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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Have you ever met someone and thought you totally connected
with them and then of a sudden, you're like, on
completely different pages, They're a totally different person. You think,
what did I do? Or how did I misjudge you?
What did I not see her? What did I do?
So that's the store here, been there?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
This is from Nicole and mar Vista. She's like, Hey, guys,
I'm at a loss. I went on two perfectly magical
dates with the guy I met Onhinge. On the last one,
he actually said these words, actually says, I think I'm
falling for you. I think I'm falling for you. Have
you ever said that?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Sure, me too, me too?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, when it comes natural and then usually it's reciprocated
and all works out.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
But here's the thing she's saying, now, nothing the guy
completely ghosted her. I don't know what happened, but I
really want to know what happened. Yeah, so let's get
Nicole on you. What is with people when they date?
What is with us when we date? Sometimes we just
I don't get cill.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Sometimes it's like it doesn't work until it works.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Maybe, But why is he saying I'm falling for you?
And then disappearing. What is that about? He's probably truthful
and then change his mind? Could you change your mind
so fast? Because he went back on the apps and
started It's the reason we're here. All these spiraling notions
are why we're here for a second date updates. So
thank you for reaching out. I don't know, I mean,
what do you think when you played this out in
your mind? What conclusion can you come to? Why did
(01:16):
he blow you off so fast?
Speaker 4 (01:19):
I mean, maybe he's afraid of how he's feeling. That's
the only thing I can think of.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
So you think he's scared that he's falling for you?
So he's laying off?
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Yeah, I think so?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I mean, yeah, all right, Well that's interesting. Maybe he's
trying to catch himself. He doesn't want to get hurt too,
Like he doesn't want to get hurt again. The guy's
been hurt. Perhaps he doesn't want to get hurt this
time because he's falling so fast.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Get that?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
All right?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
What's his name is? Dimitri? All right? Hold on one second?
You met him on a hand, try and think if
I need to know anything else? We went two great days.
What did you do on the dates? What was so magical?
About the date snicle that you went on with the guy.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
Well, the first day was ideal, like we had a
picnic on the green balance Santa Monica, like with a blanket,
you know, made out under this, you know, under the
sky kind of thing, just like a movie among you.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
You made out. You had a nighttime.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Picnic, yeah, the stars, yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I can't see stars?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Wine?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Nice? And did you lay on the hard ground like
with roots on your and everything?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Mark, you're the blanket and stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Yeah. And then the second day we went to Venice
and walked along the water and held hands, and you
know that's told.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Me to me, the holding hands on the second date
is very symbolic of intimacy, like that is an intimate
act on the second date, if you're holding hands like
a little makeout after the first, I'm not so sure.
I think that the holding hands tells me more. Honey,
Why are you confused?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Because I feel like tongue in mouth is more intimate
than hand in hand.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Well, no one wanted that sort of description, but I'm
just saying that I think it's very intimate. You're holding
someone's hand walking through the market. I know what you mean.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
You know, it's very very much.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
We are a couple. Well, yeah, you're saying, Hey, I
know what happened on the first date at the picnic,
and I know what's about to happen now. So I
want to grab your hand and sho everybody we're together.
That's what I'm saying. Who initiated the hand holding?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (03:24):
Heated?
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Heat it?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Hold on one second? Do you handhold? Front or back?
Where's your hand.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I'm in the back.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
I'm in the back.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
You're in the front.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I am in the front.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I'm just trying it, checking it out right now for
a second.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
In front, I'm in the front. You how are we
going to walk together? If he's a two fronts here?
I can't give us a demonstration. Please all right, let's
come back. We're trying to track this guy down. Why
is he blowing off in the cole It's a second
date update Air on Air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
On Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
So Nicole reaches out to us and she says, guys,
this is a second date up. There were in the middle.
I'm about to talk to Demitrio. She says, I don't
get it. I met this guy on Hinch. We're going
to a magical dates. He says, I think I'm falling
for you. He kisses me. Second date, he holds my
hand and now he's completely blowing me off. Yeah, so
he said, what do you make of it? She thinks
is because he is falling so hard he has to
slow down. But she's willing to take it slow. So
that's what we know. What is going on with dating?
(04:32):
What is going on? Nicole? Very quiet? We got him
on the line. Let me see what we can find
out about why he's seemingly ghosting you so rigidly. Okay, okay?
Is this Dimitri?
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Hey, what's up?
Speaker 1 (04:48):
How are you brought? It's Ryan Seacrest, I have Tani
and Sisty. You're on the air with us right now.
I wanted to know that. How you doing.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Doing great? Thanks?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Great? So we're calling you about someone he met on Hinge.
Her name is Nicole. Did you have a couple of
days with her?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Yeah? Yeah, we did.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
You chuckle when I say her name? Will tell me
what you feel? What you think.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Is this? It's just hilarious that you're calling me about her.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Why is it hilarious?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
We just we went out a few times and yeah,
I'm just surprised that she's trying to reach back out
to me.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
I don't know, why are you surprised by that? Were
you feeling it, like were re vibing?
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Well, I guess I'm kind of not surprised, but yeah,
I just I've not communicated with her in a few days.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Why you, I don't know why. She's like, well, she uh,
she ghosted my friends.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
And I found this out after we went out together
and I was I was hanging out with my friends
and we were watching a football game and they all,
you know, I was describing my day with her, and
then my friend was like, I went out with her,
and she totally blocked me, and like ghosted and blocked me.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
And he's my boy.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
I'm not ghost him.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
I just to call us on the phone right now
with us listening on on this. She did ask us
to call to find out what's going on. So, Nicole,
what is Dmitri telling us here?
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Well?
Speaker 4 (06:22):
He, I guess I went out with one of his
friends apparently, and I didn't know that, no, that they
were friends.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I mean, you met on him. He is a total stranger.
When did you realize you went out with one of
his friends.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I'm I just am now finding that out.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I didn't know, Dmitri, what friend was this? A good friend?
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Yeah? Great friend?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Nicole? Do you know who he's talking about?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:46):
Yeah, I know who he's talking about.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Why'd you block him? I didn't.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
I just didn't want to see him anymore. I wasn't interested.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
So, Dmitri, what is your what's your issue here that
your friend? I mean, how small is the world that
your friend dated her? Is that the issue?
Speaker 6 (07:06):
No, that's not the issue at all. Like, I'm cool
with that. It's just how she ghosted and like she
blocked him and ghosted that.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
I think what happened? What did he do that made
you do that? Nicole? Well, wait, maybe he did something
that she didn't like. Hmmm.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
No, I just didn't. I just didn't like him. I
just we just didn't have a good vibe.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
It's just your way of ending the relationship.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Yeah, I mean, it's not like we went out a
bunch of times and like had all this intimate moment.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Moving on, moving on. But to me, T hold on. Okay,
so that's breaking news for me. But did you say
to Nicole after a date that you think you're falling
for her. Is that true or was that true?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Yeah? I did I said that. Yeah, yeah, I felt
that way at the time.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
But then yeah, and then I found this out and
I'm like, no, what, this is terrible behavior.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Hold on for sec would I like to have a
conversation with her before I did this. I think it's
such bad behavior. She didn't like the guy. To me,
it's more about like, oh, I don't really want to
date you because you did date my friend and it's
a good friend of mine, and that's going to be
weird for me. Like that's to me, it's more of it. Yeah,
that is more weird for me, because especially if you
like somebody, it's like, if you're falling for somebody's hard
to find somebody to fall forward and say those words too.
(08:13):
I'd be more hung up on the fact that she
went out with somebody it's close to me, it's a
friend of mine. That's going to create maybe weirdness in
the friendship. Yeah, I get that. The obviously you don't
care about that. You care about the way she treated
him with the block.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
Yeah, exactly, it's not cool, and that's why I goes
to her.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
What goes around comes around.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Okay, yeah, like the two wrongs not really making it
right here.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Yeah, and we had a connection. He and I didn't
have that connection or say the things or do the things.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
But now you're seeing Dmitries true colors. But I thought
we were onto some awesomeness here, guys. Nah, I thought
we're onto some awesomeness. Like here's two people that were vibing, and.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I feel like you threw this away.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
You threw this away to me Tree. You could have
at least given her the benefit of the data explain herself,
and you didn't even do that.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You just went with your bro. Yeah, yeah, he did
that well, Dmitri, Nicole safe to say from our view here,
it doesn't look like this is meant to be a match.
Speaker 6 (09:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
I don't want to go out someone so imature anyway,
Like I can't believe I'm immature.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Okay, we're not gonna let you guys argue about it.
Thank you very much for reaching out and the call. Look, Dmitri,
hopefully's happiness out there that landed dating.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
So you're okay with ghostingy?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Are you talking to me? Ryan? I don't love it,
but like she didn't want to deal with the guys,
so she blocked him and moved on to me. The
bigger is she was like, if for me, if I'm
Dmetriu'm like, not for that, I wouldn't want to go
out again. I'd be more concerned about the fact she
did one of my friends and what's that going to
be like? But then again, I also know it's hard
(09:50):
to find somebody who say I think I'm following for.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
You too, And also sometimes it's like having the conversation
is so weird.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
It's just easier. And I also want to just clear
the air right now for Dmitri who works here. Dmitri
who works here, is sending me an I am saying.
He wants us to know he does not approve of
this fellow namesakes pat so he does not want all
the Dmitries in the world to get a bad Dimitri.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
I don't think he even did it so bad, though
I'd be annoyed too.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Second date update there