July 16, 2025 • 32 mins
Depraved and Debaucherous has been following controversial trend has emerged among prominent OnlyFans models—pushing boundaries so far they veer uncomfortably close to prostitution and transactional sex.
Central figures in this shift include Britain’s Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips, both notorious for extreme “sex challenges” (claims of 1,057 and 101 men in a single day, respectively) that sparked media frenzy . Their public stunts, while generating massive income and attention—Bonnie Blue reportedly earned £1.4 million a month at one point —also triggered backlash over ethical boundaries, safety, consent, and emotional harm.
Meanwhile, Sophie Rain, based in Tampa, Florida, built a $43 million empire on OnlyFans, carving out a faith-based persona that juxtaposes explicit content with Christian values . Though she hasn’t engaged in physical stunts like Blue or Phillips, her framing of intimacy—often playing into “virgin purity” and teen fantasies—has drawn criticism for commodifying sexuality and blurring moral lines .
Experts and activists warn these patterns suggest a troubling feedback loop: as digital creators escalate for clicks and cash, they inch closer to real-world prostitution, with some even admitting the online boundaries are vague. In Sweden, lawmakers recently classified interactive paid content as prostitution, sparking debate about legal definitions in the digital age.
These developments ignite crucial questions: when does empowering sexual expression tip into exploitation? And is the OnlyFans business model structurally pushing creators toward sex work under the guise of entrepreneurship?
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Central figures in this shift include Britain’s Bonnie Blue and Lily Phillips, both notorious for extreme “sex challenges” (claims of 1,057 and 101 men in a single day, respectively) that sparked media frenzy . Their public stunts, while generating massive income and attention—Bonnie Blue reportedly earned £1.4 million a month at one point —also triggered backlash over ethical boundaries, safety, consent, and emotional harm.
Meanwhile, Sophie Rain, based in Tampa, Florida, built a $43 million empire on OnlyFans, carving out a faith-based persona that juxtaposes explicit content with Christian values . Though she hasn’t engaged in physical stunts like Blue or Phillips, her framing of intimacy—often playing into “virgin purity” and teen fantasies—has drawn criticism for commodifying sexuality and blurring moral lines .
Experts and activists warn these patterns suggest a troubling feedback loop: as digital creators escalate for clicks and cash, they inch closer to real-world prostitution, with some even admitting the online boundaries are vague. In Sweden, lawmakers recently classified interactive paid content as prostitution, sparking debate about legal definitions in the digital age.
These developments ignite crucial questions: when does empowering sexual expression tip into exploitation? And is the OnlyFans business model structurally pushing creators toward sex work under the guise of entrepreneurship?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Podcasting since two thousand and five. This is the King
of Podcasts radio network, Kingopodcasts dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Some of those OnlyFans models getting a little bit cloudy
with their content. Are they really nothing more than prostitutes?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
We're all a.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Little depraved and debaucherous. Here is the King of Podcasts
over the program King of Podcasts here with you. Website
is Kingopodcasts dot com.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
And I would direct all of you to go to
my YouTube page.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
If you can go for the website, you'll see a
link there, or just go to YouTube and look for
at King of Podcasts. If you do a search for
OnlyFans on my page, you'll see I've been talking about
this since twenty twenty. We've tracked it down. Between twenty
twenty and twenty twenty two was the real evolution of
OnlyFans because it was a means to make money. But
(00:57):
then there were those that decided to stay on the platform.
That and the continuation of what's happened, and for a
while there was a little bit of this hesitancy among
content creators that were a little bit perturbed about the
idea that they might be looked at as prostitutes or
sex workers. Because of what they were doing on the platform.
But of course this year everything just blew up because
(01:19):
we started getting models on here that absolutely just did
not care. The door was blown wide open, Lily Phillips,
Bonnie Blue, among others getting all caught up into the
game of OnlyFans and saying, you know what, doesn't matter,
We're just going to get more into it as it
ever was before Lily, as we any Night as well
(01:41):
in the net mix. That was all going on, and
it changed. You know, we have women now going after
major sex challenges, Bonnie Blue with one thy fifty seven men.
We talked about it in February, and then we started
talking about the other that are on here that are
(02:01):
very sexually minded going on, and that was from last year.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
As we last month.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Excuse me when I talked about Sophie Rain and the
kind of vibe she gave, freeing more of the virgin type,
the baby face billionaire fantasy, and with Bonnie Blue being
on the other side being leatherclad dominatures of digital depravity.
It was all that's going on here but a lot
of money being made. But at this point we're starting
(02:28):
to hear some rumblings where only fans, models and consecrators
on only Fans are now being they're going to be
tagged as prostitutes or sex workers, whether you like it
or you don't. So Stree came out in all of
all places Sweden, So only fans right now could be
(02:50):
considered prostitution according to the country of Sweden.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So here's what they're saying so far. They're refuring too.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
A story first of all, of a woman named Sina
hoden Fant saying she needed to get to provide for
her four children. Another woman talking about how she has
six children at home. America Norstrom and only fans was
their way of making money at the time, and Norstrom
says that we don't sell sex. She's been on only
(03:22):
Fans for three years. And again these are mothers getting
on the Only fans of trying to make themselves out there.
They say that they are selling a dream, a fantasy,
or a video or image. They are completely different things.
Now the Swedish government is coming in and categorizing custom
pornography as a form of prostitution, extending to the internet
(03:42):
legislation that has already been banning buying sex in person.
So now in nineteen eighty nine, Sweden passed the Sex
Purchase Acted. Missed the first country to make it illegal
to buy sex but not to sell it. The Nordic
models we hear about, particularly women from prosecution and targeting
men who pay for sex. Now, this most recent amendment
(04:02):
of Swedish law would end what they would say is
buying sex even remotely as a formal exploitation and summing
it even in the virtual world, is a form of prostitution.
If Sweden does this, this will possibly be the key
that picks the lock. We can see precedent here that
could go to other countries, what other countries in Europe
and eventually to the US. Keep an eye on this
(04:25):
and that's what I'm going to do as we do
this here on the praise in the Bachers. Now, this
would make in Sweden only fans illegal, but it would
also severely restrict the ability to operate and halt main
selling point for a fee that users can find the
exact porn that they want. The Ministry of Gender Equality
(04:45):
Needle Larson says the sex industry was moving along and
then moving online into the digital world, and the legislation
needs to follow suit. That's a big deal here. If
that actually happens, and just to give an idea of
the kind of money being made he in this year,
we've talked about the Bob House, when we talked about
Sophie Rain. You have eight young women there in the
Bob House, millions of followers doing free dance videos on TikTok,
(05:10):
and the members have drawing users to their explicit paid
youse profiles, earning them, according to here Elle magazine says,
thirty two million euros a year. So that's what like
what thirty six million dollars. It's big money, big, big
money in a year. So the new law also would say,
in no way takes no account the fact that this
is a legal profession that has been any of her
(05:34):
of a pensurable income for eight years now only fans
has begun to withdraw from Sweden, removing the chat services,
and that followers cannot reach out to some of these
women now anymore or Nordstrom and is still a very
big thing to be able to write to your followers
and create some kind of contact with them. So this
right here Sweden, who would have thought the proponents of
(05:57):
the Nordic model of prostitution now they're looking to go
ahead and make it where it's considered prostitution, and we
made illegal only fans can be taken down because it is.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
So. Here is what I.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Say about it, because Kara Putapat says here that she
now knows several people who have gone back into selling
physical sex. It is usually a greater risk for you
as a person to sell physical sex than it is
to sit and work from home.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
People have only worked.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Online, have no experience in that, they have no knowledge
of how to do it in a safe and secure way.
People are going to die, they say so. The Swedish
government has not met sex workers that could discuss their concerns.
But this is also a very interesting thought process. What
if the Swedish government is able to go and pull
this off here, get this amendment in here to the
(06:50):
Swedish Sex Purchase Act, this Nordic model of prostitution, and
they're telling you it's illegal for you to do.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
The only fans com.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You can't have that side out there, and if there's
any other sites like that, they're also going to get
penalized the same way, which means if you're going to
have sex, it's got to be.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Out in the open in public.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
How many women out there would be concerned if they
couldn't do the kind of sex work they're doing right
now in the closed home environment in their company, in
the confinement of their homes, and if they have to
go and keep doing sex work, they have to go
out to go do it. It's a very interesting question.
(07:34):
So let me repeat that one more time. If this
were to happen, this is a big deal.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
And it can very well happened.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
So customer pornography would be categorized as a former prostitution
extending the Internet the already bands buying sex in person so.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Only fans would become illegal.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
And severely restrict ability to operate, and that you would
actually go back and go out and go back to
the oldest profession and have to make money with your
body with other people. You just can't do it behind
a camera online anymore. To remove the virtual aspect of
(08:16):
OnlyFans and the orn and the prostitution type feel that
it gives because it's transactional at the end of the day,
for those users that are buying content from these models,
these content creators, if they can't do this, they know
they can use their bodies to go ahead and get
money that they need whatever discretionary income or whatever income
(08:38):
they need, will they go out in the street and
sell their bodies without the help of homing fans. I
think everybody should going to be paying attention to this.
If Sweden does something here, I would be not shocked
by it, because in a way, for guys this would
be good because the Nordic model actually in a way
(09:00):
would still kind of help out because then in this.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Particular case, prostitution would be illegal, but.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
In the ways of how they have it, where if
women are going to go ahead and ask your money,
if they want to go and get back to the
old fashioned profession, that's how it's gonna go. I mean,
you're still gonna take the risk of getting together with
a girl and having to go and pay, but it's
the guys that will take the hit. They'll take the risk,
but the women can still go out there and do what
they want and be protected, I mean legally protected, not
(09:29):
necessarily physically protected. Of course, that's a different story in itself,
and I'm not downplaying the risks or the hazard that
women are gonna have to go through if this amendment
were to pass. I'm not diminishing that part at all.
But the thing is is that is it really prostitution
when you think about it. Yeah, it's a safer way
(09:49):
for women to go and do it, but it's not
detrimental for anybody else. It's still mentally hurting those that
are in it. Because the thing is by having only
fans being able to go and have this sex work
content and where there is no interaction physically, then there's
a thought process that is acceptable that women could continue
to do this here and feel like, well, there's no
(10:11):
risk to it when there should be, Like when people
do things online in general. We don't even know that
about social media that if people go online and put
something out there, they don't really feel like there's a risk.
They don't feel like there's any responsibility for what they're
going to say because they're hidden behind a computer screen.
They got a keyboard in front of them. Keyboard warriors.
(10:32):
We hear that phrase a little time. It's because you
feel like nothing's ever going to happen to you. And yeah,
if you get docs, then that's exactly when you'll find
out something's gonna happen to you. But people get into
social media and get on those places like OnlyFans without
understanding the risks involved. If someone were to find you
and learn about you and they can go ahead and
(10:54):
interact with you, it's like a celebrity with a stalker.
They think, oh, you're untouchable. No, you're probably not.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
So.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Imagine if a.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Woman if they wanted to go and continue to go
and live the lifestyle they have according to all these
other women that are here, and they couldn't do it online,
that would actually be good for the case of filtering
out those women that should not be able to go
ahead get in here because they don't have what it
takes to do this kind of profession. If they had
to go out and work on a stripper's hole or
work in a massage parlor, you know, go out on
(11:22):
the street. But there's so many stories about the success
right here and how the only fans stars that are
on here are quite delusional. Unfortunately, because I think in
a way, taking the online barrier away from this, it
determs more women from being only fans models, and you know.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
What, they got to go back to actually dating. The
actually have to go back.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
And if they want to go and make money, if
they want to sell their body for whatever, then they
got to do it like everybody. Every other woman had
to do for one hundreds of years, for decades, for centuries.
Storry from board Panda that has the story of a
twenty one year old onlyfan star that said her parents
helped fund her X rated career. She's twenty one years
(12:11):
old scholar May. This is a new woman that we've
heard about in here recently, is getting a lot of
press right now. She left her dental nursing studies in
favor of an X rayed career that pays her eighteen
thousand dollars a month, helps her look after her parents
and helps her buy a lot of lea different luxuries things.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
The parents are deeply involved. They helped their by laws Ray.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
They're winning at shoots and even flawning her stage name.
May says she's more reserved than her family and sets
boundaries of what she does. She says her dad is
so proud she even has her stage name tattooed on
his arm. The mother drops her off at photo shoots
and waits for her, and when she's staying at a
hotel for work, they checking on here on her. She
(12:53):
went on to say that even though her family is
open and supportive of her way of earning money. There
are boundaries and then she does not talk about everything
that she says. She might be a bit more reserved.
Like I said, this story has been getting out there
quite a bit, you know. They say that both parents
are suffering from health and sues and the money helps
(13:14):
her go forward to put any medical expenses that arise.
And you can tell when I look at her, she
definitely gives that feel of the Sophie Rain type, another
virgin type, which that's the idea of some of this.
Says that the fantasy they either want a woman that's
going to be a complete horror or to go on
the other out.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Of how they're completely prude and never.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Promiscuous, nothing even close like that, but they are suggestive.
One of the things they put out there to kind
of get the press up about it is as they said.
She says that once her grandma heard about what she
was doing, she wanted to be part of the success
and bought her a cute Ryanstone laundry set from Amazon.
She's twenty one years old, by the way, and now
(14:02):
she's in it, and again eighteen thousand dollars a month
about that. But there's another thing that has to be
said about where some of the models that are here
getting to be a part of this. You don't want
them to be a part of this because there's a
lot of things that are dangerous about it. And that's
the part about if you've got people to go into
the open and talk more about it. So there's a
(14:26):
story that came out from lad Bible about Only Fans
started Laila Kelly. She has issues over creepy new trend
that are leading creators violated.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
So now.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Byla Kelly should are warning about other adult content creators
and saying that there are men pretending to be women
to gain access to free content. So for example, they're
feigning interested in geting a boob job and asking for inspiration
pictures from the creator. Now, Layla says these instances is
this is there, not a dime a dozen. But she
(15:01):
was concerned about the images the men were using as
the woman had not like they consented to having a
profile on OnlyFans, So they're using other pictures from outside
Only Fans and just posing as another woman out there
to get things from the men on the site. Posing
as women.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
That's not good. She says that what bothers.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Me the most about this is the clothes and unclothed
images of the women they are using pull this off.
One guy sent her a wedding photo paired with a
driving license, and she knew it had to be his
wife or sister, and she highly dotted she knew what
she was up to. And then she'll asked these men
to prove who they are, but none of them were
(15:45):
due and try to say, well, this is a good
terms of service to be sending photos of anyone but themselves,
but they can't consent to that. But then there are
others that are on here that are posing as who
they are and using wedding photos right carts that convinced
that they're real. Oleela Kelly is a New Zealand Only
(16:06):
Fans star, very popular in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Now.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
She also says, well, roleplay itself is in the issue.
There's a version of this that crosses the line. Quotes
I personally don't have a problem with people to pretend
to be someone else. If that's their fetish, that's okay.
When it crosses the line is when someone who hasn't
consented or given permission is having their identity and photos
use unknowingly.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
You don't think about that.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
If you have guys out there that have interacted with
different girls virtually and they have collected a lot of
different content, whether it's videos or photos, Yeah, I can
see what that can be done.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
I can totally see that being done.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Lucy Banks, who is a more adult performer and as
a marketing agency for creators, says that often the motivation,
quote is to try and get free content out of you,
but they don't realize who they are. And it happens
all the time, so we can see them all away.
But some messages that might come in and will be
into deeply fetishize tetis territory. One subscriber pretending to be
(17:05):
a woman asking graphic detailed questions about guy oncological exams,
going on and on about speculums and internal examinations.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
You could tell us.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Straight away it was a guy. So it's another thing
that's going on that people gotta be aware of. It
could be happening. That's also gotten a lot of traction
out there as well. And at the same time, some
of the images being used as well are newed images,
and who knows that the women have given consent to
that or not.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Which I'm pretty much sure they probably didn't.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
And one of the things that a lot of these
more popular Only Fans models have been doing now is
they're hiring third part third party companies to run their accounts,
providing chatters. They handle all the creator's private messages, so
they might even know what's going on here at all.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
So keep it behind that too.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
If you're chatting with some of these only Fans models,
it might be somebody else that's stop the vactual model,
but it might be somebody prosing ads. So one particular
professional chatter hired by OnlyFans Models is a twenty seven
year old man from Venezuela. So with some of them
that are making so much money, then yeah, they're going
to third party companies that run their pages. I would
(18:17):
have managed your careers if you want to say that.
So there's a lot being behind this online barrier that
you don't know what's going on and you're not sure
what could be happening. But again, it's a lot of
delusion that's going on here with the women that are
on here thinking they can just go and keep making
money like this is going to say like this forever.
(18:37):
What needs to be understood, is this is that for
women that are on here on OnlyFans, taking this money
train is going to continue forever. No, there's a reason
why women before only fans, before online had to go
ahead and go find their ways to say, Okay, they
might get in their phase of being a sugar baby
to find a sugar daddy, or they go work at
a strip club, or they go work in other places,
(19:00):
or they might go out there and you know, find
themselves in an escort. Whatever they might be, they could
do to find ways to make ends meet.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Before we had this thing of the.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Pretty privilege, before we had the Instagram pages that all
these women can go in and show themselves off and
have guys simp like crazy over. Before we had all that,
women just had to go and use what they had
to get what they wanted out there in the wild.
That's what they had to do. And guess what those
women would not do that for a long time. They
(19:34):
would do it long enough, and then you know what
the phase would go. But that's the problem here, is
that we're going to start seeing someone think that they
can continue doing this forever because they could sit behind
the line, behind filters, behind the internet behind filters and
they can continue to go ahead and think they can
go ahead and get as much money as a game
possibly and do content another only fans start talking about
(19:59):
now about wanting to risk her hymen and returned back
to her Mormon roots.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
Stupid but okay.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
A Texas onlyfan star wants to undergo hymen restoration surgery
and abid to return to her Mormon roots, a decision
that she claims would make her late husband proud. Holly
James her name, and she talked with jam Press of
her plan to win the block back on her sex life.
She's a forty year old mother of three. She was
(20:25):
kicked out of the Mormon Church when they found out
about her not say for work high side hustle Now.
She says the idea came to her during prayer as
like a divine directive.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
She says.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
She says, quote, I had a moment in prayer where
I felt God speaking to me saying you are not broken,
go and be restored. So, by the way, she has
one point six million Instagram followers. She is planning to
go under undergo a hymena hymen himana himenoplastic. There we go,
notnics hymen repair, in which the surgeon sews together the
(20:58):
torn edges of a woman's hymen with dissolvable stitches. Jesus,
that sounds painful. Three thousand dollars procedure that would be
considered to her a sacred rebirth. Now, she insists her
Vaginal Rejuvenation Office not meant to shame or judge people
who enjoy sex, but restoring a sense of freedom.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Now.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
She did this after something happened where her husband died
in an accident and she was thirty one years old
in twenty seventeen, and she was left a widow, and
she thought that going online and doing things like OnlyFans
would be a way to heal, and that she's not
trying to erase her wonderful deceased husband or what they
(21:41):
had together. That's your planet. That stupid, but okay, that's
why they want to go and feel like doing. But fine, whatever.
Now there's a guy I fall quite a bit. I
haven't seen him much lately because he's gotten very popular.
Get to the point pro so, it's like when he
goes through and there are stories about women that have
their issues and what they've gone through or whatever, kind
(22:01):
of videos they go through. The guy will take whatever
a woman's rant is and he'll basically summon up in
about five seconds, and then they'll tell you how much
the video was. So she don't have to go or
anything about it. So he took one predicative video to
go and talk about this that. He said this about
(22:22):
when it comes to women and dating and single women
in general. Quote, some women have been single for so
long they don't date anymore. They gets you access to
the peaceful little empire, like a reluctant queen handing you
a visitor's badge. You text your good morning, and when
she's already annoyed, like, why are you disturbing the sacred
silence of my personal growth journey?
Speaker 1 (22:39):
He says, bro.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
She's been sleeping diagonally in her bed for three years.
She's not giving up that territory because you opened up
the door and paid for coffee. You plan a cute date.
She's thinking that sounds nice, But I could also stay home,
deeply in my apartment to a twelve step skincare routine,
order sushi, and not have to listen to a man breathe.
You try to check it emostly, how are you feeling
she said in fantastic because you're are here and ikipedia
(23:01):
with other guys. There are no other guys ukipedic with
her weighted blanket, her peace, her cat named cherman Meal,
and it's a joy of not having the chair. Her
fries just some of the best ses. The snary rent,
that's where it comes from.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
I'll canna prayer for you.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Some women have been a single for so long they
don't date anymore. They grant you access to their peaceful
little empire, like reluctant queen ranging your visitor's badge. You
text her a good morning, and she's already annoyed, like
why are you just her being a sacred silence of
my personal girls journey? You think you're gonna be her boyfriend?
Or she's sleeping jagonally in her bed for three years.
(23:37):
She's not giving up that ritory because you opened the
door and paid for a coofee her. I love the
idea of you, but your physical presence is a kind
of ringing my esthetic. Your plan could date, She's thinking
that sounds nice, but also I could stay home, deep
clean my apartment, do a twelve step skin care routine,
order sushi, and not have to listen to a maneze
(23:59):
or so.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
That's him actually saying I figured I want you to
hear that for yourselves now when you have these kind
of things going on altogether, I wanted to make that
point here after the only fans thing is that it's
an attachment to the fact of why are women going
to only fans to use their bodies for what they want?
(24:22):
Because you know, part of it is a transactional type
of dating for a lot of women has not worked
and they don't want to go ahead and deal with
the interaction. They're not prepared nor are they capable of
handling the interaction. We don't know why that is, but
I can imagine there's a couple of reasons why. Being
into a university state University of New York, they put
(24:45):
out a story a study that says that men with
toxic masculinity are more likely to make sexual advances without consent,
and that research reveals that some men have been difficulty
have difficulty descibing passive responses during hookups. Now the story
is but nowt here, but I figured i'd bring this
up because it's popped up as a new story but
been from last year. But research from Beingaton University. They
(25:09):
show that men different in how they interpret their types
of responses. Men who displayed toxic or hostile masculinity, known
as toxic masculinity, tend to act on them regardless of
whether or not they think it's consensual. They talk to
men between eighteen and twenty five.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Okay, just by.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Only going for those younger men, you have guys that
at that age, you know, it's regardless of the fact
that they have not had the right of passage, nor
have they been very sexually active with women. There's a
toxic masculinity with them because now I've not learned how
to be grown up men in the ways that you know,
(25:50):
like myself and others young older than them have learned.
Because in today's climate, guys they might turn out toxically
toxically mascul them because they're not equipped with maybe the
sex education, with the wherewithal, or they've been a little
(26:11):
bit feminized themselves. They've gotten soft, they're a little bit
more sassy. Some of the guys that have made it
through they have more hair product and a little bit
more care for themselves than some of the women they
are with and the women and what they've been taught
on social media. They're not equipped to go out and
handle any relationships. So if anybody gets together with somebody,
(26:33):
it doesn't last at all because everything is so short term.
No one has any attention span, no one has the
understanding what they're doing with themselves, and that's normal, but
it's like the awkward phase of dating, awkward phase of
sex for the first time, that's not happening until too late,
So guys' frustrations are caught in the play. Men and
(26:56):
women not having a mother or father are just a
dominant and submissive type to grow up with to learn from,
to see what it's actually like. As role models, they're
not learning about that either. So in this particular study,
they say that a passive response to sexual advance is
a normative normative indicator of consent, but also might reflect risk, distress,
(27:19):
or fear. Whether men are able to differentiate between the
two during a hookup was important to explore, so they
varied for the men in their perception of passive responses
in terms of consent, and the level of perceived consent
was strongly linked to an increased likelihood of continuing or
advancing sexual behavior. That men differed their saying a layman's
(27:40):
terms in how they attributed an ambiguous female response to
their sexual advances with respect to their perception of consent,
which in turn influence their sexual decisions, and that hostile
masculinity is distinct from toxic masculinity. Hostile is a specific
pathological profile of masculine attitudes and personality traits that have
(28:02):
been repeatedly re linked to sexual misconduct. So individuals who
experience a need for sexual dominance over women inclined towards
violence and hostile attitudes regarding women, accepting great myths, which
are stereotypical beliefs about sexual assault and why it occurs. Yeah,
other traits as part of this is including psy psychopathy, narcissism,
(28:24):
and callous or unemotional orientations towards others tending to regularly
present individuals with hostile masculinity, and that these individuals are
at high risk of engaging in sexual assault an essay, Right,
nothing new here, This is something we probably already know about.
(28:44):
But for MENI women across the board, there are a
lot of men are confused here that most important, it's
all this that goes on line sliding in the DMS,
hitting people about Instagram or staf chat instead of just
want phone calls or texts and actually meeting each other
(29:06):
and connecting with each other. But the dating amps are
not helping. As long as we have this divide, this
wall of the internet that's keeping everyone from apart, giving
everyone apart, then no wonder guys are not learning how
to go ahead and be sexually active or responsible and
knowing how to go and treat a woman. They don't
have the experience at this point now at eighteen to
(29:28):
twenty five years old like many other guys, but have
had its changed. And these girls now quite a few
of these young beautiful girls that are on here on OnlyFans. Yeah,
they're not understanding anything at all because the fantasy of
trying to make money with what they have and not
(29:48):
even caring about, you know, the sex that they have
or being sexually active just to kind of be aware
of who they are and have some experience life. Like
all your experience is based on what you do online.
That's horrible And I never thought it was something that
felt good about the fact that Okay, wee have to
(30:09):
go and do this kind of stuff here, Like you know,
if a guy wants to see a girl naked, or
do things with them sexually. Then do the right thing
to get yourself in the right place. You can be
with a girl, take her.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Clothes off, have sex with her, have fun.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
Not this online stuff's going on here with only fans,
where every other guy could find the same thing. And
you know this whole idea that guys are on only
fans as users, all oggling over the same girl. And
it's as if all these other girls that are out
here are non existent because they're only looking at a
(30:49):
girl that looks like this girl, OnlyFans, and they might
want to just find somebody that hopefully looks like them,
or if they can get with them. It's not good
at all together. One last want to bring up before
he wrapped things up a story about a sugar daddy
in Singapore now in jail because he gave a minor
cash for sex and threatened to post her explicit videos online.
(31:11):
So a man in Singapore offered to pay a teenager
fifteen hundred dollars a month to be her sugar daddy.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
After he came.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
Across the girl's sexually explicit video, which was shared on
a messaging platform. Now, this girl's seventeen years old, has
a history of being suicidal. He extorted her into sending
him another sexually explicit video after threatened to report her
for drug abuse, and he also threatened to upload other
videos of hers onto a porn website. The thirty three
(31:42):
year old Singaporean sentenced to three years and ten weeks
in jail and order to receive three strokes of the
Singapore cane. It's just say with the fact that the
guys at Singapore are having to get hit with a
Singapore cane for being a sugar daddy and extorting a
young girl poor thing for more sexually specific stuff. It's
(32:04):
funny how part of the punishment is three strokes of
the Singapore kane.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
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Some of those OnlyFans models getting a little bit cloudy
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We're all a.
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If you can go for the website, you'll see a
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this since twenty twenty. We've tracked it down. Between twenty
twenty and twenty twenty two was the real evolution of
OnlyFans because it was a means to make money. But
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then there were those that decided to stay on the platform.
That and the continuation of what's happened, and for a
while there was a little bit of this hesitancy among
content creators that were a little bit perturbed about the
idea that they might be looked at as prostitutes or
sex workers. Because of what they were doing on the platform.
But of course this year everything just blew up because
(01:19):
we started getting models on here that absolutely just did
not care. The door was blown wide open, Lily Phillips,
Bonnie Blue, among others getting all caught up into the
game of OnlyFans and saying, you know what, doesn't matter,
We're just going to get more into it as it
ever was before Lily, as we any Night as well
(01:41):
in the net mix. That was all going on, and
it changed. You know, we have women now going after
major sex challenges, Bonnie Blue with one thy fifty seven men.
We talked about it in February, and then we started
talking about the other that are on here that are
(02:01):
very sexually minded going on, and that was from last year.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
As we last month.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Excuse me when I talked about Sophie Rain and the
kind of vibe she gave, freeing more of the virgin type,
the baby face billionaire fantasy, and with Bonnie Blue being
on the other side being leatherclad dominatures of digital depravity.
It was all that's going on here but a lot
of money being made. But at this point we're starting
(02:28):
to hear some rumblings where only fans, models and consecrators
on only Fans are now being they're going to be
tagged as prostitutes or sex workers, whether you like it
or you don't. So Stree came out in all of
all places Sweden, So only fans right now could be
(02:50):
considered prostitution according to the country of Sweden.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So here's what they're saying so far. They're refuring too.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
A story first of all, of a woman named Sina
hoden Fant saying she needed to get to provide for
her four children. Another woman talking about how she has
six children at home. America Norstrom and only fans was
their way of making money at the time, and Norstrom
says that we don't sell sex. She's been on only
(03:22):
Fans for three years. And again these are mothers getting
on the Only fans of trying to make themselves out there.
They say that they are selling a dream, a fantasy,
or a video or image. They are completely different things.
Now the Swedish government is coming in and categorizing custom
pornography as a form of prostitution, extending to the internet
(03:42):
legislation that has already been banning buying sex in person.
So now in nineteen eighty nine, Sweden passed the Sex
Purchase Acted. Missed the first country to make it illegal
to buy sex but not to sell it. The Nordic
models we hear about, particularly women from prosecution and targeting
men who pay for sex. Now, this most recent amendment
(04:02):
of Swedish law would end what they would say is
buying sex even remotely as a formal exploitation and summing
it even in the virtual world, is a form of prostitution.
If Sweden does this, this will possibly be the key
that picks the lock. We can see precedent here that
could go to other countries, what other countries in Europe
and eventually to the US. Keep an eye on this
(04:25):
and that's what I'm going to do as we do
this here on the praise in the Bachers. Now, this
would make in Sweden only fans illegal, but it would
also severely restrict the ability to operate and halt main
selling point for a fee that users can find the
exact porn that they want. The Ministry of Gender Equality
(04:45):
Needle Larson says the sex industry was moving along and
then moving online into the digital world, and the legislation
needs to follow suit. That's a big deal here. If
that actually happens, and just to give an idea of
the kind of money being made he in this year,
we've talked about the Bob House, when we talked about
Sophie Rain. You have eight young women there in the
Bob House, millions of followers doing free dance videos on TikTok,
(05:10):
and the members have drawing users to their explicit paid
youse profiles, earning them, according to here Elle magazine says,
thirty two million euros a year. So that's what like
what thirty six million dollars. It's big money, big, big
money in a year. So the new law also would say,
in no way takes no account the fact that this
is a legal profession that has been any of her
(05:34):
of a pensurable income for eight years now only fans
has begun to withdraw from Sweden, removing the chat services,
and that followers cannot reach out to some of these
women now anymore or Nordstrom and is still a very
big thing to be able to write to your followers
and create some kind of contact with them. So this
right here Sweden, who would have thought the proponents of
(05:57):
the Nordic model of prostitution now they're looking to go
ahead and make it where it's considered prostitution, and we
made illegal only fans can be taken down because it is.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
So. Here is what I.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Say about it, because Kara Putapat says here that she
now knows several people who have gone back into selling
physical sex. It is usually a greater risk for you
as a person to sell physical sex than it is
to sit and work from home.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
People have only worked.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Online, have no experience in that, they have no knowledge
of how to do it in a safe and secure way.
People are going to die, they say so. The Swedish
government has not met sex workers that could discuss their concerns.
But this is also a very interesting thought process. What
if the Swedish government is able to go and pull
this off here, get this amendment in here to the
(06:50):
Swedish Sex Purchase Act, this Nordic model of prostitution, and
they're telling you it's illegal for you to do.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
The only fans com.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You can't have that side out there, and if there's
any other sites like that, they're also going to get
penalized the same way, which means if you're going to
have sex, it's got to be.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Out in the open in public.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
How many women out there would be concerned if they
couldn't do the kind of sex work they're doing right
now in the closed home environment in their company, in
the confinement of their homes, and if they have to
go and keep doing sex work, they have to go
out to go do it. It's a very interesting question.
(07:34):
So let me repeat that one more time. If this
were to happen, this is a big deal.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
And it can very well happened.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
So customer pornography would be categorized as a former prostitution
extending the Internet the already bands buying sex in person so.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Only fans would become illegal.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
And severely restrict ability to operate, and that you would
actually go back and go out and go back to
the oldest profession and have to make money with your
body with other people. You just can't do it behind
a camera online anymore. To remove the virtual aspect of
(08:16):
OnlyFans and the orn and the prostitution type feel that
it gives because it's transactional at the end of the day,
for those users that are buying content from these models,
these content creators, if they can't do this, they know
they can use their bodies to go ahead and get
money that they need whatever discretionary income or whatever income
(08:38):
they need, will they go out in the street and
sell their bodies without the help of homing fans. I
think everybody should going to be paying attention to this.
If Sweden does something here, I would be not shocked
by it, because in a way, for guys this would
be good because the Nordic model actually in a way
(09:00):
would still kind of help out because then in this.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Particular case, prostitution would be illegal, but.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
In the ways of how they have it, where if
women are going to go ahead and ask your money,
if they want to go and get back to the
old fashioned profession, that's how it's gonna go. I mean,
you're still gonna take the risk of getting together with
a girl and having to go and pay, but it's
the guys that will take the hit. They'll take the risk,
but the women can still go out there and do what
they want and be protected, I mean legally protected, not
(09:29):
necessarily physically protected. Of course, that's a different story in itself,
and I'm not downplaying the risks or the hazard that
women are gonna have to go through if this amendment
were to pass. I'm not diminishing that part at all.
But the thing is is that is it really prostitution
when you think about it. Yeah, it's a safer way
(09:49):
for women to go and do it, but it's not
detrimental for anybody else. It's still mentally hurting those that
are in it. Because the thing is by having only
fans being able to go and have this sex work
content and where there is no interaction physically, then there's
a thought process that is acceptable that women could continue
to do this here and feel like, well, there's no
(10:11):
risk to it when there should be, Like when people
do things online in general. We don't even know that
about social media that if people go online and put
something out there, they don't really feel like there's a risk.
They don't feel like there's any responsibility for what they're
going to say because they're hidden behind a computer screen.
They got a keyboard in front of them. Keyboard warriors.
(10:32):
We hear that phrase a little time. It's because you
feel like nothing's ever going to happen to you. And yeah,
if you get docs, then that's exactly when you'll find
out something's gonna happen to you. But people get into
social media and get on those places like OnlyFans without
understanding the risks involved. If someone were to find you
and learn about you and they can go ahead and
(10:54):
interact with you, it's like a celebrity with a stalker.
They think, oh, you're untouchable. No, you're probably not.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
So.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Imagine if a.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Woman if they wanted to go and continue to go
and live the lifestyle they have according to all these
other women that are here, and they couldn't do it online,
that would actually be good for the case of filtering
out those women that should not be able to go
ahead get in here because they don't have what it
takes to do this kind of profession. If they had
to go out and work on a stripper's hole or
work in a massage parlor, you know, go out on
(11:22):
the street. But there's so many stories about the success
right here and how the only fans stars that are
on here are quite delusional. Unfortunately, because I think in
a way, taking the online barrier away from this, it
determs more women from being only fans models, and you know.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
What, they got to go back to actually dating. The
actually have to go back.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
And if they want to go and make money, if
they want to sell their body for whatever, then they
got to do it like everybody. Every other woman had
to do for one hundreds of years, for decades, for centuries.
Storry from board Panda that has the story of a
twenty one year old onlyfan star that said her parents
helped fund her X rated career. She's twenty one years
(12:11):
old scholar May. This is a new woman that we've
heard about in here recently, is getting a lot of
press right now. She left her dental nursing studies in
favor of an X rayed career that pays her eighteen
thousand dollars a month, helps her look after her parents
and helps her buy a lot of lea different luxuries things.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
The parents are deeply involved. They helped their by laws Ray.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
They're winning at shoots and even flawning her stage name.
May says she's more reserved than her family and sets
boundaries of what she does. She says her dad is
so proud she even has her stage name tattooed on
his arm. The mother drops her off at photo shoots
and waits for her, and when she's staying at a
hotel for work, they checking on here on her. She
(12:53):
went on to say that even though her family is
open and supportive of her way of earning money. There
are boundaries and then she does not talk about everything
that she says. She might be a bit more reserved.
Like I said, this story has been getting out there
quite a bit, you know. They say that both parents
are suffering from health and sues and the money helps
(13:14):
her go forward to put any medical expenses that arise.
And you can tell when I look at her, she
definitely gives that feel of the Sophie Rain type, another
virgin type, which that's the idea of some of this.
Says that the fantasy they either want a woman that's
going to be a complete horror or to go on
the other out.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Of how they're completely prude and never.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Promiscuous, nothing even close like that, but they are suggestive.
One of the things they put out there to kind
of get the press up about it is as they said.
She says that once her grandma heard about what she
was doing, she wanted to be part of the success
and bought her a cute Ryanstone laundry set from Amazon.
She's twenty one years old, by the way, and now
(14:02):
she's in it, and again eighteen thousand dollars a month
about that. But there's another thing that has to be
said about where some of the models that are here
getting to be a part of this. You don't want
them to be a part of this because there's a
lot of things that are dangerous about it. And that's
the part about if you've got people to go into
the open and talk more about it. So there's a
(14:26):
story that came out from lad Bible about Only Fans
started Laila Kelly. She has issues over creepy new trend
that are leading creators violated.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
So now.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Byla Kelly should are warning about other adult content creators
and saying that there are men pretending to be women
to gain access to free content. So for example, they're
feigning interested in geting a boob job and asking for inspiration
pictures from the creator. Now, Layla says these instances is
this is there, not a dime a dozen. But she
(15:01):
was concerned about the images the men were using as
the woman had not like they consented to having a
profile on OnlyFans, So they're using other pictures from outside
Only Fans and just posing as another woman out there
to get things from the men on the site. Posing
as women.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
That's not good. She says that what bothers.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Me the most about this is the clothes and unclothed
images of the women they are using pull this off.
One guy sent her a wedding photo paired with a
driving license, and she knew it had to be his
wife or sister, and she highly dotted she knew what
she was up to. And then she'll asked these men
to prove who they are, but none of them were
(15:45):
due and try to say, well, this is a good
terms of service to be sending photos of anyone but themselves,
but they can't consent to that. But then there are
others that are on here that are posing as who
they are and using wedding photos right carts that convinced
that they're real. Oleela Kelly is a New Zealand Only
(16:06):
Fans star, very popular in New Zealand.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Now.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
She also says, well, roleplay itself is in the issue.
There's a version of this that crosses the line. Quotes
I personally don't have a problem with people to pretend
to be someone else. If that's their fetish, that's okay.
When it crosses the line is when someone who hasn't
consented or given permission is having their identity and photos
use unknowingly.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
You don't think about that.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
If you have guys out there that have interacted with
different girls virtually and they have collected a lot of
different content, whether it's videos or photos, Yeah, I can
see what that can be done.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
I can totally see that being done.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Lucy Banks, who is a more adult performer and as
a marketing agency for creators, says that often the motivation,
quote is to try and get free content out of you,
but they don't realize who they are. And it happens
all the time, so we can see them all away.
But some messages that might come in and will be
into deeply fetishize tetis territory. One subscriber pretending to be
(17:05):
a woman asking graphic detailed questions about guy oncological exams,
going on and on about speculums and internal examinations.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
You could tell us.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Straight away it was a guy. So it's another thing
that's going on that people gotta be aware of. It
could be happening. That's also gotten a lot of traction
out there as well. And at the same time, some
of the images being used as well are newed images,
and who knows that the women have given consent to
that or not.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Which I'm pretty much sure they probably didn't.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
And one of the things that a lot of these
more popular Only Fans models have been doing now is
they're hiring third part third party companies to run their accounts,
providing chatters. They handle all the creator's private messages, so
they might even know what's going on here at all.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
So keep it behind that too.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
If you're chatting with some of these only Fans models,
it might be somebody else that's stop the vactual model,
but it might be somebody prosing ads. So one particular
professional chatter hired by OnlyFans Models is a twenty seven
year old man from Venezuela. So with some of them
that are making so much money, then yeah, they're going
to third party companies that run their pages. I would
(18:17):
have managed your careers if you want to say that.
So there's a lot being behind this online barrier that
you don't know what's going on and you're not sure
what could be happening. But again, it's a lot of
delusion that's going on here with the women that are
on here thinking they can just go and keep making
money like this is going to say like this forever.
(18:37):
What needs to be understood, is this is that for
women that are on here on OnlyFans, taking this money
train is going to continue forever. No, there's a reason
why women before only fans, before online had to go
ahead and go find their ways to say, Okay, they
might get in their phase of being a sugar baby
to find a sugar daddy, or they go work at
a strip club, or they go work in other places,
(19:00):
or they might go out there and you know, find
themselves in an escort. Whatever they might be, they could
do to find ways to make ends meet.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
Before we had this thing of the.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Pretty privilege, before we had the Instagram pages that all
these women can go in and show themselves off and
have guys simp like crazy over. Before we had all that,
women just had to go and use what they had
to get what they wanted out there in the wild.
That's what they had to do. And guess what those
women would not do that for a long time. They
(19:34):
would do it long enough, and then you know what
the phase would go. But that's the problem here, is
that we're going to start seeing someone think that they
can continue doing this forever because they could sit behind
the line, behind filters, behind the internet behind filters and
they can continue to go ahead and think they can
go ahead and get as much money as a game
possibly and do content another only fans start talking about
(19:59):
now about wanting to risk her hymen and returned back
to her Mormon roots.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
Stupid but okay.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
A Texas onlyfan star wants to undergo hymen restoration surgery
and abid to return to her Mormon roots, a decision
that she claims would make her late husband proud. Holly
James her name, and she talked with jam Press of
her plan to win the block back on her sex life.
She's a forty year old mother of three. She was
(20:25):
kicked out of the Mormon Church when they found out
about her not say for work high side hustle Now.
She says the idea came to her during prayer as
like a divine directive.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
She says.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
She says, quote, I had a moment in prayer where
I felt God speaking to me saying you are not broken,
go and be restored. So, by the way, she has
one point six million Instagram followers. She is planning to
go under undergo a hymena hymen himana himenoplastic. There we go,
notnics hymen repair, in which the surgeon sews together the
(20:58):
torn edges of a woman's hymen with dissolvable stitches. Jesus,
that sounds painful. Three thousand dollars procedure that would be
considered to her a sacred rebirth. Now, she insists her
Vaginal Rejuvenation Office not meant to shame or judge people
who enjoy sex, but restoring a sense of freedom.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Now.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
She did this after something happened where her husband died
in an accident and she was thirty one years old
in twenty seventeen, and she was left a widow, and
she thought that going online and doing things like OnlyFans
would be a way to heal, and that she's not
trying to erase her wonderful deceased husband or what they
(21:41):
had together. That's your planet. That stupid, but okay, that's
why they want to go and feel like doing. But fine, whatever.
Now there's a guy I fall quite a bit. I
haven't seen him much lately because he's gotten very popular.
Get to the point pro so, it's like when he
goes through and there are stories about women that have
their issues and what they've gone through or whatever, kind
(22:01):
of videos they go through. The guy will take whatever
a woman's rant is and he'll basically summon up in
about five seconds, and then they'll tell you how much
the video was. So she don't have to go or
anything about it. So he took one predicative video to
go and talk about this that. He said this about
(22:22):
when it comes to women and dating and single women
in general. Quote, some women have been single for so
long they don't date anymore. They gets you access to
the peaceful little empire, like a reluctant queen handing you
a visitor's badge. You text your good morning, and when
she's already annoyed, like, why are you disturbing the sacred
silence of my personal growth journey?
Speaker 1 (22:39):
He says, bro.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
She's been sleeping diagonally in her bed for three years.
She's not giving up that territory because you opened up
the door and paid for coffee. You plan a cute date.
She's thinking that sounds nice, But I could also stay home,
deeply in my apartment to a twelve step skincare routine,
order sushi, and not have to listen to a man breathe.
You try to check it emostly, how are you feeling
she said in fantastic because you're are here and ikipedia
(23:01):
with other guys. There are no other guys ukipedic with
her weighted blanket, her peace, her cat named cherman Meal,
and it's a joy of not having the chair. Her
fries just some of the best ses. The snary rent,
that's where it comes from.
Speaker 1 (23:14):
I'll canna prayer for you.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Some women have been a single for so long they
don't date anymore. They grant you access to their peaceful
little empire, like reluctant queen ranging your visitor's badge. You
text her a good morning, and she's already annoyed, like
why are you just her being a sacred silence of
my personal girls journey? You think you're gonna be her boyfriend?
Or she's sleeping jagonally in her bed for three years.
(23:37):
She's not giving up that ritory because you opened the
door and paid for a coofee her. I love the
idea of you, but your physical presence is a kind
of ringing my esthetic. Your plan could date, She's thinking
that sounds nice, but also I could stay home, deep
clean my apartment, do a twelve step skin care routine,
order sushi, and not have to listen to a maneze
(23:59):
or so.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
That's him actually saying I figured I want you to
hear that for yourselves now when you have these kind
of things going on altogether, I wanted to make that
point here after the only fans thing is that it's
an attachment to the fact of why are women going
to only fans to use their bodies for what they want?
(24:22):
Because you know, part of it is a transactional type
of dating for a lot of women has not worked
and they don't want to go ahead and deal with
the interaction. They're not prepared nor are they capable of
handling the interaction. We don't know why that is, but
I can imagine there's a couple of reasons why. Being
into a university state University of New York, they put
(24:45):
out a story a study that says that men with
toxic masculinity are more likely to make sexual advances without consent,
and that research reveals that some men have been difficulty
have difficulty descibing passive responses during hookups. Now the story
is but nowt here, but I figured i'd bring this
up because it's popped up as a new story but
been from last year. But research from Beingaton University. They
(25:09):
show that men different in how they interpret their types
of responses. Men who displayed toxic or hostile masculinity, known
as toxic masculinity, tend to act on them regardless of
whether or not they think it's consensual. They talk to
men between eighteen and twenty five.
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Okay, just by.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Only going for those younger men, you have guys that
at that age, you know, it's regardless of the fact
that they have not had the right of passage, nor
have they been very sexually active with women. There's a
toxic masculinity with them because now I've not learned how
to be grown up men in the ways that you know,
(25:50):
like myself and others young older than them have learned.
Because in today's climate, guys they might turn out toxically
toxically mascul them because they're not equipped with maybe the
sex education, with the wherewithal, or they've been a little
(26:11):
bit feminized themselves. They've gotten soft, they're a little bit
more sassy. Some of the guys that have made it
through they have more hair product and a little bit
more care for themselves than some of the women they
are with and the women and what they've been taught
on social media. They're not equipped to go out and
handle any relationships. So if anybody gets together with somebody,
(26:33):
it doesn't last at all because everything is so short term.
No one has any attention span, no one has the
understanding what they're doing with themselves, and that's normal, but
it's like the awkward phase of dating, awkward phase of
sex for the first time, that's not happening until too late,
So guys' frustrations are caught in the play. Men and
(26:56):
women not having a mother or father are just a
dominant and submissive type to grow up with to learn from,
to see what it's actually like. As role models, they're
not learning about that either. So in this particular study,
they say that a passive response to sexual advance is
a normative normative indicator of consent, but also might reflect risk, distress,
(27:19):
or fear. Whether men are able to differentiate between the
two during a hookup was important to explore, so they
varied for the men in their perception of passive responses
in terms of consent, and the level of perceived consent
was strongly linked to an increased likelihood of continuing or
advancing sexual behavior. That men differed their saying a layman's
(27:40):
terms in how they attributed an ambiguous female response to
their sexual advances with respect to their perception of consent,
which in turn influence their sexual decisions, and that hostile
masculinity is distinct from toxic masculinity. Hostile is a specific
pathological profile of masculine attitudes and personality traits that have
(28:02):
been repeatedly re linked to sexual misconduct. So individuals who
experience a need for sexual dominance over women inclined towards
violence and hostile attitudes regarding women, accepting great myths, which
are stereotypical beliefs about sexual assault and why it occurs. Yeah,
other traits as part of this is including psy psychopathy, narcissism,
(28:24):
and callous or unemotional orientations towards others tending to regularly
present individuals with hostile masculinity, and that these individuals are
at high risk of engaging in sexual assault an essay, Right,
nothing new here, This is something we probably already know about.
(28:44):
But for MENI women across the board, there are a
lot of men are confused here that most important, it's
all this that goes on line sliding in the DMS,
hitting people about Instagram or staf chat instead of just
want phone calls or texts and actually meeting each other
(29:06):
and connecting with each other. But the dating amps are
not helping. As long as we have this divide, this
wall of the internet that's keeping everyone from apart, giving
everyone apart, then no wonder guys are not learning how
to go ahead and be sexually active or responsible and
knowing how to go and treat a woman. They don't
have the experience at this point now at eighteen to
(29:28):
twenty five years old like many other guys, but have
had its changed. And these girls now quite a few
of these young beautiful girls that are on here on OnlyFans. Yeah,
they're not understanding anything at all because the fantasy of
trying to make money with what they have and not
(29:48):
even caring about, you know, the sex that they have
or being sexually active just to kind of be aware
of who they are and have some experience life. Like
all your experience is based on what you do online.
That's horrible And I never thought it was something that
felt good about the fact that Okay, wee have to
(30:09):
go and do this kind of stuff here, Like you know,
if a guy wants to see a girl naked, or
do things with them sexually. Then do the right thing
to get yourself in the right place. You can be
with a girl, take her.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Clothes off, have sex with her, have fun.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
Not this online stuff's going on here with only fans,
where every other guy could find the same thing. And
you know this whole idea that guys are on only
fans as users, all oggling over the same girl. And
it's as if all these other girls that are out
here are non existent because they're only looking at a
(30:49):
girl that looks like this girl, OnlyFans, and they might
want to just find somebody that hopefully looks like them,
or if they can get with them. It's not good
at all together. One last want to bring up before
he wrapped things up a story about a sugar daddy
in Singapore now in jail because he gave a minor
cash for sex and threatened to post her explicit videos online.
(31:11):
So a man in Singapore offered to pay a teenager
fifteen hundred dollars a month to be her sugar daddy.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
After he came.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
Across the girl's sexually explicit video, which was shared on
a messaging platform. Now, this girl's seventeen years old, has
a history of being suicidal. He extorted her into sending
him another sexually explicit video after threatened to report her
for drug abuse, and he also threatened to upload other
videos of hers onto a porn website. The thirty three
(31:42):
year old Singaporean sentenced to three years and ten weeks
in jail and order to receive three strokes of the
Singapore cane. It's just say with the fact that the
guys at Singapore are having to get hit with a
Singapore cane for being a sugar daddy and extorting a
young girl poor thing for more sexually specific stuff. It's
(32:04):
funny how part of the punishment is three strokes of
the Singapore kane.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
How the praise and the botress
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