October 18, 2022 • 9 mins
She says it’s more of a 5th date update! She thought they were in a relationship…and he ghosted her! What happened?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Signed for a second date update. We're talking about when
you think you're dating someone but they don't because you
haven't had the conversation yet. Painful. You don't want to
live in that gray area long. If you sense it,
try and get out of it. You're in control of that. No,
but you can be that gray area for months. Why
you can just address it? Why can't like if you're
(00:22):
of course, we don't do anything that we say, just
talk about it. Laura, good morning, Thank you for coming
on with us. So you met this guy, you went
out several times. It looks like and you thought you
were dating. You thought he was your boyfriend, and now
he's disappeared, like not responding. Yeah, like not at all.
(00:42):
I mean we hung out five times, like slept at
each other's houses, and we were talking. You know when
you're you first start to date, you're talking consistently, and
he has not returned to tech. So I need a
little math. Five times and how many days between each
time on average? So the first two weeks it was
like two dates, like a day to week. Then it
(01:04):
was the next week we I think the next two
weeks we had like three dates. So we kept seeing
each other more and the dates lasted longer, and like
I thought we were really, like really in a relationship
and dating. So I'm just kind of confused. Like the
last date that we had, we went to this beautiful
dinner on a rooftop, and like I, I assumed we'd
(01:25):
go back to one like his play through mine because
that's what we had done. But he said he wasn't
feeling great and ended it early, and that that made
me feel like it was a bad sign, to be honest,
So how come you haven't said to him, Hey, where
are we in your mind? What's our status? I never
(01:46):
really thought I had to because we had it had
been so consistent, but I mean now moving forward, yeah,
because otherwise you're in this situation like to have clarity
and to avoid uncertainty, I think you have to forget
about what we think. We're gonna call him and find
out what he thinks, all right, So Hank tight. So
Laura goes out with Chase five times and she thinks
(02:10):
they're in a relationship. She didn't ask or she didn't
discuss it with him, so they're in a gray area.
But five times she's like, we're in a relationship, and
then he disappeared. Well the last day, it was a
little funky, she said to It ended early and she
felt weird after that. So, Laura, we're gonna we have
actually him on the line. Let me see if I
can find out some stuff. Be very quiet, why I
talked to Chase? Okay, okay, hey Chase, how are you man?
(02:33):
Thanks for coming on? Kiss up? Fam? How you doing?
Hey guys, good morning, good morning. We're doing well. We're
just gonna jump into it. Um, we know that you've
been hanging out with the girl name Laura. Yeah. So wait,
you guys are calling me on the radio and asking
me about our date. Yeah, this usually goes better if
I asked questions because it won't make a lot of
(02:53):
sense to you. But just go with me on this, Chase.
So you met Laura, right, and you guys went out
and you did it? Or are you dating? Yeah? So
we went out about five times. Um, we spent some
a few nights together, actually went out of a whole bunch. Um.
We kind of entered the same music that we kind
of we met on this um this app called taste
(03:15):
Buds and basically, you know, we kind of signed each
other's interest in music and so that's kind of how
we kind of connect it at first. Um, she hung
up my place, you know, spent the night, hung her play,
spent the night. It was good. I felt pretty good
about it. Um. And then you know, just kind of
fizzles from there. But what do you mean fizzle? What
went fizzle? Uh? Well, she texted me a few times
(03:39):
and and after that, which was fine, but I just
I don't know, I just for me, it just wasn't
working anymore. You know, it really wasn't into me. She
wasn't into you. What do you mean you know? So yeah, Okay,
so she I got I get this impression because she
she and she told me does she got out of
a long term relationship, which is fine, and she mentioned
(03:59):
that early on. But look, the deal is, I'm a
pretty good looking guy, right, I'm a model. I work out. Um,
and she was really excited to post pictures of us
on Instagram, Like okay, um, I mean we were Instagram
official on the second date. That's just kind of quick.
But and then I realized, Okay, hang on, he's actually
(04:20):
baiting her X she's still into him. I think you
think he's using you to show him that she's in
one with you, the good looking model. Yeah, come on?
Really alright? So that turn so that was what made
you think this is not happening? Right? Yeah? Got you?
(04:40):
All right, Chase? If you didn't think that was going on,
would you want to date Laura? Could you see her
as your girlfriend? Uh? You know what? Yeah? I probably would.
I would want to go out a couple more times,
you know what I'm saying. But like if we can
get past that, like like the show off, the type fives,
with the with the social media, I think that it
could be cool, you know, And I get why she's
(05:02):
doing it. You know, I put a lot of work
into my look get it. Okay? Well all right, Chase,
I'm gonna hold you. There are going to bring in Laura.
She's actually listening to this conversation. So, Laura, so many questions. Um,
is that true? Are you using Chase to get back
at your ex? No, I'm that is not true. I
really liked you, Like I admit that, Like I did
(05:26):
imagine him, like seeing the pictures and yeah that made
me happy because like I'm with someone so much better
and he was. It's but it's not because I don't
like you. It's because I actually do really like you. So, um, Laura,
are you as attracted to Chase as Chase is to himself.
(05:47):
Chase is very good looking guy, so I heard definitely
attracted to him. I wouldn't have continue to go out
with him, and you know we had sleepovers if I
didn't like him and if I wasn't attracted to him.
Uh So, now, Chase and Laura, do you want to
(06:09):
go out again and start fresh here knowing all of
this and having had this conversation and sort of see
where it goes? Because look, Chase, Laura thought you guys
were in it, like you guys were dating, like you
guys were boyfriend and girlfriend. You didn't think that clearly?
Do you want to start fresh and see where this goes? You? Guys?
I mean, I'm not definitely interested. But Laura, quick question,
(06:34):
So you admit to posting those pictures debate your recks
like you just came clean? Is that true? I mean no,
but not like totally yes in the sense that like
if you saw them and was jealous, hey, that's great,
but like I felt the same way about like all
my friends seeing you, you know, like, isn't that the
point of posting on Instagram to like show off to
(06:57):
make everyone jealous. M M, well, Chase, I don't know
what you said, but that sounds like a reaction. Um,
all right, do you too want to go out again? Chase? Laura,
let's make a decision honestly, No, you know what I mean.
Just seems super superficial and that's coming from me, so
(07:18):
that means something. Um, I'm not interested in doing this again. No. Wow,
All right, well Laura, I'm glad we now know, and
good luck to both of you. Thank you for reaching out.
I'm look, first of all, we're gonna get to him
in a second. She does have a point. After breaking up,
(07:39):
you are thrilled to show your self back out there.
A little rushed, yeah, but like, come on, I mean
we all know, Tanya, you posted things up there to
get people, give them a rub, you know what I mean,
like make them feel certain way after certain things. We've
all done it. You've done it? Are you alive? No?
(08:04):
I've never heard the term give him a rug. I mean, like, um,
it's a week angry. No, you're the one that was
using the right. No, it's totally correct. Yeah, yeah, you
can rub at so many different definitions, right, the wrong. Okay, yeah, yeah.
(08:26):
I used to pretend like I was dating somebody, but
I would pretend and I would use like my guy
friends the right. Yeah yeah, all right, now let's get
to him. He made me so happy too, because at
first of all, oh, he okay, I'm picturing him as
a good looking guy. But he made me so happy
to hear him say he's a good looking guy, because
(08:47):
he became such an un good looking guy by saying
he's a good looking guy that I felt no threat.
You know, I was instantly unattractive. I was like instantly
not attractive, just like, here's a good looking guy, except
he told me that, so he's not attracted. I can't say.
I think I wrote it down. I'm a really good
(09:10):
looking guy, he said, No, No one says that for
someone who wants to be a model, Like don't you
want to be on Instagram and be exposed? I'm a model.
I'm a really good looking model. But anybody who's really
good looking doesn't need to say it. So I was
kind of like relieved that he said it in a
weird way. I got it, I got it, but I
(09:33):
got the hoping they didn't go out and he's the
one that didn't want to go out, so it all
worked out. She'll find someone better. The second updates wind
me up clearly
Signed for a second date update. We're talking about when
you think you're dating someone but they don't because you
haven't had the conversation yet. Painful. You don't want to
live in that gray area long. If you sense it,
try and get out of it. You're in control of that. No,
but you can be that gray area for months. Why
you can just address it? Why can't like if you're
(00:22):
of course, we don't do anything that we say, just
talk about it. Laura, good morning, Thank you for coming
on with us. So you met this guy, you went
out several times. It looks like and you thought you
were dating. You thought he was your boyfriend, and now
he's disappeared, like not responding. Yeah, like not at all.
(00:42):
I mean we hung out five times, like slept at
each other's houses, and we were talking. You know when
you're you first start to date, you're talking consistently, and
he has not returned to tech. So I need a
little math. Five times and how many days between each
time on average? So the first two weeks it was
like two dates, like a day to week. Then it
(01:04):
was the next week we I think the next two
weeks we had like three dates. So we kept seeing
each other more and the dates lasted longer, and like
I thought we were really, like really in a relationship
and dating. So I'm just kind of confused. Like the
last date that we had, we went to this beautiful
dinner on a rooftop, and like I, I assumed we'd
(01:25):
go back to one like his play through mine because
that's what we had done. But he said he wasn't
feeling great and ended it early, and that that made
me feel like it was a bad sign, to be honest,
So how come you haven't said to him, Hey, where
are we in your mind? What's our status? I never
(01:46):
really thought I had to because we had it had
been so consistent, but I mean now moving forward, yeah,
because otherwise you're in this situation like to have clarity
and to avoid uncertainty, I think you have to forget
about what we think. We're gonna call him and find
out what he thinks, all right, So Hank tight. So
Laura goes out with Chase five times and she thinks
(02:10):
they're in a relationship. She didn't ask or she didn't
discuss it with him, so they're in a gray area.
But five times she's like, we're in a relationship, and
then he disappeared. Well the last day, it was a
little funky, she said to It ended early and she
felt weird after that. So, Laura, we're gonna we have
actually him on the line. Let me see if I
can find out some stuff. Be very quiet, why I
talked to Chase? Okay, okay, hey Chase, how are you man?
(02:33):
Thanks for coming on? Kiss up? Fam? How you doing?
Hey guys, good morning, good morning. We're doing well. We're
just gonna jump into it. Um, we know that you've
been hanging out with the girl name Laura. Yeah. So wait,
you guys are calling me on the radio and asking
me about our date. Yeah, this usually goes better if
I asked questions because it won't make a lot of
(02:53):
sense to you. But just go with me on this, Chase.
So you met Laura, right, and you guys went out
and you did it? Or are you dating? Yeah? So
we went out about five times. Um, we spent some
a few nights together, actually went out of a whole bunch. Um.
We kind of entered the same music that we kind
of we met on this um this app called taste
(03:15):
Buds and basically, you know, we kind of signed each
other's interest in music and so that's kind of how
we kind of connect it at first. Um, she hung
up my place, you know, spent the night, hung her play,
spent the night. It was good. I felt pretty good
about it. Um. And then you know, just kind of
fizzles from there. But what do you mean fizzle? What
went fizzle? Uh? Well, she texted me a few times
(03:39):
and and after that, which was fine, but I just
I don't know, I just for me, it just wasn't
working anymore. You know, it really wasn't into me. She
wasn't into you. What do you mean you know? So yeah, Okay,
so she I got I get this impression because she
she and she told me does she got out of
a long term relationship, which is fine, and she mentioned
(03:59):
that early on. But look, the deal is, I'm a
pretty good looking guy, right, I'm a model. I work out. Um,
and she was really excited to post pictures of us
on Instagram, Like okay, um, I mean we were Instagram
official on the second date. That's just kind of quick.
But and then I realized, Okay, hang on, he's actually
(04:20):
baiting her X she's still into him. I think you
think he's using you to show him that she's in
one with you, the good looking model. Yeah, come on?
Really alright? So that turn so that was what made
you think this is not happening? Right? Yeah? Got you?
(04:40):
All right, Chase? If you didn't think that was going on,
would you want to date Laura? Could you see her
as your girlfriend? Uh? You know what? Yeah? I probably would.
I would want to go out a couple more times,
you know what I'm saying. But like if we can
get past that, like like the show off, the type fives,
with the with the social media, I think that it
could be cool, you know, And I get why she's
(05:02):
doing it. You know, I put a lot of work
into my look get it. Okay? Well all right, Chase,
I'm gonna hold you. There are going to bring in Laura.
She's actually listening to this conversation. So, Laura, so many questions. Um,
is that true? Are you using Chase to get back
at your ex? No, I'm that is not true. I
really liked you, Like I admit that, Like I did
(05:26):
imagine him, like seeing the pictures and yeah that made
me happy because like I'm with someone so much better
and he was. It's but it's not because I don't
like you. It's because I actually do really like you. So, um, Laura,
are you as attracted to Chase as Chase is to himself.
(05:47):
Chase is very good looking guy, so I heard definitely
attracted to him. I wouldn't have continue to go out
with him, and you know we had sleepovers if I
didn't like him and if I wasn't attracted to him.
Uh So, now, Chase and Laura, do you want to
(06:09):
go out again and start fresh here knowing all of
this and having had this conversation and sort of see
where it goes? Because look, Chase, Laura thought you guys
were in it, like you guys were dating, like you
guys were boyfriend and girlfriend. You didn't think that clearly?
Do you want to start fresh and see where this goes? You? Guys?
I mean, I'm not definitely interested. But Laura, quick question,
(06:34):
So you admit to posting those pictures debate your recks
like you just came clean? Is that true? I mean no,
but not like totally yes in the sense that like
if you saw them and was jealous, hey, that's great,
but like I felt the same way about like all
my friends seeing you, you know, like, isn't that the
point of posting on Instagram to like show off to
(06:57):
make everyone jealous. M M, well, Chase, I don't know
what you said, but that sounds like a reaction. Um,
all right, do you too want to go out again? Chase? Laura,
let's make a decision honestly, No, you know what I mean.
Just seems super superficial and that's coming from me, so
(07:18):
that means something. Um, I'm not interested in doing this again. No. Wow,
All right, well Laura, I'm glad we now know, and
good luck to both of you. Thank you for reaching out.
I'm look, first of all, we're gonna get to him
in a second. She does have a point. After breaking up,
(07:39):
you are thrilled to show your self back out there.
A little rushed, yeah, but like, come on, I mean
we all know, Tanya, you posted things up there to
get people, give them a rub, you know what I mean,
like make them feel certain way after certain things. We've
all done it. You've done it? Are you alive? No?
(08:04):
I've never heard the term give him a rug. I mean, like, um,
it's a week angry. No, you're the one that was
using the right. No, it's totally correct. Yeah, yeah, you
can rub at so many different definitions, right, the wrong. Okay, yeah, yeah.
(08:26):
I used to pretend like I was dating somebody, but
I would pretend and I would use like my guy
friends the right. Yeah yeah, all right, now let's get
to him. He made me so happy too, because at
first of all, oh, he okay, I'm picturing him as
a good looking guy. But he made me so happy
to hear him say he's a good looking guy, because
(08:47):
he became such an un good looking guy by saying
he's a good looking guy that I felt no threat.
You know, I was instantly unattractive. I was like instantly
not attractive, just like, here's a good looking guy, except
he told me that, so he's not attracted. I can't say.
I think I wrote it down. I'm a really good
(09:10):
looking guy, he said, No, No one says that for
someone who wants to be a model, Like don't you
want to be on Instagram and be exposed? I'm a model.
I'm a really good looking model. But anybody who's really
good looking doesn't need to say it. So I was
kind of like relieved that he said it in a
weird way. I got it, I got it, but I
(09:33):
got the hoping they didn't go out and he's the
one that didn't want to go out, so it all
worked out. She'll find someone better. The second updates wind
me up clearly
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