September 3, 2025 • 31 mins
Fifty years after Esther Vilar warned that men were enslaved by sex-as-reward, her thesis feels eerily prophetic in 2025.
Today’s so-called “independent woman” has new tools of leverage—dating apps that double as marketplaces, sugar arrangements cloaked as empowerment, and a growing underground economy of rent-for-sex transactions.
From false rape claims over unpaid encounters to rising shelter-for-sex scandals in Canada, the transactional undercurrent of modern intimacy has reached a breaking point.
What Vilar once called “the barter of bodies” has become the backbone of digital dating culture, leaving men and women trapped in a high-stakes game where independence, survival, and exploitation blur beyond recognition.
A new wave of headlines—from Canada’s growing “sex-for-rent” crisis to a Singapore teen’s false rape claim against a man who refused to pay her, and undercover stings exposing shelter-for-sex ads—echo the economic framework Esther Vilar laid bare in The Manipulated Man.
Vilar argued that men’s primal need for sex has long been weaponized as barter, with women leveraging their bodies as currency in a system of exploitation that rivals any cartel or oligarchy.
Fast forward to 2025, and the digital age has only sharpened those dynamics: online dating “safety maps” now resemble risk assessments for navigating financial fraud, as transactional relationships bleed into every corner of intimacy—from sugar arrangements to exploitative housing deals. What Vilar described as “sex as a reward” has become a global marketplace where desire, desperation, and dependency fuel a shadow economy of manipulation—and men, despite modern warnings, still pay the highest price.
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Today’s so-called “independent woman” has new tools of leverage—dating apps that double as marketplaces, sugar arrangements cloaked as empowerment, and a growing underground economy of rent-for-sex transactions.
From false rape claims over unpaid encounters to rising shelter-for-sex scandals in Canada, the transactional undercurrent of modern intimacy has reached a breaking point.
What Vilar once called “the barter of bodies” has become the backbone of digital dating culture, leaving men and women trapped in a high-stakes game where independence, survival, and exploitation blur beyond recognition.
A new wave of headlines—from Canada’s growing “sex-for-rent” crisis to a Singapore teen’s false rape claim against a man who refused to pay her, and undercover stings exposing shelter-for-sex ads—echo the economic framework Esther Vilar laid bare in The Manipulated Man.
Vilar argued that men’s primal need for sex has long been weaponized as barter, with women leveraging their bodies as currency in a system of exploitation that rivals any cartel or oligarchy.
Fast forward to 2025, and the digital age has only sharpened those dynamics: online dating “safety maps” now resemble risk assessments for navigating financial fraud, as transactional relationships bleed into every corner of intimacy—from sugar arrangements to exploitative housing deals. What Vilar described as “sex as a reward” has become a global marketplace where desire, desperation, and dependency fuel a shadow economy of manipulation—and men, despite modern warnings, still pay the highest price.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (00:07):
Have modern independent women really opted out of safety and
security for danger and desperation.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
We're all a little depraved and debaucherous. Here is the
King of Podcasts.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Yes, the traditional woman might have wanted safety and security,
but these days they're willing to go and put themselves
through dangerous dating apps and some desperation by way of
sex for rent. We're gonna talk about here on the
program here today. The praise to the Botris, desperate and dangerous,
all of the one, but the praising the Bodris nevertheless.
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of you out there, I hope you really appreciate where
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I go with this program and the stories we talk about.
I mean, yeah, there's some things that might be a
little bit tongue of cheek and a little bit out there,
very salacious, but I think there are certain stories that
I want to bring out like today, that it's very
important for young women to really realize and realize what
you're getting yourselves into. I only want to look out
for all of you. So today a couple of things
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that come across to the line. One was from Twitter
or x and it was a story that came across
and a couple of the OH publications picked upon it
about sex for rent. There's a growing crint in Canada's
rental market that was covered by CBC Television's Marketplace program
and this is back in March about where landlords are
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running free or discounted rent and exchange for sexual services
million young women who are struggling financially sex for rent.
So that was going on back in March, and we're
gonna go ahead and fall on with what happened to that,
because that was a story that went under the radar
here in the US, and we need to go and
talk about it here. And it's also been going on
in other countries. So this is the kind of direction
we are right now. When I've talked about in previous
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episodes the struggle for women, modern independent women to go
ahead and be able to move forward and what levels
they have to go through to make it, And that's
kind of part of the point of talking about the
constant stories of women that are going out and when
they can't make ends meet on their own, what else
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can they do to make it possible? And that's one
of the things we got to look about as well,
because there's a lot to be said there. Let me
take you back to October second, twenty twenty four, where
I did talk about some comments about solo struggles and
nose Streams attached the price that modern women are paining,
because as societal expectations continue to evolve, it's still about
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can I afford to be single? It's not just the
financial burden, but an emotional and it's an existential one.
Ecass at about modern culture that celebrates independence and casual
relationships while often leaving a woman unfulfilled. And last week,
you remember I talked about Tyreek Hill's divorce from Keida
vicarl and how that falls into the manipulated man issues
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that I've talked about extensively on this program. The book
by Esther Villar. I'm going to reference that book once
more to tie into what's going on today again nineteen
seventy one that book was written. But it's amazing how
much Gospels she is giving in that book that really
does lay out what's going on today. So here's a
couple of comments that I've made back in October last
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year about this very subject. And down here South Florida,
it's very common for a lot of young modern women
to be living alone, and you know, if they can't
anybody that's a companion with them as usually like what
a pet, usually paul or a catch, nothing much else
but men or just significant other not really in the
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equation if there is at all, keep it one either
one nice stands situationships, you know, f buddies, whatever you
want to call it, no strings attached whatsoever. And there's
something to be said about the women that choose to
go this route because of the fact they want to
have their independence, their freedom, but it's also to a detriment.
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The idea is that are problems that are head by
mothers or aunts or other women that they find as
peers or what they see on social media, and what
they feel like their fear of missing out of living
a life that want to go and live and enjoy
their youth, enjoy their beauty and feel like it's going
to be there forever. Well, you know, we don't. That
doesn't stay like that. There is a point where you
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can't sustain that kind of lifestyle and you're missing out
on things that you could want to have in your life. Now,
I'm not here to go ahead and advocate and for
the fact that saying oh you need it, gonna be
married with children, No, but those are options that are
if you think about it, they should be for the good.
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And then one of the clip also made mention of this,
you know, wasn't that many decades ago that before we
really got into this career modern woman mindset that I
saw were girls that I knew, you know, around my age, younger,
a little bit older. They were still trying to get
into relationships, into marriages, but because of what they want
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out of the relationship, they felt like they weren't going
to get and the mentality of not trying to make
a relationship or a marriage work was no longer an option.
Like even before social media, that value was already thrown
out the window, and so social media made it worse.
We all know that.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Now.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
I want to take from the Manipulated Man, the book
from Esther Villar, and I want to take a passage
from her where she talks about sex as a reward,
and then we're gonna get into some of the examples
that we have current day that are affecting women right
now and what they are subjecting themselves to when they
don't have to be going this route, but they're going
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to any way. So we're going to talk about it.
Every method of manipulation this is basically this is a
section called sex as a Reward. So if you got
the book, page twenty five, every method of manipulation is
based on the carrot and stick principle, whose applicability depends
to a large extent on the ratio of physical strength
possessed by a traineran trainee when dealing with the young.
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The carrot is favored as a means of control, It
as the advantage of maintaining children's trust and adults, so
that even at a later date they will bring their
problems to their parents, and so the process of manipulation
is continued. It's much affect them than to start with
a stick. If a captive dolphin was learning you'll trick well,
its trainer throws it at a fish. Because a dolphin
wants to eat, it will do whatever it is asked
of it. Manhout versus he earns money, is quite capable
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of earning his own food and providing his own food.
It would be impossible to bribe him in this way.
He would be, in fact up above bribery altogether. Although,
were it not for the one basic male need which
has to be satisfied, the need for physical contact with
the woman's body. This need is so strong, and it's
for fema gives a man such intense pleasure that one
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suspects that it may be the prime reason for his
voluntary enslavement to women, as long as for subjection may
be even a facet of his sexual makeup. The basis
of any economy is a system of barter. Therefore, some
of debating of service must be able to offer something
of equal value in exchange for it. But as a
man must fulfill his sexual desires, and since he tends
to want to possess exclusive rights over one vagina, the
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prices have risen to an extortionate level. This is nineteen
seventy one, mind you. This has made it possible for
women to follow a system of exploitation which puts the
most exploitative robber barons to shame, and no man remains exempt.
This concept of femininity is essentially sociological and not biological.
Even a homosexual is unlikely to escape without paying his dues.
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The partner whose sexual drive is less developed quickly discovers
the weak points of the other, whose drive is more intense,
and manipulates him. Accordingly, it will always be the woman
or the female partner in any homosexual relationship who exploits
the man. For to be a female means to be
under sext and then moving along, they say that she
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writes at lacking money, or at least the lacking the
prospect of it, a man will have to do it
without a woman, and consequently without sex. Nevertheless, the relationship
between the sexes of all criticism. That is, women are prepared,
under certain circumstances to earn their money more or less
as alone against future earnings, and to place their bodies
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at his disposal. In this case, the interest rates are
proportionally high. In general, it is axiomatic that a woman
will be expensive in direct proportion to the attractiveness of
her secondary sex characteristics. Hence, if one man meets another
with an especially attractive wife, instead of being depressed, he
should consider how much money the woman is liable to
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be costing her husband. It should be it would make
more economical for a man to satisfy sexual needs with
a prostitute instead of rushing into marriage, as this protitutent
the convencial says. She says, strictly speaking, most women belong
in this group, she says, wow. But here again a
man will behave by conditioned reflex. Sex that does not
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cost much is considered correspondingly inferior. Its pleasure varies according
to the cost of the woman he sleeps with, and
if he cannot get the desired woman any other way,
or if there is no other way to keep her,
he offers her the highest bid and take her to
city Hall. For this reason, a woman calmly tolerate the
professional prostitute. Why should they mine when they never feel
jealousy as a man does. They may well feign jealousy occasionally,
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of course, just to flatter them. They don't mind the
institution of brothels either. Their attitude towards extramural affairs is
exactly the same. Of course, they become too obvious, which
they get the case they tend to forgive them. How
few women would leave an unfaithful husband and how fewomen
would stay with a woman in the same circumstances. Why
this will often even welcome a philandering husband, for there
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are so many advantages of rising room's gratitude for her
tolerance and forgiveness. Obviously, women would prefer to be able
to control extra mara affairs. This explains why the why
swapping parties and pluralists sex practices are gaining favor before
they tend to neutralize the sexual fantasies of husbands and
men friends. These kinds of relationships they sexual release are free,
whereas professional prostitution absorbs money which should be put into housekeeping.
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As the group of people is usually well acquainted rules
of hygiqimmimposed dot ya YadA. There are of those women
who frankly admit that they make money by renting out
a specific orifice of their bodies. The female callings of prostitute, actress, model, singer,
or dancer. We're gonna even put influencer into that these
days are not practiced by men. But whereas actresses, singers,
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dancers and models work with safety nets, satan has been
the men who catch them when they don't feel like
working anymore, a prostitute has no such recourse. When she
is tired or ill. There is no one there waiting
hopefully for the time when he will be allowed to
support her. No man our society would allow a prostitute
to export him as a fashion model. For instance, Could
women too despise the common proceetu as a different reason
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they despised for her stupidity. A woman who sells her
body so in umbly is shockingly stupid by female intelligence standards,
they admire only so much. Only such women are as
are able to exact an exorbitant price for their favors.
For example, those who marry Rothschow's Aga Khans or Rockefellers.
They impressed on men. The cause of the prostitution is
a sordid profession to intimidate men who otherwise might one
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day be able to draw parallels. The basic principle of
sexual reward does not vary from woman to woman. They'll
offer themselves to a man stress of charms, and then,
providing he has performed his tricks satisfactorily, reward him. And
since they never cease to keep him in a state
of sexual excitement, he will demand reward again and again.
It is only men with reduced sexual potency who can
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afford to make do with sporadic affairs and live the
life of a hippie year at the year without filling
the need of a regular reward. And one of the
results this female system has of sexual rewards is that
a man with a strong sexual need must be more
obedient than women than others. Look at the advertisements for dynamic, enterprising,
energetic enthusiastics men so much demand in business. What are
such a man, in fact, but sexually independent psychopaths who
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sit their standards to women so high. Why else would
a man use all his energy and imagination to sell
a particular commercial product only for this reward there's more
to it, but we're going to leave it there. And
she closes this particular passage saying that the old saying
that a woman's fate is her body is true in
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so far as fate has a positive meaning, but in
the negative sense it is applied better to men. After all,
a woman profits from her anatomical peculiarities whenever she can,
while a man is an eternal slave to his That's
the point they're making up of this. To summarize it.
From how I interpret all this is that women have
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learned and have been able to go and circumvent their power.
And the one thing they want to do is they
want to be more prudish than horsh but they're not
afraid to go and have their Madonna Horre complex out
there for themselves to the right man, to the right bidder.
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So they're willing to go in and put themselves out
there and act as a prostitute in some cases, because
unlike a woman that might have the safety or a
model or whatever, some of these influencers, you're getting to
the point where you're getting to be prostituted. Because we've
talked about the line between only fans and prostitution. It's
not that far apart because it is. It's really a
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thin line when you think about it, because now we're
the point where safety and security, when you feel like
you can't even you don't even want to bother to
have a man around you anyway, tells you a lot
of where we things or things are. That women are
willing just to go ahead and put themselves out there
into dangerous ground to find what they want as a
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modern independent woman without any real understanding of what they're
doing themselves and what's going to happen. And that's the
part that I think women don't really realize, but they
should because it's true. And I'll talk about that as well.
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Not too long ago, I did a story back in July,
a thin line between OnlyFans and prostitution when content creators
cross over. So I put out some comments on that.
Let me go and play what I mentioned back at
that time. Now the Swedish government is coming in and
categorizing custom pornography as a form of prostitution. In nineteen
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eighty nine, Sweden passed the Sex Purchase Acted, missed the
first country to make it illegal to buy sex but
not to sell it. The Nordic model as we hear
about particularly women from prosecution and targeting men who pay
for sex. Now, this most recent amendment of Swedish law
would end what they would say is buying sex even
remotely is a formal exploitation and selling it even in
the virtual world is a form of prostitution. Now, in
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that case, if something were to happen and I was
trying to go ahead and call out as a warning
to woman out there, if only fans gets deemed as prostitution,
then it's illegal to be able to do it from
your home. So you would have to go and find
the forms of sexualization or in some cases prostitution outside
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of the home, So you'd have to put yourself out
there in danger. See, women think they can still get
away with it because they can stay at home and
do it, or they can find some way to be
an influencer, keep themselves online and have some kind of
social media presence. But it's the moments they're going to
be out there that will put them in soulves in danger. Okay,
to remove the virtual aspect of only fans and the
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born and the prostitution type feel that it gives because
it's transactional at the end of the day, or those
users that are buying content from these models, these content creators,
they know they can use their bodies to go ahead
and get money that they need, whatever discretionary income or
whatever income they need. Will they go out in the
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street and sell their bodies without the help of homing fans.
So imagine if a woman if they wanted to go
and continue to go and live the lifestyle they have
according to all these other women that are here, and
they couldn't do it online, that would actually be good
for the case of filtering out those women that should
not be able to go ahead get in here because
they don't have what it takes to do this kind
of profession if they had to go out and work
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on a stripper's hoole or work in a massage parlor.
And I still hold to that today. The safety of
online dating in twenty twenty five the safest states. There
has been a study coming out from Privacy Journal that
talks about which were the most dangerous and safest states
for online dating. Vermont, Maine, and New Hampshire are the
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safest states for online daters. Not the same for Nevada, Alaska,
and Georgia, which are the three riskiest states for finding
love online. So Privacy General researched data this year per
one hundred thousand residents for each state, and they looked
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at the number of reported romance scams, cases of fraud,
identity theft and violent crime, prevalence of STDs, and a
number of registered sex defenders in each state, and they
put wait points on various importance. That's why I'm looking
at the rest of the country over here. Florida is
in the mid range around fifty percent bad, right, forty
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nine percent pretty bad for dating. New York state sixty
two percent. In the higher end. California is aty eight percent.
That's on the higher end of not being very toxic
for dating. Same thing for Texas. Take through Louisiana, and
like I said, Georgia, it's it's not good. And neither
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is Nevada. Of course, there's you know, Vegas. What can
you say? Nevada is unwelcome distinctively as the most dangerous
state for an online dating, the second most dangerous state
in terms of fraud, third most dangerous state for identity
theft and romance scams. Alaska has the highest rate of
people with STDs third highest number of registered sex offenders
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organize the highest number of registered sex offenders seven hundred
and ninety per one hundred thousand people. To be precise,
mississ b has the lowest amount of romance scam reports.
Arizona has the highest number a STD rates or highest Louisiana, Alaska, Mississippi.
Louissina has eleven hundred and forty nine STDs per one
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hundred thousand people, and chlamydia and ganaria rates are especially high. Wow, Now,
let's talk about some of the risks that are out
there for some of those women and what they're willing
to good and put themselves to, what they are able
to subject themselves to. Now, sex for rent. So CBC Marketplace,
CBC Television had an investigation. We talked about it. Landlord's
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providing free or discount of rent and exchange for sexual services,
mainly young women who are struggling financially. Now, this is
supposed to be illegal in Canada. According to the twenty
fourteen Protection of Communities and Exploited Person Act. It's illegal
to purchase sexual services and obteen financial benefits from them.
So let's take the story from CBC about sex for
rent exposed and I'm surprised I didn't hear about this sooner,
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But here we go.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
The following program contains mature subject matter and sexuality viewers.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
Right when you see yes you heard right and yes
he gets explicit.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
First of all, this is in Canada and a landlord
owner is speaking with a potential tenant which actually happens
to be a reporter in disguise, and their meeting it
a Tim Horton's a fer.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Man who posted an add online, Hey Gogret offering up
a place to live.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
All right, I didn't sit here.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Rent free. But there's a catch. That's what kind of
with the friends with benefits?
Speaker 4 (21:05):
Right, If you're into that, I want to hear from
your terms, you know, because a lot of people say
different things, and that's one's going to find.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
Right when you see, yes you heard right and yes
he gets explicit.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
If you're not into actually having sex, that's cool.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
We can do other things, right.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
This is the dangerous trend we're investigating emerging out of
Canada's housing crisis, Sex for rent.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
We're searching for indecent rental lance.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
A cute, fun female to help me relax, ideal for
students or international students.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
We want to know how common are they could.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Saying that I'm an international student looking for an affordable
place and how would the arrangement work. And the response
I got is it's available, and send a nude picture
and age for the application.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (22:11):
Then on to the next one, another mention of benefits.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
We want some clarity, they said, I'm sure you know
what friends with benefits mean. I'm not looking for a girlfriend,
just some fun from time to time when the need arises.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
And in this exchange, they're not only offering free rent
for physical things. He'll actually cover groceries, utilities, and entertainment too.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
We get. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:38):
The thing is then they're gonna be guys that are
going to go try to prey on women that might
be struggling a bit to go to this point. And
the thing is you're going after international students here, they're
going after college students and whoever. But this has been
something that's going on. They're still on Craigslist stands in particular,
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that was going on. And for those women that they
might take the idea off the bat of like their
beauty might be able to go and get them something
like free rent I mean, are do those women want
to be subjected to be having sex with the landlord
because of the power that he has the ability to
go and put themselves in a place where the rents
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out there listen. I can't tell you any times when
I talk to women on either circunity sites or dating
sites that they always have their rent being due. And
how many of those will not be willing to go
and say obviously they wouldn't tell it to me, but
how many of those girls that I'm about to talk
to probably did something sexually or even have a guy
move in sexually that might be able to go ahead
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and help support because someone might just feel like that's
what they want to go and do. Just find a
way to go ahead and just continue to have some
kind of help, some kind of financial support in that way.
So this post got viral. This is some six months
after this investigation, and so x every people can started
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getting into it. We started seeing why are we always
take attensis back another person rights? Financial dealing is where
it's at another one every day y'all come with different
workshap prostitution. Now here's the thing we were talking about
when it comes to Canada that cities like Toronto and Vancouver.
Right now, Toronto, in twenty thirteen, an average one bedroom
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apartment was sixteen hundred a month. It's now twenty five
hundred dollars by twenty twenty two. And it's gone up.
In Vancouver a one bedroom from nine hundred and ninety
five dollars in twenty thirteen to fifteen hundred dollars in
twenty twenty two. And home buying right now is the
same thing. Good mortgage trade requiring an income between hundred
(24:47):
and eighty four thousand as two hundred and thirteen thousand
dollars to go ahead and get yourself a mortgage for home.
An average price of a home right now in Canada
is one around one million dollars. Incredible. And this is
and Canada is not the only place that dial with
this thing right now. DEXI is a story back in
May where the same thing was going on in Ireland,
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and there was a labor senator there. In Ireland, look
at a good ahead and move along long desired legislation
allowing so called sex for rent arrangements. This would create
two new offenses, making it a crime to advertise accommodation
where sex could be taken a lieu of rent and
become a crome to offer, presumably without publicly advertising someone
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accommodation in return for sex. And then this story is
actually trying to give the argument as a devil's advocate
about why they should not have to go and have
anybody be penalized for offering sex for rent. So in
cases for sex rent grubby, as though they might be,
there's no real question as to consent. Both parties have
gone to an arrangement that they consent to. Perhaps in
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the case of the woman, sex has been consented to
under slight financial dress. But since when is consent under
some dress not consent? Do we really think that there
are not in Ireland wise who are actually having sexual
intercourse with their husbands when they don't really feel like it,
just to trade for that reward for a contented spouse.
Does consent always have to be enthusiastic? The court ask
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the countess consent, and the writer here says they always
found the consent centered around sexual liaison has to be
entirely unsatisfactory, and that would be the same for the
messaging of the sex for rent bill that pure consent
to an arrangement between tw adults it is not enough
if that arrangement puts one of them under dress or
may seem exploitative. But then the question is how do
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you enforce the law, particularly where it criminalizes an advertised
offer of sex for rent? And what's the nature of
the crime. If a landlord says to a tenant that
she wouldn't have to pay rent if she was his girlfriend,
is that a proposition for sex for rent? What if
it's a more vague, Well, there are other ways you
can repay me. Is there room for honest misunderstanding where
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a clumsy romantic approach is to be taken criminal because
the person approached is a tenant between adults, is all
that is required for sexual activity, then neither sex for
rent nor prostitution should be illegal as a matter of logic,
And yet both now will be. That's the part and
everybody's coming from. I mean, you might think it's morally wrong,
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is it criminally wrong? That's the idea behind that. But
then on top of that is when women are trying
to go ahead and find themselves whatever discussion outcome that
they need and for whatever reason. So if it is
for rent, if it is for bills, if it's for
whatever else. If times are getting tough, you know, I
mean it's happening. There are women who losing their jobs
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or they can't keep a job, or this net or
the money from consecretions not coming in like it once
was because they realize, oh, there's other beautiful women out
there and the next new shiny toy that's out there
for a man to go ahead and look at and
all gole over. Then the interest in someone else is
gonna be gone. Right. All these women cannot be Sophie
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Rain where says she's making more money than Lebron James
as you could go and put that money aside and
live her life. Not always that case. And then there's
a part I was looking at some sugar sugar baby,
sugar doddy stuff, the sugar dating thing where we heard
things out there and this is something that doesn't have
to be outside of the stretch of the truth. A
Singapore woman aged nineteen made a false rape claim after
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a man aged forty three refused to pay her twelve
hundred dollars and say board dollars for sex. Now, to
give that into context, twel hundred dollars in Singapore is
comparable to nine hundred thirty four dollars US, just to
make that clear. Now, the man agreed to pay her
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two hundred dollars Singapore, and that would confer to one
hundred and fifty four dollars. Now I'm looking currently what
their number is right now. If I made it for
twelve hundred, it will be nine hundred twenty eight dollars
nine hundred and twenty dollars US right now today. But
sycapore dollars, if it was just two hundred bucks like before, Yeah,
he was gonna go and pay her roughly one hundred
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fifty dollars for the deed. Now in this story, we
go along. She asked for twelve hundred dollars. He refused,
but he did up his offer to five hundred. That
would be three hundred and eighty six dollars US. She
then called the police to false report that she was raped.
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So now this young woman who's now twenty years old,
pleaded guilty on the charge of giving false information to
a public servant and another charge of threatening the report
the victim to the police for rape. The pair met
on sugar Book, one of the more popular dating apps
out there, met for a date in March eighteen twenty
twenty five, and again two hundred dollars was what he
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was offering for her time. They got drinks at a bar,
headed to a hotel with a hat consider sex, so
he had to pay for the hotel room and she
asked her out off for twelve hundred bucks and when
she didn't, then she scoffed at five hundred. Then she
decided to go ahead and call the guy out and
say that she was raped by him, and then she
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sent him a text saying you're fucked. And then after
this young lady's police report, a police officer went down
to the hotel where she claimed she had been intoxicated.
Another officer would arrive and she repeated her account a
lleged assault, but then they saw the close circuit TV
footage in the hotel and officers informed her that her
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version of events was not supported by the footage, and
then she fabricated the rebalegation she told and admitted to
the cops. Defense asked for probation, but the judge culture
reporter assess the woman's suitability for probation and adjourned sentencing,
and because of the charge for giving false information to
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a public servant, the woman could be jailed for up
to two years, find or both. So we're trying to
go in and get extra money off to somebody else
and crying rape show she could get two years in jail.
Let me tell you when you have to go to
those levels to try to go ahead and you know,
make ends meet, and you get yourself truly into the
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truth prostitution. That's not sugardating. That's prostitution. Trying to ask
for that money and then trying to go and claim
rape and then get charged for it. Talk about the
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Have modern independent women really opted out of safety and
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Yes, the traditional woman might have wanted safety and security,
but these days they're willing to go and put themselves
through dangerous dating apps and some desperation by way of
sex for rent. We're gonna talk about here on the
program here today. The praise to the Botris, desperate and dangerous,
all of the one, but the praising the Bodris nevertheless.
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I go with this program and the stories we talk about.
I mean, yeah, there's some things that might be a
little bit tongue of cheek and a little bit out there,
very salacious, but I think there are certain stories that
I want to bring out like today, that it's very
important for young women to really realize and realize what
you're getting yourselves into. I only want to look out
for all of you. So today a couple of things
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that come across to the line. One was from Twitter
or x and it was a story that came across
and a couple of the OH publications picked upon it
about sex for rent. There's a growing crint in Canada's
rental market that was covered by CBC Television's Marketplace program
and this is back in March about where landlords are
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running free or discounted rent and exchange for sexual services
million young women who are struggling financially sex for rent.
So that was going on back in March, and we're
gonna go ahead and fall on with what happened to that,
because that was a story that went under the radar
here in the US, and we need to go and
talk about it here. And it's also been going on
in other countries. So this is the kind of direction
we are right now. When I've talked about in previous
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episodes the struggle for women, modern independent women to go
ahead and be able to move forward and what levels
they have to go through to make it, And that's
kind of part of the point of talking about the
constant stories of women that are going out and when
they can't make ends meet on their own, what else
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can they do to make it possible? And that's one
of the things we got to look about as well,
because there's a lot to be said there. Let me
take you back to October second, twenty twenty four, where
I did talk about some comments about solo struggles and
nose Streams attached the price that modern women are paining,
because as societal expectations continue to evolve, it's still about
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can I afford to be single? It's not just the
financial burden, but an emotional and it's an existential one.
Ecass at about modern culture that celebrates independence and casual
relationships while often leaving a woman unfulfilled. And last week,
you remember I talked about Tyreek Hill's divorce from Keida
vicarl and how that falls into the manipulated man issues
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that I've talked about extensively on this program. The book
by Esther Villar. I'm going to reference that book once
more to tie into what's going on today again nineteen
seventy one that book was written. But it's amazing how
much Gospels she is giving in that book that really
does lay out what's going on today. So here's a
couple of comments that I've made back in October last
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year about this very subject. And down here South Florida,
it's very common for a lot of young modern women
to be living alone, and you know, if they can't
anybody that's a companion with them as usually like what
a pet, usually paul or a catch, nothing much else
but men or just significant other not really in the
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equation if there is at all, keep it one either
one nice stands situationships, you know, f buddies, whatever you
want to call it, no strings attached whatsoever. And there's
something to be said about the women that choose to
go this route because of the fact they want to
have their independence, their freedom, but it's also to a detriment.
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The idea is that are problems that are head by
mothers or aunts or other women that they find as
peers or what they see on social media, and what
they feel like their fear of missing out of living
a life that want to go and live and enjoy
their youth, enjoy their beauty and feel like it's going
to be there forever. Well, you know, we don't. That
doesn't stay like that. There is a point where you
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can't sustain that kind of lifestyle and you're missing out
on things that you could want to have in your life. Now,
I'm not here to go ahead and advocate and for
the fact that saying oh you need it, gonna be
married with children, No, but those are options that are
if you think about it, they should be for the good.
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And then one of the clip also made mention of this,
you know, wasn't that many decades ago that before we
really got into this career modern woman mindset that I
saw were girls that I knew, you know, around my age, younger,
a little bit older. They were still trying to get
into relationships, into marriages, but because of what they want
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out of the relationship, they felt like they weren't going
to get and the mentality of not trying to make
a relationship or a marriage work was no longer an option.
Like even before social media, that value was already thrown
out the window, and so social media made it worse.
We all know that.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Now.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
I want to take from the Manipulated Man, the book
from Esther Villar, and I want to take a passage
from her where she talks about sex as a reward,
and then we're gonna get into some of the examples
that we have current day that are affecting women right
now and what they are subjecting themselves to when they
don't have to be going this route, but they're going
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to any way. So we're going to talk about it.
Every method of manipulation this is basically this is a
section called sex as a Reward. So if you got
the book, page twenty five, every method of manipulation is
based on the carrot and stick principle, whose applicability depends
to a large extent on the ratio of physical strength
possessed by a traineran trainee when dealing with the young.
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The carrot is favored as a means of control, It
as the advantage of maintaining children's trust and adults, so
that even at a later date they will bring their
problems to their parents, and so the process of manipulation
is continued. It's much affect them than to start with
a stick. If a captive dolphin was learning you'll trick well,
its trainer throws it at a fish. Because a dolphin
wants to eat, it will do whatever it is asked
of it. Manhout versus he earns money, is quite capable
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of earning his own food and providing his own food.
It would be impossible to bribe him in this way.
He would be, in fact up above bribery altogether. Although,
were it not for the one basic male need which
has to be satisfied, the need for physical contact with
the woman's body. This need is so strong, and it's
for fema gives a man such intense pleasure that one
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suspects that it may be the prime reason for his
voluntary enslavement to women, as long as for subjection may
be even a facet of his sexual makeup. The basis
of any economy is a system of barter. Therefore, some
of debating of service must be able to offer something
of equal value in exchange for it. But as a
man must fulfill his sexual desires, and since he tends
to want to possess exclusive rights over one vagina, the
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prices have risen to an extortionate level. This is nineteen
seventy one, mind you. This has made it possible for
women to follow a system of exploitation which puts the
most exploitative robber barons to shame, and no man remains exempt.
This concept of femininity is essentially sociological and not biological.
Even a homosexual is unlikely to escape without paying his dues.
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The partner whose sexual drive is less developed quickly discovers
the weak points of the other, whose drive is more intense,
and manipulates him. Accordingly, it will always be the woman
or the female partner in any homosexual relationship who exploits
the man. For to be a female means to be
under sext and then moving along, they say that she
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writes at lacking money, or at least the lacking the
prospect of it, a man will have to do it
without a woman, and consequently without sex. Nevertheless, the relationship
between the sexes of all criticism. That is, women are prepared,
under certain circumstances to earn their money more or less
as alone against future earnings, and to place their bodies
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at his disposal. In this case, the interest rates are
proportionally high. In general, it is axiomatic that a woman
will be expensive in direct proportion to the attractiveness of
her secondary sex characteristics. Hence, if one man meets another
with an especially attractive wife, instead of being depressed, he
should consider how much money the woman is liable to
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be costing her husband. It should be it would make
more economical for a man to satisfy sexual needs with
a prostitute instead of rushing into marriage, as this protitutent
the convencial says. She says, strictly speaking, most women belong
in this group, she says, wow. But here again a
man will behave by conditioned reflex. Sex that does not
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cost much is considered correspondingly inferior. Its pleasure varies according
to the cost of the woman he sleeps with, and
if he cannot get the desired woman any other way,
or if there is no other way to keep her,
he offers her the highest bid and take her to
city Hall. For this reason, a woman calmly tolerate the
professional prostitute. Why should they mine when they never feel
jealousy as a man does. They may well feign jealousy occasionally,
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of course, just to flatter them. They don't mind the
institution of brothels either. Their attitude towards extramural affairs is
exactly the same. Of course, they become too obvious, which
they get the case they tend to forgive them. How
few women would leave an unfaithful husband and how fewomen
would stay with a woman in the same circumstances. Why
this will often even welcome a philandering husband, for there
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are so many advantages of rising room's gratitude for her
tolerance and forgiveness. Obviously, women would prefer to be able
to control extra mara affairs. This explains why the why
swapping parties and pluralists sex practices are gaining favor before
they tend to neutralize the sexual fantasies of husbands and
men friends. These kinds of relationships they sexual release are free,
whereas professional prostitution absorbs money which should be put into housekeeping.
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As the group of people is usually well acquainted rules
of hygiqimmimposed dot ya YadA. There are of those women
who frankly admit that they make money by renting out
a specific orifice of their bodies. The female callings of prostitute, actress, model, singer,
or dancer. We're gonna even put influencer into that these
days are not practiced by men. But whereas actresses, singers,
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dancers and models work with safety nets, satan has been
the men who catch them when they don't feel like
working anymore, a prostitute has no such recourse. When she
is tired or ill. There is no one there waiting
hopefully for the time when he will be allowed to
support her. No man our society would allow a prostitute
to export him as a fashion model. For instance, Could
women too despise the common proceetu as a different reason
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they despised for her stupidity. A woman who sells her
body so in umbly is shockingly stupid by female intelligence standards,
they admire only so much. Only such women are as
are able to exact an exorbitant price for their favors.
For example, those who marry Rothschow's Aga Khans or Rockefellers.
They impressed on men. The cause of the prostitution is
a sordid profession to intimidate men who otherwise might one
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day be able to draw parallels. The basic principle of
sexual reward does not vary from woman to woman. They'll
offer themselves to a man stress of charms, and then,
providing he has performed his tricks satisfactorily, reward him. And
since they never cease to keep him in a state
of sexual excitement, he will demand reward again and again.
It is only men with reduced sexual potency who can
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afford to make do with sporadic affairs and live the
life of a hippie year at the year without filling
the need of a regular reward. And one of the
results this female system has of sexual rewards is that
a man with a strong sexual need must be more
obedient than women than others. Look at the advertisements for dynamic, enterprising,
energetic enthusiastics men so much demand in business. What are
such a man, in fact, but sexually independent psychopaths who
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sit their standards to women so high. Why else would
a man use all his energy and imagination to sell
a particular commercial product only for this reward there's more
to it, but we're going to leave it there. And
she closes this particular passage saying that the old saying
that a woman's fate is her body is true in
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so far as fate has a positive meaning, but in
the negative sense it is applied better to men. After all,
a woman profits from her anatomical peculiarities whenever she can,
while a man is an eternal slave to his That's
the point they're making up of this. To summarize it.
From how I interpret all this is that women have
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learned and have been able to go and circumvent their power.
And the one thing they want to do is they
want to be more prudish than horsh but they're not
afraid to go and have their Madonna Horre complex out
there for themselves to the right man, to the right bidder.
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So they're willing to go in and put themselves out
there and act as a prostitute in some cases, because
unlike a woman that might have the safety or a
model or whatever, some of these influencers, you're getting to
the point where you're getting to be prostituted. Because we've
talked about the line between only fans and prostitution. It's
not that far apart because it is. It's really a
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thin line when you think about it, because now we're
the point where safety and security, when you feel like
you can't even you don't even want to bother to
have a man around you anyway, tells you a lot
of where we things or things are. That women are
willing just to go ahead and put themselves out there
into dangerous ground to find what they want as a
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modern independent woman without any real understanding of what they're
doing themselves and what's going to happen. And that's the
part that I think women don't really realize, but they
should because it's true. And I'll talk about that as well.
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Not too long ago, I did a story back in July,
a thin line between OnlyFans and prostitution when content creators
cross over. So I put out some comments on that.
Let me go and play what I mentioned back at
that time. Now the Swedish government is coming in and
categorizing custom pornography as a form of prostitution. In nineteen
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eighty nine, Sweden passed the Sex Purchase Acted, missed the
first country to make it illegal to buy sex but
not to sell it. The Nordic model as we hear
about particularly women from prosecution and targeting men who pay
for sex. Now, this most recent amendment of Swedish law
would end what they would say is buying sex even
remotely is a formal exploitation and selling it even in
the virtual world is a form of prostitution. Now, in
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that case, if something were to happen and I was
trying to go ahead and call out as a warning
to woman out there, if only fans gets deemed as prostitution,
then it's illegal to be able to do it from
your home. So you would have to go and find
the forms of sexualization or in some cases prostitution outside
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of the home, So you'd have to put yourself out
there in danger. See, women think they can still get
away with it because they can stay at home and
do it, or they can find some way to be
an influencer, keep themselves online and have some kind of
social media presence. But it's the moments they're going to
be out there that will put them in soulves in danger. Okay,
to remove the virtual aspect of only fans and the
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born and the prostitution type feel that it gives because
it's transactional at the end of the day, or those
users that are buying content from these models, these content creators,
they know they can use their bodies to go ahead
and get money that they need, whatever discretionary income or
whatever income they need. Will they go out in the
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street and sell their bodies without the help of homing fans.
So imagine if a woman if they wanted to go
and continue to go and live the lifestyle they have
according to all these other women that are here, and
they couldn't do it online, that would actually be good
for the case of filtering out those women that should
not be able to go ahead get in here because
they don't have what it takes to do this kind
of profession if they had to go out and work
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on a stripper's hoole or work in a massage parlor.
And I still hold to that today. The safety of
online dating in twenty twenty five the safest states. There
has been a study coming out from Privacy Journal that
talks about which were the most dangerous and safest states
for online dating. Vermont, Maine, and New Hampshire are the
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safest states for online daters. Not the same for Nevada, Alaska,
and Georgia, which are the three riskiest states for finding
love online. So Privacy General researched data this year per
one hundred thousand residents for each state, and they looked
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at the number of reported romance scams, cases of fraud,
identity theft and violent crime, prevalence of STDs, and a
number of registered sex defenders in each state, and they
put wait points on various importance. That's why I'm looking
at the rest of the country over here. Florida is
in the mid range around fifty percent bad, right, forty
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nine percent pretty bad for dating. New York state sixty
two percent. In the higher end. California is aty eight percent.
That's on the higher end of not being very toxic
for dating. Same thing for Texas. Take through Louisiana, and
like I said, Georgia, it's it's not good. And neither
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is Nevada. Of course, there's you know, Vegas. What can
you say? Nevada is unwelcome distinctively as the most dangerous
state for an online dating, the second most dangerous state
in terms of fraud, third most dangerous state for identity
theft and romance scams. Alaska has the highest rate of
people with STDs third highest number of registered sex offenders
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organize the highest number of registered sex offenders seven hundred
and ninety per one hundred thousand people. To be precise,
mississ b has the lowest amount of romance scam reports.
Arizona has the highest number a STD rates or highest Louisiana, Alaska, Mississippi.
Louissina has eleven hundred and forty nine STDs per one
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hundred thousand people, and chlamydia and ganaria rates are especially high. Wow, Now,
let's talk about some of the risks that are out
there for some of those women and what they're willing
to good and put themselves to, what they are able
to subject themselves to. Now, sex for rent. So CBC Marketplace,
CBC Television had an investigation. We talked about it. Landlord's
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providing free or discount of rent and exchange for sexual services,
mainly young women who are struggling financially. Now, this is
supposed to be illegal in Canada. According to the twenty
fourteen Protection of Communities and Exploited Person Act. It's illegal
to purchase sexual services and obteen financial benefits from them.
So let's take the story from CBC about sex for
rent exposed and I'm surprised I didn't hear about this sooner,
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But here we go.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
The following program contains mature subject matter and sexuality viewers.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
Right when you see yes you heard right and yes
he gets explicit.
Speaker 3 (20:32):
First of all, this is in Canada and a landlord
owner is speaking with a potential tenant which actually happens
to be a reporter in disguise, and their meeting it
a Tim Horton's a fer.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
Man who posted an add online, Hey Gogret offering up
a place to live.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
All right, I didn't sit here.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Rent free. But there's a catch. That's what kind of
with the friends with benefits?
Speaker 4 (21:05):
Right, If you're into that, I want to hear from
your terms, you know, because a lot of people say
different things, and that's one's going to find.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
Right when you see, yes you heard right and yes
he gets explicit.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
If you're not into actually having sex, that's cool.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
We can do other things, right.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
This is the dangerous trend we're investigating emerging out of
Canada's housing crisis, Sex for rent.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
We're searching for indecent rental lance.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
A cute, fun female to help me relax, ideal for
students or international students.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
We want to know how common are they could.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Saying that I'm an international student looking for an affordable
place and how would the arrangement work. And the response
I got is it's available, and send a nude picture
and age for the application.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (22:11):
Then on to the next one, another mention of benefits.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
We want some clarity, they said, I'm sure you know
what friends with benefits mean. I'm not looking for a girlfriend,
just some fun from time to time when the need arises.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
And in this exchange, they're not only offering free rent
for physical things. He'll actually cover groceries, utilities, and entertainment too.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
We get. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:38):
The thing is then they're gonna be guys that are
going to go try to prey on women that might
be struggling a bit to go to this point. And
the thing is you're going after international students here, they're
going after college students and whoever. But this has been
something that's going on. They're still on Craigslist stands in particular,
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that was going on. And for those women that they
might take the idea off the bat of like their
beauty might be able to go and get them something
like free rent I mean, are do those women want
to be subjected to be having sex with the landlord
because of the power that he has the ability to
go and put themselves in a place where the rents
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out there listen. I can't tell you any times when
I talk to women on either circunity sites or dating
sites that they always have their rent being due. And
how many of those will not be willing to go
and say obviously they wouldn't tell it to me, but
how many of those girls that I'm about to talk
to probably did something sexually or even have a guy
move in sexually that might be able to go ahead
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and help support because someone might just feel like that's
what they want to go and do. Just find a
way to go ahead and just continue to have some
kind of help, some kind of financial support in that way.
So this post got viral. This is some six months
after this investigation, and so x every people can started
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getting into it. We started seeing why are we always
take attensis back another person rights? Financial dealing is where
it's at another one every day y'all come with different
workshap prostitution. Now here's the thing we were talking about
when it comes to Canada that cities like Toronto and Vancouver.
Right now, Toronto, in twenty thirteen, an average one bedroom
(24:25):
apartment was sixteen hundred a month. It's now twenty five
hundred dollars by twenty twenty two. And it's gone up.
In Vancouver a one bedroom from nine hundred and ninety
five dollars in twenty thirteen to fifteen hundred dollars in
twenty twenty two. And home buying right now is the
same thing. Good mortgage trade requiring an income between hundred
(24:47):
and eighty four thousand as two hundred and thirteen thousand
dollars to go ahead and get yourself a mortgage for home.
An average price of a home right now in Canada
is one around one million dollars. Incredible. And this is
and Canada is not the only place that dial with
this thing right now. DEXI is a story back in
May where the same thing was going on in Ireland,
(25:08):
and there was a labor senator there. In Ireland, look
at a good ahead and move along long desired legislation
allowing so called sex for rent arrangements. This would create
two new offenses, making it a crime to advertise accommodation
where sex could be taken a lieu of rent and
become a crome to offer, presumably without publicly advertising someone
(25:31):
accommodation in return for sex. And then this story is
actually trying to give the argument as a devil's advocate
about why they should not have to go and have
anybody be penalized for offering sex for rent. So in
cases for sex rent grubby, as though they might be,
there's no real question as to consent. Both parties have
gone to an arrangement that they consent to. Perhaps in
(25:51):
the case of the woman, sex has been consented to
under slight financial dress. But since when is consent under
some dress not consent? Do we really think that there
are not in Ireland wise who are actually having sexual
intercourse with their husbands when they don't really feel like it,
just to trade for that reward for a contented spouse.
Does consent always have to be enthusiastic? The court ask
(26:12):
the countess consent, and the writer here says they always
found the consent centered around sexual liaison has to be
entirely unsatisfactory, and that would be the same for the
messaging of the sex for rent bill that pure consent
to an arrangement between tw adults it is not enough
if that arrangement puts one of them under dress or
may seem exploitative. But then the question is how do
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you enforce the law, particularly where it criminalizes an advertised
offer of sex for rent? And what's the nature of
the crime. If a landlord says to a tenant that
she wouldn't have to pay rent if she was his girlfriend,
is that a proposition for sex for rent? What if
it's a more vague, Well, there are other ways you
can repay me. Is there room for honest misunderstanding where
(26:53):
a clumsy romantic approach is to be taken criminal because
the person approached is a tenant between adults, is all
that is required for sexual activity, then neither sex for
rent nor prostitution should be illegal as a matter of logic,
And yet both now will be. That's the part and
everybody's coming from. I mean, you might think it's morally wrong,
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is it criminally wrong? That's the idea behind that. But
then on top of that is when women are trying
to go ahead and find themselves whatever discussion outcome that
they need and for whatever reason. So if it is
for rent, if it is for bills, if it's for
whatever else. If times are getting tough, you know, I
mean it's happening. There are women who losing their jobs
(27:39):
or they can't keep a job, or this net or
the money from consecretions not coming in like it once
was because they realize, oh, there's other beautiful women out
there and the next new shiny toy that's out there
for a man to go ahead and look at and
all gole over. Then the interest in someone else is
gonna be gone. Right. All these women cannot be Sophie
(28:03):
Rain where says she's making more money than Lebron James
as you could go and put that money aside and
live her life. Not always that case. And then there's
a part I was looking at some sugar sugar baby,
sugar doddy stuff, the sugar dating thing where we heard
things out there and this is something that doesn't have
to be outside of the stretch of the truth. A
Singapore woman aged nineteen made a false rape claim after
(28:25):
a man aged forty three refused to pay her twelve
hundred dollars and say board dollars for sex. Now, to
give that into context, twel hundred dollars in Singapore is
comparable to nine hundred thirty four dollars US, just to
make that clear. Now, the man agreed to pay her
(28:47):
two hundred dollars Singapore, and that would confer to one
hundred and fifty four dollars. Now I'm looking currently what
their number is right now. If I made it for
twelve hundred, it will be nine hundred twenty eight dollars
nine hundred and twenty dollars US right now today. But
sycapore dollars, if it was just two hundred bucks like before, Yeah,
he was gonna go and pay her roughly one hundred
(29:10):
fifty dollars for the deed. Now in this story, we
go along. She asked for twelve hundred dollars. He refused,
but he did up his offer to five hundred. That
would be three hundred and eighty six dollars US. She
then called the police to false report that she was raped.
(29:32):
So now this young woman who's now twenty years old,
pleaded guilty on the charge of giving false information to
a public servant and another charge of threatening the report
the victim to the police for rape. The pair met
on sugar Book, one of the more popular dating apps
out there, met for a date in March eighteen twenty
twenty five, and again two hundred dollars was what he
(29:54):
was offering for her time. They got drinks at a bar,
headed to a hotel with a hat consider sex, so
he had to pay for the hotel room and she
asked her out off for twelve hundred bucks and when
she didn't, then she scoffed at five hundred. Then she
decided to go ahead and call the guy out and
say that she was raped by him, and then she
(30:16):
sent him a text saying you're fucked. And then after
this young lady's police report, a police officer went down
to the hotel where she claimed she had been intoxicated.
Another officer would arrive and she repeated her account a
lleged assault, but then they saw the close circuit TV
footage in the hotel and officers informed her that her
(30:38):
version of events was not supported by the footage, and
then she fabricated the rebalegation she told and admitted to
the cops. Defense asked for probation, but the judge culture
reporter assess the woman's suitability for probation and adjourned sentencing,
and because of the charge for giving false information to
(30:58):
a public servant, the woman could be jailed for up
to two years, find or both. So we're trying to
go in and get extra money off to somebody else
and crying rape show she could get two years in jail.
Let me tell you when you have to go to
those levels to try to go ahead and you know,
make ends meet, and you get yourself truly into the
(31:21):
truth prostitution. That's not sugardating. That's prostitution. Trying to ask
for that money and then trying to go and claim
rape and then get charged for it. Talk about the
praise and de Bontras
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