October 31, 2022 • 7 mins
Pregnant Woman Stabs Boyfriend To Death Over Who Would Use The Microwave First
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakfastClubPower1051FM
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
Charlot Maine say the gang, don't get out the shape man,
you are a donkey today does not discriminate. I might
not have the song of today, but I got the
donkey that a donkey man the breakfast club bitch. Please
don't keep today today well and Sharon or today's donkey
(00:24):
that day is very sad. Donkey to day from Monday,
October thirty first goes to thirty three year old Keisha
Golden of Chicago, Illinois, Loot everybody from the shy. This
story saddens me deeply for a number number of reasons,
but it's a teachable moment in this story, and it's
a simple lesson stop trying to make toxic relationships work.
Whenever I see these articles that have headlines like ten
(00:46):
necessary steps to fix a toxic relationship, I don't pay
attention to any of those. Okay, the ones I pay
attention to are ten steps to end a toxic relationship.
Are ten steps on how to stop being in a
toxic relationship. Because the reality is, toxic relationships do not
end well. And this leads me to the story I'm
about to tell you today. Keisha Golden, thirty three years old,
(01:09):
her boyfriend and multiple family members at the house kicking
it on a Sunday, and they began to argue over
the microwave. Okay, listen to what I just said. They
started to argue over the microwave, and Keisha knocked the
plate out her boyfriend's hands. Now, let me tell you something.
When you get to the point where y'are arguing over
something as simple as microwave us, it's time to move on. Okay.
Next thing, you know, you're gonna start hating the way
(01:31):
the person choose. You're gonna start hating the way the
person breathes. Everything about the person is gonna start pissing
you off. And that's what this situation sounds like to me.
It's not the microwaves microwave us that piss Keisha offers
everything that has been going on in their life previously
that I'm sure culminated into this microwave moment. Trust me,
whatever has been happening with these two was brewing and
baking for a while, and this microwave moment was the
(01:53):
final stand because after Keisha knocked the plate out of
her boyfriend's hand, her boyfriend grabbed her and pushed her
down against the counter. Her uncle intervened, stepped between them,
broke them up, and then Keisha's boyfriend went to their
bedroom and a Keisha allegedly continued to argue with him
before grabbing a knife. A family member tried to separate them,
but Keisha allegedly reached around them and stabbed her boyfriend
(02:16):
in the thigh. Golden's boyfriend, who has not been identified,
was taken to a hospital with a severed artery and died.
Now there's a lot of nuance to this story. Number one,
She's eight months pregnant with her boyfriend's child. I'm sure
emotions were through the roof, hormones off, all types of
things going on. Not making excuses of justifying anything she did,
(02:37):
just giving some nuance and remember what I say, you
just don't get to the point of arguing over microwave
use and not leading to a murder. Okay. Prosecutor said
Keisha had no criminal history, but since June between her
and her boyfriend and they have filed five domestic violence
reports with police. Five and for the incidents, Golden accused
(02:58):
her boyfriend of physical violence, including shoking, slapping, or punching her,
and a report made in August with police. Her boyfriend
accused her of stabbing him in the neck. He was hospitalized,
but he didn't press charges. Let me tell you something, man,
we live in a society that really, really really loves
playing crashes. We see it all the time. Nobody wants
to truly help anyone. In fact, instead of getting people
(03:19):
help when we see they needed, we pull out our
phones and record the dysfunction. And then when situations like
this happened, everyone act shocked in surprise and can't believe it,
as if all the signs weren't right there in your face.
These two individuals had no business together, which is why
I told you I don't read articles that tell you
how to fix a toxic relationship. There's no fixing a
(03:40):
toxic relationship. Okay, it's just a trauma bond until both
individuals decide to go fix themselves individually. Okay, do some
work on themselves individually. Okay. Two healed people are two
people on a healing journey can have a healthy relationship
to unhealed people can't do anything but hurt each other. Okay,
So how do you endo toxic relationship carefully? And I'm
(04:02):
not no relationship expert, but I do know that, at
least for me, the number one way to end the
toxic relationship is to stop being in denial about the relationship.
That's the first step to solving any problem. Deal with it,
head up with truth. Stop lying to yourself. Okay, listen
to Eve. Love is blind one hundred times until you
realize that what you think is love is truly not.
You need to elevate and find Okay, what you have
(04:24):
to go from. You know, you have to go from
the now to acceptance. Okay. Once you accept you are
someplace you don't need to be, then you can work
on leaving. And that's all I got. Okay, the rest
you got to talk to an expert about. We'll talk
to your therapist or something. But I am really tired
of us just standing around watching this function and tell
us too late. Now, this woman who is eight months
pregnant is in jail with a two million dollar bail,
(04:50):
and a man is dead for no other reason than
nobody intervened to say, Hey, enough is enough. Please give
Keysha Golden of Chicago your biggest see hall tragic man terrible.
(05:10):
All right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Yes, indeed,
now let's open up the phone lines. Eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one. Let's talk about smelling tart,
smelling ripe, musty must your musty ass, boy, you sent
your little musty ass down somewhere now. Now do you
remember a time where you smell musty funky and somebody
(05:31):
picked it up? Or you just felt embarrassed? Eight hundred
five eight five one oh five one. I have one
you stink right now? No I don't. I got one too,
but I ain't telling it. But just no, having a
black wife will save your stink ass life. Okay, dropping
a clue, mom from my wife telling you stink. So
the last fifty cet interview, I ran out the house
(05:51):
and I didn't put the odor in on. And I'm
a sweater. When I say I'm a sweater, I sweat
like I sweat when I sleep, I sweat. I sweat.
And I remember doing that interview, and I remember smelling myself.
I didn't even want to take a picture with y'all
because I stunk so bad like Iran. So that day
I told you stunk. That was the truth. I mean,
I tell you stink all the time, just because you
like I feel like there's been several instances where envy sting.
(06:13):
He definitely has. I agree with you. No, that's not true.
Yes they have. We actually had a meeting about it.
Musty is one thing. But boy, when somebody tell you
you're ass, think you know what people say and you're
not in the room. I don't talk behind people back
like that. If you stink, I'm gonna tell you in
some way. You actually had to do an intervention one time.
(06:34):
But who somebody here? Well we had an intern. Hey,
how did not do that? Though? Let's not do that.
Let's not do that. See you talk to that any much? Yeah,
you go too far. People used to make Joe's they'd
be like, you smell me and then not me. I
(06:54):
an't no Jo, I don't mean no. Joe is honest.
I tell who you're all talking about. Who you're talking about? Oh,
you're that's someone else? Oh I told you talking about
about when I was a serious Like he said, said,
y'all are talking about a different person. Y'all know if
he was involved in that one? Did me? And you? Yeah?
You you told him, Yeah we did, But y'all talked
(07:16):
about it first before you told them. No, no, no no, no, no,
I told him soon. As as soon as it hit
my nostrils, I thought, but you know what, he was
working too hard. It was it was, it was, it
was something going on around that whole time. And yes,
we all had to be here for like days. Yes
it was a natural disaster. Yes, so no one else stunk.
But this person. Yes, yes, who laughing? That's Taylor. Tell
(07:39):
you better not laugh, Taylor, you better shut up. Oh
eight hundred five eight five one on five one. Let's
us have much musty stories. It's the Breakfast club Boy.
Charlot Maine say the gang, don't get out the shape man,
you are a donkey today does not discriminate. I might
not have the song of today, but I got the
donkey that a donkey man the breakfast club bitch. Please
don't keep today today well and Sharon or today's donkey
(00:24):
that day is very sad. Donkey to day from Monday,
October thirty first goes to thirty three year old Keisha
Golden of Chicago, Illinois, Loot everybody from the shy. This
story saddens me deeply for a number number of reasons,
but it's a teachable moment in this story, and it's
a simple lesson stop trying to make toxic relationships work.
Whenever I see these articles that have headlines like ten
(00:46):
necessary steps to fix a toxic relationship, I don't pay
attention to any of those. Okay, the ones I pay
attention to are ten steps to end a toxic relationship.
Are ten steps on how to stop being in a
toxic relationship. Because the reality is, toxic relationships do not
end well. And this leads me to the story I'm
about to tell you today. Keisha Golden, thirty three years old,
(01:09):
her boyfriend and multiple family members at the house kicking
it on a Sunday, and they began to argue over
the microwave. Okay, listen to what I just said. They
started to argue over the microwave, and Keisha knocked the
plate out her boyfriend's hands. Now, let me tell you something.
When you get to the point where y'are arguing over
something as simple as microwave us, it's time to move on. Okay.
Next thing, you know, you're gonna start hating the way
(01:31):
the person choose. You're gonna start hating the way the
person breathes. Everything about the person is gonna start pissing
you off. And that's what this situation sounds like to me.
It's not the microwaves microwave us that piss Keisha offers
everything that has been going on in their life previously
that I'm sure culminated into this microwave moment. Trust me,
whatever has been happening with these two was brewing and
baking for a while, and this microwave moment was the
(01:53):
final stand because after Keisha knocked the plate out of
her boyfriend's hand, her boyfriend grabbed her and pushed her
down against the counter. Her uncle intervened, stepped between them,
broke them up, and then Keisha's boyfriend went to their
bedroom and a Keisha allegedly continued to argue with him
before grabbing a knife. A family member tried to separate them,
but Keisha allegedly reached around them and stabbed her boyfriend
(02:16):
in the thigh. Golden's boyfriend, who has not been identified,
was taken to a hospital with a severed artery and died.
Now there's a lot of nuance to this story. Number one,
She's eight months pregnant with her boyfriend's child. I'm sure
emotions were through the roof, hormones off, all types of
things going on. Not making excuses of justifying anything she did,
(02:37):
just giving some nuance and remember what I say, you
just don't get to the point of arguing over microwave
use and not leading to a murder. Okay. Prosecutor said
Keisha had no criminal history, but since June between her
and her boyfriend and they have filed five domestic violence
reports with police. Five and for the incidents, Golden accused
(02:58):
her boyfriend of physical violence, including shoking, slapping, or punching her,
and a report made in August with police. Her boyfriend
accused her of stabbing him in the neck. He was hospitalized,
but he didn't press charges. Let me tell you something, man,
we live in a society that really, really really loves
playing crashes. We see it all the time. Nobody wants
to truly help anyone. In fact, instead of getting people
(03:19):
help when we see they needed, we pull out our
phones and record the dysfunction. And then when situations like
this happened, everyone act shocked in surprise and can't believe it,
as if all the signs weren't right there in your face.
These two individuals had no business together, which is why
I told you I don't read articles that tell you
how to fix a toxic relationship. There's no fixing a
(03:40):
toxic relationship. Okay, it's just a trauma bond until both
individuals decide to go fix themselves individually. Okay, do some
work on themselves individually. Okay. Two healed people are two
people on a healing journey can have a healthy relationship
to unhealed people can't do anything but hurt each other. Okay,
So how do you endo toxic relationship carefully? And I'm
(04:02):
not no relationship expert, but I do know that, at
least for me, the number one way to end the
toxic relationship is to stop being in denial about the relationship.
That's the first step to solving any problem. Deal with it,
head up with truth. Stop lying to yourself. Okay, listen
to Eve. Love is blind one hundred times until you
realize that what you think is love is truly not.
You need to elevate and find Okay, what you have
(04:24):
to go from. You know, you have to go from
the now to acceptance. Okay. Once you accept you are
someplace you don't need to be, then you can work
on leaving. And that's all I got. Okay, the rest
you got to talk to an expert about. We'll talk
to your therapist or something. But I am really tired
of us just standing around watching this function and tell
us too late. Now, this woman who is eight months
pregnant is in jail with a two million dollar bail,
(04:50):
and a man is dead for no other reason than
nobody intervened to say, Hey, enough is enough. Please give
Keysha Golden of Chicago your biggest see hall tragic man terrible.
(05:10):
All right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Yes, indeed,
now let's open up the phone lines. Eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one. Let's talk about smelling tart,
smelling ripe, musty must your musty ass, boy, you sent
your little musty ass down somewhere now. Now do you
remember a time where you smell musty funky and somebody
(05:31):
picked it up? Or you just felt embarrassed? Eight hundred
five eight five one oh five one. I have one
you stink right now? No I don't. I got one too,
but I ain't telling it. But just no, having a
black wife will save your stink ass life. Okay, dropping
a clue, mom from my wife telling you stink. So
the last fifty cet interview, I ran out the house
(05:51):
and I didn't put the odor in on. And I'm
a sweater. When I say I'm a sweater, I sweat
like I sweat when I sleep, I sweat. I sweat.
And I remember doing that interview, and I remember smelling myself.
I didn't even want to take a picture with y'all
because I stunk so bad like Iran. So that day
I told you stunk. That was the truth. I mean,
I tell you stink all the time, just because you
like I feel like there's been several instances where envy sting.
(06:13):
He definitely has. I agree with you. No, that's not true.
Yes they have. We actually had a meeting about it.
Musty is one thing. But boy, when somebody tell you
you're ass, think you know what people say and you're
not in the room. I don't talk behind people back
like that. If you stink, I'm gonna tell you in
some way. You actually had to do an intervention one time.
(06:34):
But who somebody here? Well we had an intern. Hey,
how did not do that? Though? Let's not do that.
Let's not do that. See you talk to that any much? Yeah,
you go too far. People used to make Joe's they'd
be like, you smell me and then not me. I
(06:54):
an't no Jo, I don't mean no. Joe is honest.
I tell who you're all talking about. Who you're talking about? Oh,
you're that's someone else? Oh I told you talking about
about when I was a serious Like he said, said,
y'all are talking about a different person. Y'all know if
he was involved in that one? Did me? And you? Yeah?
You you told him, Yeah we did, But y'all talked
(07:16):
about it first before you told them. No, no, no no, no, no,
I told him soon. As as soon as it hit
my nostrils, I thought, but you know what, he was
working too hard. It was it was, it was, it
was something going on around that whole time. And yes,
we all had to be here for like days. Yes
it was a natural disaster. Yes, so no one else stunk.
But this person. Yes, yes, who laughing? That's Taylor. Tell
(07:39):
you better not laugh, Taylor, you better shut up. Oh
eight hundred five eight five one on five one. Let's
us have much musty stories. It's the Breakfast club Boy.
The Breakfast Club News
Hosts And Creators
Charlamagne Tha God
DJ Envy
Jess Hilarious
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Special Summer Offer: Exclusively on Apple Podcasts, try our Dateline Premium subscription completely free for one month! With Dateline Premium, you get every episode ad-free plus exclusive bonus content.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!