September 16, 2025 • 49 mins
The 4 foods that dentists say rot your teeth worse than candy! SECOND DATE UPDATE - He's been asking her out for years and she said no. Something changed and she finally said yes. 1 great date…and he’s avoiding her. Why?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to Ryan Air on Air with
a Ryan Seacrest Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
You feel good this morning, Tuesday morning, I.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
Do feel good. I didn't fall asleep on the couch
last night, which I has been tending to happen lately.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I can't do that. I actually cannot do that.
Speaker 5 (00:18):
I have to get because the pain of falling asleep
on the couch and then getting to your bed is.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yes, it's so hot, it's so funny.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
How how hard is that when you're comfortable on the
couch but you have to move?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
No, no, no, no no. So I was able to get
myself to my room at a reasonable time and get
a good night's sleep.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
And what time was that?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
It was like ten thirty.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
That's late.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
It's not late for me. You guys think I'm creat
I need Maybe you don't.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
That's I actually am upset about that because I need
seven forty five eight seven forty I fell eight.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I would be up naturally at two in the morning.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
But I need many hours.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Yeah, many many hours. I don't think I've had that
since what do you need, Tanya college? Seven to eight?
Speaker 6 (01:06):
I mean I can get by with six, but seven
eight is really six six is.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
My sweet spot?
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Well, luck at you and you have your new pillow.
How is that? So, Tanya? Very exciting, Sophia, you're our
new intern.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Listen to this.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
So Tanya went shopping for a new pillow, which is
a big deal. She had it for twenty two years.
And she went to the which.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
By the way to test drive surprising of lice.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Wow, you should check it.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
Okay, I have pillow covers. I'm not sleeping like on
my raw pillow.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
It doesn't matter. They they seep through the red.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Bugs you know what.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
They love to crawl on your nose.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
Well, now we have not one, not two, but three
new pillows. And I have my sleeping pillow which is
flat as a It's just like so super super flat.
And then I have my watching TV pillow, which is
like fluffier and.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
My watching TV pillar watching it.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
We have a thicker pillow and then my sleeping pillow.
I totally understand. I saw I have to.
Speaker 6 (02:03):
Robbie just has one that he uses for both and
I and I'm like obsessed.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I literally am obsessed.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
I'm sleeping better and I'm positioned differently on my bed too.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
So my shoulders don't get as cold. I mean, it's
all just between that and the mouth tape.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I mean, you should be coming in here like a
rock star.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
But Robbie wears the nasal strips that opened his nostrils.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I could never date you to.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Like imagine if you walked into that room and.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
When you're when you're on the market, you can't do
you can't do your retainer, your strips. Mouth tape is
my god, maybe that's the reason I'm not married.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
You don't use that. You don't have any of that.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
No, but I have so many creams and I put
those eye impressive.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I would be no say that.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
The how would I say?
Speaker 5 (02:57):
The potential people that I'm trying to get to fall
in love with they don't think it's cute.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Oh they need to relax. Then they're not tell them that.
I wouldn't tell them that.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
So today we have one hundred days, guys until Christmas.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
That's a beautiful thing.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Yeah that's going to go fast too, sunny hot today
ninety and one hundred inland. We're paying your bills and
a second date.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Update.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Now, shall we talk about this? He's been asking her
out for years now, for years. Wow, that's it seems
to me like if I try to ask you out two, three,
four times, I'm probably figuring you don't want to.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
But one year, for years.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Working out, finally something changed, she said, yeah, first date,
and then after all that, there's a problem. So what
happened after all that time in the first date? We
will get into that. Mexican Independence Day today celebrates in
(04:00):
joying that and coming up this morning, we have so
much money to pay your bills. You know, when it's
not on the air and it's just for brief times, right,
I get so excited. It's almost like I take it
off the air to come back with excitement, you know,
it is.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
When it's not there, you can't wait for to come back.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
The new round. You have to re sign up, so one.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Thousand dollars to pay your bills exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Because i FM dot com slash bills. So this is
something kind of random, so random, but I'm so into this.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Yeh me too. So do you ever see the Geico commercial?
I see it all the time.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Yes, that one I do see all the time. In
State Farm, State Farmed, I think they're on your side. Okay,
I think so Nationwide is on your side.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
They should be clearer. I mean, I can't keep them.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
So there are a lot of companies we talk about
and we don't really know what they mean.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Like I don't know what Geico means. You've seen these
spots everywhere commercials.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
That's just a name.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
No Geico, Government Boys insurance company.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
And why the lizard.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Because it's a gecko?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
So here's another HBO, this one I knew HBO back
room MICHAELA.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Do you know what HBO stands for? You know, I
don't really home box office?
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Home box office. That is genius. What a clever way
of naming your brand, by the way they named it
forty five years ago.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I know.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
You know what's funny when like my kids see it,
like as an the icon is it calls it HBO HBO.
She's like, HBO.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
I don't know, I get that. What about CBS, So
these are named acronyms.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I didn't know. I had no ideas CBS good for.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Something, convenience something, Oh that's it.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Convenience.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
What convenience? Vehicle service? There's no vehicle service being done.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
It's not a garage.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Okay, convenience vitamins. You get vitamins.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
There, Consumer Value Store. Oh oh, this is my favorite
Nobisco thing. Nobisco. What do you think Nabiscos?
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I thought that was just a name.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I did too, National Biscuit Company. Let's see what else BMW.
If you're lucky enough to have a BMW Barvarian motorworks?
Speaker 4 (06:26):
What all right?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Does anybody go to the place that has the meat?
R wow?
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Their slogans really work, like what.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
One of Because during football I watched so many Rby's commercials.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
I was like the.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Meat, the RB, the meat, we have the meat and
the barbecue sauce like dripping down over the bond. I
got excited. So that stands for nothing. It's actually named
for the Raffle brothers who started it, Raffle Brothers RB.
So RBS is not named Oh the R and the
(07:00):
bee sound like RB.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
It's not named for roast beef. It's just our bee
from the founders.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
That's cute.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
All right?
Speaker 5 (07:09):
One more, this one this team should get because this
is what you wear every day, Tanya to grocery shop.
This is what you wear every day, even if you're
not working out. Maybe sisany as well. Lululemon Lululemon. What
does it stand for?
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
I think that's like two names put together something or
like Lulu is the founder and she loved lemons.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
Well, they went really in depth on this and it
it means nothing.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
It just tested well in a focus group. Wow.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
I would have loved to see what other options they had.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Well, yeah, I have no idea what those were. But
you know, you use these names all the time. You're like,
what does that actually?
Speaker 8 (07:54):
Like?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
Kiss? What's it mean?
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Hey, I I S. It's our call it?
Speaker 3 (07:58):
What's that mean? It's our call it exactly? And what's
that mean?
Speaker 9 (08:02):
No?
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I think it's good for like the not the frequency.
Back in the day it was like one one five. No,
what does it mean? Nick would know?
Speaker 5 (08:10):
Well, Nick, if you want to pipe in, I think
you know back in the day, when you register a
radio station you have to have call letters yes and
so K I S.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
S was not available.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
No, that's not it. Mark is telling me.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
I'm right, Well, Mark is wrong.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I tell you.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
It used to be the numbers of one one five,
and so that's why.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
They were a M eleven fifty. Back in the day,
the one one five and the digital radio looked like
I I s and that's why. K Okay, I don't
trust you. Okay, what about l A who knows I
game got boring?
Speaker 5 (08:46):
Yeah, so anyway, but when you used RCO Lulu Lemon,
now you know, let me try to understand this. So
people and back room, MICHAELA, this is what happens. Right,
So you're single, I'm single. Apparently you meet someone that's like, oh,
you're human, your soulmate, and then you get married and
(09:08):
as time goes by, you learn things about that person
you didn't know, right, And the question is what do
you do then? And that's where Tanya is going to
share with you some wisdom.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Tanya.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
When Rob and I.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
Started dating, it was right into COVID, so we had
a year of like just us, Like there was no football,
there was no nothing, It was just us. And we're
a couple that like we just love spending time together,
like we love being together. I know people say, whatever,
its honeymoon phase, you'll grow out of it, but we're
still in it. Like we just love being together all
the time. When football season rolls around, the Beat is
(09:42):
constantly playing fantasy with his friends on his phone. He's
glued to whatever is going on with the charts and
his players on his phone, and now his friends have
added pick up basketball on Saturdays. So now I feel
like between I don't know, football's on Sundays, Mondays Thursdays,
that's right, and then that.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
On Saturday, I don't know where it is. It's on
every single well.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
You include college on Saturdays and then a random international
game that might fall.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
So anyways, it's just a lot of time, and I'm
like trying to be chill, but it's.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Just like a lot. How can you not watch football
all day on Sunday? Like it is literally like it
is so fun, it's live, and I want to.
Speaker 6 (10:25):
Lean in, Like I keep telling him, I'm like I
want to lean in. You find so much joy in this.
I want to like partake in it with you. And
I just find myself laying there watching the screen just
not just not into it.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Oh, you got to get into it. If you played
fantasy football, you would get into it. That's how I
got into it. So then we're like helping each other out,
like we have the same player or whatever, Like we're
watching I just upgrade our system to YouTube TV to
get the four quads.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, you can watch them all.
Speaker 5 (10:52):
It's like a security panel can watch every camera one game.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Wow, Tanya, what's the.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
Issue I need to I think I just need to
lean in, But I can't lean in, and so I like,
now I feel like I'm at.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Like a cross in a rock bow or whatever the
saying is. Next season, join the Kiss Fantasy Football League
and then you'll be leaning in.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
From what I understand, this man, your husband does a
lot of things that I think he might if he
were alone, not do because of you know, the things
that you like, for example, whatever you do before you go.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
To bed, the noseape that he puts on, the healer,
the affirmations, like all these things. I'm just saying generally
as a guy by yourself.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
No chance, no chance he did an.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Okay, So I think it's a fair trade for you
to do all those things for him and then trade
out for football.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
What's a big deal.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
I know, I know, but at the end of the
day's just I just miss him.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
If you can't beat them right there, sit next to it.
Speaker 6 (12:01):
You might be physically there, but mentally he's like in
the game.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (12:05):
It's it's good because he has an escape and when
he comes back to you fully focused on romance and
listening and hearing all of your things that you talk
about that most people wouldn't hear.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
I don't mind. It's just ni you like it. You Michael,
are into it.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
I love it so much is what brings us together,
to be honest, Football season is like a very sweet spot.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
It's very exciting once you pick a team, like get
into it, and then you have something to root for.
You know, they say in life you need someone to
love something else and then something to root for. So
pick a team to root for. What's don't look yeah,
what is this something?
Speaker 4 (12:47):
Though?
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I know I forget that one.
Speaker 5 (12:49):
But but but don't don't look at it like it's
a challenge, like it's a job, like it's a burden.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Plus it makes him happy. I know, I guarantee this guy, this,
this guy named Robby, he does so many things that
he probably wouldn't to make you happy. We're talking about football.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
I know it's easy. I know you're right. You're right, Marigay.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Sport And next for foods.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
You got to hear this for foods that wrought your
teeth worse than candy.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
I did not know this. Put this FM headlines with
siciny Well.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
The twenty twenty six Coachella lineup is out. SA Brenda Carpenter,
Justin Bieber, and Carol g will headline tickets to go
on sale Friday. State regulators are set to decide on
Thursday whether to allow Southern California Edison to raise customer
rates by ten percent. The giant Neon Hollywood RB sign
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that has stood over Sunset Boulevard for decades is being
refurbished and could reappear anytime soon. And actor and Academy
Award winning director Robert Redford has passed away at the
age of eighty nine.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
Ceremonial introduction. Here do we have some music?
Speaker 4 (14:05):
I don't think we know? Sure, there you go.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
We have a brand new intern. Her name is Sophia
r Kellian, our fall intern.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
Yay, welcome.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
How did you end up with this job and why so?
Speaker 10 (14:25):
I actually grew my love for Kiss FM and iHeart
in general. During the twenty fifteen Wango Tango, my mom
she pulled a couple strings. I don't know how she
worked her magic, but she surprised me with a meet
and greet with Fifth Harmony, who was performing at Wango
Tango that year, and I think in twenty fifteen, I
was ten, so ten year old me, you know Fifth Harmony.
(14:47):
They're huge, They're big, They're exciting for all the little
girls my age, and I was just so thrilled. I
remember holding Dina Jane's hand, and I remember I was
shaking so much. I was so excited, and I was
just thinking to myself like, oh my god. You know,
I watched these girls on YouTube, I listened to their
music all the time, and now I'm looking at them
in person, like now they know who I am. So
(15:09):
I just remember after that, you know, I walked out
of there and I had this like light that kind
of just clicked with me, and I was like, this
is what I want to do, Like I want to
help people experience the same thing that I got to experience.
So I've kind of carried that with me like my
whole life so ever since then, I like had the
hard eyes for iHeart.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
So it takes me back.
Speaker 10 (15:28):
You grew up where so originally I was born and
raised in Santa Clarita, California, so pretty right here, yes.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Yes, And then now you've got a couple of roommates.
Where do you live?
Speaker 10 (15:39):
So I currently go to UC Riverside. I'm over in
the Inland Empire, and I have two roommates. Their names
are very very similar to each other, pretty unique. There's
Mahema and then Mediha Wow Maima media.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Yeah, do they know you're going to talk about them
all the time.
Speaker 10 (15:59):
I'm ready. This is to be our second year living together.
And let me just say last year was quite the year.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
So three roommates, I had to what five at one
point when I first started here, I.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Hav a four.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
At one point I had a seven seven roommates. You
call it theo tyan.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
You used to live in a sorty house where you
would sleep in a room that was sixty something.
Speaker 6 (16:22):
Yeah, that was the was eight because I'm I had
seven roommates.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Oh got it, got it?
Speaker 5 (16:28):
And it's fun to have like activity right place, right
It's so fun. And what are your aspirations, new intern, Sophia?
Speaker 10 (16:36):
So my aspirations are to just make as much of
an impact as I can with you guys. You know,
this is such an honor for me to be here.
So I really want to, you know, shine in the
way that I shined ten years old with Fifth Harmony
and kind of you know, realized myself.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Why I'm doing this.
Speaker 10 (16:53):
I would love to, you know, work in media and
news broadcasting and kind of just connect with the community.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Amazing.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
You speak Armenian as well, right, I do?
Speaker 1 (17:04):
So.
Speaker 10 (17:04):
My parents are actually from Iron, so growing up our
first language was Armenian and then we kind of learned
English dually and furthermore in school. So yeah, at home
we speak Armenian, you know, and being in southern California,
it's like just like muscle memory for me.
Speaker 5 (17:22):
Well, welcome, Thank you so much for applying and being here, and.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
We're so happy to have you here. Yes, very exciting.
I'm an early bird, so I'm ready tell Heryan how
yourself this morning when you when your alarm clock went off?
Speaker 10 (17:36):
Oh so I actually snoozed in a couple of times.
I'm kind of racing out the door. But other than that,
on the drive here, the adrenaline was just coming because.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
She had like the butterflies of like the first day
of school or like that for that feeling, because we're
so intimidating in a good way and excited.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
Way, and she was right on time. Anyway, thank you
very much for being here. We'll get to know you
of course. The next few weeks. So Joscelyn in Long
Beach says, we have known each other for a long time.
He asked me out a lot, and I always said
no because I thought he was a player.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Is that a turn off?
Speaker 4 (18:13):
Yes? I don't know. Sometimes some people might fight it hot.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
What money clearly does not.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
But back in the day, I always went for the players.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Anyway, they work together, and he keeps asking and asking.
They finally went out and it was a great first date.
And now he's avoiding her, so he chipped away for years.
They went out, and now he's kind of like not around.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Yeah, it's kind of proved her point.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Hi is this Joscelyn.
Speaker 11 (18:44):
Hi, Yeah, it's Jocelyn.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
Well, Joscelyn. We are all here to help out second
date updates. So what made you say yes to this
guy after all these years of pursuing you for a date?
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (18:58):
Yeah, you know, like we we were up in the
same area.
Speaker 9 (19:01):
We just knew each other well from being in the
same church youth group.
Speaker 11 (19:05):
And funny enough, like he had dated.
Speaker 9 (19:08):
Half the girls in that group, and I always thought
I would never say yes to him, but we just
kept crossing baths over the years. I mean, I would
see him at.
Speaker 11 (19:19):
The mall or at Target or whatever. And then we actually.
Speaker 9 (19:23):
At this point now work for the same company, and uh, well,
technically he's an independent contractor, so we're not really coworkers.
Speaker 11 (19:33):
But I, you know, I just keep running into him.
Speaker 9 (19:35):
And he's asked me out again and again, and I thought,
you know what, why not, I'm just going to go
for it.
Speaker 11 (19:42):
So I finally said yes.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
So does it being like an independent contractor make it
less of an issue in terms of dating people you
work with?
Speaker 9 (19:52):
I think it might, right, Yeah, definitely, Like he's kind
of just in and out, yeah, the office, so I
don't see that often, so I.
Speaker 5 (20:02):
Don't know him, but I like his persistence. So finally
he gets you to say, okay, let's go. Then you
go on the date after all this time. What went wrong?
Speaker 11 (20:15):
I don't know. I mean, we definitely had a good
night kiss.
Speaker 7 (20:20):
It was like a.
Speaker 9 (20:20):
Dancing kiss with the music and the sunset that was
happening by the ocean, and it was great.
Speaker 11 (20:27):
I thought the whole night was awesome.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
And now he's avoiding you.
Speaker 9 (20:34):
Yeah, like I said, hey, I'll see my day at work,
and I was thinking, you know that aside from that
we would definitely be on another date.
Speaker 11 (20:45):
He pursued me for so many.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
Years, so he's a player, which, by the way, if
he pursues and then he gets then maybe that's the
way the players operate, right, It's about the chase. He
got you. Now he's lazy complace it.
Speaker 9 (21:06):
Yeah, I don't know, but he's definitely avoiding me, so
could be he's just playing be.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Do you so? Sistaney thinks players are is so attractive?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
No, I don't so attractive. There is a swag to
them that makes you that is attractive sometimes and it
almost is like a game in your head thinking like
I will be the one to change his behavior. I
will be he's going to not be a player because
he's gonna date me and there's a kanya.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
It totally disagrees. So what do you what's your view
on players?
Speaker 11 (21:41):
I don't want to be played by one, so I'm
not really into them.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Got it? Okay?
Speaker 5 (21:48):
So we are going to call him next try and
find out what happened. Like to me, it's so strange
that you would be as persistent as possible to get
a date with you and then finally it's disrespectful by
the way, like finally you say yes, and then he vanishes.
So let's find out what's going down. Hang on one second, Okay,
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we'll come back and make that call to him.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
The player.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
So let's bring up Joscelyn here, who wrote in and said, so,
this guy, he's a third party. They don't really work
for the same company. He's third party, but they work together.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
This guy, his name is Ricky, been pursuing her for
a long time, right, years.
Speaker 5 (22:28):
Yes, he's been trying everything. Finally she says, okay, I'm
gonna go out with you. They go out, and then
he blows her off. So Joscelyn, be very quiet. We're
gonna talk to him on the air. You'll listen. We're
gonna try and find out what's up, like why the
pursuit for years.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
And then the blowoff?
Speaker 5 (22:48):
Okay, Ricky, are you there, Yes, I'm here, Hi, Ricky,
Ryan Seacrest, Sisaney, Tanya, you are on the air.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Welcome, Yeah, Hi, Hi, Thank you guys.
Speaker 5 (23:01):
So we happen to know about this woman named Jocelyn,
whom you I think pursued for quite a while.
Speaker 7 (23:08):
Uh okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
Definitely, And why did you pursue her for sof like
that's persistence, Like, you know, if she says I'm not
into it, not interested, and then you kept going, what
made you keep pursuing?
Speaker 8 (23:23):
She's gorgeous, definitely the prettiest girl I've ever seen. Every
box that I'm looking for she checks off.
Speaker 7 (23:31):
So, yeah, she's gorgeous.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
And tell me so finally she said yes, after all this, right,
you guys went out?
Speaker 7 (23:40):
H Yeah, we did go out.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Tell me about the day.
Speaker 7 (23:47):
Wow, I mean it was.
Speaker 8 (23:49):
To be honest with you, it is probably the best
night of my life.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (23:54):
Okay, And then now what so you have a great date?
And then went out, Yeah, are you dating?
Speaker 7 (24:02):
I don't. I don't think we're dating. No, I don't know.
To be honest, I really don't know.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Would you like to dat her?
Speaker 8 (24:11):
I mean yes, but I feel like she deserves someone
maybe a little bit better than me.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
That's cute, that's actually quite sweet.
Speaker 4 (24:22):
Well then why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (24:24):
Yeah, it's probably.
Speaker 7 (24:25):
Right, Well.
Speaker 8 (24:29):
I would I'm gonna be straight up with you, guys, Uh,
I'm broke. So that's that's a bit a big problem
for me, because I feel like she deserves someone that
can take care of her, buyer whatever she wants, and.
Speaker 7 (24:44):
To me, that's that's that's not me right now.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
But that's just so temporary. When I met my husband,
he was broke too.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
I was broke when I moved to La. Everyone's broken
and no one went out with me.
Speaker 8 (24:56):
Yeah, I find that.
Speaker 4 (24:59):
Hard connection is there? Money is, money comes and goes.
Who comes about that?
Speaker 3 (25:05):
Then she's not? Maybe right?
Speaker 5 (25:07):
So you went out, you liked her, you pursued her,
she said, he asked, But you backed off because you
don't think you have funding to date her.
Speaker 7 (25:16):
Yeah, I got I got a little intimidated to be.
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (25:19):
I just I don't think that I can. I'm at
that place where I can afford all that type of lifestyle.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
If you could, well life lifesime a first date? Where
would you take her on a first date? What would
you do?
Speaker 8 (25:33):
I mean endless amounts of funds? I man, I'd love
to take her to a charter's game. I'd love to
take her out to a nice dinner maybe or or launch,
depending on the time of day.
Speaker 7 (25:46):
And yeah, I mean take.
Speaker 8 (25:48):
Her shopping, just shower her and whatever she wants.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
Okaysary, do you mind if I just impose a little bit?
Speaker 8 (26:01):
Okay, aren't we already.
Speaker 5 (26:02):
Well no, I mean, because you know, dating well in
my real life doesn't go great. But in giving advice,
I think I'm okay at it. So what if I
told you that she wants to go out with you
again and we will give you some Chargers tickets and
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then we will send you to a place to eat
that is convenient to where you live or after the
game on us.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Would that be appealing?
Speaker 7 (26:36):
Yeah, that would be absolutely more than appealing. That that
sounds amazing.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
Okay, could you bring back in Jos?
Speaker 4 (26:44):
Yeah? I mean she's been here the whole time.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
Jocelyn, are you there?
Speaker 11 (26:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (26:49):
Hi?
Speaker 11 (26:49):
Guys, how do you.
Speaker 4 (26:50):
Feel about all this?
Speaker 3 (26:51):
This is good news? I feel great.
Speaker 9 (26:55):
Honestly, I don't care that you're broke.
Speaker 8 (26:59):
I really don't.
Speaker 11 (27:01):
Yeah, reggae like I.
Speaker 9 (27:03):
Mean, I promise you, I just I don't mind at all.
Speaker 11 (27:08):
I don't think about that kind of thing.
Speaker 7 (27:12):
I know you don't, but I do.
Speaker 5 (27:15):
And bro forget about it, Ricky, you're putting up walls.
She doesn't care about the funding. I think you guys
should go out, get to know each other and have
a good time. I mean, where should we see them
for dinner?
Speaker 9 (27:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (27:33):
Where do you live?
Speaker 8 (27:35):
I live in near Korea town right now.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
Perfect. There's some great restaurants there.
Speaker 4 (27:41):
Amazing and I love your chargers. Man, this looks like
a match.
Speaker 8 (27:45):
You guys are making me feel a lot better about
this than I have been feeling.
Speaker 7 (27:49):
I just want to say thank you for that. But yeah,
i'd love to take you out again. Absolutely great.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
The only issues I don't I have to find these
charger tickets. We'll figure that, okay, fine, back room charge
your tickets. Yeah, we'll figure it out.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Okay, good, Thanks guys. I want to say it's very
difficult to meet someone in this town, and when you
have a click, you can't let these little things that
in your head, your head, ricky, not hers, your head
stop you from finding the one.
Speaker 4 (28:23):
Amen.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
So we'll set you over the first one and then
it's on you. I mean, you can call me back
if you want something else, but it's on you, and
I like it. I'm going to get out of this
call because it all worked.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
It really did.
Speaker 7 (28:41):
Thank you guys so much. I can't thank you enough.
Speaker 8 (28:44):
That's that's incredible, and especially the kind words, and I
think it's I just have to be honest from here
on out and communicate.
Speaker 5 (28:50):
Exactly, and Jocelyn's into you. Joscelyn Ricky invite us to
the wedding. You know, I have my degree in officiating degree.
It is a degree I went to school.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Okay, we're gonna let you guys go, jos if you
have a great life, yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Good luck. Bye. By the way, it is a degree
in officiation.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
It's not a degree. It's just certificate. It's like a website.
You click, click, and then you're ordained.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
Okay, I'm not a great student. It felt like a degree.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Okay, fine.
Speaker 5 (29:20):
We have had a lot of weddings around here. I
would say that, you know, is Sistney Ruby Tanya, we
could probably give pretty good advice when it comes to weddings.
And I also will say that, you know, having not
been married, I think I learn a lot about weddings
and marriage because of my observations and the downloads I
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get from my married friends. So let's grab in resita
Jada before we do anything else. Jada, good morning.
Speaker 11 (29:52):
Good morning.
Speaker 5 (29:52):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
I'm fantastic, how are you? I'm okay, okay, okay, what's
okay about You're okay?
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Okay, I'm I'm so mad. I'm really annoyed with my sister.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
Are you guys clothes?
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Yeah, we're super close.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 1 (30:16):
So she got married a few weeks ago, and this
is just be bothering me ever since. Like, she invited
my brother's girlfriend that he's been with for like maybe
three months, but she didn't invite my boyfriend that I've
been with for over a year.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
What's the grounds from now?
Speaker 4 (30:34):
Why did just her like your boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Reason?
Speaker 1 (30:38):
So? Well? I said something to her and she was like,
I guess the original plan was to only invite people's
spouses or like partners that they live with. And then
she said that my brother asked if his girlfriend I
could go with and she said yes. But she didn't
say anything to me at that point. And so when
I was like, is she punishing me because I didn't ask?
Like is this my fault?
Speaker 4 (30:58):
You know, it's not your fault. An oversight, like you're
thinking about so many things when you're planning your wedding,
like the brother does your brother hit her up? And
she was like okay, yeah, fine.
Speaker 6 (31:07):
Yeah, but then she should have hit you up and
been like yeah, not thinking clearly.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Right, that's what you thought too, I know it's not
like about me. But I'm still so like annoyed by it.
Speaker 5 (31:20):
But maybe your sister or your parents don't like your boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
Oh that's dark.
Speaker 3 (31:28):
It's happened to me, not what.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was worried about. But I didn't get that like
vibe from her, like they've always gone a long well,
so I don't know. I think she just thought like
she would say, okay to my brother and then just
deal with me.
Speaker 3 (31:46):
Have you been with your boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
For over a year? No?
Speaker 3 (31:51):
Oh come on?
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Is he upset too?
Speaker 6 (31:54):
They didn't go, oh, come on, what does that mean?
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Means should have been.
Speaker 4 (31:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you? I think so good?
Speaker 3 (32:04):
But it can I help? Who should I call?
Speaker 9 (32:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
It's already done, you guys already helping.
Speaker 6 (32:08):
I think there's more to the story. You should figure
out why your family doesn't like your boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (32:12):
I don't know that they don't like him. I still
think your sister just just she didn't think it was
that big of a deal. Okay, if you really care
to bring it up to your sister, fine, let her
know it hurt you. But that's it. You guys have
to work through it and move on. Otherwise, that's there's
nothing else to do. The wedding happened.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
Maybe if I marry my boyfriend, I won't invite her.
Speaker 5 (32:36):
Houb oh gosh, yeah, ahead, revenge is revenge, all right.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
Here's the problem. One word weddings.
Speaker 4 (32:46):
Okay, for you think it's not.
Speaker 5 (32:49):
I know this, guys, I've never been in one, but
I take if the percentage I take more calls here
in this job in twenty mark, how many thirty five,
twenty five, how many twenty one years, six months, twenty
one years of people who are stressed and have problems
with their weddings?
Speaker 4 (33:08):
It's fine, wedding is, They're beautiful, there is, There are hiccups.
They're stressful.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
They are expensive and stressful.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
Yeah, Jada, I hope, I hope we helped, Jada.
Speaker 3 (33:18):
We did not.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
Maybe we did.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
You say you did help?
Speaker 4 (33:24):
Okay, thank you for coming.
Speaker 3 (33:25):
What are you gonna do?
Speaker 1 (33:29):
I think I'm gonna talk to her again about it,
just to like make sure that it's not it's not
that she like has some huge problem with him.
Speaker 4 (33:38):
I mean, that's great exactly.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
And also do like a fake engagement just to see
how she feels about that.
Speaker 11 (33:45):
Good enough track, There no no, I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
All right.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
Thank you for having Jada. We appreciate you confiding in us.
This is a big deal to put on the air,
So thank you for trusting us with this. We appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
Thank you for helping it.
Speaker 4 (33:57):
I really appreciate it.
Speaker 5 (33:58):
All right, good luck, seacrest, Sistany and Tanya with you.
We've got these Disneyland tickets coming out in just a
few minutes. Excited for those. Everybody wants them. We got
them for you every hour, all morning long, and every
day this week. All right, so it Tanya, Justin Bieber
and Hayley made these household rules.
Speaker 6 (34:19):
Yes, so we don't okay, we don't really know exactly
how they came to be. But Justin Bieber posted this
photo on Instagram and the title was the Bieber Family
and proceeds to list ten family rules.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
So I just to told it first before you go.
It's Systney. You have a big family. Do you guys
have ten rules?
Speaker 8 (34:35):
No?
Speaker 6 (34:36):
Okay, this is a really cute idea, and I think
a lot of people were kind of The post went viral.
People were commenting like, this is such a great idea.
I want to do this with my family. So some
of the examples I pulled. Number one was we value
rest as worship. Number six is we value sustainability in
creating products that serve humanity.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
For example, yeah, like what are these being? What do
we like?
Speaker 4 (35:00):
If my childwaid we value sustainability and creating.
Speaker 6 (35:04):
Sustainability is sustainability is like using products that are eco friendly, Like,
maybe not necessarily. There are a lot of companies that
are doing things that are recycled goods, not fast fashion.
We value generosity and graciously giving time, money, and respect
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to people on our path. And then number nine, we
value life as a gift and practice daily gratitude for
the day that has been given to us. So a
lot of these were just like very wholesome, and I
thought that maybe because we are a family here on
a Ryan Seacrest Our Morning Family.
Speaker 4 (35:43):
There's ten. I didn't read all of them. Do you want
to read all of them?
Speaker 7 (35:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (35:46):
I want to hear Oh my gosh.
Speaker 6 (35:47):
Well I didn't have that ready. Okay, there's number ten.
We value human beings and believe in their dignity and
eternal word.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
They're so like they're beautiful, but it's so intense in
a way. They could be simplified.
Speaker 6 (36:02):
We value health and physical wellness as an act of stewardship.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Fancy come on.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
The end of the night, not well, that.
Speaker 6 (36:12):
Could be our family. So this was the Biaber family.
So I thought maybe we could make some on air
with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
Family rules. So we want to have fun.
Speaker 6 (36:20):
Number one we focus on positive energy and feel good stories.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (36:25):
Number two we believe laughter is the key to everything.
I agree with that.
Speaker 6 (36:29):
Number three we celebrate our listeners and their achievements.
Speaker 4 (36:32):
Love it.
Speaker 6 (36:33):
Number four we love giving gifts to our We love
giving prizes to our listeners that enrich their lives.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
Great.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
Okay, any others.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
Well, you have had a night to think of ten?
Speaker 4 (36:44):
Do you think ten?
Speaker 6 (36:47):
I thought we could all add like it's cute, you know,
like everybody add to the mix.
Speaker 5 (36:50):
Okay, So I think just with our family, I think
we celebrate each other's individual accomplishments. That's great in a
genuine way. For example, right like if you do something great,
Tanya Siciny, we we really feel like genuinely, I'm happy.
It's proud of bad word these days, Like I feel proud.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Of you when you do something. I get excited about it.
Speaker 6 (37:16):
Yeah, Okay, so like we celebrate each other's wins as
our own, not.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
As our own.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
We just celebrate them because you want the people around
you to be Like, if you were to be more
doing more things that you wanted to fulfill your life,
I'd be happy for you.
Speaker 3 (37:33):
There are some people that actually don't like that. For Yeah,
for sure, I hate that.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
Yeah what else? Cute? Love it? Adding it to the list.
I think we just need to folk have fun. If
it's not.
Speaker 6 (37:47):
In general, fun could maybe be an acronym for fun
under it's just fun.
Speaker 3 (37:58):
It's just fun and have fun.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
Okay, that's my rule, don't change it.
Speaker 5 (38:03):
Okay, let's play for Disneyland tickets right now. Eight hundred
and five to one to two seven.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
Game Merch Higher or.
Speaker 5 (38:14):
Andreasing Glendale, Good morning? How are you Andreas?
Speaker 2 (38:18):
Good?
Speaker 12 (38:18):
Good?
Speaker 3 (38:19):
How are you fantastic?
Speaker 5 (38:21):
I feel great? How are you're here? We are going
to play for Disneyland tickets right now. It's a game
called disney Merch Higher or Lower. It's a four pack.
So here's how it works. You gotta get three right
before you get three wrong. You tell me if it's
higher or lower than seventy five bucks, that's your mile
marker seventy five bucks.
Speaker 7 (38:41):
Okay, I'm got you.
Speaker 5 (38:44):
So Disneyland d plush pillow. Is that higher or lower
than seventy five bucks?
Speaker 1 (38:58):
Higher?
Speaker 3 (39:00):
It's lower?
Speaker 4 (39:01):
Yeah, I mean has a pillow. My pillows are expensive
these days.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
They really are.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
She just went to issue idea.
Speaker 5 (39:09):
Disney Parks Lounge Fly Mini backpack higher or lower than seventy.
Speaker 7 (39:16):
Five dollars the lounge what again?
Speaker 3 (39:20):
It is the Disney Park's Lounge Fly Mini backpack?
Speaker 7 (39:29):
Higher? Lower than seventy five?
Speaker 3 (39:31):
Correct?
Speaker 1 (39:32):
Higher?
Speaker 7 (39:32):
Higher?
Speaker 3 (39:34):
It is higher?
Speaker 4 (39:34):
Eighty bucks?
Speaker 5 (39:35):
Yeah, well done.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
Next, you got one down?
Speaker 5 (39:40):
Okay, Sleeping Beauty Castle denhim jacket in black buttons, nice
logo on it.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
What do you think? Higher or lower than seventy five?
Speaker 8 (39:52):
Higher?
Speaker 3 (39:54):
It is? Ninety nine? Ninety nine?
Speaker 4 (39:57):
Yeah, one hundred bucks for that?
Speaker 5 (40:00):
All right, for the win, my brother Andreas the Mickey
Mouse baseball cap for kids with a propeller on top.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
Higher or lower than seventy five?
Speaker 1 (40:14):
Oh, Disney hat with propeller.
Speaker 13 (40:21):
For kids for kids, I'm gonna say lower.
Speaker 3 (40:28):
Yes, you did it, bro, you got it. Congratulations on you.
Speaker 5 (40:33):
And you got a four pack of one day, one
part tickets to Disneyland for Halloween.
Speaker 7 (40:39):
Amazing, Yeah, I do. I do have a son, and
I take his cousin and my wife. You know it'll
be fun.
Speaker 4 (40:47):
So cute.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
We'll take them all. Enjoy. Thank you so much for listening.
Speaker 7 (40:51):
Thank you so much, Ryan, appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
We have Natalie and Carson. And she says, I haven't
talked to her. It saysn't the calls insist on him.
I saw my friend's husband drinking. Do I tell her
he's been trying to stop drinking and he was out
and she saw it.
Speaker 3 (41:12):
So what does she do? I mean, this is a
difficult situation. You know, it's a big deal. If you're
trying to stop drinking.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
How good of a friend is what we need to
figure out.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
All right, So Natalie, good morning, Good morning. How are you?
Speaker 13 (41:28):
I'm I'm conflicted, I guess.
Speaker 3 (41:32):
So let's start with what happened.
Speaker 13 (41:35):
The thing is like, if I if I saw my
friend's husband cheating on her, I would tell her right
one hundred percent. But this, at this point, I saw
my friend husband drinking. I know, like he has a
lot of problems with alcohol in the past, and he
(41:55):
used to do aa but now he's doing much better
at her But I like, went out last night. I
saw him at the bar with some coworkers and he
was absolutely drinking. And it was not Jews, it wasn't
fake beer or anything. I saw them poor it. So,
like I just want to know, do I tell his
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wife or like, do I stay out of it?
Speaker 3 (42:20):
Now? These people that he was with, do you work
with them too? Or you just saw all of this.
Speaker 13 (42:28):
I just saw him with his coworkers.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
I guess did he see you?
Speaker 13 (42:34):
No, he did not see me.
Speaker 3 (42:36):
So he's been trying to kick the.
Speaker 13 (42:38):
Habit, right from what I know, from what I've heard,
you know, between them, because that's like my really close friend.
Speaker 4 (42:45):
Sure, how do you know she doesn't know? Like he
came home to her that night. Don't you think she
would have noticed him being drunk? Maybe he wasn't drunk.
Speaker 13 (42:53):
Possibly, I mean, I don't know, you know, I I think,
I mean, I feel like it'd be kind of snitchy
to tell. But like if I know that that that's
the path they're on, is like quitting and abstaining from alcohol.
I think my friend would have wanted to know. But
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I mean, maybe I'm in too much in their business.
Speaker 3 (43:17):
But you think this was something he did kind of
sneakily because she wasn't around.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Well yes, and no, he was with his friends, so
these people all saw.
Speaker 1 (43:27):
Him well no, well I think he was with it.
Speaker 13 (43:29):
Yeah, I don't. I mean it was like right after
work time.
Speaker 5 (43:34):
So for me, you saw that, Okay, right, you've got
that in your head, huh. For me, I don't think
I would go to her now right away. I think
you should give it a beat and see how they are,
because maybe his wife sensed it when he got back,
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and it's also embarrassing. I think for sure you to
tell her and get involved in this. I mean, this
is something he's got to do on his own, and
it sounds like his wife is, you know, lovingly supporting him.
So I have to guess that she can see it
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right when he comes home, yep. I have to guess
that she probably doesn't want to know that other people
saw it, same with him. So my guidance would be
just stand down for a moment and see how this
evolves between the two of them, Because if you're going
through something, whatever it is, as a couple and as
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your love your significant other, you really don't want other
people's opinion infused because you're trying to he himself fix it,
and then she support him. So I don't think you report.
I really don't.
Speaker 4 (44:56):
You don't want to come off as judgmental either. There's
just a lot of layers.
Speaker 3 (45:00):
But I think that would create more problems if you do.
Speaker 11 (45:05):
Yeah, right, absolutely.
Speaker 5 (45:08):
And by the way, a couples people deal with this
old the time, and there's no textbook answer. But you're
a good friend for thinking about it and calling to share.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
That and keep us posted.
Speaker 11 (45:21):
I definitely will.
Speaker 12 (45:23):
Okay, thank you, thank you a lady, Thanks bye bye,
Sisny Tanya here and you were. I don't do you
know what this is, Tonya? Lily padding?
Speaker 6 (45:35):
I don't, but I don't. I can deduce a little
from the title.
Speaker 3 (45:40):
What do you think it is?
Speaker 6 (45:41):
Lily padding is like like a frog jumps from lily
pad to lily pad.
Speaker 3 (45:45):
Okay, but the frog does, But what do people do.
Speaker 4 (45:47):
Jump from job to job?
Speaker 3 (45:49):
Okay, let's see. So this is a term that's being
used more and more often.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
Sicany, Yeah, I think there's a big shift going on
right now how people think when it comes to their career.
And so instead of climbing a traditional career ladder, step
by step promotion over time, putting the time into one company.
Things like that. A lot of people are taking the
approach of career lily patting, and what that is is, yes,
(46:15):
hopping around, not necessarily from job to job, but it
could also be from role to role, like a different
type of like being like, oh, I don't want to
do market anymore. I want to try promotions, or I
want to try this, and maybe it was still within
the company, but you're just lily patting in a lateral
motion of these different roles or different jobs. You pause,
(46:35):
you experiment, it's not for me, onto the next one,
and it's not necessarily being looked at as a negative
term or slacking off. It's more about figuring out what
really feels right to you and figuring out that work
life balance.
Speaker 5 (46:50):
Which is good because you need to know, like what
is your passion. You try something and maybe you're like, oh,
I'm not great at this, but I do think it's
probably better to lily pad within the same organization if
you want to get to a certain.
Speaker 3 (47:04):
Place in that job.
Speaker 5 (47:05):
Exactly like we always used to say, it's like a
climbing the ladder. Right, you take this step and that
step and this step and that step to get there,
and is it looked upon as derogatory or is it positive?
Speaker 4 (47:17):
No, I think it's positive. It doesn't need to be
that success is the corner office.
Speaker 6 (47:23):
You know.
Speaker 4 (47:24):
Back in the day, I felt everyone thought you needed
to be at the top otherwise you weren't successful. Now
it's about work life balance. So if you're going to
be happier in a certain role and be able to
do that, then that's what's fulfilling nowadays.
Speaker 3 (47:41):
Sorry, something new. What is work life balance mean?
Speaker 6 (47:45):
It's like having a balance between work and your home life.
Speaker 4 (47:49):
I think, really, yes, you don't know what that is
because you don't have.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
More, but I think I should try that.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
There is something to do with the burning out. I
think that whole term of people grinding so hard that
they burn out is what you want to try to avoid.
So it can mean building something that works for you,
not according to some rigid old blueprint from that was
instilled in US so many years ago.
Speaker 6 (48:15):
But I also think people say to like, get out
of that position. Sometimes your company needs to see you
go somewhere else and then they'll see you in like
a higher Yeah.
Speaker 5 (48:26):
I agree with that, Like I'm thinking myself, like For me,
I always had a vision of where I wanted to be. Yes,
but I knew I had to start driving the van,
and I knew I had yeah by being on the
air overnight. Then I knew I had to do you know,
other things, yes, the way, but I still had the
vision of where I wanted to go. So it was
(48:46):
a little bit of lily patting. But to the benefit
I think of learning all the skills.
Speaker 4 (48:51):
Absolutely, I agree with you, same boat over here.
Speaker 5 (48:55):
All right, So tomorrow, if you guys want to enjoy
come back first thing in the morning, or pay bills
again every single hour.
Speaker 3 (49:02):
We cannot get enough of this.
Speaker 5 (49:03):
Then you must send us your name and you must
tell us about the bill, and then we'll call your name,
hopefully very very soon. On the Tens, it is the
match game tomorrow and those great Disneyland tickets all morning long.
If you miss something on the podcast, Tanya.
Speaker 6 (49:19):
You can listen to it today after twelve thirty. I
think it's twelve, well, he says he likes to get
up by twelve, So I just say twelve thirty because
then back, oh.
Speaker 5 (49:30):
Yeah, check it all out back tomorrow morning.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
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From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to Ryan Air on Air with
a Ryan Seacrest Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
You feel good this morning, Tuesday morning, I.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
Do feel good. I didn't fall asleep on the couch
last night, which I has been tending to happen lately.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
I can't do that. I actually cannot do that.
Speaker 5 (00:18):
I have to get because the pain of falling asleep
on the couch and then getting to your bed is.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yes, it's so hot, it's so funny.
Speaker 5 (00:28):
How how hard is that when you're comfortable on the
couch but you have to move?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
No, no, no, no no. So I was able to get
myself to my room at a reasonable time and get
a good night's sleep.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
And what time was that?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
It was like ten thirty.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
That's late.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
It's not late for me. You guys think I'm creat
I need Maybe you don't.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
That's I actually am upset about that because I need
seven forty five eight seven forty I fell eight.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
I would be up naturally at two in the morning.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
But I need many hours.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Yeah, many many hours. I don't think I've had that
since what do you need, Tanya college? Seven to eight?
Speaker 6 (01:06):
I mean I can get by with six, but seven
eight is really six six is.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
My sweet spot?
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Well, luck at you and you have your new pillow.
How is that? So, Tanya? Very exciting, Sophia, you're our
new intern.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Listen to this.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
So Tanya went shopping for a new pillow, which is
a big deal. She had it for twenty two years.
And she went to the which.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
By the way to test drive surprising of lice.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Wow, you should check it.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
Okay, I have pillow covers. I'm not sleeping like on
my raw pillow.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
It doesn't matter. They they seep through the red.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Bugs you know what.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
They love to crawl on your nose.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
Well, now we have not one, not two, but three
new pillows. And I have my sleeping pillow which is
flat as a It's just like so super super flat.
And then I have my watching TV pillow, which is
like fluffier and.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
My watching TV pillar watching it.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
We have a thicker pillow and then my sleeping pillow.
I totally understand. I saw I have to.
Speaker 6 (02:03):
Robbie just has one that he uses for both and
I and I'm like obsessed.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
I literally am obsessed.
Speaker 6 (02:10):
I'm sleeping better and I'm positioned differently on my bed too.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
So my shoulders don't get as cold. I mean, it's
all just between that and the mouth tape.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
I mean, you should be coming in here like a
rock star.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
But Robbie wears the nasal strips that opened his nostrils.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I could never date you to.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Like imagine if you walked into that room and.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
When you're when you're on the market, you can't do
you can't do your retainer, your strips. Mouth tape is
my god, maybe that's the reason I'm not married.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
You don't use that. You don't have any of that.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
No, but I have so many creams and I put
those eye impressive.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I would be no say that.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
The how would I say?
Speaker 5 (02:57):
The potential people that I'm trying to get to fall
in love with they don't think it's cute.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Oh they need to relax. Then they're not tell them that.
I wouldn't tell them that.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
So today we have one hundred days, guys until Christmas.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
That's a beautiful thing.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Yeah that's going to go fast too, sunny hot today
ninety and one hundred inland. We're paying your bills and
a second date.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Update.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Now, shall we talk about this? He's been asking her
out for years now, for years. Wow, that's it seems
to me like if I try to ask you out two, three,
four times, I'm probably figuring you don't want to.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
But one year, for years.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Working out, finally something changed, she said, yeah, first date,
and then after all that, there's a problem. So what
happened after all that time in the first date? We
will get into that. Mexican Independence Day today celebrates in
(04:00):
joying that and coming up this morning, we have so
much money to pay your bills. You know, when it's
not on the air and it's just for brief times, right,
I get so excited. It's almost like I take it
off the air to come back with excitement, you know,
it is.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
When it's not there, you can't wait for to come back.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
The new round. You have to re sign up, so one.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Thousand dollars to pay your bills exactly.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Because i FM dot com slash bills. So this is
something kind of random, so random, but I'm so into this.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Yeh me too. So do you ever see the Geico commercial?
I see it all the time.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Yes, that one I do see all the time. In
State Farm, State Farmed, I think they're on your side. Okay,
I think so Nationwide is on your side.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
They should be clearer. I mean, I can't keep them.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
So there are a lot of companies we talk about
and we don't really know what they mean.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Like I don't know what Geico means. You've seen these
spots everywhere commercials.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
That's just a name.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
No Geico, Government Boys insurance company.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
And why the lizard.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Because it's a gecko?
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
So here's another HBO, this one I knew HBO back
room MICHAELA.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Do you know what HBO stands for? You know, I
don't really home box office?
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Home box office. That is genius. What a clever way
of naming your brand, by the way they named it
forty five years ago.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I know.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
You know what's funny when like my kids see it,
like as an the icon is it calls it HBO HBO.
She's like, HBO.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
I don't know, I get that. What about CBS, So
these are named acronyms.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I didn't know. I had no ideas CBS good for.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Something, convenience something, Oh that's it.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Convenience.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
What convenience? Vehicle service? There's no vehicle service being done.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
It's not a garage.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Okay, convenience vitamins. You get vitamins.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
There, Consumer Value Store. Oh oh, this is my favorite
Nobisco thing. Nobisco. What do you think Nabiscos?
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I thought that was just a name.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I did too, National Biscuit Company. Let's see what else BMW.
If you're lucky enough to have a BMW Barvarian motorworks?
Speaker 4 (06:26):
What all right?
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Does anybody go to the place that has the meat?
R wow?
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Their slogans really work, like what.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
One of Because during football I watched so many Rby's commercials.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
I was like the.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Meat, the RB, the meat, we have the meat and
the barbecue sauce like dripping down over the bond. I
got excited. So that stands for nothing. It's actually named
for the Raffle brothers who started it, Raffle Brothers RB.
So RBS is not named Oh the R and the
(07:00):
bee sound like RB.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
It's not named for roast beef. It's just our bee
from the founders.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
That's cute.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
All right?
Speaker 5 (07:09):
One more, this one this team should get because this
is what you wear every day, Tanya to grocery shop.
This is what you wear every day, even if you're
not working out. Maybe sisany as well. Lululemon Lululemon. What
does it stand for?
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (07:29):
I think that's like two names put together something or
like Lulu is the founder and she loved lemons.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
Well, they went really in depth on this and it
it means nothing.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
It just tested well in a focus group. Wow.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
I would have loved to see what other options they had.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Well, yeah, I have no idea what those were. But
you know, you use these names all the time. You're like,
what does that actually?
Speaker 8 (07:54):
Like?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
Kiss? What's it mean?
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Hey, I I S. It's our call it?
Speaker 3 (07:58):
What's that mean? It's our call it exactly? And what's
that mean?
Speaker 9 (08:02):
No?
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I think it's good for like the not the frequency.
Back in the day it was like one one five. No,
what does it mean? Nick would know?
Speaker 5 (08:10):
Well, Nick, if you want to pipe in, I think
you know back in the day, when you register a
radio station you have to have call letters yes and
so K I S.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
S was not available.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
No, that's not it. Mark is telling me.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
I'm right, Well, Mark is wrong.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I tell you.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
It used to be the numbers of one one five,
and so that's why.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
They were a M eleven fifty. Back in the day,
the one one five and the digital radio looked like
I I s and that's why. K Okay, I don't
trust you. Okay, what about l A who knows I
game got boring?
Speaker 5 (08:46):
Yeah, so anyway, but when you used RCO Lulu Lemon,
now you know, let me try to understand this. So
people and back room, MICHAELA, this is what happens. Right,
So you're single, I'm single. Apparently you meet someone that's like, oh,
you're human, your soulmate, and then you get married and
(09:08):
as time goes by, you learn things about that person
you didn't know, right, And the question is what do
you do then? And that's where Tanya is going to
share with you some wisdom.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Tanya.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
When Rob and I.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
Started dating, it was right into COVID, so we had
a year of like just us, Like there was no football,
there was no nothing, It was just us. And we're
a couple that like we just love spending time together,
like we love being together. I know people say, whatever,
its honeymoon phase, you'll grow out of it, but we're
still in it. Like we just love being together all
the time. When football season rolls around, the Beat is
(09:42):
constantly playing fantasy with his friends on his phone. He's
glued to whatever is going on with the charts and
his players on his phone, and now his friends have
added pick up basketball on Saturdays. So now I feel
like between I don't know, football's on Sundays, Mondays Thursdays,
that's right, and then that.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
On Saturday, I don't know where it is. It's on
every single well.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
You include college on Saturdays and then a random international
game that might fall.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
So anyways, it's just a lot of time, and I'm
like trying to be chill, but it's.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Just like a lot. How can you not watch football
all day on Sunday? Like it is literally like it
is so fun, it's live, and I want to.
Speaker 6 (10:25):
Lean in, Like I keep telling him, I'm like I
want to lean in. You find so much joy in this.
I want to like partake in it with you. And
I just find myself laying there watching the screen just
not just not into it.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Oh, you got to get into it. If you played
fantasy football, you would get into it. That's how I
got into it. So then we're like helping each other out,
like we have the same player or whatever, Like we're
watching I just upgrade our system to YouTube TV to
get the four quads.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, you can watch them all.
Speaker 5 (10:52):
It's like a security panel can watch every camera one game.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Wow, Tanya, what's the.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
Issue I need to I think I just need to
lean in, But I can't lean in, and so I like,
now I feel like I'm at.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Like a cross in a rock bow or whatever the
saying is. Next season, join the Kiss Fantasy Football League
and then you'll be leaning in.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
From what I understand, this man, your husband does a
lot of things that I think he might if he
were alone, not do because of you know, the things
that you like, for example, whatever you do before you go.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
To bed, the noseape that he puts on, the healer,
the affirmations, like all these things. I'm just saying generally
as a guy by yourself.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
No chance, no chance he did an.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Okay, So I think it's a fair trade for you
to do all those things for him and then trade
out for football.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
What's a big deal.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
I know, I know, but at the end of the
day's just I just miss him.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
If you can't beat them right there, sit next to it.
Speaker 6 (12:01):
You might be physically there, but mentally he's like in
the game.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (12:05):
It's it's good because he has an escape and when
he comes back to you fully focused on romance and
listening and hearing all of your things that you talk
about that most people wouldn't hear.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
I don't mind. It's just ni you like it. You Michael,
are into it.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
I love it so much is what brings us together,
to be honest, Football season is like a very sweet spot.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
It's very exciting once you pick a team, like get
into it, and then you have something to root for.
You know, they say in life you need someone to
love something else and then something to root for. So
pick a team to root for. What's don't look yeah,
what is this something?
Speaker 4 (12:47):
Though?
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I know I forget that one.
Speaker 5 (12:49):
But but but don't don't look at it like it's
a challenge, like it's a job, like it's a burden.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Plus it makes him happy. I know, I guarantee this guy, this,
this guy named Robby, he does so many things that
he probably wouldn't to make you happy. We're talking about football.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
I know it's easy. I know you're right. You're right, Marigay.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Sport And next for foods.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
You got to hear this for foods that wrought your
teeth worse than candy.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
I did not know this. Put this FM headlines with
siciny Well.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
The twenty twenty six Coachella lineup is out. SA Brenda Carpenter,
Justin Bieber, and Carol g will headline tickets to go
on sale Friday. State regulators are set to decide on
Thursday whether to allow Southern California Edison to raise customer
rates by ten percent. The giant Neon Hollywood RB sign
(13:46):
that has stood over Sunset Boulevard for decades is being
refurbished and could reappear anytime soon. And actor and Academy
Award winning director Robert Redford has passed away at the
age of eighty nine.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
Ceremonial introduction. Here do we have some music?
Speaker 4 (14:05):
I don't think we know? Sure, there you go.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
We have a brand new intern. Her name is Sophia
r Kellian, our fall intern.
Speaker 4 (14:19):
Yay, welcome.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
How did you end up with this job and why so?
Speaker 10 (14:25):
I actually grew my love for Kiss FM and iHeart
in general. During the twenty fifteen Wango Tango, my mom
she pulled a couple strings. I don't know how she
worked her magic, but she surprised me with a meet
and greet with Fifth Harmony, who was performing at Wango
Tango that year, and I think in twenty fifteen, I
was ten, so ten year old me, you know Fifth Harmony.
(14:47):
They're huge, They're big, They're exciting for all the little
girls my age, and I was just so thrilled. I
remember holding Dina Jane's hand, and I remember I was
shaking so much. I was so excited, and I was
just thinking to myself like, oh my god. You know,
I watched these girls on YouTube, I listened to their
music all the time, and now I'm looking at them
in person, like now they know who I am. So
(15:09):
I just remember after that, you know, I walked out
of there and I had this like light that kind
of just clicked with me, and I was like, this
is what I want to do, Like I want to
help people experience the same thing that I got to experience.
So I've kind of carried that with me like my
whole life so ever since then, I like had the
hard eyes for iHeart.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
So it takes me back.
Speaker 10 (15:28):
You grew up where so originally I was born and
raised in Santa Clarita, California, so pretty right here, yes.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Yes, And then now you've got a couple of roommates.
Where do you live?
Speaker 10 (15:39):
So I currently go to UC Riverside. I'm over in
the Inland Empire, and I have two roommates. Their names
are very very similar to each other, pretty unique. There's
Mahema and then Mediha Wow Maima media.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Yeah, do they know you're going to talk about them
all the time.
Speaker 10 (15:59):
I'm ready. This is to be our second year living together.
And let me just say last year was quite the year.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
So three roommates, I had to what five at one
point when I first started here, I.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Hav a four.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
At one point I had a seven seven roommates. You
call it theo tyan.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
You used to live in a sorty house where you
would sleep in a room that was sixty something.
Speaker 6 (16:22):
Yeah, that was the was eight because I'm I had
seven roommates.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Oh got it, got it?
Speaker 5 (16:28):
And it's fun to have like activity right place, right
It's so fun. And what are your aspirations, new intern, Sophia?
Speaker 10 (16:36):
So my aspirations are to just make as much of
an impact as I can with you guys. You know,
this is such an honor for me to be here.
So I really want to, you know, shine in the
way that I shined ten years old with Fifth Harmony
and kind of you know, realized myself.
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Why I'm doing this.
Speaker 10 (16:53):
I would love to, you know, work in media and
news broadcasting and kind of just connect with the community.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Amazing.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
You speak Armenian as well, right, I do?
Speaker 1 (17:04):
So.
Speaker 10 (17:04):
My parents are actually from Iron, so growing up our
first language was Armenian and then we kind of learned
English dually and furthermore in school. So yeah, at home
we speak Armenian, you know, and being in southern California,
it's like just like muscle memory for me.
Speaker 5 (17:22):
Well, welcome, Thank you so much for applying and being here, and.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
We're so happy to have you here. Yes, very exciting.
I'm an early bird, so I'm ready tell Heryan how
yourself this morning when you when your alarm clock went off?
Speaker 10 (17:36):
Oh so I actually snoozed in a couple of times.
I'm kind of racing out the door. But other than that,
on the drive here, the adrenaline was just coming because.
Speaker 4 (17:45):
She had like the butterflies of like the first day
of school or like that for that feeling, because we're
so intimidating in a good way and excited.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
Way, and she was right on time. Anyway, thank you
very much for being here. We'll get to know you
of course. The next few weeks. So Joscelyn in Long
Beach says, we have known each other for a long time.
He asked me out a lot, and I always said
no because I thought he was a player.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Is that a turn off?
Speaker 4 (18:13):
Yes? I don't know. Sometimes some people might fight it hot.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
What money clearly does not.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
But back in the day, I always went for the players.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Anyway, they work together, and he keeps asking and asking.
They finally went out and it was a great first date.
And now he's avoiding her, so he chipped away for years.
They went out, and now he's kind of like not around.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Yeah, it's kind of proved her point.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Hi is this Joscelyn.
Speaker 11 (18:44):
Hi, Yeah, it's Jocelyn.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
Well, Joscelyn. We are all here to help out second
date updates. So what made you say yes to this
guy after all these years of pursuing you for a date?
Speaker 4 (18:58):
Oh?
Speaker 11 (18:58):
Yeah, you know, like we we were up in the
same area.
Speaker 9 (19:01):
We just knew each other well from being in the
same church youth group.
Speaker 11 (19:05):
And funny enough, like he had dated.
Speaker 9 (19:08):
Half the girls in that group, and I always thought
I would never say yes to him, but we just
kept crossing baths over the years. I mean, I would
see him at.
Speaker 11 (19:19):
The mall or at Target or whatever. And then we actually.
Speaker 9 (19:23):
At this point now work for the same company, and uh, well,
technically he's an independent contractor, so we're not really coworkers.
Speaker 11 (19:33):
But I, you know, I just keep running into him.
Speaker 9 (19:35):
And he's asked me out again and again, and I thought,
you know what, why not, I'm just going to go
for it.
Speaker 11 (19:42):
So I finally said yes.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
So does it being like an independent contractor make it
less of an issue in terms of dating people you
work with?
Speaker 9 (19:52):
I think it might, right, Yeah, definitely, Like he's kind
of just in and out, yeah, the office, so I
don't see that often, so I.
Speaker 5 (20:02):
Don't know him, but I like his persistence. So finally
he gets you to say, okay, let's go. Then you
go on the date after all this time. What went wrong?
Speaker 11 (20:15):
I don't know. I mean, we definitely had a good
night kiss.
Speaker 7 (20:20):
It was like a.
Speaker 9 (20:20):
Dancing kiss with the music and the sunset that was
happening by the ocean, and it was great.
Speaker 11 (20:27):
I thought the whole night was awesome.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
And now he's avoiding you.
Speaker 9 (20:34):
Yeah, like I said, hey, I'll see my day at work,
and I was thinking, you know that aside from that
we would definitely be on another date.
Speaker 11 (20:45):
He pursued me for so many.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
Years, so he's a player, which, by the way, if
he pursues and then he gets then maybe that's the
way the players operate, right, It's about the chase. He
got you. Now he's lazy complace it.
Speaker 9 (21:06):
Yeah, I don't know, but he's definitely avoiding me, so
could be he's just playing be.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Do you so? Sistaney thinks players are is so attractive?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
No, I don't so attractive. There is a swag to
them that makes you that is attractive sometimes and it
almost is like a game in your head thinking like
I will be the one to change his behavior. I
will be he's going to not be a player because
he's gonna date me and there's a kanya.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
It totally disagrees. So what do you what's your view
on players?
Speaker 11 (21:41):
I don't want to be played by one, so I'm
not really into them.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
Got it? Okay?
Speaker 5 (21:48):
So we are going to call him next try and
find out what happened. Like to me, it's so strange
that you would be as persistent as possible to get
a date with you and then finally it's disrespectful by
the way, like finally you say yes, and then he vanishes.
So let's find out what's going down. Hang on one second, Okay,
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we'll come back and make that call to him.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
The player.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
So let's bring up Joscelyn here, who wrote in and said, so,
this guy, he's a third party. They don't really work
for the same company. He's third party, but they work together.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
This guy, his name is Ricky, been pursuing her for
a long time, right, years.
Speaker 5 (22:28):
Yes, he's been trying everything. Finally she says, okay, I'm
gonna go out with you. They go out, and then
he blows her off. So Joscelyn, be very quiet. We're
gonna talk to him on the air. You'll listen. We're
gonna try and find out what's up, like why the
pursuit for years.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
And then the blowoff?
Speaker 5 (22:48):
Okay, Ricky, are you there, Yes, I'm here, Hi, Ricky,
Ryan Seacrest, Sisaney, Tanya, you are on the air.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
Welcome, Yeah, Hi, Hi, Thank you guys.
Speaker 5 (23:01):
So we happen to know about this woman named Jocelyn,
whom you I think pursued for quite a while.
Speaker 7 (23:08):
Uh okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
Definitely, And why did you pursue her for sof like
that's persistence, Like, you know, if she says I'm not
into it, not interested, and then you kept going, what
made you keep pursuing?
Speaker 8 (23:23):
She's gorgeous, definitely the prettiest girl I've ever seen. Every
box that I'm looking for she checks off.
Speaker 7 (23:31):
So, yeah, she's gorgeous.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
And tell me so finally she said yes, after all this, right,
you guys went out?
Speaker 7 (23:40):
H Yeah, we did go out.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Tell me about the day.
Speaker 7 (23:47):
Wow, I mean it was.
Speaker 8 (23:49):
To be honest with you, it is probably the best
night of my life.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (23:54):
Okay, And then now what so you have a great date?
And then went out, Yeah, are you dating?
Speaker 7 (24:02):
I don't. I don't think we're dating. No, I don't know.
To be honest, I really don't know.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Would you like to dat her?
Speaker 8 (24:11):
I mean yes, but I feel like she deserves someone
maybe a little bit better than me.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
That's cute, that's actually quite sweet.
Speaker 4 (24:22):
Well then why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (24:24):
Yeah, it's probably.
Speaker 7 (24:25):
Right, Well.
Speaker 8 (24:29):
I would I'm gonna be straight up with you, guys, Uh,
I'm broke. So that's that's a bit a big problem
for me, because I feel like she deserves someone that
can take care of her, buyer whatever she wants, and.
Speaker 7 (24:44):
To me, that's that's that's not me right now.
Speaker 4 (24:46):
But that's just so temporary. When I met my husband,
he was broke too.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
I was broke when I moved to La. Everyone's broken
and no one went out with me.
Speaker 8 (24:56):
Yeah, I find that.
Speaker 4 (24:59):
Hard connection is there? Money is, money comes and goes.
Who comes about that?
Speaker 3 (25:05):
Then she's not? Maybe right?
Speaker 5 (25:07):
So you went out, you liked her, you pursued her,
she said, he asked, But you backed off because you
don't think you have funding to date her.
Speaker 7 (25:16):
Yeah, I got I got a little intimidated to be.
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (25:19):
I just I don't think that I can. I'm at
that place where I can afford all that type of lifestyle.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
If you could, well life lifesime a first date? Where
would you take her on a first date? What would
you do?
Speaker 8 (25:33):
I mean endless amounts of funds? I man, I'd love
to take her to a charter's game. I'd love to
take her out to a nice dinner maybe or or launch,
depending on the time of day.
Speaker 7 (25:46):
And yeah, I mean take.
Speaker 8 (25:48):
Her shopping, just shower her and whatever she wants.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
Okaysary, do you mind if I just impose a little bit?
Speaker 8 (26:01):
Okay, aren't we already.
Speaker 5 (26:02):
Well no, I mean, because you know, dating well in
my real life doesn't go great. But in giving advice,
I think I'm okay at it. So what if I
told you that she wants to go out with you
again and we will give you some Chargers tickets and
(26:24):
then we will send you to a place to eat
that is convenient to where you live or after the
game on us.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Would that be appealing?
Speaker 7 (26:36):
Yeah, that would be absolutely more than appealing. That that
sounds amazing.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
Okay, could you bring back in Jos?
Speaker 4 (26:44):
Yeah? I mean she's been here the whole time.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
Jocelyn, are you there?
Speaker 11 (26:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (26:49):
Hi?
Speaker 11 (26:49):
Guys, how do you.
Speaker 4 (26:50):
Feel about all this?
Speaker 3 (26:51):
This is good news? I feel great.
Speaker 9 (26:55):
Honestly, I don't care that you're broke.
Speaker 8 (26:59):
I really don't.
Speaker 11 (27:01):
Yeah, reggae like I.
Speaker 9 (27:03):
Mean, I promise you, I just I don't mind at all.
Speaker 11 (27:08):
I don't think about that kind of thing.
Speaker 7 (27:12):
I know you don't, but I do.
Speaker 5 (27:15):
And bro forget about it, Ricky, you're putting up walls.
She doesn't care about the funding. I think you guys
should go out, get to know each other and have
a good time. I mean, where should we see them
for dinner?
Speaker 9 (27:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (27:33):
Where do you live?
Speaker 8 (27:35):
I live in near Korea town right now.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
Perfect. There's some great restaurants there.
Speaker 4 (27:41):
Amazing and I love your chargers. Man, this looks like
a match.
Speaker 8 (27:45):
You guys are making me feel a lot better about
this than I have been feeling.
Speaker 7 (27:49):
I just want to say thank you for that. But yeah,
i'd love to take you out again. Absolutely great.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
The only issues I don't I have to find these
charger tickets. We'll figure that, okay, fine, back room charge
your tickets. Yeah, we'll figure it out.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Okay, good, Thanks guys. I want to say it's very
difficult to meet someone in this town, and when you
have a click, you can't let these little things that
in your head, your head, ricky, not hers, your head
stop you from finding the one.
Speaker 4 (28:23):
Amen.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
So we'll set you over the first one and then
it's on you. I mean, you can call me back
if you want something else, but it's on you, and
I like it. I'm going to get out of this
call because it all worked.
Speaker 4 (28:38):
It really did.
Speaker 7 (28:41):
Thank you guys so much. I can't thank you enough.
Speaker 8 (28:44):
That's that's incredible, and especially the kind words, and I
think it's I just have to be honest from here
on out and communicate.
Speaker 5 (28:50):
Exactly, and Jocelyn's into you. Joscelyn Ricky invite us to
the wedding. You know, I have my degree in officiating degree.
It is a degree I went to school.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Okay, we're gonna let you guys go, jos if you
have a great life, yeah.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Good luck. Bye. By the way, it is a degree
in officiation.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
It's not a degree. It's just certificate. It's like a website.
You click, click, and then you're ordained.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
Okay, I'm not a great student. It felt like a degree.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Okay, fine.
Speaker 5 (29:20):
We have had a lot of weddings around here. I
would say that, you know, is Sistney Ruby Tanya, we
could probably give pretty good advice when it comes to weddings.
And I also will say that, you know, having not
been married, I think I learn a lot about weddings
and marriage because of my observations and the downloads I
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get from my married friends. So let's grab in resita
Jada before we do anything else. Jada, good morning.
Speaker 11 (29:52):
Good morning.
Speaker 5 (29:52):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
I'm fantastic, how are you? I'm okay, okay, okay, what's
okay about You're okay?
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Okay, I'm I'm so mad. I'm really annoyed with my sister.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
Are you guys clothes?
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Yeah, we're super close.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Okay, what happened?
Speaker 1 (30:16):
So she got married a few weeks ago, and this
is just be bothering me ever since. Like, she invited
my brother's girlfriend that he's been with for like maybe
three months, but she didn't invite my boyfriend that I've
been with for over a year.
Speaker 3 (30:32):
What's the grounds from now?
Speaker 4 (30:34):
Why did just her like your boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (30:36):
Reason?
Speaker 1 (30:38):
So? Well? I said something to her and she was like,
I guess the original plan was to only invite people's
spouses or like partners that they live with. And then
she said that my brother asked if his girlfriend I
could go with and she said yes. But she didn't
say anything to me at that point. And so when
I was like, is she punishing me because I didn't ask?
Like is this my fault?
Speaker 4 (30:58):
You know, it's not your fault. An oversight, like you're
thinking about so many things when you're planning your wedding,
like the brother does your brother hit her up? And
she was like okay, yeah, fine.
Speaker 6 (31:07):
Yeah, but then she should have hit you up and
been like yeah, not thinking clearly.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Right, that's what you thought too, I know it's not
like about me. But I'm still so like annoyed by it.
Speaker 5 (31:20):
But maybe your sister or your parents don't like your boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
Oh that's dark.
Speaker 3 (31:28):
It's happened to me, not what.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was worried about. But I didn't get that like
vibe from her, like they've always gone a long well,
so I don't know. I think she just thought like
she would say, okay to my brother and then just
deal with me.
Speaker 3 (31:46):
Have you been with your boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (31:49):
For over a year? No?
Speaker 3 (31:51):
Oh come on?
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Is he upset too?
Speaker 6 (31:54):
They didn't go, oh, come on, what does that mean?
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Means should have been.
Speaker 4 (31:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you? I think so good?
Speaker 3 (32:04):
But it can I help? Who should I call?
Speaker 9 (32:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
It's already done, you guys already helping.
Speaker 6 (32:08):
I think there's more to the story. You should figure
out why your family doesn't like your boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (32:12):
I don't know that they don't like him. I still
think your sister just just she didn't think it was
that big of a deal. Okay, if you really care
to bring it up to your sister, fine, let her
know it hurt you. But that's it. You guys have
to work through it and move on. Otherwise, that's there's
nothing else to do. The wedding happened.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
Maybe if I marry my boyfriend, I won't invite her.
Speaker 5 (32:36):
Houb oh gosh, yeah, ahead, revenge is revenge, all right.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
Here's the problem. One word weddings.
Speaker 4 (32:46):
Okay, for you think it's not.
Speaker 5 (32:49):
I know this, guys, I've never been in one, but
I take if the percentage I take more calls here
in this job in twenty mark, how many thirty five,
twenty five, how many twenty one years, six months, twenty
one years of people who are stressed and have problems
with their weddings?
Speaker 4 (33:08):
It's fine, wedding is, They're beautiful, there is, There are hiccups.
They're stressful.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
They are expensive and stressful.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
Yeah, Jada, I hope, I hope we helped, Jada.
Speaker 3 (33:18):
We did not.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
Maybe we did.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
You say you did help?
Speaker 4 (33:24):
Okay, thank you for coming.
Speaker 3 (33:25):
What are you gonna do?
Speaker 1 (33:29):
I think I'm gonna talk to her again about it,
just to like make sure that it's not it's not
that she like has some huge problem with him.
Speaker 4 (33:38):
I mean, that's great exactly.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
And also do like a fake engagement just to see
how she feels about that.
Speaker 11 (33:45):
Good enough track, There no no, I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 3 (33:48):
All right.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
Thank you for having Jada. We appreciate you confiding in us.
This is a big deal to put on the air,
So thank you for trusting us with this. We appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
Thank you for helping it.
Speaker 4 (33:57):
I really appreciate it.
Speaker 5 (33:58):
All right, good luck, seacrest, Sistany and Tanya with you.
We've got these Disneyland tickets coming out in just a
few minutes. Excited for those. Everybody wants them. We got
them for you every hour, all morning long, and every
day this week. All right, so it Tanya, Justin Bieber
and Hayley made these household rules.
Speaker 6 (34:19):
Yes, so we don't okay, we don't really know exactly
how they came to be. But Justin Bieber posted this
photo on Instagram and the title was the Bieber Family
and proceeds to list ten family rules.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
So I just to told it first before you go.
It's Systney. You have a big family. Do you guys
have ten rules?
Speaker 8 (34:35):
No?
Speaker 6 (34:36):
Okay, this is a really cute idea, and I think
a lot of people were kind of The post went viral.
People were commenting like, this is such a great idea.
I want to do this with my family. So some
of the examples I pulled. Number one was we value
rest as worship. Number six is we value sustainability in
creating products that serve humanity.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
For example, yeah, like what are these being? What do
we like?
Speaker 4 (35:00):
If my childwaid we value sustainability and creating.
Speaker 6 (35:04):
Sustainability is sustainability is like using products that are eco friendly, Like,
maybe not necessarily. There are a lot of companies that
are doing things that are recycled goods, not fast fashion.
We value generosity and graciously giving time, money, and respect
(35:26):
to people on our path. And then number nine, we
value life as a gift and practice daily gratitude for
the day that has been given to us. So a
lot of these were just like very wholesome, and I
thought that maybe because we are a family here on
a Ryan Seacrest Our Morning Family.
Speaker 4 (35:43):
There's ten. I didn't read all of them. Do you want
to read all of them?
Speaker 7 (35:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (35:46):
I want to hear Oh my gosh.
Speaker 6 (35:47):
Well I didn't have that ready. Okay, there's number ten.
We value human beings and believe in their dignity and
eternal word.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
They're so like they're beautiful, but it's so intense in
a way. They could be simplified.
Speaker 6 (36:02):
We value health and physical wellness as an act of stewardship.
Speaker 4 (36:07):
Fancy come on.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
The end of the night, not well, that.
Speaker 6 (36:12):
Could be our family. So this was the Biaber family.
So I thought maybe we could make some on air
with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
Family rules. So we want to have fun.
Speaker 6 (36:20):
Number one we focus on positive energy and feel good stories.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
Sure.
Speaker 4 (36:25):
Number two we believe laughter is the key to everything.
I agree with that.
Speaker 6 (36:29):
Number three we celebrate our listeners and their achievements.
Speaker 4 (36:32):
Love it.
Speaker 6 (36:33):
Number four we love giving gifts to our We love
giving prizes to our listeners that enrich their lives.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
Great.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
Okay, any others.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
Well, you have had a night to think of ten?
Speaker 4 (36:44):
Do you think ten?
Speaker 6 (36:47):
I thought we could all add like it's cute, you know,
like everybody add to the mix.
Speaker 5 (36:50):
Okay, So I think just with our family, I think
we celebrate each other's individual accomplishments. That's great in a
genuine way. For example, right like if you do something great,
Tanya Siciny, we we really feel like genuinely, I'm happy.
It's proud of bad word these days, Like I feel proud.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Of you when you do something. I get excited about it.
Speaker 6 (37:16):
Yeah, Okay, so like we celebrate each other's wins as
our own, not.
Speaker 3 (37:21):
As our own.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
We just celebrate them because you want the people around
you to be Like, if you were to be more
doing more things that you wanted to fulfill your life,
I'd be happy for you.
Speaker 3 (37:33):
There are some people that actually don't like that. For Yeah,
for sure, I hate that.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
Yeah what else? Cute? Love it? Adding it to the list.
I think we just need to folk have fun. If
it's not.
Speaker 6 (37:47):
In general, fun could maybe be an acronym for fun
under it's just fun.
Speaker 3 (37:58):
It's just fun and have fun.
Speaker 4 (38:00):
Okay, that's my rule, don't change it.
Speaker 5 (38:03):
Okay, let's play for Disneyland tickets right now. Eight hundred
and five to one to two seven.
Speaker 3 (38:09):
Game Merch Higher or.
Speaker 5 (38:14):
Andreasing Glendale, Good morning? How are you Andreas?
Speaker 2 (38:18):
Good?
Speaker 12 (38:18):
Good?
Speaker 3 (38:19):
How are you fantastic?
Speaker 5 (38:21):
I feel great? How are you're here? We are going
to play for Disneyland tickets right now. It's a game
called disney Merch Higher or Lower. It's a four pack.
So here's how it works. You gotta get three right
before you get three wrong. You tell me if it's
higher or lower than seventy five bucks, that's your mile
marker seventy five bucks.
Speaker 7 (38:41):
Okay, I'm got you.
Speaker 5 (38:44):
So Disneyland d plush pillow. Is that higher or lower
than seventy five bucks?
Speaker 1 (38:58):
Higher?
Speaker 3 (39:00):
It's lower?
Speaker 4 (39:01):
Yeah, I mean has a pillow. My pillows are expensive
these days.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
They really are.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
She just went to issue idea.
Speaker 5 (39:09):
Disney Parks Lounge Fly Mini backpack higher or lower than seventy.
Speaker 7 (39:16):
Five dollars the lounge what again?
Speaker 3 (39:20):
It is the Disney Park's Lounge Fly Mini backpack?
Speaker 7 (39:29):
Higher? Lower than seventy five?
Speaker 3 (39:31):
Correct?
Speaker 1 (39:32):
Higher?
Speaker 7 (39:32):
Higher?
Speaker 3 (39:34):
It is higher?
Speaker 4 (39:34):
Eighty bucks?
Speaker 5 (39:35):
Yeah, well done.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
Next, you got one down?
Speaker 5 (39:40):
Okay, Sleeping Beauty Castle denhim jacket in black buttons, nice
logo on it.
Speaker 3 (39:48):
What do you think? Higher or lower than seventy five?
Speaker 8 (39:52):
Higher?
Speaker 3 (39:54):
It is? Ninety nine? Ninety nine?
Speaker 4 (39:57):
Yeah, one hundred bucks for that?
Speaker 5 (40:00):
All right, for the win, my brother Andreas the Mickey
Mouse baseball cap for kids with a propeller on top.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
Higher or lower than seventy five?
Speaker 1 (40:14):
Oh, Disney hat with propeller.
Speaker 13 (40:21):
For kids for kids, I'm gonna say lower.
Speaker 3 (40:28):
Yes, you did it, bro, you got it. Congratulations on you.
Speaker 5 (40:33):
And you got a four pack of one day, one
part tickets to Disneyland for Halloween.
Speaker 7 (40:39):
Amazing, Yeah, I do. I do have a son, and
I take his cousin and my wife. You know it'll
be fun.
Speaker 4 (40:47):
So cute.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
We'll take them all. Enjoy. Thank you so much for listening.
Speaker 7 (40:51):
Thank you so much, Ryan, appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
We have Natalie and Carson. And she says, I haven't
talked to her. It saysn't the calls insist on him.
I saw my friend's husband drinking. Do I tell her
he's been trying to stop drinking and he was out
and she saw it.
Speaker 3 (41:12):
So what does she do? I mean, this is a
difficult situation. You know, it's a big deal. If you're
trying to stop drinking.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
How good of a friend is what we need to
figure out.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
All right, So Natalie, good morning, Good morning. How are you?
Speaker 13 (41:28):
I'm I'm conflicted, I guess.
Speaker 3 (41:32):
So let's start with what happened.
Speaker 13 (41:35):
The thing is like, if I if I saw my
friend's husband cheating on her, I would tell her right
one hundred percent. But this, at this point, I saw
my friend husband drinking. I know, like he has a
lot of problems with alcohol in the past, and he
(41:55):
used to do aa but now he's doing much better
at her But I like, went out last night. I
saw him at the bar with some coworkers and he
was absolutely drinking. And it was not Jews, it wasn't
fake beer or anything. I saw them poor it. So,
like I just want to know, do I tell his
(42:17):
wife or like, do I stay out of it?
Speaker 3 (42:20):
Now? These people that he was with, do you work
with them too? Or you just saw all of this.
Speaker 13 (42:28):
I just saw him with his coworkers.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
I guess did he see you?
Speaker 13 (42:34):
No, he did not see me.
Speaker 3 (42:36):
So he's been trying to kick the.
Speaker 13 (42:38):
Habit, right from what I know, from what I've heard,
you know, between them, because that's like my really close friend.
Speaker 4 (42:45):
Sure, how do you know she doesn't know? Like he
came home to her that night. Don't you think she
would have noticed him being drunk? Maybe he wasn't drunk.
Speaker 13 (42:53):
Possibly, I mean, I don't know, you know, I I think,
I mean, I feel like it'd be kind of snitchy
to tell. But like if I know that that that's
the path they're on, is like quitting and abstaining from alcohol.
I think my friend would have wanted to know. But
(43:13):
I mean, maybe I'm in too much in their business.
Speaker 3 (43:17):
But you think this was something he did kind of
sneakily because she wasn't around.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Well yes, and no, he was with his friends, so
these people all saw.
Speaker 1 (43:27):
Him well no, well I think he was with it.
Speaker 13 (43:29):
Yeah, I don't. I mean it was like right after
work time.
Speaker 5 (43:34):
So for me, you saw that, Okay, right, you've got
that in your head, huh. For me, I don't think
I would go to her now right away. I think
you should give it a beat and see how they are,
because maybe his wife sensed it when he got back,
(43:55):
and it's also embarrassing. I think for sure you to
tell her and get involved in this. I mean, this
is something he's got to do on his own, and
it sounds like his wife is, you know, lovingly supporting him.
So I have to guess that she can see it
(44:16):
right when he comes home, yep. I have to guess
that she probably doesn't want to know that other people
saw it, same with him. So my guidance would be
just stand down for a moment and see how this
evolves between the two of them, Because if you're going
through something, whatever it is, as a couple and as
(44:38):
your love your significant other, you really don't want other
people's opinion infused because you're trying to he himself fix it,
and then she support him. So I don't think you report.
I really don't.
Speaker 4 (44:56):
You don't want to come off as judgmental either. There's
just a lot of layers.
Speaker 3 (45:00):
But I think that would create more problems if you do.
Speaker 11 (45:05):
Yeah, right, absolutely.
Speaker 5 (45:08):
And by the way, a couples people deal with this
old the time, and there's no textbook answer. But you're
a good friend for thinking about it and calling to share.
Speaker 3 (45:18):
That and keep us posted.
Speaker 11 (45:21):
I definitely will.
Speaker 12 (45:23):
Okay, thank you, thank you a lady, Thanks bye bye,
Sisny Tanya here and you were. I don't do you
know what this is, Tonya? Lily padding?
Speaker 6 (45:35):
I don't, but I don't. I can deduce a little
from the title.
Speaker 3 (45:40):
What do you think it is?
Speaker 6 (45:41):
Lily padding is like like a frog jumps from lily
pad to lily pad.
Speaker 3 (45:45):
Okay, but the frog does, But what do people do.
Speaker 4 (45:47):
Jump from job to job?
Speaker 3 (45:49):
Okay, let's see. So this is a term that's being
used more and more often.
Speaker 4 (45:53):
Sicany, Yeah, I think there's a big shift going on
right now how people think when it comes to their career.
And so instead of climbing a traditional career ladder, step
by step promotion over time, putting the time into one company.
Things like that. A lot of people are taking the
approach of career lily patting, and what that is is, yes,
(46:15):
hopping around, not necessarily from job to job, but it
could also be from role to role, like a different
type of like being like, oh, I don't want to
do market anymore. I want to try promotions, or I
want to try this, and maybe it was still within
the company, but you're just lily patting in a lateral
motion of these different roles or different jobs. You pause,
(46:35):
you experiment, it's not for me, onto the next one,
and it's not necessarily being looked at as a negative
term or slacking off. It's more about figuring out what
really feels right to you and figuring out that work
life balance.
Speaker 5 (46:50):
Which is good because you need to know, like what
is your passion. You try something and maybe you're like, oh,
I'm not great at this, but I do think it's
probably better to lily pad within the same organization if
you want to get to a certain.
Speaker 3 (47:04):
Place in that job.
Speaker 5 (47:05):
Exactly like we always used to say, it's like a
climbing the ladder. Right, you take this step and that
step and this step and that step to get there,
and is it looked upon as derogatory or is it positive?
Speaker 4 (47:17):
No, I think it's positive. It doesn't need to be
that success is the corner office.
Speaker 6 (47:23):
You know.
Speaker 4 (47:24):
Back in the day, I felt everyone thought you needed
to be at the top otherwise you weren't successful. Now
it's about work life balance. So if you're going to
be happier in a certain role and be able to
do that, then that's what's fulfilling nowadays.
Speaker 3 (47:41):
Sorry, something new. What is work life balance mean?
Speaker 6 (47:45):
It's like having a balance between work and your home life.
Speaker 4 (47:49):
I think, really, yes, you don't know what that is
because you don't have.
Speaker 3 (47:54):
More, but I think I should try that.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
There is something to do with the burning out. I
think that whole term of people grinding so hard that
they burn out is what you want to try to avoid.
So it can mean building something that works for you,
not according to some rigid old blueprint from that was
instilled in US so many years ago.
Speaker 6 (48:15):
But I also think people say to like, get out
of that position. Sometimes your company needs to see you
go somewhere else and then they'll see you in like
a higher Yeah.
Speaker 5 (48:26):
I agree with that, Like I'm thinking myself, like For me,
I always had a vision of where I wanted to be. Yes,
but I knew I had to start driving the van,
and I knew I had yeah by being on the
air overnight. Then I knew I had to do you know,
other things, yes, the way, but I still had the
vision of where I wanted to go. So it was
(48:46):
a little bit of lily patting. But to the benefit
I think of learning all the skills.
Speaker 4 (48:51):
Absolutely, I agree with you, same boat over here.
Speaker 5 (48:55):
All right, So tomorrow, if you guys want to enjoy
come back first thing in the morning, or pay bills
again every single hour.
Speaker 3 (49:02):
We cannot get enough of this.
Speaker 5 (49:03):
Then you must send us your name and you must
tell us about the bill, and then we'll call your name,
hopefully very very soon. On the Tens, it is the
match game tomorrow and those great Disneyland tickets all morning long.
If you miss something on the podcast, Tanya.
Speaker 6 (49:19):
You can listen to it today after twelve thirty. I
think it's twelve, well, he says he likes to get
up by twelve, So I just say twelve thirty because
then back, oh.
Speaker 5 (49:30):
Yeah, check it all out back tomorrow morning.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
First thing, Sistney's got you till eleven.
Speaker 4 (49:35):
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