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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us on air
with Ryan Seacrest. Do you sleep on your back? Isn'
he um? No? I sleep on my side, Tanya, I
sleep on my stomach. Patty on my side. Well, you
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the side sleepers, in the backsleepers, they say get the
best sleep. I sit in my stomach, and they say
it's the worst possible way to contort your body by
sleeping on your stomach. I changed it. I used to
sleep on my stomach and it was so bad for
my back. My characacture would just tell me that it's
so horrible, and then I had to stop. When I
was pregnant, obviously, and I had going back. Well, I tried.
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My doctor said the same thing. I did not have
a pregnancy, but I tried to lay on my back
and I get so upset that I don't fall asleep.
I end up flipping over to my stomach, try to side,
put a pillow under your and everything everything falls asleep. No,
my arms fall asleep. Everything falls asleep. But I'm just
I bring that up because so many people wake up
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not sleeping well. And I got that ring, the or ring.
I have to hook it up. Oh you would I
totally see you with that. What what do you mean
I would I just see totally see you with one
of those? Yeah, I have one. I just said that
you will see me with one. I can't wait to
see the stats. I hope you post them on your
Instagram story, whatever you want. I'll post them wherever you want.
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I'll post them on my space. Um, Tubs, do you
not look up the or ring? No? But I can
figure it out. Okay, yeah, Tubs, I I deleted. I
just want to compliment his uh tex skills. I deleted
somehow What's Up from my homepage on my phone and
I couldn't get back into the app unless I went
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every time through Google to download, to open the app
to read my messages, and good old Tubs, you know,
just when you think he doesn't know everything about tech,
he got what's that back on my home screen? Nice genius, gratefulness. Mhm, Jasmine,
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how are you doing buying yourself? Doing well? Thank you?
So let's get into it. You're having the fourth child,
and you're saying it's not easy that anybody's saying that
having four kids is a liar. Four kids easier is
a liar. Yeah, it's kind of funny. Actually because I
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eat everybody, UM makes it seem like, okay, four children,
it's easy to do this, but it's actually pretty hard.
It's actually for myself. I don't know if um um
speaking with for everybody, but I mean, having four children
it's really hard. Listen, I think having this is probably hard.
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But did you did you plan for four? Um? Actually
I did it, But I'm blessed to have four children.
I have two girls. I have two boys, and they
ranged from eight, seven, three and four. So someone told
me that, right we're talking, and I told Cecity, the
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four kids is easier than three. I mean, Matthew Stafford
Rams quarterbacks got four girls. Seems we're doing fine. Yeah,
I don't know. I just hear the opposite. I hear like,
I have three kids, and everyone says, of you have
if you have four, it's actually easier than three. I
don't know how that would work out, but you're telling me.
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I mean, it's my kids are small, so we all
go well, and it's easier for me right now because
they all go to school, so I have little times
where I have time for myself, but once they come home,
it's like, oh, it's crazy. One every everybody has their
own vookine. Everybody has their own um personality, and everybody
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wants attention or either they just want to be for himself.
Like the oldest one, she's eight, she's more into her
own privacy. Um. She's on her phone to Pa, with
her cousin on the phone with ball blogs and my
other three children packed together, so there's finding who fall
from heads. And in that situation, it's hard to control
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everybody because everybody complains and cries and and you want
to they get older, I'm pretty sure it might get easier,
all right, Right, you have smaller children, it does seem
to get a little hard. It makes sense all the
way around. I think, Look, having kids can be difficult,
whether it's one, whether it's two, three, four. I mean,
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it's just there's always a challenge. So it's really up
to what you want and what happens. But Jasmine with
a Z, thank you so much for calling in this morning.
I got your morning hack. Next, the secret codes you
may hear at the hospital what they mean right now.
If you're sitting in a hospital and you hear doctors
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being paged, you don't think much of it, but they're
paging all the time. Some of those doctors are fake.
They're not real. A secret code to the hospital staff
of the p A announcements are codes. They put doctor
in front of it, but their code words. I'm gonna
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tell you what the codes are. Okay, doctor Strong, paging
doctor Strong. HM. A patient needs physical assistance or restraints,
so any capable staff should report interesting Dr Brown, Doctor Brown,
please report to the are alerts security that a patient
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is violent and threatening A doctor a nurse. Wow, doctor Firestone,
doctor Firestone. It means there's a fire in the hospital,
usually followed by the location. So paging doctor Firestone to
the third floor. I see you. Is that amazing? That
is amazing? Yeah? Right. Do you guys have code words
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in your relationships? Um? No, I just have like my
code word from my alarm system. Do you have safe words?
We don't get that same? I mean, come on, ever,
since what's up do you? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah, I'm uncomfortable.
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I mean just digesting all of it, okay, well digested
and trying to you. Yeah, yeah, whatever you guys think
of damn it all right. Today's quote starting over doesn't
mean starting from scratch. It means starting with experience on
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air with Ryan Seacrest. I gotta get to the headline, Syste,
then we'll start paying some bills again. Good morning, what
do you have well? A sewage spill in Compton has
forced temporary beach closures and Long Beach and in Long
Beach City, health officers are ordering all swimming areas west
of Belmont Pierre temporarily closed for water contact. The closure
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will remain in place until water quality meets state standards.
Vanessa Bryant will be organ recognized as one of the
leading women in sports at an event during Super Bowl Week.
The widow of Kobe Bryant will be honored at the
third annual Sports Power Brunch sell up the most powerful
women in Sports on February eight in Beverly Hills. She's
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going to receive the Be Your Own Champion Award for
the leadership through the Mamba and Mama Seat, the sports
foundation and organizers that found them created a positivity impact
for underserved child athletes in honor of her husband Kobe
and daughter Gianna. Bryant and Washington's NFL team is now
known as the Commander's. The new name comes eighteen months
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criticism that it was offensive to Native Americans and under
fresh pressure from sponsors, Washington joins Major League Baseball's Cleveland
Guardians among North American major professional sports teams abandoning names
linked to Native Americans with Ryan Secrets Soon. Good morning,
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there she is. How are you, Sophia Carson. I'm so good,
so much better after seeing your faces. How are you, guys? Ah, well,
that is the nicest thing anyone has said to us.
That is very nice. Uh, we got to catch up
on so much. We're just talking about when were we
talking about a couple of weeks ago, right when this
loud came out came out? Yeah, we played in and
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talked about it. I heard that and it was so
special what you guys said. You know, we're talking about
just the word which sometimes can be overused, empowerment. I
wish there were more synonyms for that word, right, but
it is. It is a word that everybody gets and
understands and sort of some things up. But what would
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you say the feeling is when when you when you
sing loud, what is that feeling for you? I would
say it feels free, it feels empowered and fearless, is
what I would say. And do you think when we
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met you felt that way? You were singing like that?
Were you when we first a great question? You mean
like in the beginning of my career. In the beginning, yes,
I would like to think that I've always been fearless
and that was something that I learned from my mom
and the role models of women that I had in
my life. But I do think that as time has
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gone by. Sissany said something really beautiful when she described
laws said that it was about finding the volume lever
in your voice and turning it up all the way loud.
And I think that's what I've done throughout the years,
has turned up the volume of my voice. And this
song just feels like the most beautiful culmination of who
I am as a person in my heart and who
I am as an artist, and it makes me so happy,
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and um, I feel so grateful that I get to
share it with the world. I would say in a sis,
I think you touched upon this antonia as well, that
there is one of the most special feelings and artists
could have would be to inspire someone. And I know
that those lyric inspire not only the people you're looking
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at on zoom, but a lot of different people, which
I'm sure you've heard from. Truly, it's the greatest honor
of my career, of my life, and and truly my
my biggest and most beautiful responsibility. It's knowing that there
is one girl in one corner of the world, or
one person in one corner of the world who can
listen to my music and feel moved and inspired in
some way. And this song has done that. And you
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might have seen, but online there's thousands of videos around
the world of girls and and just saying how telling
the world that they were fearlessly made to be loud.
And it's the most beautiful feeling to have been able
to be a part of something like that. Do you
ever go through days where you don't feel like that? Yeah,
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of course I think we all do. We all do.
But it's um about knowing that we have this voice
within us, and that it's not only our duty to
use but it's an honor to be able to have
the platform that we have and be able to use
the voices that we have for good and and to
fearless to use them to make any sort of change
that we can In the world. Now. I know you
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and Tanya are very very close. She brags that she
has your Netflix pass. More so, if you ever see
anything that's resume an episode that's horror. No, I was
just gonna say, because we are. I mean, I see
Sophia behind the scenes all the time, and she really
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does have this sense of loyalty and to the to
her fans, you know, like she really takes out responsibility,
and she does so much for these girls, you know,
And I think it's just a testament to who you
are because you really do have that connection. You do
so much behind the scenes that you don't have to do.
Nobody sees it, but it's because you care so much.
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And so I'm just really happy the song is doing
so well because I know how important it is to you.
Thank you, I Love you lyrics. If I was a man,
then you would understand you and say, I'm causing all
this drama. Are you getting uncomfortable now? I'm a little
too loud for you. Now, don't try to calm me down.
Calms on those words. I can't stand. It is a
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triggering word for me. I was made to be loud.
Too bad. You're living a lie because that don't mean
that we're alive. Don't try to calm me down. I
was made to be loud, strong, powerful, relatable, and you
know it's true. It's also true. Yeah, absolutely, thank you. Yeah,
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there is truly such a double standard for women um
that are loud. Right, I feel like we're in a
much better place to me and Justry right now. But
I remember the beginning of my career when I would
say no to jobs or two songs that worry in
line with who I was as a woman, who I
was in my heart. I was seen as a difficult woman,
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and all of a sudden as time passed, it became
respectable to be a woman who stood for what she
believed in. And I'm so happy that we are where
we are that it's much more okay to be loud.
But there's so much more to go, and it's so
exciting to be a part of the generation of women
like Sis and Tania, who are you know, at the
forefront of history in our industry and just in general
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in the world. And then we're truly using their voices
and making change. Her new song Loud is out now,
Sofia Carson's great to see you. Thank you for coming
on and we'll see you soon. Thank you so much,
love you, I got you bye. But isn't it true
for every human being? If someone tells you to calm down,
you fire up right, Like it's interesting what she said?
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Yeah about how with women like the double standard? It's like,
you're scene is difficult and that's so annoying. But it's
that what that It was like that, or maybe still
is in some places. Yeah, it's hopefully getting better. But
if you were to say no or you were to
do certain things, what if people said that's high maintenance?
I mean why, Like that's so in al thing and demeaning.
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It's time for a whoa Baby? Wednesday questionnaire. It's a
generic questionnaire, but every week the answers are different. So
baby says weeks old, turning six months Febru I know,
half a year. What do you do to celebrate? Nothing?
I mean, we can maybe do a little something for
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her half birthday, but yeah, shout out to remembering the
weeks though that is tough. I wouldn't remember if we
didn't do this questionnaire every week and I just add
a week, I wouldn't either, because it's written in for me,
so I can read it all right, let's start with
this week. She is blank. She is rolling all over
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the place and she just kind of just keeps rolling
and rolling. You have to really keep track of her
unless it's unless if she's in her playpin. Um. But
she's got that stale down pretty well. And um, she
does sit up on her own now, but after a
while lose her balance, so she's not quite there yet.
But right around six months is when baby can sit
in the position for a while, so she's she's right
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on track. What's the best mom moment in the last week, Um,
that I managed to isolate max in as soon as
he developed symptoms and tested positive for COVID, so therefore
the rest of the family did not get it. And
I feel like that was a huge, you know, battle
for Michael and I to do and and we did it,
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and I I definitely bonded with my little guy in
the spare room slash studio for the past week. And
you know, it's amazing, It is amazing that you guys
got through that. Yeah. I introduced new activities every day. UM.
Shout out to Target same day delivery, because I just
a new toy that would come in and we painted dinosaurs,
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and we painted rocks and we just yeah, painted rocks
was something I never got into. They have rock painting
kits like it's a whole thing. Yeah. I mean there
were a lot of kids, but I didn't get into
the rock kid as in Max and how are they doing?
The twins? So yeah, it was tough for them being
separated because I don't think they've ever been apart from
each other for that long. Um. And they are also
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home from school this entire week as well as last
week because of the outbreak that happened at their preschool.
So or just hanging in the then spring break comes.
I don't remind me so realist moment you had in
the last week. Um, the fact that my milk is
officially done, like the all the spare milk that I
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had in the deep freezer in the garage, Um, it has,
it has all been used up, and honestly, I feel
really good about it. My goal was to get her
to six months, so I was just shy of that,
but um, but that was my goal because with the twins,
I didn't have a lot of milks apply for that.
I think we'll all remember where we were when we
heard that your milk is done. Yeah, I know Barry
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is on. Le me get marry Barry. Your brother's proposal
was not well received. Tell me the story. Yeah, Hi, Ryan,
So my brother just got engaged to his girlfriend. Um,
and you know, I'm I've been feeling good about it.
I've I've seen some red flags over the past few years.
The most recent one is that, you know, he moved
up to his own police and he asked her to
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move in with him, and she said no. So I'm
not really sure why proposing Goody thought that was a
good idea, but the actual proposal went went fairly well.
Both her families were there, but in my opinions, so awkward.
She seems so uncomfortable and you know, the body language.
Her hands were in her pockets the whole time, her
feet were facing away for him from him, And I
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don't know, I feel like I should say something to him.
I don't know that overstepping or well that we're in
our relationship. I just should just let it be. What
do you guys think? Wait, you're your brother's proposal was
not well received. But she said yes, she said yes,
but but I feel her body language is saying no,
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you can't. Yeah, this is not not a barriersue. You
can't get involved with that. That is dangerous water. Yeah,
I just, I just I don't know the red flags
over the years, and I I guess I should have
let it be and let him figure it out on
his own. I just look, here's the thing, not your
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problem and not your job to interpret her body language,
which you may be wrong about. That's right, So kinda
gotta go with God on this one. Let go look on. Yeah,
this is this is what I like to call a
no barry zone. Alright, Alright, I just I guess that's
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what I gotta do. Okay, but thanks for calling listen.
I don't we can't really get involved in a situation
like that where we, as an outsider are interpreting some
of the body language. That is just a bad idea. Absolutely,
you don't get involved. No paying your bills? What does
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it mean? What does it mean that we pay your bills?
What it means is you pick one that annoys you
that didn't take long to think of, did it, scan it,
send it to us, do it on our website kiss
FM dot com, keyword bills, and once you send this
that annoying bill, you're all set for us to read
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it with your name on it, and have you called
us back. We do that at ten minutes past every hour.
I would advise, not that I'm good at advice, but
I would advise, if you're hearing this and you're thinking
that sounds good to you, send the bill now. Send
the bill now. There may be an ebb in receiving
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them right now, like maybe some lines open, you know
what I mean. Yeah, so take advantage of the moment.
Now if you're thinking about it. What's an ebb. It's
the opposite of a flow. So like stocked up, there's
a lull, a calm, right, maybe there's a calm in
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this moment, so send it next. Yeah, there's you know,
there's the ebb and flow in life, like you're in
a you're in a flow right now with Robbie and
your boyfriend. But there was an abb moment when you
called me on a Sunday night and said that he
was no longer and I during the day. It was
a Sunday night to me because three pm is nighttime
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to me. Okay, okay, fair, fair, I'm and your ebb
became my ebb, and so we abbed yeah, no, but
we flowed. That was such an I wish I recorded
that conversation because it was so nice. No, because it
was so nice, like you really like took it to
another level that I was not expecting and in the
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nicest way, and it was just it was really really nice.
Like I started bawling on the phone. I'm really emotional. Mhm. No,
you're just transparent and honest, that's all. It's not emotional,
You're just transparent. No. I knew exactly what was going
on because I too have been in that place before
in a Sunday myself. But I couldn't call me be weird, right,
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So I just bottle it all up and hold it
all in. But you you're the antithesis of that because
you let it all out, and that is the movement
of the tide out to the sea, the opposite of
surge and ebb. Anyway, so send us a bill, I
guess I was trying to say, sent us copy of
your bill, Maria. Good morning. How are you doing good?
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How are you? I'm doing well, Marian. Now are you
calling for relationship advice? Yes? I am. The irony and
all of it go ahead, Okay, So I just got
in a new relationship, Like we officially started dating like
somewhere between like late November early December, and we recently
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started talking about like our past relationships. And there was
this girl who was off and on and off with
for like over four years, and so I was like
a little curious, So I went on his Instagram. I
found her, and her and I look the same, like
she's the same hype, same hair, same like fashion, Like
we had like a similar like facial structure. Do you
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think them like the rebounds there? There's a lot to
take in right there. You were saying that because you
resemble this other person, you might be the rebound. I
don't think necessarily that's the case. You know, people, I
think it's a high possibility. But people have types. Yeah,
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you know, types for sure are attracted to similar traits
and characteristics. But it's so annoyed. Mean, I wish it
wasn't that way. I wish that the ex girlfriend just
looked nothing like you, because then you wouldn't sit there
comparing comparing yourself. I've been in your situation before. This
is me, Like, you know, if you can't wish for that,
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and what's the wrong with being the rebound. I feel
like I'm just the best option that looks like her,
because I don't look like any of his other exes.
I only look like that one that he was like
on and off with, like for over four years. I mean,
I don't think. I don't think that the rebound has
to have such a negative connotation. The rebound could mean
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the next person that he falls for. I think I've
been the rebound, the distraction, the best option available at
the time, you know what I mean. It's like what
for each other's rebounds. So it's what you make of it.
And to be a rebound isn't such a bad thing, Okay,
but she's not the rebound just because she looks like
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the girl like you could be an upgrade. Think of
it that way, So that would be an upbound. I
like that term. I'm gonna start saying that to myself.
You have to look through the legs of positivity here.
You're the girlfriend, You're not the ex girlfriend. That's right,
that's right. You're his future, not his past. I just say,
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I look like a lot of tubs his ex girlfriends. Okay,
but I don't think about any pounds. He has a type, right, right,
blonde hair, smooth skin. I have all those traits. Good luck,
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Let it be, don't think too much about it. Be well, okay, Mariam, Yeah,
thank you? All right, bye bye bye. We put these
terms into boxes that make it worse than they are,
and that's our own fault. It's what we do. Right.
By the way, you've talked about having summer flings before, Tanya,
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that sounds like a bad thing. I don't know what, Tanya,
you're looking at. So you've talked about like just having
fun in the summertime in the year's past. Remember all
this It was me. Yeah, I think that was unattached working.
But you know what I mean, Like we put labels
on these things that a summer fling could turn into
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a lifelong journey. That's what mine did. But I thought
it was a summer fling, right, But you were the
rebound in the summer fling. All of it turned into
the greatest marriage. I'm glad, Maria Cans that's right. I
did get the news that the Super Bowl is coming,
and now Michael's is gonna be making the call. It's
gonna be broadcasting the Super Bowl FRINDBC and we are
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having them on Yeah, yeah, I mean the guy's voice
and personality and delivery you associate with the big games
like Joe Buck, Al Michaels, all those guys. I know,
there's a comfort level. Chris Collinsworth, his son Jack worked
here and now works for MNBC Sports, so he's gonna
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be on. And you're taking a deep dive the day
after we learned that Tom Brady is retiring. You're taking
a deep dive now into our l a Rams hisne
what'd you find out? Yeah, so I kind of wanted
to know a little bit more about Cooper Cup. First
of all, his name is so fun to say, and um,
he is the wide receiver for the Rams. Now. He's
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twenty eight years old, six three from Yakima, Washington, And
this is actually his first time playing in the Super Bowl.
So yes, he was part of the team in but
in Week ten of that season he tore his A
c L and he did not play in the big
game that year. So and they ended up losing an
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A c L tour. What a nightmare for anybody, especially
an athlete. Absolutely, I couldn't even imagine, and I believe
the way he tore it was there wasn't even an
impact I think he'd like I just like fell like
he had already been injured earlier that season, but like
was okay and was playing. But then it just whatever
you can do it. It's those little moves sometimes. I
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mean I tore my meniscus walking on a treadmill. Interesting,
wonder how that happens. Just sometimes little moves tweak you
in a way that takes forever to hell. You ever
hurt your back when you sneeze? Not when I sneeze?
All right, keep going. Sometimes I pee though, um, but
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that's from childbirth. I was gonna say, you should. They
are we still talking about Cooper Cup? Okay, let's go
back to Cooper Cup. His wife, Anna Marie. Now, this
love story is one for the books. She's often seen
cheering him on in the stands. They met at a
track meet when they were high school seniors, and on
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the day they met, he said to his mom, Mom,
I'm going to marry that girl. And he ended up
going to Eastern Washington and she went to Arkansas. But
after two years they couldn't be a part anymore. She
ended up transferring and they got married during college during
their sophomore year. He was twenty two and she was
one that never happens to any of us. I know,
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it's so weird, right, Like I want to meet a
track and field event and say to my mom, that's
gonna be my marathon partner. Maybe it's the small town vibe,
like maybe you need to grow up in a small
town for this to happen. I'm done. I can't grow
up again in a small town. And and I'm getting
all right, but this is really cute too. He credits
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his loving wife for being the inspiration for his season
and said that he would not be the player he
is without her. They have two sons, Cooper Jr. Who's three,
and Cyprus, who's one. And this season has been so
incredible for him. He won the NFL's triple Crown, which
me means that he led the NFL in receiving yards,
receptions and receiving touchdowns. And um, anytime you hear him
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like catching the ball and the fans cheering, they're not booing,
they're saying, which is something that I learned, and I
love saying his name. I think we should do a
drinking game for the Super Bowl. So we went through
all that to get to you and have a drinking
game when people what say Coop and maybe when Al
Michaels says Cooper Cup for whatever reason, Cooper Cup on
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the line, Cooper Cup. Right, we can get let's get
the fix on that. We're gonna talk to him and
ask him to say as many time as he possibly can. Oh,
maybe we should neven make a bet as to how
many times he'll say and then we have to keep track.
That might be tough. I'm I'm busy being a delivery
person for Dominoes. Get my three dollars tip? Okay, I'm
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I'm busy doing that. Also, can we come back to
put a pin in the Naming your kid Jr? I'd
like to discuss that put on? What else would you like?
What else can't get you? Well? I'm taking orders? What
else you need? I just think it's an interesting conversation
like the name Naming your kid Junior jor. Okay, Well
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we'll come back to that, all right, So, Patty, how
many more days until you go run your universe? I
don't know? Today is the week? Okay? Now why did
your microphone sound like my mother when she calls me
on her cell phone? Um? Oh, there we go? Is
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that better? Oh my gosh. It's like, well, my mom
face time, you know, my mom will face time me.
And then she holds the phone up to the ceiling. Yeah,
so I'm looking at an old wooden ceiling fan. Usually
it's been around since I was a child. All right,
So Patty, uh February. She it's her last day here.
So we're looking back at some of the Patty moments,
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and there's a lot of moment. You got seventeen years
of five hours a day, there are moments everywhere. Oh yeah,
stick deep. Yesterday, we went back to two thousand and
ten for a clip of her when she was pregnant
with Alexander. Now, this one is from two thousand fifteen
when she tells Ellen and I that she is pregnant
again and she had some predictions about her baby. So
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let's see if these predictions came true. Congratulations baby two.
Oh man? So how did he? How's that? How to happen?
How did it happened? You know, how it happened? Who's
the dad? Who's the dad? What kind of questions? I
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think that's a legitimate question. She's unmarried, but she lives
with Michael. Yes he's a dad. Okay, Actually, the persone
that asked me, all right, that doesn't say good things
about you. If all your friends are your close friends
are asking you who's the dad? I don't know what
that means, Patty. So, so was this an effort? It
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was okay, I mean much of an effort. Oh, it
kind of freaks me out. She's fertile. I think it
wasn't right. So you you you intended to do this,
and that's great. Now what about naming the baby? You
don't know what it is yet? You know, I do know.
I think it's a girl. You think it's a girl.
I think it's a girl. I was right with Alexander
when I said he was a boy. And so you
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don't know. But you think I don't know. But I
know it's a girl. But based on a doctor or
based on Okay, I knew mine was a boy at
three months. You feel it. But I know people who
don't know. No, you know, I met people told me
they didn't know. But in your heart you know that
the woman you know? So it's her name. I have
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her name. I also have her email actress, right, I
have her website for Instagram and agent as well. You
know what else we're going to periscope the birth, So
Patty way wrong on that obviously. Oliver is a boy.
Turned six in December. But what made you think you
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were having a girl. I don't know, my goodness, I
did think I was having a girl all up until
I found out it was going to be a boy.
Do you still have that girl that doesn't it isn't
to be his Instagram? I'm sure I do, and I
still have I I'm still paying for the website. Those
charges just roll on over every year I keep with.
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Oliver is six. Yeah, I mean, I mean to me,
it seems like a long time ago. I know, but
time flies. When you're a mom. The days are really long,
but the years are really really short. Yeah, and you
just want you always want to go back as a mom.
Mm hmm. Yeah. Well it's beautiful. Are you're gonna have
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a girl? No? I'm not. Okay, I wish I could
when there was never maybe a granddaughter one day. I'll
put the pressure on the boys already. Yeah. Connie Seacrest
on air with Ryan Seacrest. Today's two two two two.
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Anyone getting married on Wednesday just for the lucky number.
Anyone just say you know what? Today is a lucky day.
It's midweek. Let's go ahead and do it. I thought
about that. I mean two to two. It's still special
except for the fact that it's a Wednesday and you
got work on a Thursday. Yeah, we go to the courthouse.
I could not most likely marry on a Monday through Thursday.
(35:42):
There's just something in my head that I can do
to think that you can't enjoy it. But if you did,
you do the you would do it for the date,
and if you're doing the destination wedding, it really doesn't matter,
you know, would because the people that would be invited
might not be able to come. Yeah, they would take
the whole week off. Like Paris Hilton. She did eleven
eleven and that ended up happening on at least Do
(36:03):
not compare my wedding to Paris Hilton's wedding with the
Daisy Carnival. Well, yeah, well she did three days of
it because eleven eleven was at her actual wedding day
and then she did the carnival on Friday and then
another ceremony on that Saturday. Not for me, I have
a difficulty celebrating a birthday on a Tuesday, you know,
I just in my brain have been so conditioned to
(36:26):
think differently week days and weekends. Right, So all right,
that brings us to this training report. Tonny, I think
you said the foundation to any strong relationship is best friendship, right, correct? Okay,
go on, So why do people break up and say
(36:46):
that they're better off as friends? So that's kind of
what I want you guys to think about, because the
story really caught my attention. When I see that somebody
a couple have been together for a significant amount of time,
I would say eight years is a significant amount of time,
and then they break up, I kind of always wonder
what happened. So it was announced that Hoda from the
Today Show broke up with her fiance after more than
(37:07):
eight years together. So I took the clickbait, I clicked
the storics. I wanted to see what happened. Uh, they
just recently got engaged. They have two kids together, two daughters.
And this is what she said. She said, we decided
that we're better as friends and parents than we are
as an engaged couple. They say, sometimes relationships are meant
to be there for a reason, for a season or
(37:28):
for a lifetime, and I feel ours was meant to
be there for a season. Okay, so here's my question.
A friendship is the number one foundation. What is it
that's lost? Is it the romance that's lost? Do you
just become like best friends and there's no physical connection?
How do you stop that from happening? Like, I just
(37:49):
have so many questions. I think it varies in all
kinds of different situations. I get when she says some
are for a lifetime, some are for a season, some
are for a reason. Because is you are experiencing something that,
no matter how you see it in the moment, is
to your greatest benefit in the long run. So any
person that comes into your life that you experience a
(38:11):
tightness that closed as a bond too, I think gives
you something. Even if they take something away, they've given
you something, do you know what I mean? You grow
from So even if you feel like you were robbed
of something, you've actually been given something. Correct, And I
do know there are situations where yes, you just you
(38:33):
just you don't find the person after a period of
time romantically attractive as maybe you once did, or you
just don't right, But how do you combat that? Why
do you have to combat it? Well? You don't. I mean,
you don't want to not be attracted to your significant
other forever. Change people do, And like we've talked about
(38:58):
our best friends. I had a best female friend forever forever.
I didn't look at her in any romantic way. Ever,
except for one weekend a few years you know later
and the end of it, Ah, the end, you have
to work at it. You can't in our relationships are hard.
You have to grow with each other. You have to
(39:20):
adapt to and support one another. And as soon as
you don't have that support, you just you start going
separate ways and then you find them less attractive. Does
that scare you, Tanye? Does it frighten you a little bit? Well? No,
I mean it doesn't frighten me because I think every relationship,
everybody is different. But I do find it interesting because
to me, I think that's like the biggest thing, the foundation,
(39:41):
like that friendship. That that It's hard to say because
I find for me, I found my boyfriends so attractive,
so I can't imagine not being attracted to him. But
right but as time goes by, that physical attraction may
wane and foundation, the closeness foundation, they history, foundation would
(40:01):
be maybe the most important thing. Hey, so are we agreeing?
I don't know what to do anymore? When you say right,
When you say right, something, I say, I don't know.
I'm stuck. You don't know how to take it. Look,
I guess we're saying a cake is made with the
flower base, right, Yeah, but you have other other stuff too,
(40:24):
and those ingredients may change over time, The flavors may
change over time. With Ryan Seacrest, we're bringing in right now,
connecting to our zoom. Nigel lithgo, Nigel can you hear me? Yes?
(40:44):
I can? Can you hear me? Yes? How are you? Pal? Yeah?
I'm good? Thank you? You look great. You look like
you've been kissed by Southern California for years. Now. Well
this is this is Barbados rather than Southern California. Oh,
you're down with the Brits there in Barbados. Congratulations to
Rihanna if you see her, yes, indeed, yeah, it must
(41:06):
be big news in Barbados. It is. I mean, she
she's a huge him Barbados. And now she shoots another area.
I mean, the quips don't stop. So let me just
nigelt go from So you think you can dance, but
what you have to understand is that is a lifelong
friend of mine of twenty plus years because Nigel hired me,
(41:31):
hired me, hired two of us, but hired me to
host American Idol. And I was the second person to
get the job, right, you've already found the first. Yeah,
And I remember, you know, the deal was difficult to
do because we were desperate to release the news and
your dad was there running up and down the car
and door speaking with Fox and can we get the
(41:53):
deal done in time? And thank goodness we did. Ryan, Well, yeah,
no kidding, but but he I spent over a decade
or so working closely and he's I don't know if
you were growing up watching those results shows that lingered
and lingered and stretched and stretched and all those after
the breaks that I would say, that's the diabolical brain
(42:16):
of Nigelithgow telling me here, try this and do this.
But we had fun making that that magic. Well I
think that that you know, and and the winner is
we will tell you after the break everybody stole that.
Every every other show that cable on the air started
to do that. Do you remember do you remember when
(42:39):
we would go through those live shows and I was,
you know, all new to me, so it was all
still nerve racking, and we would change things. He would
change the show up until the last minute, and even
during the show, which was also nerve wracking. But do
you remember when we would do some of those moves
and I would look to you for approval in the
commercial break to see if I did it right? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah. Well we had some good times. Now, so
(43:01):
you think you can dance? What's the status? Um? I
believe it's going to come back this year, and no
one has really contacted me yet, but there's rumors that
it's going to come back. Obviously, during the COVID period,
it was really difficult to create a bubble because we
have so many different choreographers coming in and you were
swapping partners. It wasn't as though you were staying with
(43:22):
your one partner. So it's very difficult to do it
during this this terrible sort of pandemic. But hopefully we'll
come into the end of it now, uh and and
it will come back. All right, Nigel, let's go with us. Now,
if you are in Tobs, this is all up in
your wheelhouse since you're a jiu jitsu expert. But if
you're into boxing and m m A and music and
(43:43):
big events, there's something called the triad combat. This is
trying comeback to explain the hybrid combination of what's happening
NIGEA with these events. Sure well, I think you know
we've been seeing more and more mm A fighters coming
out and saying they want to box. So basically, Triller
Fight Club have created triad combat, which is a mixture
(44:06):
of different punches and different things you're allowed to do
with m m A as opposed to boxing. For instance,
in triad combat, you can actually hold your opponent and
punch them. You can do what's called a spinning back
fist where you spin around and hit them, which boxers
aren't you accustomed to, So they're they're waiting for this,
and all of a sudden, this punch comes down the
(44:27):
back and hits them on their head. So there's lots
of little things to try and even the playing field,
and the biggest thing that we've done is to create
this triangular ring because if you get caught in a corner,
you know you're you're in trouble. You're being pounded upon.
And so we put two teams together, a team of
great boxers, I mean ex world heavyweight and light heavyweight
(44:50):
champions against m M A fighters again world champions, and
they have two team captains, which we're you know, you
try and wind people up and say have fun with
this and have a bit of a go. But the
two team captains we had was Shannon Briggs who was
a heavyweight boxing champion of the world against Rampage Jackson
(45:11):
who was a UFC champion. And what starts off as
a little bit of confrontation and we're going to beat
you and boxes are terrible and m M may fighters
at Chickens. That ended up with Rampage Jackson a little
thing clicked in his head and he really punched Shannon
and Nick Cannon and I that were standing there for
TRYAD one had to pull them apart. Now you know me,
(45:35):
I'm a little weakling, you know, and Nick Cannon is
no big strong guy, so us trying to get between
them and all the part These are like six ft five,
six ft seven guys. It was ridiculous, but they're the
team captains and they literally support their teams. So we
now doing tryad too, and TRYAD one we had Metallica
(45:56):
opened the show and then do an entire concert at
the end of the show and on Triad two, which
I should point out is in Houston, Texas on the
twenty six of this month, February, in twenty five days,
and we have Jason Alden opening the show. The entire
combat and there's there's some great fighters in it like
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Puliev who was only ever been knocked out twice by
um Anthony Joshua world champion and clinch Coe world champion.
So he is against Junior Dos Santos, who was also
a heavyweight UFC champion. So they're boxing in this triangle.
So after all of those fights, Jason Aldeen will do
(46:41):
a complete concert. So it's a great mixture of music entertainment.
We've got Fat Joe talking, Eric b Crime Faces. Nick
Cannon is hosting how did you how did you wrap
your kickball change up in all of this? Well, you know,
I was semi retired, to be honest. I'm coming out
(47:02):
to Barbados and I met with Ryan Kavanagh, who's who
you know is the big cheese yeah of Triller Fight
Club and Triller and he said to me, did you
see my show that I did with Uh listen, I'm
saying listen, I don't mean him. Who was the goodness meet?
(47:24):
I've lost it? Who was the greatest heavyweight just recently
knocked everybody out? Little guy? Uh, yes, it doesn't matter.
It's neither here nor there. It doesn't matter. Well, he said,
did you see my show? And I said yes, and
it was with Justin Bieber and I said it didn't
really flow, did it? And he said, well, do you
think you could do it better? You said yes. Well
(47:46):
maybe I should never have answered, but I said yes,
and he said, okay, you're doing the next one, which
which I did, and I had great fun doing it
and my shoe boxing fan anyway, I just can't remember
people's names, don't but but it was. It was really
terrific to do and it was a lot of fun.
So I'm heavily involved in it now. I love it
(48:08):
to death. And you know, I enjoyed just doing playing
old boxing matches now as well as try a combat
so I think Trillo Fight Club and fight TV was,
which is where you can watch it. It's just great
to be a part of it. So try a comment.
Mike Tyson. By the way, Mike, that was yes, that's terrible.
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Are you your your retired brain is kicking in try
a combat to live on Fight f I t E
Dot TV. Visit fight dot tv for more information. Nigel
Lift go. Lots of love and lots of happiness to
you as well. Miss you buddy. Let's follow up. Thank
you very much, all right, Thank bye bye everybody, Bye bye.
(48:54):
What was great is that like he was in Barbados
and I kept just wanted to look in the reflection
of the window to see the beach. Yeah, the sky
was so turquoise there On Air with Ryan Seacrest. We
are going to rule out of here. We'll be back
with you again tomorrow and June all over early tomorrow.
(49:17):
Tell me Ryan's roses. So his wife went out of
town to her friend's wedding. He says that trip has
had lasting effect. You think something went down with her
and another guy will tie it up and get into it. Also,
we're paying your bills in the morning six and all
morning long until they have a go and take aod car.
(49:39):
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