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August 5, 2025 44 mins
Have you ever settled for a woman who wasn’t what you were looking for, but you felt she was the best you could do? Licensed therapist and author Jason VanRuler reveals how hidden childhood wounds quietly shape your dating choices—and how to finally heal and move forward. You’ll learn why men settle, how to escape a “shadow” love life, and get a plan to help you finally find the relationship you really want.

Episode Highlights:

07:12: The Panic Attack Connell Once Had about Dating and What it Reveals

14:45: The Psychology Behind Settling in Love and Life

25:45: How to Stop Living a “Shadow Life”

28:54: How to Enjoy the Process of Dating

36:16: The “Business Partner Test” to Know if She’s the One

38:58: Where Introverted Men Should Go to Meet Quality Women

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