February 13, 2023 • 11 mins
He’s been going to the gym after work. But she has reason to believe that’s not true. Which leads to the question…where has he been going?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We're gonna get into Ryan's roses now. So here's the deal,
Brenda and witty Or has reached out. It is the
day after the Super Bowl. Ryan's roses does not sleep. So, Brenda,
you say that, Um, he told you that he's been
going to the gym a few times a week, and
then you notice some things to make you think he's
not What did you notice? Well, basically, you know, he's
(00:21):
got the same bag of gym clothes almost every day,
and I never ever see him packing new ones, and
there's rarely an outfit to wash, like nothing stinks. And
you know, if I'm meaning completely honest, I I don't
see the results that are supposed to come, you know,
with working out that he says he's been doing, you know,
(00:42):
and it's just is really freaking me out. Okay, So
you think, I just want to make sure we understand
this so we can ask the right questions. But you
think he's pretending to go to the gym and then
he's doing what, Yeah, I think he's he must be
seen somebody, I you know, But you think he's doing
(01:03):
all this, you must not trust him. Is there a
reason why you don't trust him? Well, first off, like
he is, you know, not I hope this isn't too
you know t M. I you know, but he does
not have an increased sexual interest like which I know
comes with like working out and that's sort of high
and and he doesn't have more energy, and it actually
it looks, you know, it seems the opposite. And then
(01:27):
this is what really sealed the deal. Like I looked for,
you know, any receich for any of him, you know,
gym memberships and you know, if there's nothing, and I
would offer to go, but you know what, we have
kids and that requires a babysitter, which is you know, money.
I just I'm very very and my gut says that
(01:49):
he's totally seeing somebody on the side. How long have
you been married, Brenda? Oh gosh, fourteen years. That goes
to the gym, but he's not going to the gym.
Where's he going? Have you confronted him? I mean I
was like, hey, but where are you going? He's you know,
and he's just said, you know, just to he's just
(02:10):
working out. I mean, yes, but I've never sat him
down and be like, this is what I feel is happening.
Are you you know, are you seeing somebody on the side.
Are you in love with someone else? Kind of thing?
Because this just doesn't add up to No, I haven't
done that, but I'm just like, you know, I've kind
of poked around a little bit like been you know,
more of like a the Nine Inquiries. Okay, hold on
(02:36):
one second, Brenda, Al Yeah, I started this song, but
we'll do it. I hate to call next on Air
with Ryan seacrests on Air with Ryan Seacrest, if you
just joined this. I was trying to start that song,
think Brenda was done, but then I had to start
(02:58):
at over. But things just happen when you're rolling the
punches here one or two point seven kid seven. I
do that with you guys sometimes we're talking. Haven't seen
those all day? Hey? Yeah, I haven't. What would you
like the brown khaki sand up? What was hold? What's happening?
I just played Metroom twenty one Savage in the weekend.
Sometimes I do that with you guys. I'll start a
(03:18):
song while we're talking, and then we can barely finished
talking before they start singing. What would you like to
see your pants? You just got up a little bit
and I think I saw are they? Are they? Khaki?
Colored like a tan tan. They're so cute. And the
roll cup the bottom. Who makes those? Okay, Robbie's not
getting these genes. I will find out light brown jeans, Sistani.
(03:42):
Thank you for asking. Its tiny bass. I know, but
I'm just I'm telling you otherwise, Robbie's gonna be wearing
these rolled up cuffs in the same socks. Let me
see this song. Cute. No, I like your outfit today.
It's really cute. Thank you, Thank you. All right, let's
stay on task. Back to the fashion Finder in a moment.
(04:05):
Let's get to Brenda. Brenda, so we know you've been
married fourteen he's telling you it's going to the gym.
You think he's going to see another woman. When he
packs his bag and he leaves and um everything he
drives down, he's not motivated. All the signs point to
him having an affair while telling you he's going to
the gym. Right, he has like no stinky gym clothes
(04:26):
like you know, and I know. I mean if if
you're packing a bag, you're coming back with the same
bag and you're not using your clothes, well that's a
red flag. There would be a stench coming from your
gym clothes. All right, So when I need you to say, Ryan,
you my permission to call, and then his name on
kissing him. Go ahead, Okay, Ryan, you have my permission
(04:47):
to call. We're gonna do be very quiet to we see.
We're gonna find out here we go, good luck. Hello? Hi?
Is this Kevin speaking? Hi Kevin. My name is Jayla.
(05:11):
I'm calling from l A Blooms. We actually deliver in
the Wittier area today. We're offering local residents of Valentine's
Day promotion. Is that something you'd be interested in? It's
absolutely free. I'm sorry, I think you have the wrong number. No, no, no,
we we offer this a local residents. You're in our
database and so basically it's a Valentine's Date promotion of
a free dozen red roses. Actually comes with Teddy Bear
and chocolates as well. It's absolutely free. And so we
(05:33):
do this about once a month and today you've been
selected and so be delivered to anybody that you'd like
today and we just need the name of the person
and you can read. Now let me stop you there. Um,
I know you're doing a job and we're part of
running some kind of a complicated scam or something. But listen,
I have no interest in giving you a credit card number.
(05:54):
You don't have to give me your credit card. You
don't have to give me your credit card number or
cash or anything like that. It's absolutely free. We just
asked that if you like arrangements, you then refers to
friends and family or leave us a up review. That's
all that we ask. But I'm still I mean, this
isn't completely free nothing. It's completely free. I have to
pay for delivery or something like that, right, you don't
(06:16):
have to pay for anything. This, this arrangement is on
the house. It is free. We just we can start
with the name of the person you want to send
them to. You know what, I've got three or four minutes. Sure,
I'll bite, I'll do that. But as soon as you
ask for any sort of like delivery code or my
venmo or anything like that, I'm just gonna hang up.
(06:37):
You will not right, I do understand. Okay, Okay, what's
the name of the person you want to send them to? Well, um,
I would like send them to my wife. Her name
is Are you ready to write this down? Yes? Okay,
her name is Brenda, And can I include a like
(06:59):
a little message or something or okay, um, uh my darling, Brenda,
Happy Monday. Don't worry. These are free. I hope they are. Okay?
Do you say so? We'll see, We'll see what happens, Kevin,
(07:22):
your voice being broadcast on the radio. Kevin, are you there?
My name is Ryan Seacrest. Stay with us here for
a second. I have your wife, Brenda on the line.
Brend is this your husband? Yes, this is Kevin. We'll
come back to everything here in a second. I'm gonna
tell you why we're on the phone. What are you
doing when you say you're going to the gym? Kevin?
(07:45):
Back to bag? You leave the house? Where are you going?
What are you talking about? So you pack your bag,
you go to the gym? Or do you where do
you go? Uh? Babe, what's going on? You keep you
(08:06):
come on to see clean with me? Please? What are
you talking about? Kevin? We know you're not going to
the gym. Just come clean with their wife right now.
It's the moment to do it. Thinks would be a
lot better. Um you know what, yeah, sure, why not? Um,
I'm not going to the gym, yes you know that.
(08:28):
Where are you going? On? On? Where are you going
are you saying someone and what am I seeing? No? What? No?
I mean going out for drinks with with with the
guys at work. What do you talk babe? So why
are you lying about it? Kevin? Why not just tell
Brendan what you're doing? Like, yeah, what's going on? Why
(08:51):
is this all like cloaked in secrecy a few times
a week? You've been doing this for months. Listen, honey,
none of this was ever intended to hurt you or
anything like that. I I I haven't really been able
to find time for myself. And you get your girls
(09:13):
nights and your you know, little weekend events and your
wine downs and everything like that, and I am happy.
I want you to have that. Okay, I want you
to have that. I'm happy to watch your kids and everything.
But you know, at a while now, I tried, when
I tried to do that for myself, when I tried
to just go out and grab a beer with some friends,
(09:34):
or catch up with the guys, maybe go and watch
the game down at the bar or something. Every time
that I say I'm gonna do that, it's like, Oh,
you're gonna leave me here with the kids. Oh you're
going to go out and have fun. Oh you're going
to ignore, like, honey, I need a little bit of
time for myself. And you're cheating on your wife and
not going out for drinks. So why don't you talk
(09:54):
about that? I haven't I what, I haven't done that
at all. I'm why are you stuttering? Yeah, there's just
some something. It's it's it's completely sad. I don't know
what to believe. I don't know what to believe. I
don't I really don't believe Brendan that he's going to
(10:15):
have drinks with his friends. I think there's something else here.
There anything else you want to radio? And you're accusing
me of cheating on my wife? What do you What
do you think I do to read? If to read
think that? If? Do you think that? Your wife actually
called reached out to me the email? Then we called her,
then we called you, and she thinks you you're cheating.
So I understand that you would be upset about that. Look,
(10:37):
I believe me the last thing I want to be
not doing this too. So is there anything else you
want to say? Yeah, there's a lot of things I
want to say. I'm not cheating on you, I'm not
doing anything. I'm a little animatedly defensive. You're chusing me
of cheating on my wife on the radio. I'm not.
I'm not, I'm just asking about it. You literally that
(10:59):
you think that I'm doing that. Kevin, You're you're gonna
have a heart attack. And the reason why you're gonna
have a heart attack is because you're not going to
the gym. Okay, well, look guys, you guys were going
in circles here, Brenda. You can hear what's happening. You
can listen to his voice. You can listen to the words.
We're gonna let you both go, both of your good luck. Okay,
(11:20):
I don't I don't know what I said, but I
don't believe him. I don't believe him. And then he
was you know why I don't believe him? Why because
he got so almost excited that she was believing that
he was out with his friends. I heard that. I
heard him. He thought he was onto something with this alibi.
I could feel it with his his his frequency and pace,
(11:44):
that he thought he had discovered his alibi. I just
didn't believe it. Yeah,
We're gonna get into Ryan's roses now. So here's the deal,
Brenda and witty Or has reached out. It is the
day after the Super Bowl. Ryan's roses does not sleep. So, Brenda,
you say that, Um, he told you that he's been
going to the gym a few times a week, and
then you notice some things to make you think he's
not What did you notice? Well, basically, you know, he's
(00:21):
got the same bag of gym clothes almost every day,
and I never ever see him packing new ones, and
there's rarely an outfit to wash, like nothing stinks. And
you know, if I'm meaning completely honest, I I don't
see the results that are supposed to come, you know,
with working out that he says he's been doing, you know,
(00:42):
and it's just is really freaking me out. Okay, So
you think, I just want to make sure we understand
this so we can ask the right questions. But you
think he's pretending to go to the gym and then
he's doing what, Yeah, I think he's he must be
seen somebody, I you know, But you think he's doing
(01:03):
all this, you must not trust him. Is there a
reason why you don't trust him? Well, first off, like
he is, you know, not I hope this isn't too
you know t M. I you know, but he does
not have an increased sexual interest like which I know
comes with like working out and that's sort of high
and and he doesn't have more energy, and it actually
it looks, you know, it seems the opposite. And then
(01:27):
this is what really sealed the deal. Like I looked for,
you know, any receich for any of him, you know,
gym memberships and you know, if there's nothing, and I
would offer to go, but you know what, we have
kids and that requires a babysitter, which is you know, money.
I just I'm very very and my gut says that
(01:49):
he's totally seeing somebody on the side. How long have
you been married, Brenda? Oh gosh, fourteen years. That goes
to the gym, but he's not going to the gym.
Where's he going? Have you confronted him? I mean I
was like, hey, but where are you going? He's you know,
and he's just said, you know, just to he's just
(02:10):
working out. I mean, yes, but I've never sat him
down and be like, this is what I feel is happening.
Are you you know, are you seeing somebody on the side.
Are you in love with someone else? Kind of thing?
Because this just doesn't add up to No, I haven't
done that, but I'm just like, you know, I've kind
of poked around a little bit like been you know,
more of like a the Nine Inquiries. Okay, hold on
(02:36):
one second, Brenda, Al Yeah, I started this song, but
we'll do it. I hate to call next on Air
with Ryan seacrests on Air with Ryan Seacrest, if you
just joined this. I was trying to start that song,
think Brenda was done, but then I had to start
(02:58):
at over. But things just happen when you're rolling the
punches here one or two point seven kid seven. I
do that with you guys sometimes we're talking. Haven't seen
those all day? Hey? Yeah, I haven't. What would you
like the brown khaki sand up? What was hold? What's happening?
I just played Metroom twenty one Savage in the weekend.
Sometimes I do that with you guys. I'll start a
(03:18):
song while we're talking, and then we can barely finished
talking before they start singing. What would you like to
see your pants? You just got up a little bit
and I think I saw are they? Are they? Khaki?
Colored like a tan tan. They're so cute. And the
roll cup the bottom. Who makes those? Okay, Robbie's not
getting these genes. I will find out light brown jeans, Sistani.
(03:42):
Thank you for asking. Its tiny bass. I know, but
I'm just I'm telling you otherwise, Robbie's gonna be wearing
these rolled up cuffs in the same socks. Let me
see this song. Cute. No, I like your outfit today.
It's really cute. Thank you, Thank you. All right, let's
stay on task. Back to the fashion Finder in a moment.
(04:05):
Let's get to Brenda. Brenda, so we know you've been
married fourteen he's telling you it's going to the gym.
You think he's going to see another woman. When he
packs his bag and he leaves and um everything he
drives down, he's not motivated. All the signs point to
him having an affair while telling you he's going to
the gym. Right, he has like no stinky gym clothes
(04:26):
like you know, and I know. I mean if if
you're packing a bag, you're coming back with the same
bag and you're not using your clothes, well that's a
red flag. There would be a stench coming from your
gym clothes. All right, So when I need you to say, Ryan,
you my permission to call, and then his name on
kissing him. Go ahead, Okay, Ryan, you have my permission
(04:47):
to call. We're gonna do be very quiet to we see.
We're gonna find out here we go, good luck. Hello? Hi?
Is this Kevin speaking? Hi Kevin. My name is Jayla.
(05:11):
I'm calling from l A Blooms. We actually deliver in
the Wittier area today. We're offering local residents of Valentine's
Day promotion. Is that something you'd be interested in? It's
absolutely free. I'm sorry, I think you have the wrong number. No, no, no,
we we offer this a local residents. You're in our
database and so basically it's a Valentine's Date promotion of
a free dozen red roses. Actually comes with Teddy Bear
and chocolates as well. It's absolutely free. And so we
(05:33):
do this about once a month and today you've been
selected and so be delivered to anybody that you'd like
today and we just need the name of the person
and you can read. Now let me stop you there. Um,
I know you're doing a job and we're part of
running some kind of a complicated scam or something. But listen,
I have no interest in giving you a credit card number.
(05:54):
You don't have to give me your credit card. You
don't have to give me your credit card number or
cash or anything like that. It's absolutely free. We just
asked that if you like arrangements, you then refers to
friends and family or leave us a up review. That's
all that we ask. But I'm still I mean, this
isn't completely free nothing. It's completely free. I have to
pay for delivery or something like that, right, you don't
(06:16):
have to pay for anything. This, this arrangement is on
the house. It is free. We just we can start
with the name of the person you want to send
them to. You know what, I've got three or four minutes. Sure,
I'll bite, I'll do that. But as soon as you
ask for any sort of like delivery code or my
venmo or anything like that, I'm just gonna hang up.
(06:37):
You will not right, I do understand. Okay, Okay, what's
the name of the person you want to send them to? Well, um,
I would like send them to my wife. Her name
is Are you ready to write this down? Yes? Okay,
her name is Brenda, And can I include a like
(06:59):
a little message or something or okay, um, uh my darling, Brenda,
Happy Monday. Don't worry. These are free. I hope they are. Okay?
Do you say so? We'll see, We'll see what happens, Kevin,
(07:22):
your voice being broadcast on the radio. Kevin, are you there?
My name is Ryan Seacrest. Stay with us here for
a second. I have your wife, Brenda on the line.
Brend is this your husband? Yes, this is Kevin. We'll
come back to everything here in a second. I'm gonna
tell you why we're on the phone. What are you
doing when you say you're going to the gym? Kevin?
(07:45):
Back to bag? You leave the house? Where are you going?
What are you talking about? So you pack your bag,
you go to the gym? Or do you where do
you go? Uh? Babe, what's going on? You keep you
(08:06):
come on to see clean with me? Please? What are
you talking about? Kevin? We know you're not going to
the gym. Just come clean with their wife right now.
It's the moment to do it. Thinks would be a
lot better. Um you know what, yeah, sure, why not? Um,
I'm not going to the gym, yes you know that.
(08:28):
Where are you going? On? On? Where are you going
are you saying someone and what am I seeing? No? What? No?
I mean going out for drinks with with with the
guys at work. What do you talk babe? So why
are you lying about it? Kevin? Why not just tell
Brendan what you're doing? Like, yeah, what's going on? Why
(08:51):
is this all like cloaked in secrecy a few times
a week? You've been doing this for months. Listen, honey,
none of this was ever intended to hurt you or
anything like that. I I I haven't really been able
to find time for myself. And you get your girls
(09:13):
nights and your you know, little weekend events and your
wine downs and everything like that, and I am happy.
I want you to have that. Okay, I want you
to have that. I'm happy to watch your kids and everything.
But you know, at a while now, I tried, when
I tried to do that for myself, when I tried
to just go out and grab a beer with some friends,
(09:34):
or catch up with the guys, maybe go and watch
the game down at the bar or something. Every time
that I say I'm gonna do that, it's like, Oh,
you're gonna leave me here with the kids. Oh you're
going to go out and have fun. Oh you're going
to ignore, like, honey, I need a little bit of
time for myself. And you're cheating on your wife and
not going out for drinks. So why don't you talk
(09:54):
about that? I haven't I what, I haven't done that
at all. I'm why are you stuttering? Yeah, there's just
some something. It's it's it's completely sad. I don't know
what to believe. I don't know what to believe. I
don't I really don't believe Brendan that he's going to
(10:15):
have drinks with his friends. I think there's something else here.
There anything else you want to radio? And you're accusing
me of cheating on my wife? What do you What
do you think I do to read? If to read
think that? If? Do you think that? Your wife actually
called reached out to me the email? Then we called her,
then we called you, and she thinks you you're cheating.
So I understand that you would be upset about that. Look,
(10:37):
I believe me the last thing I want to be
not doing this too. So is there anything else you
want to say? Yeah, there's a lot of things I
want to say. I'm not cheating on you, I'm not
doing anything. I'm a little animatedly defensive. You're chusing me
of cheating on my wife on the radio. I'm not.
I'm not, I'm just asking about it. You literally that
(10:59):
you think that I'm doing that. Kevin, You're you're gonna
have a heart attack. And the reason why you're gonna
have a heart attack is because you're not going to
the gym. Okay, well, look guys, you guys were going
in circles here, Brenda. You can hear what's happening. You
can listen to his voice. You can listen to the words.
We're gonna let you both go, both of your good luck. Okay,
(11:20):
I don't I don't know what I said, but I
don't believe him. I don't believe him. And then he
was you know why I don't believe him? Why because
he got so almost excited that she was believing that
he was out with his friends. I heard that. I
heard him. He thought he was onto something with this alibi.
I could feel it with his his his frequency and pace,
(11:44):
that he thought he had discovered his alibi. I just
didn't believe it. Yeah,
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