May 6, 2024 • 5 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, Tony, what is stressing you out now about this
wedding planning?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
So I have a girlfriend, I'm like surrounded by brides,
Like literally, I have four people in my immediate circle
that are getting married this year in twenty twenty four.
And one of them was talking to me the other
day and she was basically just like she's kind of
in the nitty gritty of it now, like has the date,
has the venue, has all this stuff, and she's like,
I go back. She's like, there's days that come and
(00:27):
go where I seriously just want to just have a
big dinner and call it a day. So Elope, no,
not a lope, have a big dinner just like not
like a wedding, like like an actual like a wedding,
but like hundress.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Like their party, Yeah, dinner party, dinner celebration, right.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Yeah, like dinner party on the beach somewhere or whatever.
And it's like she says, like she goes back and
forth and she's getting into all and I'm like I
can't even make a decision. Like I'm like I can't
even make the first step because that's what's like, there's
I'm having this like decision. It's not even decision fatigue,
like I just can't decide, and decision phobia. Decision phobia.
(01:03):
I've never had it before, but like I can't decide.
It just feels like such a big decision.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
This explains some of the things we were hearing earlier
from you this hour on the show, because you're kind
of like your brain is being the energy of Yeah,
this is taking away.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
It's a space, it is, and because like as more
time goes on, like I keep thinking like, Okay, well
I want to have a baby, so let's like get
this party started, like you know what I mean, Like
it's all kind of like going in my head and
so it's like, don't overthink it.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
This is exactly why I always say be very careful
when you're starting to plan a wedding, get married, because
this is the You're the product of all that stress
and anxiety. It's supposed to be celebratory and fun. It's
supposed to be the easiest thing, seamless thing. And I
see you like I'm worked up over your being worked up.
Yeah I'm worked up, and it's counterproduct. You have some advice, I.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Just you have to just start making decisions and don't
overthink it. No matter what you do, it's going to
be the happiest day of your life outside of when
your future children are born. But it's just and that's it.
At the end of the day. Just look at it
as a big party, like it's yes, it's your wedding
and you want it to be perfect, but nothing is
going to be perfect and there could think there could
(02:23):
be things that go wrong that day, so you just
can't dwell on them. Making the right.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Decision right now?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Is that the right venues I do this? It's I
just pick a spot, pick a date, start checking stuff
off your list, and then why did you start doing that?
You're going to feel the weight coming off your shoulder
as soon as you pick your date. Oh, it's going
to be like.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Should just pick a date already and let us all
out of the misery of stress.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Oh yeah, I gotta talk to Oh.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Gosh, Oh no, they've shifted the date that I blocked off.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Now, yeah, there's two potential shifts.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Oh man, I thought I was perform over a holiday weekend.
Now it sounds like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Yeah, no, not doing Oh no, that's been long gone.
You didn't tell them.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
About that yet, No, she didn't tell me that I
got my family on hold.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
No, she vetoed that a long time ago. Uh.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Here's the other thing I'm gonna tell you. I know
nothing about planning a wedding. I know something about what
I'm watching you go through. Yeah, get off your phone
a little.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Bit like looking people's weddings.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
No, I need a little less time with you on
your phone. That's going to bring down your heart rate
a little.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Bit, you think, so I do.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
It's really serious. I do. I think you're on your
phone too much in general, and this is the right
opportunity to address it.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Everyone is on their phone too much.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
She doesn't need to be adding to the anxiety that
she's got already. And it's I think it's stirring it
a little bit, honestly.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
I mean this is what you say, like posting and
social media and things like that.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah, because it gets I don't know what you noticed.
It off up to a blood pressure analyzer and see
what happens when you're on your phone, like your heart rate.
Your blood pressure goes out, your heart heart rate goes up.
It's a heart rate monitor. Heart rate goes your heart rates. Yes,
your heart rate's already up through all of this. I
think it's adding to the pressure. Try it. It's Monday.
Do a digital detox this week.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay, like a phone fast.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yes, that's it. I think you know what it is,
and I'm telling you it's kind of help. All right,
watch this, we'll have a date. Well, performers will have more.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Friday, honestly results Okay, But.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I mean, I mean, very good friend to you right now.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Thank you, appreciate you. I love you mean it?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Mean it too. You don't have to mean it. If
you mean it, I mean that makes it feel the
authenticity of it. Now, I don't know if you meant it,
if you don't mean.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
It, or like all the other times she says it, like.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Does she mean right? Does she doesn't mean it?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Love you mean it?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Put your phone down, We're taking a break. Morning hack
is next. Cause of m
Hey, Tony, what is stressing you out now about this
wedding planning?
Speaker 2 (00:04):
So I have a girlfriend, I'm like surrounded by brides,
Like literally, I have four people in my immediate circle
that are getting married this year in twenty twenty four.
And one of them was talking to me the other
day and she was basically just like she's kind of
in the nitty gritty of it now, like has the date,
has the venue, has all this stuff, and she's like,
I go back. She's like, there's days that come and
(00:27):
go where I seriously just want to just have a
big dinner and call it a day. So Elope, no,
not a lope, have a big dinner just like not
like a wedding, like like an actual like a wedding,
but like hundress.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Like their party, Yeah, dinner party, dinner celebration, right.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Yeah, like dinner party on the beach somewhere or whatever.
And it's like she says, like she goes back and
forth and she's getting into all and I'm like I
can't even make a decision. Like I'm like I can't
even make the first step because that's what's like, there's
I'm having this like decision. It's not even decision fatigue,
like I just can't decide, and decision phobia. Decision phobia.
(01:03):
I've never had it before, but like I can't decide.
It just feels like such a big decision.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
This explains some of the things we were hearing earlier
from you this hour on the show, because you're kind
of like your brain is being the energy of Yeah,
this is taking away.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
It's a space, it is, and because like as more
time goes on, like I keep thinking like, Okay, well
I want to have a baby, so let's like get
this party started, like you know what I mean, Like
it's all kind of like going in my head and
so it's like, don't overthink it.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
This is exactly why I always say be very careful
when you're starting to plan a wedding, get married, because
this is the You're the product of all that stress
and anxiety. It's supposed to be celebratory and fun. It's
supposed to be the easiest thing, seamless thing. And I
see you like I'm worked up over your being worked up.
Yeah I'm worked up, and it's counterproduct. You have some advice, I.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Just you have to just start making decisions and don't
overthink it. No matter what you do, it's going to
be the happiest day of your life outside of when
your future children are born. But it's just and that's it.
At the end of the day. Just look at it
as a big party, like it's yes, it's your wedding
and you want it to be perfect, but nothing is
going to be perfect and there could think there could
(02:23):
be things that go wrong that day, so you just
can't dwell on them. Making the right.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Decision right now?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Is that the right venues I do this? It's I
just pick a spot, pick a date, start checking stuff
off your list, and then why did you start doing that?
You're going to feel the weight coming off your shoulder
as soon as you pick your date. Oh, it's going
to be like.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Should just pick a date already and let us all
out of the misery of stress.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Oh yeah, I gotta talk to Oh.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Gosh, Oh no, they've shifted the date that I blocked off.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Now, yeah, there's two potential shifts.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Oh man, I thought I was perform over a holiday weekend.
Now it sounds like I'm not.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Yeah, no, not doing Oh no, that's been long gone.
You didn't tell them.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
About that yet, No, she didn't tell me that I
got my family on hold.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
No, she vetoed that a long time ago. Uh.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Here's the other thing I'm gonna tell you. I know
nothing about planning a wedding. I know something about what
I'm watching you go through. Yeah, get off your phone
a little.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Bit like looking people's weddings.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
No, I need a little less time with you on
your phone. That's going to bring down your heart rate
a little.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Bit, you think, so I do.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
It's really serious. I do. I think you're on your
phone too much in general, and this is the right
opportunity to address it.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Everyone is on their phone too much.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
She doesn't need to be adding to the anxiety that
she's got already. And it's I think it's stirring it
a little bit, honestly.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
I mean this is what you say, like posting and
social media and things like that.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah, because it gets I don't know what you noticed.
It off up to a blood pressure analyzer and see
what happens when you're on your phone, like your heart rate.
Your blood pressure goes out, your heart heart rate goes up.
It's a heart rate monitor. Heart rate goes your heart rates. Yes,
your heart rate's already up through all of this. I
think it's adding to the pressure. Try it. It's Monday.
Do a digital detox this week.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Okay, like a phone fast.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yes, that's it. I think you know what it is,
and I'm telling you it's kind of help. All right,
watch this, we'll have a date. Well, performers will have more.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Friday, honestly results Okay, But.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I mean, I mean, very good friend to you right now.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Thank you, appreciate you. I love you mean it?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Mean it too. You don't have to mean it. If
you mean it, I mean that makes it feel the
authenticity of it. Now, I don't know if you meant it,
if you don't mean.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
It, or like all the other times she says it, like.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Does she mean right? Does she doesn't mean it?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Love you mean it?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Put your phone down, We're taking a break. Morning hack
is next. Cause of m
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