April 9, 2025 • 37 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us on air with a
Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
I'll tell you, as a dog father, it is fantastic
to have great weather to be taking the dogs out,
because it's a disaster when it's.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Speak muddy. I know it's muddy and wet.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Oh, I don't even say it, because I like to.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Let the dogs play in the bed and their little
muddy paws get all over my sheets and then they
touch my pillow and then I think to myself, Okay,
now I'm gonna get its on my cheek when I
fall asleep.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, or worse pink eye, oh yeah, or the sty Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
I don't want.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
No one at the stye.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
But it's just been pleasurable to be like in the
evening with the sun up a little bit later. Right,
sun's up, almost my bedtime, taking the dogs out for
that last party.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Pe or pooh. It's nice. It's actually very nice ceremony.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
More people are well, good morning, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
It's gonna beautiful. As I was saying, sunny with highs
around eighty nearly ninety Inland. Uh, how is your evening, Systey?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
It was pleasant?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
You know what Michael made my mom's recipe of albondigas
soup for us last night and surprised the whole family
with it.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
What what's your mom's recipe? Why is it different? I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
I mean it tastes like a albondiga soup, but it's
it's different. I think it's like less oily and it's healthier,
you know, but it just tastes exactly like how she
cooked it when we were kids. So, and it's funny
because whenever we do soup for dinner, it's a struggle
to feed the kids, like a healthy soup, you know,
because they want macaroni and cheese, So we have to
(01:47):
really sit there and like spoon feed them.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
But they'll finish it and then we're done and then
I can get.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Well, you know, they'll go through faces because I remember
when there were faces where I wouldn't eat soup, then
I love soup. They faces I wouldn't eat meat, then
I eat meat. They're just they're they're faceable. I actually
did something I love to do that is go to
the grocery store and buy package things for my dinner.
So I went through, uh, you know, just like buy
a handful of things that make no sense. I got
almond butter, I bought berries, I bought nuts, I bought
(02:12):
like kind of these healthy crackers. I bought some hummus,
and I bought a green soup and that was my dinner.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
That's like snacks.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I know, I like snacks for dinner. Sometimes I'm in
the mood like I just want to stop at the
store and get snacks for dinner.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
I thought you were going to say, like ingredients, Like
I was like, I bought three shallots the other day
and some pinchette that and I was like, I'm going
to maybe make some sort of pasta dish with this eventually,
and I did.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
And mushrooms. I threw mushrooms.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
You made pinchetta. You bought pinchetta Like.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Hey, they was like already like chopped up in package
at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Hey, guys, take a look at the call screen. Brett
is there in Los Angeles. Hey Brett, what's up?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Brother? Thanks for reaching out. How are you hey?
Speaker 6 (02:49):
Doing okay?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
How are you doing well? Just you know, getting it done,
rolling through it.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
So you are calling about your friend who keeps bringing
his wife and baby with him every time you guys
hang out.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, so this is, uh mind you like
a guy's night. Like we've been doing this for a
long time now. And my my buddy, he and his
wife who we all love, like all the guys and
I get along with her really well. But they just
had a baby like eight months ago or something like that.
Speaker 7 (03:19):
And.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
They bring the baby and his wife comes along as well,
so it gets pretty rowdy and like I've got a
young dog, and the baby cries and the puppy cries
and it gets really really hairy. So yeah, I don't know.
We love we love her, like I said, but it
it gets kind of it gets kind of uh crazy,
(03:42):
which made my dog bark, and like I said, it's
just it's just like this like chaotic time when it
was supposed to be like the guy's hanging out, you know.
So yeah, I don't know what would you do in
this situation because we don't want to like we do,
we do love her, and like we do want like
to be friends still and every thing, but like and
we don't want to be rude, but like we don't
(04:04):
want to like not have a guy's night.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
You know, I gotta go to sysany on this one.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Well, you need to maybe just set some ground rules
on the expectations of your evening. So if it's gonna
be a guy's night, you have to call it that,
and you have to tell your buddy, Hey, it's just
the guys tonight.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
If it's a hang at your house.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Then why are you gonna like not have him bring
his wife or he wants to bring the whole family
type of thing.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
That's like that's his crew.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Now can you ask some of the other bros to
bring their significant others? So then maybe like you guys.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Can not what they want though, right, well.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Maybe then your significant others can hang and play a
game while you guys watch the game.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It's interesting he doesn't read the cues on this, Like
I've done that before.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
Like, uh, Robbie will be doing like a guy's thing,
and he has a wife that I really like, and
so sometimes when they go, they'll go do their thing
and like she and I will play like remy Cubans.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
I think, I say, she and I will play.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Big cakes but pretend cakes.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah, yeah, Brett, I mean, look, I think on this one,
maybe there are some ways for you to nudge it
in the direction you want to go without offending, right.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Or you can be petty and bring your puppy to
their house when they invite you over.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Is that frown upon?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:26):
I think I think yeah, maybe just maybe just like
not delineate, like this is guys night.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I think, so I'll be clear, and then they go, oh,
you know, IM sorry, bro, I was just not I
wasn't thinking are Yeah, I got you. I think there's
a way to handle this so that you don't, you know,
ruffle the feathers of that family too. Thanks for listening
to us, Thanks for calling about that. I feel like
this move was just yesterday that you and Michael and
the family moved into your new place. And now is
this the first warm weather season that you experienced in
(05:52):
the new place?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Yeah, I feel you've lived there for a long time.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Well, we closed escrow right towards the end of summer.
It was like September fifteenth, and then it just went
straight into the holidays. It was like Halloween and we
got the big twelve foot skeleton and Christmas and so
now here we are in spring, and I'm starting to
realize that we have a fly problem.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Zip it out, like major ill.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Zip it up.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
What do you mean, like zip them up in the bags?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Got it? Fly problem for me is intter of fact.
Someone told me, yes, stay my fly. That was great.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
It happens.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
It happens anyway.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
So these are flies, these are the big flies. They
just get in your face, they.
Speaker 8 (06:26):
Get that food.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
They're not good on my watermelon, They're not good on
my fruits.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
And they're just like hovering in my outdoor patio area.
And I we thought maybe it was because we had
like we used to have, like it was a cover
trash can. So we're like, okay, let's get that out
of the way. That's not doing the trick. And when
we moved in, you know, we have two avocado trees
and one of them had a fly bag thing hanging
from it when we first moved in, and I was like,
(06:50):
oh my god, that thing stings. So I told Michael
to get rid of it, and he did. But there
was a reason why that was probably there. And so
I'm doing all this research and this is almost like
a help to anybody that can call me and help
me with this, because I know that we've had callers
call in like that have all the totto farms, yeah,
or they like they have like horses and stuff in
(07:12):
their back a caddie exactly, Like, how do you get
rid of flies? Because I'm buying this stuff off to Amazon,
and I don't know if it's gonna work.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Well, a couple of things here, number one. At least
it's not mosquitos. Those will come to number two.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
But I've bought these little like mosquito things and hopefully
that works.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Well, let's see, but those are worse.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Those kids in my they get somehow mosquitos know what
time I'm going to bed and they are waiting for me.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
To tuck me in.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
This there was one in my room last night.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Number two, Wait till you get all the ants coming
out of the counter.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
In the wall.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Oh, we've dealt with that already.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
When it gets hot. I mean I live in an
ant farm.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Yeah, we've dealt with that. It's so crazy kind of
just discovering.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
How well it's the heat heat brings out. I mean,
there are so many ants marching coming out of walls,
cracked everywhere when heat comes out. But if you are
a solutions oriented person in the department of Fly, please
call us because or reach out to somehow Sisney would
love exactly to get a solution on that. Well, it's
(08:10):
gonna be a hot one. It's gonna be a warm
one today. It's gonna be a hot summer probably, so
get ready for it. Let's see the morning hack. So
I think, you know, these things are maybe random, but
I think applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
That's a hard one.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Is it applicable?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
No, it's applica applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Actually, whatever came out is what it is, because that's
a hard one for me to get out.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Applicable, applicable, applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Mark you and a wan. I believe both are acceptable.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
But the first one listed on Google is applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
And what did I say? That's that's what you said? Yes, applicable.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
I can't remember. I can't barely say it. I'm so
nervous when I say it. I can't hear myself say it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I say words like that, compartmentalize.
Speaker 9 (08:54):
Come.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Do you ever have to give a speech or you
have a presentation. You know there's a word in there
that you you're definitely gonna fumble. And all you can
do is see it coming.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
And I try and just change those words.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Try once it's in the teleprompter, might be too late,
all right.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
So anyway, there's a freezer expert on Instagram. This freezer
experts very famous, got a lot of great tips on
freezing food. The goal of wasting less, right, that's what
that's a premise. So these are three foods you probably
didn't know you could freeze, and three you should definitely
not freeze eggs, freeze potato chips, and freeze cooked pasta.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
It's all good stuff to freeze.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Do not freeze hard boiled eggs, Tanya all the time.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Freeze the egg it's like already like whisking it and
having egga ready, like so you can make little egg bites.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Right, the exactly crack whist and frozen. Yes, hardboll don't salad.
Don't freeze your salad.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
And you think you'd want to because it goes so
bad so fast now, and I would.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I could see that.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
A lot of freeze. This is a big headline, do
not freeze take out food. I I can't tell you why,
but there's something in there you dont want to freeze.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
Apparently, maybe like the plastic that they send it home.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
I think it's things that are inside the takeout food.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
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be treated right, So takes.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Fine, I'll handle it.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
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Speaker 2 (11:06):
All right, let's grab this call here online eleven. Good morning,
Good morning. My name is Ryan. Who am I speaking with.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
A concerned listener?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous anonymous. I
did think that went through. I didn't think how to
spell anonymous for the secondfore I called you.
Speaker 7 (11:44):
I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.
I listened to it every morning and just you guys
are great. But the other day on the hack about
the sequence order of the birth and all that and
how you know this is a perfect match and this
isn't for your order effects?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
You should well they say science, not Ryan, science are
your birth order effects? Who you should marry? And let
me just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to
marry a last born. If you're a middle child, you
have to marry a last born, And if you're a
last born, you have to marry a firstborn.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
What do you disagree with everything?
Speaker 7 (12:24):
My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the
last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,
I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen
years strong.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Let's look at the common denominator who was in both
relationships here?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
You can't blame me?
Speaker 5 (12:46):
Are you sure that you're both the firstborn positive?
Speaker 11 (12:51):
And I know I'm not the problem because he chooses
on me the first one.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Well, look, I think any scientists would say there's always
that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls
when it comes to the elections, and they always have
that little margin of error.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Right, you're inside the margin of error. Or I appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong, is he
an only child?
Speaker 7 (13:16):
No?
Speaker 5 (13:17):
Oh, the first place.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I
love that, And so everything is going on.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
Cold have said he was the youngest too, exactly. I know.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
I have a question for you, no question for you.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
How long how long between when you left or divorced
or he you know, went away your first husband until
you got married? Like, how much time in between twelve years?
Twelve years between marriage? Did you ever think you get
married again?
Speaker 2 (13:50):
No?
Speaker 7 (13:51):
I met my current husband and we became best friends, and.
Speaker 11 (13:56):
Then we started dating, and then two years after we dated,
he got engaged.
Speaker 7 (14:02):
In two years after that we got married.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Wow. Well, congratulations. I love it.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
And if you were to look back, I mean, now
you sit with the luxury of having seen your past
and knowing that it works out. But I'm sure along
the way you thought, why did I even get married
in the first place? This was a bad idea, And
now you have the perfect, most beautiful marriage of seventeen
years and that's.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Just the beginning, right yeait? Correct?
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Okay, So in most cases, if you're a firstborn, marya last,
if you're a middle child, married a last, if you're
a last Maria first, but not in every.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?
Speaker 7 (14:43):
He is, mister Anonymous.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Yeah, you're the best. Thank you for listening to us
in Palmdale. Continued success in your marriage. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Bye. I thought I might get her with that one.
Let's get to it.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
So the husband's eating challenge, boy friends eating challenges on TikTok,
isn't he It's.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
All over TikTok, and so it's basically the fact that.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Men eat way faster than women usually. So what you're
supposed to do is get your plates. Let's say it's
like this, do you probably be better if you have
the same exact meals, maybe like burritos or a cheeseburger
or something like that, and you sit down like I
just know that in my household, Michael can take down
his plate second's thirds all before I'm even barely even
(15:28):
denting my plate. So you're supposed to go bite for
bite as soon as they take a bite you take
a bite.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
As soon as they take another bite, You take a
bite and you keep going.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
But these videos are hysterical because you just see how
much faster guys eat and then swallow, and then eat
and swallow.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
It's just, yeah, we kind of don't look up at times.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
I'm the curve. I'm a very fast eater.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I read things that say slow down, it's better for
your digestion, you won't eat as much. My dad eats,
So you have to understand something. Usually I just want
to I want to enjoy it. But the sooner we finished,
the more time in life there is.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
Oh my god, my gosh.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
And so when I with my family, my father, he's
very slow. I mean, we are done, and we're yawning
or nodding with our heads and he's still taking his
fork through his scampy.
Speaker 5 (16:17):
But it's not about that. It's not about shoveling food
down so you can leave. It's about enjoying your meal
and sitting there and having conversation versations.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Who's a happier foodie than I?
Speaker 3 (16:27):
No, no one here, no one enjoys food more than I.
Speaker 5 (16:31):
But it's not about the food. It's about the experience.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
This is the difference. This is the debate. Guys just
like eat it super fast.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Like Michael won't even clean his hands in the middle
of like, you know, I will like take bye and
if I get like my hands or Y'll clean them
and then start again.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
What a process.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
See, he doesn't even use a napkins.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Sometimes they stand up and he like very any days
during the week where I get home and I just
stand in the kitchen and I eat something out of
the fridge and I'm done, and then I put together
you know, my my treat, my bowl of berries and
almond butter and milk.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Yeah, those days are over family dinner. Every day.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
You're sort of red flags written down somewhere when it
comes to meeting somebody. You're on Kiss FM this morning,
it's Wednesday. Just curious, do you have like your most
important things to think about that are red flags for yourself?
Maybe there's two, three, four, but these are your your
red flags?
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Sure, I mean they're just in my head. I'm written
down anywhere.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
Well, Timothy's on the line.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
I bring that up because Timothy is telling us, and
thank you for listening. Timothy in Hollywood, he's telling us
and he met the perfect guy but there's a huge
red flag. What is that red flag?
Speaker 8 (17:43):
So yeah, like I met this great guy on Hinge.
You know, he's super hot, we have great charisma. You know,
my friends loved him. It's all it's all the green flags.
But last week, when I sat down and I was like, okay,
you know, like I really like you, let's make this official,
he came clean and basically told me he's in a
(18:06):
terrible financial situation, like he's he's a hair away from
filing for bankruptcy. His credit score is like four hundred,
and he's getting called from the credit people all the time.
And now I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
What to do.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
So Timothy, I appreciate your transparency and honesty in this one.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Why does it bother you?
Speaker 8 (18:29):
I was hoping that I could expect more from the
from my partner.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Yea, because you're seeing a future.
Speaker 4 (18:35):
You're seeing like a future with this person, and then
they have creditors calling them every day.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
That's kind of not the future someone would want.
Speaker 8 (18:44):
Yeah, right, what's your financial situation?
Speaker 2 (18:49):
Are you in good credit?
Speaker 8 (18:50):
I My credit's okay, Like I have a job at least,
like I'm working, you know, I'm working towards something.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
So Can I just go ahead.
Speaker 5 (19:00):
I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. If somebody's
in debt, I think it's their their attitude about it.
Like if he's chill and just kind of it is
what it is, or if he has a game plan
and an action plan, and I feel like it's his
attitude about it.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
He's Timothy. Let me just tell you.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Can I just be direct here and what I think? Yeah,
you're contradicting yourself. You're creating your own turmoil here. You're
saying he's the perfect guy, but he's not. So you're
trying to trick yourself into this guy being the perfect guy.
He's not the perfect guy. It's a red flag for you.
It's a problem for you. You're not comfortable with it.
He's not the perfect guy, So get off that Moniker.
Speaker 8 (19:41):
But it feels like everything's perfect except for this Timothy.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Perfect is perfect. It's not perfect except everything else.
Speaker 5 (19:49):
Well, it's temporary. You can get out of debt.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
Yeah, I don't know, Timney. It seems if you tear
a red flag at your red flag, like the fact
that he has calling him, it's already gotten out of hand.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
I'm trying to simplify this for you, Timothy. Okay, good luck,
Thank you.
Speaker 8 (20:07):
Ryan.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
I mean he's not.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
He's not the guy for him if he's got that
much in his head about it. Yeah, I mean, and
why try and work it out? Like, why try and
change things in people you can't.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
It's not changed. When I got I had huge debt
when I finished college. I had to pay off over time.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
But that's not the it's I'm not talking about change
the other guy changing his dad. I'm talking about Timothy
changing his way. He's not gonna change. This bothers him.
If it doesn't get fixed, it's going to be an issue.
The guy may change, the guy may not change, but
Timothy's not changing. Tanya, I am on it with this guy.
I fully focused on unofficial therapy here anybody else back room?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
I understand I like it.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
Yep, I love therapy. Official therapy.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Yeah, well this is unofficial and it's free. What do
you want?
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Yeah, I'll take the free uh and.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Tell you we have a couple of things we wanted
you to take the therapy for us and give us feedback.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
Okay, we'll just we'll.
Speaker 4 (21:07):
Draft up that's in every session. We have a question
that we want you to ask.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
One more thing, on more thing before I go.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
This is for the group, all right, So mckaye in
the back room, she's on hand, she gets a guy interested,
he's he's like, you know, way into it, and uh
he asks her out And now she's like, is this
a red flag?
Speaker 2 (21:26):
He's asked me to do? This?
Speaker 3 (21:27):
Is is this something I should do? And is this
worth my time? What do he ask you to do?
Speaker 12 (21:30):
So his profile in general just said he was only
looking for a wedding date, and so when he matched
with me, that's what he had said. But like, we
kind of have some of the similar interests. He likes music,
he likes to travel. I'm like, it could be kind
of fun. But I'm like, isn't that a red flag?
And maybe is it weird? Like daring to meet his family?
Speaker 9 (21:48):
All right?
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Hold on, let me go back to similar things in common.
Everybody likes music, everybody likes to travel. We need more
specific like, no one doesn't like music, no one doesn't
like the travel. So what what else? Was there anything
detail in that?
Speaker 1 (22:02):
He did not have a lot?
Speaker 5 (22:03):
He works in finance.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
You love?
Speaker 12 (22:06):
That was kind of really it?
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Where where would this be?
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Agan?
Speaker 1 (22:12):
At a wedding.
Speaker 4 (22:13):
He didn't say where, he didn't say weary, but he's like,
I haven't responding ye his wedding dates.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
Maybe he has a lot of weddings this summer.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
Weddings are personal and I'm not comfortable enough at a
wedding with the stranger.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I just think too.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
I mean, I think it's kind of clever that he
asked you to do that, because it shows a little
bit of courage. But if it were me with all
these people he knows as a newbie with no context
for him, I don't even.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Know what kind of music he likes or where he
likes to travel.
Speaker 4 (22:42):
Just know he likes the category right well, and Michaelukston
have to do all the heavy lifting. You're the one
gonna have to like talk to all the strangers and
family that you don't know and or not you.
Speaker 5 (22:51):
Can just like have fun, drink at the bar and
dance all night.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
No what, it's not fun by yourself. You don't know anyone. No,
this is a this is a this is a scrub
or wash or delete? What do you call me on
his date before him? Okay, yeah, hey, I'd love to
meet not at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Okay, but hey, get some traction on him. Huh yeah
that reset.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
Yeah, resets the algorithm.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Yeah yeah, all.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Right, well let us know how that goes. If you ask,
you have to do something else. And please, I want
to know what kind of music he likes him? Does
he like to go to barstoo?
Speaker 2 (23:22):
Where does he go?
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Okay, I'll find this out.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
I just travel.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
What if you went out with him before the wedding
a few times? Did that change things?
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Should I say that too?
Speaker 12 (23:29):
Or no?
Speaker 2 (23:29):
I'd love to get to know you before going to
a wedding with you.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
I think it's just like a clever, cheeky thing that
he's doing.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
So maybe you say that's cute, but let's like, I'd
rather give.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Him a test run.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
Okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Good? Why this is momentum and we like it.
Speaker 5 (23:50):
Motion creates motion and.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
If you have any news before Friday, we'd love to
put it in the show. Mark's telling me.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
All right, I'll let you guys know.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 3 (23:58):
Back room, always full of reason, drama.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
That was ruby that was called that I know their
last by heart?
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Exactly?
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Whose is this? Who's is this? Whose is this? Oh boy,
that's fine that's me right, There is that Taylor. Now
(24:39):
it's Ginger Chan. Jeremiah is on the line. Let me
grab Jeremiah Long Jeremiah, good morning, you're on kiss.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
How you doing and how can we help you?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
I guess more importantly, I got a question for your problem.
Speaker 9 (24:56):
How soon is too soon to ask someone out after breakup?
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Well? How long you been breaking up?
Speaker 9 (25:04):
Well there's this girl I've had a thing for and
we've just been friends, and she got out of her
relationship and she was in one for three years, and
she looks like she's having a time of it. I've
always been interested in her. I don't want to be
a rebound guy, but I also don't want to hold on.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
She's getting out of the relationship or you're getting out
of relationship.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Only her, only her? I got I mean you have
no issues, Like maybe.
Speaker 4 (25:34):
She has to make sure that she's over her ex.
You don't have to Yeah, is she over her ex?
Do you know?
Speaker 9 (25:44):
I'm not really sure. I mean, she's going through it.
She's having a tough time after the breakup.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
So why do you know her?
Speaker 3 (25:49):
Why don't you sort of play the role of friend
here for a minute and get to know the situation.
Maybe you'll learn something about, you know, how she's feeling,
how she's on, how she might look at the fact
that you guys would go out romantically.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
I think you can definitely get some intel here.
Speaker 4 (26:05):
You can say things like if you were my girlfriend,
I would have never treated you this way.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Okay, that's a little forward.
Speaker 5 (26:11):
It's a little forward.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I would cringe.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Put it in like slowly.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
I'd say give it a month after month, green light.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
To a better way of saying.
Speaker 3 (26:19):
What Sistney's saying is why would anyone treat you like that?
Why would anyone know you said if you were you
were to me?
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Is like, okay, maybe that's too for some.
Speaker 4 (26:30):
Like advertise yourself, like make paint yourself in a good
light so that she sees you and then she starts
thinking like wow, maybe I should date you.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Or you can be like the.
Speaker 13 (26:45):
Word out of her mouth now, or you could be
like maybe ask her to help you update your dating
app profile and just be like, I just want to
meet a girl that's kind.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Love getting charaded like I don't like this.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
So you could say, look, it's not fun dating out there.
Speaker 4 (27:01):
Boom, Yeah, what if we just tried what if you
were my girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
Girl friend feels much?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
I get it, Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 9 (27:15):
I thought I was just going to ask her out
to do something before I I dropped the girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yeah, well, Jeremy, you have better advice for yourselfing we.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Do that, yeah, friends, and then it'll just evolve.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
And good luck to you.
Speaker 9 (27:28):
All right, thank you, good luck.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Tony won't come down from that level for three hours. Now,
well done?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
All right? Is it about? Thank you for holding during
that song?
Speaker 6 (27:36):
Now?
Speaker 3 (27:37):
I want to get to you before I pay a bill.
That's next thing I'm gonna do. Have you sent me
a bill?
Speaker 8 (27:40):
By the way, No, I haven't sent you a belt?
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Which bill? When I say bill, which bill? Like makes
you feel upset? Stomach?
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Uh?
Speaker 12 (27:50):
Oh?
Speaker 14 (27:51):
My car payments really high.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
Let's go.
Speaker 9 (27:54):
Let's go to say my lea, hey.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
My lease, give me give me the details after we
hang up here. But right now you're calling about your boss.
So this is a team building exercise. We team build here,
don't wesist any We got to Disneyland and team build.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
We went on a tour to team build.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
I love company.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
What's your company making you do? Yeah?
Speaker 14 (28:21):
I was sorry to talk over you since neely. Yeah,
that sounds way better than my company. My company is
having these ridiculous team bonding exercises that sometimes go to
like ten o'clock at nights, like silly things sometimes like
passing the eggs and like these relay races. And then
we did a ropes course, so I can kind of see,
(28:42):
you know how that's team building, and like we did
do aek weekend retreat. But the thing is, you guys,
this is not happening all the time during business hours.
Sometimes it's happening, like I said, late till like sometimes
ten o'clock at night, sometimes on the weekends, and we're
not getting compensated.
Speaker 8 (29:00):
It's extra for those hours.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yeah, I'm not so into it.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
Yeah, to be honest with you, anything until ten o'clock
at night pass And if you're going to take up
our weekends, like okay, maybe one thing at ten o'clock
till noon, be done by noon so you can be
with your family. But it's kind of not team building
when you are making it like is it mandatory you
(29:25):
go do it?
Speaker 14 (29:27):
So it's pretty much mandatory in the sense that I
know some of the other employees feel the way I feel,
But I think we all are afraid to say something
and like stand up for ourselves because we feel like
there are other people on the team who would immediately
like hold that against us, use that against us, and
try to like get ahead and get promotions over us,
(29:50):
like if we complain the wait. It's one of those
things where they say is optional, but it's also so competitive.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
No, that's like when I was playing football, Go ahead, react,
I played football. Say when I was playing football growing up,
it was optional to do the morning workout at five
thirty am before class. Optional, but of course if you
didn't show up, they they would not play you.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
You didn't want to be the one, Well, they.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Just would bench you. It's optional because it can't make
you do.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
It, right, right, right, they technically made you do.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
It, Isabelle.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
I think that it is just a little over the top.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
So what do we do about it?
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Can you get the group together and make a complaint, Yeah,
you guys have do unite, make a complaint.
Speaker 8 (30:39):
Yeah it's ourselves.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Well, just get.
Speaker 3 (30:42):
Together and say way we're into like's fine. We do
this once every once in a while, but it's getting
in the way of our life.
Speaker 8 (30:50):
Yeah, I've got kids.
Speaker 14 (30:51):
Most of the people on the teams have kids and
other activities and things they do. It's like, how can
we have a healthy work life balance at four team
building all night long?
Speaker 3 (30:59):
I wish quick quick team building or she says, you
can do cut down some time, forget the weekends and
the late nights.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Tony stand up. There we go, trust fall just fall.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Back, okay, rights.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Fault and there you go. I caught you right, so
you trust me? There we go. Team building done is
about That's all you got to do with the group.
Speaker 8 (31:18):
I love efficient team building and go. I love it
and I literally love you so much. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 14 (31:25):
All right always?
Speaker 2 (31:27):
All right, Mark, come here, let's come here just for love. Okay.
Speaker 4 (31:32):
I think it also depends on your age, like you're saying,
like we're all married, we have kids, this and that.
Like when I first started a kiss, I was in
my early twenties and we would pull late nights making
videos and all this stuff, and I loved it just
because I have anybody.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
To go home to, exactly. But she's got things to do,
all right, Mark, fall back, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (31:51):
We have to make a noise. That's weird. Well, it's rady.
I was trying to you don't have just just let
it happen. Just let it happen. Sure, uh see, trust
right there?
Speaker 5 (32:00):
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
I don't want to be caught by anybody, so I'll
be the catcher. Want anybody else want to be caught?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Can catch you?
Speaker 2 (32:09):
Yeah, we can catch you. I don't want to come
over there. He doesn't trust those I do trust you.
But we made the point.
Speaker 5 (32:16):
Wow, maybe we need some more team bonding.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yeah, what are you doing tomorrow night at ten pm?
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Let's go?
Speaker 2 (32:22):
So who hear dreams a lot? Do you? Sister? Do
you remember your dreams? Do you think you dream often?
Speaker 4 (32:27):
We do all dream often. We all dream every single night.
It's whether or not remember. I don't remember them as
much as I would like.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
I think I definitely have more dreams of like being
stuck or pulling myself out of a sleep, you know
what I mean, like running and not moving. I have
more of that one than I do beautiful dreams.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
I think. I think that's someone who stands out.
Speaker 4 (32:50):
I feel like the ones I remember are my beautiful ones,
like I love. There's like there's like, oh, when I
was pregnant, I dreamt way more pleasant than I do now.
Speaker 5 (32:58):
But that's so good because your dreams are your subconscious
talking to you.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
I loved going to sleep when I was pregnant, Like
my dreams were like a whole other world.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
That's so interesting because I never want to go to
sleep because I know the next day is coming so fast,
like so I do. But it's like you don't want
to go to sleep because like, oh, as soon as
you go to sleep, it's tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
My god.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
It's like to have that decompression, Tony, what do you
dream about most?
Speaker 5 (33:19):
It's interesting. I've been trying to. My therapist tells me
every morning when I wake up, if I to like
write my notes page what I dream about, because it's
all related to your subconscious and like what you're thinking about.
And a lot of times I feel my dreams, I
feel lost, like oh, like I don't know, like I've
either lost like a flipper, like they're weird, but like
I lost a flippers, like yeah, like I was snorkeling,
(33:41):
I was in the water restarved for conk no, I
don't know. I don't know, but I remember like having
one flipper and like I couldn't find the other foots
flipper and like stuff like that, Like, I feel like
lost is kind of the.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
I feel like I try and dial a phone numbers
sometimes and it doesn't send, and it's like I need
an emergency.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
So what's the story here?
Speaker 4 (34:01):
Okay, So the story is these are the most common
recurring dreams for women. And let's just say it's not
all rainbows and butterflies. Okay, They're kind of dark.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
So this is different for men and women.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Yeah, so let's start with the women first.
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Number three, Women are likely to dream about small creatures
like spiders and snakes. This was one of the top
majority of dreams.
Speaker 1 (34:23):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (34:24):
The second most common recurring dream is losing our teeth.
Speaker 5 (34:28):
How weird is that?
Speaker 3 (34:29):
I've never thought about losing my teeth. You've dreamt about that, Tanya?
Speaker 5 (34:32):
Yes, And you know what that means is it means
you feel like you're letting go of you, Like you're
you're not spending enough time on yourself.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (34:40):
You see your teeth like in your hand, are like
are We're like they just.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
Fall out, like they're falling. You can't control it.
Speaker 4 (34:48):
So weird you never once dreamt of losing my teeth.
I've dreamt of creatures and spiders and things like that,
but not of my teeth.
Speaker 5 (34:55):
And that was happening a lot after I got my
puppy because I wasn't sleeping much and I was like
spending all my time on her. That I was like
losing myself, Like I was like not taking care of myself.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Okay, what's number one on the list of top three
dreams that women have.
Speaker 4 (35:08):
The most common recurring dream for women is us being chased?
Speaker 2 (35:12):
That was what I have.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
You're just like us, y'all.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
I'll read the same recurring dream.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
We dream about being chased regularly. But I wonder if
it's because you know, when you.
Speaker 4 (35:23):
Like survey men and women like women like true crime,
and we liked thrillers and psychological TV like at least
I do. I.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
I love watching all that stuff before I go to bed.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
I watch the husband that comes home that kills the wife.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
All that stuff, Dateline, all that stuff.
Speaker 4 (35:38):
So I wonder, I wonder if that adds to the
dreaming of like being chased and my baby.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
But look, there's a massive fascination with that, and I
cannot watch those things either alone in the middle of
the day or at night before I go to sleep
anytime of the day for me if I know, I cannot,
But I do have the number one recurring dream that
you said is on the list, So I don't know
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why you should celebrate that.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
That seems like it's.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Well for normal guys or other guys.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
Normal guys. Who's a normal guy. No, one's a normal guy.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
You're other men.
Speaker 4 (36:14):
They dream about flying, like Bryan Gossling. Sure, they dream
about flying.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
That's not a normal guy. You in fly? Okay, flying.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
They dream about meeting a stranger never, and they.
Speaker 4 (36:27):
Dream about finding money or coming into wealth boring so well,
you know, they're off in La la land getting rich,
chased by spiders.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Chaste and we can't move and my cell phone doesn't
want and our teeth falling out and our teeth out.
Speaker 5 (36:40):
What interesting, right, isn't it funny?
Speaker 4 (36:44):
The guy I look at Michael when he's asleep, I'm like,
he's just so pleasant, Like I left this morning, he's
like flying air place, he's way to red rocks.
Speaker 5 (36:54):
That is such as that's like such a depiction of
the difference between men and women.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
You know, it's really fascinating. Thanks for listening to On
Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe, and we'll
talk to you again tomorrow.
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us on air with a
Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
I'll tell you, as a dog father, it is fantastic
to have great weather to be taking the dogs out,
because it's a disaster when it's.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Speak muddy. I know it's muddy and wet.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Oh, I don't even say it, because I like to.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Let the dogs play in the bed and their little
muddy paws get all over my sheets and then they
touch my pillow and then I think to myself, Okay,
now I'm gonna get its on my cheek when I
fall asleep.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, or worse pink eye, oh yeah, or the sty Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
I don't want.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
No one at the stye.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
But it's just been pleasurable to be like in the
evening with the sun up a little bit later. Right,
sun's up, almost my bedtime, taking the dogs out for
that last party.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Pe or pooh. It's nice. It's actually very nice ceremony.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
More people are well, good morning, good morning, good morning.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
It's gonna beautiful. As I was saying, sunny with highs
around eighty nearly ninety Inland. Uh, how is your evening, Systey?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
It was pleasant?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
You know what Michael made my mom's recipe of albondigas
soup for us last night and surprised the whole family
with it.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
What what's your mom's recipe? Why is it different? I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
I mean it tastes like a albondiga soup, but it's
it's different. I think it's like less oily and it's healthier,
you know, but it just tastes exactly like how she
cooked it when we were kids. So, and it's funny
because whenever we do soup for dinner, it's a struggle
to feed the kids, like a healthy soup, you know,
because they want macaroni and cheese, So we have to
(01:47):
really sit there and like spoon feed them.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
But they'll finish it and then we're done and then
I can get.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Well, you know, they'll go through faces because I remember
when there were faces where I wouldn't eat soup, then
I love soup. They faces I wouldn't eat meat, then
I eat meat. They're just they're they're faceable. I actually
did something I love to do that is go to
the grocery store and buy package things for my dinner.
So I went through, uh, you know, just like buy
a handful of things that make no sense. I got
almond butter, I bought berries, I bought nuts, I bought
(02:12):
like kind of these healthy crackers. I bought some hummus,
and I bought a green soup and that was my dinner.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
That's like snacks.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I know, I like snacks for dinner. Sometimes I'm in
the mood like I just want to stop at the
store and get snacks for dinner.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
I thought you were going to say, like ingredients, Like
I was like, I bought three shallots the other day
and some pinchette that and I was like, I'm going
to maybe make some sort of pasta dish with this eventually,
and I did.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
And mushrooms. I threw mushrooms.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
You made pinchetta. You bought pinchetta Like.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Hey, they was like already like chopped up in package
at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Hey, guys, take a look at the call screen. Brett
is there in Los Angeles. Hey Brett, what's up?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Brother? Thanks for reaching out. How are you hey?
Speaker 6 (02:49):
Doing okay?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
How are you doing well? Just you know, getting it done,
rolling through it.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
So you are calling about your friend who keeps bringing
his wife and baby with him every time you guys
hang out.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, so this is, uh mind you like
a guy's night. Like we've been doing this for a
long time now. And my my buddy, he and his
wife who we all love, like all the guys and
I get along with her really well. But they just
had a baby like eight months ago or something like that.
Speaker 7 (03:19):
And.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
They bring the baby and his wife comes along as well,
so it gets pretty rowdy and like I've got a
young dog, and the baby cries and the puppy cries
and it gets really really hairy. So yeah, I don't know.
We love we love her, like I said, but it
it gets kind of it gets kind of uh crazy,
(03:42):
which made my dog bark, and like I said, it's
just it's just like this like chaotic time when it
was supposed to be like the guy's hanging out, you know.
So yeah, I don't know what would you do in
this situation because we don't want to like we do,
we do love her, and like we do want like
to be friends still and every thing, but like and
we don't want to be rude, but like we don't
(04:04):
want to like not have a guy's night.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
You know, I gotta go to sysany on this one.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Well, you need to maybe just set some ground rules
on the expectations of your evening. So if it's gonna
be a guy's night, you have to call it that,
and you have to tell your buddy, Hey, it's just
the guys tonight.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
If it's a hang at your house.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Then why are you gonna like not have him bring
his wife or he wants to bring the whole family
type of thing.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
That's like that's his crew.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Now can you ask some of the other bros to
bring their significant others? So then maybe like you guys.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Can not what they want though, right, well.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
Maybe then your significant others can hang and play a
game while you guys watch the game.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It's interesting he doesn't read the cues on this, Like
I've done that before.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
Like, uh, Robbie will be doing like a guy's thing,
and he has a wife that I really like, and
so sometimes when they go, they'll go do their thing
and like she and I will play like remy Cubans.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
I think, I say, she and I will play.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Big cakes but pretend cakes.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah, yeah, Brett, I mean, look, I think on this one,
maybe there are some ways for you to nudge it
in the direction you want to go without offending, right.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Or you can be petty and bring your puppy to
their house when they invite you over.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Is that frown upon?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:26):
I think I think yeah, maybe just maybe just like
not delineate, like this is guys night.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I think, so I'll be clear, and then they go, oh,
you know, IM sorry, bro, I was just not I
wasn't thinking are Yeah, I got you. I think there's
a way to handle this so that you don't, you know,
ruffle the feathers of that family too. Thanks for listening
to us, Thanks for calling about that. I feel like
this move was just yesterday that you and Michael and
the family moved into your new place. And now is
this the first warm weather season that you experienced in
(05:52):
the new place?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Yeah, I feel you've lived there for a long time.
Speaker 4 (05:54):
Well, we closed escrow right towards the end of summer.
It was like September fifteenth, and then it just went
straight into the holidays. It was like Halloween and we
got the big twelve foot skeleton and Christmas and so
now here we are in spring, and I'm starting to
realize that we have a fly problem.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Zip it out, like major ill.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Zip it up.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
What do you mean, like zip them up in the bags?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Got it? Fly problem for me is intter of fact.
Someone told me, yes, stay my fly. That was great.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
It happens.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
It happens anyway.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
So these are flies, these are the big flies. They
just get in your face, they.
Speaker 8 (06:26):
Get that food.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
They're not good on my watermelon, They're not good on
my fruits.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
And they're just like hovering in my outdoor patio area.
And I we thought maybe it was because we had
like we used to have, like it was a cover
trash can. So we're like, okay, let's get that out
of the way. That's not doing the trick. And when
we moved in, you know, we have two avocado trees
and one of them had a fly bag thing hanging
from it when we first moved in, and I was like,
(06:50):
oh my god, that thing stings. So I told Michael
to get rid of it, and he did. But there
was a reason why that was probably there. And so
I'm doing all this research and this is almost like
a help to anybody that can call me and help
me with this, because I know that we've had callers
call in like that have all the totto farms, yeah,
or they like they have like horses and stuff in
(07:12):
their back a caddie exactly, Like, how do you get
rid of flies? Because I'm buying this stuff off to Amazon,
and I don't know if it's gonna work.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Well, a couple of things here, number one. At least
it's not mosquitos. Those will come to number two.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
But I've bought these little like mosquito things and hopefully
that works.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Well, let's see, but those are worse.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Those kids in my they get somehow mosquitos know what
time I'm going to bed and they are waiting for me.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
To tuck me in.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
This there was one in my room last night.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Number two, Wait till you get all the ants coming
out of the counter.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
In the wall.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Oh, we've dealt with that already.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
When it gets hot. I mean I live in an
ant farm.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Yeah, we've dealt with that. It's so crazy kind of
just discovering.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
How well it's the heat heat brings out. I mean,
there are so many ants marching coming out of walls,
cracked everywhere when heat comes out. But if you are
a solutions oriented person in the department of Fly, please
call us because or reach out to somehow Sisney would
love exactly to get a solution on that. Well, it's
(08:10):
gonna be a hot one. It's gonna be a warm
one today. It's gonna be a hot summer probably, so
get ready for it. Let's see the morning hack. So
I think, you know, these things are maybe random, but
I think applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
That's a hard one.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Is it applicable?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
No, it's applica applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Actually, whatever came out is what it is, because that's
a hard one for me to get out.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Applicable, applicable, applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Mark you and a wan. I believe both are acceptable.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
But the first one listed on Google is applicable.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
And what did I say? That's that's what you said? Yes, applicable.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
I can't remember. I can't barely say it. I'm so
nervous when I say it. I can't hear myself say it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I say words like that, compartmentalize.
Speaker 9 (08:54):
Come.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Do you ever have to give a speech or you
have a presentation. You know there's a word in there
that you you're definitely gonna fumble. And all you can
do is see it coming.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
And I try and just change those words.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Try once it's in the teleprompter, might be too late,
all right.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
So anyway, there's a freezer expert on Instagram. This freezer
experts very famous, got a lot of great tips on
freezing food. The goal of wasting less, right, that's what
that's a premise. So these are three foods you probably
didn't know you could freeze, and three you should definitely
not freeze eggs, freeze potato chips, and freeze cooked pasta.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
It's all good stuff to freeze.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Do not freeze hard boiled eggs, Tanya all the time.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Freeze the egg it's like already like whisking it and
having egga ready, like so you can make little egg bites.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Right, the exactly crack whist and frozen. Yes, hardboll don't salad.
Don't freeze your salad.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
And you think you'd want to because it goes so
bad so fast now, and I would.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I could see that.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
A lot of freeze. This is a big headline, do
not freeze take out food. I I can't tell you why,
but there's something in there you dont want to freeze.
Speaker 5 (10:02):
Apparently, maybe like the plastic that they send it home.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
I think it's things that are inside the takeout food.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Today's quote stop being okay, with everything you deserve to
be treated right, So takes.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Fine, I'll handle it.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
I'll yeah the headlines well, the La County Board of
Supervisors unanimously approved a motion to speed up the rebuilding
process in Altadena by creating one unified permitting authority within
the Altadena Recovery Center. Santa Monica announced that it will
not host beach volleyball for the twenty twenty eight Olympics
(10:37):
after failing to reach an agreement with Olympic organizers. California
Official sued the Food Bank of Southern California, alleging that
its leaders misused state and federal funds for their own gain,
including home renovations and a tesla.
Speaker 10 (10:53):
And the weekend one of Coachella is this weekend, just
days away. Of course, the ten Freeway features I catching
billboards from Charlie, XCX, post Alone, Jenny Tyler, and many more.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
All right, let's grab this call here online eleven. Good morning,
Good morning. My name is Ryan. Who am I speaking with.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
A concerned listener?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous anonymous. I
did think that went through. I didn't think how to
spell anonymous for the secondfore I called you.
Speaker 7 (11:44):
I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.
I listened to it every morning and just you guys
are great. But the other day on the hack about
the sequence order of the birth and all that and
how you know this is a perfect match and this
isn't for your order effects?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
You should well they say science, not Ryan, science are
your birth order effects? Who you should marry? And let
me just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to
marry a last born. If you're a middle child, you
have to marry a last born, And if you're a
last born, you have to marry a firstborn.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
What do you disagree with everything?
Speaker 7 (12:24):
My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the
last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,
I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen
years strong.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Let's look at the common denominator who was in both
relationships here?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
You can't blame me?
Speaker 5 (12:46):
Are you sure that you're both the firstborn positive?
Speaker 11 (12:51):
And I know I'm not the problem because he chooses
on me the first one.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Well, look, I think any scientists would say there's always
that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls
when it comes to the elections, and they always have
that little margin of error.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Right, you're inside the margin of error. Or I appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong, is he
an only child?
Speaker 7 (13:16):
No?
Speaker 5 (13:17):
Oh, the first place.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I
love that, And so everything is going on.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
Cold have said he was the youngest too, exactly. I know.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
I have a question for you, no question for you.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
How long how long between when you left or divorced
or he you know, went away your first husband until
you got married? Like, how much time in between twelve years?
Twelve years between marriage? Did you ever think you get
married again?
Speaker 2 (13:50):
No?
Speaker 7 (13:51):
I met my current husband and we became best friends, and.
Speaker 11 (13:56):
Then we started dating, and then two years after we dated,
he got engaged.
Speaker 7 (14:02):
In two years after that we got married.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Wow. Well, congratulations. I love it.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
And if you were to look back, I mean, now
you sit with the luxury of having seen your past
and knowing that it works out. But I'm sure along
the way you thought, why did I even get married
in the first place? This was a bad idea, And
now you have the perfect, most beautiful marriage of seventeen
years and that's.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Just the beginning, right yeait? Correct?
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Okay, So in most cases, if you're a firstborn, marya last,
if you're a middle child, married a last, if you're
a last Maria first, but not in every.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?
Speaker 7 (14:43):
He is, mister Anonymous.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Yeah, you're the best. Thank you for listening to us
in Palmdale. Continued success in your marriage. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Bye. I thought I might get her with that one.
Let's get to it.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
So the husband's eating challenge, boy friends eating challenges on TikTok,
isn't he It's.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
All over TikTok, and so it's basically the fact that.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Men eat way faster than women usually. So what you're
supposed to do is get your plates. Let's say it's
like this, do you probably be better if you have
the same exact meals, maybe like burritos or a cheeseburger
or something like that, and you sit down like I
just know that in my household, Michael can take down
his plate second's thirds all before I'm even barely even
(15:28):
denting my plate. So you're supposed to go bite for
bite as soon as they take a bite you take
a bite.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
As soon as they take another bite, You take a
bite and you keep going.
Speaker 4 (15:36):
But these videos are hysterical because you just see how
much faster guys eat and then swallow, and then eat
and swallow.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
It's just, yeah, we kind of don't look up at times.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
I'm the curve. I'm a very fast eater.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I read things that say slow down, it's better for
your digestion, you won't eat as much. My dad eats,
So you have to understand something. Usually I just want
to I want to enjoy it. But the sooner we finished,
the more time in life there is.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
Oh my god, my gosh.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
And so when I with my family, my father, he's
very slow. I mean, we are done, and we're yawning
or nodding with our heads and he's still taking his
fork through his scampy.
Speaker 5 (16:17):
But it's not about that. It's not about shoveling food
down so you can leave. It's about enjoying your meal
and sitting there and having conversation versations.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Who's a happier foodie than I?
Speaker 3 (16:27):
No, no one here, no one enjoys food more than I.
Speaker 5 (16:31):
But it's not about the food. It's about the experience.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
This is the difference. This is the debate. Guys just
like eat it super fast.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Like Michael won't even clean his hands in the middle
of like, you know, I will like take bye and
if I get like my hands or Y'll clean them
and then start again.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
What a process.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
See, he doesn't even use a napkins.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Sometimes they stand up and he like very any days
during the week where I get home and I just
stand in the kitchen and I eat something out of
the fridge and I'm done, and then I put together
you know, my my treat, my bowl of berries and
almond butter and milk.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
Yeah, those days are over family dinner. Every day.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
You're sort of red flags written down somewhere when it
comes to meeting somebody. You're on Kiss FM this morning,
it's Wednesday. Just curious, do you have like your most
important things to think about that are red flags for yourself?
Maybe there's two, three, four, but these are your your
red flags?
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Sure, I mean they're just in my head. I'm written
down anywhere.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
Well, Timothy's on the line.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
I bring that up because Timothy is telling us, and
thank you for listening. Timothy in Hollywood, he's telling us
and he met the perfect guy but there's a huge
red flag. What is that red flag?
Speaker 8 (17:43):
So yeah, like I met this great guy on Hinge.
You know, he's super hot, we have great charisma. You know,
my friends loved him. It's all it's all the green flags.
But last week, when I sat down and I was like, okay,
you know, like I really like you, let's make this official,
he came clean and basically told me he's in a
(18:06):
terrible financial situation, like he's he's a hair away from
filing for bankruptcy. His credit score is like four hundred,
and he's getting called from the credit people all the time.
And now I don't know.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
What to do.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
So Timothy, I appreciate your transparency and honesty in this one.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Why does it bother you?
Speaker 8 (18:29):
I was hoping that I could expect more from the
from my partner.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
Yea, because you're seeing a future.
Speaker 4 (18:35):
You're seeing like a future with this person, and then
they have creditors calling them every day.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
That's kind of not the future someone would want.
Speaker 8 (18:44):
Yeah, right, what's your financial situation?
Speaker 2 (18:49):
Are you in good credit?
Speaker 8 (18:50):
I My credit's okay, Like I have a job at least,
like I'm working, you know, I'm working towards something.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
So Can I just go ahead.
Speaker 5 (19:00):
I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. If somebody's
in debt, I think it's their their attitude about it.
Like if he's chill and just kind of it is
what it is, or if he has a game plan
and an action plan, and I feel like it's his
attitude about it.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
He's Timothy. Let me just tell you.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Can I just be direct here and what I think? Yeah,
you're contradicting yourself. You're creating your own turmoil here. You're
saying he's the perfect guy, but he's not. So you're
trying to trick yourself into this guy being the perfect guy.
He's not the perfect guy. It's a red flag for you.
It's a problem for you. You're not comfortable with it.
He's not the perfect guy, So get off that Moniker.
Speaker 8 (19:41):
But it feels like everything's perfect except for this Timothy.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Perfect is perfect. It's not perfect except everything else.
Speaker 5 (19:49):
Well, it's temporary. You can get out of debt.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
Yeah, I don't know, Timney. It seems if you tear
a red flag at your red flag, like the fact
that he has calling him, it's already gotten out of hand.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
I'm trying to simplify this for you, Timothy. Okay, good luck,
Thank you.
Speaker 8 (20:07):
Ryan.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
I mean he's not.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
He's not the guy for him if he's got that
much in his head about it. Yeah, I mean, and
why try and work it out? Like, why try and
change things in people you can't.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
It's not changed. When I got I had huge debt
when I finished college. I had to pay off over time.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
But that's not the it's I'm not talking about change
the other guy changing his dad. I'm talking about Timothy
changing his way. He's not gonna change. This bothers him.
If it doesn't get fixed, it's going to be an issue.
The guy may change, the guy may not change, but
Timothy's not changing. Tanya, I am on it with this guy.
I fully focused on unofficial therapy here anybody else back room?
Speaker 1 (20:51):
I understand I like it.
Speaker 5 (20:53):
Yep, I love therapy. Official therapy.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Yeah, well this is unofficial and it's free. What do
you want?
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Yeah, I'll take the free uh and.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Tell you we have a couple of things we wanted
you to take the therapy for us and give us feedback.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
Okay, we'll just we'll.
Speaker 4 (21:07):
Draft up that's in every session. We have a question
that we want you to ask.
Speaker 2 (21:11):
One more thing, on more thing before I go.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
This is for the group, all right, So mckaye in
the back room, she's on hand, she gets a guy interested,
he's he's like, you know, way into it, and uh
he asks her out And now she's like, is this
a red flag?
Speaker 2 (21:26):
He's asked me to do? This?
Speaker 3 (21:27):
Is is this something I should do? And is this
worth my time? What do he ask you to do?
Speaker 12 (21:30):
So his profile in general just said he was only
looking for a wedding date, and so when he matched
with me, that's what he had said. But like, we
kind of have some of the similar interests. He likes music,
he likes to travel. I'm like, it could be kind
of fun. But I'm like, isn't that a red flag?
And maybe is it weird? Like daring to meet his family?
Speaker 9 (21:48):
All right?
Speaker 3 (21:48):
Hold on, let me go back to similar things in common.
Everybody likes music, everybody likes to travel. We need more
specific like, no one doesn't like music, no one doesn't
like the travel. So what what else? Was there anything
detail in that?
Speaker 1 (22:02):
He did not have a lot?
Speaker 5 (22:03):
He works in finance.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
You love?
Speaker 12 (22:06):
That was kind of really it?
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Where where would this be?
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Agan?
Speaker 1 (22:12):
At a wedding.
Speaker 4 (22:13):
He didn't say where, he didn't say weary, but he's like,
I haven't responding ye his wedding dates.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
Maybe he has a lot of weddings this summer.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
Weddings are personal and I'm not comfortable enough at a
wedding with the stranger.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I just think too.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
I mean, I think it's kind of clever that he
asked you to do that, because it shows a little
bit of courage. But if it were me with all
these people he knows as a newbie with no context
for him, I don't even.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Know what kind of music he likes or where he
likes to travel.
Speaker 4 (22:42):
Just know he likes the category right well, and Michaelukston
have to do all the heavy lifting. You're the one
gonna have to like talk to all the strangers and
family that you don't know and or not you.
Speaker 5 (22:51):
Can just like have fun, drink at the bar and
dance all night.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
No what, it's not fun by yourself. You don't know anyone. No,
this is a this is a this is a scrub
or wash or delete? What do you call me on
his date before him? Okay, yeah, hey, I'd love to
meet not at the wedding.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Okay, but hey, get some traction on him. Huh yeah
that reset.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
Yeah, resets the algorithm.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
Yeah yeah, all.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Right, well let us know how that goes. If you ask,
you have to do something else. And please, I want
to know what kind of music he likes him? Does
he like to go to barstoo?
Speaker 2 (23:22):
Where does he go?
Speaker 1 (23:23):
Okay, I'll find this out.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
I just travel.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
What if you went out with him before the wedding
a few times? Did that change things?
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Should I say that too?
Speaker 12 (23:29):
Or no?
Speaker 2 (23:29):
I'd love to get to know you before going to
a wedding with you.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
I think it's just like a clever, cheeky thing that
he's doing.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
So maybe you say that's cute, but let's like, I'd
rather give.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
Him a test run.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
Okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Good? Why this is momentum and we like it.
Speaker 5 (23:50):
Motion creates motion and.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
If you have any news before Friday, we'd love to
put it in the show. Mark's telling me.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
All right, I'll let you guys know.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 3 (23:58):
Back room, always full of reason, drama.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
That was ruby that was called that I know their
last by heart?
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Exactly?
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Whose is this? Who's is this? Whose is this? Oh boy,
that's fine that's me right, There is that Taylor. Now
(24:39):
it's Ginger Chan. Jeremiah is on the line. Let me
grab Jeremiah Long Jeremiah, good morning, you're on kiss.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
How you doing and how can we help you?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
I guess more importantly, I got a question for your problem.
Speaker 9 (24:56):
How soon is too soon to ask someone out after breakup?
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Well? How long you been breaking up?
Speaker 9 (25:04):
Well there's this girl I've had a thing for and
we've just been friends, and she got out of her
relationship and she was in one for three years, and
she looks like she's having a time of it. I've
always been interested in her. I don't want to be
a rebound guy, but I also don't want to hold on.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
She's getting out of the relationship or you're getting out
of relationship.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Only her, only her? I got I mean you have
no issues, Like maybe.
Speaker 4 (25:34):
She has to make sure that she's over her ex.
You don't have to Yeah, is she over her ex?
Do you know?
Speaker 9 (25:44):
I'm not really sure. I mean, she's going through it.
She's having a tough time after the breakup.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
So why do you know her?
Speaker 3 (25:49):
Why don't you sort of play the role of friend
here for a minute and get to know the situation.
Maybe you'll learn something about, you know, how she's feeling,
how she's on, how she might look at the fact
that you guys would go out romantically.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
I think you can definitely get some intel here.
Speaker 4 (26:05):
You can say things like if you were my girlfriend,
I would have never treated you this way.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Okay, that's a little forward.
Speaker 5 (26:11):
It's a little forward.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I would cringe.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Put it in like slowly.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
I'd say give it a month after month, green light.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
To a better way of saying.
Speaker 3 (26:19):
What Sistney's saying is why would anyone treat you like that?
Why would anyone know you said if you were you
were to me?
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Is like, okay, maybe that's too for some.
Speaker 4 (26:30):
Like advertise yourself, like make paint yourself in a good
light so that she sees you and then she starts
thinking like wow, maybe I should date you.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Or you can be like the.
Speaker 13 (26:45):
Word out of her mouth now, or you could be
like maybe ask her to help you update your dating
app profile and just be like, I just want to
meet a girl that's kind.
Speaker 1 (26:56):
Love getting charaded like I don't like this.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
So you could say, look, it's not fun dating out there.
Speaker 4 (27:01):
Boom, Yeah, what if we just tried what if you
were my girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (27:09):
Girl friend feels much?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
I get it, Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 9 (27:15):
I thought I was just going to ask her out
to do something before I I dropped the girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yeah, well, Jeremy, you have better advice for yourselfing we.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Do that, yeah, friends, and then it'll just evolve.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
And good luck to you.
Speaker 9 (27:28):
All right, thank you, good luck.
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Tony won't come down from that level for three hours. Now,
well done?
Speaker 2 (27:34):
All right? Is it about? Thank you for holding during
that song?
Speaker 6 (27:36):
Now?
Speaker 3 (27:37):
I want to get to you before I pay a bill.
That's next thing I'm gonna do. Have you sent me
a bill?
Speaker 8 (27:40):
By the way, No, I haven't sent you a belt?
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Which bill? When I say bill, which bill? Like makes
you feel upset? Stomach?
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Uh?
Speaker 12 (27:50):
Oh?
Speaker 14 (27:51):
My car payments really high.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
Let's go.
Speaker 9 (27:54):
Let's go to say my lea, hey.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
My lease, give me give me the details after we
hang up here. But right now you're calling about your boss.
So this is a team building exercise. We team build here,
don't wesist any We got to Disneyland and team build.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
We went on a tour to team build.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
I love company.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
What's your company making you do? Yeah?
Speaker 14 (28:21):
I was sorry to talk over you since neely. Yeah,
that sounds way better than my company. My company is
having these ridiculous team bonding exercises that sometimes go to
like ten o'clock at nights, like silly things sometimes like
passing the eggs and like these relay races. And then
we did a ropes course, so I can kind of see,
(28:42):
you know how that's team building, and like we did
do aek weekend retreat. But the thing is, you guys,
this is not happening all the time during business hours.
Sometimes it's happening, like I said, late till like sometimes
ten o'clock at night, sometimes on the weekends, and we're
not getting compensated.
Speaker 8 (29:00):
It's extra for those hours.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Yeah, I'm not so into it.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
Yeah, to be honest with you, anything until ten o'clock
at night pass And if you're going to take up
our weekends, like okay, maybe one thing at ten o'clock
till noon, be done by noon so you can be
with your family. But it's kind of not team building
when you are making it like is it mandatory you
(29:25):
go do it?
Speaker 14 (29:27):
So it's pretty much mandatory in the sense that I
know some of the other employees feel the way I feel,
But I think we all are afraid to say something
and like stand up for ourselves because we feel like
there are other people on the team who would immediately
like hold that against us, use that against us, and
try to like get ahead and get promotions over us,
(29:50):
like if we complain the wait. It's one of those
things where they say is optional, but it's also so competitive.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
No, that's like when I was playing football, Go ahead, react,
I played football. Say when I was playing football growing up,
it was optional to do the morning workout at five
thirty am before class. Optional, but of course if you
didn't show up, they they would not play you.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
You didn't want to be the one, Well, they.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Just would bench you. It's optional because it can't make
you do.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
It, right, right, right, they technically made you do.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
It, Isabelle.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
I think that it is just a little over the top.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
So what do we do about it?
Speaker 3 (30:32):
Can you get the group together and make a complaint, Yeah,
you guys have do unite, make a complaint.
Speaker 8 (30:39):
Yeah it's ourselves.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Well, just get.
Speaker 3 (30:42):
Together and say way we're into like's fine. We do
this once every once in a while, but it's getting
in the way of our life.
Speaker 8 (30:50):
Yeah, I've got kids.
Speaker 14 (30:51):
Most of the people on the teams have kids and
other activities and things they do. It's like, how can
we have a healthy work life balance at four team
building all night long?
Speaker 3 (30:59):
I wish quick quick team building or she says, you
can do cut down some time, forget the weekends and
the late nights.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Tony stand up. There we go, trust fall just fall.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
Back, okay, rights.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Fault and there you go. I caught you right, so
you trust me? There we go. Team building done is
about That's all you got to do with the group.
Speaker 8 (31:18):
I love efficient team building and go. I love it
and I literally love you so much. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 14 (31:25):
All right always?
Speaker 2 (31:27):
All right, Mark, come here, let's come here just for love. Okay.
Speaker 4 (31:32):
I think it also depends on your age, like you're saying,
like we're all married, we have kids, this and that.
Like when I first started a kiss, I was in
my early twenties and we would pull late nights making
videos and all this stuff, and I loved it just
because I have anybody.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
To go home to, exactly. But she's got things to do,
all right, Mark, fall back, Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (31:51):
We have to make a noise. That's weird. Well, it's rady.
I was trying to you don't have just just let
it happen. Just let it happen. Sure, uh see, trust
right there?
Speaker 5 (32:00):
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
I don't want to be caught by anybody, so I'll
be the catcher. Want anybody else want to be caught?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Can catch you?
Speaker 2 (32:09):
Yeah, we can catch you. I don't want to come
over there. He doesn't trust those I do trust you.
But we made the point.
Speaker 5 (32:16):
Wow, maybe we need some more team bonding.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yeah, what are you doing tomorrow night at ten pm?
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Let's go?
Speaker 2 (32:22):
So who hear dreams a lot? Do you? Sister? Do
you remember your dreams? Do you think you dream often?
Speaker 4 (32:27):
We do all dream often. We all dream every single night.
It's whether or not remember. I don't remember them as
much as I would like.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
I think I definitely have more dreams of like being
stuck or pulling myself out of a sleep, you know
what I mean, like running and not moving. I have
more of that one than I do beautiful dreams.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
I think. I think that's someone who stands out.
Speaker 4 (32:50):
I feel like the ones I remember are my beautiful ones,
like I love. There's like there's like, oh, when I
was pregnant, I dreamt way more pleasant than I do now.
Speaker 5 (32:58):
But that's so good because your dreams are your subconscious
talking to you.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
I loved going to sleep when I was pregnant, Like
my dreams were like a whole other world.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
That's so interesting because I never want to go to
sleep because I know the next day is coming so fast,
like so I do. But it's like you don't want
to go to sleep because like, oh, as soon as
you go to sleep, it's tomorrow.
Speaker 4 (33:15):
My god.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
It's like to have that decompression, Tony, what do you
dream about most?
Speaker 5 (33:19):
It's interesting. I've been trying to. My therapist tells me
every morning when I wake up, if I to like
write my notes page what I dream about, because it's
all related to your subconscious and like what you're thinking about.
And a lot of times I feel my dreams, I
feel lost, like oh, like I don't know, like I've
either lost like a flipper, like they're weird, but like
I lost a flippers, like yeah, like I was snorkeling,
(33:41):
I was in the water restarved for conk no, I
don't know. I don't know, but I remember like having
one flipper and like I couldn't find the other foots
flipper and like stuff like that, Like, I feel like
lost is kind of the.
Speaker 3 (33:53):
I feel like I try and dial a phone numbers
sometimes and it doesn't send, and it's like I need
an emergency.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
So what's the story here?
Speaker 4 (34:01):
Okay, So the story is these are the most common
recurring dreams for women. And let's just say it's not
all rainbows and butterflies. Okay, They're kind of dark.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
So this is different for men and women.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Yeah, so let's start with the women first.
Speaker 4 (34:15):
Number three, Women are likely to dream about small creatures
like spiders and snakes. This was one of the top
majority of dreams.
Speaker 1 (34:23):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (34:24):
The second most common recurring dream is losing our teeth.
Speaker 5 (34:28):
How weird is that?
Speaker 3 (34:29):
I've never thought about losing my teeth. You've dreamt about that, Tanya?
Speaker 5 (34:32):
Yes, And you know what that means is it means
you feel like you're letting go of you, Like you're
you're not spending enough time on yourself.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (34:40):
You see your teeth like in your hand, are like
are We're like they just.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
Fall out, like they're falling. You can't control it.
Speaker 4 (34:48):
So weird you never once dreamt of losing my teeth.
I've dreamt of creatures and spiders and things like that,
but not of my teeth.
Speaker 5 (34:55):
And that was happening a lot after I got my
puppy because I wasn't sleeping much and I was like
spending all my time on her. That I was like
losing myself, Like I was like not taking care of myself.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Okay, what's number one on the list of top three
dreams that women have.
Speaker 4 (35:08):
The most common recurring dream for women is us being chased?
Speaker 2 (35:12):
That was what I have.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
You're just like us, y'all.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
I'll read the same recurring dream.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
We dream about being chased regularly. But I wonder if
it's because you know, when you.
Speaker 4 (35:23):
Like survey men and women like women like true crime,
and we liked thrillers and psychological TV like at least
I do. I.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
I love watching all that stuff before I go to bed.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
I watch the husband that comes home that kills the wife.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
All that stuff, Dateline, all that stuff.
Speaker 4 (35:38):
So I wonder, I wonder if that adds to the
dreaming of like being chased and my baby.
Speaker 3 (35:43):
But look, there's a massive fascination with that, and I
cannot watch those things either alone in the middle of
the day or at night before I go to sleep
anytime of the day for me if I know, I cannot,
But I do have the number one recurring dream that
you said is on the list, So I don't know
(36:04):
why you should celebrate that.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
That seems like it's.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Well for normal guys or other guys.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
Normal guys. Who's a normal guy. No, one's a normal guy.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
You're other men.
Speaker 4 (36:14):
They dream about flying, like Bryan Gossling. Sure, they dream
about flying.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
That's not a normal guy. You in fly? Okay, flying.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
They dream about meeting a stranger never, and they.
Speaker 4 (36:27):
Dream about finding money or coming into wealth boring so well,
you know, they're off in La la land getting rich,
chased by spiders.
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Chaste and we can't move and my cell phone doesn't
want and our teeth falling out and our teeth out.
Speaker 5 (36:40):
What interesting, right, isn't it funny?
Speaker 4 (36:44):
The guy I look at Michael when he's asleep, I'm like,
he's just so pleasant, Like I left this morning, he's
like flying air place, he's way to red rocks.
Speaker 5 (36:54):
That is such as that's like such a depiction of
the difference between men and women.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
You know, it's really fascinating. Thanks for listening to On
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