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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake that ass up in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
The Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is stej Envy just hilarious.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Charlamagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
We got a special guest in the building from the
Real Housewives of Atlanta, Shamiah Morton.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Welcome.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Hey, are you feeling I'm excited. I've been waiting to
come hang out with y'all for so long.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
We've seen you, You've been, we seen we pass you
in the halls.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I'm just tired of passing, y'all. I just wanted to
be in the room with you.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
What's your other shows up?
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, got you got you got?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
How you feeling? How's everything?
Speaker 5 (00:33):
You know?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Everything's been great. New York has been kind. My birthday
was yesterday here y'all thirteen, Yes.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Me and my anniversary dope, twenty four years.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
That's a beautiful thing.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
You picked the right day.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
You pick the right day.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
Why do I care with my birthday?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:53):
I love it?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Black Love. There we go. We got your new single
out and never had yes, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
So I'm excited about that song because our and be
Flat helped produce that.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
You know from next you know how it is in
the industry.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
You tell people you really want to do something like yeah,
you come by the studio and no one ever follows
up and really don't do anything. So me being at
my big age, you know, it was still a passion
of mine to sing and do music.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
And he gave me a shot and people are loving it,
and I'm loving that y'all are supporting it. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Let's talk about how she walked in here.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
She walked in here with sparkless and everybody like it
was the nightclub.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
I felt I.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Was about to get a shot the bottle girls salkless.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
She came in like, hey, y'all bought battles, y'all.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Kind why do you think your career didn't take off
the music.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Crew in the past, it has been because of the
girl groups or you know, like I was in the
group co Ed roll Me back in the day, was
Rolling Rolling Me. I didn't work with Carry Hills and
(01:56):
it was called pretty tony. And then of course Samari
fears when a group intrigue back in the day. I've
done lots of groups, and you know how it is
with groups back in the day, it was like somebody
else get signed by somebody then not a group is
broken up or somebody gets pregnant.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Now it's over.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
And I think I just got burned out at a
young age, and that acting check was better. So I
started focusing on that acting hosting and the music love
was always there, so I was like, I'm going back
to it.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
But you've always had a beautiful voice. Thank you, Yeah,
thank you. I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
So yeah, I was like singing at church's by Mitzvah's funerals,
and it was like, okay, I gotta if I gotta
do it, I just gotta do it on my own.
And now it's easier because social media helps you to
just put your own stuff out there.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
You don't have to wait on Yeah, Like.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Back in the day, it was like you got to
do it for a and R have a whole showcase.
Somebody's got to prove the label got to sign you.
Then you gotta hope that they put it out. Now
you just sing on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I hope it goes viral.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Well, we said, what does success look like in that
space for you?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I think I'm living in it right now.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Just having my song even hit the chart is a
blessing because I'm like litlone me, you know, I just
I don't know. Even people just singing it and tagging
me in their videos like, oh this vibe.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
It feels good because now I'm just not singing it
for my family on a fireplace stupid.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
It's like now the world is loving it. So we're
just doing singles. Woman the making a EP. What's going So.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I just shot the video for it, so I'm going
to release that next month and I don't know. I've
gotten five strong songs so far, so I don't know
if I want to do EP or album, but we'll see.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Also, we got to ask you a friend on The
Housewives for a while or forever, so you've seen the mess,
You've seen the craziness, the fights and all it made
you want to be part of that franchise as an
official member.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I think I've always wanted to do it, but they
wouldn't allow me to do it without my husband actually
agreeing to come on camera.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
And he wasn't for it.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
He was like, I support you doing it and our
kids and y'all can film.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
At the house. I just don't want to be on camera.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
And when they came over did a test shoot with me.
They saw how I was living and they were like,
I don't think we'll need him. They were like, well,
they were like, we'll be able to move for it,
you know, and was holding not on how much money
you had and everything.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Well, you know, I don't know. I just don't leave
with it.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I mean, unless you know me and we're like great friends,
you wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Know because I mean, I don't know. It's weird for
me to be like, hey, you know, but.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
If that's what's required, you know, for you to get
on the show, were you ever was that something that
you did you even want to have a peach on
the show or did you?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
I did, I did, but I just I didn't think that.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Whatever happened because he again had to agree to be
on cameraon he was like, but then he ends up
joining us a little bit this season, like for big
events for me like my birthday or my showcase and stuff,
he pulls up. But he was like the same, you know,
he shies away from camera's that's not his thing, And
I'm like, I respect that.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I was going to ask too, because there's so much
focus on relationships on the show. How did you get
him not the film, So you how did you get
him not to have to film a whole season?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
He does, I'm a little bit, but it's not like
our personal life is you know, that's me, that's mine.
You know, you only can give what you want to
give or show what you want to show. And I think,
you know, he pulls off our kids and my birth
like the big moments, but he's just not into it.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Like the network was completely okay.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
With yeah, wow, finally, I mean finally, you know, I've
been That's another thing. I feel like my personality and
just what I bring is enough. I don't necessarily need
you'll to It's not the housewives. You know, the husbands
is the wives, so the focus should be on the wives.
And I think anytime the men have gotten too involved,
it's been messy.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
I think it's been weird too, Like when the men
are just sitting there talking to each other about the women,
it just seems weird. On the share even if they
got your party, just when they go to the men
over there talking in the court, it just seems odd,
like you know what I mean, but.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
It seems you and your wife ever do something like that.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
We thought about it a couple of times in the approach,
but I wanted to ask for people that don't know,
how close are you and Porscha, meaning growing up? How
like a, well, your best friends growing up, did yoll living.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Down the block or our parents were best friends and
that's kind of how we became friends. And you know
how it is, and you y'all take family trips, so
we go and it's like, at first it was like
a forced friendship because it was like.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
We were childhood friends.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Then I went to college, she did her thing, and
after we just kind of came back together when she
got married and it was like, oh my gosh, I
missed you, like and then we were like inseparable sense.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
So prior to this show, I would like to think
that we were.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Very close, but the show changed that a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, and that's unfortunate because I love Porsche, you know,
and we have a good time together, like she's super
silly like me, down to earth and just this platform,
I just I prayed that it wouldn't change things, but
unfortunately it has.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
And it's it's like a lot of.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
People muddying and murkury, you know, making the water a
little it's messy, but not real manufactured because I mean no,
these feelings are very real.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
For a storyline, I think.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
That they're just messy, Like I think some of these
women are messy, and I would never have allowed them
to ruin our friendship or even muddy to waters. But
she's listened to some of the things that they've said.
And of course with this show, everything will be revealed.
It will be shown to you, and it's like we've
gone this whole season and not really been speaking. So
(07:20):
when you watch it, it's gonna be like, Okay, see
I told you. I told you that Drew said this
about paying for your child's college. As a real friend,
I'm not going to allow somebody to talk about you
in your absence. I think you should have thought like
been like, thank you for holding me down in my absence.
Instead she's like, oh, you're trying to start a mess
(07:41):
with me, and Drew or is like you brought it back.
You exaggerated it, and I'm like, it was no need
to exaggerate it. The girl said what she said, and
I said that she said a jokingly, but she said it,
and I didn't even add the part about oh, I'll
be at a buyer some snacks, like it was just
off paper of college and I'm like, no, if someone
came and they said, oh, I'm gonna pay for Marley
Skoy's college, I'm like, no, I'm sure Jess got it.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
You know you don't need to do that. You know,
you're being messy. I hate that.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
How much did the edits really affected? Right?
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Because it was one part and you know, I watched
the show with my wife. I guess you guys were
going out for dinner and one of the girls, you like,
first time meeting him and then she threw a shot
at Porsche right away, right, and he was like, that's
my friend, So before you go there, that's my friend.
So how much of the show edits that we don't
see that? Maybe you did check it until her this, that,
and there, but we only see that little glimpse of it.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Oh yeah, well that is I mean, you know, you
only get an hour, so they can't show everything, but they're.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Filming all but they're filming.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Absolutely, and I definitely did check both of them. You know,
they kind of came from my friend. And you know,
that's the problem that I have now on the season,
Like I'm the lap dog because I'm a super loyal
person and I'm a loyal friend. And if that's what
that means, then I guess I'm a lap dog because
what you're not going to do is talk trash about
my people and not expect me to speak about it
(08:55):
and speak up on it. And I brought that information
back to Porsche as I would think I want her
to do for me, Like, hey girl, this is what
they said. Like I told them that she gets to
know you for yourself, you know. They were like, oh,
you know how you you let your friends still that
lady's husband. I'm like, yo, this is how these new
girls are coming. Just giving you a heads up so
you know, And it was like it's all that's being
turned around, like you're being messy and talking about your friend.
(09:17):
Now it's Porsche, a different Porsche outside of Housewives, and
she is on Housewives. You're her friends, so you would
know that, you know, y'all have known each other for
a while. I think that on the show she can
kind of like close up and not be as vulnerable
and open, but rightfully so, like sometimes on this platform
you get torn apart for being vulnerable and being open
(09:39):
and it's like, oh, you should have did it, So
it's like almost like you damned if you do, damned
if you don't.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
So yeah, I do think that.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
You know, she's guarded in a sense, whereas if we're
just one on one hanging out, it's like it's whatever,
I'm an open book and disguy's a limit whatever. But
the show, of course, she's like, I'm the harness and
hold back on some this stuff because I don't want
to be judged or I don't want to feel.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
You know, do you feel like things changed after you
got your peach? Yeah? Even more than before.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Yes, because now we're sharing this space in this spotlight,
and it's uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
You feel she's jealous.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
I don't know that. I don't know that she's jealous.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I don't want to say that, but I just feel
like it's just different because before I was just a
friend of Now it's like I have I have a
mic on Before I will be at some of these
events and no one would even know I was in
the room, because again, I'm just a friend of Horseho
or a friend of Candy, and I may have an
opinion on something, but you wouldn't know it because they
didn't catch it. Whereas now it's like, oh, where does
(10:36):
she me to get this big voice from or this
big personality from.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Well, I've always been here.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I just never got the opportunity to express it or
show it. And like I said back to Porsche, I
just don't feel like in a real friendship you have
to like I don't want to say be guarded. But
it's like, am I cool to say this, like we're good?
I don't want to I don't want to out or
(11:00):
I don't want to talk about something that you're not
comfortable talking about or bringing to this platform or bring
into the space, like are we good? So you're kind
of like walking on exshell's like for the longest time,
it's been her thing and now this is our thing.
And whereas before, as a friend of the show is like,
hey we are talking about this unch okay, cool, Now
it's like, well, this is my personal life.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
You're my real friend. This is what it is we have.
I'm open.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
I'm super open and rich and authenticity. Whatever I am
is what I am on camera and off camera. So
there's nothing off limits for you to talk about with me.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
People would say, you know in the comments that you
know she didn't come up to your wedding. She came
late to your birthday party.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
She can come to the wedding in Kenya and Kenya
and to be clear, only had one wedding.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Okay, so yeah, and that was a wedding in Kenya.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
And people will say that, you know, why, how did
you feel that she didn't come when she was up here?
She said, the reason she didn't she was.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Late for your birthday is she said it was traffic.
She can't shoot in her house. She shot at her mom's. Hout,
why are you looking at me like that.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I'm just going to tell you what she say. Okay,
all right, she said that she was in traffic. She
couldn't shoot at her house, so she had to shoot
at her mom's house. It was way across the other side,
so it took a little extra time. So how did
that make you feel when she missed both of those things?
Speaker 1 (12:08):
As a best friend?
Speaker 4 (12:09):
And see, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
When I speak on it, it is like I'm throwing shade
at Porsche and I should have.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Forgiven her years ago. Okay, yeah, we've moved on.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
But since I'm on this platform now, all of this
stuff is coming back up and I'm not bringing it up,
that's what happened, and I got to talk about it, right,
But so it's like I'm not on this Porsche tour
of just trying to slander Porsche and shame her, like
that's not what it's about.
Speaker 4 (12:29):
But the reality is, yes, she.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
Did miss my wedding and Kenya, and yes it was hurtful,
and we talked about it and we've moved past it.
But again, that's one of the things that the ladies
bring up on the show, like all it feels like
your friendship is lopsided. She didn't come to their wedding,
she didn't do this, and I'm constantly having to defend it.
And in return, she's listening like you talking to me,
you talking about me to these other girls. I'm like, no, actually,
(12:53):
these girls are bringing you up to me talking about
how you're not a good friend. But yeah, I mean,
all that stuff happens. It's a real deal. Like I
didn't make this up. She I didn't tell her to
come later, she showed up. When she showed up, it
looked how it looked. I don't have any control of that.
Speaker 6 (13:09):
But you also know your friend, right, Like, so you
know her, like you know right, you know you don't
like to be around a lot of people. You know,
she's a cancer, she's your own body. Being that you
know her, you don't give her a little bit more grace, like.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
And that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
So even when she so, even when she came late,
I was like, it's what it is.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
It's cool.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
I downplayed everything, which is why they think I'm a
lap dog, because they're like, why are you Why do
you keep giving her this grace?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
You should speak up about it, you should say something
about it. And I'm like, it's whatever.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
But then on the same token, she's a homebody and
she's an introvert, but she also shows up for other
people's things.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
Got that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
So you know you you started off and so I
know these some of my wife's questions because I asked.
Speaker 6 (13:49):
I was like, I told them, guys, like.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
My wife asked this because that's a baby, sem me
semessage some questions, but you'd ask He was like, so
now at first you would push your second chair like her,
you know her homie. Yeah, but it says now you
know you've taken a different outcome.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
It says you've become a boss and you're standing on
your own.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
What do you say about the change in the public's
perception of you, and do you think that they had
it all wrong from the beginning of who you are?
Speaker 4 (14:19):
Well, thank you wife for calling me a boss. I
appreciate that. I think that I've always been me.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
I just never had the platform to showcase who I
am and what I stand for, my friendships, my faith,
my family, the fun girl side. I just never had
that opportunity. So now that I'm here, I'm like, all right,
this is what it is. I just I'm a good friend.
I'm a good follower, but I'm also a right leader,
(14:46):
and I think that's what makes a good leader, somebody
that can follow and sit back and let everybody else shine.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
I don't mind.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
It doesn't take anything away from me for you being
the first chair or you being I'm.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
Cool plus one whatever. I know how I'm living, I
know what I'm bringing.
Speaker 5 (15:00):
Let me ask.
Speaker 6 (15:01):
I'm just asking, right, It doesn't it seem a little
strange to like, now have issues with a friend because
y'all on a show.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
That you knew each other all your life, and I
would think that you would y'all could fuck the cameras, Like, yah,
what's up?
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Like, and I've I've reached out and you'll see this
upcoming episode that uh.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
What I'm saying, I shouldn't have to see that on
the episode.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
I mean, but even outside. But that's see, that's the
only chance you have to see it because everything else
is done in private, and no one believes you when
you say, oh, we spoke about this in private and
it's fine, then it's like, oh, no, you're too scared
to confront your friend. But a lot of times I
tell people, no, this is not for y'all. This conversation
was not for y'all. It was for us. And it's like,
but you're on a show. You can't decide what's private
(15:44):
and what's not, you know, because again, you would know
like this drama or this tension if it weren't for
the show. So I mean, we talk about things on
the show and off the show, and it's like it's
a weird space.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
I don't want it to be that way.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
I mean, I posted her her daughter and tried to
extend it all a branch and show in love and
she's been super distant and I was very shocked yesterday
to even get a birthday post.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
I was like, yes, thank you, Like, wow, I love you.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I'm you know, yeah, and you did text her yeah,
and she texts me happy birthday, and I was like,
thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
I was like, this made my day.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
You think she's been distanct because she doesn't know what's for,
what could potentially be for TV and what's real anymore
between you?
Speaker 4 (16:27):
Possibly possibly, But I'm like, can we talk about it?
Like yeah, but y'all.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Know this is all for like if producers and things
like that, and you know, showrunners see that, they're going
to try to make that a bigger moment anyway, whether
it's what y'all want to do or not.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
You're right, but it's from rugs and the ears, and they.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Can only do what you allow, right, And if if
you my like day one.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
I should be able to be like trying to like, yo,
this ain't what it is. I love you, We we
like this.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
No one can say here's what Drew said, it's FYI
and you take it for what it is not I
don't know. I'm not feeling I feel like you creating something.
Why would I finally want to create something on the show,
Like I'm the same person that I've been this not
trying to be funny.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
But I spent money to be on the show. That's
not where I get my money from.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Yeah, the lavish parties and all that stuff that cost the.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Money that I'm getting on the show, it's not enough.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Goes back into investment on your personality on the show.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Yeah, way more. By my first birthday party. By the
first event, I had took that whole check away. So
it's not like not trying to be funny. I enjoyed
the show and I love it and I appreciate it
for the platform that I'm getting to expose things like
my music. But at the end of the day, it's
not a deal breaker for me. Like you are our
friendship is the love I have for you is so
(17:56):
at the end of the day, when this is done
and if they say, oh, we don't need you in
next reason I'm here, we should still be able to
move forward with our friendship.
Speaker 5 (18:05):
If you text me a question to ask you, he said, Essence.
Speaker 6 (18:08):
Essence published an article that claimed you nor Porsche or
innershit in your friendship drama.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
What are your thoughts on that perspective?
Speaker 4 (18:15):
Okay, Essence, thank you. I mean.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
That's all on your pov you know, I can't change.
And a lot of people in common to come and say,
you know, oh she has no victim portions, no victim,
they're the same whatever.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Well, you know, hey, we're friends.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
We've been friends for a long time, so you know, hey,
we probably are a lot alike.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
That's not a bad thing. I think she's a good person.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
So this is another question. I ain't like this question. No,
but so enlighten us, enlighten the rest of the world.
What is it about these Africans? Lol, you I didn't
ask that question.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Let me tell you this.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
I have my African before it was cool to have
an African. All right, this is back in the day.
I've been with my Afrigan for eleven years. This is
this is pre this is when I got crap for
being with in African. This is back in the day
when y'all were posting the whole starter kit with the
Chanelle bag and the Ashy feed and the that was
like the African starter kit. That's the African start of kit.
(19:13):
That's what y'all was posting us that. That was the
means thank you.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
Come on, you know, the meanings to go around. And
then I even had people be ugly about it. It was
like you better get him test, he better make sure
you don't have aids. You know what. Yeah, this was
like people, thank you, thank you, and it.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Was all the nastiness. And then there was this new
wave of get you an African and it.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Was all glorified.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
And I'm like, well hold on because when I got
with my husband, y'all were being mean about it.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
I lost friendships over that.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
One of my one of my old homegirls actually said,
you know, he's got about five wives. Girl, I'm like,
where are these lives? Because we got married in the
Catholic church in Kenya, and they actually have to do
a full publication of like in the press, in the
news everything they say, this man geraldmiin given Wani will
be wet Shmia Yvon Morton on this day at this
church if anybody objects to it, and we had to
(20:07):
know that.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Was my name now, so we had to do a
whole and then you know with the.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Whole scamming stuff like when you have to go and
get clear with the embassy to Mary. So if he
had all these extra wives, I wouldn't know about it.
Speaker 4 (20:27):
They would have come up.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
In his profile, like it's the weirdest thing to me,
and I was like, I had to stand Tintes down.
Speaker 6 (20:36):
Eleven years ago. Africans were balling something wrong with you.
You wasn't paying attention.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
They were real nasty with it, like, yeah, you gonna
marrya all right girl, be careful.
Speaker 5 (20:48):
And I'm like, and he's the president of a Dominion energy.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Yeah, he counts, that's what he does. Count like because
you know what I like.
Speaker 5 (20:57):
I like seeing black people because they are black.
Speaker 6 (21:00):
I like seeing black people do things that you don't
normally see people people doing. And we always scream about
going to learn the trade, right, like everybody can't be
a celebrity, everybody can't be to learn the trade.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
But he actually has a whole age.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
Company company several uh he does mergers acquisitions, so they
building manufacture age vacs from you know, the government buildings, airports,
you know.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
Oh filthy, filthy empty.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
What are coloring for? Last birthday? A couple of years ago,
last year.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
I'm so happy that you are going and that you
you got yours, you got your lovely husband. I know
I've seen in a recent episode that you was talking
about your uh former hub who was abusive, and you
said when you were married time four year you got
the bors. Then you feel like people turn their backs
on you. How did that impact you moving forward? Like
(21:55):
did it impact your your Like did it put a
strain on relationships?
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Friendships, platonic friendships and yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Because you know, in a divorce, it's like they got
pick a side and they always go to the richer side.
Like all those people kind of they didn't really believe
me when I talked about the abuse in the relationship,
and it was fine because the people that I loved
in my family they did.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
They saw it, and I had to just move forward.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
Like some of the same people that introduced me to him,
and you see it on the show. How like the
lady that actually introduced me to my ex ended up
calling me and apologizing, Like this was in two thousand
and eight, all these years later, she finally sees that,
oh my goodness, because he did it to somebody else,
and she just she was crying. She was apologetic on
(22:44):
the phone, like I'm so sorry. I didn't believe you.
I just thought he and I was like, you know,
I get it, Like he is this popular guy. He
you know, he represented amazing artists in the industry. He
was that guy like CPA accounting, like all the things,
and it was just better to just go over there
because of his popularity and his finances. And I was
(23:05):
just a regular cheerleader that was just you know, graduated
college and was just.
Speaker 4 (23:10):
Figuring it out.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
And I will say it's good that she apologized, because
you don't ever see people when they're wrong come back
when they when they figure out that they were wrong
and apologize.
Speaker 4 (23:19):
Oh yeah, they're all. They're all very much.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
Even if they don't apologize for it, then I'll get
a d M or I'll get something from some of
the people in that crew and be like, hey, you
do anything, I'm proud of you, or hey. So it's
like to me, it's like a nod of like all right, cool,
I'm like thank you.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
You know you cheer for the over a decade. Right.
Speaker 4 (23:39):
No.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
No, Now, I've worked in the in the NBA for
it because I'm doing like sideline reporting and in game
hosting for the NBA.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
But I did cheer for five years.
Speaker 5 (23:48):
And then turned into a sideline Yep, Wow, why did
you stop doing it?
Speaker 3 (23:52):
What in game hosting and slidding, I'm still doing it. Yeah,
I just did all star and everything. She said she
don't really need to be on the show because she
have so many other gigs like a Jamaican I do, So.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
You clearly don't need the money. You've got an actual career.
Speaker 6 (24:09):
Has the show Real Housewives been everything you thought it
was going to be?
Speaker 4 (24:12):
So brobsolutely? I mean, look where I'm at now. I'm
here hanging out with y'all.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
You wouldn't even known me if it weren't for the show,
you know, like you would have known me as portious friend,
but there wouldn't have been any value to me coming
and hanging out with y'all. So the show does have
its perks like this, like you know, and that song
and my song exactly, just like I want to be
able to showcase my music, you know, and then also
bring awareness to children with special needs. When I had
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my daughter, there was so much I didn't know and
didn't have the resources and didn't know where to go
because people that look like me are the cool kids,
aren't supposed to have kids that have disabilities. And it
happened to me and it was like, oh my goodness,
this is my new life, this is my new normal.
Speaker 4 (24:52):
I got to figure all these things out.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
So just being able to have this platform to showcase
and shed a light on that kind of stuff is
even amazing to me.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
That you and Candy Birds have the same surrogate.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Yes, wow, yes, Sah. Her name is Shadina and she's amazing.
Shout out to Shadina. She uh breast cancer, survivor, all
the things, and that's how Shiloh was born early because
of her diagnosis.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
And wow, how did you know? Did Candy recommend her? Like?
Speaker 4 (25:20):
I met her through Candy.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Absolutely. She has a surrogancy agency. It's called Surrogancy Miracles.
Her and doctor Jackie own the agency together. So initially
I went through the agency to try to get a
surrogate and I.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
Was like, well, I mean you carried lady. She did
a good job. Aren't you just hearing my child?
Speaker 5 (25:38):
Yeah, I'm an idiot, so I never thought about it.
But I was like, if you're surrogate, you've probably done
that more than once.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
I never thought people do that, like it's a bit Yeah, exactly,
that's how they make their money.
Speaker 5 (25:47):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
I wanted to ask about Kenya right now. Is she
on pause or is she fired?
Speaker 3 (25:53):
I don't really know, but I think that she never
returns from the you know, from that point for the
rest of the seas then she never returned. So, I mean,
I don't know if she'll be back next season. I
don't even know if I'll be back. I mean, you know,
we don't. I don't make those kind of decisions.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
What was your thoughts in the way how Bravo handled
it before you ancident?
Speaker 4 (26:10):
I love you, girl, I got it. I love you too,
Thank you so much. I didn't. Can we get at
least a selfie before you guys.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Talk about Kenya in the way Bravo handled it? What
were your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (26:23):
You know, the network knows more than I would.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
They They've done their they did their homework, they did
their investigation, and they felt like they made the best decision.
Of course, that's my boss. I'm gonna support it. Whatever
they say is what it is.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Is she gonna do the reunion? We don't know as yet.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
I don't know. I would hope.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
I would love to hear, you know, what her thoughts
are at this point after she's seen it all.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
But again, I don't know, what did you think about
what she did as far as the leaking and all that.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Oh, it was jaw dropping for sure to be there
because she had to be there to feel the attention.
But I was like, you know, you hurt me. Literally
was like, can you come girl? Like that's too much?
Like that's She's like, you don't tell me, it's too much,
b you, you know, and she kind of like So
after she apologized for that. But I guess if you,
(27:11):
I guess every action has a reaction, and she felt
like this girl did this, so I'm giving it back
to work. I wouldn't have handled it that way, but
she did.
Speaker 4 (27:21):
And and you see where we are.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
So I go back to the surrogate thing for a second.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
Do you think about getting one?
Speaker 6 (27:29):
I just want because you actually you carried a child
and then you have rog So what's the difference between
the experiences.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
So I had a great pregnancy with my firstborn. I
had a C section and it was fine.
Speaker 5 (27:43):
I did.
Speaker 3 (27:44):
I'm still actively trying to get pregnant. If I was
to get pregnant tomorrow, be amazing. But I also after
that had an ectopic pregnancy where I lost my left
filopean tube and was bleeding internally. And this was a
year and a half ago, and so the journey to
like grow.
Speaker 4 (27:59):
My family is continuous.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
But I think what the misconception is people think, oh,
you know, it's a cirrocus DNA in some kind of way. No,
the sirogut is like the oven to bake it in,
but all the ingredients are mine and my husband's.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
We create embryos, and.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
That's also a very stressful situation because you are having
to do stimulations to get eggs furilize and they need
implantation and all the things. And I've tried, God, I've
done seven rounds of IVF. I'm going into my eightiesesus now, Yes,
all that just to yeah, have a baby and very
expensive and very expensive and draining, emotionally draining, and it's
(28:37):
high risk because when you're injecting yourself with all these things,
it puts your at risk for a stroke, heart attack, you.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Can't work out.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
That's I'm not blaming my Simon pouschownt kind of I
am a little bit, but it is very like, you know,
just emotionally draining and high risk.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
I mean, women we go through so much is a body, so.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
The surrogate, I mean it's expensive and it's all the things,
but you know, we do that because we love.
Speaker 5 (29:01):
Is the connection the same?
Speaker 4 (29:04):
No, I mean not right off the back like where
we lying up.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
I said, it was now when I first got Shiloh,
how did he really get a chance to bomb? Because
she went straight into the nickeu and it was like
she was on a breathing you know.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
It was like you said she came early.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Yeah, she came early, and she was on a breathing machine.
And then she had like all these surgeries back to
back and it was so like just emotional because it
was like is she going to live?
Speaker 4 (29:32):
You know?
Speaker 3 (29:32):
So whereas my first born, it was like I could
hold her and bomb with her.
Speaker 4 (29:36):
But now, of course I'm totally bonded.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
But I didn't have I didn't carry her, so I
didn't There wasn't that connection.
Speaker 5 (29:42):
How early was did she come?
Speaker 4 (29:44):
Thirty four weeks? Thirty four and a half?
Speaker 5 (29:46):
Break it down for me home?
Speaker 4 (29:47):
So like a month?
Speaker 5 (29:49):
Okay, thank you? All right?
Speaker 2 (29:50):
And you said you want to grow your family, So
would you do surrogate again or are you thinking about
doing surrogate again?
Speaker 5 (29:54):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (29:55):
I actually you're going to do it.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
I got the news sarahgud and I'm just hoping to
get her pregnant.
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Asap.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Yeah, that's so crazy.
Speaker 5 (30:02):
I thought something I'm not judging.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Also that the two new casts, how do you like them?
Do you feel like they have a long standing power?
Do you think it's one of them that kind of
shock jocks and get up out of there?
Speaker 4 (30:21):
What you you said two new cast mates?
Speaker 3 (30:25):
Well besides yourself, cause you got nos even now you've
got Angela, Brett Edie, Kelly Farrell. Yeah, but I'm happy
that you said too, because that those are the ones
that I really care about.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Which which are you know, Kelly and Angela?
Speaker 1 (30:41):
And you just don't like the other them?
Speaker 4 (30:43):
I don't see it?
Speaker 1 (30:43):
Fo what what's why don't She's just not a.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
Kind person, you know, like that type that's girl broups
are you know, you're not gonna get along with everybody.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
And she's just not my type of girl.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
She said herself, she's not a girls girl, so we
can see it for sure.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Do you feel like a lot of times those castmates
they try to show things that they're not like when
I watch the show sometimes and I'm looking, I'm like, dude,
that ain't.
Speaker 4 (31:07):
How you are exactly you putting it on the cameras.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
But I think that our viewers and fans can see
that like when you ain't being real, it'll come out
and everything will be revealed, and that's exactly what's happening.
Speaker 4 (31:19):
You can't keep up with your own stories.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
Say you lost your insurance, then you didn't lose your
insurance license.
Speaker 6 (31:24):
It's like, girl, come on, do you feel like the
drama associated with reality shows will distract people from all.
Speaker 5 (31:31):
Other amazing things you've ever done in your life?
Speaker 6 (31:33):
Like the music, the sideline reporting, the cheerleading.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
You know, just you think.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
I don't think so.
Speaker 6 (31:42):
For people who didn't know you and know you did
all those amazing things, now this show is kind of defining.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
But see, I love that the show is allowing people
to even get to know me and see me Like
I'm getting booked for gigs and roles that I never
would have gotten before the show. So I mean, there
are flows good and bad in it, but overall for
me right now, the good is is outweighing the bad.
Speaker 5 (32:06):
You got you.
Speaker 2 (32:08):
I see, I ran into me and Thornton in Atlanta
last week and he's not on Potomac anymore. Possibility that
she might be a Housewives of Atlanta, So what's your
thoughts on now.
Speaker 3 (32:18):
I welcome anybody that wants to be here, Like, I
don't get to make those decisions. Hell, I just got
on the show myself. So if you're asking me if
I'm gonna get my spot up from me and no,
but you.
Speaker 4 (32:28):
Know, if.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
You can try.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
But but yeah, if they find room for her, sure, Hey.
Speaker 6 (32:37):
Girl, come on, well you figure it out me too,
can you make hap?
Speaker 3 (32:41):
I mean you close to port you y'all share the
same people. Yeah, I just want y'all have to sit.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Down and help us figure it out.
Speaker 5 (32:47):
Yeah. I feel like that should be so easy, though.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
It is not because you can't I mean, from you.
If you allow other people to just get in your
ear by stuff.
Speaker 5 (32:56):
It's like, I think it's the show.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
I mean I don't know that I've spoken to her about.
Speaker 6 (33:02):
I think it's the show because it's one thing when
your friend is your friend, but now your friend is
on the show, so you don't know if your friend
is using your relationship for a storyline.
Speaker 4 (33:12):
I wouldn't need that.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
I have so much other story, so much so to
where a lot of my story got cut, Like I've
got so much happening because.
Speaker 6 (33:19):
They're gonna go to selationis stuff. You know, they're gonna
go to Julius get all that positive shit.
Speaker 3 (33:24):
Yeah, like I did a whole you know, cheering dance
camp for with over two hundred girls.
Speaker 4 (33:31):
Boring and exactly.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
Pective exactly.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
That's why I never came to That's why you won't
see it, you know. But at the end of the day,
for me, it doesn't do anything for me.
Speaker 4 (33:41):
That story.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
That's not the type of story I want, Like, this
is my real friend, my real life, Like, and it's
a hurtful thing.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
Did you said, Yeah? We did.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
We text back, you know, she.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
Texts congratulations and you know, I hope you get everything
this season and something like that and happy birthday. I
hope you have something fun playing or something. And I
was like, yeah, I'm in New York, you know, hanging out.
Thank you so much in the road of me. So
that was sweet and it really didn't make my day.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
When when don't want on her birthday trip in Nashville, right,
and she said I should have fucked that man's husband.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
What what was your thoughts that man's husband, fuck that
woman's husband.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
My bad, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
But it is Alanta, though it is Atlanta.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Angela is not trans. She's definitely a woman. So Charles
Mary a woman. Let's just be clear about that.
Speaker 5 (34:43):
Crazy.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
You know, it's funny at the time because we're out
there drinking, you know, were you kicking it with your friend?
You're not like whatever they were beefing. So I knew
she was being shady when she said it. Now, but
I don't play about black marriage or mis marriage period.
I want people to stay together. I don't, you know,
wouldn't play about mine, you know, And I said, of course,
I'm watch what happens live that Hey, if you can
take them, you can keep them. But at the end
(35:06):
of the day, no, that's not a laughing matter, like
and I hate that she said it, But me and
Angela weren't friends, and her and Angela weren't friends, and
she was kicky in with me her friend, and.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
So we laughed.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
We laughed about a lot of dark stuff that we
shouldn't laugh at.
Speaker 4 (35:20):
We was joking.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
Borsa doesn't want Charles to be clear like. And for
those that say, oh, she took some that ain't her thing,
like I know her and and that ain't her thing.
She didn't want Charles, She don't want Charles. She only
wants what's for her. And that's just it.
Speaker 4 (35:34):
That's just that.
Speaker 5 (35:35):
That's not fair.
Speaker 6 (35:36):
That's not fair of a beautiful woman like Porsche to
be saying things like that. And then when that poor man,
you know, comes the temptation, whose fault is that?
Speaker 1 (35:43):
You know what I'm saying? She was joking? I guess
she was.
Speaker 4 (35:52):
She was joking. But but you know Angel's defense.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
I get it, gir I understand why you would be upset,
but you should be upset with me anymore. I apologize
for laughing, and I apologize for my shade throwing on
her outfit and my part in it.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
All that other stuff. You got to talk take that
out with a portion like that.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
This show gonna ruin a lot of great relationship has already.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
This show has been for years, but it can only
do what you allow it to do.
Speaker 5 (36:18):
West.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
Let's play your single. To introduce your single, ladies and gentlemen,
me and more, thank you for joining us.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Introduce the single.
Speaker 4 (36:26):
Okay, that's w y'all got a download?
Speaker 3 (36:28):
Never has Spelthy Atlanta way n E V A H
A D so all your digital streaming platforms, because you
never had a best friend like me.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
You never had, you never had, you never had somebody.
Speaker 6 (36:45):
You can't just capital p now, it's not fortunate.
Speaker 4 (36:49):
Have you heard it? No?
Speaker 3 (36:50):
No, you didn't listen to And I tried to make
sure I got it. Help heer like, because I was like,
they ain't gonna do me like her.
Speaker 5 (36:56):
Yeah, I didn't even know you did music. So I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
Oh my goodness, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (37:03):
This is why this show is so great, because now
you know, and I'm here and I'm about to play
it for you, and I want you to tell me
what you think about it.
Speaker 5 (37:11):
If it's a portion, disrecord it is not a portion.
Speaker 2 (37:15):
Let's get into it right now, Ladies and gentlemen, from
the Real Housewives of Atlanta, Shamilah Moore and her single
is out right now.
Speaker 1 (37:20):
I've never had downloaded. Now it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Wake that ass up in the morning. Come Breakfast Club.
Wake that ass up in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
The Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is stej Envy just hilarious.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Charlamagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
We got a special guest in the building from the
Real Housewives of Atlanta, Shamiah Morton.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Welcome.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Hey, are you feeling I'm excited. I've been waiting to
come hang out with y'all for so long.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
We've seen you, You've been, we seen we pass you
in the halls.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I'm just tired of passing, y'all. I just wanted to
be in the room with you.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
What's your other shows up?
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, got you got you got?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
How you feeling? How's everything?
Speaker 5 (00:33):
You know?
Speaker 4 (00:33):
Everything's been great. New York has been kind. My birthday
was yesterday here y'all thirteen, Yes.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Me and my anniversary dope, twenty four years.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
That's a beautiful thing.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
You picked the right day.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
You pick the right day.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
Why do I care with my birthday?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:53):
I love it?
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Black Love. There we go. We got your new single
out and never had yes, Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
So I'm excited about that song because our and be
Flat helped produce that.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
You know from next you know how it is in
the industry.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
You tell people you really want to do something like yeah,
you come by the studio and no one ever follows
up and really don't do anything. So me being at
my big age, you know, it was still a passion
of mine to sing and do music.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
And he gave me a shot and people are loving it,
and I'm loving that y'all are supporting it. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Let's talk about how she walked in here.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
She walked in here with sparkless and everybody like it
was the nightclub.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
I felt I.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Was about to get a shot the bottle girls salkless.
Speaker 4 (01:28):
She came in like, hey, y'all bought battles, y'all.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Kind why do you think your career didn't take off
the music.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Crew in the past, it has been because of the
girl groups or you know, like I was in the
group co Ed roll Me back in the day, was
Rolling Rolling Me. I didn't work with Carry Hills and
(01:56):
it was called pretty tony. And then of course Samari
fears when a group intrigue back in the day. I've
done lots of groups, and you know how it is
with groups back in the day, it was like somebody
else get signed by somebody then not a group is
broken up or somebody gets pregnant.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Now it's over.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
And I think I just got burned out at a
young age, and that acting check was better. So I
started focusing on that acting hosting and the music love
was always there, so I was like, I'm going back
to it.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
But you've always had a beautiful voice. Thank you, Yeah,
thank you. I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
So yeah, I was like singing at church's by Mitzvah's funerals,
and it was like, okay, I gotta if I gotta
do it, I just gotta do it on my own.
And now it's easier because social media helps you to
just put your own stuff out there.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
You don't have to wait on Yeah, Like.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Back in the day, it was like you got to
do it for a and R have a whole showcase.
Somebody's got to prove the label got to sign you.
Then you gotta hope that they put it out. Now
you just sing on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I hope it goes viral.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Well, we said, what does success look like in that
space for you?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I think I'm living in it right now.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Just having my song even hit the chart is a
blessing because I'm like litlone me, you know, I just
I don't know. Even people just singing it and tagging
me in their videos like, oh this vibe.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
I like it.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
It feels good because now I'm just not singing it
for my family on a fireplace stupid.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
It's like now the world is loving it. So we're
just doing singles. Woman the making a EP. What's going So.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
I just shot the video for it, so I'm going
to release that next month and I don't know. I've
gotten five strong songs so far, so I don't know
if I want to do EP or album, but we'll see.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Also, we got to ask you a friend on The
Housewives for a while or forever, so you've seen the mess,
You've seen the craziness, the fights and all it made
you want to be part of that franchise as an
official member.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I think I've always wanted to do it, but they
wouldn't allow me to do it without my husband actually
agreeing to come on camera.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
And he wasn't for it.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
He was like, I support you doing it and our
kids and y'all can film.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
At the house. I just don't want to be on camera.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
And when they came over did a test shoot with me.
They saw how I was living and they were like,
I don't think we'll need him. They were like, well,
they were like, we'll be able to move for it,
you know, and was holding not on how much money
you had and everything.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
Well, you know, I don't know. I just don't leave
with it.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
I mean, unless you know me and we're like great friends,
you wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Know because I mean, I don't know. It's weird for
me to be like, hey, you know, but.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
If that's what's required, you know, for you to get
on the show, were you ever was that something that
you did you even want to have a peach on
the show or did you?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
I did, I did, but I just I didn't think that.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Whatever happened because he again had to agree to be
on cameraon he was like, but then he ends up
joining us a little bit this season, like for big
events for me like my birthday or my showcase and stuff,
he pulls up. But he was like the same, you know,
he shies away from camera's that's not his thing, And
I'm like, I respect that.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
I was going to ask too, because there's so much
focus on relationships on the show. How did you get
him not the film, So you how did you get
him not to have to film a whole season?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
He does, I'm a little bit, but it's not like
our personal life is you know, that's me, that's mine.
You know, you only can give what you want to
give or show what you want to show. And I think,
you know, he pulls off our kids and my birth
like the big moments, but he's just not into it.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Like the network was completely okay.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
With yeah, wow, finally, I mean finally, you know, I've
been That's another thing. I feel like my personality and
just what I bring is enough. I don't necessarily need
you'll to It's not the housewives. You know, the husbands
is the wives, so the focus should be on the wives.
And I think anytime the men have gotten too involved,
it's been messy.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
I think it's been weird too, Like when the men
are just sitting there talking to each other about the women,
it just seems weird. On the share even if they
got your party, just when they go to the men
over there talking in the court, it just seems odd,
like you know what I mean, but.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
It seems you and your wife ever do something like that.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
We thought about it a couple of times in the approach,
but I wanted to ask for people that don't know,
how close are you and Porscha, meaning growing up? How
like a, well, your best friends growing up, did yoll living.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Down the block or our parents were best friends and
that's kind of how we became friends. And you know
how it is, and you y'all take family trips, so
we go and it's like, at first it was like
a forced friendship because it was like.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
We were childhood friends.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Then I went to college, she did her thing, and
after we just kind of came back together when she
got married and it was like, oh my gosh, I
missed you, like and then we were like inseparable sense.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
So prior to this show, I would like to think
that we were.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Very close, but the show changed that a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, and that's unfortunate because I love Porsche, you know,
and we have a good time together, like she's super
silly like me, down to earth and just this platform,
I just I prayed that it wouldn't change things, but
unfortunately it has.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
And it's it's like a lot of.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
People muddying and murkury, you know, making the water a
little it's messy, but not real manufactured because I mean no,
these feelings are very real.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
For a storyline, I think.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
That they're just messy, Like I think some of these
women are messy, and I would never have allowed them
to ruin our friendship or even muddy to waters. But
she's listened to some of the things that they've said.
And of course with this show, everything will be revealed.
It will be shown to you, and it's like we've
gone this whole season and not really been speaking. So
(07:20):
when you watch it, it's gonna be like, Okay, see
I told you. I told you that Drew said this
about paying for your child's college. As a real friend,
I'm not going to allow somebody to talk about you
in your absence. I think you should have thought like
been like, thank you for holding me down in my absence.
Instead she's like, oh, you're trying to start a mess
(07:41):
with me, and Drew or is like you brought it back.
You exaggerated it, and I'm like, it was no need
to exaggerate it. The girl said what she said, and
I said that she said a jokingly, but she said it,
and I didn't even add the part about oh, I'll
be at a buyer some snacks, like it was just
off paper of college and I'm like, no, if someone
came and they said, oh, I'm gonna pay for Marley
Skoy's college, I'm like, no, I'm sure Jess got it.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
You know you don't need to do that. You know,
you're being messy. I hate that.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
How much did the edits really affected? Right?
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Because it was one part and you know, I watched
the show with my wife. I guess you guys were
going out for dinner and one of the girls, you like,
first time meeting him and then she threw a shot
at Porsche right away, right, and he was like, that's
my friend, So before you go there, that's my friend.
So how much of the show edits that we don't
see that? Maybe you did check it until her this, that,
and there, but we only see that little glimpse of it.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Oh yeah, well that is I mean, you know, you
only get an hour, so they can't show everything, but they're.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
Filming all but they're filming.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Absolutely, and I definitely did check both of them. You know,
they kind of came from my friend. And you know,
that's the problem that I have now on the season,
Like I'm the lap dog because I'm a super loyal
person and I'm a loyal friend. And if that's what
that means, then I guess I'm a lap dog because
what you're not going to do is talk trash about
my people and not expect me to speak about it
(08:55):
and speak up on it. And I brought that information
back to Porsche as I would think I want her
to do for me, Like, hey girl, this is what
they said. Like I told them that she gets to
know you for yourself, you know. They were like, oh,
you know how you you let your friends still that
lady's husband. I'm like, yo, this is how these new
girls are coming. Just giving you a heads up so
you know, And it was like it's all that's being
turned around, like you're being messy and talking about your friend.
(09:17):
Now it's Porsche, a different Porsche outside of Housewives, and
she is on Housewives. You're her friends, so you would
know that, you know, y'all have known each other for
a while. I think that on the show she can
kind of like close up and not be as vulnerable
and open, but rightfully so, like sometimes on this platform
you get torn apart for being vulnerable and being open
(09:39):
and it's like, oh, you should have did it, So
it's like almost like you damned if you do, damned
if you don't.
Speaker 4 (09:45):
So yeah, I do think that.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
You know, she's guarded in a sense, whereas if we're
just one on one hanging out, it's like it's whatever,
I'm an open book and disguy's a limit whatever. But
the show, of course, she's like, I'm the harness and
hold back on some this stuff because I don't want
to be judged or I don't want to feel.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
You know, do you feel like things changed after you
got your peach? Yeah? Even more than before.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Yes, because now we're sharing this space in this spotlight,
and it's uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
You feel she's jealous.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
I don't know that. I don't know that she's jealous.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I don't want to say that, but I just feel
like it's just different because before I was just a
friend of Now it's like I have I have a
mic on Before I will be at some of these
events and no one would even know I was in
the room, because again, I'm just a friend of Horseho
or a friend of Candy, and I may have an
opinion on something, but you wouldn't know it because they
didn't catch it. Whereas now it's like, oh, where does
(10:36):
she me to get this big voice from or this
big personality from.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Well, I've always been here.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I just never got the opportunity to express it or
show it. And like I said back to Porsche, I
just don't feel like in a real friendship you have
to like I don't want to say be guarded. But
it's like, am I cool to say this, like we're good?
I don't want to I don't want to out or
(11:00):
I don't want to talk about something that you're not
comfortable talking about or bringing to this platform or bring
into the space, like are we good? So you're kind
of like walking on exshell's like for the longest time,
it's been her thing and now this is our thing.
And whereas before, as a friend of the show is like,
hey we are talking about this unch okay, cool, Now
it's like, well, this is my personal life.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
You're my real friend. This is what it is we have.
I'm open.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
I'm super open and rich and authenticity. Whatever I am
is what I am on camera and off camera. So
there's nothing off limits for you to talk about with me.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
People would say, you know in the comments that you
know she didn't come up to your wedding. She came
late to your birthday party.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
She can come to the wedding in Kenya and Kenya
and to be clear, only had one wedding.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Okay, so yeah, and that was a wedding in Kenya.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
And people will say that, you know, why, how did
you feel that she didn't come when she was up here?
She said, the reason she didn't she was.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Late for your birthday is she said it was traffic.
She can't shoot in her house. She shot at her mom's. Hout,
why are you looking at me like that.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I'm just going to tell you what she say. Okay,
all right, she said that she was in traffic. She
couldn't shoot at her house, so she had to shoot
at her mom's house. It was way across the other side,
so it took a little extra time. So how did
that make you feel when she missed both of those things?
Speaker 1 (12:08):
As a best friend?
Speaker 4 (12:09):
And see, that's the thing.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
When I speak on it, it is like I'm throwing shade
at Porsche and I should have.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Forgiven her years ago. Okay, yeah, we've moved on.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
But since I'm on this platform now, all of this
stuff is coming back up and I'm not bringing it up,
that's what happened, and I got to talk about it, right,
But so it's like I'm not on this Porsche tour
of just trying to slander Porsche and shame her, like
that's not what it's about.
Speaker 4 (12:29):
But the reality is, yes, she.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
Did miss my wedding and Kenya, and yes it was hurtful,
and we talked about it and we've moved past it.
But again, that's one of the things that the ladies
bring up on the show, like all it feels like
your friendship is lopsided. She didn't come to their wedding,
she didn't do this, and I'm constantly having to defend it.
And in return, she's listening like you talking to me,
you talking about me to these other girls. I'm like, no, actually,
(12:53):
these girls are bringing you up to me talking about
how you're not a good friend. But yeah, I mean,
all that stuff happens. It's a real deal. Like I
didn't make this up. She I didn't tell her to
come later, she showed up. When she showed up, it
looked how it looked. I don't have any control of that.
Speaker 6 (13:09):
But you also know your friend, right, Like, so you
know her, like you know right, you know you don't
like to be around a lot of people. You know,
she's a cancer, she's your own body. Being that you
know her, you don't give her a little bit more grace, like.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
And that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
So even when she so, even when she came late,
I was like, it's what it is.
Speaker 4 (13:27):
It's cool.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
I downplayed everything, which is why they think I'm a
lap dog, because they're like, why are you Why do
you keep giving her this grace?
Speaker 4 (13:32):
You should speak up about it, you should say something
about it. And I'm like, it's whatever.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
But then on the same token, she's a homebody and
she's an introvert, but she also shows up for other
people's things.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
Got that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
So you know you you started off and so I
know these some of my wife's questions because I asked.
Speaker 6 (13:49):
I was like, I told them, guys, like.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
My wife asked this because that's a baby, sem me
semessage some questions, but you'd ask He was like, so
now at first you would push your second chair like her,
you know her homie. Yeah, but it says now you
know you've taken a different outcome.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
It says you've become a boss and you're standing on
your own.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
What do you say about the change in the public's
perception of you, and do you think that they had
it all wrong from the beginning of who you are?
Speaker 4 (14:19):
Well, thank you wife for calling me a boss. I
appreciate that. I think that I've always been me.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
I just never had the platform to showcase who I
am and what I stand for, my friendships, my faith,
my family, the fun girl side. I just never had
that opportunity. So now that I'm here, I'm like, all right,
this is what it is. I just I'm a good friend.
I'm a good follower, but I'm also a right leader,
(14:46):
and I think that's what makes a good leader, somebody
that can follow and sit back and let everybody else shine.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
I don't mind.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
It doesn't take anything away from me for you being
the first chair or you being I'm.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
Cool plus one whatever. I know how I'm living, I
know what I'm bringing.
Speaker 5 (15:00):
Let me ask.
Speaker 6 (15:01):
I'm just asking, right, It doesn't it seem a little
strange to like, now have issues with a friend because
y'all on a show.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
That you knew each other all your life, and I
would think that you would y'all could fuck the cameras, Like, yah,
what's up?
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Like, and I've I've reached out and you'll see this
upcoming episode that uh.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
What I'm saying, I shouldn't have to see that on
the episode.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
I mean, but even outside. But that's see, that's the
only chance you have to see it because everything else
is done in private, and no one believes you when
you say, oh, we spoke about this in private and
it's fine, then it's like, oh, no, you're too scared
to confront your friend. But a lot of times I
tell people, no, this is not for y'all. This conversation
was not for y'all. It was for us. And it's like,
but you're on a show. You can't decide what's private
(15:44):
and what's not, you know, because again, you would know
like this drama or this tension if it weren't for
the show. So I mean, we talk about things on
the show and off the show, and it's like it's
a weird space.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
I don't want it to be that way.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
I mean, I posted her her daughter and tried to
extend it all a branch and show in love and
she's been super distant and I was very shocked yesterday
to even get a birthday post.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
I was like, yes, thank you, Like, wow, I love you.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I'm you know, yeah, and you did text her yeah,
and she texts me happy birthday, and I was like,
thank you so much.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
I was like, this made my day.
Speaker 6 (16:21):
You think she's been distanct because she doesn't know what's for,
what could potentially be for TV and what's real anymore
between you?
Speaker 4 (16:27):
Possibly possibly, But I'm like, can we talk about it?
Like yeah, but y'all.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Know this is all for like if producers and things
like that, and you know, showrunners see that, they're going
to try to make that a bigger moment anyway, whether
it's what y'all want to do or not.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
You're right, but it's from rugs and the ears, and they.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Can only do what you allow, right, And if if
you my like day one.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
I should be able to be like trying to like, yo,
this ain't what it is. I love you, We we
like this.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
No one can say here's what Drew said, it's FYI
and you take it for what it is not I
don't know. I'm not feeling I feel like you creating something.
Why would I finally want to create something on the show,
Like I'm the same person that I've been this not
trying to be funny.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
But I spent money to be on the show. That's
not where I get my money from.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Yeah, the lavish parties and all that stuff that cost the.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
Money that I'm getting on the show, it's not enough.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Goes back into investment on your personality on the show.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Yeah, way more. By my first birthday party. By the
first event, I had took that whole check away. So
it's not like not trying to be funny. I enjoyed
the show and I love it and I appreciate it
for the platform that I'm getting to expose things like
my music. But at the end of the day, it's
not a deal breaker for me. Like you are our
friendship is the love I have for you is so
(17:56):
at the end of the day, when this is done
and if they say, oh, we don't need you in
next reason I'm here, we should still be able to
move forward with our friendship.
Speaker 5 (18:05):
If you text me a question to ask you, he said, Essence.
Speaker 6 (18:08):
Essence published an article that claimed you nor Porsche or
innershit in your friendship drama.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
What are your thoughts on that perspective?
Speaker 4 (18:15):
Okay, Essence, thank you. I mean.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
That's all on your pov you know, I can't change.
And a lot of people in common to come and say,
you know, oh she has no victim portions, no victim,
they're the same whatever.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Well, you know, hey, we're friends.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
We've been friends for a long time, so you know, hey,
we probably are a lot alike.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
That's not a bad thing. I think she's a good person.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
So this is another question. I ain't like this question. No,
but so enlighten us, enlighten the rest of the world.
What is it about these Africans? Lol, you I didn't
ask that question.
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Let me tell you this.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
I have my African before it was cool to have
an African. All right, this is back in the day.
I've been with my Afrigan for eleven years. This is
this is pre this is when I got crap for
being with in African. This is back in the day
when y'all were posting the whole starter kit with the
Chanelle bag and the Ashy feed and the that was
like the African starter kit. That's the African start of kit.
(19:13):
That's what y'all was posting us that. That was the
means thank you.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
Come on, you know, the meanings to go around. And
then I even had people be ugly about it. It was
like you better get him test, he better make sure
you don't have aids. You know what. Yeah, this was
like people, thank you, thank you, and it.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Was all the nastiness. And then there was this new
wave of get you an African and it.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Was all glorified.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
And I'm like, well hold on because when I got
with my husband, y'all were being mean about it.
Speaker 4 (19:41):
I lost friendships over that.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
One of my one of my old homegirls actually said,
you know, he's got about five wives. Girl, I'm like,
where are these lives? Because we got married in the
Catholic church in Kenya, and they actually have to do
a full publication of like in the press, in the
news everything they say, this man geraldmiin given Wani will
be wet Shmia Yvon Morton on this day at this
church if anybody objects to it, and we had to
(20:07):
know that.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Was my name now, so we had to do a
whole and then you know with the.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Whole scamming stuff like when you have to go and
get clear with the embassy to Mary. So if he
had all these extra wives, I wouldn't know about it.
Speaker 4 (20:27):
They would have come up.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
In his profile, like it's the weirdest thing to me,
and I was like, I had to stand Tintes down.
Speaker 6 (20:36):
Eleven years ago. Africans were balling something wrong with you.
You wasn't paying attention.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
They were real nasty with it, like, yeah, you gonna
marrya all right girl, be careful.
Speaker 5 (20:48):
And I'm like, and he's the president of a Dominion energy.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
Yeah, he counts, that's what he does. Count like because
you know what I like.
Speaker 5 (20:57):
I like seeing black people because they are black.
Speaker 6 (21:00):
I like seeing black people do things that you don't
normally see people people doing. And we always scream about
going to learn the trade, right, like everybody can't be
a celebrity, everybody can't be to learn the trade.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
But he actually has a whole age.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
Company company several uh he does mergers acquisitions, so they
building manufacture age vacs from you know, the government buildings, airports,
you know.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
Oh filthy, filthy empty.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
What are coloring for? Last birthday? A couple of years ago,
last year.
Speaker 3 (21:35):
I'm so happy that you are going and that you
you got yours, you got your lovely husband. I know
I've seen in a recent episode that you was talking
about your uh former hub who was abusive, and you
said when you were married time four year you got
the bors. Then you feel like people turn their backs
on you. How did that impact you moving forward? Like
(21:55):
did it impact your your Like did it put a
strain on relationships?
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Friendships, platonic friendships and yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Because you know, in a divorce, it's like they got
pick a side and they always go to the richer side.
Like all those people kind of they didn't really believe
me when I talked about the abuse in the relationship,
and it was fine because the people that I loved
in my family they did.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
They saw it, and I had to just move forward.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
Like some of the same people that introduced me to him,
and you see it on the show. How like the
lady that actually introduced me to my ex ended up
calling me and apologizing, Like this was in two thousand
and eight, all these years later, she finally sees that,
oh my goodness, because he did it to somebody else,
and she just she was crying. She was apologetic on
(22:44):
the phone, like I'm so sorry. I didn't believe you.
I just thought he and I was like, you know,
I get it, Like he is this popular guy. He
you know, he represented amazing artists in the industry. He
was that guy like CPA accounting, like all the things,
and it was just better to just go over there
because of his popularity and his finances. And I was
(23:05):
just a regular cheerleader that was just you know, graduated
college and was just.
Speaker 4 (23:10):
Figuring it out.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
And I will say it's good that she apologized, because
you don't ever see people when they're wrong come back
when they when they figure out that they were wrong
and apologize.
Speaker 4 (23:19):
Oh yeah, they're all. They're all very much.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
Even if they don't apologize for it, then I'll get
a d M or I'll get something from some of
the people in that crew and be like, hey, you
do anything, I'm proud of you, or hey. So it's
like to me, it's like a nod of like all right, cool,
I'm like thank you.
Speaker 5 (23:36):
You know you cheer for the over a decade. Right.
Speaker 4 (23:39):
No.
Speaker 3 (23:39):
No, Now, I've worked in the in the NBA for
it because I'm doing like sideline reporting and in game
hosting for the NBA.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
But I did cheer for five years.
Speaker 5 (23:48):
And then turned into a sideline Yep, Wow, why did
you stop doing it?
Speaker 3 (23:52):
What in game hosting and slidding, I'm still doing it. Yeah,
I just did all star and everything. She said she
don't really need to be on the show because she
have so many other gigs like a Jamaican I do, So.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
You clearly don't need the money. You've got an actual career.
Speaker 6 (24:09):
Has the show Real Housewives been everything you thought it
was going to be?
Speaker 4 (24:12):
So brobsolutely? I mean, look where I'm at now. I'm
here hanging out with y'all.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
You wouldn't even known me if it weren't for the show,
you know, like you would have known me as portious friend,
but there wouldn't have been any value to me coming
and hanging out with y'all. So the show does have
its perks like this, like you know, and that song
and my song exactly, just like I want to be
able to showcase my music, you know, and then also
bring awareness to children with special needs. When I had
(24:37):
my daughter, there was so much I didn't know and
didn't have the resources and didn't know where to go
because people that look like me are the cool kids,
aren't supposed to have kids that have disabilities. And it
happened to me and it was like, oh my goodness,
this is my new life, this is my new normal.
Speaker 4 (24:52):
I got to figure all these things out.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
So just being able to have this platform to showcase
and shed a light on that kind of stuff is
even amazing to me.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
That you and Candy Birds have the same surrogate.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Yes, wow, yes, Sah. Her name is Shadina and she's amazing.
Shout out to Shadina. She uh breast cancer, survivor, all
the things, and that's how Shiloh was born early because
of her diagnosis.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
And wow, how did you know? Did Candy recommend her? Like?
Speaker 4 (25:20):
I met her through Candy.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Absolutely. She has a surrogancy agency. It's called Surrogancy Miracles.
Her and doctor Jackie own the agency together. So initially
I went through the agency to try to get a
surrogate and I.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
Was like, well, I mean you carried lady. She did
a good job. Aren't you just hearing my child?
Speaker 5 (25:38):
Yeah, I'm an idiot, so I never thought about it.
But I was like, if you're surrogate, you've probably done
that more than once.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
I never thought people do that, like it's a bit Yeah, exactly,
that's how they make their money.
Speaker 5 (25:47):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
I wanted to ask about Kenya right now. Is she
on pause or is she fired?
Speaker 3 (25:53):
I don't really know, but I think that she never
returns from the you know, from that point for the
rest of the seas then she never returned. So, I mean,
I don't know if she'll be back next season. I
don't even know if I'll be back. I mean, you know,
we don't. I don't make those kind of decisions.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
What was your thoughts in the way how Bravo handled
it before you ancident?
Speaker 4 (26:10):
I love you, girl, I got it. I love you too,
Thank you so much. I didn't. Can we get at
least a selfie before you guys.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Talk about Kenya in the way Bravo handled it? What
were your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (26:23):
You know, the network knows more than I would.
Speaker 3 (26:26):
They They've done their they did their homework, they did
their investigation, and they felt like they made the best decision.
Of course, that's my boss. I'm gonna support it. Whatever
they say is what it is.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Is she gonna do the reunion? We don't know as yet.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
I don't know. I would hope.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
I would love to hear, you know, what her thoughts
are at this point after she's seen it all.
Speaker 2 (26:44):
But again, I don't know, what did you think about
what she did as far as the leaking and all that.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Oh, it was jaw dropping for sure to be there
because she had to be there to feel the attention.
But I was like, you know, you hurt me. Literally
was like, can you come girl? Like that's too much?
Like that's She's like, you don't tell me, it's too much,
b you, you know, and she kind of like So
after she apologized for that. But I guess if you,
(27:11):
I guess every action has a reaction, and she felt
like this girl did this, so I'm giving it back
to work. I wouldn't have handled it that way, but
she did.
Speaker 4 (27:21):
And and you see where we are.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
So I go back to the surrogate thing for a second.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
Do you think about getting one?
Speaker 6 (27:29):
I just want because you actually you carried a child
and then you have rog So what's the difference between
the experiences.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
So I had a great pregnancy with my firstborn. I
had a C section and it was fine.
Speaker 5 (27:43):
I did.
Speaker 3 (27:44):
I'm still actively trying to get pregnant. If I was
to get pregnant tomorrow, be amazing. But I also after
that had an ectopic pregnancy where I lost my left
filopean tube and was bleeding internally. And this was a
year and a half ago, and so the journey to
like grow.
Speaker 4 (27:59):
My family is continuous.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
But I think what the misconception is people think, oh,
you know, it's a cirrocus DNA in some kind of way. No,
the sirogut is like the oven to bake it in,
but all the ingredients are mine and my husband's.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
We create embryos, and.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
That's also a very stressful situation because you are having
to do stimulations to get eggs furilize and they need
implantation and all the things. And I've tried, God, I've
done seven rounds of IVF. I'm going into my eightiesesus now, Yes,
all that just to yeah, have a baby and very
expensive and very expensive and draining, emotionally draining, and it's
(28:37):
high risk because when you're injecting yourself with all these things,
it puts your at risk for a stroke, heart attack, you.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Can't work out.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
That's I'm not blaming my Simon pouschownt kind of I
am a little bit, but it is very like, you know,
just emotionally draining and high risk.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
I mean, women we go through so much is a body, so.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
The surrogate, I mean it's expensive and it's all the things,
but you know, we do that because we love.
Speaker 5 (29:01):
Is the connection the same?
Speaker 4 (29:04):
No, I mean not right off the back like where
we lying up.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
I said, it was now when I first got Shiloh,
how did he really get a chance to bomb? Because
she went straight into the nickeu and it was like
she was on a breathing you know.
Speaker 1 (29:20):
It was like you said she came early.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Yeah, she came early, and she was on a breathing machine.
And then she had like all these surgeries back to
back and it was so like just emotional because it
was like is she going to live?
Speaker 4 (29:32):
You know?
Speaker 3 (29:32):
So whereas my first born, it was like I could
hold her and bomb with her.
Speaker 4 (29:36):
But now, of course I'm totally bonded.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
But I didn't have I didn't carry her, so I
didn't There wasn't that connection.
Speaker 5 (29:42):
How early was did she come?
Speaker 4 (29:44):
Thirty four weeks? Thirty four and a half?
Speaker 5 (29:46):
Break it down for me home?
Speaker 4 (29:47):
So like a month?
Speaker 5 (29:49):
Okay, thank you? All right?
Speaker 2 (29:50):
And you said you want to grow your family, So
would you do surrogate again or are you thinking about
doing surrogate again?
Speaker 5 (29:54):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (29:55):
I actually you're going to do it.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
I got the news sarahgud and I'm just hoping to
get her pregnant.
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Asap.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Yeah, that's so crazy.
Speaker 5 (30:02):
I thought something I'm not judging.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Also that the two new casts, how do you like them?
Do you feel like they have a long standing power?
Do you think it's one of them that kind of
shock jocks and get up out of there?
Speaker 4 (30:21):
What you you said two new cast mates?
Speaker 3 (30:25):
Well besides yourself, cause you got nos even now you've
got Angela, Brett Edie, Kelly Farrell. Yeah, but I'm happy
that you said too, because that those are the ones
that I really care about.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Which which are you know, Kelly and Angela?
Speaker 1 (30:41):
And you just don't like the other them?
Speaker 4 (30:43):
I don't see it?
Speaker 1 (30:43):
Fo what what's why don't She's just not a.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
Kind person, you know, like that type that's girl broups
are you know, you're not gonna get along with everybody.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
And she's just not my type of girl.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
She said herself, she's not a girls girl, so we
can see it for sure.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Do you feel like a lot of times those castmates
they try to show things that they're not like when
I watch the show sometimes and I'm looking, I'm like, dude,
that ain't.
Speaker 4 (31:07):
How you are exactly you putting it on the cameras.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
But I think that our viewers and fans can see
that like when you ain't being real, it'll come out
and everything will be revealed, and that's exactly what's happening.
Speaker 4 (31:19):
You can't keep up with your own stories.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
Say you lost your insurance, then you didn't lose your
insurance license.
Speaker 6 (31:24):
It's like, girl, come on, do you feel like the
drama associated with reality shows will distract people from all.
Speaker 5 (31:31):
Other amazing things you've ever done in your life?
Speaker 6 (31:33):
Like the music, the sideline reporting, the cheerleading.
Speaker 5 (31:37):
You know, just you think.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
I don't think so.
Speaker 6 (31:42):
For people who didn't know you and know you did
all those amazing things, now this show is kind of defining.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
But see, I love that the show is allowing people
to even get to know me and see me Like
I'm getting booked for gigs and roles that I never
would have gotten before the show. So I mean, there
are flows good and bad in it, but overall for
me right now, the good is is outweighing the bad.
Speaker 5 (32:06):
You got you.
Speaker 2 (32:08):
I see, I ran into me and Thornton in Atlanta
last week and he's not on Potomac anymore. Possibility that
she might be a Housewives of Atlanta, So what's your
thoughts on now.
Speaker 3 (32:18):
I welcome anybody that wants to be here, Like, I
don't get to make those decisions. Hell, I just got
on the show myself. So if you're asking me if
I'm gonna get my spot up from me and no,
but you.
Speaker 4 (32:28):
Know, if.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
You can try.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
But but yeah, if they find room for her, sure, Hey.
Speaker 6 (32:37):
Girl, come on, well you figure it out me too,
can you make hap?
Speaker 3 (32:41):
I mean you close to port you y'all share the
same people. Yeah, I just want y'all have to sit.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Down and help us figure it out.
Speaker 5 (32:47):
Yeah. I feel like that should be so easy, though.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
It is not because you can't I mean, from you.
If you allow other people to just get in your
ear by stuff.
Speaker 5 (32:56):
It's like, I think it's the show.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
I mean I don't know that I've spoken to her about.
Speaker 6 (33:02):
I think it's the show because it's one thing when
your friend is your friend, but now your friend is
on the show, so you don't know if your friend
is using your relationship for a storyline.
Speaker 4 (33:12):
I wouldn't need that.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
I have so much other story, so much so to
where a lot of my story got cut, Like I've
got so much happening because.
Speaker 6 (33:19):
They're gonna go to selationis stuff. You know, they're gonna
go to Julius get all that positive shit.
Speaker 3 (33:24):
Yeah, like I did a whole you know, cheering dance
camp for with over two hundred girls.
Speaker 4 (33:31):
Boring and exactly.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
Pective exactly.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
That's why I never came to That's why you won't
see it, you know. But at the end of the day,
for me, it doesn't do anything for me.
Speaker 4 (33:41):
That story.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
That's not the type of story I want, Like, this
is my real friend, my real life, Like, and it's
a hurtful thing.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
Did you said, Yeah? We did.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
We text back, you know, she.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
Texts congratulations and you know, I hope you get everything
this season and something like that and happy birthday. I
hope you have something fun playing or something. And I
was like, yeah, I'm in New York, you know, hanging out.
Thank you so much in the road of me. So
that was sweet and it really didn't make my day.
Speaker 2 (34:07):
When when don't want on her birthday trip in Nashville, right,
and she said I should have fucked that man's husband.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
What what was your thoughts that man's husband, fuck that
woman's husband.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
My bad, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (34:29):
But it is Alanta, though it is Atlanta.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Angela is not trans. She's definitely a woman. So Charles
Mary a woman. Let's just be clear about that.
Speaker 5 (34:43):
Crazy.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
You know, it's funny at the time because we're out
there drinking, you know, were you kicking it with your friend?
You're not like whatever they were beefing. So I knew
she was being shady when she said it. Now, but
I don't play about black marriage or mis marriage period.
I want people to stay together. I don't, you know,
wouldn't play about mine, you know, And I said, of course,
I'm watch what happens live that Hey, if you can
take them, you can keep them. But at the end
(35:06):
of the day, no, that's not a laughing matter, like
and I hate that she said it, But me and
Angela weren't friends, and her and Angela weren't friends, and
she was kicky in with me her friend, and.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
So we laughed.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
We laughed about a lot of dark stuff that we
shouldn't laugh at.
Speaker 4 (35:20):
We was joking.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
Borsa doesn't want Charles to be clear like. And for
those that say, oh, she took some that ain't her thing,
like I know her and and that ain't her thing.
She didn't want Charles, She don't want Charles. She only
wants what's for her. And that's just it.
Speaker 4 (35:34):
That's just that.
Speaker 5 (35:35):
That's not fair.
Speaker 6 (35:36):
That's not fair of a beautiful woman like Porsche to
be saying things like that. And then when that poor man,
you know, comes the temptation, whose fault is that?
Speaker 1 (35:43):
You know what I'm saying? She was joking? I guess
she was.
Speaker 4 (35:52):
She was joking. But but you know Angel's defense.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
I get it, gir I understand why you would be upset,
but you should be upset with me anymore. I apologize
for laughing, and I apologize for my shade throwing on
her outfit and my part in it.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
All that other stuff. You got to talk take that
out with a portion like that.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
This show gonna ruin a lot of great relationship has already.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
This show has been for years, but it can only
do what you allow it to do.
Speaker 5 (36:18):
West.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
Let's play your single. To introduce your single, ladies and gentlemen,
me and more, thank you for joining us.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Introduce the single.
Speaker 4 (36:26):
Okay, that's w y'all got a download?
Speaker 3 (36:28):
Never has Spelthy Atlanta way n E V A H
A D so all your digital streaming platforms, because you
never had a best friend like me.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
You never had, you never had, you never had somebody.
Speaker 6 (36:45):
You can't just capital p now, it's not fortunate.
Speaker 4 (36:49):
Have you heard it? No?
Speaker 3 (36:50):
No, you didn't listen to And I tried to make
sure I got it. Help heer like, because I was like,
they ain't gonna do me like her.
Speaker 5 (36:56):
Yeah, I didn't even know you did music. So I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
Oh my goodness, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (37:03):
This is why this show is so great, because now
you know, and I'm here and I'm about to play
it for you, and I want you to tell me
what you think about it.
Speaker 5 (37:11):
If it's a portion, disrecord it is not a portion.
Speaker 2 (37:15):
Let's get into it right now, Ladies and gentlemen, from
the Real Housewives of Atlanta, Shamilah Moore and her single
is out right now.
Speaker 1 (37:20):
I've never had downloaded. Now it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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