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March 20, 2025 51 mins
What does it really mean to belong? How can embracing radical self-honesty and internal security transform our relationships and the communities we live in?
In this episode of Finding Common Ground, Heather and Steve sit down with Fayna Claire Pearlman, a community-building expert, to explore these profound questions.




Fayna shares powerful insights into how authentic connections start from within. Reflecting on the buzzword "safety," she challenges us to shift our focus:"There's this concept of safety. We talk about that a lot. It's such a buzzword now—'I need to feel safe, I need to feel safe.' There's this idea of safety as an external form... like having a roof over your head or enough money for food. But security, to put a spin on all of this, is similar but comes from an internal space—where even if I don't have a roof over my head, I know I'll be okay.

"Here are 3 key takeaways from our conversation with Fayna:
  • Radical Self-Honesty: Building genuine connections begins with acknowledging our needs and emotions—even when it’s uncomfortable.
  • Internal Security vs. External Safety: Fayna’s approach encourages developing an inner foundation that shapes how we engage with the world.
  • Community as a Bridge: Community is the essential link between who we are individually and how we find meaning, belonging, and growth.
Whether you’re seeking deeper personal connections or ways to strengthen your community, this conversation will leave you with practical insights and a fresh perspective on what it means to truly belong. Don’t miss the full episode!
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