Behind the Sweet Mask: Enablers of Narcissistic Abuse and Neurodivergent Insight

In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses the prevalent issue of enablers of narcissistic abuse, particularly in the context of neurodivergent individuals. She defines enablers as those who lend overt or covert support to narcissists, often posing as helpful people, which makes them as toxic as the narcissists themselves. She further explains that neurodivergent people often have the discerning ability to see through the subtle manipulations of enablers due to their inherent knack for pattern recognition. Elizabeth then uncovers a series of key behaviors including playing both sides, shifting blame, excessive niceness, and twisting narratives which are common red flags of enablers. She concludes the session by sharing some tips for ensuring personal safety and maintaining healthy interpersonal relationships amidst these circumstances, such as trusting instincts, documenting interactions, setting boundaries, and seeking supportive allies.