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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Just a second date update Mojoe in the morning. All right,
why ain't not getting a call back after you went
on a date? We're gonna find out here. Who do
we have on the phone? Is it Luca? Is that right?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hey?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
How's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
What's happening? How you doing, Luca?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
I'm doing pretty good. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Good? You're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, I guess I don't know. This has never happened before.
So I get like, that's what everyone's saying. They're saying
they're getting ghosted. Okay, so how long have you guys
known each other? How long have you guys kind of
been talking to each other? So we were talking on
Instagram for a while, like for a couple of months,
like we I sent her some messages. She was responding
(00:42):
like I hung in there and I talked to her
for like a little bit, and then I thought I
was gonna go good.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Have you guys been out? Have you guys had like
dinner or have you guys been to each other's places?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, we've had we've been out to dinner. One time
we went up to dinner and wheel was nice. I
took care of everything, and then that was the last
time I heard from her.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
So when you guys ended that dinner and say goodbye
to each other, that was the last time that you
physically saw her face to face.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, and that was it. I haven't heard from her
since she's not responding to my.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
DMS or anything, and you're just trying to figure out
why or you really want to go out again.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I want to go out again, like I really I
liked her.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
All right, Well, we're gonna find out what's going on. Okay?
Oh yeah, all right? Second date update right now here
on the Mojo in the morning show? Is it? Uh?
Ed Dorena? Is that? How do you pronounce your name?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Oh? Hi?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Yes, it's a arena?
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Hi at arena? How are you?
Speaker 4 (01:43):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I'm okay at arena?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Will you say hi to Luca?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Do you remember going the last time that you guys
were together.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
It's been a while, Yeah, of course, yeah I remember. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
I'm sorry, it's just but like I don't I don't
really want a datum. I'm sorry you.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Do, Okay to apologize? Wow, somebody again?
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Would you mind telling us why though, because lucat you
want to know why? Right?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, it's okay, it's just I want to know why.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Well, Okay, I mean, I guess I feel bad, but
I guess that's unquote quote ghosting. But it's just like
I've been a little bit put off because like with
our within our culture and our customs, both of our
families are actually kind of pretty connected and really know
each other already, Like his family knows my family, and
(02:48):
I just really don't like how he's been messaging everyone
in my family, like asking about me, and like he
followed my cousin on Instagram and when she put me
in one of her stories, he like messaged her, and
it's just like it's just like being too clinging. He
was like asking her, like where where we're at? Can
(03:11):
he come up? And you know what she's you know
where she's been at. And I haven't even told my
dad about him yet, but and yet he knows.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
Oh really Okay, okay, so so.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So, Luca adding, Luka, you're hitting up all the family members.
Was he doing this before you stopped calling him or
was he doing it afterwards because he was trying to
figure out where you were.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
No, he was doing it pretty much like while we
were talking on the Instagram, Like I was taking a
while to answer him back. So he was already messaging
my family cousins because like, you know, like we know
each other, but and.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I'm assuming inquiring about me.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And I'm assuming that you just like we have so
many you know, different We had a lot of Albanian
and Keldy and families you know that listen to this
radio show and stuff in Palestinian and stuff. Everybody knows everybody,
it's right, Is that what it is like?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
And for you guys, yeah, it's a very knit so
there's not really anything that goes on that other people
don't find out about.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
It's just so you didn't want it to be out
to everybody that you you were dating him or going
on dates with him.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Well, I mean it's just it was it was not
at my pace at all. It was already him just
kind of just taking the ball and running with it.
I just felt there was like too much pressure and cleaniness.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
If you even like him before you start talking about
him to your family.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm trying to figure out
my own feelings and yet you know, and so I
haven't even told my dad about him, but my dad
knows and he doesn't approve.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
So, oh he doesn't want he doesn't approve of him,
or doesn't want you dating anybody.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Well, he just kind of doesn' approve of him. So
it's like he's kind of ruined on his own if
we could be honest.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Well, here's the thing though, and Luca and I don't know,
I go back to you just hitting up everybody probably
not a good idea.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
But.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I mean that's normal for but that's normal. It's everyone
in my family, like we just we all know and
talk about everything. You know.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
What's your comment on this, Stephanie?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
He is a stage five clinger ron creepy.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, And I feel bad for him because she'd just
hit him up with the fact that her dad hates
him or doesn't or it doesn't approve of him. I
guess you know that now though, Atterin, I guess that
would suck if you started dating them and your dad
then I was able to figure it out later when
you finally told him that you guys were seeing each other.
(05:58):
Or do you think your dad would have come to him?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
I mean maybe, I mean I think my dad is
seeing the same thing that I'm seeing, just like kind
of these red flags where you know, he's just running
his mouth already and just kind of just making it
seem like it's not what it is. I feel like,
(06:22):
So I think I think my dad saw it, and
so he kind of told on himself, I think in
a way.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, eight four four Mojo Live eight four four sixty
six five six five four eight is our telephone number
I'd love to talk to because I mean, and I
know you guys didn't want to say, uh, you know
what culture you guys are, But I would love to
talk to people that are dating where they have to
(06:50):
keep it quiet. And did somebody ever do that where
they didn't keep it quiet? You know? And then it
ran that, yeah, because I got some I have Muslim
friends that they keep it very very quiet of who
they're dating, and they don't tell anybody that they're dating
each other to a point where they won't even eat
out or go out in their town because they go
(07:15):
over towns because they don't want to be seen out
on dates until it's serious, right until it becomes a
point where they want to let people know that that's
the that's the case. So it's kind.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Of like that with social media a little bit. You
it's a certain relationships where maybe you're not as active
or maybe you prefer to keep that part of your
life private, but you have a partner that sees the
privacy is like you're not claiming them or you're hiding
them for some reason.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Why aren't you posting me all? It's got to be
tough in this day and age where everything is so public.
What's up, Ryan, Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:50):
So what what kind of strikes.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Me kind of odd is if he's doing it with her.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I'm sure that this has been a problem in the
past and he's not admitting it because it seems I mean,
he's definitely the last callers that are definitely a clinger
and that's a total turn off, especially in that in
that nationality.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
You know, I'm not loving ease, but yeah, that's uh,
I would I would probably stay away, back off. Yeah,
thank you for the call. I appreciate it. H What
do you think, Ali?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah, it is. It is weird on a first date
coming from a Muslim guy, and that is very clingy sometimes. Yeah,
I've never done that. I've never heard of that, hiding
up family members and telling family members, hey I went
on dates with her. They were gonna get married on
the third date. Did you say you're very clingy sometimes sometimes,
(08:42):
but with my current girlfriend right now, she's just as clinic,
so it works for both of us. Yeah, what's up
at him?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Hey?
Speaker 5 (08:51):
How you doing? I'm usually a big middle ground seed
of middle type of guy, but my man is justn't
doing way too much, way too fast. Like he really
liked her, was really into him, just maybe got a
little too thirsty. He just just flow down. Man, that's
a lot too quick. This is his first battye you
know how that got she likes him or not, and
he was already would love you to help to this person.
(09:12):
And can I can I meet y'all where you're at?
Like you can't?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's too much.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Sometimes you get your first batty, you don't really know
how to handle it, and you get a little too exciting.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
What's up, Megan? I?
Speaker 6 (09:25):
Hey, I was just gonna say that I'm loving ease
And I think it's so weird like that he's calling
her cousins or messaging your cousins saying he wants to
pull up and isn't even asking her first. It's just
like doing this all on his own.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Megan, do the girls do that though, ever, or is
it kind of an unwritten rule that both the girls
and the guys don't get that carried away fast until
you're serious?
Speaker 3 (09:49):
No.
Speaker 6 (09:50):
No, when you're in the culture you like, especially if
like she was saying, they're well known families, you respect
that and you take that into consideration, like, okay, like
we don't want to put anything U there because we
know how it's gonna be. People talk, so you know,
you just keep it on the download. You have respect
for one another, but you know clearly this guy is
a stage all right, Luke.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I'm sorry, buddy, you got your answer. At least that's
what you wanted. You didn't even talk about wanting another date,
although it probably would have been something cool to have again.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah, I think I think hearing all those people say
that was.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Something you Would you like to apologize to her for
that or do you feel like you're an apology?
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Yeah, of course, I'm sorry. It's as I never meant
to do that, you know, I meant to get to
know you better and get to know your family better.
So I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Oh, it's okay. I mean, it's just I guess just
too much too soon. Sometimes it gets a little intimidating,
and then just like with everybody knowing and talking and
then talking to me about it questions. I guess I
just got a little frustrated and anxious about it all.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Luke could give it a little bit a time, Maybe
you can. Guys can go out again one more time.
But second Date update.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
This is the home of the Dirty on the thirty
throw back fro down on the second date update and
more of the roses.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
This is Mojo in the Morning
Just a second date update Mojoe in the morning. All right,
why ain't not getting a call back after you went
on a date? We're gonna find out here. Who do
we have on the phone? Is it Luca? Is that right?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Hey?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
How's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
What's happening? How you doing, Luca?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
I'm doing pretty good. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Good? You're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, I guess I don't know. This has never happened before.
So I get like, that's what everyone's saying. They're saying
they're getting ghosted. Okay, so how long have you guys
known each other? How long have you guys kind of
been talking to each other? So we were talking on
Instagram for a while, like for a couple of months,
like we I sent her some messages. She was responding
(00:42):
like I hung in there and I talked to her
for like a little bit, and then I thought I
was gonna go good.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Have you guys been out? Have you guys had like
dinner or have you guys been to each other's places?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, we've had we've been out to dinner. One time
we went up to dinner and wheel was nice. I
took care of everything, and then that was the last
time I heard from her.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
So when you guys ended that dinner and say goodbye
to each other, that was the last time that you
physically saw her face to face.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, and that was it. I haven't heard from her
since she's not responding to my.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
DMS or anything, and you're just trying to figure out
why or you really want to go out again.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I want to go out again, like I really I
liked her.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
All right, Well, we're gonna find out what's going on. Okay?
Oh yeah, all right? Second date update right now here
on the Mojo in the morning show? Is it? Uh?
Ed Dorena? Is that? How do you pronounce your name?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Oh? Hi?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Yes, it's a arena?
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Hi at arena? How are you?
Speaker 4 (01:43):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I'm okay at arena?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Will you say hi to Luca?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Do you remember going the last time that you guys
were together.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
It's been a while, Yeah, of course, yeah I remember. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
I'm sorry, it's just but like I don't I don't
really want a datum. I'm sorry you.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Do, Okay to apologize? Wow, somebody again?
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Would you mind telling us why though, because lucat you
want to know why? Right?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, it's okay, it's just I want to know why.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Well, Okay, I mean, I guess I feel bad, but
I guess that's unquote quote ghosting. But it's just like
I've been a little bit put off because like with
our within our culture and our customs, both of our
families are actually kind of pretty connected and really know
each other already, Like his family knows my family, and
(02:48):
I just really don't like how he's been messaging everyone
in my family, like asking about me, and like he
followed my cousin on Instagram and when she put me
in one of her stories, he like messaged her, and
it's just like it's just like being too clinging. He
was like asking her, like where where we're at? Can
(03:11):
he come up? And you know what she's you know
where she's been at. And I haven't even told my
dad about him yet, but and yet he knows.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
Oh really Okay, okay, so so.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So, Luca adding, Luka, you're hitting up all the family members.
Was he doing this before you stopped calling him or
was he doing it afterwards because he was trying to
figure out where you were.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
No, he was doing it pretty much like while we
were talking on the Instagram, Like I was taking a
while to answer him back. So he was already messaging
my family cousins because like, you know, like we know
each other, but and.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I'm assuming inquiring about me.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
And I'm assuming that you just like we have so
many you know, different We had a lot of Albanian
and Keldy and families you know that listen to this
radio show and stuff in Palestinian and stuff. Everybody knows everybody,
it's right, Is that what it is like?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
And for you guys, yeah, it's a very knit so
there's not really anything that goes on that other people
don't find out about.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
It's just so you didn't want it to be out
to everybody that you you were dating him or going
on dates with him.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Well, I mean it's just it was it was not
at my pace at all. It was already him just
kind of just taking the ball and running with it.
I just felt there was like too much pressure and cleaniness.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
If you even like him before you start talking about
him to your family.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm trying to figure out
my own feelings and yet you know, and so I
haven't even told my dad about him, but my dad
knows and he doesn't approve.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
So, oh he doesn't want he doesn't approve of him,
or doesn't want you dating anybody.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Well, he just kind of doesn' approve of him. So
it's like he's kind of ruined on his own if
we could be honest.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Well, here's the thing though, and Luca and I don't know,
I go back to you just hitting up everybody probably
not a good idea.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
But.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I mean that's normal for but that's normal. It's everyone
in my family, like we just we all know and
talk about everything. You know.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
What's your comment on this, Stephanie?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
He is a stage five clinger ron creepy.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, And I feel bad for him because she'd just
hit him up with the fact that her dad hates
him or doesn't or it doesn't approve of him. I
guess you know that now though, Atterin, I guess that
would suck if you started dating them and your dad
then I was able to figure it out later when
you finally told him that you guys were seeing each other.
(05:58):
Or do you think your dad would have come to him?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
I mean maybe, I mean I think my dad is
seeing the same thing that I'm seeing, just like kind
of these red flags where you know, he's just running
his mouth already and just kind of just making it
seem like it's not what it is. I feel like,
(06:22):
So I think I think my dad saw it, and
so he kind of told on himself, I think in
a way.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, eight four four Mojo Live eight four four sixty
six five six five four eight is our telephone number
I'd love to talk to because I mean, and I
know you guys didn't want to say, uh, you know
what culture you guys are, But I would love to
talk to people that are dating where they have to
(06:50):
keep it quiet. And did somebody ever do that where
they didn't keep it quiet? You know? And then it
ran that, yeah, because I got some I have Muslim
friends that they keep it very very quiet of who
they're dating, and they don't tell anybody that they're dating
each other to a point where they won't even eat
out or go out in their town because they go
(07:15):
over towns because they don't want to be seen out
on dates until it's serious, right until it becomes a
point where they want to let people know that that's
the that's the case. So it's kind.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Of like that with social media a little bit. You
it's a certain relationships where maybe you're not as active
or maybe you prefer to keep that part of your
life private, but you have a partner that sees the
privacy is like you're not claiming them or you're hiding
them for some reason.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Why aren't you posting me all? It's got to be
tough in this day and age where everything is so public.
What's up, Ryan, Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:50):
So what what kind of strikes.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Me kind of odd is if he's doing it with her.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I'm sure that this has been a problem in the
past and he's not admitting it because it seems I mean,
he's definitely the last callers that are definitely a clinger
and that's a total turn off, especially in that in
that nationality.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
You know, I'm not loving ease, but yeah, that's uh,
I would I would probably stay away, back off. Yeah,
thank you for the call. I appreciate it. H What
do you think, Ali?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yeah, it is. It is weird on a first date
coming from a Muslim guy, and that is very clingy sometimes. Yeah,
I've never done that. I've never heard of that, hiding
up family members and telling family members, hey I went
on dates with her. They were gonna get married on
the third date. Did you say you're very clingy sometimes sometimes,
(08:42):
but with my current girlfriend right now, she's just as clinic,
so it works for both of us. Yeah, what's up
at him?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Hey?
Speaker 5 (08:51):
How you doing? I'm usually a big middle ground seed
of middle type of guy, but my man is justn't
doing way too much, way too fast. Like he really
liked her, was really into him, just maybe got a
little too thirsty. He just just flow down. Man, that's
a lot too quick. This is his first battye you
know how that got she likes him or not, and
he was already would love you to help to this person.
(09:12):
And can I can I meet y'all where you're at?
Like you can't?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's too much.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Sometimes you get your first batty, you don't really know
how to handle it, and you get a little too exciting.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
What's up, Megan? I?
Speaker 6 (09:25):
Hey, I was just gonna say that I'm loving ease
And I think it's so weird like that he's calling
her cousins or messaging your cousins saying he wants to
pull up and isn't even asking her first. It's just
like doing this all on his own.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Megan, do the girls do that though, ever, or is
it kind of an unwritten rule that both the girls
and the guys don't get that carried away fast until
you're serious?
Speaker 3 (09:49):
No.
Speaker 6 (09:50):
No, when you're in the culture you like, especially if
like she was saying, they're well known families, you respect
that and you take that into consideration, like, okay, like
we don't want to put anything U there because we
know how it's gonna be. People talk, so you know,
you just keep it on the download. You have respect
for one another, but you know clearly this guy is
a stage all right, Luke.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I'm sorry, buddy, you got your answer. At least that's
what you wanted. You didn't even talk about wanting another date,
although it probably would have been something cool to have again.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yeah, I think I think hearing all those people say
that was.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Something you Would you like to apologize to her for
that or do you feel like you're an apology?
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Yeah, of course, I'm sorry. It's as I never meant
to do that, you know, I meant to get to
know you better and get to know your family better.
So I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Oh, it's okay. I mean, it's just I guess just
too much too soon. Sometimes it gets a little intimidating,
and then just like with everybody knowing and talking and
then talking to me about it questions. I guess I
just got a little frustrated and anxious about it all.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Luke could give it a little bit a time, Maybe
you can. Guys can go out again one more time.
But second Date update.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
This is the home of the Dirty on the thirty
throw back fro down on the second date update and
more of the roses.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
This is Mojo in the Morning
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