October 23, 2025 • 30 mins
Do you worry you’re “too nice”? Tired of seeing women date jerks? It’s time to own being a nice guy! The truth is, women actually prefer kind men over “alpha males,” if you make 3 key moves. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares these tested tips. Plus—the powerful lesson he learned from a Maxim model. Nice guys can finish first with women, and this episode shows you how.
Episode Highlights:
04:41: Move #1: Ignore the “Alpha Male” Myth
09:05: What 64,000 Women Actually Want in a Man (It’s Not Looks or Money)
16:13: Move #2: Be a Man with a Game Plan
20:26: Maxim Model: “Nice Guys are Sexy, if They Do One Thing”
22:24: Move #3: Direct the Date to Quickly Spark Attraction
TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: http://www.DatingTransformation.com
EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com
Episode Highlights:
04:41: Move #1: Ignore the “Alpha Male” Myth
09:05: What 64,000 Women Actually Want in a Man (It’s Not Looks or Money)
16:13: Move #2: Be a Man with a Game Plan
20:26: Maxim Model: “Nice Guys are Sexy, if They Do One Thing”
22:24: Move #3: Direct the Date to Quickly Spark Attraction
TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING: http://www.DatingTransformation.com
EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Connell@datingtransformation.com
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