April 3, 2024 • 56 mins
Tune in to Ask Nyomi on Thursday, March 28th for a special live show featuring Guest Courtesan Remy Martin. Join us as Remy shares her fascinating journey and experiences from her life at the iconic Bunny Ranch, offering a unique perspective on the world of sex work and breaking stigmas surrounding this industry. Explore Remy's inspiring story as she delves into the realities, challenges, and triumphs of her profession, shedding light on the misconceptions and stereotypes often associated with sex workers. Gain insight into the human side of the industry as Remy opens up about her personal journey, motivations, and mission to empower and educate others. Join Nyomi and Remy for an engaging and thought-provoking discussion that aims to foster understanding, compassion, and empathy towards sex workers. Be part of the conversation that seeks to bridge gaps in perception and promote positive dialogue around complex social issues. Don't miss this opportunity to hear Remy's story and participate in a meaningful conversation that challenges beliefs and encourages inclusivity. Turn on your notifications to stay updated on this enlightening live show and be a part of breaking barriers and changing narratives. #AskNyomi #LiveShow #CourtesanRemyMartin #BridgingTheGap #BreakingStigmas #SexWork #Empowerment #HumanizeTheIndustry #BunnyRanch #ThursdayShow #SexWorkerRights #InclusiveDialogue
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this beautiful guest? But guess whatI don't make y'all wait, I'm gonna
take it. I know. Likewe just got on, Naomi, we
just got on. We just gotoff. Yeah, we just got on.
But we're gonna take a quick breakand then when we come back.
When we come back, we're gonnameet this beautiful young lady and we're gonna
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on healing. Always for me,If I look good, then I feel
good. If I feel good,then I share the good. If I
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it shragurt. He got his NamyBanks here on her ex name on Bridgie
Gap podcast and I am so readyfor this guest, this beautiful young lady.
Actually, she reminded me. Shereminded me where I originally met her.
Well, I originally met her,but the thing is is that she
had been following me for some timeand she was just showing me so much
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love on here. And I'm like, let me go check this young lady
out. I want to go checkout. I said, Oh okay,
I said, I would love toreally hear her story. And I believe
she is from my hometown as well. The beautiful miss Remy Martin Liz Berger
to the stage. Well, Hi, I'm you. I'm good and you
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thank you for having me so thankyou for coming on and sharing your story
with me. When you send methat email today and I and you say,
you know, I had to showyou two pictures that you know that
I ran across you. I metyou before, and I was looking.
I was like, oh, butthe crazy thing is I had a conversation
with one of my girlfriends the otherday and she said, you're gonna have
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this young lady on there, youknow, And I said, yeah,
I said, but I don't knowwhy. I feel like I've met her
before, but I don't remember.Definitely, It's okay, it was,
it was it was some time ago. Yeah, it was some time.
It was. It was some timeago. But again, everybody, this
is the beautiful miss Remy Martin andshe works at the iconic Bunny Ranch.
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Yes, so so let me letme tell you. I don't know if
you've been watching adia shows before,but my whole thing is to make it
comfortable for you, is to makeit so comfortable with you, but as
you're able to share your story bbecause I know I've saw a lot of
clippings that you had sent me aswell as that you're an advocate for sex
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workers and to break the stigma onsex workers and what it is. And
that's something that I truly do loveand admire about all of you all,
I mean as well as me.But y'all like on the front with it,
and I admire that, but alsofor you to have the courage to
share your story with us today,you know here, and so what I
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want you to do first, becauseI can do a lot of talking,
as you see, I want youto go ahead and introduce yourself to my
audience right now. All right,my loyal listeners, this is the Goddess
Samory Banks here, and I justwanted to just add something onto this show.
We did a live recording this pastlast Thursday with this beautiful young lady
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and we were having some technical difficultieshere for quite for a while. And
then so now what I'm going todo is I had to cut it off
somewhere somehow to bring her back in. So now where you're going to see
now what you're going to hear now, excuse me, is her coming in
after we were able to correct inour connection. All right, enjoy the
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rest of the podcasts. Welcome backat Shraagurty got his Lamy Banks here on
acts name of Virgil podcast. Yes, and you know the Internet, we
we it don't be doing us,right, it just doesn't be doing us.
Yeah. We need some loving overhere, y'all. We need some
loving over here. I want toshout out to my BTG crew. Hey,
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hey, hey, hey hey,and everybody else that is listening to
us and viewing us simultaneously. Allover right now live, I thank you
and I welcome you all. I'mhere to ax Slam virgin To podcast and
we do have a very beautiful guesttoday. And I know we were having
some little technical difficulties, but that'sall about life. That's that's how life
is. And we're gonna overcome it, right, We're gonna overcome it right,
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all right, So I believe wehave her back, the beautiful miss
Remy Martin. Yes, well dowe yes? Girl? Yes? Oh.
I loved of your voice. Thankyou, thank you. I had
to resort to one of those oldschool that they give you on an airplane.
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Have this technology don't work for you. So when we left, I
left off with a question, askedyou, what's been your most revealing thing
about yourself that you learned from beingin the industry. For me, it
would have to be not really orhaving to learn not to care what other
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people thought of me pretty much thatbecause going into it, I wondered if
I was too short, too dark, if anyone would like me? And
I got to the point where I'mnot perfect, but I'm perfect. I'm
imperfectly perfect. Does that make sense? Yes? And I'm my deal to
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someone, not everyone, and Idon't want to actually be ideal to everyone.
But yeah, so let me askyou, how did you get into
that good? Okay? So itstarted with friends and I watching a cat
House an episode on HBO because theyhad a series, and yeah, we
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were drinking. I was in mytwenties. We all said we were gonna
apply lo and behold. I foundout I was the only one who actually
did, and Madame Susett called me, helped me and said, we'd love
to have you out that I foundout out that my friends didn't actually apply.
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When I got myself, I waslike, we're going writing and you're
like, we were joking, wewere drinking, like we aren't serious,
and I'm like okay, And withthe opportunity, I was like, f
it, try it. You youcan lead the most or the least.
You can say you had this experiencethat went roller didn't so right, So
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you're right, So so walk usthrough that first experience. Now you have
you, you're now at you.Now pull up to the Bunny Ranch and
I can imagine it probably doesn't looklike what it looks like on TV,
you know. So now you're pullingup, you're you're pulling up to the
Bunny Ratch and walk us through itpretty much. You get picked up at
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the airport with your belongings. Youget taken to the bunny Ranch. You
go through these white uh right irongate uh and you go upstairs. You
meet the staff or some of thestaff. You fill out paperwork because you
have to get and it's not apert car, you're your car so you
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can be a license and prostitute inthe state of Nevada. You get a
room, you meet a couple ofpeople, You read through this thick pamphlet
of info which actually everyone should read, like really read it. And then
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you just after you filled that out, you go and doctor the next day
because we're legally obliged to or legallyhave to. And you go after that.
Once you've received your paperwork backs clearingyou help wise, you go and
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you meet with the Sheriff's office.They take your photo, you've give them
the paperwork you filled out, andyou pay your annual fee to become a
license first to you go to thesheriff's office. Yeah, they take you
to the shriff's office. Yes,after you've cleared your medical plarence medical.
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So let me ask this because Iknow not only mean because when you said
the sheriff, So I'm like,so why would why do they take you
there? Because I'm used to seeingpeople get busted for being pros. Say
they took you to the sheriff.Okay, So when you go to the
sheriff's office, you have to bea license. You have to get a
license, just like a uh anaino a note in a casino if you're
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going to be a dealer in acasino, or uh, what's the other
job in the casino? Like,these are jobs that you need to they
need to do background checks for Okay, Okay, they do the same thing
with us. Okay, Okay,it's a license. It's a sheriff's card
for you legally to be able towork in the state of Nevada and that
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county for whatever it is. Okay, now what you was gonna say,
I think almost every count only workingthe bat it has to go to the
sheriff office to get approved of whateverjob they're doing. Yeah, oh wow,
airport airport, semos, the hotelsall about money. If you're get
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in some, they want some,you know, taxes, they got what
they call fees. Definitely. Allright. So now you went all of
that, you went through all thelegal ality of it, everything like that.
You got tested a panel of test. Is that's something that we had
to do in the industry, geta panel of tests and make sure that
we was clean and clear. Solet me ask you this, how often
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do you do you have to gettested? Oh, we can tested every
week, every week, every week. It's part of about a state law.
The only test I think that happensonce a month is the blood tests,
but the culture and everything happens everyevery week. Yes, okay,
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definitely, okay, all right,So this is my next question for you.
Throughout your life journey, which chaptercan you say needed the most healing
in reference to the industry or justin general, just in general? How
how do you feel to answer?In general? I needed to heal more
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with trying to fix relationships, withmy relationship with my mother and my sister.
I've healed from that, but I'vealso I've pretty much done a cut
off late no contact. I can'ttoo toxic so let me ask you this.
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Had that come because of your choiceof your career or was that something
that happened before that that was somethingthat's strictly heard nothing to do with my
career. M interesting. All right, So here go my last personal question
for you. What is the essencea Remy Martin? Okay, sensual seduct
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the sultry, quirky funny. Idon't know how to answer that, you
know, honestly, there is noright or wrong way to answer, and
it's and I usually give that questionbecause I really want not only yourself but
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others to see the author the authenticityof you and who you are. And
usually when we're able to be ableto express the essence of who we are,
it kind of takes that that maskoff what people think of us.
Ask you understand what I'm saying.Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
So there's no there's no right orwrong way to answer it. So
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you're good. So this is whatI want to do. I want you
to relax because you live like,okay, where am I going? The
road shops? Okay? Yeah,I had to switch up and I'm like
okay, yeah, no set up. Yeah, you're good. You're good.
So let me ask you this.Yeah, because I know me being
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coming from the industry and being instry, we always have this the wrong misconception
of us. What has been foryou the biggest misconception of people have about
the life of or quarters at theiconic body ratch hmm. Unfortunately, it
would have to be the fact thatmost black cortissants, any ranch ship at
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this point is beholden to a pimp. Or say that again, is beholden
to a pimp? Answer to apamp. I don't know why that's such
a stigma. Well, we probablydo if we look at societal things,
but that we have families with likethree plus kids waiting on us and that
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really isn't the case, or we'rehard up, or we're in dire streets,
just a bevy of negative things rightright. Here's my next question.
How do you navigate the line betweenintimacy and business in your role? As
of course, Oh, I tryto be very straightforward and very direct with
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my wording because I never want tosay something and you hear one thing and
it's not what I meant. Sodefinitely trying to make sure communication is is
received well on both bands. Mhm. So I'm going down. I'm just
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going down my list right now.And in what ways? And I hit
a dog want to say something too, In what ways do you believe the
industry can do better support and upliftcorotissans like yourself more putting us in a
forehront more hmm. I think ourindustry there are all walks of life,
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all nationalities and people. Very rarelydo you see many black women held in
the spotlight in our industry. Yeah, raally so. And that's not my
dog, that's the other dogs onthe block. But that's the main thing
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to put them in the life more. Yeah, you know, there there's
something, there's something that we talkabout a lot often about the stigma behind
especially when you talk about with theblack community, the stigma of sex workers,
whether they're strippers, start as adult. Actually now you are criticism,
you know for you and you seeas the counterparts more of the whiter European
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they more glamorize it a lot morethan you do with you know us,
you know with that, what doyou think of that? Because it's more
of a taboo. What's your what'syour gluve behind that? I would love
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it if people didn't feel that wayabout it. There are a but that
a lot of gentlemen seem to havewhen reaching out to black quar zoons or
ladies in the sex industry is weare I'm just gonna say cheaper and whatever
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I aspect that may be, orwe'll deal with more than our other counterparts.
And that's simply not true. No, I totally understand that one.
Okay, how do you handle societyjudgments or stigma associated with your profession?
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And what do you think can bedone to change the perception? Generally is
having a conversation with someone and openingup a bit more so that they can
understand where I'm coming from, butalso receiving where they're coming from and what
led them to feel that way orhave that stigma. Honestly, I think
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people just need to accept people forwho they are, no matter what they
are and how they've gone through lifeand their paths and everything else. We
all have gone through the same things. Doesn't this doesn't matter right right?
And it shouldn't at least? Yeah, Now for you, your support system,
how does your support system looks lookin doing this field of work,
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I should have a very good supportsystem. They're definitely They're in my corner
all the time, some much sothat I'll get a text there like hey,
we know you're out there. You'regood. We heard from here in
three days, and I'm like,no, I've just been busy. I'm
okay, are you sleeping? No, not really, but I'm good.
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They know that I am intrinsically stillmean, and I'm not going to do
anything that I don't want to do. I don't I'm not forced to do
anything that I want to do.I say no whenever I want, and
I'm in a safe place. Andwho are they to judge me for doing
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what's good and beneficial for me?Right? Mmm? Okay, I have
another question, so m h mhm oh no the punker's lips. I
know, I know, I know. See I got like a cars right
here with it, and I'm like, h not like that. It's like,
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oh wow, all right, Sobecause you answered, you know quite
a few. So no, I'mabout to be nosy, right, because
this is one of the questions thatwe all get as sex workers. How
have it been in your personal lifedating? Okay, so I don't really
date the people I had I havedated. We're understanding and what I do
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but at the same time, someare just not okay with their thoughts and
their stigma on what I do,if that makes any sense. So you
can know me as a person andwe're dating and know that I'm at this
place, this is what I do. When I leave there, that's that's
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there. I don't bring this time. There are people who are okay with
it one on one, but familyand friends of theirs minding out, they're
not because they have to deal with, you know, their stigma, the
other people's stigma about it. Andthen there are gentlemen who, yeah,
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that's that's cool, okay, Butthere are also people that yeah, just
we're good, we're friends, we'rebuddies, right right, So you know
how the the old American goal,the goal is to be married with children
with the picket fence in the house. And that's something that you desire.
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That is nowhere close to what Idesire. White picket fence, no rid
ron fits, okay, but children. I'm the oldest of five and I
helped raise them. I am I'mI'm happy being an aunt and uh I'm
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a fur parent to a two hundredpounds great Dane and a brown tabby cat
and some KOI I'm an aunt,I'm I'm they're they're all the little people
I need. Okay, okay,okay, So no man, like you
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don't need a man or a partneror a lifelong you know, to just
live out, you know. Sothis is my next Let me move on,
Let me move let me let mebecause you're like, nah, I
don't want I don't want to pickyour fist. I want the kids I
want. I got my fur dogs, my animals, my fur babies.
So let's go from this because Iknow this is a question that banda.
Is the money good in it?Like? How often do you have to
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do it? Is the money goodfor me personally? Yes? So I'm
generally at the bunny ranch two tothree times a year for probably ten to
maybe twelve days at a time.Okay, wait, do the caculation right?
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Want to work right? So shesaid, she said that she was
at least two or three times ayear. Yes, when she's there,
she's at least there ten to twelve, ten to twelve days part time.
So said, we give you that'sless general, less month, a month
and a week of something like that. Yeah, and you're agent to live
off of that what you make inthat throughout the whole year. I can,
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definitely, But I also have areal estate properties, I do catering
at home. But I honestly feellike the more I'm there, the more
accessible I am, the less moneyI make. So I am there less
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because when I'm there, I comein, I book, I make my
money, hang out with girls fromone, nine or two, and I'm
out m seven. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. So
let's do this. We're gonna openup the lines. Are you cool with
us opening up the phone lines?Yes, as long as they're okay with
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me saying yeah, I'm not gonnaanswer that question. Oh that's yes,
all right, Like before we goa break and we open up the phone,
like, do you have any questionsfor her? You know, I
think one of the questions that sheanswered is where how much? How longer
is she there? I mean,that's one thing that I was just wanting.
(27:15):
You have to be there three fourweeks, but you said you there
right for about six weeks throughout ayear. Yeah, So I guess the
money you make there, you youdid very very good things with it with
property and all that. So definitely, yeah, I like that actually invested
in the money that you have,So this is kind of money for itself.
So this is this is my lastquestion right now before we go to
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break, before we open up thelines for you. Is there an end
to this, like do you havea well, I see you have a
retiring pistil could because you get yourreal estate in your other business. Is
there a time that you say,okay, I'm done. Have you given
yourself an age limit or you're justgoing by, you know whatever. I
feel like it's time for me togo out, then I'm going to go.
So initially before COVID, mm hmm, that was supposed to be my
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last year because at that point Iwas like, okay, I'm good.
Everything said savings, all this COVIDhappened, Yeah, and I lived off
my savings. But I also havea parent that I helped take care of
and more recently my dad is neededmore and more help. Mm hmmm.
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So at this point I'm like,I have to I really do have to
play it by year now and Ihave projects. I'm renovating different rooms in
my house. I don't know,taking two to three weeks to do a
meta uh European trip like things thatit allows me to do I need to
do. Okay, So okay,I like that. All right, all
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right, guys, we're gonna openup the lines. We're gonna take a
quick break first. But here's thephone. They could call them asks Miss
Remy Martin, but we're gonna berespectful when we ask these questions, right,
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Gurti gotas Nami Banks here or axNamy Bridging Gap podcast and I'm here with
the beautiful miss Remy Martin. Howyou doing? Thank you so much that
us really thank you, thank youfor having me. Definitely, Yeah,
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I see change the name of what'shappening that? Yeah, so that all
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working, just trying to know,do a little bit of little isolation.
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Actually, been doing a little bitof traveling. Just came back from LA
to New York. So just beenjust been building lately. And Naomi,
I want to go back to oneof your episodes that I keep going back
to, when you were talking aboutthe four elements I think before for agreements.
Ye okay, yes, like thatepisode was so fired. I don't
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think you realized because it's like thelady at my job, like at first,
like people used to be afraid ofthis lady, and like after your
episode, it was like doing itsoon and doing the sooner. It was
like chopping it up with this lady, seeing where she come from. It's
like now it's not kind of wordlike she give me the hugs, like
oh, you're back for vacation.How you doing this that? And people
(34:04):
are looking at me like she gaveyou a hug, Like she's actually nice.
It's like doing it soon. It'slike doing the soon what people going
through. So I'm constantly gonna goback to that episode of that episode is
so fied and Naomi, I appreciateit. I do. I appreciate it.
I talked to someone I was onthe show the other day and I
talked to them about that book.It's got four the Four Agreements by oh
(34:29):
my god, what's his name,Diaz? Oh my god, but yeah,
it's called the Four Grids. Ican't think right now, but it's
it's an amazing book. I don'tknow, Remy, have you heard of
that book, The Four Agreements?I can't say that I have. It
is an amazing book. It wasso amazing that I had to do a
whole show on this book. Ittruly will change your perspective on how to
(34:52):
communicate with others, understand, youknow, personal people, personable better.
You know it really, man,that's the whole Yeah that's yeah, Yeah,
that's that's a whole nother Yeah,that's a whole nother show that's going
on right there. But most definitelyall right, So, do you have
a question for Remy? You knowmy favorite question for all the guests,
(35:15):
you got to ask it. Ican't you asked. I gotta ask her
a question. And I want toask who your favorite rappers? I don't
know favorite rapper. I'm probably gonnasa I'm gonna go with you. I
(35:37):
probably listened to the most at thispoint, Megan, at this point,
who I've listened to the most?Just shocked him because he was for a
male. He looking for you tosay over there line, No, No,
I'm not question lady rappers, mailrappers, rappers. That's like the
(36:00):
episode with Stacey was on she puttingme on the who sugar free was never
heard of him to that episode.Yeah, so now you never know who
you who. A person might saysay artists never heard look them up.
Listen to his essentials. Yeah,no, but definitely want to say,
you know, shout out to youladies. I appreciate your and y'all.
(36:22):
Definitely keep holding the doll trying,no trying, you're doing, you're doing.
I know. That's why. Thankyou to continuing showing love here and
just supporting us here on asks Diama, you know you want of the day?
Was there you want of today?One? So I really appreciate you.
I appreciate it. I just askedone thing about self love and your
(36:44):
opinion on this. How do youfeel about like separating yourself like from certain
individuals like separation. Well, that'swhen you put up your boundaries. That's
something that I talk about a lot. Go over to the season a self
Love podcast. I'm on the Monday. Yeah, but you know, honestly,
(37:07):
for real, just to you,you have to do that. A
lot of times we when we areborn into families, into these communities and
families of relationship, we always believeand think that just because we are in
those relationships, that we have tostay in that toxicity of those relationships,
(37:28):
and we don't the problem is thatwe don't allow ourselves to move outside of
those relationships as we grow and aswe grow, when we leave outside of
those relationship, we would go back. They're no longer a line of who
we are today. You understand whatI'm saying. So and you removing yourself
and me and finding your peace withyou that's not a bad thing. It
(37:49):
might be for them because they feellike I'm not I don't have access to
him anymore. You gonna see whatI'm saying. And so that thing is
if you know, you want betterfor yourself and for you to be a
but to grow for you, youhave to have those boundaries. And that
means that you have to have thatboundaries for yourself for you, and you
can't worry about nobody else. Youunderstand what I'm saying. Nah, that
(38:14):
makes sense, cause that's kind oflike around'm at now, Like that was
a part of you know, goingon a trip, cause it was a
dulo trip like I was by myself. And it's just I had did a
terror reading about a year ago andthe girl that did it, she said,
a lot of your problem is thepeople that you're round is lowering your
worth. She said. It's likeyou're around the same stagnant people that still
wanna do the stuff that y'all didback when you was twenty, Like you're
(38:36):
thirty now, it's like a lotof that stuff it's born to you,
it's old to you now. It'slike you were talking about real estate.
It's like I just recently signed upfor the first Homeowners program, so it's
like I'm trying to like build myself. But it's like I kind of feel
bad cause it's like you don't wannapush your loved ones away. But at
the same time, though, it'slike when you think about it, like
what's really holding you back? Andthat's holding you back? You want to
(39:00):
say somewhere to go ahead. Baby, you can't always take everybody with you
because everybody don't always want to seeyou succeed. So there has to be
a step that you take yourself todo it for yourself. Maybe you can
reach back later and help what's gotto do it for you? Yeah,
you know, it's the thing thatI always said about us outliving seasons with
each other with people. We outliveseasons with each other because we feel like
(39:23):
we have to be there for thatperson. And I remember having this conversation,
like I believe it was last weekwith doctor Will and we were talking
about survival remorse. About survival remorseis that sometimes we feel like if we
do better or we do something changethat we're not being We're not down like
(39:49):
we was before with you know,our homeboys or homegirls or whatever in the
community. And sometimes people will say, well, you know you Hollywood,
or you can do better then,and they said, yeah, well I
do think I'm better than what Iwas because I'm growing. You know,
you grow, you know a lotof people don't. A lot of people
are afraid to grow. They areafraid of the unknown. You understand what
(40:09):
I'm saying, And in that way, it stifles you because you continue to
try to be there. That's notwho you are anymore. You understand,
understand, and actually you were reallynever that, but you allow yourself to
be there just so they can becomfortable because you're not comfortable, so you're
(40:29):
making sure that they're not comfortable.So in that moment, you are not
being your authentic self. So evenin all of those relationships that you are
with those people, you are notyour authentic self. So who what harm
is doing it to? Who?To you? Not to them, but
to you? So now you haveto look at the mirror and say,
(40:50):
am I worthy of more for myself? I like that, appreciate that greatly.
But you're welcome deutely, man,I appreciate that. Always a blessing
chat with you. Know, weappreciate you all every trip every week,
y'all. Keep doing your thing andshout out to YouTube dog good. Keep
(41:14):
spending time with yourself and knowing whoyou are because, like I said,
having an intimate relationship with yourself.Believe me, when you look up,
there's gonna be people around you justgonna appreciate your worth and understand your growth
and celebrate your growth. If anything, they will assist in your growth.
Right, ladies, Well, Igotta get back all right, you have
(41:37):
a good one. Thank you givingme all right? All right, it's
your gritty guy's banks here on AskNaomi Bridging the Gap podcast. Yeah,
well I told you we talked abouteverything over here. It's okay, we
do we talk about everything. Here'syou know, somebody has said it was
(41:59):
it was mcguiluzel. Yeah, DonMiguel. Yes, that's the name,
and it's it's a great book.I actually gifted it to a few people
as well. Yes, the bookis amazing. I'm telling you. Once
you read this book, you'll belike four Agreements, Okay, the four
(42:19):
agreements, Yes, the four agreements. If y'all hear me out there,
the four is an amazing book.An amazing book. Amazing book. I
mean, so, I got anotherquestion for you. What advice would you
give to those who are curious aboutexploring the world of courtesan at the money
ranch? Do it, honestly doit? How would you know until you
(42:46):
try it right first and foremost,and don't try not to go into it
comparing yourself, like in any situation, don't compare your self to everybody else.
Don't but try it. See ifyou could do it. It could
be something you've developed all these skillsthroughout the years that actually helped benefit you
(43:10):
in that realm right and push youfurther and succeed and it allows you to
achieve and accomplish things that you wantright now. For you, how have
you been able to learn to communicatewith people humanly by doing being in this
field of work, Like, hasit made you jaded to some people or
(43:34):
what? Definitely not not jaded,but it's made me have to explore all
avenues of communication. We're not justtalking about I asked a question, you
give me your answer and I acceptit. I have to listen to your
tone. I have to pay attentionto your body language. I have to
know when to push and ask afollow up question needs you to open up
(43:57):
more. I've actually had to learnthat you have to be more patient with
people mm hmm that are shy,are not as social, or who possibly
are on the spectrum. There's awide variety of thing. So it's definitely
(44:19):
showing me I had to be morepatient and just be more open. What's
your most memorable experience at the BuddyRanch. Oh, there's too many memorable.
Well, my top one. Myfirst one would be a gentleman who
had come in picked me out inLantup. Granted I hoped out of bed
(44:45):
ran straight to Lantup, so Ihadn't fully gotten ready yet partied with me
and then want it's to rebook andadded another lady, and then when it's
party again and at another one.Uh. It was a great experience because
he was it was his way oftrying to get over a divorce. But
(45:07):
for him, we were inviting nicewar. It was just about him having
a good time that he said,we dispelled what he thought it was going
to be. He thought we werejust going to be money hungry, what
have you mean? And so forth, and he's like, no, all
of you have been great, andthat was that would be my very first
(45:30):
memorable experience that bunny. Mmmm mmmm. So I had let me see,
let me see, let me see, I'm looking through and making sure that
I have all the I'm looking.I'm looking. I know I'm looking all
(45:51):
right. So, beyond physical intimacy, what do you believe is the most
important aspect of building meaningful connections withyour clients at the bunny ranch? Not
being judgmental, which I generally goin not being judgmental, and life is
(46:13):
difficult for anyone not to be toexhibit some form of judgment, but you
have to honestly not judging. Youneed the whole story if you don't judge
somebody, right, So, yeah, not being judgmental. Right, So
your relationships with the other ladies,and how is that is it more of
(46:35):
a sister you know, hood typeof thing or is more of this coworkers?
Actually, for me personally, it'smore of a sisterhood. So we
hang out, we go eat,we get pedicures. You do signs together.
We do silly things together even there, like run through the house just
(46:57):
because maybe we have some down time. Mm hmmm. We're taking balloons and
doing the helium voice, which isvery it's so fun ordering the what is
it the jellybees that you don't knowwhat the flavors are and we record each
(47:20):
other's reactions to the flavor. Yeah. It was definitely a sisterhood, and
we generally really try to work together. They're not just coworkers to me.
I don't think I could just havecoworkers, right because we're all there to
make money, and if I can'tmake money, I'm going to try to
make sure somebody else can't. Right. So, how long? How long
have you been working doing this?So it's the Bunny rest of only Raffel
(47:46):
that you worked with? I haveyou worked with multiple So I've done done
Bunny and Cherry's, but Sherry's wasvery very very early on just to see.
But I've been with Funny what isthis two thousand and four. I
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started in two thousand and five,and I took a seven year vacation in
two thousand and seven, came backin twenty thirteen and have been there since.
But again shorter time frames. Yeahyeah. During the seven years,
(48:35):
I lived off of the money thatI had made in two years. Oh
oh no, yeah nice nice.All right, So the show is coming
to you. So if it's anythingthat you want to share, any projects
that you got going on, ifyou want to share the next time you're
(48:55):
going to be there, you knowthat you know what's you got going on.
Projects more personal, I'd rather nottalk about it yet because you know,
sometimes putting them out there in theuniverse, the universe happens. Anyhow,
I plan to be there. Iam there May tenth to the no
(49:22):
No, May seventh to the seventeenth, and in July fourteenth to the twenty
fourth. That's all I have scheduledfor this year. Okay, if anyone
will like, they can follow meon Twitter at my Remy Martin. I
have an Instagram. I don't reallyuse it and update it that much,
(49:45):
but it's my underscore Remy Underscore Martin. We also have a Moonlight butter Rich
message board where you can pretty muchmeet me and get to know any of
the other ladies with the hoff uhbrothels because we have three so but Moonlight
(50:06):
is the flagship. If you will. Okay, Okay, so let me
ask you this. Have you evermet the owner? Yes, he was
around a lot when he was alive. He was very hands on in the
everyday workings of everything at all ofthe brothels. So yeah, okay,
(50:30):
definitely. All right, Well beautiful, I thank you again for showing yeah,
for coming out and just sharing yourstory, a little bit of it
that we were able to hear.And I wasn't gonna say it was just
like really and it's no. Iwanted to ask some more, but I
(50:51):
think I'm gonna I'm away because Iwould love to have you back, yeah,
some of them, Yeah, yeah, I would. I would love
to have you back some other timeto where you can truly be able to
share what you got going on inyour property. Because one thing is that
I want to be able to showis that we are so multi dimensional and
(51:13):
that we are just not one way, and that even though this is a
career that we have chosen, that'sin that that sex field. Once again,
that is a career, it's acareer that were chosen. It is
not who we are, you know, That's not who we are. Again.
I congratulate you on your other businessand there is that you do have.
(51:36):
Again, I thank you so muchfor coming and showing us love here
at Aks Naomi, and good luck, and you'd be safe out there and
stay connected with me, say stayconnected, but I want to show these
pictures. I really like these pictures, right, yes, yes, tall
(52:01):
them right? Yeah? I seehow tall I am? Right? So
I told you you said smell right, Yes, I'm like six bos he
was, yeah, but I'm fourfor eleven, so yes, yes,
(52:24):
yeah, Oh goodness, Oh wow, that's a cute pictures. Thank you?
Was like cute? That was thatwas so cute. So the one
that's the after party right and thatthat was the after party, Yeah,
after party at the Caesars, Yes, yeah them Caesar party, but something
(52:44):
else. It was fun. Ididn't get back to my room at Cosmo
until like six am, so yeah, yes, good times. It was
good times again, And thank youso much. It's good to see your
beautiful face. YEA. Truly besafe out there, right, I will
(53:07):
be safe definitely always here in Chicago. All right, bye bye, all
right to my beautiful people. Ithank you all for just showing so much
love and coming on here. Ihope you truly enjoyed the show today,
if you could also hear the replaythat we were put up on Tuesday on
(53:27):
Tuesday, but also make sure youguys if you guys are following right here
on YouTube or put on a notificationbecause next week, next week we have
the Sexy and I love his story. His story was that he was an
arrow space engineer, you know,turned a multi award winning he just wanted
(53:51):
quite a few wards these past fewyears in the industry's Detroit nat up John
Legendary. He will be joining meon the stage next week, so it
will be this is actually this isour first male performer that we have here
on stage. We had mister MarcusLive and we did this show last last
year in Las Vegas, but thisis the first one that we have so
(54:14):
I won't try to show up sobecause I know you guys got a lot
of questions for the guys, becauseyou know you usually have questions for the
girls when they come home. Butyeah, but again, I thank you
all for coming out again. Weare here every Thursday at six pm Pacific
Tentard Time Live, and like Isaid, we talk about everything from love,
sex, relationship, cultural differences andso much more and I really get
(54:35):
I talk about self love a lot, a lot that I created a whole
nother podcast, the Season of SelfLove. And actually next week we will
be celebrating our hundredth episode. Yes, one hundred episodes, so it's already
been one hundred episodes over there atthe season and self love not because I
do it every Monday Monday through Friday. Is that I do. And again
(54:57):
I thank you, I thank youeverybody that came out and showed love.
If you guys want some love,sex or relationship advice, I do share
it here on here and you canemail me and asks Naomi and I spell
it for you. That's a sk n y oh and mi gmail again
(55:20):
as well as go check out myother podcast, the Season of Self Love.
You go to Season of Self Lovepodcast dot com and check that out
as well. All right, soyou guys enjoy your weekend. Tomorrow is
good, Friday, Easter is onSunday. I'm going on a menu vacation
tomorrow. Yes, so you guysenjoy it all. And again keep it
(55:42):
sex heys, and I hope you'veenjoyed that last episos Naomi and if you
d please like subscribe, as wellas comments I see you as Naomi Bridge
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it shragurt. He got his NamyBanks here on her ex name on Bridgie
Gap podcast and I am so readyfor this guest, this beautiful young lady.
Actually, she reminded me. Shereminded me where I originally met her.
Well, I originally met her,but the thing is is that she
had been following me for some timeand she was just showing me so much
(04:32):
love on here. And I'm like, let me go check this young lady
out. I want to go checkout. I said, Oh okay,
I said, I would love toreally hear her story. And I believe
she is from my hometown as well. The beautiful miss Remy Martin Liz Berger
to the stage. Well, Hi, I'm you. I'm good and you
(04:54):
thank you for having me so thankyou for coming on and sharing your story
with me. When you send methat email today and I and you say,
you know, I had to showyou two pictures that you know that
I ran across you. I metyou before, and I was looking.
I was like, oh, butthe crazy thing is I had a conversation
with one of my girlfriends the otherday and she said, you're gonna have
(05:15):
this young lady on there, youknow, And I said, yeah,
I said, but I don't knowwhy. I feel like I've met her
before, but I don't remember.Definitely, It's okay, it was,
it was it was some time ago. Yeah, it was some time.
It was. It was some timeago. But again, everybody, this
is the beautiful miss Remy Martin andshe works at the iconic Bunny Ranch.
(05:40):
Yes, so so let me letme tell you. I don't know if
you've been watching adia shows before,but my whole thing is to make it
comfortable for you, is to makeit so comfortable with you, but as
you're able to share your story bbecause I know I've saw a lot of
clippings that you had sent me aswell as that you're an advocate for sex
(06:01):
workers and to break the stigma onsex workers and what it is. And
that's something that I truly do loveand admire about all of you all,
I mean as well as me.But y'all like on the front with it,
and I admire that, but alsofor you to have the courage to
share your story with us today,you know here, and so what I
(06:21):
want you to do first, becauseI can do a lot of talking,
as you see, I want youto go ahead and introduce yourself to my
audience right now. All right,my loyal listeners, this is the Goddess
Samory Banks here, and I justwanted to just add something onto this show.
We did a live recording this pastlast Thursday with this beautiful young lady
(06:43):
and we were having some technical difficultieshere for quite for a while. And
then so now what I'm going todo is I had to cut it off
somewhere somehow to bring her back in. So now where you're going to see
now what you're going to hear now, excuse me, is her coming in
after we were able to correct inour connection. All right, enjoy the
(07:06):
rest of the podcasts. Welcome backat Shraagurty got his Lamy Banks here on
acts name of Virgil podcast. Yes, and you know the Internet, we
we it don't be doing us,right, it just doesn't be doing us.
Yeah. We need some loving overhere, y'all. We need some
loving over here. I want toshout out to my BTG crew. Hey,
(07:27):
hey, hey, hey hey,and everybody else that is listening to
us and viewing us simultaneously. Allover right now live, I thank you
and I welcome you all. I'mhere to ax Slam virgin To podcast and
we do have a very beautiful guesttoday. And I know we were having
some little technical difficulties, but that'sall about life. That's that's how life
is. And we're gonna overcome it, right, We're gonna overcome it right,
(07:50):
all right, So I believe wehave her back, the beautiful miss
Remy Martin. Yes, well dowe yes? Girl? Yes? Oh.
I loved of your voice. Thankyou, thank you. I had
to resort to one of those oldschool that they give you on an airplane.
(08:13):
Have this technology don't work for you. So when we left, I
left off with a question, askedyou, what's been your most revealing thing
about yourself that you learned from beingin the industry. For me, it
would have to be not really orhaving to learn not to care what other
(08:35):
people thought of me pretty much thatbecause going into it, I wondered if
I was too short, too dark, if anyone would like me? And
I got to the point where I'mnot perfect, but I'm perfect. I'm
imperfectly perfect. Does that make sense? Yes? And I'm my deal to
(09:00):
someone, not everyone, and Idon't want to actually be ideal to everyone.
But yeah, so let me askyou, how did you get into
that good? Okay? So itstarted with friends and I watching a cat
House an episode on HBO because theyhad a series, and yeah, we
(09:26):
were drinking. I was in mytwenties. We all said we were gonna
apply lo and behold. I foundout I was the only one who actually
did, and Madame Susett called me, helped me and said, we'd love
to have you out that I foundout out that my friends didn't actually apply.
(09:50):
When I got myself, I waslike, we're going writing and you're
like, we were joking, wewere drinking, like we aren't serious,
and I'm like okay, And withthe opportunity, I was like, f
it, try it. You youcan lead the most or the least.
You can say you had this experiencethat went roller didn't so right, So
(10:13):
you're right, So so walk usthrough that first experience. Now you have
you, you're now at you.Now pull up to the Bunny Ranch and
I can imagine it probably doesn't looklike what it looks like on TV,
you know. So now you're pullingup, you're you're pulling up to the
Bunny Ratch and walk us through itpretty much. You get picked up at
(10:33):
the airport with your belongings. Youget taken to the bunny Ranch. You
go through these white uh right irongate uh and you go upstairs. You
meet the staff or some of thestaff. You fill out paperwork because you
have to get and it's not apert car, you're your car so you
(10:58):
can be a license and prostitute inthe state of Nevada. You get a
room, you meet a couple ofpeople, You read through this thick pamphlet
of info which actually everyone should read, like really read it. And then
(11:20):
you just after you filled that out, you go and doctor the next day
because we're legally obliged to or legallyhave to. And you go after that.
Once you've received your paperwork backs clearingyou help wise, you go and
(11:43):
you meet with the Sheriff's office.They take your photo, you've give them
the paperwork you filled out, andyou pay your annual fee to become a
license first to you go to thesheriff's office. Yeah, they take you
to the shriff's office. Yes,after you've cleared your medical plarence medical.
(12:07):
So let me ask this because Iknow not only mean because when you said
the sheriff, So I'm like,so why would why do they take you
there? Because I'm used to seeingpeople get busted for being pros. Say
they took you to the sheriff.Okay, So when you go to the
sheriff's office, you have to bea license. You have to get a
license, just like a uh anaino a note in a casino if you're
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going to be a dealer in acasino, or uh, what's the other
job in the casino? Like,these are jobs that you need to they
need to do background checks for Okay, Okay, they do the same thing
with us. Okay, Okay,it's a license. It's a sheriff's card
for you legally to be able towork in the state of Nevada and that
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county for whatever it is. Okay, now what you was gonna say,
I think almost every count only workingthe bat it has to go to the
sheriff office to get approved of whateverjob they're doing. Yeah, oh wow,
airport airport, semos, the hotelsall about money. If you're get
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in some, they want some,you know, taxes, they got what
they call fees. Definitely. Allright. So now you went all of
that, you went through all thelegal ality of it, everything like that.
You got tested a panel of test. Is that's something that we had
to do in the industry, geta panel of tests and make sure that
we was clean and clear. Solet me ask you this, how often
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do you do you have to gettested? Oh, we can tested every
week, every week, every week. It's part of about a state law.
The only test I think that happensonce a month is the blood tests,
but the culture and everything happens everyevery week. Yes, okay,
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definitely, okay, all right,So this is my next question for you.
Throughout your life journey, which chaptercan you say needed the most healing
in reference to the industry or justin general, just in general? How
how do you feel to answer?In general? I needed to heal more
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with trying to fix relationships, withmy relationship with my mother and my sister.
I've healed from that, but I'vealso I've pretty much done a cut
off late no contact. I can'ttoo toxic so let me ask you this.
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Had that come because of your choiceof your career or was that something
that happened before that that was somethingthat's strictly heard nothing to do with my
career. M interesting. All right, So here go my last personal question
for you. What is the essencea Remy Martin? Okay, sensual seduct
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the sultry, quirky funny. Idon't know how to answer that, you
know, honestly, there is noright or wrong way to answer, and
it's and I usually give that questionbecause I really want not only yourself but
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others to see the author the authenticityof you and who you are. And
usually when we're able to be ableto express the essence of who we are,
it kind of takes that that maskoff what people think of us.
Ask you understand what I'm saying.Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
So there's no there's no right orwrong way to answer it. So
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you're good. So this is whatI want to do. I want you
to relax because you live like,okay, where am I going? The
road shops? Okay? Yeah,I had to switch up and I'm like
okay, yeah, no set up. Yeah, you're good. You're good.
So let me ask you this.Yeah, because I know me being
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coming from the industry and being instry, we always have this the wrong misconception
of us. What has been foryou the biggest misconception of people have about
the life of or quarters at theiconic body ratch hmm. Unfortunately, it
would have to be the fact thatmost black cortissants, any ranch ship at
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this point is beholden to a pimp. Or say that again, is beholden
to a pimp? Answer to apamp. I don't know why that's such
a stigma. Well, we probablydo if we look at societal things,
but that we have families with likethree plus kids waiting on us and that
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really isn't the case, or we'rehard up, or we're in dire streets,
just a bevy of negative things rightright. Here's my next question.
How do you navigate the line betweenintimacy and business in your role? As
of course, Oh, I tryto be very straightforward and very direct with
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my wording because I never want tosay something and you hear one thing and
it's not what I meant. Sodefinitely trying to make sure communication is is
received well on both bands. Mhm. So I'm going down. I'm just
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going down my list right now.And in what ways? And I hit
a dog want to say something too, In what ways do you believe the
industry can do better support and upliftcorotissans like yourself more putting us in a
forehront more hmm. I think ourindustry there are all walks of life,
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all nationalities and people. Very rarelydo you see many black women held in
the spotlight in our industry. Yeah, raally so. And that's not my
dog, that's the other dogs onthe block. But that's the main thing
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to put them in the life more. Yeah, you know, there there's
something, there's something that we talkabout a lot often about the stigma behind
especially when you talk about with theblack community, the stigma of sex workers,
whether they're strippers, start as adult. Actually now you are criticism,
you know for you and you seeas the counterparts more of the whiter European
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they more glamorize it a lot morethan you do with you know us,
you know with that, what doyou think of that? Because it's more
of a taboo. What's your what'syour gluve behind that? I would love
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it if people didn't feel that wayabout it. There are a but that
a lot of gentlemen seem to havewhen reaching out to black quar zoons or
ladies in the sex industry is weare I'm just gonna say cheaper and whatever
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I aspect that may be, orwe'll deal with more than our other counterparts.
And that's simply not true. No, I totally understand that one.
Okay, how do you handle societyjudgments or stigma associated with your profession?
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And what do you think can bedone to change the perception? Generally is
having a conversation with someone and openingup a bit more so that they can
understand where I'm coming from, butalso receiving where they're coming from and what
led them to feel that way orhave that stigma. Honestly, I think
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people just need to accept people forwho they are, no matter what they
are and how they've gone through lifeand their paths and everything else. We
all have gone through the same things. Doesn't this doesn't matter right right?
And it shouldn't at least? Yeah, Now for you, your support system,
how does your support system looks lookin doing this field of work,
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I should have a very good supportsystem. They're definitely They're in my corner
all the time, some much sothat I'll get a text there like hey,
we know you're out there. You'regood. We heard from here in
three days, and I'm like,no, I've just been busy. I'm
okay, are you sleeping? No, not really, but I'm good.
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They know that I am intrinsically stillmean, and I'm not going to do
anything that I don't want to do. I don't I'm not forced to do
anything that I want to do.I say no whenever I want, and
I'm in a safe place. Andwho are they to judge me for doing
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what's good and beneficial for me?Right? Mmm? Okay, I have
another question, so m h mhm oh no the punker's lips. I
know, I know, I know. See I got like a cars right
here with it, and I'm like, h not like that. It's like,
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oh wow, all right, Sobecause you answered, you know quite
a few. So no, I'mabout to be nosy, right, because
this is one of the questions thatwe all get as sex workers. How
have it been in your personal lifedating? Okay, so I don't really
date the people I had I havedated. We're understanding and what I do
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but at the same time, someare just not okay with their thoughts and
their stigma on what I do,if that makes any sense. So you
can know me as a person andwe're dating and know that I'm at this
place, this is what I do. When I leave there, that's that's
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there. I don't bring this time. There are people who are okay with
it one on one, but familyand friends of theirs minding out, they're
not because they have to deal with, you know, their stigma, the
other people's stigma about it. Andthen there are gentlemen who, yeah,
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that's that's cool, okay, Butthere are also people that yeah, just
we're good, we're friends, we'rebuddies, right right, So you know
how the the old American goal,the goal is to be married with children
with the picket fence in the house. And that's something that you desire.
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That is nowhere close to what Idesire. White picket fence, no rid
ron fits, okay, but children. I'm the oldest of five and I
helped raise them. I am I'mI'm happy being an aunt and uh I'm
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a fur parent to a two hundredpounds great Dane and a brown tabby cat
and some KOI I'm an aunt,I'm I'm they're they're all the little people
I need. Okay, okay,okay, So no man, like you
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don't need a man or a partneror a lifelong you know, to just
live out, you know. Sothis is my next Let me move on,
Let me move let me let mebecause you're like, nah, I
don't want I don't want to pickyour fist. I want the kids I
want. I got my fur dogs, my animals, my fur babies.
So let's go from this because Iknow this is a question that banda.
Is the money good in it?Like? How often do you have to
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do it? Is the money goodfor me personally? Yes? So I'm
generally at the bunny ranch two tothree times a year for probably ten to
maybe twelve days at a time.Okay, wait, do the caculation right?
(25:48):
Want to work right? So shesaid, she said that she was
at least two or three times ayear. Yes, when she's there,
she's at least there ten to twelve, ten to twelve days part time.
So said, we give you that'sless general, less month, a month
and a week of something like that. Yeah, and you're agent to live
off of that what you make inthat throughout the whole year. I can,
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definitely, But I also have areal estate properties, I do catering
at home. But I honestly feellike the more I'm there, the more
accessible I am, the less moneyI make. So I am there less
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because when I'm there, I comein, I book, I make my
money, hang out with girls fromone, nine or two, and I'm
out m seven. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. So
let's do this. We're gonna openup the lines. Are you cool with
us opening up the phone lines?Yes, as long as they're okay with
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me saying yeah, I'm not gonnaanswer that question. Oh that's yes,
all right, Like before we goa break and we open up the phone,
like, do you have any questionsfor her? You know, I
think one of the questions that sheanswered is where how much? How longer
is she there? I mean,that's one thing that I was just wanting.
(27:15):
You have to be there three fourweeks, but you said you there
right for about six weeks throughout ayear. Yeah, So I guess the
money you make there, you youdid very very good things with it with
property and all that. So definitely, yeah, I like that actually invested
in the money that you have,So this is kind of money for itself.
So this is this is my lastquestion right now before we go to
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break, before we open up thelines for you. Is there an end
to this, like do you havea well, I see you have a
retiring pistil could because you get yourreal estate in your other business. Is
there a time that you say,okay, I'm done. Have you given
yourself an age limit or you're justgoing by, you know whatever. I
feel like it's time for me togo out, then I'm going to go.
So initially before COVID, mm hmm, that was supposed to be my
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last year because at that point Iwas like, okay, I'm good.
Everything said savings, all this COVIDhappened, Yeah, and I lived off
my savings. But I also havea parent that I helped take care of
and more recently my dad is neededmore and more help. Mm hmmm.
(28:23):
So at this point I'm like,I have to I really do have to
play it by year now and Ihave projects. I'm renovating different rooms in
my house. I don't know,taking two to three weeks to do a
meta uh European trip like things thatit allows me to do I need to
do. Okay, So okay,I like that. All right, all
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right, guys, we're gonna openup the lines. We're gonna take a
quick break first. But here's thephone. They could call them asks Miss
Remy Martin, but we're gonna berespectful when we ask these questions, right,
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us really thank you, thank youfor having me. Definitely, Yeah,
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through here, right here. Allright, So we got somebody, well,
hello, Hey, what's happening man? How y'all doing going good?
I see change the name of what'shappening that? Yeah, so that all
(32:58):
got dj Okay, we know yourreal information? Nah, you know my
initi that So that's all good though. Well, welcome, welcome back to
bed and seen you in a minute. Yeah, you know, just been
working, just trying to know,do a little bit of little isolation.
(33:20):
Actually, been doing a little bitof traveling. Just came back from LA
to New York. So just beenjust been building lately. And Naomi,
I want to go back to oneof your episodes that I keep going back
to, when you were talking aboutthe four elements I think before for agreements.
Ye okay, yes, like thatepisode was so fired. I don't
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think you realized because it's like thelady at my job, like at first,
like people used to be afraid ofthis lady, and like after your
episode, it was like doing itsoon and doing the sooner. It was
like chopping it up with this lady, seeing where she come from. It's
like now it's not kind of wordlike she give me the hugs, like
oh, you're back for vacation.How you doing this that? And people
(34:04):
are looking at me like she gaveyou a hug, Like she's actually nice.
It's like doing it soon. It'slike doing the soon what people going
through. So I'm constantly gonna goback to that episode of that episode is
so fied and Naomi, I appreciateit. I do. I appreciate it.
I talked to someone I was onthe show the other day and I
talked to them about that book.It's got four the Four Agreements by oh
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my god, what's his name,Diaz? Oh my god, but yeah,
it's called the Four Grids. Ican't think right now, but it's
it's an amazing book. I don'tknow, Remy, have you heard of
that book, The Four Agreements?I can't say that I have. It
is an amazing book. It wasso amazing that I had to do a
whole show on this book. Ittruly will change your perspective on how to
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communicate with others, understand, youknow, personal people, personable better.
You know it really, man,that's the whole Yeah that's yeah, Yeah,
that's that's a whole nother Yeah,that's a whole nother show that's going
on right there. But most definitelyall right, So, do you have
a question for Remy? You knowmy favorite question for all the guests,
(35:15):
you got to ask it. Ican't you asked. I gotta ask her
a question. And I want toask who your favorite rappers? I don't
know favorite rapper. I'm probably gonnasa I'm gonna go with you. I
(35:37):
probably listened to the most at thispoint, Megan, at this point,
who I've listened to the most?Just shocked him because he was for a
male. He looking for you tosay over there line, No, No,
I'm not question lady rappers, mailrappers, rappers. That's like the
(36:00):
episode with Stacey was on she puttingme on the who sugar free was never
heard of him to that episode.Yeah, so now you never know who
you who. A person might saysay artists never heard look them up.
Listen to his essentials. Yeah,no, but definitely want to say,
you know, shout out to youladies. I appreciate your and y'all.
(36:22):
Definitely keep holding the doll trying,no trying, you're doing, you're doing.
I know. That's why. Thankyou to continuing showing love here and
just supporting us here on asks Diama, you know you want of the day?
Was there you want of today?One? So I really appreciate you.
I appreciate it. I just askedone thing about self love and your
(36:44):
opinion on this. How do youfeel about like separating yourself like from certain
individuals like separation. Well, that'swhen you put up your boundaries. That's
something that I talk about a lot. Go over to the season a self
Love podcast. I'm on the Monday. Yeah, but you know, honestly,
(37:07):
for real, just to you,you have to do that. A
lot of times we when we areborn into families, into these communities and
families of relationship, we always believeand think that just because we are in
those relationships, that we have tostay in that toxicity of those relationships,
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and we don't the problem is thatwe don't allow ourselves to move outside of
those relationships as we grow and aswe grow, when we leave outside of
those relationship, we would go back. They're no longer a line of who
we are today. You understand whatI'm saying. So and you removing yourself
and me and finding your peace withyou that's not a bad thing. It
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might be for them because they feellike I'm not I don't have access to
him anymore. You gonna see whatI'm saying. And so that thing is
if you know, you want betterfor yourself and for you to be a
but to grow for you, youhave to have those boundaries. And that
means that you have to have thatboundaries for yourself for you, and you
can't worry about nobody else. Youunderstand what I'm saying. Nah, that
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makes sense, cause that's kind oflike around'm at now, Like that was
a part of you know, goingon a trip, cause it was a
dulo trip like I was by myself. And it's just I had did a
terror reading about a year ago andthe girl that did it, she said,
a lot of your problem is thepeople that you're round is lowering your
worth. She said. It's likeyou're around the same stagnant people that still
wanna do the stuff that y'all didback when you was twenty, Like you're
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thirty now, it's like a lotof that stuff it's born to you,
it's old to you now. It'slike you were talking about real estate.
It's like I just recently signed upfor the first Homeowners program, so it's
like I'm trying to like build myself. But it's like I kind of feel
bad cause it's like you don't wannapush your loved ones away. But at
the same time, though, it'slike when you think about it, like
what's really holding you back? Andthat's holding you back? You want to
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say somewhere to go ahead. Baby, you can't always take everybody with you
because everybody don't always want to seeyou succeed. So there has to be
a step that you take yourself todo it for yourself. Maybe you can
reach back later and help what's gotto do it for you? Yeah,
you know, it's the thing thatI always said about us outliving seasons with
each other with people. We outliveseasons with each other because we feel like
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we have to be there for thatperson. And I remember having this conversation,
like I believe it was last weekwith doctor Will and we were talking
about survival remorse. About survival remorseis that sometimes we feel like if we
do better or we do something changethat we're not being We're not down like
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we was before with you know,our homeboys or homegirls or whatever in the
community. And sometimes people will say, well, you know you Hollywood,
or you can do better then,and they said, yeah, well I
do think I'm better than what Iwas because I'm growing. You know,
you grow, you know a lotof people don't. A lot of people
are afraid to grow. They areafraid of the unknown. You understand what
(40:09):
I'm saying, And in that way, it stifles you because you continue to
try to be there. That's notwho you are anymore. You understand,
understand, and actually you were reallynever that, but you allow yourself to
be there just so they can becomfortable because you're not comfortable, so you're
(40:29):
making sure that they're not comfortable.So in that moment, you are not
being your authentic self. So evenin all of those relationships that you are
with those people, you are notyour authentic self. So who what harm
is doing it to? Who?To you? Not to them, but
to you? So now you haveto look at the mirror and say,
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am I worthy of more for myself? I like that, appreciate that greatly.
But you're welcome deutely, man,I appreciate that. Always a blessing
chat with you. Know, weappreciate you all every trip every week,
y'all. Keep doing your thing andshout out to YouTube dog good. Keep
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spending time with yourself and knowing whoyou are because, like I said,
having an intimate relationship with yourself.Believe me, when you look up,
there's gonna be people around you justgonna appreciate your worth and understand your growth
and celebrate your growth. If anything, they will assist in your growth.
Right, ladies, Well, Igotta get back all right, you have
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a good one. Thank you givingme all right? All right, it's
your gritty guy's banks here on AskNaomi Bridging the Gap podcast. Yeah,
well I told you we talked abouteverything over here. It's okay, we
do we talk about everything. Here'syou know, somebody has said it was
(41:59):
it was mcguiluzel. Yeah, DonMiguel. Yes, that's the name,
and it's it's a great book.I actually gifted it to a few people
as well. Yes, the bookis amazing. I'm telling you. Once
you read this book, you'll belike four Agreements, Okay, the four
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agreements, Yes, the four agreements. If y'all hear me out there,
the four is an amazing book.An amazing book. Amazing book. I
mean, so, I got anotherquestion for you. What advice would you
give to those who are curious aboutexploring the world of courtesan at the money
ranch? Do it, honestly doit? How would you know until you
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try it right first and foremost,and don't try not to go into it
comparing yourself, like in any situation, don't compare your self to everybody else.
Don't but try it. See ifyou could do it. It could
be something you've developed all these skillsthroughout the years that actually helped benefit you
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in that realm right and push youfurther and succeed and it allows you to
achieve and accomplish things that you wantright now. For you, how have
you been able to learn to communicatewith people humanly by doing being in this
field of work, Like, hasit made you jaded to some people or
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what? Definitely not not jaded,but it's made me have to explore all
avenues of communication. We're not justtalking about I asked a question, you
give me your answer and I acceptit. I have to listen to your
tone. I have to pay attentionto your body language. I have to
know when to push and ask afollow up question needs you to open up
(43:57):
more. I've actually had to learnthat you have to be more patient with
people mm hmm that are shy,are not as social, or who possibly
are on the spectrum. There's awide variety of thing. So it's definitely
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showing me I had to be morepatient and just be more open. What's
your most memorable experience at the BuddyRanch. Oh, there's too many memorable.
Well, my top one. Myfirst one would be a gentleman who
had come in picked me out inLantup. Granted I hoped out of bed
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ran straight to Lantup, so Ihadn't fully gotten ready yet partied with me
and then want it's to rebook andadded another lady, and then when it's
party again and at another one.Uh. It was a great experience because
he was it was his way oftrying to get over a divorce. But
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for him, we were inviting nicewar. It was just about him having
a good time that he said,we dispelled what he thought it was going
to be. He thought we werejust going to be money hungry, what
have you mean? And so forth, and he's like, no, all
of you have been great, andthat was that would be my very first
(45:30):
memorable experience that bunny. Mmmm mmmm. So I had let me see,
let me see, let me see, I'm looking through and making sure that
I have all the I'm looking.I'm looking. I know I'm looking all
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right. So, beyond physical intimacy, what do you believe is the most
important aspect of building meaningful connections withyour clients at the bunny ranch? Not
being judgmental, which I generally goin not being judgmental, and life is
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difficult for anyone not to be toexhibit some form of judgment, but you
have to honestly not judging. Youneed the whole story if you don't judge
somebody, right, So, yeah, not being judgmental. Right, So
your relationships with the other ladies,and how is that is it more of
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a sister you know, hood typeof thing or is more of this coworkers?
Actually, for me personally, it'smore of a sisterhood. So we
hang out, we go eat,we get pedicures. You do signs together.
We do silly things together even there, like run through the house just
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because maybe we have some down time. Mm hmmm. We're taking balloons and
doing the helium voice, which isvery it's so fun ordering the what is
it the jellybees that you don't knowwhat the flavors are and we record each
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other's reactions to the flavor. Yeah. It was definitely a sisterhood, and
we generally really try to work together. They're not just coworkers to me.
I don't think I could just havecoworkers, right because we're all there to
make money, and if I can'tmake money, I'm going to try to
make sure somebody else can't. Right. So, how long? How long
have you been working doing this?So it's the Bunny rest of only Raffel
(47:46):
that you worked with? I haveyou worked with multiple So I've done done
Bunny and Cherry's, but Sherry's wasvery very very early on just to see.
But I've been with Funny what isthis two thousand and four. I
(48:10):
started in two thousand and five,and I took a seven year vacation in
two thousand and seven, came backin twenty thirteen and have been there since.
But again shorter time frames. Yeahyeah. During the seven years,
(48:35):
I lived off of the money thatI had made in two years. Oh
oh no, yeah nice nice.All right, So the show is coming
to you. So if it's anythingthat you want to share, any projects
that you got going on, ifyou want to share the next time you're
(48:55):
going to be there, you knowthat you know what's you got going on.
Projects more personal, I'd rather nottalk about it yet because you know,
sometimes putting them out there in theuniverse, the universe happens. Anyhow,
I plan to be there. Iam there May tenth to the no
(49:22):
No, May seventh to the seventeenth, and in July fourteenth to the twenty
fourth. That's all I have scheduledfor this year. Okay, if anyone
will like, they can follow meon Twitter at my Remy Martin. I
have an Instagram. I don't reallyuse it and update it that much,
(49:45):
but it's my underscore Remy Underscore Martin. We also have a Moonlight butter Rich
message board where you can pretty muchmeet me and get to know any of
the other ladies with the hoff uhbrothels because we have three so but Moonlight
(50:06):
is the flagship. If you will. Okay, Okay, so let me
ask you this. Have you evermet the owner? Yes, he was
around a lot when he was alive. He was very hands on in the
everyday workings of everything at all ofthe brothels. So yeah, okay,
(50:30):
definitely. All right, Well beautiful, I thank you again for showing yeah,
for coming out and just sharing yourstory, a little bit of it
that we were able to hear.And I wasn't gonna say it was just
like really and it's no. Iwanted to ask some more, but I
(50:51):
think I'm gonna I'm away because Iwould love to have you back, yeah,
some of them, Yeah, yeah, I would. I would love
to have you back some other timeto where you can truly be able to
share what you got going on inyour property. Because one thing is that
I want to be able to showis that we are so multi dimensional and
(51:13):
that we are just not one way, and that even though this is a
career that we have chosen, that'sin that that sex field. Once again,
that is a career, it's acareer that were chosen. It is
not who we are, you know, That's not who we are. Again.
I congratulate you on your other businessand there is that you do have.
(51:36):
Again, I thank you so muchfor coming and showing us love here
at Aks Naomi, and good luck, and you'd be safe out there and
stay connected with me, say stayconnected, but I want to show these
pictures. I really like these pictures, right, yes, yes, tall
(52:01):
them right? Yeah? I seehow tall I am? Right? So
I told you you said smell right, Yes, I'm like six bos he
was, yeah, but I'm fourfor eleven, so yes, yes,
(52:24):
yeah, Oh goodness, Oh wow, that's a cute pictures. Thank you?
Was like cute? That was thatwas so cute. So the one
that's the after party right and thatthat was the after party, Yeah,
after party at the Caesars, Yes, yeah them Caesar party, but something
(52:44):
else. It was fun. Ididn't get back to my room at Cosmo
until like six am, so yeah, yes, good times. It was
good times again, And thank youso much. It's good to see your
beautiful face. YEA. Truly besafe out there, right, I will
(53:07):
be safe definitely always here in Chicago. All right, bye bye, all
right to my beautiful people. Ithank you all for just showing so much
love and coming on here. Ihope you truly enjoyed the show today,
if you could also hear the replaythat we were put up on Tuesday on
(53:27):
Tuesday, but also make sure youguys if you guys are following right here
on YouTube or put on a notificationbecause next week, next week we have
the Sexy and I love his story. His story was that he was an
arrow space engineer, you know,turned a multi award winning he just wanted
(53:51):
quite a few wards these past fewyears in the industry's Detroit nat up John
Legendary. He will be joining meon the stage next week, so it
will be this is actually this isour first male performer that we have here
on stage. We had mister MarcusLive and we did this show last last
year in Las Vegas, but thisis the first one that we have so
(54:14):
I won't try to show up sobecause I know you guys got a lot
of questions for the guys, becauseyou know you usually have questions for the
girls when they come home. Butyeah, but again, I thank you
all for coming out again. Weare here every Thursday at six pm Pacific
Tentard Time Live, and like Isaid, we talk about everything from love,
sex, relationship, cultural differences andso much more and I really get
(54:35):
I talk about self love a lot, a lot that I created a whole
nother podcast, the Season of SelfLove. And actually next week we will
be celebrating our hundredth episode. Yes, one hundred episodes, so it's already
been one hundred episodes over there atthe season and self love not because I
do it every Monday Monday through Friday. Is that I do. And again
(54:57):
I thank you, I thank youeverybody that came out and showed love.
If you guys want some love,sex or relationship advice, I do share
it here on here and you canemail me and asks Naomi and I spell
it for you. That's a sk n y oh and mi gmail again
(55:20):
as well as go check out myother podcast, the Season of Self Love.
You go to Season of Self Lovepodcast dot com and check that out
as well. All right, soyou guys enjoy your weekend. Tomorrow is
good, Friday, Easter is onSunday. I'm going on a menu vacation
tomorrow. Yes, so you guysenjoy it all. And again keep it
(55:42):
sex heys, and I hope you'veenjoyed that last episos Naomi and if you
d please like subscribe, as wellas comments I see you as Naomi Bridge
(56:04):
the gas. When we talk aboutthe relationship, no different. It's SMA
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