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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Mojo in the morning show. Beyonca's having a little bit
of relationship problems, and it's not with the guy that
she's dating. It's with her dad and mom and the
acceptance of the guy that she's dating. This is an
interesting story. So again, you have been seeing this very
very nice young man. And when I say young man,
(00:24):
a lot younger than me. You're twenty two, he's nineteen, yes, and.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
I'm about to be twenty three, and you look a
four year age gap.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And your parents are not accepting of this, and yet
he's part of your culture. He's a Chaldean guy.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yes, Like if you were to kind of see him,
it'd be like everything my parents would want for me.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
He like, goes to church, he's Kaldean, he goes.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Comes from a great family. His mother might be the
greatest human being I've ever met. And his dad he's okay,
but yeah, I know he's a Yeah, he has a
great family.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
And I introduced I didn't really meet he didn't meet
them yet, but I kind of told my parents about him.
And when I told them his age, they said, oh no,
oh no, no, no, you can just be friends with him.
I never want you to date him. Even with my
dad's Like, when I'm on the phone with my dad,
I'll be like, hey, dad's a hat a bryce. My
dad will be like, no, I'm good, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Actually just doesn't want to talk to him.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
It's been like a big issue in my house for
a while, but it's come to a point where my
dad is now like this Saturday, we're gonna go to
Sexy Steak. I have a family for you that I
want you to meet my friend's son because I think
he'll be better for you because he's older than you.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
So his main issue is the age.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
The age, Yes, but it's gotten.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I think my dad is so stressed out about it
that he's trying to set me up with a new guy.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Now. Wait, so your dad is trying to hook you
up with another guy, yes, to get you away from yes,
the night guy that you're dating.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Is this happen Ever in other relationships where the parents
don't accept what you're dating, but they'll try to put
other people into your life or they'll try to do
like hookups even though you're in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
I actually would have never expected this from them because
I really thought they would have liked this kid, not
kid man's.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Here's the problem is you paint him as you say, well,
he's as a kid.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
He's very mature. He's like more mature than me, more mature.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Than other Yeah, for sure, let's be honest here. Yeah
he is, okay, come on, more mature than other guys
my age. I definitely would have thought my parents would
have loved him right off the bat, But I hope
that they just eventually.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Come around because I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
The guy that he wants to set me up with
not that cute.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Like my question because I don't know how it is
in your culture, but like, what priority is age?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
I think it seems like it's really high on the list.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I never thought that was an issue, and if it
was an issue for me, I wouldn't be talking to him.
But the fact that our connection and the way he
acts with me is not immature, I don't see an
issue with it.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
But for your family though, like it seems like age
is the number one priority for.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
But that was never a topic of discussion ever in
my life, So I don't know where that came from
or why that's coming up now. I think it's a
big thing because he's young than my younger brother, and
I think my parents think that's a little weird, but
I honestly don't think it's weird. He looks older, so
I feel like if they got to actually meet him
and see him they never seen him before either, they'll
probably hopefully I'm shocked.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
That your dad would be like rude to him, like
and do the whole Yeah, the whole non't want to
talk to him.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
My dad called me when I was with him, and
I was like, Dad, say hi to him.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
He said, no, I'm good. I got another call in
the line, spy.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Oh my god. How does the boy react? How does
your your boyfriend react? He's just laugh.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
His family, I think, also has a concern of me
being a little too old, so I think he kind
of understands.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
But he's so funny.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
He just keeps saying, I.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Know, Chelsea and I are four years apart.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yeah, but you're older.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
And that's you know, when I met her though she
was seventeen. I mean I met her she was seventeen
years old. That yeah, that's the case right there.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Got married at nineteen, and so you can't say that
he's too young to be dating you when you got
married at his age Victoria.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
What's up, Tiriot?
Speaker 4 (04:11):
First time.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Bojo.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I've known you, I've seen you from I'm from Chicago.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I really I moved to Michigan. I love it. Yeah,
I have a grown So.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I am from a Lithuanian family and I dated a
guy when I was very young and they just hated
it because he wasn't Lithuanian. And then he wasn't he
was a mechanic. But to this day we broke up
because of it. But he's like one of the greatest
people in the world.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Did you break up because your parents? Yeah, that's awful,
that's sad. So what could have been?
Speaker 6 (04:53):
No?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
But I know, but like they're so sometimes parents like
if you come from like a family.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
That's they're like very yeah ethnic, Yeah, like ruining.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Did you try to make your work and it just
became too stressful or because your parents disapprove you?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Guys didn't even try And my heart started hurting because
my family was unhappy.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Oh man, hey, can I tell you something about so?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
By the way, he's doing great, shot up and he's married.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Can I tell you guys something? Let me give these
guys a little clue or the tip. If you've never
seen a Lithuanian woman. They are smoke shows. They're so beautiful.
We are and they're they're a big in the Chicago area.
And oh my god, I'll never forget. My sister had
a friend that was a was a hotty. Her name
was Alexa Vangris.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
I moved to Michigan and no one's ever heard of us.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yeah, well we know are Lithuanians. So we love you.
Thanks for calling. I appreciate your Victoria. What's up, Leslie
high Hi? I think like she broke up with the boyfriend,
introduced the boyfriend as somebody else. Oh that's a great idea,
Like that's a movie, Like make him completely different and
lie about his age.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
I actually thinking about that.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
That's a great idea.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
I could do it.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
I was gonna you can turn around after they get
attached and be like, this is him.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I know.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I was going to do it, but my brother already
stalked him and got all of his info.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Like my brother knows everything, so I can't do that.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Hold on, Jackie, what's up. It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Hi, good morning.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
See my husband and I were exactly the.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Same way, like the anca right now, he was nineteen
years old and I was twenty three exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Now we got three kids. The oldest is already sixteen
years old.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
It's almost eighteen years you know, since then, and we're
still together.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Everything is fine, It's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Just go with it.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Yeah, that's not thing too.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
But you know, when you're in the storm, that storm
doesn't seem like it's ever gonna end. You know.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Well, in the.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
Beginning it was hard.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
My family didn't really like him.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
He was a little hardheaded.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Yeah he's still but I mean, if you like him,
if you love him, just go for it.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Everything is going to fall in plate. I love the
uh the idea though, that your dad wants you so
out of this relationship. He wants to introduce you to.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
His best friend's son.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
Has he ever tried to get this best friend introduced
to you before?
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Set his friend son up with my other friends? And
then all of a sudden he wants to set him
up with me because he's with his nineteen year old.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Hold on a second, Dad's on the phone. Let's get
to it. Al's on the phone. What's up with BB.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I'm doing fantastic? Al? So, what's up? You have not
had a chance to meet this guy.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yea, Al, I don't want to need him.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
What, al, Al, can I tell you something? I know
his family, Well, his dad and his mom are amazing.
You would fall in love with that family. They're very
good family.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
Oh, I'm sure to the best family. But you know
I'll still be young. That it's too young. And I
thought I'm gonna have more to have a talk with you.
She said, Oh my god, you'll make it. Change your mind.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
In the second I thought, yeah, I thought you could
change his mind.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
I'm telling Al, I actually literally, his mom is probably
one of the sweetest human beings you'll ever meet. You
guys would fall in love. You would want your daughter
to have people in their life like this.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Because what if I just brought home like a guy
that's like twenty three, but he's like a crackhead and
doesn't treat me good.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
But because he's twenty three, you'll have no problem with it.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Yeah, what if she brought home a crackhead?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Do you.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Insane?
Speaker 3 (08:37):
No, I'm just.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Saying, oh, go ahead, AL, can you give him a chance?
Speaker 6 (08:44):
I mean, I guess I'm gonna need him on her
birthday or something that bounce house or.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Whatever for him. You can't have a birthday party at
a bounce.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
An only place he can go.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
That's hornerble.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
We can't go to the bar or anything. He's not
twenty one yet.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Now, I'm going to tell you something. When Chelsea's dad
met me, it was awful. It was one of the
worst experiences ever. And you and Chelsea's dad, by the way,
have so much similarities to it. He said, I don't
want to meet the stupid son of a bitch. That's
what he said. Literally, when when Chelsea wanted to introduce
me to him, I went over to his house. I
was sweating profusely. It was awful. We sat down and talked.
(09:28):
I had him crying in about five seconds. The guy
fell in love. Now look at it. Yeah, seriously, just
meet the guy. Just just meet meet the guy. And
by the way, you'll have to give him the birds
and the bees talk because he's kind of around that age.
But I'll do that. I love you, buddy.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Also, his dad is I love Steve Gabar.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Yeah, his dad is Steve Gabara's cousin.
Speaker 6 (09:56):
So we should get a fleet card then, yes.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Peel Roughing