Should You Have Kids At Your Wedding? Join the Debate

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, So Ruby is planning her wedding. It sounds
like a lot faster than Tany's planning hers.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
No, excuse me, a date for your No, but we
potentially have a venue. I know, we like stumbled upon it.
It was so crazy, and there's all these leaves that
looked like butterflies everywhere, and I was like, this feels significant.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Floor farm. No, but around that around there or farms?
Is that it was called? Yeah, I think it's called
floor farms.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
But no, that's my niece's name. So I remember that
place always. Oh that's cute, Flora farms.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
It's in Cabo. Yeah, it is your wedding in Mexico.
Not so large. That's a large land mass.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
It is it is is. I don't want to jinx anything.
I don't because like we don't we don't know for sure,
but we're pretty it's we're feeling pretty excited.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Is this twenty six or twenty five? Twenty five, twenty five? Well,
Ruby's moving faster, Ruby's putting hers together right now. I
don't know what is the what are the rules on
the sequencing of this stuff?

Speaker 2 (01:02):
Stuff before that Ruby's talking about we've talked about.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
All right, So what is the issue with your wedding planning?

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Ruby, Uh, we're just kind of on the fence about
whether or not we should have kids, or whether or
not the wedding should be no kids.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Well, I think it's what I don't. Let me back
up a step. What does normally happened? I think that
our kids standard.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
It depends.

Speaker 4 (01:21):
I've been weddings with kids. I've been two weddings without kids.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
I've never seen anybody say don't bring kids.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
Some of them some of the invites say that they do. Again,
I haven't been in many weddings in a long time,
like adults. And so what's the downside to kids coming?

Speaker 2 (01:36):
Oh my gosh, take a look at the price tag
of a wedding and you'll see the downside of you
inviting kids to a wedding.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Well, then cut them out. Yeah, I think that's one
of them.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
The other is like having, you know, kids crying while
you're you know, saying your vows to each other, or
your first dance together. There's like kids dancing under your dress,
like those sort of things.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
It sounds like you should call it off. This is
a lot of drama. Yeah, you put it like that.
Maybe what about the kid that the ring bear. Well, yeah, yeah,
so one kid gets to come, that lucky kid.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
I know some people will do only like their siblings
kids can come, that sort of thing. So we're just
on the fence. Do we allow kids do we not?
Or And also what's the age cut off? Like fifteen
and up or thirteen and up?

Speaker 3 (02:28):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
I do think if you're trying to limit the budget
and the people, you should probably have some sort of
framework of limitation where it's not just everybody's kids are
runninground like a like a a free for all.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Yeah, but also, kids don't want to go to weddings,
you know what I mean, Like I mean it depends
on their age obviously. And I think a lot of
people because we kind of Rob and I did this
and we talk to our friends that have kids, and
a lot of them want to come to a wedding
without their kids, you know, like they want to enjoy
and yeah, don't think it's gonna be we vote no kids.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, easy, let us know what you guys decide will do.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Flora's standing by if it's with kids. Okay, Well, first
of all, you can't just bring kids. And I'm gonna
bring my niece. If she says kids are large kids
your children. No, it's if kids are invited, then I
will invite a kid around.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
I don't just come with a kid, Okay, kid, any
kids want to come with me.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
To a wedding. No, it's not like that, got it? Well,
she is family, it's not it's like a random kid.
I know, but your kid.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
I don't have a kid, so would be in the
role of that. Tanya is in the kid or not kid?

Speaker 3 (03:42):
Is she with yours? I don't know which way is up?

Speaker 1 (03:44):
All right, hold on, everybody, some Disneyland tickets to give
away in one minute.