speaker 7 (32:20):
He's really good at seeing everybody's perspective in different situations,
like he's actually one of them. He's very empathetic, like
he can put himself in somebody else's shoes and I
can't do that. I really like see things one sided,
and he really sees things from every side, which I've
always admired about.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
I think there's this is also what have we admired.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
But you speak with emotion like you react emotionally many times, yes,
versus what he does pragmatically. But that's because of his
training as a lawyer. He has to kind of do that,
you think, So, yes, my father is one.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
What about you? Do you react with emotion?
Speaker 5 (32:55):
Ever?
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I think I'm a mixed bag.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
I react with yeah, I get emotionally all wound up,
and other times I can just be a matter of fact.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
But sometimes a matter of fact gives off the feeling
that you don't care. Oh right.
Speaker 2 (33:12):
I don't think it's relationship therapist.
Speaker 1 (33:14):
I don't think it's like don't care.
Speaker 7 (33:15):
I feel like it's I don't know, it's something that
I think as if you don't give anything back, then
it's like it's not about get they don't give it back.
It's like he just they just are more practical about it,
which is annoying because I'm like, if you I want
you to be as like worked up as I am, but.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Like which gets under your skin, which maybe he does
intentionally sometimes just to play well.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
It works.
Speaker 7 (33:41):
Because I'm like, damn, like, okay, I'm gonna calm down,
I'm gonna get on your level.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
I'm gonna like really.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Upset, like I'm upset, Please be upset for a minute.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
Yeah, it never escalates.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
Well here's the escalation.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
Yeah, both escalating. That's too much.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
We wear hearts on our sleeves until we don't. Eli's
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Tody smoke in ash from the Rosa, Gifford and Gold
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And that's what's new.
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