Should You Give a Wedding Gift to Someone Who Flaked on Yours?

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Seacrest here assistanting Tanya. Hell my wedding chat around here.
You know, Tanya just got married. Oh my god, I
can't believe it. It's like that we've been training for
it all our lives and she did it. And then
you got Tubbs next, our engineer, Jeffrey Tubbs next. He
has no idea what he's gonna do, but he's gonna
get married somewhere somehow with very few people around. So anyway,

(00:21):
this struck me. Maybe my phone's listening to me and
sending me these articles. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Probably is it does happen? Yeah, mine does for sure.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
This is uh dividing the Internet. It's about reciprocal wedding gifts.
So there's a woman refusing to purchase a gift for
her friend's wedding because they did not get her and
her husband a gift or card when they got married.
Oh come on, really, So it's our husband's friend that's
getting married. Where do you stand on this? And a

(00:49):
few years ago he was a groomsman in their wedding,
but the friend and his now fiance did not get
them anything.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Why not?

Speaker 1 (00:58):
I don't know. The people just read the story and
now her husband is a groomsman in his wedding and
she's refusing to buy a gift. She says, I believe
you should do unto others as they do unto you,
as energy dang. Her husband's upset about it. He disagrees.
He thinks they should be bigger people. Yeah, and still
get them a gift. Maybe they forgot, maybe something happened.

(01:21):
And I agree with her husband.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
I agree so too. Two wrongs don't make it right here.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
Just be above the line. If you can afford a
nice gift, or not even a nice gift, just any gift.
Didn't get tongs or something, you know, give any tongs
for a grill grilled tongs. I totally am with him,
but other people agree with her, saying that they didn't
forget it was intentional and that she should not. Yeah,
it's come on, life's too short, it is. Did we

(01:48):
give you wedding gifts?

Speaker 2 (01:49):
On? We know we didn't make a registry.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
We figured we were doing a destination wedding and everybody
coming was our present.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Yeah, no doubt. That was not a cheap week.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Which, by the way, you can receive gifts up to
a year after your wedding so that like that's the
protocol or like the we have some people who like
couldn't make it, that sent gifts and stuff like that,
but we really we didn't.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
We didn't register. We didn't want to.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
I had to book that hotel. Yeah, and that one
hour transfer from the airport.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Oh not the transfer.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Well, I got in the car. First thing I said
to the guy, I'm like, how the tax the uber
whatever it was.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Did he give you a bucket of beer?

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Ours?

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Did?

Speaker 1 (02:30):
I offered me a beer? I didn't want it, he said.
I said to him, how long is the drive? He
goes to an hour depending on traffic? What what like?

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Landing in the romantic part of the island.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
My first that was time to get a closer hotel
to the airport.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Well, they actually just built like a highway. It was
like a toll road. I'm surprised you didn't.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
Take all I think I took the tollro. I didn't
say me any time.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah, it was it was like forty five.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
There was traffic, traffic.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
It's so normal anywhere you go it's going to be.
I mean, we can't even get to Santa Monica.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
In forty five minutes. Here, maybe I didn't want to
hear an hour after you fly.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
That's true right anyway,