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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, showing your room anywhere? So your brother old
right now, the world's most stager just want to show
the camera? Agree, what kind of show is this? The
city South with tej Hanry the captain of this we
usually eat. The only one who can keep these guys
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in chest the breakfast cup petition, Wake God, wake up,
wake y'all. As your time to get it off your chest,
man of blass, we want to hear from you on
the breakfast block. Hello, who's this? Good morning? Good morning,
good morning, get it off your chests? Mama? Okay, are
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you in the park waiting for Charlotte many yo yo
yo yo good morning? And he and then just walking
here like I just been here the whole time. Huh.
So you're gonna give the exlomating from the large on
the stubber floor. You gave me not? Oh okay, queen,
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how are you? I'm good and I just want to
take off miss lets some time. I'm gonna tell him
right now when he probably get here. You're probably listening.
He downstairs ka ka ka yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo doesn't ring the same good morning for her. Hello,
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who's this? Hey? Good morning? How you're doing? What's up?
Eddie getting off her chests? Man? Al right, the prison.
I'd like to say, uh, congratulations to Charlotte Maine on
his new show. I just wanted to ask him one
question briefly about that. Yes, sir, the same is on
the point. I appreciate the team, and I appreciate the
opportunity to bring us some good stuff. But as far
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as you're focused concern, what age group are you trying
to get? Because I'm an old timer and sometimes the
poach listened to me, but the team, I just saying, Oh,
I don't know, bro, I'm forty three years old. I'll
just be up there talking. Man. You know what I mean.
If it's for you, it's for you. If it's not,
it's not okay. And one more brief comment I wanted
to make as far as racism things concerned, And like
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I said, I'm not advocating any particular religion or whatnot,
but one thing that I was proud of the nation
long they said we didn't need to just separate and
get our own land or whatever you want to call it,
just totally separate and start from the bottom. Oh yeah,
I'm not opposed to that at all, sir. Y'all y'all do.
Y'all do a wonderful job. I'm a dative with Brook,
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but I'm living in Charlotte till that. Right now, I'll
listen to y'all every morning, and I appreciate y'all. Y'll
keep up to good work. Hello. Who's this? This is
jaylen Bartel. What's up? Broken it off your chest? Day?
My birthday, and I just wanted to own shot myself.
I'm trying to see teen years old to day. Thank
you all so much. I'm listening at leastening now. Okay,
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what do um? Me and my mom were re riding
out of town this week. I keep want to the
fair and teller. Okay, congratulations, can enjoy your day. Man,
life is a blessing, all right. Please appreciate y'all. Mate,
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y'all enjoy y'all day. Mate. Hello, who's this? Hi? I'm
Brittany calling from Tampa, Florida. Hey, Britney, get it off
your chest? Oh my gosh, I can't believe that guy through.
I just want to shot you guys out. I listen
to you guys every day, Angela, I just love everything
about you, your soul. You're so beautiful. Thank you, Charlottamagne,
everything you're doing for mental health and d day and V.
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I love how your sister strong family man, and I
just love you guys so much. Que Test, Oh thank you?
Oh yeah, Team cancer Charlomagne. Want to get off of
my test that you know, I'm very two years old,
so biological clock is ticking. I'm like, one day, n App.
It's just hard to meet like a good black ken.
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I'm just like, what else do you do? It's just
like I work every day. I can't really like be
out going out mixing meaning. But it's like I'm just
kind of thinking about switching over out by my race
at this point because I just feel like not valued
by black men anymore. I feel like overlooked. Have you
ever dated outside your race? I've tried it like once,
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but it just wasn't my thing. Look, I just think
you can't you can't blame a whole race of men
for the ones that you've met, you know, so I
wouldn't give up on that, But I think you'll end
up at some point finding the right person. Just don't
rush it and don't make decisions just because you feel
like your biological clock is ticking. You gotta be with somebody.
Don't give into that pressure. But just understand that things
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can change in an instant, you know. And I am
still a fan of while apps are good going out
and living my life and meeting people like that. Right right,
Thank you, Angela, I love you, Thank you. Get it
off your chests. Eight, don't drop five eight five one
five one if you need to hit this up now.
It was the Breakfast Club for the morning, the Breakfast Club.
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This is your time to get it off your chest.
Whether your man or less. We want to hear from
you on the Breakfast Club, so you better have the
same energy. Hello, who's this and it's going on as
cash cast with up and get it off your chests. Um,
I just want to get off my chests. Man. It's
how hard to plan in the weather and it's it's
just stressful. And I thought it would be the messages
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that we're making the more stressful than anything. But it's
the family. It's just I don't know about what they're doing. Well.
My MoMA is just intruding and everything we asked her
to just make reservations for the restaurant, and she added
like fifteen other people on wanted to throw different other
things in there and asking me to pay for it.
I'm like, wait, you suggesting these things? Why don't you
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pay for Why? I got pay for what I care
for everything else? Yeah, it's very difficult. I would just
I would let your wife handle it, brother, and just
just say yes and just take care of it. That's
that's what I did for my wedding. I let my
wife take care of everything. Brother, What happened to the
father's wife paying for everything? Remember that used to be
a thing that they used to tell us growing up.
That never happened. You should shut up. You got four
daughters and I got four. We ain't doing that no more.
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My father in law did donate a significant amount to me,
and my wife wasn't. Though. That is that, That is
a fact. The only person that's helped out is her
grandmother and her godmother, and they helped her with her
dress and as far as some of the planning and everything,
but everything else has been on me and nobody else.
He has done nothing but me. So this is just crazy, y'all.
Mind if I shout out my wife. You should, Yes, sir, um,
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I just want to give a shout out to India Hawkins.
This is uh from your a future husband. You know,
I love you, baby, and we're about to spend the
rest of our lives together, fantastic gloves together. We're growing,
We're going to elevate and get better to everything. I
love you. Go dope dope, all right, brother, I have
a good one, man, and good luck with everything. Hello.
Who's this? Yeah? Up? This anonymousnymous with up? Get it
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off each ya can't I know y'all can't see me.
But I just I had a new name for your car.
It was gonna be uh car sellers. I got that
because cause that's what you do. That's what the show is.
Shall call cells with the person is trying to represent
and yarns. Like everybody uther day we call sellers car sellers.
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You was anonymous to tell us that? Feller? Yeah, I
just want to get off my chu. Well, thank you, brother,
you have a good day. Man. Now you know he
didn't have to be anonymous to say that. He definitely didn't.
I don't even know why he did that. He must
not want no smoke with a card. Car cards what's
that place called? I don't know. We don't know that place. Hello,
who's this? No big trumper to toll something? How we
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stay on the family. Gosh, welcome back. You gotta change
your name from two quick things right first to two?
What did Charlemagne say the envy in the football game
when they went hike? Can I put my hot dog
between your buns? That's one? Angela. Listen, girlfriend, I saw
your Nick Cannons TV show. You look good with your
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chubby cheeks, but you were afraid to sing at the end.
So I make it on next show and I'll do
this song for you. Angela. Can't you see you're in
my fantasy? You got a lady's mustache but plenty of
your cash. Yeah, you're just right for me. You like that, girlfriend?
That's amazing. That was trash. He was horrible. Get it
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off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five, one oh
five one. If you need to vit, hit us up now.
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast Club. Wait
that ass up in the morning. Check out this breakfast club.
We want morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, yee, Charlomagne,
the guy. We are the Breakfast club. We got a
special guest in the building today. Yes, indeed, doctor Carl Hard,
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Columbia University professor. Welcome, sir, Thank you for having me.
Good morning, sir. Tell them a little bit more about yourself.
I'm a professor at Columbia. I also teach, I mean,
work at the New York State Psychiatric Institute, where I'm
a research scientist. I've been doing that for about twenty
five years. Before that, I was at Yale, and before that,
I was at the University of California, San Francisco. That
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we talked about you earlier this week because you were
all over the news, got a book out, and you
were talking that you you are an admitted heroin using
We'll get to the book first. The book, it was
all over the news, and I saw that documentary. Yeah,
I saw him on that crack like it's great. It's
great if you guys hadn't seen it yet. But the
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book is called drug Used for Growing Ups, Chasing Liberty
in the Land of Fear. It's explained that title. The
real action is in the subtitle Chasing Liberty in the
Land of Fear. M. I use drugs as a topic
to explore our own liberty. I'm a drug expert, so
I use drugs. And I was trying to point out
to people that the Declaration of Independence, for example, guarantees
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all of us three birth rights, life, liberty, and the
pursuit of happiness. As long as you don't that's what
anybody else's ability to do the same. Now, what that
means is that you can live your life however you choose.
And I was using drugs as a topic. It's like,
why should people care what you put in your body
as long as you are a good person. And so
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in exploring this topic this past week, I realized that
I'm an example of how moralistic we are. Regardless of
what kind of person you are, people will attack you
if you engage in certain behaviors that have been deemed evil.
Whether there was a time when homosexuality was the case,
there was a time when black people were being attacked
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for just being black. Now, drugs, crack, or heroin is
the evil thing to engage in because those things hurt people,
including the person using them. You know what I mean?
A great question. So I didn't ask a question. Well,
I was trying to save you, right, because on the
one hand, you should know that heroin is a medication
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that is approved for treatment. Heroin and morphine are essentially
the same drug. Point is is that heroin is a
perfectly good pain reliever. It also induces euphoria and a
wide range of effects that we desire, like pleasure. So
when you say that it doesn't harm you, certainly it
can harm you. If people overdo it and they don't
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know what they're doing, yeah, they certainly can be harmed.
Just like when you drive a car, is it addictive
though it is? Heroin addictive? Is heroin addictive? Certainly can
be addictive. You drink alcohol, not really well, people drink alcohol.
Alcohol is addictive. In my book, I'm trying to help
people to understand what makes things addictive, not the substance itself.
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Because as much as seventy the people who use heroin
are not addictive, they don't have any problems. People say, well,
I'm chasing that high I got the first time that
I use it. Is that a real thing, because I've
heard so many people say that on documentaries. Yeah, I know,
because we are willing to accept that, right, it's certainly true.
Like just think of the first time you enjoyed an orgasm,
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it's like it was amazing for me the first time.
It's like, am I chasing the first time I had
an orgasm? No, of course not. But although I do
that feeling, I like that orgasm can't kill me? It
what orgasm can't kill it? You certainly can't get killed
you think about sexually, even translated the diseases and and
so forth. Again, the title of the book is drug
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Used for grown Ups. I'm trying to have a grown
up conversation about drugs, and that's why. But that's why
we're asking because you know, we don't know, like for instant,
would you consider yourself addicted to heroin? Or when is
the last time you use heroin more than a year ago?
I don't know. Okay, but this is the thing, because
the press makes it seem like you use it every morning,
like you poppy, click open the fireplace and get me.
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But that's why we have you here. I want you
to know we're not we're not judging ring to have
the conversation. Trust me, I appreciate it and I know it.
What is the message you're trying to get across? And
drug use for grown ups? All right? So you all
know asap yams, right yes, and you know he died
from what was termed a drug overdose. Right yes. When
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that brother died, his mom contacted me and she gave
me his toxicology to report and showed me what was
in the system. And it appears that he may have
died from a combination of opioids and other sedatives. Now,
for years, I have been writing that if you're going
to use opioids, don't combine it with other sedatives like alcohol,
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people like promethazine. Don't combine your opioids with those drugs
because it increases the likelihood of respiratory depression. So I
made a promise to her that I would do everything
I could to educate the public about this. And that's
one of the main messages from the book. And this
is the message that the New York Post does not say.
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And that's why I am. It upsets me so much
when I have nothing but love and compassion and people
who are backing me. Yeah, I'm not gonna to watch.
I'm watching your body language and I see you shaking.
I'm like, okay, is he going through it withdraws? He
upset about me? Break? Come on, man, I mean, you
know you're upset clearly. Yeah, you know. It's like, first
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of all, I have too much respect for you, too
much respect for you and too much respect for you
not to come here and be correct. We have more
with Doctor Carhat when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good Morning, the Breakfast Club, Good Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we all the Breakfast Club
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was still kicking it with Roddy Rich. When was your
relationship with Juice World. We didn't really have that much
of a relationship. But one thing that I did respect
was when he brought me to Coachella and he played
because and I was on stage and I got to
share that moment with him. That's when I had not
to say I didn't respect him before, but I had.
My respect had grew real defoint because of the fact
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that he brought me to my first coachellas out there
he like chopped it up. I came, I came to
the crib where he was at and was chopping it up.
And when we got on stage he did that. Didn't
even know he was gonna do that. It was just
like enjoy this moment, like we was on stage, he
was like, look Dason like and I just respected that
from him because he showed it love when he But
you have to when you think about that moment now
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and you think about your record Die Young, does that
put that in a different perspective of you? No, I
feel the same. That's why I'd be telling people it's
real out here. Even after I didn't got famous. You know,
I find myself going to my city and like that happened.
He was really a run down on you, and you
got to always be prepared for that. If you ain't
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from that, then it don't apply to you. But it's real.
Taking you back back with the classic rewind reward, it's
the Breakfast Club. If you missed the Breakfast Club, you
don't come from my world. It's dangerous. Check out this
rewind morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the
guy we all the Breakfast Club was still kicking it
with doctor Carl Hart. You talk about you having use
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heroin it over year and a half. Yes, Um, of course,
the news maybe seem like you use it every day.
So what gets you to the point where you have
to use heroin like it is? It socially. Is it
something going on in your life? Is it just hanging
out with the boys? You made it sound like smoking
a cigarette letter a line. You've also talked about the
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withdrawal that you have to go through from that too,
which is not easy, right, So I'll answer this question. So, um,
one of the things that happens with heroin as well
as some other drugs. Think of antidepressants in the same way.
If you take heroin consecutively for weeks or months and
then you abruptly discontinue, your body has grown accustomed to
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the drug being in it, and so as a result,
when you abruptly discontinue it, you get withdrawal of facts.
And these withdrawal effects can be unpleasant with alcohol. However,
when you do this with alcohol, you might die. But
whereas with heroin you can't really die from heroin withdrawal,
but with alcohol withdrawal you can die. And my fear
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is like somebody hearing this or reading your book and
they gets okay, well, it's okay. The doctor said it's
okay to use drugs every once in a while. He said,
it's not as it's not bad for me to use drugs.
It's just as bad as as having you know, I
can die the same way from having an orgasm. That's
my fear when kids hear that or people hear that. Wait,
did I say what you just said? That's what I
felt like. I didn't say. Well, I just want to
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know what your message is, Just clear and plan. What
are you trying to get across in drug used for
growing up? I'm trying to tell people, for example, people
who are using opioids. I'm trying to say, the risk
is really increased when you use street drugs and not
you don't know what's in it. See if you can
get it tested. It's important to know what's in your substance.
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Uh and so. And I'm saying to government officials, if
you really cared about your population, you would have these
drug checking facilities where people can submit small samples up
their drugs and have them tested for pure and then
we will know if it contains any contaminants. I don't
think I disagree with any of that, but I want
to know why not just spend the money and resources
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on helping people get clean and providing better opportunities for people.
And if people are dealing with some type of real trauma,
you know, giving them other methods instead of drug use,
because nine times out of ten, when people are on drugs,
it's not for recreation and doing it because they're gonna
dough some type of trauma. And what he said, you
can't go to CVS to go buy your hero and
you can't say, Okay, you know, let me go get
a you know, some vultus fruit snacks and let me
get the side of heroin. You can't buy it. So
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you're telling people to test it. They're getting it from
dealers because you can't buy right, That's right. So if
you're going to get it from dealers and so forth,
make sure you can find some way to get attested.
Do you enjoy drugs, doctor Carhart? Do you enjoy drugs?
Some drugs? I do? You know? Um, that's otherwise, why
would I engage in an activity that I don't enjoy it? Well,
(18:49):
let's bring this home. I agree on the fact that
drugs should be legal. I don't think people should be
going to jail when they have an actual problem, you know,
I agree with that, But as far as like just
incur urging people to do it recreationally just because they're
gonna do it anyway. I'd rather personally get them some treatment. Personally,
I rather think he was saying that if people who
are using it to be responsible, not but he does.
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I would rather get those people from treatment as opposed
to encouraging them to just creating safe spaces. Man, youn't
gonna gett an argument for me when you're talking about treatment. Man,
I mean, I'm with you, but that ain't what I'm saying.
I'm not saying, yo, you should go out and do this.
I'm not saying that I'm I'm I'm saying that there
are people doing this, and how can I, as a
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responsible professional help enhance the safe Absolutely? And I would.
I would, And I'm saying I would rather get those
same people some help. I'd rather get them clean well,
provide them opportunity, as opposed to providing a safe space
for them to continue to do drin. Well. You know
I have tried that too, and I mean with relatives
and friends, and they basically said, like it's out to
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hear you, pedantic ass, you know, and so uh now
I can't. They don't even talk to me, So there's
no way I can even help because you know they're
gonna as adults, people will do what they're going to do,
and so I've learned as a parent. You know, my
number one goal is to get my kids home right,
and so they will do their thing, and I have
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to figure out how to help them do their thing
as safely as possible and how to make sure they
are good people or Doctor Carhart, we appreciate you for
joining us this morning till the title let your book
on more time please drug used for grown Ups, Chasing
Liberty and the Land of Fear. It was a great conversation.
Thank you for having me. I really appreciate it. I
have no problem exchanging I did, even if we don't
(20:39):
agree on everything, I really appreciate it. How you don't
know how much it means. But don't you overdose because
I switch to going. If you overdose, I don't gonna
give you the greatest donkey the day I have ever
written in my life. You okay, yo, that's a beat?
All right? Well, thank you doctor carr Hart for joining us. Going.
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It's topic time phone call eight hundred and five and
five one oh five want to join it to the
discussion with the breakfast club schalk about it morning. Everybody
is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are
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the breakfast club. So we're asking if you just join us. Well,
let's play the clip. So cheating respectfully to me is
cheating ride don't find out? Is having control over your
other women, is using condoms and not having babies like
respectfully because believe it or not, yell man is cheating.
But I'm not leaving my man over a one night stam.
I will only leave my man for three week three
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things you bring me home at STD, you have a
baby on me, or if you gave everything else is
work outible for me? So we're asking eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one is there a respectful
way too cheat? I say, no way, not a chance.
If you cheat is definitely disrespectful. Regardless. I've been down
that road. Charlemagne has been down that road. Don't drive
you've been down that road too. I'll speak for myself.
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You speak for yourself. You basted, all right, I've been
down that road. It's something that's going up in New York.
And no, I'm not laughing. It's not funny. Don't pull them.
Don't make it a joke, because that was a that
was what I did, was disrespectful to my wife. It
ain't funny. I don't even laugh about it. But there
is no respectful with the cheat. All cheated is disrespectful.
(22:50):
Don't laugh. How are you laughing? It's not funny. Yeah, hey,
when do you get it? So mad for it? Because
it's not funny Now? I feel in you know what
I'm saying. I don't. I don't think there's a respectful
way to cheat. You know, when you go home to
your significant and I can always speak for myself, you know,
as a man, and when I when I'm going home
to my wife, you know, a woman that I love
or woman that I say is my best friend. And
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you know, I'm a person who thrives on authenticity and
being honest. You're not authentic, you're not honest, you're not
real if you're lying to the person that you call
your best friend and the person that you took took
vows with. So just for me is you know, my
guilty conscience wouldn't allow me to continue to do that.
And you know that's when you're just feeding your ego.
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I always say that, you know you're sleeping around with
a bunch of different women. You're not doing it because
you're unhappy at home. You're doing it because you're unhappy
with yourself and you know you're family. You got bunch
of levels like imagine your man was paying for somebody
else's rent in their apartment, or bought somebody else a house,
or had this person in your home and your marital
plan to nobody. Man, yeah, I'm not buying, you might pay.
(23:54):
You're saying things like that happening. And I do feel
like that level is like, oh, because women have forgiven
men for cheating, but when they take it to the
next level where they're doing all kinds of relationship type things,
spending holidays away from their families speaking now, but a
lot of times men just spending the money because it's
hush money. You know what I'm saying. I'm paying you
spend the time too. They're not just spending the money
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like they spend the time. But imagine they got a
key to somebody else's house. You're getting mail there, then
I gotta drive by, go to the mailbox and see
your addresses on the mail. I'm not gonna say Calvin
Hunter's name. I'm not same his incidents. Let's go to
the phol line. Hello, who's there? Crazy? My name is Jad.
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Spend it down him aroun. Okay, both of y'all have
disrespectfully cheated on each other. Yeah, yeah, both y'all respectfully
disrespecfully cheated. No, my girlfriend of going on three years now,
you've never cheated on her. No, I have never cheated
on her. And that's a god on a cheat. What
about you? What about you, young lady? Have you ever
cheated on him? I've never cheated on him. I'm never
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getting him get away. I've been more for this man
since day one. I love it, Thank you, I love you.
I would be disrespectful if you admitted it on the
air right now, we see each other's name. Just the case.
If y'all lying, somebody will call y'all lout to see
each other's name is way fast. My name is Instagram
and um man give you so security number? Why you
add it to listen? Have you do y'all believe there's
(25:20):
a respectful way to cheat? Hold up? My name is
hymn telling me on Instagram? X king Lemon, you ain't
say your last name? I know that cheating laugh, but
the man goes or your wild boy man like that
(25:42):
is a right way to cheat. But you ain't up
feeling like a scumbag and and it's a lot of work.
What's the right way to cheat? Sir? Tell me old wise?
What what's the right way to cheat? Number one? You
make sure that person that your mental ws already knows
that you got a significant other and they know that
place and they're they're okay with their place. You sound
like a cheat, You sound like you know too much.
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But keep digging the grave, keep digging your grade. Go
number two now, I don't be honest. In the past,
before I met her, I was in the path. And
just how I know this? The two Never bring anything
at home, Never bring no time for I don't know
what it is. Don't bring none at home. My back
cut on the radio. But don't bring none at home? Okay?
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How many more? Too much? Number four? But just just
make sure that your house is happy before stepping outside. No, no, no,
how about don't cheat it? Or I thought all those
things too. None of that works. I'm telling not not
if you not, if you're being honest with yourself, if
you're lying to yourself, all of that stuff works. But
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if you're being honest with yourself, none of that stuff works.
Because you're guilty. Conscience gonna eat you up. Hello, who's
this white? What's up? Bro? We're asking is there a
respectful way to cheat? A respectful way for everything? I
wasn't to be okay, what is factful? Yes, none of
her friends, no family members. You some perspects with it,
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and you know it's a second way to do everything.
I disagree. Okay, So you're okay if you're a woman cheating. Yeah, so,
but a woman does that respectfully, you can be okay
with it. It's all thought double standing for everything too.
A woman have a baby, if mommy's baby baby, I
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don't think I think that there is no respectful way
to cheat. The act of cheating in itself is disrespectful.
You disrespecting your wife. You mester my cousin, youmester my cousin.
What's her name? South Carolinas? Why you remember? Okay, okay, okay, whatever, okay,
feel like that. My fad saying that. But it is
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a first of all. First of all, put a time
stamp on this. How long ago was this when I
allegedly was messing with this woman? Twenty years ago? Eleven
years ago, he said, He said, if he said he's free,
might be he man, I'm not going to deny. I
don't remember. Wild boy, don't what I mean? I don't know.
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I don't know than just being cold through laugh for
your wild boy boy, oh boy. The story, the mall
of the story is personally. This is just Lenard Michelby
Charlomne and God speaking. There is no respectful way to cheat.
The act of cheating itself is disrespectful. You expecting your wife,
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You disrespecting your family. You're disrepecting yourself. I used to
cheat to feed my ego. Now I feed my soul.
I don't cheat. Black men don't cheat a man. You
have anything to say, I mean, listen, you can't respectfully cheat.
Thinking that respectfully cheating is that you don't get caught
because you cannot predict that you will get caught at
some point. So she'll acts. We got more coming up
next to don't move, Happy Holidays, don't go anywhere. It's
(29:00):
the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody in stej Envy
and Jula yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
We got some special guests in the building. Terms and
we say it's only right to give these brothers their flowers.
That's right. We have the meagoes in the building. Take
off Offset. It's good to see y'all. Man. We celebrating
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y'all because I saw Offset. I think it was Offset
last year who said that y'all don't get your all flowers. Yeah.
Have you feel like that's changed a little bit. Smell yeah,
they didn't give it back. They didn't been delivered to
the dough. I do smell them. Absolutely. They literally bleught
you flowers. We did. We had we flow. We got
the balloons flowers bringing the flowers. Now, mind you, it
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says culture too, because the third one deflated. We brought
you off. We got y'all for flowers. Three childre. We
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got some motherflowers. That's three and a half grams with
some good ass. No, my brother Wax got a weedy.
So the new album is out right now. We just
want to say congratulations and let's go through it. Man.
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I know you don't usually don't get interviews like this,
but we want to show love. Man. Y'all be the
most impactful group of the past decade, so you know,
we got to celebrate that. Y'all have been working really hard, grinding,
so let's talk about it. How long did it take
to get Coach at three finished? What was the process
in recording this album? Because I know one lives in
la some live in Atlanta, some lives somewhere else, and
(30:47):
y'all have been talking about this album for like three years,
that's right. Yeah, Yeah, it took us like two and
a half years. Every last summer was getting ready in
la Um. We stayed in this house together and we
stayed there for like six as much just going in
and just piecing it up. We had like thing like
six or seven records from that time. It's still on
the album. Um the Miami too. Yeah. Then we went
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to Miami. We would just taking little trips together and
Jess the chemistry because I mean y'all. You know, y'all
doing so many different things, you had to sit there
together and say, let's reconnect. I mean, it was always
recording through the pandemic, since since it started, we all record.
But you know, I mean since that we were just putting.
Since it was time to get the you know, I
mean the game back, we had to just pick and
shoes and just going to got you know what I'm saying, championship,
(31:32):
Grandmother everything together and the chemistry. Then I won't forget
that we grew up together. You know what I'm saying.
We already know what each other thanking each other doing.
We won't see each other, so it's imagine when we
get together. Did the money Did the money ever make
y'all too comfortable? Nah? Not even a little bit. Na, Na,
I don't feel like we ain't never started working. Charlotte
(31:53):
Man would kind of like upset because he was saying,
we saw the saucer. We were selling the sauce too,
went like coming from, well, we can from you gotta
get any photosaus. You gotta sell them the socca else
we're selling something else. But it feels like everybody took
the megals wave and y'all hadn't really capitalized on it
the way I think y'all should have, right, you know
(32:13):
what I mean, right, right, right? I mean, I just
I think that's what we're doing for the inspire, you
know what I mean. But yeah, you're right. It's so
different when we flashed back to the first time y'all
was up here to where we are now, all yet
out though all that was in jail, take Off was
(32:33):
the most talkative, and Quabo Dreadu was short. We gotta
do a side by side or something. Long time. At
what point did y'all realize that if y'all don't start
like speaking up and demanding your credit, y'all may y'all
may not get it. You know. You see you see
you see you see the people say a little say
a little things, you know what I mean. But it's
I feel like it's just we was missing. We just
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ain't putting them product. I ain't feel like they were
still count out groups. You know what I'm saying. They
still do that. I was always talking about other artists.
They'll never say nothing about groups or when they talk
about single artists down place, it's one, you know what
I'm saying. So I feel like we, you know what
I'm saying, we're trying to stapilize sales as one whole artist.
You feel I'm saying, our things separately and together as
(33:15):
a whole meges it's one man band, you know what
I'm saying. Yeah, And even if you don't get your credit,
I think you or asked for you work hard, feel
and they just go shortself. O God, how did the
sip I'm evolved though, from when you guys first started
doing it to where we are now, because I'm sure
you had to push you back the pandemic happened. So
what was the process from where you started off like
this is what it's gonna be to where you got
(33:36):
it to it was like sixty percent done, like for
like two years, like the lad these Glad, these last
records like justin Bieve Drake, have you become a last part?
All them records came like two three weeks ago, you
know what I'm saying. So we just made should We
laid down the foundation and then all the good start
coming in with the time. Though it was harder too.
(33:58):
Though cool. We probably got like my hundred songs recorded
since we dropping to show him in my media too,
Like it's like six hundred songs. I got one and
he got one. How did y'all new coach you would
be a trilogy? Did y'all playing it like that from
the start and kept counting us out every time we
dropped him the coach, they said it one's gonna be
good as its coaching one, And every time we came
back and proved them right. So we wanted to do that.
(34:19):
It put that, it put that, you know what I'm saying,
that pressure on us and and we're like we had
a goal to set, you know what I'm sayingcause we
always wanted to outshine or out you know what I'm
saying due the first ones of the second ones, like
with music, you get what I'm saying. Yeah, But the
videos y'all films in Jamaica or whynot? Yeah, that's what
Jamaica popcind in there? What was that experience had? Its
(34:41):
hard hard man. He just pulled up, He pulled up.
He pulled up like a hundred dal trench hundred d
ain't playing. Yeah, they pulled them up. But we were
shooting the collar video. Shoot Yeah, we shot her video
calling then we shout out that time were about to
shoot our video. That's it was very hospitable. Yeah. What
(35:03):
did he lay out for the man? He said, the jet.
Haven't you have a good chef when you get to
the house, They said, the jet had a chef. You
got the best chef in the world. Y'all, y'all got
to eat, man, that's what you got. It's crazy. Yeah,
that's when you're gonna make the record though you feeling. Yeah,
when y'a clear to make the record outdamna send the job.
I'm gonna get the chef. Yeah, put you'all uf, you
(35:26):
got a record for you. After we asked you what
you want to shoot? The right I said, I never
went to Jamaica. He said, we're gonna boom filed up
the jet. We got shot the video, shout out video.
It was magic. Since then after the video, he said, y'all,
you know what I'm saying. Good y'all, good y'all. Chill
the whole bill and Georgia. Yeah, man, you know he
(35:55):
do a big So whose idea was it to do
the avalanche record? I could that be up? Yeah? Yeah,
we'll be cooking up. Where were you listening to that
when you at the crib and that came on one
of the old stations. Though he was like, Mama, this wrong.
It was just in my head the Temptation song out.
You're like, I know we can wrap on anything. He
(36:15):
wants to pull it up, and I was just like, drill,
let's let's get it. I need you to got damn
pulled this up. We went, we actually pulled it off
for YouTube and that start working from there. Then Moretown
got the you know what I'm saying, They they we
we went more Time to Temptation there too. So I
just got the whole file set up in files and
broken down and went to work. And when y'all heard it,
y'all know immediately that was it. Yeah, really it feel good.
(36:36):
I heard that baseline come in first. He was rapping
on top for like or like thirty seconds in the
baseline hit. I was like, oh, Papa, roll roller stones.
They got roller stones in the bathroom and y'all don't
even got no hook and feel like y'all just wanted
to get on there and snap and let people know,
y'all you know, y'all do this for real, just walk on.
Jay Z commented on that is that the ultimate cosign,
(36:59):
that's all with Coach Hunt. Don't getting no bigger than that.
I'm telling he didn't made it to another planet. Wrapping
you start off wrapping all right. When we come back,
we got more with the me Goes. Let's play a
joint off their album. This is Avalanche Rolling Stone, but
now I got Rolling Stones in the besom Ice Avalanche
to me Goes Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne,
(37:20):
the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking
it with the me Goals, Charlemagne Quick. I'll be wondering
how you got so tapped in with New York calls
the artist, Well, it was pop smoke of Bobby's murder.
How did how did those relationships happen? Man shout out
New York, New York Man, I'm in my second spot.
You feel me now? But um, it's just all up man.
Jay one thousand and boys, one thousand, Pops Moos one thousand,
(37:41):
Jeff always R p Rezzi so always just ready to learn.
Jed lock In just soak it up. And every time
he Jess, he always reacted fast like he already knew
what he wanted to do. And then Bobby they have
been now DALs in two thous thirteen and we just
stayed locked in every since. Now'll do the album with them,
do an album together, a project with Bobby Yeah, yeah, yeah,
(38:02):
we got to finish the Smigo. I feel like y'all
made a powerhouse back in the day. I don't think
that was the first time. It was like Rochester, New
York or something like that. Got family out here because
you being the look the craziest spots in New York.
I'll be for seeing you pop up in the back.
How to you here? You know I'm having that make
(38:25):
us got family? We got family too, I mean because
quit were you even with pop smoke us on him? Early,
like y'a always connected. Early had an album or something. Yeah,
we had we had when we had a whole bunch
of songs, was funn to put together. I don't know
if we're gonna do it. And now I got a
highlight Stephen Victor, but that's who made it happened. I
just told him he was hard and he was in la.
I told him pull up on me. Then. Ever since then,
(38:45):
we just we made shape the room and light it up.
The one that's on our album made that's twice the
same day went to London, made like Folk Records, West Coast.
Every time we got together, we just made something, put
it out. So and I heard you see on the
new album that you wish you could have him up
under your wings. So even when y'all had that time together,
what was the relationship like? Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
Like mentoring the Jim, making sure he you know what
(39:06):
I'm saying, going through what we'll you know what I'm saying,
going through the right motion, saying, asking about females and
all type of things like that. How do situations like that,
you know, alter the way y'all move? You know what
I mean? When you see the untimely things that happened
to brothers like pop smoke. How to move militant man,
move like you got you got some love, I got
kids and go home to you know what I'm saying.
(39:27):
So I don't be believing in a tough man like
I'm gonna pay what I gotta pay to protect my
family everything I don't. I'm having security at my house.
It seeing not somethinghow twenty four hours you gotta protect
yourself worth a lot, You can lose a lot? Crazy
right now? A lot of people depend on breeze and
car jackings. You see the security Doug got shot at Linnuxmall.
Y'all move different in your own hometown, and I definitely
(39:48):
make you move different. Make you think about life, you
know what I'm saying. More think about your decision. And
he'd be like, man, so many stuff, so much stuff happened.
We got the move, you know what I'm saying, We
got the move right. I'm glad to hear that, because
also you come along way from jumping off stage with
the falcon punch and getting your own hands dirty, you
know what I mean? Yeah, man, you gotta you gotta,
you gotta clean up, understand the bin inside of everything
and become a man for real and moving right in
(40:11):
that aspect, too Off said, we know you're good and married,
but for takeoff and quevo? How do you know what
woman loves you? For? You? Like, how do you even
date now? Not knowing what people's intentions are? I don't.
It's so what you see? You got death? What I asked?
I asked album what you see? I want to know what?
(40:34):
I really know what they see? Because like they see,
they say everybody else. So I'm trying to say what
y'all see? So how do you date? Like? What do
you do? Dms? Is it people you know? Is it
somebody hooked me up? I ain't got no tea. Now
you try to, I ain't. But I'm just saying right here,
(40:55):
you ain't gotta be specific. But I'm just saying, like,
how does it happen? Then? Because, like I said, you
don't know. I feel like everything had for a reason.
So I feel like God, So I believe in guys.
So I feel like guy got that special one for me.
And I'd be asking him like it's just the one?
You know? You know what I mean? So I'd be
telling him I feel like he don'na let me know
(41:16):
when it's one. Good. Yeah, that's a hell of a
line to man, any woman to ask you that that's
what you said. If it's God's will, that's what I'm
saying that God, I would have been the benefit an answer.
How do you know what somebody wants from you? Though? Living,
you learn, you go through the motions. Ain't got time
to be living and learning going through the motions. I
(41:39):
ain't got too many mistake to make you know what
I mean? That would have been the benefits of being
in a group the past ten years. You got brothers
to call and talk about all this good. I can
talk to him about anything. I ain't got to hold back. Man.
What's the celebration like for y'all? Like when the album
was done and turned in? What did you guys do?
And house? You're going crazy? Just what I eat to
(42:02):
go out of eather? They too, y'all ain't tired at all.
I've seen y'all in Miami one night, y'all. I haven't
got no sleep. Sleep this morning, three hours of sleeps
and just hold the last two weeks last night. Yeah,
that's how you got everywhere. We got the holograms in
the city. We're trying to time travel. Anybody got to
try and traveling machine. Let her know all were trying
(42:25):
to do. I feel like y'all, y'all had a wager
with me because something I got a ten thousand dollar bit.
We taught. We're going up another dime. But yeah, we
taught last night when he didn't want a bit for
the whole thing. I think the heart's gonna beat the
boys all like when everything really, I think the hearts
gonna be feeling and then whoever we play, we got
it depends a lot of take Yeah, Brooklyn, Yeah, they
(42:48):
just broken gospel missing it got missing important, important missing folks.
But you got walking the good though. I ain't go
front man. I like Trader, I liked I like the
way he talks. Nobody. They can't go out, no want guard.
No nobody got a true point guard in the NBA.
And that's what you know what I'm saying. That's that's
the difference when you got a scoring point guard because
you got a double team move then he finds somebody elpen,
(43:09):
I gotta do it to your job. Now, let's talk
about this Mount Rushmore of Atlanta, because I saw y'all
talking about that. That an all time lest y'all feel
like y'all should be on a just past shout out
to the city, but all time time it's bigger than me. Ye,
something that should be on there with y'all all time Atlanta. Hush,
we gotta fly ahead, connected as one. So that's one.
(43:31):
That's one, right, I said, Gucci, like you said, But
tip M, I feel a little John Jay Oh all
time and all time, I feel like little John j D.
Timmy outcast is one. I gotta put a podcast. But
if you I think y'all a certain error. So I
(43:52):
feel like it would be like y'all Gucci Future and
somebody said, all time going, all time, all time is
tough man for time. It's only folks with it, folks
based us. I don't care home on what else we got.
You gotta put a little John on it. Little John
gotta be on the yah. Like the Crunk helped raise y'all,
(44:16):
didn't it in a lot of ways. Crunk, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
for sure. Yeah, that's how it was the point week,
That's how we had. He created out. He created a
lot of lanes for a lane, so you got to
put the butler John. Yeah. John, He brought a lot
of people behind him. Crunk snapped, that's all John, and
(44:36):
he's still getting money right Yeah, and E d M.
He went, M. Put soldier boy on it. No soldier
name from Atlanta. Start. I have a little movie. Got
more with the megoes when we come back. Let's get
into a megos Mini mixes The Breakfast Club Good Morning.
(44:57):
That was a megos Mini mix Morning. Everybody Audi is
DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the
Breakfast Club was still kicking it with the Megos, Charlemagne.
You know we've all heard room was over the past
decade of the of the Megos breaking up, Was that
ever a moment where that was really true? Never? No
man got real real blood family man. We gotta say that.
(45:18):
Never They said that too. That's count ain't never heard
you never heard that the count line all the time,
Megos leaving Quabo, going with Kanye this and that, like
Bat and Bougie was off that song by yourself. What's
wrong with the generation? Is they always trying to divide
and conquer? Man, That's that's what be going on, Like
the uplift, Who's the best and who's this? I might
(45:40):
see something on Instagram and got two different artists and
be like tapped if this person better? And like it
this person? That were wrong with the generation? Why they
can't be? Uh both on fire? You know what I'm saying?
Or is this trash? Or is this you know what
I'm saying garbage? Whatever? Like? Because everything should we should be.
We ain't never splitting each other money majority of the
(46:00):
you know what I'm saying, same feel me, the same,
same color, and they'd be doing some of the sayis
what's the nat? We need to just what I'm saying
better at the seven hundred songs? How do you come
together and decide which ones make it? Though? Stand out? Someone?
Just get the gang in the room. We just playing
man play. They put in front of the day on someone,
it would be like six some seven, six or seven
(46:21):
already just you you don't even question. You knew Avalanche
was on that. Yeah, yeah, you knew straightening was straight Yeah,
but we can't get some straightening. We had to put that. Dude.
I can't believe y'all got to explain what that is
the people, I guess, I'm like, understand straightening? Do your
parents used to say that to you? Get this little boy?
(46:42):
Get get this boy from straightening. See, I appreciate that shot. Man.
I can't believe people asking y'all what that meat and lost?
You gotta get an understanding for you know what. I
ain't get some straightening. You know it ain't none but
a little bit of straightener. Can't get none. You know
what I'm saying, ain't ain't none but a live it straightening.
Ain't no straightening. Let you get some straightening. Y'all haven't
had to do that. The body in the wild all right,
all right, yeah, yeah, straight straight straight, somebody I'm saying
(47:06):
straight straight. We got straight in with the album all
the time. Anybody who was playing with the name we Goes,
we got straight in with this album exactly. Any anybody
who thought anything, any thought process, puspect. So you feel
like people was questioning whether or not this was gonna
(47:28):
be y'all gonna put some spect on my name. No.
You know what's great though, it's for you guys all separately,
individually have your own things going on, but that you
could come together. And that's what's powerful, right that you
all have all these separate projects that happened, and then
you're able to say, Okay, now it's time for the
me Goes to regroup like Voltron, and you gotta stay
with your foundation. Three hit and Wash can't hand on
(47:48):
home without the foundation. So can we talk about the
individual projects too that you guys have. I know my
girl Ricky was working with you on the show Street
Where show right Ricky? Yeah, the old man Ricky. She
she she's amazing, black, strong, powerful woman and she had
me and she put it she fire. I love her.
So we did a show that's gonna come on HBO.
(48:12):
Matt's called the hype about street war designers and giving
them a chance to shine, because you know a lot
of the big designers take their dripping gonna make all
the money from it, they don't never get the credit.
So we're giving them a chance. That's all her brother,
It wasn't that supposed to be on quimby HBO Matts.
Quicky was the gaming show I had, then the other
show I had when I did Jay lenos Car Garager
(48:35):
stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, So how did it go?
And solo impact the group? Though? What did y'all learn
when y'all want to go off to do y'all solo projects?
How did the impact the group? Wh y'all came back again?
Came up? Boy, they still can't forward us. We just
do we can. We could do it anyway you want
to come because all our albums were successful and we
(48:55):
still come back and be successful as one. So I
feel like we're just a different group. We need to
get they need to we need they need to put that,
put us in a different shuff because I don't be
I don't know no other group than they did that. Actually,
none that we talk about it, like drop seven projects
and then come back successful to a group again on
you bomb. But but they ain't nothing bigger than the Okay,
shout out, yeah, since we did right behind, that's good
(49:17):
with me. Behind. Ain't ain't nothing bigger than the group.
Not realize what I'm saying. The bigger the group get,
we get individually. So you know what I mean. We
just we're about the group. Say size what I'm saying.
Potentially I just did with the pandemic because y'all stay
on the roads. They turn the bandemic. We turned the
pandemic into a pandemic. You know that. Yeah, you's gonna
(49:38):
know your kids in school, so you gotta you gotta
be a teacher now. Yeah, the homeschool thing, I want
to let them go to school. So that that was crazy.
Learning to try to keep them they're so young, Like
to keep them paying attention to the computer at first
was hard. They weren't trying to do that. I might
look my daughter, literally, she'd look. She'd be there while
I'm dead and I go to my room, come out.
She watched the TV. The thing ain't playing and the camera.
(49:58):
How do you know how to do that? Yeah, it's
crazy house. Fatherhood changed you off to you know, it
makes you see the bigger pictua, see see the real
light to life, you know what I mean, Like you'd
be living by yourself or sometimes and young and with
no guidance. So now you gotta guide them. Now I
gotta guide them. And they really my kids really pay
(50:19):
attention to me, tell me like anything I'm doing, or
I just catch them like if i'm if I'm about
the post a video of my kids are staring at me.
So I noticed that I influenced them so big. So
if I be on some board, they're gonna be on it,
no matter who what position. I mean, you know what
I'm trying. So just being responsible father, being a farm
I ain't had that. So a lot of times I
(50:39):
made some I'd made some big mistakes, big mistakes in life.
So I try to stay on mine. Remember when you
was here by yourself, and then he was talking about
wanting the relationship with your pathers. You you ran into
him somewhere, ran into him, I mean, shout out to him. Man,
I look like standing. I helped him out, you know
(51:02):
what I mean. I haven't seen him was this, Oh
I've seen him. You called me, I answered the phone.
You know what I'm saying, but shout out the pots.
But I don't want to drag pots through the nothing,
not like that, you know what I mean. But it
was nice, mean, no, I mean nice, nice I did.
That's something I accomplished through my life, you know what
I mean. So that's what's up? Absolutely take up during
(51:25):
the pandemic. What were you doing? See what I'm saying. Uh,
still spinning, you know what I mean. Chilling with the
fan fan time, working, watching movies like way because I
watched I was saying the other day, I never really
get to watch some movies and TV like that until
this pandemic. So what kind of things We're like, what
kind of movies? What was you buying on the pandemic?
(51:47):
And I bought watch? I bought me two three watching
some chain about it through the pandemic when as soon
as they started, that was a ton to buy all
that real estate. Yeah, I supposed I stoped tripping two
million with them all. Now your house went up two
million dollars two God damn. I talked me to get in.
(52:11):
Why why did Jesus peace take off of it? For
spiritual reasons? Or because you know, yeah, without him, none
of us would be here. That people don't realize. And um,
you know, I mean were religious. I'm Christian and I
keep gotting first and I'm my my name on the back.
I lost my grandmama, So so I wear this. I'm
wear all the time. Even if I got other jury
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on and and don't go right with the setup, I
still took it. I'm saying, just keep it up on me.
They said you the movie man, So what was you?
What was you on? Everything is new? You know? I
mean I was watching the little series like The Guy Father, Harlem,
Little snow Falls that would I've been on recent And
I like the documentaries like I rewatched stuff like the
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old Tyson documentary Fire Heart Beach. Just you know what
I'm saying, classic bro, Yeah, just classic stuff. Just what's up?
Just news? What about what you did in the pandemic?
I was shooting some movies, getting into it, shoot some movies.
What if I production? Production is your thing too? So
are you gonna are you gonna go like real deep
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into it as Fire's producing for other artists and I
just like producing for us if it makes me feel like,
you know what, I'm saying on some just been doing
that saying since I was in eighth grade. But I
don't never like take the credit forward and you know
what I'm saying stuff like that. Don't like tags and
I just like being in behind the scene. But I'm
most definitely like messing with beats and I'm making for
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other artists. But you'll never know if I if I
did it or not until you see, like the credit
stuff like that. Yeah, and I said, you produced a
horror movie, right, Yeah, I um scored a horror film
and executive produce a horror film called The Resort. It's
out right now and it's it's a it's a scary
movie shot at my boy wheel And that's it. All right.
We got mold to me Goes when we come back.
(53:58):
Let's get into another joint off the album. This one's
featuring Drake. That was the Megales featuring Drake. Me Goes
are here moaning Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the
guy we are the Breakfast Club now, Charlemagne. I feel
like that's gonna be the next the next level for
all of them. Me Goes the TV film world. Yeah, yeah,
we like it. We love TV. Yeah, put me on
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t ll I see you working with Lloll the goat Man.
How you work with the first time I've seen him,
I just told him like, hey man, put me on
the NCIS show Man. What we're doing? He liked, Bet,
I'm gonna hit you for real though, I'm like, all right, Bet,
And then he hit me, probably like a few weeks later.
And then I had a meeting through my agency with
with with with him. When I sit down, he just
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come in. I got you. I'm gonna let you. How
do you be in this? Don't He told me like,
don't mess up though, Bro, you're brother. You gotta you
gotta as this. I'm like, Bet, and I got That's
how I got the show straight off his word. Wow.
One time he told him clothed mouth, don't get fit.
Promise you and no matter what level you at, you
still can't be afraid to ask for something. Can't be
I'm gonna open your mouth. I said, why you don't
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lean it too? The dancing more man, I've been waiting
for that time. I've been waiting for that since that bop.
I think the b performance ain't no shame my gut.
It's about time, and then when you do it, it
got to be iconic moments, you know what I mean,
It got to be an iconic moment. And and then
we're gonna say somebody, we're gonna hit the stay too.
That show y'all have to be to you wain't run show.
(55:25):
Y'all got a routine, man, New steps Okay, okay, steps routine,
So y'all got to y'all got some choreography playing steps,
new steps. How much is the game change once y'all
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got in it ten years ago? Man, because that was
a long time. We just stayed. We just stayed just
dropping music. We didn't know was changing until they was
telling us, you know what I'm saying, So we were
just like just dropping music. Then once we found out,
like when we dropped out first while I ran album,
he didn't do too crazy because it wasn't no mixtape,
and we were thinking that, you know what I'm saying,
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it's like it's mixtape style like when you drop it.
So we was like, damn, hurt it hurt us, you
know what I'm saying. Then after that, when we came back,
we had to just go back to our singles, just
kept dropping singer kept dropping singing dropping singers, and then
people had to like won an album. And then that's
when we came out with culture and we realized, how
you know, I'm saying a lot of some of our generation,
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we really said a lot of not us. You know
what I'm saying. They ain't know about you feeling the
og music you feeling with them. You know what I'm saying.
That people we look up to. You know what I'm saying.
People was going to two thousands or whatever. It be
still shocking to meet it down't no appreciate you from
hip hop for music and the general. A lot of
people got still to say, I don't know nothing about it,
but even the way people looked at you changed. At
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one time. It was like the mumble rapping that I
was like what it was. It was a float though
I figured it out to UNDERSTANDY didn't understand the flow
because we're saying we mumap. We can pick pick any
bar or verse you think we muma wrapped, then we
can tell you what we said. But it was the cadence.
I think it was the cadence in the speed. We
can see that we changed the whole two If you
go to twenty thirteen when the artists having to bounce.
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But still right now, it's a little slower right now,
that's why we'd be saying we motivated, we started this flow.
That's what I think it just was. They don't know
what it was like, who he was from what they
get too fast one cadence they want used to it.
But now everybody can pick up and you know what
I'm saying. That's the lingo now, so everybody, then you
know what I'm saying, y'all vaccinate because y'all got a
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song called back to me. That's all I kept think
about and ill looking to that red blue Benjamin vaccine,
special kind of vaccination. Yeah, now, but the blue Benjamin,
I ain't. I'm vaccinated vaccinated. Yeah, I'm glad. You know
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what I'm saying. Check this out of home. Call you.
I got the vaccine, Okay, I got, I got, I
got the shot. You're not vaccuated now that it's shot mane.
So that's the unvaccinated side. That's what I'm saying. This
is the thing when we right me so little right,
(58:20):
you want to take the shot right? Cool? Cool, but
it's good for twelve months. So and ain't nobody really
stamped that it stopped. So every year you got to
take a shot. At this point, what I'm saying, right, yeah,
like the flu shot. Mama never gave me the flu
shot since my mama wasn't never going for that in
the first place. My mama got to shot him my
moment she got it. But the vaccine, Mom, take the vaccine,
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but we still got to take covid tis right now,
vaccinated because you can still the vaccine so you can
give it to it. What's going on with that, though, Well,
I got to still take the covid time because it's
not cure. Because you like, okay, I'm explained it still
get no no, no, okay. If you get no, I'm
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explaining for the vaccination. If you get called, you won't
get a sick and you won't get hospitalized. You'll be fine.
But you can still give it to up that who's
not vaccinated. And they they told me it was over
with no man, tell them again, you can give it
to them. You can still get it, but you won't
get sick and you're gonna see hospitalized. I'm not an
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anti vactor. I'm just headitate because I've never seen them
in a rush to remedy any other illness in the
black communicdality, they put magnets on your army. What you
mean a quarter and come on, I got to the
arm You not in my arm too. Money can do
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that to somebody on your arm. You did it on
his forehead the other day. Answer you got told plate
second shot. It's a trick man, he's a second shot.
You can do it like this. That's a pen ahead
with a quarter offense. It was stuck on from a
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second yeah, from the same shop. And he got and
like when he's seen it, like I seen his face,
he like knew that he was mine. He got. I
think he got what you get he got? He got
the other one, the one I'm saying, then this fall
different version two one man, I ain't trying to do
all that. Then one got counseled, counseled. I'm not trying
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to be a laborate man. Wait, I probably gonna when
when it's eight one and I ain't gotta take it.
Got to think about how many people y'all take pictures
with fans that y'all take pictures with you on the
way they've been. That's a fact. That's why did it
go back to do these my hollow ram things but
(01:01:00):
back and you gotta think about all the time you
went raw. It's kind of the same thing. You're taking
a chance, it's not the same. Let's get into wait
Hall time. Before that, I want to ask about the
Savage fenty relationship. Shout you know she hit us up? No,
my fa I mean I never heard them saying nothing
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like that. Put it together, ye shout, reread the man.
I mean that's fair. Now can we get to a record.
We got something else for you, saying okaypenive bottle too
for you? Take off? Okay for you, that's the expensive bottle.
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That's all that cassel D're going is to kill. Okay,
you know what I mean? My four hundred, five hundred
dollars a bottle. You know what I mean. You know
I told y'all we're gonna celebrate. Y'all, man, you know
what I meant. H me, You ain't do it like
CALLI did it. You know I asked my wage. Okay,
(01:02:05):
I asked my wage. Congratulations on coach to three to
celebration today. You see that? No bullish? I know y'all
thought we're gonna throw a curve ball in there. No bullish.
We appreciate your Oh wait wait wait no, no, I
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you're telling them. Watch out for Florida Morrner. The craziest
people in America come from the Bronx and all all
of floor. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida man
attacked and ATM for a very strange reason. They gave
him too much money. Florida man is arrested after definitely
say he's rigged the door to his home and an
attempt to electro hid his pregnant wife. Police arrested in
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Orlando man for talking a familia to Breakfast Club Bitchy
Donkey of the Day with Charlom Haine A God, I
don't know what y'all keep letting him get ya elected? Wow, Oh,
donkey of the day goes to Ronnie O'Neill, And honestly
just dawned on me this morning that Ronnie O'Neil is
from Florida. I should have known. I should have known.
I should have known. What did your uncle Sharla always
say about the great state of Florida? The craziest people
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in America come from the Bronx and all the Florida,
but Florida. I can't blame this one on, y'all. This
is a lot deeper than being from Florida. Okay, to
be honest with you, I really believe Ronnie O'Neil is
a villain in the New Bondocks cartoon. Okay, Aaron mcgrewd
that had to write this, Like if there was a
multi verse for the Bondocks, Ronnie O'Neil might be an
evil variant version of Riley Freeman. Wait a minute, uncle
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shall know who the hell is Ronnie. Okay, you're right.
Let me not assume everyone knows. Ronnie O'Neill is the
human who acted as his own attorney in his double
murder trial. He was accused of killing his thirty three
year old girlfriend Kenyada Baron and their disabled nine year
old daughter, ron Navilla O'Neill r. I P to both
of them and I'm sending condolences and healing energy to
their families. If you need a refresher on the situation,
(01:04:21):
let's go to WTSP ten Tampa Bay for the report.
Police opening statements are underway in the murder case against
Ronnie O'Neil the third. He's the Riverview man accused of
killing his girlfriend and their nine year old daughter three
years ago. O'Neil is taking an unusual stance of representing
himself in courts, and here's some of what he had
to stay to the jury. I'm please give a premeditated murder.
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They didn't want you to know the truth. We're going
to see who lives before it's all said. There is
a public defender understand by. If he does change his mind,
he faces the death penalty. If convicted, he's gonna Ronnie
O'Neill was accusing prosecutors of fabricating evidence. Fabricating evidence. Ronnie
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O'Neill was charged with two counts of first degree murder,
account of attempted first degree murder, two counts of aggravated
child abuse, an account of resisting a law enforcement officer
without violence. Now, if someone you know kills two people
and stabs another, because Ronnie also established h old son,
who think God survived? If police come over and see
all his chaos, how could they possibly fabricate evidence? Now?
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I know Ronnie O'Neil is claiming his girlfriend killed his
daughter and tried to kill his son, That's why he
killed her. But we always have to remember in life,
a lie ain't nothing to tell. If a ball faced
lie was a person, it would be Ronnie O'Neil the third.
And See, the thing about a lie is when you
tell one lie, it leads to another. So you tell
two lies to cover each other, and then you tell
three lies. An old brother first lie he told was
that his girlfriend killed his daughter and stabbed his son. Well,
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his son took the stand and had to relive that trauma. Listen,
see you did you see me shoot your mom? Ye?
Did I hurt you that night? I love this incident?
Yes I did? And how did I hurt you? Me? Lord?
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Damn it man? So you tell four lives to try
to protect you. Then you tell five lives so folks
won't suspect you. Then you tell six lives, and you'll
collect a life filled with worries and fears because you
can't remember how many lives you've told, and half the
things you say aren't true. And sometimes you'll slip up,
you'll trip up, and then whatever will become of you? Well,
what will become of Ronnie O'Neill the third Let's go
(01:06:38):
to w FLA NBC eight for the report police. It
took just more than four hours for a Tampa jury
to decide. Ronnie O'Neill is guilty of killing his girlfriend
and his own daughter, as well as stabbing and setting
fire to his son. O'Neill represented himself throughout the guilt
phase of the trial and may do so during the
penalty phase as well. Is guilty of first screen murder, murder,
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and phony murder. During his closing argument, O'Neill admitted guilt
in one of the killings. But I want you to
tell you, O'Neill told jurors he did kill his girlfriend,
but only because she murdered their daughter and tried to
kill their son. What happened to ipe? What happened to
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my daughter? And four? It only took joys four hours.
The only reason I think it took that long as
because they were in there discussing the audacity the unmitigated
goal of Ronnie O'Neil the third to get up there
and represent himself. So you lie and lie without even trying,
and each lie you tell will keep multiplying to the
whole wild world will know you're lying. Then you'll be suspected, detected, rejected, neglected, disliked,
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and you should. When you lie, you're closing the door
on everything good. Ronnie O'Neil the third, what the hell
were you doing? Why were you up there playing? What
was the point? What was you trying to prove? There
was absolutely no reason for you to be up there
representing yourself other than for your own sick personal entertainment.
I've been trying to make sense to this, and I
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keep stopping myself to remind myself stop attempting to make
sense of this senseless. There is no logic in the illogical.
I can't blame this on Florida. I keep trying to
wrap my mind around what this is, and all I
hear in my head is my love Stephanie Mills saying,
Nigga's it, that's it. Please let me Mark give Ronnie
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on you the third, the biggest he ha he ha
he hah, you stupid mother, are you dumb? His poor son, man,
his poor son, His poor son is gonna need a lifetime,
a lifetime of therapy. Okay, you how much work it's
gonna take to get the trauma out of that young
man's body? Come on, man, he's gonna give him a hug.
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I felt so bad having to listen to him, have
to testify answer questions because Ronio Nil want to play,
Ronio nil the third want to play. All right, we
got more coming up next to don't move, happy Holidays,
don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the
Breakfast Club. Hello. These relationship advice, need personal advice, just
(01:09:19):
need real advice. Haul up now for asking morning. Everybody
is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the God. We are
the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us. This
lady called I think a week ago or two weeks ago,
and she was having some problems in the bed and
Charlemagne advised I how to work the middle um and
(01:09:39):
she's back on the line. Good morning, what Hello, Hey,
this is how you doing? She's calling back. You were
very popular when you called in for asky and you
were talking about being insecure about being on top, right, Yes,
so I have a follow up. Okay, all right, let's
talk about it. Okay. So me and him had a
(01:10:01):
long discussion about it, and I went on and told
him how I felt, and so me and him talked
about it, and that night the imagine happened. We put
on some corners and like, I watched a couple of
scenes with different women doing you know, difficult disitions, and
because you told me to do and I tried it,
and like we have not thoughted. I okay, so hold on,
(01:10:25):
hold on. You did reverse cow girl, yes, and I did.
I did. And then let me tell you something, And
that is a workout in itself. So it feels good
because you over there doing your squads, doing your cry
Baby challenge, doing the Busted challenge on it. That's what
I'm talking about, girl, And I also been working out too,
so it's like, I guess my breathing is a little
(01:10:45):
bit better. And I am like, man, I'm telling you,
we have been having some good night we really have.
And you know, it was interesting though, and I was
so glad that you called about that because a lot
of women were weighing in about their insecurities also, and
I was saying, I know he loves just looking at
your body no matter what, and so everything about you,
I'm sure he finds attractive. What did he say when
you guys had the conversation. He was just like, that
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is more or less me, and it was never him.
He never ever feel any kind of way about you know,
me saying that I didn't want to get on top
of whatever, but he just was like, baby, you are
thinking too hard into it. And also, like I told you,
I was trying to get the LIGHTFO and the BBL done,
and he's just like, I love you how you are.
(01:11:29):
You know that's for women who you know, don't really
like how they look, and right to spend money. He
was like, let's go to the gym. We got a
Planet Fitness ship membership and we've been back and forth
in the gym and stuff or whatever. So like he
really supports me, and I love that about him. Like
he didn't make me feel any kind of way about it.
When I did see him down and talk to him
about it, he was just really open and like modest,
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like that's just you, that's that's you. That's all you
has never been me. Isn't writing on so fun? It is? Look,
I always was just nervous about it because of my weight,
you know, and like my guy, he's a pretty small guy,
and I just always felt like I was too heavy
to be on top, and you know, like so that's
the only reason why I didn't want to do it
(01:12:14):
all right now, my only advice is make sure you
don't go up too high because because then when you
come back down, if it slides out, it could hurt him.
So just be careful with that. Don't go too high. Yes, maam,
I did see on your Instagram where all the you know,
people were commenting and stuff or whatever, and you really
(01:12:36):
really talk to me like a big sister. And I
just want to tell you that I apprechect you so much,
like this advice line inc past and speaking to you
about my insecurity, like with everyone listening or whatever was
hard for me, But at the same time, you made
me feel very comfortable position over the key. Al Right.
(01:13:00):
I think a lot of women, we do have insecurities
about our body. But I do know for guys, like
I said, they're just happy to be there and they're
not thinking look at this stretch mark, look at that
fat like they're not even thinking like that. They just
thinking like this is amazing. I mean, we're still gonna
I mean, most guys still gonna hit, but they're gonna
talk about it later to their boys at least. And
that's what I'm saying. My whole thing is, you know,
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like man be discussing what they boys like about stuff
like that. To me, I think they do, you know,
they do, they do, but they I mean, if you
if the poom poom is good, he's still gonna be like,
but that poom poom fire though. Yeah, right, well, thank
you so much, and I'm glad that things got so
much better for you. That's and he sounds like an
amazing man, so he deserves for you to ride again tonight,
(01:13:44):
and he is. I'm I'm actually I'll be thirty five
next month and he's twenty six. And I had also
had insecurities about that too, was our agent because stuff
or whatever, But like we're going on two years now,
so all right now right here, well listen, keep on
following up. I'm glad that you sound so excited and
energetic about it, and I'm sure he feels better about
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it too, So that's dope. So that's what asky it's
all about. And I'm happy to hear from you. Yes maam,
y'all have a wonderful morning. A goblet ali y'all too. Now,
all right, ask ye. A guy will definitely be like yo,
her body trash with her, poom poom fire. Not about
his girl, about his girl though, or his wife. No,
not about not about his girl away, Yeah, because they're
in a real relation. They're in a real relationship, like
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they're together. I can't imagine he would tell yeah, not
about his girl as his wife. Yeah, but he'll think
that and that's why he got her. You know, let's
go work out together. YadA, YadA, YadA. All right, Well,
ask ye eight hundred and five and five one or
five one. If you need advice, call us up again.
I'm gonna keep a real what's some real advice with
anthela ye gets ask ye morning. Everybody is j Envy
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Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.
We're in the middle of ask ye. Hello, who's this?
Whoa Hey? Hi? How are you? I'm good? How are you?
I'm fine? Thank you? I'm such a huge fan. Um,
and I'm whispering because my husband is sleepy, just came
home from work. But this is a secret that my
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son expressed to me that he wants to keep a secret. Okay,
my son, he just turned ten and he told me
that he's made like boys and girls. Okay, and what
did you say? I don't, um. I told him no
matter what, that I would love him. Um. And whatever
decision he makes out, I'm gonna stand next to him.
(01:15:32):
But I'm not sure if what he's feeling is correct
or or any like. I don't know. I need help
with this. I'm not outside. I'm handlin it good with him,
and I'm trying to keep our relationship, you know. UM.
I want him to come to me right for any
about anything. But inside, I'm like kind of panicking and
(01:15:54):
I don't you know, like I'm going back and forth
with myself. But what are you panicking about? Because nomber one,
he's a young black man already, UM, and you know,
just to be open and he's already being bullied, he's
already had mental health issues and you know, it's just
tough out here for him. So one more stigma on
(01:16:15):
top of that it's just you know right, already expressed
in the third grade that he wanted to commit suicide. Wow,
it sounds like you put yourself. I'm thinking like maybe
this is you know what everything was that he was hiding,
you know, right, yes, because it is painful to have
these things that you want to hide. You don't want
people to know. He it's great that he felt like
(01:16:36):
he could tell you, yes, that's what I told her, right,
and start expressing that to you. And you have to
keep those lines of communication open. I think your response
was amazing, and I understand that you are concerned because
that's your child, so you don't want him to be
out in this world where people can be really nasty
and cruel. And I exactly right. So he expressed to
(01:16:57):
me that he does like a boy in school and like,
you know, like I don't, I don't know how to
how to handle everything, like like this is a lot,
Like he's only ten. If he's too young to have
these feelings, is he you know? Like is this something
that's normal? If it's gonna change? I have so many
questions like I don't, I don't I need help, And
(01:17:17):
you know what, honey, there's nobody that can even answer
all those questions for you, because he probably doesn't even
understand everything right now. He just knows how he's feeling,
and at least he's able to express how he's feeling.
And that's all he can do. Now. Have you got
him some professional help, somebody that he can speak to
so that they can help him navigate, and maybe both
of you should go. And I think that's not far.
(01:17:39):
You know, like I'm still kind of in shock this.
He just expressed this to me two days ago, right,
so I'm just like still trying to you know, see
like I don't want him to, you know, feel like
he can't trust me, but I don't want him to.
He's only ten and I don't want him to start
reacting on these feelings. And you know, like I I
(01:18:00):
don't know. And then he's also expressing to me like,
you know, please don't tell my God and don't tell
this person, and you know, like I just he's scared
of everyone's reaction, right, So and you should respect that,
of course, and you are, Yeah, don't tell anybody else,
but definitely go set up something for you guys, to
find somebody good to talk to. If you hold on
(01:18:20):
the line. I actually have somebody that can be really
helpful with that, and that would be doctor Kendall Jasper
and I always refer people to him when we're in
situations and I feel like this is dire because I
want you to be able to know how to deal
with this. I'm not an expert in that, but I
do feel like what you've done so far has been
amazing as a mom, and I know that I want
you to be able to express to him in the
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best way possible how much you love him, how much
you care about him and us, and also help him
learn what he needs to do in order to be
more comfortable and not have feelings of suicide, because that's
a major too. You don't want him to everythink about
that again. That's my worst fear. All right, hold on
the line. I'm gonna hook you up with doctor Kendall much.
Thank you so much, No problem, damn. Let's let's ask
(01:19:04):
you one hundred and five and five one oh five one.
You can call up and ask you whatever you want
to talk to about. It's the breakfast Club, the Breakfast Club,
It's time to ask you and e morning. Everybody is
DJ Envy Angela ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are the
breakfast Club. It's time for ass C and E. You
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can ask us anything you want. Eight hundred and five
A five one to five one. Hello, who's this? Hi? Askley?
What's your question? How are you doing to ask you?
I'm good, I'm good, all right. So I'm twenty nine. Um,
I've been separated for three years, married for five and
I recently found out that my ex or whatever, my husband,
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that she is bisexual. Okay, he likes men and women, right,
So that being said has changed and like we kind
of don't know how to go with each other. It's
more and that's like he's acting like a real d
Like now I gotta deal with a female and before
it was a whole different person. We'll listen. I don't
like your attitude about this, and I'm gonna tell you why.
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You know how that makes people lack? Right? You don't
you don't? You know, have started acting funny because you
was getting some good d. Okay, so you should be
able to relate to that man even more. Now that
shouldn't drive y'all apart. Oh god, listen, So my question
is how do I get him to be a little
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bit more, How do I deal with him in terms
like how am I be patient? Because I don't know.
I don't I don't throw a woman like I don't
know how. He's not a woman, he's a man. You
gotta deal with him the same way. He's just a
dumatized person. Stop looking at it from agenda perspective and
just think from the perspective of being tematized. You've been there,
you can relate. You need to look that man in
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his eyes and say, look, man, I understand how that
good D can get you, But you acting funny with me? Son?
Good luck though, good luck. I don't understand why this
isn't such a complicated conversation. Now y'all got more in common.
You like penis, he like penis. It's different, different when
you were really dealing with someone and now they've changed,
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like or maybe or maybe you have changed. Maybe you
feel a way now because you understand that he's just
not giving a D to you. Have you ever been bisexual?
You've been with a woman. I am actually from the beginning.
Oh so, y'all both share the best of both worlds.
He like penis andoom. You like penis and poom. Poom
in the same way you're hating Yo. You hate because
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he's getting more d than you Nowaday, you sound like
I hate a hater. Y'all. You hate him? You hate him?
I hate him? Goodness creations as CNE eight hundred and
five eight five one on five one. If you hate it,
will take it. Calls to Hello, who's that? Hi? I said,
my name is anonymous? Hey, Anonymous? What's your question for
seeing it? I don't get it. We're on the radio,
nobody can see you. But whatever. You can give a
fake name. No, but my name is just so unique,
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you know. I just can't do it. So name, go ahead.
What's your question, mamma, I'm glad I got y'all to today.
It's a good Question's okay. So I've been with my
boyfriend for We're in our tenth year, right, yes, congratulations?
Oh you know thanks. We had three kids together, okay.
And when we first started dating, we both established that
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we didn't want to get married. It was just like,
I think we were both young and it was hey,
we just dating, let's have fun. We didn't see that
we'd be to get the ten years. So now my
values have changed and I want to get married and
he's in that why I fixed something that? Yeah, and
but I'm looking at it more on a you know,
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showing your kids that you value your relationship and legal
standpoints too. If anything ever happens to me or him,
we can't go on the room. We're not allowed there,
we have no say so. But we know what's best
for each other. I agree, so. But the thing is,
but he came in this relationship not thinking that he
didn't want to get married, and you knew that, and
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you didn't want to get married. You changed up. He
didn't change up. You sound just like my best friend.
He had do too. But the thing is, your values changed,
and your kids start to ask you why y'all don't
got the same last name? Exactly happened to me exactly,
so we wentn't looking for houses, and my daughter said, mommy,
and the next house we go and you can't come
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in because you're not a blank she said, their last name. Wow,
it like hurt my heart. Yeah, but she was only
like three or four. Did you have that conversation with him?
Does he still doesn't want to get married? Yes, But
the thing is, I don't want to continue to push
because I don't want him to feel obligated. I don't
want a man to marry me out of obligation. I
want him to marry me because he feels like we
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have the same value. Right. But you know, you already
went into this relationship, in this union thinking that you
didn't want to get married. He didn't want to get married.
He was cool with that. What's the reason he doesn't
want to get married. He's just saying, like, what does
a piece of paper do for us? We know that
we're both for each other and we're gonna be together forever.
Where he's on the black man don't cheat. He does
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not cheat. I know this. But the thing is, it's
just like for him, it's like, why I'm gonna tell
you something. I think you know. I'm sure he loves you,
I'm sure he wants to be with you for the
rest of his life. With JAD. That's the thing when
your kids come to you, and your kids say, why
y'all don't have the same last name? Like you know,
I do believe that marriage is just a piece of paper,
and y'all already married because y'all are tired. It's the soul, correct.
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But I do like the fact I do like the
I like making it official. I think he should make
an official but you know I can't. I can't tell
him to marry you. I can only tell him to
find somebody to share his life experiences with. But he
already got that. So it's really nice. And he tells
me that all the time. He's like, Hey, I want
to be with you year the person I want. I
don't want to do with anybody else. But he just
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doesn't see the reason why. Hey, we've been together this long,
it's been working. You should tell him. You should tell
him the reason is because you want to That's it.
And your kids, your kids as well. I'm all about
making my woman happy, happy wife, happy life. So the
fact that tell him you want to, don't, don't. Don't.
Don't even make it like negotiable, be like, y'all really
want to get married. When you ask you what you
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want for Christmas? I want to get married. What you
want for your birthday? I want to get married. What
you want from Valentine? I want to get married. Trying
too much? Whyn't you just ask him one good time?
Why don't you ask him? Why don't you get a
ring and be like I want you to be my husband.
Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. You
just go curse the video. Never, I would never do that.
Do about to be a Christian Jim John situation. I
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don't think it's anything wrong with letting him know that's
what you want, though, And if he loves and if
he really really loves you, and he really because it's
gonna come a point in time where he can't give you.
He can buy you a house, he can buy you purses,
all that stuff he done all that. He bought me
a house. He's support We both own our own businesses.
He supports my business so much. And it's just like
you want that ring. That's the only thing that I want.
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I don't even need. The thing is I don't. I
can get one of those the rings you go work
out with. It is like silicone. I don't need the
big jewel. I just want to be able to share
the last name and we be a You need to
go on title and make you a marriage playlist. When
y'all in the car, just songs be playing like let's
get married beyond it. If you like it, then you
put a ring on it. Just all these songs they
got to do in marriage. Just keep beating it in
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his head. Eventually he'll come around y'all all day. So
y'all get tell him, tell him to marry me. What's
his name? What's his name? His name is DWIGHTE. White?
Get married, Get married to West. What you do is
you wait right right when y'are having sex, right when
he's about, and you stop right there, and you'd be like,
this is only for a married man, and just walk out.
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What No, the wighte for real? Get married. I promise you,
when you get married, your life will change, man. And
not only when you get married. When you get married
and you're a faithful black man, I promise you your
life will transform in ways that you can't even explain.
I can't even explain to you. To joy that I
feel in my life. Peters gets bigger when you get married.
Oh yeah, get married. The white marry me white to white?
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All right, The white do what's right, The white do
what the white alright? I'm with that. All right, Well,
don't move. Happy holidays. It's the breakfast club. Good morning,
the breakfast club. All right, Charlemagne, you got a positive
note for the people. I do positive note and simple man.
What's broken can be mended, what hurts can be healed,
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And no matter how dark it gets, the sun is
going to rise again. Breakfast Club, you know I'll finish
for y'all. Dunk