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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, hey, welcome back, Anxiety Warriors. You're listening to another
Saturday boost from anxiety. Let's make sense of this step.
I'm your host, Fabian, and today we're diving into something
super simple that can help you tackle anxiety. Breathing. Yeah,
you heard me, right, breathing. I know, I know, like
who needs instructions for that? Right? But here's the thing.
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You've been doing it wrong. Well, maybe not wrong exactly,
but when anxiety hits, your breathing turns into this shallow,
panicked mess that makes everything worse. Sound familiar, yup, We're
going to fix that today. Now, this isn't one of
those things where I tell you to just breathe like
some zen master perched on a mountaintop. We're getting real here,
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and I'm giving you a technique you can whip out
the next time anxiety starts creeping up on you like
a bad ex at a party. Let's get into it. Okay,
So here's the deal. When we get anxious, our whole
body decides to freak out a little, and one of
the first things that goes hey wire is our breathing.
It gets shallow, quick and super inefficient, which is basically
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the body's way of saying, hey, everything's on fire. Panic
thanks body, but no thanks, but guess what we can
hack the system. Your breath is one of the fastest
ways to send a signal to your nervous system that
everything's cool, even when it doesn't feel cool. And the
great thing about this technique you can do it anytime, anywhere.
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You don't need fancy apps, a meditation pillow, or a
forest of crystals. You just need your lungs. You got those.
Let's roll all right, Here's how this goes. It's called
deep belly breathing or diaphragmatic breathing. If you want to
get all fancy, don't worry. I'm not about to drop
big science terms on you. It's super simple. We're going
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to do this together. And yes, that means you're going
to breathe with me right now wherever you are. I
don't care if you're driving, grocery shopping, or hiding in
the bathroom at work. Let's give it a shot. Ready,
Start by breathing in deeply through your nose for the
count of four. Not one of those quick half breaths
like you just sprinted for the bus. I'm talking a
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deep breath you should feel your belly expand like you
just had the biggest burrito of your life. One three,
Hold that breath for a count of four. I know
it feels a bit weird. Hang in there now, slowly
exhale through your mouth for yep, you guessed it, the
count of four. Feel the tension leaving your body with
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that exhale like you're deflating a balloon. Four three to one,
and repeat. Let's do it again. See not so hard, right?
Why not pause here and practice for a few more
breaths than jump back in. I know it feels a
little awkward at first, like when you're doing yoga and
trying to pretend you know what downward dog means. But
trust me, this is the real deal. The magic of
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this breathing technique is in how it gets your nervous
system to chill out. There's this thing called the parasympathy
nervous system. Basically, it's the part of you that's responsible
for calming the fuck down. When you do this slow,
deep breathing, it's like you're sending a memo to your
brain that says, yo, we're not in danger. Relax and
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believe it or not, your brain actually listens. You can
do this anytime you feel anxiety sneaking up on you,
whether you're having a full on panic moment or just
feeling low key stressed about that awkward email you sent
your boss. Breathe, hold, exhale, repeat. Now you might be thinking, sure,
that was kind of nice, but does it really work?
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And to that, I say, hell yes. Here's why. When
you're anxious, your body goes into fight or flight mode,
which is great if you're being chased by a bear,
not so much if you're just reading a stressful text message.
Your heart races, your muscles tense up, and your breathing
gets all shallow. It's like your body's getting ready to
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run a marathon, except the only thing you're running from
is your to do list. But deep, slow breaths tell
your brain to flip the switch. Instead of rampet hang
up the adrenaline. Your brain starts to activate that parasympathetic
system I mentioned earlier, you know, the rest and digest mode.
That's when your heart rate starts to slow down, your
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muscles unclench, and you stop feeling like you're on the
verge of losing it all. From just a few deep breaths,
and you don't have to wait for a full blown
anxiety attack to use this. I mean, use it when
you need it, for sure, but also practice it when
you're not in the thick of panic. That way, when
anxiety does hit, your body's already familiar with the technique
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and it works even faster. All right, fam, that's it
for today's Saturday boost. Simple Right, next time you're feeling
like a stress ball ready to pop, remember breathe in
through the nose, hold breathe out through the mouth. Try
it the next time you're about to freak out over
a meeting that could have been in an email or
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a social event you didn't really want to go to.
I promise it works better than pretending you're calm when
you're totally not. Thanks for hanging with me today. You're
doing great. Seriously, even when anxiety feels like it's owning you,
know that you've got little tools like this to make
it through. We're all in this together, and don't forget
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to come back next week for more real talk No
BS solutions for anxiety. Until then, keep breathing and take
it one deep breath at a time.