Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
Three Parallel, three Parallel, Three Parallel, three Parallel podcast. Welcome
back to the Three Parallels podcast, which your hosts be
doctor Jason branch Or. We rediscovered who we were, We
embrace who we are and make room for who we're
trying to become. If that's you, You're in the right place.
(00:24):
You're in the best place. Because this show is designed
to help people help themselves. How do we do that.
It's figuring out who we used to be, giving that
person what they need, find out who you are now,
giving you whatever you need, and listening to the inner
voice of your future self and finding out who you
(00:44):
are designed to be. That's what this show does. Every
episode is a bread crumb, a ripple. It's an opportunity
for you to get to know you by hearing the
stories and truth lived experiences of other people and myself.
My hope is this podcast can provide transformation for anyone
(01:05):
who's open and willing to accept what we have to offer.
We is this entire community I'm building and I'm learning
how to do this in real time and showing you
that it's okay to be imperfect, that it's okay to
be human, that it's okay to make mistakes, that it's
okay for you to be exactly who you are and
for you to discover who you truly are. So as
(01:28):
you can see, for those who watching, for those who listening,
I want to let you in on a little secret.
I'm coming to you live from Battlecat Studios. Where's Battlecat Studios,
wherever I say it is, and from today. I got
a nice little spot that's hidden in plain sight. And
my location it is not really important. But what's around
(01:48):
me is joy, is love, is peace, It's tranquility, it's excitement.
It's a lot of different things happening in real time.
And I just had a birthday recently appreciated life, and
I'm just doing what feels good to me with the
expectation if it feels good to me, it's gonna feel
good to somebody that may be you. If it is.
(02:10):
Buggle up, butter Cup, We're gonna go on the ride.
If it isn't, come back later when you're ready. So
let's dive in. I want it's your story. And this
story relates to the guests that we're about to have
on next week, and you are in for a treat
because these guests. I'm bringing two people in, which I'm
noticing has been a trend, which is a great trend
(02:33):
because I kind of like bringing more people in, more
people on the show, and I feel like before long,
it's going to end up being the wool Tank plan,
Like that's how many people are going to be on
this podcast at one time because everybody has a story,
everybody has experience, and as you put people together, there
are experiences within that experience and it's going to happen.
It's already happening in real time. So this is a
(02:55):
journey that we're on together and we're going to figure
it out as we go, because if you about life,
that's what we're all doing. We're figuring it out as
we go. I'm just allowing myself to speak about it
and allowing you on this journey with me because I'm
doing this stuff anyway. I'm just allowed. I'm inviting you in.
So welcome, Welcome, Welcome. So storytime, let's get right in
(03:17):
talking about the next guest. And these next guests I
had the opportunity to meet when I was at a
conference in DC. So this conference in DC was invitation only.
It was sponsored by Motivo, which will be a sponsor
of some episodes coming up soon. It was a conference
of the Behavioral Health Network. So it's a conference that
(03:40):
was invitation only of people that's in the mental health
and woman's profession of how do we get better as clinicians, providers, administrators, CEOs, like,
from top to bottom, anybody related to this profession directly
and directly how do we get better? And that's what
the conference was for. So for many of you who
know this life of going to conferences, it can be overwhelming.
(04:03):
It can be exhausting, which is normal and in order
for us to begin. Oh, by the way, this is
a real background. Okay, it's not even his own background. Again,
the show is growing, Okay, it's changing. It's got a
little budget. Now I need you to see growth in
real time because if this show can grow, that means
we can as well figuring it out as we go.
(04:26):
So back to the story NBC invitation only conference. I'm
feeling myself. I'm feeling real good and being an impact.
I absorb the energy of other people. And by day
two of this conference, which is another conversation for another
day about the conference, I want to talk about the
post conference. So by two, by day two of this conference.
(04:46):
I am exhausted mentally, physically, emotionally because I'm draining. I'm
spent for me. I am a extroverted introvert, meaning I
can be on when it's time to be on, shaking hands,
kissing babies, doing all that good stuff, and then once
my social battery dies, I have nothing, nothing, absolutely nothing.
(05:08):
So therefore I usually find places to retreat, and that's
in my room, Airbnb or wherever I am, and then
I retreat, recharge, and then I'm out, usually get out
walk around the city just to recharge, to revitalize myself.
So what I'm going to share with you is exactly
what happened by me choosing to be me and do
(05:30):
things I've never done before, you know, done d you
in different, uncomfortable and new, and I want to share
the experience that I had by doing that, which led
to the next guest that's going to be on the show.
I want you to see how organic things happen when
you just allow life to be. And I want you
to see how I'm choosing another life and then sharing
it with you so you can do the same or
(05:50):
in your own way. So Storytine, I leave the conference
because I'm overwhelmed with all the energy that I'm giving out.
So I decide it's time for me to leave, and
I left before the conference was over because I'm not
concerned about who I didn't meet, because whoever I meant
(06:11):
I'm supposed to meet. Just know that when you go
to conference and networking, whoere you supposed to meet, you're
gonna meet. Whoever you're not supposed to meet, you're not
gonna meet at that time. So I feel as though
I met everybody else I needed to meet, had some drinks,
shake some hands, kiss some babies. Okay, my time is done.
So I left the networking event or the conference and
went back to my airbnb. Now I'm suiting and moted
(06:32):
full suit, you know, button down, took my tie off,
or may not have had a tie on at all.
I don't remember these days. So I walked back to
my airbnb, which is really nice. I took a shower,
changed clothes, and decided to just walk. So I'm in
the DuPont Circle area for those who may know, which
(06:54):
is thriving as active as a lot of people just
out you know, different types of people from all walks
of life, just out living their best life. So I
decided to do the same thing. And on this journey,
I just experienced different things along the way just by
being present. As you know, gators are more present than not.
Salamnus can't be present because I'm worried about the future
(07:14):
of the past. As a gator, I'm present, I'm curious,
I'm consistent. I'm just here and whatever I'm supposed to have,
what i'm supposed to attract, is going to find me.
So that's how I'm living, you know. So I leave
I Rbnb and I'm just walking round DuPont Circle and
whatever I feel moved or attracted to the energy, I
(07:35):
go to that place. So there was a bookstore, walked
in what I'm supposed to experience, I experienced it. Restaurant
walk in with our experience I was supposed to experience,
a bar. I even hit a Latin club randomly, and
this Latin club was jumping, was jumping random And I
just went to different places and experienced whatever I was
supposed to receive at that time, and it was great.
(07:57):
It was great. And as I'm walking, I'm just noticing
how I'm feeling and I'm slowly slowing down reconnecting with myself.
All the voices, all the noise, all the you know,
the mask, all the things are slowly dissipating where it's
just me and nobody knows me. And I'm hidden in
plain sight, which is the best place I love to be.
(08:20):
It's hidden in playing sight. It's how I reach out,
is how I reconnect. So as I'm walking, I'm going
to past different places in different stores and storefronts, and
I'm seeing different people, And there was just moment after
moment after moment, and I'm paying attention to every moment
because I'm paying attention to me and how I feel.
(08:40):
For example, I walk past a few people that just
couldn't help but to look at me. I don't know why,
but they were looking at me, kind of staring, and I,
you know, the old bide wild look at this as in,
you know, insecurity around my blackness in this new environment,
and the new me is looking at Oh, they see
(09:01):
my light shining. Listen, I'm giving you what I give myself.
You can determine how you view things based off of
the person that you are or who you're trying to become.
The old me would have had insecurities feelings about what
people are thinking about me, the future of me. I
give reason why people stare because the reality is I'll
never know why unless I ask. But when was the
(09:24):
last time you ask somebody while they're staring at you.
I'll wait exactly So instead of assuming in the negative way,
I can assume in a positive way, healthy way. So
everybody's staring at me, know the star that's shining right now,
and I believe it myself. So I'm just living my
best life, doing what works best for me at the time.
(09:45):
And there's different people that just give me these different looks,
which has nothing to do with me. And then I
gave a look to people that was around this particular person.
So as I'm walking, no goal, no idea in mind,
just just walking, and I ran across a woman who
had children, this woman with maybe a toddler on her
(10:07):
hip and a newborn, you know, less than three month
baby in a carriage. And this woman was on the house,
she was homeless, she had a sign out, and people
were just walking past her, you know, to and from
walking past, and it seemed like no one cared, no
one stopped, no one paid attention. And I stopped. I
(10:30):
slowed down. Sorry, I didn't stop. I slowed down because
I wanted to give something, but I didn't have anything
to give. I didn't have any cash in my pocket
or anything like that. But I slowed down enough to
let her see that I see her, although I couldn't serve,
And then I didn't think about it until after I
passed her, that I could have served with my words,
(10:51):
with my voice, with my truth. I could have served
in a lot of different capacities outside of financial. So
there's a lot of different thoughts that happening for me.
But as I walked past this woman, in my heart,
my heart just stopped for a moment as it skipped
to beat, recognizing humanness, recognizing people, and as a you know,
(11:15):
fairly new dad, you know I understand fairly knew da
who's married, who is a partnership. It's hard raising children,
even with two parents or more. It's even harder doing
it by yourself. I can't imagine doing it by yourself
and not having a place to call your own. I
(11:35):
couldn't imagine. And this woman was doing it, and she's
rocking the baby, holding the other baby, hoping someone provides
for her so she'll get her next meal, and there
were bits people walking by because this is the norm.
Everybody's living their norm, everybody's living in your truth. And
this was new for me. I haven't experienced this before,
but being a dad gives me a different lens. And
(11:58):
this lens opened my art in ways that had never
opened before. Where I felt so much pain, but it
was my pain and my pain for this person that
I couldn't help in the capacity that I wanted to
at the time. And looking around and seeing everybody and
their mama and nay mama's mama walked past without batting
(12:19):
an eye, without slowing down, without stopping whatever they were
doing in life. Me slowing down allowed me to feel empathy.
Me slowing down allowed me to understand what I didn't understand.
Me slowing down allowed me to take advantage of the
moment that I had of being present to feel what
(12:40):
I felt, and that feeling was a gift that kept giving.
What I mean by this feeling that kept giving is
I understood humanness, meaning at any point in time, we
can be anywhere. The person walking by without bad now eye,
(13:01):
the person who's in the situation, the newborn, the toddler, me,
all these different people come from people, human vulnerability, authenticity,
all these things, and I felt it and I saw it,
and I paused, and I reflected on the experience and
(13:22):
continued to move because I gave myself permission to let go,
let go of what I carried for her, because she's
been carrying it for however alone. She's been carrying it,
and she carries it well, meaning she was in this
situation before I arrived, and I had to think about
the other side of the coin of this is what
(13:42):
resiliency looks like. Because although the baby was crying and
the toddler was crying, and people were looking and people
were passing, she was there solid then Flinch didn't move
like a statue, were present, and she was fully present Mentally,
she may or may not have been, but she was
(14:02):
there and everybody was having their things and she was
just there, present and ready to receive whatever was offered.
And that moment really stood out to me of how
much I care about people, and also it allows me
to see people and that's us. So I continue my
(14:26):
journey reflecting on that experience that I had, and I
kept running into people who were unhoused and they had
a story everybody had a story. It's just a story.
I don't know yet, but everybody has a story. So
as I'm walking through a find this park, and I'm
hanging out at the park, and there's more people, you know,
(14:46):
that's a house in the park living their best life,
and I was able to let go of what wasn't mine,
And what wasn't mine was the lived experiences of other
people that landed them in the position that they are.
I don't know the why. I don't know a lot
of things, so I can only assume unless I ask,
and I chose not to ask because I'm trying to
(15:09):
take care of me. How dare I try to take
care of somebody else if I'm barely taking care of
me at this time? And I recognize my trauma related
to believing that I can save everybody, even as a therapist,
even as a human being doing human things, trying to
figure me out, also looking at how can I help
(15:29):
other people? So that opportunity passed, but the feeling never left.
So I don't know if you know this or not.
Most guests that's on this show are curated from experiences, time, place, organic.
It's just I don't know who's gonna be on the
show next week. We got the next I have no idea,
(15:51):
but whoever's here is who's supposed to be here at
this time. And whenever you listen, how you listen, it
is how you're supposed to get the information if you
get to do whatever you choose to do with it.
So I was in a space of wanting to save
and wanting to help, and then I recognize my old
self in the way, wanting to fix, save or help
everybody that crossed my path. And I saw the old me,
(16:15):
and I smiled because I recognized the current version of me.
I'm okay not helping, because I spent most of my
life trying to help everyone else, accept myself. So there
was a switch that happened for me. While I'm in
this park looking at who I can save and recognize,
(16:36):
let me look at me. How do I save myself?
How do I take advantage of this moment that I
have right now in DC and move away from trying
to rescue everybody while I'm trippling and fumbling over my
own cape because it's too long. So at that moment,
I decided to cut my cape off to a length
(16:57):
that fits me, which allows me to fly, or challenge
you to do same thing. Hop in the comments. Hop
in the comments section, type it in. Are you ready
to fly? Are you willing to fly? What does flying
look like to you? Have you cut your cape off?
Are you still rocking your cape? Superman? Superwoman, superperson? What
are you doing to save yourself? And started? Instead of
(17:18):
trying to save everybody else? That's the challenge. Do something
with it. Low life work, ripples and breadcrumbs. So in
that moment, I stopped concerning myself with other people and
how they have chosen to live, and I decided I'm
going to live for me. So I asked myself, I
said self. He said, huh, say, what do you want
(17:39):
to do? I said, I don't know what am I
in the move for? You know, I can go to
I'm in DC random night. My responsibilities are done. Let
me see what else is out here. Let me go
I have some fun, Let me go do some things
I've never done before. So I go on my phone
and I thought about it. I want to hit a concert.
I'm sure there's live music around here somewhere, you know,
(18:01):
feeding into my connectivity spirit of music, which for me,
as you've heard before. Music connects all of us human.
It's a human thing. Music, food connects people. Don't care
where you are, who you are. If there's a service
own that, come on, I don't care what's going on
in your life. You're gonna dance, you're gonna tap your feet,
(18:23):
you're gonna do something. And I decided that music was
gonna be my place of refuge for tonight instead of
saving let me go party. So I was on my
phone and I scrolled to see what concerts are out.
You know, I'm checking out song Kick. If you're not help,
check it out Spotify. I'm just going down my music
(18:45):
library to find out who's here, who's a payable. So
I'm scrolling through and I see it's certain people that's
performing at different concerts that I've never heard about, different venues.
So then I go to Spotify and listen to some
of the music to find out which artists that I
don't know, I want to go experience what they have
(19:07):
to offer. And I went down probably about seven or
eight different artists and groups and didn't find anything that
met my interest, didn't move me. And then there was
an artist that was performing at the Pie Factory by
the name of button Masher. The name alone caught my attention.
(19:29):
Who was this button Masher dude? And I went to
Spotify and listened to a few tracks, and I was like, Yo,
this is it. This is where I'm gonna go. This
is what I'm gonna do tonight in real time. So
I'm listening to different tracks. Button Master is a producer,
and this producer makes different music related to video games
(19:50):
and tech and techno, and it, jammy, took me right
back to my childhood. So I listened to a few
songs and I got excited. I got hype. So all
those feelings and thoughts that I have later how to
save everybody else, I now have those feelings stories myself,
and I'm like, how do I pour into my cup?
And this was pouring back into my childhood because I
was a video game for a Natic growing up, especially
(20:12):
in the games that he was using some of the
background music to curate music and it was phenomenal. So
I knew, this is where I'm going to go. So
in the middle of this park, in the middle of
this park, on this park bench, on my phone, surrounded
by all these unhused individuals who live in their best life.
I decided to live mine. I ordered a ticket on
(20:33):
the spot, pretty reasonable, twenty five bucks at the PI Factory,
and I'm like, PI Factory, what's this about? So I
hop into Uber I be lying to the Pile Factory.
I go tickets already purchased, scan I go in and
it's an aura of just good energy there. The PI
(20:55):
Factory is actually they sell pies like real pies. I
buy Beach Common by your Bonds downstairs and US fairs.
It's a concert venue and I go upstairs and it's
a crowd of people and it's different types of people there,
different energy, and they had a rooftop outside, and I
just enjoyed the environment, and all the things that I
(21:17):
was thinking before about rescuing and saving left where I'm
here to enjoy myself because life gonna be life, and
no matter what I do, I'm choosing to do this.
And while I was there, it was an experience that
I had where nobody knew who I was. I barely
know who I am at the time, and I'm about
(21:39):
to enjoy an artist I heard for the first time
less than twenty minutes ago. I'm at this person's live concert,
and when I'm there, I'm seeing all these different type
of people that are fans of this artist, because they
got t shirts on that said, you know, button Master
and these little eighteen big and sixteen big characters, and
(22:00):
there's people with pajamas on and Mario outfits Luigi like
it's cartoons, it's it's video games, and people dressed up
to come to this show and see him before. So
I'm hyped now, I'm like, yo, what is this about this?
I found a great spot, the drinks were good, the
bather's nice, customer service was top. I was having the
(22:22):
time of my life and the person who was performing
haven't even got on the stage yet. It was a
jazz band that started first, and they killed it. Jazz,
local jazz group there when I wrote their own songs.
It was a brother sister duo, one on the sacks,
one on the base, and they lit the place up.
So I was done after them. I was already done,
(22:45):
but I decided, you came here to see what Master,
Let's see what this guy's all about. So you know,
it gets dark, but Master hits the stage, people go bananas, bananas,
and I mean phenomenal set. He's doing this thing and
in between sets, there's a little talk here and there,
(23:08):
and I look in front of me and it's two
people and I'm assuming they're a couple, smele and female
and they're they're fully dressed with these you know, Mario
Luigi cartoon video game pajamas, like full set pajamas in
the club I'm sorry, at THEI Factory and it's like
(23:31):
they're the only two there and they are having the
time of their life. It's just them and they're just
feeding off each other. And it's this love, it's this energy,
it's this connection, it's this truth. And they were they
did not care about what anybody. This is the vibe
that I got. They didn't care about who was there.
They were there to have a great time. They were
fully present, they were fully engaged, and they were living
(23:53):
the life that I was practicing in real time. And
their energy was so live, was so contagious. I said, Yo,
I want them on the podcast now. Mind you, I
don't know these people, they don't know me. I'm feeling
to take a risk, but that's what gators do. They're courageous.
I decided to be courageous and at least introduced myself,
(24:16):
so As soon as we had a small moment in
between the set that I could talk, I came over
to him. I introduced myself. I say, hey, hey, how
y'all doing it? Y'all fur the time of your life.
I gave love first ever in the time of my life,
and I love it. I'm a hugger, Are y'all okay
with a hug? And the guy was like, yeah, absolutely, man,
(24:39):
let's go because the energy was so nice. So he
hugged me. I hugged his lady, and it was just
a moment and we all grouped hugged, and we're just
there feeling the energy in the vibe from the music
and the time and the place that we're in right now,
and nothing else mattered but us. And I said, man,
y'all doing it big. I love this energy. I love y'all.
(24:59):
Just I just gave them so much love and they
were very receptive of it. And I said, hey, out
on the limb, you know this is real fast forward
before he comes on his next set. I'm a podcast
host and I would love for y'all to be on
the podcast just to share the story of this energy,
because y'all are authentic. Y'all transparent y'all, y'all baby gators, like, Yo,
what's what's up? Can I have you on the show?
(25:20):
And they both looked at each other and they looked
at me, and it was like, absolutely, let's do it.
Didn't know my name, like I to share my name,
they share their name. We didn't know, but they took
a risk and I took a risk and it paid off.
And I hugged him a couple of times. We always
having a great night, and I said, man, I just
(25:40):
want to share, like you two are living so authentic
and you're out here living your best life in DC
and it's a concert blah blah blah, like I can't
wait to learn more about you and y'all are living
authentically and everybody y'all doing things that everybody else here
isn't doing, and I love it and I'm here for
And the guy he mentioned, he say, you know, yeah,
(26:05):
we having a good time, but just because other people
aren't doing what we're doing doesn't mean they're not authentic. Man,
he's slapped me so hard. He slapped me so hard
with new knowledge, new information, and he challenged my belief
because my belief was that the other people that's there
with all this movies, all this energy. Because they weren't dancing,
because they weren't moving, because they were just sticks in
(26:26):
the mud, I assumed they weren't being authentic, and he
corrected me, and I couldn't deny it that just because
they weren't doing what we were doing doesn't mean they're
not being who they are. And that really stuck with me,
and I kept thinking about it. I couldn't even enjoy
the rest of the show because I was called in.
(26:46):
I wasn't called out. Was called in by this guy
that I just met, who just dropped a gem on
me related to my belief and my perspective around what's
authentic and what's not, especially when it comes to music
and party. So that moment struck a chord with me,
and I couldn't even pay attention to the rest of
(27:08):
the show because I was so taken aback by what
he shared and called me in, and it connected dots
to a previous experience I had years ago for my
thirtieth birthday. I think it was thirty. I'm not the
best all my time, but I had a party in Birmingham, Alabama,
(27:33):
and I threw my own party with a few guys
here and there, but for the most part is my
own party. It was on rooftop in Birmingham at night
with lights and I invited all my friends and people
in the city and I decked it out. You know.
We had all the foods you can eat, beer and wine. Music,
(27:54):
it was live and I danced a whole night because
that's what I do. That's what I do, that's what
I've always done. Anytime there's music, I'm going to dance floor.
I'm in the front, I'm getting the thing going, I
start the club, I close it down, like that's how
I get that when it comes to music. So being
(28:15):
at my party, I expected everyone to be as excited
as I was. I expected everybody to dance the night
a way like I did. And there were people that's
just sitting in the corner drinking and you know, having
a good time listening to music, but nobody was dancing.
And I had a moment and my friend at the time,
(28:37):
you know, I was kind of letting her know, like, yo,
you know, anybody dancing, Like, what's the deal. And she's
a person that don't really dance, not going to be
dancing publicly. Probably all that, but not publicly. And she
shared with me, like, YO, just because people are not
dancing don't mean they're not having a good time. And
I'm like, but they're not. They're not dancing. You're supposed
to be dancing. It's my birthday. I'm having a good time.
(28:58):
Everybody needs to have a good time. And she said,
just because they're not dancing doesn't mean they're not having
a good time. I didn't understand it until that guy
whose name is p B p B no J that
was at the club at the PI Factory. Those two
(29:19):
stories then connected because I understood the previous version of
me that had an expectation that people would do what
I do. I live life differently, and it's okay how
I live life. Other people choose to live life the
way they want. But just because they live the life
differently than me, doesn't make theirs less valuable, less important,
less authentic than mine. So that was the first experience.
(29:44):
This was the second. There won't be a third because
I learned from this experience to accept people for who
they are and who they are not, and just because
people move differently from you doesn't make them anything besides
the idea or identity that we create for them, and
that's not fair because we don't want anybody to do
(30:04):
that to us, although people do it. So I imagine
if you decided today from listening to this episode, to
live life on your own terms and not judge people, ridicule,
talk about, dismiss the value, disrespect people from being different
from you. And this goes from a baby to somebody grandmama,
(30:27):
because imagine you going home and your family don't remind
you that you gain a few pounds. Imagine you being
able to bring somebody home and nobody judge you for
who's there with you. Imagine you being able to do be, travel, experience,
explore whatever you want without judgment, ridicule, or anything. What
(30:53):
I learned about humans, man, we love to talk shit,
especially about everybodybody else budget But imagine if you start
talking that is to yourself. That's exactly what I was
able to do. And I went back in time to
turn in thirty where I had a really difficult moment
(31:14):
with people not doing what I would do because I
expected people to be me. How often do you expect
people to be exactly who you are and not recognize
that there's only one you there's several versions, but there's
only one you, and no one can be like you.
So therefore, instead of expecting people to be someone they're not,
(31:37):
let me embrace who I am and show people the
real me. That's exactly what I was able to do
from being called in and choosing to live life on
my terms. I dance, I have a good time. Music
moves me, and just because it moves me doesn't mean
it moves everyone. So I want you to think about
(31:57):
all these things that come up for you this episode, because,
as I mentioned, we're going somewhere I don't know where.
I have a vision, I have an idea, and it's
going to happen organically. But these conversations is how we
bring about change. Because this random person that I didn't
know connected dots to a former version of myself at thirty,
(32:19):
where I still held on to that belief until this time. Presently,
now I can let go of this belief or idea
of how people need to be, especially around me. That
happened currently and it took me all all the way
back to my thirty year old self who still held
on to people not dancing at my party. Now I'm
(32:42):
freeing that version of me by giving him permission to
know that this party was for you and all different
versions of you, and you invited people in and they
can celebrate you or celebrate themselves anyway they choose. That's
an example of giving yourself freedom from a person, place, thing, mindset,
(33:05):
belief mentality that you once were in. For many of
us think about things that happen from birth to where
you are right now. We're still holding on to people, places,
and things from that time. That doesn't serve us anymore.
That belief from thirty years old I still carried to
forty three years old until this person called me in
(33:26):
and allowed me to see things differently, and that changed
my entire life, because being a different person changes your life.
So I'm excited to have PB and J and at
least on the show next week. Those two people that
I call that I took a risk and invited them
on the show and they called me out. I'm bringing
(33:46):
them on so I can get to know them as
well as you, and they're my family. Now. Anybody that's
been on this podcast is family, and I have access,
and if I have access, you have access. Keep playing
with me. When I get Spike, Lee and Denzel on
here you're gonna have access to but you're gonna have
to bring something to the table. Another story for another day,
(34:07):
but for today, I also want to share that button
Master I sent the but DM, Hey, I got a podcast.
You want to be on the show. So if anybody
you know, anybody's on that's connect the button Mashing. I
want him on the show because he has a story too,
and I want to hear it. And I don't believe
in coincidences. Everything that happens is supposed to happen because
(34:28):
that's us. I will challenge you, this is your life, work, life, work, different, homework, homework,
take it home, do it and remember it. Life work,
take home, do it. Your life will change. Want to
challenge you to do something intentionally different, uncomfortable and new
in order to become a better version of you. I'm
a better version of me now because I let go
(34:50):
of expectations of other people specifically related to dancing, concert music,
having a good time. And my goal is to goal
of expectations related to people around all things. If I'm
able to do that, I'm never disappointed. I accept whatever's
(35:10):
offered and to take it on as a blessing. As
a gift, as a gym, as a jewel. I'm sharing
this with you to give you for you to give
yourself an opportunity to do something different that you've never
done before. I hope this episode gave you whatever you
needed to hear. Please No, we do this twice a week, Okay,
(35:35):
Sundays Wednesdays and Garrett's Talk on Friday Fridays Live and
I'm doing IG live. We're transitioning over to the Three
Parallels Podcast IG page, so we'll be doing live there.
Jump in, bring a friend. We're also hosting on Zoom,
so we're using two platforms. From now. It's going to change,
but that's where we are right now, and I'm just
creating based off of what I feel, and what I
(35:57):
feel is good. So thank you for joining me, thank
you for listening. This is where we are, this is
who we are, and I'm thankful to share me with you.
Until next time. This has been another episode of the
Three Paleos podcast, which helps the doctor Jason Britch. Will
we rediscover who we were, we embrace who we are,
we make room for who we're trying to come. If
(36:17):
this show has been a blessing to you in any way,
shape home fashion, give it away, share it like comments,
Subscribe now. A lot of people listening, a lot of
folks not subscribing. Your subscription helps me to promote the channel,
to promote the page, to promote this show. And if
it's been a blessing for you, I'm sure it's a
blessing for others, but it doesn't exist because they don't
(36:38):
know about it until you decide to share. Take advantage
of these gifts, take advantage of yourself, Take advantage of
these moments for a great day. Good morning, good evening,
good night. Peace,