Sisanie Is Having Commitment Issues

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Weeken our integrond date.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
If we were just to say, name the person that
has the most commitment issues around here, who would it be?

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Ryan?

Speaker 2 (00:11):
No?

Speaker 3 (00:11):
I feel like you're very committed, Ryan, Like when you
get into a relationship, it's like you're in.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Yeah, it's true, Tanya, what are you talking about? Throwing
me under the bus?

Speaker 1 (00:22):
You set me up for that. You set me up
for that.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
It was a broad statement, named the person who would
most likely have commitment issues, and then you went right
to me under the bus.

Speaker 4 (00:36):
Well, first of all, it's obviously not Sisney Well, and
it's obviously not me.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
You're you're thinking of the term commitment, Uh, to general
a little bit more broad.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
Is the one right now? With the commitment issues. It
is so wrong.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
I don't have commitment issues when it comes to my relationship.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Yes, I know, we got that, Michael, Yeah, yeah, we understand.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
We are all the same.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Like that. I'm having commitment issues when it comes to
people inviting me to events or hangouts or play dates
or anything you name it, especially if it's a month
or six months out or.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
Something like that.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Birthday invitations, all those things.

Speaker 1 (01:20):
What's that?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
BB, let's beb it's good news. That people want to
include you in their lives.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
And that I understand. I'm not moaning. I'm just I'm
trying to understand why it's.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Happening to me because people like to have you around.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
No, not that I'm trying to understand why I'm having
the commitment issues. Before in the past, like old Systey
from like ten years ago, would be like, oh my gosh,
line up my skin, line up my calendar book, bok book. Yes, yes, yes,
I'll be at everything this and that. And now I'm
kind of like toning it back to rather, you've.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Got six dogs, six kids, and.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
You have what if babys bigger syndrome, bigger better syndrome
means what does that mean?

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Houses?

Speaker 4 (02:01):
Nay a bbs because you're wanting to keep your options
open if something bigger, better comes.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
No, it's not that at all, because I I just
don't even want to leave my house sometimes, like I'm
just at me. Yeah, and especially like they're so no,
like like Jomo, like joy of missing out because it's
even like a bird, it's like someone's birthday like in
a month from now, okay, and I still can't commit

(02:26):
or like an event someone saying hey, let's grab dinner
and then go to this show.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
And I'm just like, because when it comes around, you're
gonna have that It's on a Tuesday, and you've already
worked and been the kids.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
It's going to be an exhausted exactly.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
Like someone wants to get together like the week of
festival and that's like, you know, I feel like that's
a busy week, but I just don't know where my
headspace is going to be.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
Yeah, I understand this.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
I totally get it because I have developed this chronic
no to stuff and it's because I'm usually working, like
somehow something will be on the schedule that they've got
to do for work, and it's like if I commit
to something and then I can't go, yeah it comes up,
then I feel bad. So I just blanket no, which
makes me really uninvited.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
And my friends and colleagues and all that think that
inviting me to something two months out is actually great.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
It's like, oh, I'm sure you'll.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
Be a vaire more anxiety, that's exactly I know. Well,
I'm glad you're feeling that way. It makes me happier.
And Tanya just to you know, if you are gonna
expect us to do stuff at your wedding. We'd like
to put it in our calendar. Okay, I hear you, well,
hear us again.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
I hear you because Tanya has not given us the date.
It's not anxiety about schedule.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
No, But it's not like I'm gonna get married tomorrow.
I'm gonna give you plenty of letters.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Do you not just hear you months out we're gonna
get I guess that's true. Okay, fine, you're gonna get
anxiety no matter what. I have anxiety now. Commiting issues
to be fun though issues. And I don't know why
you threw me under the bus so fast, because you
know I don't.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
Yeah, you were, I mean that's like one second and
then he said, Ryan, okay, you told okay, did.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
You not set me up for that? I did not
set you up for that. Come on, somebody in the room.
Did Ryan that me up for that?

Speaker 4 (04:01):
Anyone?

Speaker 1 (04:02):
No? No, he just asked the whole comfortable now. But
I really don't know why you think he has commitment issues.
I feel like he commits, he shows up. He's always
have you see me commit to somebody I know time
and time again.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
Right, that's the prom that's not the problem commitment. Yeah,
and he's in a relationship for long periods of time.
And then when you commit to something, if you're going
to show up to host things or be somewhere or
have lunch, like you're there.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
I'm there if I say yes to the invitation. Okay,
I was given a question. It's fine, Tanya.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
He took it very personal.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
I don't take anything personally. Rolls right off my back,
roll and right off your back. Bring it up all morning.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
Clearly, it's a Monday. We've missed each other. Okay, we
get it. Coming back here kiss FM. How do you
feel about ironing? You got to iron something this morning.
I don't love it.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
I'm my hair straightener this morning, to iron the belt, iron.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
The belt flattener.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Yeah, there's a trick, a trick to I cut the
time of ironing in half.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
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