Why Men Are Drifting... and How to Find Your Way Back - Episode 119

Today’s conversation starts with a simple question: What are we talking about? And it turns into something bigger—something we’ve been seeing everywhere. Men who feel stuck. Men who feel adrift. Men running on autopilot and wondering, Now what? Guys who know deep down there’s more in them, even if they don’t know how to get to it. And here’s the thing… the women in their lives see it too. In this episode, we dig into why so many men are wrestling with drift, discipline, identity, and disconnection—and why something like Built For More seems to hit a nerve every time it comes up. If you’re a man who knows you were built for something deeper, or someone who loves a man who’s fighting through this season, this conversation is going to land.

5 Key Takeaways

Most men aren’t broken… but they are disconnected. They’re stuck, adrift, or running on autopilot—doing what’s expected, not what’s aligned. That disconnection shows up in relationships, work, fatherhood, discipline, and identity.


Men carry silent burdens until they explode. Guys bury stress, shame, fear, and failure deep—until it erupts and wrecks their world. Having a place to speak the truth out loud, without judgment, changes everything.


Brotherhood accelerates growth. When a man finally raises his hand and says, “That’s me,” and another guy says, “Me too,” everything shifts. Accountability, encouragement, and honesty build strength faster than motivation ever will.


Identity needs to be reclaimed—not outsourced. Men have spent generations defining themselves by their job, income, or output. Real identity is rooted in who you are, not what you produce. Until that truth lands, everything else feels unstable.


You get one dash—write it with intention. Your life sits between two dates, and you decide what that middle line says. Clarity, confidence, peace, strength, purpose… those aren’t accidents. They come from ownership, action, and refusing to drift another year.

One truth: Most men know exactly where they’re struggling… they’re just waiting for permission to say it out loud.