From Scapegoats to Truth Bombs: An Autistic Woman's Guide to Surviving Society

In this episode of Femme on the Spectrum, host Elizabeth discusses the increased susceptibility of autistic women to various forms of abuse, including emotional, financial, social, and physical. The conversation explores why autistic women are more likely to become targets, emphasizing potential challenges with interpreting social cues and the complexity of their natural transparency and honesty. Elizabeth also examines family dynamics, particularly the role of scapegoating in dysfunctional families, and how that exacerbates emotional trauma for those with autism. She explores the link between autism and PTSD and how their heightened sensitivity can contribute to trauma. The episode also covers the exhausting practice of masking (emulating neurotypical behaviors to fit in), its emotional toll, and societal labels that exacerbate isolation. Elizabeth then proposes solutions including increased education and awareness, creating a strong support network, and seeking help from trauma-informed therapists. Lighter moments in the episode revolve around humorous anecdotes from Elizabeth's experiences as an autistic woman. The episode emphasizes turning pain into power by understanding these dynamics and advocating for progress.