April 10, 2025 • 39 mins
Description: In this episode Dr. Jason Branch discusses the Law of Attraction, sharing his personal experiences and a systematic approach to attracting what you want in life. He introduces the concept through the movie "The Secret" and explains his method of manifestation, which involves:
1. Changing how you think (focus on what you want, not what you don't want) 2. Changing what you say (speak positively) 3. Writing down your goals 4. Taking action 5. Connecting emotionally with your desires
Dr. Branch shares personal examples like creating vision boards since 2012, consistently attracting parking spaces, and manifesting life goals. He encourages listeners to start small - like attracting a sandwich or a parking spot - and gradually work up to bigger goals. The key message is that you attract what you are, and by changing yourself, you can change what you attract into your life.
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1. Changing how you think (focus on what you want, not what you don't want) 2. Changing what you say (speak positively) 3. Writing down your goals 4. Taking action 5. Connecting emotionally with your desires
Dr. Branch shares personal examples like creating vision boards since 2012, consistently attracting parking spaces, and manifesting life goals. He encourages listeners to start small - like attracting a sandwich or a parking spot - and gradually work up to bigger goals. The key message is that you attract what you are, and by changing yourself, you can change what you attract into your life.
Lifework:
- Vision Board Challenge: Create a board with pictures of 5 things you want to achieve this year. Put it where you'll see it every day.
- Attraction Challenge: For one week, try to attract one small thing daily - like a good parking spot or a free coffee. Believe it will happen.
- Positive Talk Challenge: For one week, stop saying negative things about yourself. Only speak positively and accept compliments with a simple "thank you."
Get your copy of the Gator Scales Journal on Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/Gator-Scales-Journal-Jason-Branch/dp/B0DPXLXZWC
Gator Talk: Every Friday via Zoom at 9am PST/12pm EST Join the conversation every Friday starting today on The 3 Parallels Podcast Post Show Q&A Session called Gator Talk.
When: Every Friday Where: Battlecat Studios (Zoom)
Zoom Link: https://alliant.zoom.us/j/4044362540
Meeting ID:404-436-2540
Time: 9:00am PST/ 12:00pm EST
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Three Parallel, three Parallel podcast. Welcome back to the Three
Parallels podcast, which your hosts, the Doctor Jason Branch. Will
we rediscover who were, embrace who we are, make room
for who we're trying to become. Welcome back to the show.
My disclaimer, as you know, this show is not a
substitute for therapy, so therefore, get you a therapist. If
you ain't got one, go get one. If you got one,
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you've been working on for a while, but y'all not
doing much, y'all having a fun, You're paying for a friend.
Get you a therapist. Every episode, every other episode, I'm
going to highlight therapy. Why because I'm a therapist. Why
because I feel as though everybody could benefit from therapy.
So please don't use social media or this podcast or
others to substitute work with a real therapist.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
So get you one, get you some.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
As you know, there's been a lot of development happening
with this podcast, and I'm excited about it because you're
here with me, and you're still here, and you're sharing
the message, the word, the news, the information with other
people and it gets back to me. And I love
to hear the stories of how people are impacted by
this show. It means the world to me because I
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don't know what works and what doesn't. I'm just sharing
what makes sense to me. I'm just sharing these ideas, thoughts, perception, reality, research,
my experience. I'm just sharing, and I love hearing the
benefits from this show. So I want to share a
benefit with you all because if you've been on this journey,
you've been hearing every episode and how the dots are connecting.
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So a couple episodes ago with with Gina, I mentioned
about a laptop. We were talking about the law of
attraction and the secret and attracting things and energy, and
she had mentioned needing a laptop, and from that conversation
leading the laptop, it was like, Yo, I got a
laptop to give away.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I want to give it to somebody i've half for
a while.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
And fortunately, you know, at that time she was able
to talk about needing a laptop and then attracting one,
so she was good. But I did put out a
call on the podcast, Hey, if you know of anybody
who needs one, let me know. Guess what, somebody reached
out and let me know they need a laptop, and
I got that laptop for them. This show is helping people,
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This show is serving a purpose. This show is saving
lives and giving people opportunities they didn't have before, and
I'm thankful for that. So thank you all to the
listeners for your supports, for your love, for sharing the word,
for sharing the news. I'm appreciative, and I love how
organic the show is. So I've had this laptop for
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years and it's been collecting us and I've been wanting
to give it away. Now I gave it to somebody
who is connected to this show in different ways and
connected to me that I didn't know even had the need,
but they listened to the episode and was like, yo,
I could use some help.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Done and done.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
So this show is working. That's a tangible thing that
someone able to reap the benefits of the show. And
there's a lot of things that you are also receiving
from the show, and I'm.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Thankful for that.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
So that's how we're starting off the Law of attraction.
This episode connects the dots to the laptop to the
last few episodes, and I want to talk more specifically
about the law of attraction based off of my life experience,
how I practice it. And this is my introduction to
you about the law of attraction. You may have heard
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about it before, you may not have. I want to
dive into it, and that's what we're going to do
on today's show. So get you a pen, paper, notebook,
the Gator scale journal still available, Go get it.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Go get it.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But have you something to right with because I have
some things for you to take, some tangible things that
you can take with you from hearing this show. So
let's dive in law of attraction. The law of attraction
has been around since the beginning of the time, wrother
we know it or not, it's been there. And the
law of attraction is attracting things instead of chasing it
or going after certain things. Is allowing yourself to be still,
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to be present, to be available to receive. So I
have been practicing the law of attraction as long as
I can remember, but I didn't even know I was
doing it.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
It was just happening based off.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
What I would say, what I would do, what I
would think, and what I would have gained. What changed
for me is when I became intentional about the law
of attraction, and that intentionality came from exposure. The exposure
was a show or a movie. I would say, the
movie called The Secret. So if you haven't heard of
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the movie called The Secret, I challenge you now go
check it out. Asapp it was on Netflix for a while.
You may or may not be able to find on Netflix.
It was on YouTube. It may not be the best quality,
but you can get what you need. So I got
introduced to The Secret from a couple people. Also, please
pardon me, my health has not been the best this
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past month, so I'm a little stuffy, a little nasally.
I don't like how I sound, but I don't care.
I got something to say, and yes I'm saying it
differently because I'm nasally and snobby, but I ain't still
got something shame I'm gonna share.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
So the Secret I was exposed, and the first exposure
with a friend of mine, I was like, YO, read
the book. It's a book called The Secret. Check it out.
You know, Oprah does it, everybody talks about it, Will Smith,
all these different people. Oh, I want to talk about
Will Smith being canceled too, which he didn't get canceled,
but we'll talk about that.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Man. That to my list sidebar. Yeah, I'm on one today.
So friend of mine was like, yo, read the book.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I read the book, or I tried to read the book,
couldn't get into it, fell asleep, just didn't work. So
then I moved to the audiobook, tried the audiobook of
the Secret, couldn't get into it. Started doing a little
research about it, hearing Oprah talk about it, and all
these different celebrities talk about law, attraction, Denze, all these
different people, and it just didn't click, didn't register. And
then the movie The Secret. I finally saw that and
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that was it. That's all it took for me. So
this had to be back in twenty twelve or I
saw the movie The Secret, and please check it out.
Of the movie, there are no spoilers. Really spoiler will
help you. So when I watched the movie, it exposed
me to so many different things that's hidden in plain sight.
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As you know, we call those bread froms and a
few people that was on the show was a lot
of different people that's doing really well in their own
space in place that were being interviewed on how they
use a law of attraction to become successful in their
own way. For example, the I'm sure you heard the
series Chicken Soup for the Soul, Chicken Soup for the Teenager,
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and all these different things came out in the nineties.
Jack Canfield is the author. He was on the episode
and he was talking about how the book came into
existence and that he had these ideas and these thoughts
and basically used the secret to build this empire, this
conglomerate that he's been able to establish. And one thing
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that he did is very similar to what Jim Carrey did.
I'm sure you heard the story Jim Carrey wrote a
check to himself, or think like a million dollars. He
wrote a blank check to himself, put it in a while,
and just kept working. Years and years and years go by,
and he finally was able to cast that check. That's
an example of a lot of attraction. Jack Canfield did
the same thing where he put a million dollar check
on the selling of his bedroom, and every day he
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would look that's the first thing he saw when he
woke up, first thing he saw when he went to bed,
that this million dollar check. And that book, his first
series of that book is how he became a millionaire.
So The Secret, the movie interviews all these different people
that talks about their lived experience and how they used
the secret to become the best version of themselves, where
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they created something a product and sold it or became
someone that people wanted in order to make money or
be successful, whatever the case may be. So The Secret
is a phenomenal movie. If the movie don't catch you,
try the book. The book, don't catch you, try the
audiobook audiobook, don't catch you, try a different method. This
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has been something that was going on for me for
a few years before it finally clicked. But once it clicked,
that was it. That's all I needed. And now that
I know it, now that I have it, I use
it all the time. So that movie was where I
became exposed to the parking space and vision boards. So
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I'll talk about both because that's what we're here for,
talk about it.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
So I'll start with vision board.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
So again, twenty twelve is the first time I ever
created my first vision board, and since twenty twelve, I've
created vision board every single year since twenty twelve. Now
I got a little lax about it the past couple
of years. There's life and life, but outside of that,
I create a vision board because it's images and ideas
and words that we put out into paper into reality
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of things that we want to come to pass. So,
for example, on The Secret they talk about vision boarding
where and Jack cam Fill and other people talked about
vision boarding where you may look at magazine clippings. You
can do it online, you can do it virtually. But
I would clip out different things in magazines that I liked,
and as I took these clippings out and put them
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on this post board, put them on my wall in
the bathroom, I put it in places where I could
see it every day. These are the things that I
wanted to have, and year after year I would do this,
and over time a lot of things that I had
on these vision boards would happen. For example, I put
a cruise ship on one because I never took a
cruise before, and within a year or two I end
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up going on a cruise.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I went on a Christmas cruise, Like who does that?
Speaker 1 (12:31):
I went on a Christmas cruise because I was in
a place in space in my life where I wanted
to break the mold. I wanted to break tradition. I
wanted to get out of the same rut of doing
the same thing every year. In this particular year, I
decided I'm gonna go on a cruise for Christmas. Yeah,
my parents they were hot and they got over it,
but initially they were upset because they didn't understand, like
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why would you choose a cruise over Christmas? And it
was just like, you know, Christmas is whatever we say
it is, Holiday is whatever we say it is.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Family is whatever we say it is.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
And we put meaning behind people, places and things based
off of what's valuable.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Important to us.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
But if I choose to do something for me that
doesn't That doesn't mean I disagree, dislike this, credit or
undervalue you doesn't mean that. But we make meaning out
of any and everything. So Cruise was one different places
and spaces.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
Minds was words.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I love words, So a lot of different words or
images or ideas I would put on my vision board
and it would come to pass. So here we are,
all these years later, and I'll go back and reflect
on my vision boards. I can always look at them.
I can always pull them out and look at them
and see what I've been able to accomplish, even related to.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Children and marriage degrees.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Everything that I've been able to accomplish in some capacity
was on my vision board at one point in time.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
There's a story I'll tell.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Time related to a dream car that I finally got,
and now I got a new dream car that I
want to get. But I think I'll save that for
an episode by itself because it is a story, one
of my favorite stories of all time. So I'll share
that with you when that time comes. So the secret
law of attraction vision boarding, So if you've never vision
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boarded before, look into it, look into it, dive into it,
try it. See what happens for you. The issue that
most regular salamander people have with vision boards is if
I put this on this board, then it needs to
be happening. Like now, I wouldn't give it six months.
I'm gonna give it three months. It needs to happen tomorrow.
The reality is it happens when it's supposed to happen,
not when you may want it, but when it's supposed
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to happen. And to me, it doesn't matter when it
happens as long as it happens. So I put marriage, family,
and relationship on my vision board, since twenty twelve, I
didn't have I didn't get married or have a family
until twenty nineteen. Yeah, so it took a while seven
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years to be exact. But seven years is completion. But
it took seven years. But I've been talking about like
that's just what I put on a vision board, but
I may have been talking about it years prior to that.
So once you begin attracting or using the law of attraction,
you're expecting and excited about things to happen. But we
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don't know when. You never know when, but you know
when you'll have it, you'll get it. So small things
get your poster board, magazine, a few magazines, and start
cutting out things that you feel connected to. It could
be pictures, it could be ideas, it could be colors, symbols,
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you name it. Just start cutting it out, added to
the vision board, paste it, tape it, whatever, and put
it in a place where you can always have access
to it. Now is the best time to do it,
when the first quarter of the year. Put some things
down and see what happens by the end of the year.
I would challenge you to do this, and I mean this,
don't take it lightly, like really allow yourself to step
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outside the comfort zone and do something you've never done.
If you haven't done it before, this is a great
chance to start. If you've done it a while ago,
never haven't done it since, it's a great place to
get back started. So that's vision boarding. It's taking these ideas,
these thoughts, the things that you see and putting it
into reality. When you put it into reality, it becomes
a contract between you and you. You don't have to
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share with anybody. Typically, a vision brower is very personal.
You only share it with people who you feel comfortable
sharing it with because everybody's not going to understand respect
or value your vision or your vision board. So it's
not for everybody, and I want to make sure you
protect yourself because some people can handle when you do
things differently. Some people can handle the things that we do,
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especially when it's outside of the norm. And whatever the
norm is is whatever we say it is. So that's
the first piece vision board. Second piece parking space. So
on the movie The Secret, one of the guys the
interview interviewees talked about he didn't call it a parking space.
He called a park. I think he was from the UK.
He said, yeah, when I never had a problem finding
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a park. When I go to a restaurant, I go
to you know, meetings or whatever, I would always find
he say park. I can't say park. I don't talk
like that. So he would say park, I say parking space.
So he had this thing where he was able to
attract the smallest things such as a parking space. And
I was like, man, that's interesting. So he said, no
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matter where he goes in life, no matter what he does,
what he's doing, and what he's not doing, anytime he's driving,
he always finds a parking space right up front.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
And he said, how I did it? Is I attracted.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
I expected, I anticipated, I know I'm gonna have it,
And it was a practice that he had for years
and now it's just the norm. So we can go
as small as a parking space or park or even
smaller as a sandwich at Chick fil A, like really
a sandwich at Chickfla or whatever your favorite restaurant is.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Start there.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Start with something really small that you want to attract,
and begin speaking about it and thinking about it and
emotionally getting connected to it and feeling the taste of
a chicken sandwich from Chick fil A or whatever your
favorite place that you enjoy dining. Start small and see
what happens. I'm telling y'all, don't take my word for it,
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try for yourself. So my story where I decided to
use the same system finding a parking space started around
twenty twelve, and I started being intentional of knowing, no
matter where I go, I'm going to find a parking
space up front, And the first couple times it just
didn't happen, and I started to get skeptical about it,
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and then I had to shift my thinking and my
feeling related top. So then I'm like, you knowther I brother,
I get one or not, everything's okay. Versus if I
don't get one, then I failed. You know how we
get salamanders. So I didn't fail, it just didn't happen
this time. So I started changing the way I thought.
I changed what I said, I changed my energy around it,
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and before you know it, I started attracting these parking
spaces up front as well as this guy did. And
I kept doing it, and now here we are, all
these years later, it's my norm as much as it
was that guy's norm on the documentary. So friends and family,
people who know me intimately know that Jason will always
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get a parking space up front. Everybody knows that. So
when me and I first start dating, I told her
the trick, you know, I told her my ability, and
she thought it was funny. And I wouldn't say she
didn't believe him, but she just thought it was funny.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
But I took her.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
We went on several dates, and on those several dates,
everywhere we went, I had a parking space up front.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Everyone.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
And now it's the norm. So she knows if I'm driving,
we're gonna get a space upfront. If she driving, it's
fifty to fifty because that's not something that she practices,
that's not something she may be interested in.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But for me, I practice it. I'm interested in. Yes,
I want to parking spotsor.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Upfront, And it's so wild when it's like a parking space,
a parking lot that's flooded with cars and people, and
I don't worry about that. It's none of my concern.
I know my parking space is upfront. So I drive
to the front of places every single time, and within
a matter of time, it's an empty space, somebody's about
to leave, somebody's inviting me in. It's just a part
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of who I am now. So imagine if you can
attract Chick fil a sandwich, a vision board, things from
your vision board, a parking space by using a law
of attraction, imagine what else you can attract. And for me,
everything that I have in life is based off of
who I begin. The person that I am attracted the people,
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places and things that I have in my life. I'm
telling you what I know, not what I heard. So
the person that you are has attracted the people, places,
and things in your life right now. That's the law
of attraction. So if you're having some hard times, some
hard places and spaces with certain people, places and things.
Guess what, bubboo, it's you. Yep, that's it, no one else.
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It's what you attract based off of who you are.
Now you can attract new people, places, and things once
you become a new version of you. Similar to this podcast,
Who We Were, Who we are, Who are becoming? Do
you see how the parallels just repeat themselves over and
over again. That's why the show it's so good to me.
I don't know what it is for you, but to me,
it's so good because everything connects the issue that we have.
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We don't like connecting all the dots. We just connect them.
We just connect the ones that we like, not the
ones we don't like. But imagine if you connected all
the dots, even the ones you didn't like, and see
what happened. Challenge yourself to do this. Just that so
parking space haven't had a problem in a long time
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related to parking. I always have parking space upfront because
I attract it. So now let's move to the next place,
next place in space. And this is my system that
I'm offering to you that I created based off of
this law of attraction. I wanted to be more intentional
related to how can I begin attracting things based off
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of a system. And I want to share this system
for with you for free. All is going to cost
you your attention and your time.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
That is it. That is all.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
So first thing, got your notebook, got your journal, got
that gator to scales out, let's get it. First thing
is we have to be willing to change the way
we think. Yes, and indeed, your thinking is where it starts.
Your thinking is where everything starts. So if you say
you can or you can't, before you say it, you
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think it. So if I think I can't do something,
then I'm attracting not being able to do something. Think
about how often you said you couldn't do something and
you didn't do it. This is why you spoke it.
Think about how often you said something you wanted and
you went and got it.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Here's an example.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Nobody, and I mean absolutely nobody goes to the buffet,
go to the buffet, walks up to the counter and
point out everything they don't want, and go to the
table with a full plate.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Nobody does it, So why do we do it? In life?
Speaker 1 (23:36):
You know I don't want this, I don't want that.
I don't want a man who do this. I don't
want a woman who do that. I don't want a job.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
I don't want that. Why are you talking about what
you don't want? What's the relevance?
Speaker 1 (23:45):
There is no relevance behind the relevance that we make
around it. So instead of going to a buffet and
talking about everything you don't want, you go to the
buffet and talk, and you don't even got to talk.
You take what you want, you get what you want.
What's the point of talk about what you don't want?
It's wasted space, time, breath, and everything else in between.
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So my challenges you to stop talking about things you
don't want. Also the what if mentality, the what if?
Anytime you say what if? What if this happens? What
if that happens? It's all negative and unhealthy things that
you don't want to happen. So why are you talking
about it? Well, what if this happens? And what if
that happens? So what Nine times out of ten it's
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not likely to ever happen because it only happens in
your mind, not in really reality, only in your mind,
and your mind is a beautiful place unless it's dark scary,
which from any of us, is a dark scary place
in your head, And mine's just nice because I had
to clean it out. I have to clean out all
the dark, dirty stuff that did not support me, did
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not help me, did not provide me with a plate
full of food at the buffet.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
So we have to change the way we think. Hear
this before, I'll share it again.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
If you're still out here shoulding on yourself saying should
you have to change that narrative. If you're still saying
what if, you have to change the narrative instead of
what if?
Speaker 2 (25:10):
What if you said? What is?
Speaker 1 (25:12):
What is is what we know? What if is the
ideas that scare us the most. What is is what
I know for sure? And if I don't know what's
for sure based off of what tomorrow will bring, why
am I talking about it? I can talk about what
I want. That's how I change my thinking. Why am
I talking about what I don't want? What's the relevance?
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So if I change the way I think, the second
thing that will happen, or has to happen that I'm
intentional about, is to change the things that I say.
How often are you speaking life to yourself. How often
are you speaking death to yourself? How often do you
compliment you? How often do you accept compliments? Ooh, stepping
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on toes?
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Think about it.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
If somebody give you a compliment, what you do compliment
them back? You wouldn't even thinking about them all of
a sudden.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Oh you got a nice hat. To shut up?
Speaker 1 (26:07):
You wasn't finna say that. But because you can't accept
the compliment you give somebody else one change the way
you speak by accepting compliments. Oh that's a nice shirt
you got on, doctor branch.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Why thank you?
Speaker 1 (26:21):
Period, think about the next thing you get complimenting on how
you respond. I just want you to start checking yourself. Okay,
So we have to change the way we speak. So
if I'm going to start speaking life, so thinking, let's
use this same system for small things.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Chick fil a parking space.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
So the thought is, if I'm thinking I'm going to
get a parking space, that's the first step. I'm thinking
I'm going to get one. I'm thinking I'm gonna get
a sounde from Chick fil A. I have to think
at first. Then i'ma speak it. Oh, I'm going to
chick forlay today. Somebody gonna get me a chicken play today.
I'm gonna get chick for LA today. I'm gonna get
this parking space today. Speak it third thing, write it.
Whatever it is that you want in life, write it down.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Here's an example.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
What if I asked you to show me exactly where
you want it to be in three to five years?
Could you show it to me? And I ain't talking
about charades or being a mind but without talking, without
using words, because you show me.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
Probably not.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Why because you haven't written it down. If you have
written it down, it's not on you understand that when
you write things down, especially when it comes to what
you're trying to attract, it becomes a road map to
where you're trying to go. Now, I'm gonna give you
pro tip. I just want to give y' all life.
You can do whatever you want to do it, do it.
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Since twenty twelve, I've kept an index card in my
wallet that list things that I want to accomplish, I
want to have, I want to receive and usually three
to five year increments, and I change that card out
about every three to five years. And every time I
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look at that card, I'm reminded of it's the law
of attraction. It's me being intentional attracting the things that
I want. And more often than not, I forget about
the car, and when I pull it out, I see
things that are accomplished on it. But it's always on me,
which means I can always have access to it. So
whenever I think about, whenever I need it, I can
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get it. Do you have that? Probably not?
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Why not because nobody's telling us this.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
Nobody's taught us this unless they have, and if they did,
congratulations to you. It wasn't taught to me growing up,
but I know it now, and I teach you to
my boys, or teach you. I give it to anybody
who want it, because it showed me what we're capable of.
So write it down. When you write it down and
becomes a contract between you and you. So you take
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the things from your head, from your and you put
it down on paper. That brings it into reality, That
gets you closer to attracting that thing. Let's go back
Jim Carrey and Jack Camfield. They wrote out a blank check.
They wrote it before it happened. It was years before
it happened, but it happened. And guess what I got
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a blank check in my office right now for a
MILLI and I've had it for a while, and I
expect a meal will happen. That's the minimum. Also, got
a dream car on a mouse pad and that model
car in my office. I'll talk about that another episode.
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But I'm attracting these things and I know it's gonna
happen because it always does and I always will.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Why wouldn't it. I expect it. That's what I mean.
My changing what you think, changing what you speak, and
writing it down.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
Now, if you change how you think, you change how
you speak, you write these things down, will it happen?
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Maybe not, But to me, there's two more things that
has to happen in order to almost guarantee that you receive.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
And the next is action.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
You have to do something. They didn't just write a
check and sit back and wait for the money to
show up. Nah, they wrote check and they they took
action to do something. In order to make the money.
You gotta take action. So the issue that many of
us have we think different, we speak differently, write, but
we don't take action. Action is the steps that I'm
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taking in order to get from one place to the next.
Action is movement. Movement gets me from A to B.
Now here's the additional piece. This is with the asterisk
that we don't consider that was talked about in the secret.
This is the system that I'm giving you that works
because I use it every day, and now you can
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start using it and start small.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
You can go as small as a pack I could
catch up.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Chick full, as big as a house, as big as
a job, as big as a person, a partner of child, whatever,
a million, whatever it is you want. You can go
as smaller as big as you want. But I highly
recommend starting very small first so you can see the
power that you actually have. Stick a gum freaking marker
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a random person. You know what I'm saying, Like, man,
I would love to get a text from such and
such or a phone call from such and such. Oh
I'm just hearing. I'm feeling a sense of this person.
Start small and work your way up. Okay, So here
we go from the top. Change the way we think,
change the way we speak, write it down. Take action.
Last is the emotion and feeling. So you have to
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act as if it's already happened already. So I'm already
viewing myself a millionaire, mom time mallionaire or a hundred
times over. Money is nothing to me. That's my mindset
right now. This cars, it's nothing to me. It's a
mean and mode of transportation. It's nice, but it's a
motation A to B, A to z right. But the
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emotion is the feeling that you have around the person
place for things. So when it came to me and
my relationship, I always imagine this person or how this
life would be, and now I have it with children,
how it would be as a dad, I imagined it.
Now I have it. Me as a therapist, me as
a counselor educator, me with a doctorate. I was calling
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myself a doctor branch way before I even got into
a doctor program.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
I'm out here like you know, yeah, I'm doctor Branch.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
People consider me doctor branch before I ever got into
a program because I saw me in it.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Wait before anybody else excuse me under the weather.
Speaker 1 (32:53):
But again, I gotta give you this message because I
don't know how long I'm be here in life. Nobody does.
So sick sick can shut in or not. You finna
get this love, You're finna ge hit in the head.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
With a honeymoone.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
So the emotion is the last piece, and this is
the asterisk because you have to put feeling around it.
Think about when you talk about what if, think about
when you talk about the things you don't want, you
put emotion and feeling behind it. This isn't gonna work out.
I'm gonna fail or not this or I'm never gonna
be that. You put emotion in it. And that's to
make sure it don't happen. I challenge you to change
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things up. Challenge you change things up. So this is
what I wanted to offer related to the law attraction,
the secret you think, speak right, take action and put
your emotion into it. Now, sidebar, this came up. I
gotta talk about it. It ain't related to where we are,
but it's related to life. We're talking about canceling Will Smith, right,
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and the reality is you can't cancel anybody who has
a following or a community. All right, you can't. You
can't think about it. I just want to talk about
this for a minute. Hein't asked for it, but it's
part of this. Think about it. A couple of years
ago Oscars, Will Smith slapped Chris Rock. It was the
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talk of the town's the biggest story for days, weeks, months,
and you know, everybody was like canceled Will Smith and
this and that and Jada. It was just a lot
of talk. That's just what it was talk. Because Will
Smith never got canceled. Yeah, there may be a few
people that stopped following or paying attention or supporting, but
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it wasn't everybody. Because when somebody rocks with you, it
don't matter what you do. When somebody rock with you
and they down for you, it don't matter what you do,
they gonna roll with you.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Do you know why?
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Because we're humans and human beings will always do human things.
And being a human being who is full of flaws,
meaning all of us, how dare I judge? How dare
I decide to stop following or connecting with someone because
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of their behavior, especially somebody I don't know? Because I'm
sure ain't too many people that I know know Will Smith,
like know them, know them, you know of him, But
you don't know that man, So how can you cancel
somebody you don't even know? I just want to just
want to shay that thought. And as you can see
(35:37):
here we are I don't know how many years later,
it wasn't that long. Will Smith back the top of
the box office, He back making movies, He's back on
the scene.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
He ain't lost the step, he ain't lost the dime.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Why because you can't cancel somebody who has a following.
They may lose a couple people, but they can't lose
in life. So how do you take the same concept
implied to yourself for me, I'll never get canceled because
you can't cancel me. I'm like Will Smith, you may
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be upset me, but I can't be canceled. How does
this connect to law of attraction? I'm glad you asked.
Will Smith is one of the biggest people, one of
the biggest Hollywood celebrities known to man right universal and
Will Smith has been practicing the law of attraction since
he was a kid. He always visualized himself doing the
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things that he's doing, being the perse, having a body
he has, having the wife, the family that he has,
having the lifestyle that he has. He dreamed it, he
thought it, he spoke it, he wrote about it, he
took action, and he put emotions behind it, and it
came to pass. Will Smith already knew he would be
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doing all the things that he was doing because he
attracted it in his life, in his mind before it
ever happened in reality. We all caught up a time,
called up, the studios and universe, all these different things
caught up to him. But he always knew, he always
thought that he would have and he still believes it
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to this day. So he's an example of someone who
follows the law of attraction and it works for him
and for anybody that uses it. So since Will Smith
isn't canceled unless he's canceled for you start doing research
on any interviews just tard finding. I would say three
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to look at three to five interviews that Will Smith
has done, and you'll hear him talk about the law
of attraction. But if you're not aware, if you don't
know about it, it'll go right over your head. But
now that you're aware, if you start paying attention to
what's being said, he's going to speak, he's going to think,
he's going to write, he's going to take action. There's
going to be a motion. Any celebrity that's doing really
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well are using the same language. Celebrities and entertainers whoever
they thought it, they spoke it, they write it, They
took action, they put a motion behind it. I don't
know any other way towards success outside of these principles.
If you know, let me know. Until then, holl at
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So please don't use social media or this podcast or
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As you know, there's been a lot of development happening
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benefits from this show. So I want to share a
benefit with you all because if you've been on this journey,
you've been hearing every episode and how the dots are connecting.
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So a couple episodes ago with with Gina, I mentioned
about a laptop. We were talking about the law of
attraction and the secret and attracting things and energy, and
she had mentioned needing a laptop, and from that conversation
leading the laptop, it was like, Yo, I got a
laptop to give away.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I want to give it to somebody i've half for
a while.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
And fortunately, you know, at that time she was able
to talk about needing a laptop and then attracting one,
so she was good. But I did put out a
call on the podcast, Hey, if you know of anybody
who needs one, let me know. Guess what, somebody reached
out and let me know they need a laptop, and
I got that laptop for them. This show is helping people,
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This show is serving a purpose. This show is saving
lives and giving people opportunities they didn't have before, and
I'm thankful for that. So thank you all to the
listeners for your supports, for your love, for sharing the word,
for sharing the news. I'm appreciative, and I love how
organic the show is. So I've had this laptop for
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years and it's been collecting us and I've been wanting
to give it away. Now I gave it to somebody
who is connected to this show in different ways and
connected to me that I didn't know even had the need,
but they listened to the episode and was like, yo,
I could use some help.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Done and done.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
So this show is working. That's a tangible thing that
someone able to reap the benefits of the show. And
there's a lot of things that you are also receiving
from the show, and I'm.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Thankful for that.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
So that's how we're starting off the Law of attraction.
This episode connects the dots to the laptop to the
last few episodes, and I want to talk more specifically
about the law of attraction based off of my life experience,
how I practice it. And this is my introduction to
you about the law of attraction. You may have heard
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about it before, you may not have. I want to
dive into it, and that's what we're going to do
on today's show. So get you a pen, paper, notebook,
the Gator scale journal still available, Go get it.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
Go get it.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But have you something to right with because I have
some things for you to take, some tangible things that
you can take with you from hearing this show. So
let's dive in law of attraction. The law of attraction
has been around since the beginning of the time, wrother
we know it or not, it's been there. And the
law of attraction is attracting things instead of chasing it
or going after certain things. Is allowing yourself to be still,
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to be present, to be available to receive. So I
have been practicing the law of attraction as long as
I can remember, but I didn't even know I was
doing it.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
It was just happening based off.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
What I would say, what I would do, what I
would think, and what I would have gained. What changed
for me is when I became intentional about the law
of attraction, and that intentionality came from exposure. The exposure
was a show or a movie. I would say, the
movie called The Secret. So if you haven't heard of
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the movie called The Secret, I challenge you now go
check it out. Asapp it was on Netflix for a while.
You may or may not be able to find on Netflix.
It was on YouTube. It may not be the best quality,
but you can get what you need. So I got
introduced to The Secret from a couple people. Also, please
pardon me, my health has not been the best this
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past month, so I'm a little stuffy, a little nasally.
I don't like how I sound, but I don't care.
I got something to say, and yes I'm saying it
differently because I'm nasally and snobby, but I ain't still
got something shame I'm gonna share.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
So the Secret I was exposed, and the first exposure
with a friend of mine, I was like, YO, read
the book. It's a book called The Secret. Check it out.
You know, Oprah does it, everybody talks about it, Will Smith,
all these different people. Oh, I want to talk about
Will Smith being canceled too, which he didn't get canceled,
but we'll talk about that.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Man. That to my list sidebar. Yeah, I'm on one today.
So friend of mine was like, yo, read the book.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I read the book, or I tried to read the book,
couldn't get into it, fell asleep, just didn't work. So
then I moved to the audiobook, tried the audiobook of
the Secret, couldn't get into it. Started doing a little
research about it, hearing Oprah talk about it, and all
these different celebrities talk about law, attraction, Denze, all these
different people, and it just didn't click, didn't register. And
then the movie The Secret. I finally saw that and
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that was it. That's all it took for me. So
this had to be back in twenty twelve or I
saw the movie The Secret, and please check it out.
Of the movie, there are no spoilers. Really spoiler will
help you. So when I watched the movie, it exposed
me to so many different things that's hidden in plain sight.
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As you know, we call those bread froms and a
few people that was on the show was a lot
of different people that's doing really well in their own
space in place that were being interviewed on how they
use a law of attraction to become successful in their
own way. For example, the I'm sure you heard the
series Chicken Soup for the Soul, Chicken Soup for the Teenager,
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and all these different things came out in the nineties.
Jack Canfield is the author. He was on the episode
and he was talking about how the book came into
existence and that he had these ideas and these thoughts
and basically used the secret to build this empire, this
conglomerate that he's been able to establish. And one thing
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that he did is very similar to what Jim Carrey did.
I'm sure you heard the story Jim Carrey wrote a
check to himself, or think like a million dollars. He
wrote a blank check to himself, put it in a while,
and just kept working. Years and years and years go by,
and he finally was able to cast that check. That's
an example of a lot of attraction. Jack Canfield did
the same thing where he put a million dollar check
on the selling of his bedroom, and every day he
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would look that's the first thing he saw when he
woke up, first thing he saw when he went to bed,
that this million dollar check. And that book, his first
series of that book is how he became a millionaire.
So The Secret, the movie interviews all these different people
that talks about their lived experience and how they used
the secret to become the best version of themselves, where
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they created something a product and sold it or became
someone that people wanted in order to make money or
be successful, whatever the case may be. So The Secret
is a phenomenal movie. If the movie don't catch you,
try the book. The book, don't catch you, try the
audiobook audiobook, don't catch you, try a different method. This
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has been something that was going on for me for
a few years before it finally clicked. But once it clicked,
that was it. That's all I needed. And now that
I know it, now that I have it, I use
it all the time. So that movie was where I
became exposed to the parking space and vision boards. So
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I'll talk about both because that's what we're here for,
talk about it.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
So I'll start with vision board.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
So again, twenty twelve is the first time I ever
created my first vision board, and since twenty twelve, I've
created vision board every single year since twenty twelve. Now
I got a little lax about it the past couple
of years. There's life and life, but outside of that,
I create a vision board because it's images and ideas
and words that we put out into paper into reality
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of things that we want to come to pass. So,
for example, on The Secret they talk about vision boarding
where and Jack cam Fill and other people talked about
vision boarding where you may look at magazine clippings. You
can do it online, you can do it virtually. But
I would clip out different things in magazines that I liked,
and as I took these clippings out and put them
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on this post board, put them on my wall in
the bathroom, I put it in places where I could
see it every day. These are the things that I
wanted to have, and year after year I would do this,
and over time a lot of things that I had
on these vision boards would happen. For example, I put
a cruise ship on one because I never took a
cruise before, and within a year or two I end
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up going on a cruise.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I went on a Christmas cruise, Like who does that?
Speaker 1 (12:31):
I went on a Christmas cruise because I was in
a place in space in my life where I wanted
to break the mold. I wanted to break tradition. I
wanted to get out of the same rut of doing
the same thing every year. In this particular year, I
decided I'm gonna go on a cruise for Christmas. Yeah,
my parents they were hot and they got over it,
but initially they were upset because they didn't understand, like
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why would you choose a cruise over Christmas? And it
was just like, you know, Christmas is whatever we say
it is, Holiday is whatever we say it is.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Family is whatever we say it is.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
And we put meaning behind people, places and things based
off of what's valuable.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Important to us.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
But if I choose to do something for me that
doesn't That doesn't mean I disagree, dislike this, credit or
undervalue you doesn't mean that. But we make meaning out
of any and everything. So Cruise was one different places
and spaces.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
Minds was words.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I love words, So a lot of different words or
images or ideas I would put on my vision board
and it would come to pass. So here we are,
all these years later, and I'll go back and reflect
on my vision boards. I can always look at them.
I can always pull them out and look at them
and see what I've been able to accomplish, even related to.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Children and marriage degrees.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Everything that I've been able to accomplish in some capacity
was on my vision board at one point in time.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
There's a story I'll tell.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Time related to a dream car that I finally got,
and now I got a new dream car that I
want to get. But I think I'll save that for
an episode by itself because it is a story, one
of my favorite stories of all time. So I'll share
that with you when that time comes. So the secret
law of attraction vision boarding, So if you've never vision
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boarded before, look into it, look into it, dive into it,
try it. See what happens for you. The issue that
most regular salamander people have with vision boards is if
I put this on this board, then it needs to
be happening. Like now, I wouldn't give it six months.
I'm gonna give it three months. It needs to happen tomorrow.
The reality is it happens when it's supposed to happen,
not when you may want it, but when it's supposed
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to happen. And to me, it doesn't matter when it
happens as long as it happens. So I put marriage, family,
and relationship on my vision board, since twenty twelve, I
didn't have I didn't get married or have a family
until twenty nineteen. Yeah, so it took a while seven
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years to be exact. But seven years is completion. But
it took seven years. But I've been talking about like
that's just what I put on a vision board, but
I may have been talking about it years prior to that.
So once you begin attracting or using the law of attraction,
you're expecting and excited about things to happen. But we
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don't know when. You never know when, but you know
when you'll have it, you'll get it. So small things
get your poster board, magazine, a few magazines, and start
cutting out things that you feel connected to. It could
be pictures, it could be ideas, it could be colors, symbols,
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you name it. Just start cutting it out, added to
the vision board, paste it, tape it, whatever, and put
it in a place where you can always have access
to it. Now is the best time to do it,
when the first quarter of the year. Put some things
down and see what happens by the end of the year.
I would challenge you to do this, and I mean this,
don't take it lightly, like really allow yourself to step
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outside the comfort zone and do something you've never done.
If you haven't done it before, this is a great
chance to start. If you've done it a while ago,
never haven't done it since, it's a great place to
get back started. So that's vision boarding. It's taking these ideas,
these thoughts, the things that you see and putting it
into reality. When you put it into reality, it becomes
a contract between you and you. You don't have to
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share with anybody. Typically, a vision brower is very personal.
You only share it with people who you feel comfortable
sharing it with because everybody's not going to understand respect
or value your vision or your vision board. So it's
not for everybody, and I want to make sure you
protect yourself because some people can handle when you do
things differently. Some people can handle the things that we do,
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especially when it's outside of the norm. And whatever the
norm is is whatever we say it is. So that's
the first piece vision board. Second piece parking space. So
on the movie The Secret, one of the guys the
interview interviewees talked about he didn't call it a parking space.
He called a park. I think he was from the UK.
He said, yeah, when I never had a problem finding
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a park. When I go to a restaurant, I go
to you know, meetings or whatever, I would always find
he say park. I can't say park. I don't talk
like that. So he would say park, I say parking space.
So he had this thing where he was able to
attract the smallest things such as a parking space. And
I was like, man, that's interesting. So he said, no
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matter where he goes in life, no matter what he does,
what he's doing, and what he's not doing, anytime he's driving,
he always finds a parking space right up front.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
And he said, how I did it? Is I attracted.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
I expected, I anticipated, I know I'm gonna have it,
And it was a practice that he had for years
and now it's just the norm. So we can go
as small as a parking space or park or even
smaller as a sandwich at Chick fil A, like really
a sandwich at Chickfla or whatever your favorite restaurant is.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
Start there.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Start with something really small that you want to attract,
and begin speaking about it and thinking about it and
emotionally getting connected to it and feeling the taste of
a chicken sandwich from Chick fil A or whatever your
favorite place that you enjoy dining. Start small and see
what happens. I'm telling y'all, don't take my word for it,
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try for yourself. So my story where I decided to
use the same system finding a parking space started around
twenty twelve, and I started being intentional of knowing, no
matter where I go, I'm going to find a parking
space up front, And the first couple times it just
didn't happen, and I started to get skeptical about it,
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and then I had to shift my thinking and my
feeling related top. So then I'm like, you knowther I brother,
I get one or not, everything's okay. Versus if I
don't get one, then I failed. You know how we
get salamanders. So I didn't fail, it just didn't happen
this time. So I started changing the way I thought.
I changed what I said, I changed my energy around it,
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and before you know it, I started attracting these parking
spaces up front as well as this guy did. And
I kept doing it, and now here we are, all
these years later, it's my norm as much as it
was that guy's norm on the documentary. So friends and family,
people who know me intimately know that Jason will always
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get a parking space up front. Everybody knows that. So
when me and I first start dating, I told her
the trick, you know, I told her my ability, and
she thought it was funny. And I wouldn't say she
didn't believe him, but she just thought it was funny.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
But I took her.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
We went on several dates, and on those several dates,
everywhere we went, I had a parking space up front.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Everyone.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
And now it's the norm. So she knows if I'm driving,
we're gonna get a space upfront. If she driving, it's
fifty to fifty because that's not something that she practices,
that's not something she may be interested in.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But for me, I practice it. I'm interested in. Yes,
I want to parking spotsor.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Upfront, And it's so wild when it's like a parking space,
a parking lot that's flooded with cars and people, and
I don't worry about that. It's none of my concern.
I know my parking space is upfront. So I drive
to the front of places every single time, and within
a matter of time, it's an empty space, somebody's about
to leave, somebody's inviting me in. It's just a part
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of who I am now. So imagine if you can
attract Chick fil a sandwich, a vision board, things from
your vision board, a parking space by using a law
of attraction, imagine what else you can attract. And for me,
everything that I have in life is based off of
who I begin. The person that I am attracted the people,
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places and things that I have in my life. I'm
telling you what I know, not what I heard. So
the person that you are has attracted the people, places,
and things in your life right now. That's the law
of attraction. So if you're having some hard times, some
hard places and spaces with certain people, places and things.
Guess what, bubboo, it's you. Yep, that's it, no one else.
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It's what you attract based off of who you are.
Now you can attract new people, places, and things once
you become a new version of you. Similar to this podcast,
Who We Were, Who we are, Who are becoming? Do
you see how the parallels just repeat themselves over and
over again. That's why the show it's so good to me.
I don't know what it is for you, but to me,
it's so good because everything connects the issue that we have.
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We don't like connecting all the dots. We just connect them.
We just connect the ones that we like, not the
ones we don't like. But imagine if you connected all
the dots, even the ones you didn't like, and see
what happened. Challenge yourself to do this. Just that so
parking space haven't had a problem in a long time
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related to parking. I always have parking space upfront because
I attract it. So now let's move to the next place,
next place in space. And this is my system that
I'm offering to you that I created based off of
this law of attraction. I wanted to be more intentional
related to how can I begin attracting things based off
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of a system. And I want to share this system
for with you for free. All is going to cost
you your attention and your time.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
That is it. That is all.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
So first thing, got your notebook, got your journal, got
that gator to scales out, let's get it. First thing
is we have to be willing to change the way
we think. Yes, and indeed, your thinking is where it starts.
Your thinking is where everything starts. So if you say
you can or you can't, before you say it, you
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think it. So if I think I can't do something,
then I'm attracting not being able to do something. Think
about how often you said you couldn't do something and
you didn't do it. This is why you spoke it.
Think about how often you said something you wanted and
you went and got it.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Here's an example.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Nobody, and I mean absolutely nobody goes to the buffet,
go to the buffet, walks up to the counter and
point out everything they don't want, and go to the
table with a full plate.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Nobody does it, So why do we do it? In life?
Speaker 1 (23:36):
You know I don't want this, I don't want that.
I don't want a man who do this. I don't
want a woman who do that. I don't want a job.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
I don't want that. Why are you talking about what
you don't want? What's the relevance?
Speaker 1 (23:45):
There is no relevance behind the relevance that we make
around it. So instead of going to a buffet and
talking about everything you don't want, you go to the
buffet and talk, and you don't even got to talk.
You take what you want, you get what you want.
What's the point of talk about what you don't want?
It's wasted space, time, breath, and everything else in between.
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So my challenges you to stop talking about things you
don't want. Also the what if mentality, the what if?
Anytime you say what if? What if this happens? What
if that happens? It's all negative and unhealthy things that
you don't want to happen. So why are you talking
about it? Well, what if this happens? And what if
that happens? So what Nine times out of ten it's
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not likely to ever happen because it only happens in
your mind, not in really reality, only in your mind,
and your mind is a beautiful place unless it's dark scary,
which from any of us, is a dark scary place
in your head, And mine's just nice because I had
to clean it out. I have to clean out all
the dark, dirty stuff that did not support me, did
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not help me, did not provide me with a plate
full of food at the buffet.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
So we have to change the way we think. Hear
this before, I'll share it again.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
If you're still out here shoulding on yourself saying should
you have to change that narrative. If you're still saying
what if, you have to change the narrative instead of
what if?
Speaker 2 (25:10):
What if you said? What is?
Speaker 1 (25:12):
What is is what we know? What if is the
ideas that scare us the most. What is is what
I know for sure? And if I don't know what's
for sure based off of what tomorrow will bring, why
am I talking about it? I can talk about what
I want. That's how I change my thinking. Why am
I talking about what I don't want? What's the relevance?
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So if I change the way I think, the second
thing that will happen, or has to happen that I'm
intentional about, is to change the things that I say.
How often are you speaking life to yourself. How often
are you speaking death to yourself? How often do you
compliment you? How often do you accept compliments? Ooh, stepping
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on toes?
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Think about it.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
If somebody give you a compliment, what you do compliment
them back? You wouldn't even thinking about them all of
a sudden.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Oh you got a nice hat. To shut up?
Speaker 1 (26:07):
You wasn't finna say that. But because you can't accept
the compliment you give somebody else one change the way
you speak by accepting compliments. Oh that's a nice shirt
you got on, doctor branch.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
Why thank you?
Speaker 1 (26:21):
Period, think about the next thing you get complimenting on how
you respond. I just want you to start checking yourself. Okay,
So we have to change the way we speak. So
if I'm going to start speaking life, so thinking, let's
use this same system for small things.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Chick fil a parking space.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
So the thought is, if I'm thinking I'm going to
get a parking space, that's the first step. I'm thinking
I'm going to get one. I'm thinking I'm gonna get
a sounde from Chick fil A. I have to think
at first. Then i'ma speak it. Oh, I'm going to
chick forlay today. Somebody gonna get me a chicken play today.
I'm gonna get chick for LA today. I'm gonna get
this parking space today. Speak it third thing, write it.
Whatever it is that you want in life, write it down.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Here's an example.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
What if I asked you to show me exactly where
you want it to be in three to five years?
Could you show it to me? And I ain't talking
about charades or being a mind but without talking, without
using words, because you show me.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
Probably not.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Why because you haven't written it down. If you have
written it down, it's not on you understand that when
you write things down, especially when it comes to what
you're trying to attract, it becomes a road map to
where you're trying to go. Now, I'm gonna give you
pro tip. I just want to give y' all life.
You can do whatever you want to do it, do it.
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Since twenty twelve, I've kept an index card in my
wallet that list things that I want to accomplish, I
want to have, I want to receive and usually three
to five year increments, and I change that card out
about every three to five years. And every time I
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look at that card, I'm reminded of it's the law
of attraction. It's me being intentional attracting the things that
I want. And more often than not, I forget about
the car, and when I pull it out, I see
things that are accomplished on it. But it's always on me,
which means I can always have access to it. So
whenever I think about, whenever I need it, I can
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get it. Do you have that? Probably not?
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Why not because nobody's telling us this.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
Nobody's taught us this unless they have, and if they did,
congratulations to you. It wasn't taught to me growing up,
but I know it now, and I teach you to
my boys, or teach you. I give it to anybody
who want it, because it showed me what we're capable of.
So write it down. When you write it down and
becomes a contract between you and you. So you take
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the things from your head, from your and you put
it down on paper. That brings it into reality, That
gets you closer to attracting that thing. Let's go back
Jim Carrey and Jack Camfield. They wrote out a blank check.
They wrote it before it happened. It was years before
it happened, but it happened. And guess what I got
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a blank check in my office right now for a
MILLI and I've had it for a while, and I
expect a meal will happen. That's the minimum. Also, got
a dream car on a mouse pad and that model
car in my office. I'll talk about that another episode.
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But I'm attracting these things and I know it's gonna
happen because it always does and I always will.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Why wouldn't it. I expect it. That's what I mean.
My changing what you think, changing what you speak, and
writing it down.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
Now, if you change how you think, you change how
you speak, you write these things down, will it happen?
Speaker 2 (29:56):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Maybe not, But to me, there's two more things that
has to happen in order to almost guarantee that you receive.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
And the next is action.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
You have to do something. They didn't just write a
check and sit back and wait for the money to
show up. Nah, they wrote check and they they took
action to do something. In order to make the money.
You gotta take action. So the issue that many of
us have we think different, we speak differently, write, but
we don't take action. Action is the steps that I'm
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taking in order to get from one place to the next.
Action is movement. Movement gets me from A to B.
Now here's the additional piece. This is with the asterisk
that we don't consider that was talked about in the secret.
This is the system that I'm giving you that works
because I use it every day, and now you can
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start using it and start small.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
You can go as small as a pack I could
catch up.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Chick full, as big as a house, as big as
a job, as big as a person, a partner of child, whatever,
a million, whatever it is you want. You can go
as smaller as big as you want. But I highly
recommend starting very small first so you can see the
power that you actually have. Stick a gum freaking marker
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a random person. You know what I'm saying, Like, man,
I would love to get a text from such and
such or a phone call from such and such. Oh
I'm just hearing. I'm feeling a sense of this person.
Start small and work your way up. Okay, So here
we go from the top. Change the way we think,
change the way we speak, write it down. Take action.
Last is the emotion and feeling. So you have to
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act as if it's already happened already. So I'm already
viewing myself a millionaire, mom time mallionaire or a hundred
times over. Money is nothing to me. That's my mindset
right now. This cars, it's nothing to me. It's a
mean and mode of transportation. It's nice, but it's a
motation A to B, A to z right. But the
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emotion is the feeling that you have around the person
place for things. So when it came to me and
my relationship, I always imagine this person or how this
life would be, and now I have it with children,
how it would be as a dad, I imagined it.
Now I have it. Me as a therapist, me as
a counselor educator, me with a doctorate. I was calling
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myself a doctor branch way before I even got into
a doctor program.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
I'm out here like you know, yeah, I'm doctor Branch.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
People consider me doctor branch before I ever got into
a program because I saw me in it.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Wait before anybody else excuse me under the weather.
Speaker 1 (32:53):
But again, I gotta give you this message because I
don't know how long I'm be here in life. Nobody does.
So sick sick can shut in or not. You finna
get this love, You're finna ge hit in the head.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
With a honeymoone.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
So the emotion is the last piece, and this is
the asterisk because you have to put feeling around it.
Think about when you talk about what if, think about
when you talk about the things you don't want, you
put emotion and feeling behind it. This isn't gonna work out.
I'm gonna fail or not this or I'm never gonna
be that. You put emotion in it. And that's to
make sure it don't happen. I challenge you to change
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things up. Challenge you change things up. So this is
what I wanted to offer related to the law attraction,
the secret you think, speak right, take action and put
your emotion into it. Now, sidebar, this came up. I
gotta talk about it. It ain't related to where we are,
but it's related to life. We're talking about canceling Will Smith, right,
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and the reality is you can't cancel anybody who has
a following or a community. All right, you can't. You
can't think about it. I just want to talk about
this for a minute. Hein't asked for it, but it's
part of this. Think about it. A couple of years
ago Oscars, Will Smith slapped Chris Rock. It was the
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talk of the town's the biggest story for days, weeks, months,
and you know, everybody was like canceled Will Smith and
this and that and Jada. It was just a lot
of talk. That's just what it was talk. Because Will
Smith never got canceled. Yeah, there may be a few
people that stopped following or paying attention or supporting, but
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it wasn't everybody. Because when somebody rocks with you, it
don't matter what you do. When somebody rock with you
and they down for you, it don't matter what you do,
they gonna roll with you.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Do you know why?
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Because we're humans and human beings will always do human things.
And being a human being who is full of flaws,
meaning all of us, how dare I judge? How dare
I decide to stop following or connecting with someone because
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of their behavior, especially somebody I don't know? Because I'm
sure ain't too many people that I know know Will Smith,
like know them, know them, you know of him, But
you don't know that man, So how can you cancel
somebody you don't even know? I just want to just
want to shay that thought. And as you can see
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here we are I don't know how many years later,
it wasn't that long. Will Smith back the top of
the box office, He back making movies, He's back on
the scene.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
He ain't lost the step, he ain't lost the dime.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Why because you can't cancel somebody who has a following.
They may lose a couple people, but they can't lose
in life. So how do you take the same concept
implied to yourself for me, I'll never get canceled because
you can't cancel me. I'm like Will Smith, you may
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be upset me, but I can't be canceled. How does
this connect to law of attraction? I'm glad you asked.
Will Smith is one of the biggest people, one of
the biggest Hollywood celebrities known to man right universal and
Will Smith has been practicing the law of attraction since
he was a kid. He always visualized himself doing the
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things that he's doing, being the perse, having a body
he has, having the wife, the family that he has,
having the lifestyle that he has. He dreamed it, he
thought it, he spoke it, he wrote about it, he
took action, and he put emotions behind it, and it
came to pass. Will Smith already knew he would be
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doing all the things that he was doing because he
attracted it in his life, in his mind before it
ever happened in reality. We all caught up a time,
called up, the studios and universe, all these different things
caught up to him. But he always knew, he always
thought that he would have and he still believes it
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to this day. So he's an example of someone who
follows the law of attraction and it works for him
and for anybody that uses it. So since Will Smith
isn't canceled unless he's canceled for you start doing research
on any interviews just tard finding. I would say three
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to look at three to five interviews that Will Smith
has done, and you'll hear him talk about the law
of attraction. But if you're not aware, if you don't
know about it, it'll go right over your head. But
now that you're aware, if you start paying attention to
what's being said, he's going to speak, he's going to think,
he's going to write, he's going to take action. There's
going to be a motion. Any celebrity that's doing really
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well are using the same language. Celebrities and entertainers whoever
they thought it, they spoke it, they write it, They
took action, they put a motion behind it. I don't
know any other way towards success outside of these principles.
If you know, let me know. Until then, holl at
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you boy. This has been another episode of three pale
Us Podcast. We're your favorite hosts The Doctor Jason Branch,
where we rediscover who we were, we embrace who we are,
and we make room for who we're trying to become.
Speaker 2 (38:40):
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Speaker 1 (38:41):
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