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January 1, 2025 13 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Mojo on the morning show. Listen to this What do
people fight about? What do couples fight about?

Speaker 2 (00:07):
The most?

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Revealed in a latest survey, was the number one thing
that couples argue about. And I actually found it really
interesting because for us this is not our case for
my wife and I, but number one most thought about
thing that couples argue about. Sex in relationships or marriages,

(00:30):
Sex is the most common issue that partners argue about.
The second is money, followed by family, parenting styles, talking
to exes, sharing private relationship issues with others, religion, and

(00:51):
then being too possessive. This is, according to marriage dot com,
the things that people fight about the most. It's interesting
because I'm going through this list and I'm going to
tell you in a second here what because I I'll
tell you that what Chelsea and I fight about the most,
you guys think of yours too. But I found it
interesting that sex is number one because I would think

(01:12):
that sex would not be like the most thought about.
I would think money would have been number one, like
that made sense, And then I'd.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Say I thought family would be higher up there.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Family would be interesting, for family would be interesting. And
then also I would I would think that I've been
hearing a lot at times. Now I feel like, even
more so than ever, guys being too possessive, controlling. Here's
for Chelsea and I. So my wife and I Chelsea
and I hold on you know what? Yet I wonder

(01:45):
if she's available to call and fight with. She's driving
up to UH to east Land saying right now, so
maybe she's I don't know, because her friend, Leah's son
goes to Michigan State.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Are you on your drive right now? I am.

Speaker 4 (02:03):
We are.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
We're in the car. Guess what we're talking about right now?

Speaker 3 (02:08):
We were listening, Oh.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Are you really okay? So for Chelsea, that's Leah by
the way, so hied to Leah.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
You guys, Leah listens to the show a lot more
than Chelsea does. Leah is actually my radio wife. Chelsea
is my real wife. But and Leah's very supportive of me.
Were Chelsea sometimes sometimes so for Chelsea and I we
fight about the most.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Our kids. Our kids are our biggest fight.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
And it's usually our kids being a pain in the
ass cause for you and I to get into fights.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Chelsea, why is that?

Speaker 1 (02:41):
Why would because they're they're they're jerks, yes.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Or because I need a partner and parents.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
We sure, Ah, okay, it's mine, she said, I need
to step up a little bit with the parenting thing.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
Our kids are definitely the one.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
So can can we talk about the text message from
Luke last night?

Speaker 4 (03:03):
Or no?

Speaker 2 (03:05):
I don't think that's a good idea. All right, we're
not going to talk about We're not going to talk
about that yet.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
You called her, but I'm not going to say.

Speaker 4 (03:12):
That still ongoing.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
It's gotten even bigger.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Oh it has all right?

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Will you and I will talk off the air when
we go into the next commercial break. But I find
it into the two things that I came up with
that we fight about the most are kids, and then
my work would probably be number two.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Am I right?

Speaker 5 (03:31):
In your phone?

Speaker 2 (03:33):
And my phone is number three?

Speaker 1 (03:37):
And notice that none of these things are things that
I fight with her about because I have no problems
with Chelsea.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
I'm usually you know what I mean, Like I'm usually because.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
I think I am very calm and cool and I
let things not get to me.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Am I right?

Speaker 4 (03:54):
Or I think there always has to be a problem,
and then always the one is not the problem.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
Oh okay? What she said on this one here. Did
we ever in our past ever fight about sex?

Speaker 4 (04:05):
Though?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Was that sex ever a big thing in our marriage
to fight about? Because that's number one? And also how
do you fight about it when there's not any of it?

Speaker 2 (04:15):
So, you know?

Speaker 3 (04:19):
And what about each other's families?

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Oh, Chelse, you want to talk about my family? You
know about my family?

Speaker 5 (04:28):
Ever?

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Never?

Speaker 1 (04:31):
That's it? Yes, her family, we never fight about it.
But Chelsea's We've had some issues. My sisters have said
sometimes or one in particular, have said some things sometimes
that that hurt Chelsea. But and then and then and
then also me not sticking up for her is a
big deal. That's actually a common place in our marriage.

(04:51):
Money was big one in our marriage early on, and
that was a big problem for us.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
I remember that.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
Religion's never been Although I didn't want to send our
kids to Catholic school, you did. I wasn't Chelsea not
even Catholic? And she wanted them. And I oppose that.
I'm trying to think of some of these other ones here.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
Am I ever possessive of you?

Speaker 6 (05:13):
Now?

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Are you possessive of me? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:17):
I was kind of I know, Megan Jr. I was
kind of breathing asigh of relief. I need to know
the Luke thing. I'm gonna talk. I'm gonna call you
here in a second. I'm gonna end this conversation early
because I want to know what the hell is going
on now.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
I'm worried about that. Listen, don't be worried. Just finish
your show.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
I don't know if you can compartmentalize good and bad
right now.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Oh Jesus, that's my work. That's my work. Wife.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
Oh God, that feels like we'll talk later, Hunt, Okay,
we'll talk later.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
It does feel like as soon as the show's over,
you're going to get a call going, get in the car.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Get in the car. You're driving to East Lansing and
we're moving back. Luke, what's going on, Jessica? How you doing?

Speaker 6 (06:00):
They doing good?

Speaker 2 (06:00):
How are you good? What do you guys fight about?

Speaker 7 (06:04):
Well? I was just going to say that I heard
what you were saying.

Speaker 6 (06:06):
Like from sex and money and kids and all that.
And I think it's also important to identify the root issue,
which is I feel like not being.

Speaker 7 (06:15):
Understood or feeling that your point to prove is.

Speaker 6 (06:19):
More superior than understanding your wife's.

Speaker 7 (06:21):
Point of view.

Speaker 6 (06:22):
Yeah, And I think all the time.

Speaker 7 (06:24):
We just want to prove that we're right and we
just want to make a point, and we're just kind
of forgetting.

Speaker 6 (06:28):
That both of our ideas.

Speaker 7 (06:30):
Should come together.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
That is actually a really good point. That's actually very
smart to say. I think a lot of times people
don't want to be anything more than.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Just heard right.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Absolutely, No, that's great.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
Are you married?

Speaker 4 (06:46):
Not yet, but I'm on the way.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Really are you? Are you sure you want to do that? Abolutely?

Speaker 4 (06:53):
Absolutely?

Speaker 7 (06:53):
I mean it took a lot of time for me
to really just like I was a really stubborn person.
And I think at.

Speaker 6 (06:59):
Some point, when you really want to settle down with someone,
you have to let your guard down, and you.

Speaker 7 (07:03):
Know, there's a reason why you choose that person, and
you just got to give them a chance. You know,
every time you're stuck and you feel like you don't
have a way out and you're just so frustrated, Yeah,
you really just have to give their idea a chance.
And I think that's so important.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
Are you in therapy and that's how you came up
with all this stuff? Because that's pretty or are you
a therapist?

Speaker 2 (07:21):
You know?

Speaker 7 (07:22):
I also I had to do some reflection to figure
this out too. So I just want to shed some
light on it. I think it's so important and so important.

Speaker 6 (07:29):
It worked wonders for me.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
So wow, this We got to have you on with
us more often, Jessica. What's going on? Lily?

Speaker 4 (07:35):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (07:35):
What's happening? Hi?

Speaker 6 (07:39):
Lily?

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Hi? What do you guys fight about? Wait?

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Was that keV here with us right now? That sounded
like keV going because keV is off today. I heard that, Lily.

Speaker 6 (07:51):
Can you tell me?

Speaker 2 (07:53):
Go ahead?

Speaker 6 (07:54):
Lily?

Speaker 5 (07:55):
Now, we don't really fight about sex or family money, sure,
but our number one she was drinking?

Speaker 6 (08:01):
Really?

Speaker 3 (08:02):
How come?

Speaker 4 (08:03):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (08:03):
Yeah? I think when we got married we were both
alcoholics and I decided to quit and he did not
want to. So now when he overdoes it, I get
easily aggravated and it turns into a big place.

Speaker 3 (08:17):
Oh yeah, I see that.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Yeah, boy, that's amazing. Two alcoholics coming together to get married.
That had to be pretty tumultuous.

Speaker 5 (08:26):
It actually was fine for a long time, and then
it did become a problem.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
Did you guys meet it a.

Speaker 6 (08:34):
No, we met at a bar.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
That was my second question, but our second answer. Wow,
that's amazing. Well, I'm glad that you gave it up.
I hope that for the sake of your relationship and
the sake of his health, he's able to do it too. Yeah, Dakota,
what's up. It's Mojo in the morning.

Speaker 5 (08:54):
Good morning.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
So, Yeah, I have a roommate and we we really.

Speaker 6 (08:59):
Argue about like cleaning and stuff like that. Not a couple,
but yeah, we argue about cleaning all the time and
who takes turns and yeah, that's our biggest one.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
I guess, mm hmm. That's uh boy, that's an interesting thing.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Cleaning is a one in our family too, because we're
not both on the same page on that one.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
I'm not clean, that's.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
But I will say this to you that that does
become one of those things where I think opposites do
kind of attract in that case.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
No, not with cleanliness.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
I tell me that if you have two people that
are anally retentive clean that those people don't have like
a very weird life.

Speaker 5 (09:40):
No, because if you have one person who needs cleanliness
and the other person is messy, I'm going to resent you.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
Well.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
I always like taking care of both. West and I
are both kind of are you guys both?

Speaker 2 (09:52):
Yeah, you guys seem like that. You guys always seem
very clean together. Yeah, I thought you fold your underwear.

Speaker 3 (09:57):
I do not fold my underwear. I fold his underwear
for him.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Stephanie, Stephanie, what's going on? Be Hi? What's up? Stephanie?

Speaker 7 (10:08):
Hi?

Speaker 4 (10:08):
It's always for I think maybe spank banks, which wait, wait,
wait to know?

Speaker 2 (10:16):
Wait, what do you guys fight about?

Speaker 4 (10:18):
Well, we don't fight anymore, but I in the last year.
Now I'm thirty three, and I've never heard of this.
It's called a spank sp and key bank. It's what
he referred to it. And it's a series of pictures
from its depending on axes and.

Speaker 7 (10:38):
Like, and then they have them.

Speaker 6 (10:40):
On different forms, so they have them on a flat drive.

Speaker 7 (10:44):
Wait, so he.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
Has them saved as his spank bank that he uses
to masturbate two.

Speaker 4 (10:54):
Yeah, and there's oh there were yeah we yeah, yeah,
and I mean there were ones from when he was
girlfriends that he was dating, like eighteen thirty four.

Speaker 3 (11:11):
That is a big no the draft, No, no, no, no, yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Why do we not fight with it?

Speaker 4 (11:25):
We don't fight it anymore. But that's actually the reason
I called off a wedding because I had found it
and it was like the fourth or fifth time, and
he kept things, was going to delete it, and then
I found it. I found it on various forms and
I did, I'm not great with technology. I found it
on an email. Then I found it on a like
a Samsung drive, which I didn't even know existed and

(11:47):
he had. And then I found a flat drive of
his first girlfriend, like seven pictures in his work bag.
I bought him.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
And you are still with me? No?

Speaker 4 (12:01):
No, we were supposed to get married last year. But yeah,
I actually found it the day before the wedding, the
flash dribe, So shout out to you know who.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
You are, because that's pretty crazy.

Speaker 3 (12:12):
Wait, somebody you canceled the wedding the day before the wedding.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Yes, they did quick question for you. Do you think
you're in his current spank bank?

Speaker 4 (12:24):
Absolutely?

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (12:25):
And that would be a frustration because who knows Boddy.
And it's scary because maybe for someone for so long,
I mean, I had never heard about the same bank.
And it's very embarrassing. However, because thirty three, it's just
wild and I feel like girls should know about that
because I felt incredibly ignorant, like I figured maybe guys

(12:46):
kept a few pictures but not bank something and there's
a name for it because all of his friends knew
exactly what it was.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Let me just tell you, that's a guy that, honestly,
I worry about other issues going on with him.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
If he's got that many, Wow, Well, what's you all?

Speaker 6 (13:04):
Well?

Speaker 2 (13:05):
Thank well man, thank you. I appreciate that
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