March 10, 2025 • 26 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Well, I'm just trying to figure out when the bagpipes
are going to play on this National Bagpipe Day. But
it's not till seven oh nine. Seven oh nine is
sun up.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's gonna take a minute for us to get our
sunshine in the morning. But just think about how much
later the sunsets.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I'm fine with that, but I haven't gotten there yet.
I'm just in the dark.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
I know it's really dark.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
You jump that hour forty so I just every year
I harp on this, what's one hour? Actually it's a lot.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
It's a lot.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
It's a lot. It's a lot. Today will be So
if it's up at seven o nine, it's gonna go
down at six fifty seven. It's gonna get even later.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Obviously, right peak of summer, it's like eight o'clock.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I feel I'm fine until when it gets to be
still light when I'm trying to tuck myself in. I
don't like it. Light.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
You're not talking yourself in. I tuck myself in fifty
five pm to night.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
No, no, not now. But the eighth thirty ish.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Oh, like.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Like July.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Right, I don't. I don't tuck myself in. It's seven
thirty anymore. You don't, No, no, I don't. I My
talking process begins at eight thirty. I should show you
my tucking process.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I love nothing more.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Yeah, it seems to be getting longer and longer. Now
it's you know, it's a tombs, it's a face wash.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
It's dumbs every night.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
No, okay, it tastes like sweethearts to me. Now it's
a candy.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Now we have thumbs everywhere, Like, why.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Do we have so many tombs our kitchen, I don't know,
easy dessert, Michael loves them.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Our latest sunset of the year will be eight oh
eight June. You know it's could be summer, guys. I
don't want to say it, but yeah, it's summer now.
Basically you should be booking your reservations or your Disneyland
tickets or whatever.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Right this week is not going to feel like summer though.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
No very wet, But that's a buzzkill.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Fine, it's part of the season.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
But the news is the light light later means you
can like be outside and get your steps in longer.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, I'm down. And by the way, we now have
seasons in La, so we certainly have them this year. Sure, already,
let's go around the table here as we enjoy our grape.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Nuts and those and those.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
And those highs and lows in the last twenty hours,
so assistantly, you're high.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
My high was at a ditch my family on Friday
afternoon and night, and I had a sleepover at my
best friend Tag's house.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
You did what y'all talk about?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
I did just girl stuff. We had caught up.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I hadn't seen her since like the holidays, so it
was like, you know, it's a nice time to catch up.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
And it's weird because she's like, did you ask Michael
if you can come over and spend the night. It's
like I have to ask Michael for permission, but not really,
but you kind.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Of do, like my heads up if you're not coming.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Home, you get like check in and like tell them,
all right, you got me with the kids tonight.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So it was Tanya, what's your high the last twenty hours.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
I'm officially one week sugar free and I no big time,
big time, so I'm feeling really really good.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I lost my favorite sunglasses and I found them. That's
like a huge victory.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Oh, that is huge.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I now I don't give up hope. I always think
things are gone, but then I don't give up hope.
Now I don't give up hope. They're going to find them.
And that was a high for me. What was your low?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
My low is about to begin that it's just going
to rain all week and it's such a bummer with the.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Dogs because it's annoying.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
You're low.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I slept a little weird last night. I have like
a little bit of a crook in my neck.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Funny you say that because the corn of mind low
is the the panty line of my uh bed sheets.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Oh you know the elasticated.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Fitted Yeah, the painty line, the fitted part.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Of the anti line. It's just the elastic of the sheet.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah, that's the thing exactly.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Oh, it was coming up.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It popped off. I did not I could not take
the time to fix in the moment.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
That is it is the worst, such a pet peeve
of mine.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Weird.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, I make Michael go out of the bed and
we have to fix it.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Oh, Michael, what a scent. These are three things that
food experts say, never microwave. Just take note, maybe you
make these for your bunch. Hard boiled eggs. Never microwave
hard boled eggs.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I don't even know how to do that.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Who microwaves hard boiled eggs?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
A lot of people?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Really?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah, you don't know these people, but they do it.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
But do you put the egg raw in there? It?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
I was singing to heat it up, but it says
it's just you could. It's it's really boiling it. So
don't boil them with the microbe I was singing, heat
up the already boiled ones, but this is boiling it
because the pressure of the egg in the shell. H Yeah, yeah, broccoli,
don't MICROI broccoli. Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
What about like when you're yeah, I'm like reheating stuff
if it's leftovers, But it says the heat destroys the
vitamin C. So then just throw it out if you're
not going to finish it.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I mean, I'm just telling you what they say. Don't
do it. And don't do seafood ever. Oh for sure,
it's not unsafe, but it'll dry it out. I take
I eat dry fish all the time. Food experts are
too picky. Today's club you're calling will crush your comfort zone.
Monday headlines headlines with siciny, well did you feel it?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
A three point three magnitooth earthquake struck La about two
twenty three this morning, near the epicenter of yesterday's four
point one magnitooth earthquake, northwest of Malibu and southwest of
Westlake Village. FEMA has extended the deadline for socoled residents
affected by the January wildfires to apply for federal aid.
The deadline is now Monday, March thirty. First, Newport Beach
(05:25):
debuted its new trash inspector wheel, designed to capture trash
flowing into Newport Bay and the ocean, and the Dodgers
Foundation in La County Parks Department plan to turn Loma
Alta Park into Altadena into a beacon of.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Hope with two Dodgers dream fields opening.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
By May Ryan's Rosies coming out a seven forty. She
thinks her husband's having an affair. She got that feeling
and it's very uncomfortable, the connection to the family with
this person she thinks he's having an affair with So
we'll get to that at seven forty this morning. I
also got some Halsey tickets for you to win. And
here we are again on a Monday. Yeah, Sisney, what
(06:04):
did your neighbors ask you to do? Okay?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
And I feel like it's something that maybe a lot
of neighbors just gonna say in passing, but it really
stuck with me all week.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So last week they're.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Back now and everything's fine, but I'm coming home from
school with the kids and They're like, hey, so you
know we're going to be gone for a few days
to go visit our daughter and this you keep an eye.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
On the house. I was like, sure that would say.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
What does that mean?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
That met?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
And so like the whole week, I was just like panic.
I was like, what car is that?
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I was literally like if something happens to their house
that I feel responsible, But on you, I don't have.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
A cheek say that guard the house.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Literally just like keeping out in the house.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I was like, I think they're just saying a FYI
were rolling out.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Yeah, it was total. It was totally that.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But I took it like as if I needed to
be like a soldier outside.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Of the home and I need to put a spotlight
on their house.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Yeah yeah, I mean any little thing. They kind of
threw me off, Like there there were a few mean
down on my street. And so they put those like
filming notices on everyone's like front door, and like I
took theirs and I kind of put it away so
it didn't look like it was sitting there for a
few days.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
And yeah, walk over and turn lights on and off.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
No I didn't. I didn't have keys of their house.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Stop the paper, so it doesn't stack up.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Nobody gets papers anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
But you know, a little things like that, and it
just kind of was like a stress all last week.
I'm glad they're home now because I'm like, I don't
need that respond So in.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
My book, then if they threw that on you, they
should bring you something back from their trip.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
You know what they always do. They are they are
not me for the kids. They'll bring something back for that.
It's like their own kids, they have grandkids. It's I
live on like the best street in America. Like our
neighbors are so nice, everyone's so kind. So that's why
I didn't want to blow up so shocked that they
bring your kids get by, I know, and like all
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the neighbors.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Do, why don't you stay at their house? Then, I mean,
really take this serious. I get in there next time.
Maybe called me and she said, I have a question
for you, and said, yes, she wants to know what
APT means. And I actually tried to explain it to
her and I made no sense.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
It's a drinking game, That's why I said to her.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
She said, what does that mean? I said, well, it's
drinking game. She said, I've never heard of it. I said,
because it was in South Korea where they originated this
drinking game. I think, isn't that what we were told
by Rose?
Speaker 7 (08:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
And also apartment does it?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
And Bruno even reference that in his lyrics.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
No.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Well, somehow, when I try to explain a movie or
a song or TV show, it doesn't make any sense.
And my job is to communicate. But she was fine with it,
but she really went out of her way to find.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Out eighty percent of the time you make sense.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Well, explain this one to me so I can make
sense of it. Flood lighting. It's a new toxic dating trend.
Flood lighting. What does it mean?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Flood lighting?
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Okay, so it is almost a manipulative tactic, like a
dating tactic that you would do at the very early
stages of a relationship or getting to know somebody. So
let me give you a few examples, just to kind
of like paint the picture for you. Okay, someone saying
I've never felt this way about anyone, and I have
a history of abandonment, and I just kind of need
(09:03):
to know that you're not going to leave me.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
So it's heavy and it puts pressure on you to commit.
But you might be into deep, you might.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Be already emotionally kind of connected to that person and
they say something like this, and you're like, well, of
course I want to.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Well how soon. I don't think you should use the
word abandonment soon.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
I mean think about maybe the first few dates, probably
early on. Another example would be like someone you just
met suddenly shares details about a painful breakup or family issues.
They start unloading past traumas on you, things like that
just to kind of make you feel obligated to comfort them,
and then you become this like comforter all the time.
That's how your relationship kind of like sets the tone
(09:39):
is by you being the comforter and them always be
having the crisis.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Oh I don't love that, But you get trapped in this.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
You don't realize that you're in a relationship like this
because they're hot or like you have a connection otherwise
or things like that, and you get you know, blinded,
blinded by love.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
So just kind of be aware of it.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Brene Brown has talked about this before.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Yes, oh I love she Brene Brown saying that, you know,
it often leads to emotional imbalance and it's just flat
out manipulative.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
I don't love any of that conversation. And you're not
gonna necessarily love Ryan's roses either, because here's the situation.
It started out fine. Now she thinks he's cheating on
her with somebody it's very close to them. Let's just
get into it. Let's get into it now. It's Ryan's roses,
and it's time. Leslie thinks that her husband is cheating
on her with one of their daughter's friends. Whoa Leslie,
(10:39):
good morning and thanks for coming up their daughter? Hi,
tiny one's And how old your daughter is or her
friend is?
Speaker 7 (10:45):
Oh? My daughters, I have two. My oldest is twenty one.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
So you think your husband's having a fair with the
twenty one year old.
Speaker 7 (10:53):
I mean, I don't know if it's an a fair
or like it's just inappropriate. I don't no, I'm just
freaking out.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I would be freaking out. Why are you feeling this way,
because it's a very specific feeling you've got.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
I mean, I mean, I don't know. I mean, first
of all, like she's my daughter's best friend, and it's
I mean after graduation. You know, my daughter went to
she went to UCSD. Olvia's right here at Irvine. But
I mean, and she's always been flirty with my husband.
(11:29):
But you know, like girls go through that, and it's.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Weird this this young girl has been flirting with your husband.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
That's weird already.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
I feel like that's I think that's strange. So yeah,
does he.
Speaker 7 (11:45):
No, No, he always acted like it was weird, you know,
and he laughed about it. Okay, And now anyway, I
see this text and it says ello, well LLL or
whatever her and I can't I tried to see on
his phone if he'd sent something to her, but can't.
(12:07):
I can't get into the phone. I mean, like I
don't know the password.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
OK So they're texting, that's already kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
I think this is line crossing already, so to the
extent that something's weird and going on. Yes, if they're texting,
it's her daughter's friend and what else.
Speaker 7 (12:26):
Well, and so I went on her Instagram because I'm
and she posted a post picture. Sorry, she posted a
picture from Springs a couple of weekends ago. And my
husband was in Palm Springs that weekend.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Doing what.
Speaker 7 (12:42):
Yeah, it was like golfing and it was for business.
And well no, I'm just.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, you're spiraling. I get it. I mean, that's a
lot I understand.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
All right, Hold on one second. Here's the scenario. Leslie
thinks that her husband's having an affair with one of
her daughter's friend who's twenty one. They text each other.
I mean, well, it's like they already text each other.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
So let's say I need you to say, right, you
have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
Speaker 6 (13:09):
Go ahead, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Do that now. And what's this friend of your daughter's
name that you think he's having an affair with?
Speaker 7 (13:20):
Olivia?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Olivia and you said that they were in Palm Springs
at the same time, was on our Instagram. He was there,
she was there, and you were not there. I mean,
it sounds like this is going in the wrong direction.
Here we go, be very quiet, hanging there. Let's see
what we can find out. Good luck.
Speaker 7 (13:39):
Oh, thank you so much.
Speaker 6 (13:52):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Hi is this Manny?
Speaker 6 (13:55):
Yeah? This is Manny.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Hi Manny.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
My name is Amber. I'm calling from Mission via Hill Flowers.
How you doing this morning?
Speaker 6 (14:01):
Did? All right?
Speaker 1 (14:02):
How are you great? Thank you for asking.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
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Speaker 1 (14:06):
It is free.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
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and it's a free dozen red roses that you can
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Speaker 6 (14:12):
Like a three dozen red roses.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Correct.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
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that if you're pleased with our arrangements, that maybe you
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is there anybody that you want to send free roses to?
Speaker 6 (14:33):
Yeah, there's a girl named Sammy. Do you guys deliver
all the way to usc San Diego?
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Yeah, we can deliver, you can, we can deliver down there,
all right. What's her name?
Speaker 6 (14:51):
Her name is Sammy. Got I've got to get our address.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Just let's do the note first and then we can
do the address later. What do you want to put
on the card?
Speaker 6 (15:02):
You got this? This is your day? Yeah?
Speaker 7 (15:11):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (15:11):
And then how do you want me to sign it?
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Love? Manny?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Love, Manny, Manny.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Your wife Leslie's on the phone. My name is Ryan.
Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I've got
Tanya in Siciny with me and your wife Leslie's on
the line. Can you tell us who Sammy is to you? Oh? God?
Speaker 6 (15:37):
Really?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Who's Sammy?
Speaker 6 (15:41):
Sammy's just a friend.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
You're a friend. You see San Diego that you're sending
red roses to you? Got this is your date? Love Manny?
That's a friend?
Speaker 6 (15:57):
Yeah? Yeah, well mar yep, Well you come.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
On, Leslie, do you that's not Olivia? So Sammy's a
different person, Leslie.
Speaker 7 (16:07):
I I saw you you texting each other?
Speaker 2 (16:15):
Is Sammy or Olivia?
Speaker 7 (16:18):
I thought he was texting Olivia?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
So, Manny, what's going on? I mean, what's going on
with you and Sammy?
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Who's Sammy?
Speaker 6 (16:26):
This is not something we should be talking about on
the radio.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Did you think we woke up this when he wanted
to have this conversation? No? No, So what's the deal?
Are you cheating on your wife with Sammy or Olivia
or anybody.
Speaker 6 (16:39):
No.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Well, okay, of course you know I was so Leslie,
I'm gonna let you work this out, but you thought
it was another woman. He's now sending flowers to Sammy
at U see San Diego. All of it's uncomfortable and
all of it's not good. And to what extent how
far does it go? I don't know, Leslie, but you
need to get into this with Manny, and we wish
you the best of luck. You know, if there's anything
(17:02):
going on, any peace of mind in your relationship, send
us the story at Ryan ATKISSFM dot com. Fro Ryan's
roses and we do those on Mondays and Thursdays. But
bottom line, Leslie married to Manny. They've got a daughter
in college. She thinks he's having an affair with one
of their friends named Olivia. He ends up sending the
roses to a different girl named Sammy, who goes to UCSD,
and he says to Sammy, you got this. This is
(17:23):
your day love Manny. Remember they got a daughter the
same age.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Yeah, and also goes to that same college.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
So weird. I couldn't even ask the question. I didn't
want to find out more. Yeah, I didn't want to
find out more. I mean, the guy's already he's doing
too much.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Already into they need to work happy. She got the
ambush knees there you go.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
So, by the way, remember when she said my daughter's
friend used to flirt with my husband when she was over.
Wouldn't you call that flag out there?
Speaker 6 (17:53):
Then?
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:55):
One eight hundred and five to one of two seven
at kiss FM. So if he sends I love you, roses,
do someone go to UCSD where their daughter goes? He's
cheating for sure? Well need to I don't want to
know what else is going on, Pierian. It's beautiful school though,
you see, Sidney, gorgeous school. Good morning. Thanks for listening
(18:17):
Ryan's roses. So go ahead, what did you take away
from it?
Speaker 7 (18:21):
I'm trying to piece this together because I feel like
this sounds like a whole other woman, Like maybe it's
a different friend sauce.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
It's not Olivia, right, That's what I'm saying. So there's
like two other women in the mix here.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
Yeah, Sammy was maybe his daughter, but like I guess not,
because you wouldn't say I love man.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
That's why I wanted to know how he was going
to sign the note.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah, and it's not their daughter, because Leslie would have
told us that.
Speaker 7 (18:45):
Yeah. So I guess, like, is he going like is
he interested in.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Like multiple of his daughter's friends?
Speaker 7 (18:51):
Like he sounds like such a stumbag?
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Agreed, and this is why we stopped the call. Uh,
listen to us. Charlene there checking us out, and van
Ay's in the valley. All right, is single people listen up? Yes,
Tanya has got some advice and now she's really going
to give him advice to single people.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Well, first of all, this is not hot. This is
not my advice. This is the story of a Hollywood
couple that have been together for nearly twenty years. And
the way they got together is so unconventional that I
feel like, sometimes you just have to step outside your
comfort zone and do things a little bit differently.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
So what's the situation.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
So Coleman Domingo, the actor who from Sing Sing, the
movie that was nominated a ton, he was walking the
carpet with his husband Raoul Domingo.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Was he in a red blazer? Yes, it's the Oscars.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Okay, yes, guys, And they have been together for nearly
twenty years. But the way that they met is straight
up out of a movie, and I thought it was
a really important life lesson. So Coleman and Raoul first
met in two thousand and five through a Craigslist missed
Connections post. So, while visiting NorCal, Coleman noticed a beautiful
man outside of Walgreens in Berkeley, but he did not
(19:59):
approach him. A few days later, he came across a
Craigslist post titled saw you outside of Walgreens Berkeley written
by Raoul just hours earlier. So they met three days
later and Coleman felt an immediate connection, and then boom,
twenty years later, they're still together.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
I love it, I know.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
And like some people like times if that happened in
your life where you just don't have the braveness to
say anything, or you make.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
Eye contact or make eyes with somebody, like driving down
the street and you feel like you have like a
thirty and then they're gone. You know, like you should
post that somewhere and like seek.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
It out with craigslis, Like I used to get nervous
buying a couch off Craigslist. This is a real leap
of faith here totally, but it works out all right,
what's a happy story him Lauren, good morning, How are
you good?
Speaker 5 (20:49):
How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (20:51):
We're good. So it says here you found out your
friend's pregnant on Instagram.
Speaker 5 (20:57):
Yes, so we did over the weekend, which is very exciting.
Super happy for my friend, of course, but it was
a little surprising to me and to the rest of
our friend group. We've been friends with her since high
school and granted we don't see each other as often
as we used to, but still pretty often, and we would,
(21:21):
you know, talk about her fertility journey and starting a family,
how she wanted kids. So we were all really surprised
that that was how we found out. And I feel
like a little hurt about it. I would never say
anything to her, but I don't know if I'm like
leading into it too much or if I should even
feel like slightly disappointed about it.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
I think you're making this more of a you thing
than a her thing, which I had to say it,
but like this is I think it's her pregnancy, it's
her life, it's her way of communicating. You can't make
us about you.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
That is true. That is true. We just thought, because
of how close we all are, that we would find
out like in a more I don't know, like personal way.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I understand that would be your expectation, but I don't
know if you can falter for this. This is what
she decided to do, and it's such a happy, wonderful,
beautiful thing you can't let it but come about you
or your other friends.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
She might have felt overwhelmed to spread the news that
way too, because you know, having to call everybody separately
or like, what do you do? It's a bunch of
face times, like just it her whole family, and it
was just easier just to do a mass, you know,
public announcement.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
And every minute you're upset about this is a minute
that you're not fully happy.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
That's true.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
Slide. I would let this go. It's really about let
them be, you know, happy and excited about healthy pregnancy.
Speaker 7 (22:53):
Right.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Love that?
Speaker 7 (22:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (22:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Why'd you love that? You called Asalin? Thank you so
much for listening.
Speaker 5 (22:59):
To us, Thank you, bye bye.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
I did I want to say, like you're making about
yourself when it's really not who cares? In a way,
I got it. Expectations, Yeah that's.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Fine, but how special do you feel when you do
have friends?
Speaker 3 (23:11):
I call you and yeah, give you the lowdown before
anybody else knows.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
It's never happened. But that's not true.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
I called you.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I think I found out you're pregnant here.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
No, not the twins. I called it with the twins.
I told you I was pregnant. I told you ahead
of time, but you didn't know it was twins.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
So see, I did find out something here. I knew
there was a big dentistry.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
I got to do a little bit.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
There was just a Mark Dennis surprise moment. Everybody's like
waving their hair.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
You guys like that better. I think like what you
guys like the surprise. I remember after I got engaged,
I wanted to FaceTime you, and then I was like, no,
I'm going to do it. I want to surprise them
on the air.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
I like it anyway you want to share happy happiness,
like whatever you want to do, just don't call past nine.
Just don't call past nine. Let me just jump into this.
A lot of people are divided on one. So there's
a dude that posts on Reddit about a fight he
had with his partner's girlfriend. It was about smelling like
a body odor.
Speaker 6 (24:08):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
So they would go to the gym together and she
would not shower, and she would always say, women don't
sweat like you do, and we don't sweat the same,
and he didn't say anything, but he noticed like it
didn't smell perfectly, and so he started to want to
say something. So then she would start to use the sauna,
and she still refused to sell, so she would work out,
use a sauna and not shower, and finally he said,
(24:30):
I know you say you don't sweat, but it smells.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
Yes, yeah, now you're like baking your sweat.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
And she's upset with him for saying that, and now
she thinks that he thinks that she's disgusting. So it's great,
a whole stir and a whole you know what storm.
So that question is do you tell your partner if
there's an odor?
Speaker 3 (24:48):
You should have the type of relationship where you can
tell your partner these things and be like, hey, you
should shower, that's gross and then then not be offended.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
Okay, So do you sweat differently? Like would you not shower?
Do you show or less than I do?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Do I shower?
Speaker 2 (25:02):
I shower more? Women and men shower different number of
times per week.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
I don't know one.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
Showering a little bit more than I used to shower,
because you shower at night.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
There's showers morning and night. There's showers and then there's
a rinse. You know, there's difference.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
I quite like the relaxing, quick hot rints at night.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Uh huh, I feel like necessary.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
I just think if you if you sweat clean yourself.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah, there's a commercial.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
That comes on. I don't know who she is. She's
an ob g y N and she's developed the uh
a yodaant for all your parts. You see that commercial,
No Marcas, but Mark, you've seen it. O g y
n right, and she's just like she's made theodant for
all the parts, all the hot spots. I saw. I
ordered it Loom. Yeah, that's it. Is it for men
(25:51):
and women? I don't know. I ordered it for myself.
I think it's for both. Great. I don't smell like
a patch of daisies.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Let us know how it goes.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Well, you tell me okay, and you smell the fragrance
from just sitting.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
There, get over here.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
That's great, an, I gotta speak up you.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
That is so gross.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Guys, thanks for being with us today. Second date update
is tomorrow. We'll talk about stress at work. Tomorrow, and
I'll explain that in the morning. First thing, if you
missed our Ryan's Roses call, or body Odor with your
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The podcast goes up about noon every day on iHeartRadio
(26:32):
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Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Well, I'm just trying to figure out when the bagpipes
are going to play on this National Bagpipe Day. But
it's not till seven oh nine. Seven oh nine is
sun up.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's gonna take a minute for us to get our
sunshine in the morning. But just think about how much
later the sunsets.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
I'm fine with that, but I haven't gotten there yet.
I'm just in the dark.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
I know it's really dark.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
You jump that hour forty so I just every year
I harp on this, what's one hour? Actually it's a lot.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
It's a lot.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
It's a lot. It's a lot. Today will be So
if it's up at seven o nine, it's gonna go
down at six fifty seven. It's gonna get even later.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Obviously, right peak of summer, it's like eight o'clock.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
I feel I'm fine until when it gets to be
still light when I'm trying to tuck myself in. I
don't like it. Light.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
You're not talking yourself in. I tuck myself in fifty
five pm to night.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
No, no, not now. But the eighth thirty ish.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Oh, like.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Like July.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Right, I don't. I don't tuck myself in. It's seven
thirty anymore. You don't, No, no, I don't. I My
talking process begins at eight thirty. I should show you
my tucking process.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I love nothing more.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Yeah, it seems to be getting longer and longer. Now
it's you know, it's a tombs, it's a face wash.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
It's dumbs every night.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
No, okay, it tastes like sweethearts to me. Now it's
a candy.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Now we have thumbs everywhere, Like, why.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Do we have so many tombs our kitchen, I don't know,
easy dessert, Michael loves them.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Our latest sunset of the year will be eight oh
eight June. You know it's could be summer, guys. I
don't want to say it, but yeah, it's summer now.
Basically you should be booking your reservations or your Disneyland
tickets or whatever.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Right this week is not going to feel like summer though.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
No very wet, But that's a buzzkill.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Fine, it's part of the season.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
But the news is the light light later means you
can like be outside and get your steps in longer.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, I'm down. And by the way, we now have
seasons in La, so we certainly have them this year. Sure, already,
let's go around the table here as we enjoy our grape.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Nuts and those and those.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
And those highs and lows in the last twenty hours,
so assistantly, you're high.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
My high was at a ditch my family on Friday
afternoon and night, and I had a sleepover at my
best friend Tag's house.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
You did what y'all talk about?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
I did just girl stuff. We had caught up.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I hadn't seen her since like the holidays, so it
was like, you know, it's a nice time to catch up.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
And it's weird because she's like, did you ask Michael
if you can come over and spend the night. It's
like I have to ask Michael for permission, but not really,
but you kind.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Of do, like my heads up if you're not coming.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Home, you get like check in and like tell them,
all right, you got me with the kids tonight.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
So it was Tanya, what's your high the last twenty hours.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
I'm officially one week sugar free and I no big time,
big time, so I'm feeling really really good.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I lost my favorite sunglasses and I found them. That's
like a huge victory.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Oh, that is huge.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I now I don't give up hope. I always think
things are gone, but then I don't give up hope.
Now I don't give up hope. They're going to find them.
And that was a high for me. What was your low?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
My low is about to begin that it's just going
to rain all week and it's such a bummer with the.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Dogs because it's annoying.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
You're low.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I slept a little weird last night. I have like
a little bit of a crook in my neck.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Funny you say that because the corn of mind low
is the the panty line of my uh bed sheets.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Oh you know the elasticated.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Fitted Yeah, the painty line, the fitted part.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Of the anti line. It's just the elastic of the sheet.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yeah, that's the thing exactly.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Oh, it was coming up.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It popped off. I did not I could not take
the time to fix in the moment.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
That is it is the worst, such a pet peeve
of mine.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Weird.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Yeah, I make Michael go out of the bed and
we have to fix it.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Oh, Michael, what a scent. These are three things that
food experts say, never microwave. Just take note, maybe you
make these for your bunch. Hard boiled eggs. Never microwave
hard boled eggs.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I don't even know how to do that.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Who microwaves hard boiled eggs?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
A lot of people?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Really?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah, you don't know these people, but they do it.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
But do you put the egg raw in there? It?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
I was singing to heat it up, but it says
it's just you could. It's it's really boiling it. So
don't boil them with the microbe I was singing, heat
up the already boiled ones, but this is boiling it
because the pressure of the egg in the shell. H Yeah, yeah, broccoli,
don't MICROI broccoli. Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
What about like when you're yeah, I'm like reheating stuff
if it's leftovers, But it says the heat destroys the
vitamin C. So then just throw it out if you're
not going to finish it.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I mean, I'm just telling you what they say. Don't
do it. And don't do seafood ever. Oh for sure,
it's not unsafe, but it'll dry it out. I take
I eat dry fish all the time. Food experts are
too picky. Today's club you're calling will crush your comfort zone.
Monday headlines headlines with siciny, well did you feel it?
Speaker 3 (05:02):
A three point three magnitooth earthquake struck La about two
twenty three this morning, near the epicenter of yesterday's four
point one magnitooth earthquake, northwest of Malibu and southwest of
Westlake Village. FEMA has extended the deadline for socoled residents
affected by the January wildfires to apply for federal aid.
The deadline is now Monday, March thirty. First, Newport Beach
(05:25):
debuted its new trash inspector wheel, designed to capture trash
flowing into Newport Bay and the ocean, and the Dodgers
Foundation in La County Parks Department plan to turn Loma
Alta Park into Altadena into a beacon of.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Hope with two Dodgers dream fields opening.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
By May Ryan's Rosies coming out a seven forty. She
thinks her husband's having an affair. She got that feeling
and it's very uncomfortable, the connection to the family with
this person she thinks he's having an affair with So
we'll get to that at seven forty this morning. I
also got some Halsey tickets for you to win. And
here we are again on a Monday. Yeah, Sisney, what
(06:04):
did your neighbors ask you to do? Okay?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
And I feel like it's something that maybe a lot
of neighbors just gonna say in passing, but it really
stuck with me all week.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
So last week they're.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Back now and everything's fine, but I'm coming home from
school with the kids and They're like, hey, so you
know we're going to be gone for a few days
to go visit our daughter and this you keep an eye.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
On the house. I was like, sure that would say.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
What does that mean?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
That met?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
And so like the whole week, I was just like panic.
I was like, what car is that?
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I was literally like if something happens to their house
that I feel responsible, But on you, I don't have.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
A cheek say that guard the house.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Literally just like keeping out in the house.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I was like, I think they're just saying a FYI
were rolling out.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Yeah, it was total. It was totally that.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
But I took it like as if I needed to
be like a soldier outside.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Of the home and I need to put a spotlight
on their house.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Yeah yeah, I mean any little thing. They kind of
threw me off, Like there there were a few mean
down on my street. And so they put those like
filming notices on everyone's like front door, and like I
took theirs and I kind of put it away so
it didn't look like it was sitting there for a
few days.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
And yeah, walk over and turn lights on and off.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
No I didn't. I didn't have keys of their house.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Stop the paper, so it doesn't stack up.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Nobody gets papers anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
But you know, a little things like that, and it
just kind of was like a stress all last week.
I'm glad they're home now because I'm like, I don't
need that respond So in.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
My book, then if they threw that on you, they
should bring you something back from their trip.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
You know what they always do. They are they are
not me for the kids. They'll bring something back for that.
It's like their own kids, they have grandkids. It's I
live on like the best street in America. Like our
neighbors are so nice, everyone's so kind. So that's why
I didn't want to blow up so shocked that they
bring your kids get by, I know, and like all
(07:51):
the neighbors.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Do, why don't you stay at their house? Then, I mean,
really take this serious. I get in there next time.
Maybe called me and she said, I have a question
for you, and said, yes, she wants to know what
APT means. And I actually tried to explain it to
her and I made no sense.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
It's a drinking game, That's why I said to her.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
She said, what does that mean? I said, well, it's
drinking game. She said, I've never heard of it. I said,
because it was in South Korea where they originated this
drinking game. I think, isn't that what we were told
by Rose?
Speaker 7 (08:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
And also apartment does it?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:22):
And Bruno even reference that in his lyrics.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
No.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Well, somehow, when I try to explain a movie or
a song or TV show, it doesn't make any sense.
And my job is to communicate. But she was fine with it,
but she really went out of her way to find.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Out eighty percent of the time you make sense.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Well, explain this one to me so I can make
sense of it. Flood lighting. It's a new toxic dating trend.
Flood lighting. What does it mean?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Flood lighting?
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Okay, so it is almost a manipulative tactic, like a
dating tactic that you would do at the very early
stages of a relationship or getting to know somebody. So
let me give you a few examples, just to kind
of like paint the picture for you. Okay, someone saying
I've never felt this way about anyone, and I have
a history of abandonment, and I just kind of need
(09:03):
to know that you're not going to leave me.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
So it's heavy and it puts pressure on you to commit.
But you might be into deep, you might.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Be already emotionally kind of connected to that person and
they say something like this, and you're like, well, of
course I want to.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Well how soon. I don't think you should use the
word abandonment soon.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
I mean think about maybe the first few dates, probably
early on. Another example would be like someone you just
met suddenly shares details about a painful breakup or family issues.
They start unloading past traumas on you, things like that
just to kind of make you feel obligated to comfort them,
and then you become this like comforter all the time.
That's how your relationship kind of like sets the tone
(09:39):
is by you being the comforter and them always be
having the crisis.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Oh I don't love that, But you get trapped in this.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
You don't realize that you're in a relationship like this
because they're hot or like you have a connection otherwise
or things like that, and you get you know, blinded,
blinded by love.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
So just kind of be aware of it.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Brene Brown has talked about this before.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Yes, oh I love she Brene Brown saying that, you know,
it often leads to emotional imbalance and it's just flat
out manipulative.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
I don't love any of that conversation. And you're not
gonna necessarily love Ryan's roses either, because here's the situation.
It started out fine. Now she thinks he's cheating on
her with somebody it's very close to them. Let's just
get into it. Let's get into it now. It's Ryan's roses,
and it's time. Leslie thinks that her husband is cheating
on her with one of their daughter's friends. Whoa Leslie,
(10:39):
good morning and thanks for coming up their daughter? Hi,
tiny one's And how old your daughter is or her
friend is?
Speaker 7 (10:45):
Oh? My daughters, I have two. My oldest is twenty one.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
So you think your husband's having a fair with the
twenty one year old.
Speaker 7 (10:53):
I mean, I don't know if it's an a fair
or like it's just inappropriate. I don't no, I'm just
freaking out.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I would be freaking out. Why are you feeling this way,
because it's a very specific feeling you've got.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
I mean, I mean, I don't know. I mean, first
of all, like she's my daughter's best friend, and it's
I mean after graduation. You know, my daughter went to
she went to UCSD. Olvia's right here at Irvine. But
I mean, and she's always been flirty with my husband.
(11:29):
But you know, like girls go through that, and it's.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Weird this this young girl has been flirting with your husband.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
That's weird already.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
I feel like that's I think that's strange. So yeah,
does he.
Speaker 7 (11:45):
No, No, he always acted like it was weird, you know,
and he laughed about it. Okay, And now anyway, I
see this text and it says ello, well LLL or
whatever her and I can't I tried to see on
his phone if he'd sent something to her, but can't.
(12:07):
I can't get into the phone. I mean, like I
don't know the password.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
OK So they're texting, that's already kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
I think this is line crossing already, so to the
extent that something's weird and going on. Yes, if they're texting,
it's her daughter's friend and what else.
Speaker 7 (12:26):
Well, and so I went on her Instagram because I'm
and she posted a post picture. Sorry, she posted a
picture from Springs a couple of weekends ago. And my
husband was in Palm Springs that weekend.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
Doing what.
Speaker 7 (12:42):
Yeah, it was like golfing and it was for business.
And well no, I'm just.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, you're spiraling. I get it. I mean, that's a
lot I understand.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
All right, Hold on one second. Here's the scenario. Leslie
thinks that her husband's having an affair with one of
her daughter's friend who's twenty one. They text each other.
I mean, well, it's like they already text each other.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
So let's say I need you to say, right, you
have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
Speaker 6 (13:09):
Go ahead, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Do that now. And what's this friend of your daughter's
name that you think he's having an affair with?
Speaker 7 (13:20):
Olivia?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
Olivia and you said that they were in Palm Springs
at the same time, was on our Instagram. He was there,
she was there, and you were not there. I mean,
it sounds like this is going in the wrong direction.
Here we go, be very quiet, hanging there. Let's see
what we can find out. Good luck.
Speaker 7 (13:39):
Oh, thank you so much.
Speaker 6 (13:52):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Hi is this Manny?
Speaker 6 (13:55):
Yeah? This is Manny.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Hi Manny.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
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Speaker 6 (14:01):
Did? All right?
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How are you great? Thank you for asking.
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and it's a free dozen red roses that you can
send to anybody that you'd.
Speaker 6 (14:12):
Like a three dozen red roses.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Correct.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
We're just trying to promote our business and we ask
that if you're pleased with our arrangements, that maybe you
refers to friends and family or you come back as
a customer one day. This is a promotion that we
do about once a month, and you've been selected. So
is there anybody that you want to send free roses to?
Speaker 6 (14:33):
Yeah, there's a girl named Sammy. Do you guys deliver
all the way to usc San Diego?
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Yeah, we can deliver, you can, we can deliver down there,
all right. What's her name?
Speaker 6 (14:51):
Her name is Sammy. Got I've got to get our address.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Just let's do the note first and then we can
do the address later. What do you want to put
on the card?
Speaker 6 (15:02):
You got this? This is your day? Yeah?
Speaker 7 (15:11):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (15:11):
And then how do you want me to sign it?
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Love? Manny?
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Love, Manny, Manny.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Your wife Leslie's on the phone. My name is Ryan.
Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I've got
Tanya in Siciny with me and your wife Leslie's on
the line. Can you tell us who Sammy is to you? Oh? God?
Speaker 6 (15:37):
Really?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Who's Sammy?
Speaker 6 (15:41):
Sammy's just a friend.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
You're a friend. You see San Diego that you're sending
red roses to you? Got this is your date? Love Manny?
That's a friend?
Speaker 6 (15:57):
Yeah? Yeah, well mar yep, Well you come.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
On, Leslie, do you that's not Olivia? So Sammy's a
different person, Leslie.
Speaker 7 (16:07):
I I saw you you texting each other?
Speaker 2 (16:15):
Is Sammy or Olivia?
Speaker 7 (16:18):
I thought he was texting Olivia?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
So, Manny, what's going on? I mean, what's going on
with you and Sammy?
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Who's Sammy?
Speaker 6 (16:26):
This is not something we should be talking about on
the radio.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Did you think we woke up this when he wanted
to have this conversation? No? No, So what's the deal?
Are you cheating on your wife with Sammy or Olivia
or anybody.
Speaker 6 (16:39):
No.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Well, okay, of course you know I was so Leslie,
I'm gonna let you work this out, but you thought
it was another woman. He's now sending flowers to Sammy
at U see San Diego. All of it's uncomfortable and
all of it's not good. And to what extent how
far does it go? I don't know, Leslie, but you
need to get into this with Manny, and we wish
you the best of luck. You know, if there's anything
(17:02):
going on, any peace of mind in your relationship, send
us the story at Ryan ATKISSFM dot com. Fro Ryan's
roses and we do those on Mondays and Thursdays. But
bottom line, Leslie married to Manny. They've got a daughter
in college. She thinks he's having an affair with one
of their friends named Olivia. He ends up sending the
roses to a different girl named Sammy, who goes to UCSD,
and he says to Sammy, you got this. This is
(17:23):
your day love Manny. Remember they got a daughter the
same age.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Yeah, and also goes to that same college.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
So weird. I couldn't even ask the question. I didn't
want to find out more. Yeah, I didn't want to
find out more. I mean, the guy's already he's doing
too much.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
Already into they need to work happy. She got the
ambush knees there you go.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
So, by the way, remember when she said my daughter's
friend used to flirt with my husband when she was over.
Wouldn't you call that flag out there?
Speaker 6 (17:53):
Then?
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:55):
One eight hundred and five to one of two seven
at kiss FM. So if he sends I love you, roses,
do someone go to UCSD where their daughter goes? He's
cheating for sure? Well need to I don't want to
know what else is going on, Pierian. It's beautiful school though,
you see, Sidney, gorgeous school. Good morning. Thanks for listening
(18:17):
Ryan's roses. So go ahead, what did you take away
from it?
Speaker 7 (18:21):
I'm trying to piece this together because I feel like
this sounds like a whole other woman, Like maybe it's
a different friend sauce.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
It's not Olivia, right, That's what I'm saying. So there's
like two other women in the mix here.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
Yeah, Sammy was maybe his daughter, but like I guess not,
because you wouldn't say I love man.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
That's why I wanted to know how he was going
to sign the note.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah, and it's not their daughter, because Leslie would have
told us that.
Speaker 7 (18:45):
Yeah. So I guess, like, is he going like is
he interested in.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Like multiple of his daughter's friends?
Speaker 7 (18:51):
Like he sounds like such a stumbag?
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Agreed, and this is why we stopped the call. Uh,
listen to us. Charlene there checking us out, and van
Ay's in the valley. All right, is single people listen up? Yes,
Tanya has got some advice and now she's really going
to give him advice to single people.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Well, first of all, this is not hot. This is
not my advice. This is the story of a Hollywood
couple that have been together for nearly twenty years. And
the way they got together is so unconventional that I
feel like, sometimes you just have to step outside your
comfort zone and do things a little bit differently.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
So what's the situation.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
So Coleman Domingo, the actor who from Sing Sing, the
movie that was nominated a ton, he was walking the
carpet with his husband Raoul Domingo.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Was he in a red blazer? Yes, it's the Oscars.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Okay, yes, guys, And they have been together for nearly
twenty years. But the way that they met is straight
up out of a movie, and I thought it was
a really important life lesson. So Coleman and Raoul first
met in two thousand and five through a Craigslist missed
Connections post. So, while visiting NorCal, Coleman noticed a beautiful
man outside of Walgreens in Berkeley, but he did not
(19:59):
approach him. A few days later, he came across a
Craigslist post titled saw you outside of Walgreens Berkeley written
by Raoul just hours earlier. So they met three days
later and Coleman felt an immediate connection, and then boom,
twenty years later, they're still together.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
I love it, I know.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
And like some people like times if that happened in
your life where you just don't have the braveness to
say anything, or you make.
Speaker 4 (20:25):
Eye contact or make eyes with somebody, like driving down
the street and you feel like you have like a
thirty and then they're gone. You know, like you should
post that somewhere and like seek.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
It out with craigslis, Like I used to get nervous
buying a couch off Craigslist. This is a real leap
of faith here totally, but it works out all right,
what's a happy story him Lauren, good morning, How are
you good?
Speaker 5 (20:49):
How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (20:51):
We're good. So it says here you found out your
friend's pregnant on Instagram.
Speaker 5 (20:57):
Yes, so we did over the weekend, which is very exciting.
Super happy for my friend, of course, but it was
a little surprising to me and to the rest of
our friend group. We've been friends with her since high
school and granted we don't see each other as often
as we used to, but still pretty often, and we would,
(21:21):
you know, talk about her fertility journey and starting a family,
how she wanted kids. So we were all really surprised
that that was how we found out. And I feel
like a little hurt about it. I would never say
anything to her, but I don't know if I'm like
leading into it too much or if I should even
feel like slightly disappointed about it.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
I think you're making this more of a you thing
than a her thing, which I had to say it,
but like this is I think it's her pregnancy, it's
her life, it's her way of communicating. You can't make
us about you.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
That is true. That is true. We just thought, because
of how close we all are, that we would find
out like in a more I don't know, like personal way.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I understand that would be your expectation, but I don't
know if you can falter for this. This is what
she decided to do, and it's such a happy, wonderful,
beautiful thing you can't let it but come about you
or your other friends.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
She might have felt overwhelmed to spread the news that
way too, because you know, having to call everybody separately
or like, what do you do? It's a bunch of
face times, like just it her whole family, and it
was just easier just to do a mass, you know,
public announcement.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
And every minute you're upset about this is a minute
that you're not fully happy.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
That's true.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
Slide. I would let this go. It's really about let
them be, you know, happy and excited about healthy pregnancy.
Speaker 7 (22:53):
Right.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Love that?
Speaker 7 (22:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (22:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Why'd you love that? You called Asalin? Thank you so
much for listening.
Speaker 5 (22:59):
To us, Thank you, bye bye.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
I did I want to say, like you're making about
yourself when it's really not who cares? In a way,
I got it. Expectations, Yeah that's.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Fine, but how special do you feel when you do
have friends?
Speaker 3 (23:11):
I call you and yeah, give you the lowdown before
anybody else knows.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
It's never happened. But that's not true.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
I called you.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I think I found out you're pregnant here.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
No, not the twins. I called it with the twins.
I told you I was pregnant. I told you ahead
of time, but you didn't know it was twins.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
So see, I did find out something here. I knew
there was a big dentistry.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
I got to do a little bit.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
There was just a Mark Dennis surprise moment. Everybody's like
waving their hair.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
You guys like that better. I think like what you
guys like the surprise. I remember after I got engaged,
I wanted to FaceTime you, and then I was like, no,
I'm going to do it. I want to surprise them
on the air.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
I like it anyway you want to share happy happiness,
like whatever you want to do, just don't call past nine.
Just don't call past nine. Let me just jump into this.
A lot of people are divided on one. So there's
a dude that posts on Reddit about a fight he
had with his partner's girlfriend. It was about smelling like
a body odor.
Speaker 6 (24:08):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
So they would go to the gym together and she
would not shower, and she would always say, women don't
sweat like you do, and we don't sweat the same,
and he didn't say anything, but he noticed like it
didn't smell perfectly, and so he started to want to
say something. So then she would start to use the sauna,
and she still refused to sell, so she would work out,
use a sauna and not shower, and finally he said,
(24:30):
I know you say you don't sweat, but it smells.
Speaker 1 (24:32):
Yes, yeah, now you're like baking your sweat.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
And she's upset with him for saying that, and now
she thinks that he thinks that she's disgusting. So it's great,
a whole stir and a whole you know what storm.
So that question is do you tell your partner if
there's an odor?
Speaker 3 (24:48):
You should have the type of relationship where you can
tell your partner these things and be like, hey, you
should shower, that's gross and then then not be offended.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
Okay, So do you sweat differently? Like would you not shower?
Do you show or less than I do?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Do I shower?
Speaker 2 (25:02):
I shower more? Women and men shower different number of
times per week.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
I don't know one.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
Showering a little bit more than I used to shower,
because you shower at night.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
There's showers morning and night. There's showers and then there's
a rinse. You know, there's difference.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
I quite like the relaxing, quick hot rints at night.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
Uh huh, I feel like necessary.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
I just think if you if you sweat clean yourself.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah, there's a commercial.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
That comes on. I don't know who she is. She's
an ob g y N and she's developed the uh
a yodaant for all your parts. You see that commercial,
No Marcas, but Mark, you've seen it. O g y
n right, and she's just like she's made theodant for
all the parts, all the hot spots. I saw. I
ordered it Loom. Yeah, that's it. Is it for men
(25:51):
and women? I don't know. I ordered it for myself.
I think it's for both. Great. I don't smell like
a patch of daisies.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Let us know how it goes.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Well, you tell me okay, and you smell the fragrance
from just sitting.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
There, get over here.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
That's great, an, I gotta speak up you.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
That is so gross.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Guys, thanks for being with us today. Second date update
is tomorrow. We'll talk about stress at work. Tomorrow, and
I'll explain that in the morning. First thing, if you
missed our Ryan's Roses call, or body Odor with your
partner or anything from this morning, it's about our podcast.
The podcast goes up about noon every day on iHeartRadio
(26:32):
or wherever you get your podcast. My friends have a
good twenty hours in between mirow. See you guys have
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