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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake that ass up in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
The Breakfast Club Morning everybody is d J N v
Ess hilarious, Charlamage the guy.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
We all to Breakfast Club. We got some special guests.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
In the building.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Indeed, we have Mandy be and Wheezy from Horrible Decisions.
But they chased a name.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
It is Decision podcasts.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
That no, yes, it is not.
Speaker 6 (00:24):
Any It is absolutely possibles. You grow up, you can
move to a different city where no one knows you,
and then you can.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Change your work.
Speaker 7 (00:33):
The grocery store, they said, heycome morning, ladies.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Why why did y'all change.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
The name for the coins Charlotte.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were
twenty six years old.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Uh, I was still in college. I was in my
last year of college. Weezy, we were both in corporate and.
Speaker 6 (00:54):
We was kind of living life doing doing all the things,
and we just kind of we wasn't our whole face.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I think everyone has a whole phase.
Speaker 6 (01:01):
And now we're out of it, okay, and we just
you know, are growing with our audience and growing with
the with the dollar.
Speaker 7 (01:06):
To be fair doing this book though, you know, I
was telling people like I want to do Drew Barrymore,
I want to do this and that, and I just
can't see them saying.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
And now she might be like, why did you guys?
Speaker 7 (01:22):
It's okay to be a whore, but now, I mean
with growth, and we also wanted to be respected as
an author. I feel like for the people that don't
know us, everybody that like is in the podcast world
understands our evolution, and I think that's when we started
to gain our respect, to know that, sure we talk
about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able
to catapult into all these different ventures. But a new person,
(01:44):
I feel like they're gonna be like how you feel
about your fan, Like how you think the fans took it?
Like that y'all took the horror wall. I think the
fans love it. I think the core fans are happy.
I think the casual fans just found a way to get.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Angry at you.
Speaker 7 (01:57):
Like people get very excited if they think something bad
is going on, you know what I mean? Like literally
the second they saw that Horrible would be going behind
a paywalls.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Like, oh they fighting Sharlotte.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
One want day, I heard dealing with them like, you know,
it's they can't wait to feel that. And Mandy and
I being that we've been colleagues for so long, we've
had on air mess and things like that. I feel
like that was the sexiest part of the story when really,
now we're so much older, it's like.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
Okay, Mandy's celibate, right, Oh yeah, I started the year off.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Just a couple of.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Like, I'm celipate, I'm starting over a couple of months ago.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
That was It was.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
A couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
That was your magic city moment.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (02:42):
I love how you said club. You can let them
know we were city. It was a magic city, you.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Know, that's the first thing she told me.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
It wasn't like he has a family, what I'm celipate now?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I was like, what made you break the celibacy?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
I saw somebody cute.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
It wasn't even relationship. You already win.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Jesus it is. I mean, it was intimate, it was sensual.
We kissed and guddle.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Have you seen him.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Since he doesn't live in my states, so he's flying
to see me?
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
No?
Speaker 5 (03:20):
No, no, no, work to go.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
To the second stand?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
The second stand? What's the first thing.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Didn't date just okay.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Now I'm just not anymore, okay, And this is what the.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Book is about about liberation, growth as women getting what
you want.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Did you meet him majes City.
Speaker 8 (03:43):
No.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
I met him on an island, so you know what.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Which was?
Speaker 3 (03:52):
It was on vacation and you lit one of the
island boys.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
Yes, okay, don't do that, but now I do see
our women go to islands, and it was it was great.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
You see see that.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
Don't tell you they booked us to go to Headonism
if no one's ever heard of.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
There.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
I didn't.
Speaker 7 (04:13):
I wasn't dating at anybody at the time, so I'm like,
let me just bring somebody.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Fine, I know.
Speaker 7 (04:17):
So there was a ballplayer that I knew, and I
was like, just come. He was in Europe, he was
off season. He got there. He wasn't even he's not
crazy basketball player at all. But he was six five, dark,
skinning fit. When I tell you every white woman with
her husband.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, before we in the bushes in a bush.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But that's what if you like, I went to heat
his most when I used to work for Williams at
w B l s.
Speaker 9 (04:42):
They used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So
Hedonism is the newdest resort parts of it. And they
have like hammicks hanging from the trees. You can have
sex and hammicks. You can have sex all over the
whole facility if you want to. There's a lot of
mirrors on the ceiling.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
No disrespect, but it's a lot of like overweight white women.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
No no, we we went in a black Yeah, there's
different weekends that you could go, like I'm hosting heato
Labor Day weekend with a black travel uh.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
So when a group takes over, like we got lucky.
Speaker 7 (05:09):
But then there was a few parts of the place
they were like we come every week, and I was like,
oh yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
The white couples definitely go to get Jamaican Jamaican Pei
the way.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
The funniest part of this I always tell this story
because so first of all, he's already having sex in
the bush.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
We just check in.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
I'm like, I'm done with him already. So there's a
nude side and a prude side, right, So the side
means you can keep your clothes on, so you know,
when you're at a resort, you know how to be
having the buffets or whatever.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
So I'm hungry. I go to get a pizza.
Speaker 7 (05:39):
I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is
sleep with people in the bush and I'm trying to
get some pizza. I'm ordering his pizza and the security
guard comes up and saying, man, you have to be naked.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
On the side. I'm like, I gotta get naked just
to eat. He's like, yeah, how long is your food
gonna take?
Speaker 7 (05:53):
I had to literally take off my pajama to hold
him in my hand and sit there naked away for food.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
And I was like, this is the worst ever. And
I say, I loved it.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
So when is it?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
I left it? What are you?
Speaker 7 (06:03):
What?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Trafficking? I know, trafficking that is I booked.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
For it, like you know, like we were out there
and just like we had a great time, but I'm
gone out there with friends.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
When you're going out there, you.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Can't and they paying you, like these couples be paying.
Speaker 9 (06:20):
Like you might be out there and you might highlight
at a woman and she might be like, hold on,
go get my husband.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
They might come up to you and be y'all get fifey.
Speaker 9 (06:26):
Hundred dolls if you let if you let my husband
watch us said.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
We didn't get offered for those type of things were there.
Oh yeah, so maybe it's the men. The men should
go out there and make some money.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Then, so let you careful to you and wanted to
see your special husband.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
This concept.
Speaker 9 (06:43):
This was like two thousand and six, two thousand and seven.
I was on the balcony.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
And I was like, yeah, you know, girl like you.
Speaker 9 (06:48):
Yeah, and she's like, hold on, let me go get
my husband, and she was like yes, and we can
do it.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
But my husband got to watch.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Oh wow, I have to knock it off.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
No, I didn't knocke it off. I did not.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
Now that's the thing that really kind of makes that
whole thing beautiful. As much as I'm joking about it,
all of this is normal for these people in the world,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Like a lot of the things we talked about even
as normal to us.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
If I say my man and I are going on
a date with somebody, people looking at me like I'm crazy,
But this is normal for me. So when I'm in
hedonism and I'm watching cuck holding going on, which is
really what it is, this is normal for them, and
they like to be amongst the people I just did
happen to be one of the people that wanted to
get peaceabul clothes on.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Excuse me, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
I'm trying to think mine, what besides this blazer, what's
the biggest rebrand thing of me? I will say this,
I think now I'm so over communicative. We're in the
beginning of horrible decisions. I wasn't talking about exactly what
I wanted, my feelings, even the type of sex that
I wanted to have, Like situationships.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
I was falling into them all the time.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
I think as you evolve and you get more comfortable
with yourself on who you are, that's when it hits.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
I actually don't think that could happen before thirty. I'll
be honest.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I think you could try to get close to it.
But there's something that happens at thirty where it just clicks.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
You're like, oh no, this is no thirty You you
look better, you feel better, you make more money, you
know a little bit more of what you want. You
didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and twenties
that now you can be like, Okay, I don't want.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
That, but this is what I want you want to
give this relationship?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
No, you don't marriage?
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Anybody want marriage?
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
You want to not give this relationship?
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Not monogamous, but I mean, of course I want marriage.
I like, what if we're not gonna have sex with
a nanny? What's the boy?
Speaker 7 (08:35):
No?
Speaker 4 (08:35):
I mean yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I mean I don't know why?
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Why?
Speaker 9 (08:38):
Why?
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Why not not monogampy both?
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Yah?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Why?
Speaker 5 (08:40):
You just doesn't fit in my lifestyle.
Speaker 7 (08:42):
Like I I've been known for having a boyfriend and
a girlfriend since I've been twenty years old.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Like, it's it.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
It's doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want.
It's a difference.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
We had a conversation about this last night.
Speaker 7 (08:53):
I did a podcast where I mentioned that I believe
Mandy and I have done this so well because we
really lived this life.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
And a lot of times what's kind of.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
Hurt me from the public is people say, oh, you're
just doing that to keep them, or you let your
man have sex with someone else because you want to
keep them, And it's like, you think I'd be doing
this for eight years if I really didn't enjoy this.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
I honestly have fun with it.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
And I feel like when I'm dating someone that's more monogamous.
Mainly when I d religious man, they look at me
like I'm trash, and I know you date religious men,
do that.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
You know, never do that again.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
Et themnomenogamy, I want to throw that word in there.
So that's where like it's consensual, there's like there are
boundaries you are communicating, and it's under the umbrella where
you could be polly open, like there's you could be swingers.
There's all these different labels underneath ethical nominogamy. For me,
I like men and women, and I don't want to
not be able to experience both.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Off of that bisexual men and the reason I asked
who was up here and they said that it wouldn't
bother them.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Damn I heard it wouldn't bother me.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
No, I don't want to see it.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
For me, it's a cat.
Speaker 7 (10:02):
So the thing that attracts me to women is their femininity.
Like I've never dated stood right and no disrespective studs.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
I just because like Monkey got Funky came on Horrorball was.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Like, no, britty grind are the only stud we all
got one. I want Brittany Grinder as far as men.
I love the masculinity in men.
Speaker 7 (10:22):
And so if I was dating a bisexual man, maybe
like a homo thug. That's what I'm saying, Like, there's
so masculine, give me one of them at m like.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
So you wouldn't mind, but he just got to be
a tell you want to do on the thug.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
There's also levels to it, right, So I really truly
believe every man has had some sort of.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
I think everybody look gay for real, for real.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Even a little watching a.
Speaker 6 (10:43):
Little another like there's a there's a there's a spectrum,
the Kinsey scale.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Everyone is not all the way fully straight.
Speaker 6 (10:53):
Or fully yes you like a little like you can
you can even and it could be as little as.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
You can actually admit that another man is attractive or
a good looking.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Classified as gay?
Speaker 4 (11:06):
Why I can't because it's it's the attraction.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Tras is different.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
But but no man is handsome but attractive.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Man hand you did you did.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
You have men that doesn't even do that?
Speaker 7 (11:23):
Then? I think you know, there's so many men that
would say they ran trains in high school. There's another
man that wouldn't get naked and trained, like there is levels.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
I don't think that's gay.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
By the way, if you don't stick your penis in
a male, that's not gay.
Speaker 5 (11:37):
But why you and another man are enjoying got you.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Just say it's not gay if you stick your penis
and the man, I said, it's not you.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
You're not sticking your penis in the mail?
Speaker 1 (11:52):
What you want to hear something? It's not.
Speaker 6 (11:56):
As long as it's oral, then no, it's okay, a
hand job.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
No, okay, I just okay.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I'm looking at the Kensey scale.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
It's a real thing.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
He says.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
X no social no socio sexual contacts or reactions. Zero
is exclusively heterosexual. One mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual. Two
mostly heterosexual but more than slightly homosexual, three equally heterosexual
and homosexual, four mostly homosexual but more than slightly heterosexual,
(12:27):
five mostly homosexual only slightly heterosexual, and six is all homo.
Speaker 4 (12:34):
Straight o gay.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
That's a lot, a lot. By the way, I have
a friend of mine.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
His dave is Christopher, and on New Year's five, six
years ago, I'll never forget.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
I kissed him like he's gay.
Speaker 4 (12:47):
Kiss him.
Speaker 7 (12:48):
He looked at me and he was like, you, bitch,
I am gay, gay, and now you've ruined it.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
He's a six six, he's a six.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
When I tell you, he was really upset with me.
Speaker 7 (12:57):
I was like, I'm so confused and you're having Funny's like, no, no, no, no, no,
I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even
have I came from a C section.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I'm platinum.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
He was like, are you kissed me?
Speaker 4 (13:08):
You were with this? You messed him up?
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Now?
Speaker 4 (13:10):
A little straight.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
That's who I defined as a sixth and.
Speaker 9 (13:12):
The one thing Toronto might have to re six that
six thing six is the highest on the Kinsey scale,
exclusively homosexual.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
If you're a six, that's what all the way.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Gay, No.
Speaker 5 (13:27):
Hot straight girl that got one lesbian Afraid that she'd
be doing this, she was like, no, bitch, yeah that's me.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
But I ain't gonna lie back in the day. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (13:34):
I had a couple of gay experiences, yeah, like kiss
a little bit more to kiss, but you know, h yeah,
I dated a stud for like a little minute, so
I found out she was ma right, and she ended
up being a clown two and.
Speaker 9 (13:48):
Then mostly had a sexual but more than slightly homosexual,
not that.
Speaker 7 (13:55):
She dated a stud. So that always tells me like,
you kind of are the straight girl. That's like where
you can dive, because I don't. I don't find like
the Felms to be like, yeah, you're beautiful to me,
but I'm not. I wouldn't be attracted to a feminine girl.
It's like I get it.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
No for me like that.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
But you'll have the same crush too many you're the same, Brittany.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
I think a lot of you have a crush. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:21):
Until I call Until I heard her call herself Pops,
I'm like, damn, I know there's certain things that you
can say that make me just instant like no, you
see what I mean.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
I know what I'm saying, Like, well, she already got
the voice of God.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
I mean that, but I mean, I just you know,
she she ain't like when she was doing an interview
in Shane, Like when somebody was like the girl was like, oh,
you're about to be a mom, you know, she was
like no, Pops, like serious. I was like, damn, but
I but I wouldn't just assume that if I never
(14:56):
heard her say that, Like I wouldn't start congratulations you
your mom. I wouldn't just be like your graduations, it's
like you Pops now, because I think that that would
offend her but she was offended at her being called
her mom. Yeah, bring the good I would let me
tell you when I when all that stuff was going on,
I was like, we gotta.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Get her out, we gotta get her out.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
But I'm okay, what you still have the crash.
Speaker 7 (15:18):
I'm okay with letting her go Mandy Cab because my
boyfriend looked.
Speaker 9 (15:22):
Just like.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
That is crazy.
Speaker 7 (15:26):
As someone that also has a pretty boyfriend, I know
how it feels. I went and took him to a
show and it was a lesbian show, uh like literally
like a queer comedy night.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
And she was like, oh, yeah, I saw.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
You were there with your girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
I was like, that's a man.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
He just got dressed and he's pretty. It sucks, but
it's crazy.
Speaker 9 (15:44):
Man get a slight shooter though, no, he does get shooter,
a slight shooter, right, he gets slight shooter too.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
But he's a hotep. It's weird, like he looks like
he's what he's a hotel.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Hotel.
Speaker 7 (15:57):
The hotel he makes we're fasting right now. I'm so
I'm about to die on this table.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
He's we fast He was a whole tap.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
The hotel.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
That is not what it is the way this is.
There's no way that this hasn't crossed over to you.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
The whole tap what the is the whole tap charm?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Like the hot I know the whole tap is. I
don't know what the whole tap is, but I know
what the hotel.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
It's a hotel.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Okay, I'm being I'm being a hotel.
Speaker 7 (16:24):
A hotel is like you know, one of them, like meditative,
like all pro black power to the people, like we
can't be doing.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
X y Z, but like.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
You're still on the whole part of it.
Speaker 5 (16:39):
To be Do you know who nineteen keys is?
Speaker 8 (16:43):
Whole tep I joke, Yes, she It's an Egyptian word
that means to be at peace, does mean at peace,
which was but y'all said, whole taps.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
I'm just thinking something.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Of course you are, of course, So with decisions decisions,
is it less sex talk? Like, is it less?
Speaker 9 (17:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (17:05):
Yeah, we're leaning more into the conversations around relationships, so
non traditional relationships, non monogamy, all the ways that you
don't have to go about the traditional way of dating
and pursuing love essentially because us growing up, what is it,
get married, have kids, live happily ever after, that's not
everyone's reality.
Speaker 7 (17:24):
But it's cool because we're diving into history, which we
always kind of did during Horrible but now it's fun,
Like we're talking. We talk about the history of romance,
the first date, even the history of romance is dope.
I was when we were first date, Like how the
first date was different. There had to be a male
caller at your home knocking on the door, asking your parents.
Speaker 5 (17:41):
They were supervising you.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
I'm an idiot. I thought you meant like y'all documented
the first date.
Speaker 7 (17:52):
How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,
how you know you married.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
For I'm not a whole retired a long time ago.
Speaker 7 (18:04):
Now, a history of the romance shit was crazy because
it basically romance was a sickness and they believed when
people were in battle or in war, they would start
a war over love. And they were like, oh, yeah,
you can't fall in love, so that's why you would
marry for agriculture, socioeconomic stuff.
Speaker 5 (18:18):
And it's just fun to dive into this because we.
Speaker 7 (18:22):
Already have been talking about sex and dating so long,
so now we just get to go back and people
enjoy learning about stuff with.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Us, and we're not scholars, so that's what makes it
fun to be not now also, so then you've got
a book coming out as well.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
We do.
Speaker 6 (18:34):
We do under Charlamagne's imprint, No Holes Barred. It's a duo,
no hose Bard, listen all of them. It's a dual
manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And so we each
dive into our journeys as women.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
I did a lot of.
Speaker 6 (18:51):
Diving in therapy, like going all the way back to
like my childhood as to maybe why I date the
type of men I date, my views, I mean everything
that's not my daddy, so non short Jamaicans. But I
go into that and even as as early as me
like talking about my journey of having anal sex and
(19:14):
how I used to think any man that wanted it
was was gay because I was like, well, why would
you want that back hole when there's another hole?
Speaker 5 (19:22):
And so I five, Oh that was funny because.
Speaker 6 (19:27):
Just me, No, it like it like goes through my
journey of even like having to relearn and unlearn the
things that aren't true. And then we even get deep
and we talk about like our sexual assaults. I talk
about my abortion.
Speaker 7 (19:42):
Six. The book is broken down. It's cool because like
when we get into that stuff. So it's pleasure, pain, progression,
and power. So like in the pain section, that's when
abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a
story of a dude bdsm bdsm like ying me up,
spanking me, choking me, like Mandy getting electrocuted.
Speaker 5 (20:03):
That's my favorite.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
I love yea.
Speaker 6 (20:07):
I went to a dungeon with my ex and we
agreed to both do two things that we had never
done before. So he agreed to put allow me to
put him in a chastity voute, which took some time
because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order
to lock him in. And then I allowed him to
uh do electro shock inside of me with a tool happens, yeah,
(20:34):
and so like it like spawned all of these electro
currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.
It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,
I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight
tongues inside of me giving me oral at once.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
It was it was the best feeling. I was like,
I just say't a normal feeling you gotta get.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
It was great though one person, one person can't just
to be honest, I don't ride I don't ride. So
I would love for my partner to be able to
experience everything he wants to experience that.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
I'm not down. I don't get on top. Let me
go get you somebody acrobatic. You mean you can be
on time, but I ain't getting on top. Nope.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 6 (21:14):
I just came back from Carnival and the way them
girls were winding their hips and doing all the splits.
I said, my man deserves to experience a woman that flexible.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
It ain't me though.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Isn't that a position of powerful woman?
Speaker 5 (21:25):
When again, and it's the strongest.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
That's great that you receive it that way. No, no, no,
I'm half white.
Speaker 5 (21:34):
No I know, so it goes, it goes, It goes,
it goes.
Speaker 4 (21:39):
You know, I do a little bit of okay, all right, well,
what what makes you have an orgasm? Oh, penetration, which
is why.
Speaker 6 (21:47):
I can't be fully gay like and I want I
want a member with a with a pose that is
literally gay.
Speaker 4 (21:53):
No no, no, no no, I want I want right here,
not like that I want, but I like a man body.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
There's just so many things A girl couldn't knock you
up with a strap on. All right, you know it
needs to have a pulse.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
I like the finishing.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
What comes girls, It's just like the finish, And I like.
Speaker 5 (22:12):
The I like I like that either.
Speaker 7 (22:15):
Like when I had a girlfriend we maybe want in
the blue, used them for fun, and after a while
we were saying, it's just something about it, maybe because
her and I both.
Speaker 5 (22:23):
Slept with men before. It's just like, no, that's.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Not what we'd oh, you know. And I like the finish.
I feel I've.
Speaker 5 (22:28):
Always felt that toys.
Speaker 7 (22:30):
So something I talk about in the book even is
like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex,
as far as lesbian sex is that we see, it's
really for the may od gates. It's not that sexy,
it's not that pretty.
Speaker 5 (22:43):
Sometimes you be rubbing, you be on the neck, arm,
it's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere. It's not exactly
what we think.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
It is nothing crazy.
Speaker 9 (22:51):
And then watching two lesbians with a scrap on and
one of them sucking the scrap on, and the person
that got the scrap on is money.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
Because sex is a psychological okay, so no one moans
when they suck you. But but I'm feeling anything by
giving it to you, and I made I got.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
To scrap on, tell you.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Nothing, you tell you right now.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
But I'm just saying it just seems.
Speaker 7 (23:21):
Because right after you finished second, I could take it
off and throw it in the car.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
So I think that's what he's saying.
Speaker 7 (23:28):
Like, how okay, it's like you giving phone sex and
you moan, and like she said, it's you. There's something
about the action and also keeping.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
In mind.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Because it's sexy watching you.
Speaker 7 (23:40):
Do this is all B D S M right, So
you're being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing
it get off. It's like they know that you're on
your knees, you're being submissive, humiliate or whatever the word is.
Speaker 5 (23:53):
So that's where they're getting to turn off from.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
It was your crazy sexual experience. If that was was
getting electrocuted. What's yours?
Speaker 4 (23:59):
Hers nasty?
Speaker 7 (24:03):
No, it actually can't go on radio, but I'll just
say we'll put it behind the Patreon ahead.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
She got something about blood.
Speaker 5 (24:19):
Yes, okay, here's what happened.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Boy.
Speaker 7 (24:24):
My man was just like, uh, I think I was
having a bad day and I was like, oh my god,
you don't love me. I feel bad, you know, but
just be complaining. I dated them, so I know, and uh,
He was like, why are you feeling like that?
Speaker 5 (24:37):
What do you feel like this?
Speaker 7 (24:37):
Because you in your period. I don't love you, I'm
not attracted to you. And I was like, I just
feel that way. And we were in the car and
he put the car in park and he said, put
your fingers inside of yourself.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
I'm like no, and then he did it. He ate
it and he said, you think I love you now?
And it was like, it was like saltur.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
Broke.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
What you mean, my man?
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Know that?
Speaker 10 (25:08):
But god, I will say from Brooklyn rightmire, from the Bronx,
then God, but you know what it.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Is that's really dope about it.
Speaker 7 (25:21):
Yes, you're listening to this right now, watching this, you're
like this is disgusting. But I think it's just that
when you have no boundaries with someone, it's sexy.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
You got to get married.
Speaker 9 (25:30):
Oh of course you told everybody in the radio pod
we gotta get married. Blood was like a little bit.
Speaker 7 (25:43):
I didn't put that in the book because I was like, yo,
every time we really you think you've reached a level
sexually something that so so many things on our list,
But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome life.
Like we.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
Had this woman went on a.
Speaker 4 (25:59):
Date with her.
Speaker 5 (26:00):
Was a wild night, so wholesome.
Speaker 7 (26:01):
And my father he's in a nursing home right now
and we had to make sure we were there in
the morning to go see him. We got up with
sitting there, he played checkers and stuff.
Speaker 5 (26:10):
We looking at each other like we really just having
his family moment. It's like our sex life is our
sex life.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
That's what he.
Speaker 5 (26:24):
Okay, that's what's funny about it.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
And your mama thank you, and she.
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Would love to hear that. You know she loves you.
She went to go to Charlottage's book to her. She
was like, he was looking at me, and I was
like it because he knows who I am, or he's
looking at me girl. Okay, Happy birthday worth thirteenth, Sorry Sport, Okay,
whatever day is. I don't know, we're hose, we don't know.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Have y'all ever been sexually never? Okay never?
Speaker 3 (26:53):
He said, that's so fast, Like I don't even look
at her like that.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Have y'all had sex and we've never?
Speaker 1 (26:59):
Never?
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Would you? Was you really about to ask me?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Why do people think that?
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Are you? Are you serious?
Speaker 5 (27:07):
I don't feel like Mandy and I give the energy
like we've.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Never be for a long time. It was a point
where they got to be some sexual definitely. I did
feel like that.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Now, Oh my god, it's just yeah.
Speaker 7 (27:20):
I mean no, no, y'all don't seem like lovers at
all and nothing like that. But I mean with all this,
y'all got it in Calmon and how y'all just.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
So watch have sex. And she reminded me.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
So we're sitting with I didn't really watch. I was
just on the bed.
Speaker 5 (27:36):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Now she was scared because she met him at the club.
Speaker 6 (27:42):
We was like sixteen, using fake Id's down in Miami
Memorial that weekend she found got she liked the club.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
Yes, crazy about twenty years.
Speaker 7 (27:53):
I forgot this story, right, So she forgot about our
co Arthur, and she's trying to dig stories out of us.
Speaker 5 (27:59):
So I said, you know, crazy, I've never had a
one nice stand man. He's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no,
it's not. She I was right there on the bed, yeah, like,
oh not anything pre titties. I feel like, don't count.
Speaker 6 (28:09):
See this is why, see the wholeness could be deleted.
She's talking about plantings.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
Slice you can take miles off a car.
Speaker 6 (28:15):
No, it was like yeah, literally, I mean that was
back in the day, you know, like selfon I think
we had pye kicks back then, Like it wasn't to
where you know, you had so much access.
Speaker 4 (28:26):
So she wanted to him. I was like, okay, I'm.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Gonna sit at sixteen.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Yeah, in Miami.
Speaker 4 (28:34):
We drove to Miami, we live.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
We had no teen pregnancies we know were an abortion.
I said, we have a team pregnancy.
Speaker 6 (28:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
I got rid of it clearly.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
I think they were eighteen.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
It was like, I'm not trying to be in Miami
at least bro to be in a club in Miami.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
It's twenty one, and forgot we have fake You think
they didn't got fakes many?
Speaker 5 (28:59):
No, they some They were staying together because you didn't
even remember him.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Don't try to sit here and can Back then, everybody
was staying with each other's back then.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Nobody had no money.
Speaker 4 (29:06):
It was like nine.
Speaker 5 (29:07):
It was no shame, no shame.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
He had money, so he wasn't nineteen because he had
his own room. He wasn't shared with nobody.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
That was no courtyard.
Speaker 6 (29:15):
And don't remember, yo, let me tell you when I
was really reflected. I thought this was gonna be way
more different. You came in with a blazer.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
I have on plaid. I don't understand how we're taking
it here.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
Y'all wanted us to spice up y'all morning, to see, let's.
Speaker 4 (29:32):
Go back to being okay.
Speaker 5 (29:34):
So what is trap house?
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Oh girl?
Speaker 7 (29:37):
So I've been going to workouts in New York for
almost a decade and I love Pilates inspired movement and
I love lifting, and so literally.
Speaker 5 (29:46):
I went to a plate class.
Speaker 7 (29:47):
I'm not even joking. It was February this year, and
I was saying to the instructor, like, oh my god, girl,
that was such an amazing workout, Thank you, Like I
needed some like some trap or something.
Speaker 5 (29:56):
She's like, I'd never played that here.
Speaker 7 (29:58):
And made me feel so small like and I was like,
I'll make that ship and so I And it's funny
because someone said to me when I made it, do
you know Envy wants to do hip hop plates?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Who told you that? It was?
Speaker 5 (30:11):
Maybe it was just.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Someone I mentioned it about it because I don't tell
nobody es not him. But I go to Pilate's right,
Why do I care if you go to because I don't.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Want you to pull up on me. Look at my
ass when I'm out.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
There, but anyway, I'm looking at his ass, and I said, looking.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
What's on your mind? So you listen three or four years,
but when.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
You go to pilates, there's never no music that you
There's no hip hop.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
It hard, you're shaking, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (30:38):
So literally my favorite genres of music of all time,
and I listened to everything. It's trapping house music. So
I was gonna buy an apartment in New York right
I had money. I was like one hundred fifty gamma
buy a million dollar house and I was like no,
it's either that to start a business. So because I'm
not a fitness and trainer, I had to you know,
partner with someone. And so I found my favorite instructor
(30:58):
in New York black dudes name Jeff Blue, and I
was like, yo, I want you to make this and
he literally was like trapped and pilates. I'm like, I'm
telling you, dog, and he did everything. We flew him
to La to learn lagree. That's the really hard kinds
and like training these instructors to do things that people
have never done.
Speaker 5 (31:17):
So and it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes
come in doing it.
Speaker 7 (31:20):
They come in and they shake him like crazy, and
then they go on the other one and they're shaking.
And then the little girls that are super tiny can't
do the lifting. So everybody's doing something different. But even
as I've evolved, my partner Brionda, she's like, all right,
who's making the music. I'm like, me, I got good
music sation. She's like, that's not anough.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
So I had to get a music director.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
And every step of the way I've tried to make
this elevated, just so a bitch came. Now you know
it's a black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't
got this. Even the candles, I want to find all
the candles.
Speaker 5 (31:49):
I'm like, gotta be a little livo. Every single thing
I made.
Speaker 7 (31:52):
That I wanted to be luxury, especially because you're walking
in there and you hear Jesus talking about how Chitto
like it get real ghetto.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
It looked like business woman though from what I see
on Instagram, I.
Speaker 7 (32:01):
Haven't been able to take a class because it's been
so busy.
Speaker 5 (32:04):
I wait, because that's what's said.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
I want to do a group trip there, right, and
and you got to come to sho Well, he.
Speaker 5 (32:15):
Want I want to.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
I don't want to be sexually harassed, but.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
I want to take a group trip there and put
everybody in pilates for fifty minutes.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
Oh my god, it's hard, especially for the people that
haven't done it's it's not.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
I used to go four times a week, five times
a week. My wife and my dough we go together.
Speaker 5 (32:32):
Oh so you're gonna be good, it's megrant former.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
Okay, yeah, that's that's fine.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
We do it all.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
But I enjoy it. People don't know how difficult it is,
but how it helps you as well as far as strength.
Speaker 5 (32:44):
Why they don't either. The look of pilates is skinny
lawn white.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Yeah, honestly, I'm sitting here like I never had a
desire to do it.
Speaker 7 (32:52):
I was making jokes like, Oh, we're gonna open how
these white girls they're gonna be like, oh, what is
Gucci man break? Like I really thought that was gonna
happen when I tell you all black women, and it's
mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that,
but just TikTok. We were literally working out when I
was in the other day and it was, but none
of my coochie.
Speaker 4 (33:10):
I was like, this is crazy, none of my coochie.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Oh okay, how did you promote it? How did you
get the worried out so fast?
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Okay?
Speaker 7 (33:19):
So I truthfully was really worried about strategy because I
didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool. You know,
when you can have a taste maker vibe, like people
know I like the party, they know I like music.
Speaker 5 (33:30):
I thought that would work.
Speaker 7 (33:31):
It literally was just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok.
It's just genuine a girls like listen.
Speaker 6 (33:38):
That's why I listen that that ain't going away on
the night. A whole lot of it's gonna fake the econdomy.
It's like there's a lot of people that make money off.
Speaker 1 (33:46):
Of their Frank McCord project Liberty.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
There's nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
And I always say that the biggest business is what
makes people riches is to have something that nobody else has, right,
And there's so many minorities that love Plata. I'm the
only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only
guy when I do I'm black. But when I do go,
I hate the music. So the fact that I was there.
The first thing I said, where is it?
Speaker 1 (34:07):
I want to go?
Speaker 3 (34:07):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Because I want to try it out, because I would
love to do it. Because it's already painful, right, you
already trying to focus. But if I had the music
that I enjoy, it makes it fun now when I
can really go through it.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
So I'm I'm we're gonna do a family trip there.
Speaker 7 (34:19):
I made a code for everybody breakfast. There's ten bucks off.
Even if you've already been you can still use it.
But with the house music.
Speaker 5 (34:26):
By the way, my mom is a studio fifty four girl.
Speaker 7 (34:29):
She's a black woman. I've been listening to the house
music my whole life. I've always thought it was black.
I feel like all we know is showed me love.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
But house music is black. Yeah, I mean, I'm not
playing out rant.
Speaker 7 (34:39):
I'm playing that shit followed me hus because I'm bougie.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
OK, because I mean it can still read as traps,
oh sothing, Like why why did you spell.
Speaker 5 (34:51):
It like that?
Speaker 7 (34:51):
To be honest, it was because I feel like when
we see the year or like a different version of house,
we always say, oh, this is like kind of you know,
and then I go like a house.
Speaker 5 (34:59):
If someone gooted it, it buy like a weed stores.
Speaker 7 (35:01):
Yeah, trap house, by the way, I wanted to call
it Trapilates, but shout out. I don't know who they are,
but you know, the trademark was taken in Atlanta. So
but we already know Atlanta got trapp Lotto. But I
mean my goal, Like people be asking me the franchise.
We've been opened six days, People like, oh, can you
franchise it.
Speaker 5 (35:16):
I'm like, oh, yeah, like.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
I got to learn from every wed, so congratulations.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
But yeah, money, we don't talk about your entrepreneur ventures enough.
You know what I'm saying. You got WTF media man,
You had the studio.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
I still have it open. Yeah, it's just now need
to know studios.
Speaker 6 (35:30):
Yeah, but I I relocated to Atlanta. I have other
opportunities professionally down there. But yeah, and right now I'm
working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another
proposal for a book after writing the book with you.
I definitely just love the process. I want to continue
doing that. And yeah, I think over the last eight years,
(35:50):
I think that's why we've been able to keep this going,
because we've both been able to just branch out individually
and do the things that we really.
Speaker 5 (35:56):
Turning over your money that you make.
Speaker 7 (35:58):
Like when we got our first Black Effect check, it
was so dope because to be on salary for a podcast,
it's just like unheard.
Speaker 5 (36:06):
Of, and we were making We quit our jobs before,
you know, so like we were in this doing this.
Speaker 7 (36:10):
But it's just mind blowing that we've been able to
take that business acumen and flip it because a lot
of people think when you're a podcaster, people really don't
know how I make money, Like I think so many
people think I have only fans when they meet me, which.
Speaker 3 (36:23):
I get it.
Speaker 7 (36:24):
I feel like I could have the look, but t
is already out like okay, but content creation is one
thing and then it's like businesses.
Speaker 6 (36:32):
No, no, not only that, it's just diversifying as well
how you bring in money. So between Black Effect now
the book which Charlemagne as well, then we have Patreon,
then we tour, shout out to Justin and merchandise. We
have five different means of income just for the podcast.
So even though we're not in the write ups like
the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,
(36:52):
are our business and what horrible decisions does make.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
Seven figures a year. We are a seven figure podcast.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
We're not one hundred we.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
Are, but we we have seven figures, like and we
make that yearly.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
So I love it.
Speaker 4 (37:05):
And then again, that's just one form of income. Again.
She has her studio, I have my studio. We have
other things that we do as well outside.
Speaker 9 (37:12):
So the Decision is a business that generates money, and
I love how y'all use that money to build other
other businesses.
Speaker 7 (37:17):
I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
Don't have to be brick and mortar, but like, literally, oh.
Speaker 4 (37:24):
Yeah, shout out to you.
Speaker 6 (37:24):
What is when you got into brick and mortar even
having the studio, like dealing with an actual location and
staff And I'm like, oh, yeah, that ain't me.
Speaker 5 (37:33):
Do you know the owner of the building that you have?
A SOHO?
Speaker 7 (37:36):
So we got three buildings, four different studios, right. The
SOHO dude hits me up about how someone filed an
insurance claim and I'm like what they were like, yeah,
they fold my the bathroom.
Speaker 5 (37:46):
I was like, I'm so sorry to hear that. He
was like it's good, Like he has huge buildings. He's like,
I've already got this covered, but like that's what's building business.
I was trying to make sure it's spit in the studio.
Speaker 3 (37:57):
Gott yeah house.
Speaker 6 (38:01):
It's crazy to me all the businesses though, all the projects,
everything that we do creatively, those are my babies as
a woman that doesn't want kids. And when people talk
about what legacy looks like and things, the things that
I'm creating are going to outlive me and my kids
if I had any their kids. So to me, my
legacy and what I'm leaving are the things and businesses
(38:22):
that I'm creating. And I think Weezy and I talk
about it as well. I think it's wonderful that we're
able to like provide salaries and pay people, like even
our Horrible Decisions team is like ten people. And then
she has her studio team. I have my studio, and
it's just like it's great.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
How do y'all take with you in Atlanta? And you
hear New York. How do y'all take the podcast?
Speaker 6 (38:38):
We both record and she was just in Atlanta. I
go to la whenever we're in the same city, we
find a studio on record, gotcha.
Speaker 5 (38:45):
It's honestly too like I mean, you wasn't even do
you live here? Now I do?
Speaker 4 (38:50):
Now you do?
Speaker 5 (38:50):
But yeah, like you make it word, you know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (38:53):
I remember when I first heard that, like just didn't
live here when she was first working. I was like, wow,
but like you got your home is at home? Like
what are you gonna do your job? I think she'd
be secondary.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
So Mandy.
Speaker 5 (39:03):
I felt that Atlanta coming and I was like, oh
my god, she's gonna do it. She's gonna do it.
Speaker 6 (39:08):
I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I
had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended,
and it was amazing ending it, and so now that
I don't have to be here weekly to do a
current event pod. Yeah, as soon as I ended that,
I was like, yeah.
Speaker 5 (39:24):
Which, by the way, many and I have left it
so long. When that show ended, we already.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
Got to say. See the thing is it was another
show that I had.
Speaker 7 (39:33):
People We've been together so long, so if someone is
a casual listener, they're thinking it's Mandy and I.
Speaker 5 (39:37):
I woke up to all these texts. It was my birthday.
I think. When it happened, I was like, what am
I talking about? And then my mother called me because
Mandy made a video.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
That's who made our rollout so good.
Speaker 6 (39:47):
When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh,
of course I became I'm the villain whatever, and they
made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner,
she can't keep a podcast up. She can't And it
was like we played until that, especially with me ending
the pot last year.
Speaker 5 (40:02):
My mom called me, like, Mandy is on the internet
comment off on you, and.
Speaker 4 (40:06):
When did you do this?
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I'm like, when did you do this?
Speaker 5 (40:08):
It wasn't me.
Speaker 7 (40:09):
I'm like, if another lights to get walk back, but yeah,
real celebrity drama.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
It's you're running naked in the halls.
Speaker 5 (40:19):
It's all the news like it is something.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
You know, it is.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Serious. Well, I'm proud of y'all.
Speaker 4 (40:26):
Man, thank you.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
Thanks.
Speaker 9 (40:28):
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Exploration and Power will be in stores June twenty fourth.
Speaker 4 (40:34):
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Speaker 5 (40:45):
Okay, all right, because I was just one handed purposely okay.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Yeah, when you go to the nails law, and you'll
be like, no, no, no, no, not these two open.
They have to ask why, and you tell.
Speaker 5 (40:59):
Me, don't you know? It's either I braid here or
type a lot.
Speaker 4 (41:03):
And I'm sure they do.
Speaker 7 (41:07):
They do.
Speaker 4 (41:07):
They asked.
Speaker 5 (41:08):
By the way, Jess, I cannot wait till your auntie
age you said, now, no you're not.
Speaker 1 (41:14):
I'm not forty.
Speaker 7 (41:15):
You have an undertone of auntie when you just said
to them, now, oh that's what you do, all right, age,
forty's not for.
Speaker 5 (41:25):
Fun. Don't let you have a lesbian you and that girl.
Speaker 7 (41:29):
Your sister, Yeah, my little sister, she just she too
new though she ain't get out the trial period.
Speaker 5 (41:35):
My little sister she gay. She believe that it's a.
Speaker 4 (41:38):
It's twenty one though, so you know, she she she
still could be, you know, trying.
Speaker 7 (41:43):
I'm not saying that she won't be gay forever, but
she's still when she said a little she got a
little twickle on eye for these little guys out here,
so she can't be fully gay.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
She has three saying.
Speaker 7 (41:59):
A pretty nigga and gonna be straight right right, because
she don't like to sexually engage with men, but she's
still like to look at them, Missip.
Speaker 4 (42:06):
But she like having sex with girls, so that's I
don't know, is that a seven?
Speaker 7 (42:11):
Like?
Speaker 4 (42:13):
Okay, that's gay.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
Okay, she put you on new music, she put me on.
Speaker 4 (42:17):
Yeah, it's this new song. You have ever heard this song?
Speaker 7 (42:20):
I forgot his name, but it'd be like niggas can
be gay to listen, niggas can be.
Speaker 4 (42:37):
Like you ain't never heard?
Speaker 5 (42:40):
You know, they're talking about black men like, yeah, we didn't.
Speaker 4 (42:46):
Already already?
Speaker 6 (42:50):
Oh he didn't. I like his new song, y'all gotta
have little Na up here to talk about.
Speaker 9 (42:55):
You know.
Speaker 4 (42:56):
I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is
different now.
Speaker 5 (43:00):
And it's really good.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
I really like him, you know that.
Speaker 5 (43:02):
Steve Lacy, I love.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
Tyler, my little sister playing right.
Speaker 5 (43:17):
Listen to.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Trump. Trump would be like if your train.
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Speaker 1 (43:56):
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Speaker 6 (44:06):
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will be able to see us do this live.
Speaker 7 (44:16):
I know you got to go, but just to tell
you about there was a girl that's a really big
fan of yours at the live show we just had
and she was taken.
Speaker 4 (44:24):
I know, she's taking a picture of me.
Speaker 5 (44:25):
And I'm like, oh, I know you will go to
all his books? Did you see him? She's like, who hive?
He always here?
Speaker 4 (44:32):
That almost made me hear.
Speaker 1 (44:34):
But I know y'all said no king shaman? Yes, what
if the king is animals?
Speaker 7 (44:39):
No?
Speaker 4 (44:39):
So we have rules uh no kids, no animals, no
dead bodies.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Those are the three and consensual and of course.
Speaker 4 (44:46):
Consensual like everything consensual.
Speaker 6 (44:48):
But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and
for uh necrophilia.
Speaker 9 (44:55):
Got because there was a guy in Florida who I
gave donkey the day two this morning, he put his
penis in the is that is that.
Speaker 4 (45:01):
Is that's also animal abuse. But that's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 5 (45:06):
And what color with tea.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
And white?
Speaker 4 (45:10):
I mean, but Florida, Florida and Florida. I don't even
go based on color.
Speaker 5 (45:15):
It's just watching Florida.
Speaker 4 (45:17):
I do on Florida is good.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
Eating them, it's good. It ain't as good as the
regular Florida stories we read in the news, though, but it's.
Speaker 7 (45:25):
Good now that black man and a white dude with
no teeth and he burned the house over it was
still together.
Speaker 5 (45:31):
It's good, but it's it's re enactment of Florida man stories.
But I think what's so crazy about Florida were from there?
Speaker 4 (45:38):
So from Florida and we be it's embarrassed.
Speaker 5 (45:40):
Do you think I was we were doing bampire hello,
because you're.
Speaker 4 (45:45):
Not not we, not we, not we. Sometimes you have
to speak for yourself first.
Speaker 11 (45:48):
Anyway, all right, it's the Breakfast good Morning wake that
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Speaker 1 (46:01):
Up early in the morning at Breakfast club
Wake that ass up in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
The Breakfast Club Morning everybody is d J N v
Ess hilarious, Charlamage the guy.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
We all to Breakfast Club. We got some special guests.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
In the building.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Indeed, we have Mandy be and Wheezy from Horrible Decisions.
But they chased a name.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
It is Decision podcasts.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
That no, yes, it is not.
Speaker 6 (00:24):
Any It is absolutely possibles. You grow up, you can
move to a different city where no one knows you,
and then you can.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Change your work.
Speaker 7 (00:33):
The grocery store, they said, heycome morning, ladies.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Why why did y'all change.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
The name for the coins Charlotte.
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were
twenty six years old.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Uh, I was still in college. I was in my
last year of college. Weezy, we were both in corporate and.
Speaker 6 (00:54):
We was kind of living life doing doing all the things,
and we just kind of we wasn't our whole face.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I think everyone has a whole phase.
Speaker 6 (01:01):
And now we're out of it, okay, and we just
you know, are growing with our audience and growing with
the with the dollar.
Speaker 7 (01:06):
To be fair doing this book though, you know, I
was telling people like I want to do Drew Barrymore,
I want to do this and that, and I just
can't see them saying.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
And now she might be like, why did you guys?
Speaker 7 (01:22):
It's okay to be a whore, but now, I mean
with growth, and we also wanted to be respected as
an author. I feel like for the people that don't
know us, everybody that like is in the podcast world
understands our evolution, and I think that's when we started
to gain our respect, to know that, sure we talk
about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able
to catapult into all these different ventures. But a new person,
(01:44):
I feel like they're gonna be like how you feel
about your fan, Like how you think the fans took it?
Like that y'all took the horror wall. I think the
fans love it. I think the core fans are happy.
I think the casual fans just found a way to get.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Angry at you.
Speaker 7 (01:57):
Like people get very excited if they think something bad
is going on, you know what I mean? Like literally
the second they saw that Horrible would be going behind
a paywalls.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Like, oh they fighting Sharlotte.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
One want day, I heard dealing with them like, you know,
it's they can't wait to feel that. And Mandy and
I being that we've been colleagues for so long, we've
had on air mess and things like that. I feel
like that was the sexiest part of the story when really,
now we're so much older, it's like.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
Okay, Mandy's celibate, right, Oh yeah, I started the year off.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Just a couple of.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Like, I'm celipate, I'm starting over a couple of months ago.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
That was It was.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
A couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
That was your magic city moment.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (02:42):
I love how you said club. You can let them
know we were city. It was a magic city, you.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Know, that's the first thing she told me.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
It wasn't like he has a family, what I'm celipate now?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I was like, what made you break the celibacy?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
I saw somebody cute.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
It wasn't even relationship. You already win.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Jesus it is. I mean, it was intimate, it was sensual.
We kissed and guddle.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Have you seen him.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Since he doesn't live in my states, so he's flying
to see me?
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (03:20):
No?
Speaker 5 (03:20):
No, no, no, work to go.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
To the second stand?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
The second stand? What's the first thing.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Didn't date just okay.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Now I'm just not anymore, okay, And this is what the.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Book is about about liberation, growth as women getting what
you want.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Did you meet him majes City.
Speaker 8 (03:43):
No.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
I met him on an island, so you know what.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Which was?
Speaker 3 (03:52):
It was on vacation and you lit one of the
island boys.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
Yes, okay, don't do that, but now I do see
our women go to islands, and it was it was great.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
You see see that.
Speaker 7 (04:04):
Don't tell you they booked us to go to Headonism
if no one's ever heard of.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
There.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
I didn't.
Speaker 7 (04:13):
I wasn't dating at anybody at the time, so I'm like,
let me just bring somebody.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Fine, I know.
Speaker 7 (04:17):
So there was a ballplayer that I knew, and I
was like, just come. He was in Europe, he was
off season. He got there. He wasn't even he's not
crazy basketball player at all. But he was six five, dark,
skinning fit. When I tell you every white woman with
her husband.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, before we in the bushes in a bush.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But that's what if you like, I went to heat
his most when I used to work for Williams at
w B l s.
Speaker 9 (04:42):
They used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So
Hedonism is the newdest resort parts of it. And they
have like hammicks hanging from the trees. You can have
sex and hammicks. You can have sex all over the
whole facility if you want to. There's a lot of
mirrors on the ceiling.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
No disrespect, but it's a lot of like overweight white women.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
No no, we we went in a black Yeah, there's
different weekends that you could go, like I'm hosting heato
Labor Day weekend with a black travel uh.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
So when a group takes over, like we got lucky.
Speaker 7 (05:09):
But then there was a few parts of the place
they were like we come every week, and I was like,
oh yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
The white couples definitely go to get Jamaican Jamaican Pei
the way.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
The funniest part of this I always tell this story
because so first of all, he's already having sex in
the bush.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
We just check in.
Speaker 7 (05:23):
I'm like, I'm done with him already. So there's a
nude side and a prude side, right, So the side
means you can keep your clothes on, so you know,
when you're at a resort, you know how to be
having the buffets or whatever.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
So I'm hungry. I go to get a pizza.
Speaker 7 (05:39):
I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is
sleep with people in the bush and I'm trying to
get some pizza. I'm ordering his pizza and the security
guard comes up and saying, man, you have to be naked.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
On the side. I'm like, I gotta get naked just
to eat. He's like, yeah, how long is your food
gonna take?
Speaker 7 (05:53):
I had to literally take off my pajama to hold
him in my hand and sit there naked away for food.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
And I was like, this is the worst ever. And
I say, I loved it.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
So when is it?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
I left it? What are you?
Speaker 7 (06:03):
What?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Trafficking? I know, trafficking that is I booked.
Speaker 7 (06:10):
For it, like you know, like we were out there
and just like we had a great time, but I'm
gone out there with friends.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
When you're going out there, you.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Can't and they paying you, like these couples be paying.
Speaker 9 (06:20):
Like you might be out there and you might highlight
at a woman and she might be like, hold on,
go get my husband.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
They might come up to you and be y'all get fifey.
Speaker 9 (06:26):
Hundred dolls if you let if you let my husband
watch us said.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
We didn't get offered for those type of things were there.
Oh yeah, so maybe it's the men. The men should
go out there and make some money.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Then, so let you careful to you and wanted to
see your special husband.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
This concept.
Speaker 9 (06:43):
This was like two thousand and six, two thousand and seven.
I was on the balcony.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
And I was like, yeah, you know, girl like you.
Speaker 9 (06:48):
Yeah, and she's like, hold on, let me go get
my husband, and she was like yes, and we can
do it.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
But my husband got to watch.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Oh wow, I have to knock it off.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
No, I didn't knocke it off. I did not.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
Now that's the thing that really kind of makes that
whole thing beautiful. As much as I'm joking about it,
all of this is normal for these people in the world,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Like a lot of the things we talked about even
as normal to us.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
If I say my man and I are going on
a date with somebody, people looking at me like I'm crazy,
But this is normal for me. So when I'm in
hedonism and I'm watching cuck holding going on, which is
really what it is, this is normal for them, and
they like to be amongst the people I just did
happen to be one of the people that wanted to
get peaceabul clothes on.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Excuse me, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
I'm trying to think mine, what besides this blazer, what's
the biggest rebrand thing of me? I will say this,
I think now I'm so over communicative. We're in the
beginning of horrible decisions. I wasn't talking about exactly what
I wanted, my feelings, even the type of sex that
I wanted to have, Like situationships.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
I was falling into them all the time.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
I think as you evolve and you get more comfortable
with yourself on who you are, that's when it hits.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
I actually don't think that could happen before thirty. I'll
be honest.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
I think you could try to get close to it.
But there's something that happens at thirty where it just clicks.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
You're like, oh no, this is no thirty You you
look better, you feel better, you make more money, you
know a little bit more of what you want. You
didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and twenties
that now you can be like, Okay, I don't want.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
That, but this is what I want you want to
give this relationship?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
No, you don't marriage?
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Anybody want marriage?
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
You want to not give this relationship?
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Not monogamous, but I mean, of course I want marriage.
I like, what if we're not gonna have sex with
a nanny? What's the boy?
Speaker 7 (08:35):
No?
Speaker 4 (08:35):
I mean yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I mean I don't know why?
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Why?
Speaker 9 (08:38):
Why?
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Why not not monogampy both?
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Yah?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Why?
Speaker 5 (08:40):
You just doesn't fit in my lifestyle.
Speaker 7 (08:42):
Like I I've been known for having a boyfriend and
a girlfriend since I've been twenty years old.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Like, it's it.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
It's doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want.
It's a difference.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
We had a conversation about this last night.
Speaker 7 (08:53):
I did a podcast where I mentioned that I believe
Mandy and I have done this so well because we
really lived this life.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
And a lot of times what's kind of.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
Hurt me from the public is people say, oh, you're
just doing that to keep them, or you let your
man have sex with someone else because you want to
keep them, And it's like, you think I'd be doing
this for eight years if I really didn't enjoy this.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
I honestly have fun with it.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
And I feel like when I'm dating someone that's more monogamous.
Mainly when I d religious man, they look at me
like I'm trash, and I know you date religious men,
do that.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
You know, never do that again.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
Et themnomenogamy, I want to throw that word in there.
So that's where like it's consensual, there's like there are
boundaries you are communicating, and it's under the umbrella where
you could be polly open, like there's you could be swingers.
There's all these different labels underneath ethical nominogamy. For me,
I like men and women, and I don't want to
not be able to experience both.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Off of that bisexual men and the reason I asked
who was up here and they said that it wouldn't
bother them.
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Damn I heard it wouldn't bother me.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
No, I don't want to see it.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
For me, it's a cat.
Speaker 7 (10:02):
So the thing that attracts me to women is their femininity.
Like I've never dated stood right and no disrespective studs.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
I just because like Monkey got Funky came on Horrorball was.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Like, no, britty grind are the only stud we all
got one. I want Brittany Grinder as far as men.
I love the masculinity in men.
Speaker 7 (10:22):
And so if I was dating a bisexual man, maybe
like a homo thug. That's what I'm saying, Like, there's
so masculine, give me one of them at m like.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
So you wouldn't mind, but he just got to be
a tell you want to do on the thug.
Speaker 7 (10:33):
There's also levels to it, right, So I really truly
believe every man has had some sort of.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
I think everybody look gay for real, for real.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Even a little watching a.
Speaker 6 (10:43):
Little another like there's a there's a there's a spectrum,
the Kinsey scale.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Everyone is not all the way fully straight.
Speaker 6 (10:53):
Or fully yes you like a little like you can
you can even and it could be as little as.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
You can actually admit that another man is attractive or
a good looking.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Classified as gay?
Speaker 4 (11:06):
Why I can't because it's it's the attraction.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Tras is different.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
But but no man is handsome but attractive.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Man hand you did you did.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
You have men that doesn't even do that?
Speaker 7 (11:23):
Then? I think you know, there's so many men that
would say they ran trains in high school. There's another
man that wouldn't get naked and trained, like there is levels.
Speaker 5 (11:31):
I don't think that's gay.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
By the way, if you don't stick your penis in
a male, that's not gay.
Speaker 5 (11:37):
But why you and another man are enjoying got you.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Just say it's not gay if you stick your penis
and the man, I said, it's not you.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
You're not sticking your penis in the mail?
Speaker 1 (11:52):
What you want to hear something? It's not.
Speaker 6 (11:56):
As long as it's oral, then no, it's okay, a
hand job.
Speaker 4 (12:01):
No, okay, I just okay.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I'm looking at the Kensey scale.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
It's a real thing.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
He says.
Speaker 9 (12:06):
X no social no socio sexual contacts or reactions. Zero
is exclusively heterosexual. One mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual. Two
mostly heterosexual but more than slightly homosexual, three equally heterosexual
and homosexual, four mostly homosexual but more than slightly heterosexual,
(12:27):
five mostly homosexual only slightly heterosexual, and six is all homo.
Speaker 4 (12:34):
Straight o gay.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
That's a lot, a lot. By the way, I have
a friend of mine.
Speaker 7 (12:39):
His dave is Christopher, and on New Year's five, six
years ago, I'll never forget.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
I kissed him like he's gay.
Speaker 4 (12:47):
Kiss him.
Speaker 7 (12:48):
He looked at me and he was like, you, bitch,
I am gay, gay, and now you've ruined it.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
He's a six six, he's a six.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
When I tell you, he was really upset with me.
Speaker 7 (12:57):
I was like, I'm so confused and you're having Funny's like, no, no, no, no, no,
I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even
have I came from a C section.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
I'm platinum.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
He was like, are you kissed me?
Speaker 4 (13:08):
You were with this? You messed him up?
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Now?
Speaker 4 (13:10):
A little straight.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
That's who I defined as a sixth and.
Speaker 9 (13:12):
The one thing Toronto might have to re six that
six thing six is the highest on the Kinsey scale,
exclusively homosexual.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
If you're a six, that's what all the way.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
Gay, No.
Speaker 5 (13:27):
Hot straight girl that got one lesbian Afraid that she'd
be doing this, she was like, no, bitch, yeah that's me.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
But I ain't gonna lie back in the day. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (13:34):
I had a couple of gay experiences, yeah, like kiss
a little bit more to kiss, but you know, h yeah,
I dated a stud for like a little minute, so
I found out she was ma right, and she ended
up being a clown two and.
Speaker 9 (13:48):
Then mostly had a sexual but more than slightly homosexual,
not that.
Speaker 7 (13:55):
She dated a stud. So that always tells me like,
you kind of are the straight girl. That's like where
you can dive, because I don't. I don't find like
the Felms to be like, yeah, you're beautiful to me,
but I'm not. I wouldn't be attracted to a feminine girl.
It's like I get it.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
No for me like that.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
But you'll have the same crush too many you're the same, Brittany.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
I think a lot of you have a crush. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:21):
Until I call Until I heard her call herself Pops,
I'm like, damn, I know there's certain things that you
can say that make me just instant like no, you
see what I mean.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
I know what I'm saying, Like, well, she already got
the voice of God.
Speaker 7 (14:36):
I mean that, but I mean, I just you know,
she she ain't like when she was doing an interview
in Shane, Like when somebody was like the girl was like, oh,
you're about to be a mom, you know, she was
like no, Pops, like serious. I was like, damn, but
I but I wouldn't just assume that if I never
(14:56):
heard her say that, Like I wouldn't start congratulations you
your mom. I wouldn't just be like your graduations, it's
like you Pops now, because I think that that would
offend her but she was offended at her being called
her mom. Yeah, bring the good I would let me
tell you when I when all that stuff was going on,
I was like, we gotta.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Get her out, we gotta get her out.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
But I'm okay, what you still have the crash.
Speaker 7 (15:18):
I'm okay with letting her go Mandy Cab because my
boyfriend looked.
Speaker 9 (15:22):
Just like.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
That is crazy.
Speaker 7 (15:26):
As someone that also has a pretty boyfriend, I know
how it feels. I went and took him to a
show and it was a lesbian show, uh like literally
like a queer comedy night.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
And she was like, oh, yeah, I saw.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
You were there with your girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
I was like, that's a man.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
He just got dressed and he's pretty. It sucks, but
it's crazy.
Speaker 9 (15:44):
Man get a slight shooter though, no, he does get shooter,
a slight shooter, right, he gets slight shooter too.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
But he's a hotep. It's weird, like he looks like
he's what he's a hotel.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
Hotel.
Speaker 7 (15:57):
The hotel he makes we're fasting right now. I'm so
I'm about to die on this table.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
He's we fast He was a whole tap.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
The hotel.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
That is not what it is the way this is.
There's no way that this hasn't crossed over to you.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
The whole tap what the is the whole tap charm?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Like the hot I know the whole tap is. I
don't know what the whole tap is, but I know
what the hotel.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
It's a hotel.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Okay, I'm being I'm being a hotel.
Speaker 7 (16:24):
A hotel is like you know, one of them, like meditative,
like all pro black power to the people, like we
can't be doing.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
X y Z, but like.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
You're still on the whole part of it.
Speaker 5 (16:39):
To be Do you know who nineteen keys is?
Speaker 8 (16:43):
Whole tep I joke, Yes, she It's an Egyptian word
that means to be at peace, does mean at peace,
which was but y'all said, whole taps.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
I'm just thinking something.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Of course you are, of course, So with decisions decisions,
is it less sex talk? Like, is it less?
Speaker 9 (17:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (17:05):
Yeah, we're leaning more into the conversations around relationships, so
non traditional relationships, non monogamy, all the ways that you
don't have to go about the traditional way of dating
and pursuing love essentially because us growing up, what is it,
get married, have kids, live happily ever after, that's not
everyone's reality.
Speaker 7 (17:24):
But it's cool because we're diving into history, which we
always kind of did during Horrible but now it's fun,
Like we're talking. We talk about the history of romance,
the first date, even the history of romance is dope.
I was when we were first date, Like how the
first date was different. There had to be a male
caller at your home knocking on the door, asking your parents.
Speaker 5 (17:41):
They were supervising you.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
I'm an idiot. I thought you meant like y'all documented
the first date.
Speaker 7 (17:52):
How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,
how you know you married.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
For I'm not a whole retired a long time ago.
Speaker 7 (18:04):
Now, a history of the romance shit was crazy because
it basically romance was a sickness and they believed when
people were in battle or in war, they would start
a war over love. And they were like, oh, yeah,
you can't fall in love, so that's why you would
marry for agriculture, socioeconomic stuff.
Speaker 5 (18:18):
And it's just fun to dive into this because we.
Speaker 7 (18:22):
Already have been talking about sex and dating so long,
so now we just get to go back and people
enjoy learning about stuff with.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Us, and we're not scholars, so that's what makes it
fun to be not now also, so then you've got
a book coming out as well.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
We do.
Speaker 6 (18:34):
We do under Charlamagne's imprint, No Holes Barred. It's a duo,
no hose Bard, listen all of them. It's a dual
manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And so we each
dive into our journeys as women.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
I did a lot of.
Speaker 6 (18:51):
Diving in therapy, like going all the way back to
like my childhood as to maybe why I date the
type of men I date, my views, I mean everything
that's not my daddy, so non short Jamaicans. But I
go into that and even as as early as me
like talking about my journey of having anal sex and
(19:14):
how I used to think any man that wanted it
was was gay because I was like, well, why would
you want that back hole when there's another hole?
Speaker 5 (19:22):
And so I five, Oh that was funny because.
Speaker 6 (19:27):
Just me, No, it like it like goes through my
journey of even like having to relearn and unlearn the
things that aren't true. And then we even get deep
and we talk about like our sexual assaults. I talk
about my abortion.
Speaker 7 (19:42):
Six. The book is broken down. It's cool because like
when we get into that stuff. So it's pleasure, pain, progression,
and power. So like in the pain section, that's when
abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a
story of a dude bdsm bdsm like ying me up,
spanking me, choking me, like Mandy getting electrocuted.
Speaker 5 (20:03):
That's my favorite.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
I love yea.
Speaker 6 (20:07):
I went to a dungeon with my ex and we
agreed to both do two things that we had never
done before. So he agreed to put allow me to
put him in a chastity voute, which took some time
because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order
to lock him in. And then I allowed him to
uh do electro shock inside of me with a tool happens, yeah,
(20:34):
and so like it like spawned all of these electro
currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.
It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,
I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight
tongues inside of me giving me oral at once.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
It was it was the best feeling. I was like,
I just say't a normal feeling you gotta get.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
It was great though one person, one person can't just
to be honest, I don't ride I don't ride. So
I would love for my partner to be able to
experience everything he wants to experience that.
Speaker 4 (21:00):
I'm not down. I don't get on top. Let me
go get you somebody acrobatic. You mean you can be
on time, but I ain't getting on top. Nope.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 6 (21:14):
I just came back from Carnival and the way them
girls were winding their hips and doing all the splits.
I said, my man deserves to experience a woman that flexible.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
It ain't me though.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Isn't that a position of powerful woman?
Speaker 5 (21:25):
When again, and it's the strongest.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
That's great that you receive it that way. No, no, no,
I'm half white.
Speaker 5 (21:34):
No I know, so it goes, it goes, It goes,
it goes.
Speaker 4 (21:39):
You know, I do a little bit of okay, all right, well,
what what makes you have an orgasm? Oh, penetration, which
is why.
Speaker 6 (21:47):
I can't be fully gay like and I want I
want a member with a with a pose that is
literally gay.
Speaker 4 (21:53):
No no, no, no no, I want I want right here,
not like that I want, but I like a man body.
Speaker 3 (22:01):
There's just so many things A girl couldn't knock you
up with a strap on. All right, you know it
needs to have a pulse.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
I like the finishing.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
What comes girls, It's just like the finish, And I like.
Speaker 5 (22:12):
The I like I like that either.
Speaker 7 (22:15):
Like when I had a girlfriend we maybe want in
the blue, used them for fun, and after a while
we were saying, it's just something about it, maybe because
her and I both.
Speaker 5 (22:23):
Slept with men before. It's just like, no, that's.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Not what we'd oh, you know. And I like the finish.
I feel I've.
Speaker 5 (22:28):
Always felt that toys.
Speaker 7 (22:30):
So something I talk about in the book even is
like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex,
as far as lesbian sex is that we see, it's
really for the may od gates. It's not that sexy,
it's not that pretty.
Speaker 5 (22:43):
Sometimes you be rubbing, you be on the neck, arm,
it's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere. It's not exactly
what we think.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
It is nothing crazy.
Speaker 9 (22:51):
And then watching two lesbians with a scrap on and
one of them sucking the scrap on, and the person
that got the scrap on is money.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
Because sex is a psychological okay, so no one moans
when they suck you. But but I'm feeling anything by
giving it to you, and I made I got.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
To scrap on, tell you.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Nothing, you tell you right now.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
But I'm just saying it just seems.
Speaker 7 (23:21):
Because right after you finished second, I could take it
off and throw it in the car.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
So I think that's what he's saying.
Speaker 7 (23:28):
Like, how okay, it's like you giving phone sex and
you moan, and like she said, it's you. There's something
about the action and also keeping.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
In mind.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Because it's sexy watching you.
Speaker 7 (23:40):
Do this is all B D S M right, So
you're being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing
it get off. It's like they know that you're on
your knees, you're being submissive, humiliate or whatever the word is.
Speaker 5 (23:53):
So that's where they're getting to turn off from.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
It was your crazy sexual experience. If that was was
getting electrocuted. What's yours?
Speaker 4 (23:59):
Hers nasty?
Speaker 7 (24:03):
No, it actually can't go on radio, but I'll just
say we'll put it behind the Patreon ahead.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
She got something about blood.
Speaker 5 (24:19):
Yes, okay, here's what happened.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Boy.
Speaker 7 (24:24):
My man was just like, uh, I think I was
having a bad day and I was like, oh my god,
you don't love me. I feel bad, you know, but
just be complaining. I dated them, so I know, and uh,
He was like, why are you feeling like that?
Speaker 5 (24:37):
What do you feel like this?
Speaker 7 (24:37):
Because you in your period. I don't love you, I'm
not attracted to you. And I was like, I just
feel that way. And we were in the car and
he put the car in park and he said, put
your fingers inside of yourself.
Speaker 5 (24:47):
I'm like no, and then he did it. He ate
it and he said, you think I love you now?
And it was like, it was like saltur.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
Broke.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
What you mean, my man?
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Know that?
Speaker 10 (25:08):
But god, I will say from Brooklyn rightmire, from the Bronx,
then God, but you know what it.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Is that's really dope about it.
Speaker 7 (25:21):
Yes, you're listening to this right now, watching this, you're
like this is disgusting. But I think it's just that
when you have no boundaries with someone, it's sexy.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
You got to get married.
Speaker 9 (25:30):
Oh of course you told everybody in the radio pod
we gotta get married. Blood was like a little bit.
Speaker 7 (25:43):
I didn't put that in the book because I was like, yo,
every time we really you think you've reached a level
sexually something that so so many things on our list,
But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome life.
Like we.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
Had this woman went on a.
Speaker 4 (25:59):
Date with her.
Speaker 5 (26:00):
Was a wild night, so wholesome.
Speaker 7 (26:01):
And my father he's in a nursing home right now
and we had to make sure we were there in
the morning to go see him. We got up with
sitting there, he played checkers and stuff.
Speaker 5 (26:10):
We looking at each other like we really just having
his family moment. It's like our sex life is our
sex life.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
That's what he.
Speaker 5 (26:24):
Okay, that's what's funny about it.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
And your mama thank you, and she.
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Would love to hear that. You know she loves you.
She went to go to Charlottage's book to her. She
was like, he was looking at me, and I was
like it because he knows who I am, or he's
looking at me girl. Okay, Happy birthday worth thirteenth, Sorry Sport, Okay,
whatever day is. I don't know, we're hose, we don't know.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Have y'all ever been sexually never? Okay never?
Speaker 3 (26:53):
He said, that's so fast, Like I don't even look
at her like that.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Have y'all had sex and we've never?
Speaker 1 (26:59):
Never?
Speaker 5 (27:00):
Would you? Was you really about to ask me?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Why do people think that?
Speaker 1 (27:05):
Are you? Are you serious?
Speaker 5 (27:07):
I don't feel like Mandy and I give the energy
like we've.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Never be for a long time. It was a point
where they got to be some sexual definitely. I did
feel like that.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Now, Oh my god, it's just yeah.
Speaker 7 (27:20):
I mean no, no, y'all don't seem like lovers at
all and nothing like that. But I mean with all this,
y'all got it in Calmon and how y'all just.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
So watch have sex. And she reminded me.
Speaker 4 (27:32):
So we're sitting with I didn't really watch. I was
just on the bed.
Speaker 5 (27:36):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Now she was scared because she met him at the club.
Speaker 6 (27:42):
We was like sixteen, using fake Id's down in Miami
Memorial that weekend she found got she liked the club.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
Yes, crazy about twenty years.
Speaker 7 (27:53):
I forgot this story, right, So she forgot about our
co Arthur, and she's trying to dig stories out of us.
Speaker 5 (27:59):
So I said, you know, crazy, I've never had a
one nice stand man. He's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no,
it's not. She I was right there on the bed, yeah, like,
oh not anything pre titties. I feel like, don't count.
Speaker 6 (28:09):
See this is why, see the wholeness could be deleted.
She's talking about plantings.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
Slice you can take miles off a car.
Speaker 6 (28:15):
No, it was like yeah, literally, I mean that was
back in the day, you know, like selfon I think
we had pye kicks back then, Like it wasn't to
where you know, you had so much access.
Speaker 4 (28:26):
So she wanted to him. I was like, okay, I'm.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Gonna sit at sixteen.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Yeah, in Miami.
Speaker 4 (28:34):
We drove to Miami, we live.
Speaker 5 (28:36):
We had no teen pregnancies we know were an abortion.
I said, we have a team pregnancy.
Speaker 6 (28:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
I got rid of it clearly.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
I think they were eighteen.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
It was like, I'm not trying to be in Miami
at least bro to be in a club in Miami.
Speaker 6 (28:54):
It's twenty one, and forgot we have fake You think
they didn't got fakes many?
Speaker 5 (28:59):
No, they some They were staying together because you didn't
even remember him.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Don't try to sit here and can Back then, everybody
was staying with each other's back then.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Nobody had no money.
Speaker 4 (29:06):
It was like nine.
Speaker 5 (29:07):
It was no shame, no shame.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
He had money, so he wasn't nineteen because he had
his own room. He wasn't shared with nobody.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
That was no courtyard.
Speaker 6 (29:15):
And don't remember, yo, let me tell you when I
was really reflected. I thought this was gonna be way
more different. You came in with a blazer.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
I have on plaid. I don't understand how we're taking
it here.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
Y'all wanted us to spice up y'all morning, to see, let's.
Speaker 4 (29:32):
Go back to being okay.
Speaker 5 (29:34):
So what is trap house?
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Oh girl?
Speaker 7 (29:37):
So I've been going to workouts in New York for
almost a decade and I love Pilates inspired movement and
I love lifting, and so literally.
Speaker 5 (29:46):
I went to a plate class.
Speaker 7 (29:47):
I'm not even joking. It was February this year, and
I was saying to the instructor, like, oh my god, girl,
that was such an amazing workout, Thank you, Like I
needed some like some trap or something.
Speaker 5 (29:56):
She's like, I'd never played that here.
Speaker 7 (29:58):
And made me feel so small like and I was like,
I'll make that ship and so I And it's funny
because someone said to me when I made it, do
you know Envy wants to do hip hop plates?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Who told you that? It was?
Speaker 5 (30:11):
Maybe it was just.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Someone I mentioned it about it because I don't tell
nobody es not him. But I go to Pilate's right,
Why do I care if you go to because I don't.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Want you to pull up on me. Look at my
ass when I'm out.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
There, but anyway, I'm looking at his ass, and I said, looking.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
What's on your mind? So you listen three or four years,
but when.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
You go to pilates, there's never no music that you
There's no hip hop.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
It hard, you're shaking, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (30:38):
So literally my favorite genres of music of all time,
and I listened to everything. It's trapping house music. So
I was gonna buy an apartment in New York right
I had money. I was like one hundred fifty gamma
buy a million dollar house and I was like no,
it's either that to start a business. So because I'm
not a fitness and trainer, I had to you know,
partner with someone. And so I found my favorite instructor
(30:58):
in New York black dudes name Jeff Blue, and I
was like, yo, I want you to make this and
he literally was like trapped and pilates. I'm like, I'm
telling you, dog, and he did everything. We flew him
to La to learn lagree. That's the really hard kinds
and like training these instructors to do things that people
have never done.
Speaker 5 (31:17):
So and it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes
come in doing it.
Speaker 7 (31:20):
They come in and they shake him like crazy, and
then they go on the other one and they're shaking.
And then the little girls that are super tiny can't
do the lifting. So everybody's doing something different. But even
as I've evolved, my partner Brionda, she's like, all right,
who's making the music. I'm like, me, I got good
music sation. She's like, that's not anough.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
So I had to get a music director.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
And every step of the way I've tried to make
this elevated, just so a bitch came. Now you know
it's a black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't
got this. Even the candles, I want to find all
the candles.
Speaker 5 (31:49):
I'm like, gotta be a little livo. Every single thing
I made.
Speaker 7 (31:52):
That I wanted to be luxury, especially because you're walking
in there and you hear Jesus talking about how Chitto
like it get real ghetto.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
It looked like business woman though from what I see
on Instagram, I.
Speaker 7 (32:01):
Haven't been able to take a class because it's been
so busy.
Speaker 5 (32:04):
I wait, because that's what's said.
Speaker 3 (32:08):
I want to do a group trip there, right, and
and you got to come to sho Well, he.
Speaker 5 (32:15):
Want I want to.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
I don't want to be sexually harassed, but.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
I want to take a group trip there and put
everybody in pilates for fifty minutes.
Speaker 4 (32:23):
Oh my god, it's hard, especially for the people that
haven't done it's it's not.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
I used to go four times a week, five times
a week. My wife and my dough we go together.
Speaker 5 (32:32):
Oh so you're gonna be good, it's megrant former.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
Okay, yeah, that's that's fine.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
We do it all.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
But I enjoy it. People don't know how difficult it is,
but how it helps you as well as far as strength.
Speaker 5 (32:44):
Why they don't either. The look of pilates is skinny
lawn white.
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Yeah, honestly, I'm sitting here like I never had a
desire to do it.
Speaker 7 (32:52):
I was making jokes like, Oh, we're gonna open how
these white girls they're gonna be like, oh, what is
Gucci man break? Like I really thought that was gonna
happen when I tell you all black women, and it's
mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that,
but just TikTok. We were literally working out when I
was in the other day and it was, but none
of my coochie.
Speaker 4 (33:10):
I was like, this is crazy, none of my coochie.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Oh okay, how did you promote it? How did you
get the worried out so fast?
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Okay?
Speaker 7 (33:19):
So I truthfully was really worried about strategy because I
didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool. You know,
when you can have a taste maker vibe, like people
know I like the party, they know I like music.
Speaker 5 (33:30):
I thought that would work.
Speaker 7 (33:31):
It literally was just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok.
It's just genuine a girls like listen.
Speaker 6 (33:38):
That's why I listen that that ain't going away on
the night. A whole lot of it's gonna fake the econdomy.
It's like there's a lot of people that make money off.
Speaker 1 (33:46):
Of their Frank McCord project Liberty.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
There's nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
And I always say that the biggest business is what
makes people riches is to have something that nobody else has, right,
And there's so many minorities that love Plata. I'm the
only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only
guy when I do I'm black. But when I do go,
I hate the music. So the fact that I was there.
The first thing I said, where is it?
Speaker 1 (34:07):
I want to go?
Speaker 3 (34:07):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (34:07):
Because I want to try it out, because I would
love to do it. Because it's already painful, right, you
already trying to focus. But if I had the music
that I enjoy, it makes it fun now when I
can really go through it.
Speaker 3 (34:16):
So I'm I'm we're gonna do a family trip there.
Speaker 7 (34:19):
I made a code for everybody breakfast. There's ten bucks off.
Even if you've already been you can still use it.
But with the house music.
Speaker 5 (34:26):
By the way, my mom is a studio fifty four girl.
Speaker 7 (34:29):
She's a black woman. I've been listening to the house
music my whole life. I've always thought it was black.
I feel like all we know is showed me love.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
But house music is black. Yeah, I mean, I'm not
playing out rant.
Speaker 7 (34:39):
I'm playing that shit followed me hus because I'm bougie.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
OK, because I mean it can still read as traps,
oh sothing, Like why why did you spell.
Speaker 5 (34:51):
It like that?
Speaker 7 (34:51):
To be honest, it was because I feel like when
we see the year or like a different version of house,
we always say, oh, this is like kind of you know,
and then I go like a house.
Speaker 5 (34:59):
If someone gooted it, it buy like a weed stores.
Speaker 7 (35:01):
Yeah, trap house, by the way, I wanted to call
it Trapilates, but shout out. I don't know who they are,
but you know, the trademark was taken in Atlanta. So
but we already know Atlanta got trapp Lotto. But I
mean my goal, Like people be asking me the franchise.
We've been opened six days, People like, oh, can you
franchise it.
Speaker 5 (35:16):
I'm like, oh, yeah, like.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
I got to learn from every wed, so congratulations.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
But yeah, money, we don't talk about your entrepreneur ventures enough.
You know what I'm saying. You got WTF media man,
You had the studio.
Speaker 4 (35:27):
I still have it open. Yeah, it's just now need
to know studios.
Speaker 6 (35:30):
Yeah, but I I relocated to Atlanta. I have other
opportunities professionally down there. But yeah, and right now I'm
working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another
proposal for a book after writing the book with you.
I definitely just love the process. I want to continue
doing that. And yeah, I think over the last eight years,
(35:50):
I think that's why we've been able to keep this going,
because we've both been able to just branch out individually
and do the things that we really.
Speaker 5 (35:56):
Turning over your money that you make.
Speaker 7 (35:58):
Like when we got our first Black Effect check, it
was so dope because to be on salary for a podcast,
it's just like unheard.
Speaker 5 (36:06):
Of, and we were making We quit our jobs before,
you know, so like we were in this doing this.
Speaker 7 (36:10):
But it's just mind blowing that we've been able to
take that business acumen and flip it because a lot
of people think when you're a podcaster, people really don't
know how I make money, Like I think so many
people think I have only fans when they meet me, which.
Speaker 3 (36:23):
I get it.
Speaker 7 (36:24):
I feel like I could have the look, but t
is already out like okay, but content creation is one
thing and then it's like businesses.
Speaker 6 (36:32):
No, no, not only that, it's just diversifying as well
how you bring in money. So between Black Effect now
the book which Charlemagne as well, then we have Patreon,
then we tour, shout out to Justin and merchandise. We
have five different means of income just for the podcast.
So even though we're not in the write ups like
the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,
(36:52):
are our business and what horrible decisions does make.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
Seven figures a year. We are a seven figure podcast.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
We're not one hundred we.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
Are, but we we have seven figures, like and we
make that yearly.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
So I love it.
Speaker 4 (37:05):
And then again, that's just one form of income. Again.
She has her studio, I have my studio. We have
other things that we do as well outside.
Speaker 9 (37:12):
So the Decision is a business that generates money, and
I love how y'all use that money to build other
other businesses.
Speaker 7 (37:17):
I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
Don't have to be brick and mortar, but like, literally, oh.
Speaker 4 (37:24):
Yeah, shout out to you.
Speaker 6 (37:24):
What is when you got into brick and mortar even
having the studio, like dealing with an actual location and
staff And I'm like, oh, yeah, that ain't me.
Speaker 5 (37:33):
Do you know the owner of the building that you have?
A SOHO?
Speaker 7 (37:36):
So we got three buildings, four different studios, right. The
SOHO dude hits me up about how someone filed an
insurance claim and I'm like what they were like, yeah,
they fold my the bathroom.
Speaker 5 (37:46):
I was like, I'm so sorry to hear that. He
was like it's good, Like he has huge buildings. He's like,
I've already got this covered, but like that's what's building business.
I was trying to make sure it's spit in the studio.
Speaker 3 (37:57):
Gott yeah house.
Speaker 6 (38:01):
It's crazy to me all the businesses though, all the projects,
everything that we do creatively, those are my babies as
a woman that doesn't want kids. And when people talk
about what legacy looks like and things, the things that
I'm creating are going to outlive me and my kids
if I had any their kids. So to me, my
legacy and what I'm leaving are the things and businesses
(38:22):
that I'm creating. And I think Weezy and I talk
about it as well. I think it's wonderful that we're
able to like provide salaries and pay people, like even
our Horrible Decisions team is like ten people. And then
she has her studio team. I have my studio, and
it's just like it's great.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
How do y'all take with you in Atlanta? And you
hear New York. How do y'all take the podcast?
Speaker 6 (38:38):
We both record and she was just in Atlanta. I
go to la whenever we're in the same city, we
find a studio on record, gotcha.
Speaker 5 (38:45):
It's honestly too like I mean, you wasn't even do
you live here? Now I do?
Speaker 4 (38:50):
Now you do?
Speaker 5 (38:50):
But yeah, like you make it word, you know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (38:53):
I remember when I first heard that, like just didn't
live here when she was first working. I was like, wow,
but like you got your home is at home? Like
what are you gonna do your job? I think she'd
be secondary.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
So Mandy.
Speaker 5 (39:03):
I felt that Atlanta coming and I was like, oh
my god, she's gonna do it. She's gonna do it.
Speaker 6 (39:08):
I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I
had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended,
and it was amazing ending it, and so now that
I don't have to be here weekly to do a
current event pod. Yeah, as soon as I ended that,
I was like, yeah.
Speaker 5 (39:24):
Which, by the way, many and I have left it
so long. When that show ended, we already.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
Got to say. See the thing is it was another
show that I had.
Speaker 7 (39:33):
People We've been together so long, so if someone is
a casual listener, they're thinking it's Mandy and I.
Speaker 5 (39:37):
I woke up to all these texts. It was my birthday.
I think. When it happened, I was like, what am
I talking about? And then my mother called me because
Mandy made a video.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
That's who made our rollout so good.
Speaker 6 (39:47):
When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh,
of course I became I'm the villain whatever, and they
made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner,
she can't keep a podcast up. She can't And it
was like we played until that, especially with me ending
the pot last year.
Speaker 5 (40:02):
My mom called me, like, Mandy is on the internet
comment off on you, and.
Speaker 4 (40:06):
When did you do this?
Speaker 1 (40:07):
I'm like, when did you do this?
Speaker 5 (40:08):
It wasn't me.
Speaker 7 (40:09):
I'm like, if another lights to get walk back, but yeah,
real celebrity drama.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
It's you're running naked in the halls.
Speaker 5 (40:19):
It's all the news like it is something.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
You know, it is.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Serious. Well, I'm proud of y'all.
Speaker 4 (40:26):
Man, thank you.
Speaker 1 (40:27):
Thanks.
Speaker 9 (40:28):
The book No Hols Bar, The Dual Manifesto of Sexual
Exploration and Power will be in stores June twenty fourth.
Speaker 4 (40:34):
June twenty tonight. That's right, you got them nails them
two shop. Yeah, take a play with It's for men
and women. No, it's for I'm thoughtful about other people.
Speaker 5 (40:45):
Okay, all right, because I was just one handed purposely okay.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Yeah, when you go to the nails law, and you'll
be like, no, no, no, no, not these two open.
They have to ask why, and you tell.
Speaker 5 (40:59):
Me, don't you know? It's either I braid here or
type a lot.
Speaker 4 (41:03):
And I'm sure they do.
Speaker 7 (41:07):
They do.
Speaker 4 (41:07):
They asked.
Speaker 5 (41:08):
By the way, Jess, I cannot wait till your auntie
age you said, now, no you're not.
Speaker 1 (41:14):
I'm not forty.
Speaker 7 (41:15):
You have an undertone of auntie when you just said
to them, now, oh that's what you do, all right, age,
forty's not for.
Speaker 5 (41:25):
Fun. Don't let you have a lesbian you and that girl.
Speaker 7 (41:29):
Your sister, Yeah, my little sister, she just she too
new though she ain't get out the trial period.
Speaker 5 (41:35):
My little sister she gay. She believe that it's a.
Speaker 4 (41:38):
It's twenty one though, so you know, she she she
still could be, you know, trying.
Speaker 7 (41:43):
I'm not saying that she won't be gay forever, but
she's still when she said a little she got a
little twickle on eye for these little guys out here,
so she can't be fully gay.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
She has three saying.
Speaker 7 (41:59):
A pretty nigga and gonna be straight right right, because
she don't like to sexually engage with men, but she's
still like to look at them, Missip.
Speaker 4 (42:06):
But she like having sex with girls, so that's I
don't know, is that a seven?
Speaker 7 (42:11):
Like?
Speaker 4 (42:13):
Okay, that's gay.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
Okay, she put you on new music, she put me on.
Speaker 4 (42:17):
Yeah, it's this new song. You have ever heard this song?
Speaker 7 (42:20):
I forgot his name, but it'd be like niggas can
be gay to listen, niggas can be.
Speaker 4 (42:37):
Like you ain't never heard?
Speaker 5 (42:40):
You know, they're talking about black men like, yeah, we didn't.
Speaker 4 (42:46):
Already already?
Speaker 6 (42:50):
Oh he didn't. I like his new song, y'all gotta
have little Na up here to talk about.
Speaker 9 (42:55):
You know.
Speaker 4 (42:56):
I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is
different now.
Speaker 5 (43:00):
And it's really good.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
I really like him, you know that.
Speaker 5 (43:02):
Steve Lacy, I love.
Speaker 4 (43:07):
Tyler, my little sister playing right.
Speaker 5 (43:17):
Listen to.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Trump. Trump would be like if your train.
Speaker 3 (43:29):
We appreciate you joining us Decision Podcast.
Speaker 6 (43:32):
Go pre order the book and make sure you listen
to us wherever you listen to your favorite podcast, but
also on the iHeart podcast app because we are there
under the Black Effect Network.
Speaker 4 (43:42):
It's Decisions Decision and then if you do want.
Speaker 6 (43:45):
The X rated things where we do talk more about
horrible decisions. Did not leave we're just behind the pay well,
so join us on Patreon this patreon dot comeback slash
horrible decisions.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
That story you got that was five dollars.
Speaker 1 (43:56):
Maybe, And the whole hive is so active that when
the book first was announced it was.
Speaker 5 (44:05):
Hit number one.
Speaker 6 (44:06):
They when it had and immediately work or pre ordering
their books. So we're really excited. And of course we
will be touring. We'll announce that later, but you guys
will be able to see us do this live.
Speaker 7 (44:16):
I know you got to go, but just to tell
you about there was a girl that's a really big
fan of yours at the live show we just had
and she was taken.
Speaker 4 (44:24):
I know, she's taking a picture of me.
Speaker 5 (44:25):
And I'm like, oh, I know you will go to
all his books? Did you see him? She's like, who hive?
He always here?
Speaker 4 (44:32):
That almost made me hear.
Speaker 1 (44:34):
But I know y'all said no king shaman? Yes, what
if the king is animals?
Speaker 7 (44:39):
No?
Speaker 4 (44:39):
So we have rules uh no kids, no animals, no
dead bodies.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Those are the three and consensual and of course.
Speaker 4 (44:46):
Consensual like everything consensual.
Speaker 6 (44:48):
But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and
for uh necrophilia.
Speaker 9 (44:55):
Got because there was a guy in Florida who I
gave donkey the day two this morning, he put his
penis in the is that is that.
Speaker 4 (45:01):
Is that's also animal abuse. But that's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 5 (45:06):
And what color with tea.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
And white?
Speaker 4 (45:10):
I mean, but Florida, Florida and Florida. I don't even
go based on color.
Speaker 5 (45:15):
It's just watching Florida.
Speaker 4 (45:17):
I do on Florida is good.
Speaker 1 (45:20):
Eating them, it's good. It ain't as good as the
regular Florida stories we read in the news, though, but it's.
Speaker 7 (45:25):
Good now that black man and a white dude with
no teeth and he burned the house over it was
still together.
Speaker 5 (45:31):
It's good, but it's it's re enactment of Florida man stories.
But I think what's so crazy about Florida were from there?
Speaker 4 (45:38):
So from Florida and we be it's embarrassed.
Speaker 5 (45:40):
Do you think I was we were doing bampire hello,
because you're.
Speaker 4 (45:45):
Not not we, not we, not we. Sometimes you have
to speak for yourself first.
Speaker 11 (45:48):
Anyway, all right, it's the Breakfast good Morning wake that
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